WEBVTT - Capri Listens to Second Date Update and Still Ghosted Nolan

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<v Speaker 1>Star one on one three.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Marcus in the morning, and we are back with

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<v Speaker 2>second date update this morning. Let's bring our guy on, Nolan.

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning, are you there?

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<v Speaker 3>Good morning, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you I'm all right? How are you old? Enough?

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<v Speaker 1>With the ghosting and all? I mean, yeah, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me just super confused. I don't know why Capri

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<v Speaker 1>has ghosted me. You know, let's well, let's talk about her.

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<v Speaker 3>We met up in Cooper Tino, went to this awesome

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<v Speaker 3>Mexican spot.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh huh uh.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we had some tacos. I mean, we shared

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<v Speaker 3>a plate, which is kind of cool, talked about travel.

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<v Speaker 3>We both have traveled quite a bit. I've actually traveled

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<v Speaker 3>a lot in Mexico, so I was kind of you know,

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<v Speaker 3>she was interested in that.

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<v Speaker 2>I was gonna say, if you shared a plate andy

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<v Speaker 2>with your hands, that's very intimate.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're basically engaged, right.

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<v Speaker 3>That's true. That's true. It was fun. It just felt

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<v Speaker 3>like it was all natural and calm. I walked her

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<v Speaker 3>to her car afterwards. Uh, and I totally thought it

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<v Speaker 3>was like an obvious second date was going to happen.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it was just, you know, it was just

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<v Speaker 3>a wet, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, go ahead and mut your phone and let's get

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<v Speaker 2>this thing started. Let's try to figure out why she ghosted.

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<v Speaker 3>Try.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, is this Capri? This is Capri. It's Marcus from

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<v Speaker 1>Star one O one three? Good morning? How are you?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? Hi, I'm good. Yeah, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you listen to the show?

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<v Speaker 4>Sure? Do?

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<v Speaker 1>Sweet?

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, I'm fascinated the name Capri. Is that

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<v Speaker 2>like like the pants or the sun?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, everybody asked me that.

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<v Speaker 1>I literally have never heard that name.

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<v Speaker 4>My parents from their honeymoon in Capri in Italy. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>and I don't like to think about it too much,

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<v Speaker 4>but I think that's why I'm here, and so that's

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<v Speaker 4>what they name me.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well welcome. So we're doing second date update right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you familiar?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? Yes, am, Now it makes a little more sense.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, sweet. So yeah, do you know how it works?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes? I do.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you've been on a date recently, a gentleman who

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<v Speaker 2>may or may not be listening in I have.

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<v Speaker 4>I would imagine this is about Nolan, who I haven't

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<v Speaker 4>responded to since thirty eight.

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<v Speaker 1>So Nolan, are you there?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm here? Yeah, Okay, Capri.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Hi, Nolan, So Capri, why did you go star guy?

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<v Speaker 1>Did he do something? What happened?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean I guess it was kind of multiple things,

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<v Speaker 4>but I would say, right, I mean, Nolan, I think

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<v Speaker 4>that it started out strong. It wasn't until maybe kind

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<v Speaker 4>of midway. I think that we were sharing about, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>some family dynamics. But maybe it was a little bit

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<v Speaker 4>of the over sharing that made me kind of pause

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit and kind of took some notes on

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<v Speaker 4>some of the things that had come up. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>you'd shared with me, which you know, I felt really

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<v Speaker 4>glad that you were comfortable to share with me. But

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<v Speaker 4>about that, you you know, currently aren't speaking to three

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<v Speaker 4>different family members, like not just distant, but like fully

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<v Speaker 4>blocked three family members for a variety of reasons, right,

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<v Speaker 4>like you had mentioned, well.

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<v Speaker 3>But they were good reasons though, right Like my sister

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<v Speaker 3>you know, like we had a Venmo argument.

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<v Speaker 4>It was all political, Okay, uh huh.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that really an issue? Like I have strong boundaries, right,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like that's healthy.

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<v Speaker 4>And your mom also right, well, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that's just for now. I mean, she's not

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<v Speaker 3>risk in my boundaries, so I had to block her

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<v Speaker 3>for a moment, but I'm sure you know we'll be

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<v Speaker 3>back to talking soon.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, you know, families are complicated, but sounded

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<v Speaker 4>a little chaotic to me, and that kind of left

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<v Speaker 4>me questioning maybe if there was more going on than

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<v Speaker 4>was shared, you know, like, I'm not one hundred percent

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<v Speaker 4>convinced that maybe it's not you rather than everybody else.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's not even the strangest thing. When the check came,

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<v Speaker 4>Nolan confidently said to me, like, I got it, and

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<v Speaker 4>immediately then followed with asking me if I had vell

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<v Speaker 4>because he wanted to split everything. And when I say

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<v Speaker 4>split everything, I mean down to the scent. I mean

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<v Speaker 4>I was watching him calculate the tip attack and then

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<v Speaker 4>he even divided the glaucamule that we shared based on

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<v Speaker 4>who he felt eight more bites of the guacamule.

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<v Speaker 1>Very was he literally calculating on his phone or something?

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<v Speaker 4>Or oh yeah, I was just literally staring at him,

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<v Speaker 4>watching him do the math on his phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, Nolan, back to you. What's really going on?

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<v Speaker 2>You said you got it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, look I got it, as in I was going

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<v Speaker 3>to figure it out for us. Yeah, I just don't like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, when with like unclear money energy. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>when it's like you said a precedent, it's like I'm

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<v Speaker 3>always buying or you're always buying or whatever, like we're

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<v Speaker 3>just equal.

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<v Speaker 4>You said to me, I got it, but then you

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to put it, which I found to be there.

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<v Speaker 3>I had the calculator.

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<v Speaker 1>I got it.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, that's the way, you know, And then I

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<v Speaker 3>was going to cover it, and you were going to

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<v Speaker 3>pay me back.

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<v Speaker 4>With zel not how it works for me when somebody

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<v Speaker 4>told me they got the chuck.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what that means, Nolan, guy, you guys, hang on,

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<v Speaker 2>hang on, hang on, hey Capri.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that was very strange.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's just not what I'm looking for. And I

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<v Speaker 4>should have been mature enough to not ghost him, but

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<v Speaker 4>I ghosted him because I didn't want to have this conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>I just don't think he's open minded enough to be

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<v Speaker 4>able to be accountable for something that was a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit bizarre.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'll take care of him. You go ahead and

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<v Speaker 1>keep being awesome.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you for listening, Thanks for calling and getting me

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<v Speaker 4>through it.