WEBVTT - 8am Hour - Bop it! Twist it! 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:05.000 TV, we are going to talk about this article. I 0:00:05.120 --> 0:00:07.120 saw it and then I guess it's been around a while. 0:00:07.120 --> 0:00:09.920 It's not totally new, but it's like British Vogue magazine 0:00:10.039 --> 0:00:10.639 something like that. 0:00:10.840 --> 0:00:12.800 Someone wrote an article in British Vogue about it, like 0:00:12.880 --> 0:00:14.960 week and a half ago or so now, and it's 0:00:15.000 --> 0:00:19.000 titled as having a boyfriend embarrassing now. So, like I 0:00:19.000 --> 0:00:21.639 said earlier, it's very clickbaity. It's kind of like, what 0:00:21.680 --> 0:00:22.279 does this mean? 0:00:22.400 --> 0:00:22.720 Whatever? 0:00:22.760 --> 0:00:24.680 And then everyone on social media is walking around and 0:00:24.680 --> 0:00:26.760 they're like, Oh, I'm better than you because I don't 0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:29.920 have a boyfriend wherever because it's embarrassing finally like doing 0:00:29.960 --> 0:00:30.920 something right for once. 0:00:30.960 --> 0:00:31.480 Yeah, whatever. 0:00:31.760 --> 0:00:34.959 But when you dive into the actual article, it's not 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:37.239 necessarily that like you don't want love, you don't want 0:00:37.240 --> 0:00:37.720 a partner. 0:00:37.800 --> 0:00:39.559 It's the fact that a lot. 0:00:39.400 --> 0:00:42.760 Of people look at social media nowadays and they post 0:00:42.800 --> 0:00:46.200 their significant other for the first time, and then something 0:00:46.280 --> 0:00:50.000 might come out about that person that's like not very good, 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:53.440 like whether that person's been dating other people or you 0:00:53.520 --> 0:00:57.520 look up their history and they like things that are inappropriate. 0:00:56.960 --> 0:00:57.680 Or something like that. 0:00:57.800 --> 0:00:59.640 And I think social media has kind of ruined a 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:03.080 lot of things with having a boyfriend and publicly showing that. 0:01:03.040 --> 0:01:04.240 You have about boyfriend. 0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:07.640 So a lot of people have pulled back on publicizing 0:01:07.680 --> 0:01:12.160 their boyfriends. And this woman who wrote the article even said, like, 0:01:12.520 --> 0:01:15.440 look at social media nowadays. When you follow a creator 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:18.400 and suddenly they have a partner and they're posting their boyfriend, 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:20.440 you kind of lose some interest in that. 0:01:20.560 --> 0:01:23.800 You're like, okay, well, unfollow or mute or whatever. 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:26.679 Right, Like, if you're a fashion influencer and you're posting 0:01:26.720 --> 0:01:29.120 all about your fashion and suddenly your boyfriend's and a 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:31.680 bunch of your stuff, people are like, eh, not really 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:32.520 interested anymore. 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:34.280 And I think you could even pull that out of 0:01:34.760 --> 0:01:37.120 social media too. If you have like a friend that 0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:39.360 you've been friends with for years and you know them 0:01:39.400 --> 0:01:41.400 to be a very specific kind of person, you like 0:01:41.480 --> 0:01:44.800 their personality, whatever, and then they get a boyfriend and 0:01:44.840 --> 0:01:47.600 then they just become the girl with the boyfriend, and 0:01:47.640 --> 0:01:49.480 then they kind of lose all of that other stuff 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:52.200 that was like define them in the first place. Then 0:01:52.240 --> 0:01:55.440 you're kind of like, God, Megan again, now she's just 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:57.880 she's always with her boyfriend. I never see her anymore. 0:01:57.920 --> 0:01:59.840 All she talks about is her boyfriend and blah blah blah. 0:01:59.840 --> 0:02:02.000 So I think you can actually like see it in 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:04.600 real life as well as on social media, and that's 0:02:04.600 --> 0:02:05.400 what she was talking about. 0:02:05.480 --> 0:02:07.480 I would like to point out that the author of 0:02:07.480 --> 0:02:10.200 that article did say that she spoke to pretty much 0:02:10.200 --> 0:02:12.880 only women that are in relationships. Yeah, and they explained 0:02:12.880 --> 0:02:15.000 why it is embarrassing to have boyfriends. It's not single 0:02:15.040 --> 0:02:17.280 women that are like, it's embarrassing to have a boyfriend. 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:19.079 I don't want a boyfriend. It is like women who 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:22.400 are actually in loving relationships and explaining that. And then 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:24.799 I read this other article that was like a substack 0:02:24.880 --> 0:02:27.800 that said that public love has become a bit of 0:02:27.800 --> 0:02:30.639 a liability. It's not that we're ashamed of romance, we're 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:33.760 just painfully aware that men are. Now, this is an 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:36.040 article that it's not my opinion that men are just 0:02:36.560 --> 0:02:39.680 statistically likely to humiliate you. So who wants to go 0:02:39.720 --> 0:02:42.280 from being the it girl to poor girl in a 0:02:42.320 --> 0:02:45.080 single news cycle? Ooh, so it's a matter of like 0:02:45.280 --> 0:02:47.480 you post your boyfriend for the first time, someone comes 0:02:47.480 --> 0:02:49.400 out and is like, yeah, that person's not a good 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:52.160 person because they cheated or they've been talking to me on. 0:02:52.160 --> 0:02:52.959 The side or something. 0:02:53.320 --> 0:02:55.359 So there's just a lot of lack of people being 0:02:55.440 --> 0:03:00.000 willing to openly talk about having a partner nowadays because 0:03:00.000 --> 0:03:02.600 because of the backlash, they feel like they might. 0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:06.280 Do you think that's an influencer famous Instagram or kind 0:03:06.280 --> 0:03:08.919 of a thing, because let's say if like I don't know, 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:11.000 let's say that, I'm going to think of a friend 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:13.120 of mine. Let's say Melissa, Okay, good friend of mine. 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:14.600 If all of a sudden she gets a boyfriend and 0:03:14.639 --> 0:03:16.560 she posts it, I don't be like that, that's embarrassing, 0:03:16.560 --> 0:03:18.120 and like, good for you. You know what, You've been 0:03:18.160 --> 0:03:20.080 single for a long time and you're a wonderful person. 0:03:20.360 --> 0:03:23.160 So maybe as a guy I see it differently. But 0:03:23.360 --> 0:03:25.600 maybe it's just an influencer kind of a thing. Like 0:03:25.639 --> 0:03:28.240 you said yourself, if you're all about fashion, now you 0:03:28.280 --> 0:03:31.320 post your boyfriend. I mean I don't follow fashion. Look 0:03:31.320 --> 0:03:32.520 at my shop at Target. 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:32.919 Yeah. 0:03:32.960 --> 0:03:35.160 So, but if I saw like Bailey all of a 0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:37.320 sudden had a boyfriend, it wouldn't be like that's embarrassing. 0:03:37.320 --> 0:03:39.080 It'd be like, hey, good for you, You're a good catch. 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:39.480 Yeah. 0:03:39.560 --> 0:03:42.160 See. So I was thinking about it in the context 0:03:42.160 --> 0:03:43.560 of me because I'm the only one who's lived in 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:47.200 my experience. So I was thinking, I've I've had boyfriends 0:03:47.200 --> 0:03:49.720 in the past, surprise to a lot of people, but 0:03:49.760 --> 0:03:52.200 I have had I have had boyfriends in the past, 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:54.720 and I like my first one. I would post him 0:03:54.720 --> 0:03:56.200 a lot because he was my first boyfriend, so I 0:03:56.200 --> 0:03:57.520 wanted to be like, look I have a boyfriend. 0:03:57.560 --> 0:03:58.200 Look how cute he is. 0:03:58.200 --> 0:03:58.680 Wowow wow. 0:03:59.000 --> 0:04:01.760 But then the last one that I had, I rarely 0:04:01.800 --> 0:04:04.800 posted him because I did think, like, not that it 0:04:04.840 --> 0:04:07.040 was embarrassing, but I was like, this man doesn't define 0:04:07.080 --> 0:04:10.160 who I am, so I don't want my whole personality 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:11.960 to become here's my man. 0:04:12.120 --> 0:04:14.200 Well, I would agree with that. I will make an analogy. 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:17.120 It's like a guy who gets a new Mustang, Yeah, 0:04:17.160 --> 0:04:19.600 and every picture is with his new Mustang. Well, maybe 0:04:19.600 --> 0:04:23.039 he's really proud of it, but we're secretly snickering. It's like, bro, 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:26.720 you know, you're more than just your Mustang, and that's embarrassing. 0:04:26.960 --> 0:04:28.880 I mean, you know, I mean it's like cool to 0:04:28.920 --> 0:04:30.640 him and good. I'm glad he enjoys the Mustang. 0:04:30.720 --> 0:04:30.920 Yeah. 0:04:30.920 --> 0:04:33.000 I do think though, that, like it doesn't have to 0:04:33.000 --> 0:04:35.359 be an influencer thing, whether you're posting on Facebook or 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:38.159 Instagram or whatever social media platform you might be using. 0:04:38.680 --> 0:04:41.440 You know that everyone evaluates all of a sudden, you're 0:04:41.480 --> 0:04:44.400 not posting that partner anymore. Oh yeah, So he doesn't 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:47.279 have to be some influencer who has one hundred thousand followers. 0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:50.360 It could be literally, you know, Rachel from your hometown, 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:52.159 who you're like, oh, she's dating this guy, and then 0:04:52.160 --> 0:04:54.239 all of a sudden, it's like, oh, psych, what happened 0:04:54.279 --> 0:04:57.479 with that? Everyone analyzes this now, and this is probably 0:04:57.560 --> 0:04:59.120 I don't know. I think the assumption a lot of 0:04:59.120 --> 0:05:02.000 times is like something that happened when you post a 0:05:02.000 --> 0:05:03.120 bunch and then out of. 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:05.719 Nowhere, it's like just kind of they're gone now, So 0:05:05.839 --> 0:05:07.320 like why start doing it in the first place. 0:05:07.360 --> 0:05:09.719 So I think a lot of the article just touches 0:05:09.760 --> 0:05:12.880 on the fact that people aren't necessarily not wanting love 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:15.240 or romance or a partner. It's just the fact that, like, 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:18.279 you're nervous for the shame that could come if something 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:19.240 goes wrong. 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:21.560 If we're looking at us like because I'm the boyfriend, 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:23.560 I'm the boyfriend of the show. 0:05:24.080 --> 0:05:25.720 I not to you guys, you know what I mean. 0:05:25.800 --> 0:05:29.600 Yet it's interesting because I don't feel like my relationship 0:05:29.680 --> 0:05:31.640 defines me. But I do feel like that is part 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:34.320 of my brand, you know, when I first started on 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:36.080 this show and moved out here by myself, and then 0:05:36.080 --> 0:05:39.440 people have slowly seen the progression of a less of visiting, 0:05:39.480 --> 0:05:41.839 a Lissa moving, we got a dog, things like that. 0:05:42.120 --> 0:05:44.080 But I don't know. I think that's just one piece 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:45.360 of it. Because you also know that you can come 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:47.960 to my Instagram. Obviously you'll see Alyssa and Ava my family, 0:05:48.240 --> 0:05:49.960 but you'll also see you know, Vont likes to cook, 0:05:50.040 --> 0:05:51.920 Vont likes to do comedy skits and stuff like that. 0:05:52.040 --> 0:05:54.160 But I wonder, when did you ever do a comedy skit? 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:56.400 You just complimented a comedy skit I did about a 0:05:56.400 --> 0:05:57.560 week ago, the thing with the. 0:05:57.640 --> 0:06:00.839 Job, the job, right, Oka, right, Okay. I just needed 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:03.360 to be reminded that it was funny. That was funny stuff. Yeah. 0:06:03.400 --> 0:06:06.159 But so yeah, I wonder if it makes me more 0:06:06.240 --> 0:06:08.839 or less embarrassing, because it's not what defines me, but 0:06:08.880 --> 0:06:10.479 it is part of what defines me. 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:13.880 I get a text message with basically there's an article 0:06:13.920 --> 0:06:16.040 that says, is it embarrassing now to have a boyfriend, 0:06:16.480 --> 0:06:19.000 which Jenny said was very clickbaity because it's like, wait, 0:06:19.000 --> 0:06:20.520 I want to click on this and find out why 0:06:20.520 --> 0:06:23.039 it's embarrassing to have a boyfriend. This says, I don't 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:25.600 post my husband on social media. We've been together fifteen years, 0:06:25.640 --> 0:06:27.719 married for six I used to post pictures of as 0:06:27.720 --> 0:06:30.240 a lot, and now I don't. Nothing happened. I just 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:33.400 don't also do to his career, he's a cop, and 0:06:33.440 --> 0:06:36.160 to keep him to myself and my children safe. And 0:06:36.200 --> 0:06:38.600 I think that some people like, you know what. I'm 0:06:38.640 --> 0:06:40.479 not going to name her, but she said I don't 0:06:40.480 --> 0:06:43.040 post my stuff on social media, and she doesn't and 0:06:43.080 --> 0:06:45.920 she's married and she hasn't posted anything on social media. 0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:49.240 That's just not what she uses it for. But forget 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:52.559 about social media just in general. I mean, if Bailey 0:06:52.600 --> 0:06:54.839 came in and said she had a new boyfriend, I 0:06:54.839 --> 0:06:57.359 wouldn't be like, well, that's embarrassing. You're more than just 0:06:57.360 --> 0:06:58.040 a boyfriend. 0:06:58.120 --> 0:07:00.320 But imagine if that's all I talked about out. 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:02.359 Well, then that and that does happen exactly because we 0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:05.840 all know somebody who got I've had several friends drop 0:07:05.880 --> 0:07:08.160 out of my life because they have a relationship now, yes, 0:07:08.200 --> 0:07:11.800 and there is no time to get together and play cribbage. 0:07:11.880 --> 0:07:13.920 There's no time to get together. 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:16.760 Because they're busy with their new like ever. 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:18.840 And and you know what, and there's nothing wrong with. 0:07:18.800 --> 0:07:20.520 That, right, I mean, like good for you. But I 0:07:20.560 --> 0:07:23.480 think that's I think in when when I read the 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:25.680 article that's like the angle that I was looking at 0:07:25.680 --> 0:07:30.400 it as like it's embarrassing to be so identity, right, 0:07:30.480 --> 0:07:32.680 lose your identity because you're like so happy in love. 0:07:32.680 --> 0:07:34.640 It's great that you're happy and in love, but like 0:07:34.720 --> 0:07:38.280 do you want to publicize that or is that embarrassing? 0:07:38.320 --> 0:07:40.760 And I also would say that there. I think that 0:07:40.800 --> 0:07:43.600 like the generations have just changed a lot, where like women, 0:07:43.720 --> 0:07:45.800 it was a badge of honor to have a male partner, 0:07:45.880 --> 0:07:48.440 yeah if you were into men, and now it's kind 0:07:48.440 --> 0:07:50.680 of like okay, but women can do everything else that 0:07:50.760 --> 0:07:53.160 a man can do too, So like it's not exactly 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:55.720 as high of it's amazing to be in love and 0:07:55.760 --> 0:07:57.640 have a good partner. I'm not saying that, yes, but 0:07:57.720 --> 0:08:00.480 I'm saying it's not what we define ourselves at anymore. 0:08:00.600 --> 0:08:03.920 Is us being in a relationship fair enough? Coming up 0:08:03.960 --> 0:08:05.680 on you can't make this stuff up. There is a 0:08:05.760 --> 0:08:08.880 new trend on TikTok. It is a wellness hack that 0:08:09.000 --> 0:08:13.680 is super simple and surprisingly effective, and I will describe 0:08:13.680 --> 0:08:17.080 it to you. 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Three by three x twelve twelve represents noon 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:52.440 number one, walk three thousand steps number two, eat thirty 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:57.160 grams of protein, and drink one third of your daily water. 0:08:57.240 --> 0:08:59.199 So it should be the three by three by three 0:08:59.679 --> 0:09:02.760 by twelve rule. Don't you think three thousand steps, thirty 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:05.920 grams of protein, one thirty or daily water. The ideas 0:09:05.960 --> 0:09:08.360 these small little winds early in the morning make momentum 0:09:08.360 --> 0:09:09.920 for the whole day. So if you do this well 0:09:09.960 --> 0:09:11.560 in the morning, you're not gonna want to go to 0:09:11.559 --> 0:09:14.800 Culver's get a double bacon cheese burger butter burger. I 0:09:14.800 --> 0:09:17.800 don't know, I get it, but if you get their 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:21.480 early start on the being fit and healthy? How many 0:09:21.920 --> 0:09:25.400 hold on the I'm gonna ask Alexa, Alexa, how many 0:09:25.440 --> 0:09:27.960 eggs does it take to make thirty grams of protein? 0:09:32.240 --> 0:09:34.760 You need about five large eggs to get thirty grams 0:09:34.800 --> 0:09:38.000 of protein. I use large egg contains roughly six grams 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:38.560 of protein. 0:09:39.280 --> 0:09:41.520 I could eat five eggs large eggs, though, like the 0:09:41.600 --> 0:09:44.720 jumbo ones, most eggs are grated as large. 0:09:44.880 --> 0:09:46.720 Yeah, I could eat five eggs. 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:50.959 But would you want five eggs? Alexa? How much fat 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:52.440 is in five eggs? 0:09:53.840 --> 0:09:54.240 Grams? 0:09:56.160 --> 0:09:59.360 Five large eggs contain twenty one grams of fat, so. 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:01.560 That might be a little bit too much. I don't 0:10:01.600 --> 0:10:03.239 know so, Alexa. 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:10.320 How I understand you're concerned about the fat content. Five 0:10:10.400 --> 0:10:13.120 large eggs do contain twenty one grams of fat, which 0:10:13.240 --> 0:10:15.440 might be more than you're looking for. Would you like 0:10:15.520 --> 0:10:22.080 to explore some lower fat protein options? Yes's ground her 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:25.400 skinless chicken breast is a great option. It has thirty 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:28.360 two grams of protein per one hundred grams, with only 0:10:28.400 --> 0:10:31.680 one hundred and fifty eight calories. Other good choices include 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:34.600 turkey breast, whitefish like cod, and Greek yogurt. 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:41.320 Fish like cod, fish, white fish like cod, comma like cod, 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:42.280 fish like cod. 0:10:42.520 --> 0:10:44.520 Okay, it's kind of like fish, but it's not really 0:10:44.920 --> 0:10:47.680 like that fish like Okay. So anyway, as she said, 0:10:47.679 --> 0:10:49.640 if you do those things by twelve every single day, 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:52.800 you'll be a fitter, healthier, and more energized you. 0:10:54.360 --> 0:10:56.960 Since you're the fitness person, like the most fitness person 0:10:57.000 --> 0:10:58.440 on the show, do you think you could wake up 0:10:58.800 --> 0:10:59.679 before the show and. 0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:00.480 Do a workout. 0:11:00.760 --> 0:11:03.880 I've done it before, And is it attainable for you? 0:11:04.840 --> 0:11:08.760 No, it's not because by like probably nine am, I'm 0:11:08.840 --> 0:11:09.640 like crashing. 0:11:09.920 --> 0:11:11.240 It's just like too early for us. 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:13.120 And I know that there are people that do do 0:11:13.160 --> 0:11:15.120 that still, like they work a nine to five and 0:11:15.120 --> 0:11:16.800 they're at the gym at five am. I get it, 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:19.080 but it's just like too much for us because we 0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:21.319 don't get to go just like sit behind a desk. 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:24.679 We have to like speak and be engaging and stuff. 0:11:24.800 --> 0:11:27.560 And I don't know, I just think depending on your job, 0:11:27.760 --> 0:11:29.439 I think I could do it if I worked a 0:11:29.520 --> 0:11:33.240 job that started at like seven instead but and I 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:35.280 actually probably would if I worked a job like that, 0:11:35.400 --> 0:11:38.160 because it's best to raise your cortosol levels right away 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:40.040 in the morning, and then the rest of your day 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:42.600 feels like a breeze basically, And that's what working out 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:43.080 does to you. 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:45.280 I've tried working out of the morning. I just don't 0:11:45.280 --> 0:11:46.160 have the energy for it. 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:47.559 Because a lot of people don't know. We don't leave 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:49.200 here at ten on the dot. We're still here for 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:51.959 a while after the show is overplaying things, and sometimes 0:11:51.960 --> 0:11:53.920 we have other shows and things to do, things to edit. 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:56.440 Jen said, I'm a little worried, Bailey. Yeah, Jenny said, 0:11:56.440 --> 0:11:57.400 we have to be engaging. 0:11:58.320 --> 0:11:58.880 I don't want to. 0:11:58.920 --> 0:12:04.160 I've forgotten to do that. I haven't been engaging for years. 0:12:04.240 --> 0:12:06.280 You've been engaged though many times. 0:12:06.480 --> 0:12:08.600 No, just once, well just once? 0:12:09.640 --> 0:12:11.960 Yeah, Well and not to Susan. 0:12:12.920 --> 0:12:15.480 Well, technically you are engaged to Susan, weren't You didn't 0:12:15.480 --> 0:12:17.840 just go from girlfriend one day married? 0:12:18.160 --> 0:12:20.480 Changing the subject, do you anybody will watch that show? 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:24.600 Black Rabbit's got Jason Bateman on it, and he's kind 0:12:24.600 --> 0:12:28.360 of like would Jude Law Jude Law? Well, and so 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:30.680 I started watching it because it's number one on shows 0:12:30.679 --> 0:12:34.360 on Netflix, and we watched the first episode of Black Rabbit, 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:36.600 and I looked at Susan at the end, I said, 0:12:36.679 --> 0:12:39.000 I don't care if I never watch another episode. Was like, oh, 0:12:39.120 --> 0:12:39.800 give it a chance. 0:12:39.800 --> 0:12:40.240 It's good. 0:12:40.280 --> 0:12:43.480 I'm like, I don't care what happens to these people? 0:12:43.720 --> 0:12:46.400 Does he? And I love Jason Bateman and I love 0:12:46.480 --> 0:12:51.120 Jude Law, but it just doesn't touch me. It's about 0:12:51.120 --> 0:12:54.679 the restaurant business and there's some criminal activity, and it's like, 0:12:54.840 --> 0:12:56.880 does any if anybody else watch this and if you 0:12:56.960 --> 0:12:58.920 saw it, let me know is it really good? 0:12:59.080 --> 0:13:01.400 But don't spoil anything, please, because I plan on watching it. 0:13:01.440 --> 0:13:03.520 And I'm on episode like three or four right now. 0:13:03.520 --> 0:13:05.560 Oh you are already, yeah, but you are watching it. 0:13:05.640 --> 0:13:05.840 Yeah. 0:13:05.840 --> 0:13:09.360 But it took me like five days to finish episode one. 0:13:09.559 --> 0:13:11.760 That's like how much I wasn't really getting into it. 0:13:11.760 --> 0:13:13.000 It's a hard show to get into. 0:13:13.120 --> 0:13:15.600 I think it is hard because it's it feels like 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:18.439 an Ozark, where it's like dark, it's dark lighting, it's 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:20.120 dark everything the Ozark. 0:13:20.400 --> 0:13:22.800 I got into it right away because with Ozark, if 0:13:22.840 --> 0:13:25.079 you and I'm not gonna spoil much, but it gets 0:13:25.120 --> 0:13:28.640 exciting and episode number one because it gets like violent 0:13:28.720 --> 0:13:32.080 and like holy buckets, what just happened in episode one 0:13:32.120 --> 0:13:34.480 of Ozark, But in this one it's like starts off 0:13:34.520 --> 0:13:37.720 with a bang and then it dissolves into men. 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:39.240 Yeah. 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:40.280 You know, if I'm wrong, I. 0:13:40.240 --> 0:13:41.800 Think I'm gonna keep watching it because I have heard 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:43.960 from people that it's good and I do love Jason Bateman. 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:46.040 It's just that I hate his character in it, Like. 0:13:46.160 --> 0:13:49.440 He's not a light, not a likable character. Right, let's 0:13:49.480 --> 0:13:50.839 take a trip before four. 0:13:50.960 --> 0:13:52.880 Chance to want a trip to Los Angeles to see 0:13:52.880 --> 0:13:55.920 Sabrina Carpenter at one of her sold out shows. Happens now. 0:13:56.040 --> 0:14:00.360 I'm kd w B tunk Thata's the keyword feather. That's 0:14:00.640 --> 0:14:05.360 feather on our iHeartRadio app. Okay, go do that now 0:14:05.840 --> 0:14:07.640 so you can win that trip to Los angeles'd be 0:14:07.840 --> 0:14:12.280 very very cool. Coming up on Dave's Dirt, Oprah's annual 0:14:12.440 --> 0:14:16.839 Favorite Things includes glasses to wear in the shower. It's 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:19.440 some other stupid gifts and we'll talk about Oprah's Favorite 0:14:19.440 --> 0:14:22.080 Things coming up, plus more on Dave's Dirt. Next on 0:14:22.400 --> 0:14:34.080 kd WB, would you throw this item away? So I'm 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:36.840 going through my stuff in the basement and there's stuff. 0:14:36.840 --> 0:14:40.560 And there's an old pencil holder that my dad had 0:14:40.600 --> 0:14:44.040 on his desk my entire childhood, and it looks like 0:14:44.120 --> 0:14:46.280 a tree stump, but it's not much bigger than a 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:48.680 soup can. And I think he made it himself. And 0:14:48.720 --> 0:14:50.640 he puts some felt on the bottom and its hollowed 0:14:50.640 --> 0:14:53.560 out to put your pens and your pencils in there. Yeah, 0:14:53.680 --> 0:14:56.480 and I never use it, and I don't think anybody 0:14:56.520 --> 0:14:58.440 wants it. You know, if I gave it to Carson 0:14:58.480 --> 0:15:00.240 to be like, yeah, I think your grandpa made this, 0:15:01.400 --> 0:15:02.040 you might want to care. 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:03.480 I don't think that he'd want it, so. 0:15:03.480 --> 0:15:05.080 I threw it away. 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:06.920 Is that a terrible thing to throw away? Something that 0:15:06.960 --> 0:15:10.840 your dad had for your entire childhood and then he 0:15:10.920 --> 0:15:15.760 probably made it, but nobody wants it and it's not valuable. 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:20.040 Do you have other things that your dad had? 0:15:20.240 --> 0:15:21.120 And I don't think it's bad. 0:15:21.200 --> 0:15:23.400 I always think it's weird every time you say like, oh, 0:15:23.480 --> 0:15:24.960 I found this thing and then I threw it away, 0:15:25.280 --> 0:15:26.920 the fact that you're throwing things away. 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:29.040 I would donate everything I don't want. 0:15:29.240 --> 0:15:30.920 Okay, you know, we do donate a lot. I went 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:33.200 to the Old Boy Scout camping stuff and I found 0:15:33.240 --> 0:15:35.520 tons of jackets and rain pants and ponchos and things 0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:38.440 like that, donated those. I did take one coat down 0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:40.920 to Pilgrim Cleaners though, because it was a nice coat 0:15:41.560 --> 0:15:44.000 that it was either minor carsons, I don't remember, and 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:46.920 took it down to Pilgrim Cleaners and donated it for 0:15:46.960 --> 0:15:48.960 coach for kids. Good because you find a coat in 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:50.800 your old camping stuff or you're found like, you know, 0:15:51.240 --> 0:15:54.200 anything like old snowpants or anything like that. He keeps 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:56.360 people warm in the winter. Take it down to Pilgrim. 0:15:56.440 --> 0:15:58.240 Yeah, and you have plenty of time because they extended 0:15:58.240 --> 0:16:00.800 the date that they're accepting coaches because it's finally just 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:02.760 starting to get cold out. So we know that everyone's 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:05.920 got their winter gear still locked up in the closet somewhere, 0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:08.880 but you haven't told November fourteenth to drop it off 0:16:08.880 --> 0:16:11.120 at any Pilgrim drag cleaners. And also shout out to 0:16:11.160 --> 0:16:13.560 Devani's because you get a little coupon when you die too, 0:16:13.880 --> 0:16:16.960 so go get yourself a little pizza coupon and do 0:16:17.040 --> 0:16:18.280 something good for the community. 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:21.600 So good. Can I bring up one other weird little thing? Sure, 0:16:21.680 --> 0:16:23.360 because things happen in our lives it's like, this is 0:16:23.400 --> 0:16:24.800 just weird. I'm want to bring this up with you guys. 0:16:25.120 --> 0:16:28.440 So there is a charity and I saw it somewhere 0:16:29.040 --> 0:16:33.920 and I thought it's called Imagine Outdoors and maybe somebody 0:16:33.960 --> 0:16:36.800 who works for Imagine Outdoors is listening. And I got 0:16:36.840 --> 0:16:38.960 a card in the mail that said, Hey, if you're 0:16:39.000 --> 0:16:41.760 good at skiing or camping or hiking or shooting or 0:16:41.760 --> 0:16:44.360 something like that, we want to take kids and get 0:16:44.400 --> 0:16:47.560 them outdoors away from their screen. Sign up here, do 0:16:47.720 --> 0:16:52.280 this VR shot picture to volunteer. So I volunteered and 0:16:52.360 --> 0:16:55.560 I never heard anything from them, and it's like, oh, well, 0:16:55.880 --> 0:16:59.360 I'm you know, I want to go do something with 0:16:59.560 --> 0:17:02.560 the youth or adults who don't have an opportunity to 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:05.520 go shooting or hiking or whatever. Right, And but yes, 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:07.840 yesterday in the mail I got a letter that said 0:17:07.840 --> 0:17:10.239 I want a big their monthly drawing. So I won 0:17:10.359 --> 0:17:12.560 like a one hundred dollars worth of food at Texas Roadhouse. 0:17:12.880 --> 0:17:15.439