1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:00,960 Speaker 1: Star one on one three. 2 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:02,600 Speaker 2: It's Marcus in the morning, and we are back with 3 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 2: second date update this morning. Let's bring our guy on, Nolan. 4 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 2: Good morning, are you there? 5 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 3: Good morning, I'm here. 6 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: How do you I'm all right? How are you old? Enough? 7 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: With the ghosting and all? I mean, yeah, I'm good. 8 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:16,640 Speaker 1: Let me just super confused. I don't know why Capri 9 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 1: has ghosted me. You know, let's well, let's talk about her. 10 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 3: We met up in Cooper Tino, went to this awesome 11 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 3: Mexican spot. 12 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: Uh huh uh. 13 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 3: You know, we had some tacos. I mean, we shared 14 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 3: a plate, which is kind of cool, talked about travel. 15 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:34,200 Speaker 3: We both have traveled quite a bit. I've actually traveled 16 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 3: a lot in Mexico, so I was kind of you know, 17 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 3: she was interested in that. 18 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 2: I was gonna say, if you shared a plate andy 19 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 2: with your hands, that's very intimate. 20 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 1: I mean, you're basically engaged, right. 21 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 3: That's true. That's true. It was fun. It just felt 22 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 3: like it was all natural and calm. I walked her 23 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 3: to her car afterwards. Uh, and I totally thought it 24 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 3: was like an obvious second date was going to happen. 25 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 3: I mean, it was just, you know, it was just 26 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 3: a wet, you know. 27 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:04,320 Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead and mut your phone and let's get 28 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 2: this thing started. Let's try to figure out why she ghosted. 29 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 3: Try. 30 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:21,199 Speaker 1: Hi, is this Capri? This is Capri. It's Marcus from 31 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: Star one O one three? Good morning? How are you? 32 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:30,200 Speaker 4: Oh? Hi, I'm good. Yeah, I'm good. 33 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:31,319 Speaker 1: Do you listen to the show? 34 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:33,039 Speaker 4: Sure? Do? 35 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 1: Sweet? 36 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 2: First of all, I'm fascinated the name Capri. Is that 37 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 2: like like the pants or the sun? 38 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, everybody asked me that. 39 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:44,479 Speaker 1: I literally have never heard that name. 40 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 4: My parents from their honeymoon in Capri in Italy. Okay, 41 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 4: and I don't like to think about it too much, 42 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 4: but I think that's why I'm here, and so that's 43 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 4: what they name me. 44 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 45 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 2: Okay, well welcome. So we're doing second date update right now? 46 00:01:58,880 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 2: Are you familiar? 47 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 4: Oh? Yes, am, Now it makes a little more sense. 48 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: I think, sweet. So yeah, do you know how it works? 49 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:10,679 Speaker 4: Yes? I do. 50 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 2: Okay, you've been on a date recently, a gentleman who 51 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:16,519 Speaker 2: may or may not be listening in I have. 52 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:20,079 Speaker 4: I would imagine this is about Nolan, who I haven't 53 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 4: responded to since thirty eight. 54 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 1: So Nolan, are you there? 55 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 3: I'm here? Yeah, Okay, Capri. 56 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: Hey, Hi, Nolan, So Capri, why did you go star guy? 57 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: Did he do something? What happened? 58 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I guess it was kind of multiple things, 59 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 4: but I would say, right, I mean, Nolan, I think 60 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:46,080 Speaker 4: that it started out strong. It wasn't until maybe kind 61 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 4: of midway. I think that we were sharing about, you know, 62 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 4: some family dynamics. But maybe it was a little bit 63 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 4: of the over sharing that made me kind of pause 64 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 4: a little bit and kind of took some notes on 65 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 4: some of the things that had come up. You know, 66 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 4: you'd shared with me, which you know, I felt really 67 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 4: glad that you were comfortable to share with me. But 68 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 4: about that, you you know, currently aren't speaking to three 69 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 4: different family members, like not just distant, but like fully 70 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 4: blocked three family members for a variety of reasons, right, 71 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,119 Speaker 4: like you had mentioned, well. 72 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 3: But they were good reasons though, right Like my sister 73 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 3: you know, like we had a Venmo argument. 74 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 4: It was all political, Okay, uh huh. 75 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 3: Is that really an issue? Like I have strong boundaries, right, 76 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 3: I feel like that's healthy. 77 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 4: And your mom also right, well, yeah. 78 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 3: I mean that's just for now. I mean, she's not 79 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 3: risk in my boundaries, so I had to block her 80 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 3: for a moment, but I'm sure you know we'll be 81 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 3: back to talking soon. 82 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, you know, families are complicated, but sounded 83 00:03:55,680 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 4: a little chaotic to me, and that kind of left 84 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 4: me questioning maybe if there was more going on than 85 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 4: was shared, you know, like, I'm not one hundred percent 86 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 4: convinced that maybe it's not you rather than everybody else. 87 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:20,159 Speaker 4: But that's not even the strangest thing. When the check came, 88 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 4: Nolan confidently said to me, like, I got it, and 89 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:29,039 Speaker 4: immediately then followed with asking me if I had vell 90 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 4: because he wanted to split everything. And when I say 91 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 4: split everything, I mean down to the scent. I mean 92 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 4: I was watching him calculate the tip attack and then 93 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 4: he even divided the glaucamule that we shared based on 94 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 4: who he felt eight more bites of the guacamule. 95 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:57,599 Speaker 1: Very was he literally calculating on his phone or something? 96 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 4: Or oh yeah, I was just literally staring at him, 97 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 4: watching him do the math on his phone. 98 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Nolan, back to you. What's really going on? 99 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 2: You said you got it? 100 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:11,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, look I got it, as in I was going 101 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:13,599 Speaker 3: to figure it out for us. Yeah, I just don't like, 102 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 3: you know, when with like unclear money energy. You know, 103 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 3: when it's like you said a precedent, it's like I'm 104 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 3: always buying or you're always buying or whatever, like we're 105 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 3: just equal. 106 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 4: You said to me, I got it, but then you 107 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 4: wanted to put it, which I found to be there. 108 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 3: I had the calculator. 109 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 1: I got it. 110 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 3: I mean, that's the way, you know, And then I 111 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 3: was going to cover it, and you were going to 112 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 3: pay me back. 113 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 4: With zel not how it works for me when somebody 114 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:42,280 Speaker 4: told me they got the chuck. 115 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:45,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what that means, Nolan, guy, you guys, hang on, 116 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 2: hang on, hang on, hey Capri. 117 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:51,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was very strange. 118 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's just not what I'm looking for. And I 119 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 4: should have been mature enough to not ghost him, but 120 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 4: I ghosted him because I didn't want to have this conversation. 121 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 4: I just don't think he's open minded enough to be 122 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 4: able to be accountable for something that was a little 123 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 4: bit bizarre. 124 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll take care of him. You go ahead and 125 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 1: keep being awesome. 126 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 4: Thank you for listening, Thanks for calling and getting me 127 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:13,599 Speaker 4: through it.