Speaker 1: All right, it is the mojo in the morning show.
Speaker 1: So this weekend I pretty much did nothing but watch
Speaker 1: lots of television. I was sitting in front of my
Speaker 1: TV for a long period of time watching lots of basketball.
Speaker 1: I had like so many games on that it was ridiculous.
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but I think that
Speaker 1: the first weekend of the NCAA, like March Madness Tournament,
Speaker 1: is every guy's dream that you can turn on four networks,
Speaker 1: I think three or four networks and you can pretty
Speaker 1: much watch television. Like the only thing I needed to
Speaker 1: figure out was what was true TV. Like, I had
Speaker 1: to like find out like where the hell it was
Speaker 1: on my television or streaming service, because I was using
Speaker 1: my streaming service on this one. And then I started
Speaker 1: realizing I really wasn't spending any time with Chelsea. And
Speaker 1: I don't know if you feel like this ever, Shannon.
Speaker 1: When you know Wes is involved in something that is
Speaker 1: kind of like guyy.
Speaker 2: You kind of feel like either one of two things.
Speaker 1: In the beginning, you feel like us is great, He's
Speaker 1: not going to bother me for a while, and then
Speaker 1: after a while you're like, well what about me?
Speaker 2: And you start feeling kind of lonely, right, This is
Speaker 2: very accurate.
Speaker 1: So I started then thinking I better get more involved
Speaker 1: with Chelsea or it's going to be bad, because you
Speaker 1: know she's going to pretty much say that all I
Speaker 1: did was watch my television over the weekend, So now
Speaker 1: I got to watch her television. So I went into
Speaker 1: the other room and she was binge watching Love Is Blind?
Speaker 1: Have you guys watched that show at all? I'm familiar
Speaker 1: with it, but I haven't watched an episode, so I
Speaker 1: have never watched it, but I've heard of it, and
Speaker 1: I didn't even know what it was about, Like, I
Speaker 1: had no clue that these people don't see each other
Speaker 1: at all, and then they pretty much start a relationship
Speaker 1: in two separate rooms by just talking through the wall.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're in the pods. You watched it, Chin, Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm not watching. I haven't watched the most recent season.
Speaker 1: But yeah, so how many seasons have there been at
Speaker 1: this show? Because now I'm trying to figure out how
Speaker 1: many seasons?
Speaker 2: There's like thirteen?
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, there's that many.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was going to say like five.
Speaker 2: Me too from Detroit won the first one though.
Speaker 5: Lauren the Success Stories, Yeah.
Speaker 1: Has it been in Detroit, like Detroit was one of
Speaker 1: their cities, or she was just a she might have
Speaker 1: moved she's from Detroit.
Speaker 5: The last one was the closest one. It was in Ohio.
Speaker 5: I think.
Speaker 1: By the way, when they say you say win, uh,
Speaker 1: do you really win? Don't you just get matched up
Speaker 1: and you get a wedding? Yeah, that's okay, that's the prize. Okay,
Speaker 1: But I mean anybody can win the damn thing, right,
Speaker 1: I mean pretty much, you just got to be selected.
Speaker 1: So this is something that I thought was interesting. I
Speaker 1: think it could make an interesting topic. What's off limits
Speaker 1: when you're dating somebody in the show you're not supposed
Speaker 1: to or at least Chelsea had told me this. Like
Speaker 1: the person one of the people go said something, you know,
Speaker 1: oh you're Asian, And Chelsea goes, oh, you're not supposed
Speaker 1: to say.
Speaker 2: That, you know.
Speaker 1: And I said to like, what do you mean you're
Speaker 1: not supposed to say that? She goes, well, you're not
Speaker 1: supposed to when you're in your pods, ask the question
Speaker 1: of like what's your race or you know, you know what,
Speaker 1: tell me a little bit more about yourself, like where
Speaker 1: you're from, your background, so to speak. And I said
Speaker 1: to her, I go, why would that be an awf
Speaker 1: limits thing? I think that there are so many people
Speaker 1: that I know that want to marry within either their
Speaker 1: race or religion or whatever it might be. Like, there's
Speaker 1: certain people that are like, hey, you know, like in
Speaker 1: Lydia and Bianca and stuff, they're Kaldean. They they kind
Speaker 1: of tend to want to marry somebody who's Caldean, right, girls,
Speaker 1: I mean, I yes, it's very true.
Speaker 5: They're not show me as much anymore, but I'll still
Speaker 5: take it from.
Speaker 2: You though you got ruined by the Kaldian guys.
Speaker 3: No, I just feel like they're too much for me now.
Speaker 5: I kind of like the white boys you do.
Speaker 1: Oh so, if you were in the room in one
Speaker 1: of those pods and you're up against somebody, would you say,
Speaker 1: are you a white boy?
Speaker 5: Maybe?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 6: Purpose of this show is to not understand what they
Speaker 6: look like, and sometimes if you ask questions around that,
Speaker 6: you can deduce is that the.
Speaker 1: Purpose the purpose of what the purpose of the show
Speaker 1: is to judge it based on their their voice.
Speaker 6: Everything, personality, literally everything, accepting who they are, who they are,
Speaker 6: not what they are, but isn't who the isn't who
Speaker 6: they are, like what absolutely your genetic makeup can have
Speaker 6: a huge impact on your experiences, your perspective, how you
Speaker 6: view the world. You can talk about your cultural practices,
Speaker 6: though you could say I love going to church, I
Speaker 6: love doing this.
Speaker 5: You just aren't what.
Speaker 2: Kind of church do you go to? Like do you
Speaker 2: ask that question?
Speaker 5: I mean you probably could, like do.
Speaker 1: They stand up on they put their hands in the
Speaker 1: air and wave them like they just don't care.
Speaker 2: It's not like a game at this point.
Speaker 3: It's like, are others show that everybody's talking about right now?
Speaker 3: And I want to start watching? It's on Netflix, Age
Speaker 3: of Attraction And you're not allowed to ask how old
Speaker 3: they are?
Speaker 2: Is that right?
Speaker 4: Aw, you're not allowed to ask how old they are?
Speaker 2: Is that so real?
Speaker 4: So you're face to face, but.
Speaker 3: Apparently it's like mind blowing when you actually find.
Speaker 6: Out, they are shocked, Like there was this guy that
Speaker 6: just got matched up with this girl.
Speaker 5: She was twenty two and I want to say he
Speaker 5: was sixty?
Speaker 2: Yeah that on Twitter?
Speaker 1: Well he look, you could say that guy home to
Speaker 1: your dad and what he can tell he was sixty?
Speaker 2: You can't tell you.
Speaker 6: Maybe he was like high forty fifties. But like Wow,
Speaker 6: blacktone crack.
Speaker 2: That's true unless you're smoky. So what'd you saying?
Speaker 1: No, exzema, exema exitment. You know, Kevin, I dated a
Speaker 1: girl from the south side of town. Her name was Ezema.
Speaker 2: It was.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So so here's my question. What are things that
Speaker 1: somebody asked you when you were on a date that
Speaker 1: would be considered to be an off limits type of
Speaker 1: a thing, Like what type of things that where you asked, Like,
Speaker 1: I I've got some what I think are off limits things,
Speaker 1: and then I've got some fair game things. Okay, Like
Speaker 1: I think off limits race ethnicity is probably one of
Speaker 1: the things that they say you don't want to show bias.
Speaker 2: Off limits.
Speaker 3: So if I'm on a date with somebody, I'm not
Speaker 3: allowed to ask them what they're race.
Speaker 2: I mean, it's probably.
Speaker 1: I think that you have to ask in a way
Speaker 1: of saying, so tell me what your background is, or
Speaker 1: tell me what you're fa you know.
Speaker 3: Oh well yeah, but I think that's definitely a question
Speaker 3: that's important. Yeah, well, just to get to know somebody
Speaker 3: like I.
Speaker 1: But I know that there are certain times like like
Speaker 1: what if you're going out with somebody in there, they
Speaker 1: might have a little bit of a mix. Would you
Speaker 1: ask them tell me, you know, like your parents, tell
Speaker 1: me about your parents in hopes that they're going to say, well,
Speaker 1: my mom is black and my dad is you know, white.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 7: The only time I would ask that is if I
Speaker 7: preface it by saying, like, you are so gorgeously you
Speaker 7: are beautiful, Like what are you?
Speaker 2: What do you what do you mix it?
Speaker 8: Like?
Speaker 1: Where is maybe something like that? Yeah, that's well, that's
Speaker 1: a good way to ask it. Income and salary? Are
Speaker 1: you dating them for a paycheck?
Speaker 4: You that's a that's a big no.
Speaker 6: I'm not concerned about salary, for the record, It's more
Speaker 6: about ambition.
Speaker 2: How about how about weight or body structure?
Speaker 1: N you can tell it, but you see that, but
Speaker 1: you don't want to ask them how much they weigh?
Speaker 4: Who would ever ask?
Speaker 2: Because yeah, I mean it could.
Speaker 7: It doesn't matter because even if you're sitting at the day,
Speaker 7: the girdle or the.
Speaker 3: Hide all the weight, but and also muscle weighs more
Speaker 3: than fat. You could weigh a lot, but you're like ripped.
Speaker 7: Nobody's asking the muscular person how much they weigh. I guarantee, Shannon, this.
Speaker 1: Is one well, this is one that Shannon would not
Speaker 1: be good with because you have talked about this before
Speaker 1: in the show Sexual History.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think that that's a that's a good
Speaker 3: to talk about in the first.
Speaker 2: Date, although I think it's viable.
Speaker 4: I disagree.
Speaker 2: But have you ever asked that question?
Speaker 1: I have never asked that question of of anybody. But
Speaker 1: I would also say this that I have been asked.
Speaker 1: Chelsea asked me when we first got together how many
Speaker 1: people I've been with? Because I told her that I
Speaker 1: had a time in my life that was not good.
Speaker 2: Were you honest? I was. I actually did the count
Speaker 2: and started started the count in the first.
Speaker 4: Couple of dates.
Speaker 9: I think you did.
Speaker 1: You asked that, Uh, it was actually probably within the
Speaker 1: first couple of months of us dating each other.
Speaker 6: You're planning on baking cookies with them. I believe that
Speaker 6: you could ask that anytime, even if it was the
Speaker 6: first date, because I need to know, like when was
Speaker 6: your last sexual partner, because.
Speaker 4: So like obviously you know.
Speaker 3: Although update to the story, I actually now know West's number,
Speaker 3: but he we didn't talk about that, but he like
Speaker 3: showed me his Oh okay, what do you call it report? Yes,
Speaker 3: which I at first was like, this is so weird,
Speaker 3: but I appreciated it.
Speaker 2: Was that all huh, No, we.
Speaker 4: Had been we had been dating.
Speaker 3: Everything was very slow with us, Channing.
Speaker 2: Were you surprised by his number?
Speaker 3: I was surprised at how low it was because in
Speaker 3: my head, because of how he acted, I thought that
Speaker 3: it was really hot, really high.
Speaker 4: And it's not.
Speaker 1: If they show you their clean record, clean bill of health,
Speaker 1: do you have to go out and get your clean
Speaker 1: bill of health to show them?
Speaker 2: Like did you like did that come up at all? Like?
Speaker 1: All right, Channon, I showed you mine, Now go get yours?
Speaker 1: Or how did you do? How did you guys do that?
Speaker 10: Well?
Speaker 3: I yeah, I mean yes, but I I do that
Speaker 3: anyway anyway.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, you see to.
Speaker 1: My chart one one, last one, last one that's off
Speaker 1: limits family trauma.
Speaker 2: See, I'm going straight for the trump see.
Speaker 4: And I agree that's not off limits.
Speaker 2: I love trauma.
Speaker 4: I think that's that's on limits.
Speaker 2: Absolutely, that's within the limits.
Speaker 7: Yes, And I think that's a huge problem with mine,
Speaker 7: Like I get to I guess people's core or heart
Speaker 7: extremely quickly, and I think because I'm so vulnerable or
Speaker 7: upfront with like things that are going on, like I
Speaker 7: want to know that party, because to me, that's the
Speaker 7: realist part.
Speaker 1: Let's get to the real Are these fair game? Religion
Speaker 1: and politics?
Speaker 2: Sure?
Speaker 4: Religion, yes, politics, God, it affects that.
Speaker 10: I know.
Speaker 3: I don't want to talk politics with you when I
Speaker 3: first meet you there.
Speaker 7: Let me know who you are, and hopefully it's at
Speaker 7: a place where we don't get up and walk away
Speaker 7: from the table. Like I never wanted to get to
Speaker 7: that point, but like, let'spes, I.
Speaker 3: Also don't want to ever be with somebody that that's like,
Speaker 3: you know, those people that just like want to nitpick
Speaker 3: and only talk politics.
Speaker 4: That would be such a huge turn.
Speaker 2: Off me about kids or wanting kids.
Speaker 1: Got to know it. It depends on why am I here?
Speaker 1: Because not everybody's out for a relationship. Not everybody's out
Speaker 1: here trying to find their husband or wife or whatever.
Speaker 1: So if that doesn't come up, that doesn't strike me
Speaker 1: as odd. Past marriages slash divorces, Yes, so ask who
Speaker 1: asked for the divorce or who you know was the
Speaker 1: the person that you know? Like why were you guys divorced?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Or how about this? How much money did you get
Speaker 1: in the divorce?
Speaker 2: Now? Vicky are you there? Vicky? Yes, I am.
Speaker 1: I love these dating shows. I'm good by the way,
Speaker 1: if Chelsea and I did the dating show where you
Speaker 1: had to look at the pods, we would never be
Speaker 1: together because she would find me so uninteresting, like she
Speaker 1: married you for your looks. I think she would have
Speaker 1: been in the pod. She would have been in the
Speaker 1: going Can you bring in the next guy? Waiting for
Speaker 1: him to come in? What are your off limits things?
Speaker 2: They're VICKI.
Speaker 5: I think there's three numbers you don't ask well.
Speaker 4: I used to say, like you don't ask a woman,
Speaker 4: but it can go both.
Speaker 10: You know, either gender.
Speaker 7: You don't ask age, weight or body count, especially on
Speaker 7: a first date.
Speaker 1: Age, weight or body count? Which one to you would
Speaker 1: be the most embarrassing one if you had to answer.
Speaker 2: You don't ask someone to see higher than her age?
Speaker 2: Come on, I want to know. Age would be fine? Okay?
Speaker 2: Weight and body count? Where would you rank the next one?
Speaker 5: Absolutely not iky?
Speaker 1: Not for me?
Speaker 2: It would be waight body count? Age? Age is free
Speaker 2: for all?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 4: You know somebody's what Why do you need to know
Speaker 4: somebody's wait?
Speaker 8: Right?
Speaker 4: Is there sitting right across from you?
Speaker 1: I always love when I tell somebody my weight and
Speaker 1: they go are you really like the like I used
Speaker 1: to win the carnival at Saint Mary's. What's going on?
Speaker 8: Noah?
Speaker 2: How you doing?
Speaker 9: Hey, Mojo, I'm big?
Speaker 2: You know what's going on?
Speaker 9: Uh? So I texted in So I went on a
Speaker 9: first date, and I think that this is the one instance,
Speaker 9: or there's two instances you could asked about, like sexual history, right.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 9: One is if you're the you know the intention is
Speaker 9: just to hook up. Well, I guess that's the time
Speaker 9: you would ask. But I was on the first date
Speaker 9: with the intention like this is going to be something serious,
Speaker 9: and you know, she was cool, but then like halfway through,
Speaker 9: she just hit me with, uh, what's the craziest thing
Speaker 9: you've done in bed?
Speaker 11: Oh?
Speaker 9: I was like, oh my god, Like one one in
Speaker 9: one head, I was disappointed and the other I was excited.
Speaker 9: I knew I was gonna say home that night like.
Speaker 1: It if a girliest then you've done in bed and
Speaker 1: you say, missionary, will she still stay with you.
Speaker 2: If she's a teacher?
Speaker 8: No? Probably not.
Speaker 2: Did you ask her that question?
Speaker 8: No?
Speaker 9: She just she was willingly about to answer her own question.
Speaker 9: She proceeded to say, well, it sounded like she was
Speaker 9: about to tell me about a threesomes she had with
Speaker 9: two guys in college, and I just cut her off.
Speaker 9: I was like, you can't tell me that right now,
Speaker 9: Like did.
Speaker 2: You sleep with her?
Speaker 10: Oh?
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course.
Speaker 1: Would you be okay if a girl told you that
Speaker 1: she had multiple threesomes or more than a threesome, had
Speaker 1: a foursome, fivesome.
Speaker 9: If the relationship was purely physical, yeah, I mean, what
Speaker 9: is the matter at the end of the day. But
Speaker 9: if it was something I would, you know, looking at
Speaker 9: like a serious relationship, you know, I don't think that's
Speaker 9: somebody you could really potentially trust unless.
Speaker 1: You're also like that, what if she told you that
Speaker 1: and also told you she was Republican?
Speaker 2: I mean, at that same time, there's no way, no way.
Speaker 1: You've had five people in a room and you're uh,
Speaker 1: were they all wearing red ties?
Speaker 2: And Maddie make the what's off? Seventy?
Speaker 8: Hey, guys, trying to say my boyfriend. On our first date,
Speaker 8: we bonded over family trauma, so I think that's definitely okay,
Speaker 8: And we also talked about politics. The only reason we
Speaker 8: didn't talk about our health history was because he's going
Speaker 8: to be a doctor and I'm also going to be
Speaker 8: a doctor, So we assumed that we would be safe
Speaker 8: and clean.
Speaker 1: Okay, wait, just because you guys are both going to
Speaker 1: be doctors, you assume that you guys didn't have the
Speaker 1: ear cheese and scratchies.
Speaker 8: Yeah, we thought that we would not be dumb.
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know. That's to me. I would I
Speaker 1: would sit there and uh not, I wouldn't. I don't
Speaker 1: know if I trust that based on what they do.
Speaker 1: But still I didn't least know that you knew which
Speaker 1: medication to take?
Speaker 2: What's going on?
Speaker 4: Cars?
Speaker 3: What do you mean are you allowed to ask somebody
Speaker 3: what kind of car they drive?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I say that because West told me when he was dating,
Speaker 3: like before night, before he and I started dating, that
Speaker 3: that was the reason that somebody didn't they didn't go out.
Speaker 2: With him again.
Speaker 4: She actually was.
Speaker 3: She saw the car that he was getting into. It
Speaker 3: was he's gonna I can't remember. It was like it
Speaker 3: was something very It was like a Nissan Ultimorrow, Honda CIV.
Speaker 3: It was like whatever car, like a very normal Sedan.
Speaker 3: And she was like, I can't, I can't date somebody
Speaker 3: who drives whatever it was.
Speaker 2: She's driving a JAP car. I don't want to.
Speaker 5: Gosh, you can't say that.
Speaker 1: That's what the American car company guys say all that,
Speaker 1: that's what the races say. They get mad. I a
Speaker 1: Toyota Toyota and got yelled at by somebody for driving.
Speaker 2: I'm telling I think a quote. I think people.
Speaker 7: I think some people try to utilize your car as
Speaker 7: an example of how much money you have, and that's
Speaker 7: their way of getting around.
Speaker 2: By Samuel's salary right across from you.
Speaker 3: And I didn't see you drive up, and I said,
Speaker 3: what kind of car do you drive? To me, that's
Speaker 3: such like a that's not a good question.
Speaker 1: What if you what if the guy pulled you, just
Speaker 1: take the next collar, just take the next collar driver's
Speaker 1: license because he lost a Shannon I had.
Speaker 3: I dated a guy that didn't have a license. I
Speaker 3: had to drive him everywhere. No, he didn't have a car.
Speaker 3: And Amanda, I just saw you.
Speaker 11: Guys are killing me today like all around Mojo from
Speaker 11: morning so now. But I just don't understand how you
Speaker 11: would date somebody and not know their age would just
Speaker 11: be mind blowing to me. Body count like I would
Speaker 11: feel like you would have to because it would just
Speaker 11: bother me. But Waite is just like, that's mind boggling
Speaker 11: that you have to know someone's wait to date them,
Speaker 11: especially when you're looking.
Speaker 2: At them exactly a ball.
Speaker 1: Well like what what if what if you had to
Speaker 1: get on a ride at sea pointator.
Speaker 10: Possible experienced that I'm not I need a bigger guy.
Speaker 10: And when we first started dating, I swear to god,
Speaker 10: we went to Hallowekends and we waited in like a
Speaker 10: three hour line for the dragster and they shut it
Speaker 10: down right before we started, so we had to wait
Speaker 10: another hour, and then we finally got to go right
Speaker 10: and he didn't sit and I was like, okay, so
Speaker 10: where do we got off the rag with him? And
Speaker 10: we wasted four hours. He was too embarrassed and I
Speaker 10: felt bad. So we didn't even go wait in any
Speaker 10: other lines. We just honestly like went to the haunted houses.
Speaker 8: But yeah, I mean I knew he was a bigger.
Speaker 1: Guy, so that happened to me. And then how about
Speaker 1: this one We went away one time in one of
Speaker 1: those flights that you go on that's like one of
Speaker 1: those regional jets, asked everybody to write down what their
Speaker 1: weights were absolutely absolutely and if you lie the plane crashes.
Speaker 10: I feel like.
Speaker 6: It's right.
Speaker 5: Don't let on the plane.
Speaker 4: Did you lie or did you tell me?
Speaker 2: They put me in Row fifteen, right in the middle.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they do that if you ever go go in
Speaker 1: one of those little smaller planes.
Speaker 2: All right,