WEBVTT - A revealing conversation about our sex lives 0:00:02.480 --> 0:00:03.530 Listener. 0:00:03.560 --> 0:00:07.159 Keepod acknowledges the traditional owners and custodians of the land 0:00:07.160 --> 0:00:10.490 in which we're recording this podcast. The Ulucay Wulan clan 0:00:10.520 --> 0:00:13.220 of the Bunurong, who are part of the Kulin nation. 0:00:13.220 --> 0:00:16.400 We pay our respects to our elders, past and present, 0:00:16.400 --> 0:00:19.400 and extend our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander 0:00:19.400 --> 0:00:20.450 peoples today. 0:00:21.650 --> 0:00:23.419 Welcome to the Kick Pod, a. 0:00:23.420 --> 0:00:25.730 Dam with your besties on the stuff that matters. 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:26.540 One. Two. Three. 0:00:34.100 --> 0:00:34.880 One. Two. Three. 0:00:35.870 --> 0:00:40.400 Hello, hello. Oh, Steffi, you poor thing with your voice. Yeah. 0:00:40.400 --> 0:00:42.949 It's like it's it's slowly hanging on in there. 0:00:42.950 --> 0:00:44.629 Guys, I have had a throat. 0:00:44.630 --> 0:00:48.920 Infection and it's inflamed my entire throat. I'm actually on 0:00:48.920 --> 0:00:53.600 Laura's puffer. We're on matching asthma medication, so I take 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:57.620 a preventer four times a day. Have basically my entire life. 0:00:57.620 --> 0:01:00.880 And Steph is now on the exact same preventer, even 0:01:00.880 --> 0:01:03.340 the same dosage. Yeah, it's really weird. Like. 0:01:03.640 --> 0:01:07.270 My doctor asked me, like two times because I, I 0:01:07.270 --> 0:01:09.250 don't have, like a doctor that I see every time 0:01:09.250 --> 0:01:11.649 I'm trying to work through that, because I really miss 0:01:11.650 --> 0:01:13.179 that feeling. When I was growing up, I had one 0:01:13.180 --> 0:01:14.950 doctor and I saw her every time there was anything 0:01:14.950 --> 0:01:16.600 wrong with me for like 18 years. 0:01:16.630 --> 0:01:18.850 Do you know what I love about this, Stephanie? We 0:01:18.850 --> 0:01:21.670 have been talking about you getting a family doctor for 0:01:21.670 --> 0:01:23.770 five years. I know, I know, I. 0:01:23.770 --> 0:01:24.490 Have lived in the. 0:01:24.490 --> 0:01:27.370 Area now for like five out of Balwyn, uh, 12 0:01:27.370 --> 0:01:28.899 years ago. I know it's so. 0:01:28.900 --> 0:01:31.900 Insane, but I, like I go to the same place now. 0:01:31.930 --> 0:01:34.930 I've at least, like, picked my place, funnily enough, not 0:01:34.930 --> 0:01:37.570 in my suburb. Like stupid. It's still like 20 minutes away. 0:01:37.569 --> 0:01:40.390 But anyway, that's where I've been going. It's where, like, 0:01:40.420 --> 0:01:42.550 Josh and Harvey, they have all the info because, you know, 0:01:42.550 --> 0:01:44.830 you have to, like, go through the first appointment again. 0:01:44.830 --> 0:01:46.690 It's always more expensive and like more info and blah 0:01:46.690 --> 0:01:48.850 blah blah. So we've just kept going back to the 0:01:48.850 --> 0:01:51.250 same place. But I haven't necessarily had the same doctor 0:01:51.250 --> 0:01:53.830 every time. But the one I had, she asked me 0:01:53.860 --> 0:01:55.840 like 2 or 3 times in the appointment if I 0:01:55.840 --> 0:01:57.700 have my asthma, if I'm sure I don't have asthma 0:01:57.730 --> 0:02:00.930 because of how inflamed my throat was. And I was like, no, 0:02:00.960 --> 0:02:03.510 like I, I very highly doubt I've gone through my 0:02:03.510 --> 0:02:05.370 whole life and everything. And she was like, okay, well, 0:02:05.370 --> 0:02:07.080 it might just be, you know, because you've got a 0:02:07.080 --> 0:02:09.660 really infected throat. But she said, there's nothing I can 0:02:09.660 --> 0:02:13.080 give you for the infection because it's passing, but like, 0:02:13.110 --> 0:02:16.500 you need to be able to breathe. So here's a puffer. Um, 0:02:16.500 --> 0:02:18.750 and I have to take it every single morning and 0:02:18.750 --> 0:02:20.880 night and preferably in the middle of the day. And 0:02:20.880 --> 0:02:23.490 then any time, like if I've done exercise or I've 0:02:23.490 --> 0:02:24.720 got at the top of the stairs and I'm struggling 0:02:24.750 --> 0:02:27.330 to breathe, like basically any time throughout the day that 0:02:27.330 --> 0:02:29.940 I need it as well. Um, which was great timing, 0:02:29.940 --> 0:02:32.220 and I'm glad I went to the doctors because we've 0:02:32.220 --> 0:02:36.359 just finished a week filming new kick workouts, which luckily 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:38.130 for me, and I'm not going to go into what 0:02:38.130 --> 0:02:40.380 they were, but luckily for me, a lot of mine 0:02:40.380 --> 0:02:44.280 were quite gentle because if it was like hit or something, which, okay, 0:02:44.310 --> 0:02:47.250 I've given you a clue, it's not hit. I probably 0:02:47.250 --> 0:02:49.320 wouldn't have been able to do it. Like any time 0:02:49.320 --> 0:02:51.780 my heart rate went up this week, I was really 0:02:51.780 --> 0:02:54.840 struggling to breathe. So that's why my voice sounds the 0:02:54.840 --> 0:02:58.359 way it does. Um, apologies. It's not even like a sexy. 0:02:58.389 --> 0:03:00.489 You know, it sounds sexy. You sound unwell. 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:03.549 Yeah, but I feel fine. Like I feel totally fine. 0:03:03.850 --> 0:03:07.000 It's just been a grim week for you. Yeah. Anyway, 0:03:07.240 --> 0:03:10.210 it has. But I'm really grateful to be an asthma 0:03:10.210 --> 0:03:13.090 twin with you. Shout out to any clad lungs that 0:03:13.090 --> 0:03:19.570 also have asthma. Thank you. That's what it's called. Well. 0:03:20.290 --> 0:03:24.250 Oh my goodness me. Okay. Well on that note. Yeah 0:03:24.370 --> 0:03:28.810 on that, on that note about asthma. We have got. 0:03:28.900 --> 0:03:29.290 Quite the gear. 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:33.250 Change. Quite the gear change. Because our sax collection, as 0:03:33.250 --> 0:03:35.950 you would know, is live. And the feedback has just 0:03:35.950 --> 0:03:39.160 been surreal. It's just been incredible to see how many 0:03:39.160 --> 0:03:41.980 of you are loving the collection. And we are just 0:03:41.980 --> 0:03:44.710 so grateful for all of your support. And seriously, every 0:03:44.740 --> 0:03:47.530 time we launch something into the world, there's always this 0:03:47.530 --> 0:03:50.410 feeling like I have the night before of like, is 0:03:50.410 --> 0:03:54.100 this gonna like. Will people like it? Like, I don't know, 0:03:54.130 --> 0:03:57.260 I feel like you would think that because we, you know, 0:03:57.290 --> 0:03:59.630 the first collection sold out in 30 minutes. You think 0:03:59.630 --> 0:04:01.850 we'd go into this one? Obviously we have confidence, but 0:04:01.850 --> 0:04:03.560 it's just like it's always something in the back of 0:04:03.560 --> 0:04:07.190 your head of like, oh my goodness, will people like it? Like, 0:04:07.220 --> 0:04:09.800 you never know. And you guys have and we're just 0:04:09.800 --> 0:04:11.270 we're so grateful. 0:04:11.270 --> 0:04:14.000 When we wanted to do it again, we wanted to 0:04:14.030 --> 0:04:16.580 make sure that we took everything that we know you 0:04:16.580 --> 0:04:19.580 loved about the first collection, and then just find more 0:04:19.610 --> 0:04:22.490 things that we thought you would love. Um, and so 0:04:22.490 --> 0:04:25.310 in this collection, there is some of the favorite pieces 0:04:25.310 --> 0:04:28.489 from the last one. Um, but we've also got some 0:04:28.490 --> 0:04:30.440 brand new pieces, and these are pieces that stacks have 0:04:30.440 --> 0:04:32.300 never designed before. So it was really fun to go 0:04:32.300 --> 0:04:35.750 through the whole process with Dawn, um, and actually be 0:04:35.750 --> 0:04:37.670 a part of that design and get the samples and 0:04:37.670 --> 0:04:42.140 everything and get it perfect. Um, and so we're really excited. 0:04:42.170 --> 0:04:46.880 It's also in their iconic premium seamless fabric, which is 0:04:46.880 --> 0:04:51.830 so comfortable and so functional. I personally love training in it. 0:04:51.860 --> 0:04:54.310 It's probably if you watch any of my like, workout 0:04:54.310 --> 0:04:57.729 content 80% of the time I'm in the premium seamless gear, 0:04:57.730 --> 0:05:00.490 so we wanted to mix it up because the last 0:05:00.490 --> 0:05:03.700 collection was in their Nan Dex material. And what we 0:05:03.700 --> 0:05:06.339 love about stacks is their dedication to inclusivity. So every 0:05:06.339 --> 0:05:09.310 piece that we've got is available from Size Extra, Extra 0:05:09.339 --> 0:05:13.510 Small to four XL. And we are so excited for 0:05:13.510 --> 0:05:15.310 your deliveries to arrive because we just want to see 0:05:15.310 --> 0:05:18.250 you guys in it. So please, if you feel comfortable, 0:05:18.250 --> 0:05:21.010 we'd love to see your post-workout selfies. Or maybe when 0:05:21.010 --> 0:05:23.049 you just get the delivery, pop it on, make sure 0:05:23.050 --> 0:05:24.880 you tag us so we see it. Share them in 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:27.549 our Facebook community if you want. We're just yeah, so 0:05:27.550 --> 0:05:29.560 keen to have them in your hands. 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:31.930 And if you want to get your hands on the collection, 0:05:31.930 --> 0:05:35.050 you can shop it now on the stacks website. We 0:05:35.050 --> 0:05:39.040 will put the link in the show notes. So the 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:42.640 other week I was at the airport on a Sunday 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:47.380 and the Good Weekend magazine was there and I was like, well, 0:05:47.410 --> 0:05:49.930 I will have a read of this. So I flicked 0:05:49.930 --> 0:05:54.950 through and one article in particular got my attention and 0:05:54.950 --> 0:05:56.450 I read it and I loved it, and it was 0:05:56.450 --> 0:06:00.380 very well written was by Nikki Gemmell and it was 0:06:00.380 --> 0:06:05.270 called a fitting climax. Gen Z are cottoning on to 0:06:05.300 --> 0:06:10.760 this unequal dynamic. Now it got me thinking about the 0:06:10.760 --> 0:06:13.220 orgasm gap, because that was essentially what it was about. 0:06:13.220 --> 0:06:16.250 And what I loved about this article was it spoke 0:06:16.250 --> 0:06:19.430 about how Gen Z are actually reportedly like from all 0:06:19.430 --> 0:06:23.360 the surveys that have been done and research having less 0:06:23.360 --> 0:06:28.849 sex and a reason for that. One of the reasons 0:06:28.850 --> 0:06:32.000 is because the orgasm gap is still very much exists. 0:06:32.029 --> 0:06:34.430 Like when I say the orgasm gap for everyone listening 0:06:34.430 --> 0:06:38.330 that maybe hasn't heard of it before. When women and 0:06:38.330 --> 0:06:42.440 men have sex, men have way more orgasms than women. 0:06:42.440 --> 0:06:44.390 So on average, on average. 0:06:44.390 --> 0:06:47.060 Exactly right. So it was there was a study from 0:06:47.060 --> 0:06:50.360 in the US journal Sexual Medicine called The Lifelong Orgasm 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:54.370 Gap exploring age's impact on orgasm rates was an eight 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:56.710 year study. So it's actually quite a long study with 0:06:56.710 --> 0:07:00.460 25,000 Americans. Now, it wasn't American Studies only article. They 0:07:00.460 --> 0:07:03.460 were like our Australians the same. Likely they are between 0:07:03.490 --> 0:07:07.480 18 to 100 years old. Go off to those over 0:07:07.510 --> 0:07:11.620 honestly 80 still going at it. Amazing. The study found 0:07:11.620 --> 0:07:16.540 that men orgasm 75 to 80% during heterosexual intercourse, and 0:07:16.540 --> 0:07:23.050 women orgasmed 46 to 58% during heterosexual intercourse, and women 0:07:23.050 --> 0:07:27.310 would orgasm much more, or they do in same sex relationships. 0:07:27.910 --> 0:07:32.860 So the gap there is rather large. That's like almost 30%, 0:07:33.490 --> 0:07:37.420 a little bit more. So depending. That's crazy right? And 0:07:37.420 --> 0:07:40.750 what this article was talking about was how Gen Z. 0:07:40.780 --> 0:07:43.510 Maybe they've cottoned onto it and they would prefer to 0:07:43.540 --> 0:07:45.970 just not have it, not to have sex and to 0:07:46.000 --> 0:07:49.870 self-pleasure instead. And I'm like, fucking sorry to swear. Sorry. 0:07:49.870 --> 0:07:52.920 I should have warned before, but go off like. Seriously. 0:07:52.920 --> 0:07:55.679 I just feel like we don't need to live in 0:07:55.680 --> 0:07:58.200 a world anymore. Where as women we have shit sex 0:07:58.350 --> 0:08:00.630 like we don't. And for a one night stand, like, 0:08:00.660 --> 0:08:02.730 it's just. We just don't need to because we're so 0:08:02.730 --> 0:08:05.820 much more empowered. There's so many more options for us 0:08:05.820 --> 0:08:06.510 than before. 0:08:06.510 --> 0:08:08.280 I agree, I think there's just a lot more information 0:08:08.280 --> 0:08:10.560 about it too. Like I think even like in movies 0:08:10.560 --> 0:08:13.500 and TV shows and stuff like that, things like consent 0:08:13.500 --> 0:08:16.530 or talking about what you like during sex, like all 0:08:16.530 --> 0:08:19.320 of that is so much more apparent in movies now. 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:21.690 Whereas like the movies we grew up watching, they would 0:08:21.690 --> 0:08:25.410 just like bang together. They'd both climax at the same time. 0:08:25.530 --> 0:08:28.140 It's so true. How fucking often does that happen? Exactly? 0:08:28.140 --> 0:08:31.740 So like, it's just we had this unrealistic expectation of sex. 0:08:31.740 --> 0:08:34.020 And I remember with past relationships I would fake an 0:08:34.020 --> 0:08:36.390 orgasm because I was like, well, it hasn't happened yet, 0:08:36.390 --> 0:08:39.660 but I know it probably should have, so blah. Well, I. 0:08:39.660 --> 0:08:42.750 Know it's not going to and my clitoris is numb 0:08:42.750 --> 0:08:45.720 and I am done here. 0:08:45.750 --> 0:08:49.870 So like it's really I do remember what that like 0:08:49.900 --> 0:08:52.569 felt like to just either like, not be interested in 0:08:52.570 --> 0:08:54.790 it or just like, feel like I faked it because 0:08:54.790 --> 0:08:57.220 there was something wrong with me, because I didn't know 0:08:57.220 --> 0:09:00.970 how like it should feel or whatever. Um, very, very, 0:09:00.970 --> 0:09:03.340 very grateful that I'm now in a loving relationship where 0:09:03.340 --> 0:09:06.730 he makes it a top priority that I have that 0:09:06.730 --> 0:09:09.160 at the very least, like, it's like he puts my 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:13.120 my needs or wants before his, which is amazing. Um, 0:09:13.120 --> 0:09:14.890 but that's how it should be, right? If you're not, 0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:17.140 if you're not enjoying it, you should feel comfortable with 0:09:17.140 --> 0:09:19.420 the person that you're having sex with to speak about 0:09:19.420 --> 0:09:21.309 it and to like, direct them or whatever. And I 0:09:21.309 --> 0:09:23.440 feel like Gen Zs, and it's not even just in sex. 0:09:23.440 --> 0:09:27.070 It's in so many different corners of life now. They 0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:30.130 are empowered to do things like that because they know 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:31.690 they know more than we did. 0:09:31.720 --> 0:09:32.530 They do. And I'm. 0:09:32.530 --> 0:09:33.189 So happy. 0:09:33.220 --> 0:09:35.829 I agree. I'm like, go off seriously. And the other 0:09:35.830 --> 0:09:37.720 thing as well was in this article is and we 0:09:37.720 --> 0:09:39.820 already know this, we know it's much harder for but again, 0:09:39.850 --> 0:09:44.740 you just said in movies people have an orgasm in sex, right? Women. 0:09:44.950 --> 0:09:45.939 That's so hard. 0:09:45.940 --> 0:09:51.709 Only so 80% of women cannot orgasm with just penetration 0:09:52.280 --> 0:09:56.660 in a heterosexual relationship or sexual experience. So I think 0:09:56.660 --> 0:09:59.600 that's super important to remember as well, because again, people 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:01.700 think I do think women can often think like you 0:10:01.700 --> 0:10:03.709 just said, Steffi, there's something wrong with us. If we 0:10:03.710 --> 0:10:06.620 can't orgasm during penetration, it doesn't mean that we don't 0:10:06.650 --> 0:10:10.610 enjoy sex, but it is actually really difficult to do so. 0:10:10.670 --> 0:10:14.720 Now the other thing, there's a lot of sexy news. 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:17.120 The other thing that came out on the weekend is 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:21.440 the Body and Soul 2024 Sex Census, which is amazing. 0:10:21.440 --> 0:10:23.209 They have done Body and Soul Team. They've done so 0:10:23.210 --> 0:10:26.569 much work on this. It was a nationwide survey of 0:10:26.600 --> 0:10:31.219 2000 people aged 18 to 75. So nationwide in Australia, 0:10:31.250 --> 0:10:35.780 all sexualities, metro and regional areas. And okay, so how 0:10:35.780 --> 0:10:38.449 long do you think on average does sex last? 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:41.750 What is it like you've started having intercourse and like how? Yeah. 0:10:41.780 --> 0:10:46.210 On average, yeah seven minutes. 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:49.809 Oh, I actually would have said that too, but at 16.5. Wait, what? 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:54.610 I know people. What the fuck? Did people tell the truth? Jesus. 0:10:54.940 --> 0:10:56.949 I mean, maybe. Well, you know, that's not always a 0:10:56.950 --> 0:11:00.190 good thing. Maybe it's just. Maybe they're having sex with 0:11:00.190 --> 0:11:01.960 someone for the first time, and it's just not working out. 0:11:01.990 --> 0:11:04.210 It's taken a long time to get there. Or they're 0:11:04.210 --> 0:11:07.209 really enjoying it. And they're going for multiple orgasms, which again, 0:11:07.240 --> 0:11:08.800 go off. Off. Exactly. 0:11:08.830 --> 0:11:13.060 Love. Okay. 16% of women have an orgasm. Oh, here 0:11:13.059 --> 0:11:15.700 you go. This is around having sex in Australia. 16% 0:11:15.700 --> 0:11:18.370 of women have an orgasm every time they have sex, 0:11:18.370 --> 0:11:24.190 compared to 44% of men. Again, a gap. 93% of 0:11:24.190 --> 0:11:28.510 people most regularly have sex in bed. Thank you. Oh, fuck. 0:11:28.660 --> 0:11:31.630 Thank you. I love this too, because I feel like 0:11:31.660 --> 0:11:35.260 sometimes you feel pressure to again from the movies. Movies 0:11:35.260 --> 0:11:38.140 have just ruined our idea of what sex is. But 0:11:38.140 --> 0:11:41.200 on the I would honestly, having sex on the kitchen 0:11:41.200 --> 0:11:44.760 bench is not of interest to me. A hard Surface. 0:11:44.940 --> 0:11:49.650 That's cold. Yeah. No. And has pointy edges. Just not 0:11:49.679 --> 0:11:51.360 when you have a comfortable bed. 0:11:51.390 --> 0:11:55.319 Yeah. Also, just like the height never works out. True. Like, 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:57.959 who the fuck is that tall? Who? What male is 0:11:57.960 --> 0:12:00.780 that tall? That they can penetrate someone on top of 0:12:00.780 --> 0:12:03.060 a kitchen bench? I feel like that's, like, quite so true. 0:12:03.059 --> 0:12:07.320 But what? Yeah, exactly. Exactly. And what about what's the movie? 0:12:07.320 --> 0:12:09.600 There's a movie with Channing Tatum. Mhm. 0:12:10.290 --> 0:12:10.890 Magic Mike. 0:12:10.920 --> 0:12:14.130 Magic. Magic. The last magic Mike. Yes it is. And 0:12:14.130 --> 0:12:16.980 he is someone that in movies. But that's magic Mike. 0:12:17.010 --> 0:12:20.550 I know. Gives the perception that sex can be had 0:12:20.550 --> 0:12:22.170 in every single location. 0:12:22.170 --> 0:12:24.179 And I think with the magic Mike person. 0:12:24.690 --> 0:12:28.559 It probably is because it's just different. 0:12:28.590 --> 0:12:31.620 But that's not that's not your average sex. 0:12:31.710 --> 0:12:37.069 The reality. Okay. True true true. Okay. Uh, 1 in 0:12:37.070 --> 0:12:40.050 4 people have had sex with someone within six hours 0:12:40.050 --> 0:12:41.040 of meeting them. 0:12:41.190 --> 0:12:43.020 Oh, yeah, that makes sense. Like a one night stand? 0:12:43.030 --> 0:12:46.809 Yeah. Majority of women say. Or what do you think 0:12:46.840 --> 0:12:51.160 majority of women say is their favorite position versus men? 0:12:51.520 --> 0:12:57.100 I reckon most women say mhm. Actually I was going 0:12:57.100 --> 0:12:59.980 to say missionary, but I reckon maybe being on top missionary. 0:13:00.010 --> 0:13:00.309 Really. 0:13:00.309 --> 0:13:00.819 Okay. 0:13:00.850 --> 0:13:03.520 Is that say missionary when you're on the bottom. Oh 0:13:03.550 --> 0:13:06.550 my favorite. Yeah. Because you do less low effort but 0:13:06.550 --> 0:13:07.180 see like my. 0:13:07.179 --> 0:13:08.710 Favorite is actually being on top. 0:13:08.920 --> 0:13:09.699 Because. 0:13:10.270 --> 0:13:14.140 That way I actually can. That's the only position where 0:13:14.140 --> 0:13:16.270 I know how I can climax. 0:13:16.300 --> 0:13:17.380 Oh, there you go. Yeah. 0:13:17.559 --> 0:13:19.270 No other position works for me. 0:13:19.300 --> 0:13:19.900 Okay. 0:13:19.929 --> 0:13:21.520 So that's why I like being on the top. Because 0:13:21.520 --> 0:13:24.489 I'm in control. Um. And then men, I think. 0:13:24.820 --> 0:13:27.790 Doggy. Yeah, 100%. Why do you think that? 0:13:28.179 --> 0:13:31.150 I don't know, because they're like, feel like they're powerful. 0:13:31.179 --> 0:13:32.380 I don't know what it is. 0:13:32.500 --> 0:13:32.920 Mhm. 0:13:32.950 --> 0:13:33.610 Why, what is it. 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:35.170 I think that no I don't know. I thought I 0:13:35.170 --> 0:13:37.480 would have like a. Why is that. 0:13:38.290 --> 0:13:39.670 Why is that option. 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:43.650 More than 30. Oh my God! Steffi! This is such 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:47.610 a slave for you and also me. 39% of people 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:52.380 schedule it in. I love that, I feel like. Exactly. 0:13:52.380 --> 0:13:54.930 And it is okay. And it doesn't make it unsexy. 0:13:54.929 --> 0:13:56.730 And if you are scheduling in your sex, so is 0:13:56.730 --> 0:14:01.200 almost half of the population of people having sex. 10% 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:04.230 of people aged 18 to 27 have never had sex. 0:14:04.230 --> 0:14:06.150 I love that too, because obviously if you haven't found 0:14:06.150 --> 0:14:12.239 someone you want to have sex with, it's fine. Yeah, exactly. 77. 0:14:12.720 --> 0:14:15.959 Oh my goodness. Okay. How many people? Percentage of people. 0:14:15.960 --> 0:14:19.260 I've already said it. Seven. Yeah. Okay. Admitted to cheating 0:14:19.260 --> 0:14:20.190 with their boss. 0:14:20.220 --> 0:14:21.390 7% of people? 0:14:21.510 --> 0:14:24.270 Quite a lot. Wow. That is actually quite a lot. 0:14:24.840 --> 0:14:27.630 That is a lot more than I thought. Okay. Okay. 0:14:27.660 --> 0:14:33.630 Moving right on. 3% fantasize about their barista. Oh, that's. 0:14:33.660 --> 0:14:37.200 They are always very charming, though, I feel. No, as in, like, my. 0:14:37.200 --> 0:14:39.960 Baristas a lady. And. Yeah, it's not for me. 0:14:39.960 --> 0:14:42.370 That character is, like, very like charming. Like how many? 0:14:42.400 --> 0:14:45.040 I've not my local ones, but I've. 0:14:45.070 --> 0:14:46.600 Gone to cafes, just to be. 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:50.290 Clear. But I've gone to cafes before, like, oh, I'm 0:14:50.290 --> 0:14:52.120 driving by and I need to get a coffee before 0:14:52.120 --> 0:14:55.090 something or whatever, and I'll pull in and they're very 0:14:55.090 --> 0:14:56.800 chatty and very charismatic. 0:14:56.830 --> 0:14:59.680 I've actually never felt anything. I mean, I love baristas, 0:14:59.680 --> 0:15:02.170 I think they're gorgeous and I love I feel joy 0:15:02.410 --> 0:15:05.230 from them, but I've never felt sexual attraction. 0:15:05.260 --> 0:15:07.240 No, I'm not saying that. I'm not saying that I have. 0:15:07.270 --> 0:15:07.540 What I'm. 0:15:07.540 --> 0:15:10.360 Saying is. But fantasy. Have you fantasized about them? No, no. 0:15:10.360 --> 0:15:11.650 But you know why people have. 0:15:11.680 --> 0:15:13.360 I know why people have. Because they can be very 0:15:13.390 --> 0:15:16.420 charismatic people. Because they're like talking to people all day 0:15:16.420 --> 0:15:19.150 and they're like, what are you doing? Or, like, try this. 0:15:19.750 --> 0:15:21.370 Okay, whatever. No, I love it. 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:23.950 I haven't and I wouldn't, but I can see why. 0:15:23.980 --> 0:15:25.660 Well, maybe you would. You never know. Like, it's. 0:15:25.660 --> 0:15:29.140 Different to like, a postman. Actually, our postman is really friendly. 0:15:29.170 --> 0:15:31.120 I would not actually fantasize about. 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:32.320 Him, but. Okay. 0:15:32.620 --> 0:15:34.600 What I was getting at. Is there a. 0:15:34.600 --> 0:15:37.780 Profession? Only 3%. So I feel like it's not. Actually, 0:15:37.810 --> 0:15:41.310 it's more 4% more people have admitted to cheating with 0:15:41.310 --> 0:15:44.010 their boss. So we're not talking about 30% here, just three. 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:47.880 So I think I just want to crawl in, I 0:15:47.880 --> 0:15:51.690 think is the sexiest profession. Oh, that's a lot of saliva. 0:15:52.770 --> 0:15:55.560 Went right up. Um. 0:15:56.580 --> 0:16:00.750 That's a really good question. I actually think tradies are okay. 0:16:00.780 --> 0:16:01.200 There's something. 0:16:01.200 --> 0:16:01.890 About tradies for. 0:16:01.890 --> 0:16:03.060 Me, not for me. 0:16:03.330 --> 0:16:05.790 I mean, almost all of my exes have been tradies. 0:16:05.820 --> 0:16:09.180 So I mean, not that handyman. I find it so attractive. 0:16:09.210 --> 0:16:11.130 It is. Yeah. To be able to fix a doorknob 0:16:11.130 --> 0:16:12.570 or something. I don't know why I thought of a doorknob, 0:16:12.570 --> 0:16:13.830 but thank you. Yeah, and I don't know. 0:16:13.830 --> 0:16:18.390 There's something about dirty tradie shorts and hard steel boots. 0:16:18.390 --> 0:16:20.970 So do you know why I don't I don't find 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:24.359 and obviously tradies like if any tradies listening. Love you. 0:16:24.390 --> 0:16:27.030 Thank you for listening. You are a cloud ling. But 0:16:27.030 --> 0:16:29.760 the reason I don't. That wouldn't be the one for 0:16:29.760 --> 0:16:32.850 me is because I have been woof whistled so many 0:16:32.850 --> 0:16:35.250 times and it makes me so angry. Yeah. Fair enough. 0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:36.720 A lot of them. And when you're like when, if 0:16:36.720 --> 0:16:39.400 you're if I'm running and then they're all like, say, turn. 0:16:39.400 --> 0:16:40.630 And then I look at them and I put my 0:16:40.630 --> 0:16:42.610 finger up and I run and I cover my butt 0:16:42.610 --> 0:16:44.470 with my hands. I know, I get so angry. It 0:16:44.470 --> 0:16:46.359 just makes me so. I just feel like objectified, I 0:16:46.390 --> 0:16:50.770 hate it. So anyway. But there you go. There you go, guys. 0:16:50.770 --> 0:16:53.109 Let us know. I really want to know. What are 0:16:53.110 --> 0:16:56.770 you surprised by these stats? Are any of these stats like. 0:16:56.770 --> 0:16:59.890 Did anything bring up a story for you? So if 0:16:59.920 --> 0:17:03.100 you thought if do you fantasize about your barista? Have 0:17:03.100 --> 0:17:06.310 you cheated with your boss? Is do you schedule it in? 0:17:06.340 --> 0:17:10.180 Is it what here surprised you or didn't surprise you? 0:17:10.180 --> 0:17:12.760 And what stories do you have? I want to know. Okay, 0:17:12.760 --> 0:17:14.170 we want to know. We want to know. So please 0:17:14.170 --> 0:17:17.949 send them in to our Instagram at Kick Pod. DM us. 0:17:17.950 --> 0:17:19.870 You can send a voice note or write it out. 0:17:19.869 --> 0:17:22.120 And yeah, I cannot wait to hear. 0:17:24.760 --> 0:17:25.720 One. Two three. 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:30.639 Last week we spoke about some plumbing disasters, particularly Laura's 0:17:30.640 --> 0:17:33.880 one where shit was literally appearing in her bath and shower. 0:17:34.300 --> 0:17:35.859 Yuck. In the drain in the drain. 0:17:35.880 --> 0:17:38.760 And I shared that I almost shattered my father in 0:17:38.790 --> 0:17:42.270 law's head through plumbing. And so we just knew that 0:17:42.270 --> 0:17:44.460 we weren't alone in these plumbing stories. And you guys 0:17:44.460 --> 0:17:46.200 have come with the goods. 0:17:46.200 --> 0:17:50.280 You've come with the goods. Okay, so the first one here. 0:17:50.400 --> 0:17:53.100 So I had just started a new job fresh out 0:17:53.100 --> 0:17:55.200 of uni, and I wasn't a fan of being able 0:17:55.200 --> 0:17:57.150 to see who goes into the toilet and when they 0:17:57.150 --> 0:17:59.730 come out. Can I just say I agree? I agree. 0:17:59.760 --> 0:18:02.250 I don't want to know. Nobody I don't want to know. 0:18:02.280 --> 0:18:04.830 I do not want to know. Normally I would just 0:18:04.830 --> 0:18:07.920 hold my urine at work. I always find it so 0:18:07.950 --> 0:18:10.530 impressive for people. There's some people that actually don't go 0:18:10.530 --> 0:18:12.450 to the toilet. I'm pretty good at it. I can 0:18:12.450 --> 0:18:14.730 hold quite well. No, I go, but I'm also not super, 0:18:14.730 --> 0:18:16.679 super regular. So, like, I feel like it's easier for 0:18:16.680 --> 0:18:21.690 me to hold. Um, but yeah, I do, I feel you. Okay, 0:18:22.020 --> 0:18:24.300 so usually I just wait until I get home. But 0:18:24.300 --> 0:18:26.760 one day I went. One day I thought I would 0:18:26.760 --> 0:18:29.910 just get over my fear and go because I really 0:18:29.910 --> 0:18:32.040 needed to go. So off I went. I know this 0:18:32.040 --> 0:18:34.500 is not going to be good. And I began stressing 0:18:34.500 --> 0:18:37.090 that people will know I have been gone for so long. 0:18:37.090 --> 0:18:41.590 So I finish up and it's time to flush. The 0:18:41.619 --> 0:18:46.480 poo does not disappear. Oh my God, this is my 0:18:46.480 --> 0:18:51.400 worst nightmare at work. So I flush again and again. 0:18:51.400 --> 0:18:54.580 Nothing I now know full well I have been gone 0:18:54.580 --> 0:18:58.510 for half an hour so I start panicking. Then I 0:18:58.510 --> 0:19:02.350 realize also just a warning here. This might be TMI. 0:19:02.380 --> 0:19:05.050 The poo is stuck because it's bigger than the hole 0:19:05.050 --> 0:19:08.800 in the toilet. What the heck? Is it because you've 0:19:08.800 --> 0:19:12.160 been holding on all week? Because you haven't? Oh my God. 0:19:12.490 --> 0:19:15.940 And I think to myself, fuck, I'm going to either 0:19:15.940 --> 0:19:22.990 have to grab grab this thing out, like, like wash 0:19:22.990 --> 0:19:24.669 it out of the pool. Where the fuck was I 0:19:24.700 --> 0:19:26.649 going to put it? So true, because it goes in 0:19:26.680 --> 0:19:33.160 the toilet or push or. Oh my God, I'll push 0:19:33.160 --> 0:19:34.200 it down. 0:19:34.650 --> 0:19:38.669 Oh my God. Oh my God. 0:19:38.700 --> 0:19:41.970 So I decided on the less disgusting and hands on 0:19:41.970 --> 0:19:44.820 approach and rap. I don't know if there's anything less 0:19:44.820 --> 0:19:48.419 disgusting here. Rap my hand in a million layers of 0:19:48.420 --> 0:19:53.399 toilet paper. Pray to the toilet gods. Press the flesh 0:19:53.400 --> 0:19:58.800 and nudge the poo at the same time. And it worked. 0:19:59.490 --> 0:20:03.240 Holy fucking shit. Talk about poo trauma. No pun intended. 0:20:03.240 --> 0:20:06.510 Let's say I didn't put work again. And when I 0:20:06.510 --> 0:20:09.030 started at my next job and realized the toilets were 0:20:09.270 --> 0:20:12.540 more private and away from the office desk desks, I 0:20:12.540 --> 0:20:17.940 was a happy gal. Oh my God, my actual God. Yeah, 0:20:18.090 --> 0:20:22.350 that is my worst nightmare. And also also if you 0:20:22.350 --> 0:20:24.420 have to call a plumber at work if the toilet. 0:20:24.450 --> 0:20:26.250 It also, do you know how much it costs to 0:20:26.280 --> 0:20:28.230 call a plumber to unblock a poo in a toilet? 0:20:28.260 --> 0:20:30.840 I don't want to know. It's like close to $1,000. 0:20:30.869 --> 0:20:32.950 No, I would not. I would put toilet paper over 0:20:32.950 --> 0:20:34.629 and run and I'd be like, that wasn't me. Who 0:20:34.660 --> 0:20:38.800 the fuck did that? No fucking way. Not at work. No. 0:20:38.980 --> 0:20:41.380 Imagine. And because it wouldn't, you wouldn't. You'd probably go 0:20:41.380 --> 0:20:41.980 to em. 0:20:42.010 --> 0:20:44.290 Yeah, exactly. Our head of. 0:20:44.290 --> 0:20:47.170 Ops and say. Not that Em's job is to, like, 0:20:47.200 --> 0:20:49.659 fix the toilet, obviously, but it's just em is like 0:20:49.660 --> 0:20:52.179 the mother of our office and would know what to do, 0:20:52.180 --> 0:20:55.660 and I feel like I. Oh my God. Oh my God. 0:20:55.690 --> 0:20:59.440 You know what I, I I've spoken before about my 0:20:59.440 --> 0:21:01.659 bowel issues on this podcast before. And if you, if 0:21:01.690 --> 0:21:04.210 you weren't here from that like really long story short, 0:21:04.210 --> 0:21:07.720 I like my stomach. Like if I don't go to 0:21:07.750 --> 0:21:11.619 the toilet, I then feel incredibly, really uncomfortable. And I 0:21:11.619 --> 0:21:13.300 also feel like I'm going to fart and it's going 0:21:13.330 --> 0:21:15.910 to smell. So like I just go to the toilet, right? 0:21:15.910 --> 0:21:18.040 And I'm quite comfortable going to the toilet at work 0:21:18.040 --> 0:21:21.310 now because I know that if I don't, that's my 0:21:21.340 --> 0:21:25.180 that's my nightmare. Yeah. Um, and but what I used 0:21:25.180 --> 0:21:26.859 to do when I wasn't so comfortable, there was like 0:21:26.890 --> 0:21:29.500 a few things I did it that, like, made me feel. 0:21:29.859 --> 0:21:32.100 And I know other people do it. Give us a 0:21:32.100 --> 0:21:34.169 tool that other people do it. If you know you're 0:21:34.170 --> 0:21:37.170 going to go do a poo. Yep. You sit down, 0:21:37.170 --> 0:21:39.090 you put a little bit of toilet paper in the bowl. 0:21:39.210 --> 0:21:40.440 It doesn't plop, so it doesn't plop. 0:21:40.470 --> 0:21:42.389 That's smart. I actually never thought of that. Aha. 0:21:42.420 --> 0:21:44.880 And also, like, it also means it doesn't, like skid 0:21:44.880 --> 0:21:46.560 down the toilet thing. So you don't have to use, like, 0:21:46.590 --> 0:21:49.320 the toilet brush afterwards. Cause that's true. 0:21:49.980 --> 0:21:52.950 At work. Yeah. Have you ever lifted, like, a super 0:21:52.950 --> 0:21:55.020 clean office? It's so good. They get cleaned every hour, 0:21:55.050 --> 0:21:59.280 but in no toilet block is the communal toilet brush. 0:21:59.310 --> 0:22:03.330 Oh, no. No, no. It's never a vibe, right? Um, but. 0:22:03.330 --> 0:22:07.169 And then it's also like, in case you think that, like, 0:22:07.200 --> 0:22:09.359 you're maybe going to fart or there's going to be 0:22:09.359 --> 0:22:13.320 a noise as you poo. Sometimes there is, sometimes it's not. Um, 0:22:13.320 --> 0:22:15.960 I know everyone else does this as soon as someone 0:22:15.960 --> 0:22:17.850 else is using the hand dryer or the or the 0:22:17.850 --> 0:22:21.480 tap or they're flushed, that's when you go, okay. That's 0:22:21.480 --> 0:22:23.940 when you do it. And I know that happens because 0:22:23.940 --> 0:22:27.119 I've sat next to someone else in a cubicle before 0:22:27.119 --> 0:22:29.370 where as soon as the hairdryer went, I heard them 0:22:29.369 --> 0:22:31.240 go for it because I was sitting right next to them. 0:22:31.240 --> 0:22:32.770 But like doesn't work. 0:22:32.770 --> 0:22:33.399 As well as we. 0:22:33.400 --> 0:22:36.250 Think. Common tactics though. If they make you feel better, 0:22:36.340 --> 0:22:38.740 do them because it is totally normal to have to 0:22:38.770 --> 0:22:40.210 go to the toilet. 0:22:40.660 --> 0:22:43.270 Um, have you ever walked out of going to the toilet? 0:22:43.359 --> 0:22:45.310 You know what? My least favorite member has walked into 0:22:45.310 --> 0:22:47.350 that cubicle and you've had eye contact. 0:22:47.380 --> 0:22:50.320 No, I mean, probably probably, but I'm not. Honestly, I 0:22:50.320 --> 0:22:52.119 don't give a shit anymore. I'm like, I need to 0:22:52.119 --> 0:22:54.399 go to the toilet. The thing that I don't like 0:22:54.400 --> 0:22:57.250 is there's cubicles. As in, sorry, they were talking about 0:22:57.280 --> 0:23:02.139 toilet cubicles. I mean, phone booths where, like, people work. Yes, 0:23:02.170 --> 0:23:05.919 solely just outside of the toilet. And my least favorite 0:23:05.920 --> 0:23:07.929 thing is when I know I need a poo, someone's 0:23:07.930 --> 0:23:11.200 watched me go in. So the whole time I'm doing 0:23:11.200 --> 0:23:12.820 a poo, I'm like, they're going to see me come out. 0:23:12.820 --> 0:23:13.960 And it's been like ten minutes. I don't. 0:23:13.960 --> 0:23:15.760 Think any because can I say, if you did that, 0:23:15.760 --> 0:23:17.679 I would just assume you've you've got stuck on your. 0:23:17.680 --> 0:23:18.490 Phone. You're just playing. 0:23:18.490 --> 0:23:21.190 On my phone, I feel like. Yeah, I would think, 0:23:21.220 --> 0:23:23.200 oh Steph's taking her phone into the toilet. 0:23:23.230 --> 0:23:25.720 Yeah. And to be honest, sometimes when I'm doing poo, 0:23:25.750 --> 0:23:27.070 I will do that and I'll play on my phone 0:23:27.070 --> 0:23:27.879 and I'll be like, fuck, I've. 0:23:27.880 --> 0:23:31.109 Been getting texts and way too long on the toilet. 0:23:31.140 --> 0:23:32.550 I need to get off the toilet now. 0:23:33.090 --> 0:23:35.970 Oh my goodness. Okay, okay. Thank you. Steffi. Can I 0:23:35.970 --> 0:23:38.910 just say thank you for that? That was very helpful. 0:23:39.180 --> 0:23:43.800 Very helpful. Okay. This next story is from Stephie. 0:23:43.890 --> 0:23:46.409 Hi, Steph and Laura. I'm such a massive fan of 0:23:46.410 --> 0:23:48.210 the kick pod. I also love that this is how 0:23:48.210 --> 0:23:51.240 I'm first interacting with you guys. So I didn't have 0:23:51.240 --> 0:23:54.480 a plumbing disaster, but I almost did when I was 0:23:54.480 --> 0:23:56.550 studying abroad in Paris. My friend and I were living 0:23:56.550 --> 0:23:59.310 in a tiny little flat and the toilet was just 0:23:59.340 --> 0:24:01.890 off the living room. So when you pooped, everyone was 0:24:01.890 --> 0:24:06.359 really pooping with you. And I have notoriously big poops, 0:24:06.359 --> 0:24:09.960 so I went to go take one and it wouldn't flush. 0:24:09.990 --> 0:24:12.840 I panicked for a second and was like, okay, look around. 0:24:12.840 --> 0:24:16.110 What can you use to basically chop this up? And 0:24:16.109 --> 0:24:19.650 I found some chopsticks and took the two sticks and 0:24:19.650 --> 0:24:22.859 went in there and chopped it up and it flushed. 0:24:22.859 --> 0:24:26.250 And that is my poop success story. And if I'm 0:24:26.250 --> 0:24:28.250 ever in a bind, or if you're ever in a bind, 0:24:28.280 --> 0:24:31.550 look for chopsticks, I promise you. They're the best utensils 0:24:31.550 --> 0:24:34.250 out there. Um, I hope that this doesn't ruin your 0:24:34.280 --> 0:24:38.270 sushi experience. Um, but, yeah, that's my poop story. I 0:24:38.270 --> 0:24:39.380 hope it makes you laugh a little. 0:24:40.850 --> 0:24:42.380 Oh, I really hope they went in their bins. 0:24:42.410 --> 0:24:44.120 I fucking love you. I love I. 0:24:44.119 --> 0:24:44.780 Really hope they went in. 0:24:44.780 --> 0:24:46.190 There. I don't know where you were going to go, 0:24:46.190 --> 0:24:51.500 but then when she said, I chopped it up. Oh 0:24:51.530 --> 0:24:54.620 my God. Okay. Thank you, thank you. This next one 0:24:54.619 --> 0:24:56.090 is from Amelia. 0:24:56.540 --> 0:24:59.330 So a few years ago, I was working in America 0:24:59.359 --> 0:25:02.869 at a summer camp. Um, and one of the staff 0:25:02.869 --> 0:25:07.909 there invited me home to her family home, um, in 0:25:07.910 --> 0:25:10.790 Kansas for the weekend. It was the first time meeting 0:25:10.790 --> 0:25:13.910 her family, and it was my first time eating, um, 0:25:13.940 --> 0:25:18.379 a big, like, American grill up. It did not agree 0:25:18.380 --> 0:25:23.510 with my tummy. I went to the bathroom, did a 0:25:23.510 --> 0:25:28.650 giant poo, but the plumbing there was subpar at best. Um, 0:25:28.650 --> 0:25:34.200 so it got stuck. I tried flushing and flushing and 0:25:34.200 --> 0:25:38.010 the water was was rising. Um, so I got the 0:25:38.010 --> 0:25:43.560 plunger out, and that made everything overflow. So the contents 0:25:43.800 --> 0:25:47.100 of my giant poo and the toilet paper and all 0:25:47.130 --> 0:25:50.820 of the water went all over their bathroom floor. I 0:25:50.820 --> 0:25:54.210 had no idea what to do. Um, but I went 0:25:54.210 --> 0:25:57.060 and got my friend, and then she got her dad. 0:25:57.090 --> 0:26:00.720 Mind you, you know, I'd met him a few hours earlier, 0:26:00.810 --> 0:26:05.400 and he fixed it, but safe to say, the rest 0:26:05.400 --> 0:26:10.109 of the weekend was just cringey as I haven't stayed 0:26:10.109 --> 0:26:14.460 friends with her. Not sure if it's because of the 0:26:14.460 --> 0:26:17.909 poo or not. Um, but it's probably for the best 0:26:17.910 --> 0:26:20.550 so that this story doesn't get brought up time and 0:26:20.550 --> 0:26:21.480 time again. 0:26:21.660 --> 0:26:23.970 Oh my God, that is that is my. 0:26:24.020 --> 0:26:26.899 I'm so sorry. That is my worst nightmare. Like being 0:26:26.900 --> 0:26:28.910 stuck in a toilet with a poo that won't flush 0:26:28.940 --> 0:26:31.880 is the worst. But then trying to fix it and 0:26:31.880 --> 0:26:34.489 it going on the floor and having to call in 0:26:34.490 --> 0:26:36.469 your friend and your friend's dad. 0:26:36.500 --> 0:26:37.850 You know what you have to do, would. 0:26:37.850 --> 0:26:40.010 You? I would have climbed out the window and run away. 0:26:40.760 --> 0:26:42.950 No, this is the tip. Even if it happens at home. 0:26:42.980 --> 0:26:44.540 Oh my God, you've got so many tips. I know 0:26:44.810 --> 0:26:48.350 it's happened to me before. Um, when you flush and 0:26:48.350 --> 0:26:51.200 the water rises, like, you know, it's clogged, like, okay, fuck. 0:26:51.230 --> 0:26:52.880 If I keep flushing, it's just going to keep rising 0:26:52.910 --> 0:26:56.840 and rising. Those kind of clogs. You get boiling water 0:26:56.840 --> 0:27:00.080 and you pour boiling water into the toilet bowl and it, like, 0:27:00.109 --> 0:27:02.930 breaks up whatever's in there, obviously your shit or whatever, 0:27:02.930 --> 0:27:07.100 but it, like, genuinely loosens things up. And then you wait, like, 0:27:07.130 --> 0:27:09.619 I don't know, five minutes or so don't go straight away, 0:27:09.619 --> 0:27:11.210 and then you flush and it'll go down. 0:27:11.600 --> 0:27:14.060 I feel like I've just had a toilet masterclass. Thank 0:27:14.060 --> 0:27:19.340 you so much. Okay. And this last one is from Kristen. 0:27:19.910 --> 0:27:23.070 So I've had a few plumbing disaster stories, but the 0:27:23.070 --> 0:27:26.520 worst one was when I was a grad student living 0:27:26.520 --> 0:27:30.330 in campus housing. It was pretty late at night, maybe 0:27:30.330 --> 0:27:36.570 10 or 1030, and I just clogged the toilet. It overflowed. 0:27:36.869 --> 0:27:40.110 The mess in the bathroom was horrifying, and I had 0:27:40.109 --> 0:27:43.260 to call the emergency maintenance number because it was after 0:27:43.260 --> 0:27:45.570 hours and these two guys had to come to my 0:27:45.570 --> 0:27:50.609 apartment late at night to fix the toilet. And then 0:27:50.609 --> 0:27:55.859 I had to clean up this absolutely disgusting mess in 0:27:55.859 --> 0:28:00.030 my bathroom. I've never quite recovered from that one mentally, 0:28:00.030 --> 0:28:04.290 and it's been probably eight years by now. It was bad. 0:28:04.800 --> 0:28:05.580 Oh my God. 0:28:05.880 --> 0:28:08.580 I would not have recovered either. I know that's something 0:28:09.119 --> 0:28:11.730 that like. Honestly. Touch wood. Thank you for guys. I 0:28:11.730 --> 0:28:14.340 feel like too if anyone was fearful of this happening, 0:28:14.340 --> 0:28:16.919 I don't know if this helped. It does happen though. 0:28:16.920 --> 0:28:19.980 But honestly, I would never recover. 0:28:20.010 --> 0:28:22.490 No, you know what you would have done in that moment. What? 0:28:22.850 --> 0:28:25.399 I just had a one night stand. Can you believe that? 0:28:25.400 --> 0:28:27.350 This is what they left me with. You would have 0:28:27.380 --> 0:28:28.159 totally lied. 0:28:28.280 --> 0:28:33.919 Percent. 100%. Oh my God, guys, we love you. Thank 0:28:33.950 --> 0:28:36.650 you Stephanie. Thank you for the masterclass. It was really 0:28:36.650 --> 0:28:37.340 quite a. 0:28:37.340 --> 0:28:38.060 Surprise and. 0:28:38.060 --> 0:28:39.920 I didn't know you had this information in you, but 0:28:39.920 --> 0:28:43.340 I'm really glad you shared it guys, those stories were 0:28:43.340 --> 0:28:48.200 just incredible. Thank you very much. And we hope that 0:28:48.200 --> 0:28:51.470 in future it will flush down for you. But. 0:28:54.650 --> 0:28:57.020 But is it time for a special share? 0:28:57.860 --> 0:29:01.790 Share I am going to recommend and my special share 0:29:01.790 --> 0:29:06.290 of the week is Michelle Andrew's new podcast called glass. Well, 0:29:06.290 --> 0:29:09.110 it's really it kind of feels like it's an audio essay. 0:29:09.140 --> 0:29:11.210 I think they're calling it, but it sounds it feels 0:29:11.210 --> 0:29:15.770 like you're listening to an audiobook. Exactly. Now, mish, who 0:29:15.770 --> 0:29:20.130 is the founder of Shameless Media, obviously, as you guys, 0:29:20.130 --> 0:29:22.110 we know most of you also love. 0:29:22.140 --> 0:29:23.490 We have done our surveys. 0:29:23.490 --> 0:29:25.709 You love Michelle and Zara. You love shameless. So I'm 0:29:25.710 --> 0:29:27.120 sure a lot of you have already listened to it, 0:29:27.120 --> 0:29:30.930 but if you haven't, it is just a beautiful gift 0:29:30.930 --> 0:29:35.850 to the world. So Misha's been going through her own 0:29:35.850 --> 0:29:42.840 journey with infertility for 18 months now and I um, 0:29:43.110 --> 0:29:45.060 I spend quite, quite a bit of time with Misha, 0:29:45.060 --> 0:29:46.950 and I've kind of known what she's been going through 0:29:46.950 --> 0:29:51.960 behind the scenes, and it has been just so heartbreaking 0:29:51.990 --> 0:29:56.610 to see her go through it. And, um, in this 0:29:56.610 --> 0:30:00.900 and she said to me that I really when it's time, 0:30:00.900 --> 0:30:04.140 I'll share this, I'll share this story publicly. And, you know, 0:30:04.170 --> 0:30:06.900 it'll hopefully to to be able to help people because 0:30:06.900 --> 0:30:12.000 it just feels so fucking isolating and unfair. Exactly right. 0:30:12.000 --> 0:30:17.430 And so Misha, very, very, very generously, generously wrote this 0:30:17.430 --> 0:30:20.780 beautiful Useful essay. It goes through about 70 minutes. It's 0:30:20.780 --> 0:30:24.530 three parts. Yeah, they're all about 20 minutes. And it 0:30:24.530 --> 0:30:27.770 is just it is just one of the most like 0:30:27.950 --> 0:30:33.050 she's an incredible, incredible writer. Oh she's so she's so 0:30:33.050 --> 0:30:36.410 bloody talented. So the way that you feel like you're 0:30:36.440 --> 0:30:39.290 there when she's telling the story, but the way that 0:30:39.290 --> 0:30:42.680 she details it, I think when people have this amazing 0:30:42.710 --> 0:30:47.690 ability to put exactly how you feel into words. Not 0:30:47.690 --> 0:30:50.060 all of us can do that, obviously. And Mitch has 0:30:50.060 --> 0:30:52.850 this incredible talent and she's she's done it in this 0:30:52.850 --> 0:30:55.340 way that I just feel like it'll make so many 0:30:55.340 --> 0:31:00.620 people feel so seen and just not not alone. It's beautiful. 0:31:00.620 --> 0:31:02.750 I cried through a lot of episode two and three 0:31:02.750 --> 0:31:04.910 just in like, pride of like, wow, you're incredible for 0:31:04.910 --> 0:31:07.940 telling this, but also like, fuck the pain. It is. 0:31:07.940 --> 0:31:13.070 So like, infertility is just such a shit thing. Like 0:31:13.100 --> 0:31:14.660 there's nothing else you can kind of say about it. 0:31:14.660 --> 0:31:17.490 It's really hard. And she also speaks as well about 0:31:17.490 --> 0:31:20.670 her family's journey because it's not just her story. And 0:31:20.670 --> 0:31:23.250 I thought it was. It was a really interesting perspective 0:31:23.250 --> 0:31:25.950 to hear not only her story, which I feel like 0:31:25.950 --> 0:31:28.020 I've never heard that before from her, kind of when 0:31:28.020 --> 0:31:30.600 I've heard infertility stories. Also the story of her grandmother 0:31:30.600 --> 0:31:31.530 and her mother. 0:31:31.560 --> 0:31:33.930 Yeah. And I think it was like, because what that 0:31:33.930 --> 0:31:36.450 really added to it was, I'm sure the feeling that 0:31:36.450 --> 0:31:38.970 a lot of people go through when a loved one 0:31:38.970 --> 0:31:41.340 has gone through something heavy is you kind of think like, well, 0:31:41.340 --> 0:31:43.860 it's happened to them. It's not going to happen to me. 0:31:43.860 --> 0:31:46.200 Or it's like you've already out of the statistics of 0:31:46.200 --> 0:31:48.570 how many people go through these kind of things. Like, 0:31:48.600 --> 0:31:50.160 I already know enough people close to me that it's 0:31:50.160 --> 0:31:53.790 happened to. So like, surely it wouldn't happen to me. Um, 0:31:53.790 --> 0:31:55.860 and then just like kind of sitting with that or 0:31:55.890 --> 0:31:57.540 like going through some of the stuff herself and then 0:31:57.540 --> 0:32:00.510 realizing like someone's so close to her could relate so 0:32:00.510 --> 0:32:03.150 closely with what she's going through. It's just I did 0:32:03.180 --> 0:32:08.250 agree the honesty in the episodes was so refreshing as well. 0:32:08.280 --> 0:32:11.940 Like even in episode two, she goes into more so 0:32:11.970 --> 0:32:14.820 kind of like aesthetic insecurities that she's gone through. And 0:32:14.850 --> 0:32:18.920 like With, you know, with infertility that like making her 0:32:18.920 --> 0:32:21.980 feel like she's aging more than her body is. And 0:32:21.980 --> 0:32:24.050 then so it makes her more conscious of different things, 0:32:24.050 --> 0:32:27.170 like fine lines or like appearance wise or whatever. And 0:32:27.170 --> 0:32:30.650 I just felt like all of that was so honest 0:32:30.650 --> 0:32:33.140 and like, just stuff that people are scared to be 0:32:33.140 --> 0:32:36.590 open about, particularly people with a platform. So I totally agree. 0:32:36.590 --> 0:32:39.500 I thought it was such an incredible thing that she's done. 0:32:39.500 --> 0:32:41.630 And yeah, I knew it was going to be a 0:32:41.630 --> 0:32:44.330 special show because it is truly special. One of the 0:32:44.330 --> 0:32:48.200 most special shows we could possibly share. Um, and I 0:32:48.230 --> 0:32:51.110 listened to it to this week, and I just just 0:32:51.110 --> 0:32:54.080 loved listening to it. And she is phenomenal. 0:32:54.320 --> 0:32:56.120 Yeah I agree. Mhm. 0:32:56.780 --> 0:32:59.060 Um, cause I knew you were going to share that. 0:32:59.270 --> 0:33:01.160 I was like, I got to think of something else. Um, 0:33:01.160 --> 0:33:04.130 I listened to and she doesn't need any introduction but 0:33:04.130 --> 0:33:08.210 Grace tame on the Imperfects and I. That episode is 0:33:08.210 --> 0:33:09.140 so powerful. 0:33:09.170 --> 0:33:10.910 I have to listen. It's so. 0:33:10.910 --> 0:33:14.820 Powerful. And yeah, like I don't really need to say 0:33:14.820 --> 0:33:17.340 much more because it's really just like one you should 0:33:17.340 --> 0:33:19.170 go and listen to. I highly recommend everyone goes and 0:33:19.170 --> 0:33:24.330 listen to it, but she also is a phenomenal woman. Mhm. Um, 0:33:24.330 --> 0:33:27.780 and yeah I really really enjoy like I couldn't, could 0:33:27.810 --> 0:33:30.750 not stop listening to this podcast. Um it was really 0:33:30.750 --> 0:33:32.880 really powerful. And like I obviously know a lot of 0:33:32.880 --> 0:33:35.729 Grace James story and stuff. So I don't think it's like, oh, 0:33:35.730 --> 0:33:38.280 if you know enough about her history, like you're not 0:33:38.280 --> 0:33:39.840 going to get anything new out of it. It was 0:33:39.840 --> 0:33:41.310 really powerful. Amazing. Yeah. 0:33:41.340 --> 0:33:45.960 Thank you. Yeah. Love it. What a double amazing special. 0:33:45.960 --> 0:33:47.820 I feel like, you know, we always try very hard 0:33:47.820 --> 0:33:50.430 with our special shares. Guys, we never recommend stuff. Obviously, 0:33:50.430 --> 0:33:52.830 that's not good, but I feel like this week was 0:33:52.830 --> 0:33:58.650 a two incredible ones. Especially because they're both awesome women. So. Yay! 0:33:58.680 --> 0:34:02.280 Have an amazing rest of your week day whenever you're 0:34:02.280 --> 0:34:06.180 listening to this weekend. We love you guys so much! 0:34:06.210 --> 0:34:09.839 Our cloud links keep floating. We love you. Love you. 0:34:09.870 --> 0:34:10.770 Bye bye.