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Speaker 1: Uh, so, Sky's sex life is a real roller coaster.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's quite a journey and we've all been

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Speaker 1: on it. Yeah, yeah, we've ridden that horseh Sky. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that sounds weird, it does, but you know you're open

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Speaker 2: Your A real sensitive gage I was talking about brushing

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Speaker 1: Sure. Yeah, we've heard a lot of stories over the years.

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Speaker 1: You know that you're a bit of a sex camel

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Speaker 1: where you're good, you'll have it. Like if you can

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Speaker 1: have sex like once every six months, maybe you're fine.

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Speaker 2: Oh that sounds delightful too much. That depends depends how

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Speaker 1: And you chose to marry somebody who is a sex fiend. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and it doesn't mesh very well.

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Speaker 3: It's difficult.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's caused some issues in your relationship over

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Speaker 1: the years and things like that. But you guys came

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Speaker 1: day that's when you'd have sex once a week. Whatever.

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Speaker 1: It did get a little weird for a little while,

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Speaker 1: where you know, these since it's once a week, these

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Speaker 1: grand sex capades would happen where it would go for

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Speaker 1: like four hours.

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Speaker 3: Right, Emily would be disgusted.

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Speaker 4: Here all the stories like they'd start out outside and

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Speaker 4: then they'd hang out in the jacuzzi and do weird

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Speaker 2: I don't know what the hell was going on.

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Speaker 3: In there, and then all of a sudden they'd move

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, outfits, other ways to inflict pace.

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Speaker 3: That's it got even weird.

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Speaker 1: And when it came to that hours so they would

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Speaker 1: do these sex capades and then whatever, and then uh,

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Speaker 1: you know, freak of your things started happening. And oddly enough, Sky,

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Speaker 1: to her credit, she was, you know, plann along to

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Speaker 1: an extent. It's not get crazy, but you were doing

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think he knew what he was doing because,

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Speaker 2: you know, like you said, the sex capades were ramping up,

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Speaker 2: and then he waited till like his birthday to kind

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Speaker 2: of raw hotels day hotel, and then he would then

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Speaker 2: because once the bomb is dropped, you know, then he

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Speaker 2: would try and regularly.

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Speaker 1: Can't put the toothpaste back in the two No you can't, y,

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Speaker 1: sure can't. So it's out. It's out. Now what you know,

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Speaker 1: you got a kink on your hands? Then you know

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Speaker 1: what are you going to do? You either play along

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I really lack confidence when it comes to handle

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Speaker 3: We were talking about food. I know what we're doing here.

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Speaker 3: He seemed more confident now, Yeah, so whatever, you know what? Uh?

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Speaker 1: And so that's the last we've sort of heard about these,

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Speaker 3: What's going on? Where are we at with you and

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Speaker 3: your husband's sex life?

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Speaker 2: Well, so we had we used to have a really

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Speaker 2: would set routine schedule to find our alone time Saturday nights, right,

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Speaker 2: but it would be like after my daughter went to bed,

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Speaker 2: But then we got the two dogs and they're trying

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Speaker 2: And then there was that stint where he would wake

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Speaker 2: her up at like two am. Yeah, we're giving that

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Speaker 3: Can you imagine somebody waking up in the middle of

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Speaker 2: What Now, For the record, I requested this in a way.

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Speaker 2: It's not like he just came out of nowhere and

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Speaker 3: Go to bed. Wake me up. Just wake me up whenever,

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Speaker 3: you know, sleep in your eye. It so, yes, that

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Speaker 2: It's been a roller coaster of trying to kind of

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Speaker 2: but this last year fell off, fell off big time,

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Speaker 2: which okay, you're fine with it, but he's not fine

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Speaker 3: Six years time, the excuse me what.

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Speaker 2: We don't need to say all this that's wild? Uh

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Speaker 1: And and I know this is going to really upset you.

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Speaker 1: Here's the weird thing is that you work in the morning,

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Speaker 1: So you have time where you're home alone. You just

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Speaker 2: Well. Yeah, and like for me, it's like, I know

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Speaker 2: for the three ring circus, I want to take some time.

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Speaker 2: I want some drinks, I want some warm up situations.

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Speaker 3: And yeah that's a you thing, not him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I definitely don't want to do that in

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Speaker 1: You have the house to yourself. So that's sort of

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Speaker 1: what you do when you have kids, is if you

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Speaker 1: get time with it by yourself. This is when we're

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Speaker 1: getting after it, man, And so it's not ideal.

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Speaker 2: Well, I've had that thought, but I definitely don't want

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Speaker 2: to speak it out loud, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I want that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So now between just schedule issues and then I think,

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Speaker 2: because me and my husband are both in our late

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Speaker 2: forties now, I feel like our hormones are changing.

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Speaker 1: You're saying crazy things. You know, his hormones have not changed.

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Speaker 1: He's still a horny man.

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Speaker 2: Yes he is, and he's definitely hornier than I am,

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Speaker 2: but he's not harassing me as much. So I don't

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Speaker 2: if I could just snap the rest of my life away,

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Speaker 1: Him, poor Thor. I mean, do you remember what it's like.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you had a new baby. You know, your

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Speaker 4: And then my wife got pregnant and like you know,

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Speaker 3: Since then that's the last thing on her mind.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And then now postpartum has been a little tough,

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Speaker 4: so we've had some issues there, but but she's finally

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Speaker 3: Notice, Yeah, I just kind of Man, you're still honest,

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Speaker 3: Appreciate it?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 3: But I have sex with you. I'm just trying to

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Speaker 4: So I feel like once I start getting back in

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Speaker 3: Getting we go, we go.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, so yeah, me and my wife, we don't

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Speaker 3: So it's just sort of happens.

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Speaker 1: When a week goes by, I start to get a

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Speaker 1: I start there's a lot of grabbing and things going on.

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Speaker 1: She's like, Okay, I probably should do something about this.

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Speaker 1: But then you know, there's other times when she's into it,

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. Well, they they looked in there, and you know,

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Speaker 1: when you when you have sex, it does bring you together,

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Speaker 1: and it's supposed to connect you. And it's supposed to be,

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Speaker 1: I mean, no offense, You don't define me. You're right,

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Speaker 1: You're right.

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Speaker 1: So the experts got in there and tried to figure out,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and they found that there is a sweet spot

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Speaker 2: after interviewing thousands of US adults about their sex life.

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Speaker 2: This was done recently by the University of Washington, and

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Speaker 2: they found that sex once a week is the sweet

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Speaker 1: When when you're with somebody for a while, in the beginning,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna have sex, and then once you're with somebody

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Speaker 1: for a good length of time, if you can bang

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Speaker 1: it out no pun intended, once a week, I feel

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Speaker 1: like that's good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And they definitely say it's quality over quantity. They say,

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Speaker 2: just because you do it more than once a week,

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Speaker 2: that's not going to make you more connected. It's that

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Speaker 2: once a week that is the sweet spot. And they

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Speaker 2: recommend cocktails. Yes, cocktails are always helpful, but they say

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Speaker 2: about once a month you should try something new, whether

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, so Sky what somebody talking to me?