1 00:00:09,093 --> 00:00:11,972 Speaker 1: You're listening to a podcast from News Talk sed B. 2 00:00:12,373 --> 00:00:16,133 Speaker 1: Follow this and our wide range of podcasts now on iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:16,692 --> 00:00:19,052 Speaker 2: Hello, are you great New Zealandism. Welcome to Matt and 4 00:00:19,053 --> 00:00:23,093 Speaker 2: Tyler Afternoon's full show, Pod number ninety for the nineteenth 5 00:00:23,173 --> 00:00:26,453 Speaker 2: of March in the Year of Our Lord twenty twenty five. 6 00:00:26,893 --> 00:00:30,533 Speaker 2: It was a Wednesday. Boy, oh boy, that was a 7 00:00:30,533 --> 00:00:34,492 Speaker 2: great chat. Learn a lot about dogs. We learned a 8 00:00:34,653 --> 00:00:36,732 Speaker 2: shocking fact that you won't get to the end of 9 00:00:36,773 --> 00:00:38,933 Speaker 2: the show around dog leavings. 10 00:00:39,173 --> 00:00:41,852 Speaker 3: Disgusting fact. Disgusting, but very interesting. 11 00:00:42,132 --> 00:00:44,492 Speaker 2: They aren't the most disgusting thing in the world for 12 00:00:44,533 --> 00:00:47,252 Speaker 2: a dog. I guess that's not really effective. One knows 13 00:00:47,253 --> 00:00:50,533 Speaker 2: the dog's disgusting and do that kind of thing. Lots 14 00:00:50,533 --> 00:00:53,573 Speaker 2: of chats with x pets and some find us friendly, 15 00:00:53,653 --> 00:00:59,013 Speaker 2: some do not. And of course we went really really, really, 16 00:00:59,773 --> 00:01:04,572 Speaker 2: really really deep into wills and whether people are trying 17 00:01:04,613 --> 00:01:07,413 Speaker 2: to remove the gold teeth they want you gold from 18 00:01:07,413 --> 00:01:13,693 Speaker 2: our boomers on their yep. Yeah, all right, okay, then like, subscribe, follow, 19 00:01:13,893 --> 00:01:15,932 Speaker 2: and share if you like. You could even give us 20 00:01:15,932 --> 00:01:18,133 Speaker 2: a five star review if you have felt like it 21 00:01:18,212 --> 00:01:22,693 Speaker 2: deserves it. But enjoy the show, Love you love you, 22 00:01:24,173 --> 00:01:25,773 Speaker 2: the big stories. 23 00:01:25,333 --> 00:01:28,973 Speaker 1: The big issues, the big trends, and everything in between. 24 00:01:29,173 --> 00:01:33,053 Speaker 1: Matt and Taylor afternoons with the Volvo X ninety, attention 25 00:01:33,133 --> 00:01:36,053 Speaker 1: to detail and a commitment to comfort news talks, there'd. 26 00:01:35,893 --> 00:01:47,253 Speaker 3: Be good afternoon to you. Welcome into Wednesday. Hope you're 27 00:01:47,292 --> 00:01:49,933 Speaker 3: doing well wherever you're listening in the country. Great day 28 00:01:49,973 --> 00:01:52,013 Speaker 3: of your company as always, kiddo, Matt. 29 00:01:52,053 --> 00:01:54,253 Speaker 2: Get a Ti. I'm looking forward to Mark Vetti joining 30 00:01:54,333 --> 00:01:55,933 Speaker 2: us later after three o'clock. 31 00:01:56,093 --> 00:01:59,093 Speaker 3: Yes, that's going to be a fantastic hour. He is 32 00:01:59,093 --> 00:02:00,573 Speaker 3: going to join us for an hour this time because 33 00:02:00,573 --> 00:02:03,013 Speaker 3: it was so popular last time. But just before we 34 00:02:03,213 --> 00:02:06,853 Speaker 3: go to the rest of the show, someone sent something 35 00:02:06,893 --> 00:02:08,573 Speaker 3: to me and it was on the back of we 36 00:02:08,613 --> 00:02:11,813 Speaker 3: all know she had a fantastic New Zealand band, one 37 00:02:11,813 --> 00:02:15,133 Speaker 3: of the best, had their last shows last weekend. But 38 00:02:15,293 --> 00:02:18,173 Speaker 3: this little bit of audio from the sold out event 39 00:02:18,252 --> 00:02:19,213 Speaker 3: at Spark Arena. 40 00:02:19,532 --> 00:02:26,373 Speaker 1: We played Altius into Artist Square and I was talking 41 00:02:26,373 --> 00:02:28,213 Speaker 1: to Matt he you know, he used to be. 42 00:02:28,173 --> 00:02:34,893 Speaker 4: An Dejo and I was talking to a. 43 00:02:34,933 --> 00:02:36,813 Speaker 5: Backstage and we just got to go on and then 44 00:02:36,813 --> 00:02:37,412 Speaker 5: someone comes. 45 00:02:37,333 --> 00:02:38,933 Speaker 1: Up to me and goes, hey, do you want to 46 00:02:38,933 --> 00:02:41,493 Speaker 1: meet the prime minister and it was Helen Clark and 47 00:02:41,532 --> 00:02:44,293 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, see you later, Matt, I'm going 48 00:02:44,373 --> 00:02:45,453 Speaker 1: to talk to the Prime minister. 49 00:02:46,133 --> 00:02:49,973 Speaker 6: And he felt sad. 50 00:02:49,252 --> 00:02:49,893 Speaker 2: That's great. 51 00:02:50,133 --> 00:02:52,733 Speaker 3: So what's going on there? Well, what's the best crowd 52 00:02:52,733 --> 00:02:54,132 Speaker 3: of this story? That's a hell of a thing for 53 00:02:54,252 --> 00:02:56,053 Speaker 3: John too Good to just share with the crowd. 54 00:02:56,252 --> 00:02:58,333 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to unpack that for a second. So 55 00:02:58,773 --> 00:03:02,412 Speaker 2: he's telling a story. He's talking to me backstage. We 56 00:03:02,773 --> 00:03:04,373 Speaker 2: talked a lot she had back in the day my 57 00:03:04,493 --> 00:03:07,893 Speaker 2: band Deja Voda that he pretends not to remember. He 58 00:03:07,972 --> 00:03:10,333 Speaker 2: got there in the end and would have killed the 59 00:03:10,373 --> 00:03:15,053 Speaker 2: audience have a bigger cheer than just it's about two 60 00:03:15,133 --> 00:03:20,813 Speaker 2: of the and so just trying to unpick what happened there. 61 00:03:20,853 --> 00:03:22,972 Speaker 2: So he was talking to me and then someone said 62 00:03:23,013 --> 00:03:25,413 Speaker 2: you want to meet the Prime minister and then he 63 00:03:25,453 --> 00:03:27,692 Speaker 2: went and talked to her. And I was sad. Apparently, yeah, 64 00:03:27,813 --> 00:03:29,373 Speaker 2: was I said because I hadn't been invited to talk 65 00:03:29,413 --> 00:03:30,933 Speaker 2: to the prime mister? Or was I sayd because John too 66 00:03:30,933 --> 00:03:33,053 Speaker 2: Good was talking to the Prime minister. I don't know. Well, 67 00:03:33,093 --> 00:03:35,973 Speaker 2: I'll tell you what would Helen Clark even enjoyed she 68 00:03:36,053 --> 00:03:37,973 Speaker 2: had because I lived near Eden Park, and she's always 69 00:03:37,973 --> 00:03:40,333 Speaker 2: trying to shut down the concerts there. I think she's 70 00:03:40,413 --> 00:03:43,172 Speaker 2: only really interested in classical music and opera. I don't 71 00:03:43,213 --> 00:03:47,093 Speaker 2: know if she had, you know, hard rocking ways would 72 00:03:47,093 --> 00:03:48,573 Speaker 2: sit well with Helen Clark. 73 00:03:48,293 --> 00:03:50,213 Speaker 3: Out of all the prime ministers, for John Good to 74 00:03:50,213 --> 00:03:52,813 Speaker 3: say to you, Sorry, Matt, I've got to go, Helen Clark. 75 00:03:54,813 --> 00:03:57,693 Speaker 2: Well, I'll tell you what you know. You know, no 76 00:03:58,213 --> 00:04:00,693 Speaker 2: news as bad news, no it, all mentions are good. 77 00:04:00,773 --> 00:04:02,973 Speaker 2: I think that's raising my profile through the roof. 78 00:04:03,013 --> 00:04:05,493 Speaker 3: Now exactly, we might have to get John on to 79 00:04:05,653 --> 00:04:07,373 Speaker 3: just like unpick that prop. 80 00:04:07,453 --> 00:04:10,933 Speaker 2: Whatever it killed him to say, Matt from Matt and 81 00:04:10,973 --> 00:04:13,813 Speaker 2: Tyler Afternoons on z B, Yeah, come on right, play 82 00:04:13,973 --> 00:04:16,613 Speaker 2: the game rather than my old band Yeah, daij a 83 00:04:16,733 --> 00:04:18,253 Speaker 2: Voodoo Yeah, come on old news. 84 00:04:18,293 --> 00:04:20,133 Speaker 3: All right, Good to put that one to bed for now. 85 00:04:20,133 --> 00:04:21,773 Speaker 3: We might get John two got on the show at 86 00:04:21,773 --> 00:04:23,413 Speaker 3: some stage and figure it all out. But on to 87 00:04:23,493 --> 00:04:25,653 Speaker 3: the show. As you mentioned, Mark Vidi, he's on for 88 00:04:25,813 --> 00:04:29,893 Speaker 3: our Animal Behaviorist and this is an incredibly popular segment, 89 00:04:29,933 --> 00:04:32,333 Speaker 3: so it pays to get in early. If you've got 90 00:04:32,373 --> 00:04:37,093 Speaker 3: a question. Eight hundred and eighty ten eighty Andrews standing by. 91 00:04:37,333 --> 00:04:40,613 Speaker 2: As your cat or dog or rabbit crazy. Yeah, he'll 92 00:04:40,613 --> 00:04:42,453 Speaker 2: help with it. So yeah, get an early nine two 93 00:04:42,573 --> 00:04:44,733 Speaker 2: ninety two, and then yeah, you want to be quick 94 00:04:44,733 --> 00:04:46,893 Speaker 2: on the phone after three on eight hundred and eighty 95 00:04:46,933 --> 00:04:50,293 Speaker 2: ten eighty. As you say, Tyler yep, hugely popular every 96 00:04:50,293 --> 00:04:50,893 Speaker 2: time we have him. 97 00:04:50,813 --> 00:04:53,013 Speaker 3: On, absolutely after two o'clock. We didn't get a chance 98 00:04:53,053 --> 00:04:55,493 Speaker 3: to dive into this yesterday as we went a super 99 00:04:55,533 --> 00:04:58,093 Speaker 3: deep on hitchhiking chat, which was fantastic. But we want 100 00:04:58,093 --> 00:05:00,493 Speaker 3: to get into this today. Do we think we're actually 101 00:05:00,573 --> 00:05:01,733 Speaker 3: friendly at than we are? 102 00:05:02,173 --> 00:05:05,813 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right. So a investigation, no, a study you'd 103 00:05:05,853 --> 00:05:08,213 Speaker 2: call it, and to the countries that are most friendly 104 00:05:08,533 --> 00:05:12,293 Speaker 2: expats living in a country found that New Zealand was 105 00:05:12,333 --> 00:05:15,053 Speaker 2: way down the list, way down the list. Only two 106 00:05:15,333 --> 00:05:19,173 Speaker 2: and five ex pats living in New Zealand thought that 107 00:05:19,213 --> 00:05:21,893 Speaker 2: we were friendly, agreed with were friendly as opposed to 108 00:05:21,933 --> 00:05:23,573 Speaker 2: Costa Rica or it's ninety percent. 109 00:05:23,973 --> 00:05:24,213 Speaker 5: You know. 110 00:05:24,333 --> 00:05:27,133 Speaker 2: The people that are worse than us were Norway, Denmark 111 00:05:27,253 --> 00:05:28,493 Speaker 2: and Finland and Sweden. 112 00:05:28,893 --> 00:05:30,452 Speaker 3: It's about time we beat them at something. 113 00:05:30,533 --> 00:05:32,773 Speaker 2: Yeah, they normally come number one on these happiness lists. 114 00:05:32,773 --> 00:05:36,333 Speaker 2: There's always there's normally Denmark, Sweden, Finland, Australia and New 115 00:05:36,413 --> 00:05:38,573 Speaker 2: Zealand at the top of these good lists. But for 116 00:05:38,613 --> 00:05:43,013 Speaker 2: some reason we're according to this, we're not as friendly 117 00:05:43,093 --> 00:05:45,973 Speaker 2: as we might like to be. So, if you are 118 00:05:46,013 --> 00:05:48,813 Speaker 2: an expat living in the country, how do you feel 119 00:05:48,853 --> 00:05:51,213 Speaker 2: are we friendly? Have we invited you into your lives? 120 00:05:51,333 --> 00:05:53,253 Speaker 2: As Tyler said, we wanted to talk about this yesterday, 121 00:05:53,253 --> 00:05:55,053 Speaker 2: but we got too many phone calls on hitch hiking 122 00:05:55,453 --> 00:05:57,693 Speaker 2: and too many texts on hitchhiking, so we could under 123 00:05:57,733 --> 00:06:00,493 Speaker 2: the avalanche. We couldn't get to this topic. But it's 124 00:06:00,493 --> 00:06:01,973 Speaker 2: an interesting one because. 125 00:06:01,733 --> 00:06:03,853 Speaker 3: I believe I'm very friendly, yep, and we love to 126 00:06:03,853 --> 00:06:05,733 Speaker 3: think we're friendly, but keen to hear from you if 127 00:06:05,773 --> 00:06:08,293 Speaker 3: you are an expat or you've moved to this beautiful gun. 128 00:06:08,653 --> 00:06:10,773 Speaker 3: That's after two o'clock, because right now, let's have a 129 00:06:10,893 --> 00:06:13,413 Speaker 3: chat about giving to charity. 130 00:06:14,133 --> 00:06:18,933 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right. So there has been a request that's 131 00:06:18,973 --> 00:06:23,573 Speaker 2: put out there. John McLeod, he's been running a report 132 00:06:23,613 --> 00:06:28,133 Speaker 2: from financial advisors Jbware and they're saying that they want 133 00:06:28,173 --> 00:06:31,333 Speaker 2: more money from people that are dying. Basically, they want 134 00:06:31,373 --> 00:06:34,133 Speaker 2: more boomers that are dying, which is morbid. If you 135 00:06:34,253 --> 00:06:37,133 Speaker 2: ask me to give more money to charity. It's the 136 00:06:37,213 --> 00:06:40,613 Speaker 2: number of people dying about thirty seven thousand per year, 137 00:06:40,653 --> 00:06:42,573 Speaker 2: he says in New Zealand and the average wealth of 138 00:06:42,613 --> 00:06:44,733 Speaker 2: those who are likely to die, which it's about seven 139 00:06:44,813 --> 00:06:47,693 Speaker 2: hundred and fifty thousand per person. So you put those 140 00:06:47,693 --> 00:06:50,533 Speaker 2: two together and that's twenty seven billion dollars. That thirty 141 00:06:50,573 --> 00:06:54,253 Speaker 2: seven thousand per year currently was only twenty seven thousand. 142 00:06:54,413 --> 00:06:57,893 Speaker 2: That thirty seven thousand was only twenty seven twenty years ago, 143 00:06:58,253 --> 00:07:01,093 Speaker 2: and it's going to move to sixty six thousand people 144 00:07:01,173 --> 00:07:04,693 Speaker 2: dying in another fifty years, so you can really see 145 00:07:04,693 --> 00:07:07,013 Speaker 2: it coming through in the number of people passing away 146 00:07:07,093 --> 00:07:09,493 Speaker 2: between now and twenty fifty it'll be one point six 147 00:07:09,653 --> 00:07:13,933 Speaker 2: trillion being handed down. So he wants that money going 148 00:07:13,933 --> 00:07:17,013 Speaker 2: to charity. Yeah, he says only one point three percent 149 00:07:17,053 --> 00:07:19,133 Speaker 2: of wealth passed on from the deceased in New Zealand 150 00:07:19,173 --> 00:07:21,853 Speaker 2: went to charity, which is actually a lot. It's three 151 00:07:21,933 --> 00:07:24,533 Speaker 2: hundred and twenty million dollars, but he wants it. He 152 00:07:24,573 --> 00:07:27,253 Speaker 2: wants it up round a billion. So how do you 153 00:07:27,253 --> 00:07:30,973 Speaker 2: feel about this because it seems to me, obviously people 154 00:07:30,973 --> 00:07:32,733 Speaker 2: can do what they want with their money when they die, 155 00:07:32,893 --> 00:07:35,373 Speaker 2: and your first obligation obviously is to your kids, right 156 00:07:35,813 --> 00:07:37,773 Speaker 2: and to the people around you sometimes as long as 157 00:07:37,773 --> 00:07:41,133 Speaker 2: it be nice to you. Yes, are you doing that? 158 00:07:41,213 --> 00:07:43,813 Speaker 2: Are you are you planning to do? We owe it 159 00:07:43,853 --> 00:07:46,573 Speaker 2: to leave money to charity? Or have you across your life, 160 00:07:46,573 --> 00:07:49,813 Speaker 2: have you already in your taxes and the various things 161 00:07:49,853 --> 00:07:54,053 Speaker 2: in your life already already helped out enough? Does it 162 00:07:54,093 --> 00:07:55,693 Speaker 2: make you a good person to do that? If you 163 00:07:55,773 --> 00:07:57,973 Speaker 2: leave it, leave money to charity when you go out. 164 00:07:58,133 --> 00:08:00,133 Speaker 3: The more I think about this, and I know that 165 00:08:00,213 --> 00:08:03,613 Speaker 3: you think it's very cheeky of this particular gentleman saying, hey, 166 00:08:04,133 --> 00:08:06,653 Speaker 3: if you're going to cark it, we want some of 167 00:08:06,653 --> 00:08:08,333 Speaker 3: that sweet sweet cash that you've got in your will, 168 00:08:08,653 --> 00:08:11,173 Speaker 3: so please remember us. But the more I think about it, 169 00:08:11,173 --> 00:08:13,773 Speaker 3: the more I think, what is wrong with leaving just 170 00:08:13,853 --> 00:08:16,533 Speaker 3: a little bit of money to a charity that you 171 00:08:16,653 --> 00:08:18,973 Speaker 3: deeply believe in? Because some people would look at that 172 00:08:19,053 --> 00:08:20,893 Speaker 3: there as a bit of a legacy to leave behind. 173 00:08:21,093 --> 00:08:22,813 Speaker 3: Hopefully they sought the kids out of the kids'd be 174 00:08:22,893 --> 00:08:24,093 Speaker 3: nice to moment bed look. 175 00:08:24,013 --> 00:08:25,853 Speaker 2: Absolutely, if you want to do that, you should, But 176 00:08:25,893 --> 00:08:28,773 Speaker 2: it's just that relish, how excited he is about how 177 00:08:28,813 --> 00:08:30,213 Speaker 2: many more people are going to be dying and how 178 00:08:30,293 --> 00:08:32,093 Speaker 2: much more money is going to come into the system 179 00:08:32,373 --> 00:08:35,252 Speaker 2: and wants to grab that for charity. 180 00:08:35,333 --> 00:08:36,612 Speaker 3: Yeah, it just. 181 00:08:36,573 --> 00:08:38,733 Speaker 2: Feels a little bit like digging up graves and removing 182 00:08:38,732 --> 00:08:43,933 Speaker 2: people's teeth. That's an unfair analogy, isn't it, Because just. 183 00:08:43,973 --> 00:08:44,892 Speaker 3: Let that hang for a bit. 184 00:08:44,973 --> 00:08:48,013 Speaker 2: That's as like saying, could you put my teeth in 185 00:08:48,012 --> 00:08:50,612 Speaker 2: the will? My gold teeth in the will? Yeah? But yeah, 186 00:08:50,653 --> 00:08:52,852 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know, what do you think? Are 187 00:08:52,892 --> 00:08:54,292 Speaker 2: you planning to do that? Would you do it? 188 00:08:54,933 --> 00:08:57,852 Speaker 3: Well? I think, and it's easy for me to say 189 00:08:58,293 --> 00:09:00,652 Speaker 3: at the age of thirty nine, but I think I 190 00:09:00,693 --> 00:09:05,093 Speaker 3: probably would put that in my will with the proviso 191 00:09:05,252 --> 00:09:07,932 Speaker 3: that I could change that later in life if my 192 00:09:08,012 --> 00:09:08,733 Speaker 3: kids good to me. 193 00:09:09,053 --> 00:09:12,412 Speaker 2: But okay, put your money where your mouth. There is 194 00:09:12,453 --> 00:09:15,373 Speaker 2: what percentage of the huge wealth and I'm sure Tyler 195 00:09:15,413 --> 00:09:19,012 Speaker 2: Adams will have when he retire, when he passes away, 196 00:09:19,453 --> 00:09:22,172 Speaker 2: what percentage would you give to think is an amount 197 00:09:22,213 --> 00:09:22,893 Speaker 2: to give to charity? 198 00:09:22,973 --> 00:09:26,172 Speaker 3: Twenty k? Twenty k seems about right. Well, here's here's 199 00:09:26,413 --> 00:09:28,612 Speaker 3: I'm going to follow it up with. I am someone 200 00:09:28,732 --> 00:09:31,173 Speaker 3: that gives to charity on an ad hoc basis. It's 201 00:09:31,173 --> 00:09:34,172 Speaker 3: not a regular kind of thing that I do, and 202 00:09:34,213 --> 00:09:36,852 Speaker 3: not for any other reason other than it's kind of 203 00:09:36,892 --> 00:09:39,013 Speaker 3: just out of sight, out of mind. I'll give a 204 00:09:39,012 --> 00:09:40,733 Speaker 3: couple of bucks to the SBCF i see them with 205 00:09:40,732 --> 00:09:43,492 Speaker 3: their bucket out, but other than that, I don't really 206 00:09:43,612 --> 00:09:45,973 Speaker 3: give too much. So at the end of my life, 207 00:09:46,053 --> 00:09:49,053 Speaker 3: if I haven't been someone that has been given that 208 00:09:49,132 --> 00:09:50,973 Speaker 3: much to charities that I believe in, that would be 209 00:09:50,973 --> 00:09:53,853 Speaker 3: a nice thing to do. As we send off to 210 00:09:53,892 --> 00:09:56,333 Speaker 3: say I believe in that you is a charity, and 211 00:09:56,372 --> 00:10:00,453 Speaker 3: here's twenty K, thirty K, forty k as my parting gift. 212 00:10:00,693 --> 00:10:03,892 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well I'm good on you, and absolutely it's 213 00:10:03,892 --> 00:10:06,973 Speaker 2: a fantastic thing to do. But that's just here talking 214 00:10:07,293 --> 00:10:10,013 Speaker 2: ralishing the amount of people that are dying. This guy 215 00:10:10,413 --> 00:10:13,533 Speaker 2: thirty seven thousand per year currently was only twenty seven 216 00:10:13,973 --> 00:10:16,492 Speaker 2: twenty years ago, and it's going to move to sixty 217 00:10:16,533 --> 00:10:21,333 Speaker 2: six thousand people dying every year between now and twenty fifty. 218 00:10:21,372 --> 00:10:23,813 Speaker 2: It will be one point six trillion dollars. It's a 219 00:10:23,852 --> 00:10:25,733 Speaker 2: massive total. We want to get our hands on to 220 00:10:25,773 --> 00:10:28,413 Speaker 2: get the charities and three hundred and twenty million dollars. Yeah, 221 00:10:28,413 --> 00:10:30,133 Speaker 2: it's okay, but it could be a billion, It could 222 00:10:30,173 --> 00:10:32,093 Speaker 2: be a billion. You'd want to make sure. How about 223 00:10:32,213 --> 00:10:33,653 Speaker 2: just just give it to your kids and say you 224 00:10:33,732 --> 00:10:35,373 Speaker 2: do what you want. And if you're a charitable people, 225 00:10:35,413 --> 00:10:38,293 Speaker 2: you've brought up your kids, well then they'll be charitable 226 00:10:38,293 --> 00:10:41,292 Speaker 2: people and they'll spend the money. I know this, I 227 00:10:41,813 --> 00:10:42,093 Speaker 2: don't know. 228 00:10:42,252 --> 00:10:44,693 Speaker 3: Oh, eight hundred eighty ten eighty. How do you feel 229 00:10:44,693 --> 00:10:47,573 Speaker 3: about this one? Are you someone that you think you 230 00:10:47,612 --> 00:10:50,533 Speaker 3: will actually leave a generous gift to a charity on 231 00:10:50,573 --> 00:10:53,213 Speaker 3: your passing or in your will if you've already got 232 00:10:53,252 --> 00:10:55,573 Speaker 3: your will written up and that is speculated in there? 233 00:10:55,612 --> 00:10:57,652 Speaker 3: Do your kids know? Love to hear from you? 234 00:10:57,693 --> 00:10:57,773 Speaker 7: Oh? 235 00:10:57,852 --> 00:10:59,813 Speaker 3: Eight hundred eighty ten eighty is an umber to call? 236 00:10:59,892 --> 00:11:02,173 Speaker 3: Nine two nine two is the text number. It is 237 00:11:02,252 --> 00:11:03,093 Speaker 3: sixteen past one. 238 00:11:04,573 --> 00:11:08,012 Speaker 1: The big stories, the big issues, the big trends and 239 00:11:08,413 --> 00:11:11,893 Speaker 1: everything in between. Matt and Taylor afternoons with the Volvo 240 00:11:12,213 --> 00:11:15,412 Speaker 1: XC ninety, attention to detail and a commitment to comfort 241 00:11:15,492 --> 00:11:16,013 Speaker 1: news dogs. 242 00:11:16,053 --> 00:11:19,253 Speaker 3: There'd be good afternoon, and we're talking about giving to 243 00:11:19,413 --> 00:11:22,173 Speaker 3: charity on your passing, putting it in your will. It 244 00:11:22,293 --> 00:11:26,013 Speaker 3: is a call from a man called John McCloud. He 245 00:11:26,333 --> 00:11:30,453 Speaker 3: is asking New Zealanders to give to charity a lot 246 00:11:30,533 --> 00:11:32,412 Speaker 3: more when they pass away. It is going to be 247 00:11:32,453 --> 00:11:36,372 Speaker 3: the largest ever into generational wealth transfer over the next 248 00:11:36,372 --> 00:11:38,733 Speaker 3: couple of decades, and they want a slice of some 249 00:11:38,813 --> 00:11:39,533 Speaker 3: of that money. 250 00:11:39,573 --> 00:11:41,693 Speaker 2: It's interesting, isn't Because everyone goes, oh boom, has got 251 00:11:41,693 --> 00:11:43,733 Speaker 2: so lucky with the you know, when they are born 252 00:11:43,773 --> 00:11:45,813 Speaker 2: in terms of house prices and all that kind of stuff, 253 00:11:45,852 --> 00:11:47,213 Speaker 2: and you know, you can argue about that or not, 254 00:11:47,533 --> 00:11:49,453 Speaker 2: but it all comes back exactly. You can't take it 255 00:11:49,492 --> 00:11:49,693 Speaker 2: with you. 256 00:11:49,813 --> 00:11:50,533 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right. 257 00:11:50,732 --> 00:11:54,333 Speaker 2: And I say, personally, your first responsibility is obviously to 258 00:11:54,372 --> 00:11:58,732 Speaker 2: your children, unless they've been dicks. Guys. My childless cousin 259 00:11:58,732 --> 00:12:01,333 Speaker 2: died last year seventy eight and has amassed five million dollars. 260 00:12:01,372 --> 00:12:03,132 Speaker 2: She gave forty thousand k to each of her three 261 00:12:03,173 --> 00:12:06,213 Speaker 2: siblings and split the rest to animal charities. Siblings were 262 00:12:06,213 --> 00:12:08,093 Speaker 2: not happy, but that's what she wanted. Yeah, I mean, 263 00:12:08,372 --> 00:12:11,453 Speaker 2: that's what she wanted. Then that's good. You're going to 264 00:12:11,453 --> 00:12:13,653 Speaker 2: make sure the charities that you're giving money to are 265 00:12:13,693 --> 00:12:15,173 Speaker 2: going to do what you think they're going to do, 266 00:12:15,413 --> 00:12:17,333 Speaker 2: and they're not just paying a bunch of CEOs and 267 00:12:17,773 --> 00:12:20,052 Speaker 2: you know, board members an insane amount of money. 268 00:12:19,852 --> 00:12:23,693 Speaker 3: That would slightly gall me, though he's not even slightly 269 00:12:23,693 --> 00:12:26,493 Speaker 3: golled me that there was five million sitting there and 270 00:12:27,012 --> 00:12:30,493 Speaker 3: you got forty k and the rest of the millions 271 00:12:30,533 --> 00:12:33,012 Speaker 3: went to what is a lovely animal charity. Don't get 272 00:12:33,053 --> 00:12:36,453 Speaker 3: me wrong, but as a child, you'll be thinking, jeez. 273 00:12:36,252 --> 00:12:38,252 Speaker 2: I got to use that couple of mil I always 274 00:12:38,252 --> 00:12:40,172 Speaker 2: think we're he when people give all their money to 275 00:12:40,213 --> 00:12:43,852 Speaker 2: animal charities over human charities. I mean, here, you know humans, 276 00:12:43,852 --> 00:12:46,373 Speaker 2: Come on, it's got to be humans first, surely, you know. 277 00:12:46,813 --> 00:12:49,892 Speaker 3: Oh, eight one hundred and eighty ten eighty Josh, how 278 00:12:49,892 --> 00:12:50,773 Speaker 3: are you this afternoon? 279 00:12:51,612 --> 00:12:51,772 Speaker 8: Yeah? 280 00:12:51,813 --> 00:12:55,853 Speaker 9: Hey boys, yeah, good good, Yeah, a good yarns A 281 00:12:55,852 --> 00:12:59,292 Speaker 9: little bit too much excitement there from you, madie. How 282 00:12:59,333 --> 00:13:00,293 Speaker 9: many people are going to die? 283 00:13:00,413 --> 00:13:00,573 Speaker 7: Sir? 284 00:13:02,973 --> 00:13:03,173 Speaker 10: Yeah? 285 00:13:03,213 --> 00:13:07,492 Speaker 2: I mean this guy is saying thirty seven thousand this year, Josh, Yeah, 286 00:13:07,533 --> 00:13:11,453 Speaker 2: But in another fifty years, will we sixty six thousand 287 00:13:11,533 --> 00:13:13,693 Speaker 2: of us dying every year? That have probably been made 288 00:13:14,093 --> 00:13:16,292 Speaker 2: that one of those sixty six thousand At that point, 289 00:13:16,533 --> 00:13:18,772 Speaker 2: this guy wants to it's pretty excited about the amount 290 00:13:18,773 --> 00:13:20,252 Speaker 2: of people dying and how much money you can get 291 00:13:20,293 --> 00:13:20,653 Speaker 2: from them. 292 00:13:20,732 --> 00:13:22,892 Speaker 3: Yeah, we've just lost, Josh, but we'll get them back. 293 00:13:23,012 --> 00:13:26,213 Speaker 3: Very shortly. But just to repeat some more of these 294 00:13:26,293 --> 00:13:29,173 Speaker 3: quotes from this the lead author of the study, John McLeod, So, 295 00:13:29,252 --> 00:13:31,893 Speaker 3: currently about three hundred and twenty million was left to 296 00:13:31,973 --> 00:13:35,693 Speaker 3: charities in New Zealand annually. But McLeod said, why he said, 297 00:13:35,693 --> 00:13:38,373 Speaker 3: I quote that isn't bad, but it could be one billion. 298 00:13:38,533 --> 00:13:41,573 Speaker 2: He wants to pull one billion dollar worth of gold 299 00:13:41,612 --> 00:13:43,733 Speaker 2: teeth out of Boomer's mouth. That's what he wants. Josh, 300 00:13:43,852 --> 00:13:44,893 Speaker 2: your thoughts you're back, I. 301 00:13:44,773 --> 00:13:46,573 Speaker 11: Believe, yeah, sorry about that. 302 00:13:46,653 --> 00:13:50,693 Speaker 9: No, hey, no, mady, I liked your thoughts around where's 303 00:13:50,773 --> 00:13:53,573 Speaker 9: the money going? Like, as an example, if you do 304 00:13:53,693 --> 00:13:56,172 Speaker 9: leave the money, how much of it's going to go 305 00:13:56,293 --> 00:14:00,173 Speaker 9: to what you think it's going to go to? You know, 306 00:14:00,453 --> 00:14:04,612 Speaker 9: like is it all going to the bureaucratic top end 307 00:14:04,693 --> 00:14:09,093 Speaker 9: of the business or is it going to hungry you know? 308 00:14:09,252 --> 00:14:11,933 Speaker 9: Like those are the questions that I guess we. 309 00:14:11,973 --> 00:14:12,453 Speaker 4: Want to know. 310 00:14:14,413 --> 00:14:17,333 Speaker 9: But yeah, how much of the money do they raise 311 00:14:17,372 --> 00:14:20,093 Speaker 9: in New Zealand is actually spent in New Zealand's That's 312 00:14:20,133 --> 00:14:22,293 Speaker 9: the other thing I'd like to know. If I'm going 313 00:14:22,373 --> 00:14:27,893 Speaker 9: to leave my fifty cents or fifty grand with whoever, Yeah, 314 00:14:28,053 --> 00:14:31,133 Speaker 9: is it going to be used correctly and is it 315 00:14:31,173 --> 00:14:33,533 Speaker 9: going to be used in New Zealand. That's what I'd 316 00:14:33,613 --> 00:14:33,932 Speaker 9: like to know. 317 00:14:34,213 --> 00:14:36,813 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I suppose that. You know, if you were 318 00:14:36,813 --> 00:14:38,773 Speaker 3: going to leave that amount of money to a charity, 319 00:14:38,813 --> 00:14:41,453 Speaker 3: you'd probably do your due diligence as much as possible 320 00:14:41,693 --> 00:14:43,412 Speaker 3: to make sure that there's going to be the case right. 321 00:14:43,493 --> 00:14:47,333 Speaker 3: And I would assume the likes of let's say, the SBCA, 322 00:14:47,373 --> 00:14:49,493 Speaker 3: because I am a big supporter of the SBCA, I 323 00:14:49,613 --> 00:14:51,973 Speaker 3: think and I might be proven wrong here, but I 324 00:14:51,973 --> 00:14:54,133 Speaker 3: think a lot of that if you donate to SBCA, 325 00:14:54,613 --> 00:14:56,253 Speaker 3: most of that, if not all, of it stays with 326 00:14:56,293 --> 00:14:58,093 Speaker 3: the New Zealand. If you donate to some of the 327 00:14:58,093 --> 00:15:01,533 Speaker 3: international guys like unic for Doctors Without Borders do some 328 00:15:01,573 --> 00:15:04,093 Speaker 3: good work, but a chunk of that change goes off 329 00:15:04,853 --> 00:15:05,253 Speaker 3: off shure. 330 00:15:06,293 --> 00:15:06,613 Speaker 12: I do. 331 00:15:06,773 --> 00:15:10,412 Speaker 9: I do feel for the collectors because I'm continuously giving 332 00:15:10,533 --> 00:15:15,333 Speaker 9: them the no. Sorry, I donate to local charities. That 333 00:15:16,133 --> 00:15:19,493 Speaker 9: tends to be my answer, Like I'll say something like no, 334 00:15:19,653 --> 00:15:24,573 Speaker 9: I do donate to the Children's Hospital as an example, 335 00:15:24,653 --> 00:15:26,853 Speaker 9: but I'm not going to give money to the Red 336 00:15:26,933 --> 00:15:31,213 Speaker 9: Cross because, like I say, it's top heavy. I don't 337 00:15:31,253 --> 00:15:34,173 Speaker 9: know who's getting the money blah blah blah blah blah, 338 00:15:34,253 --> 00:15:38,733 Speaker 9: like you'd rather know for sure it's going somewhere good 339 00:15:39,773 --> 00:15:42,533 Speaker 9: for good public use, you know, thanks to. 340 00:15:42,493 --> 00:15:45,213 Speaker 2: You, cool Josh, I appreciate it. Yeah. I mean, in 341 00:15:45,253 --> 00:15:48,653 Speaker 2: the perfect world, you would bring up children, you would 342 00:15:48,653 --> 00:15:51,172 Speaker 2: be charitable throughout your life where you can, in your 343 00:15:51,173 --> 00:15:53,573 Speaker 2: local community and wherever you think is the right thing, 344 00:15:53,653 --> 00:15:55,773 Speaker 2: and you would bring children into the world that had 345 00:15:55,773 --> 00:15:57,893 Speaker 2: the same values for you. So you leave the money 346 00:15:57,933 --> 00:15:58,893 Speaker 2: to them and they continue it. 347 00:15:59,093 --> 00:15:59,413 Speaker 3: Yeah. 348 00:15:59,693 --> 00:16:01,293 Speaker 2: It's kind of like if you're isn't it kind of 349 00:16:01,293 --> 00:16:02,773 Speaker 2: like saying, oh, my kids and I'm giving them money. 350 00:16:02,813 --> 00:16:04,333 Speaker 2: They're terrible people when they are not going to give 351 00:16:04,373 --> 00:16:05,573 Speaker 2: it to the people. You know, they're not going to 352 00:16:05,573 --> 00:16:06,893 Speaker 2: give any money to charity. 353 00:16:06,973 --> 00:16:09,253 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, good point. Don't ndred and eighty ten eighty 354 00:16:09,333 --> 00:16:10,853 Speaker 3: is the number to call. Nine two nine two is 355 00:16:10,853 --> 00:16:13,373 Speaker 3: the text number. 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It seems to have 380 00:17:34,333 --> 00:17:35,573 Speaker 13: had limited success. 381 00:17:36,093 --> 00:17:37,293 Speaker 2: You where does that leave them? 382 00:17:37,533 --> 00:17:39,813 Speaker 13: And can they now argue that see it told you 383 00:17:40,133 --> 00:17:41,173 Speaker 13: Putin doesn't want peace. 384 00:17:41,413 --> 00:17:43,533 Speaker 7: I think it can see you on the sidelines really 385 00:17:43,893 --> 00:17:46,453 Speaker 7: for now, because it just shows the dynamic. 386 00:17:46,533 --> 00:17:50,893 Speaker 13: Donald Trump supported Vladimir Putin's idea to organize hockey matches 387 00:17:50,893 --> 00:17:53,533 Speaker 13: in the US and Russia between Russian and American players 388 00:17:53,533 --> 00:17:54,613 Speaker 13: and the NHL and cage. 389 00:17:54,653 --> 00:17:55,292 Speaker 7: Oh there you go. 390 00:17:55,773 --> 00:17:58,213 Speaker 13: It wasn't a vast after it was exactly so they 391 00:17:58,213 --> 00:18:01,053 Speaker 13: got the hockey store back tomorrow at six am the 392 00:18:01,093 --> 00:18:04,533 Speaker 13: Mic Hosking Breakfast with Mayley's real Estate Newstalk z B. 393 00:18:06,413 --> 00:18:08,693 Speaker 3: Good afternoon, twenty seven past one, and we're talking about 394 00:18:08,693 --> 00:18:10,333 Speaker 3: giving two charities in your will. 395 00:18:10,613 --> 00:18:10,813 Speaker 1: Yeah. 396 00:18:10,813 --> 00:18:14,533 Speaker 2: This guy John McLeod, part of the financial advisors JB. Ware, 397 00:18:14,933 --> 00:18:16,853 Speaker 2: There was a study, there was a report put into it, 398 00:18:16,933 --> 00:18:21,333 Speaker 2: and he said, they basically want to lift the amount 399 00:18:21,373 --> 00:18:24,773 Speaker 2: of money that people are leaving to charity in their wills. 400 00:18:25,013 --> 00:18:27,613 Speaker 2: It's currently one point three percent. That's pretty good, three 401 00:18:27,693 --> 00:18:30,213 Speaker 2: hundred and twenty million dollars a year. He wants two percent, 402 00:18:30,293 --> 00:18:33,053 Speaker 2: three percent, even four percent off you when you're to die. 403 00:18:33,453 --> 00:18:36,173 Speaker 2: Tashas I donate to local grants through lotto, so I 404 00:18:36,213 --> 00:18:39,093 Speaker 2: feel like I'm doing my bit weekly, Lowell ex just 405 00:18:39,253 --> 00:18:42,573 Speaker 2: time accounts. There's a few people saying that give you that, guys, 406 00:18:42,653 --> 00:18:45,773 Speaker 2: I can do frequently. I can frequently make donations directly 407 00:18:45,773 --> 00:18:48,053 Speaker 2: to individuals that I think need or deserve my houp, 408 00:18:48,173 --> 00:18:51,573 Speaker 2: sometimes anonymously, but very rarely do I give it to 409 00:18:51,813 --> 00:18:54,373 Speaker 2: so called charities because of the siphoning of the donated 410 00:18:54,413 --> 00:18:58,493 Speaker 2: funds by administrators. Yes, I've observed this firsthand. So yeah, 411 00:18:58,493 --> 00:19:00,293 Speaker 2: I mean you can just go and give money straight 412 00:19:00,373 --> 00:19:03,053 Speaker 2: to individuals, you know, cut out the middle person. 413 00:19:03,173 --> 00:19:05,533 Speaker 3: Yep, very true. Oh eight hundred and eighty ten eighty 414 00:19:05,613 --> 00:19:07,133 Speaker 3: is the number to call get a mark. 415 00:19:08,413 --> 00:19:11,733 Speaker 7: Hello, how are you good? Good? 416 00:19:12,133 --> 00:19:12,373 Speaker 2: Yeah? 417 00:19:12,413 --> 00:19:16,853 Speaker 3: Good good. So you've been in a situation similar to 418 00:19:16,893 --> 00:19:19,453 Speaker 3: this where your parents left some money to a charity 419 00:19:19,493 --> 00:19:19,893 Speaker 3: in their will. 420 00:19:20,853 --> 00:19:21,293 Speaker 11: That's right. 421 00:19:21,373 --> 00:19:26,053 Speaker 8: Yeah, In the UK there's a forty inheritance tax, so 422 00:19:26,213 --> 00:19:29,533 Speaker 8: I believe that something like the threshold is five hundred 423 00:19:29,573 --> 00:19:33,453 Speaker 8: thousand pound, So anything over five hundred thousand pounds you 424 00:19:33,453 --> 00:19:35,973 Speaker 8: have to pay forty percent on. So if you donate 425 00:19:36,053 --> 00:19:40,493 Speaker 8: to charities, no tax. So what a lot of people 426 00:19:40,573 --> 00:19:43,013 Speaker 8: do over there, as my mother did, is after the 427 00:19:43,053 --> 00:19:46,373 Speaker 8: threshold was hit, she left it all to charity. So 428 00:19:46,373 --> 00:19:48,773 Speaker 8: she didn't have to pay the tax. So the guy 429 00:19:48,813 --> 00:19:51,133 Speaker 8: who once saw the money left to charities in this country, 430 00:19:51,493 --> 00:19:53,533 Speaker 8: all you've got to do is bring an inheritance tax 431 00:19:53,653 --> 00:19:56,333 Speaker 8: and then make it tax free to give to charities. 432 00:19:56,533 --> 00:19:59,253 Speaker 2: What do you think of an inheritance tax. I've got 433 00:19:59,333 --> 00:20:02,253 Speaker 2: mixed opinions on that. Someone works their whole life and 434 00:20:02,813 --> 00:20:05,973 Speaker 2: they a mess a fortune that they want to hand 435 00:20:05,973 --> 00:20:09,053 Speaker 2: on to future generations, to their grandkids in their kids, 436 00:20:09,533 --> 00:20:12,773 Speaker 2: and the government says, naw, forty percent of that's mine. 437 00:20:12,893 --> 00:20:14,693 Speaker 3: I hate it. I mean it's tripled up in, isn't it. 438 00:20:14,693 --> 00:20:17,053 Speaker 3: They've already paid tax on the money they've paid, takes 439 00:20:17,133 --> 00:20:19,773 Speaker 3: their whole life on those earnings and their inheritance, and 440 00:20:19,813 --> 00:20:22,813 Speaker 3: then the government wants another cut of it. Anyway, there's 441 00:20:22,973 --> 00:20:24,613 Speaker 3: thought your thoughts, Mark. 442 00:20:25,093 --> 00:20:28,133 Speaker 8: Well, that's fair enough, but look at it as this 443 00:20:28,213 --> 00:20:31,213 Speaker 8: point of view. I mean, you've worked all your life, right, 444 00:20:31,293 --> 00:20:34,573 Speaker 8: there's the biggest transfer of wealth. Of wealth is going 445 00:20:34,613 --> 00:20:38,693 Speaker 8: to happen in the future if you bring inheritance tax 446 00:20:38,733 --> 00:20:42,293 Speaker 8: and then you have a point where it's say, I 447 00:20:42,293 --> 00:20:44,933 Speaker 8: don't know, say a million dollars or two million dollars 448 00:20:45,053 --> 00:20:48,052 Speaker 8: before tax, and then you tax it a forty percent 449 00:20:48,573 --> 00:20:51,613 Speaker 8: and you say, right, if you donated a charity, no tax, 450 00:20:52,133 --> 00:20:55,093 Speaker 8: So there's still enough money to leave in your will 451 00:20:55,173 --> 00:20:57,693 Speaker 8: to your children and what have you. And the people 452 00:20:57,733 --> 00:21:02,093 Speaker 8: that are seriously, seriously wealthy, why not, I mean me personally, 453 00:21:02,493 --> 00:21:07,613 Speaker 8: I haven't. I've got one kid in the UK and years, 454 00:21:07,693 --> 00:21:10,173 Speaker 8: I mean a while the previous government was talking about 455 00:21:10,213 --> 00:21:14,773 Speaker 8: a wealth tax. Well, realistically, I don't really want to 456 00:21:14,773 --> 00:21:17,293 Speaker 8: pay a wealth tax because I've got to live. I 457 00:21:17,293 --> 00:21:18,653 Speaker 8: don't know how long I'm going to have to live. 458 00:21:19,133 --> 00:21:21,853 Speaker 8: But basically inheritance tax, I've got no problem with an 459 00:21:21,893 --> 00:21:26,532 Speaker 8: inheritance tax because I'm gone, I'm dead. You mean that 460 00:21:26,693 --> 00:21:29,293 Speaker 8: taxed me then when I'm gone, because at least I 461 00:21:29,333 --> 00:21:32,653 Speaker 8: don't have the stress of stress of living is going off? 462 00:21:33,693 --> 00:21:36,573 Speaker 8: Excuse me, can't afford to pay the electric bill, can't 463 00:21:36,573 --> 00:21:38,973 Speaker 8: afford to pay this bill because they're taking a wealth 464 00:21:39,013 --> 00:21:41,773 Speaker 8: tax of one percent every year and it's money I 465 00:21:41,773 --> 00:21:44,893 Speaker 8: haven't even got, So tax me when when I'm gone, 466 00:21:45,133 --> 00:21:47,573 Speaker 8: No problem. 467 00:21:46,573 --> 00:21:51,532 Speaker 2: Yeah with then? Hereton tax in the UK mark is 468 00:21:51,573 --> 00:21:54,453 Speaker 2: that your assets, your property, all of it? Is that 469 00:21:54,613 --> 00:21:55,333 Speaker 2: all taken into. 470 00:21:55,413 --> 00:21:58,773 Speaker 8: Everything, everything yet the whole lot. So basically, if your 471 00:21:58,893 --> 00:22:03,133 Speaker 8: net worth, say two million, five hundred thousand is basically 472 00:22:03,173 --> 00:22:06,453 Speaker 8: tax free, and it starts off at three hundred thousand. 473 00:22:06,533 --> 00:22:09,253 Speaker 8: Then I think it goes to five thousand of the maximum. 474 00:22:09,293 --> 00:22:11,693 Speaker 8: I don't know how it works, but there's a there's 475 00:22:11,693 --> 00:22:16,573 Speaker 8: a thing anyway that's getting into the nuts and bolts 476 00:22:16,613 --> 00:22:19,572 Speaker 8: a bit. So you'll be taxed at forty percent on 477 00:22:19,733 --> 00:22:22,413 Speaker 8: one point five million, and that's a lot. That's like 478 00:22:22,493 --> 00:22:25,493 Speaker 8: six hundred thousand pounds go into the tax office. 479 00:22:25,613 --> 00:22:28,453 Speaker 3: And sorry, sorry to jump in there, Mark, but we're 480 00:22:28,453 --> 00:22:30,453 Speaker 3: going to get to the headline shortly. But you didn't 481 00:22:30,453 --> 00:22:32,813 Speaker 3: mind yourself that your mother did that. That was a 482 00:22:32,853 --> 00:22:35,493 Speaker 3: way for her to get around that text. But that 483 00:22:35,653 --> 00:22:37,933 Speaker 3: also meant that you missed out on that inheritance. 484 00:22:38,933 --> 00:22:39,413 Speaker 7: Yeah, I know. 485 00:22:39,493 --> 00:22:41,693 Speaker 8: But at the end of the day, she's worked for 486 00:22:41,733 --> 00:22:43,773 Speaker 8: her life, she's done that. She told me for years, 487 00:22:43,853 --> 00:22:45,133 Speaker 8: I'm not going to leave you the thing, not going 488 00:22:45,213 --> 00:22:47,813 Speaker 8: to leave you anything told boy. And then at the 489 00:22:47,893 --> 00:22:50,253 Speaker 8: end of the day, it doesn't really matter that much, 490 00:22:50,293 --> 00:22:52,333 Speaker 8: does it, because it's up to her what she does. 491 00:22:53,333 --> 00:22:55,773 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, thank you so much for your call. Mark. 492 00:22:56,373 --> 00:22:58,933 Speaker 2: Sure about the inheritance text, I feel I feel like, 493 00:22:59,453 --> 00:23:02,293 Speaker 2: you know, it just feels morbid that the government goes 494 00:23:02,293 --> 00:23:03,973 Speaker 2: and you're on your way out. So I'll take some 495 00:23:04,053 --> 00:23:05,893 Speaker 2: of what you earned. And you know, I would like 496 00:23:05,973 --> 00:23:07,773 Speaker 2: to think in my life I would be in a 497 00:23:07,813 --> 00:23:11,093 Speaker 2: position to hel my grandchildren's out. Yeah, my grandchildren out 498 00:23:11,253 --> 00:23:13,773 Speaker 2: in some regard anyway. One hundred and eighty ten eighty 499 00:23:13,853 --> 00:23:18,052 Speaker 2: nine two nine two. There are calls for New Zealanders 500 00:23:18,253 --> 00:23:21,893 Speaker 2: to donate more money in their worlds to charity. Currently 501 00:23:21,933 --> 00:23:25,573 Speaker 2: we're donating three hundred and twenty million a year. This guy, 502 00:23:25,613 --> 00:23:27,613 Speaker 2: John McLeod wants that to go up to a billion, 503 00:23:28,213 --> 00:23:31,093 Speaker 2: all right, as it's stealing gold from the teeth of 504 00:23:31,173 --> 00:23:31,693 Speaker 2: dead people. 505 00:23:32,173 --> 00:23:34,653 Speaker 3: What do you think go one hundred eighty ten eighty 506 00:23:34,653 --> 00:23:36,413 Speaker 3: as a number to call nine to nine Tales of 507 00:23:36,453 --> 00:23:37,532 Speaker 3: Texs headlines coming up. 508 00:23:40,653 --> 00:23:44,293 Speaker 4: US talks the headlines with blue bubble taxis. It's no 509 00:23:44,453 --> 00:23:47,532 Speaker 4: trouble with a blue bubble. Donald Trump says talks on 510 00:23:47,693 --> 00:23:52,573 Speaker 4: Ukraine today with Russia's president didn't cover military aid. Russia's 511 00:23:52,573 --> 00:23:56,213 Speaker 4: agreed to a thirty day halt on bombarding critical infrastructure 512 00:23:56,493 --> 00:24:00,173 Speaker 4: and to discuss a maritime ceasefire. It's also demanding a 513 00:24:00,213 --> 00:24:04,773 Speaker 4: complete cessation of foreign aid. The Prime Minister's expecting a 514 00:24:04,813 --> 00:24:07,613 Speaker 4: trade deal to be stuck with India, so no rather 515 00:24:07,693 --> 00:24:11,613 Speaker 4: than later, but as talking down Indian official suggestion, it 516 00:24:11,653 --> 00:24:16,293 Speaker 4: could be within sixty to ninety days. Nelson Fisherman Campbell 517 00:24:16,413 --> 00:24:20,613 Speaker 4: David mcmanaway has been fined thirty four thousand dollars for 518 00:24:20,733 --> 00:24:24,413 Speaker 4: not operating a required electronic monitoring device on his vessel. 519 00:24:25,373 --> 00:24:28,173 Speaker 4: Six people have moderate to minor injuries and a road 520 00:24:28,253 --> 00:24:31,613 Speaker 4: is closed after a four vehicle crash State Highway Too 521 00:24:32,053 --> 00:24:35,733 Speaker 4: near Francis Road in fuckermadamer in the Bay of Plenty. 522 00:24:36,733 --> 00:24:39,693 Speaker 4: Thousands of documents have been released related to the nineteen 523 00:24:39,773 --> 00:24:42,053 Speaker 4: sixty three assassination of John F. 524 00:24:42,133 --> 00:24:43,213 Speaker 3: Kennedy in Dallas. 525 00:24:44,133 --> 00:24:46,893 Speaker 4: Doc says a US tourist claim of spotting a moose 526 00:24:46,933 --> 00:24:51,533 Speaker 4: near Fieldland's Kepler track is unlikely and without photos, suspects 527 00:24:51,573 --> 00:24:55,093 Speaker 4: it was a red deer. How history could repeat to 528 00:24:55,133 --> 00:24:59,413 Speaker 4: hand Joseph Parker second World title shot. See Liam Napier's 529 00:24:59,413 --> 00:25:02,293 Speaker 4: full column at end zad Herald Premium. Back now to 530 00:25:02,373 --> 00:25:03,733 Speaker 4: Matt Eath and Tyler Adams. 531 00:25:03,733 --> 00:25:05,893 Speaker 3: Thank you very much, Rayleen, having a great discussion about 532 00:25:05,933 --> 00:25:09,933 Speaker 3: giving to charity. The largest ever intergeneraational wealth transfer is 533 00:25:10,213 --> 00:25:13,532 Speaker 3: under way around the world, and the charities would like 534 00:25:13,573 --> 00:25:15,773 Speaker 3: a little bit of that cash. 535 00:25:16,333 --> 00:25:19,133 Speaker 2: Mind, now I need to work on my analogy, on 536 00:25:19,253 --> 00:25:23,373 Speaker 2: my metaphor around Is this grulish? Is this just trying 537 00:25:23,413 --> 00:25:25,853 Speaker 2: to take gold teeth? Dig up graves and take gold teeth. 538 00:25:25,853 --> 00:25:27,213 Speaker 3: It doesn't call nana's gold teeth. 539 00:25:27,253 --> 00:25:31,532 Speaker 2: It doesn't quite work. But is it hassling Nana for 540 00:25:31,653 --> 00:25:33,853 Speaker 2: her gold teeth? Is this what that is? And isn't 541 00:25:33,893 --> 00:25:36,532 Speaker 2: the right thing to do in life to bring up 542 00:25:36,613 --> 00:25:39,613 Speaker 2: children that are charitable through their life. I'm a big 543 00:25:39,653 --> 00:25:43,733 Speaker 2: believer in charity across all things, within your family, within 544 00:25:43,773 --> 00:25:46,413 Speaker 2: your community, everywhere. Again, sure, but isn't the idea in 545 00:25:46,453 --> 00:25:49,733 Speaker 2: life to bring up children that share those views of charity? 546 00:25:50,213 --> 00:25:54,573 Speaker 2: And then you give you write them into the will, 547 00:25:54,813 --> 00:25:58,333 Speaker 2: and then you think that they will well, you know 548 00:25:58,773 --> 00:26:01,253 Speaker 2: that they will continue your good work into the future. 549 00:26:01,653 --> 00:26:04,813 Speaker 2: And that's a transfer not just of wealth, but of 550 00:26:05,293 --> 00:26:08,693 Speaker 2: knowledge and morals. Isn't that the system? That's when the 551 00:26:08,693 --> 00:26:12,813 Speaker 2: system's working, rather than just hassling people for another four 552 00:26:12,893 --> 00:26:14,973 Speaker 2: percent of this stuff on their way out the door. 553 00:26:15,133 --> 00:26:17,333 Speaker 3: It's a lovely ideal that you've just mentioned there, But 554 00:26:17,453 --> 00:26:19,933 Speaker 3: how many times would they say, now, kids I'm a 555 00:26:19,933 --> 00:26:23,733 Speaker 3: massive supporter of animal charities SPCA look after them with 556 00:26:23,773 --> 00:26:25,573 Speaker 3: this inheritance, I'm going to give you here's a million 557 00:26:25,573 --> 00:26:28,413 Speaker 3: bucks each. How many times would the kids say yep, absolutely, 558 00:26:28,493 --> 00:26:30,253 Speaker 3: Mum and dad and then just go buy a boat. 559 00:26:30,413 --> 00:26:33,093 Speaker 2: Well, that means that you haven't succeeded and bring your 560 00:26:33,133 --> 00:26:38,013 Speaker 2: kids up and then that's a bummer. But you in 561 00:26:38,053 --> 00:26:40,653 Speaker 2: the as I say, in the perfect world, that's the situation. 562 00:26:41,253 --> 00:26:43,933 Speaker 2: I'm also a find it a bit weird. I love animals, 563 00:26:43,973 --> 00:26:47,533 Speaker 2: love my dog Colin, love animals. But I also think 564 00:26:47,573 --> 00:26:51,493 Speaker 2: it's a weird thing when people give money to animals 565 00:26:51,893 --> 00:26:54,133 Speaker 2: charities when they die and not human charities, because I 566 00:26:54,173 --> 00:26:56,213 Speaker 2: think there's so much human suffering in the world and 567 00:26:56,253 --> 00:26:58,933 Speaker 2: we need to sort that out first, I would think. 568 00:26:59,213 --> 00:27:01,933 Speaker 3: I think, on a philosophical argument, you're absolutely right. But 569 00:27:01,973 --> 00:27:04,213 Speaker 3: I'll tell you why I give to animal charities is 570 00:27:04,253 --> 00:27:06,853 Speaker 3: because I think there's more people that think your way 571 00:27:06,893 --> 00:27:10,253 Speaker 3: than that think like I do, that animal charities deserve 572 00:27:10,293 --> 00:27:14,173 Speaker 3: my money more than the human charities, because that to me, 573 00:27:14,293 --> 00:27:17,333 Speaker 3: the animals suffering are more vulnerable. But I get your point. 574 00:27:17,373 --> 00:27:18,893 Speaker 3: I think there's a lot more people like you out 575 00:27:18,933 --> 00:27:21,493 Speaker 3: there that would say, hey, animals are down the list. 576 00:27:21,293 --> 00:27:23,493 Speaker 2: So we might give to tell you what Tyler, you 577 00:27:23,493 --> 00:27:25,493 Speaker 2: know what animal charity is. Every time I take my 578 00:27:25,533 --> 00:27:29,253 Speaker 2: dog Colin to the vet's that's about five percent of 579 00:27:29,293 --> 00:27:30,133 Speaker 2: my income at the moment. 580 00:27:30,413 --> 00:27:34,253 Speaker 3: Insurance ped insurance Oh eight one hundred eighty ten eighties Radical, 581 00:27:34,373 --> 00:27:35,893 Speaker 3: welcome to the show your thoughts on this. 582 00:27:37,373 --> 00:27:39,893 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm I'm a little bit more on the government side. 583 00:27:39,933 --> 00:27:42,613 Speaker 5: So I'm the treasurer for the Wellington Area Committee for 584 00:27:42,693 --> 00:27:45,453 Speaker 5: Heart to Honey Saint John oh And in Wellington. In 585 00:27:45,493 --> 00:27:48,653 Speaker 5: Wellington we do not have an ambulance service. So but 586 00:27:48,773 --> 00:27:51,573 Speaker 5: what we do is we fund five or six different activities. 587 00:27:51,573 --> 00:27:54,893 Speaker 5: We fund Faery Pets for the mental health, Friends of 588 00:27:55,133 --> 00:27:58,653 Speaker 5: d car and Caller, a youth program for about one 589 00:27:58,733 --> 00:28:02,293 Speaker 5: hundred and forty kids, and also a community services budget 590 00:28:02,493 --> 00:28:05,773 Speaker 5: which we then fund things like first aid courses for 591 00:28:05,933 --> 00:28:09,693 Speaker 5: volunteers at charities, ads and first aid kits and a 592 00:28:09,693 --> 00:28:12,333 Speaker 5: whole bunch of other little bits and pieces. I can 593 00:28:12,373 --> 00:28:15,213 Speaker 5: tell you now is that we would not survive if 594 00:28:15,253 --> 00:28:19,853 Speaker 5: we did not get donations from the public. And there 595 00:28:19,933 --> 00:28:22,773 Speaker 5: is a very small element of that which are bequeaths 596 00:28:23,293 --> 00:28:27,173 Speaker 5: and also a couple of Valentonians have been quite well off. 597 00:28:27,493 --> 00:28:30,613 Speaker 5: They've passed and they've created a trust and then we 598 00:28:30,653 --> 00:28:32,333 Speaker 5: get a little bit of money from that trust every 599 00:28:32,413 --> 00:28:37,653 Speaker 5: year on application. So New Zealanders are fantastic for volunteering 600 00:28:37,693 --> 00:28:39,293 Speaker 5: as individuals. 601 00:28:38,973 --> 00:28:41,293 Speaker 11: Whether it's at a school, rugby team when you first start, 602 00:28:41,453 --> 00:28:43,293 Speaker 11: or sport right through too. 603 00:28:43,453 --> 00:28:45,573 Speaker 5: Those that turn up at hospital, the oldest at drive 604 00:28:45,653 --> 00:28:47,293 Speaker 5: health shuttles and all that sort of stuff up and 605 00:28:47,293 --> 00:28:50,813 Speaker 5: down the country. So I do encourage people that if 606 00:28:50,813 --> 00:28:54,173 Speaker 5: you do have a feeling that you've been rescued by 607 00:28:54,213 --> 00:28:58,053 Speaker 5: an ambulance or somebody's done your good deed or whatever, 608 00:28:58,293 --> 00:29:01,413 Speaker 5: then give that to that charity rather than one out 609 00:29:01,453 --> 00:29:04,973 Speaker 5: of the blue. For example, it's mental health challenges. A 610 00:29:04,973 --> 00:29:07,333 Speaker 5: few years ago I went and did an outward Bound 611 00:29:07,333 --> 00:29:08,253 Speaker 5: course as a. 612 00:29:08,373 --> 00:29:09,293 Speaker 11: Fifty five year old. 613 00:29:09,373 --> 00:29:09,813 Speaker 2: Awesome. 614 00:29:10,173 --> 00:29:11,813 Speaker 11: She was a bit of a challenge made I've had you. 615 00:29:13,733 --> 00:29:14,573 Speaker 11: I got through it. 616 00:29:14,893 --> 00:29:17,213 Speaker 5: But what I've done is in my will I've given 617 00:29:17,213 --> 00:29:20,813 Speaker 5: them ten grand to let three kids go on a 618 00:29:20,853 --> 00:29:24,133 Speaker 5: course once I passed. So that's giving something back with 619 00:29:24,253 --> 00:29:28,213 Speaker 5: a purpose. I'm just saying, here's fifty grand to do something, 620 00:29:28,533 --> 00:29:31,093 Speaker 5: have a little bit more thought about it. But we 621 00:29:31,133 --> 00:29:34,493 Speaker 5: would not survive, and a lot of the underprivileged, the poor, 622 00:29:35,013 --> 00:29:37,933 Speaker 5: those and injuries, those in mental health will not be 623 00:29:38,173 --> 00:29:40,053 Speaker 5: in this world unless. 624 00:29:39,693 --> 00:29:42,693 Speaker 11: We meet some assistance by fundraising. That's the bottom. 625 00:29:42,853 --> 00:29:44,693 Speaker 2: Do you have the bord it? Do you have kids, Chris? 626 00:29:45,733 --> 00:29:45,933 Speaker 14: Yeah? 627 00:29:45,933 --> 00:29:47,173 Speaker 11: I had three adult kids. Yep. 628 00:29:47,413 --> 00:29:51,133 Speaker 2: Yeah. What do you say about my thought experiment? I 629 00:29:51,133 --> 00:29:53,573 Speaker 2: guess you'd call it maybe not, But I was just 630 00:29:53,613 --> 00:29:56,053 Speaker 2: saying that, you know, if your kids have been brought 631 00:29:56,093 --> 00:29:57,653 Speaker 2: up with the same morals, and it sounds like you've 632 00:29:57,653 --> 00:30:01,573 Speaker 2: got fantastic morals, Chris, that if you left the money 633 00:30:01,613 --> 00:30:05,013 Speaker 2: to them, then they would be doing charity in real 634 00:30:05,093 --> 00:30:08,093 Speaker 2: time and being able to across their lives. I'm adding 635 00:30:08,093 --> 00:30:11,733 Speaker 2: a bit to what I said before, across the across 636 00:30:11,773 --> 00:30:16,453 Speaker 2: their lives make decisions with the information in hand, of 637 00:30:16,453 --> 00:30:19,013 Speaker 2: a charitable nature, with the morals that you've passed down 638 00:30:19,013 --> 00:30:19,973 Speaker 2: to them. 639 00:30:20,613 --> 00:30:21,933 Speaker 11: So I've got two sides to that. 640 00:30:21,933 --> 00:30:24,613 Speaker 5: One one it would be a great ideal world if 641 00:30:24,613 --> 00:30:25,253 Speaker 5: that happens. 642 00:30:25,533 --> 00:30:26,573 Speaker 2: The problem we've got. 643 00:30:27,213 --> 00:30:29,853 Speaker 5: The problem we've got is we've got an economical science, 644 00:30:29,933 --> 00:30:32,053 Speaker 5: we've got our world that they live in, We've got 645 00:30:32,093 --> 00:30:35,413 Speaker 5: their desires, and also they've probably got a partner and 646 00:30:35,573 --> 00:30:38,813 Speaker 5: or children. And if we're facing a seven hundred thousand 647 00:30:38,853 --> 00:30:41,773 Speaker 5: dollars house bill and they're not getting there because they're 648 00:30:41,933 --> 00:30:44,293 Speaker 5: not quite up around the hoigh money, that's a challenge. 649 00:30:44,413 --> 00:30:47,533 Speaker 5: The second sider though, if they gave a donation, they'd 650 00:30:47,533 --> 00:30:51,813 Speaker 5: get a third back from tax, So it's not like 651 00:30:52,013 --> 00:30:55,053 Speaker 5: it's not like three hundred thousand dollars is being given 652 00:30:55,093 --> 00:30:58,173 Speaker 5: to a charity. It's three hundred thousand dollars been given 653 00:30:58,333 --> 00:31:00,493 Speaker 5: and they get one hundred thousand dollars back in tax, 654 00:31:01,173 --> 00:31:02,973 Speaker 5: So there's actually a little bit of a curveful there 655 00:31:03,013 --> 00:31:03,733 Speaker 5: that might help them. 656 00:31:04,333 --> 00:31:07,973 Speaker 2: It's so I'd say great and good on people that 657 00:31:08,013 --> 00:31:10,413 Speaker 2: do it, but I just feel a little bit odd 658 00:31:10,453 --> 00:31:12,613 Speaker 2: about people being hassled like you're not a good person 659 00:31:12,733 --> 00:31:16,293 Speaker 2: if you don't do it. In my opinion, looking after 660 00:31:16,293 --> 00:31:19,493 Speaker 2: your kids and your grandkids is your first first priority, 661 00:31:19,693 --> 00:31:22,453 Speaker 2: and then after that then some charity. Hey I've got 662 00:31:22,493 --> 00:31:23,693 Speaker 2: a question for you, Chris, and you might not be 663 00:31:23,733 --> 00:31:26,333 Speaker 2: able to answer it. Answer this, but I came across 664 00:31:26,373 --> 00:31:28,613 Speaker 2: this isn't a medical question, it's a functional question, and 665 00:31:28,853 --> 00:31:32,733 Speaker 2: it's all cond It's not Wellington. But I came me 666 00:31:32,773 --> 00:31:34,853 Speaker 2: and my neighbor came across a person that was unconscious 667 00:31:34,893 --> 00:31:38,733 Speaker 2: on the street last Friday. Yeah, and we called you. 668 00:31:38,853 --> 00:31:39,693 Speaker 11: I heard that the other day. 669 00:31:39,773 --> 00:31:43,853 Speaker 2: Oh yeah right, and we came and we called an ambulance. 670 00:31:43,973 --> 00:31:46,413 Speaker 2: We've gotta be careful and normally I animally say ambulance 671 00:31:46,453 --> 00:31:48,813 Speaker 2: and the text machine fires up due to my terrible pronunciation. 672 00:31:49,493 --> 00:31:51,973 Speaker 2: And when they came, when Saint John comes, they were 673 00:31:52,053 --> 00:31:53,813 Speaker 2: absolutely amazing, but it took them an hour and a 674 00:31:53,853 --> 00:31:56,813 Speaker 2: half to get there. So is there a priority list? 675 00:31:57,013 --> 00:32:00,133 Speaker 2: So when that happens, is that because there's strokes in 676 00:32:00,173 --> 00:32:03,173 Speaker 2: the area and they have to basically make these really 677 00:32:03,213 --> 00:32:05,093 Speaker 2: hard decisions on who's the person that they're going to 678 00:32:05,093 --> 00:32:05,693 Speaker 2: go to first. 679 00:32:07,053 --> 00:32:10,933 Speaker 5: So as far as any emergency services or hospitals concerned, 680 00:32:11,493 --> 00:32:15,333 Speaker 5: heart trumps everything, right, So if the heart has stopped, 681 00:32:15,853 --> 00:32:18,733 Speaker 5: that is the prioriti one. But if the heart is 682 00:32:18,813 --> 00:32:22,213 Speaker 5: working but there's bleeding, that all priority. So I'll give 683 00:32:22,213 --> 00:32:24,733 Speaker 5: you an example. Three years ago, I had an i 684 00:32:24,813 --> 00:32:27,533 Speaker 5: Tilly's tenant in the bush. I came out for two months. 685 00:32:27,573 --> 00:32:30,453 Speaker 5: They told them to wear the boot. I had a massive. 686 00:32:30,293 --> 00:32:32,693 Speaker 11: Pomy embolism with a clot that went up through my legs, 687 00:32:32,733 --> 00:32:35,333 Speaker 11: through my heart and blocked the wide junction to my 688 00:32:35,413 --> 00:32:39,413 Speaker 11: lungs and I collapsed at home. Okay, when I woke 689 00:32:39,533 --> 00:32:41,773 Speaker 11: up sometime later, I had pulled my phone down. I 690 00:32:41,813 --> 00:32:43,493 Speaker 11: called the phone, did the one on one thing, etc. 691 00:32:44,333 --> 00:32:47,853 Speaker 5: And then the lady said, if you get any worse, 692 00:32:48,413 --> 00:32:52,053 Speaker 5: call us back now. For me to call them back, 693 00:32:52,253 --> 00:32:55,333 Speaker 5: I would have to be dead right now. 694 00:32:55,733 --> 00:32:56,333 Speaker 11: I then put it. 695 00:32:56,413 --> 00:32:58,933 Speaker 5: And because we teach our youth about the person would 696 00:32:58,933 --> 00:33:00,093 Speaker 5: stay on the phone, will help you. 697 00:33:00,053 --> 00:33:02,613 Speaker 11: Through whatever you do. When I teach CPR, I. 698 00:33:02,573 --> 00:33:05,653 Speaker 5: Say that the operator will could well help you do 699 00:33:05,733 --> 00:33:07,733 Speaker 5: CPR no idea what to do? So I put a 700 00:33:07,773 --> 00:33:10,053 Speaker 5: complaint in one does well, Actually there's more of a 701 00:33:10,453 --> 00:33:12,693 Speaker 5: can you help me understand why you did that. I 702 00:33:12,773 --> 00:33:16,053 Speaker 5: got a call back saying sorry that you felt that way. 703 00:33:16,213 --> 00:33:17,693 Speaker 5: And I've been in the army and stuff, and that 704 00:33:17,813 --> 00:33:20,733 Speaker 5: was the most alone moment in my sixty odd years 705 00:33:20,733 --> 00:33:23,853 Speaker 5: of life. But what the guy said was is that 706 00:33:24,173 --> 00:33:29,093 Speaker 5: you were breathing, although with severe difficulty, You were conscious, 707 00:33:30,253 --> 00:33:33,453 Speaker 5: you were aware, and we had one on one call 708 00:33:33,493 --> 00:33:36,653 Speaker 5: stacking up right. Yeah, so we had to hang up 709 00:33:36,693 --> 00:33:37,653 Speaker 5: and call somebody else. 710 00:33:38,053 --> 00:33:40,213 Speaker 2: Well, I'm so glad you're right, Chris. Yeah, it sounds 711 00:33:40,293 --> 00:33:42,173 Speaker 2: like a terrified question. 712 00:33:43,493 --> 00:33:44,253 Speaker 7: And listen. 713 00:33:44,373 --> 00:33:47,893 Speaker 5: Unfortunately, I'm a bit of a magnet for oshites at 714 00:33:47,893 --> 00:33:50,093 Speaker 5: the moment. So I've called one on one six times 715 00:33:50,213 --> 00:33:52,853 Speaker 5: to the end of February this year, four related to 716 00:33:53,253 --> 00:33:57,533 Speaker 5: medical things and two related to police related matters. Now what, 717 00:33:57,573 --> 00:33:59,813 Speaker 5: I've been really pleased with those. And there was one 718 00:33:59,813 --> 00:34:01,613 Speaker 5: incident where there was somebody falling over the middle of 719 00:34:01,653 --> 00:34:04,413 Speaker 5: the road, and see you what was really great was 720 00:34:04,573 --> 00:34:06,253 Speaker 5: all the other motives who pulled. 721 00:34:06,013 --> 00:34:06,853 Speaker 11: Over to give a hand. 722 00:34:07,333 --> 00:34:10,373 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, and that was some people that were aware, 723 00:34:10,453 --> 00:34:12,653 Speaker 5: some people that the trap had they have that traffic 724 00:34:12,773 --> 00:34:14,933 Speaker 5: hard drive turned up, so they still did the road 725 00:34:14,973 --> 00:34:18,213 Speaker 5: traffic and that was really cool until the ambulance finally 726 00:34:18,213 --> 00:34:20,413 Speaker 5: got there and listener did take forty odd minutes, but 727 00:34:20,573 --> 00:34:23,653 Speaker 5: we had a guy breathing, unconscious on the ground, moaning 728 00:34:23,813 --> 00:34:25,093 Speaker 5: but alive. 729 00:34:25,373 --> 00:34:27,773 Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, it's in that priority stat. 730 00:34:29,093 --> 00:34:31,013 Speaker 5: Sorry, as the guys that were driving past in their 731 00:34:31,053 --> 00:34:33,573 Speaker 5: four white fours were going, you off the bloody robe, 732 00:34:33,653 --> 00:34:34,373 Speaker 5: what are you doing? 733 00:34:34,973 --> 00:34:38,172 Speaker 2: They're bad people, yeah, bad people. But yeah, so glad 734 00:34:38,213 --> 00:34:40,212 Speaker 2: that you came out of that, all right, that that 735 00:34:40,493 --> 00:34:42,493 Speaker 2: health incident you had. But yeah, that's what I was 736 00:34:42,493 --> 00:34:44,293 Speaker 2: thinking the other day when this guy went down, and 737 00:34:44,293 --> 00:34:46,253 Speaker 2: obviously what's happened here is because we could talk to him. 738 00:34:46,253 --> 00:34:48,693 Speaker 2: He was surrounded by people. He knocked himself unconscious, but 739 00:34:48,693 --> 00:34:50,213 Speaker 2: he could vaguely talk. He was doing a bit of 740 00:34:50,213 --> 00:34:52,533 Speaker 2: bleeding that he was put down the list for Saint John's. 741 00:34:53,013 --> 00:34:55,613 Speaker 2: But one thing that did strike me that there was 742 00:34:55,733 --> 00:34:58,373 Speaker 2: there was me and my neighbor were standing around him, 743 00:34:58,373 --> 00:35:00,733 Speaker 2: and more people were standing around him. Then everyone, a 744 00:35:00,773 --> 00:35:03,453 Speaker 2: bunch of people stayed and looked after him until the 745 00:35:03,653 --> 00:35:06,173 Speaker 2: ambulance came. And you hear all the stuff about people 746 00:35:06,213 --> 00:35:09,013 Speaker 2: being you know, selfish and stuff. I was just watching 747 00:35:09,053 --> 00:35:11,133 Speaker 2: these people turn up and I was like, you know, we're. 748 00:35:10,973 --> 00:35:14,453 Speaker 3: Good, You're all right, New Zealand, are all right? All right? 749 00:35:14,573 --> 00:35:14,973 Speaker 2: All right? 750 00:35:15,293 --> 00:35:15,613 Speaker 7: Okay? 751 00:35:15,933 --> 00:35:18,093 Speaker 3: Oh eight hundred eighty ten eighty is the number to 752 00:35:18,133 --> 00:35:20,493 Speaker 3: call if you're going to leave money to charity and 753 00:35:20,493 --> 00:35:22,373 Speaker 3: you will love to hear from you. Is it important 754 00:35:22,413 --> 00:35:24,333 Speaker 3: to do that? It is thirteen to two. 755 00:35:25,893 --> 00:35:29,533 Speaker 1: Mattith Tyler Adams with you is your afternoon rolls on 756 00:35:29,693 --> 00:35:33,693 Speaker 1: Matt and Taylor Afternoon with the Volvo XC ninety attention 757 00:35:33,773 --> 00:35:35,613 Speaker 1: to detail and a commitment to comfort. 758 00:35:35,773 --> 00:35:36,413 Speaker 2: News talks. 759 00:35:36,413 --> 00:35:38,013 Speaker 3: They'd be ten to two. 760 00:35:38,213 --> 00:35:39,493 Speaker 2: Are there are calls for more? Can we used to 761 00:35:39,533 --> 00:35:42,253 Speaker 2: leave money in their wills to charities as the biggest 762 00:35:42,293 --> 00:35:44,533 Speaker 2: transfer of wealth and history is about to go down. 763 00:35:45,093 --> 00:35:50,013 Speaker 2: Is this morbid charity mugging yeah and hassling or is 764 00:35:50,053 --> 00:35:52,692 Speaker 2: this a beautiful, beautiful thing? Your thoughts on eight hundred 765 00:35:52,693 --> 00:35:55,733 Speaker 2: and eighty ten eighty nine to nine to two, Bob, 766 00:35:55,813 --> 00:35:56,533 Speaker 2: Welcome to the show. 767 00:35:58,413 --> 00:36:04,933 Speaker 10: Yeah, Hi guys. Yeah. My biggest concern, so there are 768 00:36:05,013 --> 00:36:10,613 Speaker 10: eighteen thousand registered charities is in New Zealand and I 769 00:36:10,773 --> 00:36:17,093 Speaker 10: find that absolutely astonishing, and they all are away on 770 00:36:17,253 --> 00:36:23,293 Speaker 10: a tax free basis, and my feeling is that it 771 00:36:23,453 --> 00:36:28,333 Speaker 10: really turns in at the end of the day to 772 00:36:28,453 --> 00:36:31,652 Speaker 10: be a job for the boys. I don't know how 773 00:36:31,733 --> 00:36:35,173 Speaker 10: much of that money actually goes for what you're trying 774 00:36:35,173 --> 00:36:39,093 Speaker 10: to contribute to that. I don't think it's a lot. 775 00:36:40,173 --> 00:36:43,253 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean on that, Bob. And granted there's a 776 00:36:43,293 --> 00:36:47,333 Speaker 3: lot of so called charities and quotation marks that are arguably, 777 00:36:47,893 --> 00:36:50,133 Speaker 3: you know, a little bit dodgy. But for the ones 778 00:36:50,173 --> 00:36:53,013 Speaker 3: that are legitimate, do you think they've got processes in 779 00:36:53,013 --> 00:36:55,613 Speaker 3: place that we can see how transparent they are with 780 00:36:55,893 --> 00:36:56,773 Speaker 3: where the money goes? 781 00:36:58,533 --> 00:37:04,573 Speaker 10: Well, I think they should be to provide what percentage 782 00:37:04,773 --> 00:37:10,493 Speaker 10: of those donations go to where needs to go instead 783 00:37:10,533 --> 00:37:12,133 Speaker 10: of just saw the administration. 784 00:37:13,333 --> 00:37:14,173 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think. 785 00:37:14,133 --> 00:37:18,093 Speaker 10: So much turns out to these jobs for the boys. 786 00:37:18,213 --> 00:37:20,373 Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you so much for your caol Bob. It 787 00:37:20,373 --> 00:37:22,172 Speaker 2: sounds like Bob's either turning a corner where he's got 788 00:37:22,213 --> 00:37:24,453 Speaker 2: like a clip clop pony coming up behind him in 789 00:37:24,453 --> 00:37:27,652 Speaker 2: the car. But yeah, I mean, I guess you'd want 790 00:37:27,653 --> 00:37:29,413 Speaker 2: to do the due diligence when you say you've got 791 00:37:29,573 --> 00:37:32,732 Speaker 2: eighteen thousand charities. When you start a charity and there's 792 00:37:32,733 --> 00:37:36,133 Speaker 2: already another charity that's doing the same thing as you do, 793 00:37:36,213 --> 00:37:38,093 Speaker 2: you go, well, maybe I should just be part of 794 00:37:38,133 --> 00:37:41,533 Speaker 2: that charity. So I mean, in that eighteen thousand charities, 795 00:37:41,573 --> 00:37:43,333 Speaker 2: a lot of them are doing the you know, trying 796 00:37:43,333 --> 00:37:44,213 Speaker 2: to help the same people. 797 00:37:44,293 --> 00:37:46,653 Speaker 3: Yeah, some of them would be vanity projects. Let's be 798 00:37:46,733 --> 00:37:47,373 Speaker 3: honest here, do. 799 00:37:47,333 --> 00:37:48,853 Speaker 2: We need to bring in an audit where we get 800 00:37:48,853 --> 00:37:51,533 Speaker 2: people together and someone goes through and goes, you're actually 801 00:37:51,573 --> 00:37:53,733 Speaker 2: the same charity. You're together so we can cut on 802 00:37:53,773 --> 00:37:55,933 Speaker 2: the administration on you. You're the same charity. You're a 803 00:37:55,973 --> 00:37:57,933 Speaker 2: load of rubbish. Get out, what are you doing this? 804 00:37:58,133 --> 00:37:59,813 Speaker 2: This is a vanity project. 805 00:37:59,613 --> 00:38:02,173 Speaker 3: A bit of amalgamation. Yeah, oh, eight one hundred and 806 00:38:02,173 --> 00:38:05,053 Speaker 3: eighty ten eighty is the number to call. We're going 807 00:38:05,093 --> 00:38:07,133 Speaker 3: to play some messages, but we'll come back with more 808 00:38:07,253 --> 00:38:11,172 Speaker 3: of your phone calls. It is eight minutes to two. 809 00:38:11,693 --> 00:38:15,333 Speaker 1: Matteath Taylor Adams taking your calls on eight hundred and 810 00:38:15,333 --> 00:38:18,413 Speaker 1: eighty ten eighty Matt and Taylor afternoons with the Volvo 811 00:38:18,693 --> 00:38:22,813 Speaker 1: XC ninety tick every box, a seamless experience awaits news 812 00:38:22,813 --> 00:38:23,373 Speaker 1: dogs b. 813 00:38:25,173 --> 00:38:28,253 Speaker 3: It is five to two. A couple of texts, then 814 00:38:28,293 --> 00:38:29,253 Speaker 3: will wrap this one up. 815 00:38:30,373 --> 00:38:32,053 Speaker 2: Hey, team, great showers always. Thanks. 816 00:38:32,333 --> 00:38:32,533 Speaker 3: Thanks. 817 00:38:32,813 --> 00:38:34,773 Speaker 2: It appears the number of people like me would like 818 00:38:34,853 --> 00:38:38,893 Speaker 2: to see all charities audited to establish what fees versus 819 00:38:38,933 --> 00:38:41,172 Speaker 2: actual good comes out of the three hundred and twenty 820 00:38:41,173 --> 00:38:45,013 Speaker 2: plus million that has been donated in people's wills as 821 00:38:45,533 --> 00:38:51,013 Speaker 2: showing with the USA D Can we really trust these NGOs? Yeah, 822 00:38:51,133 --> 00:38:54,213 Speaker 2: I mean I guess you can. You can investigate. You know, 823 00:38:54,253 --> 00:38:56,493 Speaker 2: it has to be printed where everything goes, So before 824 00:38:56,533 --> 00:38:57,853 Speaker 2: you put someone in your will, you might want to 825 00:38:57,893 --> 00:39:00,293 Speaker 2: do a big sniff around and see where it's actually 826 00:39:00,333 --> 00:39:02,333 Speaker 2: going and how much is on admin and how much 827 00:39:02,413 --> 00:39:03,573 Speaker 2: is on helping people. 828 00:39:03,333 --> 00:39:04,973 Speaker 3: I think they do have to open their books, don't they? 829 00:39:05,053 --> 00:39:06,573 Speaker 3: Is it hard of being a charity? You have to 830 00:39:06,573 --> 00:39:08,893 Speaker 3: be transparent. This one sees guys leave it to your 831 00:39:08,933 --> 00:39:10,693 Speaker 3: kids and they will do the right thing. Why would 832 00:39:10,693 --> 00:39:12,413 Speaker 3: they not do the same as you and leave it 833 00:39:12,453 --> 00:39:14,533 Speaker 3: to all of their kids. If that's not the right thing, 834 00:39:14,613 --> 00:39:17,212 Speaker 3: then why don't you do the right thing now? Which 835 00:39:17,253 --> 00:39:18,093 Speaker 3: is kind of to your point? 836 00:39:18,173 --> 00:39:20,053 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right. So you want to be charitable through 837 00:39:20,053 --> 00:39:22,253 Speaker 2: your whole life, absolutely, and you want to bring up 838 00:39:22,293 --> 00:39:25,333 Speaker 2: kids that are charitable through their life. And I think 839 00:39:25,373 --> 00:39:28,213 Speaker 2: the primarily job of people is to leave money to 840 00:39:28,253 --> 00:39:31,172 Speaker 2: their kids, in their in their grandkids. If you want 841 00:39:31,213 --> 00:39:33,453 Speaker 2: to give more and you've got some, you oh for it. 842 00:39:33,493 --> 00:39:35,973 Speaker 2: Good on you, Yeah, good on you, Good on you, 843 00:39:36,213 --> 00:39:37,013 Speaker 2: Good on you. 844 00:39:36,853 --> 00:39:39,133 Speaker 3: Go to town. That has been a great discussion. 845 00:39:39,413 --> 00:39:41,653 Speaker 2: But attempt to bring up kids that will be charitable 846 00:39:41,653 --> 00:39:42,773 Speaker 2: with the money you leave them. 847 00:39:42,853 --> 00:39:46,013 Speaker 3: Yep, always sound advice, great discussion. Thank you very much 848 00:39:46,053 --> 00:39:47,853 Speaker 3: for all your phone calls and text right coming up 849 00:39:47,893 --> 00:39:51,292 Speaker 3: after two o'clock. Are we as friendly as we think 850 00:39:51,333 --> 00:39:54,893 Speaker 3: we are? Not according to a survey that's just been released, 851 00:39:54,933 --> 00:39:56,613 Speaker 3: But we want to hear from you. If you've moved 852 00:39:56,653 --> 00:40:00,013 Speaker 3: to this beautiful country. How friendly are us Kiwi's Oh 853 00:40:00,093 --> 00:40:01,812 Speaker 3: eight one hundred and eighty ten eighty is the number 854 00:40:01,813 --> 00:40:04,053 Speaker 3: to call. Nine two ninety two is the text number. 855 00:40:04,133 --> 00:40:06,373 Speaker 3: New Sport the weather on its way. You're listening to 856 00:40:06,413 --> 00:40:09,973 Speaker 3: Matt and Tyler very very good after noon's you. We'll 857 00:40:10,013 --> 00:40:10,773 Speaker 3: see you on the other. 858 00:40:10,693 --> 00:40:15,973 Speaker 1: Side talking with you all afternoon. It's Matt Heath and 859 00:40:16,053 --> 00:40:20,293 Speaker 1: Tyler Adams Afternoons with the Volvo XC ninety news dog z'b. 860 00:40:21,933 --> 00:40:25,573 Speaker 3: Well, good afternoon to you. Welcome back into the show. Now, 861 00:40:25,693 --> 00:40:28,013 Speaker 3: just before we move on to our next topic. 862 00:40:28,213 --> 00:40:30,692 Speaker 2: Yeah, there was a bit of that previous topic talking 863 00:40:30,693 --> 00:40:34,373 Speaker 2: about in this you know this guy John McLeod who's 864 00:40:34,693 --> 00:40:38,053 Speaker 2: pushing for us to donate more in our worlds to charity. Yep, 865 00:40:38,573 --> 00:40:41,253 Speaker 2: read this bit of the report. New Zealand has a 866 00:40:41,293 --> 00:40:44,293 Speaker 2: relatively is a relative sorry, New Zealand is a relatively 867 00:40:44,293 --> 00:40:46,773 Speaker 2: wealthy country per capita about seventh in the world and 868 00:40:46,813 --> 00:40:50,973 Speaker 2: despite growing inequality, still fourth for median wealth. If you 869 00:40:50,973 --> 00:40:53,133 Speaker 2: could bear that to somewhere like the States, which has 870 00:40:53,173 --> 00:40:55,853 Speaker 2: got a lot of wealthy people, they move from number 871 00:40:55,853 --> 00:40:58,533 Speaker 2: four on average down to fourteen on medium. So your 872 00:40:58,533 --> 00:41:01,413 Speaker 2: wealth is spread. While there's inequality, it has spread more 873 00:41:01,453 --> 00:41:04,413 Speaker 2: evenly than it is in many other countries there you go, 874 00:41:04,533 --> 00:41:06,533 Speaker 2: So you don't really often hear that, do you. And 875 00:41:06,573 --> 00:41:10,933 Speaker 2: also that on average people have seven hundred and fifty 876 00:41:11,453 --> 00:41:14,093 Speaker 2: thousand dollars to leave in their wills. So you know, 877 00:41:14,213 --> 00:41:16,773 Speaker 2: we always hear how bad things are in New Zealand, 878 00:41:16,773 --> 00:41:19,333 Speaker 2: but you know it must be pretty bad in the 879 00:41:19,333 --> 00:41:22,013 Speaker 2: rest of the world. We're seventh in the world including 880 00:41:22,133 --> 00:41:23,493 Speaker 2: a wealth per capita. 881 00:41:23,613 --> 00:41:25,933 Speaker 3: We're doing okay. Yes, there's some things to sort out, 882 00:41:25,973 --> 00:41:28,013 Speaker 3: no doubt about it. But you know, geez, we're lucky 883 00:41:28,013 --> 00:41:29,053 Speaker 3: in this country sometimes. 884 00:41:29,173 --> 00:41:30,453 Speaker 2: But are we friendly? Tyler? 885 00:41:30,733 --> 00:41:33,973 Speaker 3: Wow, that is the big question. So that is the 886 00:41:34,053 --> 00:41:36,413 Speaker 3: question we've got for you over the next fifteen minutes 887 00:41:36,493 --> 00:41:39,453 Speaker 3: or so. Are we as friendly as we think we are? 888 00:41:39,533 --> 00:41:43,253 Speaker 3: On the back of a survey on who expats thought 889 00:41:43,293 --> 00:41:46,293 Speaker 3: we're the friendliest country. So these are expats that have 890 00:41:46,533 --> 00:41:49,613 Speaker 3: moved to a particular country and made it their new home. 891 00:41:49,813 --> 00:41:52,773 Speaker 3: They were surveyed by their home country into weather it 892 00:41:52,853 --> 00:41:53,773 Speaker 3: is friendly or not. 893 00:41:54,173 --> 00:41:58,453 Speaker 2: Yes, so two out of five said that New Zealand does. 894 00:41:58,453 --> 00:42:00,373 Speaker 2: We're friendly. So a next pat is just someone that's 895 00:42:00,373 --> 00:42:02,373 Speaker 2: living in another country other than their own home. Yeah, 896 00:42:02,693 --> 00:42:06,573 Speaker 2: basically yep. So two out of five said New Zealand 897 00:42:07,013 --> 00:42:10,533 Speaker 2: we're friendly, as opposed to the most friendly place in 898 00:42:10,573 --> 00:42:14,013 Speaker 2: the world, Costa Rica ninety percent. So nine and ten 899 00:42:14,133 --> 00:42:19,172 Speaker 2: said the locals were friendly. I thought, surely we're better 900 00:42:19,173 --> 00:42:20,093 Speaker 2: than two out of five. 901 00:42:20,213 --> 00:42:22,413 Speaker 3: I was gutted to see that. So thirty nine percent 902 00:42:22,573 --> 00:42:24,813 Speaker 3: thought that we were friendly as a country, and we 903 00:42:24,853 --> 00:42:29,253 Speaker 3: pride ourselves grateful. We pride ourselves on being a friendly bunch. 904 00:42:29,293 --> 00:42:32,693 Speaker 3: But maybe what they perceive is friendliness. I think on 905 00:42:32,733 --> 00:42:35,813 Speaker 3: the surface level we are pretty friendly, but maybe it 906 00:42:35,853 --> 00:42:38,613 Speaker 3: goes a bit deeper. Maybe they're talking about friendliness is 907 00:42:38,653 --> 00:42:42,212 Speaker 3: actually making friends connections, going a little bit further than 908 00:42:42,293 --> 00:42:44,772 Speaker 3: just get a john. How are you doing today? I've 909 00:42:44,813 --> 00:42:45,533 Speaker 3: good girl. 910 00:42:45,373 --> 00:42:48,653 Speaker 2: Being invited around for dinner. Yeah, you know, being invited 911 00:42:48,693 --> 00:42:50,813 Speaker 2: out to a bar for beers, rather than someone just 912 00:42:50,853 --> 00:42:53,413 Speaker 2: going good a mate, but actually going a little bit deeper. 913 00:42:53,533 --> 00:42:55,053 Speaker 2: Now I've got this text from Greek here. He says, 914 00:42:55,053 --> 00:42:58,013 Speaker 2: didn't we do how friendly are we? Topic? Yesterday? Have 915 00:42:58,053 --> 00:43:00,213 Speaker 2: you run out of ideas? Greg? We're a victim of 916 00:43:00,213 --> 00:43:02,253 Speaker 2: our own success. We tried to do this topic yesterday, 917 00:43:02,533 --> 00:43:06,333 Speaker 2: but I told a little story about this woman that 918 00:43:06,413 --> 00:43:08,293 Speaker 2: I drove across town and whether I should or not. 919 00:43:08,653 --> 00:43:12,293 Speaker 2: That blew up in two thousands and thousands of texts 920 00:43:12,413 --> 00:43:16,253 Speaker 2: and a whole heap of phone calls on hitchhikingh So this, 921 00:43:16,253 --> 00:43:19,652 Speaker 2: this topic got washed away yesterday in the flood of 922 00:43:19,813 --> 00:43:20,813 Speaker 2: hitchhiking story. 923 00:43:20,693 --> 00:43:23,093 Speaker 3: And we had a bunch of texts and calls who 924 00:43:23,093 --> 00:43:24,573 Speaker 3: wanted to chat about this and cut it. So we 925 00:43:24,653 --> 00:43:27,652 Speaker 3: wanted to do it justice today. So keen to hear 926 00:43:27,653 --> 00:43:29,172 Speaker 3: from you. Oh eight one hundred and eighty ten eighty 927 00:43:29,253 --> 00:43:29,652 Speaker 3: is the number. 928 00:43:29,693 --> 00:43:30,493 Speaker 2: Call O there, Greg? 929 00:43:30,573 --> 00:43:33,133 Speaker 3: Yes, okay, Greg, We love you though, Greg. Thanks for 930 00:43:33,173 --> 00:43:34,373 Speaker 3: texting here, mate, great guy. 931 00:43:34,493 --> 00:43:34,692 Speaker 5: Yeah. 932 00:43:34,773 --> 00:43:38,172 Speaker 3: Nine two ninety two is the text number. And if 933 00:43:38,213 --> 00:43:40,652 Speaker 3: you've recently moved here or you've been here for some time, 934 00:43:40,773 --> 00:43:43,813 Speaker 3: love to hear from you. Do We overplay our friendliness 935 00:43:43,813 --> 00:43:45,413 Speaker 3: in New Zealand. We love to say we're a friendly 936 00:43:45,453 --> 00:43:48,533 Speaker 3: bunch and we love hearing people say we're friendly. But 937 00:43:48,613 --> 00:43:49,853 Speaker 3: is it really the case. 938 00:43:49,893 --> 00:43:52,853 Speaker 2: This Texter who's an ex pat living in New Zealand. 939 00:43:52,893 --> 00:43:57,773 Speaker 2: You Kiwis are famous for praising yourselves, so we are 940 00:43:57,533 --> 00:44:01,652 Speaker 2: we assume, we assume that we're friendly. Yeah, when we 941 00:44:01,653 --> 00:44:03,813 Speaker 2: go we're the friendliest people. We love to back ourselves, 942 00:44:03,893 --> 00:44:05,853 Speaker 2: but this study says we're only two out of five 943 00:44:05,893 --> 00:44:09,733 Speaker 2: friendly instead of nine out of ten friendly. Cost Abby 944 00:44:09,813 --> 00:44:18,093 Speaker 2: that the friendest countries go like, that's Costa Rica, Mexico, Philippines, Indonesia, Brazil, Thailand, Panama, Colombia, Kenya, 945 00:44:18,213 --> 00:44:18,853 Speaker 2: and Greece. 946 00:44:19,853 --> 00:44:22,773 Speaker 3: There's only one country I've been to out of those ones, Thailand. 947 00:44:22,813 --> 00:44:25,173 Speaker 3: They were pretty friendly in Thailand, very friendly. 948 00:44:25,253 --> 00:44:28,293 Speaker 2: They're so friendly in Thailand, yeah, incredibly famously friendly. And 949 00:44:28,333 --> 00:44:31,173 Speaker 2: Thiland absolutely, but do they do you know, do you 950 00:44:31,293 --> 00:44:35,172 Speaker 2: end up being friends with people as a deeper level. 951 00:44:35,213 --> 00:44:37,133 Speaker 2: So yeah, we'd love to hear from expats in New Zealand. 952 00:44:37,453 --> 00:44:39,733 Speaker 2: Have you been invited into other people's lives? Have you 953 00:44:39,813 --> 00:44:43,613 Speaker 2: found it easy to make friends here? Are we friendly? 954 00:44:43,773 --> 00:44:46,333 Speaker 2: When you're walking around the streets? Do we welcome you in? 955 00:44:46,653 --> 00:44:49,693 Speaker 2: Do shop keepers say get a yep? We'd love to 956 00:44:49,693 --> 00:44:50,053 Speaker 2: hear from you. 957 00:44:50,133 --> 00:44:52,453 Speaker 3: Oh, eight hundred eighty ten eighty. The phone lines have 958 00:44:52,533 --> 00:44:54,493 Speaker 3: let up. If you can't get through, keep trying. Nine 959 00:44:54,533 --> 00:44:56,853 Speaker 3: two ninety two is the text number if you prefer 960 00:44:56,893 --> 00:44:59,613 Speaker 3: to send a text, it is eleven parts two. 961 00:44:59,653 --> 00:45:02,093 Speaker 2: There you go, Greg, look at that well, the phone 962 00:45:02,093 --> 00:45:03,973 Speaker 2: calls calling through other people that must have yesterday. 963 00:45:04,133 --> 00:45:06,013 Speaker 3: Still love you, Greek. You're all right, man, Yeah, he's good. 964 00:45:06,013 --> 00:45:06,453 Speaker 2: Go gree Yea. 965 00:45:06,453 --> 00:45:07,293 Speaker 3: You seem pretty friendly. 966 00:45:07,333 --> 00:45:09,053 Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's next. Tex isn't as nice thing? 967 00:45:12,213 --> 00:45:16,212 Speaker 1: Your new home of afternoon Talk Matt and Taylor Afternoons 968 00:45:16,253 --> 00:45:20,213 Speaker 1: with the Volvo XC ninety turn every journey into something special. 969 00:45:20,333 --> 00:45:23,293 Speaker 1: Call eight hundred eighty News Talk zed. 970 00:45:23,213 --> 00:45:26,853 Speaker 3: B, News Talk zed B. We've asked the question, are 971 00:45:26,973 --> 00:45:30,053 Speaker 3: kiwiez us as friendly as we think we are? This 972 00:45:30,133 --> 00:45:32,813 Speaker 3: is a call on the back of rather a survey 973 00:45:32,853 --> 00:45:35,813 Speaker 3: that says we are not that friendly. We're kind of 974 00:45:35,813 --> 00:45:37,973 Speaker 3: middle of the pack. We have gone up sixteen points 975 00:45:38,013 --> 00:45:41,933 Speaker 3: to twenty first out of fifty. But that's not great 976 00:45:41,933 --> 00:45:44,733 Speaker 3: being in the middle. The most friendly countries, according to 977 00:45:45,533 --> 00:45:49,333 Speaker 3: expats are Costa Rica, Mexico, Philippines, Indonesia and Brazil are 978 00:45:49,333 --> 00:45:51,893 Speaker 3: in the top five, right down the bottom in terms 979 00:45:51,933 --> 00:45:54,893 Speaker 3: of unfriendly And you were quite happy to see this, Matt. 980 00:45:55,093 --> 00:45:55,333 Speaker 7: Yeah. 981 00:45:55,413 --> 00:45:59,493 Speaker 2: Those those Northern European countries that normally win all these things, 982 00:45:59,813 --> 00:46:03,093 Speaker 2: your Finland's and your den Marks, they're always at the 983 00:46:03,133 --> 00:46:05,893 Speaker 2: top of the happiness index. In your Sweden's they're right 984 00:46:05,893 --> 00:46:08,493 Speaker 2: at the bottom. Not very friendly. Hey you guys, you 985 00:46:08,573 --> 00:46:10,573 Speaker 2: Kiwi says the sticks here and look, Kis are taking 986 00:46:10,573 --> 00:46:13,413 Speaker 2: a little bit of hammering in the text machine nine nineteen. U, 987 00:46:13,453 --> 00:46:15,453 Speaker 2: Kiwis are not as you think. You like to say, 988 00:46:15,533 --> 00:46:18,613 Speaker 2: you're so humble. The irony is that you're completely up yourselves. 989 00:46:19,333 --> 00:46:22,413 Speaker 2: Kiwi's this Kiwi that you're not that different from the country. 990 00:46:22,453 --> 00:46:25,573 Speaker 2: So no, after us, after asking where you from, mate, 991 00:46:25,853 --> 00:46:31,293 Speaker 2: you stop talking. I'm from Ireland. Enough up yourselves? Are we? 992 00:46:31,693 --> 00:46:35,453 Speaker 2: I was got thinking we're as I thought, as up yourselves. 993 00:46:36,373 --> 00:46:37,493 Speaker 2: I thought that was a sort of a. 994 00:46:38,893 --> 00:46:41,293 Speaker 3: It means like you're over proud. You're a little bit too. 995 00:46:41,293 --> 00:46:44,013 Speaker 3: But I thought yourself, I thought Ireland, like, you know, 996 00:46:44,093 --> 00:46:48,053 Speaker 3: you're kind of our kin you know, like Ireland is 997 00:46:48,093 --> 00:46:50,172 Speaker 3: a little brother to the UK. We're the little bro 998 00:46:50,293 --> 00:46:52,853 Speaker 3: to Australia. Canada is a little bro to the year Whiz. 999 00:46:53,013 --> 00:46:54,853 Speaker 3: I thought were meant to be some sort of kinship here, 1000 00:46:54,893 --> 00:46:55,973 Speaker 3: but apparently not. 1001 00:46:56,293 --> 00:46:59,173 Speaker 2: Irish blood, New Zealand heart. That's what I'm made of. Yeah, 1002 00:46:59,213 --> 00:47:01,013 Speaker 2: you know, there's nothing in this world I'm afraid of. 1003 00:47:01,093 --> 00:47:02,173 Speaker 3: Don't forget the old country. 1004 00:47:03,653 --> 00:47:07,133 Speaker 2: Brendan, Hey, good, my friends. 1005 00:47:07,133 --> 00:47:09,693 Speaker 3: How are you doing, Brandon, good to chat mate? 1006 00:47:10,893 --> 00:47:14,413 Speaker 15: Yeah, hey, I work in rental cards and stuff, and 1007 00:47:14,773 --> 00:47:18,333 Speaker 15: so we deal see a number of international series and 1008 00:47:18,933 --> 00:47:20,893 Speaker 15: they all have the opinion that these down is a 1009 00:47:20,933 --> 00:47:25,253 Speaker 15: creat pretty bun truly. But I think that that's because 1010 00:47:25,373 --> 00:47:27,933 Speaker 15: there's friendliness on the surface, where. 1011 00:47:27,733 --> 00:47:32,493 Speaker 2: You say, hey, Brenda, Brendan, sorry to interrupt you, you've 1012 00:47:32,493 --> 00:47:35,693 Speaker 2: got we've got a really really rubbish line. Are you 1013 00:47:35,973 --> 00:47:42,213 Speaker 2: on your speaker phone bluetooth on your on your bluetooth. Yeah, 1014 00:47:42,333 --> 00:47:45,773 Speaker 2: we'll see if them come right, carry on, you got 1015 00:47:45,773 --> 00:47:47,252 Speaker 2: you go again. It was sounding a bit of their Brandon, 1016 00:47:47,293 --> 00:47:52,253 Speaker 2: sorry to interrupt you, but you continue. 1017 00:47:50,733 --> 00:47:54,013 Speaker 3: Yeah, carry on and if it if it goes haywire again, 1018 00:47:54,053 --> 00:47:56,093 Speaker 3: we'll let you know, Brenda. But so you drive around 1019 00:47:56,093 --> 00:47:57,973 Speaker 3: tourists as a job, and most of them say we're 1020 00:47:58,013 --> 00:47:58,613 Speaker 3: pretty friendly. 1021 00:48:00,173 --> 00:48:04,692 Speaker 15: Well we read cars to to okay, ye yeah, yeah, 1022 00:48:05,253 --> 00:48:09,333 Speaker 15: And I think that there's a difference between friendliness. I'm 1023 00:48:09,373 --> 00:48:10,853 Speaker 15: the surface friendliness. 1024 00:48:11,573 --> 00:48:13,973 Speaker 3: Nah, there it is, Dinny old bluetooth. 1025 00:48:14,013 --> 00:48:15,733 Speaker 2: I was loving talking and Brandan as well. We'll try 1026 00:48:15,773 --> 00:48:16,333 Speaker 2: and get him back. 1027 00:48:16,453 --> 00:48:19,173 Speaker 3: Yeah. When it's good, it's good. When it's crap, it's crap. 1028 00:48:19,813 --> 00:48:22,413 Speaker 2: Bluetooth although I did watch I did watch a documentary 1029 00:48:22,413 --> 00:48:24,853 Speaker 2: on bluetooth. That is incredible technology. I can't believe that 1030 00:48:24,973 --> 00:48:28,333 Speaker 2: humans have reached the level of futuristicness. And I know 1031 00:48:28,333 --> 00:48:29,893 Speaker 2: bluetooth has been around for a while. If you look 1032 00:48:29,933 --> 00:48:32,213 Speaker 2: into it, it's it's an incredible technology. 1033 00:48:32,213 --> 00:48:34,333 Speaker 3: Who came up with it? Just sorry to sort of, 1034 00:48:34,373 --> 00:48:36,133 Speaker 3: you know, waylay the topic here, But who came up 1035 00:48:36,173 --> 00:48:38,653 Speaker 3: with bluetooth? Was it the Nordic countries? 1036 00:48:38,893 --> 00:48:42,133 Speaker 2: No? Who came up with I missed that part of it. 1037 00:48:42,213 --> 00:48:43,413 Speaker 2: I was just going to the tech part of it 1038 00:48:43,453 --> 00:48:47,013 Speaker 2: and the frequencies and the light spectrum it's on, not 1039 00:48:47,013 --> 00:48:48,693 Speaker 2: how actually invented. I missed that part, Tyler. 1040 00:48:48,733 --> 00:48:52,093 Speaker 3: Sorry, fascinating technology though, Chris, welcome to the show. 1041 00:48:54,133 --> 00:48:55,013 Speaker 11: Yeah, hey, fellas. 1042 00:48:55,973 --> 00:48:58,453 Speaker 16: I wanted to echo the sentiments of most of the 1043 00:48:58,493 --> 00:48:59,813 Speaker 16: other callers that have run. 1044 00:48:59,973 --> 00:49:00,973 Speaker 11: I think your. 1045 00:49:00,853 --> 00:49:04,173 Speaker 16: Key with are really nice. We've helped out a stranger, 1046 00:49:04,213 --> 00:49:06,973 Speaker 16: We've got people's backs. You know, we see people in trouble. 1047 00:49:07,293 --> 00:49:09,213 Speaker 16: But when it comes to we have the idea of 1048 00:49:09,253 --> 00:49:11,493 Speaker 16: deeper friendships. I want to pursue. 1049 00:49:11,533 --> 00:49:11,813 Speaker 10: Agree. 1050 00:49:11,853 --> 00:49:15,173 Speaker 16: Now, from a Keywist point of view, I've noticed moving 1051 00:49:15,253 --> 00:49:18,813 Speaker 16: from the South Island up to the North Island. Yeah, 1052 00:49:18,853 --> 00:49:20,733 Speaker 16: you meet people kind of quickly all of that, but 1053 00:49:20,773 --> 00:49:23,933 Speaker 16: when it comes to even making new friends in New Zealand, 1054 00:49:23,973 --> 00:49:26,413 Speaker 16: there's a KeyWe it's hard to break into that click. 1055 00:49:26,613 --> 00:49:27,533 Speaker 11: You know, it might be a high. 1056 00:49:27,413 --> 00:49:29,493 Speaker 16: School click or a Uni clip if you've got to 1057 00:49:29,533 --> 00:49:32,453 Speaker 16: look at it from the outside, it kind of feels 1058 00:49:32,453 --> 00:49:34,693 Speaker 16: pretty service level. I've been in my town for about 1059 00:49:35,013 --> 00:49:37,652 Speaker 16: keen years and still haven't got to the point where 1060 00:49:37,693 --> 00:49:41,613 Speaker 16: it actually feels like a genuine, genuine friendship or a 1061 00:49:41,613 --> 00:49:42,293 Speaker 16: ciprople thing. 1062 00:49:43,293 --> 00:49:45,613 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that high school thing and those that click 1063 00:49:45,693 --> 00:49:48,813 Speaker 2: thing is I imagine it's a global thing. I said 1064 00:49:48,893 --> 00:49:53,133 Speaker 2: yesterday that you know, some of my best friends, breast friends, 1065 00:49:53,173 --> 00:49:55,693 Speaker 2: best friends from high school, my four best mates, we 1066 00:49:55,773 --> 00:49:58,293 Speaker 2: all went to high school together. So it's actually and 1067 00:49:58,333 --> 00:50:00,973 Speaker 2: that's a long time ago, so it's hard to crack 1068 00:50:01,133 --> 00:50:03,893 Speaker 2: that code. You know, you know wherever you're from. So 1069 00:50:03,973 --> 00:50:06,093 Speaker 2: you're we're in the South Island. Did you move up 1070 00:50:06,133 --> 00:50:07,013 Speaker 2: from Chris. 1071 00:50:08,133 --> 00:50:11,453 Speaker 3: Yeah, it from Nelson, right, Yeah. And did you flat 1072 00:50:11,533 --> 00:50:14,013 Speaker 3: when you moved to the new town or did you 1073 00:50:14,093 --> 00:50:15,933 Speaker 3: were you're living with a partner at that stage or 1074 00:50:15,933 --> 00:50:16,493 Speaker 3: by yourself? 1075 00:50:18,133 --> 00:50:20,213 Speaker 16: You and I went up with my wife and you 1076 00:50:20,253 --> 00:50:23,853 Speaker 16: were sort of because you know, through through kindy in school. 1077 00:50:23,613 --> 00:50:26,173 Speaker 2: And yeah, yeah, it was that. 1078 00:50:27,093 --> 00:50:29,333 Speaker 3: I just say that because I agree with you, Chris 1079 00:50:29,333 --> 00:50:31,733 Speaker 3: one hundred percent. It is we are a clique bunch, 1080 00:50:31,813 --> 00:50:34,573 Speaker 3: But that when I've moved to a new city, that 1081 00:50:34,693 --> 00:50:37,373 Speaker 3: ideally was how I made friends through the flatmate situation 1082 00:50:37,493 --> 00:50:39,693 Speaker 3: that you're in that living space, You've got shared experience 1083 00:50:39,733 --> 00:50:41,693 Speaker 3: as you're going out on the town together. It's a 1084 00:50:41,733 --> 00:50:44,413 Speaker 3: lot harder to do if you're moving with your family, right. 1085 00:50:45,773 --> 00:50:47,933 Speaker 16: Yeah, I agree, Yeah, it's a lot the university situation 1086 00:50:48,093 --> 00:50:51,772 Speaker 16: that you made the light. You go through some stickingsin that. Yeah, 1087 00:50:51,813 --> 00:50:54,013 Speaker 16: when you move somewhere with your family, it's just you 1088 00:50:54,093 --> 00:50:56,172 Speaker 16: feel like a bit of a weirdo trying to get 1089 00:50:56,213 --> 00:50:58,133 Speaker 16: it on the actual action, you know. 1090 00:50:58,373 --> 00:51:00,213 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think one of the good ways to 1091 00:51:00,293 --> 00:51:04,573 Speaker 2: meet people, and I've met made friends recently over the 1092 00:51:04,653 --> 00:51:06,173 Speaker 2: years with my kids growing up and being on the 1093 00:51:06,213 --> 00:51:09,333 Speaker 2: sideline of sports teams. Yeah, because your kid might be 1094 00:51:09,333 --> 00:51:12,293 Speaker 2: in the same team with an age group for like 1095 00:51:12,333 --> 00:51:15,373 Speaker 2: five six years, and then you get to meet people 1096 00:51:15,413 --> 00:51:18,853 Speaker 2: that you wouldn't meet because they're from totally different walks 1097 00:51:18,853 --> 00:51:21,013 Speaker 2: of life that you wouldn't meet socially and they didn't 1098 00:51:21,013 --> 00:51:23,053 Speaker 2: go to high school with you, so they're new friends. 1099 00:51:23,413 --> 00:51:25,333 Speaker 2: But that's a good way. Did you meet anyone on 1100 00:51:25,373 --> 00:51:26,773 Speaker 2: the sidelines of sports? 1101 00:51:26,933 --> 00:51:30,133 Speaker 16: Chris, Look, I found the same thing. You know, maybe 1102 00:51:30,173 --> 00:51:33,533 Speaker 16: it's my problem, probably the shiky we who doesn't quite 1103 00:51:33,573 --> 00:51:36,693 Speaker 16: want to say, hey, mate, come over and have a barberie. 1104 00:51:36,413 --> 00:51:37,893 Speaker 11: Or let's go on to mission somewhere. 1105 00:51:37,933 --> 00:51:40,293 Speaker 16: It's it could be from myself. 1106 00:51:40,333 --> 00:51:42,013 Speaker 3: Actually, well it's pretty it is. I mean, it is 1107 00:51:42,053 --> 00:51:44,133 Speaker 3: pretty hard. The older you get, the harder it is 1108 00:51:44,173 --> 00:51:46,733 Speaker 3: to not feel a bit awkward saying hey, do you 1109 00:51:46,773 --> 00:51:49,053 Speaker 3: want to go for a beer? Or you know, I 1110 00:51:49,053 --> 00:51:51,453 Speaker 3: can see you're going with your mates on whatever it is, 1111 00:51:51,493 --> 00:51:53,293 Speaker 3: a fishing trip or you're going for a hike or 1112 00:51:53,333 --> 00:51:56,293 Speaker 3: a run. Can I come just that element that you 1113 00:51:56,373 --> 00:51:59,093 Speaker 3: feel within yourself that it just feels like a little 1114 00:51:59,133 --> 00:52:00,813 Speaker 3: bit too full on, you know what I mean, That 1115 00:52:00,813 --> 00:52:02,933 Speaker 3: you're coming on a bit strong and you're going to 1116 00:52:02,933 --> 00:52:04,533 Speaker 3: be the weirdo. And I think that would be a 1117 00:52:04,573 --> 00:52:06,173 Speaker 3: feeling that a lot of people would have in New Zealand. 1118 00:52:06,173 --> 00:52:07,133 Speaker 3: We're trying to make new friends. 1119 00:52:08,413 --> 00:52:10,493 Speaker 16: Don't agree with you there. 1120 00:52:11,213 --> 00:52:13,652 Speaker 2: It's interesting that thing taking it to the next level. 1121 00:52:13,693 --> 00:52:15,573 Speaker 2: Because one I thank you for your call, Chris. One 1122 00:52:15,613 --> 00:52:18,573 Speaker 2: of my great mates. Now one of my best mates 1123 00:52:18,653 --> 00:52:21,093 Speaker 2: is this guy called Mike for listening might get a 1124 00:52:21,413 --> 00:52:23,533 Speaker 2: And the reason why we're mates is because we ended 1125 00:52:23,613 --> 00:52:26,333 Speaker 2: up just coaching at one of our kids cricket teams 1126 00:52:26,333 --> 00:52:29,373 Speaker 2: co coaches and so spend a bit of time together. 1127 00:52:29,613 --> 00:52:32,652 Speaker 2: And then one day there was you know, after a 1128 00:52:32,773 --> 00:52:37,133 Speaker 2: year or so, there was a game cricket on Yep, 1129 00:52:37,373 --> 00:52:38,933 Speaker 2: I go, oh, I'm going to go and watch the pub. 1130 00:52:38,973 --> 00:52:39,613 Speaker 2: Do you want to come along? 1131 00:52:39,733 --> 00:52:39,893 Speaker 10: Yeah? 1132 00:52:40,213 --> 00:52:43,413 Speaker 2: And so it's like infding someone out on a date. 1133 00:52:44,013 --> 00:52:47,053 Speaker 2: So do you want to take this co coaching friend 1134 00:52:47,053 --> 00:52:49,533 Speaker 2: thing to another level? It's gone and have a beer 1135 00:52:49,573 --> 00:52:53,733 Speaker 2: and watch the cricket together. Did that? Absolutely steamed And 1136 00:52:53,733 --> 00:52:54,933 Speaker 2: we've been very good mate citizens. 1137 00:52:54,973 --> 00:52:55,133 Speaker 10: Yeah. 1138 00:52:55,173 --> 00:52:56,733 Speaker 3: Sports a messive part of it, though, isn't it. I 1139 00:52:56,773 --> 00:52:58,692 Speaker 3: mean even down in christ Church when I moved into 1140 00:52:58,693 --> 00:53:00,213 Speaker 3: a new flat and it was with a couple of 1141 00:53:00,213 --> 00:53:02,693 Speaker 3: Brits who had moved here and they joined a football 1142 00:53:02,693 --> 00:53:05,213 Speaker 3: team and made a good group of friends on that 1143 00:53:05,213 --> 00:53:07,133 Speaker 3: football team. And I wasn't even part of the team, 1144 00:53:07,173 --> 00:53:09,293 Speaker 3: but just because I was in the flat, i'd come 1145 00:53:09,333 --> 00:53:12,133 Speaker 3: along and spectate the football games and be a part 1146 00:53:12,173 --> 00:53:13,493 Speaker 3: of the crew that way. So the sport is a 1147 00:53:13,493 --> 00:53:15,652 Speaker 3: massive way to get in. It is a very I mean, 1148 00:53:15,733 --> 00:53:17,013 Speaker 3: is that a key we think? I think that would 1149 00:53:17,013 --> 00:53:18,133 Speaker 3: be pretty common around the world. 1150 00:53:18,573 --> 00:53:20,733 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I guess you have to be interested 1151 00:53:20,733 --> 00:53:22,253 Speaker 2: in the same sport as that. If you come into 1152 00:53:22,293 --> 00:53:24,573 Speaker 2: a country and they don't play the sport that you're 1153 00:53:24,813 --> 00:53:27,973 Speaker 2: into and you want your kids can get it could 1154 00:53:28,013 --> 00:53:28,973 Speaker 2: get pretty complicated. 1155 00:53:29,053 --> 00:53:29,252 Speaker 10: Yeah. 1156 00:53:29,293 --> 00:53:31,533 Speaker 2: The worst unfriendly I found were the English, even at 1157 00:53:31,533 --> 00:53:34,373 Speaker 2: bus stops. I talked to anyone and find out not 1158 00:53:34,453 --> 00:53:37,172 Speaker 2: to talk back. Yeah, I mean, I tell you what, 1159 00:53:37,213 --> 00:53:39,053 Speaker 2: one thing when you first moved to England is what 1160 00:53:39,133 --> 00:53:43,733 Speaker 2: you find quite shocking is shopkeepers. You know, you go 1161 00:53:43,773 --> 00:53:46,693 Speaker 2: into a shop and that you know, you're used to 1162 00:53:46,733 --> 00:53:50,333 Speaker 2: New Zealand people go hey, how's it going, And you 1163 00:53:50,413 --> 00:53:52,333 Speaker 2: go into your first shop in England and they. 1164 00:53:52,253 --> 00:53:52,853 Speaker 3: May say nothing. 1165 00:53:53,333 --> 00:53:56,733 Speaker 2: Very rude friendly at pubs, yeah, rude in retail. 1166 00:53:56,613 --> 00:53:57,053 Speaker 14: Is that right? 1167 00:53:57,053 --> 00:53:58,493 Speaker 3: So what would they so have you walked into the 1168 00:53:58,533 --> 00:54:01,652 Speaker 3: dairy in the UK and say good morning, so shut 1169 00:54:01,733 --> 00:54:03,693 Speaker 3: up or they wouldn't even respond. 1170 00:54:03,893 --> 00:54:05,652 Speaker 2: I'm not so much talking the dairy, not that they 1171 00:54:05,693 --> 00:54:07,293 Speaker 2: have they call them the shops there you know you've 1172 00:54:07,293 --> 00:54:10,893 Speaker 2: spent time there, but no, I just like a retail store. Yeah, 1173 00:54:10,933 --> 00:54:13,813 Speaker 2: there's just someone behind the counter that's very snooty in 1174 00:54:13,853 --> 00:54:15,853 Speaker 2: my experience, you know, all right. 1175 00:54:15,813 --> 00:54:18,172 Speaker 3: Oh, hard to be wrong. Yeah, oh eight hundred eighty 1176 00:54:18,213 --> 00:54:20,893 Speaker 3: ten eighty Are we more friendly? Are we? 1177 00:54:21,013 --> 00:54:21,053 Speaker 4: Le? 1178 00:54:21,453 --> 00:54:23,853 Speaker 3: Sorry? Less friendly than we think we are? According to 1179 00:54:23,893 --> 00:54:26,093 Speaker 3: a survey, we certainly are. But if you've recently moved 1180 00:54:26,133 --> 00:54:28,653 Speaker 3: to New Zealand, what has been your experiences of trying 1181 00:54:28,693 --> 00:54:31,693 Speaker 3: to make friends, getting a little bit deeper than just 1182 00:54:31,733 --> 00:54:34,133 Speaker 3: the friendly wave in the morning and actually being invited 1183 00:54:34,173 --> 00:54:35,293 Speaker 3: over for dinner for example? 1184 00:54:35,413 --> 00:54:38,013 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right. One hundred and eighty ten eighty nine 1185 00:54:38,093 --> 00:54:45,813 Speaker 2: two nine two. 1186 00:54:43,333 --> 00:54:47,013 Speaker 1: Matt Heathen, Tyler Adams afternoons call oh eight hundred eighty 1187 00:54:47,093 --> 00:54:48,893 Speaker 1: ten eighty on News Talk ZB. 1188 00:54:49,133 --> 00:54:52,493 Speaker 3: Good afternoon, twenty five past too, if you've recently moved 1189 00:54:52,493 --> 00:54:55,573 Speaker 3: to New Zealand, loved to hear from you on how 1190 00:54:55,653 --> 00:54:57,493 Speaker 3: friendly we are. As kiwis. 1191 00:54:58,053 --> 00:55:00,533 Speaker 2: We've been talking about expats because that's how they referred 1192 00:55:00,533 --> 00:55:02,253 Speaker 2: to in the study, and it found that expats to 1193 00:55:02,293 --> 00:55:04,053 Speaker 2: Costa Rica found there the most friendly in the world 1194 00:55:04,133 --> 00:55:06,053 Speaker 2: nine out of ten. New Zealand only two out of 1195 00:55:06,213 --> 00:55:09,893 Speaker 2: five expats thought that New Zealand as we're friendly, so 1196 00:55:09,973 --> 00:55:13,653 Speaker 2: I just thought i'd get our normal clatchure down. Expat 1197 00:55:13,893 --> 00:55:17,013 Speaker 2: is short for expatriate, which refers to a person who 1198 00:55:17,013 --> 00:55:22,053 Speaker 2: lives outside their native country, often for you know, abroad 1199 00:55:22,133 --> 00:55:25,973 Speaker 2: for an extended period. Are often permanent right yep. So 1200 00:55:26,213 --> 00:55:28,973 Speaker 2: immigrant is the same thing. An immigrant is someone who 1201 00:55:29,013 --> 00:55:30,653 Speaker 2: moves to a new country to live permanently. 1202 00:55:30,693 --> 00:55:32,453 Speaker 3: Well, there we go. So just another way to say, as. 1203 00:55:32,413 --> 00:55:35,893 Speaker 2: Opposed to a tourist, you've moved to a country and 1204 00:55:36,173 --> 00:55:38,212 Speaker 2: you're trying to make a life. Here is what we're 1205 00:55:38,253 --> 00:55:42,733 Speaker 2: saying when we when we say expat, but immigrant is equal, 1206 00:55:42,853 --> 00:55:44,973 Speaker 2: the same means the same thing, exactly the same thing. 1207 00:55:44,973 --> 00:55:47,693 Speaker 3: Okay, if you're an expant or immigrant in New Zealands, 1208 00:55:47,773 --> 00:55:49,133 Speaker 3: well he would love to hear from you on one 1209 00:55:49,213 --> 00:55:52,173 Speaker 3: hundred and eighty ten eighty gym your thoughts. 1210 00:55:52,453 --> 00:55:56,813 Speaker 14: Oh yeah, just come across the story. As I think 1211 00:55:56,853 --> 00:55:59,093 Speaker 14: we were, we still are. But I'm a bit shocked 1212 00:55:59,133 --> 00:56:01,373 Speaker 14: to hear that survey there are two people out of 1213 00:56:01,373 --> 00:56:03,733 Speaker 14: every five. I think that that was quite quite shocked, 1214 00:56:03,733 --> 00:56:08,733 Speaker 14: because you know, growing up in New Zealand with immigrant parents, 1215 00:56:09,013 --> 00:56:13,253 Speaker 14: I've found quite the opposite because story come a light recently. 1216 00:56:13,413 --> 00:56:16,133 Speaker 14: My parents in law, my lovely mother in law, they 1217 00:56:16,253 --> 00:56:19,693 Speaker 14: were fifty six refugees from Hungary. They were in a 1218 00:56:19,853 --> 00:56:22,173 Speaker 14: comin with heir of nothing but the shoes on their feet. 1219 00:56:23,013 --> 00:56:26,212 Speaker 14: They were in a refugee camp and mungry. And there's 1220 00:56:26,253 --> 00:56:29,213 Speaker 14: a special interest story because they decided to get married. 1221 00:56:29,253 --> 00:56:31,733 Speaker 14: This would have been the summer of fifty seven, and 1222 00:56:32,013 --> 00:56:35,493 Speaker 14: basically they were just unundated with gifts and wedding dress 1223 00:56:35,573 --> 00:56:38,053 Speaker 14: and everything like that, which I thought was pretty awesome. 1224 00:56:38,933 --> 00:56:40,693 Speaker 14: Poor oh there's has had two strokes. 1225 00:56:40,733 --> 00:56:41,533 Speaker 11: He's ninety five. 1226 00:56:41,653 --> 00:56:43,373 Speaker 14: She's gone to a care home. But you show her 1227 00:56:43,413 --> 00:56:45,253 Speaker 14: the picture of that and she'll tell you all about 1228 00:56:45,253 --> 00:56:47,573 Speaker 14: the story. But she's got that five minute dementia thing, 1229 00:56:47,613 --> 00:56:50,893 Speaker 14: which I think is pretty awten. I will remember when 1230 00:56:50,893 --> 00:56:53,733 Speaker 14: I was a kid with our neighbors in the sixties, 1231 00:56:53,853 --> 00:56:57,212 Speaker 14: Like my father was away with business equipment and he'd 1232 00:56:57,293 --> 00:57:00,373 Speaker 14: go and train in East Germany. My mother was having me. 1233 00:57:00,493 --> 00:57:03,173 Speaker 14: Our neighbors took my mum to hospital when she was 1234 00:57:03,173 --> 00:57:05,413 Speaker 14: having me because we didn't have we didn't have a 1235 00:57:05,453 --> 00:57:07,773 Speaker 14: car back and then so you know, like here, I 1236 00:57:07,773 --> 00:57:10,373 Speaker 14: think at the as we are and who's who's who. 1237 00:57:10,373 --> 00:57:13,053 Speaker 14: You're lucky enough to have a neighbor. But generally, I 1238 00:57:13,053 --> 00:57:15,732 Speaker 14: think people, you know, I like to return the help. 1239 00:57:15,853 --> 00:57:18,373 Speaker 14: I think generally people and I've sort of needed help 1240 00:57:18,413 --> 00:57:20,893 Speaker 14: a few times, and yeah, I think generally people are 1241 00:57:20,933 --> 00:57:24,293 Speaker 14: pretty friendly, especially when you sort of go go, you know, 1242 00:57:24,853 --> 00:57:28,533 Speaker 14: to another town. I was at South South Island one time, 1243 00:57:28,533 --> 00:57:30,853 Speaker 14: where you're from us Auckland. I welcome to New Zealand, 1244 00:57:30,893 --> 00:57:35,813 Speaker 14: they said, so I love you. 1245 00:57:35,893 --> 00:57:38,253 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, thank you so much. Jim. Have you been 1246 00:57:39,013 --> 00:57:42,253 Speaker 2: you know, you're so your Hungarian heritage. Have you been 1247 00:57:42,293 --> 00:57:43,213 Speaker 2: back to Hungary? 1248 00:57:43,733 --> 00:57:46,053 Speaker 14: I know that's my that's my wife. Yeah, that was 1249 00:57:46,053 --> 00:57:49,613 Speaker 14: your wife, my mum, but she's my mom mate. 1250 00:57:50,133 --> 00:57:53,613 Speaker 3: See, so we used to be a lot friendlier, Jim. 1251 00:57:53,693 --> 00:57:56,253 Speaker 3: Do you agree with the that we we can be 1252 00:57:56,333 --> 00:57:58,533 Speaker 3: friendly on the surface level, but then when you try 1253 00:57:58,573 --> 00:58:01,693 Speaker 3: and make new friends or form those connections, then it 1254 00:58:01,733 --> 00:58:02,373 Speaker 3: gets about hearted. 1255 00:58:03,253 --> 00:58:06,933 Speaker 14: Totally, totally, totally agree with that. Having a lot of 1256 00:58:06,973 --> 00:58:09,173 Speaker 14: close friends passed that. I want to grew up with them. 1257 00:58:09,213 --> 00:58:12,293 Speaker 14: We went to school. I'm only just in my early sixties. Yeah, 1258 00:58:12,333 --> 00:58:14,293 Speaker 14: hard to make new friends, you know, with clicks and 1259 00:58:14,333 --> 00:58:15,173 Speaker 14: groups and stuff. 1260 00:58:15,293 --> 00:58:18,453 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Chim you're a good man. Thanks for 1261 00:58:18,493 --> 00:58:19,253 Speaker 3: giving us a buzz. 1262 00:58:19,893 --> 00:58:21,413 Speaker 14: Thank you very much for lunch time. 1263 00:58:21,573 --> 00:58:25,093 Speaker 3: Yep, all right mate, you go well, thank you mate. 1264 00:58:25,333 --> 00:58:30,453 Speaker 3: So fear point he makes that. You know that idea 1265 00:58:30,533 --> 00:58:34,413 Speaker 3: of New Zealand being a very friendly place probably originated 1266 00:58:35,053 --> 00:58:38,693 Speaker 3: a few decades ago, right that we're a fairly young country. 1267 00:58:39,013 --> 00:58:41,893 Speaker 3: We were a country with a lot of immigrant slash 1268 00:58:41,973 --> 00:58:45,493 Speaker 3: experts here and so we kind of had to be friendly. 1269 00:58:45,533 --> 00:58:48,053 Speaker 3: Everybody was effectively in the same boat. But whether that's 1270 00:58:48,133 --> 00:58:50,933 Speaker 3: changed as we get into a more modern society. 1271 00:58:51,093 --> 00:58:52,413 Speaker 2: Are you still friendly? 1272 00:58:52,453 --> 00:58:52,773 Speaker 10: Tyler? 1273 00:58:53,453 --> 00:58:58,213 Speaker 2: Sometimes this business is Matt Somerset, UK walking to pub 1274 00:58:58,253 --> 00:59:01,213 Speaker 2: barman says, we'll be on my lover where you bid. 1275 00:59:01,973 --> 00:59:04,533 Speaker 2: I loved it, stayed nearly two years, felt right at home. 1276 00:59:04,573 --> 00:59:05,413 Speaker 3: Oh that's nice. 1277 00:59:05,653 --> 00:59:09,133 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe I'm just talking about so Ho in London 1278 00:59:09,293 --> 00:59:09,733 Speaker 2: where I was. 1279 00:59:10,333 --> 00:59:11,853 Speaker 3: That sounds like an unfriendly place. 1280 00:59:11,893 --> 00:59:13,333 Speaker 2: Where I was working, it was probably some kind of 1281 00:59:13,373 --> 00:59:17,893 Speaker 2: hipster place. I've unfairly tarneghed the people of the entirety 1282 00:59:18,413 --> 00:59:21,733 Speaker 2: of the UK on the back of about three shopkeepers 1283 00:59:21,733 --> 00:59:23,733 Speaker 2: being rude to me over for a few years. 1284 00:59:24,053 --> 00:59:26,173 Speaker 3: Sure it just wasn't you. They looked at you walking 1285 00:59:26,213 --> 00:59:28,173 Speaker 3: through the door and think, oh man, he's Matt Heath again. 1286 00:59:28,293 --> 00:59:30,013 Speaker 2: Well, you know everyone knows over there when you go 1287 00:59:30,093 --> 00:59:33,213 Speaker 2: up to ask someone for a pin to write something, 1288 00:59:33,213 --> 00:59:36,213 Speaker 2: they're like a pin, a pin and then they try 1289 00:59:36,213 --> 00:59:38,453 Speaker 2: and hand you like a pin that you might sow with. 1290 00:59:38,653 --> 00:59:40,333 Speaker 3: Well they all carry pins around today. 1291 00:59:40,693 --> 00:59:43,973 Speaker 2: No, no, but they think that's what you're asking for, 1292 00:59:43,973 --> 00:59:46,453 Speaker 2: a pin. Pin anyway, it's not their fault. 1293 00:59:46,413 --> 00:59:49,093 Speaker 3: Not their fault. Oh eight hundred a eighty is the 1294 00:59:49,173 --> 00:59:51,813 Speaker 3: number to call. Nine two ninety two is the text number. 1295 00:59:52,173 --> 00:59:55,253 Speaker 3: It is bang on two thirty headlines coming up. 1296 00:59:55,293 --> 00:59:56,893 Speaker 2: Actually, just before we go, there was there was something 1297 00:59:56,893 --> 00:59:59,013 Speaker 2: that used to always be at avertel in New Zealanders 1298 00:59:59,053 --> 01:00:02,213 Speaker 2: over in London. This text says bring this up worked 1299 01:00:02,213 --> 01:00:05,733 Speaker 2: in London five am bus. Very everybody said good morning 1300 01:00:05,773 --> 01:00:07,853 Speaker 2: as people got on tom. But you used to hear 1301 01:00:08,573 --> 01:00:10,773 Speaker 2: thank you driver from this is back when I was 1302 01:00:10,813 --> 01:00:12,973 Speaker 2: in you in the early two thousands. Over there, you'd 1303 01:00:12,973 --> 01:00:15,053 Speaker 2: often hear a key we getting off the bus because 1304 01:00:15,093 --> 01:00:18,373 Speaker 2: you know, you know, we thank bus drivers and you'd 1305 01:00:18,373 --> 01:00:22,013 Speaker 2: hear thank you driver. You go, that's New Zealand. Yeah, 1306 01:00:22,053 --> 01:00:23,653 Speaker 2: this new Zilla that just got off the bus. 1307 01:00:23,733 --> 01:00:26,213 Speaker 3: That's a lovely thing. About new ze Thank you driver, 1308 01:00:26,373 --> 01:00:29,533 Speaker 3: Thank you driver. Right headlines with Raylene coming up. 1309 01:00:32,053 --> 01:00:32,933 Speaker 2: News Talk said. 1310 01:00:32,933 --> 01:00:36,413 Speaker 4: The headlines with blue bubble taxis it's no trouble with 1311 01:00:36,453 --> 01:00:40,333 Speaker 4: a blue bubble. Western Bay of Plenty councilors quitting local 1312 01:00:40,453 --> 01:00:44,573 Speaker 4: government New Zealand, following the lead of christ Church City, Auckland, 1313 01:00:44,653 --> 01:00:49,573 Speaker 4: West Coast Regional, Gray Kayper and Westland District. New Zealand's 1314 01:00:49,573 --> 01:00:53,973 Speaker 4: current account deficit is narrowing, pushed by tourism, dairy and 1315 01:00:54,093 --> 01:00:58,173 Speaker 4: meat exports. Stat Sanz says we imported twenty six point 1316 01:00:58,173 --> 01:01:02,893 Speaker 4: four billion more than we exported annually to December. Amain's 1317 01:01:02,933 --> 01:01:06,493 Speaker 4: died in hospital today as police investigate a homicide on 1318 01:01:06,573 --> 01:01:09,933 Speaker 4: Saturday in Hamilton's Melville. A forty one year old man 1319 01:01:10,013 --> 01:01:15,253 Speaker 4: is in custody. Pokey Machine venues claim regulations requiring them 1320 01:01:15,253 --> 01:01:19,133 Speaker 4: to monitor patrons who make a second cash withdrawal in 1321 01:01:19,173 --> 01:01:24,133 Speaker 4: a day are unworkable. South African scientists at a remote 1322 01:01:24,173 --> 01:01:28,653 Speaker 4: Antarctica base have asked for rescue alleging an assault. Authority 1323 01:01:28,733 --> 01:01:32,693 Speaker 4: say the accused person has written a formal apology. Six 1324 01:01:32,813 --> 01:01:37,293 Speaker 4: years after the Enzed International Conference Center fire, the court 1325 01:01:37,413 --> 01:01:41,053 Speaker 4: case looms. You can find out more at enzid Herald Premium. 1326 01:01:41,333 --> 01:01:43,013 Speaker 4: Back to Matt Eath and Tyler Adams. 1327 01:01:43,013 --> 01:01:45,013 Speaker 3: Thank you very much, Rayleen, and we have asked the 1328 01:01:45,093 --> 01:01:47,733 Speaker 3: question are we as friendly as we think we are 1329 01:01:47,973 --> 01:01:49,773 Speaker 3: on the back of a survey that says we're quite 1330 01:01:49,773 --> 01:01:52,973 Speaker 3: a middle of the pack when compared with other countries, 1331 01:01:53,213 --> 01:01:55,693 Speaker 3: right at the top in terms of the friendliest Costa Rica, 1332 01:01:55,733 --> 01:01:57,893 Speaker 3: Mexico and the Philippines and the top three. 1333 01:01:58,333 --> 01:02:02,933 Speaker 2: This on my saying that some retail staff in London 1334 01:02:02,933 --> 01:02:06,333 Speaker 2: are very friendly, and I was probably talking about people, 1335 01:02:06,333 --> 01:02:08,093 Speaker 2: and so I hope anyway, if you walk into a 1336 01:02:08,133 --> 01:02:10,253 Speaker 2: show up and parnalysis this text you could get a 1337 01:02:10,293 --> 01:02:13,653 Speaker 2: frosty reception, walk into a pub and hawker Ticka, they 1338 01:02:13,653 --> 01:02:15,533 Speaker 2: will talk to you like they've known you for twenty years. 1339 01:02:15,533 --> 01:02:19,973 Speaker 2: That's so yes, so very very true. Yeah, great people 1340 01:02:20,013 --> 01:02:21,653 Speaker 2: the coasters absolutely. 1341 01:02:21,653 --> 01:02:21,773 Speaker 7: Oh. 1342 01:02:21,773 --> 01:02:24,253 Speaker 3: Eight hundred and eighty ten eighty is the number to cool. 1343 01:02:24,253 --> 01:02:25,933 Speaker 3: Love to hear from you on this Nine two ninety 1344 01:02:25,933 --> 01:02:27,093 Speaker 3: two is the text number. 1345 01:02:27,333 --> 01:02:29,573 Speaker 2: Are you an expat or an immigrant to New Zealand 1346 01:02:29,733 --> 01:02:32,173 Speaker 2: and have you found us friendly? According to the study, 1347 01:02:32,173 --> 01:02:35,253 Speaker 2: We're not that friendly. I'm an Indian immigrant moved here 1348 01:02:35,293 --> 01:02:37,173 Speaker 2: in two thousand and nine as a nineteen year old. 1349 01:02:37,213 --> 01:02:40,373 Speaker 2: I have been in many countries and accuding of the US, Canada, Germany, France, 1350 01:02:40,453 --> 01:02:43,333 Speaker 2: Middle Eastern countries, Asian countries and Pacific countries, but I 1351 01:02:43,373 --> 01:02:45,893 Speaker 2: feel Kiwi's are the friendliest and nice of all. Go 1352 01:02:46,093 --> 01:02:50,093 Speaker 2: Kiwi night. Of course there are some knobs, but overall 1353 01:02:50,133 --> 01:02:51,933 Speaker 2: he's in it as a best Yeah. I mean, wherever 1354 01:02:51,973 --> 01:02:53,133 Speaker 2: you go, there's going to be some knobs. 1355 01:02:53,213 --> 01:02:53,413 Speaker 7: Yeah. 1356 01:02:53,493 --> 01:02:54,893 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, there's going to be a holes in 1357 01:02:54,893 --> 01:02:56,933 Speaker 3: your life, whether the key with your otherwise. 1358 01:02:57,533 --> 01:03:00,573 Speaker 2: Brandon, you're back and it sounds like you've got a 1359 01:03:00,613 --> 01:03:01,893 Speaker 2: beautiful line now. 1360 01:03:03,373 --> 01:03:03,573 Speaker 11: Mate. 1361 01:03:03,613 --> 01:03:05,933 Speaker 15: You know, twenty first century you can still find lots 1362 01:03:05,973 --> 01:03:08,173 Speaker 15: for yourself in the middle, like you dragging down the stay. 1363 01:03:09,173 --> 01:03:11,533 Speaker 3: Oh exactly, it's still a little bit scratchy, Brenda, but 1364 01:03:11,573 --> 01:03:14,253 Speaker 3: we'll get our fingers crossed. So when you left us, 1365 01:03:14,413 --> 01:03:17,933 Speaker 3: you're part of a rental car company which obviously rents 1366 01:03:17,973 --> 01:03:20,413 Speaker 3: cars out to a lot of tourists, and they say 1367 01:03:20,453 --> 01:03:21,973 Speaker 3: that we're a somewhat friendly bunch. 1368 01:03:23,453 --> 01:03:26,053 Speaker 15: Yeah, we're generally say we're very friendly bunch. 1369 01:03:26,093 --> 01:03:27,773 Speaker 11: But then you know, that's. 1370 01:03:27,653 --> 01:03:31,053 Speaker 15: When you're doing customer service and being friendly in customer service, 1371 01:03:31,373 --> 01:03:35,613 Speaker 15: the golden rule, being unfriendly in customer services is a 1372 01:03:35,773 --> 01:03:39,573 Speaker 15: very negative experience, right yeah, yeah. 1373 01:03:39,413 --> 01:03:40,733 Speaker 6: But I mean I'm old enough. 1374 01:03:40,613 --> 01:03:43,253 Speaker 15: And I remember when we lived at Aldie for a 1375 01:03:43,253 --> 01:03:46,373 Speaker 15: while and before down and Hamilton and Co. And do 1376 01:03:46,533 --> 01:03:48,733 Speaker 15: the extent neighbors that come o with them a parties 1377 01:03:48,773 --> 01:03:52,053 Speaker 15: and stuff. You just don't see that these days because 1378 01:03:52,253 --> 01:03:57,533 Speaker 15: everybody's too busy. There's different cultures. I think that's that's 1379 01:03:57,613 --> 01:03:58,253 Speaker 15: changed a lot. 1380 01:03:59,253 --> 01:04:00,053 Speaker 10: So I think that. 1381 01:04:00,773 --> 01:04:02,413 Speaker 15: Things can change with time. 1382 01:04:03,293 --> 01:04:04,853 Speaker 6: And you know, I do try. 1383 01:04:04,693 --> 01:04:06,493 Speaker 15: And get to know my neighbors as as much as 1384 01:04:06,493 --> 01:04:08,213 Speaker 15: I can, because lot that I can help them out. 1385 01:04:08,613 --> 01:04:09,893 Speaker 2: Yeah, from time, life. 1386 01:04:11,533 --> 01:04:13,733 Speaker 15: Along and very hard to deal look, because they do 1387 01:04:13,853 --> 01:04:16,693 Speaker 15: come from very to be consciously, and I think that 1388 01:04:16,813 --> 01:04:21,373 Speaker 15: has been a very big change. But you know, I 1389 01:04:21,413 --> 01:04:23,293 Speaker 15: was a bit of try to hear the sweet were 1390 01:04:23,293 --> 01:04:25,893 Speaker 15: considering untrending because I was about ten years ago. But 1391 01:04:26,013 --> 01:04:28,133 Speaker 15: they was a friendly a bunch and then I realized 1392 01:04:28,133 --> 01:04:30,493 Speaker 15: maybe it must come yeah. 1393 01:04:30,333 --> 01:04:33,093 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean it's very different from being a tourist. 1394 01:04:33,293 --> 01:04:37,293 Speaker 2: And as you say, Ben, the next next level is 1395 01:04:37,293 --> 01:04:39,493 Speaker 2: the hard thing. Very easy to be friendly to a tourist, 1396 01:04:40,173 --> 01:04:42,533 Speaker 2: inviting them around for dinner as a total you know, 1397 01:04:42,533 --> 01:04:44,253 Speaker 2: someone that's moved to your neighborhood and in' viting around 1398 01:04:44,253 --> 01:04:46,453 Speaker 2: for dinner dinner. That's a whole other level of friendly. 1399 01:04:47,933 --> 01:04:48,133 Speaker 10: Yeah. 1400 01:04:48,373 --> 01:04:51,653 Speaker 15: I just wish more people would approach everybody else around 1401 01:04:52,133 --> 01:04:56,333 Speaker 15: with a more trending attitude, because being friendly doesn't trust 1402 01:04:56,373 --> 01:04:59,373 Speaker 15: you anything. Being hostile as the cost of your own 1403 01:04:59,413 --> 01:05:00,693 Speaker 15: personal silent stuff. 1404 01:05:00,933 --> 01:05:02,253 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, good point. 1405 01:05:02,573 --> 01:05:04,213 Speaker 3: And that is a good point about the you know, 1406 01:05:04,253 --> 01:05:07,613 Speaker 3: the old neighborhood community. Yeah, and I hope I'm not 1407 01:05:07,653 --> 01:05:09,813 Speaker 3: looking back with into glasses here. Maybe I am a 1408 01:05:09,853 --> 01:05:12,173 Speaker 3: little bit, but it's certainly changed. When I was a kid, 1409 01:05:12,173 --> 01:05:15,093 Speaker 3: you didn't know the neighbors, and we all kind of, 1410 01:05:15,213 --> 01:05:17,173 Speaker 3: you know, they had kids the same age as us, 1411 01:05:17,413 --> 01:05:19,493 Speaker 3: and we went to the same school, and everybody kind 1412 01:05:19,533 --> 01:05:21,133 Speaker 3: of knew each other, and you knew that was the 1413 01:05:21,173 --> 01:05:23,773 Speaker 3: Wilson household and that was the Adam's household. 1414 01:05:24,013 --> 01:05:26,213 Speaker 2: But nowadays, I don't know if that's still true. I 1415 01:05:26,293 --> 01:05:29,213 Speaker 2: just realized you're from the Adams family. We ever picked 1416 01:05:29,253 --> 01:05:29,533 Speaker 2: on for. 1417 01:05:29,493 --> 01:05:35,013 Speaker 3: That took you that long to realize? Great show. 1418 01:05:36,093 --> 01:05:37,093 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean. 1419 01:05:38,653 --> 01:05:38,853 Speaker 7: Hard. 1420 01:05:39,013 --> 01:05:40,813 Speaker 2: It's a funny thing, you know. It's Ben and says, 1421 01:05:40,813 --> 01:05:42,933 Speaker 2: we don't have that much time anymore. We have less 1422 01:05:42,933 --> 01:05:44,613 Speaker 2: time than we used to do. We've got all this 1423 01:05:44,653 --> 01:05:47,253 Speaker 2: technology and we have less time. Our country has low 1424 01:05:47,253 --> 01:05:51,053 Speaker 2: productivity weights, but we're working really long hours. Yeah, So 1425 01:05:51,373 --> 01:05:53,973 Speaker 2: it used to seem or it seems like any to 1426 01:05:53,973 --> 01:05:57,693 Speaker 2: talk about rose colored spectacles into the past. But it 1427 01:05:57,733 --> 01:05:59,773 Speaker 2: did seem like people got home at five and there 1428 01:05:59,813 --> 01:06:02,293 Speaker 2: was barbecues and the neighbors were coming over, and people 1429 01:06:02,293 --> 01:06:03,973 Speaker 2: were playing cricket and the cold a sack and all that. 1430 01:06:04,093 --> 01:06:05,933 Speaker 3: Kids are out on the bike riding around. 1431 01:06:06,093 --> 01:06:06,533 Speaker 11: Yeah. 1432 01:06:06,573 --> 01:06:09,493 Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean that does seem to have sort 1433 01:06:09,493 --> 01:06:11,613 Speaker 2: of disappeared a little bit. As I was talking before, 1434 01:06:11,693 --> 01:06:14,253 Speaker 2: when me and my neighbor came across that person that 1435 01:06:14,333 --> 01:06:17,933 Speaker 2: had unconscious, unconscious on the road and ran Saint John's. 1436 01:06:18,573 --> 01:06:21,093 Speaker 2: Everyone from the neighborhood came out and was standing around him. 1437 01:06:21,093 --> 01:06:23,013 Speaker 2: You know, lucky he was unconscious. It would be very awkward, 1438 01:06:23,293 --> 01:06:25,013 Speaker 2: you know. When I got him a pillow, someone else 1439 01:06:25,053 --> 01:06:27,253 Speaker 2: got him a blanket. We're all standing around talking and 1440 01:06:27,293 --> 01:06:29,493 Speaker 2: we got to know each other around this, and then 1441 01:06:29,533 --> 01:06:31,733 Speaker 2: we were going, let's have a barbecue, Let's have a 1442 01:06:31,813 --> 01:06:34,773 Speaker 2: street barbecue. Let's let's you know, we're all talking big 1443 01:06:34,813 --> 01:06:36,773 Speaker 2: about it, and we'll do that next week. 1444 01:06:36,653 --> 01:06:38,133 Speaker 3: It's going to have it. Are your penciled then? 1445 01:06:38,293 --> 01:06:38,613 Speaker 7: I know? 1446 01:06:39,293 --> 01:06:39,733 Speaker 2: Probably not. 1447 01:06:39,893 --> 01:06:41,453 Speaker 3: But even when you seed you knocked on the door 1448 01:06:41,493 --> 01:06:43,533 Speaker 3: of your neighbor to try and find a gold coin incident. 1449 01:06:43,613 --> 01:06:44,493 Speaker 2: I think that's nice. 1450 01:06:44,573 --> 01:06:47,093 Speaker 3: That's the New zeal And that I used to laugh 1451 01:06:47,133 --> 01:06:47,533 Speaker 3: so much. 1452 01:06:47,693 --> 01:06:50,973 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I should. I should, that lovely thing. We 1453 01:06:51,013 --> 01:06:52,933 Speaker 2: were all standing around the sunconscious guy who was bleeding 1454 01:06:52,933 --> 01:06:55,453 Speaker 2: from his head waiting for Saint John's and we bonded. 1455 01:06:56,213 --> 01:06:58,213 Speaker 2: You know, we should because there's people from all different 1456 01:06:58,213 --> 01:07:00,733 Speaker 2: countries that live in the area. We have a barbecue 1457 01:07:00,773 --> 01:07:01,213 Speaker 2: get together. 1458 01:07:01,373 --> 01:07:02,413 Speaker 3: Who's got the best barbecue? 1459 01:07:02,453 --> 01:07:05,613 Speaker 2: You got a whipper, I've got a zilgear and yeah, 1460 01:07:05,693 --> 01:07:05,973 Speaker 2: what's it? 1461 01:07:06,053 --> 01:07:07,773 Speaker 3: You know you don't want to have it at your place, though, 1462 01:07:07,773 --> 01:07:09,373 Speaker 3: do you, because it's a lot of Edmond. If it's 1463 01:07:09,493 --> 01:07:11,573 Speaker 3: on somebody else's place, have it on the street, mate, 1464 01:07:11,933 --> 01:07:13,893 Speaker 3: there you go. Oh eight one hundred and eighty ten 1465 01:07:13,973 --> 01:07:17,173 Speaker 3: eighty is the number to call if you have moved 1466 01:07:17,173 --> 01:07:19,013 Speaker 3: to New Zealand. You're an immigrant here. I love to 1467 01:07:19,053 --> 01:07:22,933 Speaker 3: hear from you. How friendly are we as Kiwi's in 1468 01:07:23,053 --> 01:07:24,933 Speaker 3: nine two ninety two is the text number. We'll get 1469 01:07:24,973 --> 01:07:26,693 Speaker 3: to some of those ticks very shortly. 1470 01:07:26,733 --> 01:07:29,053 Speaker 2: It is twenty to three, Ziegler and Brown. That's what 1471 01:07:29,093 --> 01:07:31,333 Speaker 2: I've got. Nice good barbie. Ye, it's a very good barbie. 1472 01:07:31,373 --> 01:07:32,893 Speaker 2: But no, we'll do it someone else else. 1473 01:07:34,373 --> 01:07:37,453 Speaker 1: Have a chat with the lads on eighty ten eighty 1474 01:07:37,653 --> 01:07:41,413 Speaker 1: Matt and Taylor Afternoons with the Volvo XC ninety Tick 1475 01:07:41,573 --> 01:07:45,013 Speaker 1: every box, a seamless experience of weeds news Talk. 1476 01:07:44,853 --> 01:07:48,293 Speaker 3: Said, be good afternoon. It is seventeen to three, and 1477 01:07:48,333 --> 01:07:51,493 Speaker 3: we're talking about how friendly we are as Kiwi's. 1478 01:07:51,133 --> 01:07:55,533 Speaker 2: I'm pretty friendly. Some ex pats, immigrants to our country. Yeah, 1479 01:07:55,813 --> 01:07:58,653 Speaker 2: live near me, neighbors. They came running around the other day. 1480 01:07:58,613 --> 01:08:00,053 Speaker 2: Ye asked me to go to the house and killor 1481 01:08:00,133 --> 01:08:02,293 Speaker 2: mouse for them because they were scared. Did you do it? 1482 01:08:02,693 --> 01:08:03,253 Speaker 9: I did? 1483 01:08:03,653 --> 01:08:05,533 Speaker 2: Wow? Actually I went around and got it in a 1484 01:08:05,573 --> 01:08:07,773 Speaker 2: tupway container and released it into the wild, did ye? 1485 01:08:07,893 --> 01:08:09,853 Speaker 2: But I say them from a rodent, Well, God, that's 1486 01:08:09,853 --> 01:08:10,613 Speaker 2: pretty friendly for me. 1487 01:08:10,653 --> 01:08:12,253 Speaker 3: That is very friendly. There's very neighborly. 1488 01:08:12,333 --> 01:08:15,013 Speaker 2: Hi, Mett and Tyler. I'm an ex South Africa now 1489 01:08:15,013 --> 01:08:17,893 Speaker 2: living in New Zealand for six years. Having done my 1490 01:08:17,893 --> 01:08:21,093 Speaker 2: citizen ceremony for New Zealand citizens, I'm definitely I can 1491 01:08:21,133 --> 01:08:23,973 Speaker 2: definitely tell you it is extremely difficult to make friends 1492 01:08:23,973 --> 01:08:26,732 Speaker 2: with Kiwi's as I've tried to integrate and nothing works. 1493 01:08:27,053 --> 01:08:29,213 Speaker 2: So my only mates in New Zealand are South Africans 1494 01:08:29,253 --> 01:08:33,053 Speaker 2: and British people. Cheers from Christa. That's interesting because a 1495 01:08:33,093 --> 01:08:35,693 Speaker 2: lot of people talk about when they move to other countries, 1496 01:08:35,893 --> 01:08:38,612 Speaker 2: like if you were a New Zealander and you move 1497 01:08:38,732 --> 01:08:43,093 Speaker 2: to Britain, you often end up just banging around with Australians, 1498 01:08:43,173 --> 01:08:44,612 Speaker 2: New Zealanders and South Africa the. 1499 01:08:44,652 --> 01:08:48,132 Speaker 3: Old pub crawl. Yeah, Carl, well, how are you this afternoon? 1500 01:08:49,333 --> 01:08:49,532 Speaker 4: Oh? 1501 01:08:49,612 --> 01:08:49,772 Speaker 10: Good? 1502 01:08:49,812 --> 01:08:51,972 Speaker 17: There flushing your eyes on the way. 1503 01:08:51,853 --> 01:08:55,213 Speaker 3: To very good. Now your phone line is a little 1504 01:08:55,213 --> 01:08:57,932 Speaker 3: bit crekically, Carl Well, but will persevere? Actually? Is there 1505 01:08:57,933 --> 01:09:04,173 Speaker 3: any change? You can come off the speakerphone. Yeah, yeah, 1506 01:09:04,213 --> 01:09:05,933 Speaker 3: what we'll do, We'll come We'll come back to you, 1507 01:09:06,013 --> 01:09:07,532 Speaker 3: car Well, because we want to hear what you've got 1508 01:09:07,532 --> 01:09:09,093 Speaker 3: to say. So we'll just get your da, have a 1509 01:09:09,213 --> 01:09:11,412 Speaker 3: chat with Andrew and get you off that speaker phone. 1510 01:09:11,412 --> 01:09:14,812 Speaker 3: But let's have a check to Simon. How are you good? 1511 01:09:14,812 --> 01:09:15,692 Speaker 7: Thanks? Guys, how are you? 1512 01:09:15,772 --> 01:09:18,253 Speaker 2: Yeah good? What do you think about the friendliness of 1513 01:09:18,293 --> 01:09:19,492 Speaker 2: New Zealanders? 1514 01:09:20,173 --> 01:09:22,812 Speaker 18: Well, I still think in general we're really friendly people. 1515 01:09:22,893 --> 01:09:28,052 Speaker 18: But my entire working life, I've been frontline customer service, 1516 01:09:28,412 --> 01:09:33,572 Speaker 18: and the last sixteen years i've been in the aviation industry. 1517 01:09:33,612 --> 01:09:35,053 Speaker 18: I'm that guy that will meet you at the door 1518 01:09:35,053 --> 01:09:36,772 Speaker 18: of the aircraft with a big smile and I say 1519 01:09:36,772 --> 01:09:39,492 Speaker 18: welcome on board and all of that. But what I've noticed, 1520 01:09:39,532 --> 01:09:41,732 Speaker 18: I'm just wondering if anyone else has had this opinion. 1521 01:09:42,732 --> 01:09:47,253 Speaker 18: I think post COVID, certainly the younger generations in this 1522 01:09:47,372 --> 01:09:52,652 Speaker 18: country have so much less patient and so much more 1523 01:09:52,973 --> 01:09:57,252 Speaker 18: entitlement than they ever used to. And I think that personally, 1524 01:09:57,293 --> 01:10:01,213 Speaker 18: I think that has contributed to perhaps a lot of friendliness, 1525 01:10:01,253 --> 01:10:06,532 Speaker 18: sort of a perception of friendliness people because honestly, you know, 1526 01:10:06,612 --> 01:10:09,612 Speaker 18: you ask someone the smallest thing, I'm going to need 1527 01:10:09,612 --> 01:10:11,572 Speaker 18: you to move that very small bag from the locker 1528 01:10:11,612 --> 01:10:13,652 Speaker 18: above your head. We need to accommodate the bigger bags, 1529 01:10:14,013 --> 01:10:16,532 Speaker 18: and honestly, it's like you've given them the worst in thought. 1530 01:10:16,612 --> 01:10:20,572 Speaker 18: You could have no understanding, there's no patience, and I 1531 01:10:20,692 --> 01:10:23,772 Speaker 18: just I'm just wondering how much of what everyone quote 1532 01:10:23,853 --> 01:10:28,013 Speaker 18: unquote went through during the lockdowns and everything has contributed 1533 01:10:28,053 --> 01:10:30,213 Speaker 18: to their feeling of entitlement that it just isn't this 1534 01:10:30,372 --> 01:10:33,772 Speaker 18: patient or general social nicety that there used to be 1535 01:10:33,812 --> 01:10:34,612 Speaker 18: prior to COVID. 1536 01:10:34,772 --> 01:10:36,812 Speaker 2: Well, there's one thing for sure, Simon, it will I 1537 01:10:36,893 --> 01:10:39,133 Speaker 2: won't have had no effect at all. It all have 1538 01:10:39,173 --> 01:10:43,053 Speaker 2: had some effect. And look, I think I think you're right. 1539 01:10:43,133 --> 01:10:45,213 Speaker 2: I think people are a little bit more testy on 1540 01:10:45,293 --> 01:10:48,612 Speaker 2: planes than they used to be. I've noticed that. And 1541 01:10:48,612 --> 01:10:50,973 Speaker 2: it's risky because if you fire up, you're going to 1542 01:10:50,973 --> 01:10:54,933 Speaker 2: be internationally shamed on TikTok pretty pretty quickly if you 1543 01:10:54,973 --> 01:10:58,652 Speaker 2: do it. But I think there's also just a lowering 1544 01:10:58,692 --> 01:11:03,133 Speaker 2: in people's attention spans in general. And you know, they 1545 01:11:03,133 --> 01:11:06,493 Speaker 2: talk about the TikTok generation, the you know, one minute videos, 1546 01:11:06,933 --> 01:11:09,253 Speaker 2: and you know, people's a teen ancient span has dropped 1547 01:11:09,293 --> 01:11:11,692 Speaker 2: a I think of the last major study I read 1548 01:11:11,772 --> 01:11:14,333 Speaker 2: is forty seven seconds that people can spin concentrating on 1549 01:11:14,333 --> 01:11:18,333 Speaker 2: one thing now on average, and that's absolutely pathetic. So 1550 01:11:18,452 --> 01:11:20,932 Speaker 2: something like trying to deal with the complexities of getting 1551 01:11:20,973 --> 01:11:23,732 Speaker 2: on a plane and putting your bag and the overhead 1552 01:11:23,772 --> 01:11:27,493 Speaker 2: locker that takes more than forty seven seconds, they get frustrated, 1553 01:11:28,053 --> 01:11:30,213 Speaker 2: and that's not good. That's not good at all. 1554 01:11:31,293 --> 01:11:32,812 Speaker 18: But I think it's sort of more across the board 1555 01:11:32,853 --> 01:11:37,133 Speaker 18: as well. It's not just obviously my industry. Just you know, 1556 01:11:37,213 --> 01:11:40,852 Speaker 18: a while back, I was in a I was getting 1557 01:11:40,893 --> 01:11:42,852 Speaker 18: some fast food, to be honest, and the person I 1558 01:11:42,973 --> 01:11:45,213 Speaker 18: on account is going to be more than twenty. I 1559 01:11:45,213 --> 01:11:47,732 Speaker 18: think it just sort of comes back to this MEBB generation. 1560 01:11:48,093 --> 01:11:51,932 Speaker 18: They were chewing gum, they were disinterested, looked completely bored. 1561 01:11:52,293 --> 01:11:54,772 Speaker 18: I asked the question about the menu, I just got yeah, 1562 01:11:55,652 --> 01:11:57,492 Speaker 18: And I don't know, I just had I had a 1563 01:11:57,572 --> 01:11:59,772 Speaker 18: care and moment and I don't think to the manager 1564 01:11:59,812 --> 01:12:02,213 Speaker 18: because I just wasn't happy, because because I possibly speak 1565 01:12:02,253 --> 01:12:04,933 Speaker 18: to your manager please, And this person in front of 1566 01:12:04,973 --> 01:12:10,372 Speaker 18: me rolled their eyes so far back in there, and 1567 01:12:11,372 --> 01:12:15,013 Speaker 18: I kid you not. As they crossed the restaurants or 1568 01:12:15,053 --> 01:12:16,972 Speaker 18: to go and get the manager, they put their phone 1569 01:12:17,013 --> 01:12:19,812 Speaker 18: out and with the tiktoking or whatever on their phone 1570 01:12:20,612 --> 01:12:26,612 Speaker 18: the manager. Yeah, that attitude would not have been there. 1571 01:12:27,492 --> 01:12:29,333 Speaker 2: Well, you can you imagine trying to do a clock 1572 01:12:29,732 --> 01:12:32,093 Speaker 2: like a retail job, you know, And I've done them 1573 01:12:32,133 --> 01:12:35,092 Speaker 2: for many years and I used to get bored clock watching. 1574 01:12:35,293 --> 01:12:38,012 Speaker 2: But I would have had a much larger attention span 1575 01:12:38,213 --> 01:12:41,372 Speaker 2: due to my incredibly boring upbringing on a farm as 1576 01:12:41,412 --> 01:12:44,093 Speaker 2: opposed to these people like, as you say, that's so sad, 1577 01:12:44,133 --> 01:12:46,972 Speaker 2: so they're going across the room and pick up the phone. 1578 01:12:47,013 --> 01:12:50,452 Speaker 2: That's just pure addiction at that point, isn't it. Yeah, Yeah, 1579 01:12:51,253 --> 01:12:54,132 Speaker 2: good on assigmon. But you know, as a professionally friendly person, 1580 01:12:54,532 --> 01:12:58,052 Speaker 2: you probably take specific umbrage to someone being. 1581 01:12:57,973 --> 01:13:00,452 Speaker 3: That rude calls you when you walk into a store 1582 01:13:00,452 --> 01:13:02,412 Speaker 3: and you're very friendly, high, how's your day going, and 1583 01:13:02,492 --> 01:13:05,293 Speaker 3: you get you know, nothing back from whoever's behind the counter. 1584 01:13:05,412 --> 01:13:06,732 Speaker 3: And I've got a lot of sympathy for those that 1585 01:13:06,812 --> 01:13:10,293 Speaker 3: work in retail, but that and I think we've got 1586 01:13:10,372 --> 01:13:11,452 Speaker 3: Kyle Well beack. 1587 01:13:13,093 --> 01:13:13,972 Speaker 19: It is fair. 1588 01:13:14,293 --> 01:13:17,173 Speaker 2: Oh beautiful line. Now, Kyle Well, thank you for cooling back. 1589 01:13:18,452 --> 01:13:18,892 Speaker 14: No rights. 1590 01:13:18,933 --> 01:13:22,133 Speaker 19: And so the Keywis are super friendly. What I think 1591 01:13:22,253 --> 01:13:26,093 Speaker 19: of being in New Zealand in twenty eighty and the 1592 01:13:26,213 --> 01:13:29,053 Speaker 19: first thing was happened to me, like the common lover 1593 01:13:29,173 --> 01:13:32,732 Speaker 19: is cricket, and I started playing cricket for Wakata Cricket Club. 1594 01:13:33,532 --> 01:13:36,333 Speaker 19: I was playing in second grade and we called that 1595 01:13:36,452 --> 01:13:39,452 Speaker 19: team the World's eleven because it wasn't only me, it 1596 01:13:39,652 --> 01:13:43,493 Speaker 19: was a few Kiwis, Hawsey, Sot, African guys, Indiana Pakistani 1597 01:13:43,572 --> 01:13:46,372 Speaker 19: in there. So it was everybody around the world playing 1598 01:13:46,412 --> 01:13:47,333 Speaker 19: for that same team. 1599 01:13:47,532 --> 01:13:47,812 Speaker 10: Love it. 1600 01:13:48,772 --> 01:13:53,692 Speaker 19: Yeah, And it's not like they were welcoming, like even 1601 01:13:53,933 --> 01:13:56,972 Speaker 19: they created the two group teams for the same club, like, yep, 1602 01:13:57,093 --> 01:14:00,212 Speaker 19: we got more numbers in so we are like expanding 1603 01:14:00,253 --> 01:14:02,692 Speaker 19: the things. It's not like, oh no, we afuremate, you 1604 01:14:02,812 --> 01:14:06,013 Speaker 19: can go look somewhere else. They were pretty welcoming all 1605 01:14:06,053 --> 01:14:06,293 Speaker 19: the way. 1606 01:14:06,652 --> 01:14:09,652 Speaker 2: That's awesome, and it's great that you could bond over 1607 01:14:09,732 --> 01:14:13,013 Speaker 2: that she'd love of a game in the competition and 1608 01:14:13,293 --> 01:14:15,412 Speaker 2: and that team. Have you met friends that you know 1609 01:14:15,652 --> 01:14:17,692 Speaker 2: you you'd go out for dinner with or go around 1610 01:14:17,732 --> 01:14:18,173 Speaker 2: to their house. 1611 01:14:19,173 --> 01:14:23,053 Speaker 19: Yeah, yeah, it was our captain Mark Gill. So it 1612 01:14:23,253 --> 01:14:25,973 Speaker 19: was one of awesome guys. I worked with him. I 1613 01:14:26,053 --> 01:14:28,652 Speaker 19: work at Corey Person early morning stuff and he worked 1614 01:14:28,692 --> 01:14:32,092 Speaker 19: there too. It's pretty awesome guy even there. The coach 1615 01:14:32,173 --> 01:14:35,492 Speaker 19: of the other guys like around the club. Uh, Dusty 1616 01:14:35,853 --> 01:14:39,333 Speaker 19: is the guy who's always keen training the kids, getting 1617 01:14:39,372 --> 01:14:43,173 Speaker 19: the best of them, or he is super awesome Dusty. 1618 01:14:43,253 --> 01:14:46,133 Speaker 19: Did you say we call him nicknam Dusty? 1619 01:14:46,253 --> 01:14:48,532 Speaker 3: Yeah, he seems like a good, good sort. Why do 1620 01:14:48,572 --> 01:14:50,572 Speaker 3: you call him Dusty? Oh? 1621 01:14:51,013 --> 01:14:53,933 Speaker 19: It was like he just like whatever the thing I 1622 01:14:54,093 --> 01:14:57,692 Speaker 19: bought him. If he is like pretty keen on hitting me, 1623 01:14:57,853 --> 01:15:00,092 Speaker 19: he can just make a dust off me, Like anyway 1624 01:15:00,173 --> 01:15:07,973 Speaker 19: he wants to hit me. After drink, I was like 1625 01:15:08,013 --> 01:15:10,452 Speaker 19: pretty good with the guys up there. Even I moved 1626 01:15:10,492 --> 01:15:12,133 Speaker 19: back to timor will stand there for one and a 1627 01:15:12,133 --> 01:15:14,772 Speaker 19: half year, played cricket there, but like it's a cricket 1628 01:15:14,933 --> 01:15:16,812 Speaker 19: which gets me with the guys up there. 1629 01:15:18,293 --> 01:15:21,213 Speaker 2: That's you know, a great link that India and New 1630 01:15:21,333 --> 01:15:25,052 Speaker 2: Zealand has combined love of cricket. You know, hence Christopher 1631 01:15:25,133 --> 01:15:28,412 Speaker 2: Luxon taking Ross Taylor over there for you know, to 1632 01:15:29,812 --> 01:15:32,173 Speaker 2: as he's trying to get the free trade deal going, 1633 01:15:32,293 --> 01:15:34,572 Speaker 2: because you know we share those ties. So you know, 1634 01:15:34,652 --> 01:15:36,013 Speaker 2: that was great that you got to come here and 1635 01:15:36,013 --> 01:15:37,692 Speaker 2: play cricket and meet a bunch of people. That's an 1636 01:15:37,853 --> 01:15:41,852 Speaker 2: awesome story. There is a bunch of techs saying the opposite. 1637 01:15:41,893 --> 01:15:44,412 Speaker 2: It's great if you're into sport, you can meet people. 1638 01:15:44,492 --> 01:15:46,893 Speaker 2: But if you're not a very sporty guy, then you 1639 01:15:47,013 --> 01:15:49,093 Speaker 2: have trouble. And this is people that have come to 1640 01:15:49,133 --> 01:15:53,852 Speaker 2: New Zealand and people that have gone overseas and struggled 1641 01:15:53,893 --> 01:15:55,972 Speaker 2: to get into the community. I mean, if you say 1642 01:15:56,053 --> 01:15:58,173 Speaker 2: move to the United States of America and you just, 1643 01:15:59,013 --> 01:16:01,052 Speaker 2: you know, would you enroll your kid in a sport 1644 01:16:01,093 --> 01:16:04,933 Speaker 2: you didn't know anything about baseball or American football? I 1645 01:16:05,013 --> 01:16:06,293 Speaker 2: mean basketball, you get in there. 1646 01:16:06,372 --> 01:16:09,333 Speaker 3: Yeah, some people that's easy, but they say, I Americans 1647 01:16:09,532 --> 01:16:11,852 Speaker 3: very friendly people. I suppose it depends on what state 1648 01:16:11,933 --> 01:16:14,492 Speaker 3: you go to, but that clearly is something that they 1649 01:16:14,572 --> 01:16:17,053 Speaker 3: get behind, right, that community feel. Whether it's your kids 1650 01:16:17,053 --> 01:16:20,053 Speaker 3: sport or whether it's Halloween or barbecues round at your 1651 01:16:20,093 --> 01:16:22,173 Speaker 3: neighbor's house, they are very good at that. You've got 1652 01:16:22,253 --> 01:16:25,932 Speaker 3: to say, yeah, well, yeah in some states. 1653 01:16:26,093 --> 01:16:28,692 Speaker 2: I've got a couple of Americans that ex pets living 1654 01:16:28,692 --> 01:16:31,452 Speaker 2: in New Zealand that have to become good friends with me. Yep, 1655 01:16:31,933 --> 01:16:34,692 Speaker 2: since they've moved over here. So you know, we're I'm 1656 01:16:34,732 --> 01:16:35,852 Speaker 2: pretty friendly to them as well. 1657 01:16:36,053 --> 01:16:36,972 Speaker 3: They love a barbecue. 1658 01:16:38,532 --> 01:16:41,173 Speaker 2: They don't Okay, well, I don't know, you can get 1659 01:16:41,213 --> 01:16:44,452 Speaker 2: them around. I'm trying to teach them about cricket. That's challenging. 1660 01:16:44,452 --> 01:16:45,333 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's tough of it. 1661 01:16:45,572 --> 01:16:45,732 Speaker 7: Right. 1662 01:16:45,853 --> 01:16:47,852 Speaker 3: Oh one hundred and eighty ten eighty is and umber 1663 01:16:47,853 --> 01:16:50,293 Speaker 3: to call. We'll wrap this up very shortly. It is 1664 01:16:50,412 --> 01:16:51,212 Speaker 3: eight to three. 1665 01:16:52,652 --> 01:16:53,372 Speaker 2: The issues that. 1666 01:16:53,452 --> 01:16:55,732 Speaker 1: Affect you and if it have fun along the Way 1667 01:16:56,013 --> 01:16:59,892 Speaker 1: Matt and Taylor afternoons with the Volvo XC eighty Innovation, 1668 01:17:00,133 --> 01:17:03,092 Speaker 1: Style and Design, Have it All News Talk, sed. 1669 01:17:02,973 --> 01:17:06,732 Speaker 3: B, News Talk, zed Be it is five to three. 1670 01:17:07,452 --> 01:17:09,652 Speaker 2: You were saying before the you believe Tyler that back 1671 01:17:09,692 --> 01:17:13,772 Speaker 2: in the day people were more neighbor league and running 1672 01:17:13,812 --> 01:17:16,093 Speaker 2: around in some kind of utopia. We had curse roles 1673 01:17:16,093 --> 01:17:18,293 Speaker 2: at each other's houses, barbecues, play cricket in the Cult 1674 01:17:18,293 --> 01:17:21,852 Speaker 2: of sact was beautiful. This Texas is everyone moves, moves 1675 01:17:21,933 --> 01:17:24,213 Speaker 2: as house prices go up. Old days, you'd buy a 1676 01:17:24,293 --> 01:17:26,492 Speaker 2: house and staff for ten years. That's true. People are 1677 01:17:26,772 --> 01:17:29,093 Speaker 2: way more mobile in their houses used to be. 1678 01:17:29,772 --> 01:17:30,412 Speaker 3: Back in the day. 1679 01:17:30,492 --> 01:17:32,372 Speaker 2: People get married and that's my house until it's over. 1680 01:17:32,692 --> 01:17:34,892 Speaker 3: Yeah, spot on. You know when I was a kids 1681 01:17:35,053 --> 01:17:37,532 Speaker 3: that the parents would be in that house for ten 1682 01:17:37,652 --> 01:17:40,412 Speaker 3: years and there'll be other couples of a similar age 1683 01:17:40,412 --> 01:17:42,052 Speaker 3: in the house for ten years as well as the spot. 1684 01:17:41,933 --> 01:17:43,932 Speaker 2: On and he says, I moved to New Zealand fifteen 1685 01:17:43,973 --> 01:17:45,692 Speaker 2: years ago after meeting and marrying a Kei we go 1686 01:17:45,812 --> 01:17:48,612 Speaker 2: in London. Only close friends I have are mostly other expacts. 1687 01:17:48,652 --> 01:17:51,333 Speaker 2: Only kiwi friend I have is someone who also moved 1688 01:17:51,372 --> 01:17:55,052 Speaker 2: around a lot. Yeah, right, this Texas here, everyone seems 1689 01:17:55,093 --> 01:17:56,892 Speaker 2: just a little bit angry since COVID. Yeah I agree 1690 01:17:56,893 --> 01:17:58,692 Speaker 2: with that, Yeah, I do. Everyone just seems a little 1691 01:17:58,692 --> 01:17:59,293 Speaker 2: bit more angry than. 1692 01:17:59,253 --> 01:18:02,732 Speaker 3: These Absolutely right, there was a great chat. Thank you 1693 01:18:02,973 --> 01:18:04,852 Speaker 3: very much again for all your phone calls and ticks 1694 01:18:04,893 --> 01:18:07,973 Speaker 3: on that one coming up after three. Mark Vitty he 1695 01:18:08,173 --> 01:18:11,132 Speaker 3: is founder of dogs In. He is a world renowned 1696 01:18:11,173 --> 01:18:14,813 Speaker 3: and animal behavior as dog trainer, author and media personality. 1697 01:18:14,893 --> 01:18:17,213 Speaker 3: You know him well and he is on the show 1698 01:18:17,372 --> 01:18:20,532 Speaker 3: taking your calls and questions about anything to do with 1699 01:18:20,692 --> 01:18:23,732 Speaker 3: your beloved pets. If you're having a hard time or 1700 01:18:23,853 --> 01:18:26,133 Speaker 3: you just don't understand why your dog does something a 1701 01:18:26,133 --> 01:18:27,572 Speaker 3: little bit weird, he is the man to chat too. 1702 01:18:27,732 --> 01:18:29,612 Speaker 2: Yeah, if your cat's crazy, your dog's a dick, give 1703 01:18:29,692 --> 01:18:32,652 Speaker 2: us a call on eight hundred and eighty nine. 1704 01:18:33,213 --> 01:18:36,372 Speaker 3: Two is a text number, News, sport and weather on. 1705 01:18:36,612 --> 01:18:39,133 Speaker 3: It's way great to every company. As always, you're listening 1706 01:18:39,173 --> 01:18:40,572 Speaker 3: to Matt and Tyler Good Afternoon. 1707 01:18:45,732 --> 01:19:01,213 Speaker 1: That your new home for insightful and entertaining talk. It's 1708 01:19:01,412 --> 01:19:04,532 Speaker 1: Matt Heath and Tylor Adams Afternoons. 1709 01:19:04,013 --> 01:19:08,293 Speaker 3: With the Volvo XC eighty on News Talk SEV Good Afternoon, 1710 01:19:08,452 --> 01:19:11,333 Speaker 3: welcome back into the show. Now, Mat I've got to 1711 01:19:11,412 --> 01:19:14,333 Speaker 3: call you up on something there. You've got your we 1712 01:19:14,692 --> 01:19:18,293 Speaker 3: we milkshake situation going. Yeah, that you had your mic on. 1713 01:19:19,173 --> 01:19:22,253 Speaker 2: That was bad. Sorry, Raylean, Yeah, sorry, Raylean. Raylen heard 1714 01:19:22,293 --> 01:19:25,812 Speaker 2: that I was shaking up my man shake. Then I 1715 01:19:25,893 --> 01:19:27,852 Speaker 2: forgot the micro was on. So it was very rude 1716 01:19:27,973 --> 01:19:30,333 Speaker 2: to do that during the news. But you know this, 1717 01:19:30,532 --> 01:19:31,973 Speaker 2: you know I've been accused of making a mess in 1718 01:19:32,013 --> 01:19:35,852 Speaker 2: the studio. Yeah on on Man Tyler afternoons by often 1719 01:19:36,333 --> 01:19:38,772 Speaker 2: by the breakfast host on this channel. 1720 01:19:38,812 --> 01:19:39,213 Speaker 3: How dare he? 1721 01:19:39,652 --> 01:19:41,013 Speaker 2: I can't make too much of a mess with the 1722 01:19:41,053 --> 01:19:41,452 Speaker 2: man shake. 1723 01:19:41,652 --> 01:19:42,652 Speaker 3: What does a man shake? 1724 01:19:43,253 --> 01:19:46,333 Speaker 2: A man shake? It's it's like a protein protein in 1725 01:19:46,692 --> 01:19:49,293 Speaker 2: vitamin shake and everything you need instead of eating food, 1726 01:19:49,333 --> 01:19:51,772 Speaker 2: I'm having the man shake. And look how buff I'm 1727 01:19:51,772 --> 01:19:53,012 Speaker 2: getting pretty buff? 1728 01:19:53,013 --> 01:19:54,492 Speaker 3: A you're starting to trim down a little bit. 1729 01:19:54,532 --> 01:19:56,692 Speaker 2: Get pretty buff? There is that your lunch? 1730 01:19:56,812 --> 01:19:56,933 Speaker 10: Is it? 1731 01:19:57,093 --> 01:19:57,253 Speaker 7: Yes? 1732 01:19:57,572 --> 01:20:01,052 Speaker 2: It's a little man shake. You've changed, man, You've changed, 1733 01:20:02,253 --> 01:20:05,652 Speaker 2: but highly unprofessional. So apologies to to Raylean Ramsey. 1734 01:20:05,772 --> 01:20:07,692 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, but are you going to touch the man 1735 01:20:07,732 --> 01:20:08,253 Speaker 3: shake tomorrow? 1736 01:20:08,612 --> 01:20:08,652 Speaker 7: No? 1737 01:20:08,973 --> 01:20:12,812 Speaker 3: No, I can't more man shakeman all on the man shake, right, 1738 01:20:13,173 --> 01:20:15,572 Speaker 3: now this is going to be a good hour as 1739 01:20:15,893 --> 01:20:18,293 Speaker 3: it was last time he was on the show. Mark 1740 01:20:18,452 --> 01:20:22,053 Speaker 3: Vitti is a world renowned animal behaviorist, dog trainer, and 1741 01:20:22,253 --> 01:20:25,012 Speaker 3: educator who has been working with animals for over forty years. 1742 01:20:25,013 --> 01:20:27,973 Speaker 3: He's a trained animal psychologist and created the Dogs In 1743 01:20:28,173 --> 01:20:31,812 Speaker 3: online training program. He's about to launch Cats In and 1744 01:20:32,093 --> 01:20:34,532 Speaker 3: joins us once again on the program. Mark, very good 1745 01:20:34,572 --> 01:20:35,093 Speaker 3: afternoon to you. 1746 01:20:36,053 --> 01:20:38,372 Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, Matte, Tyler, how are you very good? 1747 01:20:38,412 --> 01:20:41,293 Speaker 3: How's the cats in coming along? I know that that's 1748 01:20:41,333 --> 01:20:42,932 Speaker 3: been a work in progress for some time. 1749 01:20:43,933 --> 01:20:47,692 Speaker 7: Just finished it last week. Hands it in all done, 1750 01:20:47,933 --> 01:20:52,812 Speaker 7: fantas very happy, gets in the gentle cat teachers to 1751 01:20:52,893 --> 01:20:55,572 Speaker 7: have a raisor cat that doesn't hunt. 1752 01:20:55,732 --> 01:20:56,253 Speaker 4: So there you go. 1753 01:20:56,412 --> 01:20:59,213 Speaker 2: Okay, and when when's that out? If Tyler didn't say, 1754 01:20:59,253 --> 01:20:59,893 Speaker 2: did you say it? 1755 01:21:00,293 --> 01:21:00,692 Speaker 7: Stember? 1756 01:21:00,893 --> 01:21:01,333 Speaker 2: September? 1757 01:21:01,412 --> 01:21:05,452 Speaker 7: September is the ju date apparently so real stop looking 1758 01:21:05,492 --> 01:21:05,892 Speaker 7: forward to that. 1759 01:21:06,133 --> 01:21:08,173 Speaker 2: Real stocking stuff for that one. 1760 01:21:08,372 --> 01:21:13,052 Speaker 3: Absolutely fantastic, right, Mark. So, as we mentioned numerous times, 1761 01:21:13,133 --> 01:21:15,812 Speaker 3: it was you were so popular last time that we 1762 01:21:15,893 --> 01:21:18,412 Speaker 3: had to extend it out a bit. And already the 1763 01:21:18,532 --> 01:21:21,053 Speaker 3: phone lines have lit up, in the texts have come in, 1764 01:21:21,213 --> 01:21:22,932 Speaker 3: so we'll get into it straight away. If that's okay 1765 01:21:22,973 --> 01:21:24,412 Speaker 3: with you, excellent, It's all good. 1766 01:21:24,652 --> 01:21:24,973 Speaker 7: I'll do it. 1767 01:21:25,133 --> 01:21:27,173 Speaker 3: Oh eight hundred and eighty ten eighty is the number 1768 01:21:27,253 --> 01:21:27,612 Speaker 3: to call. 1769 01:21:27,933 --> 01:21:30,013 Speaker 2: Yeah, have you got a problem with your dog or 1770 01:21:30,133 --> 01:21:33,133 Speaker 2: cat or whatever pet and its behavior? Give us a 1771 01:21:33,213 --> 01:21:36,092 Speaker 2: ring o E one hundred eighty ten eighty. Allen, welcome 1772 01:21:36,173 --> 01:21:36,492 Speaker 2: the show? 1773 01:21:41,412 --> 01:21:41,852 Speaker 4: Is that me? 1774 01:21:42,013 --> 01:21:42,692 Speaker 17: It's Adam? 1775 01:21:43,093 --> 01:21:45,893 Speaker 2: Ah Okay, sorry, you're in the system as Allan, but 1776 01:21:46,213 --> 01:21:48,652 Speaker 2: I we'll call you Adam from now on. Adam, you're 1777 01:21:48,853 --> 01:21:51,173 Speaker 2: you've got a problem with your dog? Dog running away 1778 01:21:51,213 --> 01:21:52,812 Speaker 2: from Mark to address? 1779 01:21:53,973 --> 01:21:58,372 Speaker 17: Yeah, okay, Mark, Hey, we've got an ass about at 1780 01:21:58,412 --> 01:22:03,892 Speaker 17: the moment, she's five did she just won't stop running 1781 01:22:03,933 --> 01:22:07,612 Speaker 17: away like We literally have to lock every window, every 1782 01:22:07,812 --> 01:22:11,253 Speaker 17: door if we go out, and if we don't, she 1783 01:22:11,372 --> 01:22:14,572 Speaker 17: will find a way out. She squeezed through a window. 1784 01:22:14,652 --> 01:22:17,173 Speaker 17: That's you know how. It's got the the latches on 1785 01:22:17,293 --> 01:22:20,012 Speaker 17: so you can't push it out too far. She squeezed 1786 01:22:20,053 --> 01:22:22,013 Speaker 17: through that. If we leave her out in the backyard, 1787 01:22:22,412 --> 01:22:25,692 Speaker 17: she will dig her way out. We run her daily, 1788 01:22:25,973 --> 01:22:28,572 Speaker 17: We take her on sniff walk to try and stimulate her. 1789 01:22:29,572 --> 01:22:32,972 Speaker 17: She's my wife is working from home, so she's got 1790 01:22:33,133 --> 01:22:35,692 Speaker 17: company there if my wife goes out, she will try 1791 01:22:35,772 --> 01:22:38,372 Speaker 17: and get out. We just don't blem and know what 1792 01:22:38,532 --> 01:22:41,692 Speaker 17: to do. And we we live in an area in 1793 01:22:42,013 --> 01:22:44,293 Speaker 17: South auklandhe there's a lot of straight dogs around, but 1794 01:22:44,452 --> 01:22:47,213 Speaker 17: we see them walking around and they end end up 1795 01:22:47,293 --> 01:22:50,213 Speaker 17: going home usually. But our dog will go and not 1796 01:22:50,333 --> 01:22:51,053 Speaker 17: come back at all. 1797 01:22:51,853 --> 01:22:57,532 Speaker 7: So does she self the separation distress? Does she get 1798 01:22:57,532 --> 01:23:00,972 Speaker 7: anxious and wine and howl and get distressed when when 1799 01:23:01,053 --> 01:23:02,213 Speaker 7: you go? Is that the problem? 1800 01:23:03,013 --> 01:23:03,852 Speaker 20: Not at all? 1801 01:23:04,213 --> 01:23:07,492 Speaker 17: Not at all, And she doesn't know it from home either. 1802 01:23:07,652 --> 01:23:10,372 Speaker 17: So when we got her as a pup, she was 1803 01:23:10,532 --> 01:23:12,732 Speaker 17: what fourteen weeks, so I mean not. 1804 01:23:12,933 --> 01:23:17,452 Speaker 7: Too young, no, no, yeah, it's nice. It's nice to 1805 01:23:17,492 --> 01:23:19,333 Speaker 7: get them in eight weeks. But that's all right. So 1806 01:23:19,372 --> 01:23:20,973 Speaker 7: I mean, there's no trouble with her bond with you 1807 01:23:21,093 --> 01:23:24,412 Speaker 7: by the sounds of it, so she's obviously very attached. 1808 01:23:24,933 --> 01:23:29,412 Speaker 7: But yeah, I mean, basically, it'll come down to environmental 1809 01:23:29,572 --> 01:23:32,852 Speaker 7: management with a situation. If it's not separation distress, which 1810 01:23:32,893 --> 01:23:34,933 Speaker 7: is the common cause of that, you know when they 1811 01:23:35,013 --> 01:23:38,093 Speaker 7: try and escape when you head out, then and it's 1812 01:23:38,253 --> 01:23:41,812 Speaker 7: environmental management. And the good thing about environmental management you 1813 01:23:41,893 --> 01:23:45,093 Speaker 7: can normally set it up so it's safe, but you're right. 1814 01:23:45,173 --> 01:23:48,732 Speaker 7: If she's literally squeezing through and breaking through things, it 1815 01:23:48,853 --> 01:23:51,532 Speaker 7: does make it difficult. There are things called a sonic 1816 01:23:51,652 --> 01:23:54,972 Speaker 7: boundary which can teach them to stay within a boundary, 1817 01:23:55,572 --> 01:23:58,532 Speaker 7: and so that's kind of a tool that you can 1818 01:23:58,732 --> 01:24:01,732 Speaker 7: use for those dogs that are just really challenging in 1819 01:24:01,812 --> 01:24:05,293 Speaker 7: those situations and that might be where you need to 1820 01:24:05,372 --> 01:24:09,093 Speaker 7: go to keep her and it certainly it works, but 1821 01:24:09,253 --> 01:24:12,013 Speaker 7: it's he's got to decide whether that's the way you 1822 01:24:12,093 --> 01:24:14,012 Speaker 7: want to go. It's called a sonic boundary, and there's 1823 01:24:14,013 --> 01:24:16,893 Speaker 7: a number of different companies that make them. So have 1824 01:24:16,973 --> 01:24:17,372 Speaker 7: a go at that. 1825 01:24:17,532 --> 01:24:21,133 Speaker 17: Yeah, ok, yeah, chance that I appreciate that. We'll give 1826 01:24:21,173 --> 01:24:21,532 Speaker 17: there to go. 1827 01:24:21,973 --> 01:24:22,492 Speaker 16: So you reckon. 1828 01:24:22,532 --> 01:24:25,133 Speaker 17: There's nothing mentally or anything like that wrong with. 1829 01:24:25,213 --> 01:24:29,692 Speaker 7: It, is just she's not suffering separation distress. Yeah, she's 1830 01:24:29,732 --> 01:24:31,852 Speaker 7: just an escape artist. I mean she's obviously learned to 1831 01:24:31,893 --> 01:24:34,093 Speaker 7: get out. Once they get out and they start getting 1832 01:24:34,133 --> 01:24:36,852 Speaker 7: out there, they learn to become who denis. You know, 1833 01:24:36,933 --> 01:24:39,812 Speaker 7: they start to really challenge the system once they get out, 1834 01:24:39,853 --> 01:24:42,452 Speaker 7: and then you kind of jig it up a little 1835 01:24:42,452 --> 01:24:44,452 Speaker 7: bit and then they think, oh, I can try harder, 1836 01:24:44,492 --> 01:24:46,492 Speaker 7: and they do when they get out. Then they start 1837 01:24:46,532 --> 01:24:48,532 Speaker 7: getting better at it, which is what's going on there. 1838 01:24:49,013 --> 01:24:51,973 Speaker 7: So sonic boundary might be the story for you all the. 1839 01:24:51,973 --> 01:24:54,492 Speaker 3: Best that thanks very much for giving us a buzz 1840 01:24:54,532 --> 01:24:56,133 Speaker 3: and having a chet to mark. So just on those 1841 01:24:56,253 --> 01:24:58,732 Speaker 3: sonic boundaries, how does that work? I take it it's 1842 01:24:58,893 --> 01:25:02,053 Speaker 3: the collar based system and there get away vibration if 1843 01:25:02,053 --> 01:25:03,333 Speaker 3: they get too close to it. As that help. 1844 01:25:03,652 --> 01:25:06,972 Speaker 7: Yeah, that's right. Yeah, it gives you learn They learn 1845 01:25:07,053 --> 01:25:10,133 Speaker 7: by setting up a bound and as they approach, the 1846 01:25:10,213 --> 01:25:14,333 Speaker 7: boundary gives a warning tone about a meter out, and 1847 01:25:14,692 --> 01:25:16,732 Speaker 7: then if they go close, it gives a little static 1848 01:25:17,853 --> 01:25:22,293 Speaker 7: correction and very quickly they learn don't don't go near that. Yeah, 1849 01:25:22,372 --> 01:25:24,572 Speaker 7: and then you can set the boundary up right around 1850 01:25:24,612 --> 01:25:28,053 Speaker 7: your fence line and anywhere else you know that you want. 1851 01:25:28,293 --> 01:25:30,133 Speaker 7: You can do acres of land if you want to. 1852 01:25:30,492 --> 01:25:33,932 Speaker 7: Very some people don't like using them, but they are 1853 01:25:34,612 --> 01:25:36,412 Speaker 7: an option for those dogs that are going to get 1854 01:25:36,492 --> 01:25:39,533 Speaker 7: run over or cause trouble out and about. 1855 01:25:39,412 --> 01:25:41,572 Speaker 3: Yeah, great, I've got I've got a question for you. 1856 01:25:41,772 --> 01:25:43,372 Speaker 2: Jump in there. We've got full lines. But I'm going 1857 01:25:43,452 --> 01:25:47,612 Speaker 2: to use this the advantage I have and controlling the mic. 1858 01:25:49,293 --> 01:25:51,173 Speaker 2: When my dog Colin when I leave the house right 1859 01:25:51,173 --> 01:25:53,293 Speaker 2: and he has that really sad look on his face 1860 01:25:53,812 --> 01:25:56,333 Speaker 2: because you're leaving, and he sits down, he locks and 1861 01:25:56,612 --> 01:25:59,532 Speaker 2: it's sad. Is that actual sadness or is it just 1862 01:25:59,652 --> 01:26:03,932 Speaker 2: got he's got a sad face? And b How much 1863 01:26:04,253 --> 01:26:07,093 Speaker 2: anguish does he go through in the time that we're away? 1864 01:26:07,293 --> 01:26:07,412 Speaker 10: Is it? 1865 01:26:07,612 --> 01:26:09,892 Speaker 2: Is it the whole time he's feeling that that way 1866 01:26:09,973 --> 01:26:14,452 Speaker 2: he's looking or does he get over it and just 1867 01:26:14,452 --> 01:26:15,652 Speaker 2: go and have a sleep and run around and do 1868 01:26:15,692 --> 01:26:16,092 Speaker 2: his stuff. 1869 01:26:17,013 --> 01:26:19,612 Speaker 7: Yeah, well, there's there's two aspects that I mean, basically, 1870 01:26:19,732 --> 01:26:22,973 Speaker 7: dogs do we now know, feel emotions just like we do, 1871 01:26:23,652 --> 01:26:28,133 Speaker 7: and that you know, they're not necessarily exactly you know, 1872 01:26:28,213 --> 01:26:30,372 Speaker 7: we answer Morphis and say they're you know, they're the 1873 01:26:30,452 --> 01:26:32,933 Speaker 7: same as ours. They're not necessarily exactly the same. But 1874 01:26:33,053 --> 01:26:35,772 Speaker 7: of course dogs are highly social and get highly attached 1875 01:26:36,173 --> 01:26:38,812 Speaker 7: to the owners. The more over attached the dog gets, 1876 01:26:39,213 --> 01:26:41,893 Speaker 7: the more it's prone to separations to stress. So the 1877 01:26:41,973 --> 01:26:44,692 Speaker 7: ones who suffer separations of stress owl and bark and 1878 01:26:45,173 --> 01:26:47,612 Speaker 7: destroy and toilet and do all different things while you're 1879 01:26:47,612 --> 01:26:50,933 Speaker 7: away are the more serious cases. Then you know that 1880 01:26:50,973 --> 01:26:54,452 Speaker 7: they're suffering real anxiety in those situations. But I'll tell 1881 01:26:54,492 --> 01:26:57,532 Speaker 7: you what. There's one really cool tool that helps both 1882 01:26:57,612 --> 01:27:01,973 Speaker 7: you and the dog to resolve that issue. One of 1883 01:27:02,013 --> 01:27:05,253 Speaker 7: the mats is called a pet cube, and there's fur Cam. 1884 01:27:05,293 --> 01:27:07,333 Speaker 7: There's a number of differentes. It's a little unit that 1885 01:27:07,492 --> 01:27:11,053 Speaker 7: distributes a food reward automatically from just a single food 1886 01:27:11,133 --> 01:27:14,652 Speaker 7: reward from the unit. You've got a app on your phone. 1887 01:27:14,973 --> 01:27:17,093 Speaker 7: You can talk to the dog, you can watch the dog, 1888 01:27:17,173 --> 01:27:19,412 Speaker 7: you can listen to the dog, and you can you 1889 01:27:19,492 --> 01:27:22,572 Speaker 7: can reward it for doing appropriate behaviors. So what I 1890 01:27:22,652 --> 01:27:24,893 Speaker 7: do is when I when I'm home, I set this 1891 01:27:24,973 --> 01:27:27,532 Speaker 7: little unit up beside the bed somewhere or somewhere that 1892 01:27:27,612 --> 01:27:29,812 Speaker 7: suits you, and then I call the dog over to it, 1893 01:27:29,933 --> 01:27:34,412 Speaker 7: and then I click and or it yes, and I 1894 01:27:34,532 --> 01:27:36,333 Speaker 7: food reward it for just sitting in front of the 1895 01:27:37,253 --> 01:27:39,532 Speaker 7: little unit and tell them to lie down, tell them 1896 01:27:39,572 --> 01:27:41,933 Speaker 7: to do a couple of things. What I'm doing is 1897 01:27:41,933 --> 01:27:46,213 Speaker 7: I'm engaging and physically and with a reward, and so 1898 01:27:46,293 --> 01:27:49,132 Speaker 7: I'm rewarding them for engaging with me without being anxious 1899 01:27:49,732 --> 01:27:51,933 Speaker 7: when I'm there. And then I slowly start doing it 1900 01:27:52,093 --> 01:27:53,572 Speaker 7: just a little bit out of the way. I go 1901 01:27:53,612 --> 01:27:55,732 Speaker 7: out the backyard and do it. Then I start driving away, 1902 01:27:56,053 --> 01:27:58,333 Speaker 7: and then I've got the system that I can communicate, 1903 01:27:58,732 --> 01:28:01,093 Speaker 7: relate to them, check up on them, make sure things 1904 01:28:01,133 --> 01:28:03,652 Speaker 7: are going well, and reward them for doing appropriate that. 1905 01:28:03,933 --> 01:28:06,213 Speaker 2: What's that? What's that? What's it called? 1906 01:28:06,253 --> 01:28:07,932 Speaker 7: It's called a pet cube? Is one of them? 1907 01:28:09,372 --> 01:28:12,333 Speaker 2: I might check that out. My son had this horrific 1908 01:28:12,532 --> 01:28:14,893 Speaker 2: idea that he that he said to me once a 1909 01:28:14,973 --> 01:28:16,612 Speaker 2: couple of weeks ago when we were walking our dog 1910 01:28:16,692 --> 01:28:19,213 Speaker 2: along the beach. He goes because when we leave the 1911 01:28:19,253 --> 01:28:21,652 Speaker 2: house with them, we take him to the beach. He 1912 01:28:21,812 --> 01:28:24,013 Speaker 2: must be at home thinking that every time we leave 1913 01:28:24,093 --> 01:28:26,372 Speaker 2: the house that we're going to we're going to the 1914 01:28:26,412 --> 01:28:29,013 Speaker 2: beach without it. Because he doesn't know that we go 1915 01:28:29,093 --> 01:28:30,732 Speaker 2: to work, in school and all the things we did. 1916 01:28:30,933 --> 01:28:33,572 Speaker 7: Yeah, exactly, but well you'll be surprised. He doesn't know 1917 01:28:33,652 --> 01:28:35,452 Speaker 7: where you go and based on what you do. Oh 1918 01:28:35,532 --> 01:28:38,053 Speaker 7: that's true. Yeah, you let your togs and your tael 1919 01:28:38,133 --> 01:28:40,772 Speaker 7: then he knows a smart creatures. 1920 01:28:41,093 --> 01:28:43,293 Speaker 3: Mark, This is great. We've got plenty of calls to 1921 01:28:43,372 --> 01:28:45,972 Speaker 3: get to, so just told there, will play some messages 1922 01:28:46,013 --> 01:28:47,972 Speaker 3: and come back to with more of your phone calls 1923 01:28:48,253 --> 01:28:50,732 Speaker 3: and questions for Mark Vidio eight hundred and eighty ten 1924 01:28:50,772 --> 01:28:54,772 Speaker 3: eighty is the number to call sixteen past three. It 1925 01:28:55,013 --> 01:28:57,532 Speaker 3: is twenty past three. We're joined by Mark Vidia, world 1926 01:28:57,612 --> 01:29:01,652 Speaker 3: renowned and animal behaviorists, taking your calls and questions on 1927 01:29:01,893 --> 01:29:05,173 Speaker 3: eight hundred and eighty ten eighty Catherine, how are you? 1928 01:29:06,293 --> 01:29:06,772 Speaker 2: I'm good? 1929 01:29:07,053 --> 01:29:07,372 Speaker 14: Thank you? 1930 01:29:07,652 --> 01:29:08,892 Speaker 5: How are you good? 1931 01:29:09,093 --> 01:29:10,372 Speaker 3: Mark is standing by you. 1932 01:29:10,492 --> 01:29:10,852 Speaker 10: Go for it? 1933 01:29:11,732 --> 01:29:15,812 Speaker 21: Hey, git so much shy Mark. Hey, We've got a 1934 01:29:15,973 --> 01:29:19,333 Speaker 21: gorgeous new rescue puppy. He's about four and a half 1935 01:29:19,452 --> 01:29:24,532 Speaker 21: months old now and obviously has had a harder start to. 1936 01:29:24,612 --> 01:29:26,733 Speaker 6: Life than all all animals. 1937 01:29:27,412 --> 01:29:33,212 Speaker 21: And he's very very attached, very quickly. So I literally 1938 01:29:33,652 --> 01:29:36,932 Speaker 21: go to the litter box and it's like I've left 1939 01:29:37,053 --> 01:29:41,532 Speaker 21: him for a year, and jumps and cries and he is, 1940 01:29:41,692 --> 01:29:45,452 Speaker 21: you know, quite genuinely upsets. But I've literally been gone 1941 01:29:45,532 --> 01:29:49,133 Speaker 21: for thirty seconds. Is there anything I can do to 1942 01:29:49,293 --> 01:29:50,173 Speaker 21: help him with their? 1943 01:29:51,412 --> 01:29:54,133 Speaker 7: Yeah? Definitely, definitely. So you heard me, might have heard 1944 01:29:54,133 --> 01:29:56,772 Speaker 7: me just on the previous call. I think that the 1945 01:29:56,853 --> 01:29:59,773 Speaker 7: previous one may have been separated distress, but it didn't 1946 01:29:59,772 --> 01:30:03,012 Speaker 7: sound like that was. But this is so and it's 1947 01:30:03,372 --> 01:30:06,492 Speaker 7: very natural for dogs, and particularly so with rescue dogs 1948 01:30:06,492 --> 01:30:08,852 Speaker 7: because of course they come out of a tough situation 1949 01:30:09,013 --> 01:30:12,572 Speaker 7: often and once they get that forever owner, you know, 1950 01:30:13,213 --> 01:30:15,612 Speaker 7: got their paws wrapped around that forever owner there, they 1951 01:30:15,612 --> 01:30:15,972 Speaker 7: ain't going. 1952 01:30:15,973 --> 01:30:16,293 Speaker 11: To let go. 1953 01:30:16,973 --> 01:30:20,293 Speaker 7: And so there's a bit of you know, extra attachment 1954 01:30:20,372 --> 01:30:24,053 Speaker 7: happens when the dogs had a tough start. That's not unusual. Now, 1955 01:30:24,133 --> 01:30:26,772 Speaker 7: by what age was was he when you got him? 1956 01:30:27,812 --> 01:30:30,133 Speaker 21: We've had him for seven weeks. 1957 01:30:29,893 --> 01:30:35,372 Speaker 7: Now, yeah, okay, yeah, so he was Yeah, so it's 1958 01:30:35,492 --> 01:30:36,933 Speaker 7: just over two two and a half months when you 1959 01:30:36,973 --> 01:30:40,213 Speaker 7: got him something like that. Was he maybe three months? Yeah, 1960 01:30:40,293 --> 01:30:43,092 Speaker 7: so look slightly late, you know, because the formative period 1961 01:30:43,213 --> 01:30:45,892 Speaker 7: is three to sixteen weeks, you know, so that's the time. 1962 01:30:46,412 --> 01:30:50,213 Speaker 7: By four months their socialization it closes down a little bit. 1963 01:30:50,293 --> 01:30:54,132 Speaker 7: But clearly he's quite social, so that's good. But separation 1964 01:30:54,293 --> 01:30:58,093 Speaker 7: distress is an over attachment issue. And you can always 1965 01:30:58,173 --> 01:31:01,093 Speaker 7: jump on. I've got a discount fifty percent discount on 1966 01:31:01,492 --> 01:31:04,572 Speaker 7: dogs in dot com just dogs in in fifty Jump 1967 01:31:04,652 --> 01:31:08,173 Speaker 7: on and look at the video that I call graduated 1968 01:31:08,333 --> 01:31:11,253 Speaker 7: departure for separation to stress. And that's what you need 1969 01:31:11,333 --> 01:31:14,133 Speaker 7: to do. And you heard me just talk about that 1970 01:31:14,333 --> 01:31:16,852 Speaker 7: tool also that I was just talking about the pet cube. 1971 01:31:17,452 --> 01:31:20,852 Speaker 7: That's another tool that's really useful. For separation to stress. 1972 01:31:21,372 --> 01:31:25,452 Speaker 7: So you can grab those quite easily, and that's the 1973 01:31:25,492 --> 01:31:28,532 Speaker 7: one that delivers the food reward. You can talk through 1974 01:31:28,532 --> 01:31:31,372 Speaker 7: your cam, your phone to the dog, listen to it, 1975 01:31:31,492 --> 01:31:33,492 Speaker 7: and so on. But what the beauty of it is 1976 01:31:33,572 --> 01:31:36,612 Speaker 7: is you can use that to do the graduated departure. 1977 01:31:36,692 --> 01:31:39,812 Speaker 7: Graduated departures where you're teaching it to stay separated from 1978 01:31:39,853 --> 01:31:41,732 Speaker 7: you for very short periods of time, and you go 1979 01:31:41,853 --> 01:31:43,532 Speaker 7: back and click and reward it, and then you move 1980 01:31:43,572 --> 01:31:45,772 Speaker 7: away for longer, come back and click and reward it 1981 01:31:45,893 --> 01:31:48,372 Speaker 7: for staying calm. And so you're teaching it to stay 1982 01:31:48,452 --> 01:31:50,893 Speaker 7: calm while you're there still, but you're just out in 1983 01:31:50,933 --> 01:31:53,612 Speaker 7: the back or moving into another room. And so you 1984 01:31:53,732 --> 01:31:56,772 Speaker 7: get that graduation where they get to learn to stay 1985 01:31:57,013 --> 01:32:00,452 Speaker 7: non anxious while you're separated. And then you increase the time, 1986 01:32:00,612 --> 01:32:03,973 Speaker 7: you know, and so it's a systematic process of desensitization. 1987 01:32:04,532 --> 01:32:06,093 Speaker 7: So it's an easy thing to do, but it does 1988 01:32:06,173 --> 01:32:08,852 Speaker 7: take any effort. And the sooner you do it, and 1989 01:32:08,973 --> 01:32:10,732 Speaker 7: even that you know, we don't do. If you do 1990 01:32:10,772 --> 01:32:13,253 Speaker 7: it before you need to, that's even better. But here 1991 01:32:13,293 --> 01:32:15,213 Speaker 7: we are, so now we need to do that. And 1992 01:32:15,293 --> 01:32:18,572 Speaker 7: as I said, add in the pet cuban that really 1993 01:32:18,612 --> 01:32:19,692 Speaker 7: speeds the process up. 1994 01:32:19,812 --> 01:32:22,133 Speaker 3: Ye, great question, Thank you very much, Catherine. Just on 1995 01:32:22,253 --> 01:32:25,812 Speaker 3: the rescue versus a pure breed or a dog that 1996 01:32:25,973 --> 01:32:28,093 Speaker 3: you buy, is it true, Mark that you know a 1997 01:32:28,133 --> 01:32:31,772 Speaker 3: lot of people say rescue puppies or animals tend to 1998 01:32:31,853 --> 01:32:34,893 Speaker 3: have a bit more psychological problems. Is that true or 1999 01:32:35,053 --> 01:32:36,492 Speaker 3: is that hyped up a little bit much. 2000 01:32:37,253 --> 01:32:40,692 Speaker 7: They certainly can have. But the beauty of getting a 2001 01:32:40,772 --> 01:32:43,173 Speaker 7: puppy a rescue puppy, it's it's easy to get a 2002 01:32:43,452 --> 01:32:46,812 Speaker 7: rescue puppy than a rescue adult to be bunted, because 2003 01:32:46,893 --> 01:32:49,972 Speaker 7: the rescue adults often do come with a bit of baggage. 2004 01:32:50,253 --> 01:32:53,213 Speaker 7: At the same time. You know, I've trained and remember 2005 01:32:56,532 --> 01:32:59,412 Speaker 7: our previous TV shows where we rescued many, many different dogs, 2006 01:32:59,452 --> 01:33:02,812 Speaker 7: and they're all doable. It's just takes a bit more effort. 2007 01:33:03,093 --> 01:33:05,012 Speaker 7: But if you can get a rescue puppy, that's even 2008 01:33:05,093 --> 01:33:07,732 Speaker 7: better because as long as it's not too late into 2009 01:33:07,772 --> 01:33:10,732 Speaker 7: their socialization period. So if you get it ideally before 2010 01:33:10,812 --> 01:33:14,333 Speaker 7: three months, or certainly by three months, then you're pretty 2011 01:33:14,333 --> 01:33:16,492 Speaker 7: well going to be fine. You just need to get 2012 01:33:16,532 --> 01:33:19,572 Speaker 7: stuck in a bit more seriously in that first month. 2013 01:33:20,093 --> 01:33:22,612 Speaker 7: But I like to do that two to four month period. 2014 01:33:22,893 --> 01:33:25,412 Speaker 7: If I can get that period and get a pup 2015 01:33:25,452 --> 01:33:27,652 Speaker 7: on that time, I can create what I'm going to 2016 01:33:27,732 --> 01:33:30,492 Speaker 7: have for life. A really great part. That's the time 2017 01:33:30,572 --> 01:33:33,093 Speaker 7: when the eighty percent of the brain wise up, and 2018 01:33:33,173 --> 01:33:35,612 Speaker 7: that's when you really want to be doing your stuff 2019 01:33:35,772 --> 01:33:36,852 Speaker 7: and doing the right stuff. 2020 01:33:37,013 --> 01:33:37,852 Speaker 3: Yeah, very good. 2021 01:33:38,293 --> 01:33:41,532 Speaker 2: So this pet cube thing where you'd be sitting there 2022 01:33:41,692 --> 01:33:43,572 Speaker 2: firing off treats and talking to your pet when you're 2023 01:33:43,572 --> 01:33:45,452 Speaker 2: out of the house, you can go to another step 2024 01:33:45,492 --> 01:33:47,253 Speaker 2: if you want to go fully crazy, and you get 2025 01:33:47,293 --> 01:33:51,452 Speaker 2: these robots, these pet robots that you can talk out 2026 01:33:51,492 --> 01:33:53,173 Speaker 2: of it, and can drop food out of it, and 2027 01:33:53,333 --> 01:33:55,692 Speaker 2: you can chase it around the house and be a 2028 01:33:55,812 --> 01:33:58,933 Speaker 2: friend to your dog while you're at work. But I 2029 01:33:59,093 --> 01:34:01,253 Speaker 2: know how much your boss would like that. Yeah, I 2030 01:34:01,293 --> 01:34:04,213 Speaker 2: don't know how much you'd boss would like that you're 2031 01:34:04,253 --> 01:34:06,772 Speaker 2: just running this remote control robot and entertaining your dog 2032 01:34:06,812 --> 01:34:07,772 Speaker 2: the whole day when you're at work. 2033 01:34:08,572 --> 01:34:10,013 Speaker 3: They're going to have to deal with that whether you go. 2034 01:34:10,093 --> 01:34:13,173 Speaker 2: It's it's more. It's a mere four hundred and sixty 2035 01:34:13,253 --> 01:34:14,893 Speaker 2: nine to ninety nine. If you want that, if you 2036 01:34:14,973 --> 01:34:19,333 Speaker 2: want to chase you, yeah, chase your cattle dog around 2037 01:34:19,333 --> 01:34:20,173 Speaker 2: the house, a little robot. 2038 01:34:20,173 --> 01:34:21,132 Speaker 3: I'll put that on the mortgage. 2039 01:34:21,173 --> 01:34:22,572 Speaker 2: Yea us fure some food in it? 2040 01:34:22,652 --> 01:34:24,293 Speaker 3: Yeah, right. If you've got a question for Mark, O 2041 01:34:24,333 --> 01:34:27,333 Speaker 3: eight hundred eighty ten eighty is the number to call 2042 01:34:27,973 --> 01:34:29,893 Speaker 3: back very shortly, and if you prefer to text, you 2043 01:34:29,933 --> 01:34:31,972 Speaker 3: more than welcome. Nine to nine two is the text number. 2044 01:34:32,173 --> 01:34:34,572 Speaker 2: We do have full lines, but keep trying because when 2045 01:34:34,612 --> 01:34:36,372 Speaker 2: we talk to someone the line we'll open up eight 2046 01:34:36,492 --> 01:34:37,852 Speaker 2: hundred eighty ten eighty. 2047 01:34:42,732 --> 01:34:46,092 Speaker 1: Matt Heath and Tyler Adams afternoons call oh, eight hundred 2048 01:34:46,173 --> 01:34:48,052 Speaker 1: eighty ten eighty on youth Talk ZB. 2049 01:34:48,572 --> 01:34:51,132 Speaker 3: It is twenty seven past three. We're joined by Mark Vidia, 2050 01:34:51,173 --> 01:34:55,732 Speaker 3: world renowned animal behaviorist and he's the founder of dogs in. 2051 01:34:55,853 --> 01:34:58,093 Speaker 3: You can check it out dogs in dot com. Mark, 2052 01:34:58,173 --> 01:34:59,932 Speaker 3: thank you again very much for your time. 2053 01:35:00,893 --> 01:35:01,253 Speaker 7: Yeah. Good. 2054 01:35:01,732 --> 01:35:03,412 Speaker 3: Now, you shouldn't have mentioned the pict tube because I've 2055 01:35:03,492 --> 01:35:05,612 Speaker 3: just been watching Matt. I think he's just inputted as 2056 01:35:05,652 --> 01:35:08,772 Speaker 3: credit card details and he's all in. It's on it's way. 2057 01:35:09,973 --> 01:35:12,652 Speaker 2: And then Tyler'll be looking over to me when we're 2058 01:35:12,652 --> 01:35:15,093 Speaker 2: in deep of a serious conversation on the show, and 2059 01:35:15,133 --> 01:35:16,812 Speaker 2: I'll be just talking to Colin and. 2060 01:35:16,933 --> 01:35:22,852 Speaker 3: Find Yeah, yeah, eight hundred and eighty ten eighty is 2061 01:35:22,933 --> 01:35:24,532 Speaker 3: the number to call if you've got a question for 2062 01:35:24,692 --> 01:35:28,293 Speaker 3: Mark Stuart. How are you good? 2063 01:35:28,333 --> 01:35:28,972 Speaker 10: Afternoon? Good? 2064 01:35:29,053 --> 01:35:29,333 Speaker 7: Thank you? 2065 01:35:29,893 --> 01:35:30,892 Speaker 3: Now what's your question? 2066 01:35:32,532 --> 01:35:36,852 Speaker 11: I have a eleven year old rescue dog MCS freed, 2067 01:35:37,412 --> 01:35:40,133 Speaker 11: one of the breeds being a hunter away and he 2068 01:35:40,333 --> 01:35:44,532 Speaker 11: gets a little bit vocal when he gets excited, specifically 2069 01:35:44,772 --> 01:35:48,333 Speaker 11: going to the beach, and when people arrive at home, 2070 01:35:48,893 --> 01:35:51,692 Speaker 11: he likes to obviously greet them and then run inside 2071 01:35:52,253 --> 01:35:54,652 Speaker 11: buck his head off to let us know that someone's right. 2072 01:35:55,853 --> 01:35:58,892 Speaker 11: So really just trying to get see the boys under 2073 01:35:58,933 --> 01:36:01,652 Speaker 11: control without to be honest, I'm not really keen on 2074 01:36:01,772 --> 01:36:04,372 Speaker 11: the bark follows or anything like that. Is there anything 2075 01:36:04,692 --> 01:36:05,772 Speaker 11: else look at? 2076 01:36:05,933 --> 01:36:10,253 Speaker 7: Yeah? There is, Yeah, there is. There's training, and at 2077 01:36:10,253 --> 01:36:12,333 Speaker 7: eleven years old it takes a little bit of extra work. 2078 01:36:12,333 --> 01:36:14,892 Speaker 7: He's underway. Of course, they have a great voice. They 2079 01:36:15,093 --> 01:36:18,492 Speaker 7: like to talk so and that's all normal. But it's 2080 01:36:18,572 --> 01:36:22,052 Speaker 7: very easy to click and train them to a quiet command. 2081 01:36:22,492 --> 01:36:24,732 Speaker 7: And you can always jump on the school and follow 2082 01:36:24,772 --> 01:36:27,812 Speaker 7: the quiet video where I teach you a quiet command. 2083 01:36:28,133 --> 01:36:30,333 Speaker 7: But basically this is the basics of it, so it's 2084 01:36:30,372 --> 01:36:32,893 Speaker 7: pretty simple. Get yourself a clicker and a pouch and 2085 01:36:34,652 --> 01:36:38,173 Speaker 7: we set them up and normally I set them up 2086 01:36:38,173 --> 01:36:40,892 Speaker 7: on a clip station which is a short, short lead, 2087 01:36:41,372 --> 01:36:43,973 Speaker 7: and work them on the lead, and I'm just so 2088 01:36:44,053 --> 01:36:46,932 Speaker 7: I get them speaking, and oftentimes for a hunter way, 2089 01:36:46,933 --> 01:36:48,852 Speaker 7: I'll teach them to speak and then to be quiet, 2090 01:36:48,933 --> 01:36:51,412 Speaker 7: which means he learns to bark and be quiet, so 2091 01:36:51,492 --> 01:36:54,812 Speaker 7: he learns what quiet means in relation to barking. So 2092 01:36:55,973 --> 01:36:57,732 Speaker 7: there is a slight risk in some of them where 2093 01:36:57,732 --> 01:36:59,532 Speaker 7: they get a bit too vocal when you're get them 2094 01:36:59,532 --> 01:37:01,772 Speaker 7: to speak, and they love that. But at the end 2095 01:37:01,772 --> 01:37:03,652 Speaker 7: of the day then you're just focusing on the quiet. 2096 01:37:04,333 --> 01:37:06,452 Speaker 7: But we click and reward them for a quiet for 2097 01:37:06,973 --> 01:37:10,173 Speaker 7: ten seconds and then seconds and then thirty seconds, and 2098 01:37:10,333 --> 01:37:14,053 Speaker 7: we teach him to delay. That delay is barking for 2099 01:37:14,213 --> 01:37:16,133 Speaker 7: that reward, and by the time you get to a 2100 01:37:16,173 --> 01:37:19,612 Speaker 7: minute or two, you've got your quiet command on and 2101 01:37:19,692 --> 01:37:22,293 Speaker 7: then you're start working on into those situations where he's 2102 01:37:22,333 --> 01:37:25,012 Speaker 7: doing it, because obviously he's doing it in high arousal 2103 01:37:25,133 --> 01:37:30,132 Speaker 7: situations beach and visitors coming. So start out of that context. 2104 01:37:30,173 --> 01:37:32,492 Speaker 7: Always start in a simple context. Once you've got the 2105 01:37:32,492 --> 01:37:35,333 Speaker 7: command on him, then start working on lead into that 2106 01:37:35,572 --> 01:37:39,852 Speaker 7: situation and as I said, the video shows you exactly 2107 01:37:39,893 --> 01:37:42,852 Speaker 7: how to do it, and you're also using a check 2108 01:37:42,933 --> 01:37:44,972 Speaker 7: lead just to stop him if he gets really vocal, 2109 01:37:45,213 --> 01:37:47,652 Speaker 7: and then click them rewarding him, and it's called contrast training, 2110 01:37:48,133 --> 01:37:51,013 Speaker 7: and it teaches him to be quiet normally. Within a 2111 01:37:51,053 --> 01:37:52,452 Speaker 7: couple of days, you can get that sort of. 2112 01:37:52,732 --> 01:37:56,212 Speaker 11: Yeah, I don't go. Definitely have a look at the online. 2113 01:37:57,532 --> 01:37:59,612 Speaker 7: Yeah. Yeah, if you jump on at the moment, you 2114 01:37:59,612 --> 01:38:01,812 Speaker 7: can get dogs in fifty You get a fifty per 2115 01:38:01,853 --> 01:38:04,692 Speaker 7: cent diskin on that first month. It's just on a 2116 01:38:04,732 --> 01:38:07,013 Speaker 7: monthly basis. So you just jump on and just learn 2117 01:38:07,053 --> 01:38:09,093 Speaker 7: how to do it, and then jump both and you're 2118 01:38:09,093 --> 01:38:09,412 Speaker 7: all good. 2119 01:38:09,772 --> 01:38:12,852 Speaker 2: A horrific thing I witnessed was the neighbors of my 2120 01:38:12,933 --> 01:38:16,612 Speaker 2: grandmother who had three cor geese and they barked a lot, 2121 01:38:16,692 --> 01:38:22,092 Speaker 2: and then one day she got their voice boxes remote 2122 01:38:22,732 --> 01:38:28,213 Speaker 2: and then constantly you had these corgy's going this is 2123 01:38:28,372 --> 01:38:32,532 Speaker 2: concept sound. It was horrific. 2124 01:38:32,973 --> 01:38:35,612 Speaker 7: Would have been get your dogs, d bag, it's not. 2125 01:38:36,532 --> 01:38:38,173 Speaker 2: Is that something that people can still do? 2126 01:38:39,253 --> 01:38:39,452 Speaker 14: Mark? 2127 01:38:39,572 --> 01:38:40,012 Speaker 2: Is that still? 2128 01:38:40,253 --> 01:38:42,812 Speaker 7: Yeah? I'm trying to think whether we've we've stopped most 2129 01:38:42,893 --> 01:38:45,452 Speaker 7: of those kind of operations. I must just check with 2130 01:38:45,893 --> 01:38:49,453 Speaker 7: de Baking so as I'm aware it's it's not recommended. 2131 01:38:49,532 --> 01:38:50,972 Speaker 7: Certainly it was a horror show. 2132 01:38:52,253 --> 01:38:55,893 Speaker 2: Yeah, those three, those three Corgis were a horror shown. 2133 01:38:56,372 --> 01:38:59,213 Speaker 7: That is horrific, not pretty sound. Is that it's worse 2134 01:38:59,253 --> 01:38:59,732 Speaker 7: than the back? 2135 01:38:59,973 --> 01:39:03,892 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. Now we're joined by Mark Video World renowned 2136 01:39:03,893 --> 01:39:07,733 Speaker 3: animal behaviorist you'd know them well, author and TV personality. 2137 01:39:07,893 --> 01:39:10,572 Speaker 3: Taking your calls on one hundred and eighty ten eighty 2138 01:39:10,812 --> 01:39:13,013 Speaker 3: If you want to send through a text with a 2139 01:39:13,093 --> 01:39:15,013 Speaker 3: question for Markey, more than welcome through nine two nine 2140 01:39:15,093 --> 01:39:17,772 Speaker 3: two is that text number. We've got headlines coming up 2141 01:39:17,893 --> 01:39:20,452 Speaker 3: and then we'll take some more of your calls. It 2142 01:39:20,772 --> 01:39:22,132 Speaker 3: is twenty nine to four. 2143 01:39:24,812 --> 01:39:28,452 Speaker 4: Youth talksa'd be headlines with blue bubble taxis it's no 2144 01:39:28,612 --> 01:39:31,612 Speaker 4: trouble with a blue bubble. The Prime Ministers hit back 2145 01:39:31,652 --> 01:39:34,572 Speaker 4: at ACT criticism over keeping New Zealand and the Paris 2146 01:39:34,652 --> 01:39:38,292 Speaker 4: Climate Accord, saying farmers no, it's best for our products 2147 01:39:39,173 --> 01:39:42,613 Speaker 4: on and off. Seventy seven year old prisoner Dean Wickliffe 2148 01:39:42,893 --> 01:39:45,692 Speaker 4: claims the major weight loss during a hunger strike at 2149 01:39:45,772 --> 01:39:48,372 Speaker 4: spring Hild Prison. He was returned to prison on a 2150 01:39:48,452 --> 01:39:51,133 Speaker 4: parole breach and says guards beat him up when he 2151 01:39:51,213 --> 01:39:54,812 Speaker 4: refused to double bunk. Correction says he threw an object 2152 01:39:54,853 --> 01:39:57,692 Speaker 4: and took up a fighting stance and it stood down 2153 01:39:57,772 --> 01:40:02,492 Speaker 4: as staffer during investigations, Our foreign minister says he's leaving 2154 01:40:02,532 --> 01:40:06,372 Speaker 4: the US with more certainty about our trade relationship after 2155 01:40:06,492 --> 01:40:11,213 Speaker 4: talks with high level officials. Complaints so z postbox is 2156 01:40:11,293 --> 01:40:15,293 Speaker 4: left overflowing with mail and hastings after Vandal's written down 2157 01:40:15,452 --> 01:40:19,412 Speaker 4: signs making it clear they were closed when woman's bow 2158 01:40:19,612 --> 01:40:23,533 Speaker 4: cancer screening test results were delayed after using an unmarked 2159 01:40:23,612 --> 01:40:27,973 Speaker 4: but obsolete box. Doc says a US tourist claim of 2160 01:40:28,053 --> 01:40:32,372 Speaker 4: spotting a moose near Fieldland's Kepler trackers unlikely and suspects 2161 01:40:32,492 --> 01:40:37,333 Speaker 4: it was a red deer. Trump's unwelcome news to auto chiefs. 2162 01:40:37,692 --> 01:40:40,492 Speaker 4: Buckle up for what's to come. Read more at Enzed 2163 01:40:40,532 --> 01:40:43,452 Speaker 4: Herald Premium. Back now to Matt Eathan Tyler Adams. 2164 01:40:43,612 --> 01:40:45,892 Speaker 3: Thank you very much, Rayleen, and we are joined by 2165 01:40:45,973 --> 01:40:49,572 Speaker 3: Mark Vitti, a world renowned animal behaviorist. He's an author, 2166 01:40:49,853 --> 01:40:53,093 Speaker 3: he's a TV personality, and he knowses stuff, so he's 2167 01:40:53,093 --> 01:40:54,932 Speaker 3: taking your calls on our eight hundred and eighty teen eighty. 2168 01:40:55,013 --> 01:40:56,852 Speaker 2: I was just talking before about the horror show of 2169 01:40:57,093 --> 01:40:59,213 Speaker 2: the three corgies that lived next to my grandmother that 2170 01:40:59,372 --> 01:41:03,372 Speaker 2: had their they were devocalized, they had their barking. Yeah, 2171 01:41:03,412 --> 01:41:07,572 Speaker 2: I guess the voiceboxes removed from them. I was so 2172 01:41:07,692 --> 01:41:10,492 Speaker 2: excited to see because I said, love those corgies. I'd 2173 01:41:10,572 --> 01:41:11,812 Speaker 2: run out and bark at me. One day I turned 2174 01:41:11,853 --> 01:41:16,372 Speaker 2: up and was I've just looked that. Surgical procedures that 2175 01:41:16,412 --> 01:41:19,452 Speaker 2: are restricted under s. Seventeen of the Animal Welfare at 2176 01:41:19,572 --> 01:41:21,893 Speaker 2: nineteen ninety nine and can only be performed in the 2177 01:41:21,973 --> 01:41:25,452 Speaker 2: interests of the animals include debarking a dog, decloring a cat, 2178 01:41:25,772 --> 01:41:28,052 Speaker 2: and docking the tail of a horse. So you can't 2179 01:41:28,173 --> 01:41:30,612 Speaker 2: debark your dog just because it's annoying you. It has 2180 01:41:30,652 --> 01:41:33,092 Speaker 2: to be for the welfare of the animal. 2181 01:41:33,253 --> 01:41:37,692 Speaker 3: That is great news. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, oh one 2182 01:41:37,772 --> 01:41:39,452 Speaker 3: hundred and eighty ten eighty. So the number to call 2183 01:41:39,492 --> 01:41:42,692 Speaker 3: if you can't get through, keep trying. Aaron Mark is 2184 01:41:42,732 --> 01:41:43,732 Speaker 3: standing by for your question. 2185 01:41:45,133 --> 01:41:47,812 Speaker 22: Yeah, how you going? Hey, look a bit of a 2186 01:41:47,893 --> 01:41:50,732 Speaker 22: full help. So I'll start from the beginning and got 2187 01:41:50,772 --> 01:41:54,173 Speaker 22: a cat eleven and a half years old. My son 2188 01:41:54,412 --> 01:41:58,852 Speaker 22: is eight years old, just turned eight. The next household 2189 01:41:58,933 --> 01:42:03,452 Speaker 22: member was a pincer cross Foxy Jesse, she's just turned three. 2190 01:42:05,213 --> 01:42:09,213 Speaker 22: Then we reheals a toy k boodle just over a 2191 01:42:09,372 --> 01:42:13,692 Speaker 22: year ago. Who is about mister here she'll be turning for. 2192 01:42:15,412 --> 01:42:16,372 Speaker 20: Then it's for Convert. 2193 01:42:16,652 --> 01:42:20,293 Speaker 6: Found a kissen just before Christmas, so we've now got 2194 01:42:20,333 --> 01:42:26,732 Speaker 6: a kissing as well. It's been a heck of a story. 2195 01:42:26,812 --> 01:42:29,173 Speaker 6: The old girl cat, she hated everyone that came into 2196 01:42:29,253 --> 01:42:32,492 Speaker 6: the house. She now gets a little fairly well with 2197 01:42:32,612 --> 01:42:37,052 Speaker 6: everyone and has actually become a bit more social. Jesse 2198 01:42:38,133 --> 01:42:43,173 Speaker 6: the three year old mini Pizer cross Foxy. She hasn't 2199 01:42:43,253 --> 01:42:45,852 Speaker 6: been fixed, so she's the only one that hasn't been fixed. 2200 01:42:46,612 --> 01:42:48,772 Speaker 6: We were originally going to try and find a breeding 2201 01:42:48,853 --> 01:42:51,052 Speaker 6: partner forloy her, but we've. 2202 01:42:50,893 --> 01:42:52,932 Speaker 18: Sort of changed sort of plans and now going to look. 2203 01:42:52,812 --> 01:42:53,652 Speaker 17: Towards fixing her. 2204 01:42:54,452 --> 01:42:56,812 Speaker 6: But she has grown a bit of an attitude of 2205 01:42:57,053 --> 01:43:01,732 Speaker 6: being the boss in the house and can be quite 2206 01:43:01,853 --> 01:43:05,333 Speaker 6: aggressive towards the other girls, like not to a point 2207 01:43:05,372 --> 01:43:09,173 Speaker 6: that I'm overly worried, but I don't want it to 2208 01:43:10,013 --> 01:43:11,652 Speaker 6: keep manifesting, if that makes sense. 2209 01:43:12,893 --> 01:43:20,333 Speaker 7: Yeah, she's forwarded, you say, and three, Yeah, and she 2210 01:43:20,772 --> 01:43:23,492 Speaker 7: she comeing to Still she's still entire. Does she get 2211 01:43:23,532 --> 01:43:24,692 Speaker 7: worse when she comes into heat. 2212 01:43:26,213 --> 01:43:28,333 Speaker 17: Yes, yes, she does get a little bit worse when 2213 01:43:28,372 --> 01:43:29,253 Speaker 17: she comes into heat. 2214 01:43:29,492 --> 01:43:33,572 Speaker 7: Yeah, dexing could could make a difference because the estern 2215 01:43:34,053 --> 01:43:38,572 Speaker 7: hormone you know that obviously peaks when they're going through stress, 2216 01:43:38,612 --> 01:43:43,333 Speaker 7: when they go through heat, is also increases aggressiveness often 2217 01:43:43,812 --> 01:43:47,412 Speaker 7: so often, and that's the the contributing factors, only one 2218 01:43:47,452 --> 01:43:51,612 Speaker 7: of them. So de sexing her should, you know, decrease 2219 01:43:51,732 --> 01:43:55,852 Speaker 7: that that behavior that influence, so that that's one benefit. 2220 01:43:56,093 --> 01:43:57,892 Speaker 7: The other thing I'd be doing is I'd be doing 2221 01:43:58,013 --> 01:44:03,852 Speaker 7: some direct socialization work. Identify the ones she's having problems with, 2222 01:44:04,133 --> 01:44:08,652 Speaker 7: and it's typically females versus females. Females fight for males, 2223 01:44:08,692 --> 01:44:13,492 Speaker 7: males fight males, and the dog worlders of generalization and 2224 01:44:14,093 --> 01:44:19,213 Speaker 7: males count out of females so like, so that but 2225 01:44:19,973 --> 01:44:23,932 Speaker 7: basically you know that the females are going to fight 2226 01:44:23,973 --> 01:44:26,333 Speaker 7: if they're going to fight. Now, what I'd normally work 2227 01:44:26,412 --> 01:44:29,372 Speaker 7: with is teachers using a clicker training technique or a 2228 01:44:29,412 --> 01:44:33,412 Speaker 7: click and reward them for contact immediately around each other, 2229 01:44:33,572 --> 01:44:36,213 Speaker 7: so I really get them to like being around each 2230 01:44:36,253 --> 01:44:38,973 Speaker 7: other by rewarding them for doing that, and so. 2231 01:44:39,133 --> 01:44:44,053 Speaker 6: Regularly, sorry, generally speaking, they are they're actually really good 2232 01:44:44,133 --> 01:44:45,132 Speaker 6: friends and will curl. 2233 01:44:45,053 --> 01:44:45,692 Speaker 17: Up with each other. 2234 01:44:49,652 --> 01:44:51,372 Speaker 7: So what context is the aggression. 2235 01:44:54,612 --> 01:44:58,732 Speaker 20: She over barks and over dominates the other girls in 2236 01:44:58,772 --> 01:45:01,452 Speaker 20: the house as your cats and the dog, and she's 2237 01:45:01,812 --> 01:45:05,092 Speaker 20: out in public she's become a bit more aggressive towards 2238 01:45:05,173 --> 01:45:05,892 Speaker 20: bigger dogs. 2239 01:45:08,093 --> 01:45:10,652 Speaker 7: Yeah, so on the if you jump, if you want 2240 01:45:10,692 --> 01:45:12,772 Speaker 7: to jump on the school and look at what it 2241 01:45:12,853 --> 01:45:15,572 Speaker 7: called the meat and Greek technique, which is a training 2242 01:45:15,652 --> 01:45:18,293 Speaker 7: technique particularly for meeting other dogs, but it applies to 2243 01:45:18,772 --> 01:45:21,133 Speaker 7: your dogs as well, particularly when you come home. All 2244 01:45:21,213 --> 01:45:24,732 Speaker 7: this high arousal situations, which is probably when this is happening. 2245 01:45:24,933 --> 01:45:27,293 Speaker 7: Doesn't sound like she's flying and then trying to attack them, 2246 01:45:28,013 --> 01:45:30,852 Speaker 7: So that's good news. But really we wanted just to 2247 01:45:30,933 --> 01:45:34,372 Speaker 7: curtail that behavior. As I said, the the sexing may help, 2248 01:45:34,853 --> 01:45:37,452 Speaker 7: and secondly i'd be doing that meet and greet technique 2249 01:45:37,853 --> 01:45:39,852 Speaker 7: and if you, if you jump online, have a look 2250 01:45:39,893 --> 01:45:41,852 Speaker 7: at that shows you how to do that with her 2251 01:45:42,293 --> 01:45:45,492 Speaker 7: and other dogs and her and your dogs. But that's 2252 01:45:45,572 --> 01:45:46,852 Speaker 7: the technique that'll change it. 2253 01:45:47,133 --> 01:45:49,412 Speaker 3: All the very that Yeah, all the very best there, 2254 01:45:49,452 --> 01:45:51,372 Speaker 3: and it sounds like you've got quite the doctor do 2255 01:45:51,372 --> 01:45:52,692 Speaker 3: a little situation going on. 2256 01:45:53,013 --> 01:46:00,812 Speaker 2: Yes, even cat eleven son eight, minipincer GC three, toy 2257 01:46:00,853 --> 01:46:03,612 Speaker 2: kirtle four and now kitten you've got you've got a 2258 01:46:03,652 --> 01:46:05,652 Speaker 2: lot on there a bunch of techs coming through His 2259 01:46:05,732 --> 01:46:09,093 Speaker 2: last phone calls. This is an interesting one for a 2260 01:46:09,133 --> 01:46:11,612 Speaker 2: little gross. How do I stop my border collie eating 2261 01:46:11,893 --> 01:46:15,412 Speaker 2: his own leavings? And is that bad for him? 2262 01:46:16,732 --> 01:46:16,932 Speaker 10: Yeah? 2263 01:46:17,093 --> 01:46:20,893 Speaker 7: So it's called coprophasia, and and it's a it's not 2264 01:46:21,013 --> 01:46:24,933 Speaker 7: an uncommon behavior. It's not a common baby. But of 2265 01:46:25,013 --> 01:46:27,333 Speaker 7: course for dogs it's not as gross as it is 2266 01:46:27,412 --> 01:46:31,652 Speaker 7: for humans. Dogs actually sometimes eat feces. In fact, they 2267 01:46:31,772 --> 01:46:34,052 Speaker 7: used to eat our feces. That's how they co evolved 2268 01:46:34,093 --> 01:46:37,772 Speaker 7: with us. And so because you know, we leave a 2269 01:46:37,812 --> 01:46:40,173 Speaker 7: whole lot of stuff and our digestives, you know, and 2270 01:46:40,293 --> 01:46:42,572 Speaker 7: our our feces, that's quite good to eat if you've 2271 01:46:42,612 --> 01:46:46,812 Speaker 7: got official not them. But but anyway, the bottom line 2272 01:46:46,933 --> 01:46:50,532 Speaker 7: is it's not a desirable behavior. It can be induced 2273 01:46:50,572 --> 01:46:55,492 Speaker 7: by dietary deficiencies, but normally it's something that develops when 2274 01:46:55,532 --> 01:46:58,932 Speaker 7: they're a pup and they're in a feces strewn kind 2275 01:46:58,973 --> 01:47:01,412 Speaker 7: of environment and they learn to eat the feces in 2276 01:47:01,492 --> 01:47:04,852 Speaker 7: that context. So normally what we do is it might sound, 2277 01:47:04,973 --> 01:47:07,012 Speaker 7: but it gets a place of gloves out. We bade 2278 01:47:07,093 --> 01:47:11,732 Speaker 7: up feces with something foul tasting but non toxic, and 2279 01:47:12,452 --> 01:47:14,293 Speaker 7: we've start with a taste of version. 2280 01:47:14,412 --> 01:47:18,013 Speaker 2: We get is there something fouler than dog feces out there? 2281 01:47:19,133 --> 01:47:23,532 Speaker 7: There is the dogs, So you know kyne peppers, and 2282 01:47:24,213 --> 01:47:26,652 Speaker 7: you go through, you make sure you check that it's 2283 01:47:26,692 --> 01:47:29,053 Speaker 7: not a toxic substance. Put it in a piece of meat, 2284 01:47:29,213 --> 01:47:31,732 Speaker 7: watch them spit it out. If that works, then that's 2285 01:47:31,772 --> 01:47:34,132 Speaker 7: the one to start with. And that's the first technique 2286 01:47:34,173 --> 01:47:37,012 Speaker 7: we use as other techniques, but that's that's the common 2287 01:47:37,093 --> 01:47:40,732 Speaker 7: first one. And we also look at balancing that dimetry 2288 01:47:41,053 --> 01:47:43,173 Speaker 7: deficiencies that could be part of the cause. 2289 01:47:43,893 --> 01:47:46,093 Speaker 2: Very cool, Thanks for sure. It doesn't make for nice breath, 2290 01:47:46,173 --> 01:47:47,412 Speaker 2: does it when they start doing that? 2291 01:47:47,572 --> 01:47:49,053 Speaker 3: No, no, no, you don't want to be lecked by 2292 01:47:49,053 --> 01:47:51,692 Speaker 3: a dog that does that. Mark. Thank you very much 2293 01:47:51,732 --> 01:47:53,892 Speaker 3: again for your time. Just hold there and will take 2294 01:47:54,173 --> 01:47:56,372 Speaker 3: a few more phone Callszer one hundred and eighty ten 2295 01:47:56,452 --> 01:47:58,532 Speaker 3: eighty is the number to call. It's eighteen to four. 2296 01:47:59,933 --> 01:48:03,412 Speaker 1: A fresh take on talk back Matt and Taylor Afternoons 2297 01:48:03,492 --> 01:48:06,892 Speaker 1: with a Volvo XC ninety. Turn every journey into something 2298 01:48:07,013 --> 01:48:08,572 Speaker 1: special have your safe on. 2299 01:48:10,652 --> 01:48:13,532 Speaker 3: Talk to Be News Talks it'd be. It is a 2300 01:48:13,652 --> 01:48:16,012 Speaker 3: quarter to forum. We're joined by Mark Vitti, a world 2301 01:48:16,053 --> 01:48:18,772 Speaker 3: renowned animal behaviorist. You know him well when he's taking 2302 01:48:18,812 --> 01:48:20,852 Speaker 3: your questions on our eight hundred and eighty teen eighty. 2303 01:48:20,893 --> 01:48:24,253 Speaker 3: If you've got a few issues with your pet, shall 2304 01:48:24,293 --> 01:48:25,812 Speaker 3: we say he is the man that you should be 2305 01:48:25,933 --> 01:48:26,293 Speaker 3: chatting to. 2306 01:48:26,652 --> 01:48:28,852 Speaker 2: He's also very popular by the amount of texts in 2307 01:48:28,973 --> 01:48:31,572 Speaker 2: the avalanche of phone calls we're getting coming through non stop. 2308 01:48:31,853 --> 01:48:33,692 Speaker 3: But if you can't get through, keep trying, and if 2309 01:48:33,692 --> 01:48:35,692 Speaker 3: you want to send a text question, you more than 2310 01:48:35,692 --> 01:48:38,973 Speaker 3: welcome nine to nine to two, Pam. You've got a 2311 01:48:39,253 --> 01:48:40,372 Speaker 3: issue with your golden retriever. 2312 01:48:41,213 --> 01:48:45,772 Speaker 23: Yes, it's a family one, and he keeps taking different 2313 01:48:46,213 --> 01:48:50,372 Speaker 23: items like te tels, clothes, keys, footwear, hides them and 2314 01:48:50,492 --> 01:48:53,013 Speaker 23: they haven't been able to find them. They've got a 2315 01:48:53,093 --> 01:48:57,372 Speaker 23: really loude section, but there's hunted and hunted and we 2316 01:48:57,452 --> 01:49:01,372 Speaker 23: don't know where he's burying them. He goes to Dohy 2317 01:49:01,492 --> 01:49:05,933 Speaker 23: Daycare once a week and other than that, he's a 2318 01:49:05,973 --> 01:49:09,173 Speaker 23: great dog, but he's just he's just getting air pain. 2319 01:49:14,093 --> 01:49:16,013 Speaker 7: Well, he's a Golden Retriever, of course, I've got one 2320 01:49:16,053 --> 01:49:18,572 Speaker 7: of those, so I know what it's like. And he 2321 01:49:18,732 --> 01:49:20,852 Speaker 7: loves to have something in his mouth, doesn't he. And 2322 01:49:22,133 --> 01:49:25,532 Speaker 7: he's a typical golden retriever. And and of course, and 2323 01:49:25,652 --> 01:49:28,612 Speaker 7: that means they wander off with them, and certainly they 2324 01:49:28,652 --> 01:49:32,013 Speaker 7: can end up in the wrong place. There's there's a 2325 01:49:32,053 --> 01:49:34,852 Speaker 7: technique that I that I teach in the school called 2326 01:49:34,893 --> 01:49:38,812 Speaker 7: discrimination training. And if you jump on and have a 2327 01:49:38,853 --> 01:49:41,612 Speaker 7: look at that video, that teaches you how to teach 2328 01:49:41,652 --> 01:49:44,333 Speaker 7: him to discriminate about what he's allowed to take and 2329 01:49:44,412 --> 01:49:47,692 Speaker 7: what he's not allowed to take. And discrimination training is 2330 01:49:47,732 --> 01:49:50,372 Speaker 7: the technique. It's a clicker training technique, and use the 2331 01:49:50,412 --> 01:49:53,173 Speaker 7: long line in the check lead. And so we're teaching 2332 01:49:53,253 --> 01:49:56,693 Speaker 7: him how to how to discriminate and what to discriminate. 2333 01:49:56,812 --> 01:49:59,093 Speaker 7: So he has all his things he's allowed, and we 2334 01:49:59,173 --> 01:50:01,293 Speaker 7: make sure he's got plenty of those, and we teach 2335 01:50:01,372 --> 01:50:03,812 Speaker 7: him that he's allowed those things, and then we teach 2336 01:50:03,893 --> 01:50:05,933 Speaker 7: him that he's not allowed the other things. Jump on 2337 01:50:05,973 --> 01:50:07,173 Speaker 7: the video, I have a look and see how I 2338 01:50:07,253 --> 01:50:09,013 Speaker 7: do it, and teach you how to do it. And 2339 01:50:09,452 --> 01:50:11,892 Speaker 7: as I said, the dogs, how old is he now? 2340 01:50:12,853 --> 01:50:12,973 Speaker 12: Oh? 2341 01:50:13,053 --> 01:50:15,532 Speaker 23: Probably six, so I would say six. 2342 01:50:15,412 --> 01:50:18,133 Speaker 7: Yeah, so yeah, I mean he's still middle aid, so 2343 01:50:18,372 --> 01:50:21,013 Speaker 7: still able to learn, and you know, oportum to get 2344 01:50:21,053 --> 01:50:23,093 Speaker 7: a dog by the time they are nine or ten. 2345 01:50:23,173 --> 01:50:26,293 Speaker 7: It gets pretty hard work trying to get them to 2346 01:50:26,492 --> 01:50:29,812 Speaker 7: rewire the behaviors. But of course this is a natural 2347 01:50:29,853 --> 01:50:32,412 Speaker 7: behavior a golden retriever to retrieve and to take it 2348 01:50:32,532 --> 01:50:34,692 Speaker 7: around and take it places. So the only way to 2349 01:50:34,812 --> 01:50:36,932 Speaker 7: teach him to stop doing it is to teach him 2350 01:50:36,933 --> 01:50:39,372 Speaker 7: to discriminate what he's allowed to touch and what he's 2351 01:50:39,412 --> 01:50:42,852 Speaker 7: not allowed. So jump on it. Dogs in fifty. If 2352 01:50:42,893 --> 01:50:44,333 Speaker 7: you put that and you're going to discount for the 2353 01:50:44,372 --> 01:50:46,412 Speaker 7: first month, you'll only need it for a month and 2354 01:50:46,492 --> 01:50:49,852 Speaker 7: then'll get the things sorted and you'll have a dog 2355 01:50:49,933 --> 01:50:51,253 Speaker 7: that doesn't steal all your good stuff. 2356 01:50:53,293 --> 01:50:57,692 Speaker 2: I hope that helps. Pam Holly, you've got an anxious dog, Lick. 2357 01:50:59,053 --> 01:51:02,572 Speaker 24: Yes, a high mass and child and thanks for taking 2358 01:51:02,652 --> 01:51:03,052 Speaker 24: my call. 2359 01:51:03,133 --> 01:51:03,372 Speaker 10: Mark. 2360 01:51:03,812 --> 01:51:08,892 Speaker 24: We've got a foxy Chiwava bearded Collie cross eight weeks 2361 01:51:08,933 --> 01:51:12,132 Speaker 24: old and she's been perfect. We're really well socialized, school pickups, 2362 01:51:12,133 --> 01:51:16,692 Speaker 24: coffee shops, writed ten dog packwalks. We've conditioned her to 2363 01:51:16,853 --> 01:51:19,732 Speaker 24: be home alone for short periods and hunts and hunt 2364 01:51:19,853 --> 01:51:22,652 Speaker 24: the trees and don't make a fuss when we come home. 2365 01:51:22,772 --> 01:51:24,812 Speaker 24: She just we just bland in and she's been really 2366 01:51:24,853 --> 01:51:28,132 Speaker 24: good one here. And it seems to be an allergy 2367 01:51:28,293 --> 01:51:31,213 Speaker 24: thim that she's got where she licks her front feet. 2368 01:51:32,853 --> 01:51:35,293 Speaker 14: We wondered if it was coakea whether it was a 2369 01:51:36,412 --> 01:51:37,892 Speaker 14: chicken based allergy. 2370 01:51:39,652 --> 01:51:44,132 Speaker 7: Right, she's not, she's not. She's not suffering separation, distressed 2371 01:51:44,173 --> 01:51:46,333 Speaker 7: brother sounds. It sounds like you're doing You've done a 2372 01:51:46,372 --> 01:51:48,812 Speaker 7: good job of that. So she's not licking the top 2373 01:51:48,893 --> 01:51:51,492 Speaker 7: of the poor where she's got a kind of alesion 2374 01:51:51,973 --> 01:51:54,572 Speaker 7: on the top of the floor paw. She's licking between 2375 01:51:54,612 --> 01:51:55,012 Speaker 7: the toes. 2376 01:51:56,293 --> 01:52:00,093 Speaker 24: It's under the well up up the back of the 2377 01:52:00,253 --> 01:52:03,572 Speaker 24: foot to the little toe. We would call it on 2378 01:52:03,612 --> 01:52:04,692 Speaker 24: a horse, I don't know what you call. 2379 01:52:04,612 --> 01:52:05,173 Speaker 11: It on a dog. 2380 01:52:05,853 --> 01:52:10,213 Speaker 7: That yeah, glory is she's so what what what? What's 2381 01:52:10,293 --> 01:52:11,932 Speaker 7: going on there? By the sounds of it, it sounds 2382 01:52:11,973 --> 01:52:14,893 Speaker 7: like a contact alogy. The most common cause of a 2383 01:52:14,973 --> 01:52:18,213 Speaker 7: contact alogy is wandering jew, believe it or not. And 2384 01:52:18,652 --> 01:52:21,812 Speaker 7: most people underneath their plants are wandering jew of some 2385 01:52:22,053 --> 01:52:25,973 Speaker 7: kind and that's really causes quite a bad inflammation and 2386 01:52:27,893 --> 01:52:31,412 Speaker 7: that analogy, and so that's probably what it is, But 2387 01:52:31,812 --> 01:52:34,173 Speaker 7: the best thing is is check it out with the 2388 01:52:34,213 --> 01:52:38,012 Speaker 7: vet and there's verse tests they can do to determine 2389 01:52:38,213 --> 01:52:41,852 Speaker 7: whether it's a food allergy or contactology or some other 2390 01:52:41,973 --> 01:52:44,772 Speaker 7: kind of cause. But it's really more of a medical 2391 01:52:44,853 --> 01:52:48,412 Speaker 7: issue that one. But yeah, that's the I would suggest 2392 01:52:48,532 --> 01:52:52,213 Speaker 7: it's probably wandering jew or something like that that's causing 2393 01:52:52,213 --> 01:52:53,892 Speaker 7: her a contactology under a feet. 2394 01:52:55,692 --> 01:52:59,893 Speaker 2: I hope that works. Good. Lack gale, you've got a 2395 01:52:59,973 --> 01:53:01,732 Speaker 2: dog that's not answering your calls? 2396 01:53:02,973 --> 01:53:04,572 Speaker 25: No, take your space? 2397 01:53:04,692 --> 01:53:05,173 Speaker 21: Can you hear me? 2398 01:53:05,213 --> 01:53:07,173 Speaker 3: Okay, yep, gotch a loud and clear you go for 2399 01:53:07,253 --> 01:53:07,572 Speaker 3: a gale. 2400 01:53:09,013 --> 01:53:09,893 Speaker 7: Hi, thank you. 2401 01:53:10,732 --> 01:53:13,293 Speaker 25: We've got a six and a half year old, very small, 2402 01:53:13,372 --> 01:53:16,972 Speaker 25: adorable mini shaus with her. We just love and she's 2403 01:53:17,173 --> 01:53:19,372 Speaker 25: she's always been very stubborn. I think many schnauss are 2404 01:53:19,452 --> 01:53:22,492 Speaker 25: incredibly stubborn, and it's my way of the highway. So 2405 01:53:22,572 --> 01:53:24,213 Speaker 25: she's been quite hard to turn off her dogs. In 2406 01:53:24,293 --> 01:53:27,652 Speaker 25: my life, I've never known such a bad recall. She 2407 01:53:27,933 --> 01:53:30,692 Speaker 25: She's fine with my daughter, who's actually sort of broken 2408 01:53:30,772 --> 01:53:34,372 Speaker 25: horses and stuff, so los a very stern voice. She's 2409 01:53:34,412 --> 01:53:36,053 Speaker 25: away union ow. But when I take her for a 2410 01:53:36,093 --> 01:53:40,692 Speaker 25: walk twice a day, she's she's a let's a sniffer, sniffer, sniffer, 2411 01:53:41,013 --> 01:53:43,652 Speaker 25: and I get that that's their social things, but you 2412 01:53:43,893 --> 01:53:46,492 Speaker 25: just can't walk with her because or off leash, because 2413 01:53:46,893 --> 01:53:49,012 Speaker 25: you'd be two caves down the road and she's still 2414 01:53:49,053 --> 01:53:53,692 Speaker 25: sniffing somewhere else. And it's just that's not fun so 2415 01:53:53,893 --> 01:53:57,253 Speaker 25: much now, you know, because then and I'm wondering because 2416 01:53:57,253 --> 01:53:58,772 Speaker 25: when she was younger, she's get a lot of time 2417 01:53:58,853 --> 01:54:00,892 Speaker 25: on the farm and that's of fun. So she's run 2418 01:54:01,013 --> 01:54:02,652 Speaker 25: around heart bloot, you. 2419 01:54:02,692 --> 01:54:08,173 Speaker 2: Know with my jack grassle Whenie snows across the very 2420 01:54:08,333 --> 01:54:08,893 Speaker 2: familiar to me. 2421 01:54:10,333 --> 01:54:14,333 Speaker 7: Yeah, it's very much all those breeds, you know, in 2422 01:54:14,452 --> 01:54:17,612 Speaker 7: any any breed that's got us and learns to usually 2423 01:54:17,692 --> 01:54:20,093 Speaker 7: those a lot. Of course, dog's got two million times 2424 01:54:20,173 --> 01:54:23,612 Speaker 7: better smell than us, so it's not surprising that they're 2425 01:54:23,612 --> 01:54:27,052 Speaker 7: reading the newspaper while they're on the walk, and that's 2426 01:54:27,053 --> 01:54:31,253 Speaker 7: actually what they do do. So that really is is 2427 01:54:31,612 --> 01:54:34,253 Speaker 7: normally I use clicker training for recall. It's the most 2428 01:54:34,293 --> 01:54:38,893 Speaker 7: effective way and long line and there's actually at the 2429 01:54:38,973 --> 01:54:41,852 Speaker 7: video on recall on the school that you can check 2430 01:54:41,933 --> 01:54:44,013 Speaker 7: out and just see how how I do it. And 2431 01:54:44,812 --> 01:54:47,053 Speaker 7: it's and you want to be working on a long 2432 01:54:47,173 --> 01:54:49,613 Speaker 7: line after a while, so she's dragging the long line. 2433 01:54:51,133 --> 01:54:54,373 Speaker 7: But you need to have use contrast training. Whi's the 2434 01:54:54,453 --> 01:54:57,373 Speaker 7: technique which I teach in there and and you need 2435 01:54:57,453 --> 01:54:59,613 Speaker 7: to prove it, which means you need to once you've 2436 01:54:59,653 --> 01:55:02,133 Speaker 7: trained it in an easy situation, then you need to 2437 01:55:02,213 --> 01:55:05,653 Speaker 7: systematically work it out and the more difficult situations where 2438 01:55:05,693 --> 01:55:08,132 Speaker 7: there's dogs and people and lots of things around. 2439 01:55:09,772 --> 01:55:11,973 Speaker 2: Good luck with your sniffy miniche now, yeah, all the 2440 01:55:12,013 --> 01:55:13,972 Speaker 2: bear scales. It's my life every morning. 2441 01:55:14,973 --> 01:55:17,932 Speaker 3: Now, Mart, we've got about sixty seconds left, so hopefully 2442 01:55:17,933 --> 01:55:21,173 Speaker 3: that's enough time. Quick text question Guys, my six month 2443 01:55:21,253 --> 01:55:23,693 Speaker 3: old labrador jumps all over me in the morning until 2444 01:55:23,733 --> 01:55:26,453 Speaker 3: I feed him. It's chaos. Will he ever settle down? 2445 01:55:26,613 --> 01:55:27,253 Speaker 3: Please help? 2446 01:55:28,373 --> 01:55:32,012 Speaker 7: Yeah. Clicker training is again the trick with labradors. If 2447 01:55:32,133 --> 01:55:35,453 Speaker 7: so food oriented, get him on the clicker. Clicker means 2448 01:55:35,733 --> 01:55:38,333 Speaker 7: he learns to exactly what you want him to do. 2449 01:55:38,693 --> 01:55:40,932 Speaker 7: And the trick there is click and reward four feet 2450 01:55:41,013 --> 01:55:45,052 Speaker 7: on the ground and he will earn that the hours. 2451 01:55:45,333 --> 01:55:45,733 Speaker 5: Brilliant. 2452 01:55:46,253 --> 01:55:48,932 Speaker 7: It's easy to do really, particularly with the lab because 2453 01:55:48,933 --> 01:55:50,493 Speaker 7: he's so food oriented. 2454 01:55:51,453 --> 01:55:55,133 Speaker 3: Fantastic Mark. We've run out of time. But man, we 2455 01:55:55,213 --> 01:55:57,892 Speaker 3: could have done this for four hours and we'll still 2456 01:55:57,973 --> 01:56:00,012 Speaker 3: have calls to get to. So we'll catch you again 2457 01:56:00,213 --> 01:56:02,453 Speaker 3: at about a month's time. If you want to check 2458 01:56:02,493 --> 01:56:05,693 Speaker 3: out Mark doc Zen dot com and as you've mentioned 2459 01:56:05,733 --> 01:56:07,093 Speaker 3: throughout the ale, you've got a bit of a deal 2460 01:56:07,133 --> 01:56:07,812 Speaker 3: line at the moment. 2461 01:56:09,293 --> 01:56:13,373 Speaker 7: Yeah, and just jump on our Facebook page and meet 2462 01:56:13,453 --> 01:56:16,892 Speaker 7: us there and you know, do blogs and talk backs 2463 01:56:16,933 --> 01:56:19,333 Speaker 7: and Facebook lives and all types of stuff so you 2464 01:56:19,413 --> 01:56:22,293 Speaker 7: can communicate with me there as well when you can't 2465 01:56:22,333 --> 01:56:23,812 Speaker 7: get me on the screat show. 2466 01:56:23,973 --> 01:56:26,173 Speaker 3: Brilliant stuff. Thank you very much, Mike. We'll catch you 2467 01:56:26,213 --> 01:56:29,773 Speaker 3: again very soon. That is Mark Vittie, world renowned animal behaviorist. 2468 01:56:29,812 --> 01:56:34,493 Speaker 1: It is six to four, the big stories, the big issues, 2469 01:56:34,733 --> 01:56:38,173 Speaker 1: the big trends and everything in between. Matt and Tayler 2470 01:56:38,293 --> 01:56:42,053 Speaker 1: Afternoons with the Volvo XC ninety, attention to detail and 2471 01:56:42,133 --> 01:56:43,852 Speaker 1: a commitment to comfort news talks. 2472 01:56:43,853 --> 01:56:44,173 Speaker 12: There'd be. 2473 01:56:45,933 --> 01:56:49,293 Speaker 3: Thank you very much for today. That is about our lot. 2474 01:56:49,533 --> 01:56:50,932 Speaker 3: We'll do it all again tomorrow. 2475 01:56:51,333 --> 01:56:53,653 Speaker 2: Yeah, see you tomorrow AVO for another edition of Matt 2476 01:56:53,653 --> 01:56:57,493 Speaker 2: and Tyler Afternoons. 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