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Speaker 2: identify with this or Alison for that matter. A millennial

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Speaker 2: therapist named Mary. She's gone viral for asking boomers why

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Speaker 2: they keep family news a secret from their grown kids.

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Speaker 1: Here she is, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Gonna play the part of the boomer parent. Well, Grahama's

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Speaker 3: been on life support for the last week and it's

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Speaker 3: not looking good. So we wanted to wait until we

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Speaker 3: knew for sure that it wasn't looking good till we

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Speaker 3: call Okay, we're back now. I understand protecting your children

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Speaker 3: from information that may not be like developmentally appropriate when

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Speaker 3: it comes to illness with family members, but these are

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Speaker 3: adult children now. The lack of communication regarding important family

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Speaker 3: health events has not only increased their anxiety now because

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Speaker 3: they don't trust that you'll tell them, but it's resulted

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Speaker 3: in a fracture in your relationship or a breach of trust.

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Speaker 2: Does that resonate with you at all? Are you okay

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Speaker 2: with this millennial therapists saying that you know boomer parents

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Speaker 2: keeping information from their kids when it comes to health.

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Speaker 4: Look, I'm a gen xer, I'm not a boomer, but

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Speaker 4: I'll speak on behalf of the boomers here. Okay, the

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Speaker 4: millennial therapists can kick rocks here, because each family's different.

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Speaker 4: Some kids handle bad news better than others, whether they're

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Speaker 4: an adult or not. Each kid and your family handles

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Speaker 4: things better. Like I've got two awesome boys, but they're

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Speaker 4: so different they are night and day. One handles criticism

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Speaker 4: really well, the other one not so much. It kind

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Speaker 4: of freaks them out a little bit. You know, one's

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Speaker 4: more outspoken, one's more studious. Everybody's different. So I don't

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Speaker 4: want to hear this egghead millennial trying to put everybody

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Speaker 4: into one basket saying this is the right way to

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Speaker 4: do it. There's no other right way to do it.

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Speaker 4: On behalf of boomers bite me, Alison.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, I'm sorry, Alison. Oh.

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Speaker 5: I can relate to it a little bit. But I

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Speaker 5: don't agree with the last part of blaming them for

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Speaker 5: being upset with them. I think it's just an internal

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Speaker 5: parental thing. They want to protect their kids, even though

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Speaker 5: they're still adults. I've definitely been in the dark about

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Speaker 5: some things, but they just didn't want to worry you.

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Speaker 5: So I think it comes from a place of love.

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Speaker 4: Who wants to worry your kid for this long of

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Speaker 4: a time?

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Speaker 1: But how old? What's the cutoff point? Like, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Somebody in the YouTube chat writes adult children is the

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Speaker 4: biggest oxymoron of all time. It's a good point. So yeah,

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Speaker 4: I don't know, but I think it depends on your family.

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Speaker 4: It depends on your kids. And who has this chick

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Speaker 4: to say there's one right way to do this and

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Speaker 4: if you do it, you're wrong. You're a millennial. You

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Speaker 4: don't know if there's more than two sexes, So maybe

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Speaker 4: you set this conversation out.

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Speaker 2: According to a new study, the top things that make

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Speaker 2: us comfortable on the couch blankets, and a quiet area.

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Speaker 2: On top of that, eighty six percent of Americans say

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Speaker 2: they believe in getting as comfortable and cozy as possible

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Speaker 2: in the winter. Oh my goodness, do I ever agree

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Speaker 2: with this?

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Speaker 1: Are you okay with this? First of all, Okayudy.

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Speaker 4: So I'm going to say no, But I'm going to

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Speaker 4: explain why I'm not okay with this, because the way

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Speaker 4: this study is worded, it's so over the top. You

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Speaker 4: could have just said, do you want to be somewhere quiet?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 4: I don't care if I got a blanket. I don't

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Speaker 4: care if I got it pillow. I don't care if

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Speaker 4: I'm on a couch. I don't care if I'm on

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Speaker 4: the floor, pasted out, drunk. Sometimes I just want to

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Speaker 4: be by myself, somewhere quiet. The fact that I might

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Speaker 4: have a pillow it's a bonus. But I've done some

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Speaker 4: of my best napping without a pillow or a blanket.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, I got to sit on the couch. I've

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Speaker 1: got it. It's got to be just right. I've got

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Speaker 1: the Automan, I've got the Lola blanket over me. I've

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Speaker 1: got to have a pillow.

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Speaker 2: I've got to have a couch pillow on my lap,

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Speaker 2: and I've got to have one on each.

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Speaker 1: Side of my arm. I'm gonna raise my hand so

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Speaker 1: and then I.

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Speaker 2: Can reach over for my drink to the side of

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Speaker 2: the table.

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Speaker 3: There.

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Speaker 4: I see you sleep in your office all the time

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Speaker 4: while I'm working, and there's no pillow, there's no blanket.

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Speaker 1: You're just sitting there with your head tilted back.

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Speaker 4: So I know you can do it without these things, right,

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Speaker 4: So I can make it look like you're doing work

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Speaker 4: when you're watching Pat McAfee asleep at your desk, right, Okay.

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna point that out. I've got to bring

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Speaker 1: couch pillows into work with though.

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Speaker 4: That's a telltale sign you're for sure sleeping in there, right.

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Speaker 4: And plus knowing this place, someone I would steal your pillows,

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Speaker 4: and I promise you you don't want him back anybody.

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Speaker 1: But how do you get cozy on the couch? Allison?

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Speaker 5: Oh, I love a blank I love two blankets, to

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Speaker 5: be honest. One for my lap because I usually have

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Speaker 5: one of my dogs on my lap, and then I'll

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Speaker 5: put like one over my shoulders like an old lady.

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Speaker 1: Make sure're going to be that grandma archer.

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Speaker 5: Oh oh yeah, because I get cold easily and I

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Speaker 5: like we're in a big hoodie. Yeah, I love being comfortable.

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Speaker 5: I don't know the twenty three percent who don't like

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Speaker 5: being quiet or in a comfortable spot. What is wrong

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Speaker 5: with you?

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Speaker 1: All right, real quick here, I got one more for you. Ready,

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Speaker 1: do it?

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Speaker 2: David Spade Comedian Hilarious Allison saw him in concerts this year.

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Speaker 5: Yes, my favorite.

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Speaker 2: David Spade told podcast partner Dana Carvey this week about

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Speaker 2: something he saw at a local mall. I saw the

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Speaker 2: other day.

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Speaker 4: There was a tree lighting ceremony for the Christmas tree

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Speaker 4: in some dopey mall.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but it said tree.

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Speaker 1: Lighting ceremony and they were careful not to say the

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Speaker 1: word Christmas during the whole ceremony. Why why can't?

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Speaker 2: So it's just a are you okay?

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Speaker 1: With?

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Speaker 4: Spade is a quiet closet conservative. You can tell there's

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Speaker 4: a group of those dudes out in Hollywood and they

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Speaker 4: think it's like Sandler's ring Kevin James and Rob Schneiders.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's pretty out there.

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Speaker 4: But the people that hang out with him, I find

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Speaker 4: it hard to believe they would be super over the

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Speaker 4: top libs and also put up with Rob Schneider. So

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Speaker 4: there's that group of Sandlerites that for the most part

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Speaker 4: are closet quiet conservatives. I think Spade falls into that category,

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Speaker 4: and I agree with him here