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Speaker 1: The Hits Drive with Medi and PJ thanks to chimis

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Speaker 1: Wee House the Real House of Fragrances on that. Hi,

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Speaker 1: it's Medi and PJ. Here for the podcast. I feel

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Speaker 1: like I just went into a script or something.

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Speaker 2: I know you did. Hi, it's Medi and PJ from

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Speaker 2: the Hits radio station. And here's the podcast.

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Speaker 1: And here is the podcast. I feel like I just

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Speaker 1: saw you on the weekends. It's like we have nat

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Speaker 1: had a break.

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Speaker 2: Can I just say Friday was crazy crazy?

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Speaker 1: I wish we could speak about some of our favorite

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Speaker 1: moments of the night. Let me witness.

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Speaker 2: Here's what I want to say. We were in the

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Speaker 2: Raglin area, right, yeah, so if you know, the regular area,

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Speaker 2: and we said to you people had things on offer

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Speaker 2: that they were offering PJ and I is that too much?

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Speaker 2: Have I said too much?

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Speaker 1: We've said too much?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 2: What I also need to clarify is that we didn't

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Speaker 2: take them.

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Speaker 1: We did not exist. No, No, it was it was

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Speaker 1: very friendly. It was very it was lovely, was so hilarious,

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Speaker 1: and we like you and I actually we're very well behaved.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, a couple of I had a couple of venos.

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Speaker 2: But you're still doing your blood sober till October.

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Speaker 1: I am doing you even got given but a rock?

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Speaker 1: You got about that?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: So one of the hall is she like the manager

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Speaker 2: of the hall.

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Speaker 1: Oh, she's just the o g like grandmother of the hall.

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Speaker 2: Really. She came around at one point with a cup

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Speaker 2: and she goes, mad, me try this, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: what is this?

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Speaker 1: And it was very Margaret, give me heads up? Tell

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Speaker 1: me it was in the content.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, well yes, we needed to know based

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Speaker 2: on previous sportscount. So she said, this is my homemade Bailey's.

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Speaker 2: So it was like a you know, like a Bailey's liqueur.

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Speaker 2: She'd made it herself, chocolate and eggs, and it was

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Speaker 2: really good, but you.

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Speaker 1: Couldn't probably have too much because it was punchy.

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Speaker 2: Was it was punchy, and also it is like it's

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Speaker 2: a creamy mixture, so it was it is it It's heavy,

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Speaker 2: but it was so good. It tasted like it tasted

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Speaker 2: like real Bailey's.

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Speaker 1: You wouldn't want to be like Tyson tolerant.

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Speaker 2: You wouldn't anyway. It was a very very fun night

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Speaker 2: a man. The people of Kamata were incredible.

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Speaker 1: What did you do when you got back home? Did

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Speaker 1: you quite weget?

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Speaker 2: I needed it? I was so exhausted. Mom and Dad

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Speaker 2: came in.

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Speaker 1: Hailey sprout out and about on a rooftop.

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Speaker 2: Yesking, I popped in on the Saturday. I popped in there,

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Speaker 2: but that was an afternoon thing. We were gone by five.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I thought jezebacking.

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Speaker 2: No God, no, we got takeaways and what did you get?

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Speaker 2: We got tie and we sat on the couch and

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Speaker 2: we watched a movie.

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Speaker 1: Weird tire used today. Were in the gorgeous place of

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Speaker 1: Marti and Brown, very cute spots there. And I got

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Speaker 1: a ring dang. I got a duck ring dang. I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't usually go duck, but this was delicious, the delicious.

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Speaker 2: I love a ren Dang, do you?

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Speaker 1: It's quite like a flavors.

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Speaker 2: I've got a really good ren Dang recipe. Actually, if

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Speaker 2: you want it, I think I've done a.

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Speaker 1: Beef hang on? Was it a ren Dang or was

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Speaker 1: it a Pang?

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Speaker 2: Reveting podcast classic?

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Speaker 4: Though?

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Speaker 1: Are we surprised?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Me and p are talking about food.

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Speaker 1: It might have been a but I do I've made them. Okay,

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Speaker 1: shut up, Paja stop enough food enough? What else are

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Speaker 1: we going to talk about? We're on holiday next week,

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Speaker 1: you're going to Australia.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to Australia. I'm going to go and see

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Speaker 2: my sister in Sydney and then we're going to Laru

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Speaker 2: here is rock for a few days. This is bucket

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Speaker 2: list stuff.

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Speaker 1: You're going to get up really early every day and

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Speaker 1: I think.

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Speaker 2: We're going to have to have sunset sunrise.

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Speaker 5: The walks they're called walks, and culturally you can't climb

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Speaker 5: it anymore that they used to used to be able to,

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Speaker 5: but they don't let you do that anymore for obvious reasons.

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Speaker 1: But you'll be able to walk.

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Speaker 2: You can walk around it, and yeah, I'm so looking

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Speaker 2: forward to that.

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Speaker 1: Amazing.

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Speaker 2: I'll fill you in on how that all goes, because yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm really looking forward to it. What are you doing?

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Speaker 1: I am having some wholesome time with my family for

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Speaker 1: christ Church, and then I'm also going to catch up

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Speaker 1: with my crazy cooky friend Caitlin while I'm there.

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Speaker 2: Caitlyn, I know Caitlin. She is crazy with her who's

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Speaker 2: got a boy Can you see me a photo of

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Speaker 2: said boyfriend, because I've heard.

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Speaker 1: He looks like my boyfriend?

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Speaker 2: Really?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, in fact, your husband told her that he looks

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Speaker 1: like Beja, Wow, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Had you not put that together before?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: I had, No, I had similar hair TETs, both from

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Speaker 1: Actually I'm saying too much, she's gonna.

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Speaker 2: Is that kind of weird? Are you like, Oh, are

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Speaker 2: you into my husband?

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Speaker 1: Nah? I take it as a I'm like, I get it, girl,

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Speaker 1: I get it.

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Speaker 3: I get it.

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Speaker 1: Good Dayste It's not Actually, I've just said too much.

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Speaker 2: It's not official.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, nice guy has been met, which is lovely.

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Speaker 2: Hey, we're going to wrap things up. Yes.

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Speaker 1: Coming up on the podcast, Beja, speaking of decided to

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Speaker 1: bring some content to the show. He hasn't been on

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Speaker 1: in a while, and yeah, it wasn't good for his ego.

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Speaker 2: No, it was so good though, and we wanted to

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Speaker 2: know when did you put your foot in it? I

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Speaker 2: made a crucial era at the Hallball, so we took

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Speaker 2: your calls on that.

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Speaker 1: And also when did you slowly morphined your parents? All

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Speaker 1: of that and or coming up on the podcast Enjoy It.

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Speaker 3: Medi and PJ.

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Speaker 6: The podcast Medi and Pj's Whole Ball with Raisine.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, Friday Night was iconic. It was so much fun.

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Speaker 1: If you missed what was happening, we decided to throw

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Speaker 1: our very first hall ball. We got so many nominations

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Speaker 1: at the hit Stock Co insured over a couple of

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Speaker 1: weeks and tam matera hall not far from Raglan, ended

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Speaker 1: up being the lucky winner. And all thanks to Razent

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Speaker 1: Color Shops. We're doing a big, little fancy do up

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Speaker 1: of the hall, get a nice, a nice lock of paint,

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Speaker 1: which the community was very, very pumped about. And then

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Speaker 1: on Friday night we threw a massive party. Did not disappoint.

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Speaker 2: I would love if anyone from Tamata, anyone that was

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Speaker 2: at the hall, if they listening right now, please teach

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Speaker 2: us through for for eight seven. How are you feeling today?

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Speaker 1: How did you hold up?

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Speaker 2: How did you hold out? Because boy, but I reckon

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Speaker 2: By eight o'clock. I looked around and went, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: it's on. It is on.

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Speaker 1: It was honestly, like, you know, mid party, I think

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Speaker 1: you and I just looked at each other and we're like,

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Speaker 1: this is what it's all about. Like the community just

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Speaker 1: came together and even talking to some of like the

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Speaker 1: the wiser ones of the community, they were really emotional

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Speaker 1: because they've seen the whole grow through so much and

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Speaker 1: they were like it was so special to see the

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Speaker 2: We we crowned a prom king and a prom queen. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: got them to dance on the dance wad of Robbie

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Speaker 2: William's Angels. The band were amazing.

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Speaker 1: They were blear, blear from the hat Tea Works and

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Speaker 1: the White Cuttle. Their band is amazing, incredible. So you know, honestly,

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Speaker 1: have to do it again, whether we make it. Maybe

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Speaker 1: not a buy, and you're that is quite a lot.

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Speaker 1: Maybe an annually, definitely an annual thing. If you've got

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Speaker 1: But we did have a couple of there were a

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Speaker 1: couple of movements, No, not we this is on you, McClain.

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Speaker 1: You had a couple of foot and mouth moments. And

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Speaker 1: I truly relish and joy when these moments.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, one in particular where I was were we just

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Speaker 2: But there was one guy in particular that I was

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Speaker 2: having a conversation with. We were giving along famously, and

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Speaker 2: So I just said to him, I need I said,

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Speaker 1: See, I would have to disagree with you. I don't

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Speaker 1: think at that moment that you need to pipe up.

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Speaker 1: I think you saif it's a good friend of yours.

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Speaker 1: You literally met this guy a second to go, I

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Speaker 1: don't I think you're out of line.

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Speaker 2: I thought I thought I was doing a favor because

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Speaker 2: I thought he doesn't want to go around with fluff

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Speaker 1: Do you know what welcome to country loving this. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: every second piece of clothing that my husband has has

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Speaker 1: holes in it. It's just farm life, man.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what I've realized though, because as we

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Speaker 2: you witnessed it, peage.

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Speaker 1: I did. I wanted to crawl in a hole and die.

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Speaker 2: What we've realized today is this is not the first

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Speaker 2: I've said something to someone and absolutely put my foot

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Speaker 2: in it.

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Speaker 1: We can't actually mention quite a few of them. It's

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Speaker 1: quite offensive, not deliberately eventsive.

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Speaker 2: I don't mean to, but I just keep putting my

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I'll wait one hundred of the hats. Let's

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Speaker 1: kick the show off with sharing in Maddie's moment, or

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Speaker 1: you can text four for eighty seven. When did you

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Speaker 1: just put your foot in it? Maybe it was the

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Speaker 1: classic moment of oh, hey, you just got a little

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Speaker 1: bit of chocolate there just yeah, just on the side

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Speaker 1: a mole. I'm pretty sure I've done that before. It's okay,

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Speaker 1: we're all human, We're feating it from time to time.

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Speaker 2: dragon's den, sharp tank style basically, because you've come come

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Speaker 2: to the table with an idea, which I don't know you.

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Speaker 2: I haven't heard the idea yet.

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Speaker 11: Whoa, it's sort of a bad story. It's it's not

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Speaker 11: that I come up with the idea. That's polygoes for

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Speaker 11: the show.

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Speaker 2: What can I do?

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Speaker 4: What can we do?

449
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Speaker 11: What can make the show good?

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Speaker 2: Hey?

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Speaker 1: Can sound like?

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Speaker 2: Can I just can I just stop you for a second? Flawless?

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Speaker 2: Pj impersonal flawless if you listen?

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Speaker 1: Okay, focus, what is this groundbreaking idea that you think

455
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Speaker 1: we should bring to the show.

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Speaker 11: Oh yeah, I had a bit of a or was

457
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Speaker 11: a maid of mine. He was when on a like

458
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Speaker 11: you know, went out with this bird and they never

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Speaker 11: like touch base with her. Again, And I was sitting

460
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Speaker 11: there thinking, Oh, maybe there's something there in the show,

461
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Speaker 11: like maybe Polly could like wring the bird up and

462
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Speaker 11: figure out what was wrong with them or what was

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Speaker 11: wrong with the date that he could like fix. Right,

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Speaker 11: I thought, Oh, there could be something here, like you know,

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Speaker 11: when people don't as you are, Yeah, right, So like.

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Speaker 1: When people have been ghosted after going on a date, you.

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Speaker 11: May yeah that's the one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so we are Basically we would go in

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Speaker 2: and we would try and ascertain what went wrong so

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Speaker 2: that this person can get a little bit of like

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Speaker 2: feedback for the next time they go on a date.

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Speaker 11: Yeah that's the one, or even try and jack up

473
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Speaker 11: another date and see, you know, see if you can

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Speaker 11: play a bit of matchmaking.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we can get so get feedback from the

476
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Speaker 2: bad date and then set them up with a new

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Speaker 2: date to see if they can rectify the situation.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, if they're interested or whatever.

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Speaker 2: Oft And often our segments come with come with names,

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Speaker 2: you know, like we've got finished me off for the

481
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Speaker 2: quote game with page, We've got a battle of the hits?

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Speaker 2: Do you have a do you have a name for

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Speaker 2: the segment?

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Speaker 1: Catchy good, catchy?

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Speaker 2: Name.

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Speaker 11: It's about date.

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Speaker 2: We don't have a date.

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Speaker 11: Actually had one mistake?

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Speaker 2: Oh I love.

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Speaker 8: I like that.

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Speaker 11: Date something right?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, something or mistake?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Well be Jay, where is she Gonna put

494
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Speaker 1: your idea to the people of New Zealand now and

495
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Speaker 1: see what they think about your content idea. So I

496
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Speaker 1: know you like to grill me after a radio show.

497
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Speaker 1: Now we're going to turn it around on you and

498
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Speaker 1: see what the people who are listening think of Date

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Speaker 1: or Mistake.

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Speaker 11: People love me, they love it.

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Speaker 2: Cocky.

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Speaker 1: All right, babe, thanks so much for joining the show.

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Speaker 11: All right, love you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So wait and now, oh wait, hundred the hats.

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Speaker 1: Do we think BJ's content idea Date or Mistake is

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Speaker 1: going to fly on the show?

507
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Speaker 8: Do we like it?

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Speaker 1: Maybe give it a rating out of ten? Oh wait,

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Speaker 1: hundred the hats. We want your honest feedback.

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Speaker 3: Mady, J, Mady and PJ. The podcast done.

511
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Speaker 1: But look, my husband BJ, he's a farmer by day,

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Speaker 1: radio content extraordinari by night. Apparently we've just had him

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Speaker 1: on the phone pitching what he believes is a brilliant

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Speaker 1: idea for the show called Date or Mistake.

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Speaker 2: So the way I understand it from His explanation was

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Speaker 2: that people would come to us and say I went

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Speaker 2: on a date or I went on a couple of dates,

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Speaker 2: and then they got ghosted or even heard from the

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Speaker 2: person again. So I'm interested to know what went wrong

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Speaker 2: with the dates. So you and ipage would be tasked

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Speaker 2: with calling that person to find out what went wrong?

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Speaker 2: Why wasn't there a second date?

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Speaker 1: Quite good on other half period and awkward.

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Speaker 2: For the person that did the ghosting as well. That

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Speaker 2: was just terrible. I don't want to reliverse.

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Speaker 1: I ever knew that BJ was into dating content.

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Speaker 2: We are here, we are He's a romantic heart page.

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Speaker 1: We got you to weigh in on the Hertz You

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Speaker 1: can text through four four eight seven. Does date or

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Speaker 1: Missdake you have a future on air? Nikki? What are

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Speaker 1: your thoughts?

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Speaker 2: I actually really like it, Okay, so you'd listen to

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Speaker 2: the segment, Nikki, if we did it.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I think, like, I'm not in the dating scene anymore.

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Speaker 10: It's been about nine years and I would hate to.

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Speaker 8: Have to go back into it.

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Speaker 10: And so I think if I think back when things

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Speaker 10: like that happen, you kind of left, well, what the

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Speaker 10: heck and a little bit of help, you know, I'm

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Speaker 10: sure is needed more now than it was even ten

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Speaker 10: years ago.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: His extension, Nicky, was that we then send the person

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Speaker 2: on another date to try and rectify the situation. Do

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Speaker 2: you like that as an extension of the segment.

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Speaker 10: Well, that could be a bit awkward, I think on

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Speaker 10: the on the feedback, yes, true.

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Speaker 1: True, Okay, Thanky, look really appreciate your feedback. I think

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Speaker 1: I was having to be resistance so I could bring

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Speaker 1: the BJ's ego down to earth. This is not going

551
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Speaker 1: to help. Jesse is also weighing in, what are your

552
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Speaker 1: thoughts on date or mistake?

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Speaker 9: Oh hey, guys, hey, I'm a bit fifty to fifty

554
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Speaker 9: on it as well. On one hand, I'm all for

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Speaker 9: I'm all for self improvement, so it'd be nice to know,

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Speaker 9: you know, why the date went wrong, what you could

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Speaker 9: do better on the next one with a different person.

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Speaker 9: But in terms of going for a second date, you know,

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Speaker 9: you're not really entitled to why they don't want to

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Speaker 9: go on a date with you again. So yeah, fifty

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Speaker 9: fifty then.

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Speaker 1: Gets a better evasive. The curiosity is there that it

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Speaker 1: could just push the boundaries a bit.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, well, I mean it's a it's a bit of

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Speaker 9: pressure to sort of pull someone up, put them up

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Speaker 9: about what went wrong, and then try and push them

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Speaker 9: to go for a second one.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 2: No, I think his idea was to send them on

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Speaker 2: a new date, wasn't it?

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Speaker 1: Or was it to go on this?

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Speaker 10: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I think so.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it was to set them up with

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Speaker 2: someone new. But take on the feedback from the from

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Speaker 2: the original caller. Does that make sense, Gesse?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, So if it's a new person, they can take

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Speaker 9: on board what they've learned exactly exactly and try and

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Speaker 9: try and win the next person over.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: And I think we're winning Gesse over the more detail.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's on board. I'll tell you what the text machine,

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Speaker 2: yes BJ. Someone said another one best idea the show's

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Speaker 2: head since medics in to field.

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Speaker 1: I love those on pro segment. But if I could

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Speaker 1: have my five cents of naming it post.

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Speaker 2: Ghost, that's good.

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Speaker 1: That's good, very good. It's wedding so far, let's wrapping

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Speaker 1: up with Mark one hundred hats. Are you a fan

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Speaker 1: of date or mistake?

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Speaker 12: I think it's a fantastic idea.

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Speaker 1: Okay, talk us through it.

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Speaker 10: Purely love.

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Speaker 12: I'm a gay fellow myself and I've been stuck Kevin

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Speaker 12: to you grinder for about thirteen years.

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Speaker 9: Finally met a fella, so I'm.

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Speaker 12: Not on there anymore. Look, congrats, that that amounts that

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Speaker 12: I have been ghosted has absolutely sucked. And it's not

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Speaker 12: so much I'm wanting to know necessarily why. It's more

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Speaker 12: educating the e head at the other end that's done

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Speaker 12: it to the shock and fright that they're going to

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Speaker 12: get answering the phone might actually sort of teach them

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Speaker 12: to maybe not do it to the next smart anology

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Speaker 12: makes it so easy to say to the no, I'm

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Speaker 12: not not keen or whatever. You can hide behind the

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Speaker 12: keyboard and you know, I think just try and ski

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Speaker 12: at the person at the other end.

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Speaker 1: Look, that is that is very thorough feedback.

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Speaker 10: Mark.

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Speaker 1: Maybe we are going to have to bring date or

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Speaker 1: mistake to lone.

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Speaker 2: We'll work on it.

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Speaker 11: Definite podcast.

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Speaker 2: I got to hang out with my beautiful parents over

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Speaker 2: the weekend.

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Speaker 1: Peage Tracy McClain, how's she going?

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Speaker 2: Sold of the Earth is Trace? We love Trace.

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Speaker 1: I really want to make Tracy I feel like we

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Speaker 1: get along.

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Speaker 2: You actually would, and it would be yeah, you two

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Speaker 2: would be dangerous together. But that great mum and Dad

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Speaker 2: are so good. They had been off on an overseas adventure,

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Speaker 2: of course, so that they flew back in on Saturday,

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Speaker 2: and I picked them uprom the airport because they had

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Speaker 2: a bit of time to kill in between the international

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Speaker 2: flight arriving in their domestic flight to get home to

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Speaker 2: Queenstown leaving, so they had maybe five hours. So I said,

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Speaker 2: I'll come pick you up and we'll you know, we'll

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Speaker 2: go up for lunch and hang out and enjoy enjoy

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Speaker 2: each other's company. So we did that, and then I

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Speaker 2: dropped him off at the airport and then I drove

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Speaker 2: home and when I got home, I looked into the

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Speaker 2: back seat of my car where Mum had been sitting. Now,

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Speaker 2: do you remember a story that I told you recently

635
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Speaker 2: about Mum. When Ryan dropped her off at the airport

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Speaker 2: to go to the.

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Speaker 1: Holiday, she left her mobile phone in the car.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and Ryan had to frantically put it in an

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Speaker 2: uber to get it to the airport so that the

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Speaker 2: mum could have it for her overseas holiday. So I

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Speaker 2: get home, I look in the back seat. It's not

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Speaker 2: the mobile phone, but she has left her sunglasses in

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Speaker 2: the back of.

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Speaker 1: My cau trae she still thinks she's on European time. Yes, brain, no, no,

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Speaker 1: no no.

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Speaker 2: This is a recurring theme with my mother. Bless her,

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Speaker 2: we love her, but she is one of the most

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Speaker 2: forgetful people when it comes to items in the world.

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Speaker 2: I cannot tell you the amount of peers of sunglasses

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Speaker 2: she has lost over the years. Wallet she's left behind

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Speaker 2: foe obviously another culprit. She constantly leaves things behind.

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Speaker 1: Hang on is this throwing stones from glasshouses? Matthew McClay, Well,

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Speaker 1: this is.

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Speaker 2: The thing, because I am quit to throw shade at

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Speaker 2: my mum for leaving things behind. But then Sunday comes along.

656
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Speaker 2: I have run club in the morning and I go

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Speaker 2: along to the run club.

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Speaker 1: My god, do you run?

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Speaker 6: I do?

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Speaker 2: I know, I don't like to talk about it. You'll

661
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Speaker 2: never hear me ever mention running or run club or anything.

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Speaker 2: I never talk about that. When I went along to

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Speaker 2: run club, and afterwards, after we'd finished the run, we

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Speaker 2: always often go to a cafe nearby for a coffee.

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Speaker 2: And I leave the cafe and I get my car

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Speaker 2: and I'm driving home and I go, oh god, I

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Speaker 2: left my drink bottle at the cafe. And this is

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Speaker 2: not the first, not the second, the third time I

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Speaker 2: has always had to come to the rescue and grab that.

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Speaker 2: I've had to frantically messageame cafe. Well different spots, like

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Speaker 2: sometimes I've left it we would finish the run, I've

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Speaker 2: left it at the cafe, I've left it by my car.

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Speaker 2: But three times I've left my drink bottle behind.

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Speaker 1: You need a little velcrow pouch or something just to

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Speaker 1: keep it on your adultar.

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Speaker 2: So I had to send a message to the group

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Speaker 2: ten and say, can someone please grab my water bottle?

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Speaker 2: And then I got a lot of crape in the

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Speaker 2: in the message because of course it is not the

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Speaker 2: first time this has happened. And I had that realization

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Speaker 2: that light bulb moment went off and I went I

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Speaker 2: am turning into my mother.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, they say it when you're growing up and you're

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Speaker 1: like yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, But I swear we all

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Speaker 1: morph into appearance. I am basically a clone of my mother.

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Speaker 2: Oh you are like so much.

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Speaker 6: So.

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Speaker 1: Our mannerisms are so similar. We are like we can't

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Speaker 1: leave the house without going back and freaking out that

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Speaker 1: we've left the iron or.

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Speaker 2: The you spur each other on.

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Speaker 1: We do. Do you know we've even got matching moles

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Speaker 1: on our stomachs and a scar on our face, like

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Speaker 1: Mum and I are weirdly u ketty similar. That's freaky.

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Speaker 2: God, you'll be looking for some woo woo moment.

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Speaker 1: No, no, but I do think a lot of people

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Speaker 1: do blend into their appearance. So maybe we asked the question,

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Speaker 1: at what stage did you know you were turning into

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Speaker 1: your folks? Maybe it was your mum, maybe it was

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Speaker 1: your dad.

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Speaker 2: Yes, did you have that light bulb moment where you

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Speaker 2: did something or said something and all of a sudden

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Speaker 2: we went, oh my god, I turning my mother?

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Speaker 3: Mary and Mary and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 1: We're asking the question, when did you realize you were

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Speaker 1: blending into your parents? I just thought of another one

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Speaker 1: that Mum and I do. Like Mom and I, I've

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Speaker 1: realized we both talk. We just both talk at each

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Speaker 1: other if we don't listen. And so we go on

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Speaker 1: this conversation where we're both just talking almost to us.

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Speaker 2: You're just monologuing to each other.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, pretty much, And we just egg each other on,

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Speaker 1: and like we are literally having our own conversation.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 2: The short fus that I have Yes, that comes from

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Speaker 2: my father does absolutely and he will be the first

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Speaker 2: to admit it as well. There's an incident in our

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Speaker 2: famous incident in our family called the Heineken moment were

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Speaker 2: Dad loss is cool moment we still talk about. It

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Speaker 2: literally happened in two thousand and three. This happened. It

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Speaker 2: was such a long story, but we were at a

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Speaker 2: hotel trying to get a beer. They'd given us vouchers

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Speaker 2: for like a house beer. Dad wanted a Heineken. They said,

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Speaker 2: the Heineken's not a house beer, and Dad said, but

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Speaker 2: I want a Heineken is all I feel like. And

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Speaker 2: then the person said, I'm sorry that we can't accept

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Speaker 2: that in the voucher. And it turned into a bit

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Speaker 2: of a moment. And now anytime I lose my call,

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Speaker 2: and oh.

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Speaker 1: My god, that makes so much sense. Okay, Tammy and

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Speaker 1: Hamilton's joining us. Tammy, when was the moment you realize

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Speaker 1: you were blending into your folks?

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Speaker 4: I realized I was turning into my mother when I

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Speaker 4: heard my own mother come out of my mouth and

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Speaker 4: I said, oh, I just had just like my mother,

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Speaker 4: and my poddlers looked me, Yeah, you almost sound like Nana.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I've actually found this lately because my

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Speaker 1: grandmother looked after me a lot when I grew up,

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Speaker 1: and she'd always go, come on, come on, Polly, come on.

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Speaker 1: And now I feel like that's all I'm saying to Charlie,

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Speaker 1: I go come on, come on.

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Speaker 2: Was there a specific phrase you were saying, tammy or

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Speaker 2: is it just the tone of voice?

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Speaker 4: Oh, the tone of voice. And whenever we talked to

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Speaker 4: animals or small soldier, we have the exact same tone.

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Speaker 1: My grandmother used to take me faury hunting, and now

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Speaker 1: I just think that was the most brilliant distraction and

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Speaker 1: like we'd go faury hunting for hours. She had me hooked,

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Speaker 1: hook line and sinker.

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Speaker 2: Utilize that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think Charlie and I might start growing fury hunting.

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Speaker 6: So Mary and Mary and PJ the podcast that Pole's Poll.

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Speaker 3: Everybody comes together.

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Speaker 1: It's the People's Poll, and it's just gone thirteen to

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Speaker 1: six and it's time for our daily People's Poll. Don't

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Speaker 1: forget we do. Put this up on our Instagram page,

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Speaker 1: the Hit Drive with Maddie and PJ, where you can

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Speaker 1: weigh in with today's topic. Now we have had a

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Speaker 1: bit of a theme running throughout the show to celebrate

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Speaker 1: thirty years of Friends gracing our screens. Today's poll is

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Speaker 1: inspired by the show.

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Speaker 2: It's inspired by a specific episode of the show when

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Speaker 2: Phoebe gifts Monica and Rachel some of her artwork. Now,

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Speaker 2: Phoebe is if anyone who knows Friends is a very kooky,

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Speaker 2: crazy character.

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Speaker 1: Question, if you were to compare me to a friend's character,

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Speaker 1: who would you call me?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm Rachel, No, you're Phoebe. You are absolutely Phoebe.

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Speaker 2: Do you who would you say?

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Speaker 4: I was am oh.

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Speaker 1: Oh, Ross, Ross Lesh Joey.

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Speaker 2: I think I might be a bit of Ross. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I think.

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Speaker 1: A bit of Monica with the you know, not neurotic. No,

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Speaker 1: you're not neurotic, but.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say you've got quite a bit of

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Speaker 2: Monica you as well.

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Speaker 1: She's my favorite.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, Phoebe gifts Monica and Rachel some of her artwork,

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Speaker 2: and the artwork is like god awful, And so we

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Speaker 2: wanted to know today, if someone gifts you something that

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Speaker 2: you really don't like, are you obligated to put it

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Speaker 2: up in your house, Whether it's artwork, whether it's a

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Speaker 2: piece of like a sculpture, whether it's a drawing, whatever

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Speaker 2: it might be. Are you obligated to display the gift

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Speaker 2: if you don't like it?

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Speaker 1: That is so good. I'd say, no, you're not. But

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Speaker 1: I but it's very easy to feel like you have to,

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Speaker 1: particularly when said person comes to your house regally.

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Speaker 2: I think that's that. I think that's the clincher. How

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Speaker 2: often are these people coming around to your house? Because

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Speaker 2: if it's your if it's your parents, or your family,

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Speaker 2: or your best friend, and they're coming around all the time,

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Speaker 2: inevitably they're going to say, hey, where's the where's the

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Speaker 2: class dolphin sculpture that I gave you?

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Speaker 1: I recently took some art that we were given to

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Speaker 1: the old shots, and I'm so I'm so nervous that

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Speaker 1: it may have been discovered.

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Speaker 2: Well, we would laugh, it would be so covered. That's

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Speaker 2: a small town.

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Speaker 1: I love it a small town.

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Speaker 2: It's true. Well, we'd love for you to weigh in

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Speaker 2: on your thoughts. You can teach us through to Fourth

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Speaker 2: Rights even or head over to our Instagram page that

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Speaker 2: hits Drive with Many and PJ.

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Speaker 3: And Wayne Many and PJ. The podcast.

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Speaker 6: That the People's Poll, the People's Pole, everybody comes together.

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Speaker 3: It's the people's poll.

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Speaker 1: Kay. So we've been celebrating Friends as Susy at the

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Speaker 1: anniversary throughout the shot this afternoon and well, the two

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Speaker 1: biggest Friends geeks that you'll meet, Producer Sarah and many

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Speaker 1: have just been putting the hands together so excited to

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Speaker 1: come up with content for the show today. So we

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Speaker 1: got inspired by a certain scene in Friends.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, in one of the episodes, Phoebe gifts Monica and

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Speaker 2: Rachel her artwork and it's truly awful. It's like it's

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Speaker 2: basically she's created these women that are kind of emerging

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Speaker 2: from the canvas the horrible, horrible, horrible, And but the

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Speaker 2: women Monica and Rachel feel obligated to hang this artwork,

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Speaker 2: of course because Phoebe's gifted to them, even though they.

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Speaker 1: Have Yeah, and especially because they live together, right.

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Speaker 2: So exactly, you can't really escape, no, and they're always

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Speaker 2: around at each other's house, so you can't escape. You

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Speaker 2: have to put it somewhere.

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Speaker 1: So it has got us asking the question, if you

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Speaker 1: were given art that you don't like, are you obligated

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Speaker 1: to put it on the wall? Are you obligated to

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Speaker 1: display it, whether it's some art or you know, some

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Speaker 1: nice photo that's been part together, so you have to

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Speaker 1: put it up.

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Speaker 2: Someone steps into four for eighty seven and said, at

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Speaker 2: the end of the day, it doesn't matter if you

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Speaker 2: don't like it. What's important is you love the person

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Speaker 2: who gave it to you. If you don't like the person,

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Speaker 2: that's an easy call. Throw it away.

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Speaker 1: Oh that is it's actually an interesting point.

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Speaker 2: So if you're not, if you're not a big fan,

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Speaker 2: check it out. If you love the person, hang it up.

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Speaker 1: I feel fair. I actually have been given some lovely

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Speaker 1: things over time, and I probably should have put them

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Speaker 1: more up on the wall with pride, but they do

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Speaker 1: not just going in chrawes and actually no, I'm just

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Speaker 1: re evaluating myself as a person.

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Speaker 2: Ryan made a really Ryan made a call very early

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Speaker 2: on when we started having thesis in the Fuse. He

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Speaker 2: said that the artwork is absolutely not going up on

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Speaker 2: our wall. It's not going out. We're going to make

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Speaker 2: a stand.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what are the people saying? What is the

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Speaker 1: official percentage of verdicts.

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Speaker 2: Eighty one percent of people said no, you do not

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Speaker 2: have to display a gift from given to you by

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Speaker 2: a friend if you don't like it. Nineteen percent said yes, you.

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Speaker 1: Should okay okay, So that's clear. We won the majority

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Speaker 1: of absolutely don't. Don't it makes me don't slightly be there.

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Speaker 3: Mary and PJ, Maddy and PJ. The podcast The Heads