1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: It's Marcus producer. Taylor's here. It's midweek, good morning. Fun fact. 2 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 1: This is going to throw you for a loop because 3 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:12,119 Speaker 1: it's apropota nothing, but I love dumb weird facts. I 4 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: read that North Korea bought one hundred Volvos from Sweden 5 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:23,919 Speaker 1: in nineteen seventy four. What and they have yet to 6 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:25,080 Speaker 1: pay for them? 7 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 2: Okay, thank you for that tidbit. 8 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 1: No, there's another half. How much that is with interest 9 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:33,519 Speaker 1: in everything? If they were to try to write a 10 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: check today, let's hear it. Four hundred million dollars. Wow 11 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 1: for one hundred cars. Again, I don't know where my 12 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 1: brain goes at nighttime, but I learned that yesterday, and 13 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: I just wanted to share with somebody in your here 14 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:46,160 Speaker 1: for sharing, You're welcome, good morning. Yeah, you can follow 15 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 1: us online at all times at It's Marcus d for 16 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 1: me and Taylor is at taylove to ease. We have 17 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 1: a lot going on this morning. How was your day yesterday? 18 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 1: I know we were wiped out after the show. I'm sure 19 00:00:57,400 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 1: you went home and were super productive. 20 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 3: You know. Well I would love to have been productive yesterday, 21 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 3: but you know, the couch just looked really comfortable. Okay, 22 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 3: I was supposed to go grocery shopping, because. 23 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:10,320 Speaker 1: Aren't we all girl? 24 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 2: You know, we'll see. We'll try again today. 25 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:16,479 Speaker 1: Okay, we were talking about this yesterday, but in case 26 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 1: you missed it, the Onion method for holiday gift giving, 27 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 1: I'll explain now officially, gift giving, gift buying. What the 28 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 1: heck do you want for Christmas? Hanukkah season? Do you 29 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 1: ever struggle with who to give gifts too? That's the question? 30 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: Producer Taylor is here, Hello, my new producer. You could 31 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: follow her online at tay Love. Do you ever struggle 32 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 1: with who to give gifts to? 33 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 2: I have a lot of families. 34 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 1: Do you ever have trouble to siding? Who gets a 35 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 1: gift and who doesn't? 36 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 4: Like? 37 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 2: Depends on how good we're we're doing. 38 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 1: In the moment, how good we're standing. Only during the 39 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: good years are going to get a gift from me? 40 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 1: So there is an etiquette expert. Her name's Elaine, and 41 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 1: she has what she calls the Onion method. And I 42 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: don't know if I agree with it. 43 00:01:58,080 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 2: I've never heard of it. 44 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: It says, if you're on a bus, just imagine an onion. 45 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: The center of the onion represents the center of your life. 46 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:08,079 Speaker 1: These are the people that you prioritize the most, so 47 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 1: like for me, it would be my wife, my daughter. 48 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 1: Then you work your way outside the ring in terms 49 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 1: of the amount of money that you're going to spend. 50 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: This is the part I don't agree with necessarily. Let's 51 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: say you have a large family. One of your siblings 52 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 1: is in your inner circle, while you only see maybe 53 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: the others on holidays because maybe they live out of town. 54 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 1: The inner sibling would get the priority gift and the 55 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 1: others may only get a card. 56 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 2: It's gonna start some fights, That's what I'm saying. 57 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 1: Somebody's gonna die today. 58 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, can you imagine that phone call? Oh I 59 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 2: would be upset? 60 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: Is the Taylor on the other end of that line, 61 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 1: I'm sorry she gave you what now? 62 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I would take it so personally. 63 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: I got a Starbucks gift card and you got what Now, 64 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 1: Maybe it'll work for you. Here's what we do and 65 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 1: my family is we give gifts to the kids. Like 66 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: I give a gift to my wife, and then if 67 00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 1: we've got nieces and nephews and my daughter, everybody, they 68 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: all get gifts. 69 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 2: Okay. 70 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 1: The problem is I forgot to tell my mom about 71 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 1: our new thing this one year, it just happened and 72 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:08,920 Speaker 1: she got a card. I still haven't heard the end 73 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 1: of that. 74 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I bet. 75 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: Anyway, the onion method, there you go. The center of 76 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: the onion is your inner circle, and then everybody else 77 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: represents a layer. When you're gift giving, you can decide 78 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 1: how much money you want to spend on them. Maybe 79 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: you've got your own method. I'd love to hear it. 80 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: You can leave a talkback on the iHeartRadio app that 81 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: little red microphone if you're streaming Star one on one three. 82 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 1: Right now, Producer Taylor is here in the studio with me. 83 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:31,079 Speaker 1: We're talking allowance for a second because I just saw 84 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 1: the going rate for a kid's allowance and it makes 85 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 1: me feel like, well, let me put it to you 86 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 1: this way, Taylor. My daughter sends me regular texts talking 87 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 1: about you owe me money. Right here, it says eighty 88 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: dollars for allowance, and I was like, eighty dollars? What 89 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 1: did the world how for? 90 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 5: Howld? 91 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 1: And then she said it's for two months, and I 92 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: calmed down just a little bit. It still felt like 93 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: a lot. But the going rate for kids allowance, you 94 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 1: want to guess the number per month? 95 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 2: Oh, per month? 96 00:03:56,160 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 3: Okay, twenty fifty two dollars a month. 97 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:03,839 Speaker 1: Wow. Three out of four parents say they do give 98 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 1: their kids allowance. Three out of four say it makes 99 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: them more fiscally responsible. My favorite stat was two thirds 100 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 1: of the parents that they surveyed said their kid is 101 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: actually more responsible with their money than they are. 102 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 2: Oh. Wow, interesting. 103 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 1: I don't know what that says, but whatever. So my 104 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 1: kid texts me and she goes dad eighty dollars and 105 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 1: I wrote back, you seem to have negotiated a top 106 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 1: tier salary. Please let your mother know I'd like to 107 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: be in next year's negotiations. The other thing she does, 108 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 1: and that makes me roll my eyes. And it doesn't 109 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:32,720 Speaker 1: happen very often because she is a really good kid, 110 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:36,839 Speaker 1: but she will refuse to do something or be difficult 111 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 1: and then turn right around and ask for allowance like 112 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 1: two seconds later, And I told her that's not how 113 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:44,480 Speaker 1: the world works, Taylor. Can you imagine if I was 114 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 1: a total jerk to you and then went hey, by 115 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 1: the way, I need something. 116 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 2: Oh no, that would not fly with me. Absolutely. 117 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 1: I would be so ignored, like, no, that's not how 118 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 1: If you're at work and you can't be a jerk 119 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 1: to your boss and then turn right around and go, 120 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 1: can I get a raise? My favorite part, though, is 121 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:02,840 Speaker 1: I've taught her to invent, so she always automatically calculates 122 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 1: eighty percent put that in an investment, and she realizes 123 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: she doesn't need a bunch of money just hanging out 124 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 1: because Dad's gonna pay for everything anyway. 125 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's smart. I like her already. 126 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:15,840 Speaker 1: Now, you were telling me off the air you didn't 127 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 1: get an allowance. 128 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 3: No, it was more like my mom would send me 129 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 3: to the store for something and then she would be like, 130 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:22,839 Speaker 3: you can keep the change. 131 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 1: You're not going to tell everybody the reason that you 132 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:27,039 Speaker 1: got passed over an allowance is because you were You 133 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: were a challenge. 134 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 2: I understand a little bit. They didn't need to give 135 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:32,720 Speaker 2: me more money to do things. 136 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:34,279 Speaker 1: Now, were you the older sister? 137 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 2: I am. I have a younger brother and he got 138 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:37,160 Speaker 2: an allowance. 139 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 1: It's so funny because same thing at my house. My 140 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 1: sister an absolute maniac. 141 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:44,679 Speaker 2: Hey do you read my story? 142 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:48,600 Speaker 1: But we would have family meetings and they might as 143 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: well have just called them, Hey, we have to talk 144 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 1: to your sister. Why do you come hang out? I 145 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:56,039 Speaker 1: would just watch and learn what not to do. Oh yeah, 146 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 1: I'm guessing your brother did the same thing. 147 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 3: Oh yes, he's sweet, polypurebread, goody two shoes over there 148 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 3: compared to. 149 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 2: You know, I'm an angel. Now I've evolved. 150 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 1: Allowance the going rate just so you can check your 151 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: own numbers. Fifty two dollars a month for kids. Unbelievable anyway? 152 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:14,919 Speaker 1: Is that what you're paying at your house? Let me know, 153 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: leave a talk back on the iHeartRadio app. It's that 154 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 1: little red microphone. You can also check in. Eight hundred, 155 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 1: eight hundred one oh one three is the number. This 156 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 1: is what I'm talking about. Is what's trending on start 157 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 1: on one three. 158 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 4: What's happening in entertainment news, the biggest stories of the day, 159 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:34,039 Speaker 4: and everything people are talking about today. 160 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:34,159 Speaker 6: In the Bay. 161 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: We otherwise it's going to be clear bit cold around 162 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 1: the Bay. High's only going into the upper fifties and 163 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 1: low sixties. They're talking about high winds, king tides, which 164 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 1: means if you come to the coast, be careful, never 165 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:47,279 Speaker 1: turn your back on the ocean. That's the rule. I 166 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: just want to keep you updated on that. I want 167 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: to talk about our toy drive. We have going on 168 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:53,719 Speaker 1: to support wu Ye Children's Services right here in San Francisco. 169 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: They service so many families who otherwise might not have 170 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:59,279 Speaker 1: a holiday and we need your help. You can really 171 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 1: make a difference for a kid this holiday season a 172 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 1: donation of a new unwrapped toy or a monetary donation. 173 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:07,920 Speaker 1: It's for kids under twelve. They have a heightened need 174 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: for toys for kids up to five years old. So 175 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 1: if you have a minute, and if you have the means, 176 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 1: just quickly hit up one O one three dot com 177 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 1: slash toy Drive for all the info. You can do 178 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 1: it online. It's easy, it's amazing and we love what 179 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 1: WUYI does for San Francisco and for the community, for 180 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 1: the families in need. Thank you for helping us out. 181 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 1: Show's gonna be out this weekend. We'll be in Daily City. 182 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 1: I believe producer Taylor, this is your first appearance. It 183 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 1: is as a member of the producer. Taylor's joining me 184 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 1: for for you know what, She's just fun to be around, 185 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 1: to be fair, that's a and then B she's really 186 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: good at doing a content grap So I'm expecting a 187 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 1: world class reel out of this. Oh yes, do you 188 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 1: want to come star in. 189 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 2: Our reel exactly. 190 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 1: So this is gonna be Frosty Snowfest at Daily City 191 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: at Ceremony Center. We're gonna have inflatables, We're gonna have 192 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:00,680 Speaker 1: actual snow. We've been doing this for years and it's 193 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 1: so much fun. Holiday crafts so great. This will be 194 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 1: four to seven on Saturday afternoon. Come join us, Come 195 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 1: meet us, let's hug it out. Go to sports really quick. Oh, 196 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 1: before we go to sports, we have a poll up 197 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 1: today on the Star one one three FM Instagram in 198 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 1: the stories that you need to participate in. 199 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 3: Yes, the holidays are approaching, so we are wondering what 200 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 3: your favorite thing about the holiday season is. 201 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 1: Okay, what are my choices? 202 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 2: Is it the food? 203 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 3: Is it all the lights everywhere? Is it the quality 204 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 3: time that you'll spend with your family? 205 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 1: This is a hard one. 206 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 2: Are you a gift person? 207 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 1: Half the audience is like family awesome. The other half's 208 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: like family Nope. Right, I like the lights. I think 209 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:43,199 Speaker 1: I like the lights more than the food. I never 210 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 1: thought i'd say that out loud. That's so off brand 211 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:46,320 Speaker 1: for me. 212 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 2: I know what about you food? Okay, I'm eating right now? 213 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 1: Are we talking about the Nella wafers you're having for breakfast. 214 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: As if I don't bring food in, she doesn't eat. 215 00:08:57,800 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 2: I know it really is true. 216 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 1: All right, we'll go to sports really quick. Oh please 217 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 1: participate in the poll. It's on the Star one oh 218 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 1: one three FM Instagram stories. Thank you in advance. The 219 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 1: Warriors did drop a game last night to Oklahoma City. 220 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 1: Their next game is gonna be in Philadelphia. That's gonna 221 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 1: be tomorrow night with a start time of four o'clock. 222 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 1: Go dubs. There you go back with second date update, 223 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:24,559 Speaker 1: just quick recap. So basically, if you went on a 224 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 1: date but you get ghosted and you're sitting there going 225 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: why what happened? What I do? That's where we swoop 226 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:31,840 Speaker 1: in and help. We're gonna call your date with you 227 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 1: on the phone and try to figure it all out. 228 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 1: Let's say good morning to Trevor. Hello, Trevor, Hey, what's up? 229 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 1: Hey man? You got ghosted? Right like? 230 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 6: That? 231 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 1: Did happen? 232 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:40,720 Speaker 5: A hardcore? 233 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:44,079 Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, it doesn't always happen. Sometimes it's a slow play, 234 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 1: backpedal Homer into the bushes. 235 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 5: This one doesn't It doesn't make any sense to me. 236 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk about it. So her name is Melissa. 237 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 1: And then so, how did you guys meet and what 238 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 1: did you do on your date? 239 00:09:55,880 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 5: We might online and first day on date we ended 240 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 5: up going to this brewery in San Jose and we 241 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 5: we had we had talked before, we had texted before, 242 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 5: and she was she was saying she was down for 243 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:12,080 Speaker 5: the place that had beard nachos, and you gotta respect that, 244 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 5: you gotta lady. 245 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: Doesn't mind eating with her hands. I'm in. I'm in 246 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 1: on that. 247 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 5: So I mean talk about like a favorite road trips 248 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 5: and uh uh Pixar movie, like which one's the best 249 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 5: and which one suck? You know, how they've gone downhill? 250 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:35,199 Speaker 5: Stuff like that. She she was effortlessly funny, Okay, hilarious. 251 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 1: Hold on the humor and eats nachos were green flat 252 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 1: and all the way to the finish line. 253 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:41,559 Speaker 5: Why do you think I'm calling because she's awesome. I 254 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:44,839 Speaker 5: don't know what happened. I even admitted to her that 255 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:48,080 Speaker 5: I sleep with a fan on full blast, you know. Okay, 256 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 5: next day sent a text nothing, and then after that 257 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 5: then at text nothing something. What uh what are we 258 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 5: doing here? What what happened? 259 00:10:57,120 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 1: Like? 260 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 5: Did I miss something? 261 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 1: All right, well, let's call her I mean, that's the 262 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 1: only way to figure it out. Got my guy Trevor 263 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:07,000 Speaker 1: on the phone, and he is smitten, he's sprung. I 264 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 1: hope you don't mind him talking about you like you're 265 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 1: not here, Trevor. But Melissa, I wrote it down. She 266 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 1: loves nachos, she loves beer, and she has a great 267 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 1: sense of humor. We need to figure out what's going 268 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: on because you said you got hardcore ghosted. Is that correct? 269 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: Let's figure this out. Go ahead and meet your phone 270 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 1: and we'll give her a shout. Right now here we go. Hello, Hi, 271 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 1: may I speak to Melissa? Please? 272 00:11:38,080 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, this is Melissa. 273 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 5: Guys, you're calling Hi Melissa. 274 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 1: It's Marcus calling from Star one on one three. Good morning. 275 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 6: I'm sorry. 276 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 1: I work for Star one on one three. It's a 277 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: radio station out of San Francisco. I don't suppose you 278 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 1: listened to the show. 279 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 5: No, I don't really listen. 280 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 1: That's cool. 281 00:11:56,880 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 6: Sorry, what's this about? 282 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm wondering if you have a minute, you discuss 283 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 1: a date you've been on recently, So we do something 284 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 1: on the show called second Date Update. And I'm calling 285 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 1: on behalf of a guy who says he just took 286 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:11,840 Speaker 1: you out he's feeling like, maybe you ghosted. I'm trying 287 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 1: to figure out what. Frankly, nine point nine out of 288 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 1: ten times somebody did something wrong. So did he do 289 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 1: something wrong? His name is Trevor. Would you mind talking 290 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 1: about your date with Trevor for a sec? 291 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 6: Ooh do I so it's going to be like on 292 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 6: the air. 293 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, that's so. 294 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 6: He called you guys to talk about that date. 295 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 1: Yes, can you tell me about it? 296 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 6: I don't really like to talk bad about people, you know, 297 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:42,319 Speaker 6: like behind your back or whatever, But I mean, what 298 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 6: did he do? 299 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 3: Yeah? 300 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 5: We did. 301 00:12:44,559 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 6: We totally, We totally went on a date. Yet we 302 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 6: had been texting and things were feeling pretty good. 303 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 5: I'm not he's not like like a monster. 304 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:55,439 Speaker 6: I'm not gonna be like He's like, that's fine, it's 305 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 6: been pretty good. I don't know what he told you, 306 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 6: but yeah, we did go to this light brewery. 307 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 5: We got some we got. 308 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 6: Some food, and conversation was going pretty good. 309 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 5: She got like a little weird. 310 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. 311 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 2: Uh. 312 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 6: He pulls out his phone and he's like, hey, do 313 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 6: you want to take this compatibility quiz and. 314 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:19,679 Speaker 1: Quiz do you mean? 315 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 5: Yeah? 316 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 6: To see if we're like compatible as a couple. I 317 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 6: guess okay, I don't know. I used to take those 318 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:27,679 Speaker 6: a like buzzet or whatever, Like that's the kind of 319 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 6: saying things of like what what house and Harry Potter 320 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 6: or you whatever. I don't know, but he's like, yeah, 321 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 6: take this quiz. This thing must have been like a 322 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 6: hundred questions. 323 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 5: It was crazy. 324 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:41,320 Speaker 6: And then we're I'm going through it. I'm like trying 325 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 6: not to take it too seriously because I like, all right, 326 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 6: we're just like waiting for more drinks or whatever. And 327 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:49,559 Speaker 6: he kept savings like, oh wow, like we're really aligned, 328 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:52,960 Speaker 6: and oh yeah, this seems like I can see this 329 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 6: being long term, like your answers are like still on point. 330 00:13:56,600 --> 00:14:00,680 Speaker 6: And then so there was that, and I'm like like, 331 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 6: once this is done, like we can just kind of 332 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:06,720 Speaker 6: move on. But then he had the weirdest eye contact. 333 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:10,320 Speaker 6: I don't know what, but it was freaking me the 334 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:11,199 Speaker 6: hell out. 335 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 1: He was staring at you. 336 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:16,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, he was like texting me after I don't know, 337 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:18,840 Speaker 6: I sid h one text to Limbo like I got 338 00:14:18,840 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 6: home okay, But then after that I didn't really. 339 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: Got it. The other part of this is that so 340 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 1: Trevor is actually on the phone listening again. Sorry, trying 341 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:34,880 Speaker 1: to create teachable moments here, Melissa. 342 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 5: It's science. It works. It's the did you I red 343 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 5: you the thing hot? Right now? 344 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 1: You're a little hot, so to take it down, you're 345 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 1: to ten. 346 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 5: The thing is like it's a built in conversation starter, 347 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 5: so I think, I mean, it's basically basically playing that 348 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 5: game would you rather? But you know, but as well 349 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 5: as that, it's like, you know, wouldn't you rather know 350 00:14:57,680 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 5: that instead of wasting your time, you know, you might 351 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 5: be with the right person instead of the wrong person. 352 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 6: Uh huh, Yeah, I don't really believe in that kind 353 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:09,040 Speaker 6: of thing. It was a lot at one, you know, 354 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 6: I got it, But I think you could totally find 355 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 6: someone who was into that and like wants to take 356 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 6: quizzes together. 357 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, Trevor, I feel like this is a little aggressive 358 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 1: for a first date. Maybe like a third Yeah, you know. 359 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 5: Well, here here's the thing a birth off. Thank you 360 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 5: for calling her, and I just want to officially say, 361 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:29,880 Speaker 5: you know what, Melissa, I don't think we are a match. 362 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 5: So I'm glad we got that settled. And you know what, 363 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 5: I weren't there. I don't even I don't need the 364 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 5: science to prove that because here. 365 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 1: We are all right, hang on, then that's not happening. 366 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: H a second date update. There you go. I got 367 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 1: a DM on my Instagram at its Marcus d if 368 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 1: you want to kick it or follow of a dilemma 369 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:54,840 Speaker 1: a lady is having. This is for sports moms and dads. 370 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 1: If you're listening right now, she needs help. Just reading 371 00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 1: this DM gave me anxiety because I don't know the 372 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 1: answer to her question. Producer Taylor is here joining me. 373 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 1: You can follow her at Taylove on Instagram as well. 374 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 1: To East Elaine writes she's in Redwood City. She says, 375 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:16,080 Speaker 1: I have four kids, three different schools. Their combined extracurricular 376 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 1: schedules are so chaotic. I'm constantly racing from one place 377 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 1: to another, always feeling like I'm letting someone down. We've 378 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: got banned, We've got soccer, We've got science club meetings 379 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 1: after school, tutoring, my own work schedule. There's no way 380 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 1: to physically be at everything, but every missed event makes 381 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 1: me feel like I'm failing as a parent. I've tried 382 00:16:35,880 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 1: color coding, I've tried coordinating card pools. There still doesn't 383 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 1: feel like there are enough hours in the day to 384 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 1: be the kind of present involved mom that I want 385 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 1: to be. Lately, I've been lying in bed wondering if 386 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 1: my kids will look back and remember me as the 387 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:53,800 Speaker 1: mom who wasn't there, even though I'm doing everything I can. 388 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 1: How do parents figure this out? What's enough when it 389 00:16:58,240 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 1: feels impossible to keep up? This was a lot. Yeah, 390 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:04,960 Speaker 1: she unloaded a lot, and I sat with it, and 391 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know. I have one kid 392 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 1: and she just made club volleyball. I'm so proud, but 393 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:14,240 Speaker 1: I'm barely keeping up. And I'm horrified that we're gonna 394 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:16,640 Speaker 1: end up in Reno at a tournament sooner than later, 395 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:20,440 Speaker 1: because who's paying for this' That's a whole other subject. 396 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 1: So Taylor, I brought you in because you did softball 397 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:27,040 Speaker 1: in high school. Yes, low Scatto's high if I remember, yes, correct? 398 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 1: And then your brother is basically a human weapon. He 399 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 1: does jiu jitsu probably cough mcgrad probably what else? Judo? 400 00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:40,239 Speaker 3: He did wrestling, wrestling, MMA, fighting, He's very involved in 401 00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 3: that world. 402 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 1: He's a good looking dude too. Does he have Instagram? 403 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:46,880 Speaker 2: He does? Okay, I'm not shouting. 404 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 1: Him, don't need to give him anymore. Dash all right, 405 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:56,440 Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. My question is, so you both were 406 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:59,439 Speaker 1: doing stuff in high school? Yes, how did your parents 407 00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:01,360 Speaker 1: manage this? Did they show up at everything? 408 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:05,240 Speaker 3: You know? It's interesting hearing this story because I remember 409 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:07,719 Speaker 3: my mom saying a lot of the same things, and 410 00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:11,879 Speaker 3: she primarily works all the time. So for me, I 411 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 3: always tell her, you know, I was just happy to 412 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 3: see her at one game, even if she just showed up. 413 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 2: Like, just showed up for one. 414 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:20,360 Speaker 3: It doesn't have to be every single one, you know, 415 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 3: but just knowing that I have her support, or even 416 00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 3: a text message before the game saying hey, I know 417 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 3: you have your game, good luck, you know, let me 418 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 3: know how it goes. That just even the support of 419 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 3: messages are really important as well. 420 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 1: So even if she's not there, that you weren't scarred 421 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:38,359 Speaker 1: for life. No, I think that's what Elaine wants to know. 422 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you know. 423 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 3: Something I realized is that my mom beat herself up 424 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:45,919 Speaker 3: a lot more than I was upset. You know, I 425 00:18:45,960 --> 00:18:48,879 Speaker 3: was never upset at her mom for not being there. Okay, 426 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 3: but I think, yeah, Elaine, any advice to you, I 427 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:54,719 Speaker 3: would just say, you're the one who's thinking about it 428 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:56,879 Speaker 3: more than anyone else. You know, I think your children 429 00:18:56,920 --> 00:18:59,040 Speaker 3: are probably just happy that you're putting in the effort 430 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:00,880 Speaker 3: and trying and just to see your face. 431 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 2: Or get a text message. I understand it can be hard, 432 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:04,920 Speaker 2: but stick in there. 433 00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 1: I'm going to assume the Delaine is a single mom 434 00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:10,920 Speaker 1: working with four kids, because she did not mention a 435 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:13,719 Speaker 1: dad at all. Yeah, I forgot to ask, so that 436 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 1: she's got a lot on her plate. If anybody listening 437 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:19,160 Speaker 1: is a sports mom or a sports dad, Basically, this 438 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:23,360 Speaker 1: poor lady like has four kids, three different schools, all 439 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 1: kinds of extracurriculars. How do you keep up and feel 440 00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 1: like a good parent? That's the question. And by the way, Taylor, 441 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 1: thank you for saying all that, because as a dad, 442 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:33,800 Speaker 1: all you want to know and as a mom maybe 443 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 1: is am I doing a good job? You know what 444 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:38,480 Speaker 1: I mean? Yeah? I got older and I had my child, 445 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 1: and then I took the time to tell my parents, Hey, 446 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:42,640 Speaker 1: by the way, you did a good job. You got 447 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:43,160 Speaker 1: a good son. 448 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I say humble. 449 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:49,920 Speaker 1: Anybody has any thoughts on this, I would love to 450 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 1: talk back. It's the little red microphone. If you're streaming 451 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 1: Star one on one three right now on the app, 452 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 1: hit that leave us a message. You can also always 453 00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:59,119 Speaker 1: check in on the show eight hundred eight hundred and 454 00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 1: one oh one three. It's time for good news. 455 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:07,879 Speaker 4: Sometimes all you need is one a good thought to 456 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:09,240 Speaker 4: make it a great day. 457 00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:10,160 Speaker 2: So let's do this. 458 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 4: It's good news on Star Fun one three long. 459 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:16,920 Speaker 1: So we do good news twice the morning. Just trying 460 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 1: to center you get your right for your workday. If 461 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:21,920 Speaker 1: you're doing drop off right now, what's up? What's happening? 462 00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:28,480 Speaker 1: I've just read about this nonprofit in Portland that has 463 00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 1: my heart. It's called Pile of Puppies, literally bringing joy 464 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 1: to chronically ill kids, and it unfolds exactly how you 465 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 1: think it is or that it does. 466 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:40,399 Speaker 5: So. 467 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 1: It was started by a lady named Jennifer who grew 468 00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:47,359 Speaker 1: up managing an autoimmune disorder, and her idea came after 469 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:50,639 Speaker 1: a surprise visit with a coworker's puppies left her feeling 470 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 1: unexpectedly joyful. I'm here for this. So the organization operates 471 00:20:57,600 --> 00:21:01,119 Speaker 1: on their budget from donations. Again it's called Pile of Puppies, 472 00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 1: And what they do is the volunteers will come through, 473 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:07,639 Speaker 1: set up a playpen, help each kid settle in, and 474 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 1: then they just let the puppies tumble beside them. This 475 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:13,960 Speaker 1: sounds like the greatest afternoon ever. There was a girl 476 00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:17,120 Speaker 1: named Julia who's sixteen, who has an inflammatory condition. Says 477 00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 1: her visit with the puppies bright spot during a very 478 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 1: tough stretch of illness. So I just I'm here for 479 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:27,000 Speaker 1: it again. If this is a organization that moves you, 480 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 1: it's pile of puppies out of Portland and I love it. 481 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:33,639 Speaker 1: Dogs man, they're the best. In fact, reminder for a 482 00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 1: Friday's coming up. This Friday, we were going to showcase 483 00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:38,880 Speaker 1: another shelter and try to get all their animals adopted. 484 00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 1: So if you're looking to add a fur baby for 485 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 1: the holidays to your family, be a good time to 486 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:44,919 Speaker 1: tune in. Ooh, I do have to get a shout out. 487 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:47,040 Speaker 1: I keep forgetting to do my shout out. I gotta 488 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:53,200 Speaker 1: say what's up to DJ Steve. DJ Steve Powers down 489 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 1: there in Cooper Tino, appreciate you listening every morning. Thank 490 00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:58,159 Speaker 1: you so much, my man. It's time to give you 491 00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:00,760 Speaker 1: everything you're going to talk about this morning. Checked the drugging. 492 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:03,920 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I hit the wrong but you know 493 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:08,960 Speaker 1: what I just hit and you know what I'm not 494 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 1: even mad at it. 495 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:12,520 Speaker 2: I love it. I love it. This is perfect. 496 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:16,040 Speaker 1: That wasn't the button I was supposed to hit. It's 497 00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:19,439 Speaker 1: actually this one. This is what I'm talking about. 498 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:24,760 Speaker 4: What's trend on Star, what's happening in entertainment news, the 499 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:27,919 Speaker 4: biggest stories of the day, and everything people are talking 500 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 4: about today in the Bay. 501 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 1: Number one thing anybody's talking about this morning is that Claude, 502 00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 1: the albino alligator from the California Academy of Sciences has 503 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:37,160 Speaker 1: passed away. And we're very sad. 504 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:41,280 Speaker 2: Rip rip my guy. 505 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:45,199 Speaker 1: I was going to play Charlie Pooth, but Claude has 506 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:49,159 Speaker 1: been around for thirty years. He deserves Mariah Carey and 507 00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:51,720 Speaker 1: voiced to men from nineteen ninety six. It's an og 508 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 1: So rip Claude. My family has been going to call academy. Obviously, 509 00:22:57,600 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 1: we do all their radio commercials for years. And you 510 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:03,880 Speaker 1: don't go by the California Academy of Sciences without saying, 511 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 1: what's up to Claude? So we're gonna miss you, But 512 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:09,800 Speaker 1: my guy, I'm gonna miss you very much. So Claude 513 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:13,399 Speaker 1: the albino Alligator has passed away. Sad news. Let's see, 514 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 1: we have a toy drive going on right now in 515 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 1: support of wu Ye Children's Services right here in San Francisco. 516 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 1: This is big, This is their inaugural, so let's blow 517 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:22,960 Speaker 1: the doors off. I would love if you wouldn't mind 518 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:26,160 Speaker 1: making a donation. You can do a new unwrapped toy, 519 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:29,959 Speaker 1: or you can do a monetary donation. And they service 520 00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 1: families right here in San Francisco that may otherwise, frankly, 521 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 1: not have a holiday, frankly, not have food to eat. 522 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 1: Things that parents worry about that maybe maybe most of 523 00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:44,600 Speaker 1: us don't have to worry about. So if you have 524 00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:46,959 Speaker 1: a sec and you can go and help out our 525 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 1: toy drive. They specifically need toys for kids under five, 526 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 1: but they'll take it for kids up to twelve years old. 527 00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,400 Speaker 1: Very simple, one on one three dot com slash toy 528 00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 1: Drive for the info. There's also Lincoln bio. If you 529 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:03,080 Speaker 1: follow me on Instagram, it's Marcus d. Thank you so much, 530 00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:04,760 Speaker 1: and thank you to WOUI for everything they do for 531 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 1: the community of San Francisco. Let's see a little bit 532 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:10,959 Speaker 1: of a celebration this weekend the show. We are going 533 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:15,040 Speaker 1: to be out at Ceremony Center Saturday afternoon for Frosty 534 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:17,400 Speaker 1: Snowfest I love this thing. You know why I love 535 00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:20,360 Speaker 1: it is because they pump in snow every single year. 536 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so you get to go play in the snow, 537 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:26,120 Speaker 1: snowball fights, all the fun stuff we're gonna have inflatables, 538 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:29,320 Speaker 1: holiday crafts again and Taylor will be there as well, 539 00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:31,360 Speaker 1: So it'll be your first chance to meet my new producer, 540 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:36,160 Speaker 1: who is fantastic. She's really good at making videos and stuff. 541 00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:38,160 Speaker 1: You guys, so come in if you want to star 542 00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:40,879 Speaker 1: in our videos, we'll do a little content grab together, 543 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:45,399 Speaker 1: cool go viral on Instagram again. This is going to 544 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 1: be Frosty Snowfest at Daily City at Ceremony Center four 545 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:53,680 Speaker 1: to seven Saturday afternoon. Come through, let's hug it out. 546 00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:56,080 Speaker 1: We do have a poll going on right now on 547 00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:58,399 Speaker 1: the Star one on one three FM Instagram in the stories. 548 00:24:58,440 --> 00:24:59,200 Speaker 1: What do you have, Taylor? 549 00:24:59,320 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 2: Yes, it is. 550 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,679 Speaker 3: It's the holiday season, so we are wondering what your 551 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:05,639 Speaker 3: favorite thing about the holiday season is. Do you like 552 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:09,080 Speaker 3: the food, do you really enjoy the lights, what about 553 00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:10,119 Speaker 3: the family time? 554 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:11,479 Speaker 2: Or are you just in it for the gifts. 555 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:13,359 Speaker 1: This is a tough one, by the way, it is 556 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:16,119 Speaker 1: took me a second at first, I thought default food 557 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:19,000 Speaker 1: because that's on brand. But no, I like the lights 558 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:22,840 Speaker 1: the most. In fact, if anybody has a neighborhood that 559 00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,800 Speaker 1: really shows out for the holiday lights, let me know, 560 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,439 Speaker 1: because I will take the family. We will show up 561 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:30,920 Speaker 1: at your front door. All right. So, and then the 562 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:34,000 Speaker 1: last thing is the Warriors did lose yesterday at Chase 563 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:38,720 Speaker 1: Center to Oklahoma City. Tomorrow night, next game in Philadelphia, 564 00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:43,360 Speaker 1: four o'clock tip off, Go Dubs. All right. That's what's trending. 565 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,800 Speaker 1: And it's time to win the Bay's favorite trivia games 566 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:46,720 Speaker 1: called What You Know About That? 567 00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 3: We have four tickets for the Safeway Holiday Ice Rink 568 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:52,760 Speaker 3: and Union Square presented by Kaiser Permanente, Open now through 569 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 3: January nineteenth. Get more info at Union Square Ice Rink 570 00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:56,879 Speaker 3: dot com. 571 00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,880 Speaker 1: Thank you, producer, Tailor. It's time to meet our contestant, 572 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 1: East Bay. We're gonna say good morning for Bevy and Hayward. 573 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 1: Good morning, Hello, good morning. So it's Bevy with it 574 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:08,400 Speaker 1: be like beverage. Yeah, nice? Well what are you doing 575 00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:11,879 Speaker 1: this morning? Love it? You got names for me? 576 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 6: Let's says say Hi, I've got a meal in the 577 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:15,520 Speaker 6: back and Danica's still at home sleeping. 578 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:17,879 Speaker 1: Excellent. Okay, let's take it up to Santa Roses. I 579 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:21,600 Speaker 1: had a Renee. Good morning, Renee, good morning. What's going 580 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 1: on in North Bay? What are you doing? 581 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:26,159 Speaker 5: I'm dropping kids off at school. Gud Rising in the 582 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 5: car and Alexei in the car. 583 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:31,320 Speaker 1: Welcome you guys. Game is super simple. Five trivia questions, 584 00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 1: fifty seconds to answer them all. Each person's gonna be 585 00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:36,040 Speaker 1: asked separately with their opponent on hold. Whoever gets the 586 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 1: most right answers wins, and if you don't know an answer, 587 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:40,359 Speaker 1: you yell out pass and we'll come back to the 588 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:43,360 Speaker 1: question if we have time left. Okay, everybody play along 589 00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 1: at Homer in the car. Here we go, Renee and 590 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:47,840 Speaker 1: the kids goes on hold in Santa Rosa, and we 591 00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:51,320 Speaker 1: start with Bevy and Hayward. Question number one, What animated 592 00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:56,639 Speaker 1: TV family lives in the town of Springfield. What is 593 00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 1: the only country in the world that is also a continent. 594 00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:02,320 Speaker 5: Australia? 595 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:05,200 Speaker 1: In baseball, what is the term for a batter hitting 596 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:10,360 Speaker 1: a home run with the bases loaded? Who was the 597 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:14,960 Speaker 1: third President of the United States? 598 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 6: Almas Jefferson? 599 00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 1: Okay? And finally what band released the nineteen seventy three 600 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:23,920 Speaker 1: album called Dark Side of the Moon. 601 00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 5: I'm doing yeah, Black. 602 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:33,679 Speaker 1: Black sat all right, she had an answer for everything. 603 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:36,280 Speaker 1: Beavy goes on holding Hayward. We pick up Renee in 604 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,720 Speaker 1: Santa Rosa right. 605 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:42,479 Speaker 3: Question number one, what animated TV family lives in the 606 00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:43,720 Speaker 3: town of Springfield? 607 00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 5: The Simpsons? 608 00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:49,760 Speaker 3: What is the only country in the world that is 609 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:50,879 Speaker 3: also a continent? 610 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:53,720 Speaker 5: Australia. 611 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,879 Speaker 3: In baseball, what is the term for a batter hitting 612 00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:58,680 Speaker 3: a home run with the bases loaded? 613 00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:01,320 Speaker 5: A grand slam? 614 00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 2: Who was the third. 615 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 3: President of the United States? Thomas Jefferson, which band released 616 00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 3: the nineteen seventy three album called Dark Side of the Moon. 617 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,240 Speaker 5: Thanks Lloyd, all right? 618 00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:21,000 Speaker 2: Answer for everything? 619 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 1: I hang on the line one second, so we bring 620 00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:26,040 Speaker 1: back Bevy and Hayward. See how you do against Renee 621 00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:29,880 Speaker 1: in Santa Rosa. Question number one, What animated TV family 622 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:31,439 Speaker 1: lives in the town of Springfield? 623 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:34,719 Speaker 3: Bevy said the Simpsons. Renee said the Simpsons. The answer 624 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:35,560 Speaker 3: is the Simpsons. 625 00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,480 Speaker 1: Why it's on the board? Next question, what is the 626 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:39,880 Speaker 1: only country in the world that is also a continent? 627 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 3: Bevy said Australia. Renee said Australia. The answer is Australia. 628 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:47,000 Speaker 1: In baseball, what is the term for a batter hitting 629 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:48,560 Speaker 1: a home run? With the bases loaded. 630 00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:52,000 Speaker 3: Bevy said Grand Slam. Renee said Grand Slam. The answer 631 00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:53,160 Speaker 3: is grand Slam. 632 00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 1: Next question, who was the third President of the United States? 633 00:28:56,920 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 3: Bevy said Thomas Jefferson. Renee said Thomas Jefferson. The answer 634 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 3: is Thomas Jefferson. 635 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:03,440 Speaker 1: We roll in a tie right now, Oh we are 636 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,560 Speaker 1: final questions, see if we can break the tie. What 637 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,440 Speaker 1: band released the nineteen seventy three album called Dark Side 638 00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 1: of the Moon. 639 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:10,960 Speaker 2: Bebby said Black Sabbath. 640 00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:12,440 Speaker 3: Renee said Pink Floyd. 641 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 2: The answer is Pink Floyd. Final score five to four. Renee, 642 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 2: You're going to the holiday ice cream Renee? 643 00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:19,120 Speaker 3: You win? 644 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, Baby, what are you talking about? 645 00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,680 Speaker 4: Play with us again at weekday mornings at eight o. 646 00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:26,320 Speaker 1: Five am and add to what you. 647 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:28,840 Speaker 4: Know about that podcast is a preset on our iHeart 648 00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,239 Speaker 4: app and never miss an episode. 649 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 1: About to get out of here. Gillian has joined us 650 00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:34,040 Speaker 1: in the studio. Producer Taylor is here. 651 00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:37,040 Speaker 2: Good morning, Hi Taylor, Hi, How are you good? 652 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 6: How are you doing? 653 00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:38,440 Speaker 2: I'm great? 654 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 1: So how was Thanksgiving? 655 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:43,480 Speaker 4: It was very nice, just filled with all kinds of family, 656 00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:47,240 Speaker 4: my brother in law's parents, my mother in law, just 657 00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:48,080 Speaker 4: everybody together. 658 00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 1: Your pictures online were super cute. 659 00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:51,440 Speaker 2: Oh thank you. 660 00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:54,160 Speaker 1: Follow Jillian. You have a big family that hangs out. 661 00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 1: They seem to like each other. This is all we do. 662 00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 2: We really like each other. 663 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 1: At Jillian and Laying on Instagram. At Star one oh 664 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,840 Speaker 1: one three FM on Instagram. What's coming up on the show. 665 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 2: It's Wednesday. 666 00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:08,640 Speaker 3: People can be a little sluggish midweek, so I'm here 667 00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 3: to help keep you. 668 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,040 Speaker 2: Keep it motivated, but a little spunk in your day. 669 00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:14,640 Speaker 1: I'm here for it, all right, keep the radio on. 670 00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:17,080 Speaker 1: Jillian's on the way next right here, Star one oh 671 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 1: one three