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Speaker 1: The Hits Drive with Meddi and PJ.

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Speaker 2: Thanks to Chimis were House the Real House of Fragrances.

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Speaker 2: Hi everyone, and welcome to the podcast. I hope you

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Speaker 2: are doing well as we gracefully fill.

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Speaker 1: Mike's alive.

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Speaker 3: I'm good, I'm good to go. I just I'm on

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Speaker 3: the show today. Remember I asked you if you thought

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Speaker 3: my friend was going to turn up.

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Speaker 1: I haven't heard from Oh yes, are they going to

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Speaker 1: turn up?

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Speaker 4: Just heard he's going to make it?

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Speaker 1: What are you? Are you going to drink or dinner?

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Speaker 4: No, this is actually this is actually for out my

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Speaker 4: other little Oh.

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Speaker 1: You little your huss your little bit on the little.

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Speaker 4: You're you're my wife. But yeah, I have a mistress.

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Speaker 1: That's okay, that's okay, you guys.

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Speaker 4: At she's a good root. She's a good root.

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Speaker 1: Got mady.

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Speaker 4: Sorry?

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Speaker 1: Do you have.

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Speaker 2: Do you any weird things that you have to do?

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Speaker 2: Like do you get superstitious of it or do you

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Speaker 2: ever have to do any like little ritually things or

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Speaker 2: like you have to wear special undies to have good luck?

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Speaker 1: Nothing?

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Speaker 4: Nothing? Do you?

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Speaker 5: I mean.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to wear stuff. I mean you could,

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Speaker 1: I could talk a day, but.

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Speaker 3: I was do you have Do you have like do

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Speaker 3: you have socks or ones that you have to wear

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Speaker 3: or something?

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Speaker 1: No? No, no, no, no, no no.

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Speaker 2: But I just thought you might be one of those

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Speaker 2: kind of guys. No, I always thought you were a little.

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Speaker 1: Bit more spiritual.

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Speaker 2: Like I remember seeing you talk to Hannah Cruerra, who's

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Speaker 2: an astrologist, an astrologer, she was on the Breakfast Show

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Speaker 2: with you and I often talk to her. We're friends,

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Speaker 2: and I was like, oh my god, I didn't realize that.

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Speaker 2: That was the first time I was like, Wow, Maddie

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Speaker 2: is definitely not into.

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Speaker 4: The world of war, not in the slightest.

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Speaker 3: Was I love so shocked? Was I rude to her

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Speaker 3: though I didn't know. No, interesting, I just don't believe it.

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Speaker 2: No, that's fine, and that's fine. Everyone should not everyone

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Speaker 2: should believe what they totally want to believe.

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Speaker 3: And that's the thing that that's what I've always come

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Speaker 3: back to with like religion and stuff, is I'm like,

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Speaker 3: if you believe, like.

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Speaker 4: Good for you. I would love.

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Speaker 3: I would love to believe in something and greater.

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Speaker 4: I just don't. And it makes me a little bit

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Speaker 4: sad that I don't.

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Speaker 2: No, No, I think you do what what you just

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Speaker 2: got really deep really quick. But like your life experiences

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Speaker 2: lead to your beliefs, right, yeah, And so how.

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Speaker 3: Did you so wo because you've got like, you've got

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Speaker 3: two brothers who are very like much not there.

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Speaker 2: Well, actually one of them is quiet and spiritual. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so I think my grandmother.

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Speaker 4: The older one of them, one uh, the young one

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Speaker 2: Okays, he's probably more so and then the other one

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Speaker 2: bit there. But my grandmother always told us like ghost

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Speaker 2: stories and UFO stories. She had the most amazing yarns,

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Speaker 2: and like she'd always like say, well, when I was

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Speaker 2: the UFO stories. So that kind of always opened my

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Speaker 2: mind up. And then I think, what was it? Either

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Speaker 2: it was some maybe when my grandmother got to Minia

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Speaker 2: or my dad got really un well. I then started

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Speaker 2: like looking, you know, I think I got to that

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Speaker 2: And then I started dabbling and then I was like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, this just feels right poor me, and

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Speaker 2: you know, it just gave me comfort.

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Speaker 1: I guess at a time and then I just kind

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Speaker 4: I do hear the odd story that does.

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Speaker 3: Make me go wow, like maybe there is something. Ryan

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Speaker 4: He's not. He's he's not at all spiritual.

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Speaker 3: Quite black and white, very black and very black and white.

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Speaker 3: But he has a couple of stories from after his

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Speaker 3: herm especially, it's like, well, if you're saying it.

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Speaker 2: Also, after my grandmother died, because she was very close

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Speaker 2: with me, we just had like these really crazy interactions

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Speaker 2: with ladybirds and like it was like she was sitting

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Speaker 2: who have lost people that they.

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Speaker 4: Do Rob Ryan's dragon flies.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So we enjoying my grandmother when she was in

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Speaker 2: So my cousins were all together in London and she

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Speaker 2: was like really close with all of us, and they

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Speaker 2: news there were two little ladybirds together. Wow, and my

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Speaker 2: cousin's wedding ladybird was sitting on my brother's shoulder. It's

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Speaker 2: just been a constant thing, so I think just a little things.

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Speaker 3: Things like that, and it does make it gives me

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Speaker 3: pause for thoughts, you know. But I'm not I'm not like,

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Speaker 3: I'm not getting getting I'm not getting a Crystal's scared.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you a Crystal dildos. Sorry, that was apriate.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever heard about them?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, anyway coming up in the coming up in

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Speaker 2: the podcast. No, I'm not giving them anyway, coming up

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Speaker 2: in the podcast, really great group therapy, sort of a

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Speaker 2: juicy one.

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Speaker 1: This way, Can you not sorry?

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Speaker 4: You go?

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Speaker 1: Can you not escape your profession? We took your calls

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Speaker 1: on that.

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Speaker 3: Plus, I'm just obsessed with the story about the Australia

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Speaker 3: Australia Australian Olympian. Australian Australian Australian Olympian.

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Speaker 4: Wasn't there wild?

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Speaker 1: That was amazing.

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Speaker 3: Thing that the Australian hockey player has done to ensure

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Speaker 4: It's just crazy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a great tale.

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Speaker 2: So you can hear that, plus our chat with Sir Graham,

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Speaker 2: Henry and Tarbet and Nico to talk the new season

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Speaker 2: of Match Fit and so much more coming up of

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Speaker 2: the podcast.

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Speaker 1: Enjoy the podcast.

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Speaker 3: When we started this whole thing, we all got us

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Speaker 3: here at the station. Which song would we like to

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Speaker 3: get behind? Which one of we backing as the best

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Speaker 3: song ever? I went with Wannabe Spice Girls, such a

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Speaker 3: great song.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you got through.

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Speaker 3: The next week, you chose one very there and Deadly

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Speaker 3: Heart Peach.

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Speaker 1: Yes.

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Speaker 2: I walked down the aisle to this song. It was

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Speaker 2: on Crawl Intentions soundtrack. It's just one of those songs

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Speaker 2: from the nineties. Is that when you hear the strings play,

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Speaker 2: you get taken back, You get taken back to a

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Speaker 2: different time. So that's why I chose the Verve but

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Speaker 2: a sweet symphony. Now I'm so really downing, I'm doubting

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Speaker 2: myself and I know so.

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Speaker 1: I have kept the radio down all day.

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Speaker 2: I've kept off social media because I didn't want to

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Speaker 2: know who won. I went head to hit with wagon

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Speaker 3: Poorly man, that's a tough match up, but we've seen

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Speaker 3: crazier things. You and I have been so sure that

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Speaker 3: certain songs are gonna like breeze through, and they've they've

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Speaker 2: But we did a round of Battle of the Hurts

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Speaker 2: the other day and it was country songs and we

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Speaker 2: had Wagon Wheel up against another one and Wagon will

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Speaker 2: absolutely just just haste it like no one wanted anything asked,

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Speaker 2: but Wagon.

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Speaker 4: Wagon were was en up against the verbs but a

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Speaker 2: Just take me out of my misery. Who won this

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Speaker 2: morning at nine o'clock?

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Speaker 3: At nine o'clock this morning? It was close. Oh it

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Speaker 3: was so really close. Sixty percent to forty percent, the

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Speaker 3: winner of the best song ever at nine o'clock this morning.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, don't do the Dom Bowden pause.

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Speaker 4: It was Wagon.

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Speaker 2: We yeah, fine, it's fine.

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry, it's fine.

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Speaker 1: Fine, don't I don't choose my songs to people, please.

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Speaker 4: We know we were pretty sure Wagon were always going

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Speaker 4: to win. I thought it was going to win by more.

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Speaker 2: I must say, sixty forty is better than what to

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Speaker 1: That has It's okay?

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Speaker 4: Are you okay?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm okay, thone's looking at it.

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Speaker 3: Thank god you brought yourself that cookie from there.

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Speaker 1: For the show.

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Speaker 7: Mary and Mary and the podcast.

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Speaker 2: So we've got a physio coming around for dinner one

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Speaker 2: night this week, which sounds kind of like so it's

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Speaker 2: actually the rugby team physio. So my husband, he's a

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Speaker 2: rugby player and he got injured and because he's quite

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Speaker 2: busy on the farm and stuff, I think one of

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Speaker 2: the only times he could get to come around was

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Speaker 2: for dinner. Does sound kind of strange in hindsight now

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Speaker 3: So it is a business call, but there's like a

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Speaker 3: social element to it as well.

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Speaker 1: She's lovely.

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Speaker 2: I've I've gone and had a message with her before actually,

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Speaker 2: so she's just coming round.

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Speaker 1: I mean, she loves down the road. It's it's a

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Speaker 2: We do things a bit different, you know, everyone comes

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Speaker 2: around for a cup of tea or lunch. It's quite

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Speaker 2: friendly like that. So she's coming round to really check

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Speaker 2: out his ankle and give it a good go some

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Speaker 2: night this week and she's coming for tea. My question

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Speaker 2: is if she's coming round to look out for his ankle.

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Speaker 1: Do we think that.

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Speaker 2: It's appropriate to get a little add on back and

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Speaker 2: shoulders on my.

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Speaker 4: Behalf like a message, just.

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Speaker 1: Like a cheeky ten to fifteen minutes.

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Speaker 4: While you're eating dinner at the table.

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Speaker 2: Once she's seen Bej, once she's I mean, she's already

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Speaker 2: coming over to look after Beage. So once she sort

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Speaker 2: of done her physical thing there, do you think it

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Speaker 2: would be rude to ask if she could just give

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Speaker 2: me a little message?

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Speaker 3: Well, you've asked. What have you asked around for? Did

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Speaker 3: you ask you around for dinner or did you ask

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Speaker 2: To be fair, I haven't been involved in the organization

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Speaker 2: the dinner dinner table. But I just thought, look, here's

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Speaker 4: I'm a cop.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure what is all could when they're blatantly

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Speaker 2: I would expect like go into it. It's only fear

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Speaker 4: Go meet them.

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Speaker 4: This is true, you know, to the bar, get ready

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Speaker 9: Many in PJ the podcast's Many and PJS group therapy.

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Speaker 2: Put your feet up. It's time to take a collective

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Speaker 1: Judgment aside.

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Speaker 1: On this, Like maybe not just like should we do

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Speaker 2: now as the years go by, I worry that my

449
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Speaker 2: son won't forgive me or ever trust me again if

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Speaker 2: he finds out he is twenty four. Do you think

451
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Speaker 2: I should tell him, or how will he react if

452
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Speaker 2: he finds out another way? Thoughts, comments, queries.

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Speaker 3: So this twenty four year old thinks that his grandfather

454
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Speaker 3: is this biological grandfather, Yes, he's not.

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Speaker 1: He's not, So maybe there's an adoption or something like that.

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Speaker 1: We don't know the specifics.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's a really hard one because if the if

458
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Speaker 3: there's a difficult relationship already, you're almost wondering what's going.

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Speaker 4: To be gained from that knowledge. What's going to be.

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Speaker 3: Gained from this twenty four year old knowing that his

461
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Speaker 3: grandfather is not his biological grandfather.

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Speaker 2: That's true, But on the other end of the spectrum,

463
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Speaker 2: if he does find out that is going to make

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Speaker 2: things really tricky between him and his mum.

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Speaker 1: Why did you not tell me?

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Speaker 4: My first instinct is always we'll just tell the truth,

467
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Speaker 4: just be honest.

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Speaker 1: Be honest.

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Speaker 3: But then I do wonder, you know, sometimes I just

470
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Speaker 3: think sleeping dog's life, there's not if there's not a

471
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Speaker 3: real if there's not a major reason to come clean

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Speaker 3: at this point in time, other than you do worry

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Speaker 3: that he might find out another way. I think, is

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Speaker 3: there anything to be really gained from coming forward with

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Speaker 3: that information.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not like he's estranged, it's like he's still

477
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Speaker 2: got a relationship, yeah, with this person.

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Speaker 1: But is he entitled to know the truth? I get

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Speaker 1: like I guess he is.

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Speaker 3: But also biological or not this this man is still

481
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Speaker 3: his grandfather. You know, biology doesn't mean everything.

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Speaker 2: Oh, eight hundred of the hits. We would love to

483
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Speaker 2: know your thoughts on this. Should the mother tell her

484
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Speaker 2: son that her father, who is her son's grandfather, is

485
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Speaker 2: not her biological dad? Or do you think just keep

486
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Speaker 2: things going and you know, it's kind of irrelevant in

487
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Speaker 2: the grand scheme of things. Love to know your thoughts. Oh,

488
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Speaker 2: eight hundred hats. We'll open up our phone lines so

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Speaker 2: you can text four for eight seven. We've got some

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Speaker 2: helpizza batches to give away. I'm just always of honesty

491
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Speaker 2: is the best policy as well. I think don't get

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Speaker 2: it do it because if he finds out some other

493
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Speaker 2: way then it could just get really messy. That's my

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Speaker 2: initial reaction to it, So let us know what yours is.

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Speaker 2: On this week's group therapy.

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Speaker 9: Maddie and PJ the podcast The Heads Many and Pj's

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Speaker 9: Group Therapy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, this week's one is interesting Hey, Maddie and PJ.

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Speaker 2: My questions about heavier for you guys, but go with me.

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Speaker 2: I never told my son that my dad is not

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Speaker 2: my biological dad, for those being that my dad's quite

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Speaker 2: a difficult person. But now as the years go by,

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Speaker 2: I worry that my son won't forgive me or even

504
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Speaker 2: trust me again if he finds out he's twenty four.

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Speaker 2: Should I tell him or how will he react if

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Speaker 2: he finds out another way?

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Speaker 3: I'm so torn because on the one hand, I just think,

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Speaker 3: tell the truth, be honest, I know, But also if

509
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Speaker 3: nothing is to be really gained, you know, is there

510
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Speaker 3: any real benefit to telling him now?

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Speaker 4: After all this time?

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Speaker 2: There's some really good texts coming through On four four

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Speaker 2: eighty seven. I have a stepdad, and honestly I call

514
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Speaker 2: him my dad. He raised me and is better than

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Speaker 2: my biological dad. But I think, just be honest. If

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Speaker 2: there's no relationship with the biological dad, then he's no

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Speaker 2: real point. If you see your non biological dad as

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Speaker 2: a father figure, that's all you need, which is an

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Speaker 2: interesting point. At Lea's go to the phones, Bethany is

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Speaker 2: joining us on oh eight hundred has hi, Bethany, Hi,

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Speaker 2: How's it going good, very.

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Speaker 1: Well, good.

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Speaker 4: What do you reckon? Be for me?

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Speaker 10: So I think to ear it out tell the truth.

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Speaker 11: Obviously it's something that she's holding on to, like she

526
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Speaker 11: always feels like she.

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Speaker 6: Needs to get off their chairs, which is why she

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Speaker 6: put it up.

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Speaker 10: But I also think solidify the faith that you know,

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Speaker 10: even though there's no blood relation there, you.

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Speaker 1: Know they're still family totally.

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Speaker 11: Of any least family, and you know they're part of

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Speaker 11: their life and that nothing changes because of it.

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Speaker 1: It's yeah, yeah, yeah, that's good point.

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Speaker 4: There's a really good point.

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Speaker 2: I also like this message. I guess the only reason

537
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Speaker 2: he would need to know he be for medical history.

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Speaker 2: But also he's twenty four now, so technically an adult

539
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Speaker 2: and will probably understand his mum's reasons for not telling him.

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Speaker 2: Maybe wake the sleeping dog gently instead of letting it lie,

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Speaker 2: so to speak.

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Speaker 3: Someone else said, if you feel like you need to

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Speaker 3: tell him, then it just emphasized the point that Popper

544
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Speaker 3: or grandad or whatever is a title that has earned

545
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Speaker 3: rather than expected.

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Speaker 1: You know, Telly, I know how to the hats. What

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Speaker 1: do you reckon?

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Speaker 5: Hi?

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Speaker 11: Guys? How are you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Very well, yeah, I just I'm.

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Speaker 11: Not of the opinion of most people. I think I

553
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Speaker 11: think the best thing to do is tell the truth.

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Speaker 11: Dispitterity hearings directly from the horses now sort of speak

555
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Speaker 11: rather than hear it and some family squabble somewhere that's

556
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Speaker 11: going to hurt more. And I do agree. Also, he's

557
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Speaker 11: a young adult and he's going to be able to

558
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Speaker 11: take that on, you know, take that and and to

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Speaker 11: be honest, it doesn't matter who reasones you biological or not.

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Speaker 11: It's what you've become later on in life that mattered totally.

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Speaker 2: That's so true from you telling us. Thank you very

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Speaker 2: much for that. Also, great message coming through here. He

563
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Speaker 2: needs to know he might make a nice girl and

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Speaker 2: find out she's a cousin New Zealand. Thank you so

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Speaker 2: much for all your feedback.

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Speaker 1: That's some one I think, to be honest, probably the over.

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Speaker 7: Maddy j and the podcast and.

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Speaker 1: The award winning format.

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Speaker 2: Match Fat is going to be returning to three Down

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Speaker 2: and three tomorrow night at seven pm and a mighty

571
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Speaker 2: clash of the codes for Union Verse League. This is

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Speaker 2: going to be Match Fit season four and to talk

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Speaker 2: more about it, we have legendary coach Sir Graham Henry

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Speaker 2: and Kill We great, Tawatanico, Thank you so much for

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Speaker 2: popping into the studio.

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Speaker 6: Awesome to be here. Thanks.

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Speaker 4: I told her she had to be so excited next week,

578
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Speaker 4: I told her, I.

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Speaker 3: Told her she had to curtsy for you because she's

580
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Speaker 3: never been in the presence of a serve before.

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Speaker 12: Cool thing.

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Speaker 1: So can you do? Do you want me to do

583
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Speaker 1: a curtsy?

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Speaker 12: Embarrassing?

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Speaker 2: Now, you guys, we're not here to do our best curtsy.

586
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Speaker 2: We're actually here to talk to you about the latest

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Speaker 2: season of Match Fat Union vers League. How fun was

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Speaker 2: it filming this season?

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Speaker 6: Oh, it was a lot of fun. It was great

590
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Speaker 6: to see the boys, something that hadn't seen for many,

591
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Speaker 6: many years, and some of them were out of shape,

592
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Speaker 6: but really great to see them and more importantly, the

593
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Speaker 6: message and the story that they gave over during the series.

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Speaker 4: Who have you got lined up this year?

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Speaker 12: Well, from a rugby point of view, Peter out of

596
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Speaker 12: Tiny Perry Whippoo, Frank Bunt sees in his sixties, he's

597
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Speaker 12: older than me. Comrades Carlos Spencer, Paul Miller and if

598
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Speaker 12: he said to.

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Speaker 6: The leagues with Ali Lao, Titi, Leslie, Vy Nicolo, Clinton, Torpi,

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Speaker 6: Louis Anderson Paul Fatua. So, yes, some really good players,

601
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Speaker 6: players that have played NRL level tests for level shaping

602
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Speaker 6: up to be a fantastic series.

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Speaker 1: So this is really amazing.

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Speaker 2: So you put these guys back through their paces, not

605
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Speaker 2: just physically but mentally, would you say the mental side

606
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Speaker 2: of things is what breaks them the most.

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Speaker 12: I think, you know, they needed to start off slow,

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Speaker 12: otherwise they could have blown themselves apart and wouldn't be

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Speaker 12: part of the series at all. So that mental control

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Speaker 12: was importantly. I was amazed. Actually, they were really superb.

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Speaker 12: They got better and better. The connection between the two

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Speaker 12: groups was outstanding. A lot of empathy, a lot of

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Speaker 12: respect for each other. They were competitive, Yeah, hugely competitive.

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Speaker 4: That's what I was going to ask. Still got it?

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Speaker 4: You know do they do?

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Speaker 1: You see them still go like HARKing.

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Speaker 3: Back to that that athlete, that professional athlete that they

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Speaker 3: once were.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, definitely, Mattie. I think you know, one of the

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Speaker 6: things when you've played at the highest level, when you've

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Speaker 6: been an All Black, when you've played for the Kiwi's

622
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Speaker 6: played in the NRL, you never lose that competitive spirit.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there must be some frustration not having that physical

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Speaker 2: capacity that they did when they were at the top

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Speaker 2: of their game. I'm sure that comes through a lot

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Speaker 2: on the show, does it, you know, just not being

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Speaker 2: able to quite hit the mark.

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Speaker 1: But they used to.

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Speaker 12: Actually, they their heads are pretty good, they know what

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Speaker 12: they want to do. The school level is not bad.

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Speaker 12: It's just that the Karen twenty kiros they didn't have

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Speaker 12: twenty years ago, you know, so you know that was

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Speaker 12: that was that was a struggle for them.

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Speaker 6: And some of the frustration that their head with themselves,

635
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Speaker 6: you know, not being able to do what they did,

636
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Speaker 6: that comes out in the show. So it can be

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Speaker 6: quite challenging or volatile too. For the boys.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes some of them are carrying a few weeks of kicks.

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Speaker 3: But I've seen Carlos beIN so he still looks exactly.

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Speaker 12: And there's one or two who are okay. And I

641
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Speaker 12: think the big message here, if you're going to do

642
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Speaker 12: these things, and you need to do these things otherwise

643
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Speaker 12: you'll die, you need to do these things with others

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Speaker 12: and with your mates so you don't feel you're going

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Speaker 12: to let your mates down. So that not letting your

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Speaker 12: mates down is a huge incentive.

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Speaker 2: I often do think about the aftermath of the fame

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Speaker 2: and that, you know, real high intensity life that they

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Speaker 2: do have at the top of their game in these teams,

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Speaker 2: and then what it's like, you know, years after when

651
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Speaker 2: you've just got to go back to normal life. Like

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Speaker 2: did they dive into that quite a bit? And I

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Speaker 2: suppose they would have shared the same feeling.

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Speaker 12: Well, we haven't seen the program. We haven't seen the program.

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Speaker 12: The they talked about their men to their mental fitness

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Speaker 12: as well as their physical fitness and the transition from

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Speaker 12: being a professional athlete to being a normal person, if

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Speaker 12: that makes sense, And I think that's really difficult.

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Speaker 6: Well you, you and Maddie must know about that. You

660
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Speaker 6: guys are famous, and how do you guys find the transition?

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Speaker 5: And mad.

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Speaker 1: Quite the same?

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Speaker 2: Hey, look, it's so nice to have you guys on

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Speaker 2: this afternoon. We can't wait to watch Match Fat Unionverse League.

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Speaker 2: It's on TV three tomorrow night at seven pm. Really

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Speaker 2: appreciate you guys coming in.

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Speaker 6: Well, thanks for having us, PJ, Maddy and don't forget

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Speaker 6: TV three and it's streaming on three now, so don't

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Speaker 6: forget to watch your guys six weeks. Enjoy yourself. Very

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Speaker 6: good and great to be here. Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 4: Thank you for having.

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Speaker 7: Maddy and PJ Madi and PJ the podcast.

673
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Speaker 3: My poor friends, they're going to get sick of me

674
00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:00,680
Speaker 3: soon because every time something happens, like someone does something

675
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 3: or says something at the moment.

676
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 4: I'm always like, oh, that'll make good, that will make.

677
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 1: You become that friend.

678
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 2: And then they'll start being really wary of telling you

679
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 2: all of their humiliating stuff.

680
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:13,720
Speaker 4: I know Ryan's and you have to like.

681
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 1: Pretend that they can trust you again.

682
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:22,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, until you've screwed them over. Ryan says, this is

683
00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 3: not for radio now. Yeah, that's good.

684
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 2: It's important to ascertain the bound totally.

685
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 3: But this one I think is free safe, Yeah, free

686
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 3: for all. We were out for dinner and we went

687
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Speaker 3: to this b Yo restaurant really nice, like Tirish.

688
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 4: I got the drunken noodles. You and I were talking

689
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Speaker 4: about what to get.

690
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Speaker 1: Yes, I don't.

691
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Speaker 2: Forget the pad key Marle or the pad cu And

692
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 2: apparently that's also a drunken noodles.

693
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Speaker 1: So that's the other name for it.

694
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Speaker 3: It was so good and we were all sitting around

695
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 3: the table just chatting and one of my friends was

696
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 3: trying to get maybe a sweet sauce out of like

697
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Speaker 3: a bottle onto his food and he was like shaking

698
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 3: it and nothing was coming out. She was like, oh

699
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 3: my god, it must be empty. So he went to

700
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Speaker 3: the person like the way there and said, can I

701
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Speaker 3: just get some more sweet sauce? When it came over

702
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 3: and went like this, it just flicked the cap off

703
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 3: and was like, it's not empty.

704
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Speaker 4: You just had the lid on the wold time?

705
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Speaker 1: Did he just go and leave? The establishment die?

706
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Speaker 8: In my mind?

707
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 3: And I just all correct up laughing, and I was like,

708
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Speaker 3: this is going to make great radio.

709
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Speaker 1: Do you know what that reminds me of the moment?

710
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Speaker 2: And I think we were nearly eight weeks into the

711
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 2: show earlier in the year, and it was still like

712
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 2: quite warm. It was still quite warm, and so the

713
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Speaker 2: Yukon I like to try and put it on every day. However,

714
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 2: I was having some quiet serious issues really, and.

715
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Speaker 4: You were getting quite frustrated with it as well.

716
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Speaker 2: I would say, David Pja and she doesn't head.

717
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Speaker 3: It doesn't happen off them, but yeah, boy, she came

718
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Speaker 3: out that day.

719
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 2: It was about two thirty and we were getting ready

720
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 2: to start the show, and I started making calls to

721
00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 2: our bosses, not just one but two, and I said,

722
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 2: who was in charge of the air conditioning around here?

723
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Speaker 1: Who do I need to get in touch? And because

724
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Speaker 1: I just cldn't.

725
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Speaker 4: One, they see someone.

726
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Speaker 2: They even got in touch because I am something based

727
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Speaker 2: in the one another and they even seen a lot

728
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Speaker 2: of cool air conditioning expert to come in and check

729
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 2: out what was wrong because I just couldn't get it

730
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:36,759
Speaker 2: cool and it felt like I was in a hot Boxauner.

731
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:41,360
Speaker 2: Turns out all I needed to do was push mode

732
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Speaker 2: the mode the mode button.

733
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Speaker 1: That was it. That was it.

734
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Speaker 2: And he came in and he goes, so what you

735
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Speaker 2: want to do is just push this button here? Do

736
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Speaker 2: you want me to write like a sticker underneath it,

737
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 2: just so you don't.

738
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Speaker 4: That's the key.

739
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Speaker 3: That is as bad as just to like not knowing

740
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Speaker 3: where they're on and off switches on your computer.

741
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 2: Hey guys, we' there, We're all human. Shall we ask

742
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 2: the question this evening? When did you humiliate yourself with

743
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:08,719
Speaker 2: a simple mistake?

744
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:13,240
Speaker 1: Yes, super simple, super simple, no shame.

745
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 2: On the show Oh eight hundred the hats you can

746
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:22,880
Speaker 2: text for for eight seven the podcast, we're asking the question,

747
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 2: what did you embarrass yourself with a simple mistake?

748
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Speaker 3: My friend at the Bao dinner was went to the

749
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:31,839
Speaker 3: waiter to ask for a new bottle of swap because

750
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:33,880
Speaker 3: he was realized there was nothing in it. He was

751
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 3: shaking it and nothing was coming out, and then the

752
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 3: waiter very politely had to tell him that the lid.

753
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Speaker 5: Was just on.

754
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Speaker 1: Sheryl on eight hundred. The hats what happened to you?

755
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Speaker 10: Hey, guys, I had the switch for my guests don't

756
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 10: stop working, so for a couple of months, I was

757
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 10: using my barbecue later and how my husband was growling

758
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 10: at me why I hadn't called the Sparkyan to get

759
00:35:57,200 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 10: it fixed. And you know, we looked everywhere, pulled out

760
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:03,720
Speaker 10: the strege, looked at the switchbox, finally got the Starky

761
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 10: there and he literally slipped a switch on the wall

762
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Speaker 10: beside the store.

763
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Speaker 2: No, no, I know the exact one you're talking about, Sheryl.

764
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Speaker 10: I swear we checked it, but I don't know. He

765
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Speaker 10: came at work.

766
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Speaker 1: Oh that was amazing. You can text four for eight seven,

767
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Speaker 1: someone said, I used to. We can. I tell you.

768
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Speaker 2: The most common question we got was the camera on

769
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Speaker 2: the laptop coming up black on their video. Turns out

770
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Speaker 2: they just needed to slight the camera cover to activate

771
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Speaker 2: the camera.

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Speaker 1: I actually hit this problem in the year to make

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Speaker 1: really human.

774
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 3: We are on gas at our house and today I

775
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:45,759
Speaker 3: changed the gas bottle and there's like a hose that

776
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:47,400
Speaker 3: you I needed to attach.

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00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 4: And I just could not attach it.

778
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 3: So a video called Ryan, my husband, but I can't

779
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 3: it's not going and he was like, you're turning it

780
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Speaker 3: the wrong one.

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00:36:57,800 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 4: On many.

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Speaker 2: Go to Calvin hundred the heads. Calvin, what happened with you?

783
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:04,760
Speaker 1: Matte?

784
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 10: So?

785
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:07,399
Speaker 5: How are you guys?

786
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:07,760
Speaker 8: Anyway?

787
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 1: Good?

788
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 4: Thank you, very rastic you.

789
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:15,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, my wife me panicking. She was out the warehouse

790
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:19,319
Speaker 5: in town and I couldn't get a cart, didn't know

791
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 5: what was going, Sorry to right to get to her,

792
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 5: and she was using your freaking house key to try

793
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Speaker 5: a starting tower.

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00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:28,720
Speaker 1: Are you Cada?

795
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Speaker 4: How far did you have to drive? Calvin?

796
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:38,839
Speaker 2: No, it's nearly divorced material open. What about this one?

797
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 2: On the tips machine? I asked if I could use

798
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Speaker 2: the toilet at a service station. The man behind the

799
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 2: counterpassed me a large bottle. I went red and seid

800
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Speaker 2: something along the lines I don't worry, I'll.

801
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Speaker 1: Just hold her.

802
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 2: He looked at me weirdly and then left in his

803
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 2: hand showing the key attach.

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Speaker 7: That is so good the podcast.

805
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 4: Peage Thoughts, Feelings, Opinions.

806
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 2: I think gorgeous creatures would be absolutely terrified if I

807
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:10,720
Speaker 2: came with in a type space within a short space.

808
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 2: But I do believe that the ocean is the is

809
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 2: and we need to respect that.

810
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 4: Sure, here's a fun fact about me. I've been swimming

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Speaker 4: with sharks.

812
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 2: Before, like like, not just inside a cage.

813
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 4: Loosely, yeah, loosely. Yeah, I went diving.

814
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:27,400
Speaker 3: I got my diver's license and I went diving with

815
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:29,400
Speaker 3: sharks in Fiji.

816
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 1: You're actually quite brave.

817
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:34,399
Speaker 2: Actually, the things that you have done you wouldn't think

818
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 2: on the exterior always, but inside you're a tough little cookie.

819
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,239
Speaker 3: You think I'm a soft boy, don't you.

820
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:42,359
Speaker 2: No, no, I didn't say that. But like you won

821
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 2: Celebrity Trees Aure Island. No, no, just initially when meeting

822
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 2: you you might freak out and be like oh, but

823
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 2: then you go and win Celebrity Treesure Island, which obviously

824
00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:55,960
Speaker 2: takes a lot of grit.

825
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 1: So you continue to surprise me day and day out.

826
00:38:58,520 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:02,360
Speaker 3: I mean, look, I'm not an idiot. I'm very aware

828
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 3: of the fact that sharks can be terrifying, but I'm not.

829
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:08,319
Speaker 3: They don't bother me too much. My husband Ryan won't

830
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 3: go in the.

831
00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:11,759
Speaker 4: Ocean because of sharks. Wow, I hate them, hates them,

832
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:14,400
Speaker 4: hates them. But it's really interesting.

833
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 3: Story about sharks off the coast of Brazil because of

834
00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:22,759
Speaker 3: course South America, and I don't want a stereotype here,

835
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 3: but is off it is often where a lot of

836
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 3: like drug cartels are found. Ah see, so when drugs

837
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,880
Speaker 3: get like shipped off the coast right, sometimes they end

838
00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 3: up dumping them in the in the in the ocean.

839
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 1: And the sharks getting high.

840
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:44,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, So people have long thought that maybe like marine

841
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:49,319
Speaker 3: life might be affected. They've done a test on thirteen sharks,

842
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 3: thirteen Brazilian sharp nose sharks that were brought in from

843
00:39:54,800 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 3: small fishing vessels, and they found that all thirty sharks

844
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 3: were positive for cocaine.

845
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:05,359
Speaker 1: Oh, oh my god.

846
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,400
Speaker 3: That's actually really it is said. I mean, it's not

847
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:10,400
Speaker 3: why they know, they have no choice, that's not necessarily

848
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 3: why they died. But yeah, they did have traces of it,

849
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:18,359
Speaker 3: where a concentration as much as one hundred times higher

850
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Speaker 3: than previously reported.

851
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 4: For other aquatic creatures.

852
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 3: It's the first study to find the presidents of presence

853
00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:28,760
Speaker 3: of cocaine and free range sharks and found the substance

854
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 3: was more prevalent in muscle tissue than in the sharks

855
00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 3: live it.

856
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 2: And it was this like an ongoing study, is this

857
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Speaker 2: like quite regulars?

858
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 4: This is one.

859
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:40,880
Speaker 3: Weary new but the like recent field of research is

860
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 3: very limited, so they don't even know what kind of

861
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,000
Speaker 3: an impact it would have. But you've got to think,

862
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 3: I mean, sharks do from.

863
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:50,840
Speaker 2: Wonders about I do often wonder even about like rivers

864
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:53,919
Speaker 2: in the city with fish going through and there might

865
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Speaker 2: be like a high you know, drug intake around the area.

866
00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 3: You do wonder you think about how for erocious sharks

867
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:02,360
Speaker 3: already are.

868
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:07,680
Speaker 4: A little bit of cocaine in them. God, get out

869
00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 4: of out of the water.

870
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, you would not get out, that's for sure, especially

871
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 2: with those big noses.

872
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:16,359
Speaker 1: Sorry, that was inappropriate.

873
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Speaker 7: Many and PJ the podcast. That's