Speaker 1: Star one on one three.
Speaker 2: It's Marcus in the morning, and we are back with
Speaker 2: second date update this morning. Let's bring our guy on, Nolan.
Speaker 2: Good morning, are you there?
Speaker 3: Good morning, I'm here.
Speaker 1: How do you I'm all right? How are you old? Enough?
Speaker 1: With the ghosting and all? I mean, yeah, I'm good.
Speaker 1: Let me just super confused. I don't know why Capri
Speaker 1: has ghosted me. You know, let's well, let's talk about her.
Speaker 3: We met up in Cooper Tino, went to this awesome
Speaker 3: Mexican spot.
Speaker 1: Uh huh uh.
Speaker 3: You know, we had some tacos. I mean, we shared
Speaker 3: a plate, which is kind of cool, talked about travel.
Speaker 3: We both have traveled quite a bit. I've actually traveled
Speaker 3: a lot in Mexico, so I was kind of you know,
Speaker 3: she was interested in that.
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, if you shared a plate andy
Speaker 2: with your hands, that's very intimate.
Speaker 1: I mean, you're basically engaged, right.
Speaker 3: That's true. That's true. It was fun. It just felt
Speaker 3: like it was all natural and calm. I walked her
Speaker 3: to her car afterwards. Uh, and I totally thought it
Speaker 3: was like an obvious second date was going to happen.
Speaker 3: I mean, it was just, you know, it was just
Speaker 3: a wet, you know.
Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead and mut your phone and let's get
Speaker 2: this thing started. Let's try to figure out why she ghosted.
Speaker 3: Try.
Speaker 1: Hi, is this Capri? This is Capri. It's Marcus from
Speaker 1: Star one O one three? Good morning? How are you?
Speaker 4: Oh? Hi, I'm good. Yeah, I'm good.
Speaker 1: Do you listen to the show?
Speaker 4: Sure? Do?
Speaker 1: Sweet?
Speaker 2: First of all, I'm fascinated the name Capri. Is that
Speaker 2: like like the pants or the sun?
Speaker 4: Yeah, everybody asked me that.
Speaker 1: I literally have never heard that name.
Speaker 4: My parents from their honeymoon in Capri in Italy. Okay,
Speaker 4: and I don't like to think about it too much,
Speaker 4: but I think that's why I'm here, and so that's
Speaker 4: what they name me.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Okay, well welcome. So we're doing second date update right now?
Speaker 2: Are you familiar?
Speaker 4: Oh? Yes, am, Now it makes a little more sense.
Speaker 1: I think, sweet. So yeah, do you know how it works?
Speaker 4: Yes? I do.
Speaker 2: Okay, you've been on a date recently, a gentleman who
Speaker 2: may or may not be listening in I have.
Speaker 4: I would imagine this is about Nolan, who I haven't
Speaker 4: responded to since thirty eight.
Speaker 1: So Nolan, are you there?
Speaker 3: I'm here? Yeah, Okay, Capri.
Speaker 1: Hey, Hi, Nolan, So Capri, why did you go star guy?
Speaker 1: Did he do something? What happened?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I guess it was kind of multiple things,
Speaker 4: but I would say, right, I mean, Nolan, I think
Speaker 4: that it started out strong. It wasn't until maybe kind
Speaker 4: of midway. I think that we were sharing about, you know,
Speaker 4: some family dynamics. But maybe it was a little bit
Speaker 4: of the over sharing that made me kind of pause
Speaker 4: a little bit and kind of took some notes on
Speaker 4: some of the things that had come up. You know,
Speaker 4: you'd shared with me, which you know, I felt really
Speaker 4: glad that you were comfortable to share with me. But
Speaker 4: about that, you you know, currently aren't speaking to three
Speaker 4: different family members, like not just distant, but like fully
Speaker 4: blocked three family members for a variety of reasons, right,
Speaker 4: like you had mentioned, well.
Speaker 3: But they were good reasons though, right Like my sister
Speaker 3: you know, like we had a Venmo argument.
Speaker 4: It was all political, Okay, uh huh.
Speaker 3: Is that really an issue? Like I have strong boundaries, right,
Speaker 3: I feel like that's healthy.
Speaker 4: And your mom also right, well, yeah.
Speaker 3: I mean that's just for now. I mean, she's not
Speaker 3: risk in my boundaries, so I had to block her
Speaker 3: for a moment, but I'm sure you know we'll be
Speaker 3: back to talking soon.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, you know, families are complicated, but sounded
Speaker 4: a little chaotic to me, and that kind of left
Speaker 4: me questioning maybe if there was more going on than
Speaker 4: was shared, you know, like, I'm not one hundred percent
Speaker 4: convinced that maybe it's not you rather than everybody else.
Speaker 4: But that's not even the strangest thing. When the check came,
Speaker 4: Nolan confidently said to me, like, I got it, and
Speaker 4: immediately then followed with asking me if I had vell
Speaker 4: because he wanted to split everything. And when I say
Speaker 4: split everything, I mean down to the scent. I mean
Speaker 4: I was watching him calculate the tip attack and then
Speaker 4: he even divided the glaucamule that we shared based on
Speaker 4: who he felt eight more bites of the guacamule.
Speaker 1: Very was he literally calculating on his phone or something?
Speaker 4: Or oh yeah, I was just literally staring at him,
Speaker 4: watching him do the math on his phone.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Nolan, back to you. What's really going on?
Speaker 2: You said you got it?
Speaker 3: Yeah, look I got it, as in I was going
Speaker 3: to figure it out for us. Yeah, I just don't like,
Speaker 3: you know, when with like unclear money energy. You know,
Speaker 3: when it's like you said a precedent, it's like I'm
Speaker 3: always buying or you're always buying or whatever, like we're
Speaker 3: just equal.
Speaker 4: You said to me, I got it, but then you
Speaker 4: wanted to put it, which I found to be there.
Speaker 3: I had the calculator.
Speaker 1: I got it.
Speaker 3: I mean, that's the way, you know, And then I
Speaker 3: was going to cover it, and you were going to
Speaker 3: pay me back.
Speaker 4: With zel not how it works for me when somebody
Speaker 4: told me they got the chuck.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what that means, Nolan, guy, you guys, hang on,
Speaker 2: hang on, hang on, hey Capri.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was very strange.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's just not what I'm looking for. And I
Speaker 4: should have been mature enough to not ghost him, but
Speaker 4: I ghosted him because I didn't want to have this conversation.
Speaker 4: I just don't think he's open minded enough to be
Speaker 4: able to be accountable for something that was a little
Speaker 4: bit bizarre.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll take care of him. You go ahead and
Speaker 1: keep being awesome.
Speaker 4: Thank you for listening, Thanks for calling and getting me
Speaker 4: through it.