1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: The Hats Drive with Meddi and PJ. Thanks to Chemist 2 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 1: were House The Real House of Fragrances Baby in Deer, Hello, 3 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:12,799 Speaker 1: welcome to the podcast. 4 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 2: I cannot do accent. 5 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:21,479 Speaker 1: Yes you can do baby at India Space Skittles, Spattles, 6 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 1: Space Skettles, spice, skills and sculptor. 7 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 2: That's the only thing I can do. Then I can't 8 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 2: even do that very well. 9 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:32,479 Speaker 1: All right, So you're gonna just charge the batteries tonight, 10 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 1: low key night for Maddie. McLean. 11 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 2: I gotta clean the house and keep myself sorted for 12 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 2: this hens do that I'm hosting tomorrow. 13 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 1: Like, not totally because you're just going to have to 14 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 1: clean it again. 15 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 2: I know, but you know you want it to look. 16 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not excucting it to stay like that 17 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:52,560 Speaker 2: for very long, but at least if it's like that initially, 18 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 2: then I'll feel good. 19 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 1: Have you got to decorate the place up and stuff? 20 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, so the bridesmaids are coming over early tomorrow, not 21 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 2: too early, but earlier than never. On now some we're 22 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 2: we're not doing anything crazy, but we've got some balloons. 23 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 2: We've got some and some like party favors and stuff. 24 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, what's a party favorite. 25 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 2: Like little bags with party favors. You know, you don't 26 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,399 Speaker 2: know what a party favor is. No, you know, like 27 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 2: if you go to a wedding and they give you 28 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:22,959 Speaker 2: like a gift or like you went to like kids 29 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 2: birthday parties, like. 30 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 1: A kid's birthday bag like that, but yeah, like a 31 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: party bag. 32 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:34,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, they call them party favors peage. Ever, it's quite calm, 33 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 2: it's quite well known. I would say, is like if 34 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 2: you ever go to a wedding, they'll give you a 35 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 2: party favor. 36 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 1: No, we didn't give out a party. We don't give 37 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 1: out a party. 38 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 2: Have you ever been to a wedding though we've given 39 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 2: you a party favor? 40 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 1: No? Never, Nah, we don't give you what like a 41 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 1: beg what a bag and you. 42 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 2: Get been to like a I've been to a wedding 43 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 2: where we got like a little they gave us like 44 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 2: a little shot of lemon. 45 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: Cello love lamente le montll We got. 46 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 2: Like a I think I've had like a candle at 47 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 2: some point. Some people. It's not all the time. We 48 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 2: didn't do it either, but lots of couples do give 49 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 2: you like a little gift if you go to their 50 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 2: wedding and they called party. 51 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 1: They got the wrong winning. 52 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:20,920 Speaker 2: No, No, they're actually fucking annoying. Yeah, because it's like 53 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: you get to the end of the night and most 54 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 2: of the time you end up leaving them behind. Because 55 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 2: at twelve o'clock at night, when you're leaving this wedding purse, 56 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 2: you're not worried about like, oh, where's the where's the 57 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:33,959 Speaker 2: little party favor they go? So they always get fined. 58 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 1: Okay, cool, Well, big week in for you. 59 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 2: What are you doing? 60 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 1: Oh god, it's always the same. I swear I used 61 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,839 Speaker 1: to be really fun. I'm getting a facial I am 62 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 1: not maybe no, not before Rugby, remember, yeah, ext No, 63 00:02:56,919 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: I'm getting a one of my there's a message facial. 64 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 1: Lady I love is leaving the country and so I'm 65 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 1: going to go see her before she goes. And I've booked. 66 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 1: I never booked for the stuff anymore. I used to 67 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 1: always get this kind of stuff and I don't anymore. 68 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 1: And I'm so fucking excited nice cannot express. And then 69 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:22,079 Speaker 1: we've got the shared fruit gardens with the neighbors, and 70 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: they like so it's a communal garden. They have done 71 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:30,519 Speaker 1: so much lately it looks like a little Japanese zen garden. Oh, 72 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: and then you see our half and it's just fucking shitty, 73 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: gross overgrown bushes, and I feel like I need to 74 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 1: pull my weight. Like it's almost like, oh no, They're like, no, 75 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: I don't worry about it. But I think now that 76 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 1: they've really put some nice effort into a we've got 77 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 1: to us it's just embarrassing. 78 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, although you say that, like, but I can imagine 79 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 2: you get to the weekend and you go, I want. 80 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 1: Done, But I feel like there could be some real 81 00:03:57,760 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: satisfaction because I just want to go bush whack, Like 82 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 1: is there a bush it's like a bushwacker to all 83 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 1: or something that definitely would be Yeah, I just want 84 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 1: to go do that. 85 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 2: She goes to Bunnings one time. I'm man, I'm. 86 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 1: Hot, very different, very different weekends living. But next weeking 87 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 1: is our whole ball. So we get to party. 88 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 2: It's going to be fun. That's going to be really. 89 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 1: Fun, except I'm still doing so I. 90 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,919 Speaker 2: Know, Oh you can sober drive. 91 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: Ah, of course, damn it. 92 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 2: I'll have a chicken. 93 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's gonna be do you know what, They'll want 94 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 1: you to hecket on it in the country as well. 95 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:40,359 Speaker 2: I'll be and I'm you know. 96 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 1: You you're around country people as well. You're like, oh yeah, like. 97 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 2: You know, And I want to prove myself as a man, 98 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 2: prove my masculinity. 99 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:56,359 Speaker 1: Oh, We've got to get a outfits. I might I 100 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 1: might go to an shot this weekend if I'm feeling crazy. 101 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:03,719 Speaker 2: So we we're doing op shop like black Ties, so 102 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 2: black Tie on an opshop budget. And so what I'm thinking, 103 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 2: Page is that you go to a k op shop 104 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 2: and get a couple of options, and I'll do the same, 105 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 2: and then maybe we'll get the people to vote on 106 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 2: which outfit they like the best. 107 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 1: I can't best oop shop wide or other. 108 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 2: It would be some good ones, wouldn't they. 109 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 1: Yes, but it's just the good ones. Yep. We have 110 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: to get some top offs anyway, Look, big show coming up. 111 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 1: We talked about if you're an adult still living at home. 112 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: We talked about what happened with the flirting or when 113 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:37,720 Speaker 1: you tried to flirt? Was it good or bad? 114 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 2: Because I am not good at the flitting. 115 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:44,479 Speaker 1: I thought it would have been good. It's really dawn lately, 116 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 1: that you know. 117 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 2: And we talk more about the hens do so yes, all. 118 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: Of that and more coming up in the podcast and doing. 119 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 2: The podcast. 120 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 1: I'm a bit nervous today because my two year old child, 121 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 1: our two year old Charlie, has been lucky enough to 122 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 1: have my mum look after him four majority of the time. 123 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:11,359 Speaker 1: When I started work, Mom happened to move nearby and 124 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:16,359 Speaker 1: she kindly put up and to look after cyclone Charlie. 125 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 2: Do you think she knew what she was getting herself 126 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 2: in for when she seduced to this? Not? 127 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,600 Speaker 1: Maybe not? And do you know what? Bless her? She 128 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:26,719 Speaker 1: just wanted to do what her mom did for her 129 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 1: when she was working. My grandmother, Jojo, always looked after 130 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 1: me when Mom and Debrett worked, and so she was like, well, 131 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,159 Speaker 1: if Jojo can do it, I can do it. That's 132 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 1: a lot of work, it really is. And so we're 133 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: looking ahead to other options heading into the year to 134 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 1: give mom a bit of relief. And so we've were 135 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: looking at a day here and this morning I put 136 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: the call through to a day care that we've been 137 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: thinking of and looking into. Few friends go there. We've 138 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: had good recommendations, and I all of as started a 139 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:00,840 Speaker 1: found myself as I was talking on the phone like 140 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 1: I was in like a job interview. Kind of situation, 141 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, I've got to 142 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 1: be in my best baby, because these daycarees have the 143 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 1: longest list. 144 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, the. 145 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 1: Longest way time you want to make you a good impression. 146 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, you've got to. You've really got to lock these 147 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 2: in really far in advance, right. 148 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 1: I put on my private school Gilbert he hello, I 149 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: can't help, but posh up my voice and I don't 150 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: think that's going to help. And then Charlie was going 151 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 1: in the background smashing his fike. Ah, sorry, sorry, I'm 152 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: just gonna have to move to another room. Like I 153 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: had to take like ten times to get my emulagorissed 154 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 1: to her. But now I'm like, oh my gosh, like 155 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 1: I really have to make a good impression. This isn't 156 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 1: about me, this is my son, and this is like 157 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 1: the whole other ball game. And anyone's got any great 158 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 1: tips on how to make a good impression for your 159 00:07:57,160 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 1: day care? Or am I overthinking this? Do they not 160 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 1: even care? Please text through fourth for eight seven. 161 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 2: I think maybe they do. They do care, because they 162 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 2: need to know that who they're bringing into the environment is. 163 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 1: Charlie's savage saying that live on here I'm just out 164 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 1: of myself. 165 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 2: He's perfect, he's brilliant, he's wonderful, savage and the. 166 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 1: Best kind of lucky, lucky to have it, spirited bowl, persistent, 167 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 1: all of the above. 168 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 3: Many podcast. 169 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 1: That's reading an article talking about and this is you know, 170 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 1: no surprise really that it's becoming more and more common 171 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 1: for young people to stay living with the appearance for 172 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 1: longer because time's tough out there and everyone is just 173 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 1: trying to save your buck where they can. But they're 174 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: saying it can be an expensive mistake for the older 175 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: generation with you know, these people with their kids having 176 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: spent thousands of dollars more a year. 177 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 2: Totally because you would, like you, bless you. I reckon, 178 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 2: if I moved home with Mum and Dad, I would 179 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 2: move home with the best of intentions. I'm going to 180 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:11,200 Speaker 2: pay for rent, I'm going to pay for groceries, You're 181 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 2: going to make the meals totally, I'll add to the utilities, 182 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 2: and then slowly but surely, I reckon you'd be like, hey, Mum, 183 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 2: might just you know, cut you cut it out this. 184 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:26,199 Speaker 1: Month and not yeah, and you kind of naturally default 185 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:28,319 Speaker 1: back into that relationship where they're looking after you and 186 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:30,679 Speaker 1: they're like, okay, many care before. 187 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 2: You know it, you're going, mom, what's for dinner? 188 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:35,839 Speaker 1: But they reckon the number of households with adult children 189 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:38,839 Speaker 1: has grown by more than one hundred thousand since two 190 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 1: thousand and four, the fastest growth of any type of household. 191 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 2: That doesn't not surprise me in the slightest because cost 192 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 2: of living, right, everyone is looking for a bargain in 193 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:48,920 Speaker 2: a way to save for money. 194 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 1: It's always been a really European thing, hasn't it, like 195 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:56,320 Speaker 1: many parts of Europe. You know, people will go study, 196 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:58,959 Speaker 1: but they'll still be living at home because I guess 197 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:02,280 Speaker 1: it's that family, it's community, and you know, the more 198 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 1: the myria really but I would love to know on 199 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:09,679 Speaker 1: eight hundred the hurts this afternoon, and don't be ashamed, 200 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:12,680 Speaker 1: because I actually think it's a really beautiful thing. As 201 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:14,680 Speaker 1: long as you haven't I mistaked. You're welcome. 202 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 2: That's the thing. Because the more the maria only lasts 203 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 2: so long, and then there will come a time with 204 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 2: the more is not the myria. Yeah, and the. 205 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:25,680 Speaker 1: Honeymoon period will be over. 206 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 2: Many in the podcast. 207 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 1: Reading an article on The Herald Today about how it 208 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:36,439 Speaker 1: is obviously becoming a lot more common for young people 209 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 1: to stay living with their pearans for longer with the 210 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:43,199 Speaker 1: cost of living crisis. And they're saying it's been always 211 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 1: grown by more than one hundred thousand households or people 212 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 1: since two thousand and four, which is pretty big. It's 213 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:52,840 Speaker 1: quite of a growth. We wanted to know on oh 214 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 1: eight hundred the hurts. Are you still living with your folks? 215 00:10:56,679 --> 00:10:59,560 Speaker 1: How old are you? And how is the experience going? 216 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: I would say the varied experiences. Ania is joining us 217 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:05,559 Speaker 1: in wantacare, Hello. 218 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:06,840 Speaker 4: Hey, how's we gone? 219 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 2: Good? Nia? So you're still living at home? I am 220 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 2: tell us about it? 221 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:17,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I'm really lucky. 222 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 6: I get along with my parents. Yeah, my sister would 223 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 6: not be allowed to as long as I have. 224 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 2: How long have you stayed? How long have you been 225 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 2: there for? 226 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 6: I moved back in twenty eighteen, and I've gone away 227 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 6: a couple of times for a better travel but pretty 228 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 6: much been at home for the majority of the time. 229 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 1: And so you're twenty nine years old at the moment. Yeah? 230 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 6: Yeah? 231 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: What about like when you might start dating and stuff, 232 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 1: does that sort of create an awkward weege at home? 233 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 6: So I just go to my partner? 234 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 1: Yes, okay, but what if thanks get real serious? 235 00:11:56,760 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 2: Will they? 236 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:00,320 Speaker 7: Oh? 237 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 6: Yeah, so like I didn't really like people staying over, Yeah, 238 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 6: very much, they can come for dinner. 239 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 2: I love it. 240 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you so much for your colleagues. Go 241 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:22,200 Speaker 1: to Talita. Hello, Hi, how old are you delate? Are 242 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 1: you're still living with your folks? 243 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm twenty nine. I have my husband living at 244 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 7: my mum's clubs so hey, wowour hey thirty four. We've 245 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 7: been living at mums since the end of February tu 246 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:42,199 Speaker 7: to just a bit of a situation with the landlord 247 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:46,560 Speaker 7: and one of the next door neighbors. So they decided 248 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:50,439 Speaker 7: to put our house out for market, which we don't 249 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:55,079 Speaker 7: know about. So on the way of us moving out, 250 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:59,240 Speaker 7: and yeah, and we've been trying to find a rental 251 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 7: sunse But. 252 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:03,680 Speaker 2: Here's the question, Talita, are you actually trying to find 253 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:06,839 Speaker 2: a ring to or has it become very convenient. 254 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 7: Just we definitely are, but my friends will s don't 255 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:12,479 Speaker 7: accept pitt. 256 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:16,440 Speaker 1: Ah right, oh okay, all right, and I don't want 257 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 1: to gravel up. 258 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 7: So yeah, it's not been easy. But I know that 259 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 7: there's that pitt rental, so I don't know if it's 260 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 7: been a pro through through the government. 261 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: All right, okay, okay, Well there's to twenty nine year 262 00:13:32,679 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 1: olds to twenty nine year olds and it's going to 263 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 1: mail just quickly. Now you're forty six and still living 264 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 1: with your folks. 265 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 5: Ah yeah, feel real bad, No, don't feel bad. 266 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 1: No, it's admirable and it's smart. Really talk out there 267 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 1: at the moment. 268 00:13:50,640 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 2: My question though, Mail, is is this a level playing 269 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 2: field you? And is it you're living with your mum? 270 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 2: Is that right? 271 00:13:58,120 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 5: My daughter? 272 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 1: And you're oh my god, jeans. 273 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:06,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, because when I was thirty two, I went through chemo, right, yeah, 274 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 5: and I moved home and she helped me out. What's 275 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:11,320 Speaker 5: because it was only eighteen months old? 276 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:14,000 Speaker 1: Oh wow, yeah, and so. 277 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 8: I had a lift. 278 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 1: I mean, it's obviously working. Look, some people can make 279 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 1: it working, some people don't. Bet You guys obviously have 280 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:23,520 Speaker 1: a good little dynamic going. 281 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:27,400 Speaker 5: We do being a single mom mon single two and 282 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 5: it's she's a gassing with my daughter. That's because we 283 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 5: fight at the checkouts to pay for the groceryroom. 284 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 1: And there's your biggest fight. 285 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 2: WOJ. 286 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 3: The podcasts, Madi and Pj's Whole Bull with Raisine. 287 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 1: I'm so excited this has all happened so quickly, and 288 00:14:55,600 --> 00:15:00,080 Speaker 1: it's literally going down at a week's time next Friday. 289 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 2: I cannot believe how quickly this has all come together. 290 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 2: Can I just say huge shout out to Razine as well, 291 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 2: because we know how much they love the community and 292 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 2: so to be able to step up and do this 293 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 2: for a town hall is so awesome. 294 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. So, if you haven't caught up with what we're doing, 295 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 1: we are throwing our whole ball all thanks to Razine 296 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:20,520 Speaker 1: Color Shops. We're going to come to the rescue to 297 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 1: freshen up one lucky town hall and then throw a 298 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 1: massive ball in it to celebrate. We have got three 299 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 1: finalists standing by on the phone. 300 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 2: It was tough. It was tough to even get to 301 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 2: the three final last point because we had so many 302 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 2: entries from all around the country literally from the top 303 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 2: of the North Island to the bottom of the South Island. 304 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 7: I know. 305 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 1: So this is the hard part where we have to 306 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:46,840 Speaker 1: break a few hearts, but also it is a very 307 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 1: exciting time because we finally get to tell the Lucky 308 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 1: hole that we're going next Friday. Maddie, I think it's 309 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:53,600 Speaker 1: your turn to break the news. 310 00:15:53,720 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 2: Okay, we are heading peach to throw our hall ball 311 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:07,800 Speaker 2: to the town of Timata in waikator Hi Margaret. 312 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 5: Hi, how's the game? 313 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 2: Very well? 314 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 4: How are you excited? 315 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:16,800 Speaker 1: Margaret? What does this mean for your small little hall 316 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:19,880 Speaker 1: to have a massive party thrown it and also get 317 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 1: a nice look of paint, all thanks to Zeene color Shops. 318 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:25,400 Speaker 9: Oh, it would be out of this world. I tell you, 319 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:29,240 Speaker 9: we've been really struggling in our community because the hall 320 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 9: is one hundred and twenty years old, so it's community 321 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 9: owned and we rely on donations and volunteers, and this 322 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 9: would just be absolutely fantastic. 323 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 2: Tell us about the hall and like what it means 324 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 2: to the community of Tamata. 325 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 8: Yeah. 326 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 9: The hall was originally built in nineteen oh four by 327 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 9: an eighteen year old chippy Wow Wow, and all leave 328 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 9: farmers in the district contributed towards getting it built. We 329 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:58,160 Speaker 9: have farewells and welcomes and dancers and the school used 330 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:01,280 Speaker 9: it a lot, used to have a post office and 331 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 9: a shop, but unfortunately with the times, the waiters we're 332 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:06,320 Speaker 9: down to the hall in the school. 333 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:11,160 Speaker 1: Oh well, Margaret, when was the last time you had 334 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:13,040 Speaker 1: a massive party and let your hair down? 335 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:17,920 Speaker 9: Well, I've just had me sugery. So it's been a while. 336 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:21,880 Speaker 2: Okay, we'll we'll take it slow, Margaret. But are you 337 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 2: are you ready? Are you ready for us to come 338 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 2: to town and throw an amazing hall barn? 339 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:30,560 Speaker 9: Oh yes, I'm ready for it. Well, we. 340 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:35,159 Speaker 1: Cannot wait to see you in your beautiful community next 341 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:39,720 Speaker 1: Friday at Tamata Hall, just out of Raglan. Margaret, thank 342 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 1: you for registering and bring it on, bring on next Friday. 343 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 9: Oh, thank you so much. 344 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:48,640 Speaker 2: Is there anything we need to do or be We'll 345 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:51,159 Speaker 2: be in touch with the details, Margaret. But we're on 346 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:52,400 Speaker 2: to it. We've got it sworded. 347 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:55,000 Speaker 1: We'll take care of it. 348 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:57,680 Speaker 9: We're all waiting to let their hair down. 349 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:02,120 Speaker 1: Hey. That is things of course to Razine Color Shops 350 00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:04,920 Speaker 1: Choice from ends his biggest range of Echo Choice approved 351 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:08,600 Speaker 1: paints and it is locked in to Mutterhole next Friday. 352 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:14,000 Speaker 1: We'll see you for one massive part Maddy and PJ. 353 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:16,040 Speaker 2: Mady and PJ the. 354 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 1: Podcast and coming up after four. We need your jokes 355 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 1: New Zealand, and we need good ones. Okay, without sounding desperate. 356 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:30,199 Speaker 2: We do. I saw one this week and I really 357 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:32,159 Speaker 2: liked it. But the guy delivered it really well, so 358 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 2: I hope I do the joke justice. Okay, okay, just. 359 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 1: Don't overthink it. Go in confident, don't overthink it. Give 360 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:40,200 Speaker 1: us your best joke. 361 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 2: All right. What is George Michael like with his stir fry. 362 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: Swissaws? 363 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:49,560 Speaker 2: Well, I guess it would be race. 364 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:54,960 Speaker 4: Many. 365 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:59,200 Speaker 2: That's good, That is funny. Come on, that is funny. 366 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:01,920 Speaker 2: You both you both laugh. 367 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 1: What's the best thing about Switzerland? Oh? 368 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 2: Chocolate? 369 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 1: The flag? The flag is a big plus? Oh laugh? 370 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 1: You did you never throw Grandpa's false false teeth at 371 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 1: a vehicle? Why you might ditch your car? 372 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:26,720 Speaker 2: It's good. 373 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:34,200 Speaker 3: Many and PJ Mady and PJ the podcast the Heads, 374 00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:35,800 Speaker 3: no funny, no money. 375 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:43,360 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I'm manifestent. Good vibes for a good outcome. 376 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 2: Have you read the TAS Machine. There's a couple of 377 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:47,119 Speaker 2: naughty ones on the TAS Machine. 378 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:51,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, the TIS machine always just take it up. And guys, 379 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 1: we have to remember there are kids and cars. We 380 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 1: have to be clever and we have to. 381 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:57,959 Speaker 2: Use my But I'm not I'm not opposed to a cheeky, 382 00:19:57,960 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 2: little naughty joke from time to time. 383 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 1: Are you talking about the man on the beach? We 384 00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 1: can't read that? Okay, Oh wait, one hundred the heads. 385 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 1: You tell us your joke. If you get a laugh 386 00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 1: out of us, then we're going to give you fifty 387 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:13,840 Speaker 1: dollars to spend at chemist warehouse. First, ut, we have 388 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:19,680 Speaker 1: Scarlet joining us. Hi, Scarlet, Hi? Hi? Okay is this 389 00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:21,960 Speaker 1: a favorite joke? Oh? 390 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:23,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, good? Hit us with the scarlet? 391 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:24,880 Speaker 1: Right, what have you got? 392 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 5: Did you hear of the shovel. 393 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:29,160 Speaker 1: Here of the show. 394 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:32,400 Speaker 5: Well, it's a ground break invention. 395 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 1: Oh, it's a groundbreaking invention. It sure as Scarlet, Thank you, 396 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:42,400 Speaker 1: solid star, like the joke. 397 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:44,360 Speaker 2: Didn't get a laugh out of us today? 398 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:47,440 Speaker 1: No, because we're strong. 399 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:49,000 Speaker 2: We're better than we're better than we used to. 400 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:54,159 Speaker 1: Be, are we? Donna and Nelson's joining us. Happy Friday, Donna. 401 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:55,920 Speaker 10: Thank you, and you too. 402 00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 2: Hit us with the joke. 403 00:20:57,560 --> 00:21:00,359 Speaker 4: Donna, Okay, what did one that checks saying to the 404 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 4: other butt cheek? 405 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:02,680 Speaker 2: What what? 406 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 8: Let's stick together and we can stop this crap. 407 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 1: Thank you, Donna? 408 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:14,679 Speaker 2: My god, because butt cheeks he usually gets us, they 409 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 2: get me personal favor. 410 00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:26,159 Speaker 1: We got a Natasha under the hats. Okay, come on, guys, 411 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:28,120 Speaker 1: you just need to get a laugh out of us. 412 00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 4: Oh, you're you're a crowd, You're a tough. 413 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 2: Crow, Natasha. 414 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:34,440 Speaker 1: We are having to toughen up because the boss is 415 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,880 Speaker 1: saying we're being about Lucy Goosey. 416 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:39,560 Speaker 2: We don't have an unlimited supply of these bouches to 417 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:41,520 Speaker 2: give away, so we have to be hard. 418 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 4: Well, maybe it's Lucky Friday the thirteenth for me. 419 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:49,040 Speaker 1: Maybe I gave Natasha what is your joke? Give it 420 00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:49,680 Speaker 1: to us? 421 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 4: Okay, here we go. Did you hear about the guy 422 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:54,200 Speaker 4: that circumcises elephants? 423 00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:55,680 Speaker 1: Wow? 424 00:21:56,040 --> 00:22:06,240 Speaker 4: No, the pay is peanuts, but the tips are huge. 425 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 2: Was not ready for. 426 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:13,399 Speaker 1: Maddy and PJ. 427 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 3: Maddy and PJ the podcast. 428 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 1: Every day on the show, we do a segment called 429 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 1: head or Mess where producer Sera comes in. She gives 430 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 1: us a topic and we can't sit on the fence. 431 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 1: It's basically an activity to get us to not be 432 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:28,280 Speaker 1: so decisive. 433 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:31,440 Speaker 2: It's working. I feel like I'm changing. I truly think 434 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 2: more decisive these days. 435 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 1: Same. So, one of the topics last night on the 436 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:40,080 Speaker 1: show when we did this after six o'clock was flirting 437 00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 1: to get out of something. And I don't know how 438 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:47,760 Speaker 1: this happened, but Maddie decided to give his best fluting game. 439 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:51,280 Speaker 1: Ago you were speeding. 440 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:57,680 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. 441 00:22:55,359 --> 00:23:03,439 Speaker 1: You're invisible claim it just put your man bob. So 442 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:06,480 Speaker 1: we did get a few texts after that horrendous example 443 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 1: of fluting. Someone said, Maddy, with that terrible flake fluting, 444 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 1: how did you get Ryan your husband? 445 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:14,640 Speaker 2: I honestly will never know. 446 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:19,840 Speaker 1: That's a great question, and it actually inspired us to 447 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,720 Speaker 1: get your husband on the show this afternoon, Ryan. 448 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:25,520 Speaker 8: Welcome hi team every Friday. 449 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:39,120 Speaker 1: Happy Friday. Ryan, Can you enlighten us on what Maddy's 450 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 1: fluting game was like when you two both first meet? 451 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 8: Well, I honestly don't think I've ever actually heard him 452 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:46,960 Speaker 8: try and flirt. 453 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:52,440 Speaker 2: Because it's just my natural charm that wins people over right, sure, 454 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 2: sure you there's no time for flirting when you're getting 455 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:58,760 Speaker 2: absolutely like questioned like a journalist. 456 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:02,239 Speaker 1: Oh of course, did he sit you down? Like it 457 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:03,080 Speaker 1: was sixty minutes. 458 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:07,199 Speaker 8: Our whole first date was her masking questions me answering 459 00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 8: and new sang what about you? 460 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 2: This is a true story. Actually yeah, I needed to 461 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 2: chill out, So no flirting game? Whats so whatever? You 462 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 2: don't think I was flirtatious. 463 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:21,439 Speaker 8: When you were trying it? 464 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 2: Didn't you try it? 465 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:23,160 Speaker 5: Didn't land? 466 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, Well, I mean it's yeah, that's a great 467 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:29,240 Speaker 1: outcome for you. 468 00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:33,320 Speaker 2: I guess, I mean something something worked. We're still here 469 00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 2: seven and a half years later. 470 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:37,240 Speaker 6: Maybe you didn't try and flirt. 471 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you would have got the egg if I 472 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:42,159 Speaker 2: tried to flirt. 473 00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,440 Speaker 6: With you a little bit when I was listening to. 474 00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:45,080 Speaker 9: The cop thing. 475 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:49,119 Speaker 1: Hy Ryan always lovely there be on the show. You 476 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:53,320 Speaker 1: have a great weekend. Okay, you too talk So I 477 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:56,480 Speaker 1: did get us thinking, though I hundred the herts, what 478 00:24:56,760 --> 00:25:00,280 Speaker 1: happened with the flirting. Maybe you had an incre doable 479 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 1: outcome and it was an innocent you know, you got 480 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:06,120 Speaker 1: pulled over by the cop. Maybe you ended up going 481 00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:10,119 Speaker 1: out with the copy, or it just went terribly. We 482 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 1: want to hear the best stories and the worst stories 483 00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:14,960 Speaker 1: of your attempts at flirt egg. 484 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,119 Speaker 2: Many and the podcast. 485 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:22,560 Speaker 1: We are talking flirting right now. Though, after we were 486 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 1: chatting yesterday on the show about whether we have a 487 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:26,879 Speaker 1: flit to get out of things, I said I'd give 488 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,679 Speaker 1: it a go. I wouldn't have a successful go, and 489 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,280 Speaker 1: then Neddie decided to do a role play live on air. 490 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 1: You've got some pretty interesting texts. 491 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 2: I I mean, I kind of knew this about myself. 492 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 2: But it turns out I can't flirt to save myself. 493 00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 2: I'm terrible without that. 494 00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:44,680 Speaker 1: I just love me and your husband not And you 495 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:47,639 Speaker 1: just said you literally went into report and mode on 496 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 1: your favorite day. 497 00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:51,560 Speaker 2: Which what do you want to what do you do 498 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:51,800 Speaker 2: for it? 499 00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:54,440 Speaker 1: Just let the conversation flow, mane No. 500 00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 2: I think I got It's so nervous, which is why 501 00:25:56,320 --> 00:26:00,320 Speaker 2: I can't flirt flirt either, because I get so nervous. 502 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:04,760 Speaker 1: You're getting plussid talking. But we want to know good 503 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 1: or bad stories? What happened when you attempted to flirt? Sarah? 504 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,720 Speaker 1: And the White Cuttle is joining us? Sarah, what happened 505 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:09,919 Speaker 1: with you? 506 00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:11,720 Speaker 5: So? 507 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 10: I was at the No Sleep to Auckland concert, which 508 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:16,680 Speaker 10: is like a big punk concert. 509 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:17,199 Speaker 2: And rock on. 510 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:21,359 Speaker 10: I was in the mosh pit and for no effect, 511 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,280 Speaker 10: and I looked across and I saw the Blake. I thought, oh, 512 00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 10: you're a bit of a right, So I went and 513 00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:30,880 Speaker 10: stood Nixon and he ended up buying me a light 514 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,320 Speaker 10: beer and a hot dog at the end of the 515 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 10: night because that was left at the bar. And we're 516 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:36,119 Speaker 10: been to. 517 00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:42,440 Speaker 2: This for amazing So what was the actual fluting act? 518 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:44,480 Speaker 1: Was that you just standing next to him. 519 00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:47,280 Speaker 10: Me washing next to him, getting into the music. 520 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:51,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. Nothing like a good old mosh to set you 521 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:51,919 Speaker 1: up for. 522 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:55,360 Speaker 2: This is the thing about New Zealanders, though, I don't 523 00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,880 Speaker 2: think we're we're not what. We're not ones for the 524 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,359 Speaker 2: for the cheesy pick up lines or anything like that. 525 00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:05,160 Speaker 2: Low level fluting. 526 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:06,119 Speaker 1: Yea, yeah, yeah, buy me a hot dog and a 527 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 1: bear yours exactly. Hey, I don't want to brag that 528 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:11,400 Speaker 1: there is a story I haven't told on you, and 529 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 1: that is the fact that there are daily mail headlines 530 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:19,760 Speaker 1: out there about none other than Justin Bieber playfully flirting 531 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:22,639 Speaker 1: with me when he was in New Zealand years ago. 532 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,400 Speaker 1: I'm not even kidding on the reading of the headline 533 00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:28,680 Speaker 1: that says Justin Bieber playfully flirts with New Zealand Radio 534 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,240 Speaker 1: presented PJ Harding as he pokes fun at her dance 535 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,840 Speaker 1: most And then I just found there is an actual 536 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:38,000 Speaker 1: YouTube video compilation of the Beabes like fluting with all 537 00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:40,679 Speaker 1: these women, and it says Justin Bieber being a flirt 538 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:42,760 Speaker 1: and brackets mostly with older women. 539 00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:53,720 Speaker 2: You're the cougar. You're the cougar. May J Mady and PJ. 540 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:59,600 Speaker 1: The podcast that gosh our Weekends could not be further apart. 541 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 1: I swear every Friday we talk about the parties that 542 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:05,120 Speaker 1: you're about to go to, and I just think about sleeping. 543 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,320 Speaker 2: The terrible thing is I think about sleeping as well. 544 00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:12,400 Speaker 2: I would love to get a little sleeping. But I 545 00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:17,119 Speaker 2: have agreed to host my best friends hens Do at 546 00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:19,920 Speaker 2: my house this weekend. We have been friends since we 547 00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,679 Speaker 2: were thirteen. We met at the start of high school. 548 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,400 Speaker 2: And I'm in her bridal party, and so the four 549 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,879 Speaker 2: bridesmaid the four of us in the bridal party, have 550 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,239 Speaker 2: been working hard to plan this hens due and we 551 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,359 Speaker 2: were looking around at venues and we were trying to 552 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,760 Speaker 2: find maybe lack in the airbnb that we could hire 553 00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 2: or something like that, and I thought, let's just do 554 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 2: it at mine. It's so much easier, so much cheaper. 555 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,680 Speaker 2: And now I'm thinking, what have I done? 556 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:45,320 Speaker 4: No. 557 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,480 Speaker 1: I think it's beautiful. I think it's sweet. I think 558 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:52,360 Speaker 1: you're all adults right. Although it's a lot of moms, do, 559 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,400 Speaker 1: isn't it. It's going to be a lot of moms 560 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:54,920 Speaker 1: going wild. 561 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,160 Speaker 2: It's a lot of mums, and I do wonder a 562 00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:59,840 Speaker 2: mum's sometimes wilder when they've left the kids at home 563 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:04,600 Speaker 2: on for a night out. What I'm worried dangerous. This 564 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 2: is what I'm worried. 565 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:11,560 Speaker 1: About, dangerous territory. But I mean, you trust your friends, 566 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:14,920 Speaker 1: your oldest friends, right, I do. I'm nervous about a 567 00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 1: few things though. My house is not large. It is 568 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:21,360 Speaker 1: a small two bedroom house, and we've got about twenty 569 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:28,920 Speaker 1: five people coming. Plus we've hired into Day, Like you know, 570 00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:34,280 Speaker 1: he and his party into Day. Yes, yes, and that's 571 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:38,360 Speaker 1: often quite mobile and like quite a lot of movements. Yes, 572 00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:41,200 Speaker 1: you know, it's not just in one spot. He'll be 573 00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:43,880 Speaker 1: sort of trails around the house, I know. 574 00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 2: So I'm wondering. First of all, I'm thinking, where do 575 00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 2: we set this guy out, Like, where is he going 576 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 2: to go? 577 00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:55,320 Speaker 1: Because it's not going to be great, Whether is it? 578 00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 1: It's terrible, hor say, get him out on the deck 579 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 1: maybe you know, yeah, exactly, But I mean there's nothing 580 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 1: wrong with an intimate showdown. I think that could be nice. 581 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:11,080 Speaker 1: But do you know what you need to get rid 582 00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:13,240 Speaker 1: of all your breakaballs, get rid of anything fragile in 583 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:13,560 Speaker 1: your house? 584 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:17,000 Speaker 2: In a way, this is true. So yeah, there's a 585 00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:21,720 Speaker 2: few concerns I have, mostly about size, partly about what 586 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:28,160 Speaker 2: the size of the house. 587 00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:30,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, twenty five of you. That's a lot. It's a 588 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:31,600 Speaker 1: lot and. 589 00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,800 Speaker 2: Partly about you know, just hosting a house party at 590 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 2: a house what you know, things go wrong and there's 591 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:40,600 Speaker 2: the added element of the wildness of it being ahns 592 00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:41,760 Speaker 2: do Yeah. 593 00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:44,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, and they say hings go wilder than stags. Apparently. 594 00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:46,200 Speaker 2: I think you might be right. 595 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:50,000 Speaker 1: So okay, like you're worried. Maybe people can put Many 596 00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:57,160 Speaker 1: at ease or not a wait, hundred hats what happens 597 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,960 Speaker 1: at the stag do or He's party? Yes, does Maddie 598 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,160 Speaker 1: have anything to worry about? Like maybe there was damage, 599 00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:05,880 Speaker 1: maybe there was a trip to the hospital. What happened 600 00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:08,760 Speaker 1: at your hens or stagg do? 601 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:09,640 Speaker 2: Oh? 602 00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:11,520 Speaker 1: Wait, hundred the hats? Maybe you can put Many a 603 00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,600 Speaker 1: days or maybe you'll send him into a spiral of. 604 00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 2: Anxiety many the podcast. 605 00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:24,000 Speaker 1: That's big responsibility for mister Maddie McClean this Saturday night 606 00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:27,200 Speaker 1: if he is hosting one of his best friends Hen's 607 00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:30,280 Speaker 1: party and his own Friday no pressure. 608 00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:32,440 Speaker 2: I'd say, how many? Huge pressure? 609 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:34,560 Speaker 1: How many people are staying the night? 610 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:38,480 Speaker 2: Just one other bridesmaid and the bride? 611 00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,960 Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, okay, So is it like a set 612 00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 1: up couch situation. You're going to be in one beer. 613 00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:47,560 Speaker 2: I think me and the bride will be in the 614 00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:51,360 Speaker 2: same bed, which many a beds together over our friendship. 615 00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,520 Speaker 1: And is it like a go to town no set up, No, 616 00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:59,680 Speaker 1: it's just at our that's so confident, a day out. 617 00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:01,840 Speaker 1: But you're not going to go to Tarla afterwards. 618 00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:04,719 Speaker 2: This is this was her call, she said, I just 619 00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:06,920 Speaker 2: I just want to be in one location. I don't 620 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,320 Speaker 2: want to do the whole big town thing. I mean 621 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,320 Speaker 2: famous last words, right yeah? 622 00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 1: And what time are you starting? 623 00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:14,840 Speaker 2: One? 624 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:16,480 Speaker 1: Oh? 625 00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:18,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, one. 626 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 1: Early? Are you going to be fine? It's going to 627 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,760 Speaker 1: be great. I cannot wait to see footage from it. 628 00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:26,440 Speaker 1: But we wanted to know wite hundred the hats. What 629 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,520 Speaker 1: were the horror stories from the Hens or Stags to 630 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:34,280 Speaker 1: be honest, a lot of stories actually, because they're quite arendous. 631 00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:38,480 Speaker 1: But Debbie is joining us on Wait hundred of hats. Debbie, 632 00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:41,000 Speaker 1: what happened at the Stagger Hens? 633 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:47,160 Speaker 8: Well, the stag Doo was and Patamahoe and I sorry, 634 00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 8: pepper Toey and my father in law lived in Glennais 635 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,280 Speaker 8: and I must have obviously been the sober one or 636 00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:57,640 Speaker 8: something or I waited to drive and I stopped him 637 00:32:57,640 --> 00:33:01,520 Speaker 8: off and he was a little bit leads nice and 638 00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:04,560 Speaker 8: I dropped of offlo set in the cow. But I 639 00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 8: just make sure he gets in the front door with 640 00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 8: his keys. He went to the neighbor's house. 641 00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:12,040 Speaker 2: Oh my god, funny. 642 00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:15,680 Speaker 8: It was so funny watching them stagger over to the 643 00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:16,480 Speaker 8: neighbour's house. 644 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 5: He was going home. 645 00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:18,880 Speaker 7: He was fine. 646 00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:20,880 Speaker 2: I mean, funny for you, and funny funny for the 647 00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:22,840 Speaker 2: father in law. Maybe not funny for the neighbors. They're 648 00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:28,080 Speaker 2: trying to get an early night and bed. Okay, So 649 00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:30,640 Speaker 2: so this is your advice, then deb watch out for 650 00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 2: everyone and make sure they're not heading into any neighbours' 651 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:38,280 Speaker 2: homes after that after the party, make sure yeah good, 652 00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:39,320 Speaker 2: call dB. 653 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:42,120 Speaker 8: Know and drop them off and have a good giggle. 654 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:49,960 Speaker 2: Good Mary, J, Mary and PJ. 655 00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:54,760 Speaker 11: The podcast The Heads, The People's Poll, The People's Poll. 656 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:55,880 Speaker 1: Everybody comes together. 657 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 2: It's the People's Poll. 658 00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:00,240 Speaker 1: Thanks keep happening in the office that are inspiring our 659 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 1: people's polls at the moment. And we do this every 660 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:05,960 Speaker 1: day on the show, and we put up today's poll 661 00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 1: up on our Instagram page on the hat Strive story 662 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:11,360 Speaker 1: so you can weigh in before we actually get to 663 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:15,799 Speaker 1: this on here today's question, Maddie, would you like to share. 664 00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:20,320 Speaker 2: So earlier in the show, we were planning our show 665 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,319 Speaker 2: out for today and we had a question for one 666 00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:25,280 Speaker 2: of our colleagues that we wanted to know the answer 667 00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:28,600 Speaker 2: to in it, and yes, it required an answer for 668 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,560 Speaker 2: us to kind of continue on with the planning of 669 00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:31,279 Speaker 2: the show. 670 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:32,719 Speaker 1: A prompt response. 671 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:36,799 Speaker 2: Yeah. And so producer Sarah said, I'll just email her 672 00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:40,520 Speaker 2: and ask her the question. And I said, that's so funny. 673 00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 2: And I wasn't doing the judgment, but I just see 674 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:46,160 Speaker 2: that's so funny the difference between you and I, because 675 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:48,919 Speaker 2: she wrote her an email and I said I would 676 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,520 Speaker 2: have I would have poked my head out of the 677 00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 2: studio door and gone over to a desk and said, hey, 678 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:56,880 Speaker 2: wat's the answer to this question, and just got the 679 00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:58,239 Speaker 2: prompt answer that way. 680 00:34:58,320 --> 00:34:59,840 Speaker 1: Do you reckon? That's a generation was hi? 681 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,640 Speaker 2: I think it might be a generational thing. It's also 682 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:06,600 Speaker 2: the ways the younger millennials and Gen z it is 683 00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,120 Speaker 2: do not want to pick up the phone and call people. 684 00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:10,840 Speaker 1: Don't put me in that category. 685 00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:13,400 Speaker 2: That is true for the most part, though you have 686 00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:14,920 Speaker 2: to about yeah, maybe others. 687 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:18,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, the younger one in that situation, instead of emailing, 688 00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:19,839 Speaker 1: instead of going I actually reckon, I just call them 689 00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:25,520 Speaker 1: straight away maybe and just actually just get the answer. Yeah, 690 00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:27,520 Speaker 1: maybe I'd be somewhere in the middle. 691 00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:30,800 Speaker 12: She is so busy. I had liked with her this morning. 692 00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:33,120 Speaker 12: She was telling me how busy she is and how 693 00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:36,719 Speaker 12: how she's a little bit stressed and lately when I've 694 00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:38,440 Speaker 12: been going over to her desk with a quick question 695 00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:41,520 Speaker 12: for the show. This is just my defense. Okay, she's 696 00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:45,040 Speaker 12: gone hold on and done that thing for ages when 697 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:46,279 Speaker 12: they just finish their email and they. 698 00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,239 Speaker 1: Go, yeah, proceed to it. Yeah, yeah, I've got a second. 699 00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:48,799 Speaker 1: I've got a second. 700 00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:52,240 Speaker 2: See, maybe this speaks to my rudeness, but I wouldn't 701 00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:55,560 Speaker 2: have even given her an opportunity to do that. I 702 00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:58,200 Speaker 2: would have just gone, hey, what's the answer to this question. 703 00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:00,360 Speaker 2: I wouldn't have even been do you want if I 704 00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,080 Speaker 2: ask you a quick question? I would have just gone, Hey, 705 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:05,400 Speaker 2: what's the answer? Cool? Move on, dumb guys. 706 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,120 Speaker 1: I'm feeling the tension in the room. 707 00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:10,680 Speaker 12: No, it wasn't urgent, so I just sent her a 708 00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:11,400 Speaker 12: quick text. 709 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,399 Speaker 2: There's no tension. But I did think it was an 710 00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:18,000 Speaker 2: interesting difference between the two of us she would rather email. 711 00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:19,480 Speaker 2: I would rather do it in person. 712 00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:24,040 Speaker 1: Okay, So this is in a work office environment, obviously, Yes, 713 00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:26,920 Speaker 1: you've got a question for a coworker. Do you email 714 00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:28,760 Speaker 1: them or do you go straight to the desk? 715 00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,600 Speaker 2: Mary and PJ Mady and PJ. 716 00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:39,080 Speaker 11: The podcasts, the People's Poll, the People's Poll. Everybody comes together, 717 00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:40,200 Speaker 11: it's the People's Poll. 718 00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:44,239 Speaker 1: Okay. Hated debate in the office this afternown Is it 719 00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:49,600 Speaker 1: a generational difference or is it just different day to day? 720 00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:54,640 Speaker 2: They're not question, not hated debate, just a friendly, lively 721 00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:56,359 Speaker 2: discussion between Sarah and I. 722 00:36:56,480 --> 00:37:00,640 Speaker 1: We still loves. 723 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:04,239 Speaker 2: No just we needed an answer on a question from 724 00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:08,240 Speaker 2: a colleague earlier in the earlier today, and Sarah emailed 725 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:10,919 Speaker 2: the colleague to ask the question, which is totally fine, 726 00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:14,200 Speaker 2: That's a justified way to do it. But I just said, 727 00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:15,759 Speaker 2: that's not how I would do it. I would have 728 00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:18,799 Speaker 2: gone to the desk and asked the question. So I 729 00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:21,080 Speaker 2: was I was curious to know, am I you know? 730 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:24,280 Speaker 2: Am I in the minority or is Sarah in the minority? 731 00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:27,760 Speaker 2: Is there a definitive answer we can get on which 732 00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:31,280 Speaker 2: way is the preferred way to communicate with a colleague? 733 00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:33,600 Speaker 1: It does come down to the situation at hand. Really 734 00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:36,200 Speaker 1: doesn't it, because sometimes it is way more appropriate to 735 00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:39,320 Speaker 1: just go to the horse's mouth. But sometimes it's like, okay, no, 736 00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:41,759 Speaker 1: this is just an email jobby. A lot of people, though, 737 00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,680 Speaker 1: on the text machine, I will say, are for going 738 00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:48,800 Speaker 1: to the person every time, getting up, using your legs, 739 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,759 Speaker 1: making up some steps for the ten thousand a day. 740 00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:54,000 Speaker 2: Maybe that's what it is. Maybe I'm just trying to 741 00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:56,759 Speaker 2: close my move right. Yeah, we've waked it up. 742 00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:59,600 Speaker 1: Man, he is too competitive. He has to keep him 743 00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,439 Speaker 1: steps out up. But what is the overall percentage it's 744 00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:05,240 Speaker 1: actually binding the text and Instagram. 745 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:09,560 Speaker 2: It's not wildly different. Fifty eight percent of people say 746 00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,400 Speaker 2: get up and go to the desk and ask the 747 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:14,799 Speaker 2: question in person. Forty two percent say send a text 748 00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:16,160 Speaker 2: or an email or something like that. 749 00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:20,120 Speaker 12: So I'm in a fifty to fifty kind of I mean, 750 00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:22,560 Speaker 12: I won I'll give you next time. 751 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:23,160 Speaker 1: An't you worried? 752 00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:23,319 Speaker 9: Why? 753 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:24,400 Speaker 1: There is 754 00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:33,759 Speaker 3: Maddy and PJ Mary and PJ the podcast The Heads