1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: And you're a winner of the Heisman Trophy, Indiana's very 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: own Fernando Mendoza. 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:09,719 Speaker 2: He is Heisman. 4 00:00:09,880 --> 00:00:11,639 Speaker 3: He seems like a really nice kid. Of course, I 5 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 3: don't watch the sports getball, you know that's facy. But 6 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 3: I did see a little bit about his Heisman's speech, 7 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:19,639 Speaker 3: and from what I can tell, and everybody on the 8 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:22,279 Speaker 3: internet seems to love this kid. He seems really nice 9 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 3: and he really loves his family. Yes, that's cool to see. 10 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 1: I wanted to play a part of his acceptance speech 11 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 1: because we have to talk about something that he said. 12 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:35,520 Speaker 4: Mammy, this is your trophy as much as his mind. 13 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 4: You've always been my biggest fan. You're my light, You're 14 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 4: my why, You're my biggest supporter. Your sacrifices, courage, love, 15 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 4: those have been my first playbook and the playbook that 16 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 4: I'm gonna carry through my side, through my entire life. 17 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:49,880 Speaker 4: He told me that the toughness doesn't need to be loud. 18 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 4: It can be quiet and strong. It's choosing hope. It's 19 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 4: believing in yourself when the world doesn't give you much 20 00:00:57,640 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 4: reason to together. You and I are you winding what 21 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 4: people think is possible. 22 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 3: I love you. That's so sweet. 23 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:07,959 Speaker 1: It was very sweet and a lot of people thought 24 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 1: that he did a great job. 25 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 2: Did you hear him call his mom mommy? 26 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 3: Is it mommy or mommy mother? Well you know ma am? I? 27 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: Oh, you mean like the Spanish version, right, Okay? 28 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 2: Oh, I didn't think about that. Yeah, I thought it 29 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 2: was m O m m y either way. 30 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 3: I mean, my dad still refers to his mother as mommy. 31 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:31,119 Speaker 2: Says he yeah, yeah, and I think there's. 32 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 3: Anything wrong with you. 33 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:33,559 Speaker 1: No, I don't think there's anything wrong with it either. 34 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: I still call my mother mama, and my daughter still 35 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 1: calls me mama. And I thought it was really sweet 36 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: that he wasn't embarrassed by it at all. 37 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 2: I like to see people put it out there for everybody. 38 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 3: I like to see people whose family relationships are intact. 39 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 3: I haven't spoken with my mother since I was seventeen 40 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 3: years old. We have a very distant, non existent relationship. 41 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. 42 00:01:57,160 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 3: So I don't have many nice things to say or 43 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 3: many happy man to share. 44 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 2: And this is the exact opposite of that. 45 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 1: Yes, you can tell right in respect, he pays for 46 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 1: her and loves her, and. 47 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 3: Then also his grandparents too. He paid them a special tribute. 48 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 1: Well, he did, and here's what he had to say 49 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 1: to his grandparents and for. 50 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 4: My grandparents, moriscriviso this memo. 51 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 1: So his parents are from Cuba, Yes, and he is 52 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 1: the first Cuban American to win the Heisman Trophy. 53 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 2: Uh. 54 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,399 Speaker 1: Some people were saying that they didn't like the fact 55 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: that he was speaking Spanish. 56 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, and there was a complain I was not received. Well, 57 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 3: that was a completely preventable self own on the part 58 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:50,919 Speaker 3: of Indie reporter who posted on ESPN just one word 59 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:57,839 Speaker 3: responds to his sharing that with his grandparents. Gross and 60 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 3: people did not respond too kindly to that. And you 61 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 3: know what, I don't think that that was an appropriate response. 62 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 3: There is nothing wrong with honoring your family legacy, with 63 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 3: honoring your history, with honoring your grandparents. And if my 64 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 3: grandparents spoke a different language, I would take a moment 65 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 3: to honor them in the language that they were most 66 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 3: familiar with. Whether that was Polish, whether that was Spanish, 67 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 3: whether that was Italian. It doesn't matter what language it is. 68 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 3: I mean, you are paying a tribute to your family 69 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 3: and this is your moment and your speech. It's not 70 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:33,079 Speaker 3: like he was saying, oh, let's invite more illegal immigrants 71 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 3: into the country, let's. 72 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 2: Change, or you wanted to make sure that the love landed. 73 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 3: No, he is making sure he was paying them a tribute, 74 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 3: and so to respond so viscerally that I think was 75 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:45,119 Speaker 3: pretty pretty inappropriate. There. 76 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: So, the Vanderbilt quarterback after losing the heisman to Fernando Mendoza, 77 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: he went out in New. 78 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 2: York City, went out clubbing and was saying f all 79 00:03:55,840 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 2: the voters very much, sour great oh, and people came 80 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 2: down on him hard, and within. 81 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 1: Twenty four hours, I believe he put his Maya Kolpa 82 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: out there. 83 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 2: And turned his messaging around and blamed. 84 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: It on being a competitor. Sure, and that's why he 85 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 1: was being so disingenuous. 86 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, No, it was a brief peek into that kid's character. 87 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 3: And look, he's still a young man. He's got a 88 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 3: lot of time to grow up. But he obviously needs 89 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 3: to do some growing up if that's how he's going 90 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 3: to respond to defeat. Because when you lose, when you 91 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 3: are defeated, when you are beaten by a better man, 92 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 3: it's your opportunity to take it in and learn how 93 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 3: to grow, learn how to be better, not take swipes 94 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 3: at your competitor. That's just an ugly way to respond. 95 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: He said to be so close to his dream and 96 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 1: come up short was painful, and that he didn't handle 97 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 1: those emotions well at all, and it did not represent 98 00:04:56,080 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 1: who he is. Well, yes, it represented exactly you are. 99 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the problem that represented you. 100 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 2: The apology may have come just a little bit too. 101 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 3: Late and seems somewhat insincere, but again he's he's a 102 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 3: young man, he's got time to grow up. 103 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:16,479 Speaker 2: It matters how you win, It also matters how you lose. 104 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:17,160 Speaker 1: Absolutely