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Speaker 1: I saw a word yesterday and I have to ask you,

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Speaker 1: are you learning new things? Rob Kendall.

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Speaker 2: I'm so proud of you. You're growing well.

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Speaker 1: Apparently apparently it's been around for a while. But you

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Speaker 1: know how the internet is, right, some med will just

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Speaker 1: make a comeback or pop up in your feed or whatever.

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Speaker 1: This is an actual term that is a thing that

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Speaker 1: is happening in our society. And I think I can

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Speaker 1: say this. It's hobo sexual, hobo sexual like one word

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Speaker 1: hobo hobo sexual. Yeah, and this is an actual term

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Speaker 1: used to describe Now. This is how the Google AI

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Speaker 1: described it. And you, I think you will agree. This

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Speaker 1: is the other Internet things I'd sent you were accurate.

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Speaker 1: Is a term used to describe a person, often a man,

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Speaker 1: who seeks out relationships for the sole purpose of having

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Speaker 1: a place to live and other financial support.

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Speaker 2: Just needs some place to crash, so you're looking for

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Speaker 2: a sugar mama. Basically, that's what it is.

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Speaker 3: Now I've seen this with women who.

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Speaker 2: Are doing it with men. Sugar daddy, sugar.

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Speaker 3: Daddy, right, just need a place to stay.

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Speaker 1: But this here says just a person, often a man.

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Speaker 1: Essentially they manipulate or deceive others into providing them with housing, food,

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Speaker 1: and other resources, often while engaging in deceptive or manipulative behavior. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so that's a little different then, Like okay, a sugar

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Speaker 1: daddy or sugar mama, Like they know the score, right,

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Speaker 1: Like I know what's going on. Like if Kevin were

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Speaker 1: to move in with a forty five year old caramel socialite,

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Speaker 1: she knows what's up, right. She knows Kev's not staying

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Speaker 1: forever she's and she knows why she's invited Kevin into

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Speaker 1: her house.

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Speaker 3: Kevin better make her feel good, because that's his job.

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Speaker 1: This appears to be someone who gives off the vibe of.

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Speaker 3: I'm truly interested, right exactly, but really just interested in

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Speaker 3: your wallet.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and I guess living off of you blah blah blah.

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Speaker 2: And okay, so that's all security is what sounds like?

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Speaker 2: This is fairly common. Yes.

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Speaker 3: So I knew a guy who a woman had done

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Speaker 3: this to him. They had gone on a few dates

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Speaker 3: and she ended up spending the night and he realized

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Speaker 3: what was going on, and she spent the night on

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Speaker 3: the couch instead. And same guy now has a live

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Speaker 3: in who he believes it's just part of her retirement plan.

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Speaker 2: To live free. But he's allowing her to do that.

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Speaker 3: Correct, Yes, so he knows the score.

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Speaker 1: They often use lies, charm, and emotional manipulation to gain

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Speaker 1: and maintain these relationships.

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Speaker 2: So you gotta be nice.

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Speaker 1: So if you're doing that, well, so what is it

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Speaker 1: is this like a Hey Cindy, I'm a little down

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Speaker 1: on my luck, but boy, you look pretty today. You

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Speaker 1: know we should somehow? They guy ends up living there

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Speaker 1: and like, give me a week, I'm gonna get a job.

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Speaker 1: And next thing you know, it's been a month and

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Speaker 1: he's still watching you know, Dug Funny reruns and rug

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Speaker 1: Rats on the television in his underwear eating cheetos.

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure if there's any Hey Cindy, I'm down

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Speaker 3: on my luck conversations. I think it's just h yeah,

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Speaker 3: let's just share this place of yours, this wonderful place, and.

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Speaker 2: Sharing would imply though you're contributing. Well, that's true, and

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Speaker 2: it wouldn't you.

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Speaker 1: At some point as the contributor recognize.

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Speaker 2: That this guy's dead weight. This guy, right, he's not contributing, he's.

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Speaker 3: Not, he's But if he's saying all of the right

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Speaker 3: things and masking it, I think that's where the deception

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Speaker 3: is coming in.

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Speaker 2: Uh okay, all right, very good. So that is a thing.

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Speaker 1: And I learned something today or yesterday, and you confirmed,

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Speaker 1: You're like, oh, yeah, that's totally thing. I thought it

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Speaker 1: was a joke. I thought it was one of those

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Speaker 1: internet memes or whatever. You're like, no, that's totally a

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Speaker 1: real thing.

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Speaker 3: But no, I mean you've probably seen, even maybe not

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Speaker 3: to the extent of living together, but women going on

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Speaker 3: dates with men just to get a free meal. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I know, they're clearly not interested in the man, but

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Speaker 3: they want to get nice dinner.

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Speaker 2: But you're not living with the guy. That's true. That's

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Speaker 2: there's the next step.

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Speaker 3: I have.

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Speaker 2: Most men have done this.

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Speaker 1: I have gone on dates with women who were completely

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Speaker 1: out of my league, just so that I could forever

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Speaker 1: say I went on the date with so and so

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Speaker 1: because I knew in my twenties that person was going

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Speaker 1: to marry somebody richer and better looking than me. But

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Speaker 1: forever I would be able to say, like, and it's

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Speaker 1: just my own trophy case. It doesn't mean anything to

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Speaker 1: anyone else, but in my own mind, for the remainder

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Speaker 1: of days, I went on a date with so and so,

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Speaker 1: I knew it wasn't going to work out. I knew

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Speaker 1: that you would take one look at where I lived,

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Speaker 1: and look, Casey, you will back me up on this.

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Speaker 1: I can spin a pretty good tail. I have wormed

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Speaker 1: my way bull craped my way into some incredible positions

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Speaker 1: in my life.

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Speaker 2: But eventually you got to show somebody where you live.

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Speaker 1: Right, You're charming, charisma and that whatever how great your

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Speaker 1: pickup line is, that's only going to go far so

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Speaker 1: far with someone who cash.

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Speaker 2: Is their top priority.

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Speaker 1: But I would sacrifice whatever monetary contribution that took just

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Speaker 1: to forever in my mind as that person wanted to

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Speaker 1: live their inevitably charmed life on boats and islands and

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Speaker 1: whatever else that Hey, I want a date with that person.

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Speaker 2: I had the puncher's chance, right.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's why a lot of employment places have a

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Speaker 3: ninety day probation, because they say, you know what, if

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Speaker 3: you are who you say you are, okay, but if

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Speaker 3: you're not, you can't keep that up for more than

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Speaker 3: three months,