1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:03,400 Speaker 1: It's the second date update on Mojo in the morning. 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 2: All right, why are you not getting a call back? 3 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 2: We're going to find out. Martin's getting ghosted and wants 4 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:10,959 Speaker 2: to know what's going on. And one of the things 5 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,159 Speaker 2: that you put in your submission to us when you 6 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 2: text date to nine five five zero zero and we 7 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:20,280 Speaker 2: asked you for more info, you said that you didn't 8 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:20,920 Speaker 2: just go on a date. 9 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: You guys actually had sex. 10 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. 11 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a great night all around. 12 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 2: So you're not getting a call back. We're going to 13 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 2: find out what's going on, Martin. Martin, you date a 14 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 2: lot or is this somebody that you just are hoping 15 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 2: for a relationship with? 16 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: Date a fair amount, but you know this was this 17 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: felt like something special. 18 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 2: Okay, Olivia is on the phone with us right now, Martin, 19 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 2: will you say hello to Olivia? 20 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 1: Hi Olivia, Hello, Hi Olivia. How you doing? This's Mojo? Yeah, 21 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 1: I'm good Martin. 22 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 2: Uh, when's the when's the last time Martin you actually 23 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 2: talked to Olivia? 24 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 1: How long has it been? Has it been? Has it 25 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:12,320 Speaker 1: been more than a month? About probably like a month 26 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:14,319 Speaker 1: in like a couple of weeks or something like that. 27 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:20,040 Speaker 2: It's been a while. Olivia, do I need to refresh 28 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 2: you on who Martin is? Or you you know who 29 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 2: Martin is and you're just taken back by the fact 30 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 2: that he's checking in on you. 31 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know who Martin is. 32 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: Okay, how did you forget that voice? Everything good in 33 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 1: your life? 34 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 2: Or you just been busy and that's the reason why 35 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 2: you haven't checked in with him? 36 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 4: Oh? 37 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 3: I mean he he kept calling me the wrong name 38 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 3: the whole date. No, just while we were having sex. 39 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 1: What was he calling you? 40 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 3: He kept being like Elena, Elena? 41 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: Who's who is Elena? Like? 42 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 3: Who's Like? Who is Elena? 43 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 5: Like that's a good. 44 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 1: Question, Martin, who's Elena? Do you know in Elena? No, 45 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. 46 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 2: I don't know an Elena. We were both a little drunk, 47 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 2: and I'm really sorry about that. 48 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: Is Olivia too close to Elena? Maybe that was the thing? 49 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 2: Or well, let me ask Olivia this, Olivia, this only 50 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 2: happened when you guys were having sex with each other, 51 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 2: When you guys were baking cookies and what. 52 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: Was going on? 53 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 2: He had to say, Elena. Why did you not say 54 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 2: to him, no, it's Olivia. Why did you not correct him? 55 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: You can't do that. 56 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 3: I just felt like so awkward, you know, like I 57 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 3: was just like, he's drunk, Like, why am I going 58 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 3: to say anything? 59 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:51,519 Speaker 2: Okay, well, then if you understood that he was drunk, 60 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 2: then you understand that the poor guy, you know, it 61 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 2: probably wasn't done on purpose. 62 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: I just felt like weird about it, Martin. Are you 63 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 1: a scream out your name kind of a guy when 64 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 1: you're having sex? Not usually? Must you know, trying to 65 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 1: be a little bit more adventurous. 66 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 2: And I have to tell you learn that I'm trying 67 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 2: to recall my sexual experiences and I think I'm not 68 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:24,920 Speaker 2: a say the name thing like I don't and to me, 69 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 2: that seems more like very porny, like to say the name? 70 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 1: Do you say the name? 71 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:33,680 Speaker 4: I might have said a name I'm trying to think, 72 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 4: like if something was going on, it was like it 73 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 4: was like that was the last thing I say. 74 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: It might have been like oh spit. 75 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 76 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 1: I mean, do you like you do women like their 77 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: names being said? 78 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 5: Like I don't think what my name, but I know 79 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 5: I say his name every once in a while. 80 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 1: You do. 81 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, I've had a girl say the wrong name to 82 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,119 Speaker 4: me though, But it's never a situation where you would 83 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 4: stop in correct, Like, no, you proceed. 84 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 1: And you just as after especially if like if I'm 85 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 1: in a relate No, I ain't even ask about it afterwards. 86 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 4: I think it depends on do you remember if it 87 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 4: was somebody that it was her ex boyfriend at the time, 88 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 4: or it might have still been her boyfriend. I was 89 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 4: young and I didn't care if she was cheating or 90 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 4: whatever the case was. You're just looking to get it. Yeah, 91 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 4: But that's the thing, though, I think it depends on 92 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 4: the context of the relationship. If you're in a relationship 93 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 4: with someone and you hear another names for the fall, Yeah, 94 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 4: if you just smashing somebody whatever, bro, especially if y'all drunk, 95 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 4: y'all hook up on a tender date or whatever the 96 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:29,599 Speaker 4: case is, Like, it's whatever. 97 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 2: That point eight four four Mojoe Live. What do you 98 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 2: think would you be offended, Brianna? Would you be offended 99 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 2: if you got called the wrong name while you were 100 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 2: having sex with a dude? 101 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 6: Okay, so I would say yes, But no, because I've 102 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 6: actually done this before. I started dating a new guy 103 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 6: and we were baking cookies and I called him by 104 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 6: my ex boyfriend's name in the middle of doing it. 105 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 1: Oh boy, and so it not to happen. 106 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 6: It's it was a complete accident. It was a mortifying experience. 107 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 6: I apologize. We stay together obviously for a couple of 108 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 6: years after that, but it only happened to me one time. 109 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 6: It was an accident. I would say, if you did 110 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:11,159 Speaker 6: enjoy the date, maybe give him another chance, because he 111 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 6: was a little intoxicated and probably didn't mean to do it. 112 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 6: But if you did not enjoy the date, then definitely 113 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 6: don't waste your time. 114 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 5: Martin, did you did you know her name during the date? 115 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 5: And I'm asking this for a reason, or did you 116 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 5: kind of forget her name? 117 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 2: So I knew her name and we went out, had 118 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:31,840 Speaker 2: drinks with the rest of it was. 119 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:32,600 Speaker 1: It was alcohol. 120 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 5: I had a friend who was set up on a date, 121 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:37,359 Speaker 5: so it wasn't an app thing where she could go 122 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:39,720 Speaker 5: back and check. And he legitimately at the end of 123 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 5: the date said, I forget what was your name? 124 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: Again? 125 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 5: So that's why I asked, like, did it just slip 126 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 5: your mind what her name was? 127 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 1: I believe it. 128 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 2: That would be, by the way, really embarrassing TAX ask 129 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 2: at the end of the date. 130 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: Sometimes you forget. 131 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 4: I forget people's names five seconds after day saying I'm 132 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 4: gonna be hones. I know I do to anybody. 133 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, what's going on? It's problem? What's up John? How 134 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 1: you doing? How are you doing? What's happening? 135 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 6: Oh? 136 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 1: Well, first of all, I was gonna say, she must 137 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 1: have been putting it on him if he was calling 138 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 1: her the wrong name, right, I mean, that's that's a compliment. Yeah, 139 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 1: I mean she was and he was drunk. They both 140 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 1: were drunk. I mean, we're we're growing adults. You got 141 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 1: to talk about that and maybe express what the hell 142 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:23,839 Speaker 1: was going on, and you know they could have got 143 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 1: through that. But I've been calling I've been called the 144 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 1: wrong name. 145 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:29,720 Speaker 6: I mean, just on like a one nice stand type 146 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 6: thing years ago. 147 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 5: And how did you handle it? 148 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 1: I mean we we stopped and talked about it. 149 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 6: I'm not. 150 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:39,040 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not. I mean I'm sitting there, we're 151 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 1: doing the thing, and you're gonna call me the wrong name? 152 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 1: Who's this? 153 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 4: But if if it's just a one night stand, why 154 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:45,840 Speaker 4: does it matter who it is? 155 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 1: Oh, it don't matter. 156 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 6: I went harder. 157 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 4: I just I know, you know you used to saying 158 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:56,720 Speaker 4: this name, and I'm just. 159 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:01,039 Speaker 1: Remember I'm thirty seven. This is the fifteen years ago. 160 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 1: You want what you want. I don't want to know 161 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: the brain. It was better for her, but to me, 162 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 1: I'm hitting it harder. 163 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 2: Now now, Hey John, John, can I tell you something 164 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 2: That's where at the end of the date Martin, next 165 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 2: time you're out with a girl, and I don't know 166 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 2: if Olivia is going to give you another chance after 167 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 2: you do what John just said, hitting it hard, you 168 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 2: give her a business card. 169 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 1: You know where to find. 170 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 3: The right four the ruses the Five Lives to tell 171 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 3: your mom, POWs Gams second date update, and Camp 172 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 6: Talking about something in appropriate his emotion in the morning