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Speaker 1: The Hits Drive with Meddi and Pja thanks to Chimm's

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Speaker 1: Weir House, The Real House of Fragrances and Hello everyone,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the podcast. I feel like we should do

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Speaker 1: like a game to warm up the podcast. What's a

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Speaker 1: fun little game? Medie, You've always got a good one?

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Speaker 1: Oh god, Ki's Mary Kel.

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Speaker 2: Yes, surely sure? Oh no, yeah one? Have I done

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Speaker 2: with real people or famous people?

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Speaker 1: Should we do hats? Team members? Oh my god, Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, Oh my.

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Speaker 2: God, I'm nervous.

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Speaker 1: Okay, your boss Harriet john O from the Morning Show

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Speaker 1: and on wait, hang on, let me thank this one out.

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Speaker 1: Oh shit, guys, can we all come up with one together?

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Speaker 2: I like where you're going with it. You just need.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So Harriet john O and I host someone we

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Speaker 1: all know? What about Flitch from Zidim. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: this is all so shoke Mary and curl out of

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Speaker 1: John from John and Bean Blitch from Bletch and Haley.

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Speaker 1: It's d oh. We allow to give them. They're like

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Speaker 1: a sister station. They're a little station. We could call

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Speaker 1: them tid M, just giving them a branch.

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Speaker 2: And we all work for the same company. The sixties

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Speaker 2: is our succeeds really is it?

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Speaker 1: Fear popping Harriet in there a bit of a rug

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Speaker 1: one because you're not into girls.

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Speaker 2: But she's a good cook.

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Speaker 1: She Yeah, she's a good sort. She's a great same

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Speaker 1: school as Okay, alright, I'll leave her in there. Keep

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Speaker 1: it spicy, okay, because you're not going to kill your

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Speaker 1: boss because I mean she's playing your belts.

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Speaker 2: No, but John, I love John.

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Speaker 1: I know I have a soft spot for get a.

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Speaker 2: Real sauce for John. He's a cutie and he's just

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Speaker 2: such a nice guy.

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Speaker 1: Don't they get awkward? But when we say him he's

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Speaker 1: just a nice guy, he's just cool.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's cool.

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Speaker 1: Fletch is a really good friend of yours.

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Speaker 2: Friend of mine. I can't.

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Speaker 1: Can't you marry him?

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Speaker 2: No? I wouldn't and he wouldn't want me to.

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Speaker 1: You're not really his type.

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Speaker 2: He likes his he likes his alone time, does Fletch?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay?

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Speaker 2: So but then he's a friend of mine. And the

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Speaker 2: alternative is like, I'm gonna have to road hi, I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna have to road him. I'll rude him. Got his birthday,

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Speaker 2: his birthday dinner and yes, absolutely tell us Okay, So

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Speaker 2: and then marrying and killing Harriet and John. I'm going

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Speaker 2: to have to marry John O, which raise your killing

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Speaker 2: our boss, which is so horrible. I love Harry Ry.

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Speaker 2: Does she listened to the podcast? I hope not.

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Speaker 1: We'll soon find out. Actually, who listens to the podcast?

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Speaker 2: You do?

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Speaker 1: All right? This we've got time for.

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Speaker 2: Shall I do one for you? Shall I do?

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Speaker 1: See you? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I'm going to do.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to no, don't I know You're gonna drove.

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Speaker 2: Your man o boss. I'm going to do stayin O,

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Speaker 2: our bigger boss.

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Speaker 1: Come on, and this is weird.

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Speaker 2: Know this be no McClung, the other boss that we were.

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Speaker 1: No, you can't just so better of the boss.

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Speaker 2: I'm doing bettle of the bosses.

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, Oh my goodness. Okay, So so shag

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Speaker 1: Mary kill? Oh this is so appropriate? Like is this

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Speaker 1: an appropriate?

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Speaker 2: That might be? But you started it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'll say who I'll kill and Mary and you

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Speaker 1: can wear out the rest. Oh it's hard. I've got

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Speaker 1: a soft spot for all of them.

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Speaker 2: I know you do.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say Mary, yeah, And I'm going to say.

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Speaker 2: Kel Stano, You've done it, You've done it, You've done wrong.

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Speaker 1: All right, everybody enjoying the podcast. We've got group therapy,

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Speaker 1: which I think I need after playing this game.

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Speaker 2: Also we have are we talking about the expensive things

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Speaker 2: that you've done for your pets and very boy pets out.

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Speaker 1: There, boogie pets, and the really cool stories behind how

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Speaker 1: you actually meet your were's. Some wild ones come through it.

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Speaker 1: We don't expect it to get the scandalous. So all

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Speaker 1: of that and more coming up podcast. Enjoy the podcast.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes in life, METI, you just have to admit to fate.

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Speaker 1: You have to work out your strength and you have

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Speaker 1: can be a farmer's wife. I can't do it. I've

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Speaker 2: I've seen you unlock those gates. It's fine.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking more on the domestic aredon. So I obviously

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Speaker 1: married to a farmer. I did, even though I did

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Speaker 1: grow up in like country mythvin, I've never been like

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Speaker 1: play off like I'm this tough girl from mythyn. My

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Speaker 1: brothers played rugby, my uncle's farm. I'm not really all of.

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Speaker 2: That, you know, you famously grow up in the three

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Speaker 3: And myth.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, I've been trying so hard because I just I

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Speaker 1: do love a house that smells like baking. And I

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Speaker 2: The cheese gone. What is it?

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Speaker 1: Cheese gone? I'll do cheese go on. Today I tried

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Speaker 1: I was like easy, right, like foolproof. You can't stuff

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Speaker 2: That is that is the key crapicial difference between baking

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Speaker 2: have to be very precise. It's like science and page

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Speaker 2: you and I we're never good science, ever.

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Speaker 1: And so to throw things to throw something else in

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Speaker 1: area where you can if you're brave enough cooking it.

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Speaker 1: So sometimes it's amazing and I pull it off. But

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Speaker 1: I just think, now I'm at that point. Maybe it's

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Speaker 2: Do you have Do you have to do it in

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Speaker 2: I just think, Maye, are you trying to be like

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Speaker 1: I really thought I was going into my home sitting

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Speaker 1: Guys drying so hard with it.

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Speaker 4: Stick with it, Stick with it, Maddie and PJ the

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Speaker 1: I saw an article art today about Britain's richest family,

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Speaker 1: the Hindujas. There's some allegations floating around basically suggesting they

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Speaker 1: is that equate to New Zealand dollars? It's our fifteen

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Speaker 1: What's the can?

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Speaker 2: A year significantly less than that?

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Speaker 1: How much do you love Otis? Medi?

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Speaker 2: I adore him, but cheap food and a few snacks

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Speaker 1: Isn't he fine? Brand I tried to do some Matty

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Speaker 1: the bougie pets. Some people treat their pets, and you know,

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Speaker 2: A few years ago in Auckland, they opened a dog

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Speaker 2: doggy fried chicken, and you could go along and food

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Speaker 1: on Facebook. We asked the question, what's come through there

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Speaker 2: Amy Scherisa's seven hundred and fifty dollars on a cat

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Speaker 2: from one thousand dollars Maine coons. Those are those big cats,

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Speaker 2: you've got to spend big if you want it to last.

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Speaker 1: Well, you do some of our text and actually, just

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Speaker 1: just then, I have a bougie pet. Chest of the

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Speaker 1: Just sounds boozy right, No more say he climbed on

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Speaker 1: the dinner table and stole my lambshack right, my fate

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Speaker 1: when we went to check on the baby. What's more,

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Speaker 1: he instays on sleeping in our bed at night, not

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Speaker 1: my partner and I. I cannot len Maddy and PJ.

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Speaker 1: Madi and PJ the pod cast. We just want to

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Speaker 1: know on white hundred the hat so you can text

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Speaker 1: us four for eight seven do you have a boogie pet?

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Speaker 1: Did your pet enjoy the finer things in life?

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Speaker 2: Some brilliant tests coming in peage on four four eight seven. Hi, guys,

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Speaker 2: my two dogs are very spoiled. Currently on my way

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Speaker 2: to Starbucks for a coffee and two puppuccinos for them

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Speaker 2: and they own us. I'd say on the treats alone,

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Speaker 2: we spend at least two thousand dollars a year.

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Speaker 1: Excuse my ignorance, but what does it puppacino consist of?

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Speaker 2: I think literally is milk?

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Speaker 1: Is that?

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Speaker 1: Just a little frothy milk with a little.

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Speaker 2: Sprinkling, like some fluffy almost that you get a gloffey.

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Speaker 1: Would you put some like yeasty flakes on top to

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Speaker 2: see the appearance, you jump in the car with them.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, and it all adds up. That's the thing about

441
00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:25,440
Speaker 1: friendships and relationships. Sometimes it is like a instead of

442
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:27,920
Speaker 1: like a sprint a marathon, where you know you chap in.

443
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 1: Sometimes then they chap in. But in this situation, okay,

444
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Speaker 1: we're going to say. The general sentiment is it's time

445
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Speaker 1: to move on. Let it go, Let it go, let

446
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Speaker 1: it go. Many the podcast, some internal dramas have been

447
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Speaker 1: going down this study artecks I'm frustrated page.

448
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Speaker 2: I'm frustrated, and I get frustrated every day, and you

449
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Speaker 2: see it because here's what happens in the studio here

450
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Speaker 2: in our building. I share a computer with Ben, who

451
00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:03,760
Speaker 2: does the Jonavan Ben Breakfast show in the mornings, and

452
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:07,399
Speaker 2: every time I come into the studio, he is still

453
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 2: his profile is still logged in. I don't have access

454
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Speaker 2: to his actual emails or anything like that, but I

455
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Speaker 2: have to Jess, wouldn't it, But I have to log

456
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Speaker 2: him out of his profile and then log back in

457
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 2: as myself. And sometimes for some reason, it takes like

458
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Speaker 2: ten minutes to load the new page for me to

459
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Speaker 2: be able to log in, and so I'm just sitting

460
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Speaker 2: here waiting and waiting and waiting, and it is so frustrating.

461
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Speaker 1: Every minute counts when you're in a professional work environment.

462
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Speaker 1: Am I right?

463
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Speaker 2: So I thought to myself, how can we get the

464
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Speaker 2: message through to Ben that it would be very helpful

465
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Speaker 2: to me if he logged out of his computer. And

466
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Speaker 2: we thought we could get our big boss Mandoin to

467
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Speaker 2: prank Ben by saying that he needs to do a

468
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Speaker 2: bit of a refresher course with it on how to

469
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Speaker 2: log in and log out of his computer.

470
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Speaker 1: Mana, our boss is standing by. We're going to dial through.

471
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Speaker 1: Let's see what Ben has to say.

472
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Speaker 8: Hey, Ma, I'm good mate. How are you right? Sorry,

473
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Speaker 8: it's just no, you're a good mate. Phone tag. You

474
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Speaker 8: know what it's like, you know, it's like, sorry, have

475
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Speaker 8: you have you got one minute?

476
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Speaker 4: Yeah? Man? What's up?

477
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Speaker 8: Perfect? Hey?

478
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Speaker 9: I know it's been a really busy couple of weeks

479
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:21,680
Speaker 9: with conference and everything last week, but I was just

480
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Speaker 9: hoping to get something and your calendar it have just

481
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Speaker 9: given me a call and they've been looking through their

482
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Speaker 9: systems and processes at the moment and it's come up

483
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Speaker 9: on a report that you're not logging out of the

484
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Speaker 9: studio computer at the end of the show.

485
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Speaker 1: Ah okay, yep.

486
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Speaker 9: And because it's a shared computer, they're concerned about the

487
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Speaker 9: access remaining open and they need to make sure the

488
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Speaker 9: process is a streamline.

489
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Speaker 8: You know what it's like with the herald and everything

490
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Speaker 8: else and the security risk. So I'm just this.

491
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Speaker 9: I've just got a form with them at the moment,

492
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Speaker 9: but basically I need to book you in for a

493
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Speaker 9: session with them. It'll be probably about forty five minutes

494
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Speaker 9: just to run through the logging out process.

495
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Speaker 8: Logout, just to log out.

496
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Speaker 9: I know, mate, I know, it's one of those things

497
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Speaker 9: I said, are you serious, like to seriously click log

498
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Speaker 9: out on a computer? But apparently it's they reckon. If

499
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Speaker 9: they can get through it quickly, it'll be thirty minutes.

500
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Speaker 9: Otherwise it'll be about forty five.

501
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Speaker 4: Wow.

502
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Speaker 8: Okay, what what day works be for you next week?

503
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Speaker 1: Um?

504
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Speaker 2: Oh, look at the calendar. Probably early afternoon.

505
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can start doing it.

506
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Speaker 7: Well, that helps to run me through it?

507
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Speaker 1: Yes, it would help, be in because.

508
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Speaker 2: Every single day that I come into this studio I

509
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Speaker 2: have to spend at least five minutes logging out from

510
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Speaker 2: your bloody profile. So if you can, if you can

511
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Speaker 2: spare forty five next week to do this, I course

512
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Speaker 2: that'd be great. Thank you very much, Longer.

513
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Speaker 1: Company man, Christian. At the end, I'm like I can

514
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Speaker 1: make those any longer.

515
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Speaker 2: So here is your warning. Ben. We want you to

516
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 2: log out of your computer every day when you leave

517
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 2: the studio.

518
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Speaker 8: All right, I see.

519
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Speaker 4: I don't know how they did stuff over at TV many,

520
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Speaker 4: but probably the same.

521
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Speaker 1: Way Lison learned.

522
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Speaker 2: Can we can we call us a lesson learned logout.

523
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Speaker 1: The podcast.

524
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Speaker 2: I've mentioned this before, but I'm in my very first

525
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Speaker 2: bridal party for the first time ever.

526
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Speaker 1: Because how many of you, how many of you on

527
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Speaker 1: the party.

528
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:43,879
Speaker 2: Four of us and then you well, I've got to

529
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Speaker 2: organize a hen's do and there's a she's marrying a

530
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 2: guy with Indian heritage, and so we've got to do

531
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Speaker 2: a sand geet, which is like a traditional element to

532
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 2: like an Indian wedding and it's beautiful. We have to

533
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Speaker 2: learn a choreographed dance routine as part of the bridal party.

534
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 1: That's sorry, That is so up your alley. Don't act

535
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,120
Speaker 1: like it's going to be hard. You're going to be amazing.

536
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 2: No, I love it, but it's also quite stressful learning

537
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 2: all these all these much true.

538
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,120
Speaker 1: You want it because you want to get it right totally.

539
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:17,880
Speaker 2: Yeah. And so my best friend we've known each other

540
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 2: since we were thirteen, we went to high school together,

541
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 2: and she came around on the weekends so that we

542
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Speaker 2: could start to learn this dance that we've got to

543
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 2: do for the same geek. And while we were there,

544
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 2: we started reminiscing about our childhood and our friendship and

545
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:34,639
Speaker 2: high school days and everything, and it was reminded to

546
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:40,399
Speaker 2: me how we actually became friends in the first place. Messenger, No,

547
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 2: so no, So it's kind of it. Well, it's an

548
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:49,640
Speaker 2: awkward story, but I'll preface this by saying everyone involved

549
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,399
Speaker 2: is totally fine. But when I was when I was

550
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 2: at high school, I had a very very dear friend

551
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,720
Speaker 2: of mine and we were not necessarily the coolest of

552
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:02,479
Speaker 2: kids at school, and so our lunchtimes we were very

553
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 2: like bonded together, and she ended up in a quite

554
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 2: serious car accident. She was fine, but she was in

555
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:12,680
Speaker 2: hospital for a couple of months. After the excellent she's

556
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 2: totally so lonely without so lonely. So I went to

557
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 2: school one day and Jackie, who is now my best

558
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:25,359
Speaker 2: friend from high school, had just started at school, and

559
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,159
Speaker 2: so I approached her and asked if she would mind

560
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 2: being my temporary best friend while my other friend was away.

561
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:35,359
Speaker 1: So when your best friend comes back.

562
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 2: But Jeckie, because she was new to school, said yeah, sure, fine,

563
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 2: so took up the offer and then we just became

564
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 2: so bonded that the two of us became best friends.

565
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 2: And then when our other friend came back to school,

566
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 2: she kind of joined in on the party and it

567
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 2: was the three of us.

568
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 1: That's sweet. Okay. So then you guys all ended up

569
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Speaker 1: for a space.

570
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 2: Yes, but it all started because I asked her very

571
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 2: audaciously if she would mind being my temporary best friend

572
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 2: to ire.

573
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 1: Just for a fellon, just for a fella. You're like

574
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 1: off the bench to go.

575
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

576
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 1: I love it when there's a good story behind how

577
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 1: you made it. Friend. Oh eight hundred, the hats as

578
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 1: our number. You can text four for a seven. We've

579
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 1: got some Chemistry House prizes up for grabs.

580
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 2: I want some.

581
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 1: I actually want. Stayed in contact with my taxi driver

582
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 1: and we started texting, and she'd asked like what I

583
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 1: was up to on the weekends, and I was like, man,

584
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:26,720
Speaker 1: this could be really a thing, Like imagine if we

585
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 1: usually became really tight. We didn't because I ended up

586
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:34,160
Speaker 1: moving countries. But there was like a period time with

587
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 1: my TEXTI drive and I was like, thank you, this

588
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 1: is quite you know, different kind of way to meet

589
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 1: a friend. Oh, we're getting calls already. Kates called through

590
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Speaker 1: on O Waite hundred the Hats High Kate, Hi, how

591
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 1: did you do your your friend?

592
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 2: So?

593
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 1: I was I had a cat and.

594
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 5: I was moving in with my boyfriend at the time.

595
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 5: Now husband, he's allergen cats. I had to get rid

596
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 5: of her and for a of mine just said off.

597
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 5: You know, we're stuck for the friends who've moved into a.

598
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 6: Flight who have cats and they're thinking about getting a cat.

599
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 5: So they put us in touch with her and we've

600
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 5: been friends for probably eight years now.

601
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 2: Wow, or because she took your stray cat because your

602
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 2: boyfriend was allergic. I love that story. Cake, brilliant, Many

603
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 2: and PJ the podcast.

604
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 1: Moving up the phones A hundred the hats so you

605
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 1: can text us four for ex even what's the wild

606
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 1: story behind your friendship? Is there a really crazy way

607
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 1: that you meet your friend? There's some ticks coming through it,

608
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 1: but we've got phones right now. Oh w eight hundred

609
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 1: the hats Irie. Hello, Hi, Hello, what what even with

610
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 1: your friend?

611
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 6: So our husbands they knew each other, We went out.

612
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:50,719
Speaker 6: I hadn't met her. She was standing across the other

613
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 6: room steering at me, and I didn't like it.

614
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 7: So we went over and bobbed you one.

615
00:30:57,560 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 1: By the end of the light were hanging on to

616
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Speaker 1: each other.

617
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 7: Then we ended up. So any time we go out,

618
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 7: I'm always proticting you.

619
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 1: I'll get you.

620
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 2: That's a story went away. I was not expecting it

621
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Speaker 2: to go. I love.

622
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 1: I think so as you call irin? Oh oh wait?

623
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 2: No, what was that?

624
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 6: Every time we have a couple of biggers, we always

625
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 6: talked about it.

626
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 1: I beat you do.

627
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 2: I bet she goes me one. Thanks Sary.

628
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 1: We've got some ticks coming through. What's this one? One?

629
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 1: My brother cheated on his wife, they separated, and now

630
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 1: she's becoming my best friend and the one I couldn't

631
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 1: do without at work. Isn't it beautiful?

632
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 2: I don't know how I feel about that, But uh Le's.

633
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 1: Got a non and the white cuttle. Good afternoon, and

634
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 1: on hello.

635
00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 6: How are you very well?

636
00:31:58,280 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 1: What happened?

637
00:31:59,800 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 2: So?

638
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 6: My husband took a woman home from the pub and

639
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 6: I found her phone number on his phone. I used

640
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 6: to burn a phone to text her and unreveled his

641
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 6: attendant infidelity and now her and I are very good

642
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 6: friends and our children are even a friend shut.

643
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I love this. I love this. Wait,

644
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 2: come on, are you still with the with the husband?

645
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, because that would make for an awkward friendship then,

646
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 1: but obviously you guys kind of found solidarity and this,

647
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 1: you know, was hatred.

648
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 7: For her kind of I don't hate.

649
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 6: I don't hate.

650
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 1: It's a good way to be.

651
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 2: But I guess he possibly had a type and you

652
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 2: guys exactly. Yeah. I love that story.

653
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:51,680
Speaker 1: You should see it. Neddie's eyes just absolutely light up

654
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 1: when he gets a good juicy story.

655
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 2: Someone else texts, someone else text in earlier and meet

656
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,800
Speaker 2: my best friend that he did on my cheating its husband.

657
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:02,520
Speaker 2: He's a PI.

658
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 1: Sorry, what do we have like real life pis in

659
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 1: New Zealand?

660
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 2: But must do? And now now she's friends with the PI.

661
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this really took a juicier turn than

662
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Speaker 1: I so Maddy and the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I was at a cafe this morning and I

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Speaker 2: took the dog for a walk, and so when we

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Speaker 2: got there, I ordered a coffee and sat outside and

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Speaker 2: just thought we'll just have a little breather and have

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Speaker 2: my coffee sitting outside of the table. All of a sudden,

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Speaker 2: I heard a very very loud rumbling. It was one

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Speaker 2: of those cars that has a very loud.

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Speaker 1: Exhaust, exhaust like the subwafer.

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Speaker 2: It was very loud. The whole car was very loud.

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Speaker 1: That he's just tuning in, you've probably just turned out.

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Speaker 2: The exhaust was very loud, the sub waffer was very loud,

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Speaker 2: and he was playing. I looked into the car and

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Speaker 2: it was like a middle aged man who was playing

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Speaker 2: a song I wouldn't have necessarily imagined him listening to.

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Speaker 1: It was this.

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Speaker 4: Nasty Girl.

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Speaker 1: I've nasty nasty, I've been a nasty girl.

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Speaker 2: I've been a nasty girl. And here's this middle aged

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Speaker 2: man rocking up to the cafe in his car. It

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Speaker 2: just was so unexpected. It was kind of crazy. But

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Speaker 2: that's not where the craziness with this guy ended for

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Speaker 2: me anyway. Yeah, I kind of wanted to get your

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Speaker 2: thoughts peage. He pulled in right outside the cafe, was

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Speaker 2: Nasty Girl still playing. Nasty Girl was still playing. I

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Speaker 2: was just saying that as a Nasty Girl was still playing.

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Speaker 2: He left a car running and then went inside to

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Speaker 2: order his coffin, and he just stood. He just stood

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Speaker 2: inside for like five minutes with his car running while

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Speaker 2: he waited for his takeaway coffee.

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Speaker 1: And everyone to know that he's been a nasty girl.

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Speaker 2: It was quite a nice car as well. And look,

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Speaker 2: I know New Zealand on the whole is relatively safe,

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Speaker 2: but still, yeah, I just thought it's very bold to

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Speaker 2: leave the car, the keys in the car, the car running,

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Speaker 2: Nasty Girl Bloody playing in the stereo for five minutes

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Speaker 2: while you.

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Speaker 1: Go in and order your coffee? Is there? Do you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm thinking about it? No, man, there's a

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Speaker 1: lot of trust. There's a lot of trust. I live

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Speaker 1: in a small town and I probably actual wouldn't do that.

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Speaker 1: I was thinking I had done that, but no, I

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Speaker 1: actually do still. Even if I'm parked right out, like

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Speaker 1: there's a sort of uh container place I go to

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Speaker 1: for coffee and I can literally just run in and

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Speaker 1: out and I'm right there, I'll still actually lock the car. No,

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Speaker 1: I think about it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so he was brave. I would love to know

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Speaker 2: your thoughts on the text machine four four eight seven

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Speaker 2: is this.

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Speaker 1: Should we play nasty Girl?

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Speaker 2: Should we play nasty Girl?

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Speaker 4: On the head?

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Speaker 2: It's our first question and second question, is that normal

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Speaker 2: behavior to just leave the car running while you go

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Speaker 2: into a store.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, love to know your thoughts for the podcast.

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Speaker 1: So my nearly two year old son, Charlie is going

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Speaker 1: through a really cute phase. He's talking so much, and

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Speaker 1: he's getting a real cheeky sense of humor so much.

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Speaker 1: He is so adorable as new game is. Actually I

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Speaker 1: don't know if this is radio friendly, but like so

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Speaker 1: he I've rested him for a long time and so

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Speaker 1: his comfort is to still put his hands down my top.

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Speaker 1: He touches what he calls and I go not boo boo,

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Speaker 1: and he goes booo. So he'll even do them when

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Speaker 1: I go away.

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Speaker 2: He'll do it to Bejo my husband.

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Speaker 1: He'll be like boo and just like you're not gonna

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Speaker 1: get out in and out of that mate, squeeze all

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Speaker 1: you want.

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Speaker 2: There's nothing coming in.

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Speaker 1: So he started like squeezing them really hard and I

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Speaker 1: go not funny, and he goes funny funny. And also

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Speaker 1: he'll tell you to shit down when he's trying to

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Speaker 1: say sit down. Who sat so furious and be like

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Speaker 1: shit shit down anyway, So he's really cute. He's talking

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Speaker 1: a lot, and we're going on a lot of adventures.

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Speaker 1: And in the morning, I really you know, getting him

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Speaker 1: outside his key. We go on machines, We go down

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Speaker 1: to the river. We throw rocks in the river for

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Speaker 1: about twenty minutes to half an hour. Bam onto the

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Speaker 1: next part. We go to the fruit trees and we

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Speaker 1: pick up for joeas bam. Then we go visit the puppies.

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Speaker 1: Like literally, we've got the circuit down, but he's starting

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Speaker 1: to get a little tired of it. He's sort of like,

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Speaker 1: what's next one? And then I discovered that the neighbors

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Speaker 1: have a trampoline, so I know, right, and so this

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Speaker 1: is like Christmas on steroids for him. He's like, what

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Speaker 1: is this thing? Because he's going through a phase of

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Speaker 1: loving bouncing on bids. I introduced him to the trampoline

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Speaker 1: yesterday and he loved it. And then I thought, how

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Speaker 1: bad is it if I do that because our neighbors

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Speaker 1: are only there sort of weekends. Well, I'm just doing

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Speaker 1: this full time, going over using the trampoline. Do I

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Speaker 1: need to start paying like a little fee, a rental fee,

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Speaker 1: a rental feet? Can't I just go hard?

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Speaker 2: Well? How many times? How many times are we talking?

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Speaker 1: Well? This is the first time we've done it. But

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Speaker 1: I can say this is going to be a real

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Speaker 1: staple you dated day.

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Speaker 2: Now you've introduced it to him, he's going to want

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Speaker 2: to exactly.

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Speaker 1: He's going to want it all the time. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: going to be the new bubble.

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Speaker 2: But like I was like, this is great.

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Speaker 1: How good is it when you live next to a

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Speaker 1: neighbor there's got all the fancy equipment.

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Speaker 2: I do think that about Sububia when your neighbor has

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Speaker 2: a pool. Surely surely not much.

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Speaker 1: Like that, right, Although I mean to be fair, they

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Speaker 1: did say feel free to go out and use it

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Speaker 1: when you want, But I'm like, how much is too much?

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Speaker 1: They know they'll never know because they're not there until

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Speaker 1: they get home. And I'm still there with Charlie and

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Speaker 1: I'm like.

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Speaker 2: Come on, let's go. They like you, and they've got

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Speaker 2: those security cameras and every day they're like, there's PJ

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Speaker 2: on the tramp again.

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Speaker 1: And I've known the whole time. Many and the podcast

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Speaker 1: heads