1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:00,680 Speaker 1: It's what's up, boring? 2 00:00:01,280 --> 00:00:02,320 Speaker 2: Hey, good morning guys. 3 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:03,080 Speaker 3: How are you good? 4 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 2: How are you? 5 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 1: I understand you need some advice, Yes I do. 6 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 2: So I'm driving to work right now, and today's the 7 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 2: day whether I get it written up on a final 8 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 2: or I get told I'm doing well. Here's here's a fitch. Okay. 9 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 2: I work in sales and we have one on one 10 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 2: every month, and if you don't get you know, I 11 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 2: have a certain percentage of it, you get written up. 12 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 2: I haven't. I haven't hit my goals within the past 13 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:34,919 Speaker 2: couple of months, but no one really has. If I've 14 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 2: maybe two people out of twenty. But I feel like 15 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 2: they're trying to fast shack me out of the door. 16 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 2: Two weeks ago, I somehow I did something in my 17 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 2: brain and I'm now getting harder, making more sales than 18 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 2: even a top hitters. So if I come in today 19 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:52,599 Speaker 2: and they're like, oh, you're on track to ninety eight 20 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:55,959 Speaker 2: percent or ninety nine percent, and they still write me up, 21 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 2: I know why. And it's because the guy that highly 22 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 2: my boss, was talking to me for weeks before he 23 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 2: hired me in a way I'm married man should not 24 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 2: talk to someone. And when I got hired on and started. 25 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 2: My first day, I found out he was married with 26 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:14,400 Speaker 2: two kids. So I feel like he's trying to bashack 27 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 2: me out at the door. So I'm just wondering, what 28 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 2: advice do you have for me? 29 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: Boo? But that's a lot. Well, how long you been there? 30 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 2: Six months? 31 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 1: Okay? And how was he? Uh like, what did he 32 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:26,959 Speaker 1: say to you? What are the words he said to 33 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 1: you that made it that it was inappropriate? 34 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, texting me late at night, dirty things? 35 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 3: Oh wow? 36 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 1: And you responded how well? 37 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 2: I mean, I was into him at first, and then oh, 38 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:42,400 Speaker 2: then he became my boss and so I got to 39 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:44,480 Speaker 2: step back, and then I found out he was married, 40 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 2: and then I definitely. 41 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 1: But so now you're a liability for his personal life. 42 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 2: That's what I'm feeling like. But if I wouldn't, maybe 43 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 2: it's the non performing as well as he wanted me to. 44 00:01:56,800 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: And I'm this and he's like, okay, would you didn't 45 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 1: know that he was else before he was your boss 46 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: and you know he was married? Did you did you 47 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 1: actually hook up with him? 48 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 3: No? 49 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: But did you how did you respond to him as 50 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:12,519 Speaker 1: far as did you send him nudes or something inappropriate? 51 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 2: Yes? Oh? Wow. So wait, have you ever like made 52 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: comments to him like maybe he thinks you would tell 53 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 2: his wife no. When we had my last one on one, 54 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 2: I kind of snapped at him because I was in 55 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 2: my one on one and I had walked out and 56 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 2: I had like a notification on my phone and I 57 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 2: saw that my dog was choking off plastic, and so 58 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 2: I went in there to act to go home. I'll 59 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 2: come my bag. I gotta go check on my dog. 60 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 2: He's like, I would prefer you stay, and I said 61 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 2: my dogs were important than any job that I have. 62 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 2: I'm leaving. Tried to make me sit down and like, 63 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 2: did your dog make it? Yeah, she's fine. She tore 64 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 2: her all her bottom of her kindle up anyway. So 65 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 2: if they break me up, should I just be like, hey, 66 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 2: like you fire me, I'm your wife. 67 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:08,399 Speaker 1: I don't know, Yeah, do you really want to? You're 68 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 1: probably fine. 69 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 3: I would just kind of wait and see how it 70 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 3: goes today, because you may be building it up because 71 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 3: of all your history. I mean, you said you're killing 72 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 3: it right now, right so the media, you know, if 73 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 3: you can just keep it as professional as possible, I 74 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 3: know it's probably still super uncomfortable, but I think you 75 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 3: did the right thing by cutting it off and you 76 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 3: found out you was your boss. 77 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 2: Oh for sure, Yeah. 78 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 3: I would kind of wait and see how it knows today. 79 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 1: That drama let us know. But also real quick when 80 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: when you found out, when you got the promotion or whatever, 81 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: I mean, it stopped right like, there's no more. He 82 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 1: knows that you're not into it, so he's not sort 83 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 1: so he's kept it professional for six four or five months. 84 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 1: He's kept a professional okay, And there's probably a work thing. 85 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: It's probably a yeah, let us know what happens. Interesting 86 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:58,839 Speaker 1: interesting situation you're in more. Thanks for calling us, will 87 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 1: I love you, Love you too. Thanks