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Speaker 1: The Hits Drive with Maddy and Paja thanks to chimis

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Speaker 1: Wee House the Real House of Fragrances on.

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Speaker 2: That Hello and welcome to the podcast.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Hi, hey.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if people can tell from our intonation when

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Speaker 1: we're really unprepared for the intro. Yeah, Like straight away

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Speaker 1: they're like, oh, I've got fucking nothing tonight.

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Speaker 3: Do you reckon? They go skip, sip, sip, skip skip.

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Speaker 3: Let's just get to the end of the intro. They

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Speaker 3: clearly don't have anything. Exse I need to talk about

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Speaker 3: tonight talking she Let's just get to the good stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Now what's coming up this week? We're going to

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Speaker 1: hawks Bay this weekend? We are another and hawks By

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Speaker 1: Why because an X resides there?

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Speaker 3: That that X y that one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah Brook the heart.

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Speaker 3: Can you I need to know what he looks like

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Speaker 3: because if I saw him? You know that scene? Have

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Speaker 3: you seen this? Have you seen the Sex of the

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Speaker 3: City movie? The Sex in the City movie? Mister Big

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Speaker 3: leaves Carrie at the altar in the movie spoiler A

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Speaker 3: lit Yes, And there's a scene where Charlotte, Carrie's friend

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Speaker 3: sees him in public and she's like, ah, she accosts him. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and she says. She says the iconic line I rue

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Speaker 3: the day you were born. I kind of I.

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Speaker 2: Don't do that, don't.

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Speaker 1: It's too It's like too much time is passed for

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Speaker 1: that to be valid.

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Speaker 3: I would I would walk out to him and I'd say, you,

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Speaker 3: little ship, come here. I'd say I'd get my finger

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Speaker 3: and I'd say you come here, you come here.

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Speaker 2: No, you wouldn't get distract and you'd be like, oh.

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Speaker 3: That's actually what would happen, and then you would have

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Speaker 3: to tell me who it was. And then I'd go,

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Speaker 3: I do like a bad boy. No, the bastard. The bastard.

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Speaker 3: He's all good, he's all good.

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Speaker 1: But I always get nervous when in the region because

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Speaker 1: we literally haven't talked.

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Speaker 2: It's like I talked to sort of all my exes, but.

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Speaker 3: Not that one.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of come.

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Speaker 1: To it came to quite and abrupt and abrupt in

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Speaker 1: and that's not like me with many people.

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Speaker 2: I don't have that like with anyone. So it's just

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Speaker 2: so strange.

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Speaker 1: And now years on, I'm like, oh, I just want

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Speaker 1: to be an adult and be like, yo, sweet airs.

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Speaker 3: That would be quite. There's something kind of there would

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Speaker 3: be something THEOPA ceutic about just putting it to be. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: we'll not to.

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Speaker 2: Bed. Yeah, So anyway, lulls because we.

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Speaker 3: Go out for dinner on Friday night.

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Speaker 2: Friday night, some nice little spots and hawks.

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Speaker 3: You and I found a cute little cocktail bar.

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Speaker 1: Last time I think we go back to I have

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Speaker 1: to have a fucking mocktail scroll man.

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Speaker 2: We're going like why.

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Speaker 3: And I'm happy for you, but I'm kind.

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Speaker 2: Of we really haven't had much time.

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Speaker 1: I feel like the days when we could have, we

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Speaker 1: didn't make the most of it.

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Speaker 2: We'd always tired and going.

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Speaker 3: To We'd have grand plans for it, though, wouldn't we.

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Speaker 2: Oh, we had grand plans. Tonight's the night man, make

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Speaker 3: And then we just actually and then we look at

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Speaker 3: each other. But we were always on the same page.

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Speaker 3: That was the beauty. Yeah, we were. It wasn't It

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Speaker 3: wasn't like one of us was disappointed in like hankering

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Speaker 3: was always like we would both look at each other

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Speaker 2: Such long days, we end up being toy.

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Speaker 3: That because I try and jam so God, we're too

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Speaker 3: hard working. We worked too hard.

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Speaker 2: We just have to coming up in the podcast today.

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Speaker 2: Oh we have fun.

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Speaker 1: Today we talked about when you got told off in

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Speaker 3: This was one of my favorite phones we've ever done,

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Speaker 3: mostly just because of how much people got into it. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: a woman can. I I'll quickly set it up because

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Speaker 3: I actually wouldn't mind reading a couple of the texts

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Speaker 2: Yes, please do.

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Speaker 3: A woman in the US got arrested for letting a

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Speaker 3: all all did as kids. I all did as kids,

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Speaker 3: And so we asked the question. We asked you to

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Speaker 3: finish the sentence. That's nothing back in my day dot

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Speaker 2: The text machine has never blown up so much.

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Speaker 3: Truly, So I'll read you a couple of the texts

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Speaker 3: Someone said, that's nothing back in my day. I hitchhiked

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Speaker 2: Yeah, times they have a change.

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Speaker 3: Tell me about it they really am.

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Speaker 2: You're going to read some others or is it?

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Speaker 3: I think did I read this one? Back in my day,

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Speaker 1: Oh we did that one on a but there there's

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Speaker 1: a lot. You don't want to be risky and read it.

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Speaker 3: My my mom and her two siblings, my dad, my

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Speaker 3: granddad worked for your New Zealand. So did you guys

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Speaker 3: get cheeck flights? They did? They did as a family.

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Speaker 3: So my grandparents, my my great grandparents and my mum's

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Speaker 3: grandparents lived in the UK, and so my grandparents sent

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Speaker 3: them on a long haul flight to Heathrow, the three

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Speaker 3: just chat them on the flight and she'd see you later.

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Speaker 3: Have fun with your grandparents.

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Speaker 2: Back then, truly was survived. Survived. We know too much now.

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Speaker 3: I think that's true, you know too much.

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Speaker 2: Also, group therapy was a daisy. It was a really fun.

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Speaker 3: us peage? Because we had nothing coming into this intro,

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Speaker 2: I enjoyed the podcast.

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Speaker 1: May and May and the podcast The Hat Beach Tuesday

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Speaker 1: after No she is warm around parts of the country

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Speaker 1: this afternoon already, I've heard the conversation, Oh.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm too hot. You're like, we're never happy.

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Speaker 1: I like it's cold spring with her, and it's unpredictable

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Speaker 1: in this rain. We're like, come on, summer. Then summer comes,

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Speaker 3: We're like, it's too much. It's too much.

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Speaker 2: Somewhere in the middle.

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Speaker 3: We are so indecisive about what we need and what

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Speaker 2: Are you? Are you a beach guy?

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Speaker 1: I feel like you wouldn't like the beach because of

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Speaker 3: Yeah I don't. I don't mind the beach, but it's

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Speaker 1: Is that because you were born in a lake town

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Speaker 3: Maybe maybe it was just that I never really grew

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sure enough.

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Speaker 2: Hey, look h to their own.

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Speaker 1: I do hear you had a bit of a sweaty

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Speaker 3: Gross, like a gross, sweaty mess in a place that

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Speaker 3: in the podcast, how's your Christmas shopping going? Ah, because

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Speaker 2: I didn't have any.

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Speaker 2: We know what's going to happen. It's not the cute

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Speaker 3: Hey, today before work, I went and got my hair cut.

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Speaker 2: And can I say it looks phenomenal?

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Speaker 3: Thank you. I mean, there's not much you can do

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Speaker 2: You look ready for the festive season.

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Speaker 3: I feel it. I feel it. But I've talked on

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Speaker 3: Well, the fling was good. But also what I forgot

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Speaker 3: Demand, and I had to go for you though, had

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Speaker 3: So this might play into my question because I've actually

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Speaker 2: So he's more than just a physical connection.

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Speaker 3: He's a good time and we click well, so I think.

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Speaker 3: But the last couple of times that I've gone, including today,

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Speaker 3: I've said to him afterwards, because he's kind of newish

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Speaker 3: lot of people. But I've felt this real connection with him.

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Speaker 3: We talk about like TV shows. We both like the

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Speaker 3: same TV shows. You love language, I love language, pop culture,

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Speaker 3: you know it. And so the last couple of times

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Speaker 3: I've said, should we get a drink?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's so forward to a side I know,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I feel like we've really clicked, really clicked,

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Speaker 1: external advice. If there's anything going on in your life,

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Speaker 1: please get in touch with us. We can't promise that

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Speaker 1: we'll give you good advice, but we'll put it out

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Speaker 1: to NZZ, who undoubtedly will come to the table with theirs.

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Speaker 3: They always do. They always do.

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Speaker 2: We don't always, but they always do.

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Speaker 6: No.

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Speaker 3: Here is this week's submission. Hay Midimpj. I live in

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Speaker 3: a flat with three other people and we usually share

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Speaker 3: basics like milk and bread. But I have one splurge

451
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Speaker 3: item I keep for myself, a fancy European butter that

452
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Speaker 3: costs way more than the supermarket stuff. I keep it

453
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Speaker 3: at the back of the fridge, labeled with my name. Lately,

454
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Speaker 3: I've noticed it disappearing way faster than it should. My

455
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Speaker 3: flatmate swears they haven't touched it. But I've seen crumbs

456
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Speaker 3: in the container and slices missing. I even bought a

457
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Speaker 3: decoy tub of regular butter, but they've ignored that and

458
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Speaker 3: keep going for my fancy one. Here's the thing. Confronting

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Speaker 3: them seems petty, but I'm so annoyed. Should I let

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Speaker 3: it slide because it's just butter? Or is it time

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Speaker 3: to get serious and put my foot down? I've even

462
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Speaker 3: considered booby trapping it somehow. Help me out? What do

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Speaker 3: I do?

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Speaker 1: First of all, not pety, not petty at all. If

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Speaker 1: there's one thing I can appreciate, it's a good butter.

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Speaker 1: And you deserve to be able to know that you

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Speaker 1: can have your butter and it's.

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Speaker 2: Yours and yours only.

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Speaker 1: That's just, that's fine, that's fine to set those boundaries.

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Speaker 3: You're regularly across the road of the fancy supermarket buying stuff,

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Speaker 3: so you know, you know the fancy butter thing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, fancy butter.

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Speaker 1: But what I will say is you should all be

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Speaker 1: grown adults and they should respect that. And I don't

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Speaker 1: think it's petty, and I usually reacking. Yes, do a

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Speaker 1: booby trap catch them out if they're not going to

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Speaker 1: come to the table, Have they staged a chat yet,

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Speaker 1: like asking who's taken the butter?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they say, my flatmates swears they haven't touched it. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Nah, So you've got to start.

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Speaker 1: You've got to be bigger than them, and you've got

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Speaker 1: to go to a booby trap because it'll be funny.

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Speaker 3: It will be for How would you even booby trapper

484
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Speaker 3: thing of butter?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe okay, this is that we will take suggestions. First

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Speaker 1: of all, what are your thoughts on the situation? Oh wait,

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Speaker 1: hundred hats, how would you go about a booby trap?

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Speaker 2: Maddie? What are your thoughts on the situation?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. Part of me goes I get I

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Speaker 3: do get it when you've bought something for yourself. You know,

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Speaker 3: if I bought something and someone took the whole thing,

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Speaker 3: that would really grind my gears.

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Speaker 7: You know.

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Speaker 3: If I went and if I'd bought like a block

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Speaker 3: of chocolate or a chocolate bar and it was gone

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Speaker 3: the whole thing, that would work out a little bit

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Speaker 3: of butter. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that a little bit of expensive butter

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Speaker 1: goes a long way. Though I'm not saying that I'm

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Speaker 1: just a little sliver and it's a lot of money.

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Speaker 3: I just don't know that it would bother me that much.

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Speaker 2: I just I just said to move.

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Speaker 3: On, let it go part of the weeks with it go?

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Speaker 6: All right?

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Speaker 1: What are your thoughts on buttergate this week for group therapy?

507
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Speaker 1: Is this person being petty or do they have a

508
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Speaker 1: case on their hands? And do they need to start

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Speaker 1: getting clever and create booby traps? Maybe you've been in

510
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Speaker 1: a similar situation. What do you do when your flatmates

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Speaker 1: are eating your fancy butter they don't own up to it?

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Speaker 6: May and PJ Mady and PJ the podcast The Many

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Speaker 6: and PJS Group Therapy.

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Speaker 1: I love the level of pettiness in this week's group

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Speaker 1: therapy and don't forget you can get in touch with

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Speaker 1: the hatstock coda in ze if you want to be.

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Speaker 2: Part of next week's gript therapy. But to recap this week's.

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Speaker 3: I live with in a flat with three other people.

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Speaker 3: We usually share basics like milk and bread, but I

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Speaker 3: have one spluage item I keep for myself, a fancy

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Speaker 3: European butter that costs way more than the super stuff.

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Speaker 3: I keep it in the back of the fridge clearly

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Speaker 3: labeled with my name. Lately, I've noticed it disappearing. My

524
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Speaker 3: flatmate swears they haven't touched it, but I've seen crumbs

525
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Speaker 3: in the container and slices missing. I even bought a

526
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Speaker 3: decoy tub of regular butter, but they've ignored that and

527
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Speaker 3: keep going for my fancy one. Here's what the thing

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Speaker 3: confronting them seems petty, but I'm so annoyed. Should I

529
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Speaker 3: let it slide because it's just butter? Or is it

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Speaker 3: time to get serious and put my foot down?

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Speaker 2: Someone text and saying puts in it.

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Speaker 1: That's a little fun Karen, and christ Church thinks she's

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Speaker 1: got a good suggestion. Oh eight hundred the hats Hello, Karen, welcome, Hello,

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Speaker 1: How are you good?

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Speaker 3: Karen?

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Speaker 2: Are you you reckon?

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Speaker 8: It's not petty at all, not at all. But check

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Speaker 8: them up like by by the budget butter, and they

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Speaker 8: has that container and then put splash butter in that

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Speaker 8: we're throwing your name on it, and then and then

541
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Speaker 8: watch them like.

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Speaker 3: Ha ha ha, that's smart because do you know them all effect?

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Speaker 2: They might not even know the difference.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't.

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Speaker 3: I honestly don't think they would. I reckon. They just

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Speaker 3: feel like they want the fancy butter. But actually, if

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Speaker 3: you came down to it and you're spreading on your

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Speaker 3: toes with a bit of peanut butter, are.

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Speaker 2: You there's great foback? Karen, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Let's go to Marie. Hi, Marie, Welcome to great therapy.

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Speaker 1: What are your thoughts?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, buy a.

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Speaker 5: Mini fridge and put in your bedroom and still missing

554
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Speaker 5: moves out?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, fair enough.

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Speaker 3: I love that. God, there's a lot of Edmond. You're

557
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Speaker 3: going to to go and buy yourself a little mini

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Speaker 3: fridge just for your fancy butter, and then we're heading

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Speaker 3: into the power and then do you all need.

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Speaker 5: I think you've got the many fridge for the future.

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Speaker 1: This is true, This is true, But like, do you

562
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Speaker 1: start if we're going to get pedantic, does the whole

563
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Speaker 1: flight then have to start playing.

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Speaker 3: Fame for power running an extra fridge.

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Speaker 1: Alie's going to Kirsty one hundred the hits. Welcome to

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Speaker 1: group therapy.

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Speaker 2: What are your thoughts?

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Speaker 5: Hi, Will I'm petty af I get one of those

569
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Speaker 5: lockable fridge boxes and just in there in the fridge.

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Speaker 3: Wait, what's a lockable food.

571
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Speaker 8: Little like a little stake? You can get a box

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Speaker 8: that put stuff on it.

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Speaker 9: With a lock or a.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's brilliant. Is that what you would do? Is

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Speaker 3: that what you would do?

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Speaker 4: Absolutely?

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Speaker 3: Okay, thank god, it's brilliant. So wait, does this just

578
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Speaker 3: speak to the pettiness of our audience or is this

579
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Speaker 3: is this a universal thing? Do you think because pretty

580
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Speaker 3: much everyone is saying not petty at all.

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Speaker 2: No, I think it's fair game.

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Speaker 1: Any of the suggestions we've just listed, go hard.

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Speaker 2: You're not being immature.

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Speaker 1: It's your butter and yours only, and you deserve the

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Speaker 1: good premium European may J.

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Speaker 4: Mady and the podcast The Heads.

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Speaker 3: Now, there are so articles that sometimes you're never quite

588
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Speaker 3: sure where you stand on this, but I saw one

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Speaker 3: today where I just thought this is outrageous. I could

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Speaker 3: not believe it. A mum in the US has been

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Speaker 3: arrested for letting her son, her ten year old son,

592
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 3: walk from their home not even fifteen hundred meters to

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Speaker 3: the shops less than one point five k's away. The

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Speaker 3: shops was what's she been arrested for for? Like reckless

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Speaker 3: endangerment of a child because she let her ten year

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Speaker 3: old son walk to the shops.

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Speaker 1: So I'm just thinking about my childhood in the wild

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Speaker 1: days of mythmn mate, we walked all around town and.

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Speaker 2: We're about probably five.

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Speaker 3: Didn't we what the things we did growing up?

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Speaker 1: I know, yes, like we probably did need to tighten

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Speaker 1: things up about sure.

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Speaker 3: There's an era of well, yes, you've got to be

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Speaker 3: sensible and you've got to be safe, and you've got

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Speaker 3: to make sure that your kids are fine. A few things.

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Speaker 3: One they live in a very small town, you know,

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Speaker 3: the kind of small town where things don't happen, things

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Speaker 3: don't go wrong. And two, it's it's a k and

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Speaker 3: a half away, a k in a halfway we were

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Speaker 3: when I was a kid, and I don't want to

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Speaker 3: you know, this is when you sound old. Right. When

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Speaker 3: I was a kid, we mum would just let us

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Speaker 3: go and we would be gone all day.

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Speaker 2: One hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I just remember literally running free going

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Speaker 1: to the park. I told you about when the cops

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Speaker 1: came on. They had come and look for us. My

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Speaker 1: friend and I we went a walk about.

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Speaker 3: They happened to me, happened to me and my brother

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Speaker 3: once as well.

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Speaker 2: Really we were.

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Speaker 3: We were on holiday and the Catlands Great Spot and

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Speaker 3: me and my brother went for a swim and blessed

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Speaker 3: them like this. Obviously they don't. They did the right thing.

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Speaker 3: They saw us swimming in the inlet, and then the

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Speaker 3: person couldn't see us anymore, and they thought something bad

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Speaker 3: had happened to us, right, so they called the cops,

628
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Speaker 3: and the cops came out to find us. But we

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Speaker 3: were just swimming in the inlet maybe days maybe days,

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Speaker 3: mayby days and mum and dad, Mum and dad. None

631
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Speaker 3: of the way is because they just trusted us to

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Speaker 3: go off into our own thing, and then we knew

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Speaker 3: we had to come back at the end of the

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Speaker 3: day and that was fine. Classic Tracy and Steve, but

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Speaker 3: classic most parents, right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh one hundred and yes, like things have changed,

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Speaker 1: but hindsight it's a beautiful thing. Oh wait, one hundred

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Speaker 1: the heads back in my day, what did you do

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Speaker 1: as a kid that now would be totally frowned upon?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I want you to I want you to start

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Speaker 3: your call with that's nothing, as in this story of

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Speaker 3: the child walking to the shops at one point five

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Speaker 3: k's away, that's nothing. We did dot dot dot all.

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Speaker 1: Right, Oh wait, under the so you can text through

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Speaker 1: eight seven complete the sentence.

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Speaker 3: That's nothing.

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Speaker 2: Back in my day we did.

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Speaker 4: What Mary j Mary npja'. The podcast thats.

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Speaker 2: On this topic has absolutely gone off.

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Speaker 1: I can't keep up with the texts text us four

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Speaker 1: for eight seven. I'll give us a call eight hundred

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Speaker 1: the hats. We want you to complete the sentence.

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Speaker 2: That's nothing.

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Speaker 1: Back in my day, we used to dot dot dot.

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Speaker 3: This is off the back of a woman in the

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Speaker 3: US being arrested arrested page because she let her ten

657
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Speaker 3: year old son walk fifteen hundred meters to the local shops,

658
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Speaker 3: and they said that was reckless endangerment of a child.

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Speaker 2: If you read half.

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Speaker 1: Of these texts, you would understand why we're perplexed at

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Speaker 1: the headline.

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Speaker 3: Listen to this one. There's so many, but this one

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Speaker 3: just came through on four four eight seven. That's nothing.

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Speaker 3: In my day, I used to walk to conduct Kindy

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Speaker 3: on my own with my Kindy fees pinned to my

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Speaker 3: clothing and a brown wage envelope.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, what, oh my god, there's nothing. When I was

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Speaker 1: a kid, I skateboarded down this real steep hell. Mom

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Speaker 1: thought I was out for a run, went home crying

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Speaker 1: with skin knees from falling back in min Me and

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Speaker 1: my sisters were able to buy Siggi's from my dad

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Speaker 1: without my.

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Speaker 3: D I mean, look, that doesn't this doesn't mean we're

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Speaker 3: in condoning any of this stuff. But times they have changed,

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Speaker 3: Times they have changed.

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Speaker 1: It's just a reflection of the shift in society. Gina

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Speaker 1: is joining us a hundred, it's finished the sentence. Ha,

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Speaker 1: that's nothing back in my day dot dot dot.

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Speaker 7: Hah, that's nothing better. In my day we used to

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Speaker 7: swim and weeteos big wheat silos. That's like you couldn't.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, big wheat.

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Speaker 7: Silos right, and you would jump from one side and

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Speaker 7: you'd have to peddle with because you could to the

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Speaker 7: other side of us would start thinking.

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Speaker 6: Anyway, oh my gosh, it's just the sign.

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Speaker 3: Of the times, the times side of the times.

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Speaker 2: Kim is joining us the hurts.

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Speaker 3: What were you doing, ma, can you die?

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Speaker 2: Kim?

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Speaker 9: Hah, that's nahing bacon.

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Speaker 10: My day, I would have a shopping list and some case,

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Speaker 10: and my nan will be like, right off to the

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Speaker 10: shop is your less grip that you need to and

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Speaker 10: don't forget my smoke.

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Speaker 3: We were in.

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Speaker 10: Big trouble, but you know she wasn't too worried about

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Speaker 10: the change. Not always did she get a.

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Speaker 2: Back Kim, how how old were you at the time?

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Speaker 11: Living?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I get it. Name one of the name

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Speaker 3: one of the think he's joining us.

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Speaker 2: I handed the hurts high.

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Speaker 1: I mean, can you compleat the sentence for us?

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Speaker 9: Yeah. We used to get on the school bus that

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Speaker 9: used to take us about twenty minutes, but we'd hide

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Speaker 9: at the back was driving and or we were this.

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Speaker 9: He would drive us back to our hometown and then

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Speaker 9: we'd pop out and say hey you, and then you

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Speaker 9: drop us off at matop there and then we get

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Speaker 9: into some other clause and then go to the pub

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Speaker 9: as half eleven for a cider in black?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, how did I ask how old you were?

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Speaker 10: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna ask that question.

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Speaker 9: There was a mix of fourteen and fifteen year olds.

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Speaker 2: This is like, Oh my god, I think we're gonna

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Speaker 2: have to bring this back. There are sirens.

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Speaker 3: So many. Well, can I read a couple of extra?

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Speaker 2: Yeaks?

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Speaker 6: Go on?

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Speaker 3: That's one. That's nothing. How about driving your intoxicated father

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Speaker 3: home at the age of twelve. You can't lose a

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Speaker 3: license if you don't have one.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't know what back of my day.

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Speaker 1: When I was eleven, I used to cycle to Wellington

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Speaker 1: and bet with dead with.

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Speaker 2: No cycle helmet.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So if you're feeling like a bead a parent today,

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Speaker 1: I just remember that you're joining your really.

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Speaker 4: Really good job many and podcast.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: Earlier, I was just saying that I've been sucked into

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Speaker 1: something because the celebrity did it.

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Speaker 2: We've talked about this before, like the things you did

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Speaker 2: someone you looked up to did such.

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Speaker 1: Your friend famously bought a Red American Express card because

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Speaker 1: of the Timberland song.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, she's a sucker for anything.

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Speaker 7: Though.

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Speaker 3: I do often wonder that though, because you know, like

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Speaker 3: you see, like Eva Long Gloria will do like an

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Speaker 3: ad for like nutrient gene or something like that, and

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Speaker 3: I always go, does singing Eva Long Gloria on an ad?

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Speaker 3: Is that what makes you go, I'm going to buy

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Speaker 3: that product? I don't know, is it?

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Speaker 1: I just think, you know, they have so much money

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Speaker 1: and they do so many treatments, So is it really

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Speaker 1: the cream that's doing the wonders?

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Speaker 2: The other stuff?

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Speaker 1: I saw a video of Matthew McConaughey talking about and

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Speaker 1: I love Matthew mcconneey alright, a rat, and he was

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Speaker 1: talking about what he makes on Sunday nights and his

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Speaker 1: family household.

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Speaker 11: I'm a tuna fish out master maker. Every Sunday night,

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Speaker 11: clean out the fridge, gotta make a bat tuna fish.

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Speaker 3: It starts with the base.

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Speaker 11: You gets you good, gets you good tuna. Next, you

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Speaker 11: gotta watch how much lemon and vinegar you add, because

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Speaker 11: what you if you add the mayo mixed with withsaby,

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Speaker 11: well the rest of the stuff from the chopped red

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Speaker 11: onions or the deal pickle cirk and I'll finally taste

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Speaker 11: the deal pickled yerkins, crispy alapena chips. Give a little

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Speaker 11: crunch at the end to balance that out, I'll go

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Speaker 11: with some apple for some sweetness, a touch of a gobby.

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Speaker 4: I always have corn in there. I always got corn

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Speaker 4: really oh yeah, and ant the.

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Speaker 11: End, I'll go some frozen green peans.

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Speaker 1: I saw this on my Facebook on like Sunday, and

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, it looks so good.

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Speaker 2: I've got to recreate it.

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Speaker 1: Obviously not too much training because I'm pregnant, but I

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Speaker 1: was like, I gotta try this, So I literally recreated

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Speaker 1: it without some of the ingredients.

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Speaker 2: I'm a Hawks man.

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Speaker 3: It is really good.

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Speaker 2: It's quite good. It's easy.

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Speaker 3: Is it the salad though, or is it the fact

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Speaker 3: that it was Matthew mcconaugh It's totally Matthew McConaughey.

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Speaker 1: But the thing is it's the most offensive thing to

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Speaker 1: bring into work because it's just this pongy tuna salad.

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Speaker 1: And do you know what, I always o d on

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Speaker 1: the mayo, so it's like pretty much like a mayo

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Speaker 1: tuna soup.

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Speaker 3: Okay, this makes so much sense because you are one

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Speaker 3: of these people that whenever you're typing something into your

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Speaker 3: phone or your computer, you have to say out loud

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Speaker 3: what it is that you're typing. And I heard you

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Speaker 3: earlier today going how much tuna can a pregnant woman?

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Speaker 3: Now it makes sense.

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Speaker 2: I seek now.

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Speaker 4: The podcast

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Speaker 7: That