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Speaker 1: From the Zidium podcast network.

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Speaker 2: It's Fleachborn and Hayley's a little bit of pod. Welcome

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Speaker 2: to a little bit of pod.

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Speaker 1: Before I start, I am aware that piles as in

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Speaker 1: like creating mountains small mini mountains. Yeah, is a symptom

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Speaker 1: of ADHD? Is it piles ADHD? Piles?

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Speaker 2: I had no idea.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's when you feel you know that I can

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Speaker 1: get overwhelmed quite easily, and it's when you get feel

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Speaker 1: a bit overwhelmed, and so you create a pile, okay,

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Speaker 1: and then you create from that pile mini piles. Okay.

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Speaker 1: And this is a situation I've got myself in.

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Speaker 2: But where are you putting all this stuff in a pile?

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Speaker 2: Is it meant to be put away? Or I don't understand?

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Speaker 1: Okay, here's the situation I've created for myself. The house

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Speaker 1: was a little bit of a mess. I've had guests staying,

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Speaker 1: so it's like, you know, things are somewhat disheveled. Yep,

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Speaker 1: I will say this guest who stayed, Yeah, would slinger's

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Speaker 1: towel over my shower glands?

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, you've got rail the warm as well towel rails.

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Speaker 1: You'd call them almost heated towel. Yeah, wow, last year

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Speaker 1: and pick up on the fact that I would move

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Speaker 1: it every time and put it on the towel. Right.

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Speaker 2: So I had a friend who was staying with someone

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Speaker 2: in LA and they put the guy's bath mat back wrong,

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Speaker 2: and it just became this whole thing. He hated it,

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Speaker 2: and then it just caused the rip between you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it's funny.

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Speaker 2: It's like, dude, it's a fucking baf mat. Like, it

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Speaker 2: doesn't matter when I.

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Speaker 1: Stay at yours. I'll either you've in your spear room.

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Speaker 1: You've got kind of a ladder, so sometimes I'll hang

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Speaker 1: mine there because your towels will look the same. And

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Speaker 1: I don't want you wiping your face with my towel

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Speaker 1: because I put that.

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Speaker 2: Because I don't want you that. And then people would

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Speaker 2: say we've hopped up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you'd be like, no, I hoked up with

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Speaker 1: your towel, or you've got a hook on the back

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Speaker 1: of your door. I separate our towels, but I don't

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Speaker 1: sling it anyway. Sorry.

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Speaker 2: Imagine if fight just came out and it was slinged

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Speaker 2: over a chair or something like we on some furniture, osk.

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Speaker 1: You anyway, Look, we can't train these people. Why am

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Speaker 1: I talking about this? So I had guests staying, so

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Speaker 1: the house is just a bit disarrayed. I threw that

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Speaker 1: party over the weekend and I've I've just been busy.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, I need to sort this out.

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Speaker 1: And one of which was I created a mountain of

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Speaker 1: clothes from a wardrobe because I had a mini meltdown

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Speaker 1: on what to wear one night, and so I tore

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Speaker 1: the wardrobe apart. And so then what I did was

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Speaker 1: the wardrobe was overwhelming because it's a small space. So

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Speaker 1: I took everything out of the wardrobe that was on

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Speaker 1: the floor and I dumped it in the lounge and

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Speaker 1: a pile.

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Speaker 2: And then I find while.

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Speaker 1: I've created this pile, what I'll do is I'll actually

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Speaker 1: empty all drawers and baskets from my wardrobe and I'll

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Speaker 1: empty those onto the pile. So I've made a bigger pile.

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Speaker 1: And then I was like, what I'll do is I'll

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Speaker 1: go through the pile and I'll compartmentalize what what not? Compartmentalize, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: put into smaller piles, keep sell garage off season, you

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Speaker 1: know that kind of stuff. So now I've created five piles, right,

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Speaker 1: and even more mess, more mess, because now they've got

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Speaker 1: a spread to get distance between the piles. And then

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Speaker 1: I was like, what I'll do is instead of making

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Speaker 1: the piles and take them to the wardrobe, I'll bring

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Speaker 1: the wardrobe to the pile. So I pulled out all

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Speaker 1: the drawers from my dressers and put those all along

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Speaker 1: the couch, and then I brought out eight baskets that

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Speaker 1: I have in my cupboards and I brought those all out.

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Speaker 1: And then last night I was like, board.

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Speaker 2: Now, and so your lounge is like a bomb site.

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Speaker 1: A bomb site, and the wardrobe is still a bomb

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Speaker 1: site because that looks like it's been ripped apart and

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Speaker 1: nothing else has been done. And I tonight, I'm off,

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Speaker 1: I'm going away this weekend. Yeah, so tonight, and I've

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Speaker 1: got someone house sitting. Yeah, so tonight, I have two

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Speaker 1: hours in which to fix this, and I've just lined

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Speaker 1: up a date.

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Speaker 2: But I think I think that's good because sometimes you

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Speaker 2: need that time. I've only got an hour to clean,

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Speaker 2: and you can like sometimes it will take me hours

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Speaker 2: to claim my apartment because I get distracted and then

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Speaker 2: you let you do something. Then before you know, you're

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Speaker 2: watching some videos online or.

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Speaker 1: Do you do that thing when you're like, I'll just

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Speaker 1: give the bar card a dust and you're like, okay,

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Speaker 1: now I'm actually going to dismantle it, and then you

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Speaker 1: need to wipe right, and then you're like I wanted

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Speaker 1: to clean the house, and now I just have shiny

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Speaker 1: liquor bottles.

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Speaker 2: Whereas when you're like, oh my god, people are coming

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Speaker 2: around in an hour, fuck, and you just go you

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Speaker 2: get it done.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Well my other option is to move the

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Speaker 1: piles back into one big pile, thus undoing all the

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Speaker 1: work I've done, and and just putting that on the

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Speaker 1: spear bead and shutting the door.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because that does sound like it needs to

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Speaker 2: be organized. Yeah, And if you don't have the time,

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Speaker 2: just do that tonight or.

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Speaker 1: Just donate at all. And now there is design of

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Speaker 1: clothing in there that I love.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds like you're not wearing a lot of

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Speaker 2: the clothes that you buy. I'll just say it.

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Speaker 1: Does, doesn't it. Just the piles, man, I've got piles,

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Speaker 1: I've got piles. Bad