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Speaker 1: Wee House the Real House of Fragrances and.

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Speaker 2: I don't know them but love the mas a.

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Speaker 3: Now, yes, Maddie, why how are you good?

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Speaker 2: Mike?

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Speaker 3: You would so cute today?

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Speaker 2: Really really, I feel yucks.

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Speaker 1: It's because I've taken all the big headphones that were

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Speaker 1: hiding maybe made the funning features.

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Speaker 3: Do I need to lose the big headphones as well?

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Speaker 2: Do you think you look cooler without them?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: But if it's going to cause the frustration that you

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Speaker 1: experience last time, I don't know if it's worth it.

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Speaker 3: I look cooler until you watch me try and put

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Speaker 3: those headphones in, and then I look like anything but cool.

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Speaker 1: Just do what's working for you. Just keep the big ones.

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Speaker 1: I can be the cool technical one on the show.

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Speaker 3: Paying question for you? What's what's the what's the rules

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Speaker 3: around room?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Oh ah? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Like if you I had a.

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Speaker 2: Really good guideline. Is it true? I always like to

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Speaker 2: put things through the filter? Is it true? Is it kind?

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Speaker 2: Is it necessary?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Okay, this is potentially not true. Yeah, definitely not kind?

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Speaker 2: Uh huh? And is it necessary?

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Speaker 3: Well, depends what you define it as necessary is it?

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Speaker 1: Is it just fodder for the sake of it, or

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Speaker 1: do you think it's there is a purpose of actually

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Speaker 1: sharing it?

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Speaker 3: I mean, there could believe that's the right question. There

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Speaker 3: could be a purpose to sharing it. But if I'm

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Speaker 3: perfectly honest, I would be sharing it for the sole

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Speaker 3: purpose of sharing it. You won't believe the story I've heard,

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Speaker 3: Oh man, I can't. It's the kind of rumor and

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Speaker 3: goss that I certainly could verify.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well don't don't spread it? Then don't spread it.

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Speaker 1: If it's going to affect other people.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, don't spread out.

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Speaker 1: It's fun, though, Is it like intrinsically ingrained in us

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Speaker 1: as humans? Do you think to want a little bit

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Speaker 1: of gossip?

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Speaker 3: I am sure I have read, and I'm not just

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Speaker 3: saying this for my own benefit, that there are psychological

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Speaker 3: benefits for you to gossiping.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what are they? I feel like I've read that too. Benefits.

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Speaker 3: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: I try not to because I always feel better when

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Speaker 1: I don't. Specifically, it appears in engaging in gossip triggers

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Speaker 2: That's what you get when you give birth.

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Speaker 3: Here we go. There might be there might be an

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Speaker 3: evolutionary advantage to gossip, as it serves as a means

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Speaker 3: to foster bonding. It facilitates the spread of valuable information

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Speaker 3: and the maintenance of community norms.

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Speaker 2: But is it valuable or is it nasty?

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Speaker 3: Well, I guess it depends. This is not all gossip.

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Speaker 3: You hear his similar goals and can be categorized into

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Speaker 3: the following types. Positive gossip speaking positively about others in

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Speaker 3: their absence and sharing uplifting stories.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's nice.

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Speaker 3: Neutral gossip talking about others merely to share information, is

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Speaker 3: referred to as neutral gossip, often mondaye topics to discussed

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Speaker 3: without any positive or negative judgment, and the negative gossip

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Speaker 3: spreading rumours, criticisms, or unfavorable information about others constitutes negative gossip.

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Speaker 3: It does damage reputation.

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Speaker 2: The dirty, that's the dirty.

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Speaker 1: I love gossip, Yeah, temp to engage as it's the funnest.

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Speaker 1: It is the funnest that as an adult you have

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Speaker 3: I know, like I love Here's the thing about me.

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Speaker 3: I do love good gossip like I love a good story.

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Speaker 3: I love hearing a good story, and I gets I

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Speaker 3: get hooked into people's stories really easily. I used to

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Speaker 3: be terrible at sharing gossip. Yeah, and would like seek

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Speaker 3: you won't believe what I've heard. The older I've gotten,

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Speaker 1: It, hear it, but you're not so kay to share it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't want to know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not, it's not I want to know everything.

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Speaker 2: Keep my lips tight. I'll keep my lips tight, but just.

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Speaker 3: Start from the start and don't leave anything.

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Speaker 2: I think you just have to.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what your gossip is, but I think

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Speaker 3: Maddie maclay loose lips, think chips.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, all right, write it in a journal if you

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Speaker 3: No, I've got to. I do have it. I do

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Speaker 3: have a little paper. Actually, I do have a journel.

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Speaker 3: I don't write in it, but I do have one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, don't write it in notes on your phone.

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Speaker 3: I say, to write stuff down. Ah, it is really good.

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Speaker 1: I find that sometimes if I'm angry at my partners,

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Speaker 2: She didn't need to tell him that.

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Speaker 3: I remember I did that not that long ago, and

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Speaker 3: I remember writing it, being like and I wrote it

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Speaker 3: And I was like, I don't even know if you're

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Speaker 1: What I sometimes too, as I'll send like a flurry

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Speaker 2: Why did you unsind wouldn't be able to deal with that?

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Speaker 3: No, hey, guys, we've actually got to do something in

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, Well, we've got a great podcast

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Speaker 1: coming up. We talk about when you gave up on

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Speaker 3: What did you slip past the goalposts without your partner realizing?

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Speaker 1: And when did you unexpectedly run into your ex? All

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Speaker 2: Want me to do it? Please?

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Speaker 1: Just I want to have a window into your life

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Speaker 1: because we live and increasingly different.

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Speaker 2: Lives at the moment.

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Speaker 1: You're going out every well every single weekend. You've got

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Speaker 1: date nights. You can wake up and do whatever you want.

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Speaker 1: In the morning, you can go and pampy yourself, have

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Speaker 2: You know, life is a bit different for me these days.

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Speaker 3: So then is it cruel for me to talk you through?

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Speaker 3: So last night we did a little date night. And

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Speaker 3: Ryan's favorite favorite comedian was in town, and I got on,

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Speaker 3: are you surprised him?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he didn't know and Ryan hates surprises.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so and so how did it go when you

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Speaker 3: He was into it. It was into it because immediately

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Speaker 3: So that was fine. That was fine. So we went

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Speaker 3: And also just knowing like how much to order? Do

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Speaker 1: Did you know I follow a lot of health pages

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Speaker 1: and that's actually what you meant to do after every

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and then we went to this comedy show this

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Speaker 1: She's his favorite, right she follow you? This is your shot,

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 7: Yup hi?

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Speaker 7: My son when he was about four, quite often refused

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so he was quite chuffed. We got a calf,

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Speaker 1: All's going to Sam and Christ When did you just

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Speaker 9: So my now fifteen year old, when he was was

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Speaker 9: Freaking thing?

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Speaker 9: Three days. I can't even wash the handle?

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Speaker 2: What about? How did it finally? Late? Did he eat it?

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Speaker 9: No, that's the thing. He didn't even eat it.

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Speaker 5: Hey.

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Speaker 9: I went every night to try and get it off him,

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Speaker 1: So good, Alex wrapping up with Alana, Alana, When did

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Speaker 10: So, my son, up until he was about three or

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Speaker 10: And one day we were at a resort, quite nice resort,

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Speaker 3: We were like, you said, someone else's problem right now.

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Speaker 3: I'm just going to let him do his thing and

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Speaker 10: Call it like a free foot myself.

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Speaker 5: Many the podcast.

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Speaker 6: Are You.

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Speaker 3: That's right?

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Speaker 1: And it's time for our occupation stereotyping game.

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Speaker 2: It's called are You Are? And this week we're on

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Speaker 2: the hunt for reciptionists. Are you really?

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Speaker 1: So basically, you have to call us oh one hundred

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Speaker 3: I will say history has proven we're not great at

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't say we're not great. I just say the

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Speaker 1: callers are really great. True, They're just they've got really

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Speaker 3: Faces.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Helen is calling from Duned and good a Helen,

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Speaker 8: Are you?

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Speaker 2: Oh? She sounds, she sounds, But we were four minutes.

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Speaker 3: We were fooled by this last week with the pilots,

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm going to start with the question, Helen, how

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Speaker 2: fast can you type?

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Speaker 11: Like?

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Speaker 2: How many words per minute?

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Speaker 11: Do you?

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Speaker 2: Reckon? You're repping sixty permid sexty sexty? I mean, I

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Speaker 3: Asked one question, I don't know what. I don't know

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Speaker 3: the answer I'm looking for here? But what what do

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Speaker 3: you normally here for lunch? Hellen?

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Speaker 11: I normally takes my sandwich to work with me.

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Speaker 1: In the office.

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Speaker 3: That's that's the receptionist thing today.

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Speaker 2: She is a receptionist, hard, through and through. All right, Helen,

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Speaker 2: we reckon you're a receptionist?

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Speaker 8: Are you?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 3: What are you?

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Speaker 2: What do you do for a living?

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Speaker 11: From coach?

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Speaker 3: Well well done, Helen, you had us full.

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Speaker 1: All right, We're going to hook you out with a

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Speaker 3: Don't you think like bringing your own sandwich to work?

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Speaker 1: Just screams it is quiet reception alright, least to Melissa

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Speaker 1: and tadaha, good afterda Melissa.

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Speaker 11: Hi lady, Hi, how are you guys?

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Speaker 3: Very well? Melissa, very well?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, now you know the posty pretty well? What's

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Speaker 1: your post his name?

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Speaker 3: Charlotte, Charlotte, Charlotte. Okay, buying it? You didn't buy it?

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Speaker 2: She was scrambling there, I reckay.

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Speaker 3: Okay, here's another one. That's your that's your that's your

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Speaker 3: post his name? What's your boss's name? Yeah, that's good

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Speaker 3: bread bread.

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Speaker 2: Okay, she was in there, quick, Clay. I'm not a hundred.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I don't think she's No.

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Speaker 2: No, Melissa, we don't reckon. You're a receptionist, are you No?

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Speaker 10: I'm not yes.

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Speaker 8: One.

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Speaker 2: We're back on the board board.

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Speaker 12: What do you do?

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Speaker 11: I actually do ads for a radio station.

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Speaker 2: Okay, advertise on the heads.

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Speaker 3: It's a grand station, thanks Melissa.

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Speaker 2: Alright, okay, so.

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Speaker 3: Let's get another one.

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Speaker 2: All right. Joe is joining us. Hi, Joe, Hi, Hi, McLean,

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Speaker 2: what have you got.

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Speaker 3: I want to run through a little scenario with Joe.

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Speaker 3: So your boss is out and I'm going to call

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Speaker 3: I'm looking to speak to mister Smith.

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Speaker 12: Is he there?

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Speaker 8: I know he's not here at the moment such or

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Speaker 8: is it something that I can help you with.

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Speaker 3: She's good, She's good.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: You put too much into it.

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Speaker 1: you give us the top line of the letters on

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Speaker 1: the keyboard?

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Speaker 8: Q W A T.

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Speaker 1: Because I reckon Joe. I think she actually is a receptionist. Joe,

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Speaker 1: are you a receptionist?

457
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Speaker 2: No, we're not getting any better at this game.

458
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Speaker 3: Weather, but that getting better at it?

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Speaker 2: Joe, what do you do for a living?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're in the same We're in the in the

461
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Speaker 3: in the right ballpark.

462
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Speaker 2: We're flirting. We're flirting with the similar.

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Speaker 5: The podcast.

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Speaker 3: I told you earlier about date night last night.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, mate, we get it. You went on a

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Speaker 2: date night.

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Speaker 3: Well it is. I know you think I go out

468
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Speaker 3: all the time, but date night is actually rather rear.

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Speaker 8: No.

470
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Speaker 2: I know you've said that you're actually bit of a homebody.

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Speaker 3: We just get you just get into a routine and

472
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Speaker 3: you go home and give dinner, you watch TV. But

473
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Speaker 3: last night we're like, no, no, no, we're going to

474
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Speaker 3: go out for dinner. We've got this comedy show to

475
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Speaker 3: go to. And it was so nice. It was really

476
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Speaker 3: really nice to.

477
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Speaker 1: Be I think it is a good thing to do,

478
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Speaker 1: even though sometimes you can't be bothered. I think it

479
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Speaker 1: is a good thing to set you the end, to

480
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Speaker 1: make that conscious time to be a partnership, well a relationship,

481
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Speaker 1: you know.

482
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Speaker 3: So we finished dinner and then we started walking towards

483
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Speaker 3: the venue where this comedy show was and we thought,

484
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Speaker 3: he see we could do a little sweet.

485
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Speaker 2: Treat, treat yourself.

486
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Speaker 3: Let me guess we were thinking gelato. But I kind

487
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Speaker 3: of looked it up and I couldn't find anywhere close by,

488
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Speaker 3: and we, you know, we needed to get to the venue.

489
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Speaker 3: So we took a gamble and we thought, we'll see

490
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Speaker 3: if the venue is selling any ice cream and there's

491
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Speaker 3: some sort of sweet treat there.

492
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Speaker 1: They're probably some of my favorite ice creams at like

493
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Speaker 1: those shows where you get the rau of the ice

494
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Speaker 1: cream and they've got like the chalk and then the

495
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Speaker 1: little nuts on top.

496
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, they go well, they do go well.

497
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Speaker 3: This was and they didn't have those, but they did

498
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Speaker 3: have a few different like just generic ice creams that

499
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Speaker 3: you would get from like the Deirya or whatever. Yeah,

500
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Speaker 3: and so Ryan Whenham brought us a couple and I

501
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Speaker 3: got a little like chocolate Memphis mountdown with like a

502
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Speaker 3: gooey caramel one as well.

503
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Speaker 1: That's always my goal over the years, or the Magnum ego,

504
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Speaker 1: they're quite similar.

505
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Speaker 3: Yes, but I think I've told you this before. I'm

506
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Speaker 3: not a good ice cream eater. I'm a very messy

507
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Speaker 3: ice cream eater. It's why. It's why if I go

508
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Speaker 3: and get gelato, I have to ask for it in

509
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Speaker 3: the cup because I just can't keep up with the

510
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Speaker 3: speed of the melt and it goes everywhere if I

511
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Speaker 3: get it in the cone.

512
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Speaker 2: So I'm just like, per second, can't.

513
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Speaker 1: It's going everywhere, streams of water a hot day when

514
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Speaker 1: you want the ice cream, themo's and it just runs away.

515
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Speaker 4: On you know.

516
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Speaker 3: So I'm a messy ice cream eater at the best

517
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Speaker 3: of times. And so I got this, this gooey caramel

518
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Speaker 3: ice cream and I bit into it and I could

519
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Speaker 3: already tell. I was like, oh God, I'm gonna have

520
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Speaker 3: to go and get like a napkin or something, because

521
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Speaker 3: it was just kind of I could feel it, you know,

522
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Speaker 3: it was everywhere all over my mind, on and around you.

523
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Speaker 3: As I turn around, thinking I'll go back to the

524
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Speaker 3: bar and get like a napkin or something to wipe

525
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Speaker 3: my face. Who I'm.

526
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Speaker 2: Not your boss again?

527
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Speaker 3: Not the boss, No, not the CEO.

528
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Speaker 2: No an X. Oh you actually kidd.

529
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Speaker 3: And X with his with his new pa.

530
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Speaker 2: You've got the camel, the chocky, the vanilla ice cream.

531
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Speaker 3: Still mouthful, and still mouthful because I've taken a massive

532
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Speaker 3: bite because I'm not polite about eating ice cream at all.

533
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Speaker 3: So here i am face filled with ice cream, gooey

534
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Speaker 3: caramel running down my chin, and I'm like, oh, hi, Hi,

535
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Speaker 3: nice to see you.

536
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Speaker 1: It was so.

537
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Speaker 3: You miss this, You miss all of this, this hot mess.

538
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Speaker 3: Do you regret breaking up with me? You kind of't

539
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Speaker 3: rite honestly, Honestly, it was just one of those situations

540
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Speaker 3: where I was like, this is not the this is

541
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Speaker 3: not the occasion to run into.

542
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Speaker 5: Maddy, J Madi and PJ the podcast.

543
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Speaker 1: When did you unexpectedly unexpectedly run into your ex after

544
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Speaker 1: Mattie had quite an interesting situation last night.

545
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Speaker 3: Yeah, ran into someone that I used to date while

546
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Speaker 3: I was at a comedy show with ice cream all

547
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Speaker 3: over my face everywhere.

548
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Speaker 2: Some would say it was a comedy of eras.

549
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Speaker 3: Hey, I love what you did there. I don't know

550
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Speaker 3: what you've been comedy.

551
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Speaker 2: Honestly, it's not your worst.

552
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:30,160
Speaker 3: It's not your worst.

553
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 2: Stand up comedy. I have so much for stand up comedians.

554
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Speaker 1: Anyway, let's talk x'es and awkward run ins, and none

555
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Speaker 1: is joining us on eight hundred the hats what happened

556
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Speaker 1: with you?

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Speaker 13: I was at the peck and Say supermarket, so I

558
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Speaker 13: heard a piece of land and I've been scrub barring

559
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Speaker 13: all day, so I was completely green from top to

560
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Speaker 13: bottom with grass and the year, and thought, I've got

561
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Speaker 13: to get to the supermarket young boots on grassy clothes,

562
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Speaker 13: I mean literally like the Hulk green. And I was

563
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Speaker 13: really hot and sweetee, and I thought, I'm just going

564
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Speaker 13: to go to the supermarket. So I was in there,

565
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Speaker 13: and I running around the supermarket, just about to pay,

566
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Speaker 13: and there he was. You have got to be kidding me.

567
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Speaker 3: It's always always those times where you think I can

568
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Speaker 3: do this because who am I? Who am I going

569
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Speaker 3: to run into?

570
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Speaker 8: Yeah?

571
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Speaker 13: And the thing is it's a country supermarket, so there's

572
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Speaker 13: a lot of people in gamboats, but possibly not covered

573
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Speaker 13: in grass and green. And I literally had bit the

574
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Speaker 13: grass falling off me and I was like, I want

575
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Speaker 13: to look hot.

576
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Speaker 3: I don't want to I wanted to wheel break up.

577
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Speaker 1: Oh that was so good, Ashley one hundred, When did

578
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Speaker 1: you run into your eggs?

579
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Speaker 9: For my husband now, he lost the trailer for sale

580
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Speaker 9: on Facebook and it was my high school book friend

581
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Speaker 9: it turned.

582
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Speaker 2: Up to buy it. So did they know? Did they

583
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Speaker 2: know at the time or did you secretly know and

584
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Speaker 2: not say anything.

585
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Speaker 6: So they knew that I just had in.

586
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Speaker 3: Fair enough.

587
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 2: It's probably there's probably the place to be.

588
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,200
Speaker 3: Someone who's messaged us on Facebook on our heads Drive

589
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 3: Facebook page page and said I was in Rome. Just

590
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Speaker 3: boarded a top deck tour with my best friends. So

591
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,400
Speaker 3: these top decks run for what like a week two

592
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 3: weeks round Europe usually, and you're and you're so enclosed

593
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 3: in the space on the bus. My ex was on

594
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Speaker 3: the same top deck tour.

595
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Speaker 1: What other chances, Rachel? What about you when you run

596
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Speaker 1: into your eggs?

597
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Speaker 11: I ran into him twice, and three days before the

598
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Speaker 11: wedding ran I ran into him at the supermarket immediently

599
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 11: sort of hadn't heard I was getting married, so I

600
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Speaker 11: was like, oh, oh, no, no, and you.

601
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Speaker 2: Probably had like a nice spray hand was amazing.

602
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Speaker 5: No.

603
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Speaker 11: I wasn't quite that glamorous yet. And then teen years

604
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Speaker 11: later I was going down to see family and took

605
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Speaker 11: the husband and everything, and we were staying with aunt

606
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Speaker 11: and uncle and he was boarding with them. And I

607
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Speaker 11: didn't know until I walked into the lounge and he

608
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 11: walked in after me, and I just about passed out

609
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Speaker 11: on the floor.

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Speaker 3: Run girl, run.

611
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Speaker 11: Awkward l because I was the dumper. I dumped him.

612
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 11: Really nice guy. He didn't deserve the treatment I gave him.

613
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Speaker 2: Well, Rachel, thank you for reliving in trauma with us

614
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 2: this afternoon.

615
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Speaker 5: And the podcast.

616
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Speaker 1: So we have been selling puppies for a little bit now,

617
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Speaker 1: some gorgeous purebred labradors.

618
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Speaker 3: How many have you got left?

619
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Speaker 2: We've got three left.

620
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Speaker 3: You're nearly there, you nearly So let.

621
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Speaker 2: Me just tell you.

622
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Speaker 1: Times are tough right now, and I absolutely understand it's

623
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Speaker 1: really hard for people to part ways with cash. You know,

624
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: A lot of people just don't have you know, extra

625
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Speaker 1: savings at the moment.

626
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Speaker 3: Are nice, so cute?

627
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Speaker 2: Keep the cell up, keep it up? What else do

628
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Speaker 2: you like about them?

629
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Speaker 3: Look great for the whole family.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they are the golden, the gorgeous. We've got three

631
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Speaker 1: boys left. Anyway, I'll save the cell for another day.

632
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 1: But we have noticed one massive thing whilst trying to

633
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Speaker 1: sell these puppies.

634
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Speaker 2: And we've had a lot of interest.

635
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Speaker 1: Right and people will come out the gates and they'll

636
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Speaker 1: be like, okay, tell us all about them, and so

637
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 1: I'll send off all the details and then they'll come

638
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 1: back and they're like, okay, amazing, great, give me tonight.

639
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 1: I just need to win my partner either and I'll

640
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 1: get back to you.

641
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 3: And then warning, huh, that old chestnut.

642
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Speaker 1: I can't tell you how many replies we've had of

643
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Speaker 1: people going, oh, I'm so sorry, the hobby's just not

644
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 1: going to let me have it at the moment. Okay,

645
00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 1: it's just not the right time or sorry, I asked

646
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Speaker 1: the wife, and no, it's an absolute no for now.

647
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Speaker 3: Is there some and then you can slip past the goalposts?

648
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 3: Do you reckon?

649
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 1: Like?

650
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 3: Is bringing a pet home the kind of thing you

651
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 3: can just do on the sly.

652
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 1: I just think there is a real longgoing commitment with

653
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 1: a part and there's like quite a lot of edmund

654
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 1: that goes along with there, and ongoing payments for food.

655
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Speaker 1: I don't know if it's just a one and done

656
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 1: thing that you can slip past the goalie.

657
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Speaker 3: There must be those things though, where you don't ask

658
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 3: for permission, Like you don't have to solicit for your

659
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 3: wife or your partner or your husband's permission to go

660
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 3: and buy something.

661
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Speaker 1: Well, I thought we could ask this question the same nang,

662
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Speaker 1: What did you do without their permission? Your partner's permission,

663
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 1: or maybe they did something without yours? Oh eight hundred

664
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Speaker 1: the hats Kendall is actually joining us. Kendall, you got

665
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Speaker 1: home and found something that your partner had purchased.

666
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Speaker 8: Yep. My husband came home and he said, gay, guess what,

667
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 8: And I said yep, And he said, you're going to

668
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Speaker 8: be the owner of a coffee.

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Speaker 12: I'm like, say what, Yeah, so I don't drink coffee.

670
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Speaker 8: He doesn't drink coffee.

671
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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

672
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 12: It's just such a random thing to tell me that

674
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Speaker 12: he's buying and basically telling me he's buying it and

675
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 12: it's done. And yeah, so that was in November last year,

676
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Speaker 12: and he told me to quit my job. And I'm

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Speaker 12: the one running the coffee cart now and yeah there's

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Speaker 12: a random story for two people that don't drink coffee.

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Speaker 12: And now we're like amazing buristers.

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Speaker 13: So you.

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Speaker 3: Run the cart like it has tuned into a thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so I.

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Speaker 12: Kind of you know, when you know he's got both

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Speaker 12: feet in already, you know you can't pull him out.

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Speaker 7: So he was.

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Speaker 4: He just said, I'm in.

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Speaker 8: We're doing it, so I know you you don't really

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Speaker 8: have a choice.

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Speaker 12: I was a regular customer. This girl's moving countries and

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Speaker 12: I still want my hot chocolates and my pie.

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Speaker 3: I love the story.

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Speaker 2: We can give the little coffee card to shout out,

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Speaker 2: give it a plug.

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Speaker 12: I have to. It's the one at the wire or

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Speaker 12: river in to Earth by the bridge, and it's called

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Speaker 12: silver Card Coffee.

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Speaker 1: Brilliant.

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Speaker 5: Nice Maddy ANDJ Madi and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 1: We want to know what you did without your partner's

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Speaker 1: permission or vice versa. What did they do without asking you?

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Speaker 1: I brought this up because we're selling puppies at the

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Speaker 1: moment and the number one thing we hear from pretty

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Speaker 1: much everyone is, Hey, just give me a night to

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Speaker 1: do the hard sale and I'll be back tomorrow. Now,

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Speaker 1: whichon we can get this across the line, and then

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Speaker 1: I'll get a message and they'll be like, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 2: They just they just won't let us. They won't let

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Speaker 2: me do it right now.

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Speaker 3: The animal is a hard thing to slip slip past

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Speaker 3: the line. Yeah you can. You can't just sneak it

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Speaker 3: into the house, can you.

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Speaker 1: It is a long term commitment. So we wanted to know, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what did you get across the line without your partner?

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Speaker 1: Amanda is joining us?

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Speaker 2: What happened with you?

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Speaker 5: Hi?

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Speaker 13: Yes, most of our pets i've got without my husband.

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Speaker 3: You have got you, Amanda.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, I haven't tried to hide them.

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Speaker 4: After we've got them the time he doesn't know before

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Speaker 4: they arrive home.

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Speaker 3: And what are we talking.

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Speaker 13: Well, we've got a buddy that didn't get permissioned. First,

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Speaker 13: we've got two cats that didn't get permissioned. We've gone

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Speaker 13: a lot and we've actually got raped as well.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and what's the response from the partner when this happens?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god? Another one.

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Speaker 1: Stop, Amanda, Stop, Tina is joining us, Tana, what do

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Speaker 1: you do without your partner's permission?

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Speaker 6: Got the Mind's Clothing and because I am quite a

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Speaker 6: addicted to the Henny Collection in New Zealand. Every time

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Speaker 6: they have a sale or a new item come out, yeah,

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Speaker 6: I buy it and then I slipped it into the

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Speaker 6: washing like I've had.

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Speaker 3: It the whole time, So it just gets added to

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Speaker 3: the washing pile.

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Speaker 6: We did, but a few weeks ago we had to

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Speaker 6: add a cat as well, throw no choice. We were

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Speaker 6: out on a bike ride and someone had tied up

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Speaker 6: a kitten and a plastic bag and I came.

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Speaker 3: Across it and I just couldn't not No, you've done

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Speaker 3: a good thing there. Yeah, we'll give you that one, Tina.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, we are going on to Donna now though, Donna,

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Speaker 1: what happened without the permission?

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Speaker 10: I bought a house?

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Speaker 8: What what?

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Speaker 4: We went to have a look at a house and

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Speaker 4: the market was running pretty hot. This was one hundred

751
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Speaker 4: years ago when people could afford to buy house. Yes,

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Speaker 4: So the land agent wouldn't let me do anything unless

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Speaker 4: somebody had seen it. So I got hold of my

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Speaker 4: dad and he came to have a look at the house.

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Speaker 4: So my dad's suggestion was, go put a ridiculous offer

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Speaker 4: on it, and while they come back to negotiate, you

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Speaker 4: can get your husband and to have a look at it.

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Speaker 10: Well they accepted the ridiculous Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: So my punishment, my punishment was I had to move

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Speaker 4: us and by myself.

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Speaker 2: Fear enough.

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Speaker 3: Did it work out for the beast though Donner Yeah,

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Speaker 3: oh yeah it was.

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Speaker 4: It was a good house and it was like, you know,

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Speaker 4: it had more room for the family and all the

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Speaker 4: rest of it. But you know, it was just like,

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Speaker 4: I can't believe you went. Because he came home and

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Speaker 4: he said there was something about wanting to I said, no,

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Speaker 4: we can't spend any money.

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Speaker 3: Because I bought a house.

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Speaker 13: Money today.

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Speaker 3: I'm like.

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Speaker 5: Many in the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Many, what are you going to be doing to celebrate

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Speaker 2: the lions Gate portal?

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Speaker 3: You're not, You're not? What?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 8: What?

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Speaker 1: I need to bring something up with you because this

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Speaker 1: has been on my radar a lot. In my world,

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00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 1: the social media pages that I follow talk about a

782
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: lot of spiritual and woo woo things, and I do

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Speaker 1: my best to not bring them to the table because

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Speaker 1: I know I'll get the eye roll. That you're giving

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Speaker 1: me right now, But can you give me just a

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Speaker 1: couple of minutes to talk about the lions Gate.

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Speaker 3: I've never even heard of the lions Gate. Okay, you

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Speaker 3: know the rules. Yeah, you can go woo woo, but

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Speaker 3: we have a safe word.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: If I say banana, it means you've gone too far

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Speaker 3: and you cut it off. You cut it off.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay.

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Speaker 1: So the lions Gate portal is the eighth of the

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Speaker 1: eighth every year, eighth of August, and this is meant

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Speaker 1: to be a key time for manifestation to sit down,

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Speaker 1: sit you intentions, and really look at your life and

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Speaker 1: what you want to achieve.

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Speaker 2: So I've got a couple of taps on what you

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Speaker 2: can do. Can I get in the zone?

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Speaker 3: Can I just ask? Though? Like when you hear words

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Speaker 3: like manifestation, do you even roll your eyes?

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Speaker 2: No, manifestation there's so.

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Speaker 1: Much science behind it, Like when you genuinely visualize, and

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Speaker 1: I'm not just talking thinking about it. You have to

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Speaker 1: put god like a mood, like a like a like

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00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 1: you have to feel it like there are proper, proper menefics.

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Speaker 1: There are some people who are so good at it

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Speaker 1: where you basically feel the feeling like it's already happened

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Speaker 1: and there are incredible results that you can achieve. But anyway,

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Speaker 1: today to tap in to the Lionsgate portal before you

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Speaker 1: want to clear your space.

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Speaker 2: You want to smudge, declutter, allow them energy. Yeah, you

814
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 2: can get a little bit. You know what smudge is? Right?

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Speaker 3: No, what is smudge like? Stage banana is so close?

816
00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:57,799
Speaker 3: But keep going.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm on to number two. You want to reflect

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00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 1: on your intentions. You can review your goals. This is

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Speaker 1: a great time for doing that, fine tuning your intentions

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00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 1: so that they resonate with your soul's purpose and they

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Speaker 1: set the stage for that powerful manifestation. You know, it's

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Speaker 1: a time to really look onwards. And then number three,

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Speaker 1: practice mindfulness. This is a great time to meditate to

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Speaker 1: quiet your mind. Now, look, that might look different for you.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to sit and be quiet. Meditation looks

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Speaker 1: different for everyone.

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Speaker 2: Number four, you want to release.

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Speaker 1: How many minutes we got I've gone two and a half,

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Speaker 1: I'm doing well, Release and let go. This is a

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Speaker 1: time to identify and release any fears, darts, and limiting

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Speaker 1: beliefs that hold you back, and you want to make

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Speaker 1: room for new possibilities as the portal's energies to go in.

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Speaker 2: It's serious.

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Speaker 1: My mom at eight past eight tonight is sitting down,

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Speaker 1: she's getting the candled out, candle out, and she's taking

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Speaker 1: this very seriously. It's the idea of the port number five.

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Speaker 1: Elevate your vibration in activities spirit.

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Speaker 2: I did well. I got three minutes out of you.

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Speaker 5: Mary n, PJ Mady and Pj. The podcast The Heads