1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,400 Speaker 1: There are more ways to wealth with chairs, eas save 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: with a great rate, ensure your car with no worries. 3 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 1: We'll join the key. We see this scheme with real choice. 4 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: It's your wealth, your way. Do more with chare ease. 5 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 2: I was someone who never really had a lot of 6 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 2: control over my finances going back right to the beginning, 7 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:23,599 Speaker 2: you know, and I'd never really thought too much about 8 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 2: about wealth, and that all came crashing down on February 9 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 2: this year. I can tell you that Kiwis are craving 10 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 2: a form of connection out there. I think we're feeling very, 11 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:37,279 Speaker 2: very disconnected as a country. 12 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:45,880 Speaker 3: But it's fixable, Koto. 13 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 4: I'm Garth Bray and we're doing things a little differently 14 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:51,159 Speaker 4: on Shared Lunch for the next few weeks. More than 15 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:54,639 Speaker 4: money is about exploring the wealth choices that change us. 16 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 4: Let's open up the conversation about what wealth really means 17 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 4: beyond investing. We'll hear from some famili you folks and 18 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 4: chat about the choices they've made on their wealth journey. 19 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 4: Today we're speaking to someone who needs almost no introduction, 20 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 4: Patty Gower. But first some important information you always need 21 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 4: to consider. 22 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 5: The experience is shared in this episode. Are not advice 23 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 5: or a recommendation or opinion by guests to invest or 24 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 5: act in the manner they have. An appearance on the 25 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 5: series is not an endorsement by Shares is of the 26 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:24,399 Speaker 5: views of the presenters or guests. They're not financial experts 27 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:25,479 Speaker 5: and their views of their own. 28 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 4: The Inimitable Patrick Gower as ends it on. He said 29 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:33,319 Speaker 4: in its press release just last week when they said, congratulations, 30 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 4: you've still got issues. 31 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:35,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right. 32 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 2: So that took some exciting news for next year that 33 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 2: Patty Gower has issues, will be coming back from the crypt, 34 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 2: open the Crypt, I guess and back out. But yeah, 35 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 2: some amazing news. But I still don't really know what 36 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 2: Inimitable means, but I think it means sort of out there. 37 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, and look, you've just come off tour as well. 38 00:01:57,560 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 4: By the time people see this, you'll be having a break. 39 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 4: But fourteen towns, yeah, three weeks. 40 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 2: It's something I never thought i'd be doing, gath. You know, 41 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:09,799 Speaker 2: I started my career as a as a newspaper journalist, 42 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 2: you know, twenty five years ago, and I didn't have 43 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,359 Speaker 2: big visions of going into TV or anything. So yeah, 44 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 2: I've done fourteen stage shows from Rocky euro Stuart Island 45 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 2: all the way up to White Tangy, going through all 46 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 2: of regional New Zealand. And that's why my voice. Listeners 47 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 2: and viewers might not notice, but my voice is a 48 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 2: few octavees lower because I've really worked on that larynx. 49 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 4: I thought you were just making an effort to sound 50 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 4: extra sort of today. 51 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. No, it's not my cheesy's sexy voice. 52 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 2: But it's been amazing to see people, you know, a 53 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 2: couple of things. Seeing Kiwi's upfront and in their places 54 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 2: is always cool. But you know, I've never been on 55 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 2: stage or anything like that. It's got sort of elements 56 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 2: of stand up comedy to it. It's a performance. This 57 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 2: is all completely new to me. So it's been a 58 00:02:57,639 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 2: massive adventure. 59 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:01,839 Speaker 4: How was it getting that immediate feedback to something you say, 60 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 4: which is totally unlike standing in front of a camera, 61 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 4: even in a studio conducting an election debate, Right, You've 62 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:09,959 Speaker 4: got people telling you what they think straight away, that's right. 63 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 2: And I think, you know, I hadn't realized that I'd 64 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 2: never done you know, amateur theater. I'd never done been 65 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 2: in a school play, you know, never. I just hadn't 66 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:22,079 Speaker 2: done this. And of course you will know, but other 67 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 2: people won't realize. You know, in TV, actually it can 68 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 2: be a very dead environment. You know, there can be 69 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 2: a camera and that's it might not even be a 70 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 2: camera operator these days because some of them are remote. 71 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 2: So hearing the audience and kind of you can hear 72 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 2: a pin drop, you can hear a gasp, you can 73 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 2: hear a laugh, you can hear them raucously laugh is 74 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 2: something totally different. And I think in what I've been doing, 75 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 2: it's got elements of stand up comedy, but it's also 76 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 2: got some heavy stuff about mental health and the way 77 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 2: that I've dealt with depression, anxiety, anger issues, addiction issues 78 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 2: when it came to alcohol, And you can feel the 79 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 2: audience just listening, listening to this intensely personal stuff that 80 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 2: you're telling them. And despite doing fourteen shows, I know 81 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 2: the parts that I get to where it gets into 82 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 2: the heavy content and I always take a sharpened take 83 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 2: of breath and you feel the audience really kind of 84 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 2: close in. So it's been an amazing feeling really, so. 85 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 4: A lot of you sharing what are you getting back 86 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 4: from that? What are you hearing from people? That shapes 87 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 4: this conversation that you're having. 88 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think a lot of the work that I've 89 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 2: done this year has been in terms of losing my 90 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 2: job at newshap and then pivoting. You know, I've got 91 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 2: a book out This is There for News, and that's 92 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:42,359 Speaker 2: got a lot in it about the way that I 93 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 2: got through my mental health and addiction struggles, and I've 94 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 2: basically taken that on the road and made it into 95 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:53,480 Speaker 2: a performance that's got a whole lot of funny jokes 96 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 2: in it. You know, everyone's laughing. But I leave behind 97 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 2: four lessons that are also in my book, and they're 98 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:03,520 Speaker 2: really around connection and our need as humans to connect 99 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 2: and how if we're in trouble we should try to connect. 100 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 2: That's around the second one is optimism, living a life 101 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 2: that is more optimistic when you're confronted by a whole 102 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 2: lot of bad stuff. The third thing that I talk 103 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 2: to people about and is in my book as well, 104 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 2: is around purpose, finding purpose in what you do and 105 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 2: working with purpose, and potentially for a lot of people 106 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:29,840 Speaker 2: my age, rediscovering your purpose and your work or when 107 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 2: you're parenting or living your life. And then the fourth 108 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:37,160 Speaker 2: thing that I talk to people about and I've written 109 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 2: about in the book is change be prepared to change yourself, 110 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 2: you know, and that could be when you're pivoting because 111 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:47,160 Speaker 2: of what's happened to you and I this year. You know, 112 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 2: we've both been made redundant and we've had to pivot, 113 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:52,719 Speaker 2: or it could be a bigger change. 114 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 3: In your life. 115 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 2: For me, it was giving up alcohol, you know, now 116 00:05:56,200 --> 00:06:00,040 Speaker 2: over one thousand days sober on December twenty eighth. The 117 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 2: same of the ad thank you for thank you for 118 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 2: the clap means a lot, you know. And for me, 119 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:08,280 Speaker 2: you know, I found after using those things that I 120 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 2: was able to change and get rid of something in 121 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 2: my life that that, you know, that was holding me. 122 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 3: Back, which was drinking. So that's what I've been going 123 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 3: around the country doing. 124 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 2: So it's it's it's really rewarding to pass those messages on. 125 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 2: And in terms of what people are hearing, I just 126 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 2: can tell that Kiwi's are craving connection. They go so 127 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 2: quiet when I talk about these things. They listen so intently. 128 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 2: It doesn't matter whether you're an invocagol warnaka all the 129 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 2: way up here in Hamilton, Palmi, New Plymouth, different audiences, 130 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 2: different people every time. But I can tell you that 131 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 2: Kiwis are craving a form of connection out there. I 132 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 2: think we're feeling very very disconnected as a country. 133 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 4: Weirdly, we've never been more connected there, I know. I 134 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 4: know Watra, fast, fiber optic, cave, all the social media, 135 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:04,039 Speaker 4: all the reasons, all the ways that people can can 136 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 4: link up and link and whatever they're doing. Right, Yes, 137 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 4: how that's not just not cutting the muster of that. 138 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 3: That's right. 139 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 2: That's right, And there's something going on out there because 140 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 2: I know what happens when I talk about it and 141 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 2: the audience goes very quiet. I know what happens when 142 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 2: they come up to me afterwards when I'm signing my books. 143 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:21,320 Speaker 2: I know what they say to me, I know what 144 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 2: they message me afterwards. And they are all craving connection. 145 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 2: They feel disconnected. They want to look at simple things 146 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 2: that they can do to improve their lives because everyone 147 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 2: is feeling that little bit unsatisfied and unhappy and just 148 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 2: not quite where they want to be. And I think 149 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 2: there's a strong sense of that out in New Zealand. 150 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 2: What I would say about it is, I don't think 151 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 2: it's not something that we need to we need to 152 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 2: worry about it, but it's fixable. You know, there are 153 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 2: just there are ways of doing things. And I know 154 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 2: I talk about my own ditching alcohol. I say to 155 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 2: people could be as simple as going for a walk 156 00:07:56,840 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 2: with your partner without your phone. You know, these are 157 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 2: the little things that we can do to improve our 158 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 2: connection and improve our lives. So, you know, if anything 159 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 2: it is, yeah, we've got a problem there, but it 160 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 2: is something that is fixable through our own actions. 161 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 4: They say great wealth can be made through finding a 162 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 4: problem and fixing it. You've sort of found a way 163 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 4: to convert the problem into a solution for you and 164 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 4: a solution for a lot of other people too, hopefully. 165 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. 166 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I mean, you know, part of it is 167 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 2: I'm now you know it's going to sound random, but 168 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 2: I'm now running a business. You know, I'm not an 169 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 2: employee of anyone anymore. I'm contracted to stuff and that's 170 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 2: my main place. But it's through a company called Believer 171 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 2: Believer Media, and through that I'm going to run my 172 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 2: tour and I'm selling the book and all of these 173 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 2: other things. And I've got to kind of basically make 174 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 2: money in this business so that I can do the 175 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 2: kinds of things that I want to do, which I 176 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:55,679 Speaker 2: connect with Kiwis through through journalism and through my performance 177 00:08:55,720 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 2: and through my work. So I've kind of really, you know, 178 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 2: I just never thought i'd be doing this sort of 179 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:05,319 Speaker 2: thing where I'm kind of like trying. You know, I've 180 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 2: got to I've got to watch my pennies. I've got 181 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 2: to see what everything costs. I've got to make sure 182 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 2: that I'm bringing in enough to keep going to keep 183 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 2: doing what I'm doing. 184 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 3: You know. 185 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm forty seven years old and i'd been 186 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 2: in a job since the day that I left university. 187 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 2: I had been in a journalistic job in some way 188 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 2: or the other. 189 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:26,439 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, And you. 190 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 4: Know, you suddenly have to think about a huge range 191 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 4: of things that you just took for granted, that someone 192 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 4: else ordered, that someone else paid for it. Keep track 193 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:36,679 Speaker 4: of totally those responsibilities. Really, if you don't do it now, 194 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 4: it doesn't happen. 195 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 3: It doesn't happen. 196 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 2: And it's really important if you're in a business and 197 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 2: you've got to you've got to make money to spive. 198 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 2: You can't misappointments, you can't not put that through. You 199 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 2: can't do this all of these little things. No one 200 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:51,320 Speaker 2: is going to come and clean up after you. You know, 201 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:54,839 Speaker 2: you need to do it if you want to make 202 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 2: more money. 203 00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 4: It sounds like a tremendous about a pressure to put 204 00:09:57,520 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 4: on your seat. It's coming out of this, yeah, relationship 205 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 4: with employment. 206 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:02,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right. 207 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 2: And I think you know the thing about coming out 208 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:07,319 Speaker 2: of a long relationship with employment is when it first happens, 209 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:10,680 Speaker 2: it just seems so big, you know. So when Newshub 210 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 2: shut down just up the road here and it wasn't 211 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:16,079 Speaker 2: that long ago, and on the day, it just felt 212 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 2: to me like this massive problem. All my friends are 213 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 2: losing their jobs. What's happening with the industry? Where do 214 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 2: I go? What does this mean? It just felt like 215 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 2: everything in front of me was blocked out by this 216 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:30,960 Speaker 2: huge thing called newsub kind of closure. And with time 217 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 2: that becomes smaller and you can see it for what 218 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 2: it is and look to get find ways around it. 219 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:40,079 Speaker 3: But you know, in that immediate beginning. 220 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 2: It's just this big kind of thing that's right in 221 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 2: front of your face and you've got this big problem. 222 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 2: But you know, my advice to people in that situation 223 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 2: there's a lot of us who are losing our jobs, 224 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 2: right is yes, it's going to seem big on day one. 225 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 3: On day two, on day three. 226 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:56,199 Speaker 2: But with time, you're going to see it as something 227 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 2: smaller and you're going to be able to find ways 228 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 2: around it. You have to be paid, and then you 229 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 2: have to look for the ways to get around this 230 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:05,440 Speaker 2: big problem that's come into your life. And for me, 231 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 2: that has been turning myself into a business as random 232 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 2: as that's as that sounds, monetizing a lot of the 233 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 2: things that I do and being creative with it. You know, 234 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 2: doing a tour of New Zealand fourteen centers is creative, Like, 235 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:25,080 Speaker 2: there is no question, Like I cannot believe that it's 236 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 2: so creative that I sort of have to pinch myself 237 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 2: that it's just happened because it is just so out being. 238 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 4: It's probably too soon to work out if it's been 239 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 4: the biggest and best financial decision you've ever made, go 240 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 4: on to it. I suspect it's probably part of something bigger. Yeah, 241 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 4: But if I can ask you to sort of think 242 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 4: a bit about that and think about wealth and what 243 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 4: it means to you and a wealth choice that you've 244 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 4: made in the past that you sort of think, Hey, 245 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 4: I'd like to share that with people because that worked 246 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 4: for me. 247 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, I think. 248 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:57,680 Speaker 2: You know, I actually did a podcast like this maybe 249 00:11:57,679 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 2: about twelve months ago, right of in the similar sort 250 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 2: of space, and I actually didn't really care that much 251 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 2: about money in that interview, and I didn't really have 252 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 2: any good answers around wealth because I had not faced 253 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 2: insecurity financially right because, you know, I'd had a job, 254 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 2: and you know, by the time there, I had a 255 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:21,559 Speaker 2: well paid job, very you know, seemed relatively stable. It's 256 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 2: never stable in the media, but it seems stable. And 257 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:27,720 Speaker 2: I'd never really thought too much about about wealth or 258 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:33,559 Speaker 2: anything like that, and that all came crashing down on 259 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 2: February this year because you'd lose everything, you know, you 260 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 2: lose the security, you lose the monthly paycheck that covers 261 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 2: all of the mortgage and all of those kinds of things. 262 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 2: So I think, you know, if anything, the best advice 263 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 2: that I would have is is always is two things. 264 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 2: Always in your mind. Know that your job is not 265 00:12:57,440 --> 00:12:58,960 Speaker 2: going to be stable. And I did have that in 266 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:00,720 Speaker 2: the back of my mind. The day that it happened, 267 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 2: I was like, I did actually think that this could 268 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 2: happen one day. I'd minimized it to about a ten 269 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 2: percent chance, but at least I wasn't shocked, you know. 270 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:14,960 Speaker 2: And then in terms of that, for me, I was 271 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:17,760 Speaker 2: someone who never really had a lot of control over 272 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:21,320 Speaker 2: my finances going back right to the beginning, you know, 273 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:26,440 Speaker 2: in recent years, combined with all these other things I'm doing, 274 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 2: I actually started to get a bit more control over 275 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 2: my finances. And though how much is going to the mortgage, 276 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 2: how much has been saved, what's in the key we saver, 277 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 2: how much is there if something goes wrong? All of 278 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 2: these things, luckily, and a lot of it, this will 279 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:45,680 Speaker 2: sound random, has had to do with giving up drinking. 280 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:46,240 Speaker 3: You know. 281 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 2: That brought a whole element of control into my life, 282 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 2: including over my finances. So not just the money that 283 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 2: was getting burnt up against the wall, as they say, 284 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:00,160 Speaker 2: but in terms of just having much more control all 285 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:05,080 Speaker 2: over my life, and that included finances. So when things 286 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 2: went downhill or whatever it's west and downhill, isn't it, 287 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:12,199 Speaker 2: When things we could put when things we could put 288 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 2: down the road, at least I had some control and 289 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 2: an idea of where I was at and how long 290 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 2: I could go for and how long I could try 291 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 2: something like a pivot, so I didn't have to panic. 292 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 2: You know, obviously you do panic. But I didn't have 293 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 2: to go and take another job right away. I could go, Okay, 294 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 2: I've got some time to try some things like setting 295 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 2: up my own business that can make my content, which 296 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 2: is called Believer Media. And the only reason I could 297 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 2: do that, this is a long winded explanation, is because 298 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 2: I had some control over my finances, you know, And 299 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 2: lots of people at Cheesy's will be like whoa, you know, 300 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 2: because they've got control because they're investing, but maybe they don't. 301 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 2: And I think, you know, there's lots of us that 302 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 2: don't have control all of our finances. And that's something 303 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 2: that I didn't have for about twenty to twenty five years. 304 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 2: I do now, and thank Goodness for that. 305 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:09,040 Speaker 4: So in twenty twenty five, that's your challenge to Kiwis. 306 00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:11,920 Speaker 2: Get in control, Get in control, get in control of yourself, 307 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:16,120 Speaker 2: and get in control of your finances. And they are interlinked, 308 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:20,200 Speaker 2: you know, find find ways to you know. My message 309 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 2: to Kiwis is this, use things to improve your life 310 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 2: like what I've done. Live more optimistically and get more connection, 311 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 2: work and live with purpose. Find ways to change things 312 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 2: that you want to change and that can help you 313 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 2: bring that control over your life and that includes your finances. 314 00:15:36,880 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 3: It really does fantastic. 315 00:15:39,040 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 4: Thank you so much, PG, Patty Gower, amazing and thank 316 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 4: you as well. Thank you for listening. If you're listening, 317 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 4: you're on Spotify or Apple wherever you get your podcasts. 318 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 4: If you're watching, you're on YouTube. And if you like 319 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 4: what you see, let us know and let us know 320 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 4: what you'd like to see next. 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