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Speaker 1: The Hits Drive with Maddy and PJ. Thanks to Chimis

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Speaker 1: were House the Real House of Fragrances. Hello everyone, welcome

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Speaker 1: to the podcast. Coming up on the show today, we

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Speaker 1: talk about when you received a message that wasn't meant

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Speaker 1: to go to you. They got the wrong recipients or vices,

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Speaker 1: and maybe you're the one that sent it. I remember

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Speaker 1: a friend of mine. Actually i've more coworker the X.

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Speaker 2: Let's say, I love that you're tiptoeing around it. It's fine,

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Speaker 2: you can say his name. I'm not a jealous body.

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Speaker 1: We had your ex colleague John Campbell and.

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Speaker 2: The other day I'm jealous. That's fine, fine, No.

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Speaker 1: But I was dating his friend for a period of time,

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Speaker 1: and I remember he went into my messages to see

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Speaker 1: my colleague, my mom and will work back Jackson.

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Speaker 2: It's just sure, we've been so awkward. I know it, so.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't need to be awkward. Anyway, Jason went onto my

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Speaker 1: phone and he went to text his mate. He was

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Speaker 1: just going to send a message and he went into history.

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Speaker 1: Well I didn't know was he was a very sultry photo,

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Speaker 1: like very revealing.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what I was thinking, What do you

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Speaker 2: mean you don't know what you were thinking sending the

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Speaker 2: photo in the first place.

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Speaker 1: I can't remember. I don't I can't even remember the context.

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Speaker 1: But the photo was like me and a bath.

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Speaker 2: I can't seen the photo, seen the photo.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 1: I haven't released like I did long distance for a

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Speaker 1: long time. I haven't sent many rescue photos. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: too scared. I mean, oh yeah, no fast, not just

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Speaker 1: graz of course, lots of like lingerie.

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Speaker 2: I told you about this though. When I recently sent

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Speaker 2: Ryan a photo, it was low level. Like it was

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Speaker 2: low level. I was just a topless photo mirror. I've

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Speaker 2: been for a run and I took my top half

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Speaker 2: once I got home because I was very sweaty, and

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Speaker 2: I thought, oh my my, like torso looks quite good

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Speaker 2: because it was kind of like glistening a little bit,

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Speaker 2: and I don't just worked out. I thought I want

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Speaker 2: to snap a little photo of this. And then I

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Speaker 2: took it and I thought, actually, this is quite good.

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Speaker 2: And I sent it to Ryan and he went, why

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Speaker 2: have you sent me this?

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Speaker 1: And I was, no, it's not the response.

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Speaker 2: No, no. I was really feeling myself and I was

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Speaker 2: hoping that I would get back.

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Speaker 1: You get like the fire emoji, like that hot emoji

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Speaker 1: face like little drop.

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Speaker 2: I go, I got, what's with the photo?

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Speaker 1: I think I'm going to give a message tonight.

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Speaker 2: Nice.

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Speaker 1: He loves when we touch.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, is he going to put the is he going

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Speaker 2: to put the ultra ultra pilot mask on?

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Speaker 1: It's been a while I've been a bit selfish and

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Speaker 1: I've been running off with it. Sorry, I might put

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Speaker 1: it on him and then put it on it, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean. So we definitely like it's funny

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Speaker 1: like sometimes you know, like work and like just always

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Speaker 1: so busy. You kind of get home and it's easy

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Speaker 1: to sometimes feel disconnected the fuck. As soon as we massage,

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Speaker 1: I put on some relaxing like I'll put the way

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Speaker 1: it's pure really session, May you live all the days

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Speaker 1: of your life? That's this is my little meditation it okay,

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Speaker 1: three hours a pure relaxationion. This is what I played on.

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Speaker 2: Are you quite good at messages as well?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I'm really good at messages. My dad used to

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Speaker 2: I reckon I learned off her. So yeah, good rub

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Speaker 2: down Ryan Love's messages. I need to do that more. Actually,

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Speaker 2: it's nice. I haven't given them a good massage in

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Speaker 1: Good, rub, it's so underrated your partner message in your record.

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Speaker 2: Someone did text and we didn't read this on the

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Speaker 2: show about the wrong messages, sending it to the wrong person. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: they said. I sent a text that said, get the

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Speaker 2: I'm a little late, start without me. Thought it was

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Speaker 2: to my wife, but sent it to the goalkeeper of

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Speaker 1: It's so good, get the one up, get up, get

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Speaker 2: I know, but imagine the goalkeeper was like, oh, I

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Speaker 1: The Y's dangerous coming up of the podcast. Oh, the

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Speaker 1: next installment of Bjay's Next Big War sober Gig. We

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Speaker 2: Has taken on a life of its own. I love it. Plus,

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Speaker 2: you were pretty desperate for me to do something for

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Speaker 2: you last week and I tried my best. I tried

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Speaker 1: I'm genuinely fucking mortified about this. I it's made it

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Speaker 1: worse it's made it so much worse that you said something.

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Speaker 2: I shouldn't have said anything. Oh you didn't want me

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Speaker 2: to say anything. I I got the wrong mess I'm

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Speaker 2: so sorry. I got the wrong message. I'm so water. Anyway,

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Speaker 2: that plus about sending the wrong messages to you, there

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Speaker 2: was some funny calls there as well.

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Speaker 1: Enjoy the podcast. Have a great night, everyone, love you,

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Speaker 1: I love you man the podcast. So yesterday on the show, Look,

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Speaker 1: there's been in the works for a few weeks. Behind

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Speaker 1: the scenes, hadn't it many You and I sort of

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Speaker 1: chatted about this. My husband Beja. He dropped a comment

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Speaker 1: a while back saying, why can you do voiceovers for

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Speaker 1: ads and not like your regular Joe Joe blogs, you know,

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Speaker 1: like do you have to have like a special voice

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Speaker 1: or do they do they talk? Do they take on

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure there's a market for like a

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Speaker 2: Like unpolished someone that doesn't do this on the regular,

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Speaker 1: No, And so I may or may not have planted

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Speaker 1: the seed and told him that I'd reached out to

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Speaker 1: a voicing urgency just to sort of get the feelers

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Speaker 4: I work for Being Talent Agency. We recently worked with

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Speaker 4: poly voiceover campaign. She mentioned that you might be interested

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Speaker 4: would that be something you're kind of interested in doing?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, hey, I wouldn't be sure to give it

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Speaker 4: I'd love to look at getting you in for kind

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Speaker 4: to repeat a couple of lines down the phone. Okay, yep,

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Speaker 4: spates prior to the South.

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Speaker 2: Spats prior to the South.

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Speaker 4: Can we try maybe bigger, better, bolder, bigger better, bolder,

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Speaker 4: made by men for men.

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Speaker 3: Made by men?

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Speaker 2: Sorry, no, no, no, you're all good.

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Speaker 1: Give it another go.

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Speaker 2: Made by men for men.

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Speaker 4: Awesome, awesome. Do you want to actually just kind of

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Speaker 2: Made by men for men?

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Speaker 1: Like laughing at and maybe it's really cruel, but oh

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Speaker 1: my god, all things coming up with ideas and things

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Speaker 1: I should do to you. Man, he did not see

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Speaker 2: The beautiful thing is you know, like I feel like

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Speaker 1: So New Zealand, this is where we need your help

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Speaker 1: now because poor Beage. You know, it was a little

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Speaker 1: humiliated yesterday and I don't want that to be the

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Speaker 1: end of his voice in Korea. No, we have an

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Speaker 1: opportunity for him. And this is where you come in.

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Speaker 1: I'll wait hundred the hits. If you are a business

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Speaker 1: and you think that Bejay's voice could be great at

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Speaker 1: voicing and add for you that will make up. It'll

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Speaker 1: be a special complimentary ad that will play out in

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Speaker 1: our show. Get in touch right now, oh waite, hundred

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Speaker 1: the hats. Now it could be a small business. The

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Speaker 1: No evil feminine, the better even I reckon.

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Speaker 2: If BJ is having to promote sanitary products or something brilliant,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, look at the phones that go on.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, under the hats, New Zealand. If you have

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Speaker 1: has no idea about this, to voice your commercial that

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Speaker 1: will play out in our show, get into that right now.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, a hundred hurts.

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Speaker 2: I was so much trouble.

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Speaker 3: Mary and PJ May and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 1: In the meantime, my dear husband BJ. He's a farmer

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Speaker 1: and the white ed upper and now potentially the biggest

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing. Both your husband and my husband have

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Speaker 2: in terms of how much they think they offered to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they always think they come up to be fair.

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Speaker 1: They do come up, they come up with but they

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Speaker 1: like think that they could do our job blindfolded today.

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Speaker 2: a little bit. And we did that yesterday by pranking

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Speaker 2: your husband BJ.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we had an agent calling him and he

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Speaker 1: He gave his best lines for some really manly brands,

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Speaker 1: and today I thought we could take it up another

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Speaker 1: New Zealand. I wait one hundred the hits to call

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Speaker 1: the show. Do you have a business and do you

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Speaker 1: think Bjay's voice may suit your ad? As a voice

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Speaker 1: overread Travis, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hey, a very hell Travis ahead.

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Speaker 1: What's what's your business called? Give it a shout out?

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Speaker 1: So it's Henry's Family Pies and Altani and the Hook's

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Speaker 1: Bay and we just do some real good pies. BJ

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Speaker 1: loves a pie. You know, I think you'd get that

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Speaker 1: authentic a load of response from him?

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Speaker 2: Nice me, did you did you did you have any

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Speaker 2: feedback from Bjay's voice Trevor's did you think?

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Speaker 7: I reckon it was pretty solid. There was a few

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Speaker 7: good lines that was actually.

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Speaker 1: Really good that made for men by men.

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Speaker 2: Got me ringing up truly.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, Trevis, thank you so much for your submission.

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Speaker 1: We may have to sort of go home and think

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Speaker 1: about the exact brand that we do end up locking them,

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Speaker 1: but we'll listen to Darryl's pitch first hits Hi, Daryl,

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Speaker 1: what's your business.

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Speaker 5: House name?

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Speaker 2: Very well, Darryl, Wow, Daryl, that's good.

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Speaker 1: My business is called Megabytes Fishing Charter Limited and we

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is this has got beja written all over.

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Speaker 1: Like how like with family? Yes, I did it straight

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Speaker 2: Sixty percent said yeah, it's totally fine to bite into

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Speaker 10: group therapy.

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Speaker 1: All Right, Every week on the show, we have group

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Speaker 1: therapy where we attack one of your dilemmas. We try

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Speaker 1: share anyway, oh w eight hundred the hats to weigh

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Speaker 1: in on this week's dilemma, Maddy, can you quickly recap.

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Speaker 2: This person said? I've been with my amazing partner for

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Speaker 2: six years now. She's great, we have a great relationship,

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Speaker 2: but I've always been really clear that marriage isn't huge

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Speaker 2: on my priority list. I'm not opposed to it per se,

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Speaker 2: but I'm also quite happy with the solid relationship we

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Speaker 2: already have. My partner has always maintained she feels similarly,

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Speaker 2: but she's also always been quick to tell me that

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Speaker 2: if I ever did ask, she would say yes. So,

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Speaker 2: now I'm in this situation, is there a switch that

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Speaker 2: will go off in my head when I know the

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Speaker 2: timing is right to propose. And also, is my partner

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Speaker 2: being serious when she says she doesn't care? Or do

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Speaker 2: you think she's sitting there furious. I haven't dropped a knee.

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Speaker 1: Yet, do you reckon? Let quite soon into a relationship,

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Speaker 1: you know, if you want to marry the person.

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Speaker 2: I think you know pretty soon whether you want to

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Speaker 2: be long term with that person. But marriage isn't necessarily

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Speaker 2: for everyone.

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Speaker 1: That's true. That is true. I'm just I remember, probably

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Speaker 1: quite early on the relationship, I knew I want to

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Speaker 1: dea have babies with Bjay and first time I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is it. Here we go. But it's not the same.

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Speaker 1: Everyone is so different for what they look for in

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Speaker 1: a relationship, you know, how they want to identify as

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Speaker 1: a relationship. Some people just don't need that term. They

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Speaker 1: don't need the term of actually being husband and wife. Catherine,

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Speaker 1: what are your words of wisdom this week?

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Speaker 6: Hi, I don't need to have the conversation if they've

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Speaker 6: been together for six years. Yeah, females may be in

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Speaker 6: the back of everybody's head. Probably females is that baby thing,

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Speaker 6: and it may be just that potentially she may have

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Speaker 6: changed her mind or she wants that for having kids.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, So you think it's just like even if

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Speaker 2: you had a conversation earlier on in your relationship, it's

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Speaker 2: always good to just check back in and double check

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Speaker 2: how are you feeling, where do you stand on the

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Speaker 2: whole marriage thing, and just have a really open dialogue.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: And the other thing being that these days, with the

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Speaker 6: laws as they are, once you've been in a long

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Speaker 6: term relationship for what is it, three years, you're basically

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Speaker 6: under the law I legally married, assets and everything else,

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Speaker 6: So why not.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well, yeah, it's a good point, and I

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Speaker 1: think I think the main thing is you're right, never

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Speaker 1: make assumptions, and it's really important to refresh those conversations

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Speaker 1: that you have regularly in the relationship.

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Speaker 2: Totally, and dare I say it. For a lot of people,

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Speaker 2: I think what puts them off the idea of marriage

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Speaker 2: is actually the rigmarole of a wedding and money become

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Speaker 2: this crazy thing. But it doesn't have to be that. No,

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Speaker 2: it doesn't have to.

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Speaker 3: Be that way.

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Speaker 1: Alan is one hundred and hats Alan, what are your

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Speaker 1: thoughts on the whole situation?

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Speaker 7: We actually had a very similar so my husband and

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Speaker 7: I backwards we bought a house first, and then had

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Speaker 7: a child and then got engaged.

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Speaker 2: Right, love it.

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Speaker 7: How long have you this for? Seven years before we

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Speaker 7: got engaged?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 2: And what was that? Was that? Because you both had

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Speaker 2: discussed not getting married at all?

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Speaker 7: He knew that at some point would we just it

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Speaker 7: was more hem, he was more his attent because he

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Speaker 7: honestly didn't see the point but.

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Speaker 2: Cutting out a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Alan, but Allan, I'm so sorry we can't properly hear you.

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Speaker 1: But but now everything's all, it's all sort of worked out.

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Speaker 1: Happy days.

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Speaker 7: So we we eloped last year just before Christmas. Didn't

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Speaker 7: tell anyone that was at Christmas present to everyone.

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Speaker 2: Amazing, amazing. Yeah, Ellen did tax sessions. She said. We

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Speaker 2: got married last year, celebrated ten years together this year.

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Speaker 2: He knew I wanted to get married at some point,

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Speaker 2: but I was happy to wait until he was ready.

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Speaker 1: Communication. Guys, that's same Wen. You just got to keep

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Speaker 1: having those tough conversations. You might think it's awkward, but

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Speaker 1: you're regridded if you don't have it, and don't make

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Speaker 1: assumptions because things can change over time.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna have some that up perfectly summed it up.

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Speaker 10: PREJ Many and PJ the podcast that you're.

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Speaker 2: Very talented, Page, You're an amazing friend, you're a mum,

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Speaker 2: you're a podcast host.

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Speaker 1: I don't like where this is going.

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Speaker 2: A brilliant radio host. You're funny, you're caring. I'd call you,

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Speaker 2: do I say it? A joy bringer?

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Speaker 1: Oh God, what have I done?

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Speaker 2: And so last week you and I were having a

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Speaker 2: conversation and you said to me that you had noticed

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Speaker 2: that there was a website in New Zealand called Capsule

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Speaker 2: that we're asking for nominations no for female joy Bringers

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Speaker 2: in New Zealand Many.

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Speaker 1: It was a throwaway comment. I was only taking the

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Speaker 1: mickey when I said that I wanted to be nominated.

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Speaker 1: I did not mean that I actually wanted to be nominated.

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Speaker 2: I know you were quite serious about it. You said

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Speaker 2: to me, you would love for someone to nominate you

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Speaker 2: as a joy Bringer in the Capsule Awards ceremony that

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Speaker 2: they're hosting at the moment.

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Speaker 1: So they're doing like this GB Awards and like all

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Speaker 1: of these amazing, strong, talented women in the community were

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Speaker 1: being nominated. And I saw this post and a lot

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Speaker 1: of the women were low broadcasters, and they hit the

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Speaker 1: most amazing write up. So I was like, Wow, there

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Speaker 1: would be nice, but I was kind of joking.

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Speaker 2: No, you weren't. You asked me if I could nominate you. Yes,

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Speaker 2: you did me.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't have the same pot thing if you go

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Speaker 1: and nominate me when I'm asked you.

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Speaker 2: That's not how it works.

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Speaker 1: I'd love to be nominators. So when you start telling

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Speaker 1: someone to nominate.

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Speaker 2: So when you said to me, can you nominate me

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Speaker 2: for these awards? You weren't serious. You didn't actually want

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Speaker 2: me to nominate you.

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Speaker 1: No, I just I mean like it would be so nice,

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Speaker 1: unprovoked to be nominated, do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm dying. This is so emariti.

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Speaker 2: So I reached out to my good friend Kelly, who

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Speaker 2: runs Capsule No, to ask her if it was too

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Speaker 2: late for me to nominate you. I said to her, Look,

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Speaker 2: PJ is desperate to be nominated. She's asked me, She's

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Speaker 2: asked me to.

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Speaker 1: Throw This just removes all critics.

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Speaker 2: She's asked me to throw her name in the hat

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Speaker 2: for the joy Bringer Awards that you're running at the moment.

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Speaker 2: Is it too late for me to nominate PJ? And

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Speaker 2: I got a message back today and she said, oh

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Speaker 2: that's so cute. I hate you.

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Speaker 1: Look, I hate you.

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Speaker 2: We have sorted out the nominees this year, but we've

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Speaker 2: been so blown away by the response that we already

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Speaker 2: have massive plans for next year. So maybe you can

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Speaker 2: nominate PJBN.

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Speaker 1: This is so much worse and not nominating in the first.

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Speaker 2: Way, So I'm so sorry. I know you desperately wanted

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Speaker 2: me to nominate you for this award. I did try

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Speaker 2: to nominate you, but unfortunately Peage this year, we were

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Speaker 2: just a little too late and we've we've missed the

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Speaker 2: cutoff dates. So I'm so sorry that I couldn't nominate you,

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Speaker 2: even though you desperately asked me to nominate you.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, imagine if they then did a post

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Speaker 1: of like the late to the past petty nominees. That's

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Speaker 1: what it feels like. I can't believe you messaged it.

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Speaker 1: Oh this God. What can I do to rectify the situation.

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Speaker 2: I think we'd wait until next year, and we tried.

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Speaker 3: Mary and Mary and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 2: So over the weekend I went up to far Today.

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Speaker 2: I told you about this, a little trip to Northland

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Speaker 2: and I arrived at this event. I was going up

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Speaker 2: for a food festival that they've got up there, and

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Speaker 2: I arrived the first event that I was going to,

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Speaker 2: which was like a long lunch, but my friends were

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Speaker 2: an hour late, so I had to make friends with

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Speaker 2: the people that were at the table with me.

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Speaker 1: That's right, And you said they all loved.

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Speaker 2: You and you are joke joke, Oh my god, I

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Speaker 2: was so. I was so funny. I was of the

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Speaker 2: table truly, and you can't fat check it, so you

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Speaker 2: just have to take my word for it.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, had to track down one of your new friends.

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Speaker 2: Well, one of my new friends was a woman called Stacy,

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Speaker 2: and Stacy was celebrating her fortieth birthday. So all the

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Speaker 2: gowls had gathered for for Stacy's birthday and and me.

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Speaker 2: So it was literally, of course, all of Stacy's friends

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Speaker 2: and this random guy that had shown up to this

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Speaker 2: restaurant by himself, but blessed them, they really like took

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Speaker 2: me in. And so then part way through the lunch,

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Speaker 2: we were celebrating Stacy and her birthday, and the friends

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Speaker 2: decided this is the perfect time to hand over the

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Speaker 2: joint birthday gift that we've gotten for Stacy. Oh, God,

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Speaker 2: and I have to join in, like, congratulations, happy birthday.

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Speaker 2: We put a lot of thought into this gift for Stacy, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: because I know you so well, really like really thought

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Speaker 2: about what you would appreciate.

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Speaker 1: And then did they go on and share stories their

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Speaker 1: favorite men Stacy growing up, You're like, well, my favorite

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Speaker 1: memory is the.

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Speaker 2: Two minutes that I've known Stacey for.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 2: But they gave her the gift and Stacey opened it

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Speaker 2: and blessed her. She went, oh my god, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: this is amazing. It was tickets to Symphony next year

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Speaker 2: in the Domain and an amazing festival gig and she

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Speaker 2: she went, oh my god, this is amazing. Wow. Then

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Speaker 2: time goes on and we're having a few more drinks

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Speaker 2: and we're having a having a few more laughs. And

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Speaker 2: after a few more drinks, Stacy gets a little bit

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Speaker 2: more loose lipped and she reveals that actually she knew

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Speaker 2: she was getting Symphony tickets for her birthday because when

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Speaker 2: the Gowls started the group chat to discuss what they

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Speaker 2: were going to get for Stacy's birthday, the person who

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Speaker 2: started the group chat accidentally added Stacy to the group chat.

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Speaker 1: Ladies, you have one job, and that is keep Stacy

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Speaker 1: out of the group chat.

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Speaker 2: And Stacey just blessed her sat in the group chat

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Speaker 2: quietly and didn't say anything because she said, I couldn't

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Speaker 2: you leave because it will say Stacy has left to

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Speaker 2: the group chat. So she just sat there patiently and

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Speaker 2: then put on her best Oscar worthy performance of surprise

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Speaker 2: feigned surprise when they gave her the gift that she

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Speaker 2: knew all along she was getting from these gals.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe no one noticed the suppose it would

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Speaker 1: take a bit of extra admin to actually go into

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Speaker 1: the group members.

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Speaker 2: True, yeah, yeah, yeah exactly. So it got me thinking

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Speaker 2: because this will have happened so many times in very

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Speaker 2: different scenarios. Right, you got a message accidentally that wasn't

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Speaker 2: meant for you for Stacy, was a methage saying this

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Speaker 2: is what we're getting Stacy for her birthday. But maybe

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Speaker 2: it was a little bit more scandalous than that. Maybe

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Speaker 2: you got to take me more. Maybe you've got a

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Speaker 2: text or a DM that wasn't meant for you, but

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Speaker 2: you got it anyway.

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Speaker 3: Mary and PJ. Mary and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 1: That we just want to know, when did you receive

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Speaker 1: a message that was not actually for you, or maybe

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Speaker 1: you sent the message to someone and you got it wrong.

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Speaker 1: What happened to you?

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Speaker 2: Mclaims this is so bad. I was eighteen, so I

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Speaker 2: was my first year at university. I was flatting and

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Speaker 2: my flatmate, you know, we just had petty flatmate drama.

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Speaker 2: Someone hadn't done the dishes or I can't even remember

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Speaker 2: what the what the issue was at the time, but

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Speaker 2: I went to text my best friend complaining about my flatmate,

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Speaker 2: and I was pretty like scathing in my review of

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Speaker 2: my flatmate.

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Speaker 1: Donnie has left his sheets on the floor again, left

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Speaker 1: his Judy towel on the ground.

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Speaker 2: He smells. I don't know. I can't remember what I said,

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Speaker 2: but I remember vividly sitting in my bedroom with the

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Speaker 2: door closed, and then I sent the text off to

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Speaker 2: my best friend. And then I got a knock on

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Speaker 2: my door.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, and.

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Speaker 2: I opened the door and it was said flatmate, and

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Speaker 2: they just held their phone out to me and showed

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Speaker 2: me the text that i'd accidentally just sent them.

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Speaker 1: What did you say?

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Speaker 2: What did you say? I just owned it because it's

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Speaker 2: all I could do, and we got over it and

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Speaker 2: it was fine. But yeah, it was such a good

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Speaker 2: reminder to check who you a tex stick.

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Speaker 1: Because it's off in front of mind. The name right,

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Speaker 1: that's what. Let's got a pie here, and the lesson's

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Speaker 1: joining us. Hand to the hats. When did you receive

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Speaker 1: a message that wasn't for you?

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Speaker 11: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Man, I it was many years ago, but I remember

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Speaker 5: it very clearly. I got this picture message pop up

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Speaker 5: and I clicked on it, and it was a woman

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Speaker 5: ironing without wearing any clothes whatsoever. And I just went, oh,

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Speaker 5: that's that's not for me.

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Speaker 2: Did you know yes? Did you know the woman?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 5: And I did not know this number, and so I

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Speaker 5: just replied back to the person and I said, look,

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Speaker 5: I'm pretty sure you have the wrong number. Never heard

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Speaker 5: anything else, but oh gosh.

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Speaker 2: I was terrible. Look mine was bad enough. But if

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Speaker 2: you were sending out those kinds of photos, cheek to

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Speaker 2: the right number. I mean, good on them, Good on them,

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Speaker 2: melody and good.

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Speaker 11: A being good thanks time.

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Speaker 2: How you soud very well?

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Speaker 1: Not too bad melody?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: When did you receive a message that wasn't for you?

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Speaker 11: Well, my husband was there, he was my boyfriend back then,

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Speaker 11: was doing the right thing and was asking my dad

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Speaker 11: for my hand in marriage and food Commas, but Dad

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Speaker 11: was overseas at the time, so my boyfriend thought he

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Speaker 11: would just get the email address from my email and

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Speaker 11: send it from there. So when Dad replied, it came

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Speaker 11: back into my own box.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, So you saw the whole chain. You

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Speaker 2: saw your boyfriend's email to your dad asking for his permission.

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Speaker 2: What are you doing? What are you doing that situation?

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Speaker 11: Like you, Maddie. I ran my best friend and I

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Speaker 11: said what do I do? And we just agreed. I

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Speaker 11: had to just play it call not say anything. And

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Speaker 11: then it was in a few months where he popped

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Speaker 11: the question and that was pretty awesome. But that night

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Speaker 11: we had a few we'd had a few bubbles and

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Speaker 11: I told him and I really wish I hadn't.

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Speaker 10: Kind of.

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Speaker 11: We're celebrating twenty years marriage.

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Speaker 2: EXU worked.

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