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Speaker 1: This Jon would Ben podcast. Hey, that's us broad to

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Speaker 1: you by Hello Fresh the Experts and Tastes.

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Speaker 2: That kiwis love.

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Speaker 1: It is the final of the Olympics today, the opening, sorry,

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Speaker 1: the closing ceremony is about to take place right now.

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Speaker 1: And it's been our most successful Olympics ever. Twenty medals,

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Speaker 1: ten gold, which is Brent just a credit.

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Speaker 2: Just seem like flurry of gold medals over the week.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, towards the end there, I think we were sitting

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Speaker 3: fourth on the per capita table.

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Speaker 4: Don't worry. I checked that yesterday.

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Speaker 3: Fourth on the per capital table, Australian eighth. So who's hey,

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Speaker 3: there's just I didn't do too much digging.

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Speaker 4: But Ozzie your raids.

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Speaker 2: We're fourth.

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Speaker 1: So been so good, so many amazing performances. Lisa Carrington

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Speaker 1: of course in the kayaks, Lydia Coe goal Forlise Andrew cycling,

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Speaker 1: Finn Butcher, Hamish kur Hi jump, it's been just amazing

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Speaker 1: to watch.

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Speaker 3: You're going to cross to Paris very shortly. Hamish curR,

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Speaker 3: the high jump gold medalist, We're going to talk to him.

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Speaker 3: I think he's walking into the closing ceremony, so no

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Speaker 3: better setting for Hamish to do a radio interview. We're

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Speaker 3: going to talk to him.

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Speaker 4: Megan's away today. He's got the vid.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the vid still around and I think it's always

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Speaker 1: Noel Lisle said, the the sprinter, Yeah he did, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and he came.

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Speaker 4: Still got a bronze.

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Speaker 1: He's got bronze, and there two hundred meters as well.

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Speaker 1: You got a golden and then the bronze as well.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, bood he floating around everywhere, isn't it.

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Speaker 1: I think it's always going to be like that, Like

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Speaker 1: the flu. They always said that was going to end

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Speaker 1: up kind of like the.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, why don't we just treat it like that? From

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Speaker 3: the gig's do we have all that weird little.

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Speaker 4: Don't you knock on your neighbors sort of period?

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Speaker 2: What a crazy time of the world.

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Speaker 4: Here's a new thing.

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Speaker 3: People down to cat shit. Just welcome it and brace it.

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Speaker 3: Well we have now, Yeah, you're right. It was a

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Speaker 3: crazy time in the world. I tell you, I invented

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Speaker 3: a new Olympic sport over the weekend. Now this is

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Speaker 3: something that on Friday afternoon I had to take the

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Speaker 3: cat to the vet. Now, the cat, it's interesting because

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Speaker 3: the cat doesn't know yes to go to the vet,

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Speaker 3: so come home the cats. You know, nine times out

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Speaker 3: of ten the cats sleeping inside.

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Speaker 2: Not this day.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but you never know where a cat is. Listen

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Speaker 4: to the dog. They were within the confines of the property.

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Speaker 1: So I walked around the neighborhood like shaking cat biscuits

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Speaker 1: and stuff like that, trying to get the cat.

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Speaker 3: You know, the cat does the cats speaking of you've

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Speaker 3: got this cat during lockdown bubble, Yeah, we caught it

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Speaker 3: because it was in our bubble. But cat didn't come back.

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Speaker 3: So I had to ring the VT and say, look,

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Speaker 4: You can't whistle a cat, you can't can't cat.

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Speaker 1: And they're like Nick, They're like, it's fine. If keep

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Speaker 1: you'll probably come back for food tonight and then in

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Speaker 1: the morning. And if you want to just keep him

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Speaker 1: inside after breakfast, then bring him in first thing Saturday morning.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, no worries, I can do that. Saturday

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Speaker 1: morning textbook. Keep the cat inside. About five minutes away

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Speaker 1: which is not far from home, and I'm like cool,

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Speaker 1: got the cat in this little cat cage ready to go,

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Speaker 1: and went to leave, and then went the car because

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Speaker 1: to nitball. The other car my wife's car, so I

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Speaker 1: was going to drive. We lifted up the road at

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Speaker 1: the pub the night before.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, I said to walk with the cage.

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, Okay, well here's what I'm going

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Speaker 1: to do it. It's new and I was inspired by

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Speaker 1: the Olympic athletes. I was like, it's about a ca

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Speaker 1: I'm going to run. I'm going to sprint. I'm going

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Speaker 1: to sprint. So that's the first part of the cat tathon.

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Speaker 2: It's a sprint to get your car, then to drive back,

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Speaker 2: get the cat and the cat, get the cat, and

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Speaker 2: then get to the vit within an amount of time.

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Speaker 4: Was the cat still in the cageman got home?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Book cats like sitting by the door step. What

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Speaker 4: What's going on?

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Speaker 2: I'm sprending down the road.

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Speaker 1: But to feel like an Olympic athlete as well, So

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Speaker 1: and got to the Now it was a couple of

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Speaker 4: To be honest, could you have ubered?

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Speaker 2: I probably could have.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you can get pet ubers now, yeah,

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Speaker 3: well you can take you pet ubers.

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Speaker 1: I think special pet ubers but I was like, no,

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Speaker 1: it's all right. So what I'll do a stressful sprint

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Speaker 1: as well. Yeah, I think the cat dusty cat deathline.

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Speaker 2: That's how it works. And then you get back and

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Speaker 1: So if that's a little Olympic sport you want to play,

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Speaker 1: if you've got withdrawals, you can do that.

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Speaker 3: This week and involves a cat. You got to buy

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Speaker 3: yourself a cat. On guess booking an event's very booking.

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Speaker 3: Maybe there's other thanks you cant.

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Speaker 6: The hEDS that johnaan Ben podcast.

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Speaker 2: It was a big weekend next year. It was fun.

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Speaker 2: We we m seed.

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Speaker 1: We hosted an awards night for the House of the Year,

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Speaker 1: the Master Builders House of the Year, and it.

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Speaker 2: Was a lot of fun.

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Speaker 1: It was great until one moment. Now the rugby was

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Speaker 1: on at the same time. We're like, oh, this is

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Speaker 2: They want to the rugby. We may lose their attention.

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Speaker 1: So we're like, maybe we should give rugby updates throughout

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Speaker 1: the evening. We're on stage, We're like, who wants there?

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Speaker 1: Everyone's like yeah, And then you picked someone at random

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Speaker 1: You're like you mate, you were going to be our guy,

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Speaker 3: And I was like, you better get up on stage

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Speaker 4: Come on, you get up on you let's get him

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Speaker 2: So what was the gag going to be?

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Speaker 1: So the gag was I know about that what I'm

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Speaker 4: So the geg you went on this too?

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Speaker 2: I think I come up with.

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Speaker 4: So the gig was the geg was one of the builders.

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Speaker 3: You've lift your tools and the toilet and you hold

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Speaker 3: up this mirror and everybody's going, what it's a mirror?

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Speaker 4: But no.

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Speaker 3: And then I was like, one of the builders, please

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Speaker 3: come up here. So I picked this gentleman. So what's

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Speaker 2: In the front? Great near the front is.

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Speaker 4: A great location to get up on stage.

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Speaker 2: What yourname? My name is Reese?

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Speaker 4: Come up here, rece You're a big round of applause

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Speaker 1: And then went on stage. You're going to go, hey,

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Speaker 1: it's a mirror. No, no, it's a stud finder.

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Speaker 2: And there was stairs up to this.

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Speaker 3: As he gets up on his crutches, the whole rooms

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Speaker 4: The problem is when you was sitting down, you don't

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Speaker 1: Then he got up on stage and year toil half

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Speaker 2: And it wasn't worth him. I saw the effort getting

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Speaker 3: Sorry, this wasn't worth your time, and it took him

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Speaker 3: Megan now, the wonderful Megan purpose Away got a message,

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Speaker 3: didn't we on the WhatsApp group Chap guys down with

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Speaker 3: the vid, I haven't heard anyone catching COVID and they

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Speaker 3: and he ran like I thought. I thought, we just

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I remember for Noah Lyles is probably a

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Speaker 1: that he was thought that he.

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Speaker 4: Was going to win. Noah Isles still came to work

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Speaker 2: Third fastest in the world.

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Speaker 3: Meghan can't even come here and get some words out

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Speaker 3: of her mouth. No, but we were missing Meghan. She'll

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Speaker 3: Now came down pretty much.

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Speaker 2: I think.

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Speaker 3: Who cares about them anyway? So Taylor, you're filling in

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Speaker 3: for Megan today. Dear Meghan, she did send you a

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Speaker 3: message that someone had DM to her.

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Speaker 7: Yep, big shoes to Phil.

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Speaker 8: So I'll read it out, Hi, tem I would like

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Speaker 8: to know what Megan and the boys think about my situation.

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Speaker 8: My girlfriend and I have been together since we're in

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Speaker 8: our mid twenties, and we did enjoy partying together back

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Speaker 8: in the day. But now I'm in my thirties and

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Speaker 8: I'm pretty keen to settle down and get married. I

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Speaker 8: want to propose to her, but her partying is becoming

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Speaker 8: an issue for me.

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Speaker 7: I haven't.

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Speaker 8: I have talked to her about it, and it does

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Speaker 8: the same age. But I love her like crazy and

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Speaker 7: What do you guys reckon?

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Speaker 4: Ooh party girl?

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Speaker 8: All right, my girlfriend and I have been together since

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Speaker 4: Oh well, yea early thirties for me.

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Speaker 4: I still stay with her, don't leave.

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Speaker 5: Her, No, no, no, But I definitely saying if they

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Speaker 3: You don't know anything.

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Speaker 10: listening to the answer, and ernest society stop asking the

446
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Speaker 10: question what question should they be asking? What's coming up

447
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Speaker 10: for you?

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Speaker 11: Right?

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Speaker 10: Now, what's the best thing that happened to you over

450
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Speaker 10: the weekend? What excites you about going home to your family?

451
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Speaker 10: That is when we start hearing it, what's going on

452
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Speaker 10: in the inside of individuals?

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Speaker 1: Right, They are great questions, but at the same time,

454
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Speaker 1: the key factor is the key effector there like I

455
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Speaker 1: do like like talking to people. But what excites you

456
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Speaker 1: about going home to your family? You're like, there was

457
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Speaker 1: this guy asking about what way am I getting excited

458
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Speaker 1: about my family?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

460
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Speaker 4: I got home to the very night.

461
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Speaker 2: I mean, I love to seeing my family.

462
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Speaker 4: But yeah, but what does excit you? Good? Just come

463
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Speaker 4: back with a good also, I also love Ah.

464
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Speaker 3: We should really, we should. We should hang out sometimes,

465
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Speaker 3: we should catch up up. No one in the history

466
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Speaker 3: of ever saying we should catch up sometimes even caught

467
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Speaker 3: up sometimes, or.

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Speaker 4: Keep in to make sure you keep in touch, keep

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Speaker 4: in touch. I'll be there in five minutes.

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Speaker 2: No, you won't.

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Speaker 4: You won't just leaving the location now because you've forgotten

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Speaker 4: you to meet me.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's all things they have, the hits that John

474
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Speaker 6: and Ben podcast, or been something you saw on social

475
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Speaker 6: media that's undersettled.

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Speaker 1: I just saw the you know, sometimes you're scrolling through

477
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Speaker 1: social media and you don't have the sound. The sound

478
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Speaker 1: doesn't always come on. So I just saw the photo

479
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Speaker 1: of you, photos of producing taless dog. I was gonna say,

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Speaker 1: a lovely Lois, but he's a bit snarly. He's lovely

481
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Speaker 1: when you get to know tumultuous relationship something like that.

482
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Speaker 1: I think we're good now, but at the start we're

483
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Speaker 1: a little bit yeah, but little dish.

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Speaker 2: So I saw something.

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Speaker 1: It was like photos of Louis go make a Ford

486
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Speaker 1: and just produce a Taylor just pulling her eyes, you know,

487
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Speaker 1: like crying, and I'm like, oh, dear God, does something

488
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Speaker 1: happened because louis your baby having babies?

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Speaker 7: But yeah, she's my number one baby.

490
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Speaker 2: I'll go on, and something happened to Loyd?

491
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Speaker 4: So what happened? What was going on?

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Speaker 8: Okay, so absolutely nothing happened. And my husband was just

493
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Speaker 8: in our spare bedroom waiting to record the podcast.

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Speaker 7: That we're doing.

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Speaker 4: It's the mon Toys out now on my Heart Radio downloaded, thank.

496
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Speaker 8: You, and our producer was setting up and Muscle I

497
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Speaker 8: happened to get a notification from Apple saying that they

498
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Speaker 8: created a new slideshow for him to watch about the dog,

499
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Speaker 8: and he just showed me and started playing it.

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Speaker 2: I love how they do that on the phone.

501
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Speaker 1: Andy by the beach, my daughter, three of the photos

502
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Speaker 1: of my daughter by the beach, by the water or something.

503
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Speaker 2: I'm like, I was weird.

504
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Speaker 4: I was doing this Apple.

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Speaker 1: I hope no one is actually like it's a real

506
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Speaker 1: person going through a gold god John the.

507
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Speaker 3: Toilets a montage sitting on the.

508
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Speaker 2: I was doing this any it's just the phone doing it, but.

509
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Speaker 4: No one's looking stream. Okay, so we have audio here.

510
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Speaker 4: This is Taylor watching a montage a algorithm. Sorry and Ai.

511
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Speaker 4: It is to get the montage of her dog Louis.

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Speaker 3: Okay, can I say I love the music for and

513
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Speaker 3: foremost year.

514
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Speaker 12: I'm crying because I love him so much. Chances dog,

515
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Speaker 12: you're sober.

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, it's lovely that you love him so much,

517
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Speaker 4: And you.

518
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Speaker 8: Know what, like I could probably cry right now, you

519
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Speaker 8: know what you're about, Just thinking like he's been my

520
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Speaker 8: number one since I moved to this country, and like,

521
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Speaker 8: I hope he doesn't think that now I'm pregnant.

522
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Speaker 7: Well I don't know if he knows I'm pregnant, but like.

523
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Speaker 8: That doesn't I'm scared that he'll when the babies come,

524
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Speaker 8: he'll think that he's second fiddle and that's not the

525
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Speaker 8: third fiddle actually twins. Yeah, so we're going to try

526
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Speaker 8: and move his bed in the in the baby rooms

527
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Speaker 8: every time I have to wake up and feet.

528
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Speaker 1: So we're going to keep just can we keep this

529
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Speaker 1: better audio right now? And we're going to check back

530
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Speaker 1: in on a year's time and we're going to find

531
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Speaker 1: out where things have things change they have where was

532
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Speaker 1: saying the same thing she was like before the dog

533
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Speaker 1: and him, but now she's like, oh the.

534
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Speaker 2: Dog is outside or whatever.

535
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Speaker 4: That won't be me.

536
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Speaker 1: But that's a year's time, all right, we'll find out

537
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Speaker 1: very sweet the hormones are extra genuine.

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Speaker 4: That's how you'll do that. If you were pregnant cry

539
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Speaker 4: like that. I think I will cry like that without

540
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Speaker 4: say I'd say you would. Yeah, you do that.

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Speaker 2: You love that.

542
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Speaker 6: The Heads That Joan Ben podcast.

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Speaker 3: We played this earlier this morning and it was very

544
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Speaker 3: poignant given the life stage you're in, because you've got

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Speaker 3: some big news.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, preggers with TWINSGS with twins?

547
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Speaker 4: Is that your standard line? Preggers with twins?

548
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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

550
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Speaker 8: When I told my dad, I said, I'm knocked up

551
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Speaker 8: that's a good term to use.

552
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Speaker 4: When you appear in surprise, when you're like twins.

553
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Speaker 8: Yes, oh my god, Yes, there's none in our family,

554
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Speaker 8: so it was it.

555
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like you're carrying two human beings.

556
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Speaker 7: Yes, can you guys see my face?

557
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Speaker 8: Don't you think I've lost a bit of my pizzazz

558
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Speaker 8: in the last five months?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, okay, I'll be honest.

560
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Speaker 1: The amount of beanbag setting in your life is gone

561
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Speaker 1: from zero to one hundred humans.

562
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Speaker 7: These chairs are not twin friendly, so.

563
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Speaker 2: I probably noticed that.

564
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Speaker 7: Yeah, I haven't hit it from anyone.

565
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Speaker 4: You look inside because you're creating humans and side.

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Speaker 8: Then girls, and so they apparently trained the beauty out

567
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Speaker 8: of you. Boys make you glow.

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Speaker 4: I really set the beauty well, you still look radiant

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Speaker 4: in our eyes.

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Speaker 7: I don't believe you, but thank you.

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Speaker 4: Sorry to say. Taylor played this audio.

572
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Speaker 5: Now.

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Speaker 3: This is a lady who's she's just given birth only

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Speaker 3: two days previous, forty eight hours previous. The demand from

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Speaker 3: her partner to make a meal, to prepare a meal

576
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Speaker 3: because his parents are coming over. Take a listen, you

577
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Speaker 3: want me.

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Speaker 13: To do a roost? Can I just remind you of something?

579
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Speaker 13: I gave birth two days ago. Yeah, two days ago,

580
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Speaker 13: and he came out hospital straight away. You've been sitting

581
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Speaker 13: around nor this time.

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Speaker 11: So if you make a rock.

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Speaker 13: To send me home to get rest at home.

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Speaker 4: But you've been doing nothing but rest and see I

585
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Speaker 4: mean sorry.

586
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Speaker 13: That I need caffeine to keep going with a newborn baby.

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Speaker 4: And it's not easy for me either. Right, I didn't

588
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Speaker 4: give No, I'm sleeping.

589
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Speaker 2: You stop talking, bro, stop talking.

590
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Speaker 3: About rules, not just giving before.

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Speaker 7: Wow wow, absolutely not except no, you're right.

592
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Speaker 2: Somebody could tell him about roast shops and outlets.

593
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Speaker 3: You're just checking her hunk well to be fear to him.

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Speaker 3: You're just chunking a hunk of meeting some veggies and

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Speaker 3: a train into the oven.

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Speaker 2: You can do it himself. Actually, is not the hardest

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Speaker 2: thing the cock can.

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Speaker 8: I just say my my mom went through pretty much

599
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Speaker 8: the exact same thing as that. So she had just

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Speaker 8: given birth to me. She's been dispatched at home with

601
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Speaker 8: the baby. My dad's gotten the case of man flu.

602
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Speaker 8: His parents have come over to meet me, just so

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Speaker 8: she did.

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Speaker 4: The finger things.

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Speaker 7: My grandma.

606
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Speaker 8: My dad's mom goes, oh, suit, do you mind making

607
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Speaker 8: an your husband some soup?

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Speaker 7: Like he's not looking too good.

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Speaker 4: There goes down with suit.

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Speaker 7: She's a chip off the old block mate, so you

611
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Speaker 7: can just imagine.

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Speaker 4: All right, so Italians did get a suit.

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Speaker 7: I think she told him to go.

614
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Speaker 2: Shove it up, drink it or that was so alright?

615
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Speaker 3: This is all we want to check open on the Heads.

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Speaker 3: Have you done an outrageous activity after giving birth? Just

617
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Speaker 3: just only a matter of hours or days after giving.

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Speaker 2: We were in the process of giving birth. We talk

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Speaker 2: about people drive themselves to the hospitals.

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Speaker 3: There was a lady who spoke to once she drove

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Speaker 3: herself to the hospital. Her partner was in the passenger seat. Well,

622
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Speaker 3: he didn't like driving in Wellington traffic.

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Speaker 1: You know, what did you do after giving birth or

624
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Speaker 1: on the way to giving birth?

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Speaker 6: The Heads that johnaan Ben podcast.

626
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Speaker 3: And we're just talking about what you did as you

627
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Speaker 3: were giving birth or straight after giving birth. Now, Sam

628
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Speaker 3: joins New Zealand's Breakfast on eight one hundreds the Heads.

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Speaker 4: How are you this morning?

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Speaker 2: Sam?

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Speaker 5: Good? Thanks?

632
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Speaker 4: How we're doing really well? It's lovely to have you

633
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Speaker 4: on the show this morning.

634
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Speaker 3: Now Sam, what did you do either as you were

635
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Speaker 3: giving birth or straight after birth?

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Speaker 5: Well, when I was giving birth, so my mad wife

637
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Speaker 5: was on the way to home because I was in labor, and.

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Speaker 3: Can I just say that the birth must have been successful?

639
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Speaker 3: About hearing the soundtrack in the background.

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Speaker 5: Yes, sorry, I told him.

641
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Speaker 4: It's wrong, skilled and these kids need to.

642
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Speaker 3: Leave to shut up, Ben, this is radio, all right,

643
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Speaker 3: they need to respect audio as a medium.

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Speaker 9: Continue on, Sorry, Sam, And yes, So I was in

645
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Speaker 9: labor and this was my second child, so I knew

646
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Speaker 9: what was going on, and I said to my husband,

647
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Speaker 9: he's coming out, He's coming and so he was listening

648
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Speaker 9: and he was talking to the ambulance, you know, to

649
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Speaker 9: get them here, and.

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Speaker 5: They said can you see anything? And he had a

651
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Speaker 5: little no. Nine. I'm like, hey is And then I

652
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Speaker 5: just realized, well, I'm just going to have to do it.

653
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Speaker 5: He's not really being any help. So I just clouched

654
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Speaker 5: down and delivered my baby myself.

655
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Speaker 4: Yourself, What do you mean you crouched down? Do you

656
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 4: sort of like hunch over? And what are you doing?

657
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Speaker 4: Can you tell us?

658
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Speaker 5: Well, well, because you don't, And it's crazy because yeah,

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Speaker 5: I mean, I've been induced with my daughter and you know,

660
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Speaker 5: and had all this intervention and then she got taken

661
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Speaker 5: away to the Nikoo ward and everything. So this was

662
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Speaker 5: very different. But I was just thinking, well, gosh, I

663
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Speaker 5: have to do it. I know he's coming out, and

664
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Speaker 5: I didn't want him to like fall down or in anything.

665
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Speaker 5: So I got on my knees so there wasn't like

666
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Speaker 5: much room between the ground and him coming out, and

667
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Speaker 5: just kind of grabbed him if he came out, all right, So.

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Speaker 4: You also you're kind of like on your knees, your hands.

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Speaker 5: On the down, Yeah, like where the head gonna come out,

670
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Speaker 5: and you.

671
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Speaker 3: Just caught it yourself, grabbed him out and put him

672
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Speaker 3: up and held him and then obviously.

673
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Speaker 5: Billa cole Cord still attached, so I just had to

674
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Speaker 5: sit there holding him while waiting for somebody to turn up.

675
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Speaker 4: She's quite the lion king moment.

676
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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's so crazing.

677
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 2: Were you Was it hard?

678
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:08,920
Speaker 5: No? It was. I mean my daughter was a toddler.

679
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 5: She was quiet. She was two, so she was asleep

680
00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 5: and the dogs were going crazy. So I was worrying that, oh,

681
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,159
Speaker 5: she's going to wake up and be scared and like

682
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 5: with money. So yeah, in the time, I just did it.

683
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 5: So I forgot what your question was.

684
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,639
Speaker 4: Now, I actually forgot what it was.

685
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 5: To be honest, I'm just thinking back.

686
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:32,240
Speaker 4: To it, that is a traumatic event, but really impressive.

687
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 4: The dogs.

688
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 5: That wasn't very easy, just because I was walking around

689
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 5: in the bathroom like trying to be quiet as to

690
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 5: you know, not wake my daughter up and everything. And

691
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 5: then when it happened, I don't know, you just came

692
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Speaker 5: out and it was just time. I guess he was

693
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Speaker 5: ready to come out.

694
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 3: So you know, there's moments and conversations that you have

695
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 3: like this where you go the women are just a fast,

696
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 3: superior species.

697
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Speaker 4: Really, it was.

698
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Speaker 5: Easier than the first period. Anyway, tell me that you

699
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,920
Speaker 5: think to deliver your own baby. It's amazing.

700
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Speaker 4: Don't talk it down, mate.

701
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Speaker 2: It was Yeah.

702
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 4: There's many doctors going no, no, you paid a lot of

703
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Speaker 4: money to turn about.

704
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Speaker 2: That's very impressive. Thank you so much for sharing that

705
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Speaker 2: with us. You have BESLF a great day.

706
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Speaker 5: Awesome, thank you.

707
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Speaker 1: Just on the text for a seven, my husband wanted

708
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Speaker 1: to go through McDonald's drive through on the way to

709
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 1: the hospital while I was in labor. Then at the

710
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:28,160
Speaker 1: hospital complained so much that he was hungry and needed

711
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 1: coffee that the midwa had to send him to the

712
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Speaker 1: cafe there support in.

713
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:35,639
Speaker 4: Need of you do need sustenance to support. You need sustenance.

714
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 4: I've always said it.

715
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Speaker 6: The heads that johna wan Ben podcast.

716
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 3: This is Internet outrage where we each try and find

717
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 3: a headline from the Internet. We read the headline, we

718
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 3: all left to decipher maybe what the story is behind

719
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 3: the headline being you want to kick things off.

720
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a school in Texas. They're a school that

721
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Speaker 1: you can you don't. They don't have uniforms, but they've

722
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 1: caused outrage for something. They've made a rule. What do

723
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Speaker 1: you think the rule is in regarding to what the

724
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Speaker 1: students swear to school?

725
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 4: They being cell phones approach out age. You know, I

726
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 4: reckon them. Cell phone banning is not working.

727
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Speaker 3: But the amount of calms I'm having with kids in

728
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Speaker 3: school yards likes.

729
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, yeah.

730
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Speaker 4: That sounded really terrible.

731
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Speaker 3: Sorry Taylor, Sorry, I mean, but you know, I feel

732
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Speaker 3: like pleating it is really difficult.

733
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Speaker 1: Well also because you know they're using a lot of

734
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Speaker 1: laptops and you can you know, there's miss.

735
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Speaker 3: Anyway, So that's doggling. Something to do with uniform Yeah, uh,

736
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 3: Texas making them wear long trousers and the forty plus degree.

737
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 2: Because them outrage. No, they're banned students wearing.

738
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: All black outfits, black tops and black pants. They reckon

739
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: it's associated the school and it's caused outrage. Have said

740
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: it's associated with maybe people, you know, mental health, depression,

741
00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 1: also criminals as well.

742
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 2: So we watched you. It's had fun learning environment wearing bright.

743
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 1: Colored clothes to school, and it's caused outraged people like

744
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Speaker 1: what Yeah, Scott Robinson, the all black's not happy about

745
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 1: the Yeah as well, so I'm.

746
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 3: Pretty sure they're pretty happy the all blacks are the

747
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 3: way bit. Maybe not today but in the hut.

748
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, black smife think that goes in my skin tone.

749
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think it's going to change. But that's

750
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Speaker 2: caused outrage from back to school in America.

751
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 3: With my very pasty white skin and my all black

752
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 3: clothing a lot like a zebra. Here's my headline. Internet

753
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 3: outraged over wife refusing to cook for in laws.

754
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 4: Why, Well, I've pretty much given you the answer leading

755
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 4: into this.

756
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I think, yeah, I think. And you brought

757
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 2: producer Taylor.

758
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Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, she indicates one thing.

759
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 3: Hell, all the planets are aligning. It's a producing Taylor

760
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 3: pregnant with twins. The Internet is outraged over a man's

761
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 3: request of his wife to cook a roast for his parents.

762
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 4: Now, for some reason she recorded this and put it online.

763
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 4: I don't know what. Got to do it for the views, baby,

764
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 4: have a listen.

765
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 13: You want me to do roost? Can I just remind

766
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 13: you of something. I gave birth two days ago?

767
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, two days ago, and he came out just straight away.

768
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 13: You've been sitting around this time. Send me home to

769
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Speaker 13: get rest at home.

770
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 4: But you've been doing nothing.

771
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 14: Rest the audio, But said the guy stopped the stopped

772
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Speaker 14: the audio.

773
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 4: What does he do? I feel like I'm the Coronation Street.

774
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 7: Stop talking an absolute idiot?

775
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,239
Speaker 2: Wow, how much would you fire up a fit?

776
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 6: Was?

777
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 4: Are you Marcello's Mum's coming over? She loves a roast?

778
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I wouldn't say that, but.

779
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 4: His bloody dinners. But to be fear, he's to be

780
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 4: feel of the guy. He's like, you just do roasts.

781
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 2: Than I do. It was a far point.

782
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Speaker 8: But at the same time, I'm trying to I'm trying

783
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 8: to find words aren't natural to my vocabulary right because

784
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Speaker 8: I can.

785
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 7: I think you guys know exactly what I say.

786
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 2: I think the world's with you.

787
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 4: That's what the internet is.

788
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 2: Forty els after give him I can see why that

789
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 2: shop exactly.

790
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 6: The heads that John wan Ben podcast.

791
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Speaker 1: I feel like, do I need to come clean about

792
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 1: something or do I just kind of I feel like

793
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 1: I've taken credit for something because my wife can.

794
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 3: I ask a question, do you need to fill three

795
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 3: minutes of radio? Well, then you need to come clean.

796
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, So what happens.

797
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 1: You know, my wife, who runs a busy operation is

798
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 1: you know a lot of people do around the country,

799
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Speaker 1: and every time I get in her car, drive her

800
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 1: car from time to time, I get a little frustrated

801
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 1: when it's not in a great state. I'm okay, right,

802
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 1: I'm going to so I drove the I'm going to

803
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:49,280
Speaker 1: get it cleaned.

804
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 3: Do you every time you get in another person's car,

805
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 3: probably in particularly partners, do you move the seat? Do

806
00:32:57,680 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 3: you change the seating range with it's a it's a

807
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 3: giant but beer in our relationship.

808
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 1: But it's never a bug bit. No, I've never either way.

809
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 1: But I do know some people do.

810
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 3: Get quite because she literally got her face against the windscreen,

811
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 3: that's how tight she ran.

812
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 2: To move it back to get to move it forward

813
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 2: and stuff like that.

814
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:14,600
Speaker 1: But anyway, I was like, I'll get it and my

815
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 1: wife's busy, so I'm like, I'll get it cleaned.

816
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 2: And it was on those occasions.

817
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 1: Normally I would go to like a Washworld or whatever,

818
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 1: but I just drove past the place that does the

819
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 1: cleaning for you. And then I was like, great, I'll

820
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 1: go inside to have a hot drink, do some work

821
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:26,959
Speaker 1: while they cleaned the car. Then I came home, I

822
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 1: was like said to Amanda, oh, I've cleaned your car.

823
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 2: Now. I kind of wasn't trying to take credit for it,

824
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:34,479
Speaker 2: but I just kind of see to clean your car,

825
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 2: meaning like the car is clean.

826
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 4: No, when you said I've cleaned your car, you definitely

827
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 4: took credit. No, I didn't try and take.

828
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: It's lovely tics ladder when she gets there of the

829
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: car that was so nice she took the time to

830
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:49,239
Speaker 1: clean it, clean it, and I'm like kind of like, oh, oh,

831
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 1: she thinks that I've cleaned the car, but I've got

832
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 1: the car cleaned, but I haven't actually cleaned the car.

833
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 1: And now I feel like, well do I just I've

834
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 1: taken the credit, but it's been three or four days now?

835
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 2: Cool?

836
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 4: I was school should be teaching already.

837
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, we could, we could try.

838
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:05,960
Speaker 4: I mean she's still got the same number.

839
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, you try look here.

840
00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:12,240
Speaker 4: So no suspicions have been raised.

841
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,320
Speaker 1: Well, no, I mean yeah, she did say that was

842
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 1: lovely that she might have thought that, Yeah.

843
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 3: Because it was more clean or more professional than you would.

844
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wondered. I felt like it was better than

845
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 2: what if I had done it.

846
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 3: This is a long do here we go, it's connecting

847
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 3: the truth line.

848
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:35,800
Speaker 4: We'll just say, did she know anything different about the cleaning?

849
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:36,359
Speaker 5: Oh?

850
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, you put a lot of effort in, so I'm

851
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 2: still going to take some credit.

852
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:41,839
Speaker 4: For Yeah, I'm not here to throw right.

853
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 11: Hello. Oh hello, Hi, this is Gary.

854
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 2: Gary.

855
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 1: I feel like, Gary, what are you doing with what's phone?

856
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 2: Okay, Carrie? Can we take this off? We'll take this

857
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 2: off the radio. Gary, I just got some words. I've

858
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 2: got some things. Have you noticed that when the car

859
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 2: has been a bit clean that my wife's anyway, we'll.

860
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 4: Get have you noticed that Mena's car being a bit clean?

861
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 6: And Gary?

862
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 5: Sorry?

863
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:17,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I said there's a lot going on. Gary.

864
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:26,319
Speaker 15: I'm getting my head around. Okay, now now I'm not

865
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 15: so worried about the car clean.

866
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 6: At least the hits that John wan Ben podcast.

867
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Speaker 1: I feel like, do I need to come clean about

868
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:36,880
Speaker 1: something or do I just kind of I feel like

869
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:38,799
Speaker 1: I've taken credit for something because my wife.

870
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 4: Can I ask a question, do you need to fill

871
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:42,720
Speaker 4: three minutes of radio?

872
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:43,359
Speaker 2: Oh?

873
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, well then you need to come clean?

874
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, So what happens?

875
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:48,880
Speaker 1: You know my wife, yes, who runs a busy operation

876
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:51,320
Speaker 1: is you know a lot of people do around the country.

877
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: And every time I get in her car, drive her

878
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 1: car from time to time, I get a little frustrated

879
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 1: when it's not in a gray state. I'm like, okay, right,

880
00:35:57,920 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna you know, so I drove the other I'm

881
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 1: gonna get it cleaned.

882
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 3: Do you every time you get in another person's car,

883
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 3: probably in particularly your partners, do you move the seat?

884
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 3: Do you change the seating range with it's a it's

885
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 3: a giant bug beer in.

886
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 1: Our relationship, but it's never a bug beer. No, I've

887
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: never either way. But I do know some people do get.

888
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 3: Quite because she has literally got her face against the windscreen,

889
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 3: that's how tight she ran the seat.

890
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:22,760
Speaker 2: To move it back, to get to move it forward

891
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 2: and stuff like that.

892
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 1: But anyway, I was like, I'll get it, and my

893
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 1: wife's busy, so I'm like, I'll get it.

894
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:28,799
Speaker 2: Cleaned. And it was one of those occasions. Normally I

895
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 2: would go to like a Washworld or what, but I

896
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 2: just drove past the place that does the cleaning for you,

897
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 2: and then I was like, great, I'll go and soide

898
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 2: to have a hot drink, do some work while they

899
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:38,359
Speaker 2: cleaned the car. And I came home. I was like

900
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 2: said to Amanda, Oh, I've cleaned your car. Now. I

901
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 2: kind of.

902
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 1: Wasn't trying to take credit for it, but I just

903
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,239
Speaker 1: kind of see to clean your car, meaning like the

904
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 1: car is clean.

905
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 4: No, when you see it, I've cleaned your car. You

906
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:49,360
Speaker 4: definitely took a credit.

907
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 2: I don't know.

908
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 1: I didn't try and take It's lovely tics lader when

909
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 1: she gets there of the car go was so nice.

910
00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 2: She took the time to clean it clean. And I'm

911
00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 2: like kind of like, oh, oh, she thinks that I've

912
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 2: cleaned the car, but I've got the car cleaned, but

913
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:05,239
Speaker 2: I haven't actually cleaned the car.

914
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 1: And now I feel like, well do I just I've

915
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 1: taken the credit. But it's been three or four days.

916
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:11,400
Speaker 1: Now you're about school.

917
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:13,240
Speaker 4: I think she was school should be teaching already.

918
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, we could, we could try. I try.

919
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 4: She's still got the same number. Yeah, you try look here,

920
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:23,360
Speaker 4: So no suspicions have been raised.

921
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,360
Speaker 1: Well, no, I mean yeah, she did say that it

922
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 1: was lovely. That she might have thought that, Yeah.

923
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 4: Because it was more clean or more professional.

924
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 2: Than you would Yeah, I wondered. I felt like it

925
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 2: was better than what if I had done it.

926
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:39,799
Speaker 4: This is a long doll out.

927
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:43,719
Speaker 3: Oh, here we go, it's connecting the truth line.

928
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 4: We'll just say, did she know anything different about the cleaning?

929
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 5: Oh?

930
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:49,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, you put a lot of effort in. Oh so

931
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:51,319
Speaker 4: I'm still going to take some credit for Yeah, I'm

932
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 4: not here to throw right.

933
00:37:53,640 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 11: Hello. Oh hello, Hi, this is Gary.

934
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:06,920
Speaker 2: Gary. I feel like Garry, what are you doing with?

935
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 2: What's fine? Okay? Carry?

936
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:14,359
Speaker 1: Can we take this off? We'll take this off the radio. Gary,

937
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 1: I've just got some words. I've got some things. Have

938
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:18,919
Speaker 1: you noticed that the car has been a bit clean

939
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 1: that my wife's got anyway, we'll get have you noticed

940
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:22,399
Speaker 1: Mina's car being a bit clean?

941
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 5: And Gary?

942
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 1: Sorry, yeah, I said there's a lot going on.

943
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:28,360
Speaker 2: Gary.

944
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 15: I'm getting my head around. Okay, now now I'm not

945
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 15: so worried about the car clean