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Speaker 1: Holding, Hey, no problem, what's going on? Okay?

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Speaker 2: So I just need to know if this is breakupworthy

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Speaker 2: or if I'm being dramatic, because I just feel kind

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Speaker 2: of gross. So I was scrolling through my boyfriend's phone

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Speaker 2: the other night, not even snooping for jerk. I was

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Speaker 2: literally just bored and reading old messages for entertainment, and

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Speaker 2: I came across some DMS from when we first started dating.

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Speaker 2: And I don't even how to say this. It's like,

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Speaker 2: basically he's sending my sister's Instagram pictures to his friends

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Speaker 2: saying how hot she was, like my sister and his

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Speaker 2: friend was hyping it up. Like I know, I know

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Speaker 2: what wasn't recent, it was from early on, but now

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Speaker 2: I can't unsee it. And I just I feel weird

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Speaker 2: and embarrassed and definitely like picked out being around him

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Speaker 2: and especially here and my sister together. Like I didn't

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Speaker 2: confront him to you know, I don't want him to

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Speaker 2: know I'm like going through his phone. I don't need

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Speaker 2: to think that I was like snooping, But also because

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Speaker 2: it's old and I don't want to create like family awkwardness.

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Speaker 2: But I can't shape this. Just like very gross feeling

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Speaker 2: and am I valid for being bothered? Or do I

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Speaker 2: just have to swallow this and move on?

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Speaker 1: That would bother me.

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Speaker 3: So was that like when you guys like were in

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Speaker 3: the talking stage and he's like, oh, yeah, this is

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Speaker 3: the girl I'm dating and this is our super hot sister,

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Speaker 3: Like how did he find.

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Speaker 1: Your sister's profile? Was he trying to go for her first?

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Speaker 2: Like I don't think he's trying to go for her,

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Speaker 2: Like we were definitely dating, Like it's not like we

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Speaker 2: were just talking stages, but.

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Speaker 4: I'm seeing Kyle Furrow.

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Speaker 5: That would just bother me, Like how I could never

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Speaker 5: be in the same room with him without going, oh,

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Speaker 5: he thinks she's older than me, Like you would automatically

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Speaker 5: compare yourself even though he wasn't in those text messages,

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Speaker 5: that's where you're or at least my brain would go

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Speaker 5: to a complete insecurity Why.

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Speaker 1: Hotter than you? Why not as hot as did she?

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Speaker 5: They're just saying, That's where my brain would go. It

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Speaker 5: would go straight into insecurity mode, Like why would he

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Speaker 5: be sending that unless he was trying to hook your

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Speaker 5: sister up with one of his friends, And I think

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Speaker 5: that'd be the only out that would make sense.

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Speaker 4: There's one more, and that's that guys among ourselves are

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Speaker 4: kind of disgusting, and then we would never be that

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Speaker 4: way anywhere else besides in our little friend group where

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Speaker 4: we say things that nobody else should ever hear and

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Speaker 4: you shouldn't even think inside your head.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but that doesn't change how Valerie feels.

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Speaker 4: I know I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: If it were that he was saying, oh, here's her

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Speaker 5: hot sister, maybe you should date her, then I could

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Speaker 5: be like, Okay, he was trying to hook the sister up,

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Speaker 5: I could maybe get past that.

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Speaker 3: But if it's like, oh, the girl I'm dating her

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Speaker 3: sister is a smoke show, you know, just because just because.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but it's the very beginning of the relationship. Now,

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Speaker 6: like how long you guys been together?

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Speaker 2: Now, Valerie was been together like two years now, two.

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Speaker 1: Years, so like he probably knows her. It doesn't even lie.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So now what I do is I go, what

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Speaker 5: were they like together when we were all together for Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 1: Was there weird vibe? Like now my wheels are I'm

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Speaker 1: looking at these two sisters. I don't know which one

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Speaker 1: would go with. They're both hot. Let me see how

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Speaker 1: the relationship works out. And he goes, man, I ended

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Speaker 1: up with Valerie. She's amazing. She's way more attractive, she's smarter,

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Speaker 1: she's everything.

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Speaker 6: But it's it's two years later, like to go back

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Speaker 6: and go, oh, yeah, she thought she was hot. I see,

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Speaker 6: I can't relate this because I find my wife's sister's

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Speaker 6: all unattractive.

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Speaker 3: I feel like you do have a point, though, Jay,

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Speaker 3: like you had said, like now, he hasn't been together

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Speaker 3: for two years, there's probably been times that he has

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Speaker 3: been around her sister and she he probably is like

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Speaker 3: you gross.

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Speaker 1: Gross, like I get her over. I hate the TV

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Speaker 1: show she watches. I hate this. She did the comment

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Speaker 1: maybe clean to make common the reality of its.

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Speaker 6: Surface in the beginning. On the surface, you're like, wow,

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Speaker 6: I don't wonder which one I'm gonna go for. I

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Speaker 6: met this one girl. She and her sister's hot. Wow,

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Speaker 6: which one? You just you kind of waking this part.

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Speaker 5: Of you that would think the opposite, though you wouldn't

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Speaker 5: have follow your comes valory sister again, she's so hot?

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Speaker 5: Did I end up with the wrong sister? You like,

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Speaker 5: you don't know what's going through his mind?

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Speaker 4: No, but I mean if he's good now, yeah, you

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Speaker 4: just soaping up a cannon.

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Speaker 1: We're going in circles.

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Speaker 6: I know it's a weird about So there you go.

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Speaker 6: That's that's our thought. You're listen, we're just glad we're

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Speaker 6: not in your situation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I think you should probably talk to him about it.

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Speaker 5: I would, just so you get it off.

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Speaker 3: You're like, you're conscious in your chest. And if he's like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: that was weird and gross, just get over God.

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Speaker 6: He'll be like, yeah, I thought, what both you were hot.

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Speaker 6: Now we're going to get in circles again.

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Speaker 4: Okay, make sure he text about how hot his brother

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Speaker 4: is from you.

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Speaker 1: Thanks Valerie, thanks for calling in.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, they say the Holy