WEBVTT - What Does "Conceived" Mean?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a mojo in the morning show. Shannon was asked

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<v Speaker 1>a question about what a specific word meant by Smith

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<v Speaker 1>and her description or her answer made Wes think, why

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<v Speaker 1>did you go there?

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<v Speaker 2>What was the question?

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<v Speaker 3>So Smith and I were sitting at our kitchen table

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<v Speaker 3>yesterday and we have a TV right by our kitchen table.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's randomly the place where everybody in the house

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<v Speaker 3>loves to watch TV. It's just Smith and I, he's

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<v Speaker 3>watching YouTube.

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<v Speaker 2>Which, oh my God.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, he hears something on YouTube and something about the

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<v Speaker 3>word conceived was used. And so he stopped and he

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<v Speaker 3>looked at me and he goes, mom, what does that

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<v Speaker 3>word mean? What does conceive mean? And I very slowly

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<v Speaker 3>turned to him and I said, do you really not

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<v Speaker 3>know what it means? And I used it in a

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<v Speaker 3>definition of it means like making a baby, how a

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<v Speaker 3>baby is made. And he kind of gave me a

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<v Speaker 3>funky look and I said, do you know how babies

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<v Speaker 3>are made? And he was like, I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 3>And I said, do we want to have this conversation

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<v Speaker 3>right now? Because I can explain to you how babies

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<v Speaker 3>are made. And he starts screaming because then I think

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<v Speaker 3>he realizes like it's going to be one.

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<v Speaker 4>Of those discussions.

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<v Speaker 3>And I go, do you think you have any idea

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<v Speaker 3>how babies are made? And he was like, maybe, but

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to talk about this right now. So

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<v Speaker 3>I went upstairs when it was bedtime and I said

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<v Speaker 3>to Wes, dude, Smith asked me what the word conceived

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<v Speaker 3>meant because he heard it in some YouTube short.

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<v Speaker 4>And he was like, oh. it's the inception of an idea.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, well, dang, why weren't you there? Because

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<v Speaker 3>I said, it's babies.

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<v Speaker 2>It's how babies are made.

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<v Speaker 3>He goes, why did you make it sexual? And I said,

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<v Speaker 3>when I hear the word conceived, that's the first thing

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<v Speaker 3>I think of.

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<v Speaker 2>I never would use the word conceived for an idea.

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<v Speaker 4>Me neither. And he's like, you did yourself in with

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<v Speaker 4>that one.

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<v Speaker 5>If this was Family Feud and Steve Harvey had asked

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<v Speaker 5>that question, you would hit the buzzer and say conceived immediately.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. You are the father.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I didn't think, God, I didn't have to have

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<v Speaker 3>that conversation with him last night.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, should Shannon be the one to tell

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<v Speaker 1>Smith how babies are made? Or is that something that

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<v Speaker 1>Smith's dad should be doing? Because I often wonder.

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<v Speaker 4>I have no qualms about it.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I just, it caught me off guard.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, okay, now I need to have

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<v Speaker 3>a plan for him of how to talk to him

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<v Speaker 3>about it, which we're pretty open about everything anyway.

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<v Speaker 5>Has Josiah had the sex talk? I think his mom

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<v Speaker 5>told him some stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Really?

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<v Speaker 5>You haven't had a sex talk with him as a dad?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, like, he know, like, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 5>have that. I mean, I kind of like dance around

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<v Speaker 5>it a little bit. But I think his mom had

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<v Speaker 5>already had that conversation. I feel like in your case,

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<v Speaker 5>that's probably a good thing. I can only imagine what

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<v Speaker 5>your sex.

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<v Speaker 2>Talk would be. It would be straight to the point.

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<v Speaker 2>It would be straight to the point. It wouldn't be censored. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>How many sound effects would happen? Only sound effects.

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<v Speaker 5>But yeah, I don't think it's a, you know, if

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<v Speaker 5>it's a female child that the mom has to do it,

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<v Speaker 5>if it's a male child, the dad has to do it.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think it has to be sex. I think

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<v Speaker 5>who's ever can explain it the best, I guess.

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<v Speaker 2>The one that can do it without giggling. In my case.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you giggling when you did it? You didn't do it,

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<v Speaker 2>did you? Yes, I did. I did it.

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<v Speaker 1>Chelsea had already laid the groundwork down, but then I

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<v Speaker 1>had to go finish it off and I had to

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<v Speaker 1>go talk about it. But my thing was, I was

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<v Speaker 1>told literally by Chelsea, and it's no joke, don't make

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<v Speaker 1>it too sexual and don't giggle and make it bad

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<v Speaker 1>because we don't want them to have weird feelings. but

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<v Speaker 1>I did cause I have three boys. So I did

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<v Speaker 1>have the conversations. I never got the sex talk from

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<v Speaker 1>my dad. I got the sex talk from Jim Partham Moore.

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<v Speaker 1>Eighth grade St. Michael's Jim Partham Moore was a year

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<v Speaker 1>older than me. He gave us a pioneer football.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll never forget.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, he basically talked about the whole, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it was eighth grade. Maybe I was younger than that.

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<v Speaker 1>Cause eighth grade seems like it might be too late. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>Not that I was having sex when I was... No,

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<v Speaker 1>but I feel like kids talk about sex... Way earlier.

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<v Speaker 2>Earlier Yeah. But Jim was the only... I'm telling you,

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<v Speaker 2>for some reason.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll always.

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<v Speaker 2>What did he say?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I think he had a girlfriend or something like

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<v Speaker 1>that and was talking about her being naked and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Come here, Tommy.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me ask you this. Did your sex talk change?

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<v Speaker 2>Because you have three boys all different ages. Did you

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<v Speaker 2>get better?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I.

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<v Speaker 2>To be honest, I think Luke got the best of

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<v Speaker 2>the sex talk. Yeah, it got better.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I got a chance to see what his two

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<v Speaker 1>brothers were all about, you know? So I don't necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>know if I gave Jacob the sex talk. I think

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<v Speaker 1>Chelsea might have talked to him.

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<v Speaker 2>About sex.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I think inside I knew that Jacob was gay.

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<v Speaker 1>Still needs to have the talk.

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<v Speaker 2>Conceived. I'm conceiving an idea. I would have never. How

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<v Speaker 2>did he come up with that? He's so smart. He

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<v Speaker 2>is very smart.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, but I looked at him.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, really?

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<v Speaker 4>That is not what I would have said.

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<v Speaker 1>And by the way, I don't know what YouTubes your

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<v Speaker 1>kids watch and it's conceives on there, but I guarantee

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<v Speaker 1>you it wasn't that conceived.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think? Do you think it was what Wes

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<v Speaker 2>was talking about?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I really think it was what Wes. No, I

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<v Speaker 4>think it was.

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<v Speaker 5>Really?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh, what's my son's name?

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<v Speaker 3>Smith watches, like, I mean, he watches all sorts of stuff,

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<v Speaker 3>but it would like nothing that he would have been watching.

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<v Speaker 4>Cause I was sitting there. He watches like science ones.

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<v Speaker 2>And Oh, really? I think it was. I think it was.

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<v Speaker 4>And yeah, that's interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up, Vicki?

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, how's it going?

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<v Speaker 2>Good.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, Kaz, you need to like have the talk with him,

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<v Speaker 6>but you also need to make sure that you and

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<v Speaker 6>Kazmin are on the same page about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Find out like what.

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<v Speaker 6>She has said and decide at his age what you

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<v Speaker 6>both think he should know. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm telling you, though, what you what we think

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<v Speaker 3>they should know. multiply that they already know i'm blown away.

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<v Speaker 6>Way early because everybody every time you turned around in

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<v Speaker 6>my family there was like a cousin aunt whatever that

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<v Speaker 6>was pregnant so my child knew all of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Way early yeah i mean there i'll tell you what

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<v Speaker 1>these kids know about foreplay they know about post play

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<v Speaker 1>they know about all that yeah they know about everything

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<v Speaker 1>so It's pretty crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you had the post-play conversation? Yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, I feel like by the time that

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<v Speaker 1>they are in sixth grade, they know what they know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes. I remember we.

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<v Speaker 5>Was at Chrissy and Gerard's house, my cousin's house, and

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<v Speaker 5>they had some friends over, and their son was like

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<v Speaker 5>six or seven, something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Josiah was that age.

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<v Speaker 5>Long story short, the boy done put on porn.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, my God. Did he know what he was doing?

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<v Speaker 2>I guess he was.

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<v Speaker 5>I think he went straight to it on his PSP

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<v Speaker 5>or something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, my God. Oh, God.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like six or seven years old. They upstairs watch.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, this is great. So that was like the first.

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<v Speaker 2>When I was a kid, we didn't have porn like

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<v Speaker 2>they have nowadays.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Like we had to look through squiggly lines on

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<v Speaker 1>television for the Playboy channel.

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<v Speaker 2>It was crazy. It was a very sad time. We

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<v Speaker 2>had sad childhoods. No, we did not last long.