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Speaker 1: Taylor is here. Good morning everyone in the morning. It's

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Speaker 1: freezing this morning.

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Speaker 2: It's Friday.

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Speaker 1: It is Friday. Thank God. I can't wait to go

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Speaker 1: home and snuggle up so cold, I know. Good Lord.

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Speaker 1: I got every blanket in my house on the bed

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Speaker 1: right now. I left the house and it was forty

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Speaker 1: three degrees in the car. Oh my god, the car

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Speaker 1: is freaking out. Yeah, because it's also California born and raised.

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Speaker 1: How are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm good.

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Speaker 1: You should do yesterday? Anything fun?

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Speaker 3: No, I relax. Actually I unpacked from Costa Rica.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's a thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it takes me a couple of days.

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Speaker 1: Does it okay? My wife is like, right away we

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Speaker 1: get home from a trip, She's like, gets the bags out.

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Speaker 1: Because I'm I'm the guy that does it. I'll either

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Speaker 1: do it right away or six months from now.

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Speaker 3: I'm the same wayer late though, so I didn't unpack

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Speaker 3: right away right.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully it'll get done before the weekend is over.

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Speaker 1: Taylor brought me a sweet bag of whole Costa Rican

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Speaker 1: coffee beans. Yes from I'll be taught. His one request,

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Speaker 1: can you bring me some coffee?

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Speaker 2: Gotcha?

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Speaker 1: Is it rude when somebody goes on a trip to

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Speaker 1: be like, can you bring me something please? Is it rue?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely not? Okay, yeah, no, I do that all the time.

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Speaker 1: Okay, good, I felt You're in the clear. Okay, thank good,

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Speaker 1: not a bad person. All right, we'll be back in

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Speaker 1: a few It's Marcus in the morning. Producer Taylor's here.

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Speaker 1: It's Friday.

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to revisit signs You're getting older because I

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Speaker 1: think I jinxed myself. I was talking yesterday about not

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Speaker 1: having any aches and pains and how all my friends

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Speaker 1: always complain about their aches and pains, but I have

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Speaker 1: every second of my fifty two years.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you did jinx yourself. I think you did.

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Speaker 1: I was so sassy about it yesterday to tel that

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Speaker 1: girl I'm not a day over twenty seven. Meanwhile me today,

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Speaker 1: ow ow, you never said no. Top signs that you're

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Speaker 1: getting older? Number one was talking about your aches and

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Speaker 1: pains with friends. When that becomes conversation.

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Speaker 2: And so here we are.

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Speaker 1: I got I got into a conversation a couple days ago,

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Speaker 1: I had to stop myself and go, this is the

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Speaker 1: most grown up conversation I've ever had. I have a

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Speaker 1: broken compost bin out in front of my house, and

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Speaker 1: so I called Recology to come replace it. And then

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Speaker 1: there was a situation where the guy that emptied it

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Speaker 1: moved it in front of my neighbors. So now is

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Speaker 1: it mine? Is it theirs? I don't know. I had

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Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, I'm like, Marcus, You've had

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Speaker 1: a ten minute conversation about whether or not this is

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Speaker 1: your compost bin. That is, like I could see your

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Speaker 1: eyes cleansing over right now. Again we're talking about top sizes,

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Speaker 1: that you're getting older, other stuff that God listened, when

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Speaker 1: you enjoy an early night, when you prefer quiet venues

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Speaker 1: to super loud ones. And then I saw this one.

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Speaker 1: It said when you have to put your socks on

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Speaker 1: don't do that, oh no, Or when you get excited

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Speaker 1: as for like socks as a gift.

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Speaker 2: Uh huh oh. I think that one definitely tells me

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Speaker 1: I think it's the first time that I sneezed and

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Speaker 1: I felt like I threw out a hip. O. My god,

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Speaker 1: have you ever had this happen?

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Speaker 2: I can't say that I have no.

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Speaker 1: So now, Taylor, you're an old soul though you have

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Speaker 1: old hobbies. Yes, you crochet?

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Speaker 2: I do crochet?

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Speaker 1: Oh what else?

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Speaker 2: Scrapbooks?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, board games, I love all of them, Jigsaw puzzles exactly,

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Speaker 1: Grammy vibe. In fact, if you want to follow Taylor,

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Speaker 1: you can't at Tay Love with two e's meet Grandma Taylor. Anyways,

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Speaker 1: it's Marcus in the morning. It's Friday, producer Taylor is here. Hello,

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Speaker 1: are you going to visit friends or family? Are you

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Speaker 1: having people over for the weekend? I found etiquette mistakes

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Speaker 1: that you need to not make as an overnight guess

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Speaker 1: in order to be invited back. Okay, and I violate

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Speaker 1: like the she's like the good friend police. She's the

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Speaker 1: one that's like, hey, make sure you pick up your stuff. Hey,

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Speaker 1: did you really just bleed out on their sheets? Hey,

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Speaker 1: you can't just go through the refrigerator like that. Although

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Speaker 1: it says right here, I might be in the clear

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Speaker 1: because it says don't rely on your host for everything,

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Speaker 1: I will not be getting up. I think that's fair. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I am the guy that will go through your refrigerator. Great,

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Speaker 1: So that's a And then yes, there was one time

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Speaker 1: we went to go visit some friends. I had a

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Speaker 1: infection on the air. I'm sorry, but it caused me

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Speaker 2: Gross. Okay, nasty.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, if you're having breakfast right now, I apologize. And

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Speaker 1: then what was the other thing? Oh? I did leave

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Speaker 1: alofa in my sister in law's bathroom one time and

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Speaker 1: my wife was like, hey, this is yours and just

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Speaker 1: was less? You had somebody over at your house, you

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Speaker 3: All the time, Oh yeah, we always have people moving

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Speaker 1: So what have they done that? It's just annoyed you

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Speaker 3: I hate when people don't contribute with house chores. If

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Speaker 3: you're going to stay there for a while, help me

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Speaker 3: take out the trash, or like maybe do.

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Speaker 3: I think if you're there for a week, I definitely

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Speaker 3: expect like just like if I ask, like, hey, do

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Speaker 3: don't expect you to do it without me asking, but

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Speaker 3: if I ask or like, hey, can you do this

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Speaker 3: a solid by letting you stay with me, So do

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Speaker 1: We have such a cool thing with our neighbors two

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Speaker 3: I think that that's what you should do when you

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Speaker 3: is when you go to someone else's house and if

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Speaker 2: That's that's your like, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Sure etiquette rules not to break is an overnight guess

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Speaker 1: if you want to be invited back. Other things, it

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Speaker 1: came up over using common spaces, not making your own

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Speaker 1: plans to do things. The last one I too forgetting

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Speaker 1: to express gratitude. Leave a bottle of wine, leave a

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Speaker 3: I think that goes for any time that you go

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Speaker 3: to someone else's house. You know, never show up empty handed.

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Speaker 3: Always bring maybe flowers, wine something, you know.

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Speaker 1: then a nice bottle. Right now, here's what's running in

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Speaker 1: the Bay Area and beyond. The number one trender is

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Speaker 1: and they're from Marin. There's six of them, and I

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Speaker 1: I mean they were moms, they were friends, they'd love

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Speaker 1: I can't even imagine. I can't even imagine if it

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Speaker 1: The other big headline is today is free Fridays and

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Speaker 1: we want to help clear out our partner he made

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Speaker 1: meet Cutie Patuti, a two year old sixty one pound

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Speaker 1: oh one three FM Instagram. Let's see something of note

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Speaker 1: as cal Trans is going to be closing the eastbound

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Speaker 1: tonight at eleven through Monday at six am for deck replacement.

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Speaker 1: Why is this impactful for you? If you're driving through

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Speaker 1: the city and you missed the seventh Street exit, you're

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Speaker 1: going to Oakland. Yeah, that's hat for the U turn.

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Speaker 2: Made that mistake before.

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Speaker 1: I think we've all been there. So that's just something

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Speaker 1: best known as Mcstemy for Grey's Anatomy, has passed away

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Speaker 1: at the age of fifty three after a battle with ALS.

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Speaker 1: He was very public about that, yes, and very much

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Speaker 1: we will definitely miss Eric Dane. You knew him from

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Speaker 1: Euphoria Euphoria, Yes, so that's the other point of reference.

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Speaker 1: Let's see, We'll go to Olympic update really quick. Alisa

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Speaker 1: twenty four years to claim that individual Olympic title in

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Speaker 1: out to the ladies hockey team who beat Canada two

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Speaker 1: the gold. Before we leave the sports, the Warriors hosting

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Speaker 1: Denver Sunday at twelve thirty. That's going down this weekend

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Speaker 1: at Chase Center. Be aware. And then we'll go to

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Speaker 1: the Star one one three fm Instagram for our daily

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Speaker 1: poll with producer Taylor. What do you got?

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Speaker 3: It is National Leadership Day today, so we want to

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Speaker 3: know what makes a great leader? Is it clear, communication, empathy,

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Speaker 1: That is what's trending. It's Marcus in the morning and

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Speaker 1: we are doing second Date Update. So I've got Gideon

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Speaker 1: everybody up to speed. So you guys, Gideon, you met

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, I thought it was a great night.

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Speaker 4: You know we're joking about where we what we would

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Speaker 3: I'd like to keep tracking.

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Speaker 4: So you know, you know, people are always on their

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Speaker 1: So it's like that would be horrible to misremember somebody

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Speaker 4: Well you know, as you sit back, you know, a

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Speaker 1: All right, let's get you a second date. Okay, go

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Speaker 1: figure out why she ghosted after your date. Honestly, it

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Speaker 1: is this Marla?

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Speaker 2: This is she MASKU is calling Marlae.

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Speaker 1: It's Marcus calling from Star one one three radio. Good morning, Hi,

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Hi. I don't suppose you listened to me

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I start work super early. I don't listen to

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Speaker 1: Well, I hope you weren't just about to go to

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Speaker 6: Okay, So he's feeling like maybe you ghosted, and I

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Speaker 1: So I guess the first natural question is did you ghost?

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Speaker 1: And then if so, why?

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Speaker 5: Okay, this's just got super awkward.

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Speaker 2: Am I on the radio right now?

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Speaker 1: People can be able to hear me technically? Yes?

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Speaker 7: Is that?

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Speaker 5: Okay, this is a first It's fine, It's fine.

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Speaker 1: I guess.

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Speaker 1: So what happened? Did you ghost? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 5: I did ghosts? I had not answer it. He is

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Speaker 5: still texting me. By the way, the dates started out promising.

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Speaker 5: I'll just be upfront. It started out promising, and then this.

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Speaker 2: Guy did did.

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Speaker 5: Two things that like derailed everything.

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Speaker 5: First, midway through dinner, he casually mentions in our conversation

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Speaker 5: I'm over here trying to eat my damn fried mozzarella

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Speaker 5: Like I'm just not getting it right.

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Speaker 1: Let's just pause for a sec, Let's just take a beat.

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Speaker 1: So part of this Marla, is I have Gideon on

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, of course you do.

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Speaker 2: Listening, Joe.

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Speaker 1: So Gideon, are you there?

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Speaker 4: Oh, I'm here.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is like a bad dream. So do you

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Speaker 4: Of course? Well, you know, I think it's just a

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Speaker 1: It's legal.

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Speaker 4: It's smart. People misremember things, you know. It's a dangerous world.

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Speaker 4: I want to make sure I got my ass covered.

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Speaker 5: No, it's not legal. You can't record somebody without their consent.

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Speaker 5: I mean, Marcus asked me, is it okay if I

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Speaker 5: You can't just do that. Besides, this is not the

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Speaker 4: Okay, So you're being recorded all the time anyway, all

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Speaker 1: Dude, Oh my god.

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Speaker 5: Okay, wait, Marcus, I forgot this whole other thing too

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Speaker 1: Huh?

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Speaker 5: And he said, Oh, I'm simply analyzing patterns. I like

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Speaker 5: Learning experience, excuse me, a learning experience. So this isn't

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Speaker 5: even just about the money. I'm literally on a date

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 4: I just want to make sure that you know everything

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Speaker 1: And do you have a little box next to Marla's

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Speaker 5: I don't even want to know. I don't even want

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Speaker 5: to know this is just this feels so intre what

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Speaker 4: Prepared wandering around willy neely with no aim?

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Speaker 5: No, Marcus, do you see why I goes to this man?

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Speaker 1: Yes? I you got you guys, Hang on, that ain't happening.

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Speaker 1: Let's just let's scrap it up. A second date update.

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Speaker 1: We're talking about how long you should wait to get engaged.

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Speaker 1: This topic came up there was a TikToker who was

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: She panned over and he was on hands and knees

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Speaker 1: too long? How long should you wait? The average person

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Speaker 2: Three to five years?

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Speaker 1: Two and a half? Okay, nice pool. Now you've never

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Speaker 2: Definitely not so with my wife.

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Speaker 6: We wait.

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Speaker 1: I waited a year. I couldn't wait. And she's had

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Speaker 1: and she's like, oh, hey, slowed down, big guy. I

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Speaker 1: you got to put a ring on it.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: If you find a lady that you love, that is

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Speaker 2: I think it really depends on age.

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Speaker 3: Okay, someone who's been dating for ten years, that's maybe

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Speaker 2: They're going to be together for ten years, you know,

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Speaker 1: I was thirty six and she was thirty two. I

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Speaker 1: That is a beautiful dance.

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Speaker 3: It's also hard to find somebody that well, no, it's impossible.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hey, but you did it.

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Speaker 1: I mean eventually the other people that kind of low

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Speaker 1: I have a friend who's been engaged for ten years.

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Speaker 1: What does that even mean? I don't know what you

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Speaker 1: And again I understand, it's not my business. Everybody leads

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Speaker 1: educate me. A you've been with your lady for eight

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Speaker 1: years and you have not proposed, I don't get that.

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Speaker 1: Or you have been engaged for a decade, and like

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Speaker 1: are we doing this? Or like what am I missing?

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure. I think the cutoff point depending on

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Speaker 2: how old you are.

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Speaker 3: I think if you're older then right, say twenty five,

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Speaker 3: I would say it's about three years sure.

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Speaker 1: And also, ladies, there's there's I mean, I know it's

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Speaker 1: like traditional whatever, gender roles whatever, who cares? I mean

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Speaker 1: oh you're old school.

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Speaker 2: Oh I'm old school.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Oh it's got to happen that way.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not asking, I'm not getting down on my knee.

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Speaker 1: So step up, gentlemen. Yeah, come on, what are your

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Speaker 1: thoughts on this? Like? How long is too long? If

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Speaker 1: you've been in a long term engagement, let me know why.

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Speaker 1: I'm just I'm genuinely curious, not judging. First, it's time

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Speaker 1: for good news.

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Speaker 7: So we give you good news twice the morning. It's

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Speaker 7: seven forty. It's really just to restore your faith in humanity.

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Speaker 7: And I know it's it can be rough out there.

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Speaker 7: Sometimes sometimes we just need a smile. I love this

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Speaker 7: story about an actor from The Big Bang Theory Kanan.

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Speaker 7: They are who you know best as Rejesh on Big

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Speaker 7: Bang Theory. He went on a podcast and was talking

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Speaker 7: about how financial stability has allowed him to give back

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Speaker 7: in meaningful ways, and he and his wife sit down

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Speaker 7: and decide what they want to fund, which is great.

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Speaker 7: He funds university scholarships for students from disadvantaged backgrounds.

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Speaker 1: He supports animal charities. But the one thing that he

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Speaker 1: does what he describes as a vigilante charity giving is

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Speaker 1: he will go on late at night on a random

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Speaker 1: go fundme page and payoff strangers medical bills with no publicity,

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Speaker 1: no cameras, now him announcing it. Yes, that's a little

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Speaker 1: bit of publicity. But I'm so glad I know this

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Speaker 1: about him. He says, these private acts a couple of accomplished,

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Speaker 1: a couple of things. He said, it changing people's lives

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Speaker 1: on that level feels like a grace rather than a burden.

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Speaker 1: It is his privilege since he's made some money. And

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Speaker 1: then he says that kindness begins at a local level.

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Speaker 1: This is the part that hit me. Kindness begins at

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Speaker 1: a local level. We shouldn't be waiting for leaders to

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Speaker 1: create change. He says that expecting politicians to bring world peace,

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Speaker 1: for example, overlooks everyday opportunities to help others, like just

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Speaker 1: responding kindly to a neighbor in need, and so change

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Speaker 1: starts individually, even on the small scale at all. Kind

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Speaker 1: of you know, it's like a title wave. It's pretty

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Speaker 1: awesome anyway. I love that. If you liked the Big

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Speaker 1: Bang theory, Rajesh doing big things. He and his lady.

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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning. It's time to play the

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Speaker 1: bays favorite trivia games called what you Know About That.

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Speaker 1: Let's go out and meet our contestants. We take you

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Speaker 1: first of Walnut Creak and say how to Danielle. Good

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Speaker 1: morning Danielle, Good morning, Marcus and Taylor. Hey, what's going

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Speaker 1: on this morning?

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Speaker 7: Uh?

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Speaker 3: This is my kids and not to work?

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Speaker 1: Awesome? What do you do for work?

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Speaker 4: I am an occupational therapist at a school.

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Speaker 1: Oh? Perfect work.

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Speaker 4: My kids go to school.

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Speaker 1: Nice? Can we say aha to them too? What are

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Speaker 1: their names? And awesome? Welcome you guys. Hey, remember lots

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Speaker 1: of cheering, no helping. Mommy's got to do this on

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Speaker 1: our own. They're like the minions over there. That's so cute.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Let's go to Samon Fleance. I

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Speaker 1: had a Jennifer good morning. Good morning, Jennifer. What are

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Speaker 1: you doing?

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Speaker 5: I'm just sitting out waiting.

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Speaker 1: To go in to work. Okay? What do you do

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Speaker 1: for work?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 1: You've been on the show before. I'm embarrassed that I've.

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Speaker 6: Been on the show.

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Speaker 3: Don't.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be great. Can we can we plug your

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Speaker 1: little bank? Is that okay?

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Speaker 4: If I win?

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's it right. I don't want to do the

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Speaker 1: walk of shame in the work from the Park.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to embarrass anybody.

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Speaker 1: I get it, I get it. All right, you guys,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna go ahead and get started. So Jennifer goes on.

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Speaker 1: Hold in, Sandra Fell. We start with Danielle and wanna creek.

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Speaker 1: All right, Danielle, five questions fifty seconds. Are you ready?

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Speaker 2: I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: Yell out pass if you don't know an answer, and

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Speaker 1: then I'll come back to the question if we have time. Okay,

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Speaker 1: here we go. Question number one? What is the largest

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Speaker 1: country in the world by land area? How many teenage

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Speaker 1: mutant ninja turtles are there?

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Speaker 7: Say anything?

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Speaker 1: What band released the twenty thirteen song Counting Stars?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Oh that's h oh god, it's your brand?

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Speaker 5: Oh god?

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Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, okay? What color overalls does Mario from the

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Speaker 1: Super Mario franchise? Where? And what is the only king

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Speaker 1: in a deck of cards without a mustache?

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Speaker 7: Part?

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Speaker 1: We'll go with hearts, all right. I like to say

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Speaker 1: it like that too. By the way, I mustache you

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Speaker 1: a question terrible? Hang on, you're out of time. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: you're out of time. Hang on the line for me,

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Speaker 1: all right, Danielle goes on holding Wanta Creek, and we

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Speaker 1: pick up Jennifer and san Ua fell.

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Speaker 3: Question number one, what is the largest country in the

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Speaker 3: world by land mass.

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Speaker 1: Path?

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Speaker 3: How many teenage mutant Ninja turtles are there?

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Speaker 7: Four?

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Speaker 3: What band released the twenty thirteen song Counting Stars?

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Speaker 4: Imagine Dragon?

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Speaker 2: What color? What overalls does Mario? From the Super Mario franchise?

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Speaker 3: Where? What is the only king in a deck of

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Speaker 3: cards without a mustache?

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Speaker 1: Queen? But what is the only No?

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Speaker 5: That's right, no, back the space?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 4: You passed on?

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Speaker 3: What is the largest country in the world by land mass?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 7: Under? All right?

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Speaker 1: Danielle comes back and warn the creek. We'll see how

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Speaker 1: she did against Jennifer and Sanrafel. Question number one, what

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Speaker 1: is the largest country in the world by land area?

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Speaker 3: Danielle passed. Jennifer said Russia. The answer is Russia.

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Speaker 1: How many teenage mutant ninja turtles are there?

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Speaker 3: Danielle said five, Jennifer said four. The answer is four.

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Speaker 1: What band released the twenty thirteen song Counting Stars?

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Speaker 3: Danielle ran out of time. Jennifer said, imagine dragons. The

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Speaker 3: answer is one Republic.

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Speaker 1: What color overalls does Mario from Super Mario franchise.

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Speaker 3: Where Danielle said blue, Jennifer said red. The answer is blue.

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Speaker 1: Finally, what is the only king in a deck of

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Speaker 1: cards without a mustache?

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Speaker 3: Danielle said hearts. Jennifer said spade. The answer is King

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Speaker 3: of Hearts. Final score two to two.

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Speaker 2: We have a time.

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Speaker 1: We have weezed our way to a tie. Ladies, everybody's

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Speaker 1: still alive. Guys are trivia titans. Nice work. Here's how

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Speaker 1: the tiberger works. I'm gona ask you about the same

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Speaker 1: question at the same time, chout out your name to

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Speaker 1: buzz in. If you know the answer, first person in

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Speaker 1: buzzing with their name gets a chance to answer. If

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Speaker 1: you answer correctly, you win instantly. Otherwise your opponent can steal. Thanks.

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Speaker 2: What do bees make?

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Speaker 5: Jennifer?

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Speaker 1: Danielle Jennifer for the win. Honey, Jennifer, you didn't. You're

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Speaker 1: going to see Sarah macglatch, who follows first by mom's

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Speaker 1: birthday the Deota Pavilion at Conquer courtesy of Live Nation.

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Speaker 1: Their tickets go on sale today at ten at Live

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Speaker 1: nation dot com. Congratulations.

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Speaker 6: Thank you, thanks so much.

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Speaker 7: This is awesome.

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Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: What bank do you work at?

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Speaker 5: What's America Bank.

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Speaker 1: All right, get in there, loud and proud, tell everybody.

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Speaker 1: I am going to be telling everybody.

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Speaker 5: Do not worry.

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Speaker 1: Do it, Danielle. You're not going away empty handed. You've

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Speaker 1: won the new collab, the Marcus in the Morning El

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Speaker 1: Chilito Hot Sauce. Congratulations, Oh thank you? What are you

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Speaker 1: talking about?

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Speaker 3: Play with us again at weekday mornings at eight oh.

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Speaker 1: Five am and add to what you know about that

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Speaker 1: podcast is a preset on our iHeart app and never

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Speaker 1: miss an episode. It's Marcus in the Morning. I'm about

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Speaker 1: to get out of here. Gillians on the way next,

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Speaker 1: keep it here Star one O one three,