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Speaker 1: The Hits Drive with Meddy and Paig thanks to chimis

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Speaker 1: Wee House the Real House of Fragrances on that. Hi everyone,

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Speaker 1: and welcome to a Tuesday podcast with Maddy and Paija.

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 3: Hello, yeah very.

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Speaker 2: Well, I asked, as if we haven't just spent the

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Speaker 2: last four hours.

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Speaker 1: Hi, how are you going today? Hey, I've got a question.

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Speaker 1: When does your voice start breaking? And what was your

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Speaker 1: puberty experience?

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Speaker 3: Like, Oh, I.

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Speaker 2: Can't really remember. I feel like I was a late bloomer,

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Speaker 2: were you? Yeah, I think so.

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Speaker 3: I think at high school.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I don't know that that will shock anyone.

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Speaker 2: I was very much like I had a real baby

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Speaker 2: face for a very long time, puppy fat for a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I just my voice broke a few times in the

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Speaker 1: show today and I was like, man, that have been

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Speaker 1: an ordeal.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I had a really like some people

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Speaker 2: have a really dramatic change. I don't think I had

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Speaker 2: a super dramatic one.

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Speaker 3: Is it wrong? No?

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Speaker 2: No, no, are you self censoring?

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Speaker 3: I am self censoring?

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Speaker 2: Very good, bree Yeah, fear, because I do have it.

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Speaker 2: I have a sense of where I think you're going.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm sure alone, but I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: say it. I'm not going to say that loud. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're wearing a nice shirt today.

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Speaker 2: Okay, ask hit me, hit me, riddle me this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Do I remind you of anyone a character?

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Speaker 1: Oh, someone from Modern Family or something.

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Speaker 2: No, David from all the gay guys.

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Speaker 3: No, no, I'm not.

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Speaker 2: No, am I giving ace venturer vibes.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, yes, oh my god, you are with

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Speaker 1: the white shirt underneath and then the open Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: you said to do the hair up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a little ace venturer, isn't it.

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Speaker 3: It's a little adventure A detictive loves quoting that movie.

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Speaker 2: I bet he does.

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Speaker 1: I have vivid memories of staying at my friend Allie's.

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Speaker 1: She had like a sleepover, and I think we watched

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Speaker 1: that movie speaking of puberty.

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Speaker 3: I have quite a scarring moment.

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Speaker 1: They had a be beautiful house, right, gorgeous, white furniture,

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Speaker 1: white cat.

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Speaker 3: She was in.

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Speaker 1: The the depths of becoming a woman.

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Speaker 3: She left a little Mark.

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Speaker 4: Dane.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think we were watching ice Ventura. I can't remember.

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Speaker 1: They had this effect like movie projector, and it was

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Speaker 1: like a beautiful room, and yeah.

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Speaker 2: It's funny. It's funny the things that stick with you. A. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: well let's start with them. I'm sure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, white couch, Yeah, I don't think. I don't think

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Speaker 1: I got that mark out before I left. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: bleased Julia. She was such she was so she still

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Speaker 1: is so lovely. So thank you for the amazing hospitality. No,

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Speaker 1: I think I was probably on the earlier side, maybe

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Speaker 1: Really or not, Like guys and girls are different the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I vividly, vividly remember sitting at my friend

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Speaker 2: It's like awkward teenage boys being like, have you done

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Speaker 1: I remember, I remember spotting my first pube.

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Speaker 3: I was like ten in the Sharot boarding school.

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Speaker 2: Amazing. Wow, Okay, this is really gone somewhere.

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Speaker 1: I have some other memories, but they're not going to

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Speaker 1: be appropriate. So let's get into the podcast. We talk

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Speaker 1: about what are you Kakaing? Until twenty twenty five, You're

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Speaker 1: chucking it in the I'll deal with it next year.

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Speaker 2: Ben plus group therapy was all about secret center participation

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Speaker 2: today do you partake or do you sit this one out?

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Speaker 3: Also, we had a lot of fun today.

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Speaker 1: We talked about the ads that you remembered by heart,

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Speaker 1: and our people's pole tackled a very important love question,

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Speaker 1: when is the right time to say I love you?

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Speaker 3: All of that are more coming up in the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Joy Bye, Maddy and PJ.

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Speaker 5: Maddy and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hey, good afternoon, Welcome to your Tuesday. It's literally the

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Speaker 1: third day of summer, and the complaints that I have

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Speaker 3: And how someone can't deal. We're going up for a

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Speaker 2: Here's what happens to me. As soon as there's any movement.

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Speaker 2: If I'm sitting still, I'm okay. But as soon as

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Speaker 2: body just goes, oh, here we go. It's time for

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Speaker 2: need to take like I need to bring like three

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Speaker 2: changes of outfits to work every day.

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Speaker 3: I've just noticed you're a bit more reddled the last.

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Speaker 2: Couple of days. I'll tell you what else. I'll tell

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Speaker 2: you what else. As soon as summer hits, it was

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Speaker 2: like all the flies in this country went oh hello,

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Speaker 2: oh yeah, staring remember remember us.

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Speaker 1: Do you have a technique because some people say, either

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Speaker 1: shut or the windows, or you open it all up

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Speaker 1: so it is out, or you do vinegar final I've

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Speaker 2: Let me know four four eighth seven. I would love

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Speaker 2: to know what is the trick to get rid of flies?

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Speaker 1: I would love to see you flustered, hot, sweet sweet try.

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Speaker 3: I literally need to be a fly on the wall

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Speaker 1: Podcast few tigues coming through about sure far ways to

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Speaker 1: get rid of those pisky flies that are populating our

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Speaker 3: A good trick is even with a small fan.

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Speaker 1: If you have a bowl of ice, di wret the

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's for the flies. I think they

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Speaker 3: That classic maybe all of the text to read. What

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Speaker 3: about this one Rosemary in the oven?

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Speaker 1: Is that an a heap of Rosemary in our driveway,

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Speaker 2: Thank you, yeah, thank you for your texts.

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Speaker 1: Look, we I feel like the end of year rush.

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Speaker 1: There's really kicking in. There's a lot of Edmund to

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Speaker 1: So I went to try to get the right size

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Speaker 3: He gets on my computer and then and.

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Speaker 1: Then the computer's like loading and then he's sort of

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Speaker 3: But then you have to flight him more because he's

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Speaker 2: And then we don't get the payoff, and you've now

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Speaker 2: It's like that scene, you know, the scene from Love

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Speaker 3: Like that gift?

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Speaker 1: And then he guys puts like leavender on the top.

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Speaker 3: Ah the Christmas.

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Speaker 2: I was coming into work today and as I walk,

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Speaker 2: him ages. It was so nice to see him, and

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Speaker 2: said to me, what are you doing over the next

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Speaker 2: wee while? And I said, oh, you know, just finishing

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Speaker 2: He said, let's try and squeeze in a time for

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Speaker 2: So let's not pretend like it's going to Yeah, and

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Speaker 2: I said, let's kick that to twenty twenty five. That

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Speaker 2: is a next year problem, not problem, but next year.

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Speaker 3: Shout out to Ham a piece of listening and next.

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Speaker 2: Year event the admin of the organizing the catch up

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Speaker 2: as the next year problem, Madye.

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Speaker 1: Knowing you, you're going to have to put that as

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Speaker 2: She's sitting people getting guys.

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Speaker 7: So I keep a list of like walks and hips,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a twenty twenty five. That's a twenty twenty

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Speaker 3: That's very good of you to be planning more. I

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Speaker 4: I'm I'm putting on well till twenty twenty five. Lodging

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Speaker 4: divorce papers. Oh sorn up, it's taken five years to

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Speaker 1: Just how long the process can take for a divorce

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Speaker 2: Oh well, we're thinking of you in twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 4: Give a party to celebrate.

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Speaker 2: Brilliant, brilliant.

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Speaker 3: Okay, what's this cool?

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Speaker 2: put it off until twenty twenty five. Peach Jacob, Hello Jacob.

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Speaker 9: Hey Jane, how are we very well?

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Speaker 3: What are you calling through for?

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Speaker 9: Look, I'm not putting off something untill twenty five, but

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Speaker 1: Away now when you're sales burgersday, Mary and PJ, Mady

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Speaker 10: The podcast that the People's Poll, the People's Poll, everybody

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Speaker 10: comes together.

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Speaker 3: It's the people.

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Speaker 3: Mady.

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Speaker 2: My friend is freshly in a relationship, not even two

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Speaker 3: How long?

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Speaker 2: Not quite two months? And I look, when you know,

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Speaker 1: I would say, usually it's fromably between three.

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Speaker 1: But oh my god, it's hilarious. How cute we used

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Speaker 2: The hosted it first? It first.

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Speaker 1: It was all you know, So yeah, he will tell

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Speaker 1: And he was not absolutely absolutely Yeah, did you get

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Speaker 2: I did get and I love you back, but it

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Speaker 1: When do you think is the right time to say

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Speaker 5: Text through many INPJ to the podcast.

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Speaker 10: That the People's Poll, the People's Poll. Everybody comes together,

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Speaker 1: People's Poll today asking other people's pole. How long did

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Speaker 3: To your partner?

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Speaker 1: You can text through four four eight seven or waiting

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Speaker 2: Yeah. My friend over the weekend was telling me she's

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Speaker 2: Was that the more common amount of time? I was

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Speaker 2: just curious to know where people stood, and it's honestly

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Speaker 2: Though? My partner have been together three years with a

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Speaker 1: I mean, everyone's different and everyone has different needs.

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Speaker 2: So we put it up on our Instagram page and

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Speaker 2: you can go and vote every day on our People's poll.

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Speaker 2: to a year, and two percent said one year plus.

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Speaker 3: Okay. Interesting.

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Speaker 1: I was devoted because I had a high school boyfriend

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Speaker 1: and I think I said it to him, but he

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Speaker 1: only wanted to say it to one person in his life,

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Speaker 1: which actually, in hindsight, it's a really Betif I was

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Speaker 1: stutted at the time, it wasn't you Why don't you lie?

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Speaker 6: Many INPJ the podcast that's many INPJS Group There.

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Speaker 1: Group Therapy is a safe space that we enter every

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Speaker 1: week on the show. And if there's anything going on

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Speaker 1: in your life where you're like, oh, I just need

462
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Speaker 1: a little bit of help, MACU, you don't know what

463
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Speaker 1: to do in this.

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Speaker 3: Situation, reach out.

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Speaker 1: You can either text through four four eighty seven or

466
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Speaker 1: hit us up at the hits dot co dot NZ's.

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Speaker 2: I had to sneak out before work today to go

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Speaker 2: and get myself a present for my secret center. We're

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Speaker 2: doing a Hits team Secret Center this week.

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Speaker 1: Yes classic you and I left it till the last minute.

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Speaker 1: I'm hoping mine arrives in time to the desired destination.

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Speaker 2: Well, as I was walking up the road and I

473
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Speaker 2: told you earlier in the show, when it's hot like

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Speaker 2: this and Muggie and I'm wearing pants, I get very sweety.

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Speaker 2: As I was trudging up the road to go and

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Speaker 2: get myself the secret center prison, I thought to myself,

477
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Speaker 2: is it worth it? Is it worth it? And I thought, no,

478
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Speaker 2: don't be a Grench, don't be a grinch. Joining on

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Speaker 2: the festive fun, Matty. But then I bent to work

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Speaker 2: and realized that this is the submission that we got

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Speaker 2: in for this week group therapy, and all of a sudden,

482
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Speaker 2: I was really relating to this person that is emailed

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Speaker 2: in him Addie and PJ. I work in an office

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Speaker 2: where every year we do a big secret Center. It's

485
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Speaker 2: a whole production names and a hat strict twenty dollars

486
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Speaker 2: budget and a group unwrapping session during our Christmas party.

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Speaker 2: This is sounding very familiar.

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Speaker 5: Haha.

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing. I hate it. Every year I either

490
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Speaker 2: get something completely useless or end up buying a present

491
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Speaker 2: for someone I barely know, and it feels so forced.

492
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Speaker 2: This year, I've been thinking about sitting it out, but

493
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Speaker 2: a few people have already started hyping it up, and

494
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Speaker 2: I know that there's an unspoken expectation to join in.

495
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Speaker 2: Would it be rude if I just said no thanks

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Speaker 2: this year? Or am I being a Christmas grinch by

497
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Speaker 2: not participating? Help me figure this out before I make

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Speaker 2: myself the office scrooch.

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Speaker 1: Oh, it's a really tough one because I get for

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Speaker 1: morale and you know, the end of year vibe that

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Speaker 1: it can create. But I also am like we are

502
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Speaker 1: in the middle of the middle of a cost of

503
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Speaker 1: living crisis and every dollar counts right now and people

504
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Speaker 1: should be able to say, actually, I don't she can't

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Speaker 1: do it this year?

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Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 9: Like that?

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Speaker 1: And you shouldn't have to feel guilt around that that and.

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Speaker 2: Bless bless a work team. But you don't necessarily know

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Speaker 2: everyone intimately. Do you great news if you get your work,

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Speaker 2: if you get your office bestie, brilliant, But if you

512
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Speaker 2: get random Susan who walks works down the hallway, and

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Speaker 2: you've got no idea what Susan does for a job,

514
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Speaker 2: let alone what she enjoys. It's nearly near on impossible

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Speaker 2: to buy something for her.

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Speaker 3: Will they do now?

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Speaker 1: Well, what they did with our office this year is

518
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Speaker 1: that you can actually message them anonymously and be like, Hi,

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Speaker 1: is there anything you'd like this year?

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Speaker 3: And then they can do a little whistler.

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Speaker 2: You utilize that, didn't you for your one?

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Speaker 1: I did, but I couldn't find what she wants. She'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna give it away.

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Speaker 3: What they wanted. I couldn't find it. Something to do

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Speaker 3: something totally different.

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Speaker 1: I think you should be able to opt out or

527
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Speaker 1: you just pull a sicky on the day.

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Speaker 3: That would be my advice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but if then, but it is awkward if you

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Speaker 2: are the only person the team it's not participating.

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Speaker 1: Well, maybe you you find solidarity with other colleagues.

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Speaker 3: Her aunt isn't thoosed and you'd be like.

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Speaker 1: Hey, look, Matilda, Keith, Mary and I this year, we

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Speaker 1: just don't feel comfortable entering into the secrets. And it's

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Speaker 1: not because we hate it. We just actually it's just

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Speaker 1: one too many stresses for us right now and we

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Speaker 1: cannot participate, and I think you should be You know,

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Speaker 1: that's your what's.

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Speaker 2: The word prerogative, like your.

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Speaker 3: Prerogative prerogative, you should be able to say that.

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Speaker 2: I think on the flip side, it is twenty bucks.

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Speaker 2: Go buy a box of favorites, wrap it up when

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Speaker 2: bampick you man, get in in a get out. That's

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Speaker 2: what I say.

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Speaker 1: What is your advice for the secret Sanda dilemma? You

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Speaker 1: can give us a call? Oh, eight hundred hits a

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Speaker 1: text through four four eight seven.

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Speaker 5: Maddy and PJ.

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Speaker 6: Mady and PJ the podcast The Heads, Many and Pj's

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Speaker 6: group Therapy.

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Speaker 1: Time for another week of group therapy. She's another Christmas

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Speaker 1: doozy medie.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I work in an office where every year we

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Speaker 2: do a big secret sand to this person is written in.

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Speaker 2: It's a whole production, names and a hat strip, twenty

556
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Speaker 2: dollars budget. Here's the thing. I hate it. Every year

557
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Speaker 2: I either get something completely useless or end up buying

558
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Speaker 2: a present for someone I barely know, and it feels

559
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Speaker 2: so forced. This year, I've been thinking about setting it out,

560
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Speaker 2: but a few people have already started hyping it up.

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Speaker 2: And I know there's an unspoken expectation to join in.

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Speaker 2: Would it be rude if I just said no thanks

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Speaker 2: this year? Or am I being a Christmas crench by

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Speaker 2: not participating?

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Speaker 3: Sandra and Todunga is joining us? Sound? Do you usually

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Speaker 3: have a little solution?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 11: Yes, People who want to join in they put their

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Speaker 11: name themselves on a in the hat, but also under

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Speaker 11: their names they write down what they want and what

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Speaker 11: their favorite color or favorite flower or favorite things.

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Speaker 2: Smart.

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Speaker 3: That's good.

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Speaker 11: If you're names not in the hat, you just don't

575
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Speaker 11: tune up on the day and nobody knows until the day.

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Speaker 1: Really, well, that's what we've got in our office. There's

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Speaker 1: an op and opt out like and you should be

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Speaker 1: able to do that. It shouldn't It shouldn't be like mandatory.

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Speaker 1: Should you should have the toy?

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Speaker 2: But do you think there is this potentially a little

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Speaker 2: bit of judgment from people if you don't join in,

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Speaker 2: Like if I'd sat out, if I'd said this year,

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Speaker 2: bugger that I'm not doing it?

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Speaker 1: Do you think that is such a sad sat many

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Speaker 1: fun andreas joining us? What are your thoughts?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I just think do I be a grunch?

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Speaker 7: I think in the spirit of Christmas.

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Speaker 3: What's Christmas all about?

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Speaker 8: It's about giving. And I just think, I mean, full disclosure,

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Speaker 8: I am a real Christmas fan, but I just think,

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Speaker 8: come on.

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Speaker 3: Guys, it's up to the value of twenty dollars.

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Speaker 7: Surely you don't have to be maximum limits.

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Speaker 8: Just buy something funny. Yes, yeah, you're in the spirit.

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Speaker 8: Have a bit of fun at the end of the year.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I get it, Andrea, I get ith something. Life

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Speaker 2: is very serious this year. Life is travy for a

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Speaker 2: lot of people. So a little bit of fun and

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Speaker 2: festive Joey goes a long way and.

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Speaker 1: You just get a photo of yourself and frame at

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Speaker 1: is that what you would do?

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Speaker 5: Is bad idea.

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Speaker 3: On an Alkland's got a solution. What are your thoughts on?

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Speaker 12: Yeah, so I was saying, look, if you've got to

606
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Speaker 12: do it, spice it up. So what we do is, however,

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Speaker 12: many people are joining and honor. There's a number. So

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Speaker 12: so there's twenty people. So there's twenty numbers, and everyone

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Speaker 12: draws a number. All the presents are in the middle.

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Speaker 12: Person number one has to take a present and they

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Speaker 12: got to keep it. They got to deal with that

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Speaker 12: whatever it is. And in person number two can steal

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Speaker 12: person number one, or they can take their own and

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Speaker 12: each present can only be stolen three times.

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Speaker 2: And then it's so then you're not trying to come

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Speaker 2: up with something for a specific person. You can just

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Speaker 2: keepet fun and interesting and it keeps it entertaining. I

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Speaker 2: like that idea.

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Speaker 3: I like that.

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Speaker 8: That's random.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, and I suppose you know, hey, steal a few

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Speaker 12: gifts at Christmas.

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Speaker 3: That's okay. Excuse me, hey, look.

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Speaker 12: Christmases from your mates.

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Speaker 1: And the Christmas verruh, we've got a kids can Christmas cracker?

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Speaker 3: Give that coming away on?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 8: Stop it?

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Speaker 12: Oh thank you.

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Speaker 1: Merry Christmas, Merry Christmas, Merry Christmas.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: We really are going to start saying that quite regularly now,

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Speaker 1: Very Christmas, New Zealans.

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Speaker 3: Maddy and PJ.

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Speaker 5: Marry and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 1: The Heads of a random topic. But I want to

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Speaker 1: ask the question, and you can text through four four

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Speaker 1: eight seven.

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Speaker 3: What do you reckon?

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Speaker 1: Is the worst smell that you could spell, the worst

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Speaker 1: thing that you could spell that stinks the most?

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Speaker 2: You You are unbelievable, what I have You've done that?

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Speaker 1: So we were in Hawksbay over the weekend and we

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Speaker 1: stayed with our friends who very kindly took us under

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Speaker 1: their wing.

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Speaker 3: They're literally.

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Speaker 1: There's a few weeks out from having their second child,

648
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Speaker 1: so you know, wanting to get into the nesting phase.

649
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Speaker 3: I know that, I know that feeling.

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Speaker 1: You know, there's there's quite like a stress before the

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Speaker 1: baby comes, and you want to make everything perfect. So

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Speaker 1: when we left that home, I wanted to try and

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Speaker 1: make sure that we hadn't left a mess and made

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Speaker 1: their life more difficult. But no, no, So we took

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Speaker 1: the so we took the sheets off and you know,

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Speaker 1: just made sure that the room was you know, spick

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Speaker 1: and span. And it wasn't until we were walking out

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Speaker 1: the door. I had had one of my little canvas

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Speaker 1: bags just sitting on their couch and then I realized

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Speaker 1: something had leaked in the bag and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: it must have been my water bottle. No, it wasn't

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Speaker 1: my water bottle. It was a rogue jar of gurk

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Speaker 1: that I got in the bag because I'd got I

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Speaker 1: decided to make like this potato salad the.

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Speaker 3: Night before, and I was like, no, I'm going to

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Speaker 3: take those gurkins with me.

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Speaker 4: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I had the jar of gurkins medi in the bag

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Speaker 1: and the leaked and You could smell it like it's

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Speaker 1: dunk is so bad, and I was like, oh am

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Speaker 1: I going to get this out stressful, And then I

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Speaker 1: felt really bad because our friend Shark comes over and

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Speaker 1: she's wiping it up.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, no, no, no, no, I'll do it. I'll do it.

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Speaker 1: And then I did the sniff test and you could

676
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Speaker 1: still smell like the vinegary saline or whatever it is

677
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Speaker 1: that it sits in.

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Speaker 2: You know how I hate like peckles and ghurkin? Have

679
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Speaker 2: I told you? This came from my friend when I

680
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 2: was at early days of high school. Came back from

681
00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 2: an overseas trip with this like slime gurkin flavored slime,

682
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Speaker 2: and then I forgot about it and left it in

683
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Speaker 2: the back of my cupboard. And then when we moved

684
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Speaker 2: four years later, I pulled it out and I opened

685
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Speaker 2: the lid disgusting.

686
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Speaker 1: So I'd love to know do you think because that smell?

687
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 1: I was like, is I love a pickle but the

688
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 1: smell of furniture stinks?

689
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Speaker 3: Can you beat it? What do you reckon? What smell

690
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Speaker 3: is the worst? To spell? Text through four four eight

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Speaker 3: seven Maddy J.

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Speaker 6: Maddy and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 1: The Ebag and Welcome to your Tuesday Night, Maddy MPJ.

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Speaker 1: Earlier in the show, I was talking about the unfortunate

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Speaker 1: liquid that I built on a friend's couch when we

696
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 1: stayed there over the weekend. It was a jar of pickles,

697
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: and I didn't realize I hadn't quite fastened the lid properly,

698
00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 1: and so it had dribbled through.

699
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 3: My bag onto the couch.

700
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Speaker 1: I wanted to know, do you reckon there's a worse

701
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 1: item that you could spill that would stake one more?

702
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 3: Oh my god, we have got so many things.

703
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 2: So many, someone said, A toddler's milk bottle that was

704
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 2: left under a cop for who knows how long baby

705
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 2: found out and had a sip. The most rotten milk.

706
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Speaker 1: Is a picture of this frozen check and left in

707
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Speaker 1: the car in the middle of summer in Australia.

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Speaker 4: Blue.

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Speaker 2: You almost did that earlier this year. I think it

710
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Speaker 2: was winter.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm a nurse.

712
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Speaker 1: There are many bad things to spill that will ruin

713
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Speaker 1: your day, But the antibiotic amoxist sillen smells like catpee

714
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 1: if you crack it open.

715
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 3: It's the worst to get on your hands.

716
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Speaker 1: Broken eggs with a mummified rat We've got this one.

717
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 1: My mate once left a pot of potato and gravy

718
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Speaker 1: and his car for about a year. We started smelling

719
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: something gross and searched around, found it and stupidly opened it.

720
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 3: Me and his girlfriend spewed everywhere.

721
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Speaker 1: It was the worst thing I've smelt in my whole life.

722
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Speaker 1: But cool think potato and gravy would stink too bad? Uh?

723
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 2: You know neither potatoes is fine?

724
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:23,319
Speaker 3: Right after a year?

725
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:29,799
Speaker 1: After a year though, yeah, after a year maybe the podcast.

726
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Speaker 1: And only a few days ago, we were in Hawk's

727
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Speaker 1: Bay with some lovely winners. Terresa and her mates came

728
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Speaker 1: out for a lovely meal with us.

729
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Speaker 2: It was it was nailed, nailed it.

730
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Speaker 3: But No and her lovely friends from Topoor and Aucland came.

731
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Speaker 1: Out for dinner with us and we were chatting away.

732
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Speaker 3: It was like we've been mates for years, wasn't that?

733
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Speaker 9: I know?

734
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Speaker 2: They were so great and we had so much fun.

735
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Speaker 2: First of all, great meal, great meal, great meal. We

736
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:08,760
Speaker 2: got the old potato grat in no, the fond of potato.

737
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Speaker 1: The potato Okay, we we really over hyped the phone potatoes.

738
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:16,839
Speaker 1: We looked at these pictures online and we're like, this

739
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 1: is going to be the best thing.

740
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Speaker 2: I mean, they were fine, There was nothing wrong with them,

741
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 2: they just weren't quite We'd overhyped it. Sitting at work

742
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:30,920
Speaker 2: on a Friday night looking at the menu, we were hungry,

743
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 2: and we over hyped what these were going to be.

744
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Speaker 3: Some would say they could have been mistaken just for

745
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 3: a roast.

746
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:37,280
Speaker 2: Potato that just roast potatoes.

747
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Speaker 1: One of the conversations that came up, and I did

748
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 1: not know how this was initiated, but somehow we started

749
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 1: reciting old school ads from TV. I think it's because

750
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Speaker 1: there was the music tally on in the background. And

751
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:55,240
Speaker 1: then we started talking about how like when you get

752
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 1: home from school and you'd watch like C four TV

753
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 1: or like Sunday morning, you chuck it on. And then

754
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 1: we talked about how like when you'd watch TV, it

755
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 1: was such an event and and you know, the ads

756
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:08,720
Speaker 1: would really be watched, you know, like it was because

757
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 1: you'd only see the show once, so you didn't want

758
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:14,399
Speaker 1: to miss when it came back on. So you'd either

759
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 1: got the toilet, you make a cup of tea, or

760
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:20,240
Speaker 1: you'd sit there eleimantly watching each advertisement thoroughly.

761
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and they were they were a real production

762
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:28,279
Speaker 2: back then, and there were storylines and lots of them

763
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 2: went on for years and years. We started reminiscing about

764
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 2: the Anchor family those ads.

765
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 3: Right, you kind of missed on some of them.

766
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Speaker 5: A few.

767
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 2: Spot the dogs though, with the telecomm ads, those were infamous.

768
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 2: And then we started reciting the ads that we still

769
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 2: remember to this day.

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Speaker 3: What's your one? Do you reckon?

771
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Speaker 2: I've got I've got a couple. There's the first one

772
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Speaker 2: that I remember is actually a horrible ad. It was

773
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Speaker 2: a drink driving ad, and I still remember this line

774
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Speaker 2: specifically from the air.

775
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Speaker 3: It's the same day, I'm sorry.

776
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:21,839
Speaker 13: Sorry to me, say kids, Okay, those those drinks there

777
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 13: was a drink they were they really.

778
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 2: They were horrific. Maybe they did the job, tell me

779
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 2: about it. But also the phrase don't say sorry to me,

780
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 2: say sorry to his kids kind of entered the lexicon

781
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 2: of society for a while. We're all saying that.

782
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Speaker 1: For a lighter one, the lighter one would have to

783
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 1: be McDonald to make it, Clark.

784
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 2: You must remember it every time you're in the car

785
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 2: and going near on good message and stuck in my

786
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 2: hair still sing or is the absolute classic di Wired

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Speaker 2: to now dna ed.

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Speaker 1: Good I want to have a day years frown Hi Jose.

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Speaker 3: Saturday nie ya jaymn.

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Speaker 2: Nose twice to hear amazing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, what we should do is why don't people

792
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Speaker 1: call us on one hundred the hats. You recite the

793
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:29,719
Speaker 1: line from the air, and we've got to work out

794
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 1: what the ad was. How good memorys.

795
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Speaker 3: With nostalgic ads?

796
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Speaker 1: If there are some lines that you can remember from

797
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:40,320
Speaker 1: some iconic ads that used to play in the eighties

798
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 1: or nineties or early two many in the podcast, we're

799
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 1: taking a walk down memory lane. We want to see

800
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:53,840
Speaker 1: how well you can remember old school ads word for word,

801
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:55,880
Speaker 1: and then we're going to guess what the ad was

802
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 1: actually promoting a lot of people saying that utter peanut butter,

803
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 1: nutter yes from Sanitarium, And you just said in the

804
00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:05,840
Speaker 1: news literally broke like within the last twenty minutes.

805
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 2: So I'd seen these teats come in and then we

806
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 2: started singing the song from Sanitarium and then literally it

807
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:17,839
Speaker 2: was like it was like fate. I got a push

808
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:21,839
Speaker 2: notification from the Herald saying Sanitarium ceases production of its

809
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 2: peanut butter range. What not making peanut butter anymore?

810
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,279
Speaker 1: Okay, let's have some fun with us and go to

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Speaker 1: the finds. Melanie is joining us first time. Melanie, Hello,

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Speaker 1: how are you good?

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Speaker 3: Very well?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Mal, you've got to give us your best rendition

815
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Speaker 1: of the ad.

816
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:40,720
Speaker 3: It will work out what you're providing.

817
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:45,440
Speaker 7: And Hugo did you go? And I said, no, you go,

818
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Speaker 7: And soon he was back and we hit the trick eating.

819
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Speaker 3: I don't know there why eating logo?

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Speaker 2: Know what was that?

821
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 3: Okay?

822
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:04,920
Speaker 2: We Kentucky Fried check and it was two KFC.

823
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 7: But now that goes back probably about CD five forty

824
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Speaker 7: years ago.

825
00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, it might be a little old for.

826
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Speaker 3: Don't be jack.

827
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Speaker 2: No, No, I'm just saying I don't think we were.

828
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Speaker 2: I don't think it was on TV when we were.

829
00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:23,320
Speaker 2: It was beyond our times, beyond our time slide.

830
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Speaker 7: It was really funny. It was a family and it

831
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 7: was you know, two kids that are born, and a

832
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:29,320
Speaker 7: girl said in the back, and there was something about

833
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 7: we wanted some dinner, and then it was here you go,

834
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Speaker 7: see you go, and I said.

835
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Speaker 2: No, you It was it was an animated It was

836
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Speaker 2: an animated ad, wasn't it.

837
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Speaker 4: It was?

838
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've seen I've devenly seen the ad before. I

839
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:43,439
Speaker 2: do know the one you're talking about.

840
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:45,280
Speaker 3: Well, thank you so much for recalling.

841
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 1: We're going to sawt you out in the little board

842
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 1: game from our prize covers.

843
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Speaker 13: Thank you so much.

844
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 2: You're welcome, You're welcome.

845
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:56,320
Speaker 3: Alright, Hello, Nina, Hello?

846
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:59,839
Speaker 2: Hello? How are yeah? All right? Had us?

847
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 3: Were you just practicing your at.

848
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 11: Somebody?

849
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:10,319
Speaker 8: So this involves a sad cat and a hyped up

850
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 8: cockados any clothes?

851
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 3: Oh cat, and I hyped out of cockatoo.

852
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 2: This is ringing a real bell for me. This is

853
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:18,799
Speaker 2: ringing the bell for me.

854
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 3: Oh no, can you give us any lines from it?

855
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:28,920
Speaker 8: Okay? Lawrence was very depressed, and then the cockatoo.

856
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 2: With an Insidiye was it New Zealand Insurance?

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00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 4: It was?

858
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:38,399
Speaker 2: Ah, I remember it?

859
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 3: Yes?

860
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:41,360
Speaker 2: What I do remember it?

861
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:44,360
Speaker 3: I don't what then? Did were we talking? Eighties?

862
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:46,479
Speaker 2: Late eighties? I think?

863
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 3: Okay?

864
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 1: Okay, I was born nineteen ninety, so let's kind of

865
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Speaker 1: raby I under.

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Speaker 3: That, Hi, ravy bhi?

867
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Speaker 8: How we go?

868
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 2: Good as you was a little bit more recent, so

869
00:41:57,320 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 2: that PJ can hopefully have a shot from me.

870
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 4: Bring it Ruby, Maybe if she remembers the thing she's

871
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 4: in the early early days of it.

872
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:09,360
Speaker 8: Okay, all right, bring it on, okay, goes like this,

873
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:11,399
Speaker 8: it's got to be.

874
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:14,480
Speaker 5: Perfect.

875
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:19,040
Speaker 8: Yeah, too many people and then I don't know the words.

876
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 3: Oh my god, what.

877
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 7: Every single time that it came on, and to get up.

878
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 4: And do the dance the old lady did.

879
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 3: I'm trying to take me out of my misery. What

880
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:31,280
Speaker 3: was that?

881
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:33,400
Speaker 8: It was a new world ed?

882
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 2: It was too it was.

883
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,319
Speaker 3: Too It was taking me back. Do you remember that?

884
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 10: Yeah?

885
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 2: I remember I was telling you about the Vogels one.

886
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 3: I don't know if I remember this one.

887
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 2: Man, you need to watch more t V. P you.

888
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 2: None of them are coming to you. This one when

889
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 2: she burnt his vocals and she goes it was a

890
00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 2: year ago. Michael, let it go. Always it always sticks

891
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 2: with me. I'm not repeating it until you hear you

892
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 2: heard it.

893
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 3: Do it again.

894
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:09,439
Speaker 2: It was a year ago, Michael, Let it go.

895
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 5: Mady and PJ the podcast that's