WEBVTT - 8am Hour - Preheat The Oven 0:00:00.640 --> 0:00:04.760 Yeah, it's gold. It's the monster rash on Katie. All Right, 0:00:04.840 --> 0:00:06.120 we had a lot of stuff coming up on the show. 0:00:06.160 --> 0:00:07.840 We got more boo bashed tickets, worry coming up, So 0:00:07.920 --> 0:00:11.080 bring a carpenter keyword coming up in a few minutes. 0:00:12.160 --> 0:00:14.880 Somebody just said that the Target layoff emails went out 0:00:14.920 --> 0:00:17.720 at seven am. But then they also said that the 0:00:17.800 --> 0:00:20.159 layoffs don't start until nine. So I guess if you 0:00:20.200 --> 0:00:22.079 get laid off at seven, you got to work until nine. 0:00:22.160 --> 0:00:24.400 Oh geez, I'm just trying to bring a little smile. 0:00:24.160 --> 0:00:26.440 In your face here and confuses that get the email 0:00:26.480 --> 0:00:29.680 that says, hey, you'll know at nine. That's what's confusing 0:00:29.720 --> 0:00:31.640 to me, is like, isn't the seven am email? 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:33.800 I I just hate to hear that. There's so many 0:00:33.800 --> 0:00:36.040 people who listen that work at Target, and that's such 0:00:36.080 --> 0:00:40.280 a life jolting sort of a thing. So but everything 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:43.400 will be okay, It always is, yeah am I Right? Yeah, 0:00:43.479 --> 0:00:45.680 we worry, worry, worry, but everything will be okay. 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:47.280 Yeah, No, it'll be fine. 0:00:48.520 --> 0:00:52.960 What is your town famous for? Where are you from? 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:56.320 What's your town famous for? We do have one from 0:00:56.400 --> 0:01:00.280 and over home of Bailey j Has that's me. Yeah, 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:03.120 So use the top back feature and let us know 0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:04.679 what your hometown is famous for. We got some phone 0:01:04.720 --> 0:01:06.360 calls to We're gonna get to these first. Here my 0:01:06.440 --> 0:01:08.440 phone screener is not working, so tell me what is 0:01:08.480 --> 0:01:08.920 your name? 0:01:10.840 --> 0:01:11.000 Hi? 0:01:11.440 --> 0:01:13.080 Yeah? You yeah? 0:01:12.560 --> 0:01:14.360 Oh yeah, Tiana, Tiana? 0:01:14.440 --> 0:01:16.520 What is your what's your hometown? What's your famous for? 0:01:17.400 --> 0:01:20.160 Ohatana and we're famous for Owl City. 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:26.520 Adam Young Yeah, yes, the Firefly saw Yeah. Do you 0:01:26.560 --> 0:01:28.600 ever run into him down to the quick trip anything 0:01:28.640 --> 0:01:28.880 like that? 0:01:29.680 --> 0:01:30.120 Uh? 0:01:30.200 --> 0:01:32.039 I've ran into him out of Applebee's before. 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:34.360 He's pretty well known. I think he got his dad 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:36.200 a nice fancy car, so everyone. 0:01:35.880 --> 0:01:37.479 Knows his dad's car when he's driving. 0:01:39.640 --> 0:01:42.319 Thank you, KDWB High. What's your name? 0:01:43.280 --> 0:01:44.360 He's still in the same line. 0:01:45.959 --> 0:01:46.720 Let's try this one. 0:01:46.840 --> 0:01:46.960 Hi. 0:01:47.240 --> 0:01:51.840 What's your name? Max? Max? Where are you from? What 0:01:51.960 --> 0:01:53.320 is your hometown famous for? 0:01:54.240 --> 0:01:56.800 From Minneapolis? And we're famous we invented the chair. 0:01:57.520 --> 0:01:58.040 The chair. 0:01:58.160 --> 0:02:00.360 We did not. You're making this out. That chair was 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:03.400 invented a long time ago in like Greece or somewhere where. 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:04.320 Did you hear this, Max? 0:02:05.120 --> 0:02:08.160 Well, it's true because no one sat down before we 0:02:08.200 --> 0:02:09.520 invented the chair here. 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:15.800 No one sat down. You know what Jenny. Jenny is gullible. 0:02:16.200 --> 0:02:18.360 Jenny is gullible, and Jenny's looking at me like wow. 0:02:18.400 --> 0:02:20.079 I didn't know that I was going to say a 0:02:20.120 --> 0:02:23.200 specific kind of chair. I obviously understand that a chair 0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:25.600 was developed back in the I don't. 0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:28.760 Know, so you're telling me, Max. Then nobody sat down 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:31.520 until the chair was invented in Minneapolis. What year was that? 0:02:33.000 --> 0:02:34.880 Eighteen thirty six? 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:37.200 Nobody sat down and then somebody said, hey, look, have 0:02:37.240 --> 0:02:41.640 a seat. What to get off by? Fuck Max? 0:02:43.440 --> 0:02:45.800 Because the bed was created a few years before. But 0:02:46.560 --> 0:02:49.200 they learned that if you're sitting in the upward position, 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:51.799 you can actually sleep better, so later they switched back 0:02:51.840 --> 0:02:52.120 to the. 0:02:52.080 --> 0:02:55.000 Bad Okay, goodbye, Okay, goodbye Max. 0:02:58.160 --> 0:02:59.120 K w Hi. 0:02:59.400 --> 0:03:02.080 What's your name? 0:03:02.160 --> 0:03:02.600 Courtney? 0:03:02.680 --> 0:03:05.000 Courtney? Where are you from? What is it famous for? 0:03:05.919 --> 0:03:09.720 I am famous. I'm not famous from Casper, Wyoming. And 0:03:09.720 --> 0:03:12.639 we're famous for the Platte River and the Oregon Trail. 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:15.960 They started fly fishing. It's start and go get their 0:03:15.960 --> 0:03:20.560 food and fish, and there's a bunch of historic history there. 0:03:21.600 --> 0:03:24.040 I have been out there. You ever heard of Independence 0:03:24.120 --> 0:03:24.880 Rock before? 0:03:25.480 --> 0:03:25.679 Oh? 0:03:25.760 --> 0:03:27.800 Yeah, you hear that it's hollow. 0:03:27.840 --> 0:03:31.040 Now it's not hollow. You're making this up. Why are 0:03:31.040 --> 0:03:32.000 you saying it's hollow? 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:36.320 So well, they came, they did the three D printer 0:03:36.440 --> 0:03:39.800 scanner thing, and they found stuff inside of there, they say, 0:03:39.840 --> 0:03:41.440 at least the. 0:03:41.400 --> 0:03:46.880 First chair there. From Minneapolis, Casper, Wyoming. Thank you appreciate that. 0:03:47.080 --> 0:03:48.880 A bunch of talkbacks to a bunch of talkbacks. 0:03:48.920 --> 0:03:50.840 Let's do this. Where are you're from? What is your 0:03:50.840 --> 0:03:53.960 town famous for? I'm from chan Happening, home of Prince 0:03:53.960 --> 0:03:56.760 and Paisley Park. Yeah, boom boom, Okay, a bunch of talkbacks. 0:03:56.800 --> 0:03:57.280 You got them. 0:03:57.360 --> 0:03:58.600 Jennifer from Saint Paul. 0:03:58.720 --> 0:04:02.200 We're famous for the Minnesota Wild and Mickey's Diner. 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:04.960 Oh I heard Mickey's Diner is so good. Still haven't been. 0:04:05.040 --> 0:04:06.160 It's cool, He's cool. 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:07.560 Here's another one. 0:04:08.160 --> 0:04:11.240 This is Kimmy from Moundsville. We're famous for the Mermaid. 0:04:11.760 --> 0:04:14.600 Fun fact, the Mermaid was removed a few years ago 0:04:14.920 --> 0:04:17.919 and then put back at the building, all restored and 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:20.240 looking so fancy. 0:04:23.680 --> 0:04:28.839 Another talk back. My name is Shauna from Asco, Minnesota, 0:04:29.040 --> 0:04:33.640 and we are known for our Rudebega Festival. I would 0:04:33.720 --> 0:04:35.360 go Have you ever had a Rudebaka day? 0:04:36.120 --> 0:04:36.280 Oh? 0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:41.120 They're delicious. Vegetable. Right, yes it is. It's a root vegetable. Gotcha. 0:04:41.200 --> 0:04:43.120 What's your what is your name? And what is your 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:43.960 town famous for? 0:04:47.200 --> 0:04:47.520 Hello? 0:04:48.400 --> 0:04:50.560 Hello, all right, let's get that one. 0:04:50.800 --> 0:04:51.440 Let's get that on. 0:04:53.960 --> 0:04:54.080 Hi. 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:55.000 My name is Rachel. 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:59.159 I'm from Blaine, Minnesota, famously known for having thousands of 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:02.520 the exact same house, so a very much created place 0:05:02.600 --> 0:05:07.080 to live. Also, Cornapis does get some crap. However, the 0:05:07.160 --> 0:05:10.920 krunaps Dam is pretty dang great, so give it some credit. 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:12.280 It is okay. 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:15.800 For sure? Where are you from? What you're town famous for? 0:05:16.680 --> 0:05:20.600 My name is Amanda and I am from Roseville, Minnesota, 0:05:21.120 --> 0:05:24.800 which is home to the first Barnes and Noble outside 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:28.880 of New York City, the first Target store in the country, 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:31.480 and the first dairy queen in Minnesota. 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:33.599 Oh wow, who knew? 0:05:34.240 --> 0:05:35.360 Well that's fascinating. 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:37.159 The first target store in the country. 0:05:37.000 --> 0:05:39.800 I guess. So wow, that makes sense. I like this one. 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:40.840 It's random. 0:05:41.360 --> 0:05:44.960 I'm from Crazy, Minnesota, home of the world's lardiest turkey 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:48.560 and the only bridge over bridge over water, so a plane, 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:51.520 a train, a car in a boat can all pass 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:52.280 the same time. 0:05:53.600 --> 0:05:55.200 A bridge, a bridge over. 0:05:55.200 --> 0:05:57.159 A bridge over a bridge over water. 0:05:57.400 --> 0:05:59.919 Wow. Yeah, that sounds kind of fine. 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:06.560 Interest crazy with Basically every hometown is famous for something. 0:06:06.839 --> 0:06:08.920 Googled Saint Louis Parcas. That's where I currently live, and 0:06:08.960 --> 0:06:11.920 I had no idea. It's the birthplace of the Cohen Brothers. Yeah, 0:06:11.920 --> 0:06:15.160 which is the yeah yeah know that some talk message. 0:06:15.360 --> 0:06:17.880 This person says, I'm from Savage, Minnesota, which is known 0:06:17.880 --> 0:06:21.320 for being a location after Pearl Harbor for language school, 0:06:21.440 --> 0:06:24.560 specifically for Japanese language during World War. 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:29.640 Kidding, that's so neat, Okay, cool. Wow, here's one from Longville, Minnesota, 0:06:29.680 --> 0:06:31.880 the turtle race capital of the world. They raise turtles 0:06:31.880 --> 0:06:35.160 in the middle of Main Race turtles every Wednesday all 0:06:35.240 --> 0:06:39.040 summer long. Okay, I like this one. I'm Amanda from 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:41.919 luck Wisconsin. We're famous for the creation of the Duncan 0:06:42.080 --> 0:06:45.440 Yo Yo, which is like the premiere brand and Toyo 0:06:45.839 --> 0:06:47.919 yo Yo. That's crazy. All right, We got to wrap up. 0:06:47.920 --> 0:06:50.200 We got other things wait to take care of, including 0:06:51.080 --> 0:06:53.480 your Sabrina Carpenter keyword, which I'm going to give you 0:06:53.480 --> 0:06:56.880 in just a couple of seconds. Boo Bash is coming 0:06:56.960 --> 0:07:00.360 up on Thursday night. If you're going to Boo Bash, 0:07:00.440 --> 0:07:03.240 I just won't let you know we're gonna start the 0:07:03.279 --> 0:07:05.880 costume contest. The first one is at seven thirty. That'll 0:07:05.880 --> 0:07:08.120 probably be should we save sexiest for the last one 0:07:08.200 --> 0:07:10.760 or what do you think? I don't know, overall, should 0:07:10.760 --> 0:07:13.160 be last, best, overall, last? Okay, So we'll probably do 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:15.800 duo or group for the first one at seven thirty, 0:07:15.800 --> 0:07:17.480 so be there. Then we'll probably do it at eight 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:19.680 o'clock we'll do sexiest, and then about eight thirty will 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:23.400 do the final one for most creative overall one thousand dollars. 0:07:23.440 --> 0:07:25.720 It's gonna be at Mystic Lake, at the Hop House 0:07:25.760 --> 0:07:29.880 at Mystic Lake. So we get there round six, and 0:07:29.880 --> 0:07:31.440 the funny thing is we get there round six and 0:07:31.480 --> 0:07:33.400 everybody shows up a little bit late. So we walk 0:07:33.440 --> 0:07:34.000 in and we go. 0:07:34.080 --> 0:07:36.280 Hello, Hello, Hello, anyone here? 0:07:36.320 --> 0:07:39.360 Hello, Oh, there's Bailey, And we're the only ones there 0:07:39.360 --> 0:07:41.040 for the first half hour, and then you go, nobody's 0:07:41.040 --> 0:07:43.040 gonna show up for our party, But then pretty soon 0:07:43.120 --> 0:07:45.520 it's packed. We got a DJ psychic Gary Spivey is 0:07:45.520 --> 0:07:48.800 going to be there. Tammy the Tarot card Reader. She 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:51.280 is online at if you want to find her online. 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:54.720 She has a website. It is a hold on second 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:59.680 amad Medium, correct dot com we'll give away those tickets 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:04.000 coming out up in a little bit on KDWB. Right now, though, 0:08:04.040 --> 0:08:07.320 here is your Sabrina Carpenter keyword. Let's take a strip 0:08:07.400 --> 0:08:10.200 before to win a trip to Los Angeles to see 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:12.960 Sabrina Carpenter at one of her sold out shows. That's 0:08:13.320 --> 0:08:17.880 tears on our iHeartRadio app. Okay, the keyword is tears. 0:08:18.080 --> 0:08:20.040 Just open up the iHeart app and say that into 0:08:20.040 --> 0:08:22.840 the red talkback microphone and you are registered for that 0:08:22.920 --> 0:08:25.760 trip to see her in concert in Los Angeles. We 0:08:25.880 --> 0:08:27.800 got grats for her show. Great seats for her show 0:08:27.840 --> 0:08:30.000 in Los Angeles. Uh, and you'll get out of the 0:08:30.040 --> 0:08:33.120 snow and cold, go to Los Angeles. See the site, 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:36.480 spend some money, have some food that's different than Applebee's. 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:38.880 Go somewhere where'll all the stars go out there? Anyway 0:08:39.160 --> 0:08:41.240 the stars? Where do the stars go in La to eat? 0:08:41.440 --> 0:08:42.640 You're probably gonna run into. 0:08:42.520 --> 0:08:47.280 Taylor Nolling in La. But Maldo's not far. 0:08:47.480 --> 0:08:49.440 I only know that from the hills. That's where they 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:51.520 went on. I've heard that too, so they must go there. 0:08:51.720 --> 0:08:53.920 Yeah, Okay, if you want to go, then use that 0:08:54.000 --> 0:09:03.240 keyword tears on the iHeartRadio talk back app work. I 0:09:03.280 --> 0:09:06.040 will warn you if you got little Tiffany in the 0:09:06.040 --> 0:09:09.040 car or little Johnny Junior in the car, this might 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:11.520 not be the best thing for them to hear it. 0:09:11.720 --> 0:09:13.679 Just the little heads up, but it's not going to 0:09:13.720 --> 0:09:18.160 get vulgar or anything, but it is adult. Stephanie is 0:09:18.200 --> 0:09:22.239 on the phone. Hi, Steph, Hi, talk to me, Stephanie. 0:09:22.280 --> 0:09:24.760 What are you on the radio for today? 0:09:26.040 --> 0:09:29.600 Yeah, so, I just I was curious, you know what 0:09:29.720 --> 0:09:32.360 your take is on this. But I've been dating. 0:09:32.080 --> 0:09:32.800 This new guy. 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:38.080 We it's about six months now, and honestly, he's he's 0:09:38.120 --> 0:09:42.160 everything that I could ask for, you know, in a 0:09:42.240 --> 0:09:46.200 guy and personality. I absolutely adore him. 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:49.360 You know, he's kind, he's funny. 0:09:49.920 --> 0:09:52.760 He is great in what he does and work and 0:09:53.679 --> 0:09:57.920 super accomplished. But the one thing is is that. 0:09:58.640 --> 0:10:01.880 I mean, the sex, it's just it's not good. 0:10:02.240 --> 0:10:06.160 I mean it's it's it's honest, it's it's awful. It's 0:10:07.080 --> 0:10:11.880 it's probably honestly the worst sex I've ever had. And 0:10:11.880 --> 0:10:15.080 that kills me because he is everything else. 0:10:15.520 --> 0:10:19.160 But I mean, it is bad where. 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:23.480 I don't know if I can Is this something you 0:10:23.480 --> 0:10:24.400 can get over. 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:27.120 Or either that's a good question, but I want to 0:10:27.160 --> 0:10:31.200 dive into specific here. Yeah yeah, yeah. Now we can't 0:10:31.240 --> 0:10:34.120 get vulgar on the radio, we can on the Minnesota Goodbye. 0:10:34.120 --> 0:10:37.800 That's the after the show podcast. But without getting too nasty. 0:10:38.240 --> 0:10:40.080 What are the things that you see that he could 0:10:40.080 --> 0:10:41.440 work on and they could do better? 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:45.920 I mean he could get some rhythm, you know, so 0:10:45.960 --> 0:10:46.439 you don't. 0:10:46.280 --> 0:10:48.600 Match up, so it's like push push push push, pump 0:10:48.640 --> 0:10:51.680 pump pump push push push, pump, pump pump. 0:10:53.080 --> 0:10:54.360 Is it just like the rhythm like that. 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:04.000 Problem, Jenny, Yeah, some guys think some guys think that 0:11:03.960 --> 0:11:07.480 that's better. Yeah, okay, it's a race. Okay, guys, that's 0:11:07.520 --> 0:11:10.679 not always true. Okay, no rhythm, what else? 0:11:11.440 --> 0:11:15.240 No rhythm? I mean the way that he grabs my boobs, 0:11:15.480 --> 0:11:19.719 it's like it's like they're stress. 0:11:19.360 --> 0:11:20.120 Ball to him. 0:11:20.200 --> 0:11:22.280 I mean it's like you have never. 0:11:22.760 --> 0:11:27.960 Known how to, you know, intimantly be with it is. 0:11:29.200 --> 0:11:31.360 It's like he doesn't know how to use his instrument. 0:11:32.559 --> 0:11:40.000 You could say, I am just okay. He also just 0:11:40.960 --> 0:11:42.720 he wraps things up really. 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:43.840 Fast, if you will. 0:11:44.559 --> 0:11:47.520 Okay, So he's on and then he's like grab a 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:51.800 grab and then he's like then he's done, he's done. 0:11:51.760 --> 0:11:54.400 And then you're left there like okay, and what about me? 0:11:54.800 --> 0:12:00.760 All right, yes, exactly, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 0:12:01.000 --> 0:12:04.480 I wonder why it is that so many wonderful guys 0:12:05.360 --> 0:12:08.079 just don't know. And I think it is because nobody 0:12:08.120 --> 0:12:10.440 has ever told them, because who's gonna ever say. You 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:14.360 know what, Troy, you need to slow down and a 0:12:14.400 --> 0:12:15.840 little bit take your time. 0:12:16.679 --> 0:12:18.520 I think that's a sign of a good communication, though, 0:12:18.559 --> 0:12:21.199 if you can have that conversation like here's what I 0:12:21.360 --> 0:12:23.920 like or here's what I would like you to do instead. 0:12:23.880 --> 0:12:28.760 Ideally, yeah, ideally. And had a girl once tell me that, like, God, 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:31.200 is that how you kiss or something like that, and 0:12:31.240 --> 0:12:34.760 I'm like, oh, man, because that's a real blot because 0:12:34.760 --> 0:12:38.640 you think you're doing a good job. Yeah. Well, the 0:12:38.760 --> 0:12:42.640 question is it's not how to make him better. Hopefully 0:12:42.679 --> 0:12:45.319 with a little instruction and guidance over time, things will 0:12:45.360 --> 0:12:48.240 get better. It's like, no, try this or no, not 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:50.000 there there. 0:12:50.320 --> 0:12:52.760 But what if it doesn't, that's the question. 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:57.240 What if it doesn't, can the relationship still work out? 0:12:57.679 --> 0:13:00.480 I don't know, man, let's be real into me. Intimacy 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:02.560 is such a big part of a relationship. I'm not 0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:05.400 saying completely dump them, but if you're trying to be 0:13:05.640 --> 0:13:08.600 like effectively communicating, and it doesn't seem like he's trying 0:13:08.640 --> 0:13:14.600 to affect make you effectively change then. 0:13:15.559 --> 0:13:17.400 And so that he can get better at sex. So 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:19.280 this should not be a deal breaker. Go see a 0:13:19.320 --> 0:13:22.760 sex therapist. Let me tell you, six months into a relationship, 0:13:23.040 --> 0:13:25.560 you're not going to tell the person you're seeing, hey, 0:13:25.679 --> 0:13:28.679 maybe you should go see a sex therapist. Like, that's 0:13:28.840 --> 0:13:33.240 just yeah, it's that's an uncomfortable conversation and a blow 0:13:33.320 --> 0:13:34.640 to that person's ego. 0:13:34.640 --> 0:13:35.840 Right, I do totally. 0:13:35.920 --> 0:13:37.560 A lot of people are saying, you know, hey, you 0:13:37.559 --> 0:13:39.959 can teach an old dog new tricks. Just be upfront 0:13:39.960 --> 0:13:41.280 and open with what you want. And a lot of 0:13:41.280 --> 0:13:43.120 people are saying, hey, you just got to talk to him, 0:13:43.160 --> 0:13:45.520 just got to talk to him. But I think a 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:48.760 great question is how how do you do that? Because 0:13:48.800 --> 0:13:51.319 that would be such an awkward like, hey, babe, can 0:13:51.320 --> 0:13:52.280 you sit down for a second. 0:13:52.320 --> 0:13:53.600 I really got to talk to you about something. 0:13:53.800 --> 0:13:55.160 Can I Can I tell you one thing that there 0:13:55.240 --> 0:13:57.120 was this girl that I dated and she kissed like 0:13:57.160 --> 0:13:58.679 a bass. If you think of a bass that you 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:00.840 pull out a little water fish and the bass is 0:14:00.880 --> 0:14:04.640 like struggling for air and their their jaws are gulping 0:14:04.720 --> 0:14:07.280 and gaping, and that is how she kissed. And I 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:12.480 remember just saying, hey, you know what, just slow down, relax, 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:17.040 And once she learned from the master, oh, how to 0:14:17.160 --> 0:14:21.760 kiss your mom mom, then she really enjoyed it. So 0:14:21.840 --> 0:14:25.160 I think sometimes you don't want to fix everything at once. 0:14:25.200 --> 0:14:27.560 I'm gonna guess Stephanie, you can't be like okay number one, 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:30.880 slow down, number two, take your time number two. Don't 0:14:30.920 --> 0:14:32.640 grab me like I'm as stressful. I think if you 0:14:32.680 --> 0:14:35.280 just handle one thing like I don't know how to 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:38.440 say it without sounding really stupid, okay, but like you know, 0:14:38.560 --> 0:14:40.680 ouch ouch oh those are sensitive. 0:14:40.760 --> 0:14:42.920 For example, what if you say it once though, and 0:14:42.960 --> 0:14:45.480 it doesn't clock for them? How many times? I'm just 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:48.320 trying to think, like, is there a way to get 0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:51.080 through if it's not like received? 0:14:51.480 --> 0:14:54.360 You know, like yeah, hey that hurt, Oh that hurts, 0:14:54.760 --> 0:14:55.520 don't do it like that. 0:14:55.560 --> 0:14:57.600 And then the next time it comes back around and 0:14:57.640 --> 0:14:59.720 it's the same exact thing and you're like, hey, didn't 0:14:59.760 --> 0:15:01.840 I just talked about this and you didn't like retain 0:15:01.920 --> 0:15:02.440 it at all. 0:15:02.640 --> 0:15:05.680 So without having the sit down conversation when you're actually 0:15:05.720 --> 0:15:08.080 in the act. You're saying like you're reacting in the 0:15:08.080 --> 0:15:11.240 way that you would normally react, not pretending. Yeah, and 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:12.800 then they still do it that way. 0:15:12.920 --> 0:15:15.080 Well, the problem is she's been you've been kind of 0:15:15.120 --> 0:15:17.560 pretending that you liked it this whole time. 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:24.080 Right, Well, I mean, I definitely I am reacting a 0:15:24.160 --> 0:15:27.640 little bit in the moment, but it does seem. 0:15:27.400 --> 0:15:29.320 Like it just kind of goes over his head. 0:15:31.000 --> 0:15:34.240 So, yeah, I'm confused as to whether or not I 0:15:34.520 --> 0:15:38.560 should say something, you know, in the bedroom or yeah, well. 0:15:38.560 --> 0:15:40.040 Let me grab a phone call real quick because we 0:15:40.040 --> 0:15:41.520 got to take a break. We can continue on the 0:15:41.520 --> 0:15:43.280 other side of the break here. So basically, we're not 0:15:43.280 --> 0:15:45.960 trying to be sillacious or do you know whatever. But 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:49.800 she's it's it's so important, and it's not dirty or vulgar. 0:15:49.840 --> 0:15:52.920 It's that's the love and the relationship is not good 0:15:53.160 --> 0:15:55.360 while everything else is pretty good. I don't have your name. 0:15:55.400 --> 0:15:57.040 My phone screen is not working. But you're on the 0:15:57.040 --> 0:16:01.840 phone and you want to comment to Stephanie. What's your name? Ebie? Okay, 0:16:02.240 --> 0:16:03.360 what you want to say about it? 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:05.720 Well, just listening to the conversation. 0:16:05.920 --> 0:16:08.440 If it's worth the relationship to you to stick around. 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:10.320 Just like Dave said, you got to have the conversation. 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:12.800 I've been married for twelve years, got married very young, 0:16:13.200 --> 0:16:16.120 and in the beginning of my relationship, I did take 0:16:16.200 --> 0:16:17.800 it because I thought that's what I had to do, 0:16:17.880 --> 0:16:20.280 and I thought that's what girls have to kind of 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:23.480 don if it's not the best, just act like it's 0:16:23.480 --> 0:16:26.440 all right. No, absolutely not. Just let them know like, hey, 0:16:26.440 --> 0:16:28.200 it feels a lot better when you do it this way, 0:16:28.320 --> 0:16:30.200 or it might feel better if you do it this way. 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:31.280 Or let's try it this way. 0:16:31.920 --> 0:16:34.960 I think conversation piece is definitely needed in this. You 0:16:35.000 --> 0:16:36.240 did not have to suffer. 0:16:35.920 --> 0:16:39.320 Through that girl, because the longer it goes on, the 0:16:39.640 --> 0:16:41.840 lot harder it's going to be to fix the whole thing. 0:16:41.880 --> 0:16:43.560 Oh yeah, hold on, we'll come back into second more 0:16:43.600 --> 0:16:44.720 on the other side of this one. If you got 0:16:44.760 --> 0:16:47.080 any comments, there's a lot of people texting that that 0:16:47.200 --> 0:16:51.760 sounds like their relationship. Guys, pay attention and we'll be 0:16:51.840 --> 0:17:00.000 right back on Katie Ryan. Again, we're not trying to 0:17:00.160 --> 0:17:02.600 be weird or salacious or dirty or whatever, but it's 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:04.600 a little bit more of an adult group therapy. And 0:17:04.680 --> 0:17:06.240 I always give you a little warning that if you 0:17:06.320 --> 0:17:09.040 got little Timmy in the car or a little Jeanine 0:17:09.119 --> 0:17:12.000 in the car. Then, first of all, sure, she's she 0:17:12.040 --> 0:17:14.040 shouldn't be named Janine. That's an old lady name. But 0:17:15.119 --> 0:17:16.520 if you have a little kid in the car, this 0:17:16.560 --> 0:17:18.199 is probably not the best thing to listen to. But 0:17:18.240 --> 0:17:20.400 it's also it's not you know, it's just it's more 0:17:20.440 --> 0:17:23.480 for adults, not dirty, but for adults. Stephanie's on the phone. 0:17:23.600 --> 0:17:25.880 Give me your sum up your problem with your boyfriend 0:17:25.920 --> 0:17:28.200 in one sentence, Stephanie. 0:17:28.920 --> 0:17:33.439 Okay, I I've been dating him for about six weeks. 0:17:33.480 --> 0:17:36.680 I love everything about him, but a sex is awful. 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:40.000 Awful, awful, And we were talking about, you know, not 0:17:40.160 --> 0:17:43.040 just how do you fix it, but can it work 0:17:43.240 --> 0:17:45.680 even if the love and is not so good because 0:17:45.720 --> 0:17:47.480 you can talk to him and you can be like, 0:17:47.520 --> 0:17:49.359 oh that's a little bit, you know, slow down a 0:17:49.359 --> 0:17:49.719 little bit. 0:17:49.800 --> 0:17:50.000 Yeah. 0:17:50.040 --> 0:17:52.000 I remember when I was brand new at like, you know, 0:17:52.320 --> 0:17:56.520 like relationships cricket what my girlfriend at the time said, 0:17:56.520 --> 0:17:57.960 you don't have to jam your tongue all the way 0:17:57.960 --> 0:18:00.280 down my throat. And I said, oh, I honestly thought 0:18:00.280 --> 0:18:03.119 that's what you did. I didn't know. So then you 0:18:03.200 --> 0:18:04.000 learn to like just. 0:18:04.000 --> 0:18:13.639 You know, slowly and you know what else you can 0:18:14.119 --> 0:18:15.840 You can hold a position, you don't have to be 0:18:15.880 --> 0:18:16.600 constantly moving. 0:18:16.640 --> 0:18:16.960 You can go. 0:18:24.440 --> 0:18:29.879 I'm not looking at you the microphones way yourself blessed gosh. 0:18:30.200 --> 0:18:33.080 All right, So the question is, and we've got a 0:18:33.080 --> 0:18:35.920 bunch of text messages on this one, not just can 0:18:36.000 --> 0:18:39.920 you teach them, but will it work even if you go, oh, man, 0:18:40.000 --> 0:18:43.440 I love this guy. They're wonderful. I'm always happy when 0:18:43.440 --> 0:18:46.720 I'm around them, but it's just not good loving. Can 0:18:46.800 --> 0:18:49.760 it work out? Elliott is on the phone with some input. 0:18:49.800 --> 0:18:53.119 Good morning, Elliott, what do you want to share with 0:18:53.160 --> 0:18:54.040 this Elliott? 0:18:54.359 --> 0:18:56.879 Well, you guys were speaking about how did you bring 0:18:56.880 --> 0:18:58.280 your up in a conversation? 0:18:58.800 --> 0:19:01.359 So I'm thinking I'm thinking she could strike up like 0:19:01.400 --> 0:19:03.200 a flirtasted conversation and then. 0:19:03.119 --> 0:19:06.640 Bring up his interest rather than hers and kind of 0:19:06.720 --> 0:19:08.399 you know, hey, so what do you like? 0:19:08.680 --> 0:19:09.760 What position do you like? 0:19:10.200 --> 0:19:10.400 Oh? 0:19:10.480 --> 0:19:12.800