Speaker 1: It's the second date update module in the morning.
Speaker 2: Why are you not getting a callback? We're going to
Speaker 2: find out this morning. Dylan's getting ghosted and doesn't know why. Dylan,
Speaker 2: what's the story?
Speaker 1: Hi, what's up?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: So, I mean going out with this girl for like
Speaker 4: a couple of weeks now, and uh now I'm getting ghosted.
Speaker 5: Oh so this is not even just a first date
Speaker 5: or a second date update. You've you've gone out on.
Speaker 1: A few dates.
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, okay, and it's been a couple of weeks
Speaker 2: of you guys hanging out with each other, but then
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, out of nowhere, now she's not
Speaker 2: calling you back. And how long has that been since
Speaker 2: she hasn't been calling you. It's been like a week now, Okay,
Speaker 2: So we're.
Speaker 1: Going to find out what's going on.
Speaker 2: Is there anything that happened the last couple of times
Speaker 2: that you guys been together that might be an indicator
Speaker 2: of something that you should kind of be worried.
Speaker 4: About, but uh no, it's been it's been good.
Speaker 2: So there's nothing that you said or did, because sometimes
Speaker 2: that comes out when we do the second date update
Speaker 2: and you're like, oh.
Speaker 6: Crap, when was the last time you saw her too.
Speaker 1: We went on the last date like.
Speaker 7: Ten days ago maybe.
Speaker 6: And didn't end on a good note.
Speaker 8: I thought it went well.
Speaker 1: Molly is on with us right now, Dylan say hi
Speaker 1: to Molly.
Speaker 3: Hey, Hi?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Hey, doesn't sound as I mean. I get it.
Speaker 2: You're a little bit put off by the fact that
Speaker 2: you're not getting a call back.
Speaker 1: Molly. You sound so upbeat. Hi, Molly, How are you?
Speaker 9: Hi?
Speaker 7: Good?
Speaker 3: Her?
Speaker 1: Are you good? Dylan? You want to say hi to
Speaker 1: Molly again? Hi? Not much so much, Molly.
Speaker 2: Dylan called us up, says that you guys haven't talked
Speaker 2: in almost a couple of weeks here, but was wondering
Speaker 2: if everything is okay.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I would even find for the most.
Speaker 1: Part, for the most part meaning.
Speaker 2: That you actually like him, or the most part meaning
Speaker 2: you don't necessarily like him, and you're kind of looking
Speaker 2: for an opportunity to just say, all right, we're.
Speaker 1: Done, we're not gonna hang out anymore.
Speaker 7: Well, I like him, Okay, who doesn't like him?
Speaker 8: My parents aren't the biggest fan of him, but like,
Speaker 8: I really enjoyed the dates we went on.
Speaker 5: Oh, he already met your parents?
Speaker 8: No, no, no, they haven't met yet.
Speaker 1: So how do they not like him if they haven't
Speaker 1: met him yet.
Speaker 8: They found some photos of him on like social media,
Speaker 8: and the war is the biggest fan.
Speaker 2: Okay, and so you're showing the pictures about him. Go ahead, Dylan,
Speaker 2: what do you want to say?
Speaker 1: Are you serious?
Speaker 6: What kind of stuff do you post dying?
Speaker 4: I mean, like I don't know, just like casual stuff.
Speaker 1: Do they think he's unattractive?
Speaker 5: Or what's specifically about the photos that they saw did
Speaker 5: they not really care for.
Speaker 8: They're not a super big fan of people who are
Speaker 8: public about smoking or drinking, and they found a few
Speaker 8: photos like that, so they were kind of advising me that,
Speaker 8: like maybe he wasn't the best person to go on
Speaker 8: dates with.
Speaker 4: Okay, So what can I ask you something?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 4: So do you like, do you do everything your parents say?
Speaker 4: Or like do you think for yourself? Or like I'm confused.
Speaker 8: Well, I mean they have good advice and they've been
Speaker 8: married a while, so I usually like to take what
Speaker 8: they have to say about another person in the consideration.
Speaker 1: Do you have an issue you haven't even.
Speaker 6: With his pictures that he's posting.
Speaker 8: Not really, I mean I do the same, I just
Speaker 8: don't post about it. But I think you know they
Speaker 8: brought up some good points of like, you know, that's
Speaker 8: something that you don't really want to put online and
Speaker 8: should keep personal.
Speaker 2: How old are you Molly? If I if I can
Speaker 2: ask that question, I just want to know how old
Speaker 2: you are.
Speaker 8: I'm twenty two.
Speaker 2: So you're twenty two years old. You're young enough when
Speaker 2: your parents are still involved. Actually, Bianca either Bianca in
Speaker 2: the other ears. This is an interesting one because you're
Speaker 2: a twenty two or twenty three year old? Do your
Speaker 2: parents look up the people that you like? I know
Speaker 2: you're in this relationship right now, but would your parents
Speaker 2: look them up and see and judge them from just
Speaker 2: social media?
Speaker 9: I don't think that they would look someone up, but
Speaker 9: I know that like the person I'm talking to, their
Speaker 9: parents like look me up and see like what I'm doing,
Speaker 9: And they're.
Speaker 1: Very vocal about it.
Speaker 2: So you kind of get it that Molly's parents have
Speaker 2: a say so on this because you're also your parents
Speaker 2: and his parents have kind of talked back and forth.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I think also like what you post too is
Speaker 9: kind of a reflection who you are and like what
Speaker 9: you're okay with postings. So if someone is like open
Speaker 9: about that, I feel like it kind of puts a
Speaker 9: bad look on them.
Speaker 2: So, Dylan, you know, here's Miianka telling you that in
Speaker 2: her case, what Molly's parents are doing is not unusual.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 4: It sounds pretty unusual to me, honestly, Like my parents
Speaker 4: wouldn't do that.
Speaker 7: Smoking and drinking are both legal. You're twenty two years old,
Speaker 7: unless you're you know, wilden out dumping champagne down somebody's
Speaker 7: shirt or something.
Speaker 6: I feel like it's not that big.
Speaker 1: Of a video.
Speaker 2: Please tell me, Uh, Dylan, you don't have like a
Speaker 2: picture in front of like a car or something like
Speaker 2: that on your social Like I would think I would
Speaker 2: rather my guys smoke or drink than you know how
Speaker 2: the typical guy pic of a guy like in front
Speaker 2: of a motorcycle or I do like I.
Speaker 5: Kind of get where the parents are coming from. Yeah, Like,
Speaker 5: I don't know what the pictures are. And if it's you, like,
Speaker 5: you know, out with your guy friends and you're all
Speaker 5: holding a drink, that's one thing. If it's you, like
Speaker 5: getting stoned and you posted a photo or video on
Speaker 5: social media.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I think that would kind of rub me the wrong
Speaker 5: way too. Whether you you do that in your personal
Speaker 5: life or not. I don't care, but like the posting of.
Speaker 8: It, I kind of get.
Speaker 4: But I mean, I'm not like doing anything crazy, you know.
Speaker 4: It's just like you know, pictures of me with my
Speaker 4: friends and whatever.
Speaker 5: Molly, if your parents hadn't said anything to you about this,
Speaker 5: would you continue to date him?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 8: I would do with things.
Speaker 1: Hey, Tim, would you want to say I second date?
Speaker 1: Updated time?
Speaker 3: I'm going to check out a plenty of fish. This
Speaker 3: was probably about eight years ago, and she lived or
Speaker 3: she works, maybe a mile a mile and a half
Speaker 3: hour before where I lived. And it took me about
Speaker 3: two and a half months to meter to make a
Speaker 3: long story show her I have a child together or
Speaker 3: seven year old son together. Her parents have never met me.
Speaker 3: Grandparents never met me. They don't like me because of
Speaker 3: criminal history from twenty years ago.
Speaker 1: How did they know about the criminal history?
Speaker 3: Because I she was open than eyes with her parents.
Speaker 2: Okay, so they haven't met you, but they know that
Speaker 2: you got a past. I would probably be a little
Speaker 2: bit worried if I it was a dad.
Speaker 3: Give me preparatory to you to explain.
Speaker 2: Okay, what's there to explain? Explain it to me? What
Speaker 2: did you do in your criminal past.
Speaker 3: There's there's a lot of stuff from my criminal past.
Speaker 1: I mean, stay halloway from my daughter. Yea at that
Speaker 1: point right there, Tim, You're gone.
Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no, no, listen, there's a lot
Speaker 2: of things in my criminal past.
Speaker 1: Dad.
Speaker 2: Have you said that to a father? A father's going
Speaker 2: to run your ass out of that house, Amanda.
Speaker 1: What's going on? Is moch on the morning?
Speaker 8: Good morning all you tired people.
Speaker 10: I know, yes, So I just wanted to say this guy,
Speaker 10: he was doing good until he made that last comment,
Speaker 10: those last comments about.
Speaker 8: Do you always listen to your parents?
Speaker 1: Do you think for yourself?
Speaker 8: God forbid? She has parents that care about her, her
Speaker 8: well being, her future. I wish my parents.
Speaker 10: They have never given me dating advice, never cared who
Speaker 10: I dated.
Speaker 8: That is a beautiful thing.
Speaker 1: You're an adult. You should be thinking for yourself.
Speaker 10: A very young child, a young adult is still a
Speaker 10: child in many ways. So for you to be rude
Speaker 10: to her and demean her like that, that's rude.
Speaker 5: I do agree with you to an extent. She needs
Speaker 5: to make her own decisions. However, you know, and I
Speaker 5: speak for myself here, but I feel like in this case,
Speaker 5: it's the same. I have always valued what my parents
Speaker 5: thought about my relationships, and it wasn't one hundred percent
Speaker 5: that I always listen to them, but I definitely take
Speaker 5: that into account. It's a factor when I you know,
Speaker 5: whenever I was dating somebody that I wanted my family
Speaker 5: and my friends to like that person.
Speaker 1: Hey, Eric, what did you want to say?
Speaker 8: So, yeah, I'm thirty three years old.
Speaker 2: I've had both media since I was sixteen, and I'm
Speaker 2: kind of siding with parents on this one.
Speaker 10: Uh even at sixteen years old, I knew that, Like.
Speaker 8: Hey, I probably should because because when you wantever, you
Speaker 8: post anything out there, you don't know who's gonna look
Speaker 8: at it, and whatever you post, that's your first impression, yep.
Speaker 8: And so like if you're building your brand that hey, yeah,
Speaker 8: I like to smoke and drink, and then you know
Speaker 8: that's cool to do and everything like that. It's fine
Speaker 8: that you know legal or legal back then, but it's that's.
Speaker 3: Your first impression.
Speaker 8: And if your first impression is all this guy just
Speaker 8: likes to smoke me drink all the time, Like I'm
Speaker 8: not saying like I'm perfect. Like if I like a picture.
Speaker 2: With alcohol, I have a beer in my hand, but
Speaker 2: I'm not like sitting there chugging a beer bong. Real quick, Eric,
Speaker 2: stay with us and one day ask a question about
Speaker 2: the smoking and drinking.
Speaker 1: What was your question? Ann?
Speaker 3: Good morning?
Speaker 5: I actually have a couple of questions.
Speaker 8: So how often do you too and smoke? And how
Speaker 8: often are you posting both picks on social media?
Speaker 1: That's a good question, like how often are you posting
Speaker 1: that stuff? So I literally have no no, no, Dylan,
Speaker 1: let me ask any oh, let me ask doan?
Speaker 4: Yeah, how often do I drink and smokes?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 6: And post it?
Speaker 9: Oh?
Speaker 1: And post it?
Speaker 4: I don't know, like once every two months?
Speaker 3: Maybe?
Speaker 6: My gosh, there.
Speaker 2: But there's plenty of pictures for them to scroll back
Speaker 2: and look at.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but none of them are like.
Speaker 1: That bad Yeah, Like, Dylan, how old are you? Twenty two? Okay,
Speaker 1: twenty two? All right, so you guys are both twenty two?
Speaker 8: You know what that young era going out and stuff.
Speaker 2: I mean, honestly twenty two, so should be old enough
Speaker 2: to figure out that you probably don't necessarily need to
Speaker 2: post like those pictures to make yourself look like you're
Speaker 2: having a good time. But still, Molly, as a parent
Speaker 2: and as somebody who wished my parents were there for
Speaker 2: me a little bit more.
Speaker 1: I would say to you, you got.
Speaker 2: A good mom and dad, and you'll know when your
Speaker 2: parents have overstepped the lines and the idea yea that
Speaker 2: they say they don't get a good feeling about Dylan.
Speaker 2: You're still the ultimate decision maker on whether or not
Speaker 2: you're going to continue something. I give you respect for
Speaker 2: the fact that you actually though appreciate their opinion, but.
Speaker 6: Don't be afraid to think for yourself.
Speaker 7: Girl.
Speaker 2: No, no, we want Anna to listen more to her parents.
Speaker 2: You should see some of the guys that she sings
Speaker 2: hangs out with.
Speaker 6: Her actually put tequila on my head.
Speaker 2: Actually, to be honest with you, Molly, will your parents
Speaker 2: look at some of the guys that Anna's hanging out with.
Speaker 2: I'd like to get their opinion on those. All right,
Speaker 2: Anna's looking down right now, She's not looking at me.
Speaker 6: I can't.
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