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Speaker 1: The Hits Drive with medi and Pja thanks to Chemist

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Speaker 1: Wee House the Real House of Fragrances.

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Speaker 2: Hello everyone, and welcome to the podcast. I've got a confession.

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Speaker 3: Confess my child.

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Speaker 2: I ever told you I was the word? You're going

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Speaker 2: to judge me?

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Speaker 3: Oh god?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 5: Do I need to Is this like a should I have?

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Speaker 5: Like a little partition? Is if I'm you know, in

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Speaker 5: a confessional booth?

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Speaker 2: There, No, it's not that. I've got an appointment tonight.

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Speaker 4: To do what.

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Speaker 2: To talk to us?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Ship, my god.

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Speaker 1: It's been so long. It has been so long. I

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Speaker 1: used to be a sucker. And yes, I know there's

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Speaker 1: a lot of there's a lot of con artist out there,

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Speaker 1: but this one I've talked to before.

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Speaker 3: Who is it? What's her name? Mystic?

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Speaker 2: The psychic Cowgirl.

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Speaker 3: You have got to be kidding.

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Speaker 2: She's great.

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Speaker 5: You're taking that You're actually I.

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Speaker 6: Was.

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Speaker 2: This is why I didn't tell you. I was scared.

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Speaker 2: This can tell you as well.

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Speaker 4: What why?

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Speaker 2: Because she's good?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 3: But why is she called the psychic.

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Speaker 1: Cal I don't know you're gonna have You're gotta stand apart.

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Speaker 1: You know you're gonna have a whattinguishing feature?

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Speaker 5: Seeing into the future. Isn't enough of a stand apart

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Speaker 5: feature Jesus page.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, I wanted to see my excitement with you, and

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Speaker 1: then I was like, oh, no, you're sharing your excitement

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Speaker 1: with the wrong person. And obviously I was right.

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Speaker 5: My eye my eye roll was strong before I started

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Speaker 5: the show. But those these eyes have been had a workout,

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Speaker 5: and I just want you.

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Speaker 2: To know I haven't.

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Speaker 1: I haven't done something like this in a long time.

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Speaker 1: I used to be prolifer and then I was like, actually,

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Speaker 1: I'm not getting much out of it, and actually it

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Speaker 1: can be quiet on this but tonight I just recently

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Speaker 1: really craved it because I actually feel like it's a

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Speaker 1: bit of a therapy session. Sometimes you kind of just

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Speaker 1: talk through stuff. So I'm just going to take it

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Speaker 1: with a grain of salt as I always do, you know,

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Speaker 1: like you can't actually take everything. But it's just fun

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Speaker 1: and it's going to be tonight once Charlie's gone.

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Speaker 3: To be okay. A few questions. Where is the psychic

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Speaker 3: cowgirl that's on Zoom? Yeah, she's in Australia, So how

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Speaker 3: long different? How long does the session last for?

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Speaker 2: I should actually check that. What have I paid for?

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Speaker 1: See that forty five to nine duty, so it'll be

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Speaker 1: about forty five minutes.

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Speaker 3: How much that's a lot of seeing she's got to do.

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Speaker 3: If she's got.

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Speaker 1: Forty five mins, I've had way longer sessions. Nah, I

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Speaker 1: do like hour and a half forty five. That'll be

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Speaker 1: pretty quick upunctual.

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Speaker 5: And how does it get does she? Does she sit

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Speaker 5: there and go I can I can see?

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Speaker 3: I see?

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Speaker 2: Don't be.

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Speaker 1: To be fair, I haven't actually done it with her

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Speaker 1: like this before. She sent me like big voice messages

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Speaker 1: over email before that was kind of how I've received,

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Speaker 1: like she'd seen a big audio file and that was great.

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Speaker 1: But I think this will be really cool to actually

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Speaker 1: have that back and forth, you know, so it's not

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Speaker 1: just a one way straight So yeah, I'll let you

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Speaker 1: know how it.

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Speaker 2: I wonder if she brings you up.

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Speaker 3: I hope shed jojo of you. I hope.

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Speaker 2: Do you want me to tell you if she tells me, tell.

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Speaker 3: Me everything, tell me everything.

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Speaker 2: You don't want me to refer you to her or anything?

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Speaker 5: Well, they see what she tells you first. What does

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Speaker 5: BJ think of this?

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Speaker 3: Your husband?

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Speaker 1: He actually like when I go through ruts, he'd be like,

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Speaker 1: you need to do it fucking hell, I've brainwashed him.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how he knows that.

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Speaker 1: It just brings me joy, even though like say, I

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Speaker 1: know you gotta be careful and you don't you know,

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Speaker 1: you take things with a great seal.

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Speaker 2: But for me, it's just a.

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Speaker 1: Bit of fun and I always feel like I have

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Speaker 1: a bit of clarity after extra confusion.

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Speaker 5: Hey, if that's how you want to spend your money,

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Speaker 5: then you go for gold.

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Speaker 2: That's you.

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Speaker 3: No judgment.

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Speaker 1: Comes back from Rugby and mid who what's it's all about?

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Speaker 1: Act like he's too tough for it, But he's not.

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Speaker 1: He's open minded. It's over.

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Speaker 5: It's like those boyfriends that are like, oh they're coming

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Speaker 5: and you're watching Love Island and they're like, watch this

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Speaker 5: bullshit bullshit and then they're sitting around they're like, wait, wait,

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Speaker 5: who is this and why are they doing this?

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Speaker 2: Isn't that exactly what happened with you on?

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Speaker 8: Right?

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Speaker 3: Yes? With Real Housewives to Biley Hills.

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Speaker 2: I just can't get into that. Maybe I haven't given

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Speaker 3: Finished it last night. That later season's good.

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Speaker 1: That got has that got Kreshal, that's selling something, sellings

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Speaker 1: was there selling so here? So how are they different, well.

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Speaker 2: Ones about housewives and ones about real estate.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so selling somes here. That's all about real estate

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Speaker 5: agents in LA trying to sell houses.

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Speaker 3: And they have drama.

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Speaker 5: Real Housewives is really just like very wealthy women fighting.

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Speaker 5: And there's so many seasons of so like different franchises.

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Speaker 5: There's like so many different cities have their own iteration.

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Speaker 5: I only I only dabble in two three I've done

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Speaker 5: New York. Only New York is good, Salt Lake City

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Speaker 5: is very good, but Beverly Hills is topp tire. I

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Speaker 5: would suggest if you're going to give one of them

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Speaker 5: a go, give Beverly Hills a go.

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Speaker 2: And Beverly Hills the same as La.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Beverly Hills is in LA.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he's not an l A one. This is

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Speaker 2: If you would live in a city in America, who

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Speaker 3: New York. It's my favorite.

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Speaker 2: So I love to go to New.

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Speaker 5: York, one of my favorite cities in the world. How

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Speaker 5: many times have you been, Oh, I've actually been maybe

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Speaker 1: For if you eat pizza, it's just a cliche thing

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Speaker 3: I did it cliche, ate it by the by they

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Speaker 3: the slice enough. Yeah, that's so anyway.

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Speaker 1: Was just there's so much electric energy walking down the streets,

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Speaker 1: isn't there, And there's just always something going on huh.

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Speaker 5: And there's coold little neighborhoods and yeah, it's awesome.

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Speaker 3: It's it's such a great city.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well travel chat a sign just coming up on

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Speaker 1: the podcast today, we'll had a fun show.

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Speaker 2: Weird what happened? Oh yeah, the wild stories. You wouldn't believe.

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Speaker 3: There were some good ones in the mix there in

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Speaker 3: the max not the total, but that's fine. Therapy was

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Speaker 3: good this week.

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Speaker 5: We had a solid some solid suggestions for our listener

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Speaker 5: who had a bit of a dilemma that they needed

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys always come to the table with good advice.

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Speaker 1: And is this something you still haven't told your parents?

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Speaker 1: After a pretty funny story about what a guy did

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Speaker 1: in airport, all of.

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Speaker 2: That and more. Enjoy the podcast.

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Speaker 4: The podcast.

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Speaker 1: Some great suggestions coming through on the Tex Machine on

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Speaker 1: how I can vary up my greeting at the beginning

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Speaker 1: of every show because I always say good.

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Speaker 2: Afternoon, New Zealand.

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Speaker 1: Someone he'd use a different language every time, for example,

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Speaker 1: aloha or in Italian, howdy mate, that was from Mason

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Speaker 1: and then sub player.

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Speaker 3: No, no, you say that with confidence page.

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Speaker 2: Slayer, sup player. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Afternoon is just a good that we can solid.

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Speaker 5: We'll keep working, We'll keep work shopping it. We'll come

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Speaker 5: up with a couple of different ones that you can

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, sweet, all right. So on the weekend I

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Speaker 1: did something quite brave. I went to the hardware store,

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Speaker 1: the old local mutter Deenmigure.

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Speaker 3: Now is this the brave thing?

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Speaker 5: Because to me that's brave because Ryan is always the one,

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Speaker 5: that one that goes to the hardware store, So just

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Speaker 1: The brave part is that I went in without my

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Speaker 1: husband with the intention to purchase a rather like large gadget.

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Speaker 1: And the gadget was a water blaster, something which I

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Speaker 1: have been craving for so long. Our steps at home

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Speaker 10: and weighe through the options of water blasters, something which

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Speaker 5: That's over it's overwhelming because those the hardware stores are big.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I must say the guy he instantly saw

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Speaker 1: me like staring into the abyss of boxes, and he goes,

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Speaker 1: can I help you? And I go, well, this is

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Speaker 1: I was like, You've got me sign sealed and delivers.

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Speaker 2: I've done very little research.

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Speaker 3: You are. You're an easy target as well.

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Speaker 1: I'm such an easy target. But I thought, bja, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. It could have gone one of two ways.

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Speaker 5: Go some water plaster, or he'd say you've been taken

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Speaker 5: for a ride and you've been up sold and you've

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Speaker 5: spent three hundred more bucks than you needed to.

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Speaker 1: He said to me, please tell me that you kept

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Speaker 1: the respect, which is never.

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Speaker 4: A good sign.

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Speaker 3: That means there's no trust involved. There's no trust that

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Speaker 1: So anyway, I should have kept it inside the box.

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Speaker 1: But today I got too tended. It was like Christmas.

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Speaker 1: This box was just sitting there and I was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to try and work it. So I like

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Speaker 1: had this challenge that I really really wanted to work

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Speaker 1: out how to put it together because there's like all

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Speaker 1: And anyway, I did what I often do where I

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Speaker 1: start a job, I can't quite complete it, and then

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Speaker 1: I just leave it out valiantly so that Bejail then

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Speaker 1: maybe start doing the water blasting on its own.

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Speaker 5: Accord, is that one of those classic things where you're like,

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Speaker 5: I thought, you cannot start around Robin's Circle with that

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Speaker 1: Look, you can't really categorize it as a fun little fact.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so we got thinking, can anyone top this is

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Speaker 2: Hello, Jenny.

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Speaker 9: Hi, guys.

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Speaker 5: We need you to tell us the story, Jenny.

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Speaker 12: Okay, So in nineteen ninety one, I'm a backpacking English

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Speaker 8: So in the end they gave up and just kicked

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Speaker 2: One day you were literally held hostage for twenty four hours.

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Speaker 12: It was really it was really scary. Now it just

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Speaker 12: of their hands, and you know, we've all had these

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Speaker 3: I know exactly well.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know what you are, but I

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Speaker 11: Yeah, it's been.

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Speaker 12: A great I mean when you talked about that with

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Speaker 3: In an awkward We start off with.

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Speaker 2: A fun little fact. It was been great, Jenny, Thanks

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Speaker 2: so much for coming on.

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Speaker 1: You have absolutely set the bar for our topic that

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Speaker 1: we're going to open up to the calls right now.

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Speaker 1: Oh eight hundred the hats and we've got your chance

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Speaker 1: to win some hell pizza archers. What is your wildest

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Speaker 2: What is the wildest story that has happened to you?

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Speaker 1: Get in touch now is your moment. It's pretty much

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Speaker 1: a run club, but live on the radio podcast talking

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Speaker 1: wild stories that people wouldn't believe have happened to you.

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Speaker 3: I heard a guy on Sunday tell me a story

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Speaker 5: He'd just been born, and this couple walked into the

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Speaker 3: He was fine, but wild.

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Speaker 1: So we've opened up at can of worms. I'll wait

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Speaker 1: one hundred that hats to join the show, or you

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Speaker 1: can text four.

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Speaker 2: For eight seven get this.

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Speaker 1: I'm x SAS and was shot in nineteen ninety eight.

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Speaker 13: Bill.

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Speaker 1: It just missed my heart deflected off my rib and

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Speaker 1: was lodged in my upper back until I had it

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Speaker 1: removed in two thousand and nine.

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Speaker 3: That is crazy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's go to Peter joining us.

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Speaker 2: What's the doll?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what's the Yeah, very well, what's the wild story

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Speaker 8: Oh god, yeah, brings back a few memories this on it. Anyway,

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Speaker 8: I was a vote or got them, maybe ten years

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Speaker 8: old back in Liverpool. In London, ye, when I was

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Speaker 14: Yeah, and I was coming back from because I did

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Speaker 14: And anyway, some fellow drove uss and a little mini

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Speaker 8: He kidnapped me?

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Speaker 7: What?

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Speaker 2: Sorry?

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Speaker 9: What?

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Speaker 3: And how?

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Speaker 7: What happened?

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Speaker 14: In and I had a big aluminum lunch box from school. Yeah,

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Speaker 14: I clubbed him over there.

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Speaker 8: It didn't knock him out or anything.

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Speaker 14: It didn't do any real serious damage from my initial inspection.

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Speaker 8: But oh yeah, jump out the back.

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Speaker 3: Of it and then got away.

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Speaker 2: Shah, there's terrifying. I'm so glad you're okay.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, Well I got got four kids now and last

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Speaker 8: knowing better. So I'm glad he didn't steal me.

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Speaker 14: A gosh, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: Well, there we go, we hit the stand in the

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Speaker 3: More calls at least, keep going, keep going.

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Speaker 1: Let's go to any and I under the hair? What's

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Speaker 2: Mate?

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Speaker 11: No one's tried to steal me, but I did. I

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Speaker 11: I featured the left side of my face. Look my

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you like no, guys, seriously, I was

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Speaker 3: Thanks thank you so much in it.

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Speaker 2: It's just coming off the back of a kidnapping.

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Speaker 3: It's not shot.

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Speaker 2: I get it. I get why people wouldn't believe him.

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Speaker 1: Do we do?

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Speaker 2: We take one walk? He's got a warm and North Canterbury.

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Speaker 1: Ohight hundred the hats what's the crazy story that people

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Speaker 1: don't believe?

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Speaker 13: So it happened with my cousin died early one morning.

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Speaker 1: Ah you, I believe you one.

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Speaker 3: Bless you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for joining the show.

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Speaker 4: Well there we go.

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Speaker 2: We had a real variety, of course, some believable, some not.

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Speaker 3: So much, involving clothes, horse.

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Speaker 15: Podcast, the Deep Pool's Pole, the Bee Pole's pole. Everybody

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Speaker 15: comes together. It's the People's polled and.

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Speaker 2: We do a people's poll every day.

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Speaker 1: We chuck it up on our Instagram story the Hats

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Speaker 1: Drive with Maddie and PJ.

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Speaker 2: You can go vote there.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to keep it really simple today. Peage so Au.

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Speaker 5: Maybe about a month ago, Ryan and I were staying

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Speaker 5: I don't know where it went, but they couldn't find that.

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Speaker 5: We couldn't find it. It's gone and I just haven't

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Speaker 3: So we have been re We've just gone back to

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Speaker 2: This is what happened to me.

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Speaker 1: I had an electric to ruthbrush, and I swear once

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Speaker 2: Oh I lost it. Then another time I've lost it.

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Speaker 5: And I love the electric, but they are expensive and

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Speaker 5: so I haven't been bothered to actually replace it yet.

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Speaker 3: So now I'm asking the question, what's better.

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Speaker 5: Do I just stick with the manual or do I

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Speaker 5: need to go and replace it and get back to

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Speaker 5: the electric.

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Speaker 1: You always do feel a bit inferior when you're on

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Speaker 1: your friends, but they're nice electric, you're manually hard, and

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Speaker 1: you're like, well, actually is the much difference? And I

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Speaker 1: dentists to advise the electric ones, but there's somebody I'm

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Speaker 1: going to go te manual.

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Speaker 3: Something kind of cute about a manual little brush.

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Speaker 5: Brush cute, something cute about it, like a movie moment

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Speaker 5: or something.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so text electric or manual? That is literally this

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Speaker 1: simple question today for our people's poll, what toothbrush are

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Speaker 1: you rolling? And we'll come back and reveal the most

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Speaker 1: common result.

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Speaker 4: Maddy and PJ. Mady and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 15: That's the People's Poll, the People's Poll. Everybody comes together,

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Speaker 15: it's the People's Poll.

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Speaker 1: Every day on the show we ask a very simple

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Speaker 1: question for our people's poll, and today we've headed to

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Speaker 1: the bathroom.

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Speaker 5: Yes, specifically the tooth brush. Do you use a manual

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Speaker 5: or an electric? It's as simple as that.

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Speaker 2: What's interesting because I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I always thought I was an exception when I did

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Speaker 1: the electric toothbrush because I felt like so many of

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Speaker 1: my friends to manual.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, I'm back onto manual.

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Speaker 3: I feel like.

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Speaker 2: It's just easier.

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Speaker 1: At the moment, I feel like my toothbrush would always

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Speaker 1: be low in battery, and I know that that's a

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Speaker 1: simple fix, but I don't know. There's just a number

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Speaker 1: of things you have to do for the admin and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, no manual.

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Speaker 5: It is so the people that have said electric have

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Speaker 5: said things like, I just don't never feel like my

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Speaker 5: teeth are actually clean if I have to use.

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Speaker 2: A manual, and yeah, it's quite good at cleaning, and.

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Speaker 5: Saying electric is kind of elite. Someone else did say,

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Speaker 5: I use half electric, half manual. It's cheaper and it

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Speaker 5: is elite.

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Speaker 1: How do you do oh, you mean just half the time.

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Speaker 1: I don't know half electric, sure, but.

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Speaker 5: Guess what the the Instagram and our text pole has

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Speaker 5: manual in front sixty five to thirty five.

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Speaker 2: Maybe well really Okay, so there you go.

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Speaker 1: We're not rejecting the new technology with iPhones, but when

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Speaker 1: it comes to electric toothbrushes, we just want to.

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Speaker 4: Maddy ANDPJ.

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Speaker 16: Mady and PJ the podcast The Heads Many and PJS

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Speaker 16: Group Therapy.

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Speaker 1: In the meantime, it is time to take a collective

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Speaker 1: deep breath, put our feet up, stop the judgment, and.

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Speaker 2: Have a listened to this week's group therapy.

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Speaker 1: Man.

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Speaker 5: People have such good thoughts and opinions on things as well.

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Speaker 5: It's so amazing to hear. So I'd love for you

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Speaker 5: to listen to this week's group therapy Dilemma. Someone has

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Speaker 5: written in and said, Hi, Madi and PJ, wondering if

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Speaker 5: you can ask your listeners for their thoughts.

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Speaker 3: On my little problem.

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Speaker 5: I've got a largish extended family with lots of aunties

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Speaker 5: and uncles and cousins dotted all around the country. Because

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Speaker 5: of the size, I'm not super close to all my cousins,

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Speaker 5: but this definitely some I have a great connection with

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Speaker 5: one of those who I'm really close with, came out

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Speaker 5: a number of years ago. Now since then, he's met

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Speaker 5: a wonderful man who he's been in a relationship with

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Speaker 5: for a while. Unfortunately, his parents, my auntie and uncle,

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Speaker 5: are very religious and they have not approved of him

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Speaker 5: coming out and having a same sex relationship.

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Speaker 4: So cut to.

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Speaker 5: Now, and I've only just found out that my cousin

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Speaker 5: has decided to elope with his partner to get married.

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Speaker 5: He's done this because his mum and dad have not approved.

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Speaker 5: But I feel really sad because that's not my opinion

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Speaker 5: at all, and I would so love to be there

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Speaker 5: to help celebrate his big day.

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Speaker 3: So now I don't know what to do.

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Speaker 5: Do I have to accept and honor his decision to

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Speaker 5: elope without any family there, or do I need to

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Speaker 5: stand firm and make sure he knows most fam members

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Speaker 5: of his family don't feel the same way his parents do.

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Speaker 5: Should I insist on attending my cousin's wedding?

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Speaker 2: There's bold, there's bold.

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Speaker 1: I would definitely say, absolutely communicate. Communicate to your cousin

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Speaker 1: that you don't feel that way, and you, you know, appreciate, respect,

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Speaker 1: completely accept the situation, and you love them, you know, unconditionally.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you can assume you you can

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Speaker 1: just come along to the alonement, you know, because maybe

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Speaker 1: that is just their individual choice.

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Speaker 7: And yeah, they put them in a pretty tricky position, yes,

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Speaker 7: except it sounds like they've made that choice to Elope,

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Speaker 7: not because you know, lots of couples Elope, and that's

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Speaker 7: their own personal decision, But it sounds like they've made

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Speaker 7: this decision purely because.

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Speaker 3: They're worried about the way that family are going to react.

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Speaker 2: What do you think.

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Speaker 5: I love the idea of being pushing, and I love

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Speaker 5: the idea of someone being ballsy enough to say this

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Speaker 5: isn't the way that most of your family feel.

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Speaker 3: And hell yeah, I want to be there to celebrate

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Speaker 3: big day.

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Speaker 5: And you know what, that might make your cousin feel

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Speaker 5: really really good about the life decisions that they've made,

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Speaker 5: you know, and the way that that they're living their

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Speaker 5: life authentically, if they know that they have the love

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Speaker 5: and the support and the backing of their family.

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Speaker 1: And I suppose if they have had that close relationship,

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Speaker 1: maybe that is a conversation that you can throw out

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Speaker 1: the earth.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's the thing about family, right, it's I would

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Speaker 5: say it would be harder to do that with a friend,

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Speaker 5: but I feel like with family, be ballsy, go up

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Speaker 5: to them and say, I want to be at your

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Speaker 5: bloody wedding.

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Speaker 1: But it's a winning and you know what it's like. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is where we need the help of New Zealand.

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Speaker 1: Oh eight hundred the Hat. So maybe you've been in

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Speaker 1: a similar situation or you've got some strong thoughts on

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Speaker 1: what this.

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Speaker 2: Person should do.

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Speaker 1: Do you think they're entitled to go and celebrate the

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Speaker 1: cousins wedding and go and join the elopement or do

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Speaker 1: you organize you just back down and sit out of

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Speaker 1: it and let it go. I'll wait one hundred the

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Speaker 1: Hats to join the show, Maddy.

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Speaker 16: And PJ, Mady and PJ, the podcast, The Many and

586
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Speaker 16: pj's group therapy.

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Speaker 1: In the meantime, it is time to hash out a

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Speaker 1: dilemma and don't forget. You can always get in touch

589
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Speaker 1: either text through four four eighty seven or register at

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Speaker 1: the hatstock croodo Inzed We've.

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Speaker 2: Got a group therapy page.

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Speaker 1: Well, you can tell us anonymously something that you're going through. There.

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Speaker 3: I'll quickly recap this week's group therapy.

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Speaker 5: Someone said, I'm super close with one of my cousins

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Speaker 5: who came out a number of years ago. Now, since then,

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Speaker 5: he's met a wonderful man who has been in a

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Speaker 5: relationship with for a while. Unfortunately, his parents, my auntie

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Speaker 5: and uncle, are really religious and they have not approved

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Speaker 5: of of him coming out and having a same sex relationship.

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Speaker 5: Cut to now, and I've only just found out that

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Speaker 5: my cousin has decided to elope with his partner to

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Speaker 5: get married because his mum and dad have not approved.

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Speaker 5: But I feel really sad because that's not my opinion

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Speaker 5: at all. So now I don't know what to do.

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Speaker 5: Do I have to accept and honor his decision to

606
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Speaker 5: alope without any family there, or do I need to

607
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Speaker 5: stand firm and make sure he knows most of his

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Speaker 5: family members don't feel the same way his parents do.

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Speaker 5: Should I insist on attending my cousin's wedding.

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Speaker 2: It's an old question.

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Speaker 1: And we're going to go to the phones now Jane

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Speaker 1: is joining us at all, right, hundred the hats Jane,

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Speaker 1: what do you think she should do?

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Speaker 6: HI insist, no, ask so you want to totally here

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Speaker 6: that you love him, that you really would like to come,

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Speaker 6: But ultimately it's a special day up to them.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, blessed especially that's written, but potentially a little bit

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Speaker 5: of a pushy person.

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Speaker 6: And look, you know that's really great.

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Speaker 12: They love their cousin and they want to be able

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Speaker 12: to support them. But Anita, let's not be a wedding.

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Speaker 3: Yes that is true.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that is true.

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Speaker 1: Someone that she text in saying, no, communicate support, don't

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Speaker 1: insist on being there. Maybe organize a family party for

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Speaker 1: a later date. It's cue just quite a good idea,

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Speaker 1: really cute idea.

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Speaker 2: Uh and Taranaki is joining us. What are your thoughts?

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Speaker 9: Hi, guys, Hey you look, I say, talk to the cousin,

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Speaker 9: say I really want to be there to support you

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Speaker 9: and show my love and respect. But give them the option.

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Speaker 9: But let them know that there are a lot of

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Speaker 9: family that love them and support them, and they are and.

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Speaker 3: Want to be there.

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Speaker 9: They are.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's beautiful.

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Speaker 2: That's great advice.

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Speaker 1: I'm just thinking you could make like a really cute

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Speaker 1: family like video and be like, hey, just want to

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Speaker 1: let you know I love you and like do like

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Speaker 1: a bigmash up, and then I love that idea, and

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Speaker 1: then maybe it's not you know, saying look, we want

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Speaker 1: to come, but just we wanted to let you know,

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Speaker 1: like and just show that support and love for them.

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Speaker 5: I do just want to read this one text out

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Speaker 5: because lots of people have said, you know, be communicative

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Speaker 5: and supportive and blah blah blah, but this one person

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Speaker 5: did text and say, stand up, support them, crash the wedding.

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 2: EMA's joining us. Oh you've got personal experience in killed her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah I do.

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Speaker 17: I eloped with my husband earlier this year.

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Speaker 3: Congratulations.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 15: Yeah.

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Speaker 17: Actually, Meddi, we got a tax made just like you're

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Speaker 17: from the same place. Oh, thank you.

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Speaker 8: Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 17: But like basically our story was my parents both passed

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Speaker 17: away when I was in my twenties, and so for me,

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Speaker 17: it was like I just didn't know how the day

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Speaker 17: was going to go, and so a loping for me

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Speaker 17: felt really comfortable and safe and meant that I could

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Speaker 17: just feel whatever feelings I was feeling on the day

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Speaker 17: and knowing I'm not having one hundred people looking at

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Speaker 17: me or anything like that. And my in laws were

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Speaker 17: a wee bit disappointed, I think, but I think at

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Speaker 17: the end of the day, it's like it's hard to

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Speaker 17: know the most big emotional, big moments how you're going

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Speaker 17: to be and I'd say they've probably put a lot

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Speaker 17: of thought into a low things. And I totally agree

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Speaker 17: with what everyone said before. It's like you've got to

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Speaker 17: show you support.

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Speaker 18: And I certainly had a.

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Speaker 17: Lot of people saying, hey, we still love to be there,

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Speaker 17: even though you know, to represent your mum and dad

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Speaker 17: and things like that. But for me it was like

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Speaker 17: I just couldn't handle the pressure of it. And so

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Speaker 17: I finally understand all good to share, but also you're

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Speaker 17: going to be mindful to you. It might be one

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Speaker 17: hundred other people going really.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly, so support, support and recognize, but also actually

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Speaker 5: respect at the end of the day that this is

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Speaker 5: the couple's decision.

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Speaker 3: Totally love that, Emma. Thank you so much for.

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Speaker 2: Adye to in on him. Thank you so much. We're

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Speaker 2: going to sort you other little hell pizza mut Jah.

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Speaker 18: Oh, thank you very much.

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Speaker 2: You're more than welcome. Have you got any dilemmas for

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Speaker 2: next week? Text them through.

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Speaker 4: Maddy and PJ.

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Speaker 16: Mady and PJ the podcast The Heads, Mady and Pj's

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Speaker 16: Whole Bull with Razine.

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Speaker 1: Here's your local hole looking a little down, dull Old

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Speaker 1: Rundown needs a little spruce up well thanks to resenting

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Speaker 1: Color Shops, and we're coming to the rescue to freshen

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Speaker 1: up your town hall.

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Speaker 2: And then of course throw a ball of that to celebrate.

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Speaker 2: This is so wholesome.

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Speaker 1: I feel like this is just all of the unseen

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Speaker 1: holes around the country are finally getting the attention that

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Speaker 1: they deserve.

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Speaker 5: Can I also give a massive shout out because this

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Speaker 5: was literally a conversation we had towards the end of

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Speaker 5: last week and within twenty four hours the team had

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Speaker 5: come together and.

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Speaker 3: Put the whole thing, the whole idea together.

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Speaker 1: It's amazing from ZN Color Shops, choos from Enzi's biggest

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Speaker 1: range of Echo Choice approved paints and if.

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Speaker 2: You've got to tower, if you've got a.

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Speaker 1: Hole in mind, register now at the hatstock Co dot

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Speaker 1: nz slash whole Ball. If you think oh, we've got

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Speaker 1: no chance, honestly chuck it in because we're open. We

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Speaker 1: could come anywhere We've got anywhere around the country. But

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Speaker 1: there is still something we need to settle and that

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Speaker 1: is a theme for the evening.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think we do.

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Speaker 5: We need we need some sense of purpose in terms

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Speaker 5: of what we should wear. The theming, the decorations, the

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Speaker 5: music we should play.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and there's nothing worse when you go into an

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Speaker 1: event and it's just quite vague address. We need to

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Speaker 1: lock this and son Indigo from fund has got in

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Speaker 1: touch with that. What do you think we should do

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Speaker 1: for a thing?

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Speaker 19: Oh my gosh, Hi, we love listening to you guys.

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Speaker 19: I'm considering a career in radio because you guys are

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Speaker 19: so funny.

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Speaker 3: Listening and we didn't even pay you didn't say this.

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Speaker 19: Yeah, So my idea is to have a Halloween theme

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Speaker 19: or like a spooky kind of creepy, gory kind of thing.

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Speaker 19: My birthdays on Halloween.

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Speaker 8: Okay, I'm kind of My parents.

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Speaker 19: Said I was a treat, not a trick.

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, it's a cute early. We can get

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Speaker 1: in before everyone else downs.

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Speaker 3: Halloween's true?

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Speaker 2: Is that true? You're calling from the hospital. Bit of

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Speaker 2: a chest in fiction?

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Speaker 19: Yeah, I had pneumonia.

742
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Speaker 3: Poor thing, and you're calling from hospital.

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Speaker 19: And better now, I'm just going to have a chest

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Speaker 19: X ray so they can kidation.

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Speaker 1: Of getting into Good luck and thank you so much,

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Speaker 1: thanks so much for reaching out. At least go to

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Speaker 1: el and Hamilton Al You've got a bit of a suggestion,

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Speaker 1: what do you reckon we should.

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Speaker 9: Do killdo team?

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Speaker 12: I was thinking black tie, op shop budget.

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Speaker 3: The love that that's good.

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Speaker 1: Appreciate that is good because everyone loves a dress up,

753
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Speaker 1: but no one likes to spend the money, like this

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Speaker 1: is one night only. We don't want to We don't

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Speaker 1: want to get ridiculous, right.

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Speaker 5: I love the idea of people going and getting like

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Speaker 5: big eighties puffy ball gowns, old school tuxedos.

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Speaker 1: Al you're in Hamilton, do you have a local hall

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Speaker 1: that could be a part of this?

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Speaker 2: Can you think of what?

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Speaker 9: Melville Hole is definitely in need of a bit of

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Speaker 9: a face.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Melville Hall is to nominate them ol brilliant.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, thank you so much for your suggestions.

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Speaker 1: We still haven't locked it in quite yet, but I

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Speaker 1: think that could be the closest so far.

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Speaker 3: I like budget.

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Speaker 1: I love that, So don't forget to read See your

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Speaker 1: town Hall at the hatstock co dot.

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Speaker 4: Is Maddy and PJ Mady and the podcast The Heads.

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Speaker 5: Sometimes the parents, You've really got to pick your moments,

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Speaker 5: like it's almost it's almost a job is knowing when

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Speaker 5: to approach them, when to ask them for something, when

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Speaker 5: to tell them something. You know, you've got to know

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Speaker 5: that the mood is right, that you're giving them at

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Speaker 5: the right time.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of much like with a partners, all about timing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, except with parents.

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Speaker 5: It's like you just you you never want a massive

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Speaker 5: blow up and you dif we don't want that disappointed

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Speaker 5: mum or dad.

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Speaker 2: Look, you know, disappointment is the worst.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: And I saw this brilliant video of a guy who

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Speaker 5: I guess thought had picked the opp tune time to

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Speaker 5: break some news to his mum. He was being sent

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Speaker 5: off on his oe and he was at the international airport,

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Speaker 5: and you know there's the point where they walk through

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Speaker 5: those big archways at the international terminal and then that's

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Speaker 5: through and they've got to go through security, and anyone

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Speaker 5: else left behind it you won't ever see them again.

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Speaker 5: So he was saying goodbye to his parents and his family,

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Speaker 5: and as he walked through the gates, he turned around

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Speaker 5: and he lifted up his arm and he showed his

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Speaker 5: mum his brand new tattoo, and then he turned to

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Speaker 5: the corner and continued on through to security. CHERI not well, peage,

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Speaker 5: not well.

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Speaker 2: Do that?

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Speaker 1: I actually that would be the most horrible thing because

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Speaker 1: I would have to follow up and go mom, mommy,

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Speaker 1: Okatie still let me. We got like, I gotta just

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Speaker 1: go and just hope for the best. In this situation,

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Speaker 1: I feel like there's no closure, no my mom's reaction,

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Speaker 1: except I get As someone who buries the head in

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Speaker 1: the sand on a regular basis, I kind of have

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Speaker 1: to appreciate the game because.

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Speaker 5: Not only are you going through security, you're getting on

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Speaker 5: a long haul flight and you're switching your phone onto flight.

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Speaker 2: Mind so you have a poor mother.

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Speaker 5: You have hours hours of a window in which your

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Speaker 5: mom can't do or say anything about this broken.

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Speaker 2: I think that's so cruel.

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Speaker 1: She would have been already so sad that her darling

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Speaker 1: boy is going overseas like that would have been hard,

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Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden boom, just double win.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 5: But my mom despise tattoos and would freak out if

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Speaker 5: I ever got a tattoo, so I can't. That would

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Speaker 5: be the only way I kind of understand it, because

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Speaker 5: I don't. I wouldn't want to suffer the consequences of

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Speaker 5: breaking the news to her that I got a tattoo.

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Speaker 3: So get on a long wall fly and fly Away.

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Speaker 2: Fly howardly McLean. Oh wait, a hundred the Hats.

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Speaker 1: Is there still something that you still haven't told your parents?

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Speaker 1: You're an adult and you haven't come clean to your

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Speaker 1: mom or your dad about something that happened. Maybe it

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Speaker 1: was a long time ago, it was in high school.

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Speaker 1: They probably wouldn't even care now, But it's kind of

829
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Speaker 1: so much time as passed that you haven't told them.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, one hundred the Hats. And I understand people

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Speaker 1: will probably want to stay anonymous, so I'll do the

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Speaker 1: old disclaimer. You can stay anonymous, but give us a call.

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Speaker 1: Waite hundred of the Hats. Is this something you still

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Speaker 1: haven't told your folks?

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Speaker 2: What is that?

836
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Speaker 4: The podcast?

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Speaker 1: What have you still not told your parents? At the

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Speaker 1: rife old age of dot dot dot? Is this something

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Speaker 1: you still need to get off your cheest?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Wite hundred the Hats. It was inspired by a story

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Speaker 1: about a guy who was hitting overseas and after he

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Speaker 1: had gone through like the what do you call that part?

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Speaker 2: They go through the.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, the departure's security gate at the international airport, that

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Speaker 5: is the moment he chose to tell his mum that

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Speaker 5: he'd gotten a brand new tattoo.

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Speaker 1: Cowardly, I say, but the hats, we are opening up

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Speaker 1: the phones, Karen, what have you still not told your parents?

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Speaker 20: So very strict parents? School was for school, nothing else.

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Speaker 20: I really wanted to go to my school ball, they

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Speaker 20: said no. I got myself addressed off trade me.

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Speaker 9: I saw a pair of.

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Speaker 20: Mum's heels and had a little Cinderella moment. I guess

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Speaker 20: had to be back home by twelve, and I had

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Speaker 20: the best mat of my life.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. And Karen, they still don't know, They.

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Speaker 20: Still don't know. This photo was on Facebook, but I'm

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Speaker 20: pretty sure I blocked.

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Speaker 2: I was going to say, what was the social media

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Speaker 2: of choice at time?

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Speaker 1: Because you could get caught out so easily these days,

863
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Speaker 1: Like would you get tagged up on Facebook?

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Speaker 2: And would you have to keep deleting the tags?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 11: Well pretty much.

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Speaker 20: Yeah, Well it's just at all times, just you know,

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Speaker 20: parents blocked.

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Speaker 3: Check What was it?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 3: What excuse did you give them? What did they think

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Speaker 3: you were doing?

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Speaker 9: Ah?

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Speaker 20: You know, hang out with the cousins.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you so much for you going to Georgina

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00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 1: and now Georgina. What have you not told your parents

877
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Speaker 1: after all these years?

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Speaker 18: Well, I am thirty eight and there is a bottle

879
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Speaker 18: of vodka in my parents like a cabinet that might

880
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Speaker 18: not actually be anymore?

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Speaker 2: Is it water?

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Speaker 3: How old do you reckon you were at the times?

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Speaker 18: I would have been like a teenager, But I honestly

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Speaker 18: I can't even remember why me. It would be me

885
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Speaker 18: and my brother, and you know, I don't even know

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00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:04,479
Speaker 18: why we.

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Speaker 9: Ended up by that situation.

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Speaker 18: But obviously my parents are big focker drinkers, because it's

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Speaker 18: still the Do.

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Speaker 2: You know what you need to do?

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Speaker 8: Though?

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00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 1: I think one day you just give them a new

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Speaker 1: bottle and go, guys, it's time to come.

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Speaker 3: Take it to your grave. Take it to your grave.

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