WEBVTT - Carson & Lia - Overdraft Drama - 08-27-26

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<v Speaker 1>All right, this morning we are talking with Carson. Carson,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the show. Good morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, good morning. Thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 1>Another adult Carson. I love this. Oh, yes.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true.

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<v Speaker 1>Second adult Carson.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a great name.

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<v Speaker 2>We do grow up. What can I say? They do.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Carson, I wish we were welcoming you on

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<v Speaker 1>better terms, but unfortunately this is second date update. You

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<v Speaker 1>were trying to track down Leah. Can you tell us

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<v Speaker 1>how you met Leah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we met on Hinge. Okay. And You know how

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<v Speaker 2>these things go. We spent a few weeks texting back

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<v Speaker 2>and forth before we decided to spend the evening playing

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<v Speaker 2>indoor putt-putt at this new place I found on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I love that place. My kids are obsessed with it, too.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's perfect for like a family date or just

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<v Speaker 1>like a regular date.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, that's pretty much... what you described is

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<v Speaker 2>the environment we were in. They had food there. So

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<v Speaker 2>we kind of did it all in one swoop, you know, dinner,

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of drinks and putt, putt. And I, she

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<v Speaker 2>was actually really good at golf, at many golf games. And,

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it was a pretty good date, but she

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<v Speaker 2>kept asking if we were going anywhere else, like after

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<v Speaker 2>the putt-putt.

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<v Speaker 3>Was she inviting you to her house for maybe a

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<v Speaker 3>hookup or something like that?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really know, but I told her I had

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<v Speaker 2>to be up early for work the next morning, and

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<v Speaker 2>that's when she got all quiet and bummed out. So

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<v Speaker 2>we walked to our cars, and that was it. I

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<v Speaker 2>tried texting her again, and I haven't heard anything back.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it sounds like she definitely could have gotten the

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<v Speaker 1>wrong signal from you. Can we go ahead and give

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<v Speaker 1>her a call and try to get to the bottom

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<v Speaker 1>of it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And I mean, I was definitely interested. I just wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>expecting to have it go any further that night. I

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<v Speaker 2>thought we'd have one date and go from there. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it would be great if we could get to the

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<v Speaker 2>bottom of this.

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<v Speaker 3>Of course, we get it. And we'll do that coming

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<v Speaker 3>up in less than three minutes on 93Q' s Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 3>So Carson met Leah on Hinge. They spent some time

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<v Speaker 3>texting back and forth, decided to go to a pot

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<v Speaker 3>pot place for some food, but she was thinking there

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<v Speaker 3>was going to be more to the date. We don't

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<v Speaker 3>know what that more really means, but she's been completely

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<v Speaker 3>unreachable since that first date. So we're going to get

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<v Speaker 3>Leah on the phone this morning for Second Date Update. Hello?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, may I please speak with Leah?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, yeah, this is she. Hi, Leah.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning. This is Riggs, Caitlin, and Erica on 93Q.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to our show. What's up?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, my gosh.

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<v Speaker 4>I love listening to y'all every morning. And I'm pretty

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<v Speaker 4>sure I can beat Caitlin, too. Oh, you think so?

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<v Speaker 1>You can try me.

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<v Speaker 4>I will try, and I will beat you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we hate to break it to you, but that's

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<v Speaker 1>not the occasion today, Leah.

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<v Speaker 2>No way.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you calling me for a second date update?

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<v Speaker 3>Guilty, yes. But we're just hoping that it doesn't go

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<v Speaker 3>south like some of the second date updates do. Do

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<v Speaker 3>you remember going out with Carson? Remember Carson?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Did he say anything about paying me back.

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<v Speaker 2>The $ 500 that got stolen?

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<v Speaker 3>What?

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<v Speaker 2>What?

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<v Speaker 4>Like he stole money from you?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, might as well have.

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<v Speaker 4>We were walking back to the parking lot after our

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<v Speaker 4>date and the pet thing. And there was a man

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<v Speaker 4>walking on the street towards us. And I could tell

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<v Speaker 4>he was asking people in front of us something.

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<v Speaker 2>And, you know, it's Houston.

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<v Speaker 4>So I know where this was going. So I walked

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<v Speaker 4>by and ignore him. But then I glanced back and

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<v Speaker 4>see Carson chatting him up.

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<v Speaker 1>OK. I mean, was did he give him money or something?

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<v Speaker 4>No, but he ran over to me and said that

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<v Speaker 4>he needed my phone for him. It sounded urgent, so

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<v Speaker 4>I gave it to Carson, who then proceeds to take

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<v Speaker 4>it to the man and hands him the phone.

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<v Speaker 3>What?

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<v Speaker 4>I screamed, yeah, I screamed like, what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>And Carson just said, his phone is dead. And he

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<v Speaker 4>kept saying that the guy just needs to make a

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<v Speaker 4>phone call. He doesn't want any money. He just needs

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<v Speaker 4>to make the call.

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<v Speaker 1>So not the end of the world.

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<v Speaker 3>Did he let the guy make a phone call? Then

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<v Speaker 3>what happened?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I don't think so, because when I got home,

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<v Speaker 4>there was an email from my bank saying it had

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<v Speaker 4>overdrafted my account from Venmo. The guy went into my

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<v Speaker 4>Venmo app and sent himself $ 500.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, heck no.

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<v Speaker 1>So he got into your account. That's what he was

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<v Speaker 1>doing on your phone.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, I have it on my first home screen.

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<v Speaker 4>I use Venmo pretty much every day for my small business,

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<v Speaker 4>so I need to have it accessible all the time and, like,

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<v Speaker 4>super easy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>How.

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<v Speaker 2>Was I supposed to know that that's what he was

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<v Speaker 2>going to do?

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<v Speaker 1>That's Carson.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, hey, that's not something that I'm looking out for.

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<v Speaker 2>How was I supposed to know he was going to

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<v Speaker 2>do that? Hold on, hold on, hold on.

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<v Speaker 4>Bro, you should have ignored him. Walked away like what

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<v Speaker 4>literally everyone else does. You're not supposed to help people

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<v Speaker 4>like that. It was like watching a bad movie in

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<v Speaker 4>real life.

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<v Speaker 2>OK, he needed help. And the guy didn't ask for money.

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<v Speaker 2>He wanted to make a call. So I figured that

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<v Speaker 2>everything was like on the up and up. How was

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<v Speaker 2>I supposed to know he was going to swipe through

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<v Speaker 2>your phone and Venmo himself? And wait a minute. Why

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<v Speaker 2>don't you have that password protected or something like that?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you got scammed and that sucks.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't usually if a phone is unlocked to make

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<v Speaker 1>a phone call, you're going to be able to get

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<v Speaker 1>into an app.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no.

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<v Speaker 4>You are the one who got scammed. I tried to

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<v Speaker 4>tell you to like not let him use the phone.

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<v Speaker 4>And now I have to jump through all these hoops

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<v Speaker 4>to get my money back and and and, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>sent back to my bank. So why didn't you give

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<v Speaker 4>him your phone, you knob?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, my phone was dead and he needed help.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, you are such an idiot. He didn't need help.

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<v Speaker 4>He wanted some to give him money. Now I'm out $ 500. Luckily,

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<v Speaker 4>I called the cops and I wasn't the only one

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<v Speaker 4>like he got arrested and wasn't homeless at all.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you calling me name and all of that.

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<v Speaker 2>I would love it if you would relax. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I can I can get this job. can

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<v Speaker 2>get you back some of the money, okay? Whoa, some?

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<v Speaker 4>My bank paid me back. I don't care about that anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no. I want to make it up to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe here, $ 250 to you. And I spent $ 100 on dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>But if the money is all that's important to you,

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<v Speaker 2>then we can just forget about it and I'll get

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<v Speaker 2>the rest of it to you later.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well, it's not about the money. No, it is

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<v Speaker 4>about the money, but it's about the fact that you

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<v Speaker 4>didn't even ask me. You could have walked away and

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<v Speaker 4>done what everyone else does when someone on the street

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<v Speaker 4>starts barking at them.

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<v Speaker 2>Just walk away.

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<v Speaker 4>But you're too much of an idiot to get that.

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<v Speaker 4>If we keep dating, what else am I going to lose?

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<v Speaker 4>Does the next displaced person get my social security number?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not going to date someone with zero street smart. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm starting to develop some right now, I think.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't think. I think Carson was probably

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to do the right thing, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>help someone out. He probably just didn't even. I would

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<v Speaker 1>have never assumed somebody would do something like that. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just always afraid someone's going to run off with my

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<v Speaker 1>phone once I hand it to them. I'm like, gotcha, bye.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm assuming there's probably not going to be a

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<v Speaker 3>second date between you.

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<v Speaker 2>Two, right? Look, this is all news to me, so no.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think so. I mean, I originally just thought

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<v Speaker 2>that I was ghosted. by another superficial gold digger. But whatever. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>my God.

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<v Speaker 4>Gold digger.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I said, I will Venmo you the rest of

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<v Speaker 2>it later when I can. But, no, I don't think

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<v Speaker 2>I'm even interested in a second date anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>No, look, don't even worry about it, you idiot. Like,

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<v Speaker 4>I can't believe you actually thought you'd get a second date.

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<v Speaker 3>Leah, he hung up.

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<v Speaker 1>He's gone.

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<v Speaker 2>He hung up.

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<v Speaker 4>He's gone. All right.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know what?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm glad that he reached out so I can have

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<v Speaker 4>this on public record about how much of a moron

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<v Speaker 4>he is. And, you know, but hey, you know, guys,

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<v Speaker 4>don't worry. I still love the show and I will

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<v Speaker 4>totally listen. I just hope I never hear from this

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<v Speaker 4>guy again.

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<v Speaker 3>Glad you got your money back, man.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank God.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, Jesus.