WEBVTT - Off Limits 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:02.320 All right, it is the mojo in the morning show. 0:00:02.960 --> 0:00:06.600 So this weekend I pretty much did nothing but watch 0:00:07.080 --> 0:00:09.840 lots of television. I was sitting in front of my 0:00:09.920 --> 0:00:13.520 TV for a long period of time watching lots of basketball. 0:00:14.120 --> 0:00:17.360 I had like so many games on that it was ridiculous. 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:19.599 I don't know what it is, but I think that 0:00:19.720 --> 0:00:23.880 the first weekend of the NCAA, like March Madness Tournament, 0:00:24.760 --> 0:00:30.360 is every guy's dream that you can turn on four networks, 0:00:30.400 --> 0:00:32.840 I think three or four networks and you can pretty 0:00:32.880 --> 0:00:35.479 much watch television. Like the only thing I needed to 0:00:35.479 --> 0:00:37.839 figure out was what was true TV. Like, I had 0:00:37.840 --> 0:00:40.080 to like find out like where the hell it was 0:00:40.120 --> 0:00:45.440 on my television or streaming service, because I was using 0:00:45.600 --> 0:00:49.800 my streaming service on this one. And then I started 0:00:49.800 --> 0:00:53.280 realizing I really wasn't spending any time with Chelsea. And 0:00:53.320 --> 0:00:55.200 I don't know if you feel like this ever, Shannon. 0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:58.280 When you know Wes is involved in something that is 0:00:58.360 --> 0:00:59.440 kind of like guyy. 0:01:00.360 --> 0:01:02.600 You kind of feel like either one of two things. 0:01:02.680 --> 0:01:04.720 In the beginning, you feel like us is great, He's 0:01:04.720 --> 0:01:06.920 not going to bother me for a while, and then 0:01:07.000 --> 0:01:08.640 after a while you're like, well what about me? 0:01:08.840 --> 0:01:10.800 And you start feeling kind of lonely, right, This is 0:01:10.880 --> 0:01:11.520 very accurate. 0:01:11.959 --> 0:01:14.920 So I started then thinking I better get more involved 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:18.240 with Chelsea or it's going to be bad, because you 0:01:18.280 --> 0:01:20.000 know she's going to pretty much say that all I 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:22.680 did was watch my television over the weekend, So now 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:24.880 I got to watch her television. So I went into 0:01:24.880 --> 0:01:28.959 the other room and she was binge watching Love Is Blind? 0:01:29.600 --> 0:01:33.760 Have you guys watched that show at all? I'm familiar 0:01:33.840 --> 0:01:36.200 with it, but I haven't watched an episode, so I 0:01:36.240 --> 0:01:39.000 have never watched it, but I've heard of it, and 0:01:39.000 --> 0:01:41.240 I didn't even know what it was about, Like, I 0:01:41.280 --> 0:01:44.680 had no clue that these people don't see each other 0:01:44.800 --> 0:01:48.520 at all, and then they pretty much start a relationship 0:01:49.560 --> 0:01:52.240 in two separate rooms by just talking through the wall. 0:01:53.320 --> 0:01:55.720 Yeah, they're in the pods. You watched it, Chin, Yeah, 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:57.840 I'm not watching. I haven't watched the most recent season. 0:01:57.880 --> 0:01:59.720 But yeah, so how many seasons have there been at 0:01:59.760 --> 0:02:01.200 this show? Because now I'm trying to figure out how 0:02:01.240 --> 0:02:01.720 many seasons? 0:02:01.840 --> 0:02:02.720 There's like thirteen? 0:02:02.960 --> 0:02:04.360 Yeah, no, there's that many. 0:02:04.560 --> 0:02:06.760 Yeah, I was going to say like five. 0:02:06.760 --> 0:02:09.840 Me too from Detroit won the first one though. 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:16.840 Lauren the Success Stories, Yeah. 0:02:16.000 --> 0:02:17.720 Has it been in Detroit, like Detroit was one of 0:02:17.720 --> 0:02:19.720 their cities, or she was just a she might have 0:02:19.840 --> 0:02:21.760 moved she's from Detroit. 0:02:21.840 --> 0:02:24.320 The last one was the closest one. It was in Ohio. 0:02:24.400 --> 0:02:24.720 I think. 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:28.320 By the way, when they say you say win, uh, 0:02:28.480 --> 0:02:30.800 do you really win? Don't you just get matched up 0:02:30.800 --> 0:02:33.640 and you get a wedding? Yeah, that's okay, that's the prize. Okay, 0:02:33.680 --> 0:02:35.840 But I mean anybody can win the damn thing, right, 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:37.639 I mean pretty much, you just got to be selected. 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:41.280 So this is something that I thought was interesting. I 0:02:41.320 --> 0:02:44.600 think it could make an interesting topic. What's off limits 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:49.880 when you're dating somebody in the show you're not supposed 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:52.680 to or at least Chelsea had told me this. Like 0:02:52.800 --> 0:02:55.200 the person one of the people go said something, you know, 0:02:55.280 --> 0:02:57.760 oh you're Asian, And Chelsea goes, oh, you're not supposed 0:02:57.800 --> 0:02:58.160 to say. 0:02:58.040 --> 0:02:58.880 That, you know. 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:02.520 And I said to like, what do you mean you're 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:04.520 not supposed to say that? She goes, well, you're not 0:03:04.520 --> 0:03:07.320 supposed to when you're in your pods, ask the question 0:03:07.440 --> 0:03:11.120 of like what's your race or you know, you know what, 0:03:11.440 --> 0:03:13.679 tell me a little bit more about yourself, like where 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:17.639 you're from, your background, so to speak. And I said 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:19.200 to her, I go, why would that be an awf 0:03:19.280 --> 0:03:22.600 limits thing? I think that there are so many people 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:25.880 that I know that want to marry within either their 0:03:25.960 --> 0:03:29.359 race or religion or whatever it might be. Like, there's 0:03:29.400 --> 0:03:32.120 certain people that are like, hey, you know, like in 0:03:32.400 --> 0:03:35.840 Lydia and Bianca and stuff, they're Kaldean. They they kind 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:38.720 of tend to want to marry somebody who's Caldean, right, girls, 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:40.440 I mean, I yes, it's very true. 0:03:41.040 --> 0:03:43.200 They're not show me as much anymore, but I'll still 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:44.240 take it from. 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:46.000 You though you got ruined by the Kaldian guys. 0:03:46.280 --> 0:03:48.200 No, I just feel like they're too much for me now. 0:03:48.280 --> 0:03:50.280 I kind of like the white boys you do. 0:03:50.600 --> 0:03:53.240 Oh so, if you were in the room in one 0:03:53.280 --> 0:03:55.760 of those pods and you're up against somebody, would you say, 0:03:55.880 --> 0:03:56.840 are you a white boy? 0:03:57.320 --> 0:03:57.840 Maybe? 0:03:58.520 --> 0:03:58.800 Okay? 0:03:58.920 --> 0:04:01.640 Purpose of this show is to not understand what they 0:04:01.640 --> 0:04:04.960 look like, and sometimes if you ask questions around that, 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:07.560 you can deduce is that the. 0:04:07.520 --> 0:04:10.520 Purpose the purpose of what the purpose of the show 0:04:10.840 --> 0:04:15.480 is to judge it based on their their voice. 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:21.920 Everything, personality, literally everything, accepting who they are, who they are, 0:04:22.080 --> 0:04:25.000 not what they are, but isn't who the isn't who 0:04:25.040 --> 0:04:30.560 they are, like what absolutely your genetic makeup can have 0:04:30.600 --> 0:04:33.040 a huge impact on your experiences, your perspective, how you 0:04:33.200 --> 0:04:36.160 view the world. You can talk about your cultural practices, 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:37.880 though you could say I love going to church, I 0:04:37.920 --> 0:04:38.479 love doing this. 0:04:38.560 --> 0:04:40.080 You just aren't what. 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:42.000 Kind of church do you go to? Like do you 0:04:42.040 --> 0:04:42.760 ask that question? 0:04:43.000 --> 0:04:45.440 I mean you probably could, like do. 0:04:45.440 --> 0:04:47.760 They stand up on they put their hands in the 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:49.200 air and wave them like they just don't care. 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:51.279 It's not like a game at this point. 0:04:51.640 --> 0:04:54.360 It's like, are others show that everybody's talking about right now? 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:56.120 And I want to start watching? It's on Netflix, Age 0:04:56.120 --> 0:04:57.920 of Attraction And you're not allowed to ask how old 0:04:57.960 --> 0:04:58.200 they are? 0:04:58.520 --> 0:04:59.080 Is that right? 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:02.880 Aw, you're not allowed to ask how old they are? 0:05:03.680 --> 0:05:04.360 Is that so real? 0:05:04.440 --> 0:05:05.920 So you're face to face, but. 0:05:06.360 --> 0:05:09.520 Apparently it's like mind blowing when you actually find. 0:05:09.279 --> 0:05:12.880 Out, they are shocked, Like there was this guy that 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:14.280 just got matched up with this girl. 0:05:14.320 --> 0:05:15.760 She was twenty two and I want to say he 0:05:15.839 --> 0:05:16.400 was sixty? 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:17.640 Yeah that on Twitter? 0:05:18.240 --> 0:05:20.640 Well he look, you could say that guy home to 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:22.600 your dad and what he can tell he was sixty? 0:05:22.760 --> 0:05:23.400 You can't tell you. 0:05:23.839 --> 0:05:27.719 Maybe he was like high forty fifties. But like Wow, 0:05:27.880 --> 0:05:28.640 blacktone crack. 0:05:28.880 --> 0:05:34.760 That's true unless you're smoky. So what'd you saying? 0:05:36.600 --> 0:05:42.919 No, exzema, exema exitment. You know, Kevin, I dated a 0:05:42.920 --> 0:05:45.880 girl from the south side of town. Her name was Ezema. 0:05:46.000 --> 0:05:46.200 It was. 0:05:47.720 --> 0:05:53.520 Yeah. So so here's my question. What are things that 0:05:53.720 --> 0:05:56.039 somebody asked you when you were on a date that 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:58.440 would be considered to be an off limits type of 0:05:58.440 --> 0:06:02.080 a thing, Like what type of things that where you asked, Like, 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:04.560 I I've got some what I think are off limits things, 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:06.800 and then I've got some fair game things. Okay, Like 0:06:07.480 --> 0:06:10.200 I think off limits race ethnicity is probably one of 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:12.880 the things that they say you don't want to show bias. 0:06:14.839 --> 0:06:16.320 Off limits. 0:06:17.160 --> 0:06:19.039 So if I'm on a date with somebody, I'm not 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:20.440 allowed to ask them what they're race. 0:06:20.520 --> 0:06:22.600 I mean, it's probably. 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:24.520 I think that you have to ask in a way 0:06:24.520 --> 0:06:26.720 of saying, so tell me what your background is, or 0:06:26.760 --> 0:06:27.719 tell me what you're fa you know. 0:06:27.880 --> 0:06:30.040 Oh well yeah, but I think that's definitely a question 0:06:30.120 --> 0:06:32.480 that's important. Yeah, well, just to get to know somebody 0:06:32.880 --> 0:06:33.159 like I. 0:06:33.360 --> 0:06:36.120 But I know that there are certain times like like 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:38.920 what if you're going out with somebody in there, they 0:06:39.000 --> 0:06:41.400 might have a little bit of a mix. Would you 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:45.120 ask them tell me, you know, like your parents, tell 0:06:45.160 --> 0:06:47.640 me about your parents in hopes that they're going to say, well, 0:06:47.720 --> 0:06:49.960 my mom is black and my dad is you know, white. 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:50.720 You know. 0:06:51.200 --> 0:06:53.720 The only time I would ask that is if I 0:06:53.760 --> 0:06:56.719 preface it by saying, like, you are so gorgeously you 0:06:56.760 --> 0:06:57.839 are beautiful, Like what are you? 0:06:57.920 --> 0:06:59.240 What do you what do you mix it? 0:06:59.360 --> 0:06:59.400 Like? 0:06:59.440 --> 0:07:02.520 Where is maybe something like that? Yeah, that's well, that's 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:06.560 a good way to ask it. Income and salary? Are 0:07:06.600 --> 0:07:09.320 you dating them for a paycheck? 0:07:08.000 --> 0:07:13.360 You that's a that's a big no. 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:16.520 I'm not concerned about salary, for the record, It's more 0:07:16.560 --> 0:07:17.400 about ambition. 0:07:19.880 --> 0:07:23.760 How about how about weight or body structure? 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:27.320 N you can tell it, but you see that, but 0:07:27.400 --> 0:07:28.840 you don't want to ask them how much they weigh? 0:07:29.680 --> 0:07:31.240 Who would ever ask? 0:07:31.920 --> 0:07:32.960 Because yeah, I mean it could. 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:35.160 It doesn't matter because even if you're sitting at the day, 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:36.640 the girdle or the. 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:41.960 Hide all the weight, but and also muscle weighs more 0:07:41.960 --> 0:07:46.000 than fat. You could weigh a lot, but you're like ripped. 0:07:46.320 --> 0:07:50.560 Nobody's asking the muscular person how much they weigh. I guarantee, Shannon, this. 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:54.280 Is one well, this is one that Shannon would not 0:07:54.280 --> 0:07:56.160 be good with because you have talked about this before 0:07:56.160 --> 0:07:57.640 in the show Sexual History. 0:07:57.840 --> 0:07:59.920 Yeah, I don't think that that's a that's a good 0:08:00.200 --> 0:08:01.600 to talk about in the first. 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:02.840 Date, although I think it's viable. 0:08:04.120 --> 0:08:04.800 I disagree. 0:08:05.280 --> 0:08:06.800 But have you ever asked that question? 0:08:08.160 --> 0:08:12.160 I have never asked that question of of anybody. But 0:08:12.240 --> 0:08:15.080 I would also say this that I have been asked. 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:19.040 Chelsea asked me when we first got together how many 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:20.880 people I've been with? Because I told her that I 0:08:20.880 --> 0:08:22.880 had a time in my life that was not good. 0:08:22.960 --> 0:08:26.119 Were you honest? I was. I actually did the count 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:28.920 and started started the count in the first. 0:08:28.640 --> 0:08:29.760 Couple of dates. 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:30.560 I think you did. 0:08:30.720 --> 0:08:34.360 You asked that, Uh, it was actually probably within the 0:08:34.400 --> 0:08:36.360 first couple of months of us dating each other. 0:08:36.760 --> 0:08:39.559 You're planning on baking cookies with them. I believe that 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:41.600 you could ask that anytime, even if it was the 0:08:41.600 --> 0:08:44.480 first date, because I need to know, like when was 0:08:44.520 --> 0:08:46.760 your last sexual partner, because. 0:08:46.600 --> 0:08:48.000 So like obviously you know. 0:08:48.200 --> 0:08:51.559 Although update to the story, I actually now know West's number, 0:08:51.559 --> 0:08:55.040 but he we didn't talk about that, but he like 0:08:55.440 --> 0:08:59.520 showed me his Oh okay, what do you call it report? Yes, 0:08:59.600 --> 0:09:01.840 which I at first was like, this is so weird, 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:05.600 but I appreciated it. 0:09:05.160 --> 0:09:09.640 Was that all huh, No, we. 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:12.000 Had been we had been dating. 0:09:12.320 --> 0:09:15.319 Everything was very slow with us, Channing. 0:09:15.400 --> 0:09:16.760 Were you surprised by his number? 0:09:19.559 --> 0:09:25.120 I was surprised at how low it was because in 0:09:25.200 --> 0:09:29.040 my head, because of how he acted, I thought that 0:09:29.120 --> 0:09:31.000 it was really hot, really high. 0:09:31.280 --> 0:09:31.800 And it's not. 0:09:34.120 --> 0:09:38.640 If they show you their clean record, clean bill of health, 0:09:38.720 --> 0:09:40.440 do you have to go out and get your clean 0:09:40.440 --> 0:09:42.760 bill of health to show them? 0:09:43.160 --> 0:09:45.400 Like did you like did that come up at all? Like? 0:09:45.440 --> 0:09:47.760 All right, Channon, I showed you mine, Now go get yours? 0:09:48.000 --> 0:09:49.640 Or how did you do? How did you guys do that? 0:09:51.400 --> 0:09:51.600 Well? 0:09:51.720 --> 0:09:55.959 I yeah, I mean yes, but I I do that 0:09:56.040 --> 0:09:56.840 anyway anyway. 0:09:57.000 --> 0:09:58.439 Yeah, Okay, you see to. 0:09:58.440 --> 0:10:02.520 My chart one one, last one, last one that's off 0:10:02.559 --> 0:10:04.320 limits family trauma. 0:10:05.000 --> 0:10:06.679 See, I'm going straight for the trump see. 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:08.360 And I agree that's not off limits. 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:09.240 I love trauma. 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:11.000 I think that's that's on limits. 0:10:11.160 --> 0:10:12.840 Absolutely, that's within the limits. 0:10:13.240 --> 0:10:15.560 Yes, And I think that's a huge problem with mine, 0:10:15.760 --> 0:10:19.960 Like I get to I guess people's core or heart 0:10:20.040 --> 0:10:24.680 extremely quickly, and I think because I'm so vulnerable or 0:10:24.760 --> 0:10:26.640 upfront with like things that are going on, like I 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:29.000 want to know that party, because to me, that's the 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:29.720 realist part. 0:10:30.280 --> 0:10:33.960 Let's get to the real Are these fair game? Religion 0:10:34.000 --> 0:10:35.040 and politics? 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:36.600 Sure? 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:39.920 Religion, yes, politics, God, it affects that. 0:10:40.040 --> 0:10:40.800 I know. 0:10:40.880 --> 0:10:42.760 I don't want to talk politics with you when I 0:10:42.800 --> 0:10:43.640 first meet you there. 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:46.679 Let me know who you are, and hopefully it's at 0:10:46.679 --> 0:10:48.280 a place where we don't get up and walk away 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:50.000 from the table. Like I never wanted to get to 0:10:50.040 --> 0:10:51.719 that point, but like, let'spes, I. 0:10:51.679 --> 0:10:54.720 Also don't want to ever be with somebody that that's like, 0:10:54.800 --> 0:10:57.040 you know, those people that just like want to nitpick 0:10:57.080 --> 0:10:58.359 and only talk politics. 0:10:58.360 --> 0:10:59.760 That would be such a huge turn. 0:10:59.600 --> 0:11:01.720 Off me about kids or wanting kids. 0:11:02.000 --> 0:11:05.280 Got to know it. It depends on why am I here? 0:11:05.559 --> 0:11:09.199 Because not everybody's out for a relationship. Not everybody's out 0:11:09.200 --> 0:11:11.480 here trying to find their husband or wife or whatever. 0:11:12.080 --> 0:11:15.640 So if that doesn't come up, that doesn't strike me 0:11:15.679 --> 0:11:21.760 as odd. Past marriages slash divorces, Yes, so ask who 0:11:21.800 --> 0:11:25.280 asked for the divorce or who you know was the 0:11:25.280 --> 0:11:29.760 the person that you know? Like why were you guys divorced? 0:11:30.760 --> 0:11:31.800 Yeah? 0:11:31.960 --> 0:11:33.880 Or how about this? How much money did you get 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:34.520 in the divorce? 0:11:34.559 --> 0:11:41.360 Now? Vicky are you there? Vicky? Yes, I am. 0:11:42.040 --> 0:11:44.840 I love these dating shows. I'm good by the way, 0:11:44.880 --> 0:11:48.160 if Chelsea and I did the dating show where you 0:11:48.200 --> 0:11:50.600 had to look at the pods, we would never be 0:11:51.120 --> 0:11:55.920 together because she would find me so uninteresting, like she 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:58.400 married you for your looks. I think she would have 0:11:58.400 --> 0:11:59.840 been in the pod. She would have been in the 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:03.520 going Can you bring in the next guy? Waiting for 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:06.800 him to come in? What are your off limits things? 0:12:07.040 --> 0:12:07.560 They're VICKI. 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:10.160 I think there's three numbers you don't ask well. 0:12:10.200 --> 0:12:12.280 I used to say, like you don't ask a woman, 0:12:12.360 --> 0:12:13.559 but it can go both. 0:12:13.720 --> 0:12:14.760 You know, either gender. 0:12:16.480 --> 0:12:20.000 You don't ask age, weight or body count, especially on 0:12:20.040 --> 0:12:20.600 a first date. 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:24.400 Age, weight or body count? Which one to you would 0:12:24.400 --> 0:12:26.520 be the most embarrassing one if you had to answer. 0:12:28.840 --> 0:12:34.720 You don't ask someone to see higher than her age? 0:12:35.080 --> 0:12:40.840 Come on, I want to know. Age would be fine? Okay? 0:12:42.240 --> 0:12:45.520 Weight and body count? Where would you rank the next one? 0:12:45.720 --> 0:12:46.920 Absolutely not iky? 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:48.160 Not for me? 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:54.800 It would be waight body count? Age? Age is free 0:12:54.800 --> 0:12:55.160 for all? 0:12:55.280 --> 0:12:55.439 Right? 0:12:55.800 --> 0:12:59.440 You know somebody's what Why do you need to know 0:12:59.480 --> 0:12:59.960 somebody's wait? 0:13:00.440 --> 0:13:00.600 Right? 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:02.120 Is there sitting right across from you? 0:13:02.840 --> 0:13:04.840 I always love when I tell somebody my weight and 0:13:04.920 --> 0:13:10.480 they go are you really like the like I used 0:13:10.520 --> 0:13:14.840 to win the carnival at Saint Mary's. What's going on? 0:13:14.920 --> 0:13:15.160 Noah? 0:13:15.160 --> 0:13:15.680 How you doing? 0:13:18.200 --> 0:13:19.760 Hey, Mojo, I'm big? 0:13:20.240 --> 0:13:21.200 You know what's going on? 0:13:22.440 --> 0:13:25.800 Uh? So I texted in So I went on a 0:13:25.880 --> 0:13:29.440 first date, and I think that this is the one instance, 0:13:29.720 --> 0:13:33.240 or there's two instances you could asked about, like sexual history, right. 0:13:33.600 --> 0:13:33.800 Yeah. 0:13:34.760 --> 0:13:37.280 One is if you're the you know the intention is 0:13:37.360 --> 0:13:40.200 just to hook up. Well, I guess that's the time 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:42.280 you would ask. But I was on the first date 0:13:42.520 --> 0:13:45.400 with the intention like this is going to be something serious, 0:13:46.400 --> 0:13:48.600 and you know, she was cool, but then like halfway through, 0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:51.559 she just hit me with, uh, what's the craziest thing 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:52.319 you've done in bed? 0:13:52.760 --> 0:13:52.880 Oh? 0:13:53.080 --> 0:13:57.000 I was like, oh my god, Like one one in 0:13:57.080 --> 0:13:59.600 one head, I was disappointed and the other I was excited. 0:13:59.720 --> 0:14:02.439 I knew I was gonna say home that night like. 0:14:02.400 --> 0:14:05.800 It if a girliest then you've done in bed and 0:14:05.840 --> 0:14:09.760 you say, missionary, will she still stay with you. 0:14:09.040 --> 0:14:09.880 If she's a teacher? 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:11.800 No? Probably not. 0:14:14.400 --> 0:14:15.640 Did you ask her that question? 0:14:16.760 --> 0:14:16.920 No? 0:14:17.040 --> 0:14:20.400 She just she was willingly about to answer her own question. 0:14:20.520 --> 0:14:23.760 She proceeded to say, well, it sounded like she was 0:14:23.800 --> 0:14:25.920 about to tell me about a threesomes she had with 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:28.080 two guys in college, and I just cut her off. 0:14:28.120 --> 0:14:30.080 I was like, you can't tell me that right now, 0:14:30.280 --> 0:14:31.960 Like did. 0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:33.040 You sleep with her? 0:14:33.640 --> 0:14:33.800 Oh? 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:34.440 Yeah, of course. 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:37.440 Would you be okay if a girl told you that 0:14:37.480 --> 0:14:41.440 she had multiple threesomes or more than a threesome, had 0:14:41.480 --> 0:14:43.000 a foursome, fivesome. 0:14:44.200 --> 0:14:48.240 If the relationship was purely physical, yeah, I mean, what 0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:50.000 is the matter at the end of the day. But 0:14:50.040 --> 0:14:52.400 if it was something I would, you know, looking at 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:54.760 like a serious relationship, you know, I don't think that's 0:14:54.800 --> 0:14:57.600 somebody you could really potentially trust unless. 0:14:57.320 --> 0:15:02.840 You're also like that, what if she told you that 0:15:02.960 --> 0:15:04.520 and also told you she was Republican? 0:15:04.560 --> 0:15:07.960 I mean, at that same time, there's no way, no way. 0:15:08.000 --> 0:15:11.560 You've had five people in a room and you're uh, 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:13.960 were they all wearing red ties? 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:17.320 And Maddie make the what's off? Seventy? 0:15:19.080 --> 0:15:22.880 Hey, guys, trying to say my boyfriend. On our first date, 0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:26.480 we bonded over family trauma, so I think that's definitely okay, 0:15:27.560 --> 0:15:30.400 And we also talked about politics. The only reason we 0:15:30.440 --> 0:15:34.240 didn't talk about our health history was because he's going 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:35.640 to be a doctor and I'm also going to be 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:38.680 a doctor, So we assumed that we would be safe 0:15:38.680 --> 0:15:39.160 and clean. 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:42.280 Okay, wait, just because you guys are both going to 0:15:42.320 --> 0:15:44.760 be doctors, you assume that you guys didn't have the 0:15:44.760 --> 0:15:45.840 ear cheese and scratchies. 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:49.120 Yeah, we thought that we would not be dumb. 0:15:50.400 --> 0:15:53.120 Okay, I don't know. That's to me. I would I 0:15:53.120 --> 0:15:56.160 would sit there and uh not, I wouldn't. I don't 0:15:56.160 --> 0:15:57.880 know if I trust that based on what they do. 0:15:57.960 --> 0:16:01.400 But still I didn't least know that you knew which 0:16:01.440 --> 0:16:02.400 medication to take? 0:16:03.360 --> 0:16:04.000 What's going on? 0:16:04.080 --> 0:16:04.640 Cars? 0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:06.960 What do you mean are you allowed to ask somebody 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:08.160 what kind of car they drive? 0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:09.800 I don't know. 0:16:10.040 --> 0:16:12.520 I say that because West told me when he was dating, 0:16:12.560 --> 0:16:15.040 like before night, before he and I started dating, that 0:16:15.040 --> 0:16:19.320 that was the reason that somebody didn't they didn't go out. 0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:19.640 With him again. 0:16:20.160 --> 0:16:21.040 She actually was. 0:16:21.480 --> 0:16:23.520 She saw the car that he was getting into. It 0:16:23.720 --> 0:16:26.040 was he's gonna I can't remember. It was like it 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:29.160 was something very It was like a Nissan Ultimorrow, Honda CIV. 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:32.080 It was like whatever car, like a very normal Sedan. 0:16:32.840 --> 0:16:35.600 And she was like, I can't, I can't date somebody 0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:37.240 who drives whatever it was. 0:16:37.680 --> 0:16:39.760 She's driving a JAP car. I don't want to. 0:16:40.400 --> 0:16:42.320 Gosh, you can't say that. 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:46.640 That's what the American car company guys say all that, 0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:50.680 that's what the races say. They get mad. I a 0:16:50.760 --> 0:16:58.200 Toyota Toyota and got yelled at by somebody for driving. 0:16:58.720 --> 0:17:01.520 I'm telling I think a quote. I think people. 0:17:02.920 --> 0:17:07.480 I think some people try to utilize your car as 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:10.240 an example of how much money you have, and that's 0:17:10.520 --> 0:17:11.880 their way of getting around. 0:17:12.119 --> 0:17:14.920 By Samuel's salary right across from you. 0:17:14.920 --> 0:17:16.120 And I didn't see you drive up, and I said, 0:17:16.119 --> 0:17:18.000 what kind of car do you drive? To me, that's 0:17:18.040 --> 0:17:20.080 such like a that's not a good question. 0:17:20.880 --> 0:17:22.920 What if you what if the guy pulled you, just 0:17:22.960 --> 0:17:27.320 take the next collar, just take the next collar driver's 0:17:27.400 --> 0:17:30.000 license because he lost a Shannon I had. 0:17:30.160 --> 0:17:32.280 I dated a guy that didn't have a license. I 0:17:32.280 --> 0:17:34.439 had to drive him everywhere. No, he didn't have a car. 0:17:35.000 --> 0:17:39.639 And Amanda, I just saw you. 0:17:39.640 --> 0:17:42.400 Guys are killing me today like all around Mojo from 0:17:42.440 --> 0:17:46.159 morning so now. But I just don't understand how you 0:17:46.160 --> 0:17:48.800 would date somebody and not know their age would just 0:17:48.840 --> 0:17:52.000 be mind blowing to me. Body count like I would 0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:55.000 feel like you would have to because it would just 0:17:55.040 --> 0:17:59.720