WEBVTT - Jason & Lauren - Digging for a Second Date - 08-14-26

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome this morning to a second date updates our friend,

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<v Speaker 1>the Lovable and Ghostable Jason this morning. How are you? Jason?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, what's up? I'm doing well. Thanks?

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<v Speaker 3>Whateful and ghostable?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I'm assuming he's lovable. He sounds like a nice guy. Jason,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you? But why is he getting ghosted? I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>curious what's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Jason?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I really don't know. I went out with Lauren

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<v Speaker 2>on tender.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so tell us a little bit about the date. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So we went out for Mexican food. It was great.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, we had Margarita's. It was a beautiful restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>It was Yeah, it was awesome. And then, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>Lauren was great. I felt like we had great chemistry.

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<v Speaker 2>The vibe was right, the conversation was good. That's good, and.

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<v Speaker 1>No awkward, uncomfortable conversations or moments where you were just

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<v Speaker 1>staring at each other like, oh, well, we talk about it,

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<v Speaker 1>because that can be weird. Sometimes I didn't feel that.

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like it you know, was very tennis match,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, good back and forth station. Yeah, exactly, very

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<v Speaker 2>fast at times, but but yeah, no, it was good.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I was like, hey, you want to get

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<v Speaker 2>another drink and she said no, okay, and she said

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<v Speaker 2>she had to get home to get some sleep before work.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, okay, you know whatever, and yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>texted her the next morning. Nothing. I text her again

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of days later. Nothing. And so here we are.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, getting home because you have work the next

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<v Speaker 3>day is a pretty normal excuse. So she said, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>my dog died or something where it would.

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<v Speaker 1>My friend has a flat tirescuse. Yeah, right, So.

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<v Speaker 3>Nothing really sticks out there. I don't think is there

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<v Speaker 3>anything else that would you know, that would have flagged

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<v Speaker 3>you down for you to think, man, maybe that was it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just thinking we were having too many drinks

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<v Speaker 2>and she wanted to like cut herself off or something

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<v Speaker 2>like that, and like, I don't know, maybe that was

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<v Speaker 2>a bad look for me. I don't know. I but

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<v Speaker 2>I really no idea. I really don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well let's figure it out for you, shall we.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you say maybe the food is too spicy? And

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<v Speaker 1>she thought I was a whimp.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I do have a low tolerance for spices, so

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<v Speaker 2>I could have been it, are you.

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<v Speaker 1>Eating super spicy stuff? We're going hardcore on the jalapanos

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff like that I.

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<v Speaker 2>Can't do jlopenos personally.

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<v Speaker 1>She could have been judging him. I would judge someone,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be like really, but yeah, I like, really, you

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<v Speaker 1>can't handle it. You're going to order it, but you

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<v Speaker 1>can't eat it?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Yeah? Yeah, if youre'na be a nitpinky, how about

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<v Speaker 3>we call her for you? Jason, does that work for you?

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<v Speaker 4>That would be great?

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Great, we'll do that next. With second Date update right

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<v Speaker 1>here with Riggs, Caitlin, and Erica.

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<v Speaker 3>Jason and Lauren went out on what Jason calls a

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<v Speaker 3>great first date after matching online. They went and got

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<v Speaker 3>Mexican food. Now, Jason did say his food was a

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<v Speaker 3>little spicy, But I mean, is that really the reason

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<v Speaker 3>why she wouldn't call him back? We're going to find

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<v Speaker 3>out right now with second Date Update. Hello, I'm hello, Hello,

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<v Speaker 3>good morning. May I please speak with Lauren?

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<v Speaker 4>This is she?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi Lauren, good morning. It's Riggs, Caitlin and eric on

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<v Speaker 3>ninety three Q.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, Oh, good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's my favorite part of second Date at is just

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<v Speaker 1>shocking the living crap out of people like this.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, now she knows she's on second day.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, she does. Now welcome welcome, welcome. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>remember going out with a gentleman named Jason.

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<v Speaker 3>I do, And how'd that date go? Jason talked to

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<v Speaker 3>us and said he thought that date went swimmingly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Mexican food, satura night, said, a couple of drinks,

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<v Speaker 1>he had to go home early.

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<v Speaker 3>Hit it off.

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<v Speaker 1>He had to go home a little early, which we get.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody's got to get their rest.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, to start with, he was a great date.

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<v Speaker 4>He's definitely, you know, funny, confident. We had great conversation,

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<v Speaker 4>and obviously I found him attractive, but I was really

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<v Speaker 4>interested in him. It's yeah, I kept noticing something that

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<v Speaker 4>he kept doing, like while we were sitting across from

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<v Speaker 4>each other, that bothered me.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, what was that?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, uh, he kept kind of touching his nose and

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<v Speaker 4>at first guy thought, oh, it's just running, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>allergies whatever, And then I realized that I'm pretty sure

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<v Speaker 4>he was picking it and like multiple times. I don't

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<v Speaker 4>mean like a quick you know, like double check to

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<v Speaker 4>make sure you have some you don't have something on

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<v Speaker 4>your nose, So like that's pretty unerstandable. But this kept happening,

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<v Speaker 4>Like he kept putting his finger up his nose, like

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<v Speaker 4>we weren't literally sitting across from each other while eating dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>He was putting his finger up his nose, I thought.

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<v Speaker 3>She said he was just kind of touching his nose

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<v Speaker 3>like he was picking the nose, going for mining for

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<v Speaker 3>nose gold.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I was trying to be polite, but like again,

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<v Speaker 4>the first time, I ignored it. I was like, okay, however,

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<v Speaker 4>he was checking to see if you have from your nose,

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<v Speaker 4>But then it happened again and then again okay, And

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<v Speaker 4>there was one point where he literally like noticed me

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<v Speaker 4>looking at him, and then he laughed about it, and

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<v Speaker 4>that made it worse. I just made it. I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>sort of knows what he's doing. And now he's laughing

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<v Speaker 4>because I'm not saying I don't know why why, Maybe

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<v Speaker 4>he's uncomfortable. But then I was uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny. Why I'm picking it nose?

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<v Speaker 3>What's wrong with picking your nose?

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<v Speaker 2>Ill?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>He's on a day sometimes you have to pick your nose.

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<v Speaker 1>And if he was obviously laughing about it, he's aware

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<v Speaker 1>of it. Maybe he had something going on. Algies are

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<v Speaker 1>horrible and he used in horrible.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I okay. There was a final straw where he

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<v Speaker 4>pulled his finger away from his nose and I could

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<v Speaker 4>literally see an actual booger onhitch em.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you sure it wasn't like casto or something like

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't, No, okay, I saw it.

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<v Speaker 4>There was something on his finger, and I'm sitting there

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<v Speaker 4>trying to eat and He's kind of casually wiped his

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<v Speaker 4>finger on his napkin and kept talking. And that was

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<v Speaker 4>that was it for me, because at that point any

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<v Speaker 4>attraction or good vibe or whatever was gone, immediately gone.

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<v Speaker 1>That's too bad.

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<v Speaker 3>Did he acknowledge said booger?

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<v Speaker 4>No, No, not at all.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's a perfectly normal thing, a booger.

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<v Speaker 3>Leave the guy alone, Ring, you know what, We've got

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<v Speaker 3>Jason on the line here.

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<v Speaker 1>Jason, get your finger out your nose. What's wrong on up?

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<v Speaker 2>I was not picking my nose. No, I wasn't mining

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<v Speaker 2>for goal. I was not picking my nose. It was

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<v Speaker 2>like the food was really spicy. My nose was running

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<v Speaker 2>a little bitch like this. I'm sorry, Lauren, like you're

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<v Speaker 2>kind of making this sound way worse than actually what Like,

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<v Speaker 2>my nose was running and I was definitely having to

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<v Speaker 2>wipe my nose. I don't know. I have like an

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<v Speaker 2>allergy or something when I'm eating spicy food. But I

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<v Speaker 2>was not picking my nose. I was just wiping it.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you aware that a booger found its way onto

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<v Speaker 3>your finger?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't think that's I don't know what she saw,

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<v Speaker 2>but there was not a booger on my nose. I

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<v Speaker 2>would have not. I didn't even I had slightly I had.

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<v Speaker 2>I may have had my fingers slightly in my.

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<v Speaker 3>Nose at one point, slightly.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, I know what a booger looks like, and

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<v Speaker 4>I know what picking your nose looks like. We're literally

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<v Speaker 4>at dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to be on the team. And now

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<v Speaker 1>if he just straight up, if he owned it, I

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<v Speaker 1>would be all about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I fell out the chamber and there he fell out.

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<v Speaker 1>I've had to pick my nose. Yes, it happened. I

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<v Speaker 1>would I would respect that.

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<v Speaker 2>But come on, man, I don't know even how to

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<v Speaker 2>defend myself against this. I mean, obviously you don't have

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<v Speaker 2>any video or anything, but like I do not, I

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<v Speaker 2>was not picking my no I can pick my nose.

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<v Speaker 2>I know how to do it. I know.

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<v Speaker 4>I saw you with me Jason, I saw you put

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<v Speaker 4>your finger in your nose and then use a napkin

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<v Speaker 4>to wipe something off it.

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<v Speaker 2>I did use a napkin.

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<v Speaker 1>That's something Caitlyn would do. Probably, what do you mean

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<v Speaker 1>at somebody?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, maybe if I knew them and was having a

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<v Speaker 3>little fun, but this is the first date. He did

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<v Speaker 3>use a napkin, and maybe his nose was running in

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<v Speaker 3>a boogie boogie out. But we can't move past this. Guys.

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<v Speaker 4>No, not wiping your finger and after you picked your

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<v Speaker 4>nose while you're on a dinner date where you're right

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<v Speaker 4>across from me and we're eating multiple times, multiple times.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like I have to reiterate that, Hey.

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<v Speaker 1>Lauren, if he owned it, would you be a little

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<v Speaker 1>more app on a first date or are you? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you also a little turn off that he's like denying it.

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<v Speaker 4>The nose picking itself gross?

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<v Speaker 1>Jason, I'm really trying for you, man, I'm sorry it's

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<v Speaker 1>not going to work with this one. Unfortunately, she can't

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<v Speaker 1>get past you.

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<v Speaker 3>I think she got the ick, and once the ick

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<v Speaker 3>is there, it's really hard to get rid of it.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're sorry. I'm sorry it did not work out

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<v Speaker 1>for you. All this morning on second date update. But Jason,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with you. Man, pick your nose when you want

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<v Speaker 1>to pick your nose, but just own it. Next time,

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<v Speaker 1>own it.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll take our notes much to pick your nose when

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<v Speaker 3>you want.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, sometimes you get a little.

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<v Speaker 3>It should be up to you. But I wouldn't make

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<v Speaker 3>that choice on a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you gotta do it. I'm okay with it, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry unfortunately, Lauren not okay with it.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't pick my nose. I just did not, and

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<v Speaker 2>I refuse to say that I did. But like I said,

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<v Speaker 2>I hope she changed her mind, all right,