1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:03,080 Speaker 1: So this weekend, I'm headed to Colorado tomorrow. Bailey knows this, 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: but I will not be on on Monday and Tuesday. 3 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:08,960 Speaker 1: I'll be on the show from Colorado on Wednesday. And 4 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:11,880 Speaker 1: it's not a leisurely fun trip this time. It's my sister, Vivian, 5 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: my favorite sister. I love them all, but she's my 6 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:16,799 Speaker 1: favorite because she was always she always did things with me, 7 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: and she was always like, you know, brought me little gifts. 8 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: And she is fifteen years older and so she would 9 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:23,799 Speaker 1: like drive me to school and you know that type 10 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: of thing. And and she's been sick and we're not 11 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 1: really sure why, but she's basically awake but unresponsive. And 12 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: so it's you know, there's not a lot of support 13 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: for her daughter out there. So her daughter's been doing 14 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:42,599 Speaker 1: a lot of the you know visiting and you know, 15 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: helping her all the you know whatever power of attorney stuff. 16 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:47,240 Speaker 1: So I'm going to go out there to see Vivian 17 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 1: and kind of help, you know, clean out her house 18 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: and that type of thing because she's not going to 19 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 1: be able to move back home. Yeah, So that's what 20 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: I am doing this weekend. So when I'm gone next week, 21 00:00:56,640 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: I didn't die I'm not in the hospital. I'm not 22 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: getting surgery. I'm in Colorado. 23 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you're maybe in a hospital. You'res not 24 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 2: in yourself in the hospital. Good point, Bailey, you're their 25 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 2: location wise. 26 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 1: Thank God for you. So yeah, uh, let's get to 27 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 1: We get a ton of emails. Did Bailey invant schedule 28 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 1: their yearly physical yet? 29 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:21,839 Speaker 3: No, Jenny needs to show me how to make it happen. 30 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:23,959 Speaker 3: She so doing it that way. 31 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 2: No, I did, but then you were like, oh, it's 32 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:27,960 Speaker 2: so easy, I'll show you how. And then we got 33 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 2: busy doing work, so we didn't do it. 34 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:30,679 Speaker 3: Work. 35 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 4: God, yeah, I will help you. 36 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 2: We didn't do it, and I do need to do it. 37 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 2: I started making a list on my phone of things 38 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 2: to ask the doctor. 39 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 3: That are wrong with me. 40 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: So, what's wrong with you? 41 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, just you know, random stuff that I'm not going 42 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 3: to tell you what's fine. 43 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 1: And I think that's funny. It's like everybody has, like, 44 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: you know, something, like a chronic something. You know, Jenny's 45 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 1: got her belly, I've got my belly pain, I've got 46 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 1: my shoulder pain. Everybody's got their little something. And sometimes 47 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 1: you can look at somebody and never even know that 48 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: they're dealing with something. And like there was a girl 49 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 1: that worked here that she was you know, I don't 50 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 1: want to give too much, but she had like a 51 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: very weird kind of a chronic skin stiffening tissue stiffening disease, 52 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 1: and so I think she had to do therapy or 53 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:15,639 Speaker 1: meds or something because her tissues and muscles would get 54 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: so stiff that she would have trouble moving. But looking 55 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: at her, you would never know. 56 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,079 Speaker 3: Wow, you know, so you never know. 57 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:25,519 Speaker 2: What somebody is struggling with stiffening thing that I need 58 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 2: to ask about. So I started making a list of 59 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 2: all my stuff, Okay, but then I don't know if 60 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:32,519 Speaker 2: somebody told me, like, oh maybe it was Jenny. 61 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 3: You know, the more questions you ask, the more you 62 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 3: get charged. 63 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 5: Okay, this is no, I am being serious. So, like, 64 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 5: we have physicals that are covered with our insurance, were 65 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 5: required to get home. Yeah, but last year I went 66 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 5: in and I talked to her about a couple other things, 67 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 5: and like a physical is like for them to like 68 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 5: obviously point out anything that's wrong. While I had like 69 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 5: crazy lymph nodes in my neck and then that like 70 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 5: ended up meaning I had to go and get biopsies 71 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 5: done and all this stuff. Yeah, but because I already 72 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:02,679 Speaker 5: knew there was limp nos I told her there was 73 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:05,359 Speaker 5: limps knows she said there was limp nodes. I got 74 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 5: charged like an extra two hundred dollars for that appointment. 75 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 4: Because of that. 76 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 5: So I was a little shocked by that, because I 77 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 5: kind of I thought that like a physical would include 78 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 5: like if they found something wrong. Yeah, that now wouldn't 79 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 5: cost extra because it's part of the check. 80 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, but I don't know. 81 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: That lymph node feet to watch for that. Next one. 82 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:27,959 Speaker 1: From Hannah, I hope you guys are having a great week. 83 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: I remember when the podcast last year was talking about 84 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 1: babies up in first class and if that was really 85 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 1: socially acceptable or not. Well, I have one in first 86 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: class screaming their head off right now on a nine 87 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 1: hour flight to Hawaii. Jeez, hopefully I make it there. 88 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 1: At least the baby is cute. Also, Bailey and Jenny, 89 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: I need to know your thoughts on Love is Blind 90 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: this season. You guys are the best, all right. From Hannah, 91 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: I'll just you know, say I'm sorry that that sucks 92 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 1: because you paid extra to be in first class where 93 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 1: you can relax and have some extra comfort. And I 94 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 1: think that, of course it's legal or permissible to have 95 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 1: a baby in first class, but I think it's kind 96 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 1: of rude. Yeah, it's kind of like taking your baby 97 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 1: to a fine dining establishment your baby squawk in the 98 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 1: whole time, you know, I. 99 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 2: Mean, could you still hear the baby if they're like, 100 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:19,600 Speaker 2: you know, ten rows behind. 101 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 3: You though, Oh coach, Yeah, but I mean, yeah, that's true, all. 102 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 1: Right, love is blind quick. 103 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 2: It was not caught up to the reason. I'm on 104 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:33,360 Speaker 2: the wedding episodes right now, so I'm not. But they 105 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 2: haven't got married yet. I just know that I think 106 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 2: the villains are really bad. Chris is stupid and I 107 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 2: hate him. Alex is stupid and I hate him. Brie 108 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 2: is a school bully. As far as I'm concerned. The 109 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:46,600 Speaker 2: only ones that I think. 110 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:49,479 Speaker 5: What makes me upset about Brie is she needs male validation. 111 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 5: Like you can tell because she's allowing the piece of 112 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,480 Speaker 5: shit Chris to like say these ridiculous, awful things, and 113 00:04:55,680 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 5: just because she like wants male validation. It's like it honestly, 114 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:03,239 Speaker 5: like stems from probably her being self conscious about something, 115 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 5: is what it comes down to. 116 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, but she's still a bitch. 117 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a rough season, but like it's a good 118 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 2: season because there's so much drama in it. And of 119 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 2: course the only couple that I thought was gonna get 120 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:17,160 Speaker 2: married is the one that had no drama of course. 121 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 1: Okay, now I'm going to ask to wrap that up, 122 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 1: because yeah, good. I appreciate that, because we kind of 123 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:23,919 Speaker 1: have like an unwritten rule on the show, and we 124 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 1: try to avoid talking about TV shows at length because 125 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: if you don't watch it, it's just not interesting. But 126 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:32,720 Speaker 1: I appreciate that you guys, you know, watch it, and 127 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:38,040 Speaker 1: you know I know you understand. So thank you, Hannah, 128 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:42,040 Speaker 1: and let's go to the next one. Okay, not that one. 129 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: And that is also a show recommendation. So she's recommending 130 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 1: Best Medicine. It is. I don't know what the show is, 131 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:51,919 Speaker 1: but she said it is quirky and has a northern 132 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: exposure vibe and it takes place in Maine, not Alaska. 133 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:58,599 Speaker 1: So Best Medicine is a recommendation from Kim. Thank you. 134 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: Kim is Aaron. She says, I wanted to write in 135 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 1: and say thank you for making my mornings every day. 136 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 1: I've been having a shitty time at my shitty job 137 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: with my shitty manager, and you all managed to start 138 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: my day with a smile and a laugh. All right, 139 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: onto the shitty job. I'll spare the details and give 140 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:20,679 Speaker 1: you the cliff note summary. My manager sucks at managing. 141 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 1: I've tried to address issues with her to improve our communication. 142 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: I've always felt she retaliates by bringing up something to 143 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 1: do with my performance that was never a problem before. Recently, 144 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:35,159 Speaker 1: it's that I showed up late one day a few 145 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,359 Speaker 1: weeks ago. I was told the job was flexible and 146 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: most people to arrive around eight thirty. I'm usually the 147 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 1: second person in. About eight fifteen, she brought up the 148 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 1: one day that I didn't get there till eight forty five. 149 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 1: I was having a morning where everything went wrong even 150 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 1: though I stayed late to balance my hours. She let 151 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 1: me know the office hours are eight to four and 152 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 1: she expects me to be there at those times. Now, 153 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 1: no problem with that, But why is she just now 154 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: telling me and why is no one else in coting 155 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 1: her being held to the same standard if those are 156 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 1: the office hours? Of course, if I ask these questions, 157 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 1: I ask these questions. But her reason is that others 158 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 1: have a farther commute than me. I'm not sure how 159 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: that excuses them. I would agree, just because you live 160 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:16,559 Speaker 1: farther away, does it mean you get to come in later? 161 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 1: But that shit, I personally don't see how it matters 162 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 1: what time i'm here. My job is not customer facing 163 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: or dependent on working within office hours. Her resolution is 164 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 1: that I should communicate when I'm running behind, which is fair. 165 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't even realize the time until i'm pulling in, 166 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 1: so I don't think to communicate. I guess I don't 167 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 1: see what difference it makes if I'm here at eight 168 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 1: or eight thirty, if that's what time everybody else gets in. 169 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 1: I just think it's funny that she comes in later 170 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: than me most days and hardly ever communicates if she's 171 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 1: running later leaving early. Yeah, she's the boss, but she's 172 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 1: not setting a good example. That shit pisses me the 173 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 1: fuck off. I wish was the hardest part. I wish 174 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 1: that the hardest part of my job wasn't my manager. 175 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 1: Thanks for all you do, well, I'm glad you got 176 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 1: it off your chest a little bit that you know, 177 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 1: I don't know. It does sound like she's looking for 178 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: things to bitch about. 179 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 5: Didn't the original emails say that they go to her 180 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 5: for problems and then she turned it around on them. 181 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 1: That's what she said. 182 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 5: Manipulation at its finest. Yeah, you can't go to your 183 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 5: manager for like issues in the workplace without being scared 184 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 5: that all of a sudden it's going. 185 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 4: To be like, yeah, a review on you that sucks. 186 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 2: Well. 187 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: I think I think a boss really makes a or 188 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 1: breaks a job. Think about some of your favorite jobs. 189 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 1: When I worked in Columbus at a station called WNCI, 190 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 1: we had such a great boss. He was so supportive 191 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:39,199 Speaker 1: of the show. Every day after the show, what do 192 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 1: you guys need, What do you guys need? What do 193 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 1: you need? What do you need? What's going on? You 194 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 1: guys sound hot, you guys are great, you guys are 195 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 1: number one? What's going on? What's going on? And he 196 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 1: was just very intense and he was always so supportive. 197 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 1: And we loved that job because the boss was, you know, 198 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 1: not in your face, but always there to see what 199 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: can I do? What can I do? And then you 200 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:59,680 Speaker 1: think of a job where the boss is either absent 201 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:05,200 Speaker 1: or a dick, and that a lot of the time 202 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 1: they say, you don't quit your job, you quit your boss. 203 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 1: Have you ever heard that phrase before. 204 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I've heard it a lot of times. I 205 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 4: don't know. I think that you do quit your job 206 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 4: at an extent too. 207 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 5: I agree that, like, if you have a good boss, 208 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 5: you're like probably not quitting your job. But if you 209 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 5: have a shitty boss and a shitty job, then you're 210 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 5: probably quitting your job. 211 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 3: Yeah. 212 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 1: I've only had one shitty job, and that was when 213 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:31,559 Speaker 1: I worked at a hip hop station as the whitest 214 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 1: guy in Arizona before I got fired from there, and 215 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 1: it was just the boss. Then the boss was okay, 216 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 1: but the owner was just an awful human being, and 217 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 1: so there was a shitty job. Okay, next one, Hello 218 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 1: to my absolutely most favorite morning show ever. Wanted to 219 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:52,199 Speaker 1: write in about Dave complaining about having a toothache. Okay, 220 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: I know you just got back from vacation. You didn't 221 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 1: mention any other symptoms. It's gone, by the way. The 222 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 1: reason I askeduse I dealt with teeth pain is well 223 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 1: as sinus infections for many years, and one time I 224 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 1: went to the dentist thinking it was an infection in 225 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 1: my tooth. I didn't have one. It was a sinus infection. 226 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 1: What a lot of people don't know is when you 227 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:14,319 Speaker 1: have a sinus infection, it can cause teeth pain, oh, 228 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:17,199 Speaker 1: teeth pain, gum pain, and jaw pain. The nurse gave 229 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: me a cool tip is to figure out the difference 230 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: between the two. She had me stand up and bend over, 231 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:23,560 Speaker 1: making sure my head was all the way down as well. 232 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 1: If I did that with my tooth. If when I 233 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 1: did that, my tooth pain stopped, then it was a 234 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 1: sinus infection. If it persisted, then it was likely an 235 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 1: infection in the tooth. Whoa very interesting Thank you. 236 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 4: You stand up and. 237 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 1: Stand up, bend over, making your head as all the 238 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:45,200 Speaker 1: way down, like as far down as you can get it. Yeah, 239 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 1: and if your toothpain stops, then it's a sinus infection. 240 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 5: Wow, you just saw saved a bunch of people some 241 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 5: doctor appointments. 242 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:55,680 Speaker 4: I think, maybe yeah, dentists. 243 00:10:55,720 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 2: Instead of going into the dentist you're like, wow, I'm goodbye, Yeah. 244 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 3: I'm good. 245 00:11:00,960 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 4: It must just be my signs cleared up in a week. 246 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 1: Here's one that I don't recognize the name, so I 247 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 1: think it's a new writer. Hello, guys. First, I gotta 248 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 1: tell you I listened to the show every single day 249 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 1: via the iHeartRadio app immediately followed by the Minnesota Goodbye. 250 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:20,199 Speaker 1: I'm from Boston and I genuinely want to visit Minnesota 251 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 1: someday just because of you. Guys. I can't tell you 252 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:25,520 Speaker 1: how much I love that you would be the probably 253 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 1: the tenth or twelfth person that has come here to 254 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 1: visit Minnesota just because they listen. 255 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you should. It's a great state. 256 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:38,320 Speaker 1: Joe from Turlock, California came here last summer with his wife. 257 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 1: David from Detroit has come to visit here. 258 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 4: And Lisa, I want her to be shout out to 259 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:43,960 Speaker 4: his wife. 260 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 1: Lisa, of course, Hi Lisa. And then also there was 261 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 1: a girl I can't remember her name. She was from Atlanta. 262 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:51,200 Speaker 1: She came here, came to Star party. There was a 263 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 1: girl named oh Man. 264 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 4: Can people show up to the State Fair? 265 00:11:55,679 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 5: And I'm sorry that I can't remember everyone's names either, 266 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 5: but there's been so many people. I think we've probably 267 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 5: sold the State Fair more than anything. 268 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 4: To convince me and come to Minnesota. 269 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 3: You have to. 270 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:07,680 Speaker 2: And if you don't come to the State Fair, this 271 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:10,320 Speaker 2: person emailing in you can come to the kickoff to 272 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 2: the Fair, which is in May, which is like a 273 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 2: miniature fair, okay, but come to the big one. 274 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean come to the big one because 275 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 1: it is it is a glorious couple of weeks and 276 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:22,680 Speaker 1: KATIEWB and all the other radio stations are there, and 277 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 1: it's summer, and you don't want to visit Minnesota in 278 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 1: the winter for sure, So yeah, come on out. They'd 279 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 1: be pretty cool a lot of time, you know. Just 280 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: let us know, and we'd love to have you come 281 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 1: by and say hi at the radio station. 282 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 3: Yeah. 283 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:37,120 Speaker 1: She goes on to say, I'm curious about your thoughts 284 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 1: on something. My husband of ten years and I recently 285 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 1: separated about six months ago. During the separation, we've become 286 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 1: really good friends. Our relationship is better, and I miss 287 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 1: him to a certain extent. He had a lot of 288 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 1: financial problems gambling, not pain bills, etc. And our sex 289 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:54,920 Speaker 1: life was boring and pretty much non existent, and that 290 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:57,559 Speaker 1: is what caused us to separate. I've been on some 291 00:12:57,679 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 1: dating apps and have actually I'm not actually gone on 292 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 1: a date yet, but honestly, the dating apps, the choices 293 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 1: are just so bad. It's really kind of pushing me 294 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 1: to maybe reconcile with my husband. My question is it 295 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 1: possible to live a relatively happy life while sacrificing a 296 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 1: great sex life and possibly some financial issues that I 297 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 1: will have to pick up his slack on. Nobody's perfect. 298 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 1: Maybe I just need to accept as shortcomings and other aspects. 299 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 1: He's a great man and a great father. My first 300 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:29,199 Speaker 1: reaction is no. 301 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 4: That's your answer. 302 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 1: That's my answer is no, because you're going to miss 303 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 1: the sex life. It's going to be frustrating, You're going 304 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:40,520 Speaker 1: to be resentful. If he's bad with money and gambling, 305 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 1: that is also going to raise its head again. So 306 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 1: being lonely, I don't think. I don't think is a 307 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:50,480 Speaker 1: good reason to get back with somebody who you don't 308 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:53,720 Speaker 1: fully love. Right, what do you guys think? 309 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 3: I agree? 310 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 2: I think like to combat feeling lonely, like find things 311 00:13:58,720 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 2: that you can do for you instead of, you know, 312 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:04,199 Speaker 2: trying to get out there and date, Like the dating 313 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 2: scene is always going to be there, but like you 314 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 2: could the whole, you know, the whole quote unquote, like 315 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:10,719 Speaker 2: work on yourself, like find things that you like to 316 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 2: do or new things that you like to do. Like, yes, 317 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 2: I have a boyfriend now, but I was like fine 318 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 2: being single and because I like filled my life with 319 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 2: fun things to do, and I'd rather do that than 320 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 2: be with my ex, who was also someone who like 321 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 2: created a ton of resentment in me. 322 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 1: I know a lot of women that are my age 323 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 1: or around my age and they're single and they're fine 324 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 1: with it. They're like, I don't want to be married. 325 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 1: I don't want to be in a relationship. I enjoy 326 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 1: being me, going where I want to go, going to 327 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 1: bed where I want, stretching out on the whole bed, 328 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 1: getting the pet that I want, spending money on a 329 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 1: computer that you know, things like that. Yeah, Jenny, what 330 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 1: do you think? What would you tell her? 331 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 5: I would say I get where she's coming from. However, 332 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 5: there's big things in relationships that you shouldn't settle on, 333 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 5: and I think money and sex are two of them. 334 00:14:57,360 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 5: I feel like the biggest reason people get divor is 335 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 5: because money, sex, slash cheating, and slash alcoholism. Honestly, I 336 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 5: feel like those are like some of the top things. 337 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 5: So like if he can't change those, then yes, you're 338 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:14,360 Speaker 5: going to just continue to probably get back into where 339 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:16,280 Speaker 5: you're at now, which is like you're separated. 340 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 341 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 5: I just think like if it was because he engulfs too 342 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 5: much or something that's something that like you can probably 343 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 5: get over, but gambling and not getting the sex you want, 344 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:29,280 Speaker 5: that's like too huge of a part of a relationship. 345 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:29,880 Speaker 3: It really is. 346 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 1: I think intimacy is a very important thing. And it 347 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 1: doesn't have to be you know, like wall shattering, headboard 348 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 1: banging sex all the time. But but it's the intimacy 349 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 1: I think in the closeness and the feeling desired and 350 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 1: feeling it desirable, and yeah, I think there's there's something 351 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 1: very important about that. 352 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 2: Also, like you say that your friends like you're friendlier 353 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 2: now that you've been separated, and I don't know if 354 00:15:57,880 --> 00:16:00,640 Speaker 2: that would continue if you decide to get back together, 355 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 2: because I think it's with the pressure off of the 356 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 2: relationship is when you can be friendly with each other. 357 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 2: So if you continue having that pressure off of it, 358 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 2: then you can continue being friendly, if that makes sense. 359 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 3: Like that's the reason I think. 360 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 2: That you're happy because of the lack of pressure, because yeah, 361 00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 2: there's no pressure to be together, all right. 362 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:23,560 Speaker 1: Last one is really interesting. This is from Teresa on 363 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 1: the latest Minnesota Goodbye. You mentioned a couple of things 364 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 1: that made me think of a potential podcast topic. Everyone's 365 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 1: weird personal oddities. These things that are oddly specific to you, 366 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 1: that make people go, wait what, So let's zip through these. 367 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 1: Here are two of mine for context. Number one, I'm 368 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 1: allergic to mint toothpaste. This developed in my thirties, which 369 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:45,360 Speaker 1: feels unfair. I can I can eat mint, I can 370 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 1: chew mint gum, but any mint oral hygiene product absolutely not. 371 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:53,560 Speaker 1: My lips swell up and it's like crazy. Do you 372 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 1: know how many dental flab products or mint flavored? All 373 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 1: of them? 374 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 5: Yeah? 375 00:16:56,720 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 1: Lost, toothpaste, mouthwash, mint, mint mint. My best option is 376 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:04,280 Speaker 1: cinnamon toothpaste. It's fine, not amazing, but definitely better than 377 00:17:04,320 --> 00:17:09,639 Speaker 1: brushing with bubblegum children's toothpaste as a grown ass adult auditing. 378 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:12,760 Speaker 1: Number two epidurals. When I was in labor with my 379 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:15,399 Speaker 1: second son, I got my first epidural? Do you know 380 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 1: what that is? 381 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:16,400 Speaker 4: Yeah? 382 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:19,879 Speaker 1: Okay, I was just wondering Susan had one. I think 383 00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:22,480 Speaker 1: I immediately knew something was wrong because the look on 384 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 1: my husband's face and the intense pain. Long story short. 385 00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 1: Nineteen years later, a large section of my legs are 386 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:34,400 Speaker 1: still NUMBA if I scratch in those areas, I feel nothing. 387 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:38,160 Speaker 1: It's wild, but I'm thankful nothing worse happened. So now 388 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 1: I'm curious what little oddities do you guys have, or 389 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:46,400 Speaker 1: maybe listeners have the random things that are only weirdly yours. 390 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 1: Thanks for keeping me laughing every day. You guys are 391 00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:52,119 Speaker 1: the best. Thank you, Teresa. Off the top of my head, 392 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 1: I would say, I have a very long tongue. Look 393 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:56,440 Speaker 1: at the tongue. 394 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:59,360 Speaker 4: Here we go, ready, gross? 395 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:02,640 Speaker 3: That creeps me out. Gross, I ever want to see 396 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 3: it again. 397 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:05,639 Speaker 1: Very long tongue. Is it yellow? Yellow coating on it? 398 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a yellow coat. 399 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 5: I can't I'd never want any Look if your tongue 400 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:11,359 Speaker 5: plenty of times? 401 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:14,160 Speaker 4: Right, sorry that you missed your boy band face. 402 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 1: If I was twenty two years old and I had fluffy, 403 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:19,200 Speaker 1: beautiful hair, you think it was hot. If I stuck 404 00:18:19,240 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 1: my tongue. 405 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 3: Oh, that's creepy giving a lizard. 406 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:25,520 Speaker 1: Okay, so that's my physicalodity. I have a very very 407 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 1: long tongue. This is and the ladies really enjoy it, Okay, right, 408 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 1: dark lick dark lick o Jenny. 409 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:33,359 Speaker 4: All right. 410 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:35,439 Speaker 5: Mine is the fact that, like if I stub my 411 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:37,720 Speaker 5: toe or if I get really cold in my hands 412 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 5: or feet, it sends shooting pains to my boobs. Don't 413 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:43,480 Speaker 5: ask me why I said, yeah, it's been my whole life. 414 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 5: I don't get it, but that's mine. 415 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:47,679 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, you ever stub anything and you need, you know, 416 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 2: a massage or whatever. 417 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:52,600 Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't have audities. I think in general, 418 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:57,199 Speaker 3: I'm just an odd person. Does that count? I don't know. 419 00:18:57,240 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 3: I can't think of anything. 420 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:01,400 Speaker 2: Something Later I will oh, wake up in the middle 421 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:03,879 Speaker 2: of the night and go, that's right, I have a list. 422 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 1: Actually, yes, that's the way it always works, like, oh crap. 423 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:09,439 Speaker 1: Thank you, Teresa. 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