1 00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:03,530 S1: Listener. 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:07,159 S2: Keepod acknowledges the traditional owners and custodians of the land 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,490 S2: in which we're recording this podcast. The Ulucay Wulan clan 4 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:13,220 S2: of the Bunurong, who are part of the Kulin nation. 5 00:00:13,220 --> 00:00:16,400 S2: We pay our respects to our elders, past and present, 6 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:19,400 S2: and extend our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander 7 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:20,450 S2: peoples today. 8 00:00:21,650 --> 00:00:23,419 S3: Welcome to the Kick Pod, a. 9 00:00:23,420 --> 00:00:25,730 S2: Dam with your besties on the stuff that matters. 10 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:26,540 S4: One. Two. Three. 11 00:00:34,100 --> 00:00:34,880 UU: One. Two. Three. 12 00:00:35,870 --> 00:00:40,400 S3: Hello, hello. Oh, Steffi, you poor thing with your voice. Yeah. 13 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:42,949 S3: It's like it's it's slowly hanging on in there. 14 00:00:42,950 --> 00:00:44,629 S2: Guys, I have had a throat. 15 00:00:44,630 --> 00:00:48,920 S3: Infection and it's inflamed my entire throat. I'm actually on 16 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:53,600 S3: Laura's puffer. We're on matching asthma medication, so I take 17 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:57,620 S3: a preventer four times a day. Have basically my entire life. 18 00:00:57,620 --> 00:01:00,880 S3: And Steph is now on the exact same preventer, even 19 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:03,340 S3: the same dosage. Yeah, it's really weird. Like. 20 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:07,270 S2: My doctor asked me, like two times because I, I 21 00:01:07,270 --> 00:01:09,250 S2: don't have, like a doctor that I see every time 22 00:01:09,250 --> 00:01:11,649 S2: I'm trying to work through that, because I really miss 23 00:01:11,650 --> 00:01:13,179 S2: that feeling. When I was growing up, I had one 24 00:01:13,180 --> 00:01:14,950 S2: doctor and I saw her every time there was anything 25 00:01:14,950 --> 00:01:16,600 S2: wrong with me for like 18 years. 26 00:01:16,630 --> 00:01:18,850 S3: Do you know what I love about this, Stephanie? We 27 00:01:18,850 --> 00:01:21,670 S3: have been talking about you getting a family doctor for 28 00:01:21,670 --> 00:01:23,770 S3: five years. I know, I know, I. 29 00:01:23,770 --> 00:01:24,490 S2: Have lived in the. 30 00:01:24,490 --> 00:01:27,370 S3: Area now for like five out of Balwyn, uh, 12 31 00:01:27,370 --> 00:01:28,899 S3: years ago. I know it's so. 32 00:01:28,900 --> 00:01:31,900 S2: Insane, but I, like I go to the same place now. 33 00:01:31,930 --> 00:01:34,930 S2: I've at least, like, picked my place, funnily enough, not 34 00:01:34,930 --> 00:01:37,570 S2: in my suburb. Like stupid. It's still like 20 minutes away. 35 00:01:37,569 --> 00:01:40,390 S2: But anyway, that's where I've been going. It's where, like, 36 00:01:40,420 --> 00:01:42,550 S2: Josh and Harvey, they have all the info because, you know, 37 00:01:42,550 --> 00:01:44,830 S2: you have to, like, go through the first appointment again. 38 00:01:44,830 --> 00:01:46,690 S2: It's always more expensive and like more info and blah 39 00:01:46,690 --> 00:01:48,850 S2: blah blah. So we've just kept going back to the 40 00:01:48,850 --> 00:01:51,250 S2: same place. But I haven't necessarily had the same doctor 41 00:01:51,250 --> 00:01:53,830 S2: every time. But the one I had, she asked me 42 00:01:53,860 --> 00:01:55,840 S2: like 2 or 3 times in the appointment if I 43 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:57,700 S2: have my asthma, if I'm sure I don't have asthma 44 00:01:57,730 --> 00:02:00,930 S2: because of how inflamed my throat was. And I was like, no, 45 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:03,510 S2: like I, I very highly doubt I've gone through my 46 00:02:03,510 --> 00:02:05,370 S2: whole life and everything. And she was like, okay, well, 47 00:02:05,370 --> 00:02:07,080 S2: it might just be, you know, because you've got a 48 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:09,660 S2: really infected throat. But she said, there's nothing I can 49 00:02:09,660 --> 00:02:13,080 S2: give you for the infection because it's passing, but like, 50 00:02:13,110 --> 00:02:16,500 S2: you need to be able to breathe. So here's a puffer. Um, 51 00:02:16,500 --> 00:02:18,750 S2: and I have to take it every single morning and 52 00:02:18,750 --> 00:02:20,880 S2: night and preferably in the middle of the day. And 53 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:23,490 S2: then any time, like if I've done exercise or I've 54 00:02:23,490 --> 00:02:24,720 S2: got at the top of the stairs and I'm struggling 55 00:02:24,750 --> 00:02:27,330 S2: to breathe, like basically any time throughout the day that 56 00:02:27,330 --> 00:02:29,940 S2: I need it as well. Um, which was great timing, 57 00:02:29,940 --> 00:02:32,220 S2: and I'm glad I went to the doctors because we've 58 00:02:32,220 --> 00:02:36,359 S2: just finished a week filming new kick workouts, which luckily 59 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:38,130 S2: for me, and I'm not going to go into what 60 00:02:38,130 --> 00:02:40,380 S2: they were, but luckily for me, a lot of mine 61 00:02:40,380 --> 00:02:44,280 S2: were quite gentle because if it was like hit or something, which, okay, 62 00:02:44,310 --> 00:02:47,250 S2: I've given you a clue, it's not hit. I probably 63 00:02:47,250 --> 00:02:49,320 S2: wouldn't have been able to do it. Like any time 64 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:51,780 S2: my heart rate went up this week, I was really 65 00:02:51,780 --> 00:02:54,840 S2: struggling to breathe. So that's why my voice sounds the 66 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:58,359 S2: way it does. Um, apologies. It's not even like a sexy. 67 00:02:58,389 --> 00:03:00,489 S3: You know, it sounds sexy. You sound unwell. 68 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:03,549 S2: Yeah, but I feel fine. Like I feel totally fine. 69 00:03:03,850 --> 00:03:07,000 S3: It's just been a grim week for you. Yeah. Anyway, 70 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:10,210 S3: it has. But I'm really grateful to be an asthma 71 00:03:10,210 --> 00:03:13,090 S3: twin with you. Shout out to any clad lungs that 72 00:03:13,090 --> 00:03:19,570 S3: also have asthma. Thank you. That's what it's called. Well. 73 00:03:20,290 --> 00:03:24,250 S3: Oh my goodness me. Okay. Well on that note. Yeah 74 00:03:24,370 --> 00:03:28,810 S3: on that, on that note about asthma. We have got. 75 00:03:28,900 --> 00:03:29,290 S2: Quite the gear. 76 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:33,250 S3: Change. Quite the gear change. Because our sax collection, as 77 00:03:33,250 --> 00:03:35,950 S3: you would know, is live. And the feedback has just 78 00:03:35,950 --> 00:03:39,160 S3: been surreal. It's just been incredible to see how many 79 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:41,980 S3: of you are loving the collection. And we are just 80 00:03:41,980 --> 00:03:44,710 S3: so grateful for all of your support. And seriously, every 81 00:03:44,740 --> 00:03:47,530 S3: time we launch something into the world, there's always this 82 00:03:47,530 --> 00:03:50,410 S3: feeling like I have the night before of like, is 83 00:03:50,410 --> 00:03:54,100 S3: this gonna like. Will people like it? Like, I don't know, 84 00:03:54,130 --> 00:03:57,260 S3: I feel like you would think that because we, you know, 85 00:03:57,290 --> 00:03:59,630 S3: the first collection sold out in 30 minutes. You think 86 00:03:59,630 --> 00:04:01,850 S3: we'd go into this one? Obviously we have confidence, but 87 00:04:01,850 --> 00:04:03,560 S3: it's just like it's always something in the back of 88 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:07,190 S3: your head of like, oh my goodness, will people like it? Like, 89 00:04:07,220 --> 00:04:09,800 S3: you never know. And you guys have and we're just 90 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:11,270 S3: we're so grateful. 91 00:04:11,270 --> 00:04:14,000 S2: When we wanted to do it again, we wanted to 92 00:04:14,030 --> 00:04:16,580 S2: make sure that we took everything that we know you 93 00:04:16,580 --> 00:04:19,580 S2: loved about the first collection, and then just find more 94 00:04:19,610 --> 00:04:22,490 S2: things that we thought you would love. Um, and so 95 00:04:22,490 --> 00:04:25,310 S2: in this collection, there is some of the favorite pieces 96 00:04:25,310 --> 00:04:28,489 S2: from the last one. Um, but we've also got some 97 00:04:28,490 --> 00:04:30,440 S2: brand new pieces, and these are pieces that stacks have 98 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:32,300 S2: never designed before. So it was really fun to go 99 00:04:32,300 --> 00:04:35,750 S2: through the whole process with Dawn, um, and actually be 100 00:04:35,750 --> 00:04:37,670 S2: a part of that design and get the samples and 101 00:04:37,670 --> 00:04:42,140 S2: everything and get it perfect. Um, and so we're really excited. 102 00:04:42,170 --> 00:04:46,880 S2: It's also in their iconic premium seamless fabric, which is 103 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:51,830 S2: so comfortable and so functional. I personally love training in it. 104 00:04:51,860 --> 00:04:54,310 S2: It's probably if you watch any of my like, workout 105 00:04:54,310 --> 00:04:57,729 S2: content 80% of the time I'm in the premium seamless gear, 106 00:04:57,730 --> 00:05:00,490 S2: so we wanted to mix it up because the last 107 00:05:00,490 --> 00:05:03,700 S2: collection was in their Nan Dex material. And what we 108 00:05:03,700 --> 00:05:06,339 S2: love about stacks is their dedication to inclusivity. So every 109 00:05:06,339 --> 00:05:09,310 S2: piece that we've got is available from Size Extra, Extra 110 00:05:09,339 --> 00:05:13,510 S2: Small to four XL. And we are so excited for 111 00:05:13,510 --> 00:05:15,310 S2: your deliveries to arrive because we just want to see 112 00:05:15,310 --> 00:05:18,250 S2: you guys in it. So please, if you feel comfortable, 113 00:05:18,250 --> 00:05:21,010 S2: we'd love to see your post-workout selfies. Or maybe when 114 00:05:21,010 --> 00:05:23,049 S2: you just get the delivery, pop it on, make sure 115 00:05:23,050 --> 00:05:24,880 S2: you tag us so we see it. Share them in 116 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:27,549 S2: our Facebook community if you want. We're just yeah, so 117 00:05:27,550 --> 00:05:29,560 S2: keen to have them in your hands. 118 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:31,930 S3: And if you want to get your hands on the collection, 119 00:05:31,930 --> 00:05:35,050 S3: you can shop it now on the stacks website. We 120 00:05:35,050 --> 00:05:39,040 S3: will put the link in the show notes. So the 121 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:42,640 S3: other week I was at the airport on a Sunday 122 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:47,380 S3: and the Good Weekend magazine was there and I was like, well, 123 00:05:47,410 --> 00:05:49,930 S3: I will have a read of this. So I flicked 124 00:05:49,930 --> 00:05:54,950 S3: through and one article in particular got my attention and 125 00:05:54,950 --> 00:05:56,450 S3: I read it and I loved it, and it was 126 00:05:56,450 --> 00:06:00,380 S3: very well written was by Nikki Gemmell and it was 127 00:06:00,380 --> 00:06:05,270 S3: called a fitting climax. Gen Z are cottoning on to 128 00:06:05,300 --> 00:06:10,760 S3: this unequal dynamic. Now it got me thinking about the 129 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,220 S3: orgasm gap, because that was essentially what it was about. 130 00:06:13,220 --> 00:06:16,250 S3: And what I loved about this article was it spoke 131 00:06:16,250 --> 00:06:19,430 S3: about how Gen Z are actually reportedly like from all 132 00:06:19,430 --> 00:06:23,360 S3: the surveys that have been done and research having less 133 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:28,849 S3: sex and a reason for that. One of the reasons 134 00:06:28,850 --> 00:06:32,000 S3: is because the orgasm gap is still very much exists. 135 00:06:32,029 --> 00:06:34,430 S3: Like when I say the orgasm gap for everyone listening 136 00:06:34,430 --> 00:06:38,330 S3: that maybe hasn't heard of it before. When women and 137 00:06:38,330 --> 00:06:42,440 S3: men have sex, men have way more orgasms than women. 138 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:44,390 S2: So on average, on average. 139 00:06:44,390 --> 00:06:47,060 S3: Exactly right. So it was there was a study from 140 00:06:47,060 --> 00:06:50,360 S3: in the US journal Sexual Medicine called The Lifelong Orgasm 141 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:54,370 S3: Gap exploring age's impact on orgasm rates was an eight 142 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:56,710 S3: year study. So it's actually quite a long study with 143 00:06:56,710 --> 00:07:00,460 S3: 25,000 Americans. Now, it wasn't American Studies only article. They 144 00:07:00,460 --> 00:07:03,460 S3: were like our Australians the same. Likely they are between 145 00:07:03,490 --> 00:07:07,480 S3: 18 to 100 years old. Go off to those over 146 00:07:07,510 --> 00:07:11,620 S3: honestly 80 still going at it. Amazing. The study found 147 00:07:11,620 --> 00:07:16,540 S3: that men orgasm 75 to 80% during heterosexual intercourse, and 148 00:07:16,540 --> 00:07:23,050 S3: women orgasmed 46 to 58% during heterosexual intercourse, and women 149 00:07:23,050 --> 00:07:27,310 S3: would orgasm much more, or they do in same sex relationships. 150 00:07:27,910 --> 00:07:32,860 S3: So the gap there is rather large. That's like almost 30%, 151 00:07:33,490 --> 00:07:37,420 S3: a little bit more. So depending. That's crazy right? And 152 00:07:37,420 --> 00:07:40,750 S3: what this article was talking about was how Gen Z. 153 00:07:40,780 --> 00:07:43,510 S3: Maybe they've cottoned onto it and they would prefer to 154 00:07:43,540 --> 00:07:45,970 S3: just not have it, not to have sex and to 155 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:49,870 S3: self-pleasure instead. And I'm like, fucking sorry to swear. Sorry. 156 00:07:49,870 --> 00:07:52,920 S3: I should have warned before, but go off like. Seriously. 157 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:55,679 S3: I just feel like we don't need to live in 158 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:58,200 S3: a world anymore. Where as women we have shit sex 159 00:07:58,350 --> 00:08:00,630 S3: like we don't. And for a one night stand, like, 160 00:08:00,660 --> 00:08:02,730 S3: it's just. We just don't need to because we're so 161 00:08:02,730 --> 00:08:05,820 S3: much more empowered. There's so many more options for us 162 00:08:05,820 --> 00:08:06,510 S3: than before. 163 00:08:06,510 --> 00:08:08,280 S2: I agree, I think there's just a lot more information 164 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:10,560 S2: about it too. Like I think even like in movies 165 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:13,500 S2: and TV shows and stuff like that, things like consent 166 00:08:13,500 --> 00:08:16,530 S2: or talking about what you like during sex, like all 167 00:08:16,530 --> 00:08:19,320 S2: of that is so much more apparent in movies now. 168 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:21,690 S2: Whereas like the movies we grew up watching, they would 169 00:08:21,690 --> 00:08:25,410 S2: just like bang together. They'd both climax at the same time. 170 00:08:25,530 --> 00:08:28,140 S2: It's so true. How fucking often does that happen? Exactly? 171 00:08:28,140 --> 00:08:31,740 S2: So like, it's just we had this unrealistic expectation of sex. 172 00:08:31,740 --> 00:08:34,020 S2: And I remember with past relationships I would fake an 173 00:08:34,020 --> 00:08:36,390 S2: orgasm because I was like, well, it hasn't happened yet, 174 00:08:36,390 --> 00:08:39,660 S2: but I know it probably should have, so blah. Well, I. 175 00:08:39,660 --> 00:08:42,750 S3: Know it's not going to and my clitoris is numb 176 00:08:42,750 --> 00:08:45,720 S3: and I am done here. 177 00:08:45,750 --> 00:08:49,870 S2: So like it's really I do remember what that like 178 00:08:49,900 --> 00:08:52,569 S2: felt like to just either like, not be interested in 179 00:08:52,570 --> 00:08:54,790 S2: it or just like, feel like I faked it because 180 00:08:54,790 --> 00:08:57,220 S2: there was something wrong with me, because I didn't know 181 00:08:57,220 --> 00:09:00,970 S2: how like it should feel or whatever. Um, very, very, 182 00:09:00,970 --> 00:09:03,340 S2: very grateful that I'm now in a loving relationship where 183 00:09:03,340 --> 00:09:06,730 S2: he makes it a top priority that I have that 184 00:09:06,730 --> 00:09:09,160 S2: at the very least, like, it's like he puts my 185 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:13,120 S2: my needs or wants before his, which is amazing. Um, 186 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:14,890 S2: but that's how it should be, right? If you're not, 187 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,140 S2: if you're not enjoying it, you should feel comfortable with 188 00:09:17,140 --> 00:09:19,420 S2: the person that you're having sex with to speak about 189 00:09:19,420 --> 00:09:21,309 S2: it and to like, direct them or whatever. And I 190 00:09:21,309 --> 00:09:23,440 S2: feel like Gen Zs, and it's not even just in sex. 191 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:27,070 S2: It's in so many different corners of life now. They 192 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:30,130 S2: are empowered to do things like that because they know 193 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:31,690 S2: they know more than we did. 194 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:32,530 S3: They do. And I'm. 195 00:09:32,530 --> 00:09:33,189 S2: So happy. 196 00:09:33,220 --> 00:09:35,829 S3: I agree. I'm like, go off seriously. And the other 197 00:09:35,830 --> 00:09:37,720 S3: thing as well was in this article is and we 198 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:39,820 S3: already know this, we know it's much harder for but again, 199 00:09:39,850 --> 00:09:44,740 S3: you just said in movies people have an orgasm in sex, right? Women. 200 00:09:44,950 --> 00:09:45,939 S2: That's so hard. 201 00:09:45,940 --> 00:09:51,709 S3: Only so 80% of women cannot orgasm with just penetration 202 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:56,660 S3: in a heterosexual relationship or sexual experience. So I think 203 00:09:56,660 --> 00:09:59,600 S3: that's super important to remember as well, because again, people 204 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:01,700 S3: think I do think women can often think like you 205 00:10:01,700 --> 00:10:03,709 S3: just said, Steffi, there's something wrong with us. If we 206 00:10:03,710 --> 00:10:06,620 S3: can't orgasm during penetration, it doesn't mean that we don't 207 00:10:06,650 --> 00:10:10,610 S3: enjoy sex, but it is actually really difficult to do so. 208 00:10:10,670 --> 00:10:14,720 S3: Now the other thing, there's a lot of sexy news. 209 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:17,120 S3: The other thing that came out on the weekend is 210 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:21,440 S3: the Body and Soul 2024 Sex Census, which is amazing. 211 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:23,209 S3: They have done Body and Soul Team. They've done so 212 00:10:23,210 --> 00:10:26,569 S3: much work on this. It was a nationwide survey of 213 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:31,219 S3: 2000 people aged 18 to 75. So nationwide in Australia, 214 00:10:31,250 --> 00:10:35,780 S3: all sexualities, metro and regional areas. And okay, so how 215 00:10:35,780 --> 00:10:38,449 S3: long do you think on average does sex last? 216 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:41,750 S2: What is it like you've started having intercourse and like how? Yeah. 217 00:10:41,780 --> 00:10:46,210 S2: On average, yeah seven minutes. 218 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:49,809 S3: Oh, I actually would have said that too, but at 16.5. Wait, what? 219 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:54,610 S3: I know people. What the fuck? Did people tell the truth? Jesus. 220 00:10:54,940 --> 00:10:56,949 S2: I mean, maybe. Well, you know, that's not always a 221 00:10:56,950 --> 00:11:00,190 S2: good thing. Maybe it's just. Maybe they're having sex with 222 00:11:00,190 --> 00:11:01,960 S2: someone for the first time, and it's just not working out. 223 00:11:01,990 --> 00:11:04,210 S2: It's taken a long time to get there. Or they're 224 00:11:04,210 --> 00:11:07,209 S2: really enjoying it. And they're going for multiple orgasms, which again, 225 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:08,800 S2: go off. Off. Exactly. 226 00:11:08,830 --> 00:11:13,060 S3: Love. Okay. 16% of women have an orgasm. Oh, here 227 00:11:13,059 --> 00:11:15,700 S3: you go. This is around having sex in Australia. 16% 228 00:11:15,700 --> 00:11:18,370 S3: of women have an orgasm every time they have sex, 229 00:11:18,370 --> 00:11:24,190 S3: compared to 44% of men. Again, a gap. 93% of 230 00:11:24,190 --> 00:11:28,510 S3: people most regularly have sex in bed. Thank you. Oh, fuck. 231 00:11:28,660 --> 00:11:31,630 S3: Thank you. I love this too, because I feel like 232 00:11:31,660 --> 00:11:35,260 S3: sometimes you feel pressure to again from the movies. Movies 233 00:11:35,260 --> 00:11:38,140 S3: have just ruined our idea of what sex is. But 234 00:11:38,140 --> 00:11:41,200 S3: on the I would honestly, having sex on the kitchen 235 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:44,760 S3: bench is not of interest to me. A hard Surface. 236 00:11:44,940 --> 00:11:49,650 S3: That's cold. Yeah. No. And has pointy edges. Just not 237 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:51,360 S3: when you have a comfortable bed. 238 00:11:51,390 --> 00:11:55,319 S2: Yeah. Also, just like the height never works out. True. Like, 239 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:57,959 S2: who the fuck is that tall? Who? What male is 240 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:00,780 S2: that tall? That they can penetrate someone on top of 241 00:12:00,780 --> 00:12:03,060 S2: a kitchen bench? I feel like that's, like, quite so true. 242 00:12:03,059 --> 00:12:07,320 S3: But what? Yeah, exactly. Exactly. And what about what's the movie? 243 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:09,600 S3: There's a movie with Channing Tatum. Mhm. 244 00:12:10,290 --> 00:12:10,890 S2: Magic Mike. 245 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:14,130 S3: Magic. Magic. The last magic Mike. Yes it is. And 246 00:12:14,130 --> 00:12:16,980 S3: he is someone that in movies. But that's magic Mike. 247 00:12:17,010 --> 00:12:20,550 S3: I know. Gives the perception that sex can be had 248 00:12:20,550 --> 00:12:22,170 S3: in every single location. 249 00:12:22,170 --> 00:12:24,179 S2: And I think with the magic Mike person. 250 00:12:24,690 --> 00:12:28,559 S3: It probably is because it's just different. 251 00:12:28,590 --> 00:12:31,620 S2: But that's not that's not your average sex. 252 00:12:31,710 --> 00:12:37,069 S3: The reality. Okay. True true true. Okay. Uh, 1 in 253 00:12:37,070 --> 00:12:40,050 S3: 4 people have had sex with someone within six hours 254 00:12:40,050 --> 00:12:41,040 S3: of meeting them. 255 00:12:41,190 --> 00:12:43,020 S2: Oh, yeah, that makes sense. Like a one night stand? 256 00:12:43,030 --> 00:12:46,809 S3: Yeah. Majority of women say. Or what do you think 257 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:51,160 S3: majority of women say is their favorite position versus men? 258 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:57,100 S2: I reckon most women say mhm. Actually I was going 259 00:12:57,100 --> 00:12:59,980 S2: to say missionary, but I reckon maybe being on top missionary. 260 00:13:00,010 --> 00:13:00,309 S3: Really. 261 00:13:00,309 --> 00:13:00,819 S2: Okay. 262 00:13:00,850 --> 00:13:03,520 S3: Is that say missionary when you're on the bottom. Oh 263 00:13:03,550 --> 00:13:06,550 S3: my favorite. Yeah. Because you do less low effort but 264 00:13:06,550 --> 00:13:07,180 S3: see like my. 265 00:13:07,179 --> 00:13:08,710 S2: Favorite is actually being on top. 266 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:09,699 S3: Because. 267 00:13:10,270 --> 00:13:14,140 S2: That way I actually can. That's the only position where 268 00:13:14,140 --> 00:13:16,270 S2: I know how I can climax. 269 00:13:16,300 --> 00:13:17,380 S3: Oh, there you go. Yeah. 270 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:19,270 S2: No other position works for me. 271 00:13:19,300 --> 00:13:19,900 S3: Okay. 272 00:13:19,929 --> 00:13:21,520 S2: So that's why I like being on the top. Because 273 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:24,489 S2: I'm in control. Um. And then men, I think. 274 00:13:24,820 --> 00:13:27,790 S3: Doggy. Yeah, 100%. Why do you think that? 275 00:13:28,179 --> 00:13:31,150 S2: I don't know, because they're like, feel like they're powerful. 276 00:13:31,179 --> 00:13:32,380 S2: I don't know what it is. 277 00:13:32,500 --> 00:13:32,920 S3: Mhm. 278 00:13:32,950 --> 00:13:33,610 S2: Why, what is it. 279 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:35,170 S3: I think that no I don't know. I thought I 280 00:13:35,170 --> 00:13:37,480 S3: would have like a. Why is that. 281 00:13:38,290 --> 00:13:39,670 S2: Why is that option. 282 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:43,650 S3: More than 30. Oh my God! Steffi! This is such 283 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:47,610 S3: a slave for you and also me. 39% of people 284 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:52,380 S3: schedule it in. I love that, I feel like. Exactly. 285 00:13:52,380 --> 00:13:54,930 S3: And it is okay. And it doesn't make it unsexy. 286 00:13:54,929 --> 00:13:56,730 S3: And if you are scheduling in your sex, so is 287 00:13:56,730 --> 00:14:01,200 S3: almost half of the population of people having sex. 10% 288 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:04,230 S3: of people aged 18 to 27 have never had sex. 289 00:14:04,230 --> 00:14:06,150 S3: I love that too, because obviously if you haven't found 290 00:14:06,150 --> 00:14:12,239 S3: someone you want to have sex with, it's fine. Yeah, exactly. 77. 291 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:15,959 S3: Oh my goodness. Okay. How many people? Percentage of people. 292 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:19,260 S3: I've already said it. Seven. Yeah. Okay. Admitted to cheating 293 00:14:19,260 --> 00:14:20,190 S3: with their boss. 294 00:14:20,220 --> 00:14:21,390 S2: 7% of people? 295 00:14:21,510 --> 00:14:24,270 S3: Quite a lot. Wow. That is actually quite a lot. 296 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:27,630 S3: That is a lot more than I thought. Okay. Okay. 297 00:14:27,660 --> 00:14:33,630 S3: Moving right on. 3% fantasize about their barista. Oh, that's. 298 00:14:33,660 --> 00:14:37,200 S2: They are always very charming, though, I feel. No, as in, like, my. 299 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:39,960 S3: Baristas a lady. And. Yeah, it's not for me. 300 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:42,370 S2: That character is, like, very like charming. Like how many? 301 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:45,040 S2: I've not my local ones, but I've. 302 00:14:45,070 --> 00:14:46,600 S3: Gone to cafes, just to be. 303 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:50,290 S2: Clear. But I've gone to cafes before, like, oh, I'm 304 00:14:50,290 --> 00:14:52,120 S2: driving by and I need to get a coffee before 305 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:55,090 S2: something or whatever, and I'll pull in and they're very 306 00:14:55,090 --> 00:14:56,800 S2: chatty and very charismatic. 307 00:14:56,830 --> 00:14:59,680 S3: I've actually never felt anything. I mean, I love baristas, 308 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:02,170 S3: I think they're gorgeous and I love I feel joy 309 00:15:02,410 --> 00:15:05,230 S3: from them, but I've never felt sexual attraction. 310 00:15:05,260 --> 00:15:07,240 S2: No, I'm not saying that. I'm not saying that I have. 311 00:15:07,270 --> 00:15:07,540 S2: What I'm. 312 00:15:07,540 --> 00:15:10,360 S3: Saying is. But fantasy. Have you fantasized about them? No, no. 313 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:11,650 S3: But you know why people have. 314 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:13,360 S2: I know why people have. Because they can be very 315 00:15:13,390 --> 00:15:16,420 S2: charismatic people. Because they're like talking to people all day 316 00:15:16,420 --> 00:15:19,150 S2: and they're like, what are you doing? Or, like, try this. 317 00:15:19,750 --> 00:15:21,370 S3: Okay, whatever. No, I love it. 318 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:23,950 S2: I haven't and I wouldn't, but I can see why. 319 00:15:23,980 --> 00:15:25,660 S3: Well, maybe you would. You never know. Like, it's. 320 00:15:25,660 --> 00:15:29,140 S2: Different to like, a postman. Actually, our postman is really friendly. 321 00:15:29,170 --> 00:15:31,120 S2: I would not actually fantasize about. 322 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:32,320 S3: Him, but. Okay. 323 00:15:32,620 --> 00:15:34,600 S2: What I was getting at. Is there a. 324 00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:37,780 S3: Profession? Only 3%. So I feel like it's not. Actually, 325 00:15:37,810 --> 00:15:41,310 S3: it's more 4% more people have admitted to cheating with 326 00:15:41,310 --> 00:15:44,010 S3: their boss. So we're not talking about 30% here, just three. 327 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:47,880 S3: So I think I just want to crawl in, I 328 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:51,690 S3: think is the sexiest profession. Oh, that's a lot of saliva. 329 00:15:52,770 --> 00:15:55,560 S3: Went right up. Um. 330 00:15:56,580 --> 00:16:00,750 S2: That's a really good question. I actually think tradies are okay. 331 00:16:00,780 --> 00:16:01,200 S3: There's something. 332 00:16:01,200 --> 00:16:01,890 S2: About tradies for. 333 00:16:01,890 --> 00:16:03,060 S3: Me, not for me. 334 00:16:03,330 --> 00:16:05,790 S2: I mean, almost all of my exes have been tradies. 335 00:16:05,820 --> 00:16:09,180 S3: So I mean, not that handyman. I find it so attractive. 336 00:16:09,210 --> 00:16:11,130 S3: It is. Yeah. To be able to fix a doorknob 337 00:16:11,130 --> 00:16:12,570 S3: or something. I don't know why I thought of a doorknob, 338 00:16:12,570 --> 00:16:13,830 S3: but thank you. Yeah, and I don't know. 339 00:16:13,830 --> 00:16:18,390 S2: There's something about dirty tradie shorts and hard steel boots. 340 00:16:18,390 --> 00:16:20,970 S3: So do you know why I don't I don't find 341 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:24,359 S3: and obviously tradies like if any tradies listening. Love you. 342 00:16:24,390 --> 00:16:27,030 S3: Thank you for listening. You are a cloud ling. But 343 00:16:27,030 --> 00:16:29,760 S3: the reason I don't. That wouldn't be the one for 344 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:32,850 S3: me is because I have been woof whistled so many 345 00:16:32,850 --> 00:16:35,250 S3: times and it makes me so angry. Yeah. Fair enough. 346 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:36,720 S3: A lot of them. And when you're like when, if 347 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:39,400 S3: you're if I'm running and then they're all like, say, turn. 348 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:40,630 S3: And then I look at them and I put my 349 00:16:40,630 --> 00:16:42,610 S3: finger up and I run and I cover my butt 350 00:16:42,610 --> 00:16:44,470 S3: with my hands. I know, I get so angry. It 351 00:16:44,470 --> 00:16:46,359 S3: just makes me so. I just feel like objectified, I 352 00:16:46,390 --> 00:16:50,770 S3: hate it. So anyway. But there you go. There you go, guys. 353 00:16:50,770 --> 00:16:53,109 S3: Let us know. I really want to know. What are 354 00:16:53,110 --> 00:16:56,770 S3: you surprised by these stats? Are any of these stats like. 355 00:16:56,770 --> 00:16:59,890 S3: Did anything bring up a story for you? So if 356 00:16:59,920 --> 00:17:03,100 S3: you thought if do you fantasize about your barista? Have 357 00:17:03,100 --> 00:17:06,310 S3: you cheated with your boss? Is do you schedule it in? 358 00:17:06,340 --> 00:17:10,180 S3: Is it what here surprised you or didn't surprise you? 359 00:17:10,180 --> 00:17:12,760 S3: And what stories do you have? I want to know. Okay, 360 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:14,170 S3: we want to know. We want to know. So please 361 00:17:14,170 --> 00:17:17,949 S3: send them in to our Instagram at Kick Pod. DM us. 362 00:17:17,950 --> 00:17:19,870 S3: You can send a voice note or write it out. 363 00:17:19,869 --> 00:17:22,120 S3: And yeah, I cannot wait to hear. 364 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:25,720 S4: One. Two three. 365 00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:30,639 S2: Last week we spoke about some plumbing disasters, particularly Laura's 366 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:33,880 S2: one where shit was literally appearing in her bath and shower. 367 00:17:34,300 --> 00:17:35,859 S3: Yuck. In the drain in the drain. 368 00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:38,760 S2: And I shared that I almost shattered my father in 369 00:17:38,790 --> 00:17:42,270 S2: law's head through plumbing. And so we just knew that 370 00:17:42,270 --> 00:17:44,460 S2: we weren't alone in these plumbing stories. And you guys 371 00:17:44,460 --> 00:17:46,200 S2: have come with the goods. 372 00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:50,280 S3: You've come with the goods. Okay, so the first one here. 373 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:53,100 S3: So I had just started a new job fresh out 374 00:17:53,100 --> 00:17:55,200 S3: of uni, and I wasn't a fan of being able 375 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:57,150 S3: to see who goes into the toilet and when they 376 00:17:57,150 --> 00:17:59,730 S3: come out. Can I just say I agree? I agree. 377 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:02,250 S3: I don't want to know. Nobody I don't want to know. 378 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:04,830 S3: I do not want to know. Normally I would just 379 00:18:04,830 --> 00:18:07,920 S3: hold my urine at work. I always find it so 380 00:18:07,950 --> 00:18:10,530 S3: impressive for people. There's some people that actually don't go 381 00:18:10,530 --> 00:18:12,450 S3: to the toilet. I'm pretty good at it. I can 382 00:18:12,450 --> 00:18:14,730 S3: hold quite well. No, I go, but I'm also not super, 383 00:18:14,730 --> 00:18:16,679 S3: super regular. So, like, I feel like it's easier for 384 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:21,690 S3: me to hold. Um, but yeah, I do, I feel you. Okay, 385 00:18:22,020 --> 00:18:24,300 S3: so usually I just wait until I get home. But 386 00:18:24,300 --> 00:18:26,760 S3: one day I went. One day I thought I would 387 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:29,910 S3: just get over my fear and go because I really 388 00:18:29,910 --> 00:18:32,040 S3: needed to go. So off I went. I know this 389 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:34,500 S3: is not going to be good. And I began stressing 390 00:18:34,500 --> 00:18:37,090 S3: that people will know I have been gone for so long. 391 00:18:37,090 --> 00:18:41,590 S3: So I finish up and it's time to flush. The 392 00:18:41,619 --> 00:18:46,480 S3: poo does not disappear. Oh my God, this is my 393 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:51,400 S3: worst nightmare at work. So I flush again and again. 394 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:54,580 S3: Nothing I now know full well I have been gone 395 00:18:54,580 --> 00:18:58,510 S3: for half an hour so I start panicking. Then I 396 00:18:58,510 --> 00:19:02,350 S3: realize also just a warning here. This might be TMI. 397 00:19:02,380 --> 00:19:05,050 S3: The poo is stuck because it's bigger than the hole 398 00:19:05,050 --> 00:19:08,800 S3: in the toilet. What the heck? Is it because you've 399 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:12,160 S3: been holding on all week? Because you haven't? Oh my God. 400 00:19:12,490 --> 00:19:15,940 S3: And I think to myself, fuck, I'm going to either 401 00:19:15,940 --> 00:19:22,990 S3: have to grab grab this thing out, like, like wash 402 00:19:22,990 --> 00:19:24,669 S3: it out of the pool. Where the fuck was I 403 00:19:24,700 --> 00:19:26,649 S3: going to put it? So true, because it goes in 404 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:33,160 S3: the toilet or push or. Oh my God, I'll push 405 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:34,200 S3: it down. 406 00:19:34,650 --> 00:19:38,669 S2: Oh my God. Oh my God. 407 00:19:38,700 --> 00:19:41,970 S3: So I decided on the less disgusting and hands on 408 00:19:41,970 --> 00:19:44,820 S3: approach and rap. I don't know if there's anything less 409 00:19:44,820 --> 00:19:48,419 S3: disgusting here. Rap my hand in a million layers of 410 00:19:48,420 --> 00:19:53,399 S3: toilet paper. Pray to the toilet gods. Press the flesh 411 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:58,800 S3: and nudge the poo at the same time. And it worked. 412 00:19:59,490 --> 00:20:03,240 S3: Holy fucking shit. Talk about poo trauma. No pun intended. 413 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:06,510 S3: Let's say I didn't put work again. And when I 414 00:20:06,510 --> 00:20:09,030 S3: started at my next job and realized the toilets were 415 00:20:09,270 --> 00:20:12,540 S3: more private and away from the office desk desks, I 416 00:20:12,540 --> 00:20:17,940 S3: was a happy gal. Oh my God, my actual God. Yeah, 417 00:20:18,090 --> 00:20:22,350 S3: that is my worst nightmare. And also also if you 418 00:20:22,350 --> 00:20:24,420 S3: have to call a plumber at work if the toilet. 419 00:20:24,450 --> 00:20:26,250 S3: It also, do you know how much it costs to 420 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:28,230 S3: call a plumber to unblock a poo in a toilet? 421 00:20:28,260 --> 00:20:30,840 S3: I don't want to know. It's like close to $1,000. 422 00:20:30,869 --> 00:20:32,950 S2: No, I would not. I would put toilet paper over 423 00:20:32,950 --> 00:20:34,629 S2: and run and I'd be like, that wasn't me. Who 424 00:20:34,660 --> 00:20:38,800 S2: the fuck did that? No fucking way. Not at work. No. 425 00:20:38,980 --> 00:20:41,380 S3: Imagine. And because it wouldn't, you wouldn't. You'd probably go 426 00:20:41,380 --> 00:20:41,980 S3: to em. 427 00:20:42,010 --> 00:20:44,290 S2: Yeah, exactly. Our head of. 428 00:20:44,290 --> 00:20:47,170 S3: Ops and say. Not that Em's job is to, like, 429 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,659 S3: fix the toilet, obviously, but it's just em is like 430 00:20:49,660 --> 00:20:52,179 S3: the mother of our office and would know what to do, 431 00:20:52,180 --> 00:20:55,660 S3: and I feel like I. Oh my God. Oh my God. 432 00:20:55,690 --> 00:20:59,440 S2: You know what I, I I've spoken before about my 433 00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:01,659 S2: bowel issues on this podcast before. And if you, if 434 00:21:01,690 --> 00:21:04,210 S2: you weren't here from that like really long story short, 435 00:21:04,210 --> 00:21:07,720 S2: I like my stomach. Like if I don't go to 436 00:21:07,750 --> 00:21:11,619 S2: the toilet, I then feel incredibly, really uncomfortable. And I 437 00:21:11,619 --> 00:21:13,300 S2: also feel like I'm going to fart and it's going 438 00:21:13,330 --> 00:21:15,910 S2: to smell. So like I just go to the toilet, right? 439 00:21:15,910 --> 00:21:18,040 S2: And I'm quite comfortable going to the toilet at work 440 00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:21,310 S2: now because I know that if I don't, that's my 441 00:21:21,340 --> 00:21:25,180 S2: that's my nightmare. Yeah. Um, and but what I used 442 00:21:25,180 --> 00:21:26,859 S2: to do when I wasn't so comfortable, there was like 443 00:21:26,890 --> 00:21:29,500 S2: a few things I did it that, like, made me feel. 444 00:21:29,859 --> 00:21:32,100 S2: And I know other people do it. Give us a 445 00:21:32,100 --> 00:21:34,169 S2: tool that other people do it. If you know you're 446 00:21:34,170 --> 00:21:37,170 S2: going to go do a poo. Yep. You sit down, 447 00:21:37,170 --> 00:21:39,090 S2: you put a little bit of toilet paper in the bowl. 448 00:21:39,210 --> 00:21:40,440 S2: It doesn't plop, so it doesn't plop. 449 00:21:40,470 --> 00:21:42,389 S3: That's smart. I actually never thought of that. Aha. 450 00:21:42,420 --> 00:21:44,880 S2: And also, like, it also means it doesn't, like skid 451 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:46,560 S2: down the toilet thing. So you don't have to use, like, 452 00:21:46,590 --> 00:21:49,320 S2: the toilet brush afterwards. Cause that's true. 453 00:21:49,980 --> 00:21:52,950 S3: At work. Yeah. Have you ever lifted, like, a super 454 00:21:52,950 --> 00:21:55,020 S3: clean office? It's so good. They get cleaned every hour, 455 00:21:55,050 --> 00:21:59,280 S3: but in no toilet block is the communal toilet brush. 456 00:21:59,310 --> 00:22:03,330 S2: Oh, no. No, no. It's never a vibe, right? Um, but. 457 00:22:03,330 --> 00:22:07,169 S2: And then it's also like, in case you think that, like, 458 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:09,359 S2: you're maybe going to fart or there's going to be 459 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:13,320 S2: a noise as you poo. Sometimes there is, sometimes it's not. Um, 460 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:15,960 S2: I know everyone else does this as soon as someone 461 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:17,850 S2: else is using the hand dryer or the or the 462 00:22:17,850 --> 00:22:21,480 S2: tap or they're flushed, that's when you go, okay. That's 463 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,940 S2: when you do it. And I know that happens because 464 00:22:23,940 --> 00:22:27,119 S2: I've sat next to someone else in a cubicle before 465 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:29,370 S2: where as soon as the hairdryer went, I heard them 466 00:22:29,369 --> 00:22:31,240 S2: go for it because I was sitting right next to them. 467 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:32,770 S2: But like doesn't work. 468 00:22:32,770 --> 00:22:33,399 S3: As well as we. 469 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:36,250 S2: Think. Common tactics though. If they make you feel better, 470 00:22:36,340 --> 00:22:38,740 S2: do them because it is totally normal to have to 471 00:22:38,770 --> 00:22:40,210 S2: go to the toilet. 472 00:22:40,660 --> 00:22:43,270 S3: Um, have you ever walked out of going to the toilet? 473 00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:45,310 S3: You know what? My least favorite member has walked into 474 00:22:45,310 --> 00:22:47,350 S3: that cubicle and you've had eye contact. 475 00:22:47,380 --> 00:22:50,320 S2: No, I mean, probably probably, but I'm not. Honestly, I 476 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:52,119 S2: don't give a shit anymore. I'm like, I need to 477 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,399 S2: go to the toilet. The thing that I don't like 478 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:57,250 S2: is there's cubicles. As in, sorry, they were talking about 479 00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:02,139 S2: toilet cubicles. I mean, phone booths where, like, people work. Yes, 480 00:23:02,170 --> 00:23:05,919 S2: solely just outside of the toilet. And my least favorite 481 00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:07,929 S2: thing is when I know I need a poo, someone's 482 00:23:07,930 --> 00:23:11,200 S2: watched me go in. So the whole time I'm doing 483 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:12,820 S2: a poo, I'm like, they're going to see me come out. 484 00:23:12,820 --> 00:23:13,960 S2: And it's been like ten minutes. I don't. 485 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:15,760 S3: Think any because can I say, if you did that, 486 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:17,679 S3: I would just assume you've you've got stuck on your. 487 00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:18,490 S2: Phone. You're just playing. 488 00:23:18,490 --> 00:23:21,190 S3: On my phone, I feel like. Yeah, I would think, 489 00:23:21,220 --> 00:23:23,200 S3: oh Steph's taking her phone into the toilet. 490 00:23:23,230 --> 00:23:25,720 S2: Yeah. And to be honest, sometimes when I'm doing poo, 491 00:23:25,750 --> 00:23:27,070 S2: I will do that and I'll play on my phone 492 00:23:27,070 --> 00:23:27,879 S2: and I'll be like, fuck, I've. 493 00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:31,109 S3: Been getting texts and way too long on the toilet. 494 00:23:31,140 --> 00:23:32,550 S2: I need to get off the toilet now. 495 00:23:33,090 --> 00:23:35,970 S3: Oh my goodness. Okay, okay. Thank you. Steffi. Can I 496 00:23:35,970 --> 00:23:38,910 S3: just say thank you for that? That was very helpful. 497 00:23:39,180 --> 00:23:43,800 S3: Very helpful. Okay. This next story is from Stephie. 498 00:23:43,890 --> 00:23:46,409 S5: Hi, Steph and Laura. I'm such a massive fan of 499 00:23:46,410 --> 00:23:48,210 S5: the kick pod. I also love that this is how 500 00:23:48,210 --> 00:23:51,240 S5: I'm first interacting with you guys. So I didn't have 501 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,480 S5: a plumbing disaster, but I almost did when I was 502 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:56,550 S5: studying abroad in Paris. My friend and I were living 503 00:23:56,550 --> 00:23:59,310 S5: in a tiny little flat and the toilet was just 504 00:23:59,340 --> 00:24:01,890 S5: off the living room. So when you pooped, everyone was 505 00:24:01,890 --> 00:24:06,359 S5: really pooping with you. And I have notoriously big poops, 506 00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:09,960 S5: so I went to go take one and it wouldn't flush. 507 00:24:09,990 --> 00:24:12,840 S5: I panicked for a second and was like, okay, look around. 508 00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:16,110 S5: What can you use to basically chop this up? And 509 00:24:16,109 --> 00:24:19,650 S5: I found some chopsticks and took the two sticks and 510 00:24:19,650 --> 00:24:22,859 S5: went in there and chopped it up and it flushed. 511 00:24:22,859 --> 00:24:26,250 S5: And that is my poop success story. And if I'm 512 00:24:26,250 --> 00:24:28,250 S5: ever in a bind, or if you're ever in a bind, 513 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:31,550 S5: look for chopsticks, I promise you. They're the best utensils 514 00:24:31,550 --> 00:24:34,250 S5: out there. Um, I hope that this doesn't ruin your 515 00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:38,270 S5: sushi experience. Um, but, yeah, that's my poop story. I 516 00:24:38,270 --> 00:24:39,380 S5: hope it makes you laugh a little. 517 00:24:40,850 --> 00:24:42,380 S2: Oh, I really hope they went in their bins. 518 00:24:42,410 --> 00:24:44,120 S3: I fucking love you. I love I. 519 00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:44,780 S2: Really hope they went in. 520 00:24:44,780 --> 00:24:46,190 S3: There. I don't know where you were going to go, 521 00:24:46,190 --> 00:24:51,500 S3: but then when she said, I chopped it up. Oh 522 00:24:51,530 --> 00:24:54,620 S3: my God. Okay. Thank you, thank you. This next one 523 00:24:54,619 --> 00:24:56,090 S3: is from Amelia. 524 00:24:56,540 --> 00:24:59,330 S6: So a few years ago, I was working in America 525 00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:02,869 S6: at a summer camp. Um, and one of the staff 526 00:25:02,869 --> 00:25:07,909 S6: there invited me home to her family home, um, in 527 00:25:07,910 --> 00:25:10,790 S6: Kansas for the weekend. It was the first time meeting 528 00:25:10,790 --> 00:25:13,910 S6: her family, and it was my first time eating, um, 529 00:25:13,940 --> 00:25:18,379 S6: a big, like, American grill up. It did not agree 530 00:25:18,380 --> 00:25:23,510 S6: with my tummy. I went to the bathroom, did a 531 00:25:23,510 --> 00:25:28,650 S6: giant poo, but the plumbing there was subpar at best. Um, 532 00:25:28,650 --> 00:25:34,200 S6: so it got stuck. I tried flushing and flushing and 533 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:38,010 S6: the water was was rising. Um, so I got the 534 00:25:38,010 --> 00:25:43,560 S6: plunger out, and that made everything overflow. So the contents 535 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:47,100 S6: of my giant poo and the toilet paper and all 536 00:25:47,130 --> 00:25:50,820 S6: of the water went all over their bathroom floor. I 537 00:25:50,820 --> 00:25:54,210 S6: had no idea what to do. Um, but I went 538 00:25:54,210 --> 00:25:57,060 S6: and got my friend, and then she got her dad. 539 00:25:57,090 --> 00:26:00,720 S6: Mind you, you know, I'd met him a few hours earlier, 540 00:26:00,810 --> 00:26:05,400 S6: and he fixed it, but safe to say, the rest 541 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:10,109 S6: of the weekend was just cringey as I haven't stayed 542 00:26:10,109 --> 00:26:14,460 S6: friends with her. Not sure if it's because of the 543 00:26:14,460 --> 00:26:17,909 S6: poo or not. Um, but it's probably for the best 544 00:26:17,910 --> 00:26:20,550 S6: so that this story doesn't get brought up time and 545 00:26:20,550 --> 00:26:21,480 S6: time again. 546 00:26:21,660 --> 00:26:23,970 S2: Oh my God, that is that is my. 547 00:26:24,020 --> 00:26:26,899 S3: I'm so sorry. That is my worst nightmare. Like being 548 00:26:26,900 --> 00:26:28,910 S3: stuck in a toilet with a poo that won't flush 549 00:26:28,940 --> 00:26:31,880 S3: is the worst. But then trying to fix it and 550 00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:34,489 S3: it going on the floor and having to call in 551 00:26:34,490 --> 00:26:36,469 S3: your friend and your friend's dad. 552 00:26:36,500 --> 00:26:37,850 S2: You know what you have to do, would. 553 00:26:37,850 --> 00:26:40,010 S3: You? I would have climbed out the window and run away. 554 00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:42,950 S2: No, this is the tip. Even if it happens at home. 555 00:26:42,980 --> 00:26:44,540 S2: Oh my God, you've got so many tips. I know 556 00:26:44,810 --> 00:26:48,350 S2: it's happened to me before. Um, when you flush and 557 00:26:48,350 --> 00:26:51,200 S2: the water rises, like, you know, it's clogged, like, okay, fuck. 558 00:26:51,230 --> 00:26:52,880 S2: If I keep flushing, it's just going to keep rising 559 00:26:52,910 --> 00:26:56,840 S2: and rising. Those kind of clogs. You get boiling water 560 00:26:56,840 --> 00:27:00,080 S2: and you pour boiling water into the toilet bowl and it, like, 561 00:27:00,109 --> 00:27:02,930 S2: breaks up whatever's in there, obviously your shit or whatever, 562 00:27:02,930 --> 00:27:07,100 S2: but it, like, genuinely loosens things up. And then you wait, like, 563 00:27:07,130 --> 00:27:09,619 S2: I don't know, five minutes or so don't go straight away, 564 00:27:09,619 --> 00:27:11,210 S2: and then you flush and it'll go down. 565 00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:14,060 S3: I feel like I've just had a toilet masterclass. Thank 566 00:27:14,060 --> 00:27:19,340 S3: you so much. Okay. And this last one is from Kristen. 567 00:27:19,910 --> 00:27:23,070 S7: So I've had a few plumbing disaster stories, but the 568 00:27:23,070 --> 00:27:26,520 S7: worst one was when I was a grad student living 569 00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:30,330 S7: in campus housing. It was pretty late at night, maybe 570 00:27:30,330 --> 00:27:36,570 S7: 10 or 1030, and I just clogged the toilet. It overflowed. 571 00:27:36,869 --> 00:27:40,110 S7: The mess in the bathroom was horrifying, and I had 572 00:27:40,109 --> 00:27:43,260 S7: to call the emergency maintenance number because it was after 573 00:27:43,260 --> 00:27:45,570 S7: hours and these two guys had to come to my 574 00:27:45,570 --> 00:27:50,609 S7: apartment late at night to fix the toilet. And then 575 00:27:50,609 --> 00:27:55,859 S7: I had to clean up this absolutely disgusting mess in 576 00:27:55,859 --> 00:28:00,030 S7: my bathroom. I've never quite recovered from that one mentally, 577 00:28:00,030 --> 00:28:04,290 S7: and it's been probably eight years by now. It was bad. 578 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:05,580 S2: Oh my God. 579 00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:08,580 S3: I would not have recovered either. I know that's something 580 00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,730 S3: that like. Honestly. Touch wood. Thank you for guys. I 581 00:28:11,730 --> 00:28:14,340 S3: feel like too if anyone was fearful of this happening, 582 00:28:14,340 --> 00:28:16,919 S3: I don't know if this helped. It does happen though. 583 00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:19,980 S3: But honestly, I would never recover. 584 00:28:20,010 --> 00:28:22,490 S2: No, you know what you would have done in that moment. What? 585 00:28:22,850 --> 00:28:25,399 S2: I just had a one night stand. Can you believe that? 586 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:27,350 S2: This is what they left me with. You would have 587 00:28:27,380 --> 00:28:28,159 S2: totally lied. 588 00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:33,919 S3: Percent. 100%. Oh my God, guys, we love you. Thank 589 00:28:33,950 --> 00:28:36,650 S3: you Stephanie. Thank you for the masterclass. It was really 590 00:28:36,650 --> 00:28:37,340 S3: quite a. 591 00:28:37,340 --> 00:28:38,060 S2: Surprise and. 592 00:28:38,060 --> 00:28:39,920 S3: I didn't know you had this information in you, but 593 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:43,340 S3: I'm really glad you shared it guys, those stories were 594 00:28:43,340 --> 00:28:48,200 S3: just incredible. Thank you very much. And we hope that 595 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:51,470 S3: in future it will flush down for you. But. 596 00:28:54,650 --> 00:28:57,020 S8: But is it time for a special share? 597 00:28:57,860 --> 00:29:01,790 S3: Share I am going to recommend and my special share 598 00:29:01,790 --> 00:29:06,290 S3: of the week is Michelle Andrew's new podcast called glass. Well, 599 00:29:06,290 --> 00:29:09,110 S3: it's really it kind of feels like it's an audio essay. 600 00:29:09,140 --> 00:29:11,210 S3: I think they're calling it, but it sounds it feels 601 00:29:11,210 --> 00:29:15,770 S3: like you're listening to an audiobook. Exactly. Now, mish, who 602 00:29:15,770 --> 00:29:20,130 S3: is the founder of Shameless Media, obviously, as you guys, 603 00:29:20,130 --> 00:29:22,110 S3: we know most of you also love. 604 00:29:22,140 --> 00:29:23,490 S2: We have done our surveys. 605 00:29:23,490 --> 00:29:25,709 S3: You love Michelle and Zara. You love shameless. So I'm 606 00:29:25,710 --> 00:29:27,120 S3: sure a lot of you have already listened to it, 607 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:30,930 S3: but if you haven't, it is just a beautiful gift 608 00:29:30,930 --> 00:29:35,850 S3: to the world. So Misha's been going through her own 609 00:29:35,850 --> 00:29:42,840 S3: journey with infertility for 18 months now and I um, 610 00:29:43,110 --> 00:29:45,060 S3: I spend quite, quite a bit of time with Misha, 611 00:29:45,060 --> 00:29:46,950 S3: and I've kind of known what she's been going through 612 00:29:46,950 --> 00:29:51,960 S3: behind the scenes, and it has been just so heartbreaking 613 00:29:51,990 --> 00:29:56,610 S3: to see her go through it. And, um, in this 614 00:29:56,610 --> 00:30:00,900 S3: and she said to me that I really when it's time, 615 00:30:00,900 --> 00:30:04,140 S3: I'll share this, I'll share this story publicly. And, you know, 616 00:30:04,170 --> 00:30:06,900 S3: it'll hopefully to to be able to help people because 617 00:30:06,900 --> 00:30:12,000 S3: it just feels so fucking isolating and unfair. Exactly right. 618 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:17,430 S3: And so Misha, very, very, very generously, generously wrote this 619 00:30:17,430 --> 00:30:20,780 S3: beautiful Useful essay. It goes through about 70 minutes. It's 620 00:30:20,780 --> 00:30:24,530 S3: three parts. Yeah, they're all about 20 minutes. And it 621 00:30:24,530 --> 00:30:27,770 S3: is just it is just one of the most like 622 00:30:27,950 --> 00:30:33,050 S3: she's an incredible, incredible writer. Oh she's so she's so 623 00:30:33,050 --> 00:30:36,410 S3: bloody talented. So the way that you feel like you're 624 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,290 S3: there when she's telling the story, but the way that 625 00:30:39,290 --> 00:30:42,680 S3: she details it, I think when people have this amazing 626 00:30:42,710 --> 00:30:47,690 S3: ability to put exactly how you feel into words. Not 627 00:30:47,690 --> 00:30:50,060 S3: all of us can do that, obviously. And Mitch has 628 00:30:50,060 --> 00:30:52,850 S3: this incredible talent and she's she's done it in this 629 00:30:52,850 --> 00:30:55,340 S3: way that I just feel like it'll make so many 630 00:30:55,340 --> 00:31:00,620 S3: people feel so seen and just not not alone. It's beautiful. 631 00:31:00,620 --> 00:31:02,750 S3: I cried through a lot of episode two and three 632 00:31:02,750 --> 00:31:04,910 S3: just in like, pride of like, wow, you're incredible for 633 00:31:04,910 --> 00:31:07,940 S3: telling this, but also like, fuck the pain. It is. 634 00:31:07,940 --> 00:31:13,070 S3: So like, infertility is just such a shit thing. Like 635 00:31:13,100 --> 00:31:14,660 S3: there's nothing else you can kind of say about it. 636 00:31:14,660 --> 00:31:17,490 S3: It's really hard. And she also speaks as well about 637 00:31:17,490 --> 00:31:20,670 S3: her family's journey because it's not just her story. And 638 00:31:20,670 --> 00:31:23,250 S3: I thought it was. It was a really interesting perspective 639 00:31:23,250 --> 00:31:25,950 S3: to hear not only her story, which I feel like 640 00:31:25,950 --> 00:31:28,020 S3: I've never heard that before from her, kind of when 641 00:31:28,020 --> 00:31:30,600 S3: I've heard infertility stories. Also the story of her grandmother 642 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:31,530 S3: and her mother. 643 00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:33,930 S2: Yeah. And I think it was like, because what that 644 00:31:33,930 --> 00:31:36,450 S2: really added to it was, I'm sure the feeling that 645 00:31:36,450 --> 00:31:38,970 S2: a lot of people go through when a loved one 646 00:31:38,970 --> 00:31:41,340 S2: has gone through something heavy is you kind of think like, well, 647 00:31:41,340 --> 00:31:43,860 S2: it's happened to them. It's not going to happen to me. 648 00:31:43,860 --> 00:31:46,200 S2: Or it's like you've already out of the statistics of 649 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,570 S2: how many people go through these kind of things. Like, 650 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:50,160 S2: I already know enough people close to me that it's 651 00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:53,790 S2: happened to. So like, surely it wouldn't happen to me. Um, 652 00:31:53,790 --> 00:31:55,860 S2: and then just like kind of sitting with that or 653 00:31:55,890 --> 00:31:57,540 S2: like going through some of the stuff herself and then 654 00:31:57,540 --> 00:32:00,510 S2: realizing like someone's so close to her could relate so 655 00:32:00,510 --> 00:32:03,150 S2: closely with what she's going through. It's just I did 656 00:32:03,180 --> 00:32:08,250 S2: agree the honesty in the episodes was so refreshing as well. 657 00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:11,940 S2: Like even in episode two, she goes into more so 658 00:32:11,970 --> 00:32:14,820 S2: kind of like aesthetic insecurities that she's gone through. And 659 00:32:14,850 --> 00:32:18,920 S2: like With, you know, with infertility that like making her 660 00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:21,980 S2: feel like she's aging more than her body is. And 661 00:32:21,980 --> 00:32:24,050 S2: then so it makes her more conscious of different things, 662 00:32:24,050 --> 00:32:27,170 S2: like fine lines or like appearance wise or whatever. And 663 00:32:27,170 --> 00:32:30,650 S2: I just felt like all of that was so honest 664 00:32:30,650 --> 00:32:33,140 S2: and like, just stuff that people are scared to be 665 00:32:33,140 --> 00:32:36,590 S2: open about, particularly people with a platform. So I totally agree. 666 00:32:36,590 --> 00:32:39,500 S2: I thought it was such an incredible thing that she's done. 667 00:32:39,500 --> 00:32:41,630 S2: And yeah, I knew it was going to be a 668 00:32:41,630 --> 00:32:44,330 S2: special show because it is truly special. One of the 669 00:32:44,330 --> 00:32:48,200 S2: most special shows we could possibly share. Um, and I 670 00:32:48,230 --> 00:32:51,110 S2: listened to it to this week, and I just just 671 00:32:51,110 --> 00:32:54,080 S2: loved listening to it. And she is phenomenal. 672 00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:56,120 S3: Yeah I agree. Mhm. 673 00:32:56,780 --> 00:32:59,060 S2: Um, cause I knew you were going to share that. 674 00:32:59,270 --> 00:33:01,160 S2: I was like, I got to think of something else. Um, 675 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:04,130 S2: I listened to and she doesn't need any introduction but 676 00:33:04,130 --> 00:33:08,210 S2: Grace tame on the Imperfects and I. That episode is 677 00:33:08,210 --> 00:33:09,140 S2: so powerful. 678 00:33:09,170 --> 00:33:10,910 S3: I have to listen. It's so. 679 00:33:10,910 --> 00:33:14,820 S2: Powerful. And yeah, like I don't really need to say 680 00:33:14,820 --> 00:33:17,340 S2: much more because it's really just like one you should 681 00:33:17,340 --> 00:33:19,170 S2: go and listen to. I highly recommend everyone goes and 682 00:33:19,170 --> 00:33:24,330 S2: listen to it, but she also is a phenomenal woman. Mhm. Um, 683 00:33:24,330 --> 00:33:27,780 S2: and yeah I really really enjoy like I couldn't, could 684 00:33:27,810 --> 00:33:30,750 S2: not stop listening to this podcast. Um it was really 685 00:33:30,750 --> 00:33:32,880 S2: really powerful. And like I obviously know a lot of 686 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:35,729 S2: Grace James story and stuff. So I don't think it's like, oh, 687 00:33:35,730 --> 00:33:38,280 S2: if you know enough about her history, like you're not 688 00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:39,840 S2: going to get anything new out of it. It was 689 00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:41,310 S2: really powerful. Amazing. Yeah. 690 00:33:41,340 --> 00:33:45,960 S3: Thank you. Yeah. Love it. What a double amazing special. 691 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:47,820 S3: I feel like, you know, we always try very hard 692 00:33:47,820 --> 00:33:50,430 S3: with our special shares. Guys, we never recommend stuff. Obviously, 693 00:33:50,430 --> 00:33:52,830 S3: that's not good, but I feel like this week was 694 00:33:52,830 --> 00:33:58,650 S3: a two incredible ones. Especially because they're both awesome women. So. Yay! 695 00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:02,280 S3: Have an amazing rest of your week day whenever you're 696 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:06,180 S3: listening to this weekend. We love you guys so much! 697 00:34:06,210 --> 00:34:09,839 S3: Our cloud links keep floating. We love you. Love you. 698 00:34:09,870 --> 00:34:10,770 S3: Bye bye.