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Speaker 1: The Hits Drive with Media and Paja thanks to chimis

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Speaker 1: Wee House the Real House of Fragrances and Hello everyone

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Speaker 1: and welcome to the podcast. Hope you had a splendid

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Speaker 1: weekend and butter banana and mandarin coming to the aid

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Speaker 1: of my hunger like hunger patch, I just got real hungry.

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Speaker 2: You went to do a mad dash to the supermarket

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Speaker 2: across the road.

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Speaker 1: It was when you got there, it was it's a

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Speaker 1: it's a bit of a boot ticky grocery store.

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Speaker 2: Still still but posh. People still need to get their food.

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Speaker 1: Still going to eat. Yeah, I was devo, but then

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Speaker 1: I remembered I had a whole lot of groceries in

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Speaker 1: the car, including something we chat about in the show

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Speaker 1: check in, Like god.

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Speaker 2: I maintained, I maintain, You're fine, Yeah, you're fine.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I've got another quick question okay, and then I've

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Speaker 1: gone you okay, okay. Sorry, I don't want to bring

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Speaker 1: it up on any EAUO oscar people are going to

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Speaker 1: make me paranoid. But I found mass po on the

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Speaker 1: weekend in our drawer with all of with all of it,

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Speaker 1: with all of our like like baking turns and stuff

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Speaker 1: like that. And I then once I discovered, I went

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Speaker 1: on the mad clean and I did full like looked

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Speaker 1: out how to do it, and I like sprayed this

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Speaker 1: like disinfectant on it for like ten minutes, let them

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Speaker 1: all go soft. And then I went and I made

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Speaker 1: sure that the area was well ventilated. But I didn't

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Speaker 1: discover until after I'd made these muffins. And I reckon

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Speaker 1: the ten. I reckon the ten that I made on

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Speaker 1: my but I'd butted, and I like I butted them

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Speaker 1: with my hand and then and then I cooked them.

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Speaker 1: But I reckon because the muffins were cooked. We're in

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Speaker 1: the clear, do we think continued to eat the muffins.

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Speaker 1: I had one because I was real hungry.

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Speaker 2: Okay, sorry, let me get this clear. So mouse PuO

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Speaker 2: in the in the in the cover and.

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Speaker 1: The drawer so it was in like a drawer under

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Speaker 1: the oven. Pulled it out and there were droppings all around, right,

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Speaker 1: I think now I think about it. When I put

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Speaker 1: it in the oven, I may have noticed one on

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Speaker 1: the muffin ten that I sort of like sweept away.

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Speaker 1: And then I opened up. I was like, shit, we've

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Speaker 1: actually got a lot of shit from mice in here.

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Speaker 1: So then it went into the oven. But I don't

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Speaker 1: know if underneath like the muffins like in that little tin,

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Speaker 1: but there were there were also I made the chop chaps.

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Speaker 1: The chop chaps were fine, little like. So it's really

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Speaker 1: hard to distinguish between the mood. And now I'm so

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Speaker 1: scared we're gonna get like salmonallosis, salmonellosis. I looked up

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Speaker 1: all of the diseases that I could transmit, so I'm

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Speaker 1: really hoping for the best. But but jes hunger got

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Speaker 1: the better of them.

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Speaker 2: Have you done it?

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Speaker 1: I had one.

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Speaker 2: I'm not letting Jellie have them. Would you eat another one?

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Speaker 1: See? If I eat another one, I'll cut the bottom off.

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Speaker 1: I remember, We're okay, but like can it? Does anyone

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Speaker 1: have any because if you look up on Google, it's

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Speaker 1: fucking grim like it's not a good Jesus Like yeah,

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Speaker 1: and like how actually easy it is to spread disease

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Speaker 1: from I want exactly So I just want people's realistic take.

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Speaker 1: It's really hard to sift through the information. If anyone's

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Speaker 1: got actual information regarding like we cooked them, it was,

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Speaker 1: you know, properly cooked to a high temperature. Do you reckon?

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Speaker 1: We'll be okay. Anyway, that's my thing. What have you

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Speaker 1: got for me?

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Speaker 2: I am actually wondering, because mine's good?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to save it for the show.

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Speaker 2: I might save it for the show tomorrow for the show.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna save it for the show tomorrow because it's

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Speaker 2: really good.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Well, we filled this up with paranoia chat, so

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Speaker 1: if anyone's got any feedback on the mace droppings, I

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Speaker 1: think we're gonna be okay. I think we're gonna be okay.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, let us know. Coming up in the podcast today,

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Speaker 1: we talk about a number of things.

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Speaker 2: I had a.

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Speaker 1: Dream, a really, really vivid dream, and I woke up

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Speaker 1: so relieved that it didn't actually happen. But then I

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Speaker 1: opened my silly old mouth to my husband and I

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Speaker 1: mad things with uh huh.

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Speaker 2: We also talked about your poor beach by the way, God,

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Speaker 2: I was a bitch. I have poor him like.

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Speaker 1: I don't think other people see the bitchiness that I

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Speaker 1: can have, Like he's really him and my mum probably

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Speaker 1: cough it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's we are at the way. We are

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Speaker 2: the best and worst versions of ourselves with the people

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I don't know how he stuck with me through

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Speaker 1: some of my bitch and then I like fully apologized

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm so sorry, Like I know that

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Speaker 2: When I when Ryan and I first got together, I

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Speaker 2: it was my first ever relationship, and we are just

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Speaker 2: so different, and especially in the way we communicate with

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Speaker 2: each other. And now we figured it out, like you know,

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Speaker 2: get yeah, and you know, like I know what something

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Speaker 2: means when he does it now, But back in the day, you're.

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Speaker 1: You take everything as an insult and you get defensive right.

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Speaker 2: Totally, And I'm like, that's not how I would respond

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Speaker 2: to that situation. So when he does a like turn

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Speaker 2: it into a much bigger thing. But now I know.

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Speaker 2: But back in the day, when I would we would,

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Speaker 2: when we would fight, I would I'd slam doors. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'd storm off and slam doors.

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Speaker 1: I'm a stomper. I've actually gone off and a race

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Speaker 1: car before He's like, what are you doing? And I

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Speaker 1: tried to be real dramatic. I didn't even give oh

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Speaker 1: my god. But that also is when we first moved

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Speaker 1: on together. And I think you're right, like it happens,

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Speaker 1: especially that first year or whatever you live together. All

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Speaker 1: of these things come up that you haven't really been

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Speaker 1: exposed to before.

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Speaker 2: We don't fight anymore.

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Speaker 1: I mean we don't.

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Speaker 2: We have mindor disagreements, but we don't fight, and I

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Speaker 2: think it's just that figuring each other out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Yeah, he's definitely the great neutralizer of the relationship.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: If he were more reacting, I think we would probably.

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Speaker 2: The difference is you and I are hard on our

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Speaker 2: sleeve kind of people, and our our husbands are both

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Speaker 2: like more intruspasive.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, but they still have feelings too, feelings.

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Speaker 2: I saw Rhyme cry for the first time when we

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Speaker 2: got married. I'd never seen him cry before.

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Speaker 1: That would have been amazing.

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Speaker 2: It was like the flight like pedal box opened, all

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Speaker 2: the floodgates open and they couldn't stop, and then the

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Speaker 2: well the wells ran dry. And I haven't seen him

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Speaker 1: That was the last time.

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Speaker 2: Look coming up in the podcast.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we talked about going on.

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Speaker 2: A little bit sidetracked the app.

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Speaker 1: Also, I liked that it was a good God we

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Speaker 1: talked about our relationships.

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Speaker 2: A lot, I know, but when to get a hobby, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: Well, no, I was gonna make a dirty joke out

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Speaker 2: That was what we're gonna say.

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Speaker 1: Like, because we do there, it's like an oh no,

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Speaker 1: don't I don't think there was anything in it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's gonna make up husbands.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was so bad.

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Speaker 1: It was so bad.

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Speaker 2: I had to put flat pack furniture together over the weekend.

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Speaker 2: So and there was a it didn't it was didn't

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Speaker 2: It wasn't perfect. It wasn't perfect. So we asked you

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Speaker 2: when should you have just called in the professionals. When

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Speaker 2: did you try and do something and it just didn't go?

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Speaker 2: That was good?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was fun. The people's poll, we asked splitting

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Speaker 1: the well or itemizing your thoughts on this coming up.

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Speaker 1: Enjoy the podcast everybody, and have a great night. Let

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Speaker 1: you know about the mice poof.

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Speaker 2: The podcast.

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Speaker 1: Now if you haven't to tune into our show on

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Speaker 1: Friday afternoon. I was telling you for the last few days,

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Speaker 1: I'd had some really interesting interactions with strangers, and I

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Speaker 1: was like, is this something I'm giving off which is

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Speaker 1: leading these people who come up and have conversations with me?

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Speaker 1: And one of those conversations I had with a man

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Speaker 1: so I'm scrolling away and there's a guy waiting for

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Speaker 1: his kebab, and he goes, what would you do? What'd

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Speaker 1: you do if the power went down, if the cell

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Speaker 1: reception went and you couldn't use that thing? What would

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Speaker 1: you do? I was like, mate, And then this sparked up.

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Speaker 1: I could you not a conversation with this guy for

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to get out the rat race. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: if it went down, it would be the best thing ever.

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Speaker 1: And then we started talking about the end of the world,

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Speaker 1: what we would do, how people don't trust their inner

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Speaker 1: voice anymore? Can't we need? Like we had this real,

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Speaker 1: profound deep chat. So that happened Friday afternoon, a run

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Speaker 1: few hours later that afternoon? Don't shake your hit at me.

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Speaker 1: Was that man a little profit in the kebb store?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: No, he wasn't. Well, what is it not very coincidental

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Speaker 1: that three hours later there were outages all around the world.

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Speaker 1: Banks were impacted, airports, media companies because of this defective

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Speaker 2: He was just giving you a hard time for being

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Speaker 1: He wasn't a profit, no, because I didn't tell you.

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Speaker 1: He also said, I've got this voice just telling me

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Speaker 1: it's going to happen soon. I tell you what. It's

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Speaker 1: just they say that these messages come in odd ways,

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Speaker 1: and that was mine.

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Speaker 2: What is what's the I'm sure there's a saying in

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Speaker 2: there like it's something like, and I'm making this.

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Speaker 1: Talk to a man in a kebab store. If you talk,

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Speaker 1: don't dismiss no.

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Speaker 2: It's if you listen to the ramblings of a madman

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Speaker 2: for long enough, at some point he'll say something vague

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Speaker 2: vaguely correct. I'm just okay.

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Speaker 1: Like all jokes aside, there's pretty weird timing that this

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Speaker 1: happened on the same day, Am I right?

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Speaker 2: Yes, But I'm I'm reluctant to guy something to you.

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Speaker 2: I know, I'm reluctant to give it to you because

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Speaker 2: you're already woo woo enough. And if you think that

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Speaker 2: there's a profit walking around the streets of Masterton, I'm

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Speaker 2: really concerned about what you're doing.

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Speaker 1: To say, if a random comes up to you abeb store,

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Speaker 1: don't dismiss them.

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Speaker 2: Mary and PJ. Mady and PJ the.

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Speaker 1: Podcast that I have been having the most vivid, intense

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Speaker 1: dreams lately. Okay, wake up and I don't. I don't

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Speaker 1: always what was it?

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Speaker 2: I said, Cheese, Have you been cutting off the ends

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Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, Well no I haven't, but that does make

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Speaker 1: you your dreams extremes. I've just been waking up and

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Speaker 2: And the way, what was happening now?

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Speaker 1: But are you happy now? Are you happy now? Most importantly?

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Speaker 2: We don't have long enough? But you and I are

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Speaker 1: Man, right, Hey, get on you, Meg. We're going to

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Speaker 3: My dream? My dream is a flat tire.

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Speaker 2: Oh God, prophetic dream. We're never going to hear the

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Speaker 3: Well, let's just say I'm really cautious about things like

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Speaker 2: Wow, Meg, shouldn't have listened to the dream. You should

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Speaker 1: But even if someone's ordered like quite a bit more

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, plus plus I feel like I hold my own

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Speaker 2: Mady and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 7: That's the key Pole's poll, the People's Pole, everybody comes together.

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Speaker 1: Do you itemize or do you split the bill? Is

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Speaker 2: then always our own. I ain't paying for no one's

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Speaker 1: Someone said you got to set the expectations at the start.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be paying for someone who's just

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Speaker 9: drink and everyone else has like one or three alcoholic drinks,

444
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Speaker 9: then I don't mind. The mocktail is about the same post.

445
00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:35,199
Speaker 9: But when if I just go out for dinner and

446
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Speaker 9: I have a lemon limon Bidders or something like that,

447
00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:39,760
Speaker 9: and you know, like I'm Maine on one train, everyone

448
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:43,920
Speaker 9: else is drinking like six or eight drinks each. Yeah,

449
00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:47,639
Speaker 9: hard to swallow. Yeah, because generally I'm the driver, sober

450
00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:49,080
Speaker 9: driver as well, So I'm.

451
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Speaker 2: Doing what good for you And that's totally fair enough.

452
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:56,320
Speaker 2: If it's not. If it doesn't year or even then

453
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Speaker 2: I think that that's when you that's when you start itemizing.

454
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Speaker 2: I mean, if you'll have exactly the same thing, a

455
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Speaker 2: mane and a glass of wine, it's probably just easier

456
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Speaker 2: to split.

457
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Speaker 1: I love this message. I'd split the bill with you,

458
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Speaker 1: two honkys anytime. I like twenty year old Taylor Porte

459
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Speaker 1: in Crayfish.

460
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Speaker 7: We are on that money. My friend must be my

461
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Speaker 7: Many and PJ the podcast finish me off.

462
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Speaker 1: All right, it is time for a game. I don't

463
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Speaker 1: know how long this is gonna last, but Many thinks

464
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Speaker 1: that we should put to the test my quotes, because

465
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Speaker 1: I will admit sometimes I don't get them entirely correct.

466
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Speaker 1: I feel like I start strong with a quote, but

467
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:40,720
Speaker 1: when it comes to completing a quote totally accurately, I

468
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Speaker 1: wouldn't say it's a strength.

469
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Speaker 2: It blessed you as well, because you really try. So often.

470
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Speaker 2: I have seen you try to say something so profound

471
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Speaker 2: and you know where you want to go with it.

472
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Speaker 2: You just don't know how to quite finish it all.

473
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Speaker 1: It just doesn't hit home. No, I just stuff up

474
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Speaker 1: the last couple of words. Okay, So this way.

475
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Speaker 2: Three quotes for you, and I want you to see

476
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Speaker 2: how well you do to finish the quote.

477
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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, can I win something or just pride? Sure?

478
00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:14,600
Speaker 2: I mean pride I've got. I'm sure I can dig

479
00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:16,520
Speaker 2: something up around the office. I think this might maybe

480
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Speaker 2: a packet of chips out there.

481
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Speaker 1: Or something like that, one thousand dollars or something.

482
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Speaker 2: It's pin for you if you want.

483
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Speaker 1: Okay, okay for the hurts pin, all right, I.

484
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 2: Grab something from the chemist house. If you want a

485
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:27,399
Speaker 2: Musashi energy drink?

486
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Speaker 1: What it should?

487
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Speaker 2: That be?

488
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Speaker 1: Nice?

489
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Speaker 2: Okay, I'll get you one of those if you can

490
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Speaker 2: do it.

491
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Speaker 1: From Musashi drink. Okay, what have we got?

492
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Speaker 2: Okay? First quote? A rising tide.

493
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Speaker 1: A rising tie is a rising tide, not atomic cann

494
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Speaker 1: A rising tide brings joyous ends. No, No, A rising

495
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Speaker 1: tide and a lowering ground. What does that mean? I

496
00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:07,080
Speaker 1: don't know. A rising tide dry sand, No, it'll be

497
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Speaker 1: witsand oh no, Medie, can you give me like the idea?

498
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:12,399
Speaker 2: Now you're just saying wood just putting woods?

499
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Speaker 1: A rising tide comes once a month. No, No, it's

500
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Speaker 1: more than that. Is a rising tide, a rising sun.

501
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Speaker 2: It's all Can I shall I tell you kind of

502
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Speaker 2: the general gist of what it's about. It's it's the

503
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Speaker 2: idea of like a buoyant economy, like an improved economy

504
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Speaker 2: will benefit everyone.

505
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Speaker 1: A rising tide of rising society. No, okay, a rising

506
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Speaker 1: tide just brings joyous times.

507
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Speaker 2: You see that at the start. No, it's not rising tide.

508
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 2: A rising tide lifts all boats. The economy rises, everyone rises.

509
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Speaker 1: Not a great start. I'm not going to get the

510
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Speaker 1: massage drink an I.

511
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Speaker 2: Not at this rate, but I'll give you a second one.

512
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Speaker 2: You can't make an omelet.

513
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:07,159
Speaker 1: You can't make an omelet, but you can buy the eggs.

514
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 1: You can't make an omelet without milk. No, you can't

515
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:18,680
Speaker 1: make an omelet without the chick in. You can't make

516
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 1: an omelet unless you're willing to put in the work.

517
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god. You can't make an omelet and not

518
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Speaker 1: eat it.

519
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Speaker 2: That's true. Well, I mean you could not eat it,

520
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 2: but it would be foolish to make an omelet and

521
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Speaker 2: not eat it. You can't make an omelet without breaking

522
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Speaker 2: a few weeks.

523
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Speaker 1: Oh, that's good.

524
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 2: I know. It's the quote.

525
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Speaker 1: One more quote.

526
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Speaker 2: If you lie down with dogs, you.

527
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Speaker 1: Sleep with the dogs, flakers and you fall asleep with

528
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Speaker 1: the dogs. If you lie I know something about sleeping

529
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 1: dogs lie. Sleeping dogs lie, So if you lie with

530
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Speaker 1: the dogs, they will sleep.

531
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Speaker 2: I felt peaceful or something.

532
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Speaker 1: Well, I just know that there is the dogs life.

533
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 1: If you lie it down with dogs, you might get fleas.

534
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Speaker 2: Well kind of, I'm going to give that to you.

535
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 2: If you lie down with dogs, you'll get up with fleas.

536
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:23,639
Speaker 2: I'll get that. Man. It was touch and go, but

537
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 2: I'll get that mustache you drink out to you, all right.

538
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:30,879
Speaker 1: I'm so Sorryzilla. That was incredibly painful to endure. I

539
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:35,159
Speaker 1: was one out of three.

540
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Speaker 2: Betty and the podcast that I am coming up two

541
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Speaker 2: years at the end of this year that I've been

542
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Speaker 2: married to my husband Ryan.

543
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Speaker 1: That's a long time these days, coulation.

544
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Speaker 2: I'd like to I always, you know what, I would

545
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Speaker 2: like to have, always thought that I would at least

546
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Speaker 2: make it to two years.

547
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Speaker 1: Well, look, pat yourself on the back. In all seriousness,

548
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Speaker 1: I think that's a beautiful thing and you should cherish

549
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Speaker 1: every day.

550
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Speaker 2: I will say, I don't know how much longer it's

551
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Speaker 2: going to last.

552
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: What do you mean?

553
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 2: I was walking Ryan and I went out with a

554
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 2: friend the other night and we were walking down the

555
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:07,679
Speaker 2: street and I got a little bit stuck behind them.

556
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 2: I got there was a beautiful shot of the sky

557
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Speaker 2: tower and I was taking a photo of it from

558
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Speaker 2: a grand and so they kept walking, so I had

559
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 2: to like run to catch up to them, and so

560
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 2: I'd missed part of the conversation. When I caught up

561
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:22,360
Speaker 2: with them, I was saying to our friend, yeah, when

562
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Speaker 2: we get divorced, And I said, excuse me, when we

563
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Speaker 2: get divorced?

564
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Speaker 1: Sorry? What?

565
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Speaker 2: And he was saying, when not we get divorced? Not

566
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 2: have He said, what would be fun as if we

567
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 2: had like joint part Like we'll have joint parties, like

568
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 2: joint divorce parties. But then he said we won't be

569
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Speaker 2: able to have them on the same night because then

570
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:46,680
Speaker 2: there'll be a competition as to who goes to which party.

571
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:48,639
Speaker 2: I said, I loved it.

572
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Speaker 1: He's thought about that.

573
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:52,120
Speaker 2: It was even two years in you and you're already

574
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:54,439
Speaker 2: planning your divorce party. What have you seen out an

575
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 2: outlook calendar, invite for it and everything?

576
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Speaker 1: Was he dead pan serious?

577
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 2: He was kind of just OK. I hope he was joking,

578
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,680
Speaker 2: we're not getting divorced. We're fine, We're fine, We're fine.

579
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it.

580
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,920
Speaker 2: Got me thinking, what would you do? If you got divorced,

581
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 2: do you have a divorce part? Is that a thing?

582
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:15,120
Speaker 1: It's definitely by this sounds of a more common thing

583
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 1: these days. I mean, immediately, my judgmental bells go off

584
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 1: a bit and I think we'll take he But then

585
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 1: I think, actually, it's probably actually quite a cathartic, healthy

586
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 1: thing to do to kind of honor the end of

587
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 1: a marriage. Do you know what I mean? Yeah, And

588
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 1: if you choose to do a little party and it's tasteful,

589
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,639
Speaker 1: I don't know, not screw don't even feels good for you.

590
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 2: Ryan had said to my our friend, I wouldn't be allowed.

591
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 2: Ryan said, I can't have my party on the same

592
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 2: night as Maddie's party because he would be too He'd

593
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 2: be too worried that people would tune up to Ryan's.

594
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 2: And that is true.

595
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Speaker 1: It was always awk when you have to choose the friends. Afterwards.

596
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 2: My fear would be I would be the drop in

597
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 2: party at five Theory and be like, hey, I'm just

598
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 2: quickly calling and I've got another party to go to

599
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 2: believe it's right the party?

600
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 1: Oh what one hundred? The hats as a number, or

601
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:08,480
Speaker 1: you can text four for eight seven. Have you had

602
00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 1: a divorce party or some really interesting way that you

603
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 1: honored the end of the marriage.

604
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 2: Yes, I love that.

605
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:17,880
Speaker 1: What was that? Yeah, maybe it was a party. Maybe

606
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 1: it was like did you in the dress? Did you

607
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 1: do the burning of the dress some kind of ceremony

608
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 1: or ritual to mark the end of that time of

609
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 1: your life. Give us a call a light, hundred the

610
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:30,480
Speaker 1: hats so you can text four for eight seven. You

611
00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 1: can stay in honim.

612
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 4: Maddy and PJ Madi in PJ the podcast.

613
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 1: And we're talking what you did after the divorce. Hundred

614
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 1: the hat so you can text fre for eight seven.

615
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 2: Some great texts coming in. Someone said, my friends have

616
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:51,560
Speaker 2: organized a divorce party for me in three weeks when

617
00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 2: it's officially processed. Will be a ceremonial burning of the

618
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 2: marriage certificate and then dyeing my dress different colors before

619
00:29:58,720 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 2: cutting it up.

620
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 1: So we were saying, like someone told me that if

621
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Speaker 1: you if you don't honor the marriage, it kind of

622
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,480
Speaker 1: like hits you like grief and you actually need to

623
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:12,719
Speaker 1: give it the time or else you don't process it properly.

624
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 1: So I mean, I think this is a great thing. Oh,

625
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Speaker 1: handa the hat so you can teach for four eight seven,

626
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 1: Denise is joining us? Denise, what did you do after

627
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: the divorce?

628
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Speaker 6: So a few months after we separated, I kind of

629
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Speaker 6: felt really weird not wearing my rings anymore, and so

630
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 6: he had left his. It was reasonably amicable, but he

631
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 6: left his ring behind. He didn't wear it, and so

632
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 6: I decided to melt them down and make myself something else,

633
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:41,479
Speaker 6: totally different that didn't look like any of the other rings,

634
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 6: and by now where that instead kind of as a yeah,

635
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 6: so it's still got the mainstone from my engagement ring,

636
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 6: and I had just spend a little bit more and

637
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 6: put a couple more diamonds in it. But I've got

638
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Speaker 6: this totally unique one of the compass that put honors.

639
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that Scott his ring in it too, Denise,

640
00:30:58,560 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 1: Or are they two separate things?

641
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 6: No, No, it's got to it was his ring, my ring,

642
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 6: the engagement ring. And then I actually had had a

643
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 6: couple of inheresed ones from my great aunt, but I

644
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 6: never walked because they were really old fashioned. So yeah,

645
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 6: well more gold chap.

646
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:13,840
Speaker 1: Really cool idea.

647
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 2: I love it. Nice, nice, nice work.

648
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 1: This is my favorite text to celebrate my divorce. I

649
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,479
Speaker 1: went to Rainbow's End with my exes and laws and

650
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 1: the kids and had a whale of a time. I'm

651
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 1: so glad I keep their friendship through and after the divorce.

652
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:30,160
Speaker 1: I don't hold it against them their son So his

653
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 1: brother turned out to be a douche canon We go

654
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 1: to rainbows in every year now.

655
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 2: I love them.

656
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:37,800
Speaker 1: So good.

657
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 4: Mary and PJ Mady and PJ the podcast that I

658
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 4: was just saying before I went to Wellington on the

659
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Speaker 4: weekend to visit one of my best friends who has

660
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 4: two beautiful children and one of them is my god son.

661
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 2: She's a busy woman, she's got a lot going on,

662
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 2: and so I said to her, Hey, put me to work,

663
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 2: like I'm I'm not here for a free ride, a

664
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Speaker 2: free meal. Put me to work, a t and a

665
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 2: cup of tea. Anything you need done around the house,

666
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 2: I'm happy to help out. And she simple, Actually, you know,

667
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 2: this is the beauty of long term friendships. There's no

668
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 2: there's no pussy footing right eating about the bush. No,

669
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 2: you just get straight to the point you want something done. Yeah,

670
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 2: absolutely I do. And she said, there's actually a couple

671
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 2: of things. First of all, can you move this big cheer?

672
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 2: So I had to move it had to move a cheer?

673
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 1: Sorry, does she know who frieden? Very well?

674
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 2: Well, she was as surprised as anyone to see me.

675
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 2: I lifted that cheer like it was nobody's business and

676
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 2: moved it down.

677
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 1: All well, how sweety? How long did it take?

678
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 2: Its? Easy as mate? Easy, I've been, I've been you

679
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 2: know me. I've been shifting to at the gym, pumped

680
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 2: in daily mate. Other things she asked me to do,

681
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 2: and this is where I went. I went, Okay, the

682
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 2: cheer is one thing. She said to me. I've got

683
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 2: this cabinet that I've bought. I need I need to

684
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 2: put some stuff in it, and she said, can you

685
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 2: put it together? I said, what do you mean? She said,

686
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 2: it's a flat pack? I said, okay, my beautiful friend,

687
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 2: we've been friends for how long? And she said I know?

688
00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 2: And I said, do you think I would have any

689
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 2: idea how to put a flat pack together? She said,

690
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 2: I've got faith in you. So I pulled out the

691
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 2: instructions and started to look at it. I pulled all

692
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 2: the pieces, lay them all out and started to go

693
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 2: through the instructions and it said I needed some tools.

694
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 2: So I said to her, can you get me a spanner.

695
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 1: I bet that was a spanner in the works.

696
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 2: So she went she said, yeah, I've got one in

697
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:35,720
Speaker 2: the garage. So she went out and she came back

698
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 2: with a spanner. Oh my god, that's the wrong That's

699
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 2: not what I that's not what I meant. And I went, oh,

700
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 2: I mean meant a screwdriver. So that was my first mistake.

701
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 2: And I thought, well, this is this is doesn't bode well,

702
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 2: does her. But she came back with the screwdriver. I

703
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 2: started to slowly but surely put everything together, and it

704
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 2: was things were moving like I was figuring it out.

705
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 2: I was putting the pieces together, and it was all

706
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 2: slotting together. I got the doors of the cabinet on,

707
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 2: I screwed in the handles, and then I went round

708
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:17,680
Speaker 2: the back because I'd been very front focused. Oh god,

709
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 2: and I went round the back and there was this

710
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 2: big hole, like, there's a big hole in the top

711
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 2: with something that was coming out of the hole. And

712
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 2: I didn't know how to put it back in, and

713
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 2: I didn't know how to cover up the hole. And

714
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 2: I was here, I was flicking through the instructions and

715
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 2: I saw nothing about a hole in the back of

716
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 2: the in the back of the.

717
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 1: It like a hole for the plugs to go through.

718
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 2: Why would there be plugs in the cabinet though, sometimes

719
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 2: this was just like like shelves.

720
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes they do that. So then you can put

721
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 1: like a little light on there or something, and then

722
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 1: you put the hole, yeah, put the call through it.

723
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 2: There was this little metal thing that I had screwed

724
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:01,879
Speaker 2: into the top the cabinet that then was coming out

725
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 2: of it, and I was going, I don't even know

726
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 2: what this bit's for. And I was flicking through the

727
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 2: instructions and I was seeing if I was missing a piece,

728
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 2: and I couldn't see anything. And in the end, I went,

729
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 2: you know what, the doors of the cabinet open. The

730
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 2: shelves are in there, and they're not falling off. If

731
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:21,240
Speaker 2: we just put the cabinet up against the back wall,

732
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 2: no one will not no one will ever know. And

733
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:26,359
Speaker 2: she went, you know what, It's better than I would

734
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 2: have done. So it's fine. But I did feel a

735
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 2: little bit bad because I thought I hear I was thinking,

736
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 2: I've absolutely nailed this, and then I looked around the

737
00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:35,479
Speaker 2: back and I hadn't quite nailed it.

738
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 1: And then it falls apart. It's oh my honestly, the

739
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:45,399
Speaker 1: number I just I don't I don't do flip pecks

740
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 1: anymore because I just I've done the wrong side and

741
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 1: it just looked spangled all of them. So I just

742
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 1: handed to my husband. I just way better.

743
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 2: But I always go to there, what's the add that

744
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 2: Diyatt's in our DNA? And I feel like so and

745
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:00,880
Speaker 2: your DNA not at all of my But I feel

746
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,399
Speaker 2: like so many people out there must have had that thought, right,

747
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 2: you know that that thought of I can do this,

748
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 2: I don't need to call the professionals, and then it

749
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 2: just turns into disaster.

750
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 1: Well, let's open up the phones. Oh waite, hundred the hats.

751
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 1: When did you think that you could fix that and

752
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 1: it backfired and you had to call in the professionals.

753
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 1: Give us a cool oh hundred the hats. We've got

754
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 1: some help pets about to give away for you Monday night,

755
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 1: or you can text In four four eight seven the podcast.

756
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 2: I got tasked with putting a flat pack cabinet to

757
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 2: be together over the weekend by one of my friends.

758
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:41,280
Speaker 2: I thought I nailed it, and I was very surprised

759
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:44,879
Speaker 2: because the whole time I just kept waiting for some

760
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 2: sort of screw up, and then lo and behold, I

761
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 2: went round the back and it was a big hole

762
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:49,879
Speaker 2: in the back of it. And I have no idea

763
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:51,399
Speaker 2: where the whole came from or how you were meant

764
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:52,040
Speaker 2: to fill it up.

765
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 1: I still think you might be in luck and it

766
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,919
Speaker 1: could just be in a little cable hole.

767
00:36:57,960 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm going to go.

768
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 1: Just say that for the rest story. But we did

769
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 1: want to open up the fires this afternoon or this evening. Now,

770
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 1: I'll wait hundred the hats. When should you have just

771
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:10,279
Speaker 1: called the professionals? You tried yourself at failed and you

772
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:12,319
Speaker 1: should have just gone straight to the pros. Gary, what

773
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: happened to you?

774
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:14,359
Speaker 4: Oh?

775
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:16,920
Speaker 8: I thought it'd be clever and I would change the

776
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 8: bullcock in the water tank and the roofs of the

777
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 8: house and the ceiling, right, yeah, And I got up there,

778
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:24,399
Speaker 8: and I thought i'd turned off all the water, and

779
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 8: of course I unscrewed the ballcock or the water coming

780
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 8: squirting out. I hadn't, I hadn't turned it.

781
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:35,800
Speaker 1: Oh no, oh, no, soaking.

782
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 8: Drip through all the ceiling, dripping out through the light,

783
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 8: through the light switches. We had to move out of

784
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 8: the house sixt week.

785
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 1: Gary, I tell you what. We're just so stubborn. Ask

786
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 1: were like, oh we can do it. No, you got it.

787
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 5: You see Gary?

788
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 2: Are you are you a married man?

789
00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: I am.

790
00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:59,360
Speaker 8: I was nearly divorced, say.

791
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 2: The podcast.

792
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 1: So my dear son Charlie is acquiring more and more

793
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 1: vocabulary every day. It is the best thing, but it's

794
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 1: also quite terrifying how much they are sponges and how

795
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 1: much they absorb of what you say.

796
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:24,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like what was his first word? Ah, it was.

797
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 1: Dada or mama? Like it was it went between us

798
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 1: like he'd have favorites to go mama. He'd sort of

799
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 1: play us off between each other. The other day though,

800
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 1: I said to him, Charlie, so we go because he

801
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 1: still hasn't said his name Charlie. He'll say so many

802
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 1: other things. I'll be like, who am I? He'll go mama,

803
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,719
Speaker 1: and then I'll point to beach and he'll go I'll

804
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 1: go who's this and he'll go dead dart and then

805
00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 1: I'll go who are you?

806
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:46,720
Speaker 2: And he says bugger, bugger.

807
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:50,319
Speaker 1: I don't know where there's come from, but do you

808
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 1: know what I think there's been some mixed lines of

809
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:55,839
Speaker 1: communication because we used to always call him Bubba right.

810
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 2: He goes around saying, Bugger, I thought you were going

811
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 2: to say, I thought you were going to say. He

812
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 2: just like paused and had this real existential crisis where

813
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 2: he goes.

814
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:05,840
Speaker 1: Who am I?

815
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 2: Who am I? Oh my god, I don't know.

816
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 1: And then the other day Bej had when we were

817
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 1: on holiday, I'd gone up up to the lighthouse for

818
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: a bit of a run walk. BJ couldn't join me

819
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 1: because he had an injured ankle, so he took Charlie

820
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:24,399
Speaker 1: on a bit of a detour and they went into

821
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 1: a cafe and got like a takeaway scan and a

822
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 1: little coffee. And is this standing in line Charlie. BJ's

823
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:34,800
Speaker 1: like holding Charlie and Charlie sort of down by his

824
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:36,799
Speaker 1: legs and he's sort of just standing there. And he's

825
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 1: quite an attractive girl in front of BJ and the line,

826
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 1: and she's wearing really like basically, I'm just gonna be

827
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:46,400
Speaker 1: her butt looks real great, like the tights.

828
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 2: The tights look great.

829
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 1: She looks good.

830
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 2: And was like, Okay, come up what you're putting down?

831
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:53,239
Speaker 2: Beja's like, you know.

832
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,399
Speaker 1: Just don't know where to look like you just sweet ass?

833
00:39:57,520 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 1: What does a near two year old Charlie do oh god,

834
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 1: bam bam.

835
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I just say.

836
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 1: Bam no, I'm on the ground, like if I'm walking

837
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:13,680
Speaker 1: in the often he will just come up behind me

838
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:16,880
Speaker 1: and go bam bamt like playing with my cheeks and

839
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 1: need to probably drip.

840
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:19,919
Speaker 2: He is his father's sound.

841
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 1: Really, just see to this random girl in active he

842
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 1: bam bam.

843
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:30,280
Speaker 2: And she she would have known to She absolutely.

844
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 1: The sunglasses. I'm just trying to acting like he has

845
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 1: no idea what's going on. Shut up to PU my

846
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 1: cover kids. They say the dundest thing.

847
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 2: Many in the podcast

848
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:46,360
Speaker 1: That