1 00:00:01,760 --> 00:00:05,240 Speaker 1: Polee born in Hailey's mid Winter Christmas Cocktail Special. 2 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 2: Hello and welcome to the Midwinter Christmas Cocktail Special, The 3 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 2: Big Pod. We'll be back on July fifteenth. 4 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 1: Now, last time this got out of control. I'm looking 5 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:19,439 Speaker 1: at you, worn. 6 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:23,799 Speaker 3: I'm an innocent CARDI are you either. 7 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 2: We all have blackouts and lapses of how we got 8 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 2: home that night. 9 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: But some of us have a scar to tell the 10 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: story still to this day. 11 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 3: To fill in the gap. 12 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 2: Now, much like the podcast special at the end of 13 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 2: last year, the Christmas Cocktail Special, we will be reading 14 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:43,520 Speaker 2: out messages from you, our dear listens, from all over 15 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 2: the world. And whilst we do this, we will be 16 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:47,200 Speaker 2: indulging in cocktails. 17 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 1: Now we've cracked off with an alba. Yes, we harp 18 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 1: on about a lot coconut margarita. Coconut margarita. 19 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 3: Man only two of those, so I'm having a prosecco. Okay. 20 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:01,639 Speaker 2: So my friends say he's in the next room from 21 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 2: Argentina and I think he took a couple, which is 22 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 2: fine because I did say help yourself. 23 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: But when you say help yourself to the Freid, you 24 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: don't mean that, you. 25 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:13,319 Speaker 3: Don't mean booze. Theurs you mean you. 26 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 1: Mean apple from the ball hear that. 27 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 3: He's sleepings. Sorry, okay, Falkland's War. 28 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, Now there is something before we get underway. 29 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:30,119 Speaker 2: Have you noticed Jared's brand new mixing This the road 30 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 2: Caster podcast twenty four thousand. 31 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 1: That's Luck's pro two. 32 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 2: Look at the screen. It's got a screen protector who 33 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 2: wants to peel that off? Oh? 34 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:42,039 Speaker 1: Can I you may? 35 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 4: You may? 36 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 1: I was I'm missing out on a satisfying moment already. 37 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 3: I'm missing out on a satisfier pro I am, yeah? 38 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: Is it was it an option to be doing that instead? 39 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 3: I always never presented that option before me. 40 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: No, because I I we were just on a flight together, 41 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: and I have a pimple that's popped up over the hour, 42 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: and I was going to burst run out of time. 43 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 3: So that's it's ready. 44 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: It's two. 45 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 3: I know, I think it's to morrow. 46 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:11,679 Speaker 1: You'll be looking at him throughout the next couple of hours. 47 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 1: It'll be like. 48 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 4: Ready, I will say, ladies and gentlemen, the podcast must 49 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:17,959 Speaker 4: now take a small break, so hey can go and 50 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 4: pop pimple and. 51 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 2: Maybe at the start of the podcast we can give 52 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 2: it up stop touching it can have you put make 53 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 2: up over it. Yeah, you see, it's not going to 54 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 2: help us identify if it's really. 55 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 1: The wrong color because I didn't do the whole face. 56 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 1: I'm right. Okay, you guys, can I peel off the 57 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 1: protection and protection protection please permission? 58 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 4: Please put the microphone this so it gets the sound. Yeah, 59 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 4: we're missing on some real folly opportunities here. 60 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 2: Really, I think if you boosts in and production and 61 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 2: post Jared, but I think the listener could hear that. 62 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 4: That would be really anyway, It really gives some people 63 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 4: some goosey bumps. 64 00:02:56,520 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 3: It was absolutely beautiful. Please start. Let's start. 65 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 1: Cheers, very Christmas, cheers, producers, cheers. 66 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 3: Isn't the year flying? 67 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 1: Thank you God flying? Take me to my death Beard. 68 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 3: You know, let's start with Rebecca. 69 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 4: We asked people to to request maybe a shout out 70 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:22,959 Speaker 4: to someone else, you know, listens to the podcast, and 71 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 4: we also asked some questions. You'll become familiar with those 72 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 4: questions over the course of this podcast because they're recurring. 73 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 3: Now we will say just before you do, read them 74 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 3: up more. 75 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 2: And we didn't receive millions of submissions, millions, billion, hundreds 76 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 2: of billions of millions. 77 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 3: There were a lot, so some we have just drawn. 78 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 3: We are us drawing these out at random. 79 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 2: So I will say, dear listener, if you don't hear yours, 80 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 2: please don't end it. 81 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 3: Suck it, yeah, yeah, suck it. 82 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 83 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 4: If you don't hear, and if you listen to all 84 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 4: of these episodes and you're like mine will surely be 85 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 4: the next episode and against to the end, and yours 86 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 4: hasn't been read out, it just suck. 87 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 2: It, yeah. Or maybe we apologize that we couldn't get 88 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 2: to your because. 89 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: That's what I meant, and will do you another one 90 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 1: at the end of the year. 91 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we will. Maybe we could have a box 92 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 2: at the end of the year. If mine wasn't read 93 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 2: out last time and I feel aggrieved, tick this box. 94 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah. I had to suck it. I sucked 95 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 3: it and then I sucked it up and here I am. 96 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 3: I'm back, I'm a button. 97 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 1: Sucked it. 98 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. 99 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:22,720 Speaker 1: Please can I get my norm because I am not 100 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 1: sucking it twice. 101 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:29,720 Speaker 4: Firstly, Rebecca said she's not sucking at twice. 102 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 3: In the year, but any birthdays this is every year. 103 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 2: Two. 104 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 3: I was going to say, put that on the calendar 105 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 3: with a horse twice. 106 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 1: I've already sucked it. I'm not going to suck at 107 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: the Yeah, if you've sucked it once, never sucked twice. 108 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 4: Rebecca Donald of Auckland says, we asked what's the most 109 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 4: exciting thing that happened to this year? And she said 110 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 4: the errors to her in Melbourne, that'll be that'll be 111 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 4: a lot of master quiet year for her. 112 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:54,719 Speaker 3: She's in the cold. 113 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 4: And what is the greatest regret in life? This is 114 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 4: a question we just kind of like rough out there, Yeah, 115 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 4: getting was not expecting. 116 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:06,280 Speaker 1: Then some deep responses that we've had when people think 117 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:08,280 Speaker 1: that we're just laugh out loud, to laugh out louder joke, 118 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 1: Joe jokes, we can go deep. 119 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 3: Let's get deep. 120 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 1: Let's go deep. 121 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:13,479 Speaker 3: This could be dangerous because we're drinking and then at 122 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 3: the end, but. 123 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 1: My life were emotional, you know, it could go that way. 124 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 3: What's your greatest ride of life? 125 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 4: For becaes are that I didn't move overseas with my 126 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 4: best friend when we were twenty two. I've only lived 127 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 4: in New Zealand and I wi should I attacking that 128 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:26,919 Speaker 4: opportunity to have overseas. 129 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:28,919 Speaker 1: Do you know what, though I've got a lot of friends, 130 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:33,039 Speaker 1: I'm thirty four and you congratulations, thank you. Just a baby. 131 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:36,599 Speaker 3: I would never have known. Baby, you're a cold, cold baby. 132 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 1: I'm a cold. 133 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:39,600 Speaker 3: A head full of rocks. 134 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 1: Yes, I'm showing off, and then you've got a bid. 135 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 1: A lot of my friends in their mid to late 136 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 1: thirties are still doing I'm just going. I didn't do 137 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: it when I was supposed to do it. Yeah, and 138 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:50,600 Speaker 1: they're just going now. A couple of my friends have 139 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 1: just moved to London to do the work in a 140 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 1: bar and travel from. 141 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:56,719 Speaker 3: Never too late unless you're like I guess, seventy and then. 142 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 4: Riddled with arth riders, that would be. But that's a 143 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 4: lovely time to just live on a cruise ship. Yes, 144 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 4: see you out your days, Yeah. 145 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 1: All the countryside, the English country side. 146 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 2: And then when you when you run out of money 147 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:09,920 Speaker 2: you can't afford the P and R or the you know, 148 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 2: the Norwegian Cruise Line or whatever, you. 149 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 3: Just jump jump back. Yeah, what a great idea. 150 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: Out to see costs it down. Yeah, that's a gift he. 151 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:23,280 Speaker 3: Gives to your family. They never have your body to bury. 152 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah, what do you need advice on? 153 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 4: We also asked I decided to be childless by choice, 154 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 4: and I need advice on dealing with friends having babies 155 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 4: in your relationships with them changing, which I know is selfish, 156 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 4: but hey, that's why I'm not having kids. 157 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 2: Block them any tips of kind or block them as 158 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 2: a good coping mechanism I had. 159 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 4: Well, you guys don't have children, fletch. I wish to 160 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:47,679 Speaker 4: speak for your ovaries, but I don't. 161 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 3: Believe you ever will. No, my overaries have dried up. 162 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 1: To be careful, though, you need to wrap it up 163 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 1: when you're going out there. Yeah you know what I mean. 164 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 1: Babies is not aware of. 165 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 4: Some Okay, yeah right, I had children a little bit 166 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 4: before some of my close group of friends. I think 167 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 4: it's I don't know, they just I liked it, though 168 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 4: I was done by going out and getting shitty shitty 169 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 4: faced by then. Ye yeah, now I'm already entering my 170 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 4: getting ship faced era. 171 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: We welcome you back. 172 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah. 173 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 1: This happened to me because my best friend, who were 174 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 1: just grown up side by side since we were four, 175 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: she had her first get at twenty three, and I'm like, oh, 176 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: it's all over, Like you know, she's just gonna go away. 177 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: But you just adjust and you just change the way 178 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 1: you socialize. If they're real friends. Then you just it's 179 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: about quality time, not getting boozed. And then you just 180 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 1: find like a flitch in your life and you're like, oh, 181 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: he's my booze friend and you are my friend. Yeah, 182 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 1: real friendships will, they'll see it through, see it through. 183 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 1: You're changed, You're if you're a selfish friend. 184 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 3: You know the selfish friends. 185 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 4: When you have a baby and your selfish friends kind 186 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 4: of disappear a little bit, You're like, that's because they 187 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 4: liked being the center of your world. 188 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 2: But you've got a new center. It would have been me, 189 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 2: but I had to work with you every day. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 190 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 2: so you had to see he's kind of forced to 191 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 2: see you. 192 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 1: And you can look forward to being the cool auntie 193 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: that like picks them up from town and you know, 194 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: keeps the secrets. 195 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 3: And give some drugs. 196 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: By No, I don't don't don't do drugs. I was 197 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 1: a couple of couple of drinking poos. 198 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 3: Maybe yeah, well that. 199 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 4: Is a drug, Haly alcohol drug. So it's coffee according 200 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 4: to the Morman, George down this drug? Lest are we 201 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 4: going christ? 202 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 1: So it is pornography. Yeah, so I guess we're all 203 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 1: drug addicts. Let's move on. 204 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 4: Thinking Rebecca to Hamish, would you like who would you 205 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 4: like to give a shout out to? He said, shout 206 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 4: out to all the girl bosses. Live, love, laugh at love, laugh, loving. 207 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:39,440 Speaker 4: Has he got that in the right order? Love, love laugh, 208 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 4: he's put live laugh loving. 209 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 1: No, that's not do any of that in any putting. 210 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 1: Are you going laugh love love you you're crazy for. 211 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 3: Laugh live love laugh, live, live laugh love laugh love, live, 212 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:59,559 Speaker 3: laugh love love laugh. But you could make love love 213 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 3: twice and saying love love love. 214 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's saying yeah now saying live, live, live, she 215 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 2: wants to live, live, live. 216 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 3: Love, live, Live, Live, Live, live wind Wind We're We're, 217 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 3: We're We're there there there, we are, we are. 218 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 1: We're live as in Live Tyler live, as in Live 219 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 1: a Life, Live as in fliporhe and Hailey. 220 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 4: Live live, laugh, loving it up in winter and me 221 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 4: of the Owen shout out to producer Jared from Hamish 222 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 4: bun there is that a bit of a. 223 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 3: Crush there, Well, I tell you what. 224 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 4: Actually the next answer to his question might be ways 225 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:41,560 Speaker 4: of giving producer Jared a shoutow. What's the juiciest thing 226 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 4: that happened to you this year? Hamer has been in 227 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 4: the middle of a three way between two guys. Maybe 228 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 4: at the end of the table. 229 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:59,199 Speaker 2: Wow, the mustache, the peckstock mustacher express. 230 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:02,280 Speaker 3: Jesus, Wow, what do. 231 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:04,720 Speaker 4: You need advice on Hamerschwanson how to make more friends 232 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 4: in your mid twenties. 233 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 2: Well, it sounds like maybe just have a chat to 234 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 2: these people you're having threesomes with. Maybe afterwards you could 235 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 2: go and do something like Tempin bowling. 236 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 1: Sorry, got hummus on the Mike cord Off. 237 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 3: You don't know where that and you already So bowling 238 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 3: should be all good, the best shower between timp and 239 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 3: bowling and three. 240 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 4: I would hope so, because then it wouldn't be all 241 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:28,319 Speaker 4: good because you'd be seeing your dirty fingers in the 242 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:29,720 Speaker 4: bowling bolt. 243 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:32,719 Speaker 3: It Tempin bowling, you went with the share balls. You 244 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 3: put your fingers in. 245 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 1: There because we have Jery's been been. Sara's going to 246 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:43,679 Speaker 1: shout out in this. But Jared, you made friends this year? 247 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 1: Don't you make new friends? 248 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 4: Yeah? 249 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 3: I've made a few new friends. 250 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:48,559 Speaker 1: What's your advice? 251 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 3: You rekindled friendships from school too, didn't you. Yeah, rekindled 252 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 3: a few, made a few. It's a very social year 253 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:56,079 Speaker 3: for me. 254 00:10:56,679 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 1: What's your advice for Hamish in terms of making new 255 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 1: friends as an adultrobably don't laugh. 256 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 4: On the first but he's got a problem because he's 257 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 4: already torn through two of them already. 258 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 3: Don't be afraid to make the first move like that 259 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:13,560 Speaker 3: could also work well. 260 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 4: I don't think making the first move is a problem. 261 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 4: Someone's going to Somebody had to, didn't they Someone had 262 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:18,719 Speaker 4: to kick start it? 263 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 3: Beautiful, thank you? How are you so shy? But you 264 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 3: can have a threesome? 265 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:23,320 Speaker 2: True? 266 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 1: Ponder that he's in the middle. 267 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 2: I think. 268 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:30,439 Speaker 3: There's that, the shy person in the threesome. I think 269 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 3: so because they're all mean. Are they like humans interpeting? 270 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 3: What's the. 271 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 2: I don't know whether they're just taking turns I don't know, 272 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 2: or this threat I mentioned three bottoms like. 273 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:44,640 Speaker 1: Someone in here knew. 274 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 4: When he's in the middle, laugh at it like a Spirow. 275 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 4: Situations hard to make friends with your mouthful? Yeah, I 276 00:11:58,320 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 4: don't know, can only. 277 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:03,960 Speaker 3: My same, Vaughn, I can only we can only imagine 278 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 3: Hamish and I've ever done if you would obeye? Yeah, yeah, no, 279 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 3: I never ever had you never ever have ye foursome? 280 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 3: Also for me, he's going to see how I can go. 281 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 2: An doctors ate some act. 282 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 4: Not for you. Naha is next and she she is 283 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 4: from Would you like to give us shout out? She said, 284 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 4: shaded them a bitter in Stacey and Sam who listened 285 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 4: to every pod, and my dad who listens to. 286 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 3: Sorry, I'm sorry you had to hear about Vaughan's lack 287 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 3: of threesome. And I wonder if I wonder if Natasha's 288 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:57,720 Speaker 3: dad even had a threesome. 289 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 2: Well maybe, and now she can ask maybe in the 290 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 2: seventies he was around. You know, that was the time 291 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 2: of free love. God. 292 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:07,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, shout out to dad and my sister as 293 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 4: she plays the podcast while she sleeps, and shout out 294 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:11,400 Speaker 4: to the show and the producers. 295 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 3: Such joy to have the company of you three on 296 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 3: meters every day. 297 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 4: Thank you for the laugh and laugh, love and laughter 298 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:20,599 Speaker 4: and love. So she had the three l's there, but 299 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 4: she structured a little bit differently, didn't she. What's the 300 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 4: most exciting thing to have happened to you? This year? 301 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 4: Went to RaRo for my thirtieth first time ever, going 302 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:30,680 Speaker 4: fell in love with the place, people, culture, and food. 303 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 3: You've been a couple of times for Arrow Rules. 304 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 2: I haven't been since It's better than Fiji, And I 305 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:39,319 Speaker 2: do apologize for gi but you know, Fiji, that's the 306 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 2: only one I've been to. 307 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 3: Fiji. 308 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:43,640 Speaker 4: The islands of Fiji are really nice, but like that's yeah, 309 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 4: getting to them. 310 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 3: It's very commercial. What do you need advice on. I've 311 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 3: been in my current workplace for ten years. 312 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 4: Is it okay to stay if I'm happy and I 313 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 4: feel I'm growing comfortably or is it more important to 314 00:13:56,200 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 4: take a chance on something else. 315 00:13:57,280 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 3: I'm learned to adapt to a different environment and push 316 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:00,679 Speaker 3: myself a question. 317 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:02,959 Speaker 2: It's a good Literally, we were at a client of 318 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 2: even Yesterna and I was talking to this girl next 319 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:07,320 Speaker 2: to me and she said, I've been at this workplace 320 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 2: ten years and I love it. And everyone's like, you 321 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:12,839 Speaker 2: can't stand a job that long, And she's like, why not? 322 00:14:13,040 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 3: I love it. 323 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 2: I work with amazing people. I learned from them, Like yeah, rules, 324 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:20,920 Speaker 2: unless you're not getting paid well, then jump to a 325 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 2: better job. 326 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:21,800 Speaker 3: And get paid. 327 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:24,640 Speaker 4: You feel a bit like unfulfilled, but so and don't 328 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 4: let them take advantage of the fact that you've got loyalty. 329 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 1: I think it's a sad thing to stay there. 330 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 3: Fine, Yeah, happiness is the most important thing after all. 331 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 3: Love words love, laughter, love and looking oh worn