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Speaker 1: Kind of in that position right now with mine and

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Speaker 1: Alyssa's my fiance. We're planning it, and then there's someone

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Speaker 1: that we're really really close to, a couple and they're

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Speaker 1: kind of doing this thing right now where they're together

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Speaker 1: and then they break up. They're doing this on and

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Speaker 1: off and on and off. They've been doing it for

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Speaker 1: the last couple of months now. They've kind of been

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Speaker 1: on the inside of where we're going to get married.

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Speaker 1: They know that a lot of people that have asked,

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Speaker 1: and we're not even telling people that just yet, even

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Speaker 1: if they are getting invited, So these people are kind

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Speaker 1: of on the inside that others are not. The thing is, though,

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Speaker 1: is that we're more close with the girl, not the guy.

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Speaker 1: So if they continue this whole breaking up thing, we

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Speaker 1: don't even want to send them the invitation. We don't

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Speaker 1: want this guy to get the invitation. God forbid. If

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Speaker 1: they're not together, that's just a wasted plate. Brittany, So

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Speaker 1: you actually think that everyone should get a plus one

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Speaker 1: because it's it's less drama, and maybe the drama is

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Speaker 1: you know, worth the extra money you're gonna have to

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Speaker 1: shell out. I mean, that could double the price of

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Speaker 1: a wedding. Really, I mean, can.

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Speaker 2: You hear me?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I just know from my experience, like and

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Speaker 2: being a like okay, obviously, like I thought about that,

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Speaker 2: like during my wedding, you know what I mean. And

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Speaker 2: you have to think about if you have just like

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Speaker 2: a bunch of like single girls and a bunch of

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Speaker 2: single guys at a wedding, Yeah, it's there is alcohol involved,

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Speaker 2: and then you have to worry about you know, like

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Speaker 2: I don't know how many people from your family and

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Speaker 2: her family are there that are also single. I just

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Speaker 2: know from my personal experience it was kind of towards

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Speaker 2: the end of the list, Like the reception, there was

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Speaker 2: a lot of drama. It's just like a lot of

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Speaker 2: my things not really even single friends. It was just

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Speaker 2: we just invited my friends, but we didn't want the

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Speaker 2: plus one. So some of my friends were like grinding

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Speaker 2: on some of my newly husband's family members and it

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Speaker 2: was it was just the whole thing, like it's still

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Speaker 2: talked about because we didn't want, you know, and I

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Speaker 2: just I don't know, and I know, like financially totally

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Speaker 2: understand that, but do you just have to be prepared

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Speaker 2: for that.

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Speaker 1: By the way, Bertie's funny you say that, because when

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Speaker 1: we look at the list, we always go, all right,

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Speaker 1: who is my creepy uncle going to try to hit on?

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Speaker 2: When it comes to a creepy uncle.

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Speaker 1: Something tells me my brother, who is in a fraternity

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Speaker 1: at his college, he's probably gonna be very excited to, uh,

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Speaker 1: you know, spend some time in the most beautiful city

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Speaker 1: in the whole entire world that I know he's obsessed

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Speaker 1: with and wants to move to once he graduates from

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Speaker 1: Michigan State. And I know that he's obsessed with Alissa's friends,

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Speaker 1: So Luke might be a problem.

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Speaker 2: Guys, you have to like you have to like keep

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Speaker 2: that in mind, like I have to go check on

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh god, all right, I got I gotta figure

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Speaker 1: this out. Thank you, Brittany, you're the best. Let's move

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Speaker 1: on to another Brittany. Now that was Brittany and Saint Pete.

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Speaker 1: Now we're in clear Water and Brittany, you want invited

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Speaker 1: your father? I did, Oh my God, talk to me more,

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Speaker 1: because that that right there, My heart sinks to my butt.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it was actually one of the reasons that I,

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Speaker 4: my husband and I spoke about getting married sooner. Was

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Speaker 4: because of my dad's age, and then he got uninvited

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Speaker 4: to the wedding. So my parents were married for nearly

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Speaker 4: forty years, and it was still very fresh to me,

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Speaker 4: even though it had been a couple of years, and

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Speaker 4: my dad was insistent on bringing his new girlfriend, had

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Speaker 4: and they had just been causing stress in her life,

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Speaker 4: and I didn't want it to be at my wedding.

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Speaker 4: So I told my dad, you know, as much as

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Speaker 4: I would love for you to be there, you know,

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Speaker 4: I'm just going to take it as you're not coming,

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Speaker 4: and if you change your mind about not bringing Heidi,

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Speaker 4: then you know, the invitation is open. He called me

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Speaker 4: back later on and what's that.

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Speaker 1: I love how you just went in on Heidi. You

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Speaker 1: go Heidi.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it's not a secret.

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Speaker 1: What did he say?

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Speaker 4: Well, the first this went on for months, so like

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Speaker 4: he just kept calling and every time he would try

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Speaker 4: to get an invite for her, I would tell him no.

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Speaker 4: And then you know, one day he just called me

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Speaker 4: for the world and he's not going to bring her.

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Speaker 4: So he know, move past that and he did not

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Speaker 4: bring her. Now, in fact, they're not even together. So

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Speaker 4: it's good.

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Speaker 1: Look at that you called it. Okay, all right, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna take that down as a note. I mean, listen,

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Speaker 1: if you've got the balls to uninvite your dad, maybe

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Speaker 1: we just need to get this guy out of here.

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Speaker 4: Both, well, I think the biggest thing it's just also

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Speaker 4: you could tell them, you know, y'all don't want anything

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Speaker 4: to take away from your day, and just because they've

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Speaker 4: had so much drama recently, they don't. You don't want

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Speaker 4: it to affect your wedding.

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Speaker 1: It's so funny. Alyssa says the same thing. I think

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Speaker 1: she's like turning into a wedding expert and we haven't

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Speaker 1: even gotten married yet. She'd like, is looking into everything.

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Speaker 1: I feel like she's on like Reddit threads trying to

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Speaker 1: figure this all out. Meanwhile, I'm like, I don't want

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Speaker 1: to hurt their feelings. She's like, it's about our feelings. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like I know, but still I care about it.

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Speaker 4: I had invited a high school friend and she wasn't

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Speaker 4: upset either.

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Speaker 1: Well she is, but well, I will say, like now

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Speaker 1: that I'm getting married, like, obviously it's important to me

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Speaker 1: because it's my wedding. But anytime I've ever gotten an invitation,

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Speaker 1: especially from Alyssa's friends, I don't ever want to go.

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Speaker 1: I've never I've never gotten a wedding invitation and been like,

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Speaker 1: oh thank god, I can't wait for this weekend to

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Speaker 1: be completely taken over by these people.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: So sometimes I feel like we think our weddings are

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Speaker 1: more important than actually what other people think.

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Speaker 3: So after hearing all this, it makes me think of

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Speaker 3: one thing, and one thing only. My sister is talking

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Speaker 3: to me about this over the weekend because she's like, oh, well,

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Speaker 3: is Redina gonna come to Joe's wedding if you get

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Speaker 3: when you get invited, And I said, I don't know

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Speaker 3: who my sister did, and she's like, well, you know

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Speaker 3: what the policy is, no ring, no bring.

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Speaker 1: Now. Oh wait, because Alyssa does have a ring. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: as I says to Luke's wedding, Yeah she has a ring.

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Speaker 1: She's engaged. Oh well yeah, so I got I got

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Speaker 1: some work to do. I got some work to do.

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Speaker 1: I think Brian from IDC might be in today. We

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Speaker 1: could talk to him, all right, get her a fake ring?

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Speaker 3: Well I kind of want to get before you get

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Speaker 3: her a rank,