1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: On Instagram. Check goes out. This is we honestly kind 2 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 1: of hesitated to put Michelle on the radio this morning 3 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 1: because you know, it's it's honestly, it's a little bit 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 1: of a downer and I don't want people to listen 5 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 1: to this and go, wow, does my mom feel the 6 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: same way? So if your mom is with for example, 7 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 1: if you're in the car with your kids right now, 8 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: you're gonna want to reassure your kids that you don't 9 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 1: feel the same way as Michelle. And Michelle. I'm not 10 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:26,319 Speaker 1: faulting you, but like I said, I did hesitate to 11 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 1: put this on. Tell me what you're calling about, because 12 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 1: it's one of those I can't be the only one 13 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: kind of thing him. Michelle, We're on KATIEWB. 14 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 2: Go ahead, Hi. 15 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, to be honest with you, I hate being 16 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 3: a mom. 17 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: Now that that's strongly put tell me what you mean 18 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 1: by that. 19 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, I know it is. I know it sounds bad, 20 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 3: and I just don't think I can. Maybe I can't 21 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 3: be the only person who feels this way, but I 22 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 3: would go back in a heartbeat to never have kids 23 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 3: if I could. It's just it's so much work. It's 24 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 3: so much work. I do. I know it's an awful 25 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 3: thing to say, but I just my entire identity now 26 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 3: is being a mom. 27 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 1: That's kind of what you do. I mean, not entirely, 28 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: but a lot of that. But how old are your kids? 29 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:15,639 Speaker 3: They're four and seven. 30 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: There are a lot of work At four and seven, 31 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 1: they do get easier in a way. I hate that 32 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: you say that, because you know what, I think that 33 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:26,480 Speaker 1: people will say. You know what, I hate my ex husband, 34 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 1: but I'm sure glad. I would not trade the kids 35 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 1: we had for anything, right, you know, I hate the 36 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 1: fact that I got pregnant at sixteen years old, but 37 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:36,320 Speaker 1: I would not trade my daughter for anything. And you 38 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: kind of feel like you just wish you never had kids. 39 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 3: Exactly that to feel that way. But it's just, you know, 40 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 3: I can't live the life that I used to live. 41 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 3: And I understood that at first. But I can't go 42 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 3: to Target now and just like walk around aimlessly because 43 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 3: I have to think about, Oh, my kids have a schedule, 44 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 3: have to be a certain place at a certain time. 45 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 3: My youngest has a nap time because she's still quite young. 46 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 3: And you know, I can't. I can't watch it every 47 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 3: movie I want, Like I don't I don't know. I 48 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:14,239 Speaker 3: cannot be the only person that feels this way for sure. 49 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 1: For sure, I think people have feelings of that. I say, 50 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: tough bean, tough beans, you, this is what you signed 51 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 1: up for, I mean, when you had when you had children. 52 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: This is that's tough. 53 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 4: I mean she can still like like more in the 54 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:26,919 Speaker 4: life she had though. 55 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I mean sure, but yeah, but but too bad. 56 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: You've already crossed that bridge, pulled up that bridge behind you. 57 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 4: She's gonna go back to the way it was. She's 58 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 4: just she just wants to air out of a grievance. 59 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 5: And I was gonna say, it's not like she's saying 60 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:42,920 Speaker 5: she's thrown her kids up for adoption or something. 61 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 2: I think. I don't know. 62 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 5: I think it's bold that she was willing to come 63 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 5: on the radio and say this, because I feel like 64 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 5: I know people in my life who will not admit this, 65 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:54,399 Speaker 5: but I think that they do not like being a mom, 66 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 5: like I just feel like I can see it in them. Well, 67 00:02:58,240 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 5: they would do, and they would go back to not 68 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 5: being a mom too. A fan option. 69 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:04,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a couple of text messages. This one hard agree. 70 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: My kids are four and one and I hate being 71 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 1: a mom. Wow, here's another one. This is so frustrating. 72 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 1: This is what you signed up for? Another one. This 73 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 1: is so sad to hear. I love being a mom. 74 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:19,799 Speaker 1: It's a lot of work, and yes, your entire identity changes, 75 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 1: but that but people love being a mom. I love 76 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 1: being I mean, I think part of it is if 77 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 1: you have a good partner that helps make that job 78 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 1: a little bit easier. It was not easy with Susan, 79 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: but it was easier with Susan because she was a 80 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 1: great mom. Do you have a great partner that helps 81 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 1: you with your four and your seven year old? 82 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 3: Michelle, I mean I do. I love my husband, but 83 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 3: he works a lot, and he works a lot so 84 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 3: that we can support two kids, and it's I think 85 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 3: it's tough for sure for everybody the economy right now. 86 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 3: So he has to work a lot so that we 87 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 3: can pair a mortgage, so we can give our kids 88 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 3: what they need. And it's a lot of the time 89 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 3: it's just me and because we can't really afford childcare, 90 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 3: so I stopped working so I could be there for them. 91 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 3: And it's it's not that I don't love my kids. 92 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 3: Of course I love my kids, but it's it's just 93 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 3: a different, a totally different life than I thought it 94 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 3: was going to be. And I mean, am I a 95 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 3: terrible human being for feeling that way? 96 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 5: I just I personally don't think you are, because like 97 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 5: the side of me that's undecided about wanting to have 98 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 5: kids fears this. It fears like, Okay, I think I 99 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 5: want kids, and then I have them, and then what if. 100 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 2: I hate being a mom? 101 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 5: So I do fear that, and that's why I'm so 102 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 5: hesitant about wanting kids for me personally, But. 103 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:43,720 Speaker 2: I don't know. 104 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 5: I think you obviously made the decision to have the kids, 105 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:49,600 Speaker 5: so you have to be the responsible person and be 106 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 5: their parents. She is, Yeah, but I think that sometimes 107 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 5: you just don't realize how hard being a parent is 108 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 5: obviously until you are a parent. 109 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 4: Right, And it's not as not that it's easy for everybody, 110 00:04:59,880 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 4: but but it's not as easy for some people as 111 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 4: it is for others. 112 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 2: And so clearly, yeah, it's hard for her. 113 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 4: Then, I mean, I think she's she's allowed to have 114 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 4: her feeling about it. 115 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 5: And I also feel like you're saying you lost your identity. 116 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:13,480 Speaker 5: Like I know people out there who have nanny's so 117 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:15,479 Speaker 5: they get to like go out and still live their lives. 118 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 5: They can go get a workout class in and do whatever, 119 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 5: like do kind of normal things because you have that 120 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 5: extra help. But if you don't have any kind of help, 121 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:26,239 Speaker 5: then you don't have the ability to do that stuff. 122 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 5: But once again, I know that you knew you signed 123 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:28,599 Speaker 5: up for her. 124 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 1: We get a ton of calls on this one. Mike 125 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 1: in the new studio, I call name. Screeners not working, 126 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: so you'll have to tell me who's on what line. 127 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: Let's grab line one. It's Sheridan Shridan. Good morning, Sheridan, 128 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: you're on KATWB. Michelle called and said she hates being 129 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 1: a mom. She's got a four year old, seven year old. 130 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 1: She hates it. She wants to know if anybody else 131 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: feels this way. Sheridan, what do you want to say? 132 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 5: Yeah? 133 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 6: I mean I have a three year almost three year 134 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 6: old and a one year old and I can say that, Yeah, 135 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 6: I missed my old life. It's hard, it's exhausting. I 136 00:05:56,680 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 6: mean we're the primary caretaker and we're constantly, like we 137 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 6: get home from work and it's instantly we have to 138 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:06,359 Speaker 6: be a mom. We don't get to sit down or 139 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 6: take a break. So her feelings are completely valid. And 140 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 6: I mean I feel like maybe Michelle, is you're feeling 141 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 6: this way, like maybe you need to take a break 142 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 6: or you know, go out and go out for a weekend. 143 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 6: Maybe that'll help, or start making plans to take time 144 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 6: for yourself more like I'm gonna go every other weekend 145 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:31,719 Speaker 6: and go one day and do something for myself so 146 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:34,799 Speaker 6: that you don't feel is overwhelmed, because it is very normal. 147 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 1: Okay, some good, good advice. Let's go to Who's next 148 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:40,480 Speaker 1: one line too? You got Andreas, Andreas, what'd you want 149 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: to say about Michelle? 150 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:46,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, I just want to say I have my first 151 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 7: kid at sixteen, and it was hard. And I had 152 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 7: my second kid at eighteenth and my third at twentieth. 153 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 7: I was and that's that my youngest. Uh, when you're 154 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:00,840 Speaker 7: supposed to be partying and enjoying life, and I mean, 155 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 7: I don't, I don't think back about those big one bit. 156 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 7: I mean, my kids are everything, and they give you happiness, 157 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:09,279 Speaker 7: they give you unconditional love. I don't know how you 158 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 7: could say you hate being a mother. That's just insane 159 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 7: to me. 160 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 1: I think that's you know, and I think because you 161 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 1: handled it really well, because a lot of people having 162 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 1: a kid at sixteen, eighteen, and twenty would be like 163 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 1: that was horrible, but you look at it in a 164 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 1: totally different way. There's this is so polarizing. There are 165 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 1: people who are mad at me because I said you, 166 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 1: that's tough beans. You signed up for this. You had 167 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 1: not one kid, but you had two kid. Tough beans, 168 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 1: get over it. But there's other people who go, Dave, 169 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 1: that's so unfair. You don't know what it's like. You've 170 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 1: never been a mom. That's true, but you've already crossed 171 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 1: that bridge and torn it up behind you. Yeah, and 172 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: to be unhappy with it, that's one thing. If you're 173 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 1: still a good mom and unhappy, I guess that can 174 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 1: be okay. Let me talk to who's on the next line, 175 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 1: Line four? Emily. Hello, Emily, what do you want to 176 00:07:57,880 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 1: say about Michelle? 177 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 8: I just wanted to say that, first off, it's totally 178 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 8: normal to have these feelings, but second off, you have 179 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 8: to learn how to advocate for yourself. And I think 180 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 8: the reality is I work full time and I'm also 181 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 8: a mom of a one and a half year old, 182 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 8: and we went in knowing that I was going to 183 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 8: continue working full time and that my husband was going 184 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 8: to be the primary caretaker, but he also works full time. 185 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 8: And I think sometimes people just need to understand that 186 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 8: they're just not designed to be stay at home parents, 187 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 8: like they need something else for their brains to work on. 188 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:31,000 Speaker 8: And whether that means you go and get a part 189 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:33,320 Speaker 8: time job or a full time job, I'm all here 190 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:35,960 Speaker 8: for it because I think it's worth having a job, 191 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 8: even if it only pays for daycare, like strictly pays 192 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:42,319 Speaker 8: for daycare, because you need a break and your kids 193 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 8: deserve to have a mom that shows up and that 194 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 8: also likes them. Yes, you're going to spend their childhood 195 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 8: resenting them. Nobody benefits because they. 196 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 1: Can feel that. I think because if you grow up 197 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 1: with a mom who and I've known people who's like 198 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 1: mom resented them growing up, you grow up with that. 199 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:01,439 Speaker 1: That becomes a part of who you are. And when 200 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:04,439 Speaker 1: you're thirty one hundred percent, and when you're thirty six 201 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 1: years old, you remember that mom never really expressed the 202 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 1: love and never really had to curl up on her 203 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 1: lap and read Doctor Seuss to you. 204 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 8: So it's more important for your mom to like you 205 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:21,559 Speaker 8: and like being around you, and like herself quite frankly 206 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 8: than it is for her to be around you all 207 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:24,199 Speaker 8: the time. 208 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, just go get a part time serving job and 209 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:28,960 Speaker 5: then you'll come home and be ecstatic to see your 210 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 5: kids because you were treated by like crap by all 211 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 5: your people. 212 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 1: Look good, time for a couple of more here. Michelle 213 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: called and basically she's like, got a four year old, 214 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:39,600 Speaker 1: a seven year old, and she said literally her first 215 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 1: words were, I hate being a mom. Your entire identity 216 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:47,559 Speaker 1: is being a mom. I can't run to Target, I 217 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 1: can't roll the stroll around endlessly, can't watch movies, can't 218 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 1: drink coffee. But I saw a meme. It's like, if 219 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 1: you're a mom, you can't remember the last time you 220 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:58,080 Speaker 1: drank coffee that was hot when you finished it because 221 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 1: you put it down like my shoes. What your sister does? 222 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 2: No, my sister. 223 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 5: The kids are a little bit older now, my niece 224 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 5: and nephew, but like when they were young. 225 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:08,479 Speaker 2: Oh, she would be constantly. 226 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 5: She'd maybe get a sip in and then she'd go 227 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 5: reheat it two hours later and finally sit down and 228 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 5: maybe have a couple more SIPs while I was hot 229 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 5: from the reheat. 230 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:17,320 Speaker 2: Oh geez. 231 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 1: Julia's online five from Julia. Hello, Julia, Hello, what do 232 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 1: you want to add? 233 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 9: Yeah, I just want to emphasize because even if you 234 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 9: do get time off, if you're at work, you still 235 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 9: have to be attentive. And you know, your brain is 236 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 9: always thinking. 237 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 6: About what's next. 238 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 9: When my husband's with the kids, he's calling me with 239 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 9: questions or concerns. It's never really a time that you 240 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 9: can turn it off, even at work, even if you're 241 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 9: out grocery shopping by yourself, even if you're getting. 242 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:44,320 Speaker 7: Your nails done. 243 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 6: I have a nine month. 244 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 9: Old and a thirteen year old, and you're always having 245 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 9: to be on so I completely emphasize with her, and 246 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 9: it is hot. 247 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 1: You have that thirteen year old. Watch that nine month old. 248 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:55,559 Speaker 1: What are you thinking? That's a thirteen year old. It's 249 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 1: a baby. 250 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 2: It's a built in baby sitter. 251 00:10:57,400 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 9: Right, there'll really take care of them. 252 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 1: No, I get you, no, And I think that's true. 253 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: And it is absolutely accurate that a mom, just for 254 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 1: whatever reason, does more of the parenting stuff. I don't 255 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 1: know why that is, and there are dads that do 256 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 1: different volumes or amounts of the parenting stuff. But I'll 257 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 1: be honest with you, Susan did so much more than 258 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: I did. And that's about because I was sitting around, 259 00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:29,360 Speaker 1: you know, like playing like video games. I just just 260 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 1: she just by default. Why is that? I don't know. 261 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:34,319 Speaker 4: Yeah, someone de text in saying being a dad is 262 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 4: totally different. Moms are parent a all day, every day. 263 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:40,440 Speaker 4: I don't hate it, but I absolutely see how someone would. 264 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 4: And then someone else did text saying, when you have kids, 265 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 4: you don't realize it's seven days a week, three hundred 266 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 4: and sixty five days a year. 267 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:48,439 Speaker 2: There are no more weekends for us. 268 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 1: There are. There's so many arguments on this one, so 269 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 1: I really appreciate. I wish we had time to get 270 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:57,839 Speaker 1: into all of them. Time for a couple of more. 271 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:01,319 Speaker 1: Parenting is tough, Michelle, and she just hung up or 272 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 1: I hung up on her by mistake, but you get 273 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 1: the idea. I'm sure she's still listening. The years go 274 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 1: by so quickly, they grow so fast. Enjoy the craziness. 275 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 1: Another one says all kids do is cry, break stuff 276 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 1: and make messes. Sometimes they're sweet. I don't know if 277 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:17,600 Speaker 1: it makes up for the tantums and crying. I would 278 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 1: tell anybody, Jenny Bailey, anybody don't have kids. Oh, but 279 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: they're wonderful. I wish I'd had six kids, like one 280 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 1: year apart. If I could do it all over again, 281 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 1: boom boom boom boom boom boom boom, that's seven boom 282 00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 1: boom boom boom boom is what I want. But yeah, 283 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: I just. 284 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 5: Had other friends admit that too, that they had kids now, 285 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 5: and they're like, don't have them, Like I have had 286 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:42,920 Speaker 5: friends admit that, yeah, and they wouldn't take back their kids. 287 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 5: But I think someone said earlier they heard a podcaster 288 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:48,679 Speaker 5: say like, if I didn't know my child, I would 289 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 5: not want kids, Like if I didn't go ahead have 290 00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 5: a kid, know my own child, then I would not 291 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 5: want kids and tell other people not to have them either. 292 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 4: Tech says it's painful to address feeling like she's lost 293 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 4: her identity. Brave for talking about it, and she's in 294 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 4: a tough season and we'll get through it. A lot 295 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:06,560 Speaker 4: of people are recommending that she's not the only one 296 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:10,080 Speaker 4: and not terrible. She should consider therapy for this, and 297 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 4: I like the one. A lot of people are saying 298 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 4: that she should go back to work. I liked the 299 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 4: caller that said, even if you're only going back to 300 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 4: work to pay for daycare, it's still daycare where your 301 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 4: kids are away from you, so you can have a break. 302 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:23,720 Speaker 1: And you have your own identity. So it's like, okay, 303 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 1: if you're a you know, a receptionist or you're you know, 304 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: doing taxes, you've got your own identity, even if it's 305 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:32,439 Speaker 1: only paying for daycare. So you step away for eight 306 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 1: hours a day, you've got your own circle of friends 307 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:37,840 Speaker 1: down at H and R block, and you've got your 308 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 1: identity back. So, hey, thanks for all the calls on 309 00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:41,679 Speaker 1: this one. I think one of the great things that 310 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 1: this call served as was to let other people know that, hey, 311 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 1: you're not the only one that feels that way, and 312 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 1: it is kind of probably more common than you think. Yeah, 313 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 1: what did we miss Let me know. We'll be right 314 00:13:56,679 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 1: back on Katie. WB got keyword for Lady Gaga that's 315 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:02,080 Speaker 1: coming up in a couple of moods, and then I 316 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 1: got a really interesting email. Weddings create a lot of controversy, 317 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 1: especially when this happens. Did this happen? And what would 318 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:14,040 Speaker 1: you do if your friend did this? Regarding your wedding. 319 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:16,760 Speaker 1: We'll cover it next on one oh one point three 320 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 1: KD double UB one oh one point three KDWB. I 321 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 1: love a couple of stories on you can't make this 322 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 1: stuff up. Number one, wired headphones are coming back because 323 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 1: people are like, I lose my earbuds, I lose my AirPods. 324 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 1: This sometimes you can't pair them. It's nothing more frustrated. 325 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 1: Was like BA unable to find device not connected. So 326 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 1: and then the quality is better. So people are going 327 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 1: back to wired headphones and earbuds. 328 00:14:57,600 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 4: Like the our forefathers before us. Exactly, Yesington had wired 329 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 4: headphones in. 330 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 1: The Battle of eighteen oh six and he was wearing 331 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 1: yeah the yeah. 332 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, and he listened to you know, all of his 333 00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 2: favorite tunes. 334 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah on iHeartRadio Shut of eighteen twelve, So stupid. 335 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 2: Love that one. 336 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:15,520 Speaker 1: Also, I love this story too. It's just it's so 337 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 1: funny because a woman walks by where the Academy Awards 338 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:22,080 Speaker 1: were and she notices a dumpster. They'd been cleaning up 339 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: the red Carpet event, and apparently they had taken the 340 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 1: red carpet, rolled it up and threw it in the dumpster, 341 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:29,880 Speaker 1: which is so funny because you know, the Hollywood people 342 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 1: are like, nah, we care about the environ man, but 343 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 1: they're all flying around the world on a private jet, 344 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 1: you know, heating and cooling six different homes around the country. 345 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 1: But we threw the carpet away because we couldn't find 346 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 1: a use for it. So she took home this giant 347 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 1: roll of carpet with Securities permission. She hauled at home, 348 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 1: gave her new apartment a glamorous upgrade. The whole thing 349 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 1: is people buzzing, guys, not because it's wild to imagine 350 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 1: the Academy of Wars people throwing that in, you know, 351 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 1: putting somebody's living room, but because it highlights how much 352 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 1: waste big events can produce and how some creative reuse 353 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 1: can give them a second life. Reduce, reuse, recycle. 354 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 2: That's what they say. 355 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, triple rs. I, Jenny and I, well mostly Jenny, 356 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 4: She'll like, obviously, look for a deal anywhere. I did 357 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 4: see a headboard that I really wanted in the alleyway, 358 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 4: like way down the alleyway from me, like a couple 359 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 4: of blocks away that I really wanted, but I didn't 360 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 4: want to like pick it up and walk it like 361 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 4: slowly back to my apartment. And then Jenny was like, no, 362 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 4: you should, and I was like, you know what, You're right, 363 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 4: I should drove by that dumpster again. 364 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:37,840 Speaker 2: It was gone. 365 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:38,480 Speaker 1: Oh it's gone. 366 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 2: I got to take advantage. 367 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 5: I had come from the side of the road for 368 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 5: the last year that I just I made money off 369 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 5: of it. I just sold it for fifty bucks on 370 00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 5: Marketplace and I got it full free. 371 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:50,280 Speaker 4: I have a chair that I got off the side 372 00:16:50,320 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 4: of the road. I mean, it's hideously ugly, but I 373 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 4: love it. And it was It didn't smell or anything. 374 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:56,600 Speaker 4: It was just sitting on the side of the road off. 375 00:16:56,840 --> 00:16:59,040 Speaker 1: You hardly tell the dog had puppies on it. 376 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 2: Exactly what are you saying? 377 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 1: The dirt is brought to you or actually, you can't 378 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:04,920 Speaker 1: make this stuff up. Is brought to you by the 379 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:09,440 Speaker 1: Leo Agency. The keyword for Lady Gaga this hour. Enter 380 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:12,400 Speaker 1: that keyword. Just text it into KDWB one. That's as 381 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:14,919 Speaker 1: simple as that, and you are in the drawing for 382 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:17,440 Speaker 1: Lady gog got tickets for two sold out shows coming 383 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 1: up I think April ninth and tenth or eighth and 384 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 1: ninth one or the other. 385 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 10: Uh. 386 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:24,159 Speaker 1: And the keyword is lakes, So use that keyword to 387 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 1: text in. We'll be back with Dave's dirt in a second. 388 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 1: Big Celebrity. Finally, kind of. It's uncovered that they've been 389 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 1: struggling with pills for a long time, and they've been 390 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 1: even going to Mexico to pick up handfuls of adderall. 391 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:44,919 Speaker 1: What does adderall do to you? That's an ADHD drug. 392 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 1: But it doesn't It make you hyper? Is that what 393 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 1: it does? 394 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 5: No, it makes you focus and it gives you energy. 395 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 5: So a livens you up. It's I mean, what I 396 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 5: hear is it's probably almost the same as cocaine, but legal. 397 00:17:57,760 --> 00:18:00,199 Speaker 1: I'm so glad that I'm not a drug person. I 398 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:03,200 Speaker 1: know nothing about them. I don't smoke weed. I wish 399 00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:05,480 Speaker 1: I could. Weed does not affect me in a fun way. 400 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 1: It makes me legittery and nervous and paranoid. So that's 401 00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:11,359 Speaker 1: why I drink heavily because I know what. 402 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 2: I know what to expect exactly. 403 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 1: Which is basically getting tired. Drinking doesn't make me more fun. 404 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:21,920 Speaker 1: It makes me more sleepy. No, when I drink, I'm 405 00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 1: not fun. I'm like, oh, I feel real relaxed right now. 406 00:18:27,480 --> 00:18:28,719 Speaker 2: I feel real relaxed right now. 407 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:34,399 Speaker 4: Vests wear, Yeah, I'm gonna have you make a fist 408 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:37,200 Speaker 4: and slowly put it up underneath fish. 409 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 2: Now, imagine the tiny little sea horses all around you. 410 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:43,920 Speaker 1: Oh, I feel real relaxed right now. 411 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:45,560 Speaker 2: That's the one. 412 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:48,880 Speaker 1: You guys, you know what, You're not in the cool 413 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 1: Kids club. 414 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:53,119 Speaker 2: Leon don't know if it would be called the cool Kids. 415 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:58,920 Speaker 2: It's more of it's an American classic exactly. 416 00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:00,879 Speaker 1: That is, it will be back with Dave's Dirt. What 417 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 1: celebrity is struggling with pills and more coming up next 418 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:12,359 Speaker 1: on one oh one point three k d wub Sorry laughing, 419 00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:15,160 Speaker 1: you can't laugh. I can't laugh. Don't make me laugh. 420 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 1: This cough is driving me nuts. We went to Bennie 421 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:22,120 Speaker 1: Hannah yesterday and uh, and we had such a great 422 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:24,639 Speaker 1: time and it was awesome, and shout out to the 423 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:28,120 Speaker 1: staff and the table, the birthday family that was next 424 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:29,400 Speaker 1: to us, another. 425 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 2: Group of people. 426 00:19:29,960 --> 00:19:31,960 Speaker 5: I feel like if there was an option for like 427 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 5: a beer bong of yum sauce, Day would have taken it. 428 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:36,680 Speaker 2: Probably just put a funnel in his mouth. 429 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 1: And be like, yeah, it's so good. Uh. And then 430 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 1: I went to the doctor yesterday for a physical and 431 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:45,879 Speaker 1: I was going to have the doctor give me something 432 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 1: for my cough because it's driving me and everybody crazy. 433 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:52,959 Speaker 1: And I went on the wrong day She's like, okay, hi, 434 00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:55,200 Speaker 1: can I check you in? Oh it looks like your 435 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 1: next Wednesday? And I'm like, no, I'm not even gonna 436 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 1: be here next Wednesday. Even saved up a urine sample. 437 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:04,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be out of town next Wednesday. Out of town. 438 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:08,160 Speaker 1: I even saved up a urine sample because well, they go, well, 439 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:10,200 Speaker 1: can you give us a urine sample? And if you 440 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:12,000 Speaker 1: just peede, like you know, in the lobby on the 441 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 1: way in, well you can't. So I'm like saving this 442 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:15,960 Speaker 1: one up. 443 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 2: You're disgusting. 444 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 1: But it's not disgusting at all. 445 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 2: We're in the lobbying that's disgusting. 446 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 1: And in the plant where do you think it in? 447 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:26,439 Speaker 2: Like a ziploc bag? And no, I mean I didn't. 448 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:31,200 Speaker 1: I didn't pee. So I'm I'm ready for them to go, Okay, 449 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 1: we're gonna draw blood, but first, can you give us 450 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 1: a urine sample? There's nothing worse than being in there 451 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:37,320 Speaker 1: with a little cup and you're already and you can't go. 452 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:38,840 Speaker 2: That happened to be one. 453 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:40,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, it sucks, doesn't it? 454 00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:44,399 Speaker 2: Fascinating story Bailey's drinking urine is drink every morning? What 455 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 2: is It's water? But I put orange flavoring in it 456 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 2: so it tastes better. 457 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:53,159 Speaker 1: So yeah, baby hoty yesterday, go check out the pictures. 458 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:55,399 Speaker 1: It was a lot of fun. And next place we 459 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 1: want to go can Can Wonderland, so that would be 460 00:20:58,560 --> 00:20:58,960 Speaker 1: kind of cool. 461 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 2: Uh, machines, it's so fun. 462 00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:03,160 Speaker 1: We're doing a keyword right now for Lady Goga. 463 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:09,200 Speaker 5: The keyword is lakes, like all of the lakes in Minnesota, lakes, 464 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:10,440 Speaker 5: plural lakes. 465 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 1: Okay, use that keyword. Text it to KDWB one and 466 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:16,440 Speaker 1: it's got to be plural lakes. That's the way you 467 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 1: get qualified to win. The lady got got tickets, So 468 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:20,600 Speaker 1: go do that. It's super easy to do. I want 469 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:23,640 Speaker 1: to read this. It's it's really interesting and I want 470 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 1: to see what you think. Am I being justified or 471 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:31,679 Speaker 1: being unreasonable? My fiance and I are engaged to be 472 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 1: married in this fall this fall. Our best friends just 473 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 1: got engaged this past weekend and they want to have 474 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 1: their wedding this fall too, the weekend befour hours. Now. 475 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 1: Remember this is their best friends. They want to have 476 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:50,359 Speaker 1: the wedding the weekend before theirs. They said, honestly, tell us, 477 00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:52,919 Speaker 1: does that bother you? And we said, yeah, I'll be 478 00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:57,480 Speaker 1: honest with you, It does bother us, especially because the 479 00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:00,239 Speaker 1: guest list of friends and family is going to be 480 00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:01,440 Speaker 1: so similar. 481 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:02,520 Speaker 2: Right, it's going to overlap a lot. 482 00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:05,680 Speaker 1: They're not pregnant, they're not old. There's no reason to 483 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 1: squeeze it in this fall other than that's what they 484 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,879 Speaker 1: want to do. What are your thoughts. I think that 485 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:13,359 Speaker 1: it was great of them to ask what you thought, 486 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:14,879 Speaker 1: and I think it was great for you to be 487 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 1: honest and say I don't really like it. 488 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:17,480 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. 489 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:20,679 Speaker 1: But now it's in their court. You already had the 490 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 1: wedding date set. They need to move theirs. You don't 491 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:27,160 Speaker 1: want to have two weddings in two consecutive weekends. 492 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:30,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, especially if it's overlapping guestless, because then if your 493 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 4: guestless only wants to go to one wedding because they're 494 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 4: busy or something, aren't they going to go to the 495 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 4: one that comes first, which is the ones that are 496 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:40,240 Speaker 4: like taking the time away from the first time. 497 00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:42,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. Yeah, And it's like nobody has because the 498 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 1: wedding is an all day thing. I mean, let's face it, 499 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 1: even if it's like a seven o'clock wedding, you got 500 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,920 Speaker 1: to get there for the cocktails and reception at about 501 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:54,639 Speaker 1: four four thirty, you stand around. The wedding takes you know, 502 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:59,760 Speaker 1: an hour or so, and then afterward you've got the home, 503 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:04,600 Speaker 1: You've got afterward you've got the dancing and the dinner 504 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:06,120 Speaker 1: and things like that. So it's an all day thing. 505 00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:07,680 Speaker 1: Do you want to do that two days in a row? 506 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:09,359 Speaker 1: Most people don't have that kind of time that. 507 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 5: But then also the fact that, like if they're best friends, 508 00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 5: that means that they're going to be a part of 509 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 5: the wedding party most likely. So that means it's actually 510 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,439 Speaker 5: just like a full weekend one weekend, a full weekend 511 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:21,120 Speaker 5: the next weekend. It would just be so much over 512 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 5: the course of like a ten day span. 513 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:24,639 Speaker 2: I don't know. 514 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:27,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't think you were being unreasonable. I think 515 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,480 Speaker 5: you had every right to say NEAHD prefer you don't. 516 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:31,399 Speaker 1: Oh look, I just got a text from the person 517 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 1: who wrote this. Genuinely, here's a text at katiewb One. 518 00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 1: I'm the one who wrote that email. Update. They are 519 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 1: trying to see if they can switch to a date 520 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:43,240 Speaker 1: three weeks before ours. Obviously that's better than six days, 521 00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 1: but still we're not crazy about it. Is that still 522 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:52,120 Speaker 1: being too selfish a little bit, but I get it. 523 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 1: Three weeks is better than six days, but I totally 524 00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 1: get it. I think if you can get them to 525 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:00,920 Speaker 1: do that, that that would be a win. 526 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:02,639 Speaker 10: I think it's being a little less selfish, or I 527 00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 10: think it's being a little more selfish if you're still 528 00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 10: not happy with it, because now they're at least trying 529 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:08,439 Speaker 10: to accommodate. You know, at least they're receptive, because they 530 00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:09,679 Speaker 10: could have been like, no, we're keeping it. 531 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,160 Speaker 2: Somebody said textan saying yes, it's way too close. 532 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,720 Speaker 4: I got married six weeks apart from my best friend, 533 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,400 Speaker 4: and it was a lot with all the events back 534 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 4: to back. Because think about it that way, if you're 535 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:24,360 Speaker 4: the kind of you know, couple who's doing a bridal shower, 536 00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:28,840 Speaker 4: bachelorette party, bachelor party, all of that jazz, plus like 537 00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 4: the weekend itself, Like you said, day of a wedding 538 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 4: is all day. But then what if you're going to 539 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 4: like the rehearsal dinner the night before. 540 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:37,439 Speaker 1: If you're and right, and you're probably if your friends 541 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 1: you're definitely going to be in each. 542 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:42,200 Speaker 4: Other's wedding exactly that, And I'm thinking of like all 543 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 4: of the prep that it takes to get ready for 544 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,760 Speaker 4: a wedding. Like when my friend Sarah got married, she 545 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:49,160 Speaker 4: did a lot of like DIY stuff, So I would 546 00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:52,080 Speaker 4: go to her house and we would DIY stuff together 547 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:55,120 Speaker 4: to prepare for her wedding. And I can't imagine having 548 00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,840 Speaker 4: two of my friends in the same like friend group 549 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:01,400 Speaker 4: bubble doing the exact same thing for both friends over 550 00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:03,879 Speaker 4: the span of like three months. You know, that's a 551 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 4: lot of it's a lot of wedding prep, and you're 552 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 4: also going to compete. 553 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:11,240 Speaker 5: You're gonna be like, well, theirs was really fun, and now, like, 554 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:13,879 Speaker 5: imagine as much fun we can. 555 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,440 Speaker 1: You imagine if everybody like the first wedding is really 556 00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:18,959 Speaker 1: really fun and people like close it down until they 557 00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:20,880 Speaker 1: have to call the cops to kick you out, and 558 00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 1: your wedding people kind of leave er. 559 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 5: You can't afford, like an open bar people. 560 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:31,040 Speaker 2: Did, like the party lasted all night long. I don't know. 561 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 5: I yeah, I'm on the side of the person who 562 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:35,120 Speaker 5: emailed them and Slash texted in. 563 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:37,840 Speaker 1: Yeah I am too. What's a good gap? Six weeks? 564 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,680 Speaker 1: Is that good enough? Is three weeks? Three weeks is better. 565 00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:41,159 Speaker 2: Than would be? 566 00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:43,840 Speaker 5: Okay, But maybe I'm wrong about that, since someone texted 567 00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:45,080 Speaker 5: in saying six weeks. 568 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 2: Was all this hard? 569 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:49,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, the good news is they're communicating about it. They 570 00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,600 Speaker 1: a couple of number two realizes that's kind of an 571 00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:53,679 Speaker 1: imposition to have that wedding. 572 00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 4: Someone said, have a double weddings, But the corbody wants 573 00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 4: to do that. Nobody wants heard of that movies. 574 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 1: Only in movies are when it's brother's marrying sisters that 575 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:05,280 Speaker 1: it's a double wedding. All right, we'll be back in 576 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,000 Speaker 1: a second with you can't make this stuff up. Your 577 00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 1: keyword for Lady Gaga is lakes And we'll be right 578 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:14,159 Speaker 1: back on Katie. How about how about we get you 579 00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,680 Speaker 1: in at a really inconvenient time for you? And I'm like, well, 580 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,040 Speaker 1: I guess that'll work. And they said, well, that's the 581 00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:21,399 Speaker 1: only time that we have available. And I said, is 582 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:24,720 Speaker 1: it necessary that I come in? And she said yes, 583 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:28,320 Speaker 1: because the doctor has a volvo payment to make and 584 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,159 Speaker 1: so I needed to come in. Yeah, you know, and 585 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,639 Speaker 1: I probably got to come back again for next month's 586 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 1: Volvo payment. But we did make it to Benni Hanha yesterday, 587 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 1: which was great. And I encourage the kids because I'm 588 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 1: a veteran of Bennie Hanna, and I said, do not 589 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,040 Speaker 1: order from the lunch menu. I mean, sure you can, 590 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,679 Speaker 1: but if you do, you will not get the delicious salad. 591 00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:49,840 Speaker 1: The salad is actually great. Bonn didn't need a salad. 592 00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:51,440 Speaker 1: Vont is a twelve year old boy. 593 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,160 Speaker 5: He didn't eat half of his courses. He didn't eat 594 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:58,160 Speaker 5: the salad, he didn't eat the cucumber and onion sauteed, 595 00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:02,960 Speaker 5: and like Teraoki, he didn't eat the mushrooms. I almost 596 00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:06,280 Speaker 5: took the mushrooms because I love mushrooms with a little fellation. 597 00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 2: Che gave you a lot of it. I'm telling you 598 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:09,800 Speaker 2: that chef. 599 00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:10,760 Speaker 1: Likes you, Jenny totally. 600 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 5: I once again do not know why I got like 601 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:14,359 Speaker 5: double triple the meat. 602 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,520 Speaker 1: Well, they gave Jenny the plate full of meat, and 603 00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 1: then like five minutes later he's cooking up another pile 604 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 1: of meat and it's really it's about the size of 605 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 1: a human head. And he takes the spatula and dumps 606 00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:25,760 Speaker 1: it on Jenny's plate and we all looking at her like, DRM. 607 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, Bailey almost started crying. 608 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,800 Speaker 4: I was so annoyed about it because you got twice 609 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:30,560 Speaker 4: as much meat. 610 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 2: As I did. 611 00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:32,960 Speaker 5: Bailey, and I ordered the same meal. So she was 612 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,040 Speaker 5: like what And I thought. I thought it was a 613 00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 5: matter of maybe he cooked the meat wrong the first 614 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 5: time because I asked for medium rare because I am 615 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:43,520 Speaker 5: that I ordered state the right way, and I feel 616 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,760 Speaker 5: like he thought he overcooked it. So that's why, because 617 00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 5: that was the only thing I understood. When I was like, 618 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,760 Speaker 5: what is this, He's like, you said medium rare and 619 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:51,600 Speaker 5: I was like okay, and then. 620 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 2: That was the end of it. And I think it's 621 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:55,160 Speaker 2: because she winked at it on one of maybe. 622 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,880 Speaker 1: So anyway, we had a great time. It was nice 623 00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:03,320 Speaker 1: to get out there and thing to Stephanie, who's on 624 00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 1: every Friday around this time to tell us what's going 625 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:07,399 Speaker 1: on in the Twin Cities. And then Emily, who just 626 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,360 Speaker 1: is a random person who listened to the show. They 627 00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:11,639 Speaker 1: sent us gift cards, two hundred dollars worth of gift cards. 628 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:14,080 Speaker 1: The bill came to about three hundred and eighty seven dollars. 629 00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:16,600 Speaker 1: I picked up the balance because you guys expected me 630 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 1: to pay anyway. 631 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, so true, I said. 632 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 5: Right when we started, I said, we can't order off 633 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:23,720 Speaker 5: the dinner menu that will not be covered by the 634 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 5: gift cards. 635 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 2: And you were like, Jenny, I got this as you will. 636 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:30,679 Speaker 5: I mean before Platinum Delta card at me and I 637 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:31,120 Speaker 5: was like, all. 638 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:35,119 Speaker 1: Right, before we got the gift cards, you guys had 639 00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,639 Speaker 1: always said, when are you taking me to Bennie Hannah. 640 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 2: That's in the song. 641 00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,280 Speaker 10: But because the whole thing started after you offered to 642 00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:43,000 Speaker 10: take us, I don't remember doing that at all. 643 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:44,480 Speaker 1: That's how we got here. 644 00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:47,920 Speaker 5: And David how he doesn't remember the part that holds 645 00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:48,680 Speaker 5: him accountable. 646 00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:51,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, why would I agree? 647 00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:51,720 Speaker 11: Right? 648 00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:53,160 Speaker 2: You know what I said, You're like, I'll take you 649 00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 2: guys to Benny Hannah. That's what you said. 650 00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:56,720 Speaker 1: I meant I would welcome you there. 651 00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,440 Speaker 2: I like leached on to that obviously. Apparently so oh 652 00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:02,840 Speaker 2: he said he pay roll it back. 653 00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:08,520 Speaker 1: See the pictures on video. It's four people having lunch. Yeah, 654 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:13,680 Speaker 1: there's go watch the videos on online on Instagram Dave 655 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 1: Ryan's Show. Let's get into Dave's dirt. We got some 656 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:20,600 Speaker 1: stuff we got to cover, and here we go. I'll 657 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:24,720 Speaker 1: get started with the fact that it's Britney Spears is 658 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:27,240 Speaker 1: struggling for years with pills. She's the cover story of 659 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:31,200 Speaker 1: US Weekly This week. Four different unnamed sources spoke about 660 00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:33,920 Speaker 1: her addiction to pills since being released from the conservatorship 661 00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:37,160 Speaker 1: and the end of a required drug test. Now this 662 00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 1: surprises literally no one. If you've seen her videos of 663 00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:45,320 Speaker 1: her like in a bikini or underwear and like doing 664 00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:49,160 Speaker 1: weird little dances and you feel bad for and it's like, 665 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 1: I know that everybody's like, leave Britney alone, get her 666 00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 1: out of her conservatorship. Man, I'm gonna tell you that 667 00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:57,800 Speaker 1: there's certain people in my family that I wish they 668 00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:01,600 Speaker 1: had a conservatorship because they just really they needed And 669 00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 1: I think Brittany always needed a conservatorship, but I think 670 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:09,000 Speaker 1: greedy people wanted her away from her father's conservatorship so 671 00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 1: they could have access to the Britney stockpile of money. Yeah. 672 00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:16,760 Speaker 1: So anyway, she admitted in her book that adderall's her 673 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 1: drug of choice. She goes to Mexico, where I guess 674 00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,400 Speaker 1: it's easier to get adderall, and k fed is like 675 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,200 Speaker 1: I knew this is going to happen. It's just a 676 00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:26,640 Speaker 1: matter of time, and I really hope that she gets 677 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:29,800 Speaker 1: the help before she hurts herself or somebody else. So 678 00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:34,440 Speaker 1: even her rep said the morning after arrest last week, 679 00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:37,440 Speaker 1: was it for Dui or earlier this week? Hopefully this 680 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,800 Speaker 1: can be the first step in a long overdue change 681 00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 1: that needs to occur in Britney's life. One of the 682 00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:47,440 Speaker 1: sad things is is this is not what Britney ever 683 00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:52,160 Speaker 1: planned for thirty years ago when she wanted to become 684 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:55,040 Speaker 1: a pop star when she was a little cute Brittany 685 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:58,280 Speaker 1: on The Mickey Mouse Club with Christina Aguilera and Justin Timberlake. 686 00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,480 Speaker 1: This is never the future that she saw in the 687 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:04,800 Speaker 1: quite near future. I mean, what is shame that kids 688 00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:10,440 Speaker 1: get dragged through this awful maze of torture once they 689 00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:11,360 Speaker 1: want to become famous. 690 00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:13,400 Speaker 10: Yeah, I wonder what it's like, not what it's like, 691 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:17,520 Speaker 10: but seeing the Brittany's, the Demi Levados, and you know 692 00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:19,200 Speaker 10: those people that came up in the early two thousands 693 00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 10: that were pop stars, child stars and just behind the scenes, 694 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,360 Speaker 10: the peel behind the curtain. Now of it wasn't all 695 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:27,320 Speaker 10: glitz and glamour, it wasn't all beautiful. It's been so 696 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 10: interesting to see Demi Levado's journey, right because she, you know, 697 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 10: was on drugs for a little bit and she was engaged. 698 00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:35,840 Speaker 1: But she took meth. She almost died for meth. Yeah, 699 00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:39,000 Speaker 1: oh yeah, I mean that's not like adderall. 700 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:41,840 Speaker 10: So it's just been interesting to see, like, yeah, look, 701 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:43,920 Speaker 10: it's not all that, it's not Peaches and Cream. 702 00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 703 00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,720 Speaker 5: So The White Lotus season four is in production, if 704 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:50,800 Speaker 5: not already cast it. But the thing that's exciting about 705 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:52,880 Speaker 5: it is this one's going to be in France. But 706 00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 5: they announced the full cast estory. I know we've already 707 00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:58,440 Speaker 5: heard of some of them, but I was so hyped 708 00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:01,960 Speaker 5: to see that Max Greenfelt, who is Schmidt. 709 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:05,600 Speaker 2: From's New Girl? Yeah, Schmidt New Girl's going to be 710 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:05,880 Speaker 2: in it. 711 00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:07,920 Speaker 5: And then I don't know exactly what he's in, but 712 00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 5: you would definitely recognize Kumile Non Johnny Yeah, sorry, that's yeah, Okay, 713 00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:16,720 Speaker 5: he was in The Big Otic Okay. And then also 714 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:21,040 Speaker 5: Helena Bonham Color, Madam Carter, Thank you, Billy, she's a 715 00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:22,640 Speaker 5: bellatrix strange. 716 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:23,160 Speaker 2: Okay, yep. 717 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:26,640 Speaker 5: And then Chloe Bennet, she's a pretty famous actress. And 718 00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:28,360 Speaker 5: then there's like a handful of other people that I 719 00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 5: think you'd recognize their faces, you might know where are from. 720 00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:33,120 Speaker 5: But they got a good cast. I was just shocked 721 00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:35,520 Speaker 5: to see Max Greenville and something like that because I 722 00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:37,720 Speaker 5: haven't seen him in something like quite that big in 723 00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:38,280 Speaker 5: a while. 724 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:39,360 Speaker 2: Exciting. 725 00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:43,960 Speaker 4: So after a year after Bill val Kilmer's death, He's 726 00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:46,360 Speaker 4: going to appear in a new movie thanks to the 727 00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 4: magic of AI. Yeah, so filming originally began in twenty twenty, 728 00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 4: but by that time val Kilmer was already having a 729 00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:55,680 Speaker 4: really tough time medically. 730 00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:56,200 Speaker 2: And couldn't do it. 731 00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:59,520 Speaker 4: And the director of this movie, it's called as Deep 732 00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:02,520 Speaker 4: as the Grave. If the director his I do not 733 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:03,959 Speaker 4: know how to pronounce his name, but his last name 734 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,800 Speaker 4: is warhees. He says that he knows that some people 735 00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 4: will be against the AI, but he says that it's 736 00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:12,959 Speaker 4: what val Kilmer wanted and he got permission from his family. 737 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 1: That's the key part. 738 00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:18,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, so interesting, But I don't know, I feel like 739 00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:20,080 Speaker 4: that would be weird if we can just start using 740 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:24,240 Speaker 4: AI to generate people left and right. Did we ever 741 00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:25,360 Speaker 4: get to mourn them that way? 742 00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,520 Speaker 10: If you were excited about the Spice Girls in the 743 00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:31,120 Speaker 10: thirtieth anniversary, well guess what it ain't happened in the 744 00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:35,800 Speaker 10: court Courton to Melsei, we have a clip and she says. 745 00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 1: It's not what clip is it? I don't have number five? 746 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:40,520 Speaker 1: Here we go, Juli. 747 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,600 Speaker 11: Would be the thirtieth anniversary you want to be being 748 00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,520 Speaker 11: released and then later in the year Spice the first album. 749 00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:49,120 Speaker 11: So yeah, it's a big one. I know, there was 750 00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:53,800 Speaker 11: no we are communicating all the time. Yeah, we want 751 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:57,160 Speaker 11: to do something. Who knows when it's what? 752 00:33:57,600 --> 00:33:59,600 Speaker 1: I wonder what the hold up is? I mean, I 753 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,200 Speaker 1: think there there's so many contracts and behind the scenes 754 00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:06,479 Speaker 1: egos and things. You would think that, you know, if 755 00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:11,160 Speaker 1: somebody said, hey, Dave, do a reunion with you and Angie, 756 00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:14,360 Speaker 1: Taylor and Jaxon'd be like, yeah, sure, what why not? 757 00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:17,960 Speaker 1: Okay Thursday work? Sure, But I think there's so many 758 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,600 Speaker 1: contracts and egos and it's like, well I should get 759 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:25,879 Speaker 1: more because I'm Jerry or I'm Baby. Well, nobody cared 760 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:29,480 Speaker 1: about you, Posh or whatever. You know what it is 761 00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:31,680 Speaker 1: what I mean, So I can't imagine why they just 762 00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:34,759 Speaker 1: can't do it. None of them probably need the money, no, 763 00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:36,600 Speaker 1: you know, but I need it. 764 00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:37,480 Speaker 2: Jenny, you. 765 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 5: Would understand, like every millennial out there grew up on 766 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:47,200 Speaker 5: Spice girls. Everyone was a certain Spice. I was always 767 00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:50,080 Speaker 5: Baby Spice that checks out we had. I liked Posh, 768 00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:52,200 Speaker 5: she was my favorite. Yeah she's weird and she's no 769 00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:53,040 Speaker 5: one's favorite. 770 00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,319 Speaker 2: That is true. She really isn't. But I wish they 771 00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:57,240 Speaker 2: would do a reunion. 772 00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,080 Speaker 4: That would be great, so they would really think about 773 00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:00,799 Speaker 4: us instead of them elves for once. 774 00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:01,520 Speaker 2: That'd be great. 775 00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:03,160 Speaker 4: Is it me? 776 00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:07,279 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm losing track. I'm trying to figure out all 777 00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,280 Speaker 1: the butt now and this mouse doesn't operate this computer. 778 00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,520 Speaker 1: But I keep trying to use this mouse to operate 779 00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:14,400 Speaker 1: that computer and it's not working. 780 00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:15,600 Speaker 2: Do you have over there? 781 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:17,480 Speaker 1: Well, I got one mic, but I got five that 782 00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:20,799 Speaker 1: I operate, and that doesn't include vaughns. You see what 783 00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:21,200 Speaker 1: I'm saying. 784 00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:23,640 Speaker 2: I'm saying mouse like mice. How many mice do you have? 785 00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 1: I got two mice over here. They're not wireless. You 786 00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 1: would think that a big change would provide. 787 00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:34,280 Speaker 5: Supposed to be wireless, but the problem was they wouldn't 788 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:40,960 Speaker 5: go on the table without a mouse pad. So no, 789 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 5: that's got a wire right, Maybe I spoke wrong. 790 00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,080 Speaker 2: I got a wires. Look at it. 791 00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:49,040 Speaker 5: It's take it out and everything. I sent a link 792 00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:51,800 Speaker 5: to it. It's like a little Rose Gold. 793 00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:52,319 Speaker 12: Yeah. 794 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:52,600 Speaker 6: I did. 795 00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:55,080 Speaker 5: Literally, our engineer Jared was like, pick out a mouse 796 00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:56,120 Speaker 5: on Amazon and sent. 797 00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:57,840 Speaker 2: It to me. I was like done. 798 00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:00,000 Speaker 1: One of the things that we are good at here 799 00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:03,360 Speaker 1: in Minnesota is some people are good at the Minnesota goodbye, 800 00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,719 Speaker 1: where they say goodbye forever. They follow you out to 801 00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 1: your car, you roll down your window, you finish talking, 802 00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:10,919 Speaker 1: you pull out of the driveway, they follow you drown 803 00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:13,520 Speaker 1: the driveway, and a Minnesota goodbye goes on forever. But 804 00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:16,440 Speaker 1: then there's the Irish goodbye, which is I love the 805 00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:19,719 Speaker 1: Irish goodbye. It lets you leave without even saying goodbye 806 00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:21,920 Speaker 1: to the host couple. Let's say go over to Jill 807 00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:23,880 Speaker 1: and Brian's house for a little lone of old Christmas 808 00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,040 Speaker 1: get together, and instead of going up to Jill and 809 00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:27,640 Speaker 1: Brian at the end of the night, when you're leaving, 810 00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:30,319 Speaker 1: you just kind of dip out because you know, if 811 00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,440 Speaker 1: you go up to Jill and Brian, you're gonna have 812 00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:34,600 Speaker 1: to interrupt them because they're talking to somebody else. You 813 00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:36,720 Speaker 1: do the Irish goodbye, but we're doing it wrong. According 814 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:37,880 Speaker 1: to this expert. 815 00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:39,040 Speaker 2: It depends on the scenario. 816 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:42,160 Speaker 12: So if you're at an intimate dinner party, yes, but 817 00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:45,200 Speaker 12: if you're at a gala, a wedding, a larger function, 818 00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,680 Speaker 12: if leaving it's not going to be disruptive, or if 819 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,640 Speaker 12: leaving and letting people know would be disruptive. Then in 820 00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:53,320 Speaker 12: that case it actually would be bad manners, because sometimes 821 00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:56,040 Speaker 12: it makes sense. You don't want to create this domino 822 00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,719 Speaker 12: effect where everybody else is leaving and be disruptive. 823 00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,640 Speaker 2: So sometimes a quick text at the. 824 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:02,359 Speaker 12: End of the night or letting someone know how much 825 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:04,800 Speaker 12: you appreciated seeing them the next day makes more sense. 826 00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:06,759 Speaker 1: I like that. That makes sense. So if you're at 827 00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:09,160 Speaker 1: a big wedding and there's like two hundred guests or whatever, 828 00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:12,160 Speaker 1: you're not going to disrupt anybody by leaving. 829 00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:13,040 Speaker 6: Leave. 830 00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:14,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, No one's gonna know. 831 00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:16,040 Speaker 1: And then text the bride and groom later and said, hey, 832 00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:18,320 Speaker 1: we had a great time. Yeah, but if it's like 833 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:21,239 Speaker 1: an intimate dinner party, let's save. The four of us 834 00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:23,799 Speaker 1: got together with our partners and we had like an 835 00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:27,000 Speaker 1: eight person little dinner party, and Bailey decided to do 836 00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:28,920 Speaker 1: what Irish goodbye? We look up, it was like, where's 837 00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:32,239 Speaker 1: Bailey and regular guy? Oh they left about fifteen minutes ago. 838 00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:34,520 Speaker 1: What Yeah, that would be rude. 839 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,400 Speaker 4: Right for sure. But I've Irish Goodbye plenty of weddings. 840 00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:41,319 Speaker 4: I'm just a goodna bounce. Yeah they're not gonna know. Yeah, 841 00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:43,080 Speaker 4: I'm not going to or like a house party. I 842 00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:44,759 Speaker 4: ain't say bye, I'm leaving, just go. 843 00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:49,400 Speaker 5: Jaz doesn't tour much anymore because he just rides off 844 00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:53,319 Speaker 5: of Beyonce's cotails. But basically he's going to take over 845 00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:57,239 Speaker 5: Yankee Stadium on backs back nights this summer July tenth. 846 00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:00,400 Speaker 5: He's going to be performing his debut album Reasonable, and 847 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:03,759 Speaker 5: then the next night he'll be performing the full The Blueprint. 848 00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:06,080 Speaker 5: And I looked at these albums. The Blueprint was released 849 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:08,319 Speaker 5: twenty five years ago now, which is crazy. The only 850 00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:10,320 Speaker 5: song I know off of that one is ha the 851 00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:13,200 Speaker 5: is ov is A. That's the only one I know 852 00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,680 Speaker 5: on that one his og album, though, I've got to 853 00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:17,160 Speaker 5: be honest, I don't recognize anything. 854 00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:19,120 Speaker 1: Which one has got it. It's a hard knock life 855 00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:23,000 Speaker 1: for us that that song is. 856 00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:23,960 Speaker 2: It's a hard knock life. 857 00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:29,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, the Static Kisses, I'm actually thinking the one from Annie. 858 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:32,680 Speaker 1: That's what we what it's from. 859 00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:35,680 Speaker 5: It's called It's from Volume two, Hard Knock Life. 860 00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:38,680 Speaker 1: That's the album that's Watch a video sometime of that 861 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:42,759 Speaker 1: little girl singing that and how ferocious she looks when 862 00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:45,080 Speaker 1: she sings that, because she's like twelve years old and 863 00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,799 Speaker 1: she's not singing it's a hard knock life. She's like, 864 00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:49,280 Speaker 1: it's a hard knock life. 865 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:51,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's had a rough one. Yeah, she was an 866 00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 2: orphan with red hair. 867 00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:57,200 Speaker 1: She's been through it. It doesn't get anything worse. Ed 868 00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:59,080 Speaker 1: is Dave's dirt on Katie. It'll be