1 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 1: Nine podcasts, Angels. We're in the Ella era. Prepare for 2 00:00:09,760 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: lift off. This isn't your average flight, and I'm not 3 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 1: your average host. Buckle up and let's flash for me. 4 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 1: I'm a savage you Happy hump day, guys, welcome to 5 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 1: a cheeky bonus episode. Are so excited to record this 6 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: one today? And I was a bit cheeky. 7 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:38,879 Speaker 2: Look. 8 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: I put a Q and AUP on my Instagram last 9 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: week post pregnancy reveal, and I wanted to save it 10 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:46,559 Speaker 1: for this platform. I'm going to be completely honest because 11 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 1: here I can really talk about it in depth, share 12 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: more of course overshare. So I thought, why not do 13 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: a cheeky bonus sept for you guys. So I'm going 14 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: to be answering your questions all pregnancy related. 15 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 2: And yeah, I. 16 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 1: Mean there was a lot of questions in there, but 17 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: I really naowed it down to the most commonly asked. Okay, 18 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 1: So the first question is how are you feeling? Have 19 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 1: you had much morning sickness? 20 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 2: Okay? 21 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:20,400 Speaker 1: And you know what, I ever since like revealing pregnancy, 22 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: I've actually been quite nervous about sharing online because again, 23 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:27,039 Speaker 1: like and I've said this in the previous episode, I 24 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: feel like social media can be yeah, a pretty fucking vile, 25 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:33,919 Speaker 1: cruel place. And even if you are a pregnant woman 26 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 1: and you know you're just sharing your journey for others 27 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:41,040 Speaker 1: to maybe relate on or not relate, you still get 28 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 1: such rude comments. People are so mean, like just word 29 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: dumping their own energy on you. It's just not nice. 30 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 1: And I do feel like a little hesitant to share. 31 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: I mean, I feel probably more comfortable to share on 32 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: this platform because I can really, like, you know. 33 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 2: Talk more about it. 34 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 1: But I feel like on Instagram and TikTok, I don't 35 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 1: really use anymore, but I just I don't know, it 36 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: makes me very nervous to share certain things on those platforms. 37 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: But I'll tell you here. So far, throughout this pregnancy, 38 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: I have felt very blessed. Majority of my girlfriends are 39 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 1: have had kids, two kids, and I've seen them go 40 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 1: through some really hard times. You know, most of them 41 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: have had really tough pregnancies and even tough birthing experiences, 42 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 1: and you know, touch wood, I have had a very 43 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 1: cruisy pregnancy. 44 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 2: So far. 45 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:47,920 Speaker 1: I haven't had morning sickness, you know, I haven't had 46 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 1: food a versions when I felt pregnant. My friends are 47 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 1: like I can't wait to see what you're not going 48 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 1: to want to eat, and like I was kind of 49 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 1: looking forward to it as well, but I didn't and 50 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 1: haven't been turned off really anything. The only thing what 51 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 1: I don't feel like having is roast chicken. I don't 52 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 1: like to see raw roast chicken or like, nah, roast chicken. 53 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 2: That's the only thing. 54 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:14,639 Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean, I've had a really great pregnancy. 55 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 1: There was maybe two weeks where I was super fatigued, 56 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:21,239 Speaker 1: like having a nap, and I was a bit moody, 57 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 1: as Guy told you, But otherwise, like I'm still waking 58 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 1: up every day at four, I'm still getting like seven 59 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: to eight hours sleep. I'm still taking three toilet times 60 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 1: a day. Because when I also felt pregnant, everyone's like, 61 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: can't wait to see how constipated you get, and I'm like, 62 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: fucking great, I don't want that. And I mean, as 63 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 1: you've also heard in the previous episode, I do have 64 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: a purper stool. 65 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 2: If you've had issues with going. 66 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 1: To the toilet, guys, I highly recommend the Purpo stool. 67 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: I don't remember where I read it, but I've been 68 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 1: using a stool for maybe like five six years and 69 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 1: I've spent a lot of time in the bathroom over 70 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 1: over the years. 71 00:03:58,600 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 2: It's a real thing. 72 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: Like my brother even brought me a book about going 73 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 1: to the toilet to read on the toilet. He got 74 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 1: that for me for Christmas about six years ago. 75 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 2: Years. 76 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: So if you have issues we go on the toilet, 77 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: I recommend getting a proper Still, it's a real thing. 78 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 1: Google it, read into it, and it actually helps you 79 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: go to the door. 80 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:18,239 Speaker 2: Anyway. 81 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: It's bit tam I, but yeah, no, Like, honestly, there's 82 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 1: been no sickness, nothing, feeling great and I'm feeling very 83 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: grateful for that. 84 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 2: Honestly, feeling very grateful. 85 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:32,479 Speaker 1: Still able to show up, come to work, do everything 86 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 1: that I would usually do. Yeah, okay, next question, are 87 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: you finding out the gender? Are you sharing it? Great question. Yes, 88 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 1: we have found out the gender, so, I mean I 89 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: mentioned about the whole Like in the previous episode, I 90 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:50,119 Speaker 1: mentioned how I wanted to keep the pregnancy a secret 91 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 1: for as long as I could. It's actually been longer 92 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 1: than because I think people usually reveal like when they're 93 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:59,039 Speaker 1: just over the first trimester. But has I mean we 94 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 1: revealed over the first time ster so I'm well into 95 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:03,039 Speaker 1: the pregnancy. 96 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 2: So we do know the gender. 97 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: We found out I mean, what like three weeks ago, 98 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 1: but when this goes like it would be four weeks ago, 99 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 1: so we found out. Yeah, I mean, you guys could 100 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 1: probably do the math now on how far into the pregnancy. 101 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 2: I am found out a while ago. 102 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 1: So we do know the gender, and at this point 103 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:26,840 Speaker 1: we don't want to share it. And look, the reason 104 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: behind that is because there's so much that people in 105 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 1: this industry. I guess, like we share so much and 106 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 1: I am a oversharer and right now, we just don't 107 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 1: really want to share that. We kind of want to 108 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: keep some things for us just to enjoy ourselves, you know. Yeah, 109 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 1: like my friends and my family do know, we're not 110 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 1: going to share it for now, maybe like maybe later 111 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 1: down the track. How is your weight for your first appointment? Okay, 112 00:05:55,080 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 1: so the lead up to that first appointment, I think 113 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 1: I had my first appointment at around nine weeks. Yeah, 114 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:10,280 Speaker 1: it felt like time was going so slow, and I 115 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 1: didn't because I wasn't like suffering with any sickness. I 116 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: didn't actually believe that I was pregnant. I was completely 117 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: in denial. As I was saying in the previous episode, 118 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:20,280 Speaker 1: I had weed on like six sticks. I was saying 119 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: to guy, Babe, I just don't feel pregnant, and I 120 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: just don't think I am. Even at nine weeks, I 121 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 1: still felt that way, but I did kind of like 122 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: stop running and I kind of got I started to 123 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 1: get a bit nervous because I was like, I don't know, 124 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 1: you know, I don't feel anything but that weight time 125 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:41,160 Speaker 1: honestly felt like forever. And then after the first appointment 126 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 1: up until now, I feel like things are just flying. 127 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 1: Like I just feel like things are just freaking flying. 128 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:52,719 Speaker 1: Next question, how has your skin handled the hormones? Okay, 129 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:54,600 Speaker 1: so this could be. 130 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 2: A really long answer. 131 00:06:56,160 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 1: Well, before we conceived, I was on rowacotane. I did 132 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:05,800 Speaker 1: row actane for about nine months over a year ago. Gosh, 133 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: I mean I came off row actane twelve months before 134 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 1: we even tried to conceive. But I do feel like 135 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 1: that's why my skin has stayed the same. I have 136 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 1: honestly had no changes with my skin. I've had like 137 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: a bit of dryness, but I also think that's because 138 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 1: it's bloody freezing in Melbourne now, Like it was literally 139 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 1: three degrees the other day. So I feel like the 140 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 1: dryness is because it's seasonal, Like the seasonal changes are 141 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 1: affecting my skin. Yeah, and I'm still using all of 142 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: the same skincare that I used prior to falling pregnant. 143 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 1: It's all pregnancy safe. But yeah, I think my skin's 144 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 1: honestly okay because of row actane. The next question, Oh, okay, 145 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: how long were you off row actane before conceiving? Okay, 146 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 1: So I was off it before conceiving for twelve months. 147 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: I believe my dermatologists said, like, you just have to 148 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 1: be offered for a month, but I really wanted to 149 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 1: get it out of my system because I know that 150 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 1: there is like some pretty wild, you know, side effects 151 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: that can happen if you did for pregnant whilst you 152 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 1: had a coutaine in your system. 153 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 2: So I did. 154 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I did a good twelve months. And in that time, 155 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 1: I was doing a lot of acupuncture, a lot of supplements, 156 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: like natural supplements to support my hormones and to flush 157 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: like plastics and synthetic things through my blood through my cycle, 158 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:32,080 Speaker 1: which is a whole other conversation. So yeah, twelve months. 159 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 1: Next question, are you still running pregnant? That's a great question. 160 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 1: I stopped for like a good four or five weeks 161 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: only because anytime I attempted to I felt like a 162 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 1: weird tugging in my stomach and it kind of whiaked 163 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 1: me out, Like I felt this like weird pulling tugging 164 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 1: kind of like downwards, like on my lower abdominal area. 165 00:08:57,640 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 1: And because I hadn't had that first appointment yet, I 166 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 1: was getting in my head, and you know, my doctor 167 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 1: was like, you just keep doing what you're doing, Like, 168 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 1: don't stop anything that you're doing. If you're running, keep 169 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 1: doing it. If you've got the energy, go for it. 170 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 1: LA Like your body's conditioned to doing that. You just 171 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 1: can't start doing anything new. So I kept attempting to run, 172 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 1: and I was doing shorter runs like four to five 173 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:23,679 Speaker 1: k's just a couple of times a week, but at 174 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:29,319 Speaker 1: a very comfortable pace. I'm talking like seven minute paces, 175 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 1: which was also like really weird for me to adjust. 176 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 2: You know. 177 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 1: The one thing that was my outlet that I released endorphins. 178 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 1: You know, running makes me so happy, it really does. 179 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 1: It's like I've said it before, it's like free therapy 180 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:51,680 Speaker 1: for me. I feel just so strong, and it's it's 181 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 1: my alone time because sometimes I'm out there for like 182 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 1: a few hours if I'm running more than twenty k's. 183 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:01,679 Speaker 1: And that's been one of the most challenged things is 184 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 1: I'm not able to. Well, I am able to, but 185 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 1: it's just it's hard to explain. I think I need 186 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: to get this waste band. I actually just asked my 187 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 1: car a practa about it this morning because I ran 188 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 1: this morning. I did five k's and I think I 189 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: need to get like a waistband that makes it feel 190 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 1: a bit more like supported and tighter, which will make 191 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:29,440 Speaker 1: me feel more comfortable running because you know, you I 192 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 1: feel like a lot heavier, so it's just a bit 193 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:34,679 Speaker 1: like the impact hitting the ground is heavier, so it's 194 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:37,439 Speaker 1: a bit harder on you know, my foot and my knees. 195 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:42,000 Speaker 1: It's a bit of a process. But yeah, I will 196 00:10:42,040 --> 00:10:45,840 Speaker 1: say I miss I miss running. And you know, one 197 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: thing that I can't wait to do post baby is 198 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 1: do a marathon and do a half marathon and get 199 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 1: back into it. It really excites me to get back 200 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 1: into it. So I'm also kind of just leaning into 201 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 1: the factor of I'm having a bit of a break 202 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 1: and it's okay, first pregnancy symptoms, any symptoms, now, Okay, 203 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 1: when we found out that I was pregnant, I didn't 204 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 1: have any symptoms. My period was just late, my cycle 205 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 1: was very regular. We yeah, I mean I didn't have 206 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:20,560 Speaker 1: any symptoms back then. Symptoms Now, gosh, I'm just like 207 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 1: really hungry all the time, and I eat probably every 208 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 1: couple of hours. By the time it's bedtime, I'm very tired. 209 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 1: My boobs are freaking kuldripple the size. Like my friends 210 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 1: told me this was going to happen, But I've got implants, 211 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 1: so and none of my girlfriends have implants, so I 212 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 1: feel like mina, yeah, wow, it's like two cantalopes, Like 213 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:51,559 Speaker 1: it feels like they're heavy, that whole thing, which I mean, 214 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 1: we can definitely talk about that at a later stage 215 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 1: where apparently like your nipples, your ariolas like kadripple in 216 00:11:57,880 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 1: size and they go darker. I mean yet to experience 217 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 1: those symptoms. But I'm like looking every day waiting for 218 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 1: this moment to happen, because I can't imagine how your 219 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:12,319 Speaker 1: areola can literally grow. It's just so weird, isn't it 220 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 1: so fucking weird how that just grows and then it 221 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:16,360 Speaker 1: goes back. 222 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 2: I don't know, femal bodies are so weird. 223 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:23,440 Speaker 1: What else my boobs are just like so sensitive, Like 224 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 1: there's so sensitive. I can't lie on them. I have 225 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 1: to wear like I never used to wear bras. Now 226 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 1: it's like, I mean, I'm not wearing proper bras. I'm 227 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:37,319 Speaker 1: just wearing like the skims. Bralettes are amazing. Their honestly, 228 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 1: skims is amazing. Kimpassion can do no wrong. 229 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 2: But yeah, I think that that's honestly. 230 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: It symptoms wise, is like the boobs, the eating. Oh, 231 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 1: my body temperature is quite warm at night. I'm like, 232 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 1: I have to sleep with the fan on because I 233 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:57,240 Speaker 1: get very hot and it's like minus degrees at night, 234 00:12:57,320 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 1: and guys literally like, Babe, what the fuck it's freezing, 235 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 1: Like why is. 236 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 2: The fan on? 237 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:07,680 Speaker 1: And I'm like, sorry, I'm pregnant. I win I get 238 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:09,800 Speaker 1: to sleep with a fan on, but then I have 239 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 1: the electric blanket on like first thing in the morning. 240 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 2: I don't know. 241 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think high temperature. Gosh, I'm in cravings. I 242 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: guess like I'm craving a lot more like sweeter things. Yeah, 243 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 1: like lollies. I'm having whenever I want. I'm not really 244 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 1: restricting myself like at all. I'm not like counting calories. 245 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 1: I'm not really watching what I eat. If I'm being 246 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 1: completely honest, I think that if there's any time, especially 247 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:42,319 Speaker 1: being a female in this industry, if there's any time 248 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 1: that you can gain weight and eat what you want, 249 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 1: I feel like being pregnant is the perfect time to 250 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 1: do it, because it's like, fuck you, I'm gonna eat 251 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 1: that burger and you can't come for me because I'm pregnant. 252 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 1: So I'm not restricting myself whatsoever. I am having my 253 00:13:57,240 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 1: cake and eating it times five. Any other symptoms, ah, look, 254 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 1: I'll talk about the libido. I will touch on that 255 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 1: because I know I've got some friends who are pregnant 256 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:12,559 Speaker 1: at the moment, and I know that they're going through 257 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:15,600 Speaker 1: the complete opposite of me, where they're just not feeling 258 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:19,359 Speaker 1: like having sex at all. And that's also not necessarily 259 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 1: to do with the hormones. That's just to do with 260 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:25,280 Speaker 1: how they're feeling like about themselves. And I get that 261 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 1: because like, I definitely don't feel confident, I don't feel sexy, 262 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 1: I don't look at myself in the mirror, and like, 263 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 1: you know, I'm not like obsessed with the way I look. 264 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 1: I obviously can appreciate this is the most beautiful blessing 265 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 1: of my life, and it's a miracle that there is 266 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 1: a little baby nugget in their growing. But there's also, 267 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: you know, there's also a really challenging side where you 268 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 1: are uncontrollably getting bigger and you know your favorite clothes 269 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 1: don't fit you anymore. They actually just might never fit 270 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 1: you again because you just don't know what you're gonna 271 00:14:57,400 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 1: look like, you know, in a year's time or two 272 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 1: year time. And everybody's journey with pregnancy is so different. 273 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 1: Their bodies bounce back so differently. Some people it's like bang, 274 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 1: they never even had a baby. And then you know, 275 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 1: I have some friends who have had really challenging times 276 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 1: post pregnancy with their weight and their skin and their body, 277 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 1: and it's just so it's really quite a crazy adjustment. 278 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 1: And I don't hear many women talking about it about 279 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 1: the process of seeing your body change. It's wildly amazing 280 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 1: but also the weirdest experience. Like I forced these pants 281 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 1: on me today because I love these pants and they're 282 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 1: too small for me, but I'm not ready to let 283 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 1: go yet. Yeah, I don't know. I can't remember what 284 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 1: that symptom was. I think that was just I don't 285 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 1: even know where that went. But oh, libido, that's what yeah. 286 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 1: Oh yes, totally went off topic. But my libido is 287 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:09,120 Speaker 1: still very healthy. Yeah, I think that it if anything 288 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 1: has stayed the same, or if not, I'm like more 289 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 1: wanting my husband. Whether it's hormones, whether it's I don't 290 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 1: even know. Everything is just so sensitive. Like if he 291 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 1: cleans the kiddy litter for me, I am like obsessed 292 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 1: with you because he knows that, like cleaning cat poo 293 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:28,440 Speaker 1: can be toxic for pregnant women, so weird, it's a thing. 294 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 1: And I've got two cats that take lots of shits. 295 00:16:31,800 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 1: So guy has really stepped it up. And that's what 296 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:37,840 Speaker 1: I was saying in the episode before, like he's really 297 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 1: stepped it up. You know, I don't have to ask 298 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 1: him to clean the cat shit. He just does it. 299 00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 1: And when he does that, it just like I'm like, 300 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 1: I love you, You're the best, Thank. 301 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 2: You so much for doing that. 302 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 1: Or like picking up Yuki's pooh because like, h don't 303 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 1: really love the smell of Yuki's poo at the moment, 304 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 1: and he would just do it and I don't even ask, 305 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 1: so when he does like the little de esticated queen 306 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 1: stuff around the house. That's where my libido is, Like, hey, 307 00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:09,199 Speaker 1: do you wanna go downstairs? He's gonna hate me for 308 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:13,400 Speaker 1: saying that, But I've always had a pretty healthy libido, 309 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 1: and yeah, I think it's remained pretty much the same. 310 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:21,639 Speaker 1: Prom with me, Oh my gals and my girls with me. 311 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:26,679 Speaker 1: Next question, Okay, how did you hide your belly? Well, 312 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:33,399 Speaker 1: I wasn't necessarily hiding it. I just wasn't like on Instagram, 313 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 1: I guess I wasn't like whenever I would do stories, 314 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:38,679 Speaker 1: I was just you could only see my face. So 315 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 1: if you are pregnant and you want to hide it 316 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 1: and you're active, and if you're in the public, I'm 317 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:48,679 Speaker 1: I mean oversized T shirts, baggy jumpers, think about it. 318 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 1: If you know that you want to do a story, 319 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:52,879 Speaker 1: do it in a position like in the car. You know, 320 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 1: if you've got a jumper on, it looks like you're 321 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 1: on the go, or you know, if you're at home, like, yeah, 322 00:17:58,840 --> 00:18:01,679 Speaker 1: put a big T shirt on. I mean that's the 323 00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:03,880 Speaker 1: only way that I really disguised it. And like when 324 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:06,360 Speaker 1: I was making the ads for my business for the giveaway, 325 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:09,080 Speaker 1: I was always wearing a blazer and that got so old, 326 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:12,119 Speaker 1: Like I was saying to my brother who is behind 327 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:14,399 Speaker 1: the camera, I'm like, James, I can't be wearing a 328 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:16,879 Speaker 1: blazer for nine months. 329 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:18,880 Speaker 2: Like this is not a vibe. 330 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 1: And yeah, that's also why I felt like I needed 331 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:26,400 Speaker 1: to reveal sooner than later, because there's content to be made. 332 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 1: And yeah, the overside blazer, I think got a bit old. 333 00:18:30,119 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 1: But yeah, I think just like oversized clothes. 334 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:35,159 Speaker 2: The angles. 335 00:18:35,320 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 1: There's actually girls on Instagram and my acupuncturist shared this 336 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 1: with me. My acupuncturist, she's just the best. Shout out 337 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:47,199 Speaker 1: to Abby. She was like, you can disguise it for 338 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 1: as long as you want. You've just got to like, 339 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:52,439 Speaker 1: you know, know the angles. And there's these girls on 340 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 1: Instagram who actually share with you like angles and ways 341 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 1: to hide it. She don't know who she is. Her 342 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 1: name is Rhanne Major. You guys might know who that is. 343 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 1: She hid her pregnancy up until she was thirty weeks, 344 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:12,240 Speaker 1: which is crazy. You'd have to like scroll back a 345 00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:15,320 Speaker 1: fair bit. And there's this all this other girl. Her 346 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 1: name is Denay I think Dnay Merser Ricky. She shows 347 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 1: poses of how to hide your pregnancy, Like she genuinely 348 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 1: shows you how to pose and she she's clearly. 349 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:29,400 Speaker 2: Been pregnant and been through it all. 350 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:31,359 Speaker 1: She's also got like nearly two and a half million followers, 351 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 1: which is pretty crazy. But yeah, she will show you 352 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 1: how to hide your pregnancy online. 353 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 2: Not that I was doing any of that though. 354 00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:43,160 Speaker 1: I actually just kind of stopped posting. I didn't post 355 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:47,399 Speaker 1: for like two weeks, but anytime you did see me post, 356 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 1: I was literally in an oversized blazer. So oversized stuff. 357 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 1: That's how you're gonna hide your pregnancy. Okay, So next 358 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 1: question is do you have a birth plan? I feel 359 00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:01,439 Speaker 1: like this could be a really like you could you know, 360 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:07,400 Speaker 1: like everyone has opinions basically, and everyone has such different 361 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:09,880 Speaker 1: birth plans and different ideas of what they want, and 362 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:13,280 Speaker 1: you know what, like the amount of like videos I've 363 00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 1: watched over the last few months, I'm like, WHOA. Everyone's 364 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:22,959 Speaker 1: experience is so different and so incredible in their own way. 365 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:28,199 Speaker 1: But look, personally, for me, I wouldn't say it's a 366 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 1: plan because I think when you go into anything with 367 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:35,400 Speaker 1: like too much of a plan, especially this situation, when 368 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:39,040 Speaker 1: there's a lot that's actually out of your control, I 369 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:41,360 Speaker 1: feel like the best way to go into it is 370 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:47,199 Speaker 1: like whatever happens, happens, you know, like yeah again, Like 371 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 1: you know, I've had friends that have had plans and 372 00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:51,159 Speaker 1: it just didn't go to plan. So I think that 373 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:56,199 Speaker 1: I'm honestly super open minded. All I want is for 374 00:20:56,320 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 1: me and bub to be healthy, come out of the 375 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:06,680 Speaker 1: whole situation safely and alive, and however that looks is, however, 376 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:11,640 Speaker 1: It'll be okay. So was the pregnancy planned or a surprise? Well, 377 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:13,840 Speaker 1: as you guys would have heard in the previous episode, 378 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:16,720 Speaker 1: we did have that conversation of like we can just 379 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 1: stop being careful and yeah, I mean we weren't like 380 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:25,360 Speaker 1: tracking my cycle or anything like that. I do have 381 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:28,439 Speaker 1: the Aura ring and I got this ring when I 382 00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:32,680 Speaker 1: came off the pill. Best investment of my entire life. 383 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:36,280 Speaker 1: If you're like thinking about getting off the pill and 384 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:38,520 Speaker 1: you want to track your cycle and you want to 385 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 1: learn about ovulation, oh my gosh, Like I didn't know 386 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 1: anything about periods until I got this ring. This ring 387 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 1: is partnered with This is not an ad, by the 388 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:51,239 Speaker 1: way at all, but I'm so passionate about it. So 389 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 1: this ring is partnered with the app Natural Cycles, which 390 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 1: you do have to pay for, but it's worth every frickin' Penny. 391 00:21:57,119 --> 00:22:01,679 Speaker 1: That app has taught me everything about peer about ovulation, 392 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:06,399 Speaker 1: about your follicular phase, about your louth, your stage, about 393 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 1: trying to conceive, about trying not to conceive, like it has. 394 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 2: Taught me everything. 395 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:15,639 Speaker 1: Or because of this little device that tracks your temperature, 396 00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 1: this thing it tracks your sleep, your stress. I mean 397 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:22,639 Speaker 1: it like we'll track things throughout the day and if 398 00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 1: you've had a highly stressful day, you can literally go 399 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:26,400 Speaker 1: back and see, oh what time, what was I doing 400 00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:29,400 Speaker 1: at one o'clock? Oh, I was in a meeting, That's. 401 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:30,400 Speaker 2: Why I was stressed. 402 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 1: Or like with your sleep, it'll tell you how much 403 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:37,560 Speaker 1: you wake up in the night, and like sometimes that 404 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 1: could be ten times and you don't even know, but 405 00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 1: you could literally just be awake and it somehow tracks 406 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:46,480 Speaker 1: that through I guess, like your heart right, your HRV, 407 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:48,400 Speaker 1: and like yourm and your book. 408 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 2: I'm not like a guru with that stuff. 409 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:53,520 Speaker 1: But I've learned a lot, and I've learned like how 410 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:57,440 Speaker 1: well I operate with how much sleep, which it's actually 411 00:22:57,800 --> 00:22:59,440 Speaker 1: I actually don't need a lot of sleep to have 412 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:03,360 Speaker 1: a very productive day, which is great. But I feel 413 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:07,639 Speaker 1: like when you have a baby, you know, obviously the 414 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:10,160 Speaker 1: lack of sleep is a very real thing and there's 415 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:15,080 Speaker 1: a whole lot of factors. Anyway, totally off topic, but no, 416 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:19,560 Speaker 1: it was not a surprise, but also kind of wasn't planned. 417 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 1: We weren't tracking, We didn't really put pressure on the situation. 418 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 1: We just said to ourselves, like, let's just stop being 419 00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 1: careful and look, I mean, i'd heard that on average 420 00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 1: in Australia, when you know you decide to conceive, on average, 421 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:40,120 Speaker 1: you can take up to two years. So in my mind, 422 00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, cool, Like, if we're still trying 423 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:45,159 Speaker 1: by the end of the year, then maybe we'll look 424 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 1: into why it's not happening. Because I was really just 425 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:51,280 Speaker 1: open to the fact of it could take a while. 426 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,120 Speaker 2: I considered that. I was like nearly thirty one. 427 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 1: I considered, you know, I didn't know what my fertility 428 00:23:56,840 --> 00:24:01,480 Speaker 1: was going to be like, and yeah, I guess we 429 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 1: just look, it happened a lot. 430 00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 2: Sooner than we thought. It really did. Like in my head, I. 431 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:09,160 Speaker 1: Was like, cool, I've got the whole year, So yeah, 432 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 1: it did happen a lot sooner than we planned that 433 00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:14,800 Speaker 1: we thought, and I'm very grateful for that, obviously, And 434 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:16,440 Speaker 1: I can't even believe there's going to be a little 435 00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:20,639 Speaker 1: baby this year, like this twenty twenty five, that's weird. 436 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:22,760 Speaker 1: In my head, I always thought it was going to 437 00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 1: be next year. Anyway, Pregnancy outfits, Okay, this. 438 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 2: Honestly, no one prepares. 439 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:33,359 Speaker 1: You for this. 440 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:34,520 Speaker 2: This sucks. 441 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:40,720 Speaker 1: This, that's this is the one thing that genuinely sucks. Like. 442 00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:44,240 Speaker 1: I was even having this conversation this morning at Como 443 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,359 Speaker 1: with George my hair dressaw a shout out, love you 444 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:51,760 Speaker 1: so much. I was literally saying this morning, like, babe, 445 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:52,680 Speaker 1: what do I wear? 446 00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 2: Like? Where do I look? 447 00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 1: Like? 448 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:56,679 Speaker 2: This is not a vibe. 449 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,280 Speaker 1: And Martha actually happened to be in there getting her 450 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:02,080 Speaker 1: head onto and I saw pants that she was wearing, 451 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:05,840 Speaker 1: and I'm like, fuck, they look like good maternity pants 452 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:09,160 Speaker 1: because her vibe is very oversized, and it's you know, 453 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:11,919 Speaker 1: we can all agree it's such a vibe. And I 454 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:14,040 Speaker 1: didn't get the opportunity to ask her where they're from, 455 00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:17,439 Speaker 1: but anyway, it led me to it led me to 456 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 1: Lem So I was actually looking on their website this 457 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:22,840 Speaker 1: morning at some of their pants to be like oversized, 458 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:25,920 Speaker 1: but pregnancy outfits. I just don't know if it's a 459 00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:29,840 Speaker 1: vibe for me. I'm such an active where girl. I 460 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,280 Speaker 1: don't really dress up. I'm not like a girly girl. 461 00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 2: I never have been. 462 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:36,160 Speaker 1: I'm very much like a streetwear kind of chick who 463 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 1: lives in dunks, not heels. And I don't know, I'm 464 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:46,439 Speaker 1: actually yet to discover. I have got a really solid 465 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 1: order from Bay the Label, which is a maternity brand. 466 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 1: I haven't actually tried on it all yet, but it 467 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 1: doesn't look like maternity clothes, and that's the vibe that 468 00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:58,880 Speaker 1: we're going for, right we want to still look cool, 469 00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:01,520 Speaker 1: like we don't really want to be wearing maternity maternity lows. 470 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 2: But this is designed for your belly to grow. 471 00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:05,480 Speaker 1: I know that they've got this like really famous pair 472 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 1: of jeans that you can literally buy the one pair 473 00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 1: and wear it throughout your entire pregnancy, so it literally 474 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:12,240 Speaker 1: grows with you. 475 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:14,760 Speaker 2: So I'll let you know. I will let you know 476 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:15,879 Speaker 2: what they like. 477 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,440 Speaker 1: But Bay the Label and also another brand called Ripe, 478 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 1: which I'm actually gonna go check out this weekend. I've 479 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 1: booked in my Saturday to go to Chatty because Chatty's 480 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 1: anxiety driving. I'm gonna go there on Saturday and spend 481 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:31,720 Speaker 1: some time in this so called Ripe. So I'll also 482 00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:34,679 Speaker 1: let you know how that goes. But otherwise, if I 483 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:37,439 Speaker 1: come across stuff, guys, I will plug it here, I 484 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 1: will mention it on Instagram, I'll share with you. I'm 485 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:42,399 Speaker 1: not going to gate keep anything because it's a hard 486 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:44,280 Speaker 1: This is a very hard situation. 487 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:45,639 Speaker 2: It really really is. 488 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:53,480 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, lah, Okay, No. Next question we've got 489 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:59,720 Speaker 1: is baby names. Okay, this is I might smile. You 490 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:01,280 Speaker 1: can't obviously seeing you right now, or maybe you can 491 00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,879 Speaker 1: if you're watching the video, but I'm like literally smiling 492 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:06,159 Speaker 1: itat ear because it's kind of funny. 493 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:09,760 Speaker 2: The baby name situation. Wow, what a journey. Okay. 494 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:13,480 Speaker 1: Guy hated every single name that I had on my list, 495 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:19,120 Speaker 1: every single name, like every single name. There was maybe 496 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:23,159 Speaker 1: twelve names on my list. Every single name. He was 497 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:28,080 Speaker 1: like definitely not no, No, our kid's gonna get bullied. 498 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:32,080 Speaker 1: Ella like no, and I'm like, babe, they're not gonna 499 00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:37,399 Speaker 1: get bleed. That's a beautiful name. Even with Guy's surname. Okay, 500 00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:43,719 Speaker 1: Guy's surname is Palermo. He's Italian, and obviously my surname 501 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,840 Speaker 1: is Ding. I have not taken his surname as of yet. 502 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:49,080 Speaker 1: The plan is to do it one day but look, 503 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,000 Speaker 1: for the meantime, there's a lot of admin behind it, 504 00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:54,159 Speaker 1: and I actually just don't know where to start. If 505 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:56,360 Speaker 1: there's someone that you can hire to do it for you, 506 00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 1: let me know, send me their details. Would love for 507 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:01,840 Speaker 1: them to help me. But look, for now, I'm ding 508 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,959 Speaker 1: and dad is Palermo, and the kid is gonna have 509 00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:08,400 Speaker 1: Palermo as the last name. But yeah, look, we did 510 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:10,719 Speaker 1: not agree on any of the original names. So I 511 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:14,840 Speaker 1: was like, okay, babe, how about you do a little list, 512 00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:17,480 Speaker 1: think about some names and come back to me and 513 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:19,760 Speaker 1: I will then review and we can discuss. 514 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:25,399 Speaker 2: So the list, I think there was one. Yeah, I 515 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:25,960 Speaker 2: think there was. 516 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:29,840 Speaker 1: One, and look I didn't love it. 517 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:31,520 Speaker 2: I didn't love it. 518 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:35,320 Speaker 1: And I was like, right, let me go back to 519 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:37,120 Speaker 1: the drawing board and let me. 520 00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:39,760 Speaker 2: Bring some names to you. 521 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:42,200 Speaker 1: I needed to tone it down, though, because like, my 522 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:47,600 Speaker 1: names were really creative, and like, I love uni sex names. 523 00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:48,600 Speaker 2: I love you. 524 00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:53,640 Speaker 1: I just I love them. I love boys names for girls. 525 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, I just I love that whole I 526 00:28:57,040 --> 00:29:00,280 Speaker 1: think it's a whole vibe. But yeah, guy didn't like 527 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,720 Speaker 1: the vibes. So anyway, we're back to the droning board 528 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:08,959 Speaker 1: and I came back with two names, two for each gender, 529 00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:15,120 Speaker 1: and I was like, do you like these names? And 530 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 1: he's like, oh, I actually love those names. I'm like, 531 00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:21,200 Speaker 1: oh my god, I cannot believe that two. I only 532 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 1: gave him two instead of twelve, and he liked both. 533 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, great. I think they're both 534 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:29,760 Speaker 1: beautiful and if it's you know, if it's a boy, 535 00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:33,240 Speaker 1: they're great. They're strong. I really like simple names. Hello, 536 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:35,320 Speaker 1: my name is Ella and my partners name is Guy. 537 00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 2: I think it doesn't get any more simple. 538 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 1: Than Ella and Guy. Like, we're really setting the tone 539 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:47,120 Speaker 1: for the fam. Short and simple. So I do love short, 540 00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:50,040 Speaker 1: easy names that you can maybe have a little cute nickname, 541 00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 1: whether it's a boy or girl. And I said to him, look, 542 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,040 Speaker 1: you can choose out of these two. You love them both, 543 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:58,600 Speaker 1: that's great. We agreed choose when the baby's born. Don't 544 00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,320 Speaker 1: make that decision now, because I've heard when the baby's 545 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:04,360 Speaker 1: born you can change your mind and it may look 546 00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 1: more like the other name. So anyway, no, he's decided already. 547 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 1: He's already chosen one. And if I'm being completely honest, 548 00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,560 Speaker 1: I did like the other one, but but they're both 549 00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:19,160 Speaker 1: my choices, so I have to be happy either way. 550 00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:24,560 Speaker 1: So he has chosen the name. I don't think he'll 551 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:26,760 Speaker 1: change his mind even when the baby's born. I think 552 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 1: that he's the kind of guy and well, I know 553 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:30,040 Speaker 1: that he's the kind of guy that's like, that's the name. 554 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:31,160 Speaker 2: We're sticking with it. 555 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,520 Speaker 1: It is what it is, and I love it. I 556 00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 1: do love it. And we are calling the baby by 557 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:40,000 Speaker 1: its name already, which is so weird, you know, when 558 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:41,560 Speaker 1: when he was saying, like. 559 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:43,160 Speaker 2: When we're in bed at night, and I don't shut 560 00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:43,560 Speaker 2: the fuck up. 561 00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,680 Speaker 1: I'm literally in bed talking about the baby's name, calling 562 00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 1: the baby by its name, saying babe, say night baby, 563 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:51,240 Speaker 1: Like I yeah, it's like I. 564 00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:53,760 Speaker 2: Get rushes of energy at night. I don't know. 565 00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 1: It's like a weird anyway, So we do have the 566 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:59,720 Speaker 1: baby name decided. Obviously we know the gender, so yeah, 567 00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:03,800 Speaker 1: we we really feel like we know this person already. 568 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:04,880 Speaker 2: It's so weird. 569 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:13,320 Speaker 1: Okay, next, Clenson, can you tell us some he wouldn't oh? Okay, okay, 570 00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 1: So can I share with you some names that he 571 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:15,240 Speaker 1: didn't like? 572 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 2: Okay? 573 00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 1: Fine, And I'm not going to gate keep these because 574 00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,720 Speaker 1: I actually love them. And if you want them, use 575 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:25,400 Speaker 1: them and let me know because I'll be like cheering 576 00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 1: you on. So I don't know why, But do you 577 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:38,640 Speaker 1: guys remember this show True Blood Vampire. It was like 578 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:43,160 Speaker 1: vampires and sex and love and like hot sex. Everyone 579 00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:46,360 Speaker 1: was hot, like everyone's rigs, but like out of control. 580 00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:49,959 Speaker 1: It was like soft porn, but vampires. And I loved 581 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:54,360 Speaker 1: True Blood and so did guy. There was one character 582 00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:57,040 Speaker 1: on that show, okay, and so I just feel like 583 00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,600 Speaker 1: it's cute and short. Right, it's a short name, it's strong, 584 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:05,200 Speaker 1: but full name would have been Lorenzo and h He's like, Ella, 585 00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:08,120 Speaker 1: our baby cannot be called Lorenzo Palermo. 586 00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:10,920 Speaker 2: And I'm like, babe's what do you mean? That's beautiful? 587 00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:12,160 Speaker 2: Of course it can be called that. 588 00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:16,880 Speaker 1: He's like, no fucking way, no way, Lorenzo Palermo, and 589 00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:20,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, Babe, it's beautiful anyway. So that was That 590 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:23,040 Speaker 1: was one of them. Actually, and I'll tell you another 591 00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:24,000 Speaker 1: one because I. 592 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,400 Speaker 2: Can never use this one. I can never use his. 593 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,520 Speaker 2: And I'll tell you the story where this name came from. 594 00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:31,640 Speaker 1: When I was a skin and laser tag, one of 595 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:37,239 Speaker 1: my favorite clients her little boy, and I had a 596 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 1: long list of boy names growing up. I always I 597 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:43,680 Speaker 1: don't know what it was, but whenever I would think 598 00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:49,440 Speaker 1: about a baby, it always was leaning toward boys. Anyway, 599 00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:54,960 Speaker 1: This name was an old client's boy's name, and I 600 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:55,720 Speaker 1: love it still. 601 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 2: You might hate it. 602 00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 1: Whatever the name was, Matise, I don't know. 603 00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:04,200 Speaker 2: I don't know. 604 00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,880 Speaker 1: I think it's beautiful. I think it's soft and it's gentle, 605 00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:11,120 Speaker 1: and I really like it. Matisse Palermo. 606 00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 2: I don't know. There also is a middle name, but 607 00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:16,160 Speaker 2: we're not going to share that. Just yeah, Matise, I 608 00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:17,320 Speaker 2: don't know. I really liked it. 609 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:19,960 Speaker 1: He hated it, and there was ten other ones that 610 00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:24,640 Speaker 1: he actually hated, like Actually, he hated the other name, Lisette. 611 00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:28,240 Speaker 1: I love Lisette. If you want to take it, have it. 612 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 1: I'll be very jealous of you and your child. If 613 00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:33,800 Speaker 1: you name it Lisette is going to be awesome. 614 00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,800 Speaker 2: God. I had another name on there, which was actually 615 00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:40,520 Speaker 2: a cat name. 616 00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:43,040 Speaker 1: I wanted to name one if we ever got another cat, 617 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:45,080 Speaker 1: but I actually think I prefer it for a person. 618 00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 1: CoA and Kai was actually one of my baby names, 619 00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:53,880 Speaker 1: which I ended up getting a cat first, and I 620 00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:56,120 Speaker 1: gave that baby name to my cat. 621 00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:57,400 Speaker 2: Kai. 622 00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:00,560 Speaker 1: Kai's a great name as Bolo for a baby boy 623 00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:03,840 Speaker 1: or girl uni sex but yeah, I mean my list 624 00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 1: was long, but no, he hated all them. But we've 625 00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:09,279 Speaker 1: got one. Now we're locked and loaded. Who else did 626 00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:13,400 Speaker 1: I tell about my pregnancy? Well, I mean, look, the 627 00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:15,760 Speaker 1: day I tested, I had to weed on the stick. 628 00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:21,799 Speaker 1: I literally was heading out the door moments later to 629 00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:23,960 Speaker 1: see a girlfriend to go for a walk. And this 630 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:26,239 Speaker 1: is one of my best girlfriends, and I could not 631 00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:28,920 Speaker 1: tell her. I literally was like, babe, I weed on 632 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,200 Speaker 1: a stick and I'm pregnant, I think. And then I 633 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:33,560 Speaker 1: was like, but I'm probably not, And I kid you not. 634 00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:36,640 Speaker 1: That's that's how I was telling my friends. I was like, 635 00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:41,040 Speaker 1: I'm pregnant, but I'm not, like I'm probably not. I 636 00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,840 Speaker 1: was just in such disbelief, like I just kept following 637 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:46,440 Speaker 1: the line of like, yeah, I'm pregnant, but it's probably 638 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:48,479 Speaker 1: not real, Like I'm I have to do the blood test, 639 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,440 Speaker 1: you know, like that'll confirm it. Even when I tell 640 00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:55,840 Speaker 1: my parents, I'm like, yeah, I think I'm pregnant, but 641 00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:58,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. And then when I did the bloods 642 00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:02,120 Speaker 1: and my doctor called me, she's like, yeah, Ellie, you're pregnant. 643 00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:05,040 Speaker 1: Your progesterone is one hundred percent. I was like, wow, 644 00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:08,520 Speaker 1: that seems like really high. Can't get much higher than that, 645 00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:11,640 Speaker 1: and she was literally like, yeah, it's actually very high. 646 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,239 Speaker 1: And then I had this whole theory I was having 647 00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:17,400 Speaker 1: twins because every psychic I ever saw was telling me 648 00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:20,960 Speaker 1: I was having twins. Kid you, not every single psychic. 649 00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:25,200 Speaker 1: Even recently. I was on a podcast with a medium 650 00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:27,279 Speaker 1: which I'm pretty sure it comes out this week with 651 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:31,600 Speaker 1: David the medium, and he said twins and I was like, 652 00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:35,360 Speaker 1: you know, what fucking hell, everybody's saying twins. And because 653 00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:38,080 Speaker 1: I popped so soon, I was convinced I was having twins. 654 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:40,480 Speaker 1: When we went to the C THEB, I was literally 655 00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,520 Speaker 1: waiting for him to say, Yep, there's two in there. 656 00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:45,440 Speaker 2: I still to this day thing that there's two in there, 657 00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:45,960 Speaker 2: but there's not. 658 00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,279 Speaker 1: I who know, I just feel like there's two because 659 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,680 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm growing really quickly. But yeah, I 660 00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:55,520 Speaker 1: was told that I was having twins. And then recently 661 00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:59,759 Speaker 1: when I did that medium interview, you know, apparently the 662 00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,399 Speaker 1: next pregnancy could be twins, or it means they could 663 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:08,600 Speaker 1: be really close together. Who knows, So twins always kept 664 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:11,680 Speaker 1: coming up. But anyway, Yeah, I did tell my girlfriends 665 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:16,120 Speaker 1: because I think as well, like there's that thing. And look, 666 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:19,480 Speaker 1: some of my girlfriends did this as well, where they 667 00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:21,839 Speaker 1: didn't tell anyone until the first time. I still was over, 668 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:24,680 Speaker 1: but I wanted to tell my girlfriends because if something 669 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:26,480 Speaker 1: did happen, I would want them to be there for 670 00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:28,120 Speaker 1: me as well, and I would want them to know. 671 00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:31,120 Speaker 1: So it was really just like my close girls, my circle, 672 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:35,320 Speaker 1: and my parents, his parents, and our siblings. Next question, 673 00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:37,600 Speaker 1: what are you missing the most in pregnancy? Okay, I'm 674 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:40,799 Speaker 1: missing my running. That's the first thing that comes to mind. 675 00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:44,040 Speaker 1: I miss running really long distances, I miss being out 676 00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:46,640 Speaker 1: there for hours, like I said before, And. 677 00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:47,640 Speaker 2: I missed my clothes. 678 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,719 Speaker 1: I will say, yeah, I miss my favorite items like 679 00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:55,480 Speaker 1: my Johnny jeans, you know, just setting clothes, even sports 680 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:57,560 Speaker 1: bras an active wear that I don't feel so sexy 681 00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:01,160 Speaker 1: and now. So yeah, running I missed. I miss like 682 00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:05,279 Speaker 1: that whole more like active side of my life. But 683 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:08,200 Speaker 1: apart from that, honestly, I don't feel like anything's really changed. 684 00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:12,800 Speaker 1: And last question, what is the weirdest part of pregnancy 685 00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,359 Speaker 1: for you? Okay, the weirdest part I think is the 686 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:20,520 Speaker 1: getting bigger part. Yeah, I mean it's so like I said, 687 00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:23,440 Speaker 1: it's it's a beautiful journey. It's a really beautiful experience. 688 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:25,960 Speaker 1: And like I do catch myself just rubbing my belly 689 00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:28,440 Speaker 1: all the time and like talking to the baby. But 690 00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:32,400 Speaker 1: it's definitely weird. It's a weird transition, Like you're also 691 00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:35,919 Speaker 1: entering this whole new identity of like being a mum 692 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 1: and being someone's mum, and like within the next you know, 693 00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,600 Speaker 1: eighteen months to two years, like this thing is going 694 00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:46,759 Speaker 1: to be saying mama. Like that's weird, Like it's I 695 00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,760 Speaker 1: don't feel that age, Like I still feel young. 696 00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:51,000 Speaker 2: I still I. 697 00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:52,839 Speaker 1: Mean, I am young, but like I feel, you know, 698 00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:55,200 Speaker 1: it's just a weird thing. It's a weird thing, like 699 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:58,920 Speaker 1: becoming a mother when you still feel like there's a 700 00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:03,239 Speaker 1: big part of you for life out And yeah, I 701 00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:07,320 Speaker 1: think just like watching your body change and becoming a 702 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:10,040 Speaker 1: mum and it's almost like you do lose a part 703 00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:12,280 Speaker 1: of your identity, but you gain a whole new identity 704 00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:16,320 Speaker 1: and it's also really exciting. So it's gary but exciting 705 00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:20,080 Speaker 1: at the same time. Wow, Well, I feel like we 706 00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:24,200 Speaker 1: got through heaps of amazing questions and I actually thoroughly 707 00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:29,000 Speaker 1: loved going through the answers. With you guys, And you know, 708 00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:32,160 Speaker 1: I am an open book and I do love sharing, 709 00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:35,080 Speaker 1: and I think that having a platform like this where 710 00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:39,200 Speaker 1: I can genuinely just be so real and share everything 711 00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:43,120 Speaker 1: like it just makes you and I not so different, 712 00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,080 Speaker 1: because we really aren't at the end of the day. 713 00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:51,960 Speaker 1: You know, we are literally just individuals navigating life, figuring 714 00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:55,959 Speaker 1: shit out, going through all the same things. But I'm 715 00:38:56,080 --> 00:39:00,839 Speaker 1: just maybe talking about it on a very public platform. 716 00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:04,200 Speaker 1: But guys, honestly, thank you so much for all of 717 00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:08,440 Speaker 1: the beautiful love and support that I'm seeing online, all 718 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:13,000 Speaker 1: the comments, all the beautiful dms. Like I was getting 719 00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:18,759 Speaker 1: like really long messages from some loyal followers, and it 720 00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:21,480 Speaker 1: genuinely brought tears to my eyes some of those messages, 721 00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:24,080 Speaker 1: like you gotta be like these nice messages to a 722 00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:28,960 Speaker 1: pregnant lady, Like yeah, it's just water works so easily, 723 00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:32,239 Speaker 1: but yeah, wow. Thank you so much for tuning in 724 00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:34,960 Speaker 1: to this bonus episode. I really hope that you guys 725 00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,680 Speaker 1: enjoyed it as well, and I hope that you feel 726 00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:40,520 Speaker 1: like you know more about my pregnancy, because this is 727 00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:42,400 Speaker 1: probably going to be the only platform that I actually 728 00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:45,120 Speaker 1: share what's going on in the pregnancy, not so much 729 00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:47,920 Speaker 1: on the instagrams and the tick docs. But I'm just 730 00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:52,000 Speaker 1: so excited to bring you guys on this wild era 731 00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:57,400 Speaker 1: of becoming a mum and just sharing yet everything that 732 00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:01,319 Speaker 1: goes on during this next phase of life. So thank 733 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,239 Speaker 1: you so much for tuning in. Guys, you know what 734 00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:10,040 Speaker 1: to do. Don't forget to rate review, you know, find 735 00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:13,319 Speaker 1: me on Insta. It's just elimating, and then you can 736 00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:17,240 Speaker 1: find everything else in my bio, in my little link tree, 737 00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:21,759 Speaker 1: and you know, share this episode as well. If you 738 00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:25,200 Speaker 1: have a girlfriend that's pregnant, you know, who wants to 739 00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,880 Speaker 1: feel like she's not alone going through it, or just 740 00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:30,160 Speaker 1: wants to hear I don't know what I'm going through, 741 00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:34,200 Speaker 1: Share the episode to someone, pass it around, let me 742 00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:36,240 Speaker 1: know if you're listening as well. Tag me on Instagram 743 00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,440 Speaker 1: because I'd love to see who my listeners are. And 744 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 1: I can't wait to grow this community and I just 745 00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:46,760 Speaker 1: can't wait to oh bring you guys on the next 746 00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:50,520 Speaker 1: the next journey as well as platform. So I'll see 747 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:53,759 Speaker 1: you guys, same day, same time next week. 748 00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:55,760 Speaker 2: Love you and have an amazing week. 749 00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:56,200 Speaker 1: Hi,