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Speaker 1: The Hits Drive with Maddy and p J. Thanks to

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Speaker 1: chimis Wee House, the Real House of Fragrances.

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Speaker 2: And on that.

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Speaker 1: Hi, and welcome to the podcast. Very good to have

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Speaker 1: you back me friend.

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Speaker 3: It's so nice to see you.

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Speaker 4: Poor Siah.

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Speaker 1: I think she melted down into a puddle of anxiety

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Speaker 1: last time.

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Speaker 5: Just so different awkward things. If you listen to the podcast,

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Speaker 5: I will have.

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Speaker 6: To go back and listen to it.

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Speaker 4: Don't, don't, don't.

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Speaker 1: I was like the most of the show, He's absolutely

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Speaker 1: fine and it's just easy to dwell on a moment.

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Speaker 5: I was trying to I was trying to channel you,

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Speaker 5: and I was going, hmmm, you don't need to say

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Speaker 5: to everything.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, oh god, I think Sarah, I

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Speaker 1: think that's what read to get rid of me because

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Speaker 1: it came came out side of the show and like

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Speaker 1: was like nice.

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Speaker 5: He was like just a.

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Speaker 4: Ginol ear chick for you. Yeah, so nice. And then

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Speaker 4: there was another right where she did it. It's just like.

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Speaker 3: And then you overthink it, right, It's like those crackses

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Speaker 3: can be huge. I remember when I first started doing

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Speaker 3: live crosses on the TV. I would go up, I

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Speaker 3: would bob up, and down on my toes.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: And sometimes like it will get so bad that if

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Speaker 3: they were, if the cameraman hadn't framed it properly, my

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Speaker 3: head would like go down out of the frame so eventually,

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Speaker 3: because you know, you know it about yourself. But if

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Speaker 3: it's the cracks, if it's a crack, like saying, you

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Speaker 3: can't stop it, like it's just so cracks.

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Speaker 4: I was always told it was a crutch, cruck, I

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Speaker 4: think both of them.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe you're right.

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking about like on here, we used to always

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Speaker 1: get told it was a crutch, was.

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Speaker 3: Cru Yeah, you're right, cracks is the wrong word.

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Speaker 5: But no, but a crutch is a long stick or

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Speaker 5: the crotch of a body or uses unconsciously.

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Speaker 4: They are usually not needed and don't end.

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Speaker 3: And a CRUs is the most important point of an

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Speaker 3: issue anyway, the crutch. Once it's a crutch, it's hard

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Speaker 3: to get rid of it. So then one of the

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Speaker 3: one of the cameramen at tvnz E, because they have

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Speaker 3: sand bags that they put to like way down like

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Speaker 3: light lighting equipments or lighting, he got one of the

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Speaker 3: sand bags and literally put it on my feet at

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Speaker 3: the start of one of my crosses so that it

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Speaker 3: was so heavy that I couldn't actually lift my feet,

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Speaker 3: and honestly it stopped. I don't I stopped. Dominated Did

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Speaker 3: you have to do that like a few just just

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Speaker 1: That becomes your default behavior. I used to spit in

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Speaker 1: my collar at skill. My grandma you had to used

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just weird, is it not? Yeah, Like at

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Speaker 3: least mine's just like a little movement. You were like

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Speaker 3: actually actively choosing to spit into your collar.

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Speaker 4: Only when I saw people that I didn't want to

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Speaker 4: turn into.

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Speaker 5: I think that's a different issue than a crutch, to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think we're going yeah, yeah, it's we don't.

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Speaker 3: We don't have the time to.

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Speaker 1: Comprehensively cover the issues going on to my brain as

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Speaker 1: a child.

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Speaker 4: Been a big day.

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Speaker 1: We cross live to the U we say, we cross

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Speaker 1: live to the Melbourne Cup and the show. And you've

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Speaker 1: also got another podcast to record and you've been traveling

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Speaker 1: all day. So look, we're going to keep this very

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Speaker 1: brief tonight, but we'll come back with a real hearty

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Speaker 1: in trophy. So maybe we'll do like a little special

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Speaker 1: Q and A or something. You know what I was

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Speaker 1: saying us anything?

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Speaker 4: Why don't we do a question box on our story?

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Speaker 5: Yes? Or did you guys want to do like a

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Speaker 5: holiday special?

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Speaker 5: What do you mean, like a like like record, like

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Speaker 4: Yes, for the seasons.

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Speaker 1: Oh, it would be so fun of I coul drink

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Speaker 4: Or some Now, yeah, we should. We should do a

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Speaker 1: I think we should celesta for questions though on our story.

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Speaker 1: We've got a special podcast coming up? Is it anything

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Speaker 1: you want to ask? The tea goes for gold, nothing

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Speaker 3: I love that anyway. Enjoy the podcast. We talk about

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Speaker 3: how far you had to travel for important appointment or

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Speaker 3: a meeting?

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Speaker 1: Yes, medice or a personalized plate and was very confused. A.

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Speaker 4: Well, it's meaning.

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Speaker 1: Plus, we had a very soucy group therapy issue this week.

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Speaker 1: It was about informing someone that their partner used to

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Speaker 1: be a trader.

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Speaker 4: What do you do it?

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Speaker 3: Biggie? It's a biggie. What do you do?

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Speaker 4: All of that coming up and more. Enjoy the podcast.

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Speaker 7: And the podcast.

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Speaker 4: Can I please have some Chariots of Fire music. Here

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Speaker 4: we go.

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Speaker 1: You just wanted to set the scene, all right, You

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Speaker 1: got three minutes to talk about running and your time.

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Speaker 8: Now.

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Speaker 3: So I have made it my whole personality this year,

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Speaker 3: and I do apologize for it. But you and I

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Speaker 3: started training for the half marathon and which we did

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Speaker 3: in May.

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Speaker 4: Correct and I stopped and you kept going.

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Speaker 6: I don't know what it is.

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Speaker 3: Usually I'm so lazy and not at all organized.

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Speaker 4: As I said, you can be addicted to far worse things.

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Speaker 6: That is true.

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Speaker 3: That is true, but it's something sparked. Look listen to me,

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Speaker 3: I sound like Tony Robins. Something sparked in me that day, PJ.

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Speaker 4: Just turn the music down of it serious contents.

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Speaker 6: Now I need it.

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Speaker 3: I need the intense intensity. There's something sparked to me

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Speaker 3: that day, PJ. And I've continued my running journey ever since.

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Speaker 3: I did injure myself recently with my calf muscle was

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Speaker 6: That's all.

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Speaker 3: I can do, so shaved my leg. I taped myself up.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, I don't mean to introduce, but when you shave

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Speaker 3: I haven't matched it, so I got one unshaved leap.

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Speaker 3: How long will it take me to regrow my hairs

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: For me, could take a while, and it'll take a while

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Speaker 4: Really yeah, i'd even it.

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Speaker 6: And I just tell you something. So I did. I shaved.

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Speaker 3: I literally just got the clippers and I shaved the

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Speaker 3: I went and showed Ryan and he went, oh something

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Speaker 3: about it. He said, calves look really good, so maybe

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Speaker 1: It makes everything look a little shiny, you know, you

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Speaker 3: So I got over to the half marathon started in

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Speaker 3: Devenport and on Auckland's north shore. So I had to

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Speaker 3: at the very last minute decide that I needed to go.

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Speaker 3: I think I needed I needed a nervous little number two.

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Speaker 4: So I did a coffee, gone straight through.

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Speaker 6: Have a coffee.

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Speaker 4: That'll get you.

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Speaker 4: It's true. I mean, you hear those horror stories.

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Speaker 6: I've seen the photos. Yeah, yeah, yeah, those photos will

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Speaker 3: So so I thought I've got to go. But then,

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Speaker 4: It's right, you're ready to go.

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Speaker 1: But tell everyone your overall time. I'm so proud of you.

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Speaker 1: This is amazing.

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Speaker 3: Think you. So I've gone shye, now I.

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Speaker 4: Got it here, get the Chariots of five music back.

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Speaker 3: I got a personal best time and I ran the

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Speaker 4: Although you've been a bit that you're a minute off.

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Speaker 6: But now I've got a new goal. I've got a

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Speaker 6: new goal.

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Speaker 3: So which your new goal? Oh?

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Speaker 4: One thirty? Yeah, right listening, PJ. We're very proud of you.

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Speaker 4: Thank you one here at the hats.

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Speaker 7: H Q, thank you many and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 1: So I played Hostess with the Most Is last night, Matthew.

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Speaker 3: Now this is this This is for someone that was

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Speaker 3: coming up and bringing friends.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And to be honest, I was quite nervous because

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Speaker 1: it was the very talented guy who built our house

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Speaker 1: and poured so much love, time and effort, blood, sweat

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Speaker 1: and tears went into that, and.

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Speaker 3: You were worried that you'd left the house too, missy,

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Speaker 3: and he was going.

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Speaker 6: To be disciplined.

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Speaker 1: I was just worried because we just hasn't twenty twenty one,

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Speaker 1: and I was worried he'd be.

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Speaker 3: Like, whoa this hand.

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Speaker 6: He was also a couple of friends with them as well.

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Speaker 1: Yes, there was a party of three. So we took

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Speaker 4: I had to have a meat option.

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Speaker 1: How far have you traveled for one appointment? We'll take

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Speaker 1: The Heads, and we're talking how farre you traveled for

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Speaker 4: Especially coming up to New Year. Drive may want the freedom.

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Speaker 1: So we wanted to know how far have you traveled

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Speaker 3: What happened?

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Speaker 9: I did work waiting for the staff to come in

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Speaker 3: You'd feel you'd feel pressure, Amanda, those six photos that

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hello, how are you very well? How far did

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Speaker 10: I drove five hours to get a tarmacle done and

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Speaker 4: Oh that's so Rose. Could you find any connections to

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Speaker 10: I went to high school with them, so I actually

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Speaker 4: There's some serious guys thing. Did you so you never

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Speaker 10: I never got it done. I still yet to get

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Speaker 4: Well, maybe if there's an artist out there right now.

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Speaker 3: And don't you do it, don't you dear ghost OWI

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Speaker 1: Don't you dear hey, Alie that you recall we've got

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Speaker 3: Someone said they traveled all the way to Canberra for

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Speaker 4: Surely you'd make a weekend of it.

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Speaker 3: Personalized plates are a bit weird sometimes.

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Speaker 1: I mean, look, I love that someone is passionate enough

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Speaker 1: Maybe he works in botox, or he's like a mister stab,

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Speaker 3: But if you had a personalized plate for your business,

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Speaker 4: Can someone please give clarity to this?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to know maybe you personally know mister

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Speaker 1: In the meantime, it is time to put our feet up,

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Speaker 3: This has coming from one of our listeners who sees, Honey, MPJ,

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Speaker 3: I need some advice on a tricky situation. My boyfriend

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Speaker 3: Here's the catch. My ex cheated on me repeatedly, and

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Speaker 3: My boyfriend thinks I should stay out of it and

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Speaker 3: Am I overstepping by telling her about his history with me?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm actually torn on this one because

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Speaker 3: Well, I think they're pretty they're pretty good friends. So

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Speaker 3: ex boyfriend Ryan. My husband always says, not my circus,

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Speaker 3: I feel like if you have information, even if you

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying I think he's going to do it.

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Speaker 6: You should leave him.

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Speaker 3: I just need you to have the information so that

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Speaker 1: you're not telling her what to do. You're passing on

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Speaker 4: Oh, it's a tricky one.

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Speaker 1: What do you think New Zealand Minny and I are

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Speaker 1: obviously a little bit flaky here. It's a really different

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Speaker 1: But do you think this woman needs to tell her

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Speaker 1: on her? Does she need to let the cat out

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Speaker 1: of the bag and let her know what he's truly like,

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Speaker 1: or let bygones be bygones and let her just go on?

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Speaker 4: Very well?

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Speaker 1: Oh, eight hundred the Hits To get in touch, you

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Speaker 1: can text through four four eight seven.

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Speaker 7: Maddy ANDPJ. Mady and Pj, the podcast The Hits, Many

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Speaker 7: and pj's group therapy.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's all ruminate over this week's dilemma. Many

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Speaker 1: can you please rehash?

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Speaker 3: My boyfriend and I have been together for two years

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Speaker 3: and everything's been great. However, his best friend is now

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Speaker 3: dating my ex. Here's the catch. My ex cheated on

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Speaker 3: me repeatedly, and I eventually left him because of it.

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Speaker 3: I know people can change, and maybe my ex is

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Speaker 3: treating my boyfriend's best friend differently, but part of me

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Speaker 3: feels it's only a matter of time before he does

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Speaker 3: the same thing to her. My boyfriend thinks I should

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Speaker 3: stay out of it and let her find out on

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Speaker 3: her own if he hasn't changed, but I feel guilty

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Speaker 3: not giving her heads up. So what should I do?

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Speaker 3: Am I overstepping by telling her about his history with me?

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Speaker 3: Or would it be wrong to keep this information to

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Speaker 3: myself and risk her getting hurt the same way.

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Speaker 1: How would you feel if you were the girl who's

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Speaker 1: dating the X and then you find out down the

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Speaker 1: track that actually this girl had been jetting on and

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Speaker 1: she shares the information, you can she be gutted?

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Speaker 4: Trying to think of it in a flick way.

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Speaker 3: I think you would be gutted, But I guess on

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Speaker 3: the flip side, if she does tell this girl, that

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Speaker 3: also puts a little bit of a wedge potentially between them.

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Speaker 4: Yes, and there's a tricky one.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people are texting and though quite passionately

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Speaker 1: four four eight seven, don't get involved. You will look

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Speaker 1: like the bad one. Another one said stay out of it. Yes,

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Speaker 1: another one said leave it alone. Different lives, different people.

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Speaker 1: Let's go to Kirston on oh eight hundred the hats Hi, Kirstin,

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Speaker 1: you wanted to weigh in on this week's group therapy.

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Speaker 11: Hello, yes, I agree, stay out.

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Speaker 4: Of it, stay out of it?

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Speaker 5: Have you?

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Speaker 4: Yep?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Why stay out? Why do you think she should stay

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Speaker 3: out of it?

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Speaker 11: So it happened with me with a friend of mine,

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Speaker 11: best friend for my whole life, and I told her

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Speaker 11: and she stopped talking to me for about.

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Speaker 3: Three or four years.

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Speaker 2: She ended up marrying the guys. Wow, oh, different relationships

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Speaker 2: that Yeah, stay out of it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's because instantly you know, she could get very,

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Speaker 1: very defensive totally, and I think you do have to

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Speaker 1: assess and be prepared that it could damage your friendship.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and look, that's a horrible thing. Being cheated on

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Speaker 3: is awful and you don't. You never wish that on anyone.

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Speaker 3: But also people do change and people grow up, and

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Speaker 3: relationships are different, you know, from one person to another

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Speaker 3: as well.

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Speaker 4: Rosie wants to weigh in. Hats hi, Rosie, what are

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Speaker 4: your thoughts?

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Speaker 12: Hi, I've got similar thoughts to everyone else, so I'm

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Speaker 12: not getting too and getting in the middle of it.

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Speaker 12: But this ex boyfriend is now in the circle of

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Speaker 12: friendship groups and you're close enough to have conversations and

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Speaker 12: social settings and maybe just brush it past him and ask,

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Speaker 12: you know, have you opened up? Yeah, your new girlfriend

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Speaker 12: about the past, and is she aware, just so that

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Speaker 12: like at least she then knows, Okay, she doesn't know, Yeah,

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Speaker 12: I had to know. He has told her, And that's good.

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Speaker 12: He's learnt and he's grown and he's being vulnerable.

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Speaker 6: That's true.

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Speaker 12: If you're going to be a part of grow and

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Speaker 12: move on, Like I don't think that going straight to

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Speaker 12: the girlfriend and sharing that information as well.

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Speaker 3: It's a really good it's a really good idea. Put

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Speaker 3: the ball in his court because it's not necessarily your

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Speaker 3: I guess it is part of your story to tell.

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Speaker 3: But also if you put it in his court and say, hey,

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Speaker 3: I think you should probably let her know. I don't

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Speaker 3: you know, I'm staying out of your relationship.

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Speaker 1: But ye, I mean yeah, then he really opens up

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Speaker 1: from the get go. I've stuffed up, I've done this.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to do that with you. Although someone

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Speaker 1: texts and something wants are at always a rat I'd

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Speaker 1: be concerned.

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Speaker 4: About your men hanging out with them. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I think I think maybe going to the guy.

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Speaker 3: It's a smart idea. No, I think that's a smart idea.

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Speaker 4: I think that's the smartest idea. But ultimately go from there.

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Speaker 3: I think ultimately what most people have said is stay

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Speaker 3: out of it. Not your story, not your business.

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Speaker 7: Maddy and PJ. Mady and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 4: And still to come, we're gonna god blah. Still, you're right.

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Speaker 3: Do you need me to pick up how they're going

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Speaker 3: get distressed?

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Speaker 1: When I know politics is coming over remart across Live

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Speaker 1: to the States, where political correspondent Jack Taim is on

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Speaker 1: the ground. He has been at a Kamala Harris rally,

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Speaker 1: Lady Gaga.

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Speaker 4: Ricky Martin.

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Speaker 1: They're performing and we're going to get the vibe of

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Speaker 1: what it's like on the ground in the USA.

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Speaker 4: Coming up inside the next twenty minutes.

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Speaker 3: Hey, I have I was away yesterday. We had a

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Speaker 3: bit of a family thing we had to go to

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Speaker 3: with Ryan's side of the family, and we were in

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Speaker 3: New Plymouth. I love New Plymouth.

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Speaker 6: It's such a great little person you have.

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Speaker 1: You've talked about it a lot, and I must say,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you're doing some secret ambassat isshit something,

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Speaker 1: but you have sold me on taking a trip to Taranaki.

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Speaker 3: It's so great. Anyway, we were down there and we

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Speaker 3: were hanging out with a bunch of his family, including

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Speaker 3: some of his cousins, and my god, that's so funny.

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Speaker 3: But one of them is kind of is funny, but

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Speaker 3: almost unexpectedly funny, Like I don't really don't think she

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Speaker 3: means to be funny, but she.

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Speaker 4: Just that's the best kind of funny.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And we were talking and I can't even remember

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Speaker 3: how it came up. She must have been telling us

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Speaker 3: about a flight she was catching recently or something, and

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Speaker 3: she said, she said to me, she was telling the

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Speaker 3: story about her pilot, who was obviously a female, And

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Speaker 3: she goes, what's the what's the word you know for

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Speaker 3: a female pilot?

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Speaker 6: A pilot, and I went, you a kid.

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Speaker 4: Stop.

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Speaker 3: She just I don't know whether she truly thought that

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Speaker 3: there was a name for a female pilot or whether

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Speaker 3: she just had this absolute brain from a pilot.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I get it. I totally get it. Like

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Speaker 4: a cute little pilot, kind of feminine about it.

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Speaker 6: That's also a little patronized.

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Speaker 3: Female pilot were bad, But she didn't mean it to be.

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Speaker 3: It was funny and we were all in her h

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Speaker 3: stere x and I just looked at her and I

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Speaker 3: was like, you were never living this down. This is

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Speaker 3: going to haunt you until you're dying days. We are

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Speaker 3: all going to be sitting around for years to come

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Speaker 3: talking about the time that you thought a female pilot

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Speaker 3: was called a pilot.

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Speaker 4: That saysn't as extreme.

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Speaker 1: But when we went camping the other day and we

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Speaker 1: were at a camp Grandja, guys, have you been to

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Speaker 1: the evolution block yet?

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Speaker 3: The evolution blot?

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Speaker 1: He goes, yeah, the evolution block, you can go Sharon toilet.

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Speaker 1: I was like, babe, do you many ablutions? Then the

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Speaker 1: pennie dropped and he was like, that makes so much more.

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Speaker 3: I've got one about my husband. Then he was he

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Speaker 3: was once reading a book and he turned to me

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Speaker 3: and he goes, who would have a name like E

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Speaker 3: one E W A M. And I went, I think

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Speaker 3: that's you and babe.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait one hundred that hats And it doesn't have

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Speaker 1: to be a faux pa with your words. It could

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Speaker 1: be anything that you haven't been able to live down?

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Speaker 1: Was this something stupid you did in your youth? And

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Speaker 1: it always comes back.

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Speaker 4: Up in conversation.

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Speaker 1: The podcast, and we want to know the moment you

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Speaker 1: have never been able to live down? Oh wait, one

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Speaker 1: hundred hats to join the show. They are coming through

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Speaker 1: thick and fast. Good evening, Joe, how are you hi?

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Speaker 2: I think you okay?

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Speaker 4: Watch the moment in down.

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Speaker 2: So I was looking at the Evens cockbox to find

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Speaker 2: for dinner and I thought, oh, make a soffole nice

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Speaker 2: to speak, so cooked it and had nice. He said

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Speaker 2: what the dinner and I said afole and he said

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Speaker 2: what And I said a soffle if I think you

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Speaker 2: mean to say?

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Speaker 4: I was like, is this some exotic kind of.

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Speaker 2: And I hit A client who used to go was

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Speaker 2: talking about the Philippines and I was.

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Speaker 3: Like, what.

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Speaker 6: How did the souffle taste?

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Speaker 3: Though?

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Speaker 6: Joe?

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Speaker 4: It was yes, you only know what you know. You know,

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Speaker 4: you don't know until you.

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Speaker 1: Know right's going to Megan, Hello, very well.

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Speaker 13: Very well, then can you not live down So it's

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Speaker 13: not me, it's my partner. He's lived his whole life

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Speaker 13: on the North Island and only came down.

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Speaker 12: To christ Church after the earthquakes.

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Speaker 13: We got talking in conversation about one of the towns

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Speaker 13: in christ Church called eleven Am, and I ages couldn't

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Speaker 13: figure out what he was talking about until we saw

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Speaker 13: a street sign and he said that place, and I went,

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Speaker 13: you're talking about Ilum. I'm still written on the sign

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Speaker 13: eleven Am.

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Speaker 4: I used to live on Island Road. I particularly enjoy

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Speaker 4: that reference.

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Speaker 11: Wouldn't get past it.

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Speaker 13: I was like, did you really think it was eleven Am?

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Speaker 6: He was, It was brilliant.

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Speaker 3: Someone teachs in the phone as I had obviously gotten

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Speaker 3: wheat or something peage, and they said, I put my

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Speaker 3: first Eva phone in the microwave. I told my mum

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Speaker 3: the microwave exploded on it. Son, but I had to

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Speaker 3: fice up when she was going to take it back

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Speaker 3: to the store again.

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Speaker 4: And you don't know until you know. Victoria is joining us,

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Speaker 4: oh eight hundred.

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Speaker 6: The hits.

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Speaker 4: What moment did you not can you not live down?

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Speaker 11: I didn't know that Biggie Small and Notorious Pig were

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Speaker 11: the same person. And Clover thirty and sitting at the

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Speaker 11: table with my partner's grandmother who was eighty five, who

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Speaker 11: was the one to tell me?

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Speaker 3: The eighty five year old grand was the one to tell.

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Speaker 11: Brand and I still don't get to live down. By

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Speaker 11: my few mates.

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Speaker 8: Children, that's brilliant.

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Speaker 1: To be fair, I may not be like, oh you know,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if i'd know that, but to be

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Speaker 1: schooled by age.

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Speaker 6: So good.

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Speaker 7: Many, MPJ Many and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 1: The Heads, and we're about to cross live to the

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Speaker 1: States where political correspondent Jack Tame is on the ground.

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Speaker 1: It was supposed to be the end of the Kamala

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Speaker 1: the Kamala Harris rally. It was supposed to have wrapped

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Speaker 1: up by now, but apparently she's just got on stage.

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Speaker 4: Jack is joining us now, Hijack.

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Speaker 8: Hey, you call me a political correspondent, That's not what

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Speaker 8: I'm here to discuss. I'm here to discuss Ricky.

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Speaker 4: Martin's has he got it.

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Speaker 8: Like political line on me? P Jacob, We've had Ricky

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Speaker 8: Martin we've had beat Joe and we've had Lady Gaga

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Speaker 8: here this evening, and you want to talk politics? Are

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Speaker 8: you kidding me?

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Speaker 12: All right?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so so big questions. First, Jack, what song did

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Speaker 3: he perform?

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Speaker 8: Well, okay, three guesses.

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Speaker 6: He's got he's got to do live in the video.

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Speaker 6: He could do, he could do she.

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Speaker 8: Bangs, he he he came out, and first of all,

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Speaker 8: he did a Spanish language song because here in Pennsylvania

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Speaker 8: trying to like rile up all of the Puerto Rican voters,

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Speaker 8: and he, of course is perto ricans, the Spanish language song.

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Speaker 8: So we were kind of like politely boffing along to that.

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Speaker 8: You know, they're not really following it, although it was

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Speaker 8: a good opportunity for me to whip out my fourth

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Speaker 8: form Spanish.

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Speaker 3: Multilingual God, I mean number there is, Jack, Okay, between

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Speaker 3: the two of you, we don't need to do.

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Speaker 8: After that, he did live in Levita Loca and it

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Speaker 8: was was amazing. And then his third song, he did

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Speaker 8: that one, La Hella, that one, Yes, I remember.

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Speaker 4: Jackie sod.

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Speaker 2: There.

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Speaker 8: Honestly it was. It was really good. It was really impressive,

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Speaker 8: and he had like the whole backup dancer thing. The

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Speaker 8: thing about Ricky Martin is that guy looks great. He's

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Speaker 8: so like he is really like, you know, he could

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Speaker 8: have recent on his laurels, but he was absolutely he

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Speaker 8: is just you know what, he's just kept himself right there.

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Speaker 8: And I love it. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I love how you're literally in the new politics. You

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Speaker 1: know that you've got a professional cross to do with

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Speaker 1: the news and about this is just your fluffy little

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Speaker 1: patch where you can tell us.

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Speaker 3: Really this is the thing some Madella was not asking

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Speaker 3: Jack Tame about Recky Martin's performance, so this is where

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Speaker 3: he gets to talk about it. But we do need

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Speaker 3: to talk about the politics side as well, Jack, because

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Speaker 3: this is this is such it's a crazy election. What

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Speaker 3: is it actually like over there? Can you kind of

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Speaker 3: sum up the vibe?

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Speaker 8: I would say that the vibe is not good, no vibe,

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Speaker 8: just in that it's like it's so contentious and America

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Speaker 8: has such a partisan and tribal political culture. It's your

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Speaker 8: team versus my team, and there's not a lot of

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Speaker 8: like middle ground where people are kind of agreeing on stuff. Now,

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Speaker 8: I think the thing that distinguishes this election from the

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Speaker 8: last three US elections that I've covered, Yep, it's my

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Speaker 8: fourthn't worry about that. And I thinks the thing that

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Speaker 8: distinguishes is the gender split. So there's like a sixteen

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Speaker 8: or seventeen point difference between men and women when it

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Speaker 8: comes to supporting Kamala Harris and supporting Donald Trump. So

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Speaker 8: guys love Donald Trump, don't like Kamala Harris. Women really

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Speaker 8: like Kamala Harris don't like Donald Trump. And like I

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Speaker 8: just I always think, like, how many really awkward dinner

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Speaker 8: table conversations must be around America right now because it's

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Speaker 8: a massive, massive factor.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean last felt so polarized. Do you think

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Speaker 1: people are saying I to eye at all this time?

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Speaker 1: Like more so like from Afar. I want to believe

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Speaker 1: that that's true, people finding some common ground amongst it all.

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Speaker 8: Nah, not at all?

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Speaker 9: Really?

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Speaker 8: Why actually just think that people like are living in

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Speaker 8: different realities now. And I say that I was talking

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Speaker 8: to her. I was talking to a friend a couple

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Speaker 8: of weeks ago who over here, who's a really keen

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Speaker 8: Trump supporter and he's a really really close friend of mine.

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Speaker 8: And I sat down with him and I was just like,

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Speaker 8: do you think the last election was stolen? There's no

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Speaker 8: evidence that it's been stolen all of the courts about

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Speaker 8: all of Donald Trump's cases, and he was like, yeah,

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Speaker 8: I think it was. I think it was a corrupt election.

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Speaker 8: And I was like, man, we're just living in different information. Yeah,

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Speaker 8: It's like it's like the way he sees the world

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Speaker 8: now is actually different to the way I see the world.

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Speaker 8: And you know, I guess you've got to hope that

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Speaker 8: that people can find a way to move forward, and

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Speaker 8: you know that things that there's not civil unrest, it's

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Speaker 8: not violent or anything like that after tomorrow, But yes,

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Speaker 8: to feel that optimistic. Okay, bye, Recky Martin.

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Speaker 3: Well, thank god for Ricky Martin really quickly, Jack, because

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Speaker 3: we've got to go.

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Speaker 6: You can we predict this thing at all?

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Speaker 3: Tomorrow? Tomorrow's the election, of course. Do you have any

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Speaker 3: sense of where this is heading?

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Speaker 8: Okay, I don't think anyone knows for sure, and anyone

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Speaker 8: who says they do is lie. I will say this.

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Speaker 8: At the start of this year, I said in three

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Speaker 8: places publicly that I thought neither Joe Biden or Donald

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Speaker 8: Trump would be the next plut in the United States.

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Speaker 8: So I'm going to stick with my guns and say that. Yep,

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Speaker 8: maybe Carmela.

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Speaker 12: Can pull this off.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Well, good luck Jack, and good luck with your professional

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Speaker 1: cross in about twenty minutes.

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Speaker 4: How many recky mentions will you draw up? Do you reckon?

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Speaker 8: I probably won't mention that, but where I see it

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Speaker 8: looks really good.

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Speaker 4: Thanks so much and all the best with the rest

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Speaker 4: of your time over there.

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Speaker 8: Oh good guys, Thank you many and PJ.

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Speaker 7: The podcast, The Deep Pool's Poll, the Beat Pool's Poll,

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Speaker 7: everybody comes together, It's the Deep Pools Poll.

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Speaker 1: Okay, today's people saw you you go way in on

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Speaker 1: our Instagram page the hit Strive with medi and PJ.

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Speaker 4: What's happened to you now? Mate?

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Speaker 6: I was walking down the street.

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Speaker 3: I went to get lunch earlier today and I was

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Speaker 3: walking down the street with my phone and I just

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Speaker 3: absent mindedly got out my phone and I opened up TikTok.

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Speaker 3: And TikTok is just one of these like silly apps

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Speaker 3: that just gets you looked in. And next thing I know,

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Speaker 3: I'm walking down the street watching these videos. But I

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Speaker 3: didn't have headphones in, and all of a sudden, I realized,

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Speaker 3: I'm just watching these TikTok videos out loud for everyone

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Speaker 3: to hear walking down the street.

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Speaker 4: I do that all the time.

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Speaker 3: I know I have TikTok, I know you doing, and

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Speaker 3: I've told you off for this in the past, and

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Speaker 3: now I'm one of you.

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Speaker 4: Thank you. It was only a matter of jure.

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Speaker 3: So I wanted to know that is this actually really

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Speaker 3: bad or are we all kind of guilty of this?

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Speaker 3: In the modern age? Do you listen to things like

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Speaker 3: music or clips, YouTube video maybe on your phone without headphones?

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Speaker 4: I reckon it's fine.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to put it out there and say it

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Speaker 1: is okay, but I would love to know the general consensus.

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Speaker 1: So just chext through now, yes or no, it's okay

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Speaker 1: to listen to things on your phone without headphones.

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Speaker 7: Maddy and PJ. Mady and PJ, the podcast The Heads.

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Speaker 6: The People's Poll, The.

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Speaker 3: People's Poll, Everybody comes together, It's.

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Speaker 7: The People's Pole.

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Speaker 4: Thank you for weighing in on our Instagram page The

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Speaker 4: Heads Drive with Meddy in PJ.

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Speaker 1: Today's question is if you're watching something on your phone

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Speaker 1: or if you're consuming something that makes a noise, do

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Speaker 1: you need to wear headphones when listening to that? Or

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Speaker 1: is it really road playing things loudly out of your phone?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I will say it's never been something I've enjoyed

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Speaker 3: in other people, but today I have to admit I

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Speaker 3: did comet this in and I started watching some tik

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Speaker 3: tok videos without my headphones.

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Speaker 1: I never use headphones. I'm so bad on the text mash.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people think, no, it's just straight up roads. No,

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Speaker 1: you're just walking versions of the people who drive with

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Speaker 1: their stereos playing loud guilty.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's actually closer than I thought though, if I

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Speaker 3: go by the overall poll. So yeah, we asked the

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Speaker 3: question listening to something with your on your phone without headphones.

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Speaker 3: Fifty nine percent of people said no, but forty one

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Speaker 3: percent said it's actually okay, So it was a lot

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Speaker 3: closer than I thought.

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Speaker 1: Okay, interesting, Well, thank you very much after getting in touch.

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Speaker 1: If you've got any suggestions for tomorrow's People's Pole, you

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Speaker 1: can text them through to four four eight seven.

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