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Speaker 1: You've come for the John Jay and Ridge, but let's

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Speaker 1: be honest, you stay for Kyle and Peyton.

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Speaker 2: It's John Jay and Ridge.

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Speaker 3: For the last couple days, we're talking about Kim Kardashian,

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Speaker 3: how she said that she went and used psychic said

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Speaker 3: decide whether she would give her advice if she was

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Speaker 3: four psychics that said no, that said she was going

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Speaker 3: from you about psychic stuff, whether it worked it didn't work, right, Chris,

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Speaker 3: thanks for holding what's your psychic story?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 5: How are you doing good?

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Speaker 3: How are you Chris?

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Speaker 5: I'm all right. So my sister this was when we

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Speaker 5: were younger. My sister, I guess she was like eighteen nineteen.

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Speaker 5: She decided she wanted to go try out a psychics. Well,

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Speaker 5: the psychic told her she was a good guy. When

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Speaker 5: by the time she was twenty five. Well, now she's

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Speaker 5: forty five and she's still alive.

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Speaker 3: So are you bummed?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 3: Exactly, He's like, psychic, why are you still here?

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Speaker 2: Thanksgivving pretty bold prediction.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean no, I don't want to say that either,

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Speaker 5: because I wouldn't be bummed. I mean, I'm happy she's

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Speaker 5: still alive, but I kind of wanted psychic, you know,

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Speaker 5: to be truthful you know, and acting you know, and

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Speaker 5: it actually worked, but it didn't. So I'm a little

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Speaker 3: You should have your sister go back there. She should

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Speaker 3: go back that psychic kick up with the nard goll ha. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: what a dark like prediction.

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Speaker 6: And also if I was like I would be looking

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Speaker 6: over my shoulder every second of every day because if

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Speaker 6: it's not twenty five, what if it's twenty six?

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Speaker 7: Okay, but maybe that's why she survived the warnings.

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Speaker 3: Have I told you, guys, if I told you that

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Speaker 3: a story about the psychic that I talked to in

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Speaker 3: nineteen ninety seven. No, I talked to psychic in nineteen

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Speaker 3: ninety seven, and they said I was going to die

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Speaker 3: this year. Oh, this is the year they said I

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Speaker 3: was gonna die. Like that, I know it back, I know.

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Speaker 5: Terry, but I'm happy she's still alive.

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Speaker 3: So well, in case something happens to me, play this audio.

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Speaker 8: That's why I have life insurance. I know that psychic

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Speaker 8: in nineteen ninety.

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Speaker 7: Seven, you're gonna make it. Hey, you're doing far too

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Speaker 7: many things to think.

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Speaker 3: If a bus hits me, it's jerk. Good morning, way,

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Speaker 3: what's your psychic experience?

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Speaker 9: So not a psychic exactly, but my family's from New

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Speaker 9: different energy spirits, things like that. My aunt lives in

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Speaker 9: a hundred and something year old house that's like three

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Speaker 9: right behind it that's very old. She started having weird

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Speaker 9: things go on, like a solid wood door that was

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Speaker 9: of the bottom of a wooden chair. And then the

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Speaker 9: last saw was they were working on the house. They

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Speaker 9: in the way that it was leaning. So my mom

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Speaker 9: did some research and got something called ghould be gone

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Speaker 9: I spray And there was a candle that they also

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Speaker 8: Of begun?

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Speaker 3: Did it work?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 9: And it's not googled it and it's a it's on

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Speaker 9: an Academy of Energy website or whatever, and yeah they

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Speaker 9: burned the candle and did the spray and never had

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Speaker 3: Well check, wow, someone find it.

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Speaker 9: Imagine being in the house and a door leaned up

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Speaker 10: I would freak out.

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Speaker 8: That's door from oozing. That's pretty that's pretty good stuff.

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Speaker 3: The wall oozing would freak me out the door.

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Speaker 9: But then there's a door that got knocked over. The

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Speaker 9: oozing is weird. But to have something to get pushed

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but the oozing they put that in scary movies

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Speaker 3: like the like Emyville. Yeah, yeah, I wouldn't say there either.

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Speaker 3: All right, man, so we've got to get some Google begun.

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Speaker 7: You can for just forty three dollars.

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Speaker 3: Found it. I'll pay for it. You get it the ingredients.

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Speaker 7: Wow, it comes in a nice silver bottles.

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Speaker 3: Sufficient Yeah all right, Derek, thanks for the tip man,

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Speaker 3: Thank you. Rich. You got to say that for stacks

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Speaker 3: and hacks around Halloween.

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Speaker 8: I guess the fact that it works like a charm

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Speaker 3: Jessica, you got a psychic story, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 4: Do so my psychic. I was going like the doctors left,

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Speaker 4: everybody kept saying nothing was wrong with me. And she

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Speaker 11: And I just.

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Speaker 4: Had my surgery and just got diagnosed with stage four

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Speaker 4: and domitriosis about a month ago.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it was crazy. And then this same lady

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Speaker 4: actually met her on TikTok. I referred her to my

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Speaker 4: She was like, you know, my husband wants to start

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Speaker 4: the company is going to take off and then you

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Speaker 3: Hey, let me tell you something about the indometriosis. Are

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Speaker 4: A lot, really bad pain. It's like labor pain.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So get this. A friend of mine's wife had

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Speaker 3: it for a long time. And I was telling now,

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Speaker 3: I'm not a doctor, Jessic, I'm just gonna throw this

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Speaker 3: these stem cells. And he went with me. She came

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Speaker 3: Because indometriosis is yes, yes, I'm telling you now, I'm

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Speaker 3: So you'd have to call the clinic in talk town.

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Speaker 3: But I'm telling you. And told another friend of mine

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Speaker 3: one friend did it because the stem cells help with inflammation,

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Speaker 3: and inflammation is the cause of most disease, and in

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Speaker 3: your matriosis is inflammation of the uterine lining. And so

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Speaker 3: it went away. So check the call up. Look up

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Speaker 3: the place called rehealth rehealth on Instagram or rehealth, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and they have these stem cells. I get nothing from this.

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Speaker 3: I'm just telling you, you, shure say with the necklace

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Speaker 3: I was talking about yesterday, I get nothing from it.

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Speaker 8: And we also were not pid by googy gone Google.

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Speaker 3: Google Begune we are not all right, Jessica, thanks for

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Speaker 3: calling in, Thank you, thank you. All right, we are

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Speaker 3: going to shift gears to get to side hustles because

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Speaker 3: there's a lot of people that got side hustles. But

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Speaker 3: first I have to play something for you. I get

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Speaker 3: think it's going to completely be contagious. What you know

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Speaker 3: those you've got the AI places like Google, Gemini, Gemini

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Speaker 12: Chat GPT?

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Speaker 3: What is it?

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Speaker 7: Chat?

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Speaker 10: Gpt?

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Speaker 3: Okay, there was an interview done with the former Prime

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Speaker 3: Minister of the of the U K Boris Johnson, and

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Speaker 3: this video is going viral and I love it. Listen

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Speaker 13: Do you use absolutely use curtipit?

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Speaker 3: I love.

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Speaker 14: Spriankly fantastic.

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Speaker 7: Let me just pop that into.

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Speaker 3: I used five times yesterday. I'm not kidding you.

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Speaker 15: Do you use absolutely use curtipity?

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Speaker 3: I love.

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Speaker 14: Is spriankly fantastic?

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Speaker 8: Kyle take that like Kyle's version the best to again, dummy.

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Speaker 3: If you get three roses, it's a trap.

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Speaker 2: Four of the roses starts right now on John Jay

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Speaker 3: With his time for War of the Roses. Rachel thinks

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Speaker 12: So my boyfriend and I we've been together for three years,

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Speaker 12: and lately he's just been acting really really weird. They

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Speaker 3: Character for him, Okay, out a character, like what's he doing?

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Speaker 3: The typical putting the phone down, face down, talking in

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Speaker 12: Mean even more than that?

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Speaker 12: So like he's out running errands right, being super protective

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Speaker 12: It's just so not like him. I know something's going on.

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Speaker 12: I know something's off. He so he drives the Tesla,

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Speaker 12: been going consistently to some place that's not even.

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Speaker 2: Nearby a brothel.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 7: Do you see what the place is or you just

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Speaker 12: It looks like he's going to a school around around

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Speaker 8: Kind of Could he be taking classes somewhere getting a degree,

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Speaker 8: of course, not.

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Speaker 12: That's he's done with that, But I mean it's like

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Speaker 12: an elementary school. And so I'm just starting to wonder,

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Speaker 12: you know, as I'm digging through, I'm going through the

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Speaker 12: rest of his phone, and there is a number in

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Speaker 3: Hold on a second. Could his father be very, very

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Speaker 3: wealthy and wants him to take over his company, but

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Speaker 3: he never finished school, so he's got to go back

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Speaker 7: Happy Gilmore situation.

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Speaker 3: Billy Madison is his name? Billy?

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Speaker 12: No, No, it's an elementary school, Like at least that's

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Speaker 12: what it looks like. It's nearby wherever it's you know,

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Speaker 12: he's parking.

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Speaker 12: And then like with the phone number that's in his

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Speaker 12: but I can like there's so many messages back and

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Speaker 12: forth asking like Splinter, you're going to be here, miss you?

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, that's all. What's his what's your boyfriend's name?

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Speaker 3: Okay, here's how it works, Rachel. We're gonna get Andrew

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Speaker 3: so you got a lot of information there. You got

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Speaker 7: I got damning evidence?

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Speaker 3: No, it is evidence, but not damning super circumstantial circumcisions. Circumcisions. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I'm so glad you're here as the person who currently

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Speaker 3: Rachel and Andrew have been together three years. She has

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Speaker 3: that's far away. Right. How far away is it, Rachel?

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Speaker 12: I mean like close to forty minutes, and.

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Speaker 7: Always precise, but that's what I was going to bring up.

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Speaker 3: find out who he sends flowers to. Are you ready? Rachel?

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Speaker 12: Yeah? Thank you?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Kyle you ready?

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Speaker 7: Is Andrew available?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 7: So my name is Cammy. I'm going to make this

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Speaker 7: We're called jan Our Flowers. You've been chosen to be

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Speaker 7: part of our social media campaign. So basically, you get

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Speaker 16: Gotcha. So it's like I've had you on a post

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Speaker 16: no credit card, nothing like that, exactly.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't really need any personal information from you

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Speaker 7: If you let me know the message that you want

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Speaker 16: Cool, would be read I love you, Thank you for

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Speaker 3: That's very sweet, my favorite part of the day.

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Speaker 7: Okay, And who do you want to address this to?

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Speaker 16: Rachel?

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Speaker 3: She should be excited about this.

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Speaker 12: Wait, hold on, I'm confused.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell them what's going on. Andrew, your girlfriend

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Speaker 3: Rich radio program a segment called War of the Roses. Okay,

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Speaker 3: would you like to explain? Well, I mean Rachel has

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Speaker 4: With you.

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Speaker 3: We don't know why.

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Speaker 12: I just feel like there's something going on. So yeah,

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Speaker 12: I called the radio station.

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Speaker 12: You've been going to this elementary school. I'm I'm seeing

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Speaker 5: My god, tell me what's going on?

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Speaker 16: You went through my phone? Like what is I can't

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Speaker 19: What's wrong with me?

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Speaker 16: You're out of your mind?

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Speaker 8: Well, what's going on?

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Speaker 12: I'm not out of my mind? You're I saw you're

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Speaker 16: You can't You're not can do this? Like you know anything?

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Speaker 4: What do you mean?

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Speaker 12: What have you been going through?

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Speaker 12: Who are you seeing? When you go to the school?

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Speaker 16: Yeah, all right, fine, you want to do this great.

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Speaker 16: I found out about five months ago that I have

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Speaker 16: and I did like the paternity test, and I've been

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Speaker 16: and that's where I've been going. I've been meeting her

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Speaker 8: Wow, that's a lot bigger than cheating. Actually, that's pretty big.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, you have a you have an actual daughter, like

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Speaker 20: Like this for me.

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Speaker 16: I mean I had to write because of this, like

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Speaker 12: I mean, I get what you're saying, but you have

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Speaker 16: It literally situation And all I ask from you is

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Speaker 3: I don't think you look insane. I think that's a

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Speaker 3: was it a one night stand? Or was it somebody

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Speaker 16: A while, somebody had dated way before I met Rachel?

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Speaker 3: Right? No, I know because you've been dating. You've been

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Speaker 16: We dated for like two months? You know, it wasn't

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Speaker 3: And are you and the I don't want.

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Speaker 16: To really dive into the details publicly, like they live

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Speaker 3: Right, Okay, I mean let me ask you guys. Something

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Speaker 12: I mean, I can't tell who they were too at all.

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Speaker 3: Because if it's with a daughter, that's cute, love you,

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Speaker 3: so Andrew, who are you texting? And she was reading

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Speaker 16: To the mom, but it's not miss you. It's like

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Speaker 3: You know, well, Rachel said it was miss you, unless

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Speaker 8: Excited to see you. Could be speaking for the daughter.

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Speaker 6: I guess, or the daughter could be texting him too,

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Speaker 6: I think the secretiveness in the not talking and you

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Speaker 3: Would be what hurts my thing exactly. That's the betrayal.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, let me just say this. I feel like he

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Speaker 8: They probably would have sent her the flowers. That's where

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Speaker 8: you want to answer. No, of course not, but you're

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Speaker 16: Of course not.

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Speaker 3: But you know what, I don't know what I would

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Speaker 8: You didn't recognize when she changes like all the couches.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well that's an interesting situation. He sent the flowers

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Speaker 3: to you, Rachel. But you're so you find out your

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Speaker 8: Yeah, hearing some things in there that don't add up.

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Speaker 3: Thank you both for going on the air with us.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Thanks Andrew, Thanks Rachel. That's War of the Roses,

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Speaker 3: you guys. But John, Jay and.

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Speaker 1: Rich have an idea for the show today is your day.

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Speaker 1: Use the iHeartRadio app and talk back to us.

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Speaker 2: Right now. It's John Jay and rich Justin.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, Hey John Jay.

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Speaker 17: How's it going, long time listener?

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Thanks, Dustin? How are you?

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Speaker 13: I'm awesome, man, I mean mostly, you know, I just

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Speaker 13: it's at the point now where it's just starting to

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Speaker 13: I think it's a significant amount of time. And I'm

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Speaker 13: saying this because he's the first guy I'm fully openly

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Speaker 3: Okay, So how can I help you?

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Speaker 13: So it's just that lately I'm realizing, because I don't

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Speaker 13: and it's it's it's things I feel like your partner

446
00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:28,760
Speaker 13: should know about you or recognize or remember. Like let

447
00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:31,440
Speaker 13: me just say like I brought him a gift back

448
00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:35,520
Speaker 13: from Europe, and when his friend asked where he got it,

449
00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:38,160
Speaker 13: he said someone else gave it to him.

450
00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:43,680
Speaker 3: That for sure. What else?

451
00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:47,879
Speaker 13: Yeah, And you know, normally, you know, I can just

452
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Speaker 13: let that stuff slide, you know, because we're in a

453
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Speaker 13: serious relationship. But then the other day I found out

454
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Speaker 13: he doesn't even know my middle name.

455
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Speaker 2: After over a year of dating, a little over.

456
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Speaker 13: A year, he still does not know my middle mate. Again,

457
00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:03,879
Speaker 13: that's just a I mean, that's an obvious words flagged.

458
00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:08,119
Speaker 13: But the top it off, we had a dinner reservation

459
00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:11,160
Speaker 13: and he stelled my last name wrong.

460
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Speaker 3: We got a text here that was funny because I

461
00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:17,720
Speaker 3: was just a perfect timing. This text is, hey, my

462
00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:20,200
Speaker 3: son is two years old next week, and I had

463
00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:23,200
Speaker 3: to check how I spelled his name correctly for another

464
00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:27,560
Speaker 3: kid's birthday party card. This spell check. He thought he

465
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Speaker 3: spelled his son's name wrong. That's that happened.

466
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Speaker 8: Some people are details. I mean, he might love you,

467
00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:35,119
Speaker 8: just kind of like have one are those brains that

468
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Speaker 8: doesn't operate that That's kind of what I was thinking.

469
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Speaker 2: I was going to ask you.

470
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Speaker 7: Is he like a big picture guy? Like, is he

471
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Speaker 7: like thinking ten years down the road and he's not

472
00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:46,640
Speaker 7: really normally into the details anyways, Because that what kind

473
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:49,639
Speaker 7: of makes sense, I.

474
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Speaker 13: Mean somewhat, but it's just like when you put these

475
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Speaker 13: pieces together and there's there's been more like smaller signs,

476
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:02,560
Speaker 13: and these aren't like isolated incidents that if you're far between.

477
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Speaker 13: It's just it's just starting to make me after a year,

478
00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:09,639
Speaker 13: I mean a year, and I've tried bringing it up,

479
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:11,840
Speaker 13: inching at it, but it takes me feel like I'm

480
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Speaker 13: not important or memory.

481
00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:18,479
Speaker 3: Oh, Darren, I think you're just being emotional Dustin.

482
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:22,160
Speaker 8: Oh, maybe you don't even remember Justin's name.

483
00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:22,960
Speaker 3: Maybe it's just you.

484
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe it's you.

485
00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:28,320
Speaker 3: I think it's you, Dustin. I think it's your whole person.

486
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Speaker 13: So is he gonna call me?

487
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Speaker 3: Darren?

488
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 13: Now?

489
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Speaker 7: I think you got to talk to him about it

490
00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:38,359
Speaker 7: and just be like, are you doing this on purpose?

491
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Speaker 7: Or do you not realize you're doing this? Because these

492
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Speaker 7: details kind of matter to me. Maybe he doesn't realize

493
00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 7: what he's doing.

494
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Speaker 13: I don't want to be too sensitive about.

495
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Speaker 7: It, but no, but I think you I mean, it's

496
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Speaker 7: not one thing, it's a it's several things at this point,

497
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,359
Speaker 7: and I don't think you have to be confrontational about it.

498
00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,640
Speaker 7: Just be like, hey, do you do you know what's

499
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Speaker 7: kind of happening here. It's kind of like it's it's

500
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Speaker 7: it's something that I'm concerned about.

501
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,400
Speaker 8: You're like, out of my three names, you only kind

502
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:04,360
Speaker 8: of have my first name.

503
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Speaker 3: I don't. I don't think it's that big of a

504
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 3: deal just yet. That's just my opinion for sure. In fact,

505
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 3: we can just put this out real quick eight seven

506
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 3: seven ninety three seven one o four seven. Let's make

507
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:20,480
Speaker 3: Dustin feel better. Call up and tell us about how

508
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 3: your boyfriend, girlfriend, significant other. I mean, even me as

509
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,880
Speaker 3: a dad, I get all my kids' names, wrongs, wrongs wrong.

510
00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:29,440
Speaker 3: I'll say three or four names. You know, parents do

511
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,440
Speaker 3: that all the time, right, So I could see him

512
00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 3: not getting things right, and he probably mispelled your name

513
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:38,040
Speaker 3: by mistake rushing, but I mean, you still bring it

514
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:39,640
Speaker 3: up to him. But we'll just do a quick round.

515
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 3: Tell us about how your sitivated other completely messed up

516
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:44,119
Speaker 3: something that was. Like every time my wife tells me

517
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,920
Speaker 3: about her birthday, it takes a second for me. I can't.

518
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,720
Speaker 3: It's just not I mean, she knows my social Security number. Yeah,

519
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 3: I don't forget.

520
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Speaker 8: Some people are like that. Some people remember everything. Other

521
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,159
Speaker 8: people a big picture. They don't think about it. So

522
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:56,240
Speaker 8: I'm going to give him a pass.

523
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:58,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's what I'm saying. But still we'll do

524
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 3: a round. So, uh, Darren, Dustin will hang up. You

525
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:04,240
Speaker 3: turn up the radio, and you listen to what everyone

526
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 3: says to make you feel better.

527
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:08,160
Speaker 13: Okay, Hey, I appreciate that. Thank you for all your health.

528
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:10,200
Speaker 3: You got a hold on a second. Oh sorry, but

529
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 3: what were you saying? You just want to what?

530
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 13: Sorry, just wanted to get this off my chest. I'm

531
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Speaker 13: happy I did.

532
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:17,200
Speaker 3: Okay, good hold on eight seven seven nine three seven

533
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,439
Speaker 3: one four seven. Let's make him feel better. We'll talk

534
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 3: to you next, John Jay and Rich.

535
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 2: We just want to hear from you, and I don't

536
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 2: think that's too much to ask. And it's really stressing

537
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 2: me out that you're not calling.

538
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:31,359
Speaker 1: Eight seven seven nine three seven one o four sevens

539
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 1: John Jay and Rich.

540
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 3: Hi, Taylor.

541
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Speaker 21: I was calling because I related Dustin's story. I did

542
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 21: not know how to pronounce my husband's last name until

543
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 21: probably about a year and a half until we were dating.

544
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 21: I just kept pronouncing it wrong. He never corrected me,

545
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:50,160
Speaker 21: and I didn't know that's the way it was pronounced

546
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:52,720
Speaker 21: until he stated his full name at.

547
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 22: A group party and I was like, what are you

548
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:55,440
Speaker 22: talking about?

549
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 13: That?

550
00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 17: He had it?

551
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 3: So how do you what is your how did you

552
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 3: say it? And what's the right way of saying it?

553
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 21: Yeah, so he's Chinese.

554
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:07,159
Speaker 17: It's spout z h o u.

555
00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 21: So most people just called him zoo and I was like, yeah,

556
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 21: Jeff jets out, No, it's Joe Joe.

557
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:14,919
Speaker 12: I have to commit now.

558
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:17,919
Speaker 4: Yes. I was like, I thought this whole time.

559
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 21: Like we're gonna get married, my last name's gonna be

560
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:21,639
Speaker 21: Zou and then come to find out I'm going to

561
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:24,119
Speaker 21: be Taylor Joe. I was like, oh my god, I

562
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 21: have written.

563
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 8: That Taylor Joe is very Southern.

564
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 20: Yeah, exactly.

565
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:32,119
Speaker 21: It doesn't sound Chinese at all.

566
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 3: It does not.

567
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Speaker 7: How did he not correct you though?

568
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 15: I don't know.

569
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 21: I guess he just because he's in the military, they

570
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 21: go by last names. That's what everybody else was calling

571
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 21: him too. I'm like, why did you never correct anyone?

572
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:47,239
Speaker 3: That's great, Taylor, thanks for calling you. So you are

573
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 3: married now and you are Taylor Taylor Joe. Yes, I

574
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 3: am well, thanks for calling in, thanks for listening. Ye

575
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,159
Speaker 3: of course someday, Hi, Annah, what's going on?

576
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Speaker 12: Hi?

577
00:25:57,119 --> 00:26:02,160
Speaker 23: I was calling about my husband always called my daughter's birthday.

578
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 23: The dogs, he mixes it up with the dog's birthday.

579
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:07,639
Speaker 19: Twenty fourth.

580
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:10,639
Speaker 23: Every time he does his benefits and everything, he's like,

581
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:16,399
Speaker 23: June twenty fifth. I'm like, that's the dog's birthday twenty one.

582
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 22: At this point he still does it.

583
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 3: That's awesome.

584
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:20,959
Speaker 8: Doesn't mean he doesn't love him.

585
00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 7: You definitely don't want to mess it up on Belle fits.

586
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 3: I think that's good that he knows the dog's birthday.

587
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 3: I don't know any of my dog's birthdays. My wife's

588
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 3: got too many dogs to remember. Thanks Ann, I have

589
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 3: a great day. Thank you, Bye Kendall. Good morning.

590
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 20: I was forgetting my wedding anniversary. I was on a

591
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 20: video call with an adoption and social worker for my

592
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 20: daughter for my current husband to adopt her legally, and

593
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 20: I messed up my wedding anniversary, like.

594
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Speaker 8: How many years you were married, but the date that

595
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,160
Speaker 8: you were married, No, the date we were married.

596
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 20: I said the twenty seventh, and my husband just looked

597
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 20: at me funny, and he was like, we got married

598
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:00,080
Speaker 20: on the twenty.

599
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:03,719
Speaker 7: There's a lot of pressure.

600
00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 3: That was a stressful day.

601
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 4: What happened?

602
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:09,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, thanks Kendall, have a great day. Thanks for listening

603
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 3: you too, Hi, Lucy, Hi.

604
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:13,159
Speaker 7: You don't do it.

605
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 19: Good morning everyone. I want to share something funny about

606
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:20,399
Speaker 19: me and my husband. I met him like about twenty

607
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 19: years ago, and I didn't like the nickname he had

608
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 19: at the time, so I was like, you know what,

609
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 19: I'm gonna nickname you differently, So I name him Choco.

610
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:30,360
Speaker 17: Right.

611
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 19: We even married, you know, we know the family. Everybody

612
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 19: knows him for like, you know, fifteen years or so. Anyways,

613
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,879
Speaker 19: just up until a couple of years ago, my uncle

614
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 19: calls me from Mexico. Everybody calls him Choco, right, because

615
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 19: that's the nickname might take for him anyway, So my

616
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 19: uncle calls me and he's like, hey, what is Choco's name?

617
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 19: By the way, because you know, he's been in the

618
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:56,920
Speaker 19: family forever and we have no clue what his actual

619
00:27:57,080 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 19: name is. I just wanted to say to that thing,

620
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 19: like it is important for him to talk to his

621
00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 19: partner and let him know what bothers him. But it's okay,

622
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:10,720
Speaker 19: have a little fun with it, you know, like it's

623
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 19: it's always you know, good.

624
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:16,160
Speaker 3: That's so funny because like my mom's Mexican, and all

625
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 3: my aunts and uncles they all have nicknames. And I

626
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 3: have an uncle, uncle Chemali. Chemali is his name Chimie right,

627
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:23,879
Speaker 3: And I took the longest time where I said, my mom,

628
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 3: I go, eventually go Chimley. What does that mean? She's

629
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 3: His first name is Jesus. His last name is Maria.

630
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 3: He Ma Hemma, Emily, Emily Shemily. That's where wow.

631
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Speaker 12: Oh.

632
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 19: Sometimes like we have people that we know and we

633
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 19: only know them by the nickname, we just like become

634
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 19: fancy and just throw the last name bright like it

635
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 19: just grows like that forever. So that's that's part of

636
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 19: being Mexican.

637
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 3: Right down it is Lucy, Okay, thanks for calling them, Lucy,

638
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:58,719
Speaker 3: have a great day, have a great day. Justice, what's up?

639
00:28:58,760 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 3: Dog h?

640
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Speaker 24: So I failed her? Dessin my husband, we've been together

641
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 24: for nine years and even to this day, he will

642
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 24: forget our anniversaries. He forgets my birthday. Even if he

643
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 24: knows them, he still forgets, or he'll get them wrong

644
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,560
Speaker 24: and have to ask me and correct it.

645
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 22: But I kind of think it's like a guy thing.

646
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 24: Sometimes they just don't always remember.

647
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 8: It's not that we don't love, it's not that we

648
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 8: don't care. It's just that probably our whole lives. Somebody

649
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 8: has been remembering that for us, so we don't have

650
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 8: to and it just doesn't stick.

651
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 3: Sounds like me, I know, because like my husband, he

652
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 3: remembers more than I do.

653
00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 17: Like calendar.

654
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 3: I have a little bit of a problem. I have

655
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 3: a little improblem my boy's birthday because one of them

656
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:50,960
Speaker 3: was born on the fourth. One of them is born

657
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 3: on the fifth, you know, so he's get those two

658
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 3: screwed up. Then the youngest one was born, and I

659
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 3: now know it's July. But for the longest time, I

660
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 3: didn't know it was June or July teen or eighteen.

661
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 3: But I got it. Now it's July eighteen. I got it.

662
00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 22: Oh, I'm July too, July twentieth.

663
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 3: Oh right now is that what is that? Cancer?

664
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Speaker 4: No?

665
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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 19: Yes, cancer yet.

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Speaker 3: All right, Justice, thanks for driving and listening.

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Speaker 19: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: You have a good day, Alyssa, good morning.

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Speaker 25: Good morning. I was calling with the topic with Dustin,

671
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Speaker 25: and I get it. I mean, I've been with my

672
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 25: husband for twenty four years, and I think it is

673
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Speaker 25: a guy thing.

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Speaker 4: You know.

675
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 25: My husband does this often, even after twenty four years,

676
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 25: Like he'll ask me something and he even knows to

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Speaker 25: himself because I bring it up to him. Often he's like,

678
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 25: I know I already asked you this, but and then

679
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 25: he'll repeat the question. Very common thing, very common things. Yes,

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00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 25: you know theyd you love the door? And then maybe

681
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 25: an hour later, I know I asked you this, did

682
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 25: you lock the door? And then it will happen another time.

683
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 25: A lot of times I'll just tell him again, I

684
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 25: know you you're gonna ask me this.

685
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:04,320
Speaker 19: I just repeated.

686
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 3: But you love him in a way, Melissa, thanks for

687
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 3: calling it you.

688
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 2: Oh cool, your scanner stopped. It's John, Jay and Rich.

689
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 3: I like to do things on the show or or

690
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 3: build games around things that involved the show, and there's

691
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 3: some of the very personal. I hope Kyle you don't

692
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 3: mind talking about it. But I built a game around

693
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:25,720
Speaker 3: something you're going through.

694
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 2: What's that.

695
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 3: It's in honor of the Starbucks Bear Cup craze, a

696
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 3: game for you. You have yet been able to find

697
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 3: the bear cop and I know that's tough for you,

698
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 3: so thank you if you will indulge me with this game.

699
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 3: This dog Shot Collar trivia, So whoever gets the most

700
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 3: wrong has to get the dog shot collar treatment while

701
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 3: singing the song. In fact, maybe a bear song, Bear

702
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 3: necessities if you will, Ladies all right either way, if

703
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 3: you get them all right, and then I have to

704
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 3: get the dog shot caller Kyle. This bear is best

705
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:02,680
Speaker 3: friends with Christopher Robin. That is, we need the Pooh Rich.

706
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 3: This bear wears a red hat and sports a blue

707
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 3: coat with a tag that reads please look after this bear,

708
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:08,480
Speaker 3: thank you.

709
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 8: That would be Yogi Bear.

710
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 26: Wrong.

711
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 3: No, anyone know the answer to that. Paddington Bear. Paddington Bear.

712
00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 6: They just did a like a live Broadway musical of

713
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 6: the Paddington Bear and it was actually really cool looking.

714
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 3: Peyton, the taller Hannah Barbar bear who lives in Jellystone Park,

715
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 3: is looking for picnic baskets.

716
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 2: The who and the who.

717
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:32,320
Speaker 6: I'm gonna go with Rich's guests, Yogi Bear, You're right?

718
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 8: What about the ranger, Yogi Kyle.

719
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 3: If you're asking someone to be patient with you, you

720
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 3: say bear with me, Yes, bear with me Rich. If

721
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 3: you're not wearing shoes and you are on unfunned feet,

722
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 3: on fun feet, you are not on fun If you

723
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 3: are not wearing shoes h and you are what barefoot?

724
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:56,719
Speaker 26: Yes.

725
00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 3: Peyton a footwear brand known for a sheepskin boots slippers,

726
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 3: casual footwear. Now think carefully because I think you know

727
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:07,479
Speaker 3: where you're going to go with this answer, and that's

728
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 3: not right.

729
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 6: Can you repeat the question?

730
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 3: Footwear brand known for a sheepskin boots, slippers, and casual footwear,

731
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 3: and it's not ug okay? So I feel like.

732
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,480
Speaker 6: If you had didn't have ugs, then you had like

733
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 6: the bear claw boot, which was like not it is

734
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 6: that right, Kyle?

735
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 3: Do you know the names looking for bear pa demerit

736
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:34,959
Speaker 3: how a place where you create your own stuffed animals.

737
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 3: That would be build a bear. Yes, Rich, if you

738
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 3: take the worst of something, you bear it bear all,

739
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:51,479
Speaker 3: bear the brunt. That's two demerits for Rich Barrow Peyton.

740
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 3: Since you were a criminal justice man, I'm trying to

741
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 3: help you win here, Peyton, Like you can tell I

742
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 3: saince you're a criminal justice major to testify or give

743
00:33:58,840 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 3: evidence you.

744
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 6: To testify, you you don't have the right to bear arms.

745
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 2: When you do that, you have.

746
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 8: For a minus de merit, yes, right, bear witness.

747
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 3: Witness You're right. Paint that's two. Now you have one

748
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:21,920
Speaker 3: you were out of No, I think you have too.

749
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:23,839
Speaker 3: You got bear pau and you missed the Yogi bear one.

750
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:25,880
Speaker 3: You got the.

751
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 8: I think we're both at minus one.

752
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 3: Kyle his reasonable sidekick, This bears reasonable sidekick, Yogi bears

753
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 3: reasonable sidekick. Hey bear, that's right. Actually it's more technical,

754
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 3: but I'll take it's boo boo bear, but boo bear

755
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:45,839
Speaker 3: is fine. Rich the state and animal of the most

756
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:48,399
Speaker 3: southwestern state in the United States.

757
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 8: The most southwestern, oh California. The bear at the Golden Bear,

758
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:54,319
Speaker 8: looking for California bear.

759
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 3: Both take Golden Bear too. Peyton to produce results.

760
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:05,520
Speaker 6: So produced to bear results.

761
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:10,880
Speaker 3: Nope, anyone for a steel like bear fruit bear fruits

762
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 3: is right, Kyle. The plus one right? Rich, Just bear

763
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:16,640
Speaker 3: warns us about the hazards of forest fires.

764
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 8: Smoky bear or smoky bear.

765
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 3: Peyton. The Second Amendment covers the right to bear arms. Right,

766
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 3: I know that, Kyle. This is everyone's favorite bear from

767
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 3: Jungle Book. Yes, Rich, if you kind of look like

768
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:36,800
Speaker 3: someone you bear. A shocking resemblance is Peyton, a Canadian

769
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 3: rock band literally nineteen nineties songs like Old Apartment in

770
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 3: one Week the Bear no even said their name and

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00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:48,799
Speaker 3: beginning this game, okay wrong bear Naked ladies, Kyle. An

772
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:52,399
Speaker 3: expression representing the stripped down version of a product bear

773
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 3: Naked looking for bear bones, con rich a carpet made

774
00:35:58,000 --> 00:35:59,400
Speaker 3: from a dead bear, often into the house of a

775
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:05,319
Speaker 3: really old person and who hunts a bear rug. Yes, Kyle,

776
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 3: this is everyone's favorite bear family.

777
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 7: The Bernstein Bear bestein depending on where you are.

778
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 3: Peyton, I'm a Gartner's cooking Empire rich for the steal?

779
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 8: Did you answer?

780
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:21,800
Speaker 12: No?

781
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:23,399
Speaker 8: The bear bare?

782
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:26,879
Speaker 3: Yes? I have so many more, but I just can't

783
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:30,479
Speaker 3: do it. Kyle Seth mcfarloand's movie based on a talking

784
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:35,319
Speaker 3: bear Ted, Yes, rich Chewi bear made of the same

785
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 3: time material that may resemble your.

786
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:38,359
Speaker 8: Edibles Gummy Bear.

787
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 3: Yes, Peyton's smooth talking bear from Golden Crisp formally Sugar

788
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 3: Crisp Cereal The Golden Bear, Oh my god, Sugar Bear. Kyle.

789
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 3: This is the high kicking bear from Kung Fu Panda.

790
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:54,240
Speaker 12: Oh what is his name?

791
00:36:55,760 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 3: It's played by Jack Black na Se Peyton, but Payne

792
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 3: still has four hundred demerits.

793
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 2: I tried. I tried, not that hard because I know

794
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 2: Ted and I know Smoky the Bear.

795
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 3: What are you gonna say for us? Peyton?

796
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 6: Missing the bear necessities?

797
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 3: Okay, you know the words? Yeah, there we go. Look, Clad.

798
00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 1: Get up.

799
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 2: I mean, so mon nature that brings up.

800
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:38,240
Speaker 3: Oh my god, nice job, Peyton, Wedmar.

801
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 18: John a game for you.

802
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:43,800
Speaker 27: The next segment we're going to do is called second

803
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,360
Speaker 27: Date Update because that's what we're going to try and

804
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 27: get and that's what the bit is called Second Ate

805
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 27: Updates starts right now on John Jay and Ridge.

806
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 3: It's time for Second Ate Update. You meet somebody either

807
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 3: a dating app or me the old school, at a

808
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:58,880
Speaker 3: bar and club, or maybe your mom set you up.

809
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:00,600
Speaker 3: You meet somebody going to date. We have a good time.

810
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:03,319
Speaker 3: You expect there to be a second date that doesn't happen,

811
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:06,360
Speaker 3: so you come to us. We will get answers for you.

812
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 3: Good morning, Ken.

813
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:10,320
Speaker 10: I met this girl a couple of weeks ago, and honestly,

814
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:14,280
Speaker 10: I thought we had one of those just effortless instant

815
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:18,279
Speaker 10: connection type of dates. Like we met on hinge and

816
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 10: after talking for a few days, we decided to you know,

817
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:24,319
Speaker 10: meet up for drinks and we ended up stating there

818
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 10: for hours, just laughing, talking about really everything, family goals

819
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:36,360
Speaker 10: or random childhood stories. I mean, it just felt supernatural.

820
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 10: And then after we grabed drinks, we were like, let's

821
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,360
Speaker 10: continue this and we grab some late night tacos because

822
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 10: I mean, we didn't really want the night to end,

823
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 10: and we ended up back in my place, and I'm

824
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 10: not gonna lie, like things got a little like intense

825
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 10: and we hooked up and like you know, I left

826
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 10: the date. They ging, Okay, this could actually be something,

827
00:38:57,840 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 10: like I told my friends about her because she just

828
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:03,920
Speaker 10: kind of felt different. But now she's barely responding and

829
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 10: she's not making plans to see me again, and I

830
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 10: really don't know what went wrong, Like I just I

831
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 10: kind of want to know what happened, because in my mind,

832
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 10: like that date was perfect.

833
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:18,960
Speaker 8: Barely responding means that what she's saying, had a good

834
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 8: time but not committing to a second date.

835
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 10: I'm either getting ghosted or she's being avoidant, one of

836
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:25,759
Speaker 10: the two. Sometimes she won't respond in the sometimes like

837
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 10: yeah I got busy, maybe another time.

838
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 7: So she's blowing you off.

839
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 8: Yeah, sounds like, yeah, what did you do?

840
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 7: I know, it's like you're raving so much about it

841
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:39,800
Speaker 7: that I can't even like, I don't even know what

842
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 7: could have gone wrong.

843
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 10: I had a really good time.

844
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 8: Well, I mean they went back and hooked up, right,

845
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 8: Maybe he's no offense. Ken a terrible lover.

846
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 6: I mean I had a good time or maybe you

847
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 6: know sometimes like you do just want to hit it

848
00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 6: and quit it. Sometimes one time is enough and you

849
00:39:58,239 --> 00:39:59,399
Speaker 6: don't need to see him ever again.

850
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:03,520
Speaker 10: Just like all the rest of the day just kind

851
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 10: of pointed to like that's just instantly hitting it off.

852
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 10: And that's why I'm like, yeah, maybe it wasn't that

853
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 10: because as intense as like the I guess i'll call

854
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:16,840
Speaker 10: it an after party, as as as fun and intense

855
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:18,840
Speaker 10: as that stuff was, like, it was really like the

856
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 10: date part that really got me like just thinking, yeah,

857
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 10: I know this, this girl feels different and this is

858
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,440
Speaker 10: great and I'm really feeling a connection with this person.

859
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,760
Speaker 3: Do you have any stuff in your house? It's scary,

860
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 3: like if you have a painting of ed Gan or you.

861
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 2: Would like very sad.

862
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:39,239
Speaker 3: Oh this is my favorite art piece and it's that

863
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 3: John Wayne Gacy clown or something like that, Like oh

864
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 3: my god, I'm no.

865
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:49,839
Speaker 10: I mean I've got like one, uh one miniature Star

866
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 10: Wars mask. But that's not it.

867
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:55,799
Speaker 3: Okay, I get on the phone, We'll find out.

868
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 10: Kylo Wrinn mask miniature, Like it's not that big of

869
00:40:58,920 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 10: a deal.

870
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 3: No, that's fine. What's her name. We'll get her on

871
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:04,359
Speaker 3: the phone. Okay, we're gonna get Natty on the phone.

872
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 3: We're going to find out why she's blowing you off.

873
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:07,239
Speaker 3: What happens? So I was like, it was a great night.

874
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:10,239
Speaker 3: So second date update continues next with John Jaye Rich.

875
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 3: We're in the middle of second ate update. We got

876
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 3: Ken in Nadia.

877
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 8: You know, cupping season is in full bloom, where star

878
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:22,319
Speaker 8: crossed lovers everywhere look to find their mate. But Ken

879
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:25,359
Speaker 8: thought he was a hero. Nadia thought he was a zero.

880
00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 8: She barely tolerated as clumsy, drooling love making lunges, and

881
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:36,399
Speaker 8: now she is soft ghosting him into dismissal. Let's find

882
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:36,839
Speaker 8: out why.

883
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:39,760
Speaker 3: All right, Ken, you ready for us to call Nadia?

884
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 10: Yeah, I don't know if I was drooling.

885
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 3: Oh you heard that you went on a date, you

886
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:49,279
Speaker 3: spent the night. You guys went all the way and

887
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 3: you haven't heard from her.

888
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:54,760
Speaker 10: Right, that's the short version, other than the drooling.

889
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:57,360
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, all right, let's get Naughty on the phone.

890
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:09,879
Speaker 6: Well, Hi, is this naught yet?

891
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 4: Yes it is.

892
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 12: Hey.

893
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 6: My name is Peyton. I'm with John Jaye Rich and

894
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 6: we just wanted to talk to you about a few things.

895
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 6: On the radio.

896
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:19,240
Speaker 19: If you're okay with that, Yeah, that's okay.

897
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:22,720
Speaker 18: Sure, I guess sure.

898
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 3: We're talking to a guy that went on a date

899
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 3: with you. He literally said, it seemed like one of

900
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:30,440
Speaker 3: the best dates ever, and then you even spent the

901
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:32,959
Speaker 3: night at his house, and now you're kind of blowing

902
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 3: him off. So we told him we'd find out why

903
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:36,839
Speaker 3: talking about Ken.

904
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 18: Oh yeah, yeah, I remember Ken.

905
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 3: Well, it sounds like it would be a memorable night.

906
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 3: Everything he described, well it was, I.

907
00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 18: Got of him. But honestly, I'm I'm annoyed because we

908
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:56,080
Speaker 18: did have a great night.

909
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 16: It was great.

910
00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 18: I mean truly it was. It was really fun and

911
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:03,360
Speaker 18: and we vibed the entire time. But the second we

912
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:11,760
Speaker 18: hooked up, things got weird, really weird. Well, he started

913
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 18: asking me these random questions, Like he asked me like, uh,

914
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 18: how do you feel about being with someone who's in

915
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 18: a relationship and would you ever date somebody who has

916
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:26,239
Speaker 18: a partner? And I was sitting there like, what are

917
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:28,479
Speaker 18: we having? We having like a ted talk on open

918
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 18: relationships right now, Like you guys are in.

919
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:33,239
Speaker 3: The middle of being intimate, Like he's talking about this

920
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 3: while you're intimate.

921
00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:36,040
Speaker 18: It was like the first thing he said after we finished,

922
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:39,440
Speaker 18: and I was like so confused. It was giving, Honestly,

923
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 18: it was giving, like swinger recruitment, you know what I mean.

924
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:44,319
Speaker 5: Yeah, And so then it.

925
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:46,439
Speaker 18: Would like to make it even worse. I was leaving

926
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 18: his place at like three o'clock in the morning, and

927
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 18: I'm walking downstairs and I see a framed photo by

928
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 18: the door of him with a woman and two kids.

929
00:43:58,520 --> 00:43:59,879
Speaker 4: My jaw hit the floor.

930
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 10: I gassed.

931
00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 18: I was absolutely I'm so stunned, and I got in

932
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:06,919
Speaker 18: my car and set off like I was just gave

933
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:09,319
Speaker 18: me a crime scene or something. So yeah, I mean

934
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 18: I ghosted him. That was weird because I'm not about

935
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 18: to be the side character in someone's bizarro family drama.

936
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:17,200
Speaker 18: I don't want any of that.

937
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 10: So hold on, that is what you're ghosting me.

938
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 3: Because I have wife.

939
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 14: Probably as well, right Ken, Why are you a what

940
00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 14: is going on while you're on the phone right now?

941
00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 10: I mean, because I had to clear this up, like

942
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 10: you've got it all wrong.

943
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 18: I probably like, oh my god, No, I most certainly

944
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 18: did not.

945
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:42,799
Speaker 22: I got it exactly right.

946
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 18: You have a whole family, dude, This is weird.

947
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 10: No, okay, let me explain. Yes, I'm married. Yes, I

948
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,400
Speaker 10: have kids, but my wife and I are in a

949
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:56,719
Speaker 10: very healthy, open relationship and we're actually looking for a

950
00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 10: third partner.

951
00:44:57,600 --> 00:44:58,879
Speaker 8: No, she didn't get it all wrong.

952
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 7: It's something that you bring up before the hook up, right,

953
00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 7: so someone is knowingly going into the situation like.

954
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:09,000
Speaker 18: This is what I'm talking about, Like, why wouldn't you

955
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 18: leave with that?

956
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:11,600
Speaker 10: I mean, I didn't want to freak you out on

957
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 10: the first date. And like, for the record, my wife

958
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:15,440
Speaker 10: is the one who spotted you. She's the one that

959
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 10: was like, oh my god, she's perfect and so like

960
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 10: everything's like above bar, what does she have all wrong?

961
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 18: Except with Nadia, I'm sorry your your wife scouted me

962
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:29,879
Speaker 18: like I'm a like a draft pick or something.

963
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 10: No, no, no, no, not like that. She just thought

964
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 10: you were beautiful and seemed amazing, and after I told

965
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:37,360
Speaker 10: her how great our date was, like she really wanted

966
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 10: to get to know you.

967
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 18: This is insane.

968
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:42,839
Speaker 5: I don't look.

969
00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 10: Look there was no cheating, there was no longing, there

970
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:49,520
Speaker 10: was nothing shady, like we do everything with honesty and consent,

971
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 10: And I really like you, and my wife loved hearing

972
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 10: about you, and I mean that's kind of why I

973
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 10: wanted another date, you know, like with.

974
00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:00,040
Speaker 3: All of us, may I may I ask you a

975
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 3: couple of questions real quick. So you said, when you

976
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 3: were on your date, Ken, you talked about a bunch

977
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 3: of stuff and you talked about family. You said, we

978
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 3: talked about family. It's funny because I rarely ever take notes,

979
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:11,759
Speaker 3: and I happened to take notes for this, and you said,

980
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 3: we talked about family. So when you're talking about family,

981
00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 3: I would think immediate family. How does that not come

982
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:20,239
Speaker 3: up with wife and kids can think about it?

983
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:23,680
Speaker 10: And I didn't want to scare off on the first date.

984
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:23,880
Speaker 12: Ye.

985
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 3: Also, when when you are sleeping with her and she leaves,

986
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:30,920
Speaker 3: where was your family?

987
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 10: She went out? The kids are grown, they're they're already

988
00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 10: out of the house. And yeah, no she my wife flept.

989
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 3: Okay to go, you go have your date.

990
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:44,719
Speaker 8: I'm going to leave so you can have the house

991
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:47,719
Speaker 8: to yourself to sleep with the stranger if it comes up.

992
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:51,240
Speaker 7: Oh interesting, And that's great if it works for you guys,

993
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:54,800
Speaker 7: But also that that should be something that Nadia was

994
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 7: aware of beforehand.

995
00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:59,400
Speaker 3: Well are they swears? They're swears? Then right? Legitimately I

996
00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 3: just googled, we're.

997
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 10: Not wingers, per se. It's polyamory. We believe that we

998
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 10: we don't look at if something makes our partner happy.

999
00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 10: We try to encourage that, whether it be another partner

1000
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 10: or something. But like being if I were to be

1001
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 10: in a relationship with my wife like there wouldn't be

1002
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 10: a hierarchy. If I was in a relationship with Nadia

1003
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:25,160
Speaker 10: like Nadia, I would give the same attention, I would

1004
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 10: give the same affection. I would treat her as an equal.

1005
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:28,959
Speaker 3: We would.

1006
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 10: We don't believe that Nadia would be less band, you

1007
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 10: know what I mean. It wouldn't just be a one

1008
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 10: time hookup like I was looking for a relationship with Nadia.

1009
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:40,799
Speaker 6: What's your opinion on it? Now, Nadia, are you still

1010
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:41,439
Speaker 6: like way?

1011
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 18: Well, I cannot believe I'm actually saying this, but I mean,

1012
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 18: when you put it that way, I might be might

1013
00:47:58,239 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 18: considering it?

1014
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 4: What what.

1015
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:02,879
Speaker 26: She got?

1016
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 6: Really silent over there?

1017
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 2: I feel like the wheels are turning.

1018
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 18: I mean, I'm not promising anything, but I'm not necessarily

1019
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 18: saying no, not hanging up.

1020
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 8: Okay, do we believe the ken's telling the truth? He's

1021
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:18,080
Speaker 8: not just making this all up? And now he shocks

1022
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 8: She said, no, it doesn't sound like it.

1023
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 10: Does well, we'll all have coffee together. We'll see how

1024
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:26,040
Speaker 10: you feel.

1025
00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 26: Like.

1026
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 10: I don't want you to be uncomfortable, but we'll all

1027
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:31,879
Speaker 10: have coffee together and we'll full transparency and we'll we'll

1028
00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 10: just see how you feel and take it at your pace.

1029
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:42,560
Speaker 3: Okay, sounds great. Now all right, so now are you

1030
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 3: down for that?

1031
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 26: Yeah?

1032
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:45,280
Speaker 3: Not your life?

1033
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 18: I think, well no, I think that they're so transparent

1034
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 18: about it. And I had a good time. Yeah, I mean,

1035
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:55,920
Speaker 18: I'm open to chatting. I guess I'm not promising anything.

1036
00:48:56,840 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 3: You had a good time, but the heck yeah, all right,

1037
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:04,759
Speaker 3: all right then you guys, that's a successful second update

1038
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:06,399
Speaker 3: in a very bizarre world. So hold on the line.

1039
00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 3: Thank you both for jumping on the air with us.

1040
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 3: That's second and update with John jay and Rich John

1041
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:15,000
Speaker 3: Jaye Rich Chris Jenner had her seventieth birthday party at

1042
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 3: Jeff Bezo's house. Okay, we talked about it, but what's

1043
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:21,880
Speaker 3: really interesting is the cops were called twice to the party.

1044
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:24,919
Speaker 3: So we wanted to know why were the cops called

1045
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:27,279
Speaker 3: to your house? Eight seven, seven, nine, three seven one

1046
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:29,959
Speaker 3: four to seven high Dawn, Hi, why were the cops

1047
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:30,600
Speaker 3: called to your house?

1048
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:32,879
Speaker 26: Well?

1049
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:37,160
Speaker 11: For my roommate. Actually they came for him. He liked

1050
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:41,719
Speaker 11: to practice throwing fire and breathing fire out front, and

1051
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 11: he purchased to do it mostly like late at night,

1052
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:46,239
Speaker 11: so it wasn't really normal for our neighborhood.

1053
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 8: I would think, not you see a fire breather out there,

1054
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 8: you said, throwing fire and breathing fire.

1055
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:55,120
Speaker 11: Yes, he would actually, I mean he wasn't really recommended

1056
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 11: to do this, but he was a magician at the

1057
00:49:57,040 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 11: Magic Castle, and he would actually regurgitate this fuel. So

1058
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 11: we would perform the right yard late at night. I'm

1059
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:07,560
Speaker 11: just getting me wrong. It was great to see, but

1060
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 11: the cops really weren't expecting to see what they were

1061
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 11: called out for and ended up even just parking outside

1062
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:15,719
Speaker 11: the street and kind of watching him doing his thing.

1063
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 3: Wow, so did your neighbors at some point already know

1064
00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:20,920
Speaker 3: that's what he does, so after a while they were

1065
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:21,440
Speaker 3: just used.

1066
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:24,240
Speaker 11: To it or no, we had trained our neighbors before

1067
00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 11: he ever moved in, so we weren't really like a

1068
00:50:26,239 --> 00:50:29,520
Speaker 11: wild bunch, but we were a bunch of early twenties

1069
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 11: later twenties roommates and where we lived, so they were

1070
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 11: kind of familiar with us to be a little bit

1071
00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 11: of a wild bunch and have some late night.

1072
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:39,280
Speaker 3: Is he still around or did he like burn himself

1073
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 3: to death?

1074
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:40,840
Speaker 12: No?

1075
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 11: Actually, you could probably google him. If you google Randall

1076
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 11: Richmond and then search with Johnny Carson, you'll find his

1077
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 11: performances online on YouTube.

1078
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:51,560
Speaker 3: Randall Richmond.

1079
00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:54,800
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, master magician.

1080
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:56,399
Speaker 4: Yep.

1081
00:50:56,719 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 8: I mean, if you're going to breathe fire, you really

1082
00:50:59,080 --> 00:51:00,839
Speaker 8: should practice it because you don't want to just try

1083
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:03,000
Speaker 8: that once for the first time on stage.

1084
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 3: You can see how that might be nerve wracking.

1085
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 8: Yeah, there was a fire breathing man in front in

1086
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:09,879
Speaker 8: my front yard.

1087
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:15,360
Speaker 11: Wow, we have good memories.

1088
00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:18,359
Speaker 3: What a hairstyle he has. If he's still alive, let's

1089
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 3: get him in here, let's have him like spit some

1090
00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 3: fire around here.

1091
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 8: Yeah, could what could possibly go wrong?

1092
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:27,000
Speaker 11: It's been years since I've had contact with him because

1093
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 11: I left California about twenty years ago. But from my understanding,

1094
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:32,879
Speaker 11: he's still around and he's got some talents. You should

1095
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 11: check out some of the things that he actually does online.

1096
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 3: Wow. Well, thanks for sharing that story with us.

1097
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 11: Absolutely thanks for having me.

1098
00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:38,960
Speaker 12: So.

1099
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:40,759
Speaker 3: The cops never arrested him, They were just called and

1100
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 3: they ended up watch him spit fire, and then they left.

1101
00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 11: I think they were probably a little shocked at what

1102
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 11: they were actually seeing and kind of wanted to see

1103
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 11: it for themselves. But no, never any rest, never any drama,

1104
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:51,239
Speaker 11: just a couple of phone calls.

1105
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 3: Hyeah, thanks Don, Diana, good morning. Why were the cops

1106
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 3: called to your house?

1107
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 4: So?

1108
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:58,080
Speaker 14: The cops who were at my house because I had

1109
00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:01,440
Speaker 14: a warrant for my dad. However, in my family, we

1110
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:04,040
Speaker 14: have like five of them with the same name. Unlet's

1111
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 14: have a middle name, which I checked a warrant and

1112
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:08,960
Speaker 14: they didn't. So I'm like, which one are you looking for?

1113
00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 14: My dad, my uncle, or my cousins.

1114
00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 3: Are the Mexican? Are they Mexican?

1115
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:15,080
Speaker 4: Yep?

1116
00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 14: Yeah, the name that's my dad name.

1117
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 4: They're all jose.

1118
00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:25,680
Speaker 3: So why was there a warrant for your dad? Though?

1119
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:29,399
Speaker 14: He just missed court and it's just a small thing.

1120
00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:32,239
Speaker 14: But unfortunately he has all his mail getting sent to

1121
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:34,600
Speaker 14: my house, so that's why the cops came to my house.

1122
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:36,799
Speaker 14: I'm like, sorry, he don't live here, he just has

1123
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:37,400
Speaker 14: his mail here.

1124
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 3: That's wild. Okay, Well thanks for sharing that, Diana. Thank

1125
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:44,120
Speaker 3: you Peynon where the cops called your house?

1126
00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:49,400
Speaker 6: Cops called to my house plenty of times have a

1127
00:52:49,480 --> 00:52:52,439
Speaker 6: party for like New Year's Eve or and my dad

1128
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:54,400
Speaker 6: was stod outside and they called the cops on us.

1129
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:57,439
Speaker 6: We had like probably a line of a hundred people

1130
00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 6: wrapped around the corn oh case. Yeah, it was bizarre.

1131
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:02,080
Speaker 6: It was crazy.

1132
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:04,399
Speaker 3: We had the cops called my house because my kids

1133
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 3: were playing basketball and listening to hip hop on a

1134
00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:12,160
Speaker 3: Friday night at seven pm, and Judith called the cops.

1135
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 6: Judith was a tripping Yeah.

1136
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, you want to know for me why the

1137
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 3: cops came to your house? Eight seven seven nine four

1138
00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:23,279
Speaker 3: seven police recalled the Chris Jenner's party. You want to

1139
00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 3: know why the police were called your house, Charman.

1140
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 26: My sister and I were under my mom's car working

1141
00:53:30,920 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 26: and I decided that I was going to just go

1142
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:36,000
Speaker 26: take a shower. So it was in the shower and

1143
00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 26: the cops came right into the bathroom, looked at me

1144
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:42,080
Speaker 26: in the shower and said you need to come out,

1145
00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:45,719
Speaker 26: And I said, what is this forgn My brother had

1146
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:51,239
Speaker 26: sold drugs to an undercover cop, and I was mortified

1147
00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:54,080
Speaker 26: when I had to when they came into the bathroom

1148
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 26: to get me out, they had to search the whole house.

1149
00:53:57,160 --> 00:53:59,120
Speaker 26: So they just said you need to get out and

1150
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:00,880
Speaker 26: get dressed and come out, you know, come out and

1151
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:01,320
Speaker 26: talk to it.

1152
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:04,480
Speaker 8: They couldn't have waited until you were done done scrubbing

1153
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:07,120
Speaker 8: the job to do and when you come out.

1154
00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:07,719
Speaker 3: We need to talk to you.

1155
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 26: No, they wanted me out right in and there. I

1156
00:54:11,239 --> 00:54:14,880
Speaker 26: mean I was scared for one and then like I

1157
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:17,400
Speaker 26: couldn't believe that they were in the bathroom instead of

1158
00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:21,200
Speaker 26: like saying, just like you said, you know, we're gonna

1159
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:23,360
Speaker 26: give you a few minutes to get yourself dressed whatever.

1160
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:25,600
Speaker 26: I had to come out of there without. I had

1161
00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:26,360
Speaker 26: to wear a cowel.

1162
00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:30,400
Speaker 23: So yeah, it was.

1163
00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:34,160
Speaker 26: It was very mortifying for me, but more so for

1164
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:37,680
Speaker 26: my mother because my brother sold drugs out out of

1165
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:38,280
Speaker 26: her house.

1166
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 4: It's like, Okay, if.

1167
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 26: You can sell drugs, go do it somewhere else.

1168
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:42,720
Speaker 3: Don't be stupid.

1169
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 7: True, I mean they probably thought they don't. They wanted

1170
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:48,840
Speaker 7: you out of the shower because you could have probably

1171
00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:50,879
Speaker 7: gotten rid of the drugs if they give you more time.

1172
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:54,000
Speaker 3: I like your mom's advice. It wasn't don't tell drugs.

1173
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 3: It wasn't do it somewhere else.

1174
00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:02,879
Speaker 26: Yeah, I'll tell your drugs somewhere else.

1175
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:05,319
Speaker 3: All right, Charman. By the way, how much how much?

1176
00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:05,839
Speaker 26: How much?

1177
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:07,719
Speaker 3: How much time did your brother do and what's he doing?

1178
00:55:07,800 --> 00:55:07,920
Speaker 4: Now?

1179
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:12,000
Speaker 26: This was probably about, I don't know, fifteen years ago.

1180
00:55:13,680 --> 00:55:16,920
Speaker 26: So he's out and he's taking care of his wife

1181
00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 26: who had a stroke. So but that's who he started,

1182
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 26: you know, dealing with from his wife?

1183
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 28: Did he as?

1184
00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:22,359
Speaker 4: Now?

1185
00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 3: Oh, thank you Charmon, thanks for calling Hi. Jennifer, thanks

1186
00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 3: for holding hi.

1187
00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:28,839
Speaker 22: How are you doing.

1188
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:30,279
Speaker 3: Why were the police call to your house?

1189
00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:34,160
Speaker 11: I actually had called to my house. You had what

1190
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:36,520
Speaker 11: like the slat team?

1191
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:41,440
Speaker 3: I said, simpos what I actually had simpox called my

1192
00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:44,480
Speaker 3: house and I haven't heard of that before. You had, No.

1193
00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:47,920
Speaker 22: I actually had the swat team called my house and

1194
00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 22: it was in January, my sixteen year old at the

1195
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:53,320
Speaker 22: time at Schnuckle boy In and the people across the

1196
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:58,080
Speaker 22: street had called the police, and my now ex husband

1197
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:01,040
Speaker 22: was not on good terms with this is the city

1198
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:04,359
Speaker 22: police that we had been living in that city at

1199
00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 22: the time, So I think that has something to do

1200
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:09,800
Speaker 22: with swats coming to our house. But we had two helicopters,

1201
00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:13,440
Speaker 22: dogs and probably about eleven cars and are called to

1202
00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:18,280
Speaker 22: SAC and I wake up probably around like twelve o'clock

1203
00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:20,839
Speaker 22: to the phone ring and the woman on the line

1204
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 22: is like, you know, as this Jennifer's so and soon

1205
00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 22: and I'm like, yeah it is. And they're like, you know,

1206
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 22: we need you to come outside immediately. And so I

1207
00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 22: walked to my front door and I'm kind of out

1208
00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 22: of it and I opened the front door and there

1209
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 22: are like four lasers pointing at me. Yeah, like I'm

1210
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:37,960
Speaker 22: freaking out at that point, and I'm like, can I

1211
00:56:38,040 --> 00:56:39,879
Speaker 22: put on a hoodie? And I'm in a tank top

1212
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:42,800
Speaker 22: in boy shorts and it is January and she is like,

1213
00:56:43,040 --> 00:56:45,800
Speaker 22: absolutely not, we have you in sight. You need to

1214
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 22: immediately come through your door. And she's like, where is

1215
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:50,879
Speaker 22: you know, your husband, And I'm like, hold on, he's

1216
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 22: in the office, you know, sleeping in the office.

1217
00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:53,560
Speaker 18: So I go and I get him.

1218
00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:56,480
Speaker 22: I call him out, and they have the lasers on

1219
00:56:56,560 --> 00:56:58,319
Speaker 22: me the whole time because the office is like right

1220
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:00,520
Speaker 22: behind where our front door was at, so they could

1221
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:02,320
Speaker 22: see me. And I'm like, he's literally right behind me,

1222
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:03,840
Speaker 22: like you guys can see me, hold on, And so

1223
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 22: I walk in. I'm like, hey, you need to cut

1224
00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:07,919
Speaker 22: up right now. So both of us are literally wearing

1225
00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:10,360
Speaker 22: like pretty much next to nothing because you know, we

1226
00:57:10,400 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 22: were asleep and we walk out and they had us

1227
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:15,840
Speaker 22: walk into the middle of our call to stack and

1228
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:18,360
Speaker 22: lay down in the call to stack, handcuffed us and

1229
00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:21,200
Speaker 22: put us in the car, and they're like telling us,

1230
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:23,360
Speaker 22: you know, the whole story about how you know, oh

1231
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:25,800
Speaker 22: we you know have a report that someone you know

1232
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:27,640
Speaker 22: might be breaking to your home, Like why did you

1233
00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:29,640
Speaker 22: remove the two adults and leave our four kids? And

1234
00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:32,320
Speaker 22: they're with my two Dobermans by the way, and they're like, well,

1235
00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:34,000
Speaker 22: We're going to go in there and secure the scene.

1236
00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 22: I'm like, oh no, you're not, Like you are not

1237
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:37,840
Speaker 22: going to shoot my dogs today. I'm like, I will

1238
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 22: go in there with you. You're not going in there.

1239
00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:41,960
Speaker 22: And at that point they were like, can we have

1240
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:45,120
Speaker 22: your teenage daughter's phone number? And they called her and

1241
00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:46,480
Speaker 22: they're like do you have a boy in there? And

1242
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:50,200
Speaker 22: she's like no, and they're like, clean, your parents are

1243
00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:50,400
Speaker 22: in the.

1244
00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:51,440
Speaker 10: Back of the car right now.

1245
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:54,120
Speaker 22: You need to tell it truth. And so eventually she

1246
00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 22: was like yeah, and they brought the boy out and

1247
00:57:57,320 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 22: say had long story short, no one broke into my house.

1248
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:01,400
Speaker 22: Neighbors need to mind their own business.

1249
00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:04,120
Speaker 3: I wonder what why like, was the boy maybe the

1250
00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:06,560
Speaker 3: son of the chief of police, because it doesn't it's so.

1251
00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:10,080
Speaker 22: Weird from the veen, he wasn't even from the area.

1252
00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:11,400
Speaker 22: He's driving his brand's car.

1253
00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:15,040
Speaker 8: Your husband was probably happy about the swat team busting

1254
00:58:15,080 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 8: that holding up so extremely to lie.

1255
00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 7: Why if you thought someone was bringing into your house,

1256
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:21,480
Speaker 7: why are you in handcuffs?

1257
00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 4: Right?

1258
00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:23,479
Speaker 7: That makes no sense.

1259
00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:26,360
Speaker 22: Like the whole situation sucked, But it was because my

1260
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:28,640
Speaker 22: ex at that time was not in good terms with

1261
00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:30,320
Speaker 22: the police, and I think as soon as they heard

1262
00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 22: our address and our name, they were like, you know what,

1263
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 22: let's see how all right?

1264
00:58:36,960 --> 00:58:38,760
Speaker 3: Okay, So when you said your husband is sleeping in

1265
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:40,480
Speaker 3: the office, is that your ex? Is that what you're

1266
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 3: talking about?

1267
00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:41,000
Speaker 4: Now?

1268
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:41,600
Speaker 3: That's your ex?

1269
00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:41,960
Speaker 22: Yeah?

1270
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 13: Yeah?

1271
00:58:42,640 --> 00:58:44,040
Speaker 3: Oh, is there a reason why he was sleeping in

1272
00:58:44,040 --> 00:58:45,680
Speaker 3: the office, Like, were you guys already in bad terms?

1273
00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:48,200
Speaker 3: We're already separated that point, okay, because I got it,

1274
00:58:48,240 --> 00:58:51,480
Speaker 3: like the swap comes into parenting of marriage advice. We

1275
00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:54,920
Speaker 3: noticed your husband sitting in the office, what's going on?

1276
00:58:55,680 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 18: Well, I'm already separated at that point, so that's.

1277
00:58:59,000 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 22: Why we were sleeping into her.

1278
00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 3: That's crazy, Jennifer, That is a crazy story.

1279
00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:06,680
Speaker 22: That's so ye never expected to handcuffy in my own

1280
00:59:06,720 --> 00:59:07,880
Speaker 22: cult to sack in the middle of the night.

1281
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:09,880
Speaker 3: I liked your handcuff face down on the floor and

1282
00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:11,640
Speaker 3: you were like, you are not going to my house,

1283
00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 3: and they're like, okay, we better let her go.

1284
00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 12: I know, no, I know, I so worried about my dog, all.

1285
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:20,479
Speaker 3: Right, Jennifer, thanks for sharing that story.

1286
00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:23,880
Speaker 22: You know, I figured it wasn't someone breaking into my house.

1287
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:26,280
Speaker 22: You know, I have like a million little kids at

1288
00:59:26,320 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 22: that point, like, what are you going to take some

1289
00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 22: you know, legos?

1290
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:36,960
Speaker 3: These are valuable, Jennifer. Thanks for calling in, Jennifer, Mike,

1291
00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:38,000
Speaker 3: they came to your house.

1292
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:41,320
Speaker 15: Oh yeah, they came to my house for me. I

1293
00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:43,320
Speaker 15: hope this is a learning experience for everyone. I just

1294
00:59:43,520 --> 00:59:46,360
Speaker 15: I drank too much. My girlfriend and her mom were

1295
00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:48,479
Speaker 15: staying in my house. They were living in my house,

1296
00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:51,840
Speaker 15: and I hadn't they She brought her a big flat

1297
00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:54,480
Speaker 15: screen and put my old little it's like old from

1298
00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:56,640
Speaker 15: the you know, late two thousands. It's the old flat

1299
00:59:56,680 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 15: screen near my bed in my room. And I got

1300
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:01,520
Speaker 15: real drunk one night and I went in and I

1301
01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:03,600
Speaker 15: kicked the TV just because they were harping at me,

1302
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:06,440
Speaker 15: and I kicked the TV and I went to sleep,

1303
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:08,200
Speaker 15: and I woke up with Phoenix s p ed over me,

1304
01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:11,400
Speaker 15: taking me to jail. Because you know, you can't yell

1305
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:13,400
Speaker 15: or break anything in front of women. It's considered the

1306
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:18,000
Speaker 15: domestic violence for real. Yeah, so and that said I was.

1307
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:19,920
Speaker 15: I was like, it's my TV, it's my house, you know.

1308
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:21,760
Speaker 15: But so I wound up, you know, going to jail,

1309
01:00:21,800 --> 01:00:23,720
Speaker 15: getting the you know, her mom and her picked me

1310
01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:26,240
Speaker 15: up the next day. We all made amends. But while

1311
01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:27,960
Speaker 15: I was in jail, I was in the holding cell

1312
01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:29,680
Speaker 15: and L would be, you know, before you go to

1313
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:33,000
Speaker 15: Lower Buckeye and uh, there there's this what is this?

1314
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:35,960
Speaker 15: We're not the Russian the Ukrainian guy, and I was

1315
01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:37,720
Speaker 15: he was a young guy, my age twenty five, was

1316
01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:40,080
Speaker 15: asking him about the war and everything's real cool. And

1317
01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:42,600
Speaker 15: then they get summoned back to court and they tell

1318
01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 15: me that I was I spit on that guy, and

1319
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:46,680
Speaker 15: they showed me a picture of it, and I was like, no,

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Speaker 15: I you know, I would never do anything like that.

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Speaker 15: And then the prosecutor was like, you know, it's best

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Speaker 15: to just plead guilty because it's up to two years

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Speaker 15: in jail and her and her mom were like, hey,

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Speaker 15: you were real drunk. You might as well just admit

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Speaker 15: to it, you know, And I said, no, it's not

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Speaker 15: my character. So I fought it. And it turns out

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Speaker 15: they just made a mistake. It was the It was

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Speaker 15: the guy in the cell next to me who spent

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Speaker 15: on the officer almost got charged with it. So when

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Speaker 15: they figured all that out, they dropped everything. They dropped

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Speaker 15: the DV for the TV and and everything, so the

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Speaker 15: whole whole arrest was just wiped off.

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Speaker 8: But still, do not kick a TeV TV the TV. Yeah,

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Speaker 8: I'll never get to that TV ever.

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Speaker 15: Do to you never break anything? Yeah, I hope that's

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Speaker 15: a learning experience for everyone. Don't break anything.

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Speaker 3: You control your anger too, you know, go for a run.

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Speaker 3: All right, Yeah, thanks for calling in. Glad you're safe.

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Speaker 3: We were doing this because of Kris Kardashian because it

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Speaker 3: was their seventieth birthday and the police came to her

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Speaker 3: house for a birthday party twice. And it made me

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Speaker 3: feel like, you know, it's kind of funny hearing these

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Speaker 3: stories because it's like we're just like the Kardashians. It's

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Speaker 3: one of those few things where we can relate to

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Speaker 3: the Kardashians. The police come to our house too, Chris,

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Speaker 3: if you have any other ones, shoot us a call

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Speaker 3: eight seven seven nine four seven or DM John J. Vanes.

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Speaker 3: It's John Jay and Rich. I don't know how you found.

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Speaker 2: Us, but I'm so thankful that you did. It's John

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Speaker 2: Jay and Rich Oakley.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, Good morning. What's going on?

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Speaker 19: Okay?

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Speaker 17: So I was listening to your afterwards podcast and you

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Speaker 17: guys had a dream analysis on, and so I was like,

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Speaker 17: I have to call them and tell them about this

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Speaker 17: dream situation I've been dealing with this week.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she was really good. She was really good, but lovely.

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01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:27,040
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe some of her expertise rubbed off on us.

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Speaker 3: So what's your dream?

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Speaker 17: It's my boyfriend's dream. He woke up and looked at me,

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Speaker 17: just like casually and just goes like, I had this

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01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:40,360
Speaker 17: sex dream about Sydney's swimming. Now in what world am

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Speaker 17: I going to laugh about that? Why would you tell

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01:02:42,200 --> 01:02:44,000
Speaker 17: me that before I've even had my coffee.

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Speaker 12: She thinks I'm.

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Speaker 17: Crazy when I have a dream that he's cheated on

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Speaker 17: me and I get mad at him. But when he

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Speaker 17: has a dream that he cheated on me, I'm definitely

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Speaker 17: mad at him.

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Speaker 8: Okay, so you aren't those people that have the you know,

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Speaker 8: the Desert Island list of Like if you could hook

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01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:02,439
Speaker 8: up with Sidney Sweeney, I wouldn't be so mad because

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Speaker 8: it's Sidney Sweeney.

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Speaker 17: No, I should be the only person on his Desert

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Speaker 17: Island lift. Okay, very much.

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Speaker 3: I can't.

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Speaker 7: I can relate to how you're feeling. But if we

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Speaker 7: learned anything while talking to you. I believe her name

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01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:18,000
Speaker 7: was Teresa Chunk. She's a dream expert or dream analyzer.

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Speaker 28: She would have said, this is beautiful. Oh my goodness,

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01:03:22,720 --> 01:03:25,680
Speaker 28: you have no idea how lovely this is. Well, he's

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01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:29,720
Speaker 28: hanging to you, is he misses your personal contact?

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Speaker 7: So I feel like maybe there's so many of your

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01:03:33,560 --> 01:03:36,080
Speaker 7: relationship he wants to spicings up in the bedroom, Like

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Speaker 7: what a great opportunity to open up that conversation for

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Speaker 7: you too.

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Speaker 17: I just can't get like, I maybe he should have

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01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:47,680
Speaker 17: listened to the podcast, because then he could be like, hey,

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Speaker 17: you know what, I think we should do this instead

1390
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Speaker 17: of just being like, hey, here's my dream. Isn't that funny?

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Speaker 17: And you know he's like it's just a dream. It's

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Speaker 17: like not a big deal. But like I've seen multiople

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Speaker 17: like ads and like you know, previews of movies and

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01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:08,720
Speaker 17: just shows that she's in on TV and like on

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Speaker 17: my laptop during this week, and every single time, I'm like,

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Speaker 17: I hate you. It's so mad.

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Speaker 3: Okay, let me tell you we don't have access to

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01:04:17,480 --> 01:04:19,280
Speaker 3: the dream lady we just had on, but we shouldn't

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Speaker 3: have her on again. But I just went to the

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Speaker 3: dream interpreter and said, what does it mean you have

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01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:26,120
Speaker 3: a sex dream about a celebrity? It says since celebrities

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01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:29,760
Speaker 3: hold such high status in our society, these types of

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01:04:29,840 --> 01:04:34,600
Speaker 3: dreams can also symbolize that you desired if he feels special, important,

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01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:38,760
Speaker 3: or noticed, so it seems like he's going through something

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01:04:39,000 --> 01:04:40,600
Speaker 3: he wants you to notice it. It doesn't mean that

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01:04:40,640 --> 01:04:42,960
Speaker 3: he wants someone with big boobs, blue eyes, and blonde hair.

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Speaker 7: I mean, you could also ask him which Sydney sweety

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01:04:45,440 --> 01:04:46,560
Speaker 7: is it euphoria or christy?

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01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:52,600
Speaker 3: But either way, either way, it's about his desire to

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Speaker 3: feel special, important, or notice. So maybe you need to

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01:04:55,160 --> 01:04:57,040
Speaker 3: make him feel special, make him feel noticed, make me

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Speaker 3: feel important.

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Speaker 6: I would make him regret it. It would be like, oh, babe,

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01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:01,760
Speaker 6: what's for dinner? I don't know how Sydney.

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Speaker 2: I would constantly remind him about that.

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Speaker 6: He's not keeping his insight thoughts to himself.

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01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:09,240
Speaker 8: I got you. He is going through something. He's going

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Speaker 8: through being an idiot for telling you about that sexually vision.

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01:05:13,360 --> 01:05:15,680
Speaker 17: Going through something because he was going through something and

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01:05:15,720 --> 01:05:16,480
Speaker 17: didn't deal with it.

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Speaker 7: Why would he share that.

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01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:21,760
Speaker 3: I can tell you why he shared it. It feels

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01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:23,880
Speaker 3: very comfortable with his relationship with Oakley where they can

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Speaker 3: share things like that. Now, maybe he should have that comfortable.

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Speaker 8: You don't share that ever.

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Speaker 7: Again, let's keep that one in there in the head.

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Speaker 17: Yeah, there are some things who can keep to yourself

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Speaker 17: and that is one of them.

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Speaker 3: Well, Oakley, thanks for sharing that. Next time we get

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Speaker 3: the dream Interpreter on we we will patch you through.

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01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:42,280
Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 17: I appreciate that. I'm like, I'll write this one down,

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01:05:44,840 --> 01:05:46,640
Speaker 17: not that I think I could ever forget it, but

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Speaker 17: just in case I block it out.

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Speaker 3: Thanks Oakley, Thank you, And if you missed it, it's

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Speaker 3: on our Afterwards podcast. It's really cool to hear her

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01:05:54,840 --> 01:05:56,480
Speaker 3: and you can get I think she gave us how

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Speaker 3: you can contact her, so it's our afterwards podcast. It's

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Speaker 3: wherever you get podcast. iHeartRadio everywhere. It's John Jay and

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01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:03,840
Speaker 3: Rich Afterwards.

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Speaker 2: Broadcasting live across the world right now. This is the

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Speaker 2: John Jay and Rich radio program