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Speaker 1: Judji en Rich Tala Tala Tala la la the reflex

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Speaker 1: reflex flex flex flex Let's reflex. I cannot actually pretty

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Speaker 1: good at Victor.

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Speaker 2: Hello, are you there?

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Speaker 1: Hey, Hey, what's up?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So I have this situation.

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Speaker 3: It's kind of a little bit weird. So I'm the

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Speaker 3: same age.

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Speaker 2: As my aunt because like when my mom was pregnant

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Speaker 2: with me, my my grandma was pregnant with my aunt

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Speaker 2: around the same time, and like we were raised as

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Speaker 2: if we were like sisters because we did everything together

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Speaker 2: and like we're best friends. But something has changed lately

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Speaker 2: and it's been a little weird because like my aunt,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, like whenever we're like with our friends

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Speaker 2: or even like with family, she's like trying to embarrass me.

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Speaker 3: And like and then she'll like it's kind of.

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Speaker 2: Like hurting me, you know, and if I say anything,

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Speaker 2: she will like pull this like well, like I'm technically

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Speaker 2: your aunt type of card, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: And like as if she's.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, as if she's like above me, and

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Speaker 2: you know, at first, I'm like, okay, whatever, but now

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Speaker 2: it's starting to like annoy me. And it's not like

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Speaker 2: I don't want to start any drama, you know what

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Speaker 2: I mean. But like, I also don't know what to

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Speaker 2: do anymore because it's it's getting to a point.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and so to me, I think the other time

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Speaker 1: she could pull the aunt card on you is if

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Speaker 1: you're having a discussion in family's around. That's the only

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Speaker 1: time her rank really matters.

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Speaker 2: I still have to sit at the kid table at Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: You're with family, But if you're out with a bunch

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Speaker 1: of friends, I don't think she can pull the ant

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Speaker 1: card on you. If you're the same age and you're

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Speaker 1: out at a bar, if you guys have the same friends,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't unless she's being funny.

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Speaker 2: That's yeah.

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Speaker 1: My I'm Mexican and my mom. I remember my mom

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Speaker 1: having aunts that were younger than she was the same age,

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Speaker 1: and she was very close with all of them. In fact,

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Speaker 1: it only came up that these people were her aunts

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Speaker 1: and uncles at the same age when we were talking

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Speaker 1: about that they were their aunts and uncles. Other than that,

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Speaker 1: everyone was just friends.

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Speaker 4: Like, I'm curious how she is like in front of

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Speaker 4: your friends. Is she like, oh, go get me a

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Speaker 4: drink from the bar because I'm your aunt, and you

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Speaker 4: need to do what I say or like what's the

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Speaker 4: conversation because I can understand, like sometimes you know, you

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Speaker 4: have those friends who try to like one up you

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Speaker 4: and throw those little daggers at you, and you know

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Speaker 4: that they're really not your friends. But it's like that's

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Speaker 4: your aunt and you guys grew up together, so you

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Speaker 4: know she loves you, So she probably is trying to

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Speaker 4: be funny and it's just not hitting yas that's what

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Speaker 4: I'm picking up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because it started out of nowhere. You know,

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Speaker 2: like this has never been an issue at all, she's

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Speaker 2: ever done that because we're pretty much like best friends.

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Speaker 3: We do everything together, and now.

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Speaker 2: There is like this weird hiarchy that she's trying to

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Speaker 2: make it happen. But like, yeah, she's not like a

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Speaker 2: bad person at all, so it could be a joke.

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Speaker 2: But it's like you said, it's not landing.

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Speaker 5: Is there something that's going on in your life that

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Speaker 5: she could be jealous of? Like it almost sounds like

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Speaker 5: maybe there's some jealousy thing and that she's trying to

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Speaker 5: like cut you down.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she'll feel better about.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I started dating in this guy and

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Speaker 3: like she recently broke up with her boyfriend, but like,

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Speaker 3: I don't it's not a finger at all.

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Speaker 5: That could might be part of the reason.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it might be one of those things too, where

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Speaker 4: it's like, yeah, you guys are super close, but like

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Speaker 4: it's okay to maybe not hang out all the time.

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Speaker 4: Maybe you guys just need a little bit of space.

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Speaker 4: Like I have a sister. We're six and a half

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Speaker 4: years apart, and sometimes we get under each other's nerves

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Speaker 4: and I'm like, I can't see you right now, like

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Speaker 4: you need to get up all the way out of

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Speaker 4: my face. So maybe that's something. Maybe that's where you're at,

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Speaker 4: you just need some space.

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Speaker 5: Or you could just go to her and be like, hey,

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Speaker 5: I yeah, maybe I'm crazy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but mind it seems like lately been.

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Speaker 5: Doing this and it's kind of I don't think I'm

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Speaker 5: taking it the way you're supposed to be doing it,

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Speaker 5: or maybe I'm misunderstanding, but I think like an open

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Speaker 5: conversation could happen about that, maybe heal some things.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, so talk about it not to not let

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Speaker 3: it get worse.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think. So thanks for calling in.

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Speaker 1: I hope you can help you out there.

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Speaker 2: Thank you have a great day