1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: The Hits Drive with Meddi and Pja thanks to chimis 2 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 1: Wee House, the Real House of Fragrances and. 3 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 2: That. 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 3: Oh no, what's happened? 5 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 1: I put something in the oven and forgot about it. 6 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 3: Oh my god, this is on the podcast. Are you 7 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 3: okay with this? Oh yeah? What's heaven? 8 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 1: Oh my god. I'm just strive so hard to be 9 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:32,160 Speaker 1: a domestic god. 10 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 3: You hye, I hear your sister, What have you done? 11 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: My husband just sent me a photo and I was like, oh, 12 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 1: cute little photo at the end of the day. 13 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 3: And he. 14 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:48,840 Speaker 1: It's chargrilled like roast carrots that I put in broccoli 15 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:52,200 Speaker 1: and I was hating up some sausage rolls that we'd 16 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 1: head and it's I'll. 17 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 3: Wait, how long were they? Was the oven on this 18 00:00:57,600 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 3: whole time? 19 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 1: And the fire, so we've got a fire of him 20 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: and I put them in this morning. I'm going to 21 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:08,319 Speaker 1: call him. Oh my god, I'm gonna call him. He's 22 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 1: going to be so angry. 23 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 4: My god, you he mess he. 24 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 1: Hi. Oh my god, Oh my god. I try so 25 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 1: hard to be a domestic goddess and I fail. I 26 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 1: just I can't. I quit. I quit beige. I'm hiring 27 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:41,960 Speaker 1: a maid, it would be nice. Oh my god, I'm 28 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: so sorry. 29 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:44,320 Speaker 3: That is so good. 30 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: How did you find it? Did it start smelling. 31 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 3: That that's a waste of a good sausage roll? 32 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: No, I know, I'm so sorry. We'll have this conversation 33 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: when I get hold. I'm sorry. All right, it's Wednesday Weds. 34 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 1: I've gotta get some beers for we bye bage. Oh 35 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: my god, I'm so in trouble. I've just headed me 36 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: here after mere. This is like sometimes I do okay, 37 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 1: and then sometimes I just fail. 38 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 4: I've had multiple times where I've like cooked dinner or 39 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 4: the other one is the other one is an iron 40 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 4: a ship, and then like half an hour later we'll 41 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 4: be like getting ready for a night out or something 42 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 4: and Iron the shit, and half an hour later Ryan 43 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:43,119 Speaker 4: will be like the ironster one. 44 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: Oh and it's never them, isn't it just so annoying? 45 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 1: Hats never there, like the freaking smug look on the 46 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: face and the irons on like sheer disappointment, sheer like 47 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 1: why would you? This would never happen to me. I'm 48 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:01,119 Speaker 1: King of perfection. 49 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 4: It annoys me so much and I really try. This 50 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 4: is like this was like me. This is like me 51 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 4: trying to attach the hose to the guest bottle the 52 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:11,799 Speaker 4: other days, like I want to be able to do 53 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 4: this one little thing by myself because Ryan is always 54 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 4: like outside jobs and I'm inside, and I was like, 55 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 4: I can do this, and then I was like, he's 56 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 4: gonna be so proud of me, like the guests world 57 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 4: would run out. 58 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 3: I've changed it over. He doesn't have to do it 59 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 3: in job done. 60 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 4: And then I had to bloody FaceTime him because they 61 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 4: couldn't do it by myself. 62 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 1: Do you think we just need to some randomity and 63 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: realize that, like we just can't be everything to everyone. Yeah, 64 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: but just can't be perfect everything, you know. 65 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 4: But also keep doing it because it provides me with 66 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 4: some hilarious. 67 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 1: Ah well, we should put that on our Instagram. 68 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 4: We will actually do you know what this made me 69 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 4: think of? What it's time to start the podcast Facebook page? 70 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 1: Yeah? 71 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 3: Should we we should? 72 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 1: Okay, what are we calling it? Lightly? It's actually follow through. 73 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 3: There was a good one that someone had, Yeah, something 74 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 3: about it. 75 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 1: Did you know I was on a reality show or something. 76 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 4: Well, there was something about bananas and the like banana 77 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 4: brigade or something. 78 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 3: I'm going to go and find it. 79 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:16,479 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, if you think you've got a good name 80 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: for US special members only Facebook page, get in touch 81 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 1: with us DM dming us on Instagram. The hats driver 82 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 1: is the most richt way we do read your messages, 83 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 1: So slide on it like a little snake. 84 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 4: I mean that's the most direct way. Now until we 85 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 4: start the Facebook page. 86 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, until we get the Facebook page running up, We're 87 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 1: gonna have so much exclusive content on there our page. 88 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 3: You poor thing. You tried, It's okay, you tried, you tried. 89 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 1: And before I leave today, I put a roys checking 90 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 1: in and I overcooked it. And then and then I 91 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: had this grand idea of making really nice sandwiches, and 92 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:52,359 Speaker 1: then BJ was like, oh that Bridges takes way too 93 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: long to heat up. And then, honestly, off good loving 94 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 1: is hard sometimes in the middle of winter. I just 95 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:00,719 Speaker 1: want it to be a bit warmer. Ay brant Over, 96 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 1: thanks so much for joining us. Coming up on the 97 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 1: show today, we talk about the ramifications of your tardiness. 98 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 1: What happened when you were late. 99 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:09,480 Speaker 3: That was great, that was really fun. 100 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 4: Actually, the signs that you're not compatible with your traveling partner. 101 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:17,840 Speaker 1: And what happened with me a tub of ice cream, 102 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 1: a pregnancy test, and overdue cash money, that money that 103 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: I owed. 104 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 3: That's a good tease. It's a really cue. 105 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 1: You can find out that and more in today's podcast Enjoy. 106 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 5: By Many and the podcast. 107 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,159 Speaker 1: Mark Ambo has Belonged Together on the Hats. Coming up 108 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 1: to twenty past three with Many and Day you. 109 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:42,279 Speaker 3: Did it again? You do this? 110 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:42,839 Speaker 1: What do. 111 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 3: You put something in your mouth? Just before we went on. 112 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 1: No, I'd finished my apple a good minute ago, but 113 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: then I needed to sneeze, So my mouth just weird. 114 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 1: But I was trying to look at the light. Does 115 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: that work? Looking at the light? 116 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 6: Now? 117 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 3: I do the squeeze together dose squeezing other night. Yeah, 118 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 3: really stifles of sneeze. Yeah, do you know that? 119 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 1: No, it's amazing you're with Many and Peter God. We 120 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: went to get together. 121 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 3: We spend together. 122 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 4: The wildest thing happened in work today. It was we 123 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 4: live and we're working a building. How many floors would 124 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 4: be here? 125 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 3: Five or some? 126 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: Yeah? 127 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:30,279 Speaker 4: Yeah, And so that we our studio overlooks the atrium 128 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 4: with all the elevators, and it was like at first 129 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 4: I went, oh my god, has there been like a 130 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 4: fire alarm or something? And that we haven't heard because 131 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 4: all of a sudden, the doors, the elevated doors open 132 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:46,679 Speaker 4: and the flood of people just age a stampeded into 133 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 4: the reception area. And I looked at produce this area 134 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:51,479 Speaker 4: and I went, what the hell has gone on here? 135 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 4: And then I saw this massive line start to form 136 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 4: and this it snaked all the way through the atrium 137 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,799 Speaker 4: and it was so long. And then we I thought, 138 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:03,839 Speaker 4: oh my god, this must be good, because sometimes we 139 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 4: do get free things in our building that people can 140 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 4: can't collect. I thought this must be a really good 141 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 4: one planing out this long. It was the stupidest things 142 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 4: that they were giving up for free. 143 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 1: It was free tea bags. 144 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 3: Free tea bag. Yeah, there was free. 145 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 4: Famously like one of the cheapest items on the planet, 146 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 4: a tea bag that cost like one of a cent. 147 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 1: There were some sachets of Keito cereal, and there were 148 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: some iced latte coffees, which I understand, you know, people 149 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 1: need the care fe facts. That was an instant I might. 150 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:41,679 Speaker 3: Give them that, but the tea bag and really individual TV. 151 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 4: It made me realize people really will do anything for 152 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 4: a freebie, right because this line I reckon they would 153 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 4: have I reckon to get Once the line had really 154 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 4: properly formed to get from the back to the front 155 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 4: would have taken at least ten minutes. 156 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, you chuck a free on there, and it just 157 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 1: makes it so much more exciting, isn't it? 158 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 3: I guess so, I just can't be bothered my time, 159 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 3: as time is of the essence tis moment. 160 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 1: What would make you get up? If there was something 161 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 1: free of something? What would it be? 162 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 3: It'd have to be to make you interested? It have 163 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 3: to be substantial. I do. 164 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 4: I am partial to pizza and you know me in 165 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 4: a chocolate chip cookie as well, if there were, If 166 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 4: there were cookie time cookies out there, I might have thought. 167 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 1: You would go, yeah, right, okay, well that's not that 168 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: much of an upgrade from a TV like. 169 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 3: No looking at it? No, come on? 170 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:32,200 Speaker 1: Oh wait one hundred has let's ask the question or 171 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 1: you can take four for eight seven? How hard did 172 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 1: you go for a freebe? And was it worth it? 173 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 3: I love it? 174 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:43,960 Speaker 1: How ridiculous did you look going to get a free item? 175 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 1: Get in touch and we've got something free for you 176 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 1: in exchange, we'll help you up with the hell pizza 177 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 1: about chair? Which want to know your desperation for a freebie? 178 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 7: No? 179 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:53,880 Speaker 1: Times are tough at the moment. No judgment. 180 00:08:55,880 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 5: Maddy and PG Medi and PJ the podcast. 181 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 1: Asking the question how far did you go for a freebie? 182 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 1: We do realize the irony we're asking for how far 183 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: you went? And in return we're giving you a free item. 184 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 1: Oh one hundred that hats you can call us and 185 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 1: we'll talk them up with a hell pias about sha 186 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: Let's go to Shah, Hello Shah, Hi, how far did 187 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 1: you go? 188 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 6: My neighbor and my daughter they had a coloring incompetition 189 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 6: for Easter at the Teothcake Victory. Yeah, they they went 190 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 6: and over. It's a two day period and since they 191 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 6: had siblings and all together, they've got sixteen slices of free. 192 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 8: Teethcakes put them to get there to make a birthday cake. 193 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 3: For so what every day? 194 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 4: So every day they would have to go in with 195 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 4: a different colored and picture is that not work? 196 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 8: And yep, they were saying that there were some of 197 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 8: them were their siblings and you know, because they're only 198 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 8: that one producer. 199 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 1: Really, so every s sixteen and then they made it 200 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:58,079 Speaker 1: into a giant birthday cake for you. 201 00:09:58,120 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 3: How did it taste? 202 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 6: Everything? 203 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:02,679 Speaker 3: A pre cutting? 204 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 4: Well, you didn't even have to do any of the cutting. 205 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: Thanks so much for me, Cole. We're going to come 206 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 1: up with the help about. 207 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 3: Someone takes into four four eight seven. 208 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:16,199 Speaker 4: I got my dad to drive me three hours Carterton 209 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 4: to Napier for a free lunchtime concerpt when Super Groove 210 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:21,439 Speaker 4: were doing a CD. 211 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 1: Release Get six hours, round trap, round trip. 212 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, a little single. 213 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 1: Lot now, producer, Siria, you were quite fan Gil backing day. 214 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 4: I know, okay, still still you would you would line up? 215 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:39,680 Speaker 3: I reckon four hours? 216 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:41,559 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, you know you were talking about the reception 217 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 1: and how it was at our reception it was nothing. 218 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 1: I came into the pomo and I went and lined up, 219 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 1: and I got the tea. 220 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 3: Bags, and yeah you did. After going through the window. 221 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 1: What are they doing? I couldn't. I was like, I 222 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:56,680 Speaker 1: feel like I'm missing out. 223 00:10:57,720 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 3: Also there you hate that feeling. 224 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 1: Weren't you at the Krispy Kreme launch as well back 225 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 1: in the day and you traveled across the city to 226 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 1: line up for a couple of hours for a new 227 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:09,960 Speaker 1: Crispy Kreme donor How long did you line up for? 228 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 1: I can't even remember. 229 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 3: I think it was like three or four. 230 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 4: Hour and how many donuts. Did you give for a 231 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 4: three hour liner. 232 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 1: For original place? 233 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 3: Worth it? Worth it? 234 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 1: No? 235 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 5: Many? In the podcast, that's the People's poll, the People's poll. 236 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 5: Everybody comes together, It's the People's Poll. 237 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 1: This could be a niche one Today team, but it's 238 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 1: inspired by an experience I had this morning. I was 239 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:45,679 Speaker 1: on a bank phone call, so it was like a 240 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:48,439 Speaker 1: consult and basically it was sort of an appointment. He 241 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 1: was like, right, there's going to be forty five minutes, 242 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:54,599 Speaker 1: and I didn't really no, especially when you've got a 243 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,079 Speaker 1: toddler sort of crawling around at the same time. We're 244 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 1: not crawling running around at the same time. 245 00:11:59,000 --> 00:11:59,720 Speaker 3: Quite stressful. 246 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 1: But then I was sort of a couple of minutes 247 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 1: out from the phone call and I wasn't dressed and 248 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:07,959 Speaker 1: I looked really tatty, and I was like, oh, this 249 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 1: doesn't feel right. I feel like I need to put 250 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 1: some nice clothes on. Not for a professional moment. And 251 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 1: I don't know why, but it wasn't a zoom call. 252 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:21,319 Speaker 1: He couldn't see me, but I just felt like in 253 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:23,600 Speaker 1: that moment I needed to, like because I was wearing 254 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 1: Jami's Prieto and I was like, I need to put 255 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 1: on some proper clothes or else he's going to know. 256 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:32,679 Speaker 1: He's going to detect the lack of professionalism in my voice. 257 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 1: Am I still rocking Jarvis? So I when I got 258 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 1: some clothes on, and then I thought, that's stupid. I 259 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:39,960 Speaker 1: shouldn't have to do that. But I wonder what the 260 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 1: general consensus is. 261 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 4: I reckon, you will actually be surprised by how many 262 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 4: people agree with you that you've got a dress. Yes, 263 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 4: it's so stupid, stupid, it's absolutely stupid. 264 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:54,439 Speaker 3: Yeah you're but yeah, thank you. 265 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:58,319 Speaker 4: But I reckon people will feel like I can't have 266 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:01,559 Speaker 4: a proper professional conversation aut least I kind of look 267 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 4: the part. Yes, I'm not talking for the dress, for 268 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 4: the job you want or that's right. 269 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not talking like your average chat with a 270 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 1: mate or you know, a friend. I'm talking like the 271 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 1: job interviews, the bank appointments, the lawyers, the doctor consults, 272 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:20,720 Speaker 1: like the quite professional conversations that you need to have. 273 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 1: They can't see you. But do you still dress up 274 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 1: or not? 275 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 3: I love yes or no? 276 00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 1: That is the question you can text through in our 277 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: four four eight seven. We'll come back and put the 278 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:33,320 Speaker 1: results together. See if I'm in the minority. Or not. 279 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 1: Do you dress up for important phone calls? 280 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 5: A podcast? That's the keep Pool's poll, the People's poll. 281 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 5: Everybody comes together, it's the people's poll, all right. 282 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 1: The question today is do you dress up for an 283 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:54,079 Speaker 1: important phone call? I'm talking a bank appointment, a doctor's appointment, 284 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:56,440 Speaker 1: maybe a job interview. You don't see them on zoom, 285 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 1: but you still feel the need to dress up to 286 00:13:59,080 --> 00:13:59,839 Speaker 1: get in the zone. 287 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:01,959 Speaker 3: Dress up for a bank or phone call today? 288 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:05,319 Speaker 1: Well, I was before there. I was wearing Jarmi's and 289 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, this just doesn't feel right, Like 290 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 1: we're sitting down for forty five minutes. He's going through 291 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:12,680 Speaker 1: all of my finances and talking all of these important details. 292 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 1: I have to get into something a little bit more professional. 293 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 4: So I got you to text to four four eight seven. 294 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 4: I'll read you a slice of the text machine. Someone said, 295 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 4: dress up. I didn't even dress up when I go out. 296 00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 4: The wife hates it. 297 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 3: Someone said, no, I want to dress up. 298 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 1: There's just extra work for yourself for someone that can't 299 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 1: actually see you and leause it makes you feel better. Though, 300 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 1: on which case go for goals? 301 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 4: Someone did say yes, I would absolutely dress for confidence. 302 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 4: I reckon They can hear how you feel through your voice, 303 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 4: and clothes can definitely affect how we feel. 304 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:43,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I said, no, I'm a teacher, and when 305 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 1: I was teaching online during COVID, it was a video 306 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 1: and I was wearing pajama pants and I was dressing 307 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 1: my top path question. That's what I always thought they 308 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:51,200 Speaker 1: did on Telly. You know we're in Neuron Breakfast. Yeah, 309 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 1: like with the news desk. I know you went on 310 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 1: the news desk, but can you unveil a few secrets here? 311 00:14:57,520 --> 00:15:01,160 Speaker 1: Do they wear like a blazer up top and sometimes pajamas. 312 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 4: I've never seen that, but you feasibly could do it 313 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 4: if you really. 314 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:07,400 Speaker 1: I feel like there were so many rooms back in 315 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 1: the day. They're like, oh, he's actually wearing slippers, he's got. 316 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 5: His boxes on. 317 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 1: Why he would actually have his boxes on at work? 318 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:17,560 Speaker 1: It doesn't even make sense. But we actually asked us 319 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 1: on Instagram as well, and it's not an overall percentage 320 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 1: of what the people do. 321 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 4: If we look at the text machine and the Instagram poll, 322 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:27,640 Speaker 4: we are currently sitting at about sixty percent saying nah, 323 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 4: don't bother, just we what you want for though, saying yeah, 324 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 4: you've got to dress up to take the important phone call. 325 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:36,400 Speaker 3: So it is relatively close, closer than I thought. 326 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 1: Craziest question on My Behalf. 327 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 5: Maddy and PJ. Mady and PJ the podcast The Heads. 328 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 1: Traveling together as a couple can make or break here. Yeah, 329 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 1: particularly in the early days. I think it's a really 330 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 1: good test for you as a couple. Absolutely, when you 331 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 1: do go away on a substantial trap. I'm not talking 332 00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:01,120 Speaker 1: like a cute, cheeky weekend. I think that's always you know, 333 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 1: the rose ten to glasses are always on. But I 334 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 1: think when you're traveling for a good amount of time together, 335 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 1: you really are forced to see each other's floors. 336 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 4: It's when there's like it's when there's multiple flights, and 337 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 4: often international flights or more. You're gonna get buses, you're 338 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 4: gonna get trains, and if you're in a foreign language country, 339 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 4: like add. 340 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 3: Ten times to the stress. 341 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 1: So I came across four signs that you're not compatible 342 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 1: with your travel partner. 343 00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 3: I don't know if I agree. 344 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:31,600 Speaker 1: I don't know if I agree or not. The first 345 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 1: one one of you is a planner and the other 346 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:38,480 Speaker 1: is more spur of the moment. I think you need 347 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:39,280 Speaker 1: one of. 348 00:16:39,240 --> 00:16:42,160 Speaker 3: Each that is me and that is me and my husband. 349 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 1: Are you spur of the moment? 350 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:46,120 Speaker 3: Absolutely right? Is the planner? 351 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 1: But don't I think you need a bit of both. 352 00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 1: It's either too rigid or either it's two chaotic. I 353 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 1: actually think that's quite key to have a good time. 354 00:16:55,800 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 1: It's like one of one of you pushes them out 355 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 1: of the bountains or out of the boundary. The second 356 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 1: one is one of you is an early riser and 357 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:04,199 Speaker 1: the other lights to sleep in. 358 00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:11,159 Speaker 3: Oh no, are you the early rise I love a 359 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:12,879 Speaker 3: good little sleeping, do you? 360 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:17,719 Speaker 1: They say? Having conflicting sleep she edueles can create friction. 361 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:19,959 Speaker 1: The morning person make it up early, eager to get 362 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 1: a kids out on the day, while the night owl 363 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:24,639 Speaker 1: may want to skip morning activities to log some extra sleep. 364 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 1: Have you ever had a fight over your sleeping, she 365 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 1: duels on holiday. 366 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:31,640 Speaker 4: Not a fight, No, But Ryan will often wake up early, 367 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:36,640 Speaker 4: and then we'll get a little bit receless and we'll accidentally. 368 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 3: Marks wake me up. Number three on the list. 369 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:42,400 Speaker 1: One of you is an adventure seeker and the other 370 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:43,960 Speaker 1: prefers a leisurely trip. 371 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:47,560 Speaker 4: Ryan and I are pretty even with we like to 372 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:48,760 Speaker 4: get out and about an adventure. 373 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:53,359 Speaker 1: You're both active lass. I used to be a real chiller, 374 00:17:53,440 --> 00:17:54,960 Speaker 1: like my idea would just be laying on the beach, 375 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 1: But I've become more adventurous. I actually like activities now, 376 00:17:57,560 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 1: and now I've got a kid, Activities really do it 377 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:03,639 Speaker 1: for me, Like I really get joy out of it. 378 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:06,240 Speaker 1: One of you is a big spender and the other 379 00:18:06,400 --> 00:18:06,920 Speaker 1: is a saver. 380 00:18:08,560 --> 00:18:10,840 Speaker 3: Who's that well in your relationship Ryan? 381 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 4: Surprisingly, Ryan's the big spender in our relationships. Yeah, here's 382 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:17,719 Speaker 4: what happened to us when we went in our honeymoon though, 383 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:20,720 Speaker 4: because it was our first big overseas trip. We freaky 384 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:23,920 Speaker 4: Friday where it's like we crossed the international date line 385 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:26,360 Speaker 4: and all of a sudden I became the street set 386 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:28,280 Speaker 4: and Ryan became the relaxed traveler. 387 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 3: It was so weird. 388 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:32,679 Speaker 1: Really, So maybe it's just a New Zealand thing. So 389 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:34,880 Speaker 1: like when he's he's sious, but it gets up seas 390 00:18:35,080 --> 00:18:39,080 Speaker 1: like it doesn't just chill Man, just chill. I reckon 391 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 1: Bejo and I got close to a breakup on our 392 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:46,359 Speaker 1: holiday recently to Australia. So like having a kid and 393 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 1: the like having a todder in the mix while you're 394 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 1: traveling as just as a whole New Dimension, and we 395 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 1: had two bags. One was meant to be for Charlie 396 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:56,600 Speaker 1: with all her stuff in it, and the other one 397 00:18:56,640 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 1: like a backpack, and the other one was meant to be. 398 00:18:58,400 --> 00:18:59,159 Speaker 3: More our stuff. 399 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 1: But I just kept forgetting which stuff was in which 400 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 1: back and then I kept like misplacing the passports, and 401 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 1: like at really crucial times we couldn't find stuff. And 402 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:11,879 Speaker 1: it seems so stupid now I'm talking about it, but 403 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 1: at the time. 404 00:19:13,080 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 3: The day was just like it was doing his hidd. 405 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 4: When you were spending day and day out with someone 406 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 4: on a holiday, it is the little things that always 407 00:19:21,640 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 4: end up one in you are. 408 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:25,320 Speaker 1: So I thought we could ask this afternoon, Oh one 409 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 1: hundred the hats, what was the travel blow up with 410 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:30,879 Speaker 1: a plus one? Maybe it was with a partner or 411 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:34,720 Speaker 1: a really good friend. What was that tense moment on 412 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 1: a holiday? What happened? I'm sure that there's some drama 413 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 1: that we can tap into. Oh wait, hundred the Hats 414 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 1: text four four eight seven the podcast talking travel blow ups? 415 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,640 Speaker 1: What was the blow up you had while on holiday? 416 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:52,400 Speaker 1: Oh wite hundred the Hats You can text four four 417 00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 1: eight seven. I forgot quite a key moment when we 418 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:57,320 Speaker 1: were flying back into New Zealand. I think it was 419 00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 1: last year, and I came through security and I'd done 420 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:05,679 Speaker 1: all my declaration and stuff, and then I got surrounded 421 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:07,680 Speaker 1: by dogs and I was like, wow, this is quite 422 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 1: intense and they were and then people were like, are 423 00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 1: you sure you've you know, answered your declaration honestly, And 424 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 1: I was like, I think so. I was pretty tired 425 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 1: at the time, but I was like, yeah, I think 426 00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:20,919 Speaker 1: to my knowlogies absolutely. They're like, are you sure the 427 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,439 Speaker 1: dog would not leave me alone? To that I'd smuggle 428 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:26,879 Speaker 1: to Banana into the country. Oh, and it was about 429 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 1: five in the morning. We landed like it was some 430 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:35,239 Speaker 1: awful We were tired. BJ no breeze because there was 431 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:35,720 Speaker 1: such a. 432 00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 3: Hold up after that they. 433 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 1: Had to go on sit pay for a hundred bucks. 434 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:41,160 Speaker 3: Not ideal. 435 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:47,200 Speaker 1: So we've actually got Virginia on the phone. Hello Virginia, 436 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:47,680 Speaker 1: how are you? 437 00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:49,879 Speaker 9: I'm very well, thank you? How are you? 438 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:51,880 Speaker 1: You're not too bad? What happened on holiday? 439 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:55,440 Speaker 9: So this was a very long a few years ago now. 440 00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 9: But I was trembling down the South Island with his 441 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 9: fans line Watch Australia and one was from Germany. The 442 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:05,199 Speaker 9: guy was from Germany, and the whole time we were 443 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:08,960 Speaker 9: traveling down the South Island, he would just randomly book 444 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:15,160 Speaker 9: excursions for himself and not tell us. So we would 445 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 9: be trying to go and be like okay, I'm going here, 446 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:21,560 Speaker 9: and we're like, uh, okay, sure, And it was starting 447 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:23,880 Speaker 9: to play on me and it was getting quite annoying. 448 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:26,159 Speaker 9: And then the Australian friend left and it was just 449 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:30,399 Speaker 9: me and the German guy. Oh no, yeah, And I 450 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:32,280 Speaker 9: told I was getting stick of having the book everything. 451 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:33,800 Speaker 9: So I said to him, Okay, we're going to be 452 00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 9: in Cocora for the night, can you book the accommodation 453 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:38,600 Speaker 9: and then the next day we've got to drive depict 454 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:40,160 Speaker 9: in to get on therey. We had the theory already, 455 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 9: books burned up to the accommodation part and he had 456 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 9: booked me and Ham into a all male dormitory. Yeah, 457 00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 9: and so that was already I was like just about 458 00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:56,879 Speaker 9: done by that point. 459 00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 1: Click there. 460 00:21:58,040 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 9: The night, got up, the next morning, packed the car 461 00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:02,479 Speaker 9: because you know, Cocora is picked and drive and then 462 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:05,040 Speaker 9: we were booked on the ferry that afternoon or evening. 463 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:06,399 Speaker 1: Yes, And I was. 464 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 9: Telling him to hurry out yourself in the car we're 465 00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 9: going to go, and he's like, oh, I'm about to 466 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:10,439 Speaker 9: throw on a whale watching. 467 00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:16,080 Speaker 4: Oh my god, behind behind. 468 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:18,680 Speaker 9: Got out of a car, got his bag out of 469 00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:20,119 Speaker 9: the boot, shut the boot, and I said, you're on 470 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:26,119 Speaker 9: your own. I left a guy who could barely speak English, 471 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 9: and fair enough. 472 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:33,880 Speaker 3: Fair enough for there is incompatibility in its I think 473 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 3: so much. We're going to hook up with a little 474 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 3: kimsheehouse prize. We just had to quickly invite and producer bronze. 475 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 3: Who's coming. Because your parents cannot sit together on a plane. 476 00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:45,159 Speaker 10: No, not at all. My it's mostly my mom. She 477 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,440 Speaker 10: hates sitting beside my dad because he is so annoying, 478 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:50,680 Speaker 10: especially like snacks in there. He will be so loud, 479 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 10: falling asleep on her touring, always just randomly touching her 480 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,199 Speaker 10: out of know where. He'll just touch her. I think 481 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:59,000 Speaker 10: it's to annoy her. The phone at the phone, not 482 00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,800 Speaker 10: putting any phone on and then just playing it out loud. 483 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:05,400 Speaker 5: Raw Doggie does not that is a crime. 484 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,200 Speaker 3: So they have to box separate seats to. 485 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:11,160 Speaker 10: Get usually ask our kids like us kids are with them, 486 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,119 Speaker 10: so we one of us goes in between them. 487 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 4: It's hilario and the podcast that there's one thing that 488 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:23,920 Speaker 4: happens on our show pretty much like clockwork, and it's 489 00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:27,320 Speaker 4: been this way since we very first started, and that 490 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:32,960 Speaker 4: is that very close to our start time, every day 491 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 4: one of us, at least one of us will text 492 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:42,439 Speaker 4: the group chat and say, sorry, sorry, just running five 493 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:43,119 Speaker 4: minutes late. 494 00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:48,399 Speaker 1: Maybe I will add it is always usually just five 495 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 1: minutes late. 496 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:49,960 Speaker 3: True. 497 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 4: True, we don't push the boat up too much, but 498 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:54,400 Speaker 4: it happens pretty much every day. 499 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 1: Were useless, usually the team like that doesn't happen. I'd 500 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 1: say that there's usually one person that's honestly, he would. 501 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 4: Twin you, and I wish I thought that this was 502 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:07,840 Speaker 4: just a work thing. Like I thought, maybe I would 503 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:11,399 Speaker 4: just like this at work because my husband is My 504 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,720 Speaker 4: husband has a motto. He says, I'd rather be half 505 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 4: an hour early to something than than like thirty seconds 506 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:17,800 Speaker 4: late to something. 507 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 1: Well thirty seconds really the top, wasn't it. 508 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:25,520 Speaker 4: He hate being late by any amount, and so we 509 00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:28,240 Speaker 4: are regularly to pull up early to something and just 510 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:29,200 Speaker 4: end up sitting in the car. 511 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:31,360 Speaker 3: So I did think that I had. 512 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 4: Changed my behavior and changed my ways apart from this 513 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:39,840 Speaker 4: works in this little arena. I mean, who's counting. Yeah, 514 00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:43,800 Speaker 4: but I go and see a barber like once a month. 515 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:46,480 Speaker 4: And this morning I got a text from an unknown 516 00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 4: number because whenever I book, I just book online. Yeah, 517 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,679 Speaker 4: and so I don't have my barber's number, but I 518 00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:59,360 Speaker 4: got a random text from him this morning that just said, hey, 519 00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:03,680 Speaker 4: I'll see you at eleven fifteen with a scissors emoji. 520 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:06,160 Speaker 4: And I was like, oh my god, it must be 521 00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:08,439 Speaker 4: it must be Ja, it must be my barber. And 522 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,159 Speaker 4: I thought, that's weird. I don't normally get like a 523 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 4: personalized text from him. And so then when I went 524 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:17,480 Speaker 4: into the barber, I will say I was five minutes 525 00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:21,159 Speaker 4: five minutes late, and I sat down and I said, oh, 526 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,399 Speaker 4: I got a text from you this morning. I said, 527 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 4: I don't normally get a text from you. He goes, yeah, 528 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:30,800 Speaker 4: I've just noticed your like quite regularly. 529 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:32,440 Speaker 3: Running late. 530 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 4: And then he said, and a couple of a couple 531 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 4: of months ago, like not the last time, but the 532 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:41,320 Speaker 4: time before that, you actually forgot altogether. So he said, 533 00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:45,400 Speaker 4: I just thought you might need a personalized. 534 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:46,520 Speaker 3: It's actually really bad. 535 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,280 Speaker 1: It's actually really bad. And I have been I've been 536 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:51,639 Speaker 1: guilty of this as well to quite a few appointments 537 00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:53,920 Speaker 1: and like we just need to be better, like you 538 00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,000 Speaker 1: just need to give your We obviously don't give us 539 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:56,640 Speaker 1: half enough time. 540 00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:59,920 Speaker 4: Ever, it's always on time, I know, it's always the 541 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:04,160 Speaker 4: thing where and I always mean to like I mean 542 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 4: to leave with plenty of time, and something will happen 543 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,640 Speaker 4: and it just never quite help. 544 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:11,960 Speaker 3: I just ride flustered and it's the worst. 545 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,720 Speaker 1: I'm I'm so sorry, I'm Sorryry you want to leave 546 00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:16,800 Speaker 1: the traffic or there's just always another excuse. 547 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:17,160 Speaker 7: Same. 548 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,040 Speaker 4: This was low level though, Like to my barber, I 549 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:23,480 Speaker 4: just thought, well, this is you know, it's not great, 550 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 4: and I. 551 00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:24,720 Speaker 3: Will coop my behavior. 552 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,800 Speaker 4: But at least there weren't any major ramifications, like I 553 00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:29,640 Speaker 4: made the appointment, we got my haircut, it's. 554 00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:31,560 Speaker 3: Fine, and I'll work my behavior. 555 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 4: But what about those times where because you were late 556 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:35,719 Speaker 4: something crazy? 557 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,479 Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, why don't you, Why don't you give us 558 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 1: a warning as to what can happen, because one of 559 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,159 Speaker 1: these days it's going to catch us out right and 560 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:44,040 Speaker 1: we're actually gonna look like full blown at a year. 561 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 1: So what happened? What were the ramifications of you being late? 562 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:49,960 Speaker 1: So you've heard the low end of the scale. We 563 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:51,960 Speaker 1: want to hear the big end of the scale. What 564 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:54,320 Speaker 1: happened because of your tardiness? Oh, one hundred of hats 565 00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 1: text four four eight. 566 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:03,000 Speaker 5: Maddy J. The podcast that it's. 567 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,320 Speaker 1: Been told off on the text machine four for eighty seven. 568 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,400 Speaker 1: Ramifications of you missing or being late to your barber 569 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 1: appointment is that your barber doesn't get paid or is 570 00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,720 Speaker 1: behind in the rest of his appointments that day. Just respectful. 571 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,679 Speaker 1: In my opinion, I'm not. 572 00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:18,480 Speaker 4: I'm not wildly late. I'm a few minutes and I'm 573 00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:20,840 Speaker 4: working on it. I'm going to curb my behavior. 574 00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:23,040 Speaker 3: You added a little DSD to the story. 575 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:26,520 Speaker 1: You're actually one of the most respectful kind people I know. 576 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 1: Just so people don't get the wrong impression of you, you 577 00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:30,480 Speaker 1: can feel free give me a little give me a 578 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:33,760 Speaker 1: little slap on the rest. Naughty here, we get naughty boy, 579 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 1: naughty on time. We want naughty metic. We wanted to 580 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:40,719 Speaker 1: know what were the ramifications of you being late? Oh 581 00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,440 Speaker 1: w eight hundred the hats to join the show. Good 582 00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:44,879 Speaker 1: evening eighty What happened with you? 583 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:48,920 Speaker 11: Well, you know, I turned my son's birthday the whole 584 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,000 Speaker 11: week and it was fine. I've got a couple of 585 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 11: things organized, this cake and people coming over and I 586 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 11: knew it was going to go the real sports. By'm 587 00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:59,320 Speaker 11: like a nice honey and like the flies, because that's 588 00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:02,520 Speaker 11: what he really really wanted. And I made sure I 589 00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:04,439 Speaker 11: got there, you know. And I got there and it 590 00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:05,840 Speaker 11: was like six o two and they're closer. 591 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:10,160 Speaker 1: No, surely did you give them yourself story going, oh, 592 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:11,760 Speaker 1: come on, it's my son's bday. 593 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 11: In the morning, the doors were closed and it was like, 594 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,920 Speaker 11: what what am I going to do? I can't I've 595 00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:19,159 Speaker 11: got nothing for him from tomorrow. 596 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:19,720 Speaker 12: Like, oh my. 597 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:23,320 Speaker 4: Gosh, what do you what do you do in that situation? 598 00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:25,879 Speaker 4: Do you I have to apologize to your son or 599 00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,439 Speaker 4: do you get up very early and make sure you 600 00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:29,480 Speaker 4: go to the house. 601 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:33,480 Speaker 11: I went, well, I went to the warehouse and I 602 00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:38,160 Speaker 11: got an expot controller in a figurine thing to hold 603 00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:40,200 Speaker 11: the controller in a whole bunch of lollies. 604 00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 3: You're a good MoU mady. 605 00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:49,959 Speaker 1: I'm sure they hate that day like I've done that. 606 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:51,760 Speaker 1: We you know, it's in the last five to ten 607 00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 1: minutes closing out and you can just feel like, come on, 608 00:28:56,320 --> 00:29:00,320 Speaker 1: really a let's go to a none on the fires 609 00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 1: and no one what happened? Ah? 610 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,560 Speaker 7: So my boyfriend was meant to meet his dad at 611 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:09,320 Speaker 7: a certain time for a client meeting, so he didn't 612 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 7: realize it was important, and so he was really late, 613 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:17,080 Speaker 7: and my partner's dad got quite worried. So he rang 614 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:18,560 Speaker 7: me and I was like, well, I don't know where 615 00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 7: he is it. I thought he was with you. So 616 00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 7: then he went around. So he was working out of reception, 617 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:26,240 Speaker 7: so like he couldn't bring him on the cell phone, 618 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:30,720 Speaker 7: and so he rang around like the community, neighbors and 619 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:34,000 Speaker 7: like my dad and things, Oh have you seen him? 620 00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:38,840 Speaker 7: And then everyone starts panicking wondering like where is he? 621 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 7: Something bad must have happen. Meanwhile, he was happy as 622 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 7: just worked a bit late and was like, oh, just 623 00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 7: cruising now me while everyone was searching from. 624 00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:49,680 Speaker 1: Oh no, did he not know how to pick up 625 00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:51,720 Speaker 1: his phone? Why did he not have any reception? 626 00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:54,880 Speaker 7: So we're back. We're in the rural country, so there's 627 00:29:54,880 --> 00:30:01,000 Speaker 7: no reception until we get out. So he was oblivious. 628 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 4: Hey, at least there's something nice in him knowing that 629 00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 4: people will come to his. 630 00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:11,360 Speaker 1: I thank you so much for your call. At least 631 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 1: quickly just go to Bickie. Oh wait, under the heat's high, Bigki, 632 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 1: what happened? 633 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 13: So my mother in law is known for being really late, 634 00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 13: and so on our wedding day, I had to pause 635 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 13: because she turned up at the church as I was 636 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 13: about to walk down the aisle. 637 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:32,400 Speaker 4: Oh my god, the one day that you're allowed to 638 00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:35,080 Speaker 4: be late and everyone else has to be there on time. 639 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:39,400 Speaker 3: Biki, there is on brand on brand for the mother 640 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:39,760 Speaker 3: in law. 641 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,560 Speaker 13: Yeah, it makes she look fantastic. So she did a 642 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:43,040 Speaker 13: great job. 643 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:47,360 Speaker 2: But I was like, okay, take this seat, Harry up, 644 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 2: Mary EMPJ Mady and PJ the podcast The Heads. 645 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:58,720 Speaker 1: I'm going to be turning thirty four in August, and 646 00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 1: I feel like at the right age of thirty three 647 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 1: going thirty four, nothing should embarrass me anymore when I'm 648 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:04,840 Speaker 1: at the soupermarket. 649 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 4: Well especially you, because you do something every day that 650 00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:09,320 Speaker 4: should be embarrassing. 651 00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 1: Well you think so, But I was at the soupermarket 652 00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 1: last night and look, we all have those things we 653 00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:17,040 Speaker 1: sometimes pack up and we're like, oh, man, I really 654 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:19,520 Speaker 1: hope I don't bump into any run right now as 655 00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:21,280 Speaker 1: I am taking this to the counter. 656 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:22,560 Speaker 3: Stupid as one is toilet paper. 657 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:25,760 Speaker 4: It always gives me it's like you don't want people 658 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:27,080 Speaker 4: to know that you do a poop. 659 00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:30,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's something we all do every day if you're lucky. 660 00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:36,840 Speaker 1: So I was last night. I had and one hand 661 00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:40,440 Speaker 1: of ice cream and on the other hand the pregnancy teas. 662 00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:45,920 Speaker 4: Now she was like, Okay, I don't know what you go. 663 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:47,840 Speaker 3: Don't know what you get out to on a Wednesday, Tuesday. No, 664 00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:48,280 Speaker 3: I don't know. 665 00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,360 Speaker 1: So anyway, I had a little tist because I'm just 666 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,600 Speaker 1: one of those people who likes to constantly test. And 667 00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 1: we're all good guys, just so you know, they're no, no, no, 668 00:31:56,920 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 1: this is not my announcement to that I'm pregnant. Oh 669 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,920 Speaker 1: I measure No, I'm one of those people who prolifically 670 00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:08,400 Speaker 1: tests a lot. But anyway, so I'm holding that in 671 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:10,000 Speaker 1: one arm, I've got the tub of ice cream, and 672 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:12,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, just don't see anyone. Don't see anyone. And 673 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:13,840 Speaker 1: I live in a small town so often I do 674 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:14,360 Speaker 1: see people. 675 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:19,560 Speaker 4: In a small town, you know, one person gets hold 676 00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 4: of the information in five minutes, the whole town knows. 677 00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:27,520 Speaker 1: So there was actually someone that I ended up saying 678 00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:29,840 Speaker 1: from maybe about one hundred meters away, and I was like, 679 00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:35,239 Speaker 1: oh no, it was one of my husband's friends, and 680 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,640 Speaker 1: we actually owe them money. At that moment, which is 681 00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:41,480 Speaker 1: hous dodgy. But we owed them not just nothing bad, 682 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 1: but we owed them some cash. And I was about 683 00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:48,360 Speaker 1: to pay them cash literally today, but then it looked. 684 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 3: Like I was dodging them deliberately. 685 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:54,680 Speaker 1: But I just didn't want to. 686 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:57,040 Speaker 3: See them with my first. 687 00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:01,200 Speaker 1: Response like test in my hands, like ran away, and 688 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 1: I did that thing where like you just don't look 689 00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 1: in the direction, but you've totally seen them, and you 690 00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 1: hope for God's you know, like they don't see you, 691 00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:13,320 Speaker 1: and so I just really hope this is the second 692 00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:15,680 Speaker 1: time I've seen him at the soupermarket and I brushed 693 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:16,120 Speaker 1: them off. 694 00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:18,960 Speaker 4: Do you know what it does as well? It's the 695 00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:22,880 Speaker 4: test coupled with the huge tub of ice cream. 696 00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:26,320 Speaker 1: Ready for what ever news comes from the test. It's like, 697 00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:29,640 Speaker 1: all right, I'm equipped to deal with whatever comes my way. 698 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:38,440 Speaker 1: Many to podcast, Our next guest has quite an interesting history. 699 00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:41,800 Speaker 1: Started out as a contestant on The Bachelor back in 700 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:45,160 Speaker 1: the day, gone on to be an incredibly successful podcast host, 701 00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:48,560 Speaker 1: and is back to host the second season of f 702 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:52,680 Speaker 1: Boy Ireland. Well Abby Chatfield as a New Zealand for 703 00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 1: the first time. Can we just ask, how have we 704 00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:00,600 Speaker 1: how Have we impressed you your first trip to have No, 705 00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:04,080 Speaker 1: have we You've really impressed me. I'm fresh off one 706 00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:09,040 Speaker 1: of the best beef Vermicelli noodle salads I've ever had 707 00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:11,800 Speaker 1: in my life, and everyone here has been so lovely 708 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:14,239 Speaker 1: and fun and I feel like Kiwis have spunk in 709 00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:17,840 Speaker 1: a way the Australians don't really, you know. It's a 710 00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,800 Speaker 1: funny thing because we're so close, like New Zealand Australia, 711 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:23,000 Speaker 1: but I feel like so many Ozzies haven't been to 712 00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 1: New Zealand. 713 00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:26,920 Speaker 12: Yeah, I only got money a few years ago. I 714 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:29,840 Speaker 12: was going, can't afford to leave the country. Then I 715 00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,720 Speaker 12: was focusing on like very far away. That's the issue, 716 00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:33,680 Speaker 12: Like you focus. 717 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:37,759 Speaker 3: On going to Europe, your bloody neighbor. Now you're here 718 00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:38,840 Speaker 3: with if Boy Island. 719 00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:41,399 Speaker 12: Tell us about this, Okay, so f Boy Island. It's 720 00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:44,680 Speaker 12: a bit of a strange concept, but the whole show itself, 721 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:48,880 Speaker 12: it's a real reality show, but kind of a satire 722 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:52,239 Speaker 12: of reality show, so it's very self aware, some would say. 723 00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,800 Speaker 12: And the premise is this, we have three beautiful, amazing 724 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,759 Speaker 12: women and they're on f Boy Island waiting for these 725 00:34:58,800 --> 00:34:59,799 Speaker 12: men to come. 726 00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,920 Speaker 1: Twenty four men descend upon f boy Island. 727 00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:06,879 Speaker 3: Half of them a self proclaimed nice guys looking for love. 728 00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:09,480 Speaker 12: The other half are self proclaimed f boys who are 729 00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:13,960 Speaker 12: looking for cash. Right, And these three women each choose 730 00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:17,879 Speaker 12: a man, and if that man is a nice guy, 731 00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:21,440 Speaker 12: they split fifty grand blah blah blah, Kiss, kiss, kiss, 732 00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:23,759 Speaker 12: we're together, and now we can maybe afford a third 733 00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:28,280 Speaker 12: of a house deposit. Then if they choose an f boy, 734 00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:31,319 Speaker 12: the f boy can either say we can split it, 735 00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:34,040 Speaker 12: I do love you, or he can take all the 736 00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:38,640 Speaker 12: money for him self and say ha, ha, ha, sucked in. 737 00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,880 Speaker 12: I'm now the one with a third of a house deposit. 738 00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,479 Speaker 3: I love this concept so good. 739 00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:46,640 Speaker 1: Well, we thought we could put some of your if 740 00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:50,520 Speaker 1: boy knowledge to the tist. We actually asked online if 741 00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:54,560 Speaker 1: people had any relationship dilemmas they were trying to work out. 742 00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:56,359 Speaker 1: So we've got a few questions. We're going to throw 743 00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:59,320 Speaker 1: you away if you're ready to jump into the experts. Sure. 744 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:02,160 Speaker 12: I just want to say, though, if you're asking a 745 00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 12: radio station, I think you should tump your boyfriend. I 746 00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:11,200 Speaker 12: think may yeah, yeah, But look, we'll give it a go. 747 00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,440 Speaker 1: He sends two to three weird messages on tics, but 748 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:18,160 Speaker 1: he sees he's still interested. Can he be or should 749 00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:18,839 Speaker 1: I just tap out? 750 00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:20,399 Speaker 3: I mean, he. 751 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 12: Can be in theory, but I think it's time to 752 00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:24,319 Speaker 12: tap out right. 753 00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:25,880 Speaker 1: Two to three word texts. 754 00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:28,000 Speaker 3: What are you seeing things? 755 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:31,680 Speaker 1: My husband's a farmer and he doesn't like tics. 756 00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:35,759 Speaker 3: Who does the exact same thing as well? No, not 757 00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:36,320 Speaker 3: a farmer. 758 00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:39,399 Speaker 5: The requirement is the same guy. 759 00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:44,600 Speaker 12: Oh my god, how many farmers and zeal are it's 760 00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:48,160 Speaker 12: also a farmer here does the same thing. But also 761 00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:52,279 Speaker 12: you guys are in long term relationships where it's from 762 00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:53,040 Speaker 12: the start PJ. 763 00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:55,040 Speaker 1: We had to we had to FaceTime. It was just 764 00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:58,560 Speaker 1: the tics were I mean, there would be longer ticks 765 00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:01,560 Speaker 1: than that, but I just knew that, like phone call 766 00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:05,600 Speaker 1: was his main strength of communication. It's busy with the cows. 767 00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:09,360 Speaker 12: Yeah, you know, I think maybe you could What you 768 00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,399 Speaker 12: could do is ask again communication us. You could say 769 00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:16,480 Speaker 12: I would love longer text messages or a voice not 770 00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:19,839 Speaker 12: perhaps if you're too busy, or like you said, organize 771 00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:20,480 Speaker 12: a phone call. 772 00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:21,799 Speaker 1: I mean that's a great alternative. 773 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:22,719 Speaker 3: Okay, what about this one? 774 00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:24,880 Speaker 4: My fiance is always liking pecks of hot girls and 775 00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 4: bikinis on social media. That random and no one we 776 00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:32,000 Speaker 4: know but should he be publicly liking them, that's more embarrassing. 777 00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,840 Speaker 12: The thing for me isn't about the cheating with liking photos. 778 00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:38,520 Speaker 12: I go, how embarrassing you losers? That's it's a real LUSA. 779 00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:42,239 Speaker 12: If you're liking Bella had DIDs photos and you think 780 00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:45,759 Speaker 12: she's gonna go, oh my god, Matt from christ Church, 781 00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,200 Speaker 12: you like my photo, get a grip. I feel like 782 00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:50,759 Speaker 12: it's an ick dump them, not even in a cheating way. 783 00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:52,400 Speaker 1: Who cares? So? Yeah? 784 00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 2: Real? 785 00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:57,360 Speaker 1: If Boy Island Sick in season coming out August the Sex, 786 00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:59,919 Speaker 1: you can check it out on how You and enjoy 787 00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,560 Speaker 1: the rest of your time in New Zealand. Thanks so much, guys, 788 00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:03,560 Speaker 1: I love this medi. 789 00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:07,600 Speaker 5: And PJ the podcast. Oh that's