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Speaker 2: Hey Erica. Hey, So I called.

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Speaker 1: Erica yesterday and Erica, I kind of filled in on

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Speaker 1: the weird situation where you know and it imagine yourself

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Speaker 1: like Erica, and I know that we have a We've

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Speaker 1: been doing this for a while now, so we do

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Speaker 1: have people listening who you know, we're a part of

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Speaker 1: this at some point. But I had to call Erica

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Speaker 1: and say, hey, remember Will remember the dates and what

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Speaker 1: the hell went wrong? And also I post a show

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Speaker 1: and I would love for you to come on and

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Speaker 1: just you know, be honest about it all. Erica, at

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Speaker 1: first you did not want to do this, but you know,

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Speaker 1: lucky for all of us and lucky for Will. Maybe

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Speaker 1: I don't know however you want to look at it,

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Speaker 1: but you did agree to this, so real quick. We

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Speaker 1: can save the we could save the awkward hellos and whatnot,

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Speaker 1: but Hi Will, Hello, all right, Erica, kind of what

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Speaker 1: I told you last night, Just be honest, And.

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Speaker 2: Why didn't you call Will back?

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Speaker 3: Well? Yeah, so, you know, Will was really sweet. We

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Speaker 3: had a good time, but it was, you know, it's

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Speaker 3: so weird. When I first went over to his place,

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Speaker 3: you know, they're just like it was kind of barely

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Speaker 3: anything there. Like in his living room he had like

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Speaker 3: a couple of lawn chairs and a weird like table

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Speaker 3: and that was it. Like, no TV, no nothing. And

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Speaker 3: I was like, what did you just move in? I

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Speaker 3: mean it was just very odd, and you know whatever,

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Speaker 3: I didn't want to, you know, push it. You're age

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Speaker 3: about the weird question.

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Speaker 1: Tell us about the bed, well, I guess tell the

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Speaker 1: ladies about the bed.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, it was just a mattress. There was

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Speaker 3: nothing else.

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Speaker 2: Did you go in the fern?

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Speaker 1: Nothing?

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Speaker 3: No, nothing, not a single thing like one microwave dinner

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Speaker 3: in the riche.

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Speaker 4: That was it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was really weird.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Will, how old are you?

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Speaker 5: Oh? I'm thirty five.

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Speaker 1: So and I think that maybe that's because I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna lie. Before my fiance and I got together, I

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Speaker 1: didn't have a bed frame.

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Speaker 2: I didn't have one of those.

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Speaker 5: I think it's pretty normal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like for some guy in eight hundred

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Speaker 1: and four and ninety three ninety three. You ever make

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Speaker 1: it over to his place and realize he has nothing.

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Speaker 1: I never kept anything in my fridge ever.

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Speaker 6: I so listen, I live alone. I don't have anything

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Speaker 6: in my fridge either. When I do have my girlfriend

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Speaker 6: come over, she's like, you live like a guy, And

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Speaker 6: I just tell people I live a very minimalistic life.

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Speaker 2: Has your girl friend come over? Yes? Oh really? And

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Speaker 2: you got nothing even when she comes.

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Speaker 6: I got water, I got gatorade, and I got red Pool.

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Speaker 2: You don't try to like fake it like you've got

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Speaker 2: a ton of stuff.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you want to know how I fake it. I

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Speaker 6: go get the fruit bowls from publics and I put

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Speaker 6: them in there. I got one on top, and I

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Speaker 6: put some up celery and carrots at the bottom to

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Speaker 6: just make it look like there's something in me.

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Speaker 1: Nothing says self sufficient enough like pain extra half eight

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Speaker 1: and four nine ninety three ninety three. Because before I

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Speaker 1: I certainly did not clean. I didn't need to clean.

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Speaker 1: I had nothing in there. I literally did it. I

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Speaker 1: had like the I have like dumbbells in my living

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Speaker 2: I never touched those. I'd go to my apartment gym.

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Speaker 1: But you know, like a guy's gotta have that for

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Speaker 1: some you got them, of course you did. That's like

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Speaker 1: kind of like the I live by myself, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: You got one TV.

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Speaker 1: The TV more than likely is in your room because

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Speaker 1: you spend more time on your in the room mattress.

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Speaker 1: And your lawn chairs are they at least nice lawn chairs?

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Speaker 1: Will like tell me about your lawn chairs? Not really, but.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I like she said, I really like

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Speaker 5: the minimalist lifestyle. And I'm saving money and you know,

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Speaker 5: if I have to, I have to move again. You know,

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Speaker 5: it's not going to cost me thousands of dollars to

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Speaker 5: do it. And you know it's it's just a little apartment.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, I don't know what you really need.

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Speaker 5: It's kind of no frills.

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Speaker 1: Is there a part of you too? That's kind of

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Speaker 1: like because this happened with me, I keep bringing it up,

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Speaker 1: but this is just the way it was. You know,

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Speaker 1: I inherited a lot when my fiance and I got

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Speaker 1: together and she moved in. Everything that was hers all

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Speaker 1: of a sudden became mine. Next thing, you know, I

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Speaker 1: had a dresser by the way, shot out to shout

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Speaker 1: out to my mom and my dad, mainly my mom

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Speaker 1: because you know, my mom calls the shots. My mom

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Speaker 1: eventually gifted Alyssa and I with dressers. You know that happened.

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Speaker 1: Everything that I have is kind of a gift. The

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Speaker 1: TVs that I have are just hand me down TVs

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Speaker 1: for my parents. We were about to get another one

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Speaker 1: from Alyssa, but it was drilled in the wall. We

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Speaker 1: so we just donated that to the next person who

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Speaker 1: moved into her place.

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Speaker 2: But I mean, did did Sean Katie?

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Speaker 1: Did Sean have roommates before he got with you?

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Speaker 7: No, And I will say that I had been in

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Speaker 7: my house for a while, so kind of the same

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Speaker 7: situation happened, where like Shawn just inherited, you know. But

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Speaker 7: I also really like my things, so I don't think

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Speaker 6: Say, you're a woman, so you're like you were living

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Speaker 6: there for quite some time. She said, I have this

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Speaker 6: way of living. I like my furniture, I like my bed.

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Speaker 6: What did he have? Sean just like his stuff? He

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Speaker 6: going on to a table night or something.

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Speaker 7: But okay, so Eric, I gotta say, like that would

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Speaker 7: be a huge red flag for me.

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Speaker 2: And although will I appreciate that you want to live

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Speaker 2: like a minimalist, like an.

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Speaker 7: Adult, like you got to have a table.

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Speaker 3: But something at least like I love a minimalist life,

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Speaker 3: Like I like the look, you know, the feeling, the

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Speaker 3: vibe it. You know, it's clean, it's nice. But like

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Speaker 3: it wasn't like put together. It's just like.

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Speaker 2: Getting his life together.

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Speaker 1: Man.

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Speaker 2: You know that's what I tell people.

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Speaker 6: I don't have a lot of stuff in his place

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Speaker 6: because I'm thinking about the future when I'm moving with

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Speaker 6: you and we get it together.

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Speaker 2: Oh thank you. So that's what you're doing. You do

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Speaker 2: check this out, check us out, check this out? Is

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Speaker 2: it Belle? I think it's.

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Speaker 1: Very very important that we start this out by saying,

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Speaker 1: your husband your husband when you met him, your husband,

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Speaker 1: which means it ended up working out. You gave him

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Speaker 1: a changeants after you went into his place and he

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Speaker 1: had an air mattress. He didn't even have a real bed.

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Speaker 3: That's right.

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Speaker 4: He didn't even have a mattress. He didn't have a

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Speaker 4: bed frame. He just had an air mattress. And he

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Speaker 4: didn't even have blinds. He had, you know, those paper things. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: And I was like, oh my gosh, you know, why

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Speaker 4: don't you. I know, you have a full time job,

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Speaker 4: you have money, Like, what's the deal here? And he's like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I just you know, it doesn't matter to me. And

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Speaker 4: I was like, Okay, well I guess. And he's like,

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Speaker 4: but he's such a charmer. He was like, you know what,

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Speaker 4: it's so that we can build together. Yeah, we've got

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Speaker 4: all the things. And you know, he's real picky about

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Speaker 4: our furniture, which is crazy. He had an air mattress.

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Speaker 1: This is the other thing. You know, what happened on

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Speaker 1: that mattress before me? If I'm moving in, I don't

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Speaker 1: want to know what happened on that mattress before me.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to know who laid in that bed.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to know what type of things could

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Speaker 1: be living in the fabric. If it's an air mattress,

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Speaker 1: go buy a new one, exactly, Go get it, Go

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Speaker 1: get a real bed. You don't have anything to worry about.

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Speaker 1: That's what it is. Erica is is Will is just

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Speaker 1: trying to keep things clean before you two and up

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Speaker 1: getting married. Do you see, maybe, Erica, maybe we can

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Speaker 1: work on another day. I mean, yeah, yeah, but what

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Speaker 1: were you about to say?

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Speaker 2: Erica?

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Speaker 3: No, that's so true. You know you're right. I shouldn't

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Speaker 3: set such high standards.

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Speaker 2: I guess, And wait, what why you serious?

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Speaker 1: We're gonna get don't ruin it, don't ruin it. I

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Speaker 1: think we might have just ruined it. No, don't ruin it.

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Speaker 1: Don't ruin it. Do you mean that you'd be willing

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Speaker 1: to give Will an extra chance? We should not have

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Speaker 1: responded that way. We were responding to something that happened

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Speaker 1: outside of the studio, not to you, say, Erica, is

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Speaker 1: there really a chance we never get to this point?

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Speaker 3: I mean maybe maybe.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're ending it right here.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to talk to you out of it, Erica,

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Speaker 1: continue to think about this.

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Speaker 2: Will keep us updated, Erica, keep us updated. I will.

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Speaker 2: You're not You're not alone, by the way.

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Speaker 1: There there are plenty of us who are like you

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Speaker 1: at some point or are still like you, Eric, and

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Speaker 1: will thank you, and maybe we will get an update.

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Speaker 2: Maybe something will actually happen.

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