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Speaker 1: From the zendim podcast network.

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Speaker 2: This is from Flesh one and Haley's Big Pod thanks

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Speaker 2: to animates making happy happened for pets.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Welcome to the show, Flinchfawn and Haley. God,

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Speaker 1: we've got a busy, big show for you today.

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Speaker 3: It's actually unbelievable. Champacked.

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Speaker 1: Lily Allen joins us after eight o'clock. Now, first, John

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Speaker 1: Aiken from Maths chatting about Maths an update.

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Speaker 4: We had him in a few weeks ago, didn't we.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we've got your relationship questions for him today. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so he's with us after eight thirty. You went for

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Speaker 1: lunch with him yesterday?

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Speaker 3: We did? We cannot Me and the producer girlies went

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Speaker 3: to lunch with John yesterday. We can't actually share everything,

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Speaker 3: he divulged to us.

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Speaker 4: Oh really, really.

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Speaker 3: Man, we got some insider goss, didn't we? Gowls? You

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Speaker 3: got some what some spoilers, well, some spoilers, but also

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Speaker 3: just an inside look.

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Speaker 4: The top sex is on the way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I read an article yesterday the signs that your

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Speaker 1: partner maybe did to adult content.

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Speaker 4: Oh goodness, Enginet based video adult content. Oh no, short films,

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Speaker 4: I'll I'll give you documentaries.

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Speaker 1: The rundown from that, but also the other top six

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Speaker 1: signs your partner's addicted to adult content. Next to the show, heines,

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Speaker 1: the people that make all the sauces.

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Speaker 3: Kitschup Company, Aren't they over a tomato sauce?

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Speaker 1: A little bit embarrassing for them? They've got some male

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Speaker 1: on their face. After the after this news, we'll delve

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Speaker 1: into that next.

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Speaker 5: Fletchborne and Haley Big Pod.

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Speaker 1: Well, the people that make all the kit chips the signs?

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Speaker 1: Are they called something different here?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: But waddies though, right? Are they the people that own Waddies?

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Speaker 1: We're gonna need a quick google. Well, this story comes

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Speaker 1: to us from a Canadian website, craft Times.

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Speaker 3: What is limited as the New Zealand based food.

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Speaker 1: Is all the sign I think it's all the same people, yeah, heinz.

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Speaker 1: What is it's like when you see that infograph of

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Speaker 1: all the food companies that own everything in the world?

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Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, wow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so they're all sort of owned yeah by one mother,

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Speaker 3: mother or father company?

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Speaker 1: Well they are. The Canadian press reporting that heines mayo

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Speaker 1: chup is a new product there. It's mayonnaise and kitchen.

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Speaker 3: I thought it was mayonnaise and a solidified ball on

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Speaker 3: a stick like a chopper chub.

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Speaker 4: What color would you call that?

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Speaker 1: Like a malicious And then it caused a couple of sneezes. Right, well,

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Speaker 1: they've launched this mayo chup. It was a crowd source

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Speaker 1: named name m a yo chup like chopper chup in

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Speaker 1: c h up as in kitchup as in kitchen.

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Speaker 4: Yes, there's a name for that. Ay.

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Speaker 3: Is it hybrid?

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Speaker 1: A hybrid or is that what you just call it?

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Speaker 1: A hybrid name? We use two bits of a word.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Well, it turns out that according to some linguistics and

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Speaker 1: those that deal with Cree dialects, what's cree?

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Speaker 4: Where? Where's that from?

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Speaker 3: Pre dialect?

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Speaker 4: Creole? Is it Creole? Yeah? Creole's French of origin.

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Speaker 3: Isn't it Pree dialects from a former vast dilect continuum

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Speaker 1: Across Canada? Well, apparently it's slang for ship face. Oh really, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it hasn't translated well.

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Speaker 3: Spoken in many parts of Canada, from the Rocky Mountains

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Speaker 3: to the west to Labrador in the east.

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Speaker 4: I love that they have a place called Librador.

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Speaker 1: That the dogs are named after the place that's where

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Speaker 4: No, the place is named up They saw the cute

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Speaker 3: Yeah, why would we name ourselves up to the dog? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: of course you fall. So what does it mean? Sorry?

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Speaker 1: So again, so it means ship face basically translated hasn't

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Speaker 4: So this has already got a name.

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Speaker 1: It's fry Sauce is the name for a condiment of

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Speaker 1: often served with French fries that's a combination of tomato,

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Speaker 4: Do they call it salsa golf?

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Speaker 1: There's an Argentina and Uruguay it's called salsa golf, and

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Speaker 4: Popular at golf clubs, so people would get golf clubs.

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Speaker 1: But it's like when you go to Meccas and you

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Speaker 1: mix the mao and the kitchup sashe it's yom.

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Speaker 3: I love it. Chopoli like aoli and tomato sauce kitchen.

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Speaker 4: And you say, can I get some tomato sauce spicy?

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Speaker 4: And then you put in some Yeah, they're going to

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Speaker 3: So you said it was a crowdsource name. I think

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Speaker 3: Gnaise is so much better.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is my own kit chip though the trademark

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Speaker 1: or the name, no, I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: I just googled other brand names that didn't translate well.

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Speaker 1: Of course, famously, there's the Mitsubishi Pajero is wanker and Spanish, yeah,

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Speaker 1: there were branding cars all over the world with that.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the mas Are released in nineteen one, translates

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Speaker 1: to the prostitute in Spanish. Wow, Honda fit i t

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Speaker 1: t a translated to a vulgar term for female genitalia

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Speaker 1: and sweet in Norway, and and dem, yeah you don't

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Speaker 3: Head, don't you reference my feet?

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Speaker 1: Mercedes Benz into the Chinese market as Ben's, which means

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Speaker 1: rush to die. Oh Godler marketed in China it was

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Speaker 1: ko Ka Kila translated as to bite the wax tadpole

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Speaker 1: or female horse stuffed with wax. Right, did they not

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Speaker 1: run this past anyone in the office that spoke China

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Speaker 1: a Mandarin KFC's finger looking good slogan translated in China

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Speaker 1: is eat your fingers off.

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Speaker 4: I Care had a set of bunk beds.

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Speaker 1: And that were called the Gutvic bunk beds and that

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Speaker 4: Badly, that's quite fat.

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Speaker 1: HSBC had a marketing slogan assumed nothing, which was translated

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Speaker 1: to some countries as do nothing like a great I'd

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Speaker 1: bang for them. That's my kind of vibe, Just lazy,

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Speaker 5: The Fletche and Haley Pod.

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Speaker 4: From the Fletchvorn and Haley group chat. This is the

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Speaker 4: top six.

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Speaker 1: Hello, there a really interesting article the Serious Backbone, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: about porn addiction and how back in the day you

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Speaker 1: had to buy the magazines or the VHS tapes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and have somewhere to store them, and it was a

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Speaker 1: secrecy thing, and not everybody had a TV with a

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Speaker 1: VHS you know, in a in a bedroom, or they

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Speaker 1: couldn't transport it around easily, take it in the car.

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Speaker 4: Et cetera.

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Speaker 1: Now you can look out your phone and anything is

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Speaker 1: at any time, Yeah, anywhere apparently.

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Speaker 1: So porn addiction is taken off with the invent of

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Speaker 1: the internet and the accessibility of the Internet. This article

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Speaker 1: says the signs are there's a loss of interest in sex,

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Speaker 1: you find yourself alone at night, the content becomes more

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Speaker 1: and more extreme, your partner's protective of their phone. Our

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Speaker 1: excuses and denials a commonplace. This was really interesting me

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Speaker 1: and with female partners who had a porn addiction are

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Speaker 1: worried that if they open up, their friends will tell

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Speaker 1: them how lucky that to have such an and satiable spouse.

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Speaker 3: Ah.

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Speaker 1: And women, on the other hand, might hear that it's

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Speaker 1: their fault because they didn't keep their husband or male

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm going to be a problem. But it's more

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Speaker 4: than that. Wonderfully sexist. Yeah there's a man, You're lucky woman,

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Speaker 4: your bloody film.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we love it, We're used to it, we love

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Speaker 3: it well.

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Speaker 1: I've got the top six slightly more lighthearted signs that

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Speaker 1: your partner might be added to the online content. Okay,

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Speaker 1: a number six on the list. You keep phoning the

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Speaker 1: smashing the pipes under the sink until a hot plumber

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Speaker 1: They were like, yeah, try the next plumber in the

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Speaker 1: phone book. There'd actually be a great marketing campaign if

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Speaker 1: you were a hot plumber yourself.

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Speaker 4: The hot plumber people.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, hot plumber like Hot Trades they would be

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Speaker 1: a bread company, wouldn't Hot Trades.

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Speaker 4: Got it'd be good. Yeah, money, you'd make money.

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Speaker 3: And J Construction or Hot Trades guarantee?

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Speaker 1: Would you let your partner be like if you were

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Speaker 1: seeing someone and they were they were like, I've got.

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Speaker 4: A new job at Hot Trades, would you be okay

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Speaker 3: But I'm okay with a lot more than a lot

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Speaker 1: Number five on the list of the top sexcings. Your

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Speaker 1: partner's addicted to adult content. They are constantly ordering taxis

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Speaker 1: places even though they've got no money and no where

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and they don't look legit. These they will have

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Speaker 4: black London cabs, which is.

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Speaker 1: Number four on the list of the top sex signs

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Speaker 1: your partners are online content. Yeah, I know what saying. Yep,

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Speaker 1: they're disappointed well behaved nurses. Oh, they're disappointed when a

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Speaker 1: I Number three on the list of the top sex

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Speaker 1: signs your partners to online content. They order multiple pizzas

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Speaker 1: and the hope that there's a hot pizza delivery person again.

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Speaker 1: Company name, hot Pizza, Pizza, hot delivery.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, hot pizzas even hotter delivery guys.

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Speaker 1: Number two on the list of the top six signs

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Speaker 1: your partner is addicted to online content. Whenever they are

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Speaker 1: doing the washing, when they get the clothes out of

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Speaker 1: the laundry, they just jam their hands and all the

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Speaker 1: and they get stuck spots. They're trying to get stuck,

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Speaker 1: but washing machines just don't have those sorts of op. Yeah, trying,

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Speaker 1: really trying to get their hands stuck. And number one

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Speaker 1: on the list of the top six signs your partner

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Speaker 1: is addicted to online content. They really want their partner.

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Speaker 1: Their parents to remarry someone with kids, their.

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Speaker 4: Age, voice, sibling situation born, yeah, not related.

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Speaker 1: And they're hoping whoever their parents marry have a washing

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Speaker 5: Does that end podcast network?

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Speaker 3: What they do is they sterilize the fat. The DNA

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Speaker 1: Wait, so if you're a donor, not only could they

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Speaker 3: A cadev, if you don't know, it is a dead body. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Have to donate. That have to be like, yes, you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they're saying it's highly regulated, very ethically sourced, and

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Speaker 3: why not. It's a waste of perfectly good fat.

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Speaker 4: You can have someone else's fat than.

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Speaker 3: You, a dead person's fat in your face.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's no different than having a dead person's

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Speaker 4: Essential for survival. This is an elective cosmetic surgery.

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Speaker 3: If you just get normal filler, that's just like some

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Speaker 3: So this is this just because you don't have to

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Speaker 3: Then in five years your check's gonna start hollowing out

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Speaker 1: Yeah, drinking at home. Even beer volumes down? Wow, okay

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Speaker 4: Oh gosh? So which is which is wild? Given COVID,

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Speaker 1: Because it's the only zero on tap, and people want

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Speaker 3: Like soft of viscous moments. It was really good. Weird, okay,

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Speaker 8: Well.

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Speaker 5: Play well.

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Speaker 4: The Internet's full of bad things?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, full of bad things? Would you say just a quick,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, majority bad, some good stuff.

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Speaker 1: The latest thing the internet is debating who would do

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Speaker 1: better if they swapped jobs?

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Speaker 4: A vet or a doctor.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, for the horses. But do they study is I

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Speaker 3: If you ask AI objectively this question, veterinarians would likely

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but we're complex.

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Speaker 3: They're more of a jack of all trades. They're resourceful,

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Speaker 4: Somebody messaged in.

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Speaker 1: They studied to be a VET and part of their

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Speaker 1: Two and they were sitting into the field. Bad guys

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Speaker 1: they can give them the stuff off the ring in

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Speaker 1: the movies, in the movie they do in the movies. Well,

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Speaker 1: joining us as our good friend, doctor Shawney. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: doctor Shawney.

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Speaker 5: Morning team, How are we good?

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Speaker 3: Really good?

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Speaker 4: How how do you feel about this? I'm on the

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Speaker 4: VEST side. I was just thinking you're you're a GP, right,

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Speaker 4: Doctor Shawney?

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Speaker 9: I am, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And so there's vets that probably don't do surgery, that

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because how do you think you'd compete against each other?

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Speaker 1: Would you be able to analyze an alsatian better than

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Speaker 1: they could just kind of feel around on a human

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Speaker 1: and take a thermometer up.

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Speaker 9: The Yeah, I was wondering this when you ask the

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Speaker 9: question do all vets do surgery?

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Speaker 10: Because not all doctors do surgery, I don't.

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Speaker 9: I mean as they least risk with an animal.

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Speaker 4: Well, you're just saying to see us turtle.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, if little turtles came in, if it died,

448
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Speaker 3: you'd be like, oh, it's better than me killing a humor.

449
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Speaker 11: Yeah.

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Speaker 9: No, I mean that's that's after there was you know,

451
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Speaker 9: their patients biting. That doesn't happen to me very often.

452
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Speaker 3: Yeah it does, because you studied general medicine, like you

453
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Speaker 3: you've got to know, but like you're not surgical. But

454
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Speaker 3: if I brought in Raleigh my care who you know,

455
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Speaker 3: I love very much, and he had been hit by

456
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Speaker 3: a car and had an open wound, do you think,

457
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Speaker 3: doctor Shawney, you'd be able to stitch him up well

458
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Speaker 3: enough that he'd heal.

459
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Speaker 7: I'd be able to.

460
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Speaker 3: Stitch him up.

461
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Speaker 9: But if he had like an internal injury, I don't

462
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Speaker 9: know if I could sex flat.

463
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Speaker 3: It's really brave of you to admit it, you know.

464
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Speaker 9: But remember I'm not a surgeon, because there'll probably be

465
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Speaker 9: surgeons out there that'll be like, yeah, no dramas I know.

466
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Speaker 3: But animal, you're a doctor, friend, you know, we don't

467
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Speaker 3: have a surgeon.

468
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Speaker 1: You win these post apocalyptic world and we're all living

469
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Speaker 1: on Vaughan's farm.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're going to have to all of them.

471
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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're for everything, and we have seen you when

472
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Speaker 1: we do our raid on the local chemist warehouse for

473
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Speaker 1: what antibiotics we need for.

474
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Speaker 3: You don't know, some of for skins for other things.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that's exactly right.

476
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Speaker 9: You've got to get the right anti botox for the

477
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Speaker 9: right BIA.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and the vts as well, just because we don't

479
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Speaker 4: have a vit at the yeah farm.

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Speaker 9: You have to remember there's a lot more to medicine

481
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Speaker 9: than just surgery. There's loads of conditions out there that

482
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Speaker 9: animals get as well that don't need, like like like

483
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Speaker 9: dibetes and syroid problems and things like that. And so

484
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Speaker 9: the where vis would win again there is that humans

485
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Speaker 9: are used to being able to ask the patients questions,

486
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Speaker 9: where if you can't ask an animal anything.

487
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Speaker 3: Yeah, they're just like, yeah, they speak all the languages.

488
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Speaker 9: I've talked to our Jason a thousand times. He's never

489
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Speaker 9: seen one way back.

490
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Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly.

491
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Speaker 1: My dog recently had a urinary tract in fiction and

492
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Speaker 1: we there was like a thousand dollars worth of tests

493
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Speaker 1: and stuff taken.

494
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Speaker 4: But if you're a humor. You just be like burns

495
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Speaker 4: the pp PP all the time.

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Speaker 9: That's one thing where that might struggle because you can't

497
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Speaker 9: you charge keeps.

498
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Speaker 7: Yeah, charge very much when you're a doctor.

499
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Speaker 4: Subsidized by the government, though, is it.

500
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Speaker 7: No, it's not.

501
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:19,439
Speaker 4: Because animals don't pay taxes.

502
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Speaker 9: What they're saying about the value of animals, you know.

503
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I have no idea, never heard of saying about

504
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Speaker 4: the value of animals.

505
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Speaker 1: Okay, well, so from from a doctor your your team

506
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Speaker 1: VET on this question, doctor Shawney.

507
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Speaker 9: Yeah, you guys at the start when you said they've

508
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,439
Speaker 9: got to know about all sorts of different things.

509
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Speaker 4: It's just to one.

510
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Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody just messaging VETSU miss out and getting into

511
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Speaker 1: seeking your vitinary school often.

512
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Speaker 4: Go to mid school instead.

513
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Speaker 3: What is the easier option?

514
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Speaker 4: Yeah, public houses is getting the sloppy secrets.

515
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Speaker 3: Does any of the skills transfer, you know, do any

516
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Speaker 3: of your credits that you've done at VET school at school?

517
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Speaker 9: Love?

518
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Speaker 4: They do?

519
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Speaker 9: They probably, I mean probably count on learning. Maybe I

520
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 9: don't know. But it's funny because the medicines are the same.

521
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:09,680
Speaker 9: Like it's funny when you take your animal to the

522
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Speaker 9: vet and get antibotus and it's like cycling, which is

523
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Speaker 9: the same one we use.

524
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Speaker 3: So there's stuff that I've got on the fridge for Rollie.

525
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Speaker 3: I could use that next time I've got to use

526
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Speaker 3: I no.

527
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Speaker 7: The way smaller dosins.

528
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Speaker 3: That is not what he's saying, Hailey, another round of incredible,

529
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Speaker 3: incredible medical advice from you to me.

530
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Speaker 9: That is not medical advices.

531
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Speaker 3: Saved myself entire doctor's appointment. However, many.

532
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Speaker 4: Work out your weight differences?

533
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Speaker 3: How many?

534
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Speaker 4: That's not what That's not what we're recommending at all.

535
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Speaker 4: Thank you.

536
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Speaker 9: Doctor needs to recommend it. To take your animals pells,

537
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Speaker 9: some of them are different.

538
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Speaker 1: Doctor Johney has to go now because he has cycling

539
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Speaker 1: to work. Now, do you guys know this, Please be careful.

540
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Speaker 9: Cycling to work.

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Speaker 3: I am careful. You need thousand miles away. That is

542
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Speaker 3: very dangerous.

543
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Speaker 7: It's a big cycle.

544
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Speaker 4: But do you have a little high vers vest?

545
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Speaker 12: Not yet.

546
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Speaker 3: I've got a high vers when I wanted to be

547
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Speaker 3: a cyclist and I couldn't keep it. I'm going to

548
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Speaker 3: bring you my high verse. Okay, I've got one for you.

549
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Speaker 4: Any crossword out while you're here, Doctor Shawney, do.

550
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Speaker 9: You know I actually do. We're doing a massive one,

551
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Speaker 9: but I don't have it with me yet.

552
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Speaker 3: Later think text nine six nine sex. We don't want

553
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Speaker 3: to it's not personal business.

554
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Speaker 4: Nine sex sex, Doctor JOHNI thank you so much.

555
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Speaker 5: Play that ends flesh one and Haley.

556
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 3: Right now, though, let's chat about this new adaptation of

557
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Speaker 3: Pride and Prejudice, because this is right on the back

558
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Speaker 3: of Wuthering Heights, which I haven't seen yet, but I

559
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Speaker 3: want to margat Robbie jacob Elrdie. It's gross worldwide already

560
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Speaker 3: one hundred and sixty million US.

561
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Speaker 4: Dollars, a lot of money.

562
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Speaker 3: I'd say that's a fair fair bit of coin. Opening

563
00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 3: weekend it did what's that like fifty Well, domestically in America,

564
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Speaker 3: it's already like one of the top grossing films of

565
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Speaker 3: twenty twenty six. Obviously mixed reviews, but I feel like

566
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Speaker 3: the girlies who love it absolutely love it, and the purists,

567
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 3: the Emily Bronte purists, the original book lovers hate it, yep,

568
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 3: but it never claimed to be accurate. So now we're

569
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Speaker 3: getting excited for Pride and Prejudice, which is Jane Austen's book.

570
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Speaker 3: We've seen the adaptations of it before. It was Kiera

571
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Speaker 3: Knightley was two.

572
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Speaker 4: Thousand and five.

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Speaker 1: Pride and Prejudice is the one that everyone knows. Karen Knightley,

574
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Speaker 1: Matthew mcfagen, Carrie Mulligant, Matthew mcfagin. No, it's Matthew McFadden.

575
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Speaker 3: You don't put a GM badge.

576
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Speaker 1: They call him Faggie Veggie, Matthew Edge, Rosamond Pike, Rupert

577
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Speaker 1: Hall of the lineup them were quite young at the time, yes,

578
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Speaker 1: and it was.

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Speaker 3: Lots of that. Do you know from Kiera Knightley. Mister

580
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Speaker 3: don't go, they say, Jane. They say that Pride and

581
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Speaker 3: Prejudices is like the blueprint for all romantic comedies. Really,

582
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Speaker 3: this is the remedy. It's a you know, well they

583
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Speaker 3: won't they mishap love story. Okay, So now NETFLX has

584
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 3: just released their first look teaser, like a bit of

585
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Speaker 3: shots of mister Darcy on the horse. Mister Darcy is

586
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 3: Jack Loaden from Slow Horses, but he's not mister Darcy.

587
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Speaker 3: I don't think he was. I don't think man, this

588
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 3: is very judgment. I don't think he's handsome enough.

589
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, I mean he's a handsome man, but he

590
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 1: doesn't have that dashing kind of a Horse, Emma corm

591
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: Is Elizabeth so like great Cast already.

592
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 3: But the reason that this has got everyone very excited

593
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 3: is because it's written by Dolly Alderton, who was like

594
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 3: a very well known girly author. You know that she's like,

595
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Speaker 3: she's going to do I think, like a Withering Heights

596
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 3: sort of treatment on it and make it more for

597
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Speaker 3: the girlies. Faithful they say, but a modern adaptation because.

598
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Speaker 1: Prejudiced the novel release to cook Google Googgle flighteen thirteen.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So when you say a modern adaptation, will they on

601
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Speaker 1: their phones and.

602
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Speaker 4: Stuff like on the couch?

603
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Speaker 3: O MG, mister Dosa, No, no, no, it's going to

604
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 3: be set. You know, it's a classic take, but more

605
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Speaker 3: maybe you know, like Withering Heights had like Charlie x

606
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Speaker 3: X to the music and it was a bit more

607
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Speaker 3: kind of arty. I guess. Six part series. Olivia Colemans

608
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Speaker 3: in it.

609
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Speaker 4: She's correct anything, she does everything.

610
00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, great cast, But all it said is coming

611
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 3: soon in twenty twenty six to Netflix, right to Netflix,

612
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Speaker 3: six part series.

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00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 4: But this year, this year coming.

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Speaker 5: Soon plays in Flesh one and Haley.

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Speaker 3: We've spoken about this. The three of us have always

616
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Speaker 3: been rather passionate about our and cobbler of choice, a

617
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Speaker 3: shoe repair person, work with leather.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes they cut keys, sometimes they sometimes they rock a

619
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Speaker 1: bit of engraving.

620
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Speaker 3: Yeah. Sometimes they are the sole maker of marching boots

621
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Speaker 3: for the whole of New Zealand.

622
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Speaker 4: I know.

623
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Speaker 3: And sometimes they shut down. Now, my cobbler told me

624
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Speaker 3: a couple of years of Coles cobbles, Coles Coles Cobbles

625
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Speaker 3: on Dominion Road. He told me a couple of years

626
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Speaker 3: ago was thinking of shutting down. And then he was like, no,

627
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Speaker 3: I'll keep going a little bit longer. And then did

628
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Speaker 3: you tell me Vaughan? Maybe you drove past it and

629
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Speaker 3: you had terrible news for me.

630
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Speaker 4: He said, be sure he's shut down.

631
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Speaker 3: He shut down, he shut down.

632
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Speaker 4: You sure, yes, he's gone.

633
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Speaker 1: You can't just sat on the radio someone shut down, right,

634
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Speaker 1: he's gone. This is how how legendary cobbler. By the way, legendary.

635
00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 1: It's on Reddit ford slash Auckland and that's always true.

636
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 1: Cole's read it has never lied a day in its life.

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00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 1: Cole's cobble shop closed down.

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00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 4: Now.

639
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 3: Coal fixed many shoes for me, repaired many marching boots

640
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:15,960
Speaker 3: over the years. But since you shut down, I haven't

641
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 3: needed him. All my shoes have been of fine standard.

642
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 1: Because you keep buying new ones, opportunity for a little lecture,

643
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 1: is it? Is it wrong?

644
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 4: Though?

645
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 3: I have bought so many pairs of new shoes, but

646
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 3: I only ever wear the shoes I'm wearing today, which

647
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 3: is just my classic, normal straight black dock Martins.

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00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 4: They are a classic that will never go and I

649
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 4: just reached for.

650
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Speaker 3: Them all the time. However, I wore these to the

651
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 3: military tattoo and then I had to walk for ages

652
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 3: from Eden Park and you know, to try to get

653
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 3: to a better uber location. And I felt it and

654
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 3: they were going, you know, at the back of the heel,

655
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 3: and the structure.

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00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 4: Of a boat had this exact problem.

657
00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 1: And yeah, and the plastic that's there, the structure starts

658
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 1: to dig into your cut.

659
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I saw I got these terrible blisters and

660
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 3: I've forgotten all about it. And I put them back

661
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:08,239
Speaker 3: on this morning. I was like, holy hecker, and it's

662
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 3: all shredded in the middle. Now, usually this is where

663
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:12,680
Speaker 3: I'd take them off and I'd take them to Coles.

664
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 3: But I need a new cobbler. I am officially looking

665
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Speaker 3: for a new cobbler.

666
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 4: As this where we petition for each of our cobblers.

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Speaker 4: I think I saw your cobbler at the weekend.

668
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Speaker 3: I just want to know why they're good?

669
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 4: Where's your call? I just I just take mine down

670
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 4: the road from my house.

671
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 3: Nine Sex, nine Sex. If you've got a cobbler, but

672
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 3: what if it's.

673
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 4: Anywhere in there? Do you need these birds for good

674
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 4: Charlotte on Friday? Because I will do that tomorrow.

675
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 3: It's not happening.

676
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:40,720
Speaker 4: I don't know about that cobbler. Cobbler wondering.

677
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 1: You just put a bit of duct tape on the inside.

678
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 3: For now, I am going to have to construct some

679
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 3: temporary solution for tomorrow's good. Charlotte.

680
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 4: Do you remember when I got my I reckon you

681
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 4: have it done? But honestly calling he's at the warehouse

682
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 4: and whiskap, this is my cobbler.

683
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 3: I can't'm going to all I'm going to Wellington straight

684
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 3: after the.

685
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:57,719
Speaker 4: Shoe I made to drop them off.

686
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 1: But then you'll never get you you're getting back to

687
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 1: my I won't let her on a plane and dear feet.

688
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I don't have any other shoes.

689
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 4: Okay, So if you.

690
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 1: Go to Wellington, could there be a wellingon there could

691
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:12,959
Speaker 1: be a Wellington compler, so they were about staying in Wellington.

692
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 1: Wellington's got the cobbler energy because everybody's wearing old shoe. Yeah.

693
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 1: Do you remember I saw that guy on Techtonk and

694
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 1: Instagram reels doing the Birkenstocks and I think it's tone

695
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 1: on and I sent those away and they were amazing,

696
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 1: And people just watch those videos because they're so they're

697
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 1: so nice.

698
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:28,480
Speaker 4: Watch.

699
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 1: I follow an account called America's Cobbler and he cobbles

700
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 1: everything like cowboy boots, cheerleading boots, marching boots for the

701
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 1: marching bands.

702
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it's good stuff watching the cobblers do their thing.

703
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 3: Now, someone messaging about Mike Cole's cobbles said he's really

704
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 3: missed a trip there. He should have been the cobler,

705
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 3: you know, Cole Bler, the cobbler, I mean the guy

706
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 3: who owns it. Apparent well in twenty twelve, this is

707
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 3: an old article. His name was Paul Cobb. What else

708
00:33:57,800 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 3: was he going to be a caught on a cobra

709
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 3: Cobbler That was yeah, my friend, you're in a marching

710
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:05,960
Speaker 3: girl message and I know I'm devastated as well. In

711
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 3: cold shutdown, he even did my marching boots at his

712
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 3: house for a while after he shut down.

713
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 4: Has he retired?

714
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 3: He's done.

715
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:17,360
Speaker 1: Yes, there's only so many decades that you can sniff

716
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 1: other people's smelly foot.

717
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:20,399
Speaker 4: I reckon into inch.

718
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 3: Isn't it great?

719
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 4: I reckon he's into it.

720
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:25,879
Speaker 3: For all these years? Isn't it great?

721
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 7: Though?

722
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 3: That this is such an old trade?

723
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:30,840
Speaker 4: It's a die Still.

724
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 3: Need a cobbler for fixing our leather goods.

725
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 1: You a couple of a couple of hard recommendations for

726
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 1: hurry up shoes and lower heart. But you're not going

727
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:41,320
Speaker 1: to that area of Wellington, are you. But it's in

728
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 1: the name hurry up. You could just drop them out

729
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 1: and hurry up. I need them by the time I

730
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:45,839
Speaker 1: get back.

731
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, hurry up. Okay, maybe I could try to get

732
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 3: this fixed in the next twenty.

733
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:54,360
Speaker 4: Four and Wellington Gimmel's on Simon Street and Auckland. You're famous,

734
00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:56,479
Speaker 4: are they? But eye candy in there to a parent

735
00:34:56,480 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 4: of cobbler, I feel like, I'm sorry, I'm not expecting

736
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:02,800
Speaker 4: when I go to my cobblin.

737
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 1: I also feel like they fixed the suitcase for me

738
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 1: once they doitcase.

739
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 4: Apparently they do.

740
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 3: Do the cobbler that will fox us up. Yeah, when

741
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:12,240
Speaker 3: you take a wallet at a bag or a suitcase

742
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 3: or something.

743
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 1: Wait, got another vote here for cobb the cobbler and

744
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 1: wester Auckland. I'm not promising eye candy, they say, But

745
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 1: tell me more about give cobler.

746
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 3: Am I going to get a new cobbler that's got

747
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 3: I can do? Or a copler that doesn't have any

748
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 3: eye can't? I can an down to the quality of

749
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 3: the cobble.

750
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 4: It kind of a fool to.

751
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 1: Turn down the quality of the cobb because what if

752
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 1: they're hot but they don't cobble. They've got a four

753
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 1: point on the Google review says four point six gimmels

754
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 1: a year ago.

755
00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 4: I'm looking at the gamble boys. There got a bit

756
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 4: of a Henry Cable vibe doing.

757
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 1: What well, I guess Hayley's got a new coblet. It's

758
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 1: kept me into some sort of slide show with the shoes.

759
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 4: Just get through the shoes. Here's what he's lookokok he's

760
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 4: all right, Okay, Okay, you got today?

761
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 3: They oh, I have put my stinky ears boots in.

762
00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:05,680
Speaker 4: Their shot and see some sixy men working with leather.

763
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 5: Podcast Needwork play z ins Flesh one.

764
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 1: And Haley's Now I want to ask the question, now,

765
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:17,800
Speaker 1: has somebody disappeared on you?

766
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 7: Now?

767
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 3: Do you think this is an impossible fight? We haven't

768
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 3: done one of those for a while.

769
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 1: It could be, but then we could take We could

770
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 1: also take calls from people that have been like ghosted

771
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 1: by a partner, because you hear that this happens. Sometimes

772
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 1: a guy or a girl will just leave town and

773
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 1: then you never see them again.

774
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 3: And it's so weird when it's after like six whole

775
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 3: months or something not not like we've been on a

776
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,400
Speaker 3: couple of dates. You've got ghost Sure that happens to

777
00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 3: all of.

778
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:45,759
Speaker 1: Us, but we asked us because a woman, a North

779
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 1: Carolina mom of three, vanished twenty four years ago.

780
00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 4: Years long was the one I saw the headline. It

781
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 4: was a Christmas and she said.

782
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:57,399
Speaker 1: She was going to get she said them off, I'm

783
00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:00,439
Speaker 1: just off to kmart and then she never came home.

784
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:03,280
Speaker 3: Well, sometimes you do spend longer.

785
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:05,959
Speaker 4: Longer, you get a little loss.

786
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:09,440
Speaker 1: So you know, I got a new sort of teleport

787
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:12,800
Speaker 1: creating machine for seven dollars. So at the time, she

788
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:16,839
Speaker 1: was thirty eight when she disappeared, it was December two

789
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:20,920
Speaker 1: thousand and one. This is in America. A couple of

790
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 1: months in Virginia and she disappeared and that was it.

791
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:27,720
Speaker 1: The police went looking the fat all of her family

792
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 1: of kids were just like, where's mum? And she has

793
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 1: been found after a tip off led the FBI to

794
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 1: count to find her and they caught up with her.

795
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:43,759
Speaker 4: And all she has said is that she.

796
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 1: Left for domestic reasons, right, So yes, wait, so domestic

797
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 1: family issues, abusive husbands. So maybe she hasn't said that,

798
00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:58,319
Speaker 1: but I mean, good honor if she has, but then

799
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 1: she left the it's like totally, my god, I need

800
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 1: to know the tip off too, do you reckon? She

801
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 1: was acting of at sus and someone started looking. She

802
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 1: had told someone twenty four years ago, and she said,

803
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,880
Speaker 1: you said she was thirty eight when she thirty eight

804
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 1: when she disappeared, So add four we're at forty two

805
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:19,760
Speaker 1: and add twenty.

806
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 3: But how old are the kids as well? So yeah, japers,

807
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:26,880
Speaker 3: imagine my god.

808
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:29,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, And there's a there's news footage of her daughter

809
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 1: speaking to the press in two thousand and one.

810
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:35,479
Speaker 3: Would you welcome her back into your life?

811
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 4: I mean I had to if it was here, I'd

812
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 4: hear her out. Yeah, we don't know why, you know, Yeah,

813
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 4: you've missed too much. During she was keeping an eye

814
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:49,440
Speaker 4: on them from the phone, drinking she ever drove past.

815
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 3: Do you reckon? She got because she got Okay, this

816
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 3: is what she did. She got dressed up as a

817
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:53,880
Speaker 3: Scottish nanny.

818
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 4: So she did throw up with them, right.

819
00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 3: They had a nanny.

820
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 1: So one of her kids posted a book on Sunday.

821
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 1: These last couple of days have been a whirlwind of

822
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 1: emotions as you would imagine. As as far as my

823
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 1: opinions and feelings on my mum, I am asthetic, I

824
00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 1: am pissed, I am heartbroken, I am all over the map.

825
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:19,759
Speaker 1: Yeah I was gonna say, yeah, will I will I

826
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 1: have a relationship once more with my mum. Honestly, I

827
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 1: can't answer that question because I don't even know. My

828
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 1: initial reaction would be yes, absolutely, But then I think

829
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:30,799
Speaker 1: of the hurt, and then my mom is only human,

830
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:33,960
Speaker 1: just as we all are, So like, what would you

831
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:35,360
Speaker 1: even like you think she's.

832
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 3: Dead, you know, yeah, just disappearing. Yes, the thing with

833
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 3: disappearing was no trace like that. Yes, it's such a

834
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:46,319
Speaker 3: dramatic case, is the thought that she's dead. So then

835
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:47,759
Speaker 3: you have a life that's still there.

836
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 1: I feel like, now with all the facial recognition technology,

837
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 1: you just couldn't disappear because you'd end up on cameras.

838
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 3: She's just probably on Facebook. I'd be like Patsy sprays, Yeah,

839
00:39:58,840 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 3: where are you come home?

840
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,320
Speaker 1: It might be it might be an impossible finding a topic,

841
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:05,799
Speaker 1: But do you know someone that has just vanished, who's

842
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 1: just disappeared?

843
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 4: Maybe it was like a.

844
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 1: Ghosting, or maybe it was the extreme that someone doesn't

845
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 1: you had a husband.

846
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 4: Left New Zealand and started a new light.

847
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 1: Will you hear about people that have like second families

848
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 1: and then they just disappear and then go to text

849
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 1: and they were with their other families.

850
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:22,319
Speaker 4: Okay, this is great.

851
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 1: Oh eight one hundred dollars at him as the number

852
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:27,880
Speaker 1: you can tick through, nine six nine sex Who vanished?

853
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:29,280
Speaker 3: Who vanished?

854
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:32,239
Speaker 1: Because a mum vanished twenty four years ago and she's

855
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 1: just been found. She hasn't given it, she hasn't gone

856
00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 1: into details, but her kids are like.

857
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 3: Oh hi, mi, hi mom, Hey, I'm in my thirties now.

858
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:43,880
Speaker 4: No, well that surely must be older.

859
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 3: Well yeah, how old there was she live?

860
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:49,320
Speaker 1: That kid that was on the news looked like eighteen seventeen,

861
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 1: eighteen nineteen.

862
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 3: Oh, that's when she went miss that's when she that

863
00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:52,879
Speaker 3: was when she went.

864
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 4: Their photos so there was her. Now the kids would

865
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 4: be like, say, how old in two thousand and one

866
00:40:59,440 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 4: she was? How old?

867
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:02,239
Speaker 1: Thirty eight? The mum I know, had the kids, do

868
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 1: you know? But they would have adults. They look like adults,

869
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 1: so they would be like, you know, late forties, fifties.

870
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 3: It's an absolute brains fun.

871
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: So who vanished on you, Bailey?

872
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:14,320
Speaker 9: Who was it?

873
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 4: Uh?

874
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:20,760
Speaker 7: Well, it didn't vanish on me. But my grandfather vanished

875
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:22,880
Speaker 7: on well we he was a kid, but his mum

876
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 7: took him and ran from his father.

877
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:25,439
Speaker 4: Oh wow.

878
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:30,319
Speaker 7: And I think the story we don't really know one

879
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:32,920
Speaker 7: hundred percent. Granddad doesn't really talk about it. We think

880
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 7: they went from Ireland or the late in New Zealand.

881
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 4: Wow, journey back then. You could never you know, you

882
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:41,279
Speaker 4: can't just jump on Facebook and see where they are.

883
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 7: No god, no, no, no, yeah, grabbed him, changed his name,

884
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 7: made a new Man.

885
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:50,279
Speaker 4: Yeah what wow? Okay, yeah yeah yeah.

886
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 7: So I've known my granddads as Bruce my entire life.

887
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:55,839
Speaker 7: That's not his real name.

888
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 5: So that's fun.

889
00:41:57,719 --> 00:41:59,879
Speaker 4: Wow. Do you even know his real name.

890
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:04,439
Speaker 7: Uh yeah, I think his real name was George. Okay, yeah,

891
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:08,359
Speaker 7: I think he just yeah, he just said no, you're

892
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:10,320
Speaker 7: gonna call me Bruce when he was about a teenager.

893
00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 7: And that's stuck.

894
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 1: Woow okay, incredible, Thank you, Bailey Ruby who vanished.

895
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:23,320
Speaker 11: So, my granddad's father was a truck driver in Australia

896
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 11: and he had drived through like the outback of Ossie

897
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:30,440
Speaker 11: and he and his truck just finished. One day he

898
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:33,760
Speaker 11: went to work and never arrived at the destination.

899
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:36,959
Speaker 4: I'm sorry the whole truck as well. Where's the trucksand

900
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 4: quicksand explanation here?

901
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:42,800
Speaker 11: They never found it, never found him all the truck.

902
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:48,440
Speaker 4: No oh no, I need to know what happened, Rebby.

903
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 11: When was this uh in the I don't know, seventies

904
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:54,320
Speaker 11: sixties maybe.

905
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 3: How how heavily was it investigated?

906
00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 4: Do you know that?

907
00:42:58,000 --> 00:42:58,879
Speaker 3: How long did they look?

908
00:42:58,920 --> 00:42:59,560
Speaker 13: What do you mean?

909
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:02,840
Speaker 11: We don't really talk about it a whole lot. My

910
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,360
Speaker 11: mom doesn't know a whole lot of the details.

911
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 3: My mind's by this.

912
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:09,279
Speaker 12: Well.

913
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:16,840
Speaker 11: My granddad's one of eight children, so I don't know.

914
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:19,319
Speaker 1: I feel like Ruby, I feel like this needs an

915
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:20,880
Speaker 1: entire true crime podcast.

916
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:22,320
Speaker 3: We need to get this on the TV.

917
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 11: Oh, I know, I've been very I've done my research.

918
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 11: I couldn't find yet saying about it, but.

919
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,920
Speaker 1: Wild because you see, outbreak is so huge. Could you

920
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:35,320
Speaker 1: go off the road and and not be seen?

921
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 3: I guess.

922
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 4: And I even had a couple of mates and won

923
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 4: disappear on the Outback dance floor in the yearly two.

924
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:48,400
Speaker 1: Different Outback Born Ruby, Dangerous, just as Perilous gin who vanished.

925
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:55,280
Speaker 14: My boyfriend basically very long time ago, love my life.

926
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 3: Love of my life.

927
00:43:56,360 --> 00:44:01,439
Speaker 14: Okay, back in the eighties, I received a Dear John leader.

928
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 14: We didn't live in the same area, but you know,

929
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 14: you were very serious about each other. And he was

930
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 14: in the army, so yeah, I know. So instead of

931
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:13,680
Speaker 14: me writing the Dear John letter, he wrote me a

932
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 14: dear job letter and disappeared. And to this day I

933
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:22,720
Speaker 14: have tried to tracking down social media everything. Cannot find

934
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 14: any no death notices, no nothing, I can't find. I

935
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:28,880
Speaker 14: don't know where he was.

936
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 1: Okay, this also needs a true crime podcast. What so

937
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:37,760
Speaker 1: he was he was living in New Zealand as well, Yeah.

938
00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 14: Yeah, yeah, he was down at one of the military

939
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 14: camps and I was in the Bay of Plenty, and

940
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:46,879
Speaker 14: I met him through my brother and all. He wrote

941
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 14: me a Dear John letter basically saying he was getting

942
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:51,759
Speaker 14: out of the army and moving to Australia.

943
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:54,840
Speaker 4: Surely the army would have records.

944
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:57,239
Speaker 1: You need to get who's the fellow that does the investigates,

945
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 1: David Lomas?

946
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 4: Go on there, he'll find him. But what if you

947
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 4: track him down and he's let himself go, you know,

948
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 4: and he's all like racist.

949
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 3: Could be like bloated and racist. Imagine him like that.

950
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm hoping.

951
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:18,840
Speaker 3: So is there something that inside of you that just

952
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 3: feels unresolved about this?

953
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:21,759
Speaker 5: Absolutely?

954
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:27,960
Speaker 12: I got no closure, no closure, and I heard various

955
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:31,400
Speaker 12: rumors and just blah blah blah, and I just wanted

956
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:35,760
Speaker 12: to get it straight in my head what actually happened?

957
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 14: Yes, we're about to get engaged.

958
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 3: Serious that must just leave such a question in your brain.

959
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 3: Not like that you you know, want to find him

960
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 3: to be with him, but just to be like what happened?

961
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:51,920
Speaker 14: I know I don't definitely don't want to be with him,

962
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 14: but I just I was only eighteen at the time,

963
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:56,920
Speaker 14: and I was like, are you kidding?

964
00:45:58,560 --> 00:45:58,600
Speaker 11: You?

965
00:45:58,920 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 15: Love?

966
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:05,480
Speaker 4: Unresolve? All these years later. This could be a podcast series.

967
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 3: Van could be really Jean's og love Jin.

968
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 4: Thank you so much. Some of these texts are mind blowing.

969
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:14,320
Speaker 4: Let's get into it.

970
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:16,280
Speaker 1: I know a woman who dropped her son at school

971
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:17,920
Speaker 1: he was six, and a daughter at kendy three, and

972
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 1: then hopped on a plane to Scotland where she used

973
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 1: to live.

974
00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 4: Hopped on a plane from Scotland where she used to live,

975
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:26,920
Speaker 4: to New Zealand. So she left her kids in Scotland.

976
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:29,800
Speaker 4: This is the weather, it's always gray and stuff. Probably

977
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 4: so the kids would love it.

978
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 1: I know, I know it's a long flight. So what

979
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 1: happened follow up to that said, broke my heart when

980
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:40,800
Speaker 1: I heard the story. Yeah, the kids need to do

981
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:42,560
Speaker 1: a DNA test to see if they have a whole

982
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:45,000
Speaker 1: other family. My mum's granddad ran away to the Isle

983
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 1: of Wight. She found out he had three more kids

984
00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:49,200
Speaker 1: after he ran away, and there was a whole branch

985
00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:51,600
Speaker 1: of the family that no one even knew about. Wow,

986
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:54,879
Speaker 1: my cousin vanished in the nineteen eighties, was never found,

987
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:55,839
Speaker 1: including his car.

988
00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:00,360
Speaker 3: That's so weird that stuff. Where is it bottom of

989
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 3: a lake?

990
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:04,800
Speaker 4: There was the truck, one truck. The whole truck.

991
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 1: But then that's like recently there was a story in

992
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 1: Hamilton and they were looking for somebody else and they

993
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:10,719
Speaker 1: dreed to wipe off the river and they found a

994
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 1: car and they were like, there's no signs on the

995
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:14,719
Speaker 1: road to the car. Yeah, must have left the road

996
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:16,760
Speaker 1: at a horrific speed to get into the river.

997
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 3: Without skids and brakes.

998
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:19,760
Speaker 4: That's just gone.

999
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:24,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's really I would love not to go that

1000
00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:26,920
Speaker 3: way in the bottom of a river. You know. I

1001
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:28,400
Speaker 3: don't want I don't want to have to drain a

1002
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:29,239
Speaker 3: pond to find me.

1003
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I mean.

1004
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:33,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, they don't drain the pond, They'll just dredged

1005
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:37,839
Speaker 1: the pond. I don't think you're worth a draining. Yeah,

1006
00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 1: they have to pump it all out builds. I think

1007
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:41,439
Speaker 1: you're a dredging, not a drain.

1008
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 3: I am a dridge.

1009
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 4: You're a you're a Navy scuba dive team.

1010
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 3: You're sorry my military connections.

1011
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:54,880
Speaker 1: My ex husband, he just vanish. Turns out he was

1012
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:56,839
Speaker 1: having an affair and ran out for the much younger girl.

1013
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 1: Literally disappeared for six weeks. Everyone thought he was dead

1014
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:00,920
Speaker 1: in a ditch somewhere. We had a four year old

1015
00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:02,000
Speaker 1: and a seven year old at the time.

1016
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:04,239
Speaker 4: You can't do that.

1017
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:06,240
Speaker 1: Friend at work came home one day and new partner

1018
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 1: had just disappeared and moved to OZ. Apparently two weeks

1019
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:10,879
Speaker 1: before they've been looking at engagement rings.

1020
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:11,479
Speaker 4: What a rotter?

1021
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:16,359
Speaker 3: What's that? What's that called when they like love bomb

1022
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 3: you just before they ghost you a term where they

1023
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:23,040
Speaker 3: go in and it's like there's funny memes about as well,

1024
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 3: like guys two weeks before they ghost she was like,

1025
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 3: I think we should move to France.

1026
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 1: The guy the day before he dunces you. Yeah, you've

1027
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 1: got you've got a word that you found, the word flitch.

1028
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 4: No, no, I haven't.

1029
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:37,719
Speaker 1: My granddad vanished and left his five kids in Australia,

1030
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 1: came to New Zealand and had another six kids with

1031
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:41,719
Speaker 1: my nana. The kids all found out of each other

1032
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:47,959
Speaker 1: when he passed away. Fertile fertile swimmers on this guy, Yeah,

1033
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 1: I was seeing a boy.

1034
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:50,800
Speaker 4: He just vanished.

1035
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 1: A year later, he popped back up on social media,

1036
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 1: liking my pictures, so he can't have been in hiding.

1037
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 4: That's weird. That is odd behavior.

1038
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 1: So mum's brother vanished about thirty years ago, lost contact

1039
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:05,360
Speaker 1: with everybody knowing knew where he was.

1040
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:07,520
Speaker 4: But people every now and then think they see him

1041
00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:13,160
Speaker 4: around town. What this is crazy.

1042
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:15,319
Speaker 1: My granddad didn't come home from work when my mum

1043
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:17,239
Speaker 1: was four. She met him again when she was in

1044
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 1: her teens.

1045
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 3: Just didn't come home from It's so bizarre. Leave your

1046
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:23,920
Speaker 3: abandon your family with grace.

1047
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 1: If you want to break up with someone, break up

1048
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 1: with him, have that hard conversation.

1049
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know.

1050
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 1: Someone said, Hayley, you need to go down the rabbit

1051
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:33,680
Speaker 1: hole of adventures with purpose on YouTube. It's a series

1052
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 1: of stories looking for people who were all found in

1053
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:36,800
Speaker 1: rivers and lakes in their cars.

1054
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 3: Why would I want to do that with my day?

1055
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:44,640
Speaker 4: That's depressing YouTube content. I want to see an otter racing.

1056
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 4: I saw Did you see the otter on the ice racing?

1057
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:50,360
Speaker 1: The person who was doing the cross country scale across

1058
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 1: a frozen lake and is just like zipping around him

1059
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 1: on his belly.

1060
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 4: Now that's the sort of but I bit under that

1061
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:57,240
Speaker 4: ice is a Carr.

1062
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 5: And Hailey.

1063
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 3: Her album Westin Girl has been the absolute talk of

1064
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:07,399
Speaker 3: the town. We've seen her everywhere. Now very soon she's

1065
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 3: coming back to New Zealand. Lily Allen's on the show.

1066
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:13,879
Speaker 3: Good morning Lily. Hi, we were just a might She's

1067
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:16,880
Speaker 3: got a majestic red velvet curtain behind her there for

1068
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:18,080
Speaker 3: the people listening on the radio.

1069
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:20,320
Speaker 10: Actually velvet. Well it's Woolen.

1070
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:26,360
Speaker 1: Oh sorry, Wow, that's made and correction taken.

1071
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 4: Wow.

1072
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:29,719
Speaker 3: Now, Lily, you've you've been to New Zealand a number

1073
00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 3: of times. I saw you. I don't want to make

1074
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 3: us all feel about old. I saw you in two

1075
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:35,640
Speaker 3: thousand and seven and twenty ten at Big Day Out.

1076
00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 10: No, I love New Zealand. I'm actually this tour starts

1077
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:39,800
Speaker 10: in New Zealand.

1078
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 16: My previous ones have like it's been in the middle,

1079
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:46,720
Speaker 16: so I've never really got to suspend a long periods

1080
00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:47,200
Speaker 16: of time there.

1081
00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:48,920
Speaker 10: But I'm planning on coming out.

1082
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:50,880
Speaker 16: You know, ten days early or something, so I can

1083
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 16: really you have a little stock around for a bit

1084
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 16: at all.

1085
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 1: Wow, do you want to do you want us to

1086
00:50:55,120 --> 00:51:00,319
Speaker 1: organize any thrill seeking adventures like bungee jumping or push

1087
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:03,399
Speaker 1: you out of a plane zorbing in a big giant ball,

1088
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 1: you go down down a hill.

1089
00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:10,879
Speaker 16: I kind of want to be in a good physical state,

1090
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 16: but when I get on stat okay, yeah, so.

1091
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 4: More of a spar more of a spa relaxing kind

1092
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:18,279
Speaker 4: of a time. Yeah, okay.

1093
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 16: Stuff, Yeah, a little bit of like paddling somewhere, but yeah,

1094
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 16: not sorbing for me.

1095
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:30,879
Speaker 3: No, Lialie. This album has absolutely like, I mean, it's

1096
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 3: such an incredible album. And I think for a while

1097
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:37,239
Speaker 3: maybe we thought you were done with music because you

1098
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:39,759
Speaker 3: were podcasting and doing all sorts of other things. Did

1099
00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:42,239
Speaker 3: you have that feeling as well, ever in the last

1100
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:45,279
Speaker 3: few years that maybe you know you were done with it?

1101
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:50,759
Speaker 16: Yeah, I mean, listen, I was writing music the whole time,

1102
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:54,400
Speaker 16: but it didn't really feel like I'd written anything that

1103
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:56,879
Speaker 16: I wanted to release and put out into the world.

1104
00:51:56,960 --> 00:52:00,239
Speaker 16: So yeah, I was really frustrated. I was like, you know,

1105
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:03,520
Speaker 16: I've been invited to go and do like spots for

1106
00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 16: Olivia Rodriguo and other people, and so I've had like

1107
00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:08,360
Speaker 16: a taste of like being up on those.

1108
00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:11,520
Speaker 10: Big stages and singing to big audiences.

1109
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:13,280
Speaker 16: And I was just like, oh, this is so annoying

1110
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:15,440
Speaker 16: because I really like it up here, but I just

1111
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:17,480
Speaker 16: can't make any good songs.

1112
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Speaker 10: And then I wrote this album and I think it

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Speaker 10: was good, so I'm coming back.

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Speaker 4: I think it was and I've got it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And are you I mean, are you happy to

1116
00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:33,360
Speaker 3: be Beck? Are you absolutely loving being back on stage?

1117
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:34,799
Speaker 3: I mean, I love watching you on is and now

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00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:38,480
Speaker 3: that performance was absolutely incredible, thank you.

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Speaker 16: I mean I've only done two maybe three.

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Speaker 10: I've done SML and I've done two like corporate gigs

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Speaker 10: so far, Corporate, my Corporate, Corporate's.

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Speaker 16: Baby, and then I've got my first show on on Monday,

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Speaker 16: So I don't know, I'm really excited. I've been really

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Speaker 16: sick this week.

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Speaker 4: You might be able to hear it a little bit.

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Speaker 16: Yeah, So I think that I think that God or

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00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:09,520
Speaker 16: the universe is just you know, getting this out of

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Speaker 16: me and everything's going to be fine. But yeah, I'm

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Speaker 16: so excited. I mean, honestly, from the moment that the

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Speaker 16: song's left my brain and you know, went into the

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Speaker 16: microphone and were recorded. The next bit for me is

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Speaker 16: when I get to see the audiences responding to the songs.

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Speaker 10: So I am so excited and nervous. You know, I'm

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Speaker 10: really nervous.

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Speaker 6: I want.

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Speaker 16: I know that, especially this first round of tickets here

1137
00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:39,360
Speaker 16: in the UK were really hard to come by, so

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Speaker 16: people really like went to war to get these tickets.

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Speaker 10: So I really want to deliver for them.

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Speaker 3: You know, you're a treasure. You're a national treasure to

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00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 3: the UK and to us sextually kind of sort of

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Speaker 3: feel what we own you as well.

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Speaker 4: Do we still get we're still going to get a

1144
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Speaker 4: dip into the back catalog? Please? Obviously?

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Speaker 1: Please? If not, let's go come on sex. Best rhyme

1146
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:00,960
Speaker 1: was when you wrote rhymed task with El Fritsko.

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Speaker 16: We'll see how it goes the For the start, I'm

1148
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:11,400
Speaker 16: being pretty hardline about it just being this record because

1149
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:14,840
Speaker 16: it is such a story from the start to the finish.

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00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:18,160
Speaker 16: You know, I do want to present it as such,

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00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:22,239
Speaker 16: so you know, but it is being dragged out.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:23,800
Speaker 10: It's only you know, thirty five.

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00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:26,279
Speaker 16: Minute record or something or forty five minute records, so

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Speaker 16: I think it's obviously.

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00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:31,040
Speaker 10: Going to be a longer show than that. But yeah,

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Speaker 10: I don't know.

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00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:36,320
Speaker 16: I haven't thought about which part of the back catalog

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00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:38,080
Speaker 16: I would bring back and if that is going to

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Speaker 16: happen or not yet.

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Speaker 10: I don't want to make any promises.

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Speaker 3: Okay, what's a subsisted with her? Because you like the bike?

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Speaker 1: Well, I was going to ask if you either owned

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Speaker 1: or if you still have the bike from the cover

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Speaker 1: of All Right Still, because I had a very similar

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Speaker 1: bike at the time.

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Speaker 10: I think I have it and I think it's an

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Speaker 10: a storage unit.

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Speaker 4: Wow, Flitch said she never owned it.

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Speaker 3: I was like a bit she did, we should bring

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Speaker 3: it over and've got some lovely biking troughs.

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Speaker 10: You know what it wasn't I didn't.

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Speaker 16: I don't own the original that was on the cover.

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00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:10,160
Speaker 16: But I think the record company, like when it became

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Speaker 16: a successful, like, let's make a whole load of them,

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Speaker 16: and so they did.

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Speaker 1: And I kept on, you had promotional bikes, man, were

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Speaker 1: the two thousands while when record labels were doing stuff

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Speaker 1: like that.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, when people bought records.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, bikes.

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Speaker 3: It's someone who's been to New Zealand a few times.

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00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 3: You're coming down here early. What's on you to do?

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00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:31,920
Speaker 3: List things to say? I mean, you know, you've got

1185
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:33,600
Speaker 3: to wrap your eyes around hobbit and if you haven't

1186
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Speaker 3: been before, of course I haven't been there, Lily, you

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Speaker 3: simply mouse's lovely.

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Speaker 6: My main thing is my nanny, my o pair, who

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Speaker 6: you know, raised me pretty much when I was a

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Speaker 6: bebe from win Heaven.

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Speaker 16: Shut up, I haven't seen the last time I was there,

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00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 16: which is like, you know, over ten years ago or something.

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Speaker 4: Were Europea was a kiwi.

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Speaker 3: No, yeah, yeah, it's so cool.

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Speaker 16: I've only seen her a couple of times since since

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Speaker 16: she left the UK, so you know she's been in

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Speaker 16: contact with her and her whole family are very excited

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Speaker 16: about coming through the show.

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Speaker 3: So that she still likes you because I my ID

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Speaker 3: nearly when I was a kid, and she left the

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Speaker 3: job because I was a bit much. She told my

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00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:27,800
Speaker 3: mom I was a bit more too much of a

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00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:29,480
Speaker 3: handful for her. I don't think she'd want to make

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Speaker 3: me as a human being.

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Speaker 10: You know what, this might come as a surprise. I

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00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 10: was actually the best behaved out of my siblings.

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Speaker 3: Wow, yeah, I cannot. I cannot.

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00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:49,040
Speaker 10: You know I was the softest and quietest as a child.

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Speaker 3: It all changed. I was going to say, do you

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Speaker 3: love do you love the touring life? I mean, I

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Speaker 3: mean you've got family and everything. Do they come out

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00:56:57,360 --> 00:56:59,480
Speaker 3: with you or you know, do you just spend a

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00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:01,680
Speaker 3: lot of times them on the phone calls?

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Speaker 10: I'm going to miss my kids.

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Speaker 16: But we've actually scheduled the Australian and New Zealand part

1216
00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:10,400
Speaker 16: of the tour to coincide with their holidays, so my

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00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:12,080
Speaker 16: kids will be coming with me for that, and they're

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Speaker 16: coming with me for the American part of the tour.

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Speaker 10: So they you know, they'll they'll be there for a

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Speaker 10: lot of it.

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Speaker 3: And I was going to say she should take the

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Speaker 3: kids to Rainbow's End, but if they're also going to Australia,

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Speaker 3: they've got slightly bit of theme packs than us.

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Speaker 1: It was quite log flames, a bit chlorine, chlorine, bumper boats.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 10: Well, I'm very excited to be on tour. I mean,

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Speaker 10: we're not doing in England and America.

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Speaker 16: We're doing it on a bus, which I love. Everyone

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00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 16: was like, really do we have to do on a bus?

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Speaker 16: Don't we do hotels and planes?

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Speaker 10: And I'm like, no, I love being in bed. If

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00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:52,680
Speaker 10: I can pull up to work in my bed.

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Speaker 4: That is the dread Well.

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Speaker 1: It's all handing Spark Arena, October the twenty first. All

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Speaker 1: the toward details sit him online and tickets on sale

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Speaker 1: now at ticket Master.

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Speaker 3: Lily Allen, we cannot wait to host you and have

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Speaker 3: you back in New Zealand and thanks for catching up

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00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 3: with us. We to see you guys. Do that.

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Speaker 2: M podcast Network plays z Ends flesh onorn and Haley.

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Speaker 5: Haley silly little pool.

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00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 6: It is so silly, silly, silly that silly little pool.

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Speaker 4: Silly little pottle.

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Speaker 3: Silly.

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Speaker 1: Silly little pol Today is do you match your concert

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00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 1: outfit to the vibe of the artist?

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00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:48,040
Speaker 3: Kind of like what? Yeah? Like what did wear a

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00:58:48,240 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 3: Harness to Troy Savanna?

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Speaker 4: I just remember and to a salon? Yeah, he's an

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00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:56,560
Speaker 4: absent used to be a window washing yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, harness appropriate?

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Speaker 11: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And then if I got a metal concert, you'll always

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00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:04,919
Speaker 3: wear Doc Martin's black black and a black ye Shan tea.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And what you wore to the laneweight isn't going

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Speaker 1: to be what you wed a good Charlotte on Friday.

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Speaker 3: It won't be diss Actually, it'll be exactly the same.

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Speaker 3: I've sort of got a concert look, but like I

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00:59:16,040 --> 00:59:18,760
Speaker 3: wouldn't do a Taylor Swift, you know, like so many

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Speaker 3: of the girls that will remake an outfit that they've

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00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:23,480
Speaker 3: seen Sabrina ren or tayloran or something like that.

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00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:27,440
Speaker 1: Well, we asked you a Matt your concert outfit to

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00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:29,560
Speaker 1: the vibe of the artist, and it was split. Forty

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00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:31,760
Speaker 1: nine percent of people said yes. Fifty one percent of

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00:59:31,760 --> 00:59:36,640
Speaker 1: people said, no splitties, splitty sploitties. Alex says, not usually,

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Speaker 1: but I will be for Hillary Duff.

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Speaker 3: Now what are we doing?

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Speaker 4: What are you going as? Lizzie McGuire?

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Speaker 3: Pink singlet, blue jeans.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I would be interested to know, Alex question what

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Speaker 4: what would be wearing to Hillary Duff?

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Speaker 3: What are you wearing to Hillary Duff?

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Speaker 4: We've got tickets, clothes.

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00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:56,680
Speaker 1: That's a good start, really good were we caught a

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00:59:56,680 --> 00:59:58,040
Speaker 1: lot of young women there, shorts and.

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00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:00,560
Speaker 4: A nice T shirt? Right, jean a nice time?

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01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 3: Year? Is she coming October?

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Speaker 4: Jeans and a nice yeah, jeans in a nice top.

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Speaker 1: Hailey said, love to dress up as the artist. Good Charlotte,

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01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:15,280
Speaker 1: Here here we come. Oh okay, nice?

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Speaker 4: So what is that? Are you going to go for

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01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:21,160
Speaker 4: two thousand and four? Five Good Charlotte the Spikys.

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Speaker 1: That's going to be an interesting crowd because I remember

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01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:28,640
Speaker 1: going to all the good Charlotte concerts in the two thousands.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and all those people are twenty years old and

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01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 4: now yeah Charlotte.

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01:00:32,640 --> 01:00:34,400
Speaker 3: Yea the eye lineer pulled down.

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01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 4: There might be some good Charlotte babies. Yeah, there might be.

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Speaker 4: It will be.

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Speaker 1: Ash did I'm thirty six? I'll all be about the comfort,

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Speaker 1: thank you very much. So what makes them comfortable? Samantha says,

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Speaker 1: usually no, But I bought merch at id Shearon and

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01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:53,680
Speaker 1: wore it over the outfit I arrived and well luckily it.

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01:00:53,720 --> 01:00:56,960
Speaker 4: Was raining, so you need Yeah, it was very weird.

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Speaker 1: Everywhere does merch counts the artists?

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I went to the Backstreet Boys at

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Speaker 4: the Sphere two weeks ago. Wow, and I don't care

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01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:11,440
Speaker 4: what is on at the sphere. Who do you want

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01:01:11,440 --> 01:01:13,880
Speaker 4: to just announced in a residency. That would be a

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Speaker 4: massive fan. That would be amazing show and matched. When

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Speaker 4: you say you match the Backstreet Boys? What Backstreet Boys

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Speaker 4: music video? Did you match the dinner full denim situation

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01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:28,480
Speaker 4: or the all white situation? White?

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01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:29,240
Speaker 3: It's a great look.

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01:01:29,400 --> 01:01:30,760
Speaker 4: That's a classic Bastery Boys.

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Speaker 1: I started doing this after the eras to her said, Abby,

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Speaker 1: anyone will tell you so much of the incredible atmosphere

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01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:39,880
Speaker 1: was everybody's outfits and everybody compliment complimenting each other. It

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01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:41,600
Speaker 1: was so wholesome. Since then, I tried to do it

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Speaker 1: in more subtle ways to match the concert vibe. Flowy

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01:01:44,160 --> 01:01:48,080
Speaker 1: top for Gracie Abrams, pink jeans for d shearing lovely, Okay,

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Speaker 1: how ridiculous is Adam?

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Speaker 4: Adam? Come on, man, and we're just having fun at him.

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01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:57,160
Speaker 4: We're just having fun, having fun.

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Speaker 3: And put on a T shirt.

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Speaker 4: How ridiculous? Currently workshopping outfits for Good Charlotte, All options

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01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:05,960
Speaker 4: are emo slash nineties is Hannah, Yeah shot, it went

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Speaker 4: a round in the nineties, Hannah early early early two thousand,

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Speaker 4: early two thousand, Yeah, mid two thousands of you know

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Speaker 4: was peak good Charlotte, it was yeah, lost dog.

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Speaker 1: I just want to wear a to tee and some

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Speaker 1: comfy pants and we can't argue with them. No, we

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Speaker 1: darn't argue with that.

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Speaker 4: So that little poul today, do you match your concert

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Speaker 4: out for to the vibe of the artist? Forty percent

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Speaker 4: of you do?

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Speaker 5: Playse plazle Haley.

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Speaker 3: Fact of the day, day day day Dayah do do

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Speaker 3: do do do did it do do do do Do

1330
01:02:46,080 --> 01:02:49,680
Speaker 3: do do do do doude it dude doo.

1331
01:02:52,080 --> 01:02:54,720
Speaker 1: It's Pokemon week. You're effected the day. And I've mentioned

1332
01:02:54,800 --> 01:02:58,240
Speaker 1: this is nothing more than a blatant attempt to tell

1333
01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:00,400
Speaker 1: you it's Pokemon's theory birth down front. I don't want

1334
01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:02,560
Speaker 1: that big Pokemon legal and if you're listening, don't send

1335
01:03:02,600 --> 01:03:03,600
Speaker 1: it to him, and send it to him.

1336
01:03:03,640 --> 01:03:08,560
Speaker 4: Send it to him. That would be even better. And

1337
01:03:09,560 --> 01:03:11,280
Speaker 4: and we'll set it on fire in front of you.

1338
01:03:11,360 --> 01:03:13,360
Speaker 3: Now, now that's a why I won't see it on fire.

1339
01:03:13,360 --> 01:03:16,400
Speaker 4: It's a builder. You'll cret and I have rate. No,

1340
01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:18,640
Speaker 4: you won't build it right now, buy your own.

1341
01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:20,480
Speaker 3: I'll do all my own.

1342
01:03:20,640 --> 01:03:23,520
Speaker 4: Little I mean I I'm going to have to buy it. Yeah,

1343
01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:24,280
Speaker 4: that's just life.

1344
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:26,800
Speaker 1: Today's Pokemon factors. I want to tell you about a

1345
01:03:26,840 --> 01:03:28,880
Speaker 1: Pokemon that disappeared for twenty years. Let's put on the

1346
01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:32,800
Speaker 1: about just to sort of hit it, just to sort

1347
01:03:32,800 --> 01:03:36,520
Speaker 1: of pump it up. Okay, come on, time's tacking. We've

1348
01:03:36,520 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 1: got John Aikin and soon hurry up. John as John

1349
01:03:43,400 --> 01:03:46,640
Speaker 1: part of a one hundred billion, thirty years, one hundred

1350
01:03:46,720 --> 01:03:50,400
Speaker 1: billion US do thirty year long I'd rather talk you

1351
01:03:50,560 --> 01:03:53,080
Speaker 1: media sccess story. I love John, don't get me wrong.

1352
01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:55,680
Speaker 1: Don't hurry Pokemon for John. I'd rather took maths and

1353
01:03:55,760 --> 01:03:59,080
Speaker 1: pokemont John nine sex nine sex.

1354
01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:00,920
Speaker 4: Shut up, fletch. That's all you need to say. Give

1355
01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 4: the man a space.

1356
01:04:02,360 --> 01:04:04,680
Speaker 1: A Pokemon has appeared for twenty years because of a

1357
01:04:04,720 --> 01:04:11,520
Speaker 1: legal dispute with a psychic. Cadabra is the middle evolution. Huh,

1358
01:04:12,560 --> 01:04:18,040
Speaker 1: Cadbra Abra is the first evolution. Cadabra is the middle one.

1359
01:04:18,160 --> 01:04:19,120
Speaker 4: What do you think? The third one is.

1360
01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:24,440
Speaker 3: Called Cabarbra great shopping welling Abra, Cabarbar. That's a brilliant

1361
01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:25,560
Speaker 3: name for abra.

1362
01:04:25,760 --> 01:04:28,840
Speaker 4: Cadabra alkazam alexamer evolution.

1363
01:04:29,600 --> 01:04:33,080
Speaker 1: Cadabra appeared to be holding a spoon at which he

1364
01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 1: would bend the spoon, and he also had a mustache

1365
01:04:37,880 --> 01:04:42,400
Speaker 1: and a certain look that nineteen seventies real life psychic

1366
01:04:43,480 --> 01:04:46,040
Speaker 1: Uri Gala said, Hey, that's me heard of Gala. He

1367
01:04:46,120 --> 01:04:47,320
Speaker 1: was the guy that would be in the spoons.

1368
01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:49,720
Speaker 3: They don't be in them though. It's a trick.

1369
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:52,200
Speaker 4: I know it's a trick, Hailey. Come on, you're talking

1370
01:04:52,240 --> 01:04:57,280
Speaker 4: to melieve believes in I don't believe in magic.

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01:04:57,680 --> 01:05:02,040
Speaker 1: He and the original Japanese didn't come from it's sleep

1372
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 1: original Japanese name for Cadabra, which is how that you

1373
01:05:08,240 --> 01:05:12,480
Speaker 1: would say, Uri Gala, Oh my god, this is almost

1374
01:05:12,680 --> 01:05:15,680
Speaker 1: sue Nintendo. He said, my identity has been used without permission.

1375
01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:18,920
Speaker 1: This damaged my reputation. Is making some sort of joke

1376
01:05:19,120 --> 01:05:21,800
Speaker 1: as bad as chest and I'm so bored.

1377
01:05:22,680 --> 01:05:24,720
Speaker 3: We're getting fletched. We need you to speak up more.

1378
01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:27,200
Speaker 3: We're getting shout out.

1379
01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:30,160
Speaker 4: Fletch, not shout to shut out fletch.

1380
01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:33,400
Speaker 1: My dad loves Pokemon where he's wearing his Team Rocket

1381
01:05:33,440 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 1: shirt right now. Shut out James from Team Rocket and

1382
01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:38,240
Speaker 1: that person's dad, who I assumed is also called James.

1383
01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:42,920
Speaker 1: So for twenty years, no, for twenty years. Cadabra disappeared

1384
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:46,440
Speaker 1: from the card trading game from twenty twenty. From twenty

1385
01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:49,040
Speaker 1: to twenty twenty. It was in twenty twenty that Uri

1386
01:05:49,120 --> 01:05:51,600
Speaker 1: Gala came out and said, I forgive you. You now

1387
01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:53,760
Speaker 1: have permission to use my likeness for the character and

1388
01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 1: the and the car appeared, reappeared.

1389
01:05:55,840 --> 01:05:58,200
Speaker 3: I forgive you, not sleep, I forgive you.

1390
01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:01,240
Speaker 4: Watched this and it was like I was gonna eat.

1391
01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:03,240
Speaker 3: Oh man, now I can't have my yoga.

1392
01:06:03,400 --> 01:06:05,600
Speaker 1: Okay, can you bend it back? But then it's never

1393
01:06:05,640 --> 01:06:08,440
Speaker 1: a strong once you get weekend. And that's actually the.

1394
01:06:08,440 --> 01:06:09,880
Speaker 4: Trick to bend in the spoon. By the way, it's

1395
01:06:09,920 --> 01:06:11,440
Speaker 4: a physics truck. You'd be in the spoon. You make

1396
01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 4: it week and then you can bend it again.

1397
01:06:13,200 --> 01:06:15,560
Speaker 1: Ah, It didn't mean any cards printed before that was

1398
01:06:15,600 --> 01:06:17,680
Speaker 1: super valuable going or anything though.

1399
01:06:19,440 --> 01:06:21,760
Speaker 3: Hi, my best friend.

1400
01:06:23,120 --> 01:06:24,120
Speaker 4: John Aikin joins us.

1401
01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:27,320
Speaker 1: Next, hurry up. Today's fact of the day. Today's wildly

1402
01:06:27,440 --> 01:06:28,760
Speaker 1: underappreciated fact of the day.

1403
01:06:28,800 --> 01:06:30,360
Speaker 3: Someone said this is worse than chess?

1404
01:06:31,160 --> 01:06:32,360
Speaker 4: Is it actually is?

1405
01:06:32,680 --> 01:06:36,160
Speaker 3: And I did the best week?

1406
01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:39,920
Speaker 1: Yet it disappeared for twenty years and came back during

1407
01:06:40,000 --> 01:06:40,800
Speaker 1: the pandemic.

1408
01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:44,840
Speaker 3: Keep going vorn. Someone says, yes, I won't go gosh

1409
01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:48,360
Speaker 3: the best week either. I'm trying to be even so.

1410
01:06:48,680 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 1: After twenty years it came back and now as part

1411
01:06:50,880 --> 01:06:53,320
Speaker 1: of the Pokemon trading card, but didn't make any of.

1412
01:06:53,280 --> 01:06:57,160
Speaker 4: The cards particularly valuable. Fact of the.

1413
01:06:57,320 --> 01:06:59,720
Speaker 3: Day, Day Day, Day Day.

1414
01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:15,000
Speaker 2: The z N podcast networks A Sure Real plays ends

1415
01:07:15,080 --> 01:07:16,320
Speaker 2: flesh one and Haley.

1416
01:07:16,240 --> 01:07:17,760
Speaker 3: Well, we can't get enough. And any time we hear

1417
01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:19,960
Speaker 3: his in the country, we say, get John Aiken from

1418
01:07:20,040 --> 01:07:21,040
Speaker 3: mephs and and he's here.

1419
01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:23,200
Speaker 4: Hi, John, how is everybody?

1420
01:07:23,520 --> 01:07:27,120
Speaker 3: We're so good. We talked to you just as the

1421
01:07:27,400 --> 01:07:29,439
Speaker 3: new season of Maphs Australia was kicking off.

1422
01:07:29,680 --> 01:07:32,240
Speaker 15: Yes, and I knew what was coming down the pipeline,

1423
01:07:32,280 --> 01:07:33,800
Speaker 15: but I could only tease a little bit of it.

1424
01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:38,880
Speaker 15: Now you've seen certain weddings, you've seen honeymoons, and now

1425
01:07:39,400 --> 01:07:41,439
Speaker 15: you've seen a blockbusted dinner party.

1426
01:07:41,560 --> 01:07:41,760
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1427
01:07:41,800 --> 01:07:44,320
Speaker 3: When you left last time you were here, we were like,

1428
01:07:44,520 --> 01:07:47,240
Speaker 3: holy moly, like if you've never heard of tvts like it.

1429
01:07:47,880 --> 01:07:50,280
Speaker 3: You were calling it one of the most toxic seasons.

1430
01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:52,600
Speaker 3: You were calling out some of the girls Geer in particular,

1431
01:07:52,640 --> 01:07:55,920
Speaker 3: the boss babes, the boss babes who we've now.

1432
01:07:55,880 --> 01:07:58,320
Speaker 4: Met, are thoughts on them.

1433
01:07:59,800 --> 01:08:01,640
Speaker 3: I loved that I got to watch it with that

1434
01:08:02,160 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 3: having talked to you, and so I had this little

1435
01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:07,040
Speaker 3: eyes keeping my eyes out and then I was like, oh, yeah,

1436
01:08:07,080 --> 01:08:09,160
Speaker 3: there's Gear. We've talked about her. And then I start

1437
01:08:09,240 --> 01:08:10,880
Speaker 3: to see some of her behavior and I think, oh, yeah,

1438
01:08:10,920 --> 01:08:14,720
Speaker 3: he wasn't wrong. And then I was like, excuse you, Brook.

1439
01:08:14,920 --> 01:08:17,720
Speaker 15: I know, she came out of left field at that

1440
01:08:17,800 --> 01:08:21,760
Speaker 15: dinner party, and just it felt like she wanted to

1441
01:08:22,439 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 15: get some things off at chess, and she had certain

1442
01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:27,679
Speaker 15: targets she was going to go for at that dinner party,

1443
01:08:27,720 --> 01:08:29,920
Speaker 15: and she went for it, and of course she had

1444
01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:32,360
Speaker 15: sort of Geer beside her, and so they were a

1445
01:08:32,479 --> 01:08:34,479
Speaker 15: formidable sort of duo.

1446
01:08:34,880 --> 01:08:38,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, but their language and how personal it got.

1447
01:08:38,400 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 15: It was it was very difficult to watch it, like

1448
01:08:41,640 --> 01:08:45,360
Speaker 15: mean girl, and then you've got to think to yourself, well,

1449
01:08:45,920 --> 01:08:48,559
Speaker 15: if you like that in public at a dinner party,

1450
01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:51,200
Speaker 15: how are you going to be in an intimate relationship.

1451
01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:56,040
Speaker 3: Well, I feel like her partner, what's his name, Chris, No, Scott.

1452
01:08:56,760 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 3: I feel like no, no, no, no, no, Brooks part

1453
01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:02,840
Speaker 3: Brooks partner, Chris, Chris, Yeah, yeah, Chris. I feel like

1454
01:09:02,920 --> 01:09:05,240
Speaker 3: he doesn't really know. I feel like she's here for

1455
01:09:05,360 --> 01:09:08,759
Speaker 3: the for the mean girl wines and gossips and attacks,

1456
01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:11,800
Speaker 3: and she's not really giving him any time. That this guy,

1457
01:09:11,880 --> 01:09:15,479
Speaker 3: as you're no vaunt ever watcher of the show, this

1458
01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:21,679
Speaker 3: guy is taking notes over here, the most cynical contestant

1459
01:09:21,720 --> 01:09:22,920
Speaker 3: you've had on the show totally.

1460
01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:26,360
Speaker 15: He thought the experts were a joke. Yeah, he talked

1461
01:09:26,360 --> 01:09:28,320
Speaker 15: about my failure rate in terms of matching.

1462
01:09:29,080 --> 01:09:31,719
Speaker 3: But then in comes a six foot model and suddenly

1463
01:09:31,840 --> 01:09:32,559
Speaker 3: he's head over.

1464
01:09:32,520 --> 01:09:35,840
Speaker 15: Here exactly, and he's never had this situation where oh wow,

1465
01:09:35,960 --> 01:09:37,519
Speaker 15: she doesn't like me back.

1466
01:09:37,680 --> 01:09:39,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, he was always the top.

1467
01:09:40,640 --> 01:09:42,880
Speaker 15: And then he's looking at her going, oh, dear, I

1468
01:09:42,920 --> 01:09:44,680
Speaker 15: don't know if I'm good enough, and she's telling me

1469
01:09:44,720 --> 01:09:45,519
Speaker 15: I'm not good enough.

1470
01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:49,240
Speaker 4: What is this dynamic? So it throws him completely.

1471
01:09:49,520 --> 01:09:52,560
Speaker 3: I have to ask, like, when you are watching the

1472
01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:55,720
Speaker 3: dinner party, how I mean, I know that you have

1473
01:09:55,920 --> 01:09:58,479
Speaker 3: to You're not you're away. You're being filmed, the three

1474
01:09:58,520 --> 01:10:02,000
Speaker 3: of you, not the just the experts. You're where you're

1475
01:10:02,000 --> 01:10:05,320
Speaker 3: being filmed. Do you like we do when we're off here,

1476
01:10:06,040 --> 01:10:08,599
Speaker 3: have the real conversation about what you think of it all?

1477
01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:11,800
Speaker 15: I mean, I mean we we are watching these dinner

1478
01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:14,840
Speaker 15: parties unfold for you know, it might be eight hours. Yeah,

1479
01:10:15,000 --> 01:10:17,479
Speaker 15: so we say a lot of things, but certainly when

1480
01:10:17,520 --> 01:10:20,680
Speaker 15: we come off in the hair and makeup room, it.

1481
01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:24,280
Speaker 4: Will be sitting there going, oh, that got pretty nasty.

1482
01:10:25,160 --> 01:10:29,160
Speaker 1: David Attenborough's Nature documentary crew. You're you're seeing an orca

1483
01:10:29,240 --> 01:10:31,519
Speaker 1: eat a penguin, you're not shopper.

1484
01:10:31,760 --> 01:10:33,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's nature.

1485
01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:37,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's harrowing. Planning this episode with the waus as

1486
01:10:37,200 --> 01:10:38,559
Speaker 4: a truck in themselves off the cliff.

1487
01:10:40,320 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 15: Yeah yeah, Look, it's and that's why they call it

1488
01:10:44,160 --> 01:10:47,760
Speaker 15: a social experiment because we sit down, get comfortable and

1489
01:10:47,880 --> 01:10:51,600
Speaker 15: then we watch this unfold over hours and some of

1490
01:10:51,640 --> 01:10:55,200
Speaker 15: the people that, like you mentioned Brook really hadn't raised

1491
01:10:55,240 --> 01:10:57,800
Speaker 15: her head much at all leading up to this. But

1492
01:10:57,960 --> 01:11:00,680
Speaker 15: she came in and she was on fire, ready to

1493
01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:02,560
Speaker 15: take down not certain people.

1494
01:11:02,560 --> 01:11:06,719
Speaker 3: Especially after she had taken such a stance a moral

1495
01:11:06,960 --> 01:11:10,640
Speaker 3: high ground when her partner video was revealed and he

1496
01:11:10,640 --> 01:11:12,240
Speaker 3: said I don't want any fat people, and she was

1497
01:11:12,800 --> 01:11:14,760
Speaker 3: she was like, oh my god, a ghast. How could

1498
01:11:14,800 --> 01:11:16,680
Speaker 3: you even be that thing towards women you see at

1499
01:11:16,680 --> 01:11:17,680
Speaker 3: the dinner party last night.

1500
01:11:18,160 --> 01:11:21,960
Speaker 4: Yes, that's attacking, bully, that's right, I mean it is.

1501
01:11:23,160 --> 01:11:27,599
Speaker 15: Those dinner parties are hillacious, and honestly, they get so loud.

1502
01:11:27,920 --> 01:11:31,400
Speaker 3: I want to go. I want to go so bad.

1503
01:11:31,560 --> 01:11:35,160
Speaker 3: I'll hold robes, you know, old powder faces just to

1504
01:11:35,439 --> 01:11:35,880
Speaker 3: be there.

1505
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:39,599
Speaker 1: I think you'd be great right in the say, I thought,

1506
01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:41,000
Speaker 1: you mean you want to sit at the table, you

1507
01:11:41,120 --> 01:11:41,639
Speaker 1: just want to obs.

1508
01:11:41,920 --> 01:11:42,800
Speaker 4: She would love that time.

1509
01:11:43,760 --> 01:11:45,439
Speaker 3: I could be a waiter who came in and was like,

1510
01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:46,639
Speaker 3: excuse me, I've heard enough.

1511
01:11:47,479 --> 01:11:52,240
Speaker 17: You know Nature documentary, more sins from falling off the cliff,

1512
01:11:52,439 --> 01:11:54,240
Speaker 17: And I think what you're seeing again is that about

1513
01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:56,640
Speaker 17: two weeks in is when it really the masks come

1514
01:11:56,720 --> 01:11:59,080
Speaker 17: off and you see who these people really.

1515
01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:02,280
Speaker 4: Are and particularly why they're bad at relationships.

1516
01:12:02,479 --> 01:12:05,120
Speaker 3: If you're seeing that now, Steve, can we just talk

1517
01:12:05,160 --> 01:12:08,519
Speaker 3: about Steve for a moment. Steve was our older general man,

1518
01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:10,800
Speaker 3: Silver Fox, the Silver Fox, and we all just fell

1519
01:12:10,840 --> 01:12:12,280
Speaker 3: in love with them. We saw the match, we thought

1520
01:12:12,280 --> 01:12:15,559
Speaker 3: it was absolutely perfect. Now he came out not only

1521
01:12:15,600 --> 01:12:18,759
Speaker 3: swinging against his bride but kind of towards the judges

1522
01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:20,600
Speaker 3: as well, and Scar got it.

1523
01:12:20,680 --> 01:12:21,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's right.

1524
01:12:21,960 --> 01:12:25,439
Speaker 15: And when someone comes he had to go at her

1525
01:12:25,560 --> 01:12:28,200
Speaker 15: for having a year piece in and is basically alluding

1526
01:12:28,200 --> 01:12:29,680
Speaker 15: to the fact that you don't know what you're doing

1527
01:12:29,760 --> 01:12:30,679
Speaker 15: and you're kind of an actor.

1528
01:12:31,040 --> 01:12:34,400
Speaker 3: Also, Steve, welcome to TV, and so she.

1529
01:12:35,520 --> 01:12:38,640
Speaker 15: Really snapped back and put him in his place. But

1530
01:12:39,160 --> 01:12:42,000
Speaker 15: when a participant is coming at you like that, and

1531
01:12:42,120 --> 01:12:44,400
Speaker 15: they do that regularly, that's one of the saucy things

1532
01:12:44,439 --> 01:12:47,479
Speaker 15: about the show is that you realize they're not buying

1533
01:12:47,520 --> 01:12:50,840
Speaker 15: into this process. So if they're not buying into the experts,

1534
01:12:51,560 --> 01:12:53,960
Speaker 15: then they're probably not buying into their relationship.

1535
01:12:54,120 --> 01:12:55,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, so why are you even here?

1536
01:12:55,520 --> 01:12:57,680
Speaker 15: And so what happens with Steve as you start to

1537
01:12:57,760 --> 01:13:01,639
Speaker 15: see him talk about all the red flag, not get curious,

1538
01:13:01,800 --> 01:13:04,439
Speaker 15: not let her in, but rather say she's not really

1539
01:13:04,479 --> 01:13:04,960
Speaker 15: good enough.

1540
01:13:05,320 --> 01:13:07,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean in how many men were screaming at

1541
01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:11,320
Speaker 3: the TV when he refused to watch his wife in lingerie.

1542
01:13:11,800 --> 01:13:15,240
Speaker 4: Everyone was like, are you're right? What's wrong with you?

1543
01:13:16,200 --> 01:13:18,320
Speaker 3: Well, honestly, it's such a good season so far. I'm

1544
01:13:18,320 --> 01:13:24,000
Speaker 3: absolutely loving it. We asked our listeners for some questions

1545
01:13:24,360 --> 01:13:28,000
Speaker 3: for you, rapid fire questions. Okay, we're back with Maths

1546
01:13:28,080 --> 01:13:30,400
Speaker 3: expert John Aikin. We've just been catching up on the

1547
01:13:30,479 --> 01:13:32,320
Speaker 3: latest season. If you haven't watched it, it's on three

1548
01:13:32,320 --> 01:13:32,880
Speaker 3: to three now.

1549
01:13:33,080 --> 01:13:37,760
Speaker 4: It's exhausting. Were you here to promote? You're saying the

1550
01:13:37,880 --> 01:13:39,840
Speaker 4: ratings for the season have been like through the road,

1551
01:13:39,840 --> 01:13:40,720
Speaker 4: biggest we've ever had.

1552
01:13:40,920 --> 01:13:44,120
Speaker 15: Yeah, and in fact, this new companion show that you're

1553
01:13:44,160 --> 01:13:46,200
Speaker 15: going to get over here called Maths. After the dinner

1554
01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:53,559
Speaker 15: party that crashed the stand site, there were so many

1555
01:13:53,600 --> 01:13:57,360
Speaker 15: people coming across from the show to that platform that

1556
01:13:57,520 --> 01:13:59,200
Speaker 15: it just literally it was.

1557
01:13:59,600 --> 01:14:02,640
Speaker 1: Tragedy and outrage in the world more more and more.

1558
01:14:03,400 --> 01:14:07,200
Speaker 1: We need bet your women, women but behaving terror blame?

1559
01:14:07,560 --> 01:14:10,320
Speaker 3: All right, John, as our expert, Where you've got our

1560
01:14:10,360 --> 01:14:14,479
Speaker 3: listeners to submit, you submit to some relationship questions. I will,

1561
01:14:14,840 --> 01:14:15,439
Speaker 3: We're going to start.

1562
01:14:15,479 --> 01:14:17,879
Speaker 4: I can't answer them. Can you step in it would.

1563
01:14:17,640 --> 01:14:22,080
Speaker 3: Be my pleasure, okay, Sammy messages? And can you be

1564
01:14:22,160 --> 01:14:22,960
Speaker 3: friends with your ex?

1565
01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:27,719
Speaker 15: Well, look, you can, particularly if you've got a child

1566
01:14:27,840 --> 01:14:30,200
Speaker 15: with them, but I ideally you've got to be really

1567
01:14:30,240 --> 01:14:31,120
Speaker 15: good with your boundaries.

1568
01:14:31,400 --> 01:14:33,800
Speaker 4: That's the bigger question. Can you say no to them?

1569
01:14:33,920 --> 01:14:37,559
Speaker 15: Can you make it very clear that there's no feelings

1570
01:14:37,640 --> 01:14:40,040
Speaker 15: there and that no chance of a rekin correct. So

1571
01:14:40,400 --> 01:14:42,720
Speaker 15: it's how you manage the boundaries with the ex. It's

1572
01:14:42,760 --> 01:14:45,599
Speaker 15: so important. So, yes, you can have them as a friend,

1573
01:14:45,920 --> 01:14:47,880
Speaker 15: but you've got to be really clear that they are

1574
01:14:48,120 --> 01:14:48,639
Speaker 15: just friends.

1575
01:14:49,200 --> 01:14:50,599
Speaker 3: Do you think you could be friends of your ex

1576
01:14:51,040 --> 01:14:52,639
Speaker 3: and maybe debel physically?

1577
01:14:52,920 --> 01:14:52,960
Speaker 11: No?

1578
01:14:53,280 --> 01:14:53,519
Speaker 4: Nope?

1579
01:14:53,560 --> 01:14:56,240
Speaker 3: Okay is hard.

1580
01:14:56,920 --> 01:14:59,160
Speaker 4: You wants messages?

1581
01:14:59,520 --> 01:15:02,320
Speaker 3: Good John? What if like, like, their personality sucks and

1582
01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:04,680
Speaker 3: that's why you broke up, but they're hot and your

1583
01:15:04,720 --> 01:15:05,400
Speaker 3: shared well.

1584
01:15:05,280 --> 01:15:08,400
Speaker 4: Great in the sack their personality?

1585
01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:09,519
Speaker 3: Oh you're true.

1586
01:15:09,720 --> 01:15:11,680
Speaker 4: No, you don't want to do that. Okay.

1587
01:15:11,920 --> 01:15:13,479
Speaker 15: The other problem with that is, of course, it takes

1588
01:15:13,520 --> 01:15:15,280
Speaker 15: you out of the game. If you're looking for someone

1589
01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:17,760
Speaker 15: and you're still shagging your ex, you're not really available.

1590
01:15:17,960 --> 01:15:19,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, that's a great point.

1591
01:15:19,439 --> 01:15:23,080
Speaker 3: Wow, Okay, so this is what we do here? Yeah, okay,

1592
01:15:23,920 --> 01:15:26,519
Speaker 3: one of our listeners asks, how do you know if

1593
01:15:26,560 --> 01:15:27,439
Speaker 3: he's actually into you?

1594
01:15:28,160 --> 01:15:32,120
Speaker 15: Well, everything that he does will bring you close rather

1595
01:15:32,160 --> 01:15:36,040
Speaker 15: than push you away, So you basically he'll be punctual.

1596
01:15:36,320 --> 01:15:38,160
Speaker 15: When you send him a text, he'll send one back.

1597
01:15:38,280 --> 01:15:42,720
Speaker 15: Yeah no, and you're with him, he will prioritize you.

1598
01:15:42,920 --> 01:15:46,840
Speaker 15: He may touch you in a way which is making

1599
01:15:46,880 --> 01:15:50,759
Speaker 15: you feel safe secure. When he talks about you in public,

1600
01:15:50,840 --> 01:15:54,639
Speaker 15: he praises you. If you say to him, hey, please

1601
01:15:54,680 --> 01:15:58,240
Speaker 15: don't talk about this private issue. He doesn't talk about that.

1602
01:15:58,479 --> 01:16:00,080
Speaker 15: He gets along with the friends.

1603
01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:01,599
Speaker 3: And you only share it what you're too closest.

1604
01:16:03,840 --> 01:16:06,360
Speaker 15: So you've got to basically look at and say, is

1605
01:16:06,439 --> 01:16:08,680
Speaker 15: what he does to me and how he talks to me,

1606
01:16:08,720 --> 01:16:10,760
Speaker 15: does it bring me close? Or does it make me

1607
01:16:10,880 --> 01:16:14,400
Speaker 15: confused and insecure?

1608
01:16:14,720 --> 01:16:18,240
Speaker 3: Have you you know all about chalants? How people talking

1609
01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:18,919
Speaker 3: about shalants?

1610
01:16:19,160 --> 01:16:19,400
Speaker 4: Tell me?

1611
01:16:19,520 --> 01:16:21,800
Speaker 3: Tell me, well, people have been. There's no real word,

1612
01:16:21,960 --> 01:16:24,760
Speaker 3: but we always talk about men being quite nonchalant, like yeah,

1613
01:16:24,760 --> 01:16:27,200
Speaker 3: I text your bag maybe, or just easy like that,

1614
01:16:27,400 --> 01:16:30,720
Speaker 3: and like women are saying be schalant, like we want

1615
01:16:30,800 --> 01:16:33,439
Speaker 3: you to be too much. Keen ticks us back straight

1616
01:16:33,479 --> 01:16:34,360
Speaker 3: away us.

1617
01:16:34,280 --> 01:16:34,800
Speaker 13: Know you like it?

1618
01:16:35,320 --> 01:16:38,040
Speaker 15: That's right, so no mixed messages. Yeah, that's the bottom line.

1619
01:16:38,080 --> 01:16:40,040
Speaker 15: That's when you know somebody is into you.

1620
01:16:40,520 --> 01:16:44,120
Speaker 3: Someone asks, if we both read self help books, does

1621
01:16:44,200 --> 01:16:47,000
Speaker 3: that counsel cancel out the problem or double them.

1622
01:16:48,840 --> 01:16:52,360
Speaker 4: Too much advice? Yeah, shifts ruined the broth. Yeah, I'll

1623
01:16:52,360 --> 01:16:54,800
Speaker 4: tell you what. Right over there really onto something? Yeah,

1624
01:16:55,160 --> 01:16:56,640
Speaker 4: I mean we're the same book. Now.

1625
01:16:56,800 --> 01:16:59,840
Speaker 15: Now, if you're both into personal development, I think it's

1626
01:16:59,840 --> 01:17:03,200
Speaker 15: a great thing. But if one is and the other isn't,

1627
01:17:03,240 --> 01:17:04,960
Speaker 15: that's when you're going to start to get into trouble.

1628
01:17:05,479 --> 01:17:08,320
Speaker 15: Because often with personal development we see it on our show,

1629
01:17:10,720 --> 01:17:14,360
Speaker 15: they're very very enthusiastic about it, and they want to

1630
01:17:14,400 --> 01:17:16,200
Speaker 15: talk about and they want to deep dive and read

1631
01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:19,840
Speaker 15: new books and go to presentations and workshops. So if

1632
01:17:19,880 --> 01:17:21,519
Speaker 15: you've got someone like that, you really want the other

1633
01:17:21,600 --> 01:17:22,800
Speaker 15: partner to be into it as well.

1634
01:17:22,960 --> 01:17:23,840
Speaker 3: Yeah okay, Yeah.

1635
01:17:24,200 --> 01:17:26,679
Speaker 15: If they're not, then it's going to probably create problems

1636
01:17:26,680 --> 01:17:28,160
Speaker 15: because you're not got the same values.

1637
01:17:28,400 --> 01:17:30,560
Speaker 3: They also feel quite patronizing if you've learned all this

1638
01:17:30,680 --> 01:17:33,400
Speaker 3: kind of like you know, when you hear someone's read

1639
01:17:33,479 --> 01:17:37,000
Speaker 3: one book about feminism and something, suddenly their whole language changes.

1640
01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:39,439
Speaker 15: Yeah, they might say to you listen, you just need

1641
01:17:39,520 --> 01:17:41,759
Speaker 15: to change your script then yeah, yeah, yeah.

1642
01:17:41,680 --> 01:17:43,599
Speaker 3: Some of them what I want to cause and reflect

1643
01:17:43,680 --> 01:17:44,040
Speaker 3: back to you.

1644
01:17:44,960 --> 01:17:46,479
Speaker 15: Is that really what you want to be doing right now?

1645
01:17:48,120 --> 01:17:49,920
Speaker 15: Let's talk about your future self, shall we?

1646
01:17:50,200 --> 01:17:53,679
Speaker 3: Okay, how do I someone else? I feel attacked? Someone says?

1647
01:17:53,840 --> 01:17:56,640
Speaker 3: How do I communicate my needs without sounding like I

1648
01:17:56,800 --> 01:17:57,240
Speaker 3: have them?

1649
01:17:58,680 --> 01:17:58,720
Speaker 4: Like?

1650
01:17:58,800 --> 01:18:01,640
Speaker 3: Without I guess coming across is needy, needy, needy, But

1651
01:18:01,720 --> 01:18:02,880
Speaker 3: I want them to hear my knees.

1652
01:18:03,080 --> 01:18:07,360
Speaker 15: Yeah, well, I think you have to be if you're

1653
01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:08,840
Speaker 15: going to be in a relationship that's healthy, You've got

1654
01:18:08,880 --> 01:18:10,240
Speaker 15: to be able to say this is what I want,

1655
01:18:11,000 --> 01:18:12,280
Speaker 15: and you shouldn't be frightened with that.

1656
01:18:12,880 --> 01:18:14,280
Speaker 4: So it's almost a.

1657
01:18:14,280 --> 01:18:16,000
Speaker 3: Red flag already. If you don't feel like you can.

1658
01:18:15,960 --> 01:18:18,040
Speaker 15: Direct, I would say you need to look at whether

1659
01:18:18,080 --> 01:18:21,959
Speaker 15: this person's right for you, because they should be embracing

1660
01:18:22,080 --> 01:18:22,719
Speaker 15: what you're asking.

1661
01:18:23,600 --> 01:18:26,600
Speaker 3: Oh that's gorgeous, beautiful Okay. Larns asked, how do I

1662
01:18:26,600 --> 01:18:28,479
Speaker 3: build up the courage to date again after a very

1663
01:18:28,680 --> 01:18:30,080
Speaker 3: long single stint?

1664
01:18:30,600 --> 01:18:36,640
Speaker 4: All right, this is what you do. Now.

1665
01:18:36,680 --> 01:18:38,120
Speaker 15: You just got to get your best friend over and

1666
01:18:38,160 --> 01:18:39,640
Speaker 15: you just sit down with a glass of wine and say,

1667
01:18:39,680 --> 01:18:42,719
Speaker 15: tell me what have I done wrong in the past

1668
01:18:42,800 --> 01:18:46,360
Speaker 15: relationship and particularly how have I got to be different?

1669
01:18:46,880 --> 01:18:48,720
Speaker 15: And who have I got to go after? Which is

1670
01:18:49,160 --> 01:18:51,559
Speaker 15: going to give me a much better relationship? Get all

1671
01:18:51,560 --> 01:18:53,360
Speaker 15: that feedback and say I'm going to learn now I'm

1672
01:18:53,360 --> 01:18:56,040
Speaker 15: going to do completely different, and then that best friend

1673
01:18:57,000 --> 01:18:57,880
Speaker 15: keeps you accountable.

1674
01:18:58,080 --> 01:18:59,800
Speaker 4: Yeah wow, but you've got to want to hear it.

1675
01:19:00,520 --> 01:19:04,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, last time you didn't even make time for them,

1676
01:19:04,600 --> 01:19:08,280
Speaker 3: So you've got to immediately before you go the people

1677
01:19:08,360 --> 01:19:10,760
Speaker 3: please are Okay, so that's what you are.

1678
01:19:11,160 --> 01:19:12,200
Speaker 4: How are you going to do it different?

1679
01:19:12,640 --> 01:19:14,840
Speaker 15: And so you're getting a friend to basically give you

1680
01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:18,439
Speaker 15: an uppercut and say, go back into the dating game.

1681
01:19:18,520 --> 01:19:21,479
Speaker 4: But you must do it different. Don't just keep repeating

1682
01:19:21,520 --> 01:19:22,960
Speaker 4: that same old pattern.

1683
01:19:23,160 --> 01:19:25,040
Speaker 3: Well that's what often happens on maths. Right, You'll give

1684
01:19:25,040 --> 01:19:26,400
Speaker 3: them what they need, not what they want.

1685
01:19:26,560 --> 01:19:28,080
Speaker 4: Correct, and then it's.

1686
01:19:27,920 --> 01:19:28,679
Speaker 3: Not my usual time.

1687
01:19:28,760 --> 01:19:29,240
Speaker 4: That's right.

1688
01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:32,400
Speaker 15: They'll either leave, they'll yell at me, or they'll just

1689
01:19:32,800 --> 01:19:35,040
Speaker 15: push this person away until finally it breaks up.

1690
01:19:35,200 --> 01:19:37,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, we a couple more questions. Someone's asking you

1691
01:19:37,760 --> 01:19:39,600
Speaker 3: for mortgage advice. I feel like they've message in for

1692
01:19:39,640 --> 01:19:40,000
Speaker 3: bad news.

1693
01:19:40,080 --> 01:19:41,080
Speaker 4: Brand is different.

1694
01:19:42,840 --> 01:19:45,400
Speaker 3: We won't ask you there, but what interest rate?

1695
01:19:45,439 --> 01:19:45,479
Speaker 4: What?

1696
01:19:46,600 --> 01:19:48,800
Speaker 3: Okay, how do we deal with this? How do we

1697
01:19:48,840 --> 01:19:53,520
Speaker 3: deal with mismatch? Six drives? Everything else is great? Six

1698
01:19:53,640 --> 01:19:56,240
Speaker 3: female relationship. By the way, this would be common, wouldn't it,

1699
01:19:56,320 --> 01:19:57,400
Speaker 3: And a lot of relationships.

1700
01:19:57,479 --> 01:19:59,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, it can be, and it can be due to

1701
01:19:59,680 --> 01:20:01,040
Speaker 4: extra variables.

1702
01:20:01,120 --> 01:20:03,760
Speaker 15: You know, it might be a medical situation where you

1703
01:20:04,200 --> 01:20:07,280
Speaker 15: know there's a there's a thyroid issue, or you know,

1704
01:20:07,439 --> 01:20:09,479
Speaker 15: some sort of heart problem or whatever. It might be

1705
01:20:09,720 --> 01:20:11,920
Speaker 15: a low testosterone or all sorts of things could be

1706
01:20:12,000 --> 01:20:14,360
Speaker 15: going on. But you could also have a stress situation

1707
01:20:14,520 --> 01:20:18,680
Speaker 15: where at work you've got such a huge schedule that.

1708
01:20:18,880 --> 01:20:21,439
Speaker 4: Sex is really not on your mind. Kids as well,

1709
01:20:21,640 --> 01:20:22,280
Speaker 4: kids as well.

1710
01:20:22,400 --> 01:20:26,400
Speaker 15: So it can involve a lot of different variables. So

1711
01:20:26,520 --> 01:20:27,800
Speaker 15: what you got to do is you've really got to

1712
01:20:27,800 --> 01:20:30,160
Speaker 15: sit down with the person and say, Okay, I noticed

1713
01:20:30,240 --> 01:20:32,560
Speaker 15: this is what's happening. Let's talk about what are the

1714
01:20:32,640 --> 01:20:35,800
Speaker 15: variables that are contributing to this. Is it about me

1715
01:20:36,080 --> 01:20:38,720
Speaker 15: and you know what I'm doing in the relationship or

1716
01:20:38,800 --> 01:20:41,800
Speaker 15: is it things outside of the relationship. And then once

1717
01:20:41,840 --> 01:20:44,519
Speaker 15: you start talking about that, you can then come to

1718
01:20:44,960 --> 01:20:47,040
Speaker 15: an understanding of how are we going to do this different?

1719
01:20:47,120 --> 01:20:47,280
Speaker 4: Now?

1720
01:20:47,600 --> 01:20:52,639
Speaker 15: It might be that you schedule insects, which sounds very unromantic.

1721
01:20:52,760 --> 01:20:55,920
Speaker 3: But we'd go to PM a little afternoon, have a

1722
01:20:56,040 --> 01:20:59,640
Speaker 3: nice shower. Everything's start last year, not after No, not

1723
01:20:59,800 --> 01:21:01,040
Speaker 3: that it's done exactly.

1724
01:21:01,240 --> 01:21:02,760
Speaker 15: So you've got a bit of scheduled sex, but you

1725
01:21:02,840 --> 01:21:05,120
Speaker 15: can also have desire driven sex as well, which may

1726
01:21:05,200 --> 01:21:07,600
Speaker 15: start to come into it once you schedule it in

1727
01:21:08,240 --> 01:21:10,840
Speaker 15: and so that's kind of how you're trying to work

1728
01:21:10,960 --> 01:21:14,679
Speaker 15: through this mismatched scenario. But I would what I would

1729
01:21:14,720 --> 01:21:17,800
Speaker 15: do is I talk about it gently rather than Hey,

1730
01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:19,519
Speaker 15: you know, it's not enough.

1731
01:21:19,880 --> 01:21:21,639
Speaker 4: It's not enough. What's wrong with you? Oh?

1732
01:21:21,840 --> 01:21:23,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's terrible. It's about communication.

1733
01:21:24,560 --> 01:21:25,240
Speaker 4: Most things are.

1734
01:21:25,720 --> 01:21:28,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's hard, and it's so much easy to

1735
01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:29,160
Speaker 3: be like, don't worry about it.

1736
01:21:29,680 --> 01:21:33,840
Speaker 15: Nothing fun because it's often often it's got you know,

1737
01:21:33,920 --> 01:21:36,439
Speaker 15: it'll be things that are outside of the relationship that

1738
01:21:36,560 --> 01:21:37,920
Speaker 15: are creating the lack of sex.

1739
01:21:38,000 --> 01:21:39,960
Speaker 3: Driving Yeah, not each other. Do we have time for

1740
01:21:40,040 --> 01:21:41,640
Speaker 3: one more? It's quickie, and I just want to do

1741
01:21:41,720 --> 01:21:44,479
Speaker 3: this one because it's in capital. It is worth two

1742
01:21:44,640 --> 01:21:46,519
Speaker 3: three exclamation marks, and three questions.

1743
01:21:46,520 --> 01:21:48,320
Speaker 4: So that's yelling at us. It's not really a question.

1744
01:21:48,720 --> 01:21:51,320
Speaker 3: How do I get a male partner to just listen.

1745
01:21:52,360 --> 01:21:57,920
Speaker 4: Well, it's Chloe, Well, Chloe, is that good listening comes

1746
01:21:57,920 --> 01:22:06,000
Speaker 4: from good speaking? Oh old Chloe, Chloe, Chloe.

1747
01:22:07,000 --> 01:22:10,280
Speaker 15: And I'm thinking she's yelling at us with exclamation marks.

1748
01:22:10,360 --> 01:22:14,080
Speaker 15: Imagine what she's like with her partner. So she needs

1749
01:22:14,160 --> 01:22:17,080
Speaker 15: to think about how am I bringing things up? How

1750
01:22:17,160 --> 01:22:21,080
Speaker 15: am I speaking in this exchange because he's not listening.

1751
01:22:21,600 --> 01:22:21,840
Speaker 4: Wow?

1752
01:22:22,680 --> 01:22:24,720
Speaker 3: That was good. That was really good.

1753
01:22:26,040 --> 01:22:29,680
Speaker 15: I think we solve some problems today marriage and I

1754
01:22:29,720 --> 01:22:31,439
Speaker 15: think afternoon sex is on the table again.

1755
01:22:31,640 --> 01:22:35,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, two pm Tuesday, John, thank you so much.

1756
01:22:35,280 --> 01:22:37,320
Speaker 1: A lot of people's partners are at work at two pm, Trews.

1757
01:22:37,360 --> 01:22:38,720
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean you can't have here.

1758
01:22:38,760 --> 01:22:42,240
Speaker 3: We go call them home an emergency emergency. I'm the

1759
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Speaker 3: emergency need work.

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Speaker 5: Plays it in Flitch wornon, Haley.

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01:22:47,800 --> 01:22:49,679
Speaker 3: You've got How good was our chat with John today?

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01:22:49,840 --> 01:22:52,280
Speaker 4: He's a lovely man. He's a lovely man.

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01:22:52,479 --> 01:22:54,280
Speaker 3: Well, I hit of that. We actually had lunch with

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01:22:54,360 --> 01:22:59,240
Speaker 3: herm yesterday, me, Shannon and carwhen were invited by John

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01:22:59,439 --> 01:23:01,880
Speaker 3: Southend sure and personal friend of ours?

1766
01:23:02,439 --> 01:23:04,760
Speaker 4: Right say that now? Yeah?

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01:23:05,040 --> 01:23:09,200
Speaker 3: Definitely? Yeah, So I'm trying to first through. We had

1768
01:23:09,479 --> 01:23:12,679
Speaker 3: such a good chat and I'll say three standard drinks,

1769
01:23:13,880 --> 01:23:16,760
Speaker 3: some of us not all of us. He loved, which

1770
01:23:16,840 --> 01:23:20,080
Speaker 3: makes sense. Like he said, Sav, there was that moment

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01:23:20,120 --> 01:23:24,120
Speaker 3: at the table where it was lunch, do you reckon

1772
01:23:24,160 --> 01:23:27,000
Speaker 3: it gives? Yeah, yeah, steamuless glass. Yeah, there was that

1773
01:23:27,160 --> 01:23:29,840
Speaker 3: moment were sort of meet up for a lunch meeting

1774
01:23:29,920 --> 01:23:31,640
Speaker 3: and you know, we don't really know each other. When

1775
01:23:31,680 --> 01:23:33,120
Speaker 3: they came around and said drinks and your sort of

1776
01:23:33,160 --> 01:23:35,639
Speaker 3: I paused to be like, you know, who's getting a coffee?

1777
01:23:35,800 --> 01:23:36,560
Speaker 4: Is this professional?

1778
01:23:37,920 --> 01:23:39,840
Speaker 3: And he immediately at the gate was like I have

1779
01:23:39,920 --> 01:23:43,760
Speaker 3: a sav and I was like great all around. But

1780
01:23:44,040 --> 01:23:49,680
Speaker 3: we got to chew his ear off and learn some

1781
01:23:49,840 --> 01:23:53,280
Speaker 3: stuff about maths that didn't make it to TV and

1782
01:23:53,680 --> 01:23:57,360
Speaker 3: some stuff we definitely can't tell you, some stuff like

1783
01:23:57,520 --> 01:24:00,679
Speaker 3: behind the scenes stuff. Do you know what I will say,

1784
01:24:02,040 --> 01:24:03,920
Speaker 3: stop me if I cross any lines that you feel

1785
01:24:04,000 --> 01:24:08,680
Speaker 3: is not appropriate. Cohen doesn't ask me, doesn't trust my job.

1786
01:24:11,160 --> 01:24:14,679
Speaker 3: You're a sweetie, but no Cohen. One of the things,

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01:24:14,720 --> 01:24:17,960
Speaker 3: because we mentioned that we had Josh fox On, who's

1788
01:24:18,000 --> 01:24:21,680
Speaker 3: the guy who does Math's funny. Her boycotts all the

1789
01:24:23,360 --> 01:24:25,400
Speaker 3: oh sorry, gate crashes all the weddings and is like

1790
01:24:25,479 --> 01:24:29,360
Speaker 3: invited on by the the Yes, he told us, and

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01:24:29,760 --> 01:24:32,680
Speaker 3: he was like m and we were like, well, we're sorry, John, Like,

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01:24:33,160 --> 01:24:36,680
Speaker 3: you know, is it that bad? Apparently this guy like

1793
01:24:37,280 --> 01:24:40,519
Speaker 3: stalked John once, yeah, ambushed him in a car park

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01:24:40,560 --> 01:24:43,040
Speaker 3: building in the dark. This was on TV. So I

1795
01:24:43,200 --> 01:24:45,160
Speaker 3: think it's fine to talk about okay, good, good, good,

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01:24:45,200 --> 01:24:48,920
Speaker 3: because remember he said, Josh went on like, yeah, that's right.

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01:24:49,080 --> 01:24:51,800
Speaker 3: So yeah, he like John was like walking back to

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01:24:51,920 --> 01:24:55,360
Speaker 3: his car after a lunch meeting and then this guy

1799
01:24:55,560 --> 01:24:57,240
Speaker 3: was like ambushing and was like I'm going to follow

1800
01:24:57,240 --> 01:24:59,920
Speaker 3: you wherever you go. You won't get away from me.

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01:25:01,240 --> 01:25:04,160
Speaker 4: So then John was like a content yeah right, and

1802
01:25:04,280 --> 01:25:04,600
Speaker 4: to like.

1803
01:25:05,479 --> 01:25:09,640
Speaker 3: Attack him basically. And then he was mentioning one of

1804
01:25:09,680 --> 01:25:14,000
Speaker 3: the previous contestant because because you know, even Jackie said

1805
01:25:14,040 --> 01:25:16,320
Speaker 3: to us when we talked to her from last year's Maths,

1806
01:25:16,880 --> 01:25:19,360
Speaker 3: she was saying, oh, you know, all the judges are actors,

1807
01:25:19,640 --> 01:25:24,360
Speaker 3: all the the experts are actors. And he said one

1808
01:25:24,479 --> 01:25:26,920
Speaker 3: year he had like a one on one session with

1809
01:25:27,000 --> 01:25:30,000
Speaker 3: a couple that was in a dire state of you know,

1810
01:25:30,240 --> 01:25:33,960
Speaker 3: their relationship. And after the session, when wrapped filming and

1811
01:25:33,960 --> 01:25:37,719
Speaker 3: they were leaving, the contestant came up to him and said,

1812
01:25:38,320 --> 01:25:39,880
Speaker 3: you're a pretty good actor, man, I ain't. She almost

1813
01:25:39,920 --> 01:25:44,360
Speaker 3: believed that for a moment. I thought, genuinely, not trying

1814
01:25:44,400 --> 01:25:46,479
Speaker 3: to call him out or be rude, genuinely just like,

1815
01:25:47,000 --> 01:25:48,800
Speaker 3: are you not an actor? And he was like, no,

1816
01:25:48,960 --> 01:25:52,880
Speaker 3: I've I've done this for thirty years or something.

1817
01:25:53,040 --> 01:25:55,040
Speaker 4: He's reading books as well, Yeah, because.

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01:25:54,840 --> 01:25:58,360
Speaker 13: He has to wear an earpiece obviously for production production they've.

1819
01:25:58,240 --> 01:26:00,439
Speaker 3: Moved along or we're running out of time, that kind of.

1820
01:26:00,439 --> 01:26:02,800
Speaker 13: Stuff, And so people thought he was being fed lines.

1821
01:26:02,840 --> 01:26:05,599
Speaker 13: But you couldn't feed lines in that situation. It's conversation.

1822
01:26:05,720 --> 01:26:07,160
Speaker 13: It's back and forth. Wow.

1823
01:26:07,439 --> 01:26:10,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was say one spoiler that really made us laugh.

1824
01:26:11,439 --> 01:26:17,160
Speaker 3: So John is really really fixated on clothing, clothing that

1825
01:26:17,439 --> 01:26:21,320
Speaker 3: the contests or the people wear and stuff. He said

1826
01:26:21,479 --> 01:26:23,960
Speaker 3: in an upcoming episode. I'm sure I can say this

1827
01:26:24,040 --> 01:26:27,080
Speaker 3: that's not giving away too much. One of the crooms

1828
01:26:27,120 --> 01:26:28,880
Speaker 3: turns up to a dinner party and he's just not

1829
01:26:29,000 --> 01:26:34,519
Speaker 3: wearing a shirt, a jacket with chest.

1830
01:26:38,439 --> 01:26:38,639
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1831
01:26:38,880 --> 01:26:41,479
Speaker 3: I won't say which contestant. The man it was good.

1832
01:26:41,520 --> 01:26:43,320
Speaker 3: It was such good goss. He's such an amazing person.

1833
01:26:43,320 --> 01:26:45,439
Speaker 3: And I will say at the end of lunch where

1834
01:26:45,439 --> 01:26:48,879
Speaker 3: I felt very full of the gossip. Shannon and Carwen

1835
01:26:49,439 --> 01:26:52,519
Speaker 3: just go on this like cricket rest Hey, he was

1836
01:26:52,560 --> 01:26:53,000
Speaker 3: a cricketer.

1837
01:26:54,320 --> 01:26:58,040
Speaker 8: But I think that that story arc is insane. Wine

1838
01:26:58,439 --> 01:27:01,360
Speaker 8: he'd been having a good gossip. He should still that's

1839
01:27:01,400 --> 01:27:04,639
Speaker 8: what he's done. The indis like, here's a crazy girl.

1840
01:27:04,720 --> 01:27:06,080
Speaker 13: He was opening Batsman.

1841
01:27:08,560 --> 01:27:09,760
Speaker 3: And that's the thing. I was like, what was your

1842
01:27:09,760 --> 01:27:11,920
Speaker 3: home club? Like all this and Hailey was out.

1843
01:27:12,120 --> 01:27:13,639
Speaker 4: She was not left.

1844
01:27:13,680 --> 01:27:15,840
Speaker 3: I was ordering another save at this point, get me

1845
01:27:15,920 --> 01:27:16,519
Speaker 3: out of here.

1846
01:27:16,880 --> 01:27:19,240
Speaker 5: Play z n's flesh Porn and Hailey.

1847
01:27:22,200 --> 01:27:24,960
Speaker 4: Keep in Kin and shud.

1848
01:27:26,640 --> 01:27:29,479
Speaker 1: It's six sixty on zid M fleach Thorne and Hailey

1849
01:27:29,560 --> 01:27:31,280
Speaker 1: the show. Thanks to kim Is, wearehouse say hello to

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01:27:31,360 --> 01:27:34,639
Speaker 1: Savings with their March catalog sail out. Now.

1851
01:27:35,160 --> 01:27:37,320
Speaker 3: I want to know from you, lovely listener, what is

1852
01:27:37,439 --> 01:27:39,799
Speaker 3: your yuck habit? This is a judgment Freezer.

1853
01:27:40,200 --> 01:27:42,280
Speaker 4: Also feel free to dob and your friends and your

1854
01:27:42,360 --> 01:27:43,320
Speaker 4: partner's yuck habit.

1855
01:27:43,520 --> 01:27:46,439
Speaker 3: Absolutely, we want to hear them all because you we've

1856
01:27:46,600 --> 01:27:49,640
Speaker 3: heard of this before. People when they stay in like

1857
01:27:49,720 --> 01:27:52,800
Speaker 3: a hotel or a motel or a holiday inn, they

1858
01:27:53,680 --> 01:27:56,360
Speaker 3: will wash their undies by putting them in the jug

1859
01:27:56,600 --> 01:27:59,679
Speaker 3: and boiling the jug and then the next poor bust

1860
01:28:00,600 --> 01:28:02,000
Speaker 3: comes along to make a kappa.

1861
01:28:02,360 --> 01:28:04,880
Speaker 1: Well, we also knew somebody that washed their period cup

1862
01:28:05,040 --> 01:28:08,360
Speaker 1: and I remember she put it online and just thought

1863
01:28:08,360 --> 01:28:09,760
Speaker 1: it was gonna be sweet, and I was like, take

1864
01:28:09,840 --> 01:28:14,080
Speaker 1: it down, you're gonna get lambastard put like, used a

1865
01:28:14,160 --> 01:28:16,479
Speaker 1: cup in the hotel and filled it with boiling water

1866
01:28:16,680 --> 01:28:18,080
Speaker 1: and then washed the menstrul cup.

1867
01:28:18,200 --> 01:28:18,720
Speaker 4: Tell you later.

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01:28:18,960 --> 01:28:21,040
Speaker 1: She's a very dear person to me, and I shan't

1869
01:28:21,080 --> 01:28:24,280
Speaker 1: have her facing that again, okay, And she's.

1870
01:28:24,120 --> 01:28:24,920
Speaker 4: Like it'll be fine.

1871
01:28:24,960 --> 01:28:26,439
Speaker 1: And then she went offline for a few hours and

1872
01:28:26,520 --> 01:28:29,040
Speaker 1: came back and she said, you were right, And I said,

1873
01:28:29,120 --> 01:28:29,640
Speaker 1: I tend to be.

1874
01:28:29,920 --> 01:28:31,000
Speaker 3: The people aren't happy.

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01:28:32,240 --> 01:28:33,840
Speaker 4: The people are rioting.

1876
01:28:33,640 --> 01:28:35,800
Speaker 1: Also because in a hotel there's no dish rusher. The

1877
01:28:35,840 --> 01:28:38,400
Speaker 1: stuff just come in and rints it in the bathroom here.

1878
01:28:38,320 --> 01:28:38,519
Speaker 12: In the.

1879
01:28:40,040 --> 01:28:40,280
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1880
01:28:41,040 --> 01:28:44,040
Speaker 3: So I've known about this undy thing, and I've always

1881
01:28:44,040 --> 01:28:45,960
Speaker 3: thought it was the thing that men would do. But

1882
01:28:46,120 --> 01:28:48,840
Speaker 3: it's gone viral again on TikTok because women are sharing

1883
01:28:48,960 --> 01:28:51,280
Speaker 3: like great cleaning hack when you're away.

1884
01:28:51,680 --> 01:28:55,920
Speaker 1: Because was this a woman that used the coffee machine? Oh?

1885
01:28:56,080 --> 01:28:58,360
Speaker 3: No, I saw it with a jug? But am I wrong,

1886
01:28:58,560 --> 01:29:01,720
Speaker 3: like the coffee like the America And yeah, I.

1887
01:29:01,840 --> 01:29:09,559
Speaker 1: Saw how they splitting their neckers in this boiling water

1888
01:29:09,720 --> 01:29:10,000
Speaker 1: through it.

1889
01:29:10,840 --> 01:29:12,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, you wouldn't want to see the water that came.

1890
01:29:12,280 --> 01:29:15,719
Speaker 3: Out of there. Well, maybe it's started with because she says.

1891
01:29:15,600 --> 01:29:18,920
Speaker 1: You press brew and so it's an American coffee pip. Yeah,

1892
01:29:18,960 --> 01:29:23,320
Speaker 1: you press brew and it puts scorching hot water through it.

1893
01:29:23,360 --> 01:29:25,040
Speaker 1: So you put the undies where you put the filter

1894
01:29:25,200 --> 01:29:28,920
Speaker 1: in the coffee grounds. Yeah, and that would drip the

1895
01:29:29,000 --> 01:29:29,760
Speaker 1: water into the.

1896
01:29:31,240 --> 01:29:33,160
Speaker 3: Well. I think maybe that was the start of it,

1897
01:29:33,200 --> 01:29:35,080
Speaker 3: because then there's lots of people sharing, Like no, I

1898
01:29:35,200 --> 01:29:35,599
Speaker 3: just put.

1899
01:29:35,479 --> 01:29:37,439
Speaker 4: Them in the jug and boil yat.

1900
01:29:37,680 --> 01:29:40,920
Speaker 3: I would never the undies wouldn't feel clean, and the

1901
01:29:41,040 --> 01:29:45,599
Speaker 3: jug is certainly going to hold a memory of it. Yeah, anyway, listen.

1902
01:29:45,680 --> 01:29:49,880
Speaker 4: The jug. Jug has a memory. Yeah, jugs have memories.

1903
01:29:50,000 --> 01:29:51,040
Speaker 4: Don't do that to you, jug.

1904
01:29:51,200 --> 01:29:54,680
Speaker 3: I floss my teeth in the car with portable teeth flosses.

1905
01:29:56,080 --> 01:29:58,720
Speaker 4: Studio. I'm okay with it whatever, But that would grow

1906
01:29:58,840 --> 01:29:59,479
Speaker 4: some people out.

1907
01:29:59,560 --> 01:30:02,000
Speaker 1: We're about dental health here, Yeah, I'm about dental because

1908
01:30:02,000 --> 01:30:03,920
Speaker 1: I don't want a lecture again from my hygienist.

1909
01:30:04,000 --> 01:30:06,880
Speaker 3: Remember when I did shave my footskin off in the

1910
01:30:06,960 --> 01:30:09,400
Speaker 3: studio was gross and that's yeah. And now I felt

1911
01:30:09,439 --> 01:30:10,960
Speaker 3: bad because Britty has to sit in this chair in

1912
01:30:11,000 --> 01:30:11,960
Speaker 3: the afternoon.

1913
01:30:12,040 --> 01:30:13,639
Speaker 4: And she was like, what's this flaky powder?

1914
01:30:13,720 --> 01:30:19,120
Speaker 3: And I was like, I had a Lemington. Girls be

1915
01:30:19,479 --> 01:30:23,720
Speaker 3: washing their undies and the coffee filter of coffee machines

1916
01:30:24,479 --> 01:30:26,680
Speaker 3: when they're away in hotels and them in.

1917
01:30:26,680 --> 01:30:29,800
Speaker 1: The jug more the American coffee filters. A lot of

1918
01:30:29,840 --> 01:30:32,120
Speaker 1: hotels now have, like the pod machines. I think you'd

1919
01:30:32,160 --> 01:30:33,679
Speaker 1: be pretty safe still using those.

1920
01:30:33,880 --> 01:30:36,320
Speaker 3: I don't like saying drip coffee though, when we're talking

1921
01:30:36,320 --> 01:30:40,120
Speaker 3: about using it too. Yeah, drip the boiling water through

1922
01:30:40,240 --> 01:30:41,760
Speaker 3: the throughies.

1923
01:30:42,479 --> 01:30:45,479
Speaker 1: Some messages and some responses on Instagram, we want you

1924
01:30:45,560 --> 01:30:48,000
Speaker 1: now to admit your gross habits. Yeah, maybe your partner's

1925
01:30:48,040 --> 01:30:48,679
Speaker 1: gross habits.

1926
01:30:50,280 --> 01:30:52,760
Speaker 4: My ex husband used to pick and eat his footskin,

1927
01:30:53,160 --> 01:30:56,680
Speaker 4: don't We didn't kiss, Thank the Lord above and harlleljah.

1928
01:30:56,760 --> 01:30:59,080
Speaker 1: What so you never kissed this person you were married to,

1929
01:30:59,640 --> 01:31:03,080
Speaker 1: or or you just I guess the love died when

1930
01:31:03,120 --> 01:31:05,320
Speaker 1: you saw them pecking this scarby foot and you're.

1931
01:31:05,200 --> 01:31:06,719
Speaker 4: Just like, I'm not kissing that anymore.

1932
01:31:06,880 --> 01:31:08,880
Speaker 1: My partner picks his nose in the car and wipes

1933
01:31:08,880 --> 01:31:10,639
Speaker 1: it off under the car seat. You've got a perfectly

1934
01:31:10,640 --> 01:31:12,599
Speaker 1: good window to flick that out right beside you please.

1935
01:31:12,920 --> 01:31:14,920
Speaker 3: I like to just kind of roll it because we're

1936
01:31:15,000 --> 01:31:18,640
Speaker 3: met on the showers. Yeah, you roll it between your

1937
01:31:18,680 --> 01:31:19,920
Speaker 3: fingers and you flick it out the window.

1938
01:31:20,640 --> 01:31:26,160
Speaker 4: But sometimes they're quite sticky. Yeah, you know, when you're

1939
01:31:26,200 --> 01:31:27,640
Speaker 4: making pizza, you don't want it to stack. You get

1940
01:31:27,640 --> 01:31:33,240
Speaker 4: a bit of flowering your geez, you'll meant to doing

1941
01:31:33,320 --> 01:31:33,960
Speaker 4: something in the car.

1942
01:31:35,840 --> 01:31:38,720
Speaker 9: I am lost my in the car.

1943
01:31:39,360 --> 01:31:41,400
Speaker 1: I'm on your side just because I will floss in

1944
01:31:41,479 --> 01:31:44,800
Speaker 1: the studio with these little stick now from the show

1945
01:31:44,840 --> 01:31:49,120
Speaker 1: sponsor the Grin, Yeah, from the show sponsored Chim's Wearehousehold.

1946
01:31:49,240 --> 01:31:51,320
Speaker 4: Just look at the grin. Isn't long enough to get

1947
01:31:51,360 --> 01:31:53,719
Speaker 4: my back teeth? No, you use? I agree.

1948
01:31:55,040 --> 01:31:56,559
Speaker 14: I'm not sure which brains I've got.

1949
01:31:57,200 --> 01:31:57,960
Speaker 4: I've got one of the ones.

1950
01:32:01,120 --> 01:32:02,840
Speaker 11: I use the reach Yeah.

1951
01:32:04,240 --> 01:32:09,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, then you clap the new heads on. Yeah, you're

1952
01:32:09,840 --> 01:32:12,679
Speaker 1: also at the show sponsor Kim Swearehouse. Yeah, I've used both.

1953
01:32:12,800 --> 01:32:15,360
Speaker 3: I just use a classic Reach minted string.

1954
01:32:16,240 --> 01:32:18,800
Speaker 4: You know I drib when I use a string.

1955
01:32:21,000 --> 01:32:22,760
Speaker 1: Do you get any odd looks just in the car

1956
01:32:22,880 --> 01:32:25,840
Speaker 1: obviously you've grossed people out with us so well.

1957
01:32:25,920 --> 01:32:28,800
Speaker 12: To be honest, I haven't really noticed anyone, but.

1958
01:32:30,320 --> 01:32:33,600
Speaker 14: Yeah, I imagine it's probably quite similar to watching a

1959
01:32:33,680 --> 01:32:34,280
Speaker 14: nose packer.

1960
01:32:36,400 --> 01:32:39,360
Speaker 1: No, it's not because someone pecking their nose. I'm like,

1961
01:32:39,479 --> 01:32:42,560
Speaker 1: I'm on their side. I will keep watching them to

1962
01:32:42,600 --> 01:32:46,040
Speaker 1: see if they eat it, what they do, and I'll

1963
01:32:46,040 --> 01:32:48,960
Speaker 1: be like, oh, yeah, just thank you for admitting that.

1964
01:32:50,200 --> 01:32:54,280
Speaker 1: Go to some text messages and your gross habits. Somebody

1965
01:32:54,400 --> 01:32:58,240
Speaker 1: seeing God, you remember that story? Yeah, somebody messaged and

1966
01:32:58,360 --> 01:33:00,400
Speaker 1: saying you guys once, promise me if I tell a story,

1967
01:33:00,439 --> 01:33:01,200
Speaker 1: there'd be no judgment.

1968
01:33:01,280 --> 01:33:03,240
Speaker 4: And Vaughan called me a mackey bitch, and I was like,

1969
01:33:03,360 --> 01:33:06,080
Speaker 4: I didn't. What story did you tell? She said, I

1970
01:33:06,160 --> 01:33:07,920
Speaker 4: was the girl that passed on a terrible flatmate shower

1971
01:33:07,960 --> 01:33:09,640
Speaker 4: product the New Luther, And I said, I stand by,

1972
01:33:12,640 --> 01:33:12,920
Speaker 4: Can we.

1973
01:33:13,040 --> 01:33:17,240
Speaker 3: Just dub in our own monkey, bitch, Shannon? Because producer

1974
01:33:17,280 --> 01:33:19,880
Speaker 3: Shannon's got look at your mouth open, You've got I

1975
01:33:19,960 --> 01:33:22,280
Speaker 3: think this is a young Heber. I don't, but I

1976
01:33:22,360 --> 01:33:24,240
Speaker 3: can see why others do. Tell us what you do.

1977
01:33:24,479 --> 01:33:24,599
Speaker 1: Well.

1978
01:33:24,640 --> 01:33:27,120
Speaker 13: So I'm a contact lens wearer and every single night

1979
01:33:27,120 --> 01:33:29,680
Speaker 13: I have dailies I put it in a jar, and

1980
01:33:29,720 --> 01:33:30,760
Speaker 13: I keep them in there, and.

1981
01:33:30,840 --> 01:33:33,680
Speaker 1: I've got like somebody, I will say, somebody left some

1982
01:33:33,880 --> 01:33:37,759
Speaker 1: contact lenses just on drying out on my bathroom vanity

1983
01:33:38,280 --> 01:33:41,000
Speaker 1: hard launch, hard launch, hard lunch launch.

1984
01:33:42,160 --> 01:33:47,439
Speaker 4: There's no there's no heart or soft lord. I was

1985
01:33:47,479 --> 01:33:48,960
Speaker 4: tagged them in a post it Tonk's cave.

1986
01:33:49,120 --> 01:33:50,639
Speaker 3: Oh shut up, hard launch.

1987
01:33:50,840 --> 01:33:54,200
Speaker 4: That was a hard lord. It was a medium launch

1988
01:33:54,200 --> 01:33:56,080
Speaker 4: because it was no face. They're so gross, and they

1989
01:33:56,120 --> 01:33:58,400
Speaker 4: were all like, what are you keeping them for?

1990
01:33:58,760 --> 01:33:59,800
Speaker 3: It's just like fun.

1991
01:34:00,000 --> 01:34:00,960
Speaker 4: You got to put them in a ball.

1992
01:34:01,000 --> 01:34:03,840
Speaker 1: I foindow someone on Instagram who's adding their contact lenses

1993
01:34:03,880 --> 01:34:06,160
Speaker 1: to their to a ball made of contact lens.

1994
01:34:06,439 --> 01:34:07,519
Speaker 4: It's the size of a basketball.

1995
01:34:07,560 --> 01:34:10,240
Speaker 13: My context are so expensive, it feels so wasteful to

1996
01:34:10,320 --> 01:34:12,760
Speaker 13: throw them away, so I'm just keeping them. I can't

1997
01:34:12,840 --> 01:34:16,960
Speaker 13: use them again. But yeah, this is three years deep,

1998
01:34:17,040 --> 01:34:17,439
Speaker 13: this jar.

1999
01:34:18,040 --> 01:34:20,080
Speaker 4: It feels like this is where we find This is

2000
01:34:20,320 --> 01:34:23,599
Speaker 4: like the origin story of when you're an old lady hoarder. Yeah,

2001
01:34:24,040 --> 01:34:27,959
Speaker 4: because remember we got to keep the Poe nappies, you know, recycled.

2002
01:34:28,400 --> 01:34:30,240
Speaker 3: In the future, they might have a program we could

2003
01:34:30,280 --> 01:34:34,760
Speaker 3: clean them. Remember there was that person who went on

2004
01:34:34,880 --> 01:34:37,400
Speaker 3: a date, and then they realized that that they're the

2005
01:34:37,479 --> 01:34:39,120
Speaker 3: guy they were dating had been taking off his contact

2006
01:34:39,160 --> 01:34:40,360
Speaker 3: lenses and flicking them behind his bed.

2007
01:34:40,439 --> 01:34:46,320
Speaker 4: And remember that, I remember those seed yuck.

2008
01:34:48,800 --> 01:34:49,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

2009
01:34:49,479 --> 01:34:51,880
Speaker 4: Are we hearing from people who are because they're kiss

2010
01:34:51,880 --> 01:34:55,680
Speaker 4: their pets on the mouth. That's gross, that's fine with them?

2011
01:34:56,560 --> 01:34:58,759
Speaker 3: Is that the podcast done? Because I'm busting propos?

2012
01:35:00,080 --> 01:35:03,519
Speaker 4: Last thing for a pose? Jesus give us a review.

2013
01:35:03,760 --> 01:35:05,599
Speaker 4: Play Zims, Fletchborne and Hailey