1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: And I wants to know something about guys and guys 2 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: listen up here right now. You want to know something 3 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: that guys you think like not me. 4 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 2: So I was out with some of my homegirls last 5 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 2: night and we were talking. A lot of us were single, 6 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:22,599 Speaker 2: some of us are in relationships, but I was talking 7 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:26,440 Speaker 2: about my situation about how I've been dating. But I 8 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 2: the problem that I'm personally running into is that the 9 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 2: guys that I like and take me out on one 10 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 2: or two dates, they then they're not interested in like 11 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 2: making it exclusive or like you know, they want to 12 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 2: keep dating around or stuff like that. So one of 13 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 2: my homegirls was like, no, your problem is that you're 14 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 2: too nice to these guys. I was like, what do 15 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 2: you mean. She's like, you have to be mean to 16 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:50,480 Speaker 2: a man. You have to like scare them a little 17 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 2: bit to get them to respect you and like take 18 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 2: you seriously. If you're just like super nice to them, like, yeah, 19 00:00:57,440 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 2: they're going to keep running around talking to other girls. 20 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 2: But if you like instill some fear into them, they'll 21 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 2: take you seriously. So she was saying that guys like 22 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:09,199 Speaker 2: when girls are mean to them, essentially. 23 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 3: Mean or playing hard to get. 24 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 4: She was saying mean, but I could see what mean girls. 25 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:15,839 Speaker 4: Is she single? 26 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 5: No, she's in a relationship. 27 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:19,960 Speaker 6: And that's how she got her guy was by being 28 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 6: mean to him because I would ask her she given 29 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 6: out mean advice. 30 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 2: But if she I don't think like she doesn't mean 31 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 2: like mean mean, but like you have to be like 32 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:31,400 Speaker 2: stern with that. 33 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 1: I think that there is a level of of it 34 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 1: where I could see where guys would find that to 35 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 1: be hot if a girl is like that, Yeah, because 36 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: you talk about playing hard to get and stuff like that, 37 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 1: that is obviously something that also guys you know, have 38 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: fallen for us. But Kevin, I think I think there 39 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: are guys. Are there any guys that are listening right 40 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 1: now that are into mean girls? You want to you 41 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 1: want a girl to be mean to you because I 42 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 1: think you're thinking yourself, this is a challenge. Guys want challenges. 43 00:01:57,080 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 6: There's a difference between her having some spice, are having 44 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 6: a little bit of fire slash aggression, yeah, and mean 45 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 6: is a completely different. 46 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I like decisiveness, confidence. Are we loving this 47 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 3: all into that? 48 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 5: Mean? 49 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 4: Well, but there's a level of mean that could be 50 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 4: considered mean. I don't think she. 51 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 2: Meant like really mean but like stern and like, I 52 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 2: don't know. 53 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 4: You don't want to push over though, Like that's the thing. 54 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 4: What do you mean by that? 55 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: You don't want a girl that's a pushover, Like you 56 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: don't want a girl that you feel like you can 57 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 1: take advantage of. There are some guys that do that 58 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 1: and they like they like that thing, but that's not 59 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:33,279 Speaker 1: going to be a long term relationship. 60 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 2: That's like I feel like I'm like people think they 61 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:38,399 Speaker 2: can take advantage of me, and I don't like that. 62 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 1: So do you think she is telling you this because 63 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 1: she thinks that you need to be you need to 64 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: get meaner. 65 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I do think that's what. 66 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 1: I do think that there is Like, first off, I 67 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 1: think you are a very kind, wonderful person. I think 68 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 1: that there probably is a way for you. And I 69 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:57,800 Speaker 1: don't know the guys that you hang out with, because 70 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: I honestly have never really I just hear the stories 71 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: that you tell on the radio. But I think that 72 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 1: there's a level of like that guy that kept coming, 73 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 1: the guy that lived right by you that kept. 74 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 4: Coming to your place and stuff like that, Like there's 75 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 4: a level of cut the cut. 76 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 3: That guy off, or say, I feel like you you 77 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 3: are a very kind person, but I also feel like 78 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 3: you're a no bs person. You are very quick to 79 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 3: say this is not just like after. 80 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 2: Two or three dates when I'm like okay, so like 81 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:30,679 Speaker 2: what's next? Like they're like, WHOA, I don't know. I 82 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 2: think that she's she is to a certain extent, but 83 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 2: she also allows some of these guys to do. 84 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 4: Yeah. 85 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 6: I think the situation where you mentioned a guy across 86 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 6: the street, I think that was more so yeah, had history, 87 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 6: so there's like there's more than just like when I 88 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 6: heard his mean stuff. Is the guy that's trying to 89 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 6: approach you for the first time, first second time? Right, 90 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 6: Like you're saying to be mean to those guys. I'd 91 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 6: love to see what her meannesses like, not you, but 92 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 6: your friend. I want to see what your friend does, Like, 93 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 6: I want to see if your friend just has attitude. 94 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 4: Sometimes foundering guys like girls with attitude. But is that 95 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 4: how she got her man? 96 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 6: If your friend did not get her man by being mean, 97 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 6: then why. 98 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 4: Is she giving you advice to be mean? She's probably 99 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 4: telling her she's tougher. 100 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,039 Speaker 3: Being mean is not your personality, So what are you 101 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 3: going to do? Be mean for two weeks until you 102 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 3: cook them and then just beave you. 103 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:27,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, what's up Steve the morning? 104 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 7: How's everyone doing? 105 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 4: But Steve good? Steve, don't wait wait Anna be mean? Yeah, 106 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 4: I can't. 107 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 1: Call him a days all wrong? 108 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 7: Don't listen to her. 109 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 5: I don't know that. 110 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 7: But man, like I'm thirty, all right. I dated a 111 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 7: girl a couple of years ago. We're back together now, 112 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:53,599 Speaker 7: we're having a kid. She's she's the nicest woman ever. 113 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:54,280 Speaker 5: Right. 114 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 7: I work hard, I come home, shit dinners, cook. She's 115 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 7: wonderful to me. Anything I need to hear, she does 116 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 7: for me. We don't I want a woman who is 117 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 7: nice to me. I don't want a woman who Why 118 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 7: do I want to be with someone who's. 119 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 4: Wi Here's my question? 120 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:14,159 Speaker 2: Do you think can be too quick to be nice? 121 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 2: Because I do think that, Like, not that I would 122 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 2: show up like Kev's girl with something, but like I 123 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 2: feel like I'm very much like I will cater to 124 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 2: the guy like immediately when I start talking to them, 125 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 2: like I do, I think, But. 126 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 8: You get there's a level of there's a level of 127 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 8: not too much, but a level of if you do 128 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 8: it too much, he'll take advantage of you for. 129 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 4: That, which is what I think have to be the 130 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:44,279 Speaker 4: right person. Well, I think you have to. 131 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:48,280 Speaker 6: Be yourself, be nice, but then limit the amount of 132 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 6: access to who you truly are to people. If you 133 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 6: are the gift giving type, allow people to have to 134 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 6: earn that level of experience of Anna. Everyone can get 135 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 6: nice Anna, but all the things that with Anna, nobody 136 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 6: should be able to get that immeting. 137 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:05,160 Speaker 4: That is for free advice. I have to tell you. 138 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 1: Though, with the with the girls saying I think that 139 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:09,719 Speaker 1: they're her friend's basically telling you it means aout the 140 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:12,159 Speaker 1: bad word. She's saying that you need some edge. I 141 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 1: think that there's edge to you, or that could be 142 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 1: to you like Chelsea has edge, like you know what 143 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 1: I mean, and people end up like good personality. 144 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. 145 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 3: If Anna meets somebody and she feels like she has 146 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:28,280 Speaker 3: to change part of her personality to jivee with that person, 147 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:28,920 Speaker 3: then guess what. 148 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:30,279 Speaker 4: That's not your person. 149 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 1: I do think though, that I do think there's some 150 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 1: people that get taken advantage of just because they're too nice. 151 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 4: What's going on, Nick? 152 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 9: Hey? 153 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 4: How you going good? Buddy? 154 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 10: So I've been with my wife for almost six years, 155 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:49,839 Speaker 10: and I would say harsh, not mean, by the. 156 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 4: Way, is she okay with you? 157 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 1: Is she okay with you calling up going harsh's standing 158 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 1: over him? 159 00:06:58,680 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 7: I think she would respect it. 160 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:02,719 Speaker 10: She helps me, like recenter myself and keep me grounded 161 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 10: when I'm being a little bit of like an an 162 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 10: a hole, so to speak. 163 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 7: So she can reset. 164 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 10: Myself to be a better person. So I need that 165 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 10: in my life. But I wouldn't say being mean, eating, 166 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 10: being harsh, just being brute to the honest. 167 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 4: Do you think harsh is also bad too? Like? How 168 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 4: about edge? 169 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 1: I think edge is the thing you want her to 170 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: have a little bit in honesty, you know. 171 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:28,239 Speaker 10: I guess I'm too old to hear edge? 172 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 4: Yeah? How old are you? You're young man? Thirty seven? 173 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 10: Now the term edge? 174 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 4: Yeah? 175 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 1: Do you think that you're going to play this podcast 176 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 1: for your wife today and say, hey, I was on 177 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 1: the radio and I called you harsh. 178 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 10: I tell her every time I call in, So, okay, 179 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 10: we want to partner. 180 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 6: We don't want to adversary. When I hear like mean 181 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 6: and even harsh, Trevor, what's up? 182 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 7: What's going on? 183 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 2: Guys? 184 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 4: How are you doing good? Trevor? And it's going to 185 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 4: be mean to you too? 186 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 1: Go ahead be mean, though, Yeah, I'm. 187 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 2: Not even gonna waste my time. 188 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 9: At that point. 189 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 4: You might say it again, Trevor. 190 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 8: I said, I totally disagree with your friends. 191 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 9: I'm not going to waste my time at that point. 192 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 5: You. 193 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 7: I mean if I'm if I'm looking for someone to 194 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 7: have a good time, I'm not looking for. 195 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 4: Them to be mean. 196 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 5: You know what I mean? 197 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 4: So tell me. Are you in a relationship right now? 198 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm in a relationship and with her for three years. 199 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:38,440 Speaker 9: When we met, she definitely wasn't mean. 200 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 1: She was the coolest, sweetest person, and yeah, it's it's 201 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:43,079 Speaker 1: been great ever since. 202 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 4: Can she get mean? 203 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 9: She can, she could be mean. 204 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, but at this point, I mean, I'm I probably. 205 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:57,960 Speaker 4: Deserve me like that. What's up for Shad? Good morning? 206 00:08:58,000 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 9: How are you guys doing? 207 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 4: Good morning? Like a nice guy that mean girls. 208 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 9: No, I'm a fantastic guy. I'm married to the most 209 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:10,559 Speaker 9: beautiful woman, most amazing woman ever. Her name is Penny 210 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:11,199 Speaker 9: with Azetros. 211 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 4: I just want to give a shout out. 212 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 9: She works at Henry for She's a nurse. She's amazing. 213 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 9: So my comment to you is a man is supposed 214 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 9: to compliment your life, not complicated. These men, all all 215 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 9: ages these days are just like you know, want instant 216 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 9: gratification with social media and this and that. If a 217 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:33,560 Speaker 9: man is not complimenting you, if he doesn't want to 218 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 9: stick around, get rid of him, you know what I mean? 219 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 4: I do. 220 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 1: I agree with you on that your relationships should compliment 221 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:40,959 Speaker 1: each other. 222 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 4: They should make you better, you know what I mean? 223 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 4: Like that complication is not something you want. 224 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 9: Statistically speaking, within six months you see all the red 225 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 9: flags and whether you want to stick with it or 226 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 9: you don't, you know, there's no point in dating for 227 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 9: three monster, six monsters, six years, getting engaged, getting engaged 228 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 9: for a few years. My wife and I we got 229 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:09,560 Speaker 9: married nine months and five days from our first date, 230 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 9: and it's been the most amazing thing that's ever happened 231 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 9: to me. 232 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 4: That's awesome. 233 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:22,559 Speaker 11: B Yeah, her name, yes, Penna. 234 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 9: Actually when we first met, we met online. We talked 235 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 9: for about two weeks until we met. I couldn't pronounce 236 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:35,560 Speaker 9: her name, called her babe, but her name, her name 237 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 9: is spelled p A n A g I O t 238 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:40,960 Speaker 9: A and it's pronounced payota. 239 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's wild. Could you imagine your guy 240 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:49,719 Speaker 1: can't pronounce your name? Hey you what's going on? Mackenzie? 241 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:53,200 Speaker 4: How you doing good? 242 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 5: I was actually my husband's correction. 243 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 8: Wait in it? 244 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:02,920 Speaker 3: How did that relationship blossom? 245 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 2: Well? 246 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 11: I had actually quit, and then about a month after 247 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:08,080 Speaker 11: I quit. 248 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:09,679 Speaker 5: I messaged him because I wanted to find. 249 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:11,319 Speaker 11: Out what kind of dirt was being said about me. 250 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:14,319 Speaker 5: And then it just bloomed into a relationship. 251 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 4: Are you lying that you? Guys? 252 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 6: After rounded nothing happened while you were still at work 253 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 6: and he was locked down. 254 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 4: I don't buy it. 255 00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 5: Nothing. 256 00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:27,479 Speaker 4: Did he ever flirt with you? 257 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:28,199 Speaker 5: No? 258 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,680 Speaker 11: No, he was actually terrified that if he did try 259 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:31,440 Speaker 11: to flirt with me. 260 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 5: I would put him in lockdown. 261 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:33,439 Speaker 3: What was he in for? 262 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 1: Uh? 263 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 5: Fell in on possessional weapons? 264 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 4: Was this the first inmate you ever messaged? 265 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 5: Yes? 266 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 4: And why him? 267 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 11: He just I just wanted to I knew we had 268 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 11: like that kind of relationship where he would tell me 269 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 11: anything if I asked him. 270 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 5: So the only readerson why I had messaged him was 271 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 5: to find out what was being said about me, and 272 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 5: then it just that's weird? 273 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:59,079 Speaker 1: Is he? How are you allowed to message? How are 274 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: you as a guard allowed to message inmates? 275 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 11: I wasn't out guard anymore, but all you got. 276 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 5: To do is account and you can make it under 277 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 5: her face. 278 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 1: That's wild. Can I be honest with you, I've seen 279 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 1: this porn before. 280 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 4: Thank you for the call. I appreciate it. Hold on, Timm, 281 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 4: is on with us right now? Tim, what's up? 282 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 7: T Yeah, I mean like with how are you guys 283 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:27,560 Speaker 7: saying like harsh and like mean? 284 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 4: I mean I used to call my wife Medusa, you know, 285 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 4: like my god. 286 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,520 Speaker 8: You know, because anytime I feel like the mouth opens 287 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:38,440 Speaker 8: or I stared or I might as well just freeze 288 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 8: because whatever's want to. 289 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 7: Come out and can be good. 290 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:47,400 Speaker 4: But now she's the love of your life. Look at that. 291 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean, we're we're both real. I mean I 292 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 9: tell her all the time, like, hey, you need to 293 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:54,839 Speaker 9: go get those split ends worked out, or she will 294 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:57,240 Speaker 9: say to me, I mean, look at your face, it's 295 00:12:57,280 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 9: not any better than mine. 296 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:01,439 Speaker 5: I like it? 297 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 4: Do you guys? 298 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 2: Also? 299 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 4: You guys also pull each other's hair too, and bite 300 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 4: and scratch. 301 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:09,800 Speaker 7: Uh No, we leave that to my daughter. 302 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:13,680 Speaker 9: She's in the stage of us slapping people right now. 303 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 4: It's just pretty good at it. So that's awesome. I 304 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:18,599 Speaker 4: love it. Tim, Thanks buddy, I appreciate you. 305 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:18,840 Speaker 11: Man. 306 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 4: Take care of yourself take interesting. 307 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 1: I would love sometimes, like when we do these topics, 308 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 1: it would be great to like eventually meet your friend 309 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 1: to see how mean she really is. Does she Does 310 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:34,080 Speaker 1: she ever wear like high heels and step on her 311 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 1: guys too, like dominatrix? I think, so there's a little 312 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 1: dominatrix in her night? Why she really the skin? I 313 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:48,559 Speaker 1: want to be mean to my man. I had a 314 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:50,480 Speaker 1: buddy of mine at one time said he dated a 315 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 1: girl that was not a dominatrix, but she was like 316 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:55,839 Speaker 1: crazy and one time they were having sex and she 317 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:58,599 Speaker 1: slapped him in the middle of the sex. He was 318 00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:01,320 Speaker 1: like wanting to call the cops for domestic violence incident. 319 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:02,679 Speaker 1: He was like, crazy, you like that. 320 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:03,319 Speaker 4: I'm with that. 321 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 6: Oh my, just don't slap me hard, just enough to like, 322 00:14:06,360 --> 00:14:09,559 Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying. Really, that's hold on, you're 323 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:11,199 Speaker 6: not the no sir,