Speaker 1: Piece of advice.
Speaker 2: Your subcil company would never offer you free flowers for
Speaker 2: a survey. It's war of the roses.
Speaker 3: I'm Katie w B.
Speaker 4: You know, you listen to the Dave Ryan Show, you
Speaker 4: learn things like, you know, I learned the other day
Speaker 4: that I used to think a stop sign with a
Speaker 4: white border around it was optional, And I thought, yeah,
Speaker 4: well I thought it was a stop sign. Yeah, And
Speaker 4: then I learned on the radio here that the white
Speaker 4: border around the stop sign doesn't mean it's optional, furrowing
Speaker 4: my entire life. I've been zipping through these stop signs
Speaker 4: that have a white border on them. We got somebody
Speaker 4: on the show, Emma, you learned something on the show too, Emma,
Speaker 4: what did you learn on the Dave Ryan Show.
Speaker 2: Well, I learned that I could look up myself and
Speaker 2: anyone's public court records.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, Okay.
Speaker 5: I talked about that once where I said I would
Speaker 5: go on first dates and just look up the guy
Speaker 5: on public access courts to see if he had, you know,
Speaker 5: a wrap sheet.
Speaker 1: And so apparently I'm spreading the news to one and all.
Speaker 4: Okay, because it guess to be a good thing to know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 4: So you go online you're poking around, what did you find?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I probably should have done it after the first date,
Speaker 6: but I did not.
Speaker 2: I waited until after about five months.
Speaker 6: Of getting this kind of set.
Speaker 2: Long story short.
Speaker 6: Is that I well, maybe not short, but I was.
Speaker 6: Of course.
Speaker 2: My first thing was to look up my own records
Speaker 2: and be like, you know, oh, what's what's out there
Speaker 2: on me? Which, by the way they do there is
Speaker 2: you can get information like it's my old parking tickets.
Speaker 7: Wild.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Anyway, So I was poking around my own files
Speaker 2: and then I'm like, well, I won't you know what
Speaker 2: I am set? So I start poking around. I put
Speaker 2: in Death's name. There was actually two entries of the
Speaker 2: same name, but I could tell one was the same
Speaker 2: age as him and the other one was like seventy
Speaker 2: five or something.
Speaker 6: So which one was him? And I under his name?
Speaker 6: I see I've published four failure to pay child support.
Speaker 2: Okay, it's one thing, but I did not even know
Speaker 2: this guy has a kid.
Speaker 4: Oh dang. And it's been five months into the relationship.
Speaker 2: Yes, And I know it's his profile because everything else matches.
Speaker 6: The phone number matches, his address matches.
Speaker 2: So I know it's him because at first, I really
Speaker 2: needed to make sure that I wasn't like I didn't
Speaker 2: want to think I have the wrong person and look
Speaker 2: like a real crazy if I you know, if it
Speaker 2: wasn't him. But like I said, all the data match.
Speaker 2: So I had to confront him about it, and I did,
Speaker 2: and he was said.
Speaker 6: His excuse to me is, I just wanted to get
Speaker 6: to know you first before I told you about my kid.
Speaker 2: But did I tay you the part where it's been
Speaker 2: five months?
Speaker 4: Mentioned you did mention five months? Yeah, so I mean
Speaker 4: you got five months of history.
Speaker 2: Together, five months of history together and then oh and
Speaker 2: then he hits me with and.
Speaker 6: This is this is like a trigger word for me.
Speaker 2: But whenever I hear a guy say that his ex
Speaker 2: is crazy, to me, that's like red flag.
Speaker 4: Right, Well, what does that have to do with him
Speaker 4: not telling you? And five months? I mean think of
Speaker 4: like I'm gonna guess you spent nights together and went
Speaker 4: places together and held hands and touched butts and things
Speaker 4: like that.
Speaker 8: So and so he's the ugly bumps. Yes, okay, that's good,
Speaker 8: But so now what makes you want to call and
Speaker 8: think that he's cheating?
Speaker 2: Well, so again, it's because he said, my ex is crazy.
Speaker 2: That's the red flag for me because I don't think
Speaker 2: it has anything to do, like you said, with the
Speaker 2: fact that his ex is crazy. I think that he's
Speaker 2: just trying to keep up a bunch of different lies.
Speaker 2: And it makes me think that if he's doing this
Speaker 2: so easily to me, I don't know. If I'm with
Speaker 2: him three nights out.
Speaker 6: Of the week, what's he doing the other four I never.
Speaker 2: Talked to me, you know, so I just something feels off,
Speaker 2: you know, it's it's feel intershy, it's smell intersh. It
Speaker 2: was weird enough to find out that he had a kid,
Speaker 2: and now I just all of my senses are on
Speaker 2: high alert and I want to know for even more.
Speaker 4: I'll give you another red flag, the fact that he
Speaker 4: didn't pay child support long enough that he got taken
Speaker 4: to court for it. That's what I was because you know,
Speaker 4: if there's like a month, and you know, if you're
Speaker 4: young and you don't have the bunny, usually they take
Speaker 4: it right out of your paycheck, so you don't have
Speaker 4: a choice. But if he's not working, I think he's
Speaker 4: still obligated to pay child support. He just did not,
Speaker 4: so I think we already know a lot about his character,
Speaker 4: but I think we can at least call and see
Speaker 4: who he'll send roses to. Here's what we're gonna do.
Speaker 4: We're gonna call him and give him the whole line
Speaker 4: about we'll give you a survey and if you take
Speaker 4: the survey, you win roses. Who do you want to
Speaker 4: send the roses to? And that's the moment that we
Speaker 4: can catch him. So stay there and we'll be right back. Okay,
Speaker 4: time to pull.
Speaker 1: Out those receipts.
Speaker 4: Part two or the roses starts right now on Katie.
Speaker 2: You be.
Speaker 7: So she was digging around online looking up the guy
Speaker 7: she's been seeing, and she was like, hmmm, this is interesting.
Speaker 7: Didn't know he had a kid because there was a
Speaker 7: failure to pay child support.
Speaker 9: I didn't even know you could look somebody up like
Speaker 9: that on public access right.
Speaker 7: Looking all of us up online the last few minutes
Speaker 7: to see what we got.
Speaker 5: Jenny has nothing I have on her record. V I
Speaker 5: actually I didn't look you up, but I feel like
Speaker 5: you just don't have anything because you're not from here.
Speaker 3: Yep.
Speaker 5: But I do have four records, but they're all parking
Speaker 5: records because I was, you know, parking weird in a
Speaker 5: during a winter storm or something. Yeah, but when you
Speaker 5: click into them you can see that I went and
Speaker 5: I got forgiven for them.
Speaker 1: So it's not that big of a deal.
Speaker 4: But this, this guy is a bigger deal.
Speaker 7: Yes, hiding hiding things for sure. So we're gonna find out.
Speaker 1: Is he cheating?
Speaker 7: Is he lying to her about more stuff? Let's get
Speaker 7: right into it. Why can I talk to Seth?
Speaker 1: Please?
Speaker 3: This is said, Hi Seth.
Speaker 7: My name's Tiffany, So I work with and I know
Speaker 7: you're one of our valued customers. So I was wondering
Speaker 7: if you had a few minutes to take a quick
Speaker 7: satisfaction survey with me.
Speaker 1: We do have a thank you, We'll give you roses.
Speaker 1: What was that?
Speaker 3: I'm actually no longer with thank you so much with all,
Speaker 3: but I am not on the list or shouldn't be anymore.
Speaker 1: Can I ask you why you're not with anymore?
Speaker 3: I'm going to be quite frank y'all over before so oh,
Speaker 3: I just went with the page you go home, So
Speaker 3: thank you though, Okay, well.
Speaker 7: You know, honestly, just for taking up a few minutes
Speaker 7: of your time today, I would love to still get
Speaker 7: some roses sent out for.
Speaker 1: You, because I feel a little bit bad that.
Speaker 7: I even bothered you, especially if you had such a
Speaker 7: bad experience. So what we normally do is send out
Speaker 7: roses for taking the survey, and I'd still like to
Speaker 7: do that for you. I just would need to know
Speaker 7: who would you want to send those roses to?
Speaker 10: Okay, yeah, as long as you guys, do you take
Speaker 10: me off the list? I would love to if I
Speaker 10: can get this done, it's the last thing.
Speaker 3: Send them to a Crystal if this will just wrap
Speaker 3: everything up?
Speaker 7: Sure, Sorry I didn't catch that name. Who did you
Speaker 7: say you wanted to send the roses to Crystal? Okay, yeah, perfect,
Speaker 7: we'll get that. I'll set like I said, I'll get.
Speaker 1: You off our list. We won't be bothering you anymore.
Speaker 7: One last thing, though, is I can't attach a card
Speaker 7: with the roses, so if you'd like, you can write
Speaker 7: a note on there for Crystal.
Speaker 3: M Yeah. Actually, let's put just put love to you
Speaker 3: and Dakota.
Speaker 1: Love to you and Dakota. Okay, who's who's Dakota?
Speaker 3: That's my little girl. That's my daughter.
Speaker 1: Oh how old is she?
Speaker 3: She's about six going on seven, so she is six.
Speaker 4: I love kids, you love kids. I love kids. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I love kids, love kids. Well, you sound like a
Speaker 4: proud dad. Let me just kind of drop a bomb
Speaker 4: on you here that this whole thing was just a
Speaker 4: trick set up by your girlfriend Emma to see if
Speaker 4: you would send roses to her.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: None of us are with the phone company. We're all
Speaker 4: with Katie WB radio radio. Yeah, what were you gonna say?
Speaker 6: What?
Speaker 3: You're with the radio?
Speaker 4: With the radio?
Speaker 3: You guys are calling me though. Okay, so you guys
Speaker 3: are on the radio and my ex set this up exactly.
Speaker 4: Yes, no, I didn't even have to explain it. Yes,
Speaker 4: that's exactly right.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 4: And and so.
Speaker 3: Emma definitely take me off the list. That's cool.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Emma was Emma? Tell tell Seth why you were
Speaker 4: suspicious that he might not be quite honest with you
Speaker 4: about Emma's on the phone she is.
Speaker 6: Yeah, Yeah, Emma's on the phone.
Speaker 2: Emma, your ex, sorry, your ex called to set this
Speaker 2: up on your X Now was that your ex last week.
Speaker 3: On the radio? What a great way to communicate.
Speaker 10: Oh yeah, sure, yeah, I sent my ex roses.
Speaker 3: Thanks for I would have loved to have talked about
Speaker 3: this in a different way. Yes, I sent my ex
Speaker 3: and my daughter, Roses, I don't think it's a big deal.
Speaker 3: So just take a second. Obviously you're not thinking ractually
Speaker 3: because you wanted to talk.
Speaker 10: You're using a radio station to talk to me. Calm down,
Speaker 10: like you're acting insane. We could have done this. I
Speaker 10: don't over coffee in like two hours.
Speaker 3: But now we're talking to other people.
Speaker 6: Wow, did you.
Speaker 2: All tell me to calm down? Like when has that
Speaker 2: ever worked? And like what else are you keeping from me?
Speaker 4: Why would.
Speaker 3: Why is commen? So you have to calm down because
Speaker 3: what if you're in a situation where you had you
Speaker 3: do not want, Roses, this is a sweetest thing.
Speaker 6: I'm out.
Speaker 3: I did a sweet thing for my family. And what
Speaker 3: are you talking about?
Speaker 4: I think, Emma, I think she ung up.
Speaker 3: I'm done.
Speaker 4: Nobody ever hangs up the person calling nobody, They never
Speaker 4: hang up.
Speaker 1: It's always the guy with him. I don't know.
Speaker 7: That's like the biggest sign of gas lighting. And to
Speaker 7: meaning I think i've heard in a while. Don't tell
Speaker 7: a woman to calm down? Have you ever told a
Speaker 7: listen to calm down before?
Speaker 9: And I'm still still suffering for.
Speaker 5: You?
Speaker 9: Never tell let me tell you a woman. But also
Speaker 9: my Alyssa' is a Hispanic like a Latina woman. She
Speaker 9: will beat me whatever she got in sight. You said, relax,
Speaker 9: You said, oh, man, can I be honest?
Speaker 7: I kind of want to be a fly on the
Speaker 7: wall in Von's apartment one day when him and Alyssa
Speaker 7: get into it, because I just.
Speaker 9: Like, there's no winning for me.
Speaker 1: Jenny, No, it's not that probably no winning.
Speaker 7: I just like the spiciness of your guys' relationship where
Speaker 7: it's like I curl up in a ball and cry.
Speaker 9: It's spicy, and her and I are both fire signs.
Speaker 9: So will go me and me a back and forth.
Speaker 9: Never tell a woman to relax, especially when you know
Speaker 9: you're in the wrong.
Speaker 7: Yeah, a lot of people are texting it and they're
Speaker 7: like peak gaslighting and gaslighting a hole she needs to run.
Speaker 7: Every state has public records, so we could definitely look
Speaker 7: up boons in Jersey if we need to. But man,
Speaker 7: I that guy sounded like, honestly one of the worst
Speaker 7: guys we've had.
Speaker 1: On in a long time.
Speaker 7: So I hope that she is done, done, done done.
Speaker 5: I hope he does pay his child support. Thought. Yeah,