1 00:00:09,093 --> 00:00:11,972 Speaker 1: You're listening to a podcast from News Talk zed B. 2 00:00:12,373 --> 00:00:16,133 Speaker 1: Follow this and our wide range of podcast now on iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:16,573 --> 00:00:18,293 Speaker 2: Hell are you Great, New Zealands? And welcome to Matt 4 00:00:18,293 --> 00:00:22,093 Speaker 2: and Tyler Full Show Podcast number ninety three. My goodness, 5 00:00:22,213 --> 00:00:24,293 Speaker 2: we're getting close to one hundred now and we're in 6 00:00:24,332 --> 00:00:29,293 Speaker 2: the nervous nineties. Well we get out before one hundred. 7 00:00:29,933 --> 00:00:33,293 Speaker 2: It's the twenty fourth of March twenty twenty five, and 8 00:00:33,533 --> 00:00:36,452 Speaker 2: fantastic show today gets a bit emotional at the end. 9 00:00:37,732 --> 00:00:41,933 Speaker 2: Tyler springs a song on me that made Tyler cried. 10 00:00:42,013 --> 00:00:47,132 Speaker 2: I didn't. And also boy boy got heated around the 11 00:00:47,933 --> 00:00:48,573 Speaker 2: ev chat. 12 00:00:48,772 --> 00:00:50,773 Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of cyberchat, truck chat. 13 00:00:51,053 --> 00:00:53,813 Speaker 2: Yeah, and look it turns out there's some good people 14 00:00:53,853 --> 00:00:55,853 Speaker 2: in the world and some bad people in the world. 15 00:00:56,173 --> 00:00:58,333 Speaker 2: We get a bunch of calls that come through on 16 00:00:58,373 --> 00:01:00,573 Speaker 2: that in the middle hour. But I think it was 17 00:01:00,573 --> 00:01:04,173 Speaker 2: a very good show today, So I hope you enjoy it. 18 00:01:04,853 --> 00:01:08,293 Speaker 2: Like subscribe, set to download, review if you like it 19 00:01:08,533 --> 00:01:12,813 Speaker 2: and such, and give a taste to keep me love you. 20 00:01:13,693 --> 00:01:17,093 Speaker 1: The big stories, the big issues, the big trends, and 21 00:01:17,413 --> 00:01:18,453 Speaker 1: everything in between. 22 00:01:18,693 --> 00:01:19,813 Speaker 4: Matt and Taylor. 23 00:01:19,572 --> 00:01:23,333 Speaker 1: Afternoons with the Volvo XC ninety attention to detail and 24 00:01:23,413 --> 00:01:25,133 Speaker 1: a commitment to comfort news talks. 25 00:01:25,133 --> 00:01:25,533 Speaker 4: They'd be. 26 00:01:34,333 --> 00:01:38,292 Speaker 3: Very good afternoons. You welcome into the show seven pass 27 00:01:38,453 --> 00:01:41,652 Speaker 3: one on this Monday afternoon. Hope you're doing well wherever 28 00:01:41,652 --> 00:01:42,652 Speaker 3: you're listening in the country. 29 00:01:42,693 --> 00:01:45,533 Speaker 2: Get a matte, get a Tyler, gooda everyone. Hope you 30 00:01:45,533 --> 00:01:47,653 Speaker 2: had a great weekend. There was sports all over the 31 00:01:47,653 --> 00:01:50,453 Speaker 2: shop on the weekend so much. And before we didn't 32 00:01:50,613 --> 00:01:53,333 Speaker 2: you know there was there was all Whites, Yeah, there's 33 00:01:53,773 --> 00:01:56,373 Speaker 2: Black Caps, there was the Warriors, it was all the 34 00:01:56,413 --> 00:01:58,613 Speaker 2: Super Rugby, there was the IF One. It was a 35 00:01:58,653 --> 00:02:02,053 Speaker 2: crazy weekend. You could basically watch sport all weekend if 36 00:02:02,253 --> 00:02:04,213 Speaker 2: you didn't do anything else but having to beautiful weather 37 00:02:04,293 --> 00:02:07,653 Speaker 2: as well where I was. But speaking of sport, and 38 00:02:07,773 --> 00:02:10,613 Speaker 2: this may freak you out, because when I found this 39 00:02:10,693 --> 00:02:15,853 Speaker 2: out on last week, it absolutely freaked me out. Okay, okay, 40 00:02:15,933 --> 00:02:19,572 Speaker 2: I'm ready freaked me out in terms of time passing. Yeah. 41 00:02:20,053 --> 00:02:26,733 Speaker 2: So on this day in twenty fifteen was the semi 42 00:02:26,773 --> 00:02:29,973 Speaker 2: final of the Cricket World Cup in New Zealand. Yes, 43 00:02:31,013 --> 00:02:33,373 Speaker 2: New Zealand versus South Africa. And this is what happened. 44 00:02:34,453 --> 00:02:38,973 Speaker 2: Five off two deliveries. Elliott is facing the crowd and 45 00:02:39,213 --> 00:02:45,852 Speaker 2: full voice. Come on, Grant Elliott, he. 46 00:02:45,733 --> 00:02:47,373 Speaker 3: Takes a deep breath. 47 00:02:49,333 --> 00:02:50,653 Speaker 2: Is he going to try and head it for sex? 48 00:02:50,933 --> 00:02:55,292 Speaker 2: Is that what he's got to do? Here? Here we go, 49 00:02:55,972 --> 00:02:59,013 Speaker 2: Here we go, staying to Elliot. 50 00:02:59,933 --> 00:03:00,893 Speaker 4: Hey, pauls us. 51 00:03:20,532 --> 00:03:23,532 Speaker 3: Oh nice. 52 00:03:25,532 --> 00:03:30,293 Speaker 2: So that was ten years ago today, and that's the 53 00:03:30,532 --> 00:03:34,493 Speaker 2: Alternative Commentary Collective's coverage of it. Absolute scenes, We got 54 00:03:34,493 --> 00:03:36,053 Speaker 2: a little bit close to the mic, a bit of 55 00:03:36,053 --> 00:03:36,773 Speaker 2: distortion from there. 56 00:03:36,933 --> 00:03:37,933 Speaker 3: You blew out some bikes. 57 00:03:37,933 --> 00:03:40,133 Speaker 2: Does that feel like ten years ago for you? 58 00:03:40,493 --> 00:03:43,373 Speaker 3: No way? I remember vividly we were in some sort 59 00:03:43,373 --> 00:03:46,253 Speaker 3: of dive bar in Linwood and christ Church and that 60 00:03:46,493 --> 00:03:50,253 Speaker 3: the whole bar went absolutely crazy, like you did when 61 00:03:50,293 --> 00:03:52,253 Speaker 3: he hit that sex teen years ago. 62 00:03:52,653 --> 00:03:57,373 Speaker 2: Yeah, imagine that. It's absolutely phenomenal. It's hard to get 63 00:03:57,373 --> 00:03:59,213 Speaker 2: your head around that that was ten years ago. I mean, 64 00:03:59,333 --> 00:04:02,013 Speaker 2: crazy stuff has happened in those ten years. We were 65 00:04:02,093 --> 00:04:06,413 Speaker 2: such sweet summer children back then. Yeah, we didn't know 66 00:04:06,493 --> 00:04:09,533 Speaker 2: all the bs that was coming our way. But that 67 00:04:09,733 --> 00:04:11,453 Speaker 2: just doesn't seem like ten years ago to me? Does 68 00:04:11,453 --> 00:04:12,013 Speaker 2: it to you? 69 00:04:12,013 --> 00:04:12,253 Speaker 3: No? 70 00:04:12,373 --> 00:04:14,933 Speaker 2: No, I wasn't doing to you. I was talking to 71 00:04:14,973 --> 00:04:17,373 Speaker 2: the general audience. I already asked you. Yeah, yeah, does 72 00:04:17,413 --> 00:04:18,293 Speaker 2: it feel that way to you. 73 00:04:20,973 --> 00:04:22,453 Speaker 3: Eighty ten eighty, I've got to say, you've got to 74 00:04:22,453 --> 00:04:24,973 Speaker 3: get the audio to Papa though. That is a beautiful 75 00:04:24,973 --> 00:04:25,653 Speaker 3: piece of audio. 76 00:04:25,733 --> 00:04:27,613 Speaker 2: Well, I think we tried to turn it into a 77 00:04:28,053 --> 00:04:30,573 Speaker 2: n f T. It might have. Someone might have even 78 00:04:30,573 --> 00:04:32,133 Speaker 2: paid a lot of money for the NFT of that. 79 00:04:32,573 --> 00:04:34,613 Speaker 2: It's now with nothing. I could just play it on 80 00:04:34,613 --> 00:04:37,013 Speaker 2: the radio any time I want. But yeah, what a 81 00:04:37,133 --> 00:04:40,613 Speaker 2: what a fantastic moment it was. And I actually hosted 82 00:04:40,653 --> 00:04:43,613 Speaker 2: an event with Grant Elliott just the other day and 83 00:04:43,613 --> 00:04:45,813 Speaker 2: we were talking about it and his insights onto it. 84 00:04:45,853 --> 00:04:49,813 Speaker 2: He's a very funny man on stage, but his insights 85 00:04:49,853 --> 00:04:53,573 Speaker 2: into what went down there and you know, fielding positions 86 00:04:53,613 --> 00:04:55,333 Speaker 2: and you know, I just asked him, how different would 87 00:04:55,333 --> 00:04:57,973 Speaker 2: your life be if Dale Stain and put it right 88 00:04:58,013 --> 00:05:00,613 Speaker 2: in the slot for you just pull along one for six. 89 00:05:01,293 --> 00:05:02,653 Speaker 2: You know, if you pitched it in short and it 90 00:05:02,733 --> 00:05:05,253 Speaker 2: hit you on the helmet or something, you know, things 91 00:05:05,293 --> 00:05:07,413 Speaker 2: would have been very different in his life. It's one 92 00:05:07,453 --> 00:05:11,413 Speaker 2: of that sort of the Stephen Donald situation now sliding doors. 93 00:05:11,973 --> 00:05:15,493 Speaker 3: Yeah, beautiful part of history. But on to today's show 94 00:05:15,973 --> 00:05:18,613 Speaker 3: after three o'clock, this is something that happened in your 95 00:05:18,613 --> 00:05:19,493 Speaker 3: life over the weekend. 96 00:05:19,533 --> 00:05:22,053 Speaker 2: Man, Yeah, that's right, and I want to know, I 97 00:05:22,053 --> 00:05:23,813 Speaker 2: want to have some Maybe I'm going to turn this 98 00:05:24,053 --> 00:05:29,453 Speaker 2: into a sort of crowdsource therapy session because my son 99 00:05:29,813 --> 00:05:32,773 Speaker 2: moved out. He moved to Hostile for various reasons. He's 100 00:05:33,173 --> 00:05:35,613 Speaker 2: started university a bit late, but he's moved to Hostle. 101 00:05:35,653 --> 00:05:39,213 Speaker 2: So my son has moved out of the house. And 102 00:05:39,293 --> 00:05:41,973 Speaker 2: I was sort of thinking about it and knew it come, 103 00:05:42,093 --> 00:05:44,133 Speaker 2: but I couldn't believe the whole it left in my heart. 104 00:05:44,213 --> 00:05:47,493 Speaker 2: Yesterday when I dropped him off at his hostel, I 105 00:05:47,533 --> 00:05:49,813 Speaker 2: was like, oh my god. And I'm just trying to 106 00:05:49,813 --> 00:05:51,533 Speaker 2: work out why it is. Because he's still about. I'll 107 00:05:51,573 --> 00:05:54,053 Speaker 2: still see him a bit, and you know, he's still 108 00:05:54,093 --> 00:05:57,253 Speaker 2: in good health. But it's something to do with the 109 00:05:57,293 --> 00:05:59,773 Speaker 2: amount of effort and time and how much your children 110 00:05:59,853 --> 00:06:02,452 Speaker 2: change you when you get them, and just the moving 111 00:06:02,493 --> 00:06:05,773 Speaker 2: on to another era, area, era of your life. You 112 00:06:05,773 --> 00:06:09,613 Speaker 2: know that part of your life is changing. But I 113 00:06:09,733 --> 00:06:13,573 Speaker 2: was absolutely I was actually knocked on my ass by 114 00:06:13,613 --> 00:06:14,453 Speaker 2: this whole situation. 115 00:06:14,573 --> 00:06:16,533 Speaker 3: So it's a big thing. And we're going to chat 116 00:06:16,573 --> 00:06:19,133 Speaker 3: about that after three o'clock. And we've already had some 117 00:06:19,253 --> 00:06:21,533 Speaker 3: very emotional techs come through, So looking forward to that 118 00:06:21,613 --> 00:06:24,173 Speaker 3: chat after three o'clock. After two o'clock giving up your 119 00:06:24,213 --> 00:06:27,453 Speaker 3: seat on public transport? Does this stall happen? If you're 120 00:06:27,493 --> 00:06:30,173 Speaker 3: someone that regularly uses public transport, we can to hear 121 00:06:30,173 --> 00:06:32,613 Speaker 3: from you. This is on the back of a gentleman. 122 00:06:32,733 --> 00:06:35,573 Speaker 3: He is sixty four years old in New Zealand and 123 00:06:35,653 --> 00:06:37,733 Speaker 3: for the first time in his life when he jumped 124 00:06:37,813 --> 00:06:41,293 Speaker 3: on a bus a youngster jumped up and said, excuse me, 125 00:06:41,333 --> 00:06:42,733 Speaker 3: so you can have my seat at the age of 126 00:06:42,773 --> 00:06:43,253 Speaker 3: sixty four. 127 00:06:43,653 --> 00:06:45,893 Speaker 2: Yes, So look, I'm going to be honest here. I 128 00:06:45,933 --> 00:06:48,653 Speaker 2: haven't used public transport in a while. What are the rules? 129 00:06:48,733 --> 00:06:51,293 Speaker 2: Because when I was a kid, you had to stand 130 00:06:51,333 --> 00:06:54,853 Speaker 2: up for people, elder pensioners. Yep, you actually actually stand 131 00:06:54,933 --> 00:06:58,333 Speaker 2: up for woman definitely people that are injured. Yes, what 132 00:06:58,373 --> 00:07:00,253 Speaker 2: are the rules now? And people still following them? Because 133 00:07:00,253 --> 00:07:02,493 Speaker 2: that was the thing that was impressive for me and 134 00:07:02,573 --> 00:07:05,253 Speaker 2: this story. The guy was going, Oh, no, that means 135 00:07:05,293 --> 00:07:06,933 Speaker 2: I'm old because someone's standing. 136 00:07:06,653 --> 00:07:07,013 Speaker 4: Up for me. 137 00:07:07,573 --> 00:07:12,613 Speaker 2: Yeah, because he's sixty four. But it's good that people 138 00:07:12,653 --> 00:07:14,853 Speaker 2: are doing that still. But what are the rules and 139 00:07:15,173 --> 00:07:18,653 Speaker 2: what are that? What you know, what are the actual 140 00:07:19,053 --> 00:07:22,333 Speaker 2: rules as opposed to whether people are following them. Are 141 00:07:22,333 --> 00:07:24,413 Speaker 2: there's still those rules on public transport and what are they? 142 00:07:24,453 --> 00:07:26,893 Speaker 3: Ye looking forward to that chat after two o'clock, But 143 00:07:27,013 --> 00:07:30,013 Speaker 3: right now, let's have a chat about the EV market. 144 00:07:30,373 --> 00:07:32,973 Speaker 3: Is there a bit of hyperturning in the EV market? 145 00:07:33,053 --> 00:07:35,093 Speaker 3: This is on the back of the cyber truck that 146 00:07:35,653 --> 00:07:37,733 Speaker 3: is doing a bit of a tour of New Zealand 147 00:07:37,813 --> 00:07:40,493 Speaker 3: at the moment. And you witnessed a bit of the 148 00:07:40,653 --> 00:07:43,173 Speaker 3: excitement around the cyber truck when you were out and 149 00:07:43,173 --> 00:07:43,893 Speaker 3: about over the weekend. 150 00:07:44,013 --> 00:07:45,973 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was interesting. I was in Saint Luke's and 151 00:07:46,413 --> 00:07:48,653 Speaker 2: the cyber truck was there and I was eating my 152 00:07:48,693 --> 00:07:51,773 Speaker 2: sushi with my kids steering on at it, and I 153 00:07:51,813 --> 00:07:54,253 Speaker 2: have never seen so much excitement around an object in 154 00:07:54,293 --> 00:07:58,093 Speaker 2: my entire life. People of all ages were smiling. You 155 00:07:58,093 --> 00:07:59,653 Speaker 2: were allowed to climb in and out of it, and 156 00:08:01,533 --> 00:08:05,373 Speaker 2: it was just I saw there's older people climbing in 157 00:08:05,413 --> 00:08:07,413 Speaker 2: with a big smile and faced. Kids were climbing all 158 00:08:07,453 --> 00:08:10,213 Speaker 2: over it. And maybe that's just because it is such 159 00:08:10,253 --> 00:08:13,773 Speaker 2: a spectacular looking vehicle. It's crazy, it's insane that exists. 160 00:08:13,773 --> 00:08:16,573 Speaker 2: It doesn't look real, and I'm not sure if that's 161 00:08:16,613 --> 00:08:19,813 Speaker 2: gonna you know, you know, turn into sales when it's 162 00:08:19,853 --> 00:08:21,613 Speaker 2: actually on sale here because you can't even pre order 163 00:08:21,653 --> 00:08:24,853 Speaker 2: it yet or not. But the excitement around it, and 164 00:08:25,293 --> 00:08:27,213 Speaker 2: I was looking at it. It's very cool. I climbed 165 00:08:27,213 --> 00:08:29,693 Speaker 2: in it. I haven't driven it, but it's very very 166 00:08:29,813 --> 00:08:32,413 Speaker 2: cool looking. And I'm sure there's some people out there 167 00:08:32,413 --> 00:08:34,293 Speaker 2: that aren't spending too much time on the internet and 168 00:08:34,293 --> 00:08:36,693 Speaker 2: are angry at cyber trucks sport ever a bizarre reason 169 00:08:37,133 --> 00:08:39,892 Speaker 2: that their social media bubble is telling them to be 170 00:08:40,133 --> 00:08:42,573 Speaker 2: angry at cyber trucks. But what I saw there was 171 00:08:42,773 --> 00:08:45,933 Speaker 2: just streams of people lining up. I'd seen no one 172 00:08:45,973 --> 00:08:48,772 Speaker 2: lining up for Santa Claus in the same spot a 173 00:08:48,892 --> 00:08:52,012 Speaker 2: number of times leading up to Christmas. But I'm going 174 00:08:52,053 --> 00:08:54,213 Speaker 2: to say that right now that cyber truck at Saint 175 00:08:54,293 --> 00:08:55,693 Speaker 2: Luke's was more popular than Center. 176 00:08:55,612 --> 00:08:57,732 Speaker 3: Better than Santa. Wow, that's a bold statement. 177 00:08:57,732 --> 00:08:59,933 Speaker 2: I didn't say better than centta more popular than Center. 178 00:09:00,252 --> 00:09:01,973 Speaker 2: I don't know if there's anything better than Center. Yeah, 179 00:09:02,012 --> 00:09:03,732 Speaker 2: you know, the cyber truck's not coming down Chimney's and 180 00:09:03,732 --> 00:09:05,173 Speaker 2: giving people presents, but. 181 00:09:05,293 --> 00:09:09,373 Speaker 3: Also the BYD Shark, it's in it into the ute market, 182 00:09:09,533 --> 00:09:11,732 Speaker 3: and we know it's a hybrid, so it's a plug 183 00:09:11,813 --> 00:09:14,892 Speaker 3: in electric vehicle and you get one hundred k's out 184 00:09:14,892 --> 00:09:18,852 Speaker 3: of the electric motor. But that has entered into the 185 00:09:19,053 --> 00:09:24,893 Speaker 3: ute less quite substantially. The Motor Industry Association figures recorded 186 00:09:24,892 --> 00:09:27,573 Speaker 3: three hundred and seventy six new registrations for the hybrid 187 00:09:27,653 --> 00:09:31,252 Speaker 3: double cab ute, equated to about seven percent of the 188 00:09:31,372 --> 00:09:33,892 Speaker 3: ute market. So that is quite phenomenal for a new 189 00:09:33,973 --> 00:09:37,653 Speaker 3: hybrid ut to jump into the market quite that way. 190 00:09:39,173 --> 00:09:41,413 Speaker 3: And then when you look at BYD as a whole, 191 00:09:41,892 --> 00:09:45,292 Speaker 3: it is making some gains in the EV market and 192 00:09:45,533 --> 00:09:48,653 Speaker 3: the wider New Zealand car market. The ATTO has been 193 00:09:48,693 --> 00:09:52,933 Speaker 3: around for some time and certainly has started to jump 194 00:09:53,053 --> 00:09:55,852 Speaker 3: up the charts in terms of the number of vehicles sold. 195 00:09:56,293 --> 00:10:00,292 Speaker 2: Yes, of course some Beev's battery electric vehicles peaked in 196 00:10:00,413 --> 00:10:02,612 Speaker 2: November twenty twenty three in terms of sales in the 197 00:10:02,653 --> 00:10:05,573 Speaker 2: New Zealand for obvious reasons, and then they absolutely dropped 198 00:10:05,612 --> 00:10:08,172 Speaker 2: off a cliff and then they've been going up and 199 00:10:08,573 --> 00:10:12,292 Speaker 2: ever since. But there was a slight growth in February 200 00:10:12,333 --> 00:10:16,693 Speaker 2: twenty twenty five in terms of EV registrations. So I 201 00:10:16,773 --> 00:10:19,693 Speaker 2: don't know, I mean I personally as much as I 202 00:10:19,773 --> 00:10:23,372 Speaker 2: thought the cyber truck was really really cool and I 203 00:10:23,372 --> 00:10:25,693 Speaker 2: would like to have one, yeah, just for fun. I 204 00:10:25,852 --> 00:10:29,373 Speaker 2: just for some reason, was thinking for a long time 205 00:10:29,612 --> 00:10:31,213 Speaker 2: I would maybe get an EV at some point, And 206 00:10:31,293 --> 00:10:33,973 Speaker 2: now I'm just out and what, I don't know, I 207 00:10:34,132 --> 00:10:36,773 Speaker 2: just lost interest. Apart from the cyber truck being kind 208 00:10:36,813 --> 00:10:40,052 Speaker 2: of cool, I'm like just plugging it in. I don't know. 209 00:10:40,293 --> 00:10:42,253 Speaker 2: And I've talked to a few friends that run evs 210 00:10:42,293 --> 00:10:45,292 Speaker 2: that find it slightly annoying. But you know, it is 211 00:10:45,333 --> 00:10:47,093 Speaker 2: also annoying to go and fill up your car with gas, 212 00:10:47,213 --> 00:10:47,573 Speaker 2: you know, I. 213 00:10:47,612 --> 00:10:51,292 Speaker 3: Guess, yeah, I mean people some people would know that 214 00:10:51,372 --> 00:10:53,333 Speaker 3: we've got a hybrid plug and that's a bit of 215 00:10:53,413 --> 00:10:55,173 Speaker 3: admin even with that fifty K that we get out 216 00:10:55,213 --> 00:10:57,573 Speaker 3: of our hybrid. But looking at the new technology coming 217 00:10:57,612 --> 00:11:00,772 Speaker 3: through now where some of these evs can get a 218 00:11:00,933 --> 00:11:04,852 Speaker 3: thousand k's on a single battery, if not more, that 219 00:11:06,293 --> 00:11:09,413 Speaker 3: for me is now starting to think about if I'm 220 00:11:09,492 --> 00:11:11,372 Speaker 3: going to buy a new vehicle, I'd probably be looking 221 00:11:11,413 --> 00:11:15,052 Speaker 3: at an EV. So keen to hear your thoughts on that. 222 00:11:15,132 --> 00:11:17,093 Speaker 3: O eight hundred and eighty ten eighty is the number 223 00:11:17,093 --> 00:11:19,413 Speaker 3: to call nine two ninety two. But when you take 224 00:11:19,453 --> 00:11:23,093 Speaker 3: away the factor that you don't have to charge up 225 00:11:23,132 --> 00:11:25,213 Speaker 3: on a long haul driving trip. You know, if you're 226 00:11:25,413 --> 00:11:27,732 Speaker 3: going from Auckland down to Wellington and you don't have 227 00:11:27,933 --> 00:11:30,973 Speaker 3: to stop in the middle and charge up for twenty minutes, 228 00:11:31,533 --> 00:11:33,532 Speaker 3: then that kind of takes away a lot of the 229 00:11:33,653 --> 00:11:36,853 Speaker 3: challenges or the hurdles that people initially considered when they 230 00:11:36,892 --> 00:11:37,852 Speaker 3: were looking at EV's right. 231 00:11:37,973 --> 00:11:39,532 Speaker 2: Yeah, there you go, O one hundred and eighty ten 232 00:11:39,653 --> 00:11:41,732 Speaker 2: eighty nine, two ninety two. Where are we sitting on 233 00:11:41,813 --> 00:11:44,532 Speaker 2: evs in our country right now? How are you feeling 234 00:11:44,533 --> 00:11:47,333 Speaker 2: about them? You're feeling more likely to get one or 235 00:11:47,372 --> 00:11:49,132 Speaker 2: less likely to get one? There is an interesting thing 236 00:11:49,173 --> 00:11:51,012 Speaker 2: where the left seems to hate evs now all of 237 00:11:51,053 --> 00:11:53,412 Speaker 2: a sudden, we'll see once environmentalists, no one would have 238 00:11:53,413 --> 00:11:55,973 Speaker 2: no one would have picked that. No, that flip exactly. 239 00:11:56,012 --> 00:11:57,453 Speaker 2: Oh e one hundred and eighty ten eighty. You'd love 240 00:11:57,453 --> 00:11:58,013 Speaker 2: to hear your thoughts. 241 00:11:58,132 --> 00:11:59,053 Speaker 3: Seventeen past one. 242 00:12:00,492 --> 00:12:03,852 Speaker 1: The big stories, the big issues, the big trends, and 243 00:12:04,213 --> 00:12:05,133 Speaker 1: everything in between. 244 00:12:05,492 --> 00:12:07,573 Speaker 4: Matt and Taylor Afternoons. 245 00:12:07,093 --> 00:12:10,773 Speaker 1: With the Volvo X, attention to detail and a commitment 246 00:12:10,852 --> 00:12:12,173 Speaker 1: to comfort news tools. 247 00:12:11,973 --> 00:12:12,253 Speaker 4: There be. 248 00:12:14,132 --> 00:12:17,933 Speaker 3: Good Afternoon twenty pass one and we're talking evs. Are 249 00:12:18,012 --> 00:12:22,093 Speaker 3: they making somewhat of a comeback after they dropped off 250 00:12:22,173 --> 00:12:24,732 Speaker 3: quite substantially in terms of the number of us buying them. 251 00:12:25,973 --> 00:12:28,012 Speaker 2: I was messing around with a cyber truck on the weekend. 252 00:12:28,053 --> 00:12:29,493 Speaker 2: I think they look cool. A lot of people are 253 00:12:29,492 --> 00:12:31,133 Speaker 2: saying they're ugly, but I think that's kind of the point. 254 00:12:31,252 --> 00:12:34,693 Speaker 2: The point is that they are a statement vehicle and 255 00:12:34,813 --> 00:12:37,652 Speaker 2: that there the idea is that they look like a 256 00:12:37,732 --> 00:12:40,292 Speaker 2: perception of the future. This Texas says, I think the 257 00:12:40,372 --> 00:12:43,372 Speaker 2: cyber trucks are very cool. I've seen four now, one 258 00:12:43,453 --> 00:12:44,093 Speaker 2: painted white. 259 00:12:44,773 --> 00:12:46,612 Speaker 3: And what they can do, you know, what's under the 260 00:12:46,653 --> 00:12:48,933 Speaker 3: hood in terms of what the power they can get 261 00:12:48,933 --> 00:12:50,853 Speaker 3: out of the batteries is phenomenal, isn't it. You can 262 00:12:51,093 --> 00:12:53,852 Speaker 3: I think run a house for a good couple of 263 00:12:53,892 --> 00:12:55,853 Speaker 3: weeks on that cyber truck. It's phenomenal what you can 264 00:12:55,933 --> 00:12:57,132 Speaker 3: get out of that vehicle. 265 00:12:57,293 --> 00:12:57,493 Speaker 5: Yeah. 266 00:12:57,573 --> 00:12:59,612 Speaker 2: Well, it's difficult to get them in New Zealand, of course, 267 00:12:59,933 --> 00:13:03,733 Speaker 2: as they're unavailable and no plans to have the steering 268 00:13:03,813 --> 00:13:09,173 Speaker 2: roill moved over to our side. Mark your thoughts about EV's. 269 00:13:10,732 --> 00:13:12,973 Speaker 6: Yeah, I've had one for a couple of months now, 270 00:13:12,973 --> 00:13:15,693 Speaker 6: and my figues for thread is not getting one earlier? Really, 271 00:13:16,492 --> 00:13:18,693 Speaker 6: a couple of weekends ago, I had to hire a 272 00:13:18,773 --> 00:13:24,492 Speaker 6: car and I was pretty peed off seventy annoying, to 273 00:13:24,573 --> 00:13:27,732 Speaker 6: be honest. The only time I've had to charge that 274 00:13:28,012 --> 00:13:29,973 Speaker 6: was just when I drove him back from Alton just 275 00:13:30,053 --> 00:13:33,852 Speaker 6: down to PARMI. Yeah, that person that's just chatted a 276 00:13:33,933 --> 00:13:37,573 Speaker 6: hope because I get three three hours of power, you know, 277 00:13:38,453 --> 00:13:41,973 Speaker 6: pretty pretty low. Really, I need to rope what model? 278 00:13:42,372 --> 00:13:42,813 Speaker 4: What model? 279 00:13:42,852 --> 00:13:43,853 Speaker 2: TESTSA have you got? Mate? 280 00:13:45,372 --> 00:13:47,733 Speaker 6: Just a second hand model model three year? I mean 281 00:13:47,773 --> 00:13:52,453 Speaker 6: I couldn't afforded you one of the pretty pretty Yeah, 282 00:13:52,533 --> 00:13:54,372 Speaker 6: but I mean they're coming down, and I think that 283 00:13:54,492 --> 00:13:57,013 Speaker 6: they'll they'll come down even more with China just take 284 00:13:57,173 --> 00:13:59,693 Speaker 6: so many of the however, Yeah, China seems to be 285 00:13:59,813 --> 00:14:02,372 Speaker 6: the least almost taken over from Piece now as far 286 00:14:02,453 --> 00:14:05,133 Speaker 6: as technology goes. And last week they just come up 287 00:14:05,173 --> 00:14:07,933 Speaker 6: with a charge of the charges of a thousands killer 288 00:14:08,012 --> 00:14:13,653 Speaker 6: what for hours but basically four hundred kilometers of range. 289 00:14:16,492 --> 00:14:16,772 Speaker 7: Stuff. 290 00:14:17,252 --> 00:14:19,133 Speaker 6: Wow, I mean a lot of a lot of the 291 00:14:19,693 --> 00:14:23,173 Speaker 6: sort of old wives tales about it just disappeared now. 292 00:14:23,213 --> 00:14:26,333 Speaker 6: And I think with China, I mean China, such a 293 00:14:26,613 --> 00:14:32,133 Speaker 6: reference rate's mind blowing how quickly they go from sort 294 00:14:32,173 --> 00:14:35,333 Speaker 6: of intecting to implementation. And I think B y D 295 00:14:35,573 --> 00:14:41,052 Speaker 6: is an example of that, you know, fast movies. You're 296 00:14:41,133 --> 00:14:44,813 Speaker 6: talking about the Shark, I think, which is already made 297 00:14:44,813 --> 00:14:46,693 Speaker 6: a bit of defense in the market. But you know, 298 00:14:46,813 --> 00:14:50,613 Speaker 6: having probably having the plug in hybrid is probably the 299 00:14:50,693 --> 00:14:53,052 Speaker 6: cheapest way to go because you playing pay half the 300 00:14:53,213 --> 00:14:55,813 Speaker 6: road to charges and you know, you sit with their 301 00:14:55,893 --> 00:15:00,333 Speaker 6: by brains. Probably most people aren't driving. 302 00:15:01,333 --> 00:15:03,173 Speaker 2: Mark, How does it feel when you go? You said 303 00:15:03,213 --> 00:15:08,493 Speaker 2: you hit to rent a normal fuel car recently. How 304 00:15:08,533 --> 00:15:10,893 Speaker 2: does it feel? How sluggish does it feel when you've 305 00:15:10,933 --> 00:15:12,292 Speaker 2: been driving around in an. 306 00:15:12,253 --> 00:15:16,532 Speaker 6: Ev The biggest thing is you have to do a 307 00:15:16,613 --> 00:15:19,173 Speaker 6: lot with the Tesla. It doesn't looking at. 308 00:15:21,973 --> 00:15:22,532 Speaker 7: Rely on it. 309 00:15:26,293 --> 00:15:30,373 Speaker 6: I mean, the weirdest thing is that, Yeah, I mean 310 00:15:31,053 --> 00:15:32,573 Speaker 6: it's a completely different experience. 311 00:15:32,613 --> 00:15:35,813 Speaker 2: Have you driven, yeah, a couple of times and it's 312 00:15:35,933 --> 00:15:39,653 Speaker 2: just blowing my mind. Actually the first time I found 313 00:15:39,693 --> 00:15:43,333 Speaker 2: it quite it was freaky. The amount of power that 314 00:15:43,413 --> 00:15:45,453 Speaker 2: you've got and the amount of you know, the acceleration. 315 00:15:46,293 --> 00:15:47,373 Speaker 2: It feels dangerous. 316 00:15:49,133 --> 00:15:53,573 Speaker 6: And yeah, they go faster than you'd ever want to 317 00:15:53,613 --> 00:15:56,533 Speaker 6: go basically, and I mean you sort of get over 318 00:15:56,653 --> 00:16:01,013 Speaker 6: there you know that, but I mean just the technology 319 00:16:01,093 --> 00:16:05,133 Speaker 6: and built and that sort of thing just have blows it. 320 00:16:05,613 --> 00:16:08,653 Speaker 6: I think, you know, time goes on. I mean with 321 00:16:08,813 --> 00:16:13,213 Speaker 6: the Chinese, they're trying to take over the cows market 322 00:16:13,533 --> 00:16:16,493 Speaker 6: world basically from Japan, and they're doing a pretty good, 323 00:16:16,893 --> 00:16:17,532 Speaker 6: pretty good job. 324 00:16:18,373 --> 00:16:20,493 Speaker 2: And does your Model three that you know, your Model 325 00:16:20,533 --> 00:16:23,693 Speaker 2: three still updates gets all the Tesla updates, doesn't it? 326 00:16:25,293 --> 00:16:25,493 Speaker 8: Yeah? 327 00:16:25,613 --> 00:16:28,133 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I mean it's capable of full self driving 328 00:16:28,253 --> 00:16:30,172 Speaker 6: or whatever, like when you get on the motorway you 329 00:16:30,333 --> 00:16:32,653 Speaker 6: just sort of pull the storm down a couple of 330 00:16:32,733 --> 00:16:35,172 Speaker 6: times and it sort of drives for yourself. But I 331 00:16:35,253 --> 00:16:37,532 Speaker 6: mean that's not full self driving. Obviously you want to 332 00:16:37,533 --> 00:16:40,453 Speaker 6: pay but more for that. I mean, if if Tesla 333 00:16:40,573 --> 00:16:42,813 Speaker 6: does get that, I mean that'll be huge game changes 334 00:16:42,853 --> 00:16:45,733 Speaker 6: for the whole auto industry. And I think eventually it 335 00:16:45,733 --> 00:16:48,653 Speaker 6: will come with AI. We will have kas that drive 336 00:16:48,733 --> 00:16:51,413 Speaker 6: themselves and thinking around the place, and that's the biggest 337 00:16:51,533 --> 00:16:55,093 Speaker 6: change will come to the whole car industry and the 338 00:16:55,173 --> 00:16:59,373 Speaker 6: driving industry, A big, big, big deal really now. 339 00:16:59,453 --> 00:17:01,973 Speaker 2: Mark in the United States, there's some people that are 340 00:17:01,973 --> 00:17:05,052 Speaker 2: spending too much time on the internet that getting angry 341 00:17:05,173 --> 00:17:08,013 Speaker 2: at Tesla's this I'm not sure how much it's really happening, 342 00:17:08,053 --> 00:17:10,773 Speaker 2: but there's been some teslas that have been attacked. There's 343 00:17:10,933 --> 00:17:13,573 Speaker 2: been people driving around just giving the bird to people 344 00:17:13,613 --> 00:17:15,973 Speaker 2: for their car. Do you feel any of that driving 345 00:17:16,013 --> 00:17:17,693 Speaker 2: around your tesla in New Zealand? 346 00:17:19,173 --> 00:17:22,293 Speaker 6: Nah, I mean all those stories are overhyped, but just 347 00:17:22,453 --> 00:17:25,133 Speaker 6: you know, in a million type things, I find the 348 00:17:25,213 --> 00:17:27,813 Speaker 6: irony is that Musk has sort of teamed up with 349 00:17:28,933 --> 00:17:31,133 Speaker 6: drill Trump, who wants to come more all out of 350 00:17:31,213 --> 00:17:34,053 Speaker 6: the ground. I mean, Elon was the darling of the 351 00:17:34,093 --> 00:17:36,573 Speaker 6: green world that it almost to become the enity the 352 00:17:36,653 --> 00:17:37,293 Speaker 6: strange world. 353 00:17:38,293 --> 00:17:40,373 Speaker 2: Well, there's there's a there's a huge amount of irony 354 00:17:40,613 --> 00:17:45,413 Speaker 2: in people attacking teslas and setting them on fire. If 355 00:17:45,533 --> 00:17:47,293 Speaker 2: you know, it hasn't happened that much obviously, and it's 356 00:17:47,293 --> 00:17:49,613 Speaker 2: all gets hyped up and people on their social media bubbles, 357 00:17:50,813 --> 00:17:53,093 Speaker 2: you know, maybe think it's happening more. But there was 358 00:17:53,173 --> 00:17:55,413 Speaker 2: someone in New Zealand that posted a picture themselves giving 359 00:17:55,573 --> 00:17:58,293 Speaker 2: the finger to the cyber truck. That wasn't like that 360 00:17:58,493 --> 00:18:00,733 Speaker 2: was some kind of meaningful act here in New Zealand. 361 00:18:00,773 --> 00:18:01,773 Speaker 2: We've got nothing to do with it. 362 00:18:03,213 --> 00:18:05,413 Speaker 6: I think someone damaged a polster which is. 363 00:18:07,173 --> 00:18:07,653 Speaker 4: Very weird. 364 00:18:08,653 --> 00:18:11,053 Speaker 6: They thought it was a Teslas. I felt of it. 365 00:18:11,173 --> 00:18:13,013 Speaker 6: Sorry for the guy was a pulse. 366 00:18:14,413 --> 00:18:17,173 Speaker 9: We didn't even have a bloody well. 367 00:18:17,093 --> 00:18:19,853 Speaker 2: With the irony and the other irony. The people that 368 00:18:19,893 --> 00:18:22,173 Speaker 2: are targeting Tesla's in the United States are more than 369 00:18:22,373 --> 00:18:25,453 Speaker 2: likely heading the people that five minutes ago agreed with 370 00:18:25,533 --> 00:18:28,173 Speaker 2: them in their politics, because everyone that was buying them 371 00:18:28,653 --> 00:18:30,693 Speaker 2: two years ago was on the left. 372 00:18:31,733 --> 00:18:32,933 Speaker 6: It's a world, isn't it. 373 00:18:33,533 --> 00:18:35,773 Speaker 2: It's a crazy world. All right, Thank you so much, Mark, 374 00:18:35,813 --> 00:18:36,853 Speaker 2: and good luck with that model. 375 00:18:36,893 --> 00:18:40,933 Speaker 3: Three quick text to the break, guys, I sold my 376 00:18:41,053 --> 00:18:44,493 Speaker 3: twin Turbo bmw BI in this and leaf. Apart from 377 00:18:44,653 --> 00:18:47,653 Speaker 3: all the banter that I got from my mates, I'm 378 00:18:47,733 --> 00:18:48,773 Speaker 3: laughing all the way to the bank. 379 00:18:49,453 --> 00:18:52,413 Speaker 2: Everyone thinks that EV's saving the planet from pollution. However, 380 00:18:52,493 --> 00:18:55,413 Speaker 2: if you've seen the EV graveyards in China, we don't 381 00:18:55,413 --> 00:18:57,973 Speaker 2: happen to have the technology to dismantle and recycle the parts, 382 00:18:58,293 --> 00:19:01,413 Speaker 2: particularly the batteries, and that'd be forever pollution on the 383 00:19:01,453 --> 00:19:04,693 Speaker 2: planet Earth. It's just a fad owning an EV, says James. 384 00:19:04,813 --> 00:19:06,653 Speaker 3: Thank you very much. Oh one hundred and eighty ten 385 00:19:06,733 --> 00:19:09,213 Speaker 3: eighty is the number to call if you are looking 386 00:19:09,253 --> 00:19:11,493 Speaker 3: to buy a new car, are you considering an EV 387 00:19:11,653 --> 00:19:13,333 Speaker 3: Love to hear from you. Nine to ninety two is 388 00:19:13,333 --> 00:19:15,373 Speaker 3: the text number. It's twenty seven past one. 389 00:19:17,173 --> 00:19:21,013 Speaker 1: Putting the tough questions to the newspeakers, the mic asking breakfast. 390 00:19:21,053 --> 00:19:23,493 Speaker 10: It's public service, Minister Judith Collins as well as I've 391 00:19:23,573 --> 00:19:26,253 Speaker 10: been through these things before. When you say are there 392 00:19:26,333 --> 00:19:28,253 Speaker 10: savings to be made, they come back and say we'll 393 00:19:28,293 --> 00:19:29,533 Speaker 10: have different funds at. 394 00:19:29,533 --> 00:19:31,853 Speaker 2: Morning tea and we'll save on paper clips. It's a 395 00:19:31,933 --> 00:19:32,653 Speaker 2: waste of time. 396 00:19:32,813 --> 00:19:33,893 Speaker 8: Well, I don't know that it is. 397 00:19:33,973 --> 00:19:36,893 Speaker 11: Actually, when we took over in government just over a 398 00:19:36,973 --> 00:19:40,293 Speaker 11: year ago, the pocket service had grown in six years 399 00:19:40,453 --> 00:19:44,213 Speaker 11: by thirty four percent, as well as consultant spending. 400 00:19:43,973 --> 00:19:45,733 Speaker 8: Is going right through the root. 401 00:19:45,853 --> 00:19:47,613 Speaker 11: There will be some people who think this is a 402 00:19:47,653 --> 00:19:50,053 Speaker 11: bit of a joke, but the words that are used 403 00:19:50,093 --> 00:19:51,853 Speaker 11: in this sense all the way through it. There is 404 00:19:51,973 --> 00:19:55,693 Speaker 11: no money from government, it's taxpayers money. That's something that 405 00:19:55,893 --> 00:19:57,533 Speaker 11: needs to be rammed home. 406 00:19:57,813 --> 00:20:00,533 Speaker 10: Back tomorrow at six am the mic Hosking Breakfast with 407 00:20:00,653 --> 00:20:03,733 Speaker 10: Mayley's real Estate Newstalk ZB Afternoon. 408 00:20:03,813 --> 00:20:06,333 Speaker 3: It is twenty nine past one and we're talking about evs. 409 00:20:06,453 --> 00:20:08,453 Speaker 3: If you're on the market for a new vehicle. You 410 00:20:08,613 --> 00:20:11,773 Speaker 3: now looking at EV's They dropped off the charts considerably 411 00:20:11,933 --> 00:20:13,853 Speaker 3: in twenty twenty three, and we know a big part 412 00:20:13,893 --> 00:20:16,613 Speaker 3: of that was because the subsidy got ditched and fair 413 00:20:16,733 --> 00:20:19,293 Speaker 3: enough too. But it feels like there's some hype coming 414 00:20:19,333 --> 00:20:20,333 Speaker 3: back to the EV market. 415 00:20:20,493 --> 00:20:22,213 Speaker 2: And do you think the cyber truck looks cool? Because 416 00:20:22,213 --> 00:20:24,973 Speaker 2: I saw one in Saint Luke's. You've never seen anything 417 00:20:25,013 --> 00:20:27,373 Speaker 2: bring so much joy to people as everyone lining up 418 00:20:27,413 --> 00:20:29,933 Speaker 2: to play with the EV love this Texas is buy 419 00:20:29,933 --> 00:20:34,013 Speaker 2: an EV. Best decision ever, lads. I was thinking about 420 00:20:34,013 --> 00:20:36,933 Speaker 2: an EV until they incorporated road user charges to them. 421 00:20:36,933 --> 00:20:39,373 Speaker 2: I understand the rationale, however, don't need an extra bill. 422 00:20:39,693 --> 00:20:42,693 Speaker 2: A great show, lads, thank for your text. The cyber 423 00:20:42,773 --> 00:20:44,973 Speaker 2: truck is banned on UK roads due to its sharp 424 00:20:45,053 --> 00:20:48,653 Speaker 2: corners pedestrian safety the UK A bunch of busses are 425 00:20:49,133 --> 00:20:52,013 Speaker 2: exactly if you can't handle a cyber truck on the roads. 426 00:20:52,573 --> 00:20:54,813 Speaker 2: They're hard enough UK road rules. 427 00:20:55,333 --> 00:20:57,133 Speaker 3: We don't want to follow what the UK does. They're 428 00:20:57,173 --> 00:21:00,653 Speaker 3: a bit weird sometimes. This guy this texture says, no 429 00:21:00,813 --> 00:21:02,733 Speaker 3: way will I buy an EV until there is some 430 00:21:02,813 --> 00:21:05,093 Speaker 3: way to recycle the batteries. Everyone seems to forget how 431 00:21:05,173 --> 00:21:08,013 Speaker 3: big the batteries are, how much pollution is made through 432 00:21:08,013 --> 00:21:11,293 Speaker 3: the menfacturing of them, and also the number of spontaneous 433 00:21:11,293 --> 00:21:14,413 Speaker 3: fires there have been. I will wait until hydrogen power 434 00:21:14,733 --> 00:21:18,013 Speaker 3: is perfected and that and then get a car powered 435 00:21:18,053 --> 00:21:18,733 Speaker 3: by that from Jill. 436 00:21:18,853 --> 00:21:23,293 Speaker 2: Okay, good on your jellon. We're gonna go to Richard he. 437 00:21:24,053 --> 00:21:26,093 Speaker 3: We'll play some headlines with ray Lane. Then come back 438 00:21:26,133 --> 00:21:28,013 Speaker 3: with more of your calls. Oh, eight hundred and eighty 439 00:21:28,213 --> 00:21:29,933 Speaker 3: ten eighty is the number to call if you want 440 00:21:29,973 --> 00:21:31,893 Speaker 3: to send a text more than welcome. Nine to nine 441 00:21:31,933 --> 00:21:33,572 Speaker 3: too is the text number. It's twenty nine to two. 442 00:21:33,773 --> 00:21:40,413 Speaker 2: All right, okay, you talk said the headlines with blue 443 00:21:40,453 --> 00:21:43,253 Speaker 2: bubble taxis it's no trouble with a blue bubble. 444 00:21:43,693 --> 00:21:47,093 Speaker 12: Four people have been injured, one seriously, after a car 445 00:21:47,253 --> 00:21:50,333 Speaker 12: mounted the footpath and hit people in trees on Auckland 446 00:21:50,453 --> 00:21:51,213 Speaker 12: Simon Street. 447 00:21:51,653 --> 00:21:52,773 Speaker 2: A witness says. 448 00:21:52,533 --> 00:21:55,253 Speaker 12: People had to dive out of the way just after midday. 449 00:21:55,853 --> 00:21:58,693 Speaker 12: Saint John says three people were taken to Auckland Hospital 450 00:21:58,893 --> 00:22:00,453 Speaker 12: and a fourth treated at the scene. 451 00:22:00,733 --> 00:22:01,973 Speaker 2: Dannik and the Clane is there. 452 00:22:02,213 --> 00:22:04,653 Speaker 13: A number of emergency services have now left the scene 453 00:22:04,693 --> 00:22:08,253 Speaker 13: here at Simon Street outside the University of Auckland's Engineering builder. 454 00:22:08,453 --> 00:22:11,253 Speaker 13: There are still quite a number of students though standing around. 455 00:22:11,773 --> 00:22:15,093 Speaker 12: People should stay away from Percivale Street in christ Church 456 00:22:15,133 --> 00:22:18,773 Speaker 12: of Sydenham, with some properties evacuated after reports a person 457 00:22:18,933 --> 00:22:23,893 Speaker 12: was making serious threats. Ukraine's Defense Minister Syspace talks in 458 00:22:23,973 --> 00:22:28,013 Speaker 12: Saudi Arabia with US officials have been productive and focused. 459 00:22:28,453 --> 00:22:33,053 Speaker 12: Russian and US officials will talk tomorrow. Kaitaia Fisher Daniel 460 00:22:33,133 --> 00:22:36,133 Speaker 12: Lovell must pay more than one hundred thousand dollars in 461 00:22:36,213 --> 00:22:39,973 Speaker 12: costs and fines for underreporting his take of Juvenile Green 462 00:22:40,093 --> 00:22:45,253 Speaker 12: Muscle the energy you don't use IKEA's green strategy for 463 00:22:45,333 --> 00:22:48,653 Speaker 12: its New Zealand launch. Find out more at Enzen Herald Premium. 464 00:22:49,093 --> 00:22:51,093 Speaker 12: Back to Matt Eathan Tyler Adams. 465 00:22:50,933 --> 00:22:53,613 Speaker 3: Thank you very much, Rayleen, and we're talking about evs 466 00:22:53,813 --> 00:22:56,333 Speaker 3: on the back of there was a lot of hype 467 00:22:56,653 --> 00:23:00,213 Speaker 3: around the cyber truck doing the tour in New Zealand 468 00:23:00,413 --> 00:23:02,573 Speaker 3: and also a lot of noise being made about the 469 00:23:02,733 --> 00:23:06,053 Speaker 3: byd Shark. Now bearing in mind that is a plug 470 00:23:06,133 --> 00:23:08,213 Speaker 3: in EV which is a hybrid. But if you're in 471 00:23:08,413 --> 00:23:10,413 Speaker 3: the market for a new vehicle, are you now eying 472 00:23:10,493 --> 00:23:11,213 Speaker 3: up EV's again. 473 00:23:11,213 --> 00:23:11,373 Speaker 14: O E. 474 00:23:11,373 --> 00:23:13,053 Speaker 3: One hundred and eighty ten eighties, so number to call. 475 00:23:13,293 --> 00:23:15,293 Speaker 2: We've owned an EV for three years. Best decision we 476 00:23:15,373 --> 00:23:17,493 Speaker 2: have ever made. My wife's weekly fuel bill has gone 477 00:23:17,533 --> 00:23:20,013 Speaker 2: from sixty dollars a week to fifteen worth of electricity. 478 00:23:20,213 --> 00:23:22,733 Speaker 2: On top of that cost of living is the maintenance bill. 479 00:23:22,853 --> 00:23:25,653 Speaker 2: Our three year old Tesla has only required one set 480 00:23:25,693 --> 00:23:29,453 Speaker 2: of tires and a set of wiper blades. No more 481 00:23:29,493 --> 00:23:32,773 Speaker 2: expensive ser servicing costs. On the other side of the argument, 482 00:23:33,373 --> 00:23:36,933 Speaker 2: Craig says, EV's a crap. The cyber truck is fugly. 483 00:23:37,573 --> 00:23:40,373 Speaker 2: Ice engines all the way and tonal combustion engines all 484 00:23:40,413 --> 00:23:42,773 Speaker 2: the way till the last drop of oil is squeezed 485 00:23:42,933 --> 00:23:46,653 Speaker 2: out of the ground. EV's a soulless, boring drives passionate. 486 00:23:46,773 --> 00:23:50,013 Speaker 2: That's from Craig. Hey, you know people saying that the 487 00:23:50,733 --> 00:23:52,613 Speaker 2: cyber truck is ugly or not ugly. I think it 488 00:23:52,653 --> 00:23:55,613 Speaker 2: looks cool. But you know, on Friday we were talking 489 00:23:55,653 --> 00:23:59,013 Speaker 2: about the Horsey haircut, yes, and I was saying it 490 00:23:59,133 --> 00:24:01,093 Speaker 2: was an iceore of a haircut. Well, I was at 491 00:24:01,173 --> 00:24:05,453 Speaker 2: the rugby on in the weekend and this dad came 492 00:24:05,533 --> 00:24:07,133 Speaker 2: up to me had been listening with his two sons 493 00:24:07,213 --> 00:24:09,653 Speaker 2: that had the horsey haircut, and he came up and see, 494 00:24:09,653 --> 00:24:12,693 Speaker 2: what do you mean these boys this haircut and ugly. 495 00:24:13,253 --> 00:24:15,373 Speaker 2: And I have to say it looked good on his 496 00:24:15,533 --> 00:24:18,133 Speaker 2: two sons did in full three D. Not just the 497 00:24:18,213 --> 00:24:19,773 Speaker 2: things they thought. And I'm going off top of here, 498 00:24:19,773 --> 00:24:23,533 Speaker 2: but the horsy haircut that I saw on I locked 499 00:24:23,573 --> 00:24:25,573 Speaker 2: up online when we were talking about it. It actually 500 00:24:25,693 --> 00:24:26,653 Speaker 2: the horsy haircut. 501 00:24:26,733 --> 00:24:26,933 Speaker 15: Look. 502 00:24:27,053 --> 00:24:29,533 Speaker 2: That doesn't change my views on following the rules that 503 00:24:29,573 --> 00:24:31,733 Speaker 2: your school lays out for you, but I might have 504 00:24:31,813 --> 00:24:33,812 Speaker 2: to walk down it as possible for the horsey haircut 505 00:24:33,853 --> 00:24:34,293 Speaker 2: to look cold. 506 00:24:34,533 --> 00:24:38,013 Speaker 3: That's great, Richard, how are you man? 507 00:24:38,093 --> 00:24:39,213 Speaker 2: Your thoughts on the cyber truck? 508 00:24:39,893 --> 00:24:42,053 Speaker 7: My thoughts on the cyber truck. It's an excellent vehicle. 509 00:24:42,093 --> 00:24:45,013 Speaker 7: It comes from useful features. It's a pickup truck, so 510 00:24:45,013 --> 00:24:46,813 Speaker 7: when the body panels fall off, you can pick them 511 00:24:46,893 --> 00:24:48,493 Speaker 7: up and put them in there and okay around. 512 00:24:48,253 --> 00:24:49,773 Speaker 2: The leadership, that's good. 513 00:24:49,853 --> 00:24:53,133 Speaker 7: Yeah, they're recalling they were recalling forty eight thousand cyber 514 00:24:53,213 --> 00:24:56,653 Speaker 7: trucks because the glue holding the panels on doesn't stick. 515 00:24:57,333 --> 00:24:59,253 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, ah right, I guess that's cool. Well, that's 516 00:24:59,253 --> 00:25:00,493 Speaker 2: good that they're going to fix them and then send 517 00:25:00,533 --> 00:25:02,253 Speaker 2: them back out there. That sounds like a positive. 518 00:25:02,813 --> 00:25:06,293 Speaker 7: It is in England you're not going to be to 519 00:25:06,333 --> 00:25:10,173 Speaker 7: take your cyber truck on the Channel ferries very shortly, 520 00:25:10,293 --> 00:25:14,453 Speaker 7: or any other electrical vehicle. They're band they're banned in 521 00:25:14,533 --> 00:25:17,493 Speaker 7: the in the various Scandy countries as well. Because of 522 00:25:17,533 --> 00:25:20,213 Speaker 7: the shape of the Scandy countries, you'd use ferries rather 523 00:25:20,253 --> 00:25:22,133 Speaker 7: than drive the long way around, but you count with 524 00:25:22,213 --> 00:25:24,733 Speaker 7: an ev you've got to drive a long way round. 525 00:25:26,013 --> 00:25:27,773 Speaker 7: Range is always a problem. If you look at the 526 00:25:28,093 --> 00:25:32,453 Speaker 7: Mercedes truck for trades, it's got a range of one 527 00:25:32,533 --> 00:25:35,173 Speaker 7: hundred kilometers. It's a right if you're going to be 528 00:25:35,213 --> 00:25:38,052 Speaker 7: popping around Papanui, but if you're further afield, you've got 529 00:25:38,093 --> 00:25:38,493 Speaker 7: a problem. 530 00:25:38,893 --> 00:25:42,453 Speaker 2: There is a problem with some ev utes in terms 531 00:25:42,493 --> 00:25:44,613 Speaker 2: of the white isn't there And you know when you 532 00:25:44,693 --> 00:25:46,773 Speaker 2: get it, when you're pulling something that is. 533 00:25:46,773 --> 00:25:48,813 Speaker 7: Mostly battery, you've got you've got to have a heavy 534 00:25:48,933 --> 00:25:50,053 Speaker 7: traffic license yet. 535 00:25:50,093 --> 00:25:52,373 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then and then if you're pulling something behind it, 536 00:25:52,453 --> 00:25:54,413 Speaker 2: then that then you easily get over that. 537 00:25:54,573 --> 00:25:58,653 Speaker 7: That maximum weight maintenance costs. People who are talking about 538 00:25:58,693 --> 00:26:02,733 Speaker 7: that if you buy if you buy a jag your eyepace, 539 00:26:05,173 --> 00:26:08,973 Speaker 7: it costs you about between one pound fifty two pounds 540 00:26:09,053 --> 00:26:13,533 Speaker 7: a mile in depreciation. Right, let's forget the electra cost 541 00:26:13,613 --> 00:26:14,853 Speaker 7: savings so many stuff. 542 00:26:15,173 --> 00:26:17,613 Speaker 2: Well you mean you mean and right, and you mean 543 00:26:17,653 --> 00:26:20,053 Speaker 2: and the resale value of don't buy. 544 00:26:19,933 --> 00:26:21,693 Speaker 7: It and you've got to trade. You get on a 545 00:26:21,773 --> 00:26:24,333 Speaker 7: three year lease in the UK. Again, this is UK, 546 00:26:24,453 --> 00:26:27,093 Speaker 7: your three year lease. And when you take it back 547 00:26:27,373 --> 00:26:30,053 Speaker 7: and they look at the mileage and they give you 548 00:26:30,093 --> 00:26:33,173 Speaker 7: a bill and you wind up this crossing between pound 549 00:26:33,253 --> 00:26:34,453 Speaker 7: fifty and two pounds a mile. 550 00:26:34,933 --> 00:26:37,493 Speaker 2: Well, you know, like that's there's an argument that a 551 00:26:37,613 --> 00:26:39,653 Speaker 2: lot whenever you buy a new car, as soon as 552 00:26:39,653 --> 00:26:41,293 Speaker 2: you get off the lot, you start losing money. 553 00:26:41,373 --> 00:26:44,733 Speaker 7: Yeah, but the epos are putting this folders the plus 554 00:26:44,933 --> 00:26:47,093 Speaker 7: look at the appreciation. You can buy a second hand 555 00:26:47,133 --> 00:26:47,773 Speaker 7: one so cheaply. 556 00:26:48,053 --> 00:26:50,293 Speaker 2: Yeah that's right, Yeah, that's absolutely so. 557 00:26:51,413 --> 00:26:54,333 Speaker 7: Some poor sods bought this thing taking a bath. Yeah, 558 00:26:54,613 --> 00:26:56,653 Speaker 7: and that's going to stop, you know, I mean, people 559 00:26:56,733 --> 00:26:58,973 Speaker 7: cannot keep on putting their hand in their pocket and 560 00:26:59,213 --> 00:27:00,053 Speaker 7: just a virtue signal. 561 00:27:00,173 --> 00:27:02,733 Speaker 3: What about the new technology coming to the four Richard? 562 00:27:02,773 --> 00:27:05,133 Speaker 3: Does that change your mind at always some of these 563 00:27:05,213 --> 00:27:07,613 Speaker 3: cars are getting a thousand plus k's out of the 564 00:27:07,653 --> 00:27:09,533 Speaker 3: battery before you need to recharge it again. 565 00:27:10,253 --> 00:27:13,133 Speaker 7: Does is that that's measured? That's measured in a warehouse 566 00:27:13,173 --> 00:27:17,093 Speaker 7: on a rolling road, no hills, no headwind, no passengers, 567 00:27:17,333 --> 00:27:19,653 Speaker 7: no windscreen, wipers, no radio, no heater. 568 00:27:20,133 --> 00:27:20,613 Speaker 2: That is true. 569 00:27:21,333 --> 00:27:23,453 Speaker 7: I mean test has been sued a couple of times 570 00:27:23,893 --> 00:27:26,373 Speaker 7: because there you charged up, the've got a range of 571 00:27:26,413 --> 00:27:28,853 Speaker 7: five hundred miles and inside of two hundred and fifty 572 00:27:28,853 --> 00:27:32,733 Speaker 7: miles the battery's flat. And you know they've been misleadings, 573 00:27:32,933 --> 00:27:36,693 Speaker 7: misleading people. It's a real problem. As for hydrogen, to 574 00:27:36,773 --> 00:27:39,213 Speaker 7: get one killer worth a hydrogen, you've got to consume 575 00:27:39,293 --> 00:27:40,453 Speaker 7: three killers worth of power. 576 00:27:40,973 --> 00:27:41,173 Speaker 3: Yeah. 577 00:27:43,133 --> 00:27:45,613 Speaker 2: How do you feel about hybrids, Richard? What do you 578 00:27:45,693 --> 00:27:46,213 Speaker 2: sit on the nose? 579 00:27:47,053 --> 00:27:49,533 Speaker 7: He's got a life of about maximum life of about 580 00:27:49,773 --> 00:27:52,413 Speaker 7: eight years and then it's a right off right. 581 00:27:52,773 --> 00:27:54,373 Speaker 3: Okay, Well I've got a hybrid, Richard. 582 00:27:54,613 --> 00:27:55,653 Speaker 2: Why is that? Richard? 583 00:27:56,453 --> 00:28:00,933 Speaker 7: Well, the battery goes right, I mean it's a it's 584 00:28:00,973 --> 00:28:04,773 Speaker 7: a bag of liquid chemicals that started the grade even 585 00:28:04,813 --> 00:28:10,373 Speaker 7: before you bought the vehicle brand new, good luck to 586 00:28:10,853 --> 00:28:12,533 Speaker 7: that's what you want to drive and you think you're 587 00:28:12,573 --> 00:28:14,133 Speaker 7: doing the world of favor. 588 00:28:14,653 --> 00:28:17,013 Speaker 2: Okay, what about what about if you're not driving it 589 00:28:17,093 --> 00:28:19,093 Speaker 2: because you think you do the world favor, but you 590 00:28:19,373 --> 00:28:21,253 Speaker 2: just driving it because you like the talk and you 591 00:28:21,413 --> 00:28:24,253 Speaker 2: like the acceleration and you like yourself driving and all 592 00:28:24,253 --> 00:28:24,933 Speaker 2: the other features. 593 00:28:25,373 --> 00:28:29,933 Speaker 7: Yeah. Great. It was an Egyptian. It was an Egyptian 594 00:28:30,533 --> 00:28:33,893 Speaker 7: surgeon was playing spaces on his in his Tesla and 595 00:28:33,973 --> 00:28:35,253 Speaker 7: he drew under a semi trailer. 596 00:28:39,813 --> 00:28:41,573 Speaker 3: So for you, Richard, petrol all the way. 597 00:28:42,653 --> 00:28:44,493 Speaker 7: Well, I've got a twelve year old Master and if 598 00:28:44,533 --> 00:28:45,933 Speaker 7: I took it to Norway, I could trade it for 599 00:28:46,013 --> 00:28:48,333 Speaker 7: a five year old Tesla straight spot. 600 00:28:48,773 --> 00:28:52,093 Speaker 2: Yeah. How are you going to give I mean. 601 00:28:53,533 --> 00:28:55,013 Speaker 7: Market penetration in Norway? Yeah? 602 00:28:55,253 --> 00:28:57,773 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, thanks so much for you call, Richard. 603 00:28:58,093 --> 00:28:59,373 Speaker 2: Appreciate it, welcome, Thank you. 604 00:28:59,693 --> 00:29:02,173 Speaker 3: So Richard clearly wasn't a fan of EVS or hydrogen 605 00:29:02,293 --> 00:29:02,893 Speaker 3: or anything else. 606 00:29:03,013 --> 00:29:04,853 Speaker 2: He wasn't one of the people that I saw skipping 607 00:29:04,853 --> 00:29:06,893 Speaker 2: around the cyber trade at Saint Luke's More in the 608 00:29:06,933 --> 00:29:10,133 Speaker 2: weekend with big smile on their faces. No, great call, 609 00:29:10,213 --> 00:29:10,693 Speaker 2: Thank you for that. 610 00:29:10,853 --> 00:29:13,333 Speaker 3: Absolutely. Oh eight hundred eighty ten eighty is the number 611 00:29:13,373 --> 00:29:15,813 Speaker 3: to call. How are you feeling on EV's They dropped 612 00:29:15,813 --> 00:29:19,093 Speaker 3: off considerably after what was quite a bit of hype 613 00:29:19,133 --> 00:29:22,093 Speaker 3: in twenty twenty two to twenty twenty three. But there 614 00:29:22,133 --> 00:29:24,573 Speaker 3: are some new models coming into the market that is 615 00:29:24,653 --> 00:29:25,613 Speaker 3: causing a bit more hope. 616 00:29:25,853 --> 00:29:29,013 Speaker 2: There's all kinds of information coming in and different opinions, 617 00:29:29,093 --> 00:29:30,973 Speaker 2: and we love it. On eight hundred eighteen eighty and 618 00:29:31,053 --> 00:29:34,973 Speaker 2: nineteen niney two, James is wrong, Sis is Texla? Tesla's 619 00:29:36,373 --> 00:29:38,973 Speaker 2: left about four point five years ago where they recycle 620 00:29:39,093 --> 00:29:41,453 Speaker 2: EV batteries. They were used about eighty percent of an 621 00:29:41,493 --> 00:29:44,973 Speaker 2: old battery, so not one hundred percent waste. There you go, perfect, 622 00:29:44,973 --> 00:29:45,293 Speaker 2: all right? 623 00:29:45,933 --> 00:29:48,453 Speaker 3: Oh eight hundred eighty ten eighty is the number to call. 624 00:29:48,733 --> 00:29:50,653 Speaker 3: It is eighteen to two. 625 00:29:50,933 --> 00:29:53,973 Speaker 2: Where do you sit on EV's you're falling out of 626 00:29:54,013 --> 00:29:55,613 Speaker 2: love with them and you're falling in love with them. 627 00:29:55,773 --> 00:29:57,013 Speaker 2: Eight hundred and eighty ten eighty. 628 00:29:57,973 --> 00:30:01,133 Speaker 1: It's a fresh take on took back Matt and Taylor 629 00:30:01,213 --> 00:30:04,853 Speaker 1: Afternoons with the Volvo XC ninety turn every journey into 630 00:30:05,013 --> 00:30:05,813 Speaker 1: something special. 631 00:30:06,013 --> 00:30:08,293 Speaker 4: Have your say on eight hundred and eighty. 632 00:30:08,093 --> 00:30:13,013 Speaker 3: Ten, Good afternoon. It is accorded to term. We're talking 633 00:30:13,053 --> 00:30:16,493 Speaker 3: about the EV market. There has been, you know, some 634 00:30:16,693 --> 00:30:19,093 Speaker 3: articles about a bit of a turnaround in the EV 635 00:30:19,293 --> 00:30:22,573 Speaker 3: market with some new models coming to the market, like 636 00:30:22,613 --> 00:30:25,453 Speaker 3: the B y D Shark and the cyber truck touring 637 00:30:25,493 --> 00:30:28,093 Speaker 3: around New Zealand. It's not yet available in New Zealand, 638 00:30:28,253 --> 00:30:30,573 Speaker 3: but as you see, Saul Matt, it was creating a 639 00:30:30,613 --> 00:30:30,973 Speaker 3: lot of height. 640 00:30:31,213 --> 00:30:33,573 Speaker 2: As I said before, I saw Santa Claus sitting in 641 00:30:33,613 --> 00:30:35,333 Speaker 2: the same spot, and there was more excited about the 642 00:30:35,573 --> 00:30:39,493 Speaker 2: EV truck with young and old that there was about Center. 643 00:30:40,093 --> 00:30:44,813 Speaker 2: This Texas says, I have a Vaston Martin nice, my 644 00:30:44,933 --> 00:30:47,453 Speaker 2: dream car, and two EV's. My favorite car to drive 645 00:30:47,653 --> 00:30:50,453 Speaker 2: is my poster. It's an EV and it is awesome. 646 00:30:50,573 --> 00:30:53,013 Speaker 2: So he's leaving the v a Eston Martin in the 647 00:30:53,533 --> 00:30:54,253 Speaker 2: in the garage. 648 00:30:54,733 --> 00:30:55,653 Speaker 3: That says a lot, don't it. 649 00:30:55,733 --> 00:30:59,693 Speaker 2: There? You go, all right, welcome the show, Darryl. Tell 650 00:30:59,773 --> 00:31:00,453 Speaker 2: us about your EV. 651 00:31:02,573 --> 00:31:04,453 Speaker 16: Well, firstly, I'd like to tell you about one I 652 00:31:04,493 --> 00:31:09,413 Speaker 16: wouldn't get. Yeah, and that's the cyber truck designed by 653 00:31:09,493 --> 00:31:14,773 Speaker 16: a child, build quality of a toy, and the thing's 654 00:31:14,813 --> 00:31:18,773 Speaker 16: been recalled now three times. The entire vehicle fleet has 655 00:31:18,813 --> 00:31:21,733 Speaker 16: been recalled three times since they started making it. I 656 00:31:21,773 --> 00:31:23,533 Speaker 16: wouldn't trust them as far as I could kick it. 657 00:31:23,733 --> 00:31:26,013 Speaker 2: You've got to say it looks cool, though, I don't 658 00:31:26,013 --> 00:31:28,133 Speaker 2: think I've ever seen a cooler looking car in my life. 659 00:31:28,493 --> 00:31:31,413 Speaker 16: Like it was designed by you in the Dark. 660 00:31:32,093 --> 00:31:32,893 Speaker 2: By who in the Dark? 661 00:31:33,013 --> 00:31:37,253 Speaker 16: Me and the Dark, Yes, Matt, by you in the Dark. 662 00:31:37,893 --> 00:31:40,853 Speaker 2: Really think it's quite a good design. I feel like 663 00:31:40,933 --> 00:31:42,933 Speaker 2: it looks like it was designed by the movie Tron 664 00:31:43,093 --> 00:31:44,573 Speaker 2: in the eighties, is what it looks like to me, 665 00:31:44,653 --> 00:31:48,173 Speaker 2: which I always thought was really cool in that regards. 666 00:31:48,293 --> 00:31:51,173 Speaker 16: You're probably right because that was a horrible movie as well. 667 00:31:51,893 --> 00:31:55,813 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, but who was the child? Who was the child? 668 00:31:56,133 --> 00:31:58,493 Speaker 2: I'm impressed of a child. So you said a child 669 00:32:01,573 --> 00:32:04,053 Speaker 2: designed the cyber truck? What was the child? 670 00:32:06,453 --> 00:32:06,653 Speaker 17: Yeah? 671 00:32:07,533 --> 00:32:09,613 Speaker 16: I think you're trying to push outside of the point 672 00:32:09,693 --> 00:32:15,053 Speaker 16: I was making. But the reality is that I own 673 00:32:15,613 --> 00:32:18,453 Speaker 16: a EV have done for over two years. 674 00:32:18,733 --> 00:32:19,413 Speaker 2: That's the reality. 675 00:32:20,653 --> 00:32:24,253 Speaker 16: I did not buy it because I'm a greenie or 676 00:32:24,773 --> 00:32:29,453 Speaker 16: for any kind of savor Planet reasons. I bought it 677 00:32:30,533 --> 00:32:36,013 Speaker 16: because the technology is far superior to that of an 678 00:32:36,053 --> 00:32:41,453 Speaker 16: ice engine, and the cost to run it is considerably low, 679 00:32:41,653 --> 00:32:45,573 Speaker 16: even with having to pay road user charges. My cost 680 00:32:45,653 --> 00:32:49,493 Speaker 16: of running are less than twenty five percent of what 681 00:32:49,733 --> 00:32:54,293 Speaker 16: my previous vehicle was, and that's a huge amount of 682 00:32:54,333 --> 00:32:57,693 Speaker 16: money over the course of the lifetime of the vehicle. Yes, 683 00:32:58,413 --> 00:33:01,773 Speaker 16: I'm going to lose money on the resale value, but 684 00:33:01,813 --> 00:33:04,853 Speaker 16: I was going to lose basically the same amount of 685 00:33:04,893 --> 00:33:07,733 Speaker 16: money on the car that I would have bought had 686 00:33:07,733 --> 00:33:11,733 Speaker 16: I not bought an ev anyway, you know, the reality 687 00:33:11,933 --> 00:33:16,053 Speaker 16: is that it's a really good piece of kit and 688 00:33:16,533 --> 00:33:22,333 Speaker 16: I travel periodically distances, which means that I do have 689 00:33:22,493 --> 00:33:25,853 Speaker 16: to look to recharge on those trips. But there are 690 00:33:26,053 --> 00:33:29,493 Speaker 16: enough charges out there now that if you are traveling 691 00:33:29,573 --> 00:33:31,573 Speaker 16: that distance you're going to want to stop for a 692 00:33:31,693 --> 00:33:36,253 Speaker 16: pee break or food or something else. Just tie the 693 00:33:36,333 --> 00:33:38,333 Speaker 16: two of them in together and you're not using up 694 00:33:38,373 --> 00:33:41,933 Speaker 16: any more time than you would otherwise. Most of the 695 00:33:42,013 --> 00:33:47,333 Speaker 16: recharging that I've done is on the charge net fast charges, 696 00:33:47,413 --> 00:33:50,173 Speaker 16: and in less than half an hour, I can go 697 00:33:50,293 --> 00:33:53,733 Speaker 16: from twenty to eighty percent, which in my car is 698 00:33:53,773 --> 00:33:59,333 Speaker 16: over four hundred kilometers. And just on the reference to 699 00:33:59,813 --> 00:34:02,573 Speaker 16: how far it will travel, the book says my car 700 00:34:02,693 --> 00:34:05,413 Speaker 16: will do five hundred and fifteen k's on a full charge. 701 00:34:06,013 --> 00:34:08,172 Speaker 16: And you had the gentleman earlier that was saying that 702 00:34:08,453 --> 00:34:11,933 Speaker 16: done without wipers, without seats, without in a blam bar. 703 00:34:11,973 --> 00:34:14,053 Speaker 16: And it's not in the real world. My cart does 704 00:34:14,813 --> 00:34:19,653 Speaker 16: four hundred and ninety ks on a single charge in 705 00:34:19,933 --> 00:34:22,333 Speaker 16: the real world with two people in it. 706 00:34:22,773 --> 00:34:25,733 Speaker 2: Well, there go good stuff, Darryl. And so I was 707 00:34:25,813 --> 00:34:28,413 Speaker 2: just looking up because the child was the person that 708 00:34:28,493 --> 00:34:33,013 Speaker 2: designed the cyber truckers Franz von Helsenheusen. Right, Yeah, I 709 00:34:33,093 --> 00:34:35,773 Speaker 2: was not a child. He's he was born in nineteen 710 00:34:35,893 --> 00:34:38,453 Speaker 2: sixty eighty. Oh, certainly not a child truck. Because I 711 00:34:38,493 --> 00:34:40,093 Speaker 2: looked it up, I was like, Wow, a child did 712 00:34:40,173 --> 00:34:43,613 Speaker 2: the design the cyber truck. I was quite impressed. But no, 713 00:34:44,293 --> 00:34:47,973 Speaker 2: but thank you for you call, Darryl. I appreciate that. 714 00:34:48,573 --> 00:34:52,853 Speaker 3: A couple of texts, good a guys, I have a 715 00:34:53,013 --> 00:34:57,493 Speaker 3: seven hundred horsepower dedicated lpg V eight Falcon, half the 716 00:34:57,573 --> 00:35:01,533 Speaker 3: price of petrol and clean burning love it. EV's not 717 00:35:01,653 --> 00:35:02,533 Speaker 3: so hot on chairs. 718 00:35:03,533 --> 00:35:05,813 Speaker 2: This is a fair criticism of the cyber truck. Met 719 00:35:05,973 --> 00:35:08,093 Speaker 2: your cyber truck looks like a bloomin doorstop. It does 720 00:35:08,893 --> 00:35:10,693 Speaker 2: reach in there pretty much. It's fair to say if 721 00:35:10,733 --> 00:35:13,213 Speaker 2: you had the right sized door, that would would be 722 00:35:13,293 --> 00:35:14,013 Speaker 2: a good doorstop. 723 00:35:14,213 --> 00:35:16,813 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but a lot under a lot under the 724 00:35:16,893 --> 00:35:20,653 Speaker 3: hood of the cyber truck though, wasn't there, And I 725 00:35:20,933 --> 00:35:24,013 Speaker 3: think that is what that's part of the appeal that 726 00:35:24,093 --> 00:35:26,373 Speaker 3: people love that. When I looked at the cyber truck 727 00:35:26,413 --> 00:35:30,172 Speaker 3: when it first got designed, and yeah, unique and different looking, 728 00:35:30,293 --> 00:35:30,933 Speaker 3: no doubt about it. 729 00:35:31,213 --> 00:35:32,693 Speaker 2: When I first saw the design, I thought it was 730 00:35:32,693 --> 00:35:35,692 Speaker 2: a practical joke. Yeah, I thought it was controlling. That's 731 00:35:35,733 --> 00:35:37,252 Speaker 2: why I was so cool to see it in real life. 732 00:35:37,453 --> 00:35:38,933 Speaker 2: You can't quite get your head around it when you're 733 00:35:38,933 --> 00:35:41,413 Speaker 2: looking at it doesn't look real. It looks like some 734 00:35:41,733 --> 00:35:44,733 Speaker 2: some kind of artificial projection or something. Yeah, but I 735 00:35:44,853 --> 00:35:47,213 Speaker 2: find things like that cool. I find it awesome to 736 00:35:47,293 --> 00:35:49,172 Speaker 2: live in a time where something like that exists. It's 737 00:35:49,213 --> 00:35:52,213 Speaker 2: just it's just it's just crazy that that someone is 738 00:35:52,253 --> 00:35:54,813 Speaker 2: willing to build that, and with such a small market, 739 00:35:54,853 --> 00:35:57,013 Speaker 2: because it would be such a crazy statement if you 740 00:35:57,093 --> 00:35:59,573 Speaker 2: turned up on site, if you're a trade and you 741 00:35:59,733 --> 00:36:02,893 Speaker 2: tune up with a cyber truck, it's such a crazy statement. 742 00:36:03,133 --> 00:36:04,773 Speaker 3: But just to be able to take it away and 743 00:36:04,853 --> 00:36:07,813 Speaker 3: if you go camping and be able to run everything 744 00:36:07,893 --> 00:36:09,973 Speaker 3: in your home for three days off the cyber truck, 745 00:36:10,053 --> 00:36:10,813 Speaker 3: that is impressive. 746 00:36:10,933 --> 00:36:12,453 Speaker 2: That is impressive. What did you say there? 747 00:36:12,733 --> 00:36:13,893 Speaker 3: Three days off the cyber truck. 748 00:36:13,973 --> 00:36:16,853 Speaker 2: No, but how did you describe it? Impressive? Every think 749 00:36:18,293 --> 00:36:24,053 Speaker 2: I'm nine two, I'm just getting ahead of the tech something. Hey, 750 00:36:24,133 --> 00:36:26,293 Speaker 2: guys love the teck. However, I think it's got a 751 00:36:26,533 --> 00:36:30,733 Speaker 2: way to go for a full ev I drive in 752 00:36:30,853 --> 00:36:33,213 Speaker 2: both worlds for information China, the government is urging the 753 00:36:33,253 --> 00:36:38,413 Speaker 2: population to move from from the batteries, ion batteries and 754 00:36:38,453 --> 00:36:41,573 Speaker 2: the scooters and bikes. Judify hazards. Fires a rere but 755 00:36:41,773 --> 00:36:44,172 Speaker 2: very dangerous. Yeah, they once, once they go up, they 756 00:36:44,213 --> 00:36:44,652 Speaker 2: go up. 757 00:36:44,693 --> 00:36:47,093 Speaker 3: Exactly hard to put out right. Oh, eight hundred eighty 758 00:36:47,213 --> 00:36:49,493 Speaker 3: ten eighty is the number to call if you want 759 00:36:49,493 --> 00:36:52,013 Speaker 3: to send teacher more than welcome. Nine to nine to two. 760 00:36:52,773 --> 00:36:55,453 Speaker 3: EV's making a bit of a comeback. Love to hear 761 00:36:55,533 --> 00:36:55,733 Speaker 3: from you. 762 00:36:55,893 --> 00:37:01,133 Speaker 1: It is nine to two, Matties Taylor Adams taking your 763 00:37:01,253 --> 00:37:04,853 Speaker 1: calls on eight hundred eighty ten eighty Matten Taylor afternoons 764 00:37:04,933 --> 00:37:08,652 Speaker 1: with the Volvo xc N eighty tick every box less 765 00:37:08,693 --> 00:37:10,733 Speaker 1: experience of weeds News Talks, ENV. 766 00:37:11,933 --> 00:37:14,293 Speaker 3: News Talks, z'b. It is six to two and we've 767 00:37:14,333 --> 00:37:17,173 Speaker 3: been talking about the EV market dropped off a cliff 768 00:37:17,173 --> 00:37:19,373 Speaker 3: in twenty twenty three. But we've asked the question is 769 00:37:19,373 --> 00:37:20,413 Speaker 3: it starting to come out well? 770 00:37:20,453 --> 00:37:22,533 Speaker 2: For obvious reasons In twenty twenty three, you know, when 771 00:37:22,533 --> 00:37:24,933 Speaker 2: the subsidy to support BEARD and then since the endroad 772 00:37:25,053 --> 00:37:27,333 Speaker 2: user charges have come on board, the six says, look 773 00:37:27,333 --> 00:37:30,773 Speaker 2: how combustion engine has come and the EV will do 774 00:37:31,173 --> 00:37:33,053 Speaker 2: the same. I mean the EV. I mean there's no 775 00:37:33,173 --> 00:37:36,692 Speaker 2: doubt that the incredibly impressive. Anyone that if you've driven one. Yeah, 776 00:37:36,933 --> 00:37:40,013 Speaker 2: the feeling is like nothing else. The power, the power 777 00:37:40,493 --> 00:37:43,853 Speaker 2: you know of the Tesla that I drove, it's dangerous. 778 00:37:43,893 --> 00:37:46,133 Speaker 2: How much power is our EV? Is great? A range 779 00:37:46,133 --> 00:37:49,613 Speaker 2: of three hundred and twenty kilometers, which is perfect for 780 00:37:49,733 --> 00:37:51,693 Speaker 2: our use my wife's car and the week in the 781 00:37:51,733 --> 00:37:53,973 Speaker 2: family car during the weekend. We also have a petrol 782 00:37:54,013 --> 00:37:57,893 Speaker 2: car for large capacity needs or long distance driving. Never 783 00:37:57,973 --> 00:38:00,573 Speaker 2: understood the non EV crowd using the range as part 784 00:38:00,613 --> 00:38:02,732 Speaker 2: of the argument you buy a car dependent on your needs. 785 00:38:02,813 --> 00:38:06,213 Speaker 2: I wonder why the same idiots don't like loudly dennigret 786 00:38:06,253 --> 00:38:10,813 Speaker 2: hatchbacks for not having enough carrians. It's a really good point. 787 00:38:10,933 --> 00:38:14,413 Speaker 3: Yeah, very good. This stix is Gooday, guys love the tech. However, 788 00:38:14,493 --> 00:38:17,093 Speaker 3: think it's got a long way to go before I 789 00:38:17,173 --> 00:38:20,053 Speaker 3: consider a full EV I drive a plug in EV 790 00:38:20,253 --> 00:38:21,213 Speaker 3: best of both worlds. 791 00:38:21,373 --> 00:38:21,692 Speaker 7: F Yi. 792 00:38:21,853 --> 00:38:25,093 Speaker 3: In China, the government is urging the population to move 793 00:38:25,773 --> 00:38:27,733 Speaker 3: from the various technologies. 794 00:38:27,373 --> 00:38:30,293 Speaker 2: That Texas said. Seriously, boys, the cyber truck is hidious. 795 00:38:30,733 --> 00:38:32,933 Speaker 2: It would love it, and ye it's something out of 796 00:38:32,973 --> 00:38:36,613 Speaker 2: the eighties. Yeah, I love it. I love the look 797 00:38:36,653 --> 00:38:38,853 Speaker 2: of it because it's so crazy. But I do concede 798 00:38:38,893 --> 00:38:39,453 Speaker 2: it's hideous. 799 00:38:39,893 --> 00:38:40,933 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's unique. 800 00:38:41,293 --> 00:38:44,813 Speaker 2: It's hideous, but it's unique and it's interesting. And I 801 00:38:44,933 --> 00:38:47,853 Speaker 2: stand by my claim that it was making people happier 802 00:38:47,893 --> 00:38:49,693 Speaker 2: than Santa Claus made in the same spot in the 803 00:38:49,733 --> 00:38:54,573 Speaker 2: saying Luke's more this, Texas says, it's battery. It's batteries, 804 00:38:54,653 --> 00:38:55,293 Speaker 2: not batteries. 805 00:38:55,813 --> 00:38:57,413 Speaker 3: All right, thank you very much for that. 806 00:38:57,693 --> 00:39:01,653 Speaker 2: We both have terrible South Island accents, don't we exactly 807 00:39:02,733 --> 00:39:05,013 Speaker 2: till ambulance has come up and then I'm really in trouble. 808 00:39:05,733 --> 00:39:07,773 Speaker 3: Thank you very much for all your phone calls on 809 00:39:07,853 --> 00:39:10,453 Speaker 3: ticks on that one. Really enjoyed that discussion. And I 810 00:39:10,573 --> 00:39:12,493 Speaker 3: think if you've got an EV, according to the people 811 00:39:12,533 --> 00:39:15,173 Speaker 3: we chatted to in the text, they absolutely love their evs. 812 00:39:15,173 --> 00:39:18,013 Speaker 3: They wouldn't go back. But for people who don't have 813 00:39:18,053 --> 00:39:20,053 Speaker 3: an ev yet hate them, hate them. 814 00:39:20,253 --> 00:39:22,453 Speaker 2: And just for the record, I think cyber trucks are 815 00:39:22,533 --> 00:39:25,213 Speaker 2: Coolah yeah, What are you going to do about it? Darryl? 816 00:39:25,573 --> 00:39:26,573 Speaker 2: What are you going to do about it? 817 00:39:27,453 --> 00:39:27,613 Speaker 8: Right? 818 00:39:27,733 --> 00:39:30,733 Speaker 3: Coming up after two o'clock? Is it still commonplace for 819 00:39:31,093 --> 00:39:33,413 Speaker 3: young people to stand up on a bus and offer 820 00:39:33,493 --> 00:39:36,853 Speaker 3: their seat to let's call them, vulnerable people in society? 821 00:39:36,973 --> 00:39:38,613 Speaker 3: Is that still happening out there on the back of 822 00:39:38,693 --> 00:39:41,373 Speaker 3: a sixty four year old Kiwi who found himself in 823 00:39:41,453 --> 00:39:44,533 Speaker 3: that situation at what he considers still quite a young age. 824 00:39:44,773 --> 00:39:48,293 Speaker 2: What are the public transport rules? What's the etiquette in 825 00:39:48,293 --> 00:39:50,493 Speaker 2: twenty twenty five? Does all the old rules still stand? 826 00:39:50,613 --> 00:39:52,773 Speaker 3: Yeap oh, eight hundred and eighty ten eighty is the 827 00:39:52,933 --> 00:39:55,772 Speaker 3: number to call? Nine two ninety two is the text number. 828 00:39:55,813 --> 00:39:57,973 Speaker 3: Great to have your company as always. You're listening to 829 00:39:58,053 --> 00:40:00,692 Speaker 3: Matt and Tyler, New Sport and Weather on its way. 830 00:40:00,773 --> 00:40:13,693 Speaker 3: Good afternoon, afternoon's. 831 00:40:14,533 --> 00:40:15,212 Speaker 4: Teating talk. 832 00:40:15,413 --> 00:40:19,692 Speaker 1: It's Mattie and Taylor Adams Afternoons with the Folvo XC 833 00:40:19,893 --> 00:40:21,373 Speaker 1: ninety on News Talk SEV. 834 00:40:22,333 --> 00:40:25,013 Speaker 3: Good afternoon to you. Great to have your company as always. 835 00:40:25,093 --> 00:40:27,133 Speaker 3: You're listening to Matt and Tyler with you until four 836 00:40:27,293 --> 00:40:30,853 Speaker 3: pm and it was a great chat last out, thank 837 00:40:30,893 --> 00:40:32,652 Speaker 3: you very much. But we're going to shake things up 838 00:40:32,733 --> 00:40:35,773 Speaker 3: over the next hour or so and we want to 839 00:40:35,813 --> 00:40:37,533 Speaker 3: talk about standing up for people on a bus. This 840 00:40:37,613 --> 00:40:39,733 Speaker 3: is on the back of a story by a gentleman 841 00:40:39,773 --> 00:40:42,933 Speaker 3: called Chris Miriams, and I'll read out part of what 842 00:40:43,093 --> 00:40:45,533 Speaker 3: he said. He wrote about an experience he had on 843 00:40:45,613 --> 00:40:47,973 Speaker 3: a bus recently. He says, recently, I was heading to work, 844 00:40:48,053 --> 00:40:50,373 Speaker 3: catching a bus with a younger colleague who was new 845 00:40:50,493 --> 00:40:52,933 Speaker 3: to the business. As we moved down the crowded isle 846 00:40:52,933 --> 00:40:56,772 Speaker 3: of guy late thirties, maybe even late early forties, rose 847 00:40:56,813 --> 00:40:59,212 Speaker 3: to his feet and looked me in the eye and said, sir, 848 00:41:00,093 --> 00:41:02,613 Speaker 3: would you like the seat now went on to say, 849 00:41:02,613 --> 00:41:05,293 Speaker 3: I've done that myself, but only for old people, those 850 00:41:05,333 --> 00:41:07,733 Speaker 3: who looked old, frail, in need of a seat, surely 851 00:41:08,533 --> 00:41:09,213 Speaker 3: not speaking to me. 852 00:41:09,413 --> 00:41:11,533 Speaker 2: So this was his moment when he realized that the 853 00:41:11,573 --> 00:41:14,732 Speaker 2: world looked at him as an old man. 854 00:41:15,133 --> 00:41:15,333 Speaker 3: Yep. 855 00:41:15,493 --> 00:41:18,213 Speaker 2: It's interesting because I've heard about this in dating sites 856 00:41:18,293 --> 00:41:21,093 Speaker 2: right where people always get they get peered up with 857 00:41:21,173 --> 00:41:23,133 Speaker 2: someone and they go everyone, they're showing me as old, 858 00:41:23,333 --> 00:41:25,053 Speaker 2: and then they'll go, well, that's because you are old, 859 00:41:25,333 --> 00:41:27,333 Speaker 2: because everyone doesn't look as old in their own mind. 860 00:41:27,813 --> 00:41:31,053 Speaker 2: You know, everyone walks around thinking, jeez, I look young 861 00:41:31,133 --> 00:41:31,652 Speaker 2: from my age. 862 00:41:31,773 --> 00:41:33,973 Speaker 3: It's a harsh moment to face it. We've all got 863 00:41:34,013 --> 00:41:34,373 Speaker 3: to face it. 864 00:41:34,573 --> 00:41:36,653 Speaker 2: But the bigger question really is what other rules and 865 00:41:36,773 --> 00:41:40,293 Speaker 2: people still following them in terms of, you know, standing 866 00:41:40,373 --> 00:41:43,212 Speaker 2: up for other people on the bus. I would say, 867 00:41:43,493 --> 00:41:45,973 Speaker 2: let let's just go for a basic it's a basic 868 00:41:46,133 --> 00:41:50,093 Speaker 2: rule that everyone have to agree that you are a 869 00:41:50,213 --> 00:41:54,533 Speaker 2: piece of crap with no more worthiness on the planet 870 00:41:54,573 --> 00:41:56,973 Speaker 2: than a weasel if you don't stand up for a 871 00:41:57,013 --> 00:41:59,533 Speaker 2: pregnant woman. Definitely, If there's a pregnant woman standing there 872 00:42:00,053 --> 00:42:03,453 Speaker 2: holding the bar and you're sitting down and bumping along 873 00:42:03,573 --> 00:42:06,693 Speaker 2: and you just remain seated, and you know you're in 874 00:42:06,813 --> 00:42:11,293 Speaker 2: your teens when he's thirties, forties, fifties, yep, then you're 875 00:42:11,293 --> 00:42:12,053 Speaker 2: a terrible human being. 876 00:42:12,133 --> 00:42:14,093 Speaker 3: Well leally, yep, that's one hundred percent. I think we 877 00:42:14,133 --> 00:42:16,773 Speaker 3: can all agree on that one. I'll throw another one 878 00:42:16,813 --> 00:42:20,933 Speaker 3: out to you. An elderly woman, clearly, she's elderly yep, 879 00:42:21,533 --> 00:42:23,133 Speaker 3: at least in her seventies or eighties. 880 00:42:23,213 --> 00:42:23,333 Speaker 4: Yep. 881 00:42:23,413 --> 00:42:24,333 Speaker 3: And she's got a Zimmer frame. 882 00:42:24,973 --> 00:42:28,133 Speaker 2: No, she's got a Zimmerphane, that's enough to support her. 883 00:42:28,333 --> 00:42:29,172 Speaker 2: What are you talking about? 884 00:42:29,173 --> 00:42:33,413 Speaker 3: Of course, so that's another hundred percent. But when it 885 00:42:33,493 --> 00:42:36,013 Speaker 3: comes to this particular gentleman, you know, at age sixty 886 00:42:36,093 --> 00:42:38,013 Speaker 3: four and we're talking about you know, what are the 887 00:42:38,133 --> 00:42:40,813 Speaker 3: rules when you're on public transport in terms of who 888 00:42:40,853 --> 00:42:43,973 Speaker 3: you give your seat up for? But sixty four, you know, 889 00:42:44,173 --> 00:42:46,013 Speaker 3: for a lot of people out there thinking that's not 890 00:42:46,093 --> 00:42:46,652 Speaker 3: bloody old. 891 00:42:46,933 --> 00:42:51,252 Speaker 2: Okay, what if you're sixty and the person and you've 892 00:42:51,333 --> 00:42:54,653 Speaker 2: got a person in their mid twenties with a broken 893 00:42:54,733 --> 00:42:55,493 Speaker 2: leg and crutches. 894 00:42:55,853 --> 00:42:57,893 Speaker 3: If you're swore, you've got to give it up to 895 00:42:57,973 --> 00:42:59,212 Speaker 3: the person with a broken league? 896 00:42:59,213 --> 00:42:59,453 Speaker 4: Surely? 897 00:42:59,733 --> 00:43:01,213 Speaker 2: Really, what if you're seventy? 898 00:43:02,213 --> 00:43:05,573 Speaker 3: Oh, start to get complicated then, okay, so we want. 899 00:43:05,453 --> 00:43:08,252 Speaker 2: To know what the rules are out there eight hundred 900 00:43:08,333 --> 00:43:11,213 Speaker 2: eighty ten eighty And are they being followed still? And 901 00:43:11,333 --> 00:43:15,173 Speaker 2: are they being taught to young people? Are they a 902 00:43:15,373 --> 00:43:18,333 Speaker 2: young people being told that you stand up for a 903 00:43:18,413 --> 00:43:22,653 Speaker 2: pregnant lady and an elderly person or someone that's disabled. 904 00:43:22,893 --> 00:43:25,253 Speaker 3: Oh, eight hundred eighty ten eighty. If you're someone that 905 00:43:25,333 --> 00:43:28,413 Speaker 3: regularly uses public transport, love to hear from you. What 906 00:43:28,573 --> 00:43:31,652 Speaker 3: do you see on the morning commute, particularly when it's 907 00:43:31,693 --> 00:43:34,652 Speaker 3: rush hour and the bus is full. Are young people 908 00:43:34,733 --> 00:43:36,773 Speaker 3: still getting up and giving their seat? And who are 909 00:43:36,773 --> 00:43:39,493 Speaker 3: they giving them to? And if you're someone who needs 910 00:43:39,533 --> 00:43:40,853 Speaker 3: to have a seat when they jump on a bus, 911 00:43:41,173 --> 00:43:42,773 Speaker 3: is that something that gets offered to you on a 912 00:43:42,853 --> 00:43:45,333 Speaker 3: regular basis. Oh eight hundred eighty ten eighty is the 913 00:43:45,413 --> 00:43:48,013 Speaker 3: number to call. Nine two ninety two is the text number. 914 00:43:48,173 --> 00:43:49,613 Speaker 3: It is ten past two. 915 00:43:50,573 --> 00:43:54,853 Speaker 1: Wow, your new home of afternoon talk Matt and Taylor 916 00:43:54,973 --> 00:43:58,692 Speaker 1: Afternoon with the Volvo XC ninety. Turn every journey into 917 00:43:58,893 --> 00:44:02,013 Speaker 1: something special. Call Oh eight hundred eighty ten eighty News 918 00:44:02,093 --> 00:44:02,773 Speaker 1: Talk said, be. 919 00:44:04,133 --> 00:44:06,652 Speaker 3: News Talks, There be good afternoon to you. And we've 920 00:44:06,813 --> 00:44:09,333 Speaker 3: asked the question when would you give up your seat 921 00:44:09,413 --> 00:44:10,573 Speaker 3: on public transport? 922 00:44:10,773 --> 00:44:12,733 Speaker 2: This Texas says, I'm a female school bus driver in 923 00:44:12,773 --> 00:44:14,693 Speaker 2: the South Island. If I get too full and the 924 00:44:14,773 --> 00:44:16,813 Speaker 2: kids have to stand, I get the older boys to 925 00:44:16,893 --> 00:44:19,252 Speaker 2: stand for the girls. I tell them there's no better 926 00:44:19,293 --> 00:44:22,453 Speaker 2: way to impress a girl than chivalry. Love that, So 927 00:44:22,613 --> 00:44:27,573 Speaker 2: that's standing as a strategy. Yeah, interesting, curry favor with 928 00:44:27,733 --> 00:44:33,293 Speaker 2: the ladies. Jackie, your thoughts on this? Who you should 929 00:44:33,333 --> 00:44:35,813 Speaker 2: stand up for on the on the bus? And public transport. 930 00:44:37,573 --> 00:44:40,053 Speaker 18: Thanks for asking, and I love your show. It's just 931 00:44:40,173 --> 00:44:42,652 Speaker 18: my best time to call you that. I feel thank 932 00:44:42,693 --> 00:44:45,933 Speaker 18: you have to read us up Street at least twice 933 00:44:45,973 --> 00:44:50,133 Speaker 18: a day because I live on Queen Street and I'm 934 00:44:50,253 --> 00:44:52,933 Speaker 18: partially blind, and so I have a white cane, and 935 00:44:53,093 --> 00:44:55,733 Speaker 18: I have never ever had anybody stand up even with 936 00:44:55,893 --> 00:44:56,773 Speaker 18: my white cane. 937 00:44:57,293 --> 00:44:57,573 Speaker 19: Really. 938 00:44:58,773 --> 00:45:03,013 Speaker 18: Yeah, and I also and I'm seventy four this week, 939 00:45:03,133 --> 00:45:06,333 Speaker 18: so I upgrade your story for the success three year 940 00:45:06,373 --> 00:45:08,173 Speaker 18: old guy. He must have just been lucky. 941 00:45:08,933 --> 00:45:11,652 Speaker 2: That is disgusting. Yeah, that is disgusting that no one's 942 00:45:11,653 --> 00:45:13,533 Speaker 2: ever stood up for you with the cane. 943 00:45:13,733 --> 00:45:17,493 Speaker 18: No, and I carry my shopping as well. And it's 944 00:45:17,573 --> 00:45:21,253 Speaker 18: not only myself. I've encountered watching other people get on 945 00:45:21,333 --> 00:45:25,292 Speaker 18: the bus with their friends and everything. Honestly, other people 946 00:45:25,373 --> 00:45:28,453 Speaker 18: on the bus tell tell the students to stand up, 947 00:45:28,693 --> 00:45:32,293 Speaker 18: or to the person, there's a special area designed for 948 00:45:32,453 --> 00:45:35,212 Speaker 18: disabled people and people to sit there, and they don't 949 00:45:35,253 --> 00:45:35,733 Speaker 18: stand up. 950 00:45:36,813 --> 00:45:40,373 Speaker 2: Do you think people don't know that they're not being 951 00:45:40,453 --> 00:45:43,973 Speaker 2: taught that, because although I'd argue that you wouldn't need 952 00:45:44,013 --> 00:45:46,813 Speaker 2: to be taught that, it seems like a basic show 953 00:45:46,973 --> 00:45:47,693 Speaker 2: of empathy. 954 00:45:47,933 --> 00:45:48,533 Speaker 16: They said that. 955 00:45:49,213 --> 00:45:52,493 Speaker 18: I'd say that there's a lot of people from other cultures. 956 00:45:52,973 --> 00:45:56,733 Speaker 18: Maybe they don't understand the way that you know, that 957 00:45:57,693 --> 00:46:00,333 Speaker 18: that we let or with the walks of life, or 958 00:46:00,893 --> 00:46:01,613 Speaker 18: just being kind. 959 00:46:01,773 --> 00:46:05,933 Speaker 2: Really there should be are there signs and buses that say, 960 00:46:06,293 --> 00:46:07,773 Speaker 2: you know, they're their. 961 00:46:07,813 --> 00:46:10,173 Speaker 18: Time, and there's signs on the SIGs that we were 962 00:46:10,213 --> 00:46:12,973 Speaker 18: allowed to stake any in recent Yeah, and so you know, 963 00:46:13,093 --> 00:46:15,853 Speaker 18: I've experienced quite a lot of because this bus that 964 00:46:16,053 --> 00:46:19,293 Speaker 18: read busset goes from down Pree Street, goes up to 965 00:46:19,453 --> 00:46:22,013 Speaker 18: k Road the same as you get on the bus 966 00:46:22,133 --> 00:46:24,013 Speaker 18: at ky Road, there's a lot of school children and 967 00:46:24,093 --> 00:46:25,573 Speaker 18: that you've taken you seed down. 968 00:46:26,093 --> 00:46:28,813 Speaker 2: That's terrible. That's that's thank you for call Jackie. Yeah, 969 00:46:29,733 --> 00:46:31,733 Speaker 2: I wonder this is this is another theory I'm going 970 00:46:31,773 --> 00:46:33,893 Speaker 2: to bring to it. Are people just because one of 971 00:46:33,933 --> 00:46:36,133 Speaker 2: the most impressing things you see nowadays is everyone just 972 00:46:36,293 --> 00:46:38,893 Speaker 2: hunched over at this bus stop, staring at their phone 973 00:46:38,893 --> 00:46:40,253 Speaker 2: and they get on the bus and then they just 974 00:46:40,653 --> 00:46:43,373 Speaker 2: hunched over, steering on their phone. Are people just so 975 00:46:43,613 --> 00:46:47,453 Speaker 2: engrossed in their humiliating social media that they don't even 976 00:46:47,773 --> 00:46:50,533 Speaker 2: see people? You know, So you could be in a 977 00:46:50,573 --> 00:46:53,133 Speaker 2: situation where you're just on your phone, you know, looking 978 00:46:53,133 --> 00:46:58,212 Speaker 2: at your insta watching humiliating TikTok brain rot and then 979 00:46:58,293 --> 00:46:59,733 Speaker 2: just look up and go, oh my god, there was 980 00:46:59,853 --> 00:47:01,813 Speaker 2: poor old Jackie with a cane there right beside me, 981 00:47:01,853 --> 00:47:02,733 Speaker 2: and I didn't even see it. 982 00:47:02,973 --> 00:47:04,973 Speaker 3: Definitely be an element of it, But also I think 983 00:47:05,013 --> 00:47:06,773 Speaker 3: there may be for some of these young people, and 984 00:47:06,813 --> 00:47:09,573 Speaker 3: it's horrendous that she's near thed anyone stand up for her, 985 00:47:10,053 --> 00:47:12,093 Speaker 3: that there may be a little bit of oh, somebody 986 00:47:12,133 --> 00:47:13,373 Speaker 3: else will do it. I don't need to do it 987 00:47:13,413 --> 00:47:16,293 Speaker 3: because somebody else will be the better person, and nobody does. 988 00:47:17,053 --> 00:47:17,172 Speaker 5: Oh. 989 00:47:17,213 --> 00:47:19,613 Speaker 3: Eight hundred eighty ten eighty is the number to call 990 00:47:19,893 --> 00:47:22,813 Speaker 3: if you're a regular user of public transport. Love to 991 00:47:22,853 --> 00:47:25,333 Speaker 3: hear from you about what are the rules for standing. 992 00:47:25,053 --> 00:47:27,253 Speaker 2: Up for people? Yep. The one we've locked down now 993 00:47:27,613 --> 00:47:30,893 Speaker 2: is you definitely stand up for someone with a visually 994 00:47:30,933 --> 00:47:32,213 Speaker 2: impaired person with a cane. 995 00:47:32,333 --> 00:47:32,533 Speaker 9: Yep. 996 00:47:32,773 --> 00:47:35,093 Speaker 2: That adds to my one that you definitely stand up 997 00:47:35,333 --> 00:47:40,213 Speaker 2: for a pregnant woman, although this person says, what if 998 00:47:40,213 --> 00:47:42,573 Speaker 2: you offer pregnant lady your seat but she isn't pregnant, 999 00:47:43,133 --> 00:47:44,733 Speaker 2: they get a bit upset if that happened. 1000 00:47:45,093 --> 00:47:48,533 Speaker 3: Awkward, very awkward. Yeah, you got to be careful. You 1001 00:47:48,613 --> 00:47:49,293 Speaker 3: got to be careful. 1002 00:47:51,933 --> 00:47:56,253 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, seventeen past two. 1003 00:48:00,613 --> 00:48:04,252 Speaker 1: Matt Heathen Tyler Adams afternoons call oh eight hundred eighty 1004 00:48:04,333 --> 00:48:06,213 Speaker 1: ten eighty on used talk ZB. 1005 00:48:06,333 --> 00:48:09,692 Speaker 3: Good afternoon, it's nineteen past too, and we're talking about 1006 00:48:09,733 --> 00:48:13,333 Speaker 3: giving up your seat on public transport? At what point 1007 00:48:13,413 --> 00:48:15,933 Speaker 3: do you do that and for whom? And if you're 1008 00:48:15,973 --> 00:48:19,533 Speaker 3: someone that does require a seat on public transport, what 1009 00:48:19,733 --> 00:48:21,973 Speaker 3: happens when you asked someone to give up their seats? 1010 00:48:22,093 --> 00:48:23,413 Speaker 3: Love to hear from you on oh, eight hundred and 1011 00:48:23,413 --> 00:48:26,053 Speaker 3: eighty ten eighty nine, two ninety two is the text number. 1012 00:48:25,973 --> 00:48:27,652 Speaker 2: This Texas said, why should I give up my seat? 1013 00:48:27,693 --> 00:48:30,133 Speaker 2: We will pay the same amount. Why does anyone have 1014 00:48:30,333 --> 00:48:31,853 Speaker 2: any right to the seat I've paid for? 1015 00:48:32,213 --> 00:48:35,413 Speaker 3: Controversial? See that is that's what's wrong with society. 1016 00:48:35,613 --> 00:48:37,813 Speaker 2: Common decency mate, Yeah, you know. 1017 00:48:39,493 --> 00:48:42,413 Speaker 3: This Texas here is a gentleman would always offer a 1018 00:48:42,533 --> 00:48:46,013 Speaker 3: seat to a woman pregnant or not, no matter what age. 1019 00:48:46,653 --> 00:48:52,653 Speaker 2: Really interesting. Yeah, so yeah, that's an interesting one. Like 1020 00:48:52,813 --> 00:48:54,773 Speaker 2: so what about so if you're a sixty five year 1021 00:48:54,773 --> 00:48:58,013 Speaker 2: old man, do you offer your seat to a twenty 1022 00:48:58,053 --> 00:48:58,772 Speaker 2: one year old? Woe? 1023 00:48:59,253 --> 00:49:00,453 Speaker 3: I think that would be the right thing to do, 1024 00:49:00,573 --> 00:49:01,293 Speaker 3: wouldn't it right? 1025 00:49:01,573 --> 00:49:04,053 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going to be cool. Yeah, a cool thing 1026 00:49:04,093 --> 00:49:07,212 Speaker 2: to do. Christian, Welcome to the show. 1027 00:49:08,733 --> 00:49:09,692 Speaker 15: Hey guys, how are you going? 1028 00:49:09,973 --> 00:49:10,293 Speaker 2: Very good? 1029 00:49:11,373 --> 00:49:13,253 Speaker 15: Okay mate, I think you guys are just touching on 1030 00:49:13,293 --> 00:49:16,813 Speaker 15: a border of border subject. My mum's always taught us that, 1031 00:49:17,173 --> 00:49:19,172 Speaker 15: you know, back in the day, educated was a huge thing. 1032 00:49:20,133 --> 00:49:22,813 Speaker 15: Open the door for a lady, you know, open a 1033 00:49:22,893 --> 00:49:24,813 Speaker 15: car door, walk on the stairs in front of them, 1034 00:49:26,173 --> 00:49:28,172 Speaker 15: knives and forks in the right places. I think that's 1035 00:49:28,213 --> 00:49:32,013 Speaker 15: missed on society these days. You know, you're talking about 1036 00:49:32,413 --> 00:49:35,652 Speaker 15: danning for someone on a bus, but that should We've 1037 00:49:35,773 --> 00:49:38,813 Speaker 15: we've lost the sence of actually, to a certain degree, 1038 00:49:38,933 --> 00:49:42,133 Speaker 15: caring because now it's about I've paid for this, I've 1039 00:49:42,173 --> 00:49:44,373 Speaker 15: paid for that. You know, I've got the rights to this. 1040 00:49:44,493 --> 00:49:47,693 Speaker 15: I've got the rights to that. But you know, we 1041 00:49:47,973 --> 00:49:50,053 Speaker 15: you know, my mum always said, you know, you want 1042 00:49:50,093 --> 00:49:52,973 Speaker 15: to impress somebody, that little bit of it goes a 1043 00:49:53,013 --> 00:49:54,973 Speaker 15: long way and I'll pull the chair out for them. 1044 00:49:55,693 --> 00:50:00,172 Speaker 15: And that's yeah, it's lost. It's a it's a it's 1045 00:50:00,213 --> 00:50:03,252 Speaker 15: a dying art form because people don't really care about 1046 00:50:03,293 --> 00:50:07,373 Speaker 15: this stuff anymore. So sitting people do. But yeah, that's 1047 00:50:07,453 --> 00:50:07,693 Speaker 15: just my. 1048 00:50:07,733 --> 00:50:11,173 Speaker 2: Little pass Christians. Have you if you don't mind me asking, 1049 00:50:11,293 --> 00:50:14,773 Speaker 2: did you have you got children? I do, and did 1050 00:50:14,853 --> 00:50:17,813 Speaker 2: you instill that in your kids that I do? 1051 00:50:18,013 --> 00:50:20,772 Speaker 15: And that's standing up hundred hundred percent, you know, peas 1052 00:50:20,853 --> 00:50:24,613 Speaker 15: and thank you mayo peers. And it's not a cultural thing. 1053 00:50:24,733 --> 00:50:27,853 Speaker 15: It's a it's a common decency thing. It's a hey, 1054 00:50:27,933 --> 00:50:30,293 Speaker 15: you know, there's something that needs a little bit of 1055 00:50:30,293 --> 00:50:31,133 Speaker 15: attention and it's a. 1056 00:50:31,133 --> 00:50:32,653 Speaker 20: Bit of help. Can I do that for you? 1057 00:50:33,013 --> 00:50:36,333 Speaker 15: Can I carry that for you? And yeah, I just 1058 00:50:36,413 --> 00:50:38,373 Speaker 15: think it goes a long way, you know. And in 1059 00:50:38,533 --> 00:50:41,893 Speaker 15: society these days, there are people who recognize it. I mean, 1060 00:50:42,013 --> 00:50:44,053 Speaker 15: I do it and then it's like, oh jeez, that's 1061 00:50:44,093 --> 00:50:46,732 Speaker 15: so nice of you. But you can honestly can hear 1062 00:50:46,773 --> 00:50:47,973 Speaker 15: in their tone that doesn't happen. 1063 00:50:48,693 --> 00:50:49,252 Speaker 4: It's just sad. 1064 00:50:49,493 --> 00:50:51,813 Speaker 2: But the interesting thing is when you do those nice 1065 00:50:51,813 --> 00:50:55,212 Speaker 2: things for other people, even though this isn't your motivation, boy, 1066 00:50:55,293 --> 00:50:58,453 Speaker 2: it feels good. Yeah, it feels It feels really really 1067 00:50:58,533 --> 00:51:01,333 Speaker 2: good when you when you do something nice for a stranger. 1068 00:51:02,653 --> 00:51:04,893 Speaker 15: So I think you just scratching on the surface by 1069 00:51:04,973 --> 00:51:07,013 Speaker 15: the pace sheet, you know, I think that it's a lot. 1070 00:51:07,053 --> 00:51:08,093 Speaker 15: It's the broadest subject. 1071 00:51:08,453 --> 00:51:10,773 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, well, thank you so much for you call 1072 00:51:10,893 --> 00:51:15,453 Speaker 2: Christian thoroughly, Yeah, thoroughly. 1073 00:51:15,493 --> 00:51:17,573 Speaker 3: What was I going to say, thoroughly enjoyed chatting with you, 1074 00:51:17,773 --> 00:51:18,013 Speaker 3: that's what. 1075 00:51:18,253 --> 00:51:18,453 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1076 00:51:18,533 --> 00:51:18,973 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah. 1077 00:51:19,693 --> 00:51:21,893 Speaker 2: Sometimes on a Monday I lose the ability to speak 1078 00:51:22,533 --> 00:51:22,853 Speaker 2: just on. 1079 00:51:22,933 --> 00:51:24,773 Speaker 3: What Christian was saying. And it was something that I 1080 00:51:24,933 --> 00:51:28,413 Speaker 3: saw as I was driving in and saw the police 1081 00:51:28,453 --> 00:51:30,133 Speaker 3: had pulled over on the side of the road, flashing 1082 00:51:30,213 --> 00:51:32,613 Speaker 3: lights and everything, and I thought, oh, man, there must 1083 00:51:32,613 --> 00:51:34,333 Speaker 3: have been an accident or something. Again, get a bit 1084 00:51:34,373 --> 00:51:37,453 Speaker 3: closer and see these two police officers who are walking 1085 00:51:37,533 --> 00:51:40,933 Speaker 3: an old lady across the road and they were pretty 1086 00:51:41,013 --> 00:51:43,013 Speaker 3: much on the other side. But I thought, that is 1087 00:51:43,733 --> 00:51:46,653 Speaker 3: awesome to see. Credit to those police officers. But the 1088 00:51:46,733 --> 00:51:48,453 Speaker 3: fact that they had to pull over put on the 1089 00:51:48,573 --> 00:51:52,133 Speaker 3: lights to allow this lady to cross the road. Part 1090 00:51:52,213 --> 00:51:55,253 Speaker 3: of that. I thought, well, where was the normal members 1091 00:51:55,293 --> 00:51:57,652 Speaker 3: of the public to try and help her across. Had 1092 00:51:57,693 --> 00:51:59,853 Speaker 3: to be the police officers to pull over and chuck 1093 00:51:59,893 --> 00:52:00,373 Speaker 3: on the lights. 1094 00:52:00,533 --> 00:52:02,413 Speaker 2: I love that. That's old school policing right there. 1095 00:52:02,533 --> 00:52:04,053 Speaker 3: It is credit to the police office. 1096 00:52:04,133 --> 00:52:05,933 Speaker 2: Just after that, they got a cap down from a tree. 1097 00:52:06,573 --> 00:52:08,893 Speaker 2: The old person paid less for the seat then you 1098 00:52:09,253 --> 00:52:11,493 Speaker 2: as they have a gold card, so you definitely don't 1099 00:52:11,533 --> 00:52:15,733 Speaker 2: have to stand up for them. Controversial, very controversial, Caroline, 1100 00:52:16,053 --> 00:52:16,732 Speaker 2: Welcome to the show. 1101 00:52:18,053 --> 00:52:20,533 Speaker 17: Hi, Mats and Tyler. A. 1102 00:52:20,653 --> 00:52:24,293 Speaker 18: Two years ago, I was working in the Newmarket and 1103 00:52:24,453 --> 00:52:27,453 Speaker 18: I was traveling on the buses during peak time to 1104 00:52:27,573 --> 00:52:31,613 Speaker 18: go into work with my guide doc. And what happened 1105 00:52:31,693 --> 00:52:35,653 Speaker 18: for me was that people on that bus started to 1106 00:52:35,773 --> 00:52:38,893 Speaker 18: recognize that I was a regular travel and the only 1107 00:52:39,013 --> 00:52:42,893 Speaker 18: Hunger high school students that were catching that bus started 1108 00:52:42,973 --> 00:52:46,692 Speaker 18: actually saving a seat for me on the bus. Every 1109 00:52:46,773 --> 00:52:49,933 Speaker 18: morning I hop on the bus. Here, this is a 1110 00:52:50,013 --> 00:52:53,413 Speaker 18: seat in space for your dog. And I thought that 1111 00:52:53,733 --> 00:52:57,693 Speaker 18: was fantastic, and I even thanked them. But I also 1112 00:52:57,813 --> 00:53:01,413 Speaker 18: went to the extent of phoning the school and saying, hey, 1113 00:53:01,893 --> 00:53:05,013 Speaker 18: these students on this particular bus are awesome. 1114 00:53:05,493 --> 00:53:07,813 Speaker 2: So they went as far as not even just standing 1115 00:53:07,933 --> 00:53:11,773 Speaker 2: up for you, but in advance keeping a seat open 1116 00:53:11,853 --> 00:53:12,053 Speaker 2: for you. 1117 00:53:12,853 --> 00:53:13,813 Speaker 16: That's for me. 1118 00:53:14,253 --> 00:53:15,573 Speaker 2: That makes me feel good about the world. 1119 00:53:16,893 --> 00:53:18,453 Speaker 16: It does, and I just. 1120 00:53:18,533 --> 00:53:22,893 Speaker 18: Thought, now, if that's our future generation, yes, please. 1121 00:53:23,333 --> 00:53:25,893 Speaker 2: Yeah, Well that's that's that's that's good to hear. It's 1122 00:53:25,933 --> 00:53:26,493 Speaker 2: good to hear, it's. 1123 00:53:26,373 --> 00:53:30,453 Speaker 18: Having good I never expected a seat to be, you know, 1124 00:53:30,613 --> 00:53:34,333 Speaker 18: specifically set aside for me, so it felt really good. 1125 00:53:34,493 --> 00:53:38,013 Speaker 18: But it also felt nice that people that they considered 1126 00:53:38,093 --> 00:53:38,893 Speaker 18: me doing that. 1127 00:53:39,253 --> 00:53:41,693 Speaker 3: That is lovely to hear, Carolyn. Just quickly, Carolyn, have 1128 00:53:41,813 --> 00:53:44,813 Speaker 3: you do you find that on other routes that you've 1129 00:53:44,853 --> 00:53:46,853 Speaker 3: got to take a rather public transport that you use, 1130 00:53:47,013 --> 00:53:49,693 Speaker 3: that people will give up their seat more times than not. 1131 00:53:52,053 --> 00:53:56,693 Speaker 18: If I haven't necessarily had to have that situation, because 1132 00:53:56,733 --> 00:53:59,893 Speaker 18: often there hasn't been that many of people on the 1133 00:54:00,013 --> 00:54:05,093 Speaker 18: bus where it's really really packed like that. It's mainly 1134 00:54:05,293 --> 00:54:08,573 Speaker 18: if it's in the peak times or the really the 1135 00:54:08,693 --> 00:54:12,293 Speaker 18: times that I would find it's busy. But it is 1136 00:54:12,533 --> 00:54:16,173 Speaker 18: nice that they have that open spaced area. And I 1137 00:54:16,253 --> 00:54:18,813 Speaker 18: don't know if a lot of people realize that that 1138 00:54:19,013 --> 00:54:24,253 Speaker 18: open spaced area just behind the driver it is for 1139 00:54:24,493 --> 00:54:28,693 Speaker 18: people with disabilities, those in wheelchairs or those with service dogs, 1140 00:54:28,733 --> 00:54:31,933 Speaker 18: and that because there is enough space for us to 1141 00:54:32,053 --> 00:54:32,493 Speaker 18: be there. 1142 00:54:32,853 --> 00:54:36,133 Speaker 3: Absolutely, Carolyn, thank you very much, And that's an awesome 1143 00:54:36,173 --> 00:54:38,772 Speaker 3: story to hear. Shout out to the only Hunger high 1144 00:54:38,773 --> 00:54:43,933 Speaker 3: school students. That's awesome. Quick couple of texts here, guys. 1145 00:54:44,053 --> 00:54:47,573 Speaker 3: Currently thirty seven weeks pregnant, can say for men over 1146 00:54:47,613 --> 00:54:49,773 Speaker 3: fifty years old, one percent hold the door. 1147 00:54:49,813 --> 00:54:50,013 Speaker 4: For me. 1148 00:54:50,413 --> 00:54:54,133 Speaker 3: Under fifty, then it's fifty to fifty. Can't rely on. 1149 00:54:54,253 --> 00:54:56,733 Speaker 2: It, right, Okay, So that's that's the line that's been 1150 00:54:56,813 --> 00:54:57,253 Speaker 2: drawn there. 1151 00:54:57,733 --> 00:55:00,933 Speaker 3: So older men very chivalrous, younger men not so much. 1152 00:55:01,173 --> 00:55:05,133 Speaker 2: Thirty seven weeks pregnant, that's very pregnant. Indeed, yeah, that's 1153 00:55:05,373 --> 00:55:06,093 Speaker 2: very pregnant. 1154 00:55:06,493 --> 00:55:07,133 Speaker 3: Out of the seat. 1155 00:55:08,493 --> 00:55:12,613 Speaker 2: Why just a pregnant woman? Why not every woman? Definitely 1156 00:55:12,853 --> 00:55:17,013 Speaker 2: felt should just stand for every single woman. Well, what 1157 00:55:17,453 --> 00:55:20,933 Speaker 2: if there was a professional you know, w W E wrestler, 1158 00:55:22,493 --> 00:55:26,613 Speaker 2: like just an absolute tank of a human banks that 1159 00:55:26,733 --> 00:55:29,373 Speaker 2: could that could crust you with a be a hand, 1160 00:55:30,053 --> 00:55:30,373 Speaker 2: you know, do. 1161 00:55:30,413 --> 00:55:30,773 Speaker 4: You make that? 1162 00:55:30,973 --> 00:55:33,333 Speaker 2: Do you make that they'll be able to stand? That's okay, 1163 00:55:34,853 --> 00:55:37,053 Speaker 2: you'd say, miss, I would give you my seat, but 1164 00:55:37,333 --> 00:55:41,013 Speaker 2: you're an absolute tank of a person, and I just thought, 1165 00:55:41,053 --> 00:55:43,573 Speaker 2: I just think it'd be insulting to you. Stronger than me, 1166 00:55:44,253 --> 00:55:45,333 Speaker 2: better specimen than I am. 1167 00:55:46,413 --> 00:55:47,813 Speaker 3: Peter, How are you this afternoon? 1168 00:55:48,813 --> 00:55:50,373 Speaker 7: Yeah? Good? Thanks? How you? 1169 00:55:50,893 --> 00:55:53,373 Speaker 21: In regards to your hypothetical question with a broken leg 1170 00:55:53,453 --> 00:55:56,732 Speaker 21: and the old lady, Yep, it's a damn simple one. 1171 00:55:57,173 --> 00:55:58,652 Speaker 21: There's not going to be a bust sort of people 1172 00:55:58,693 --> 00:56:00,933 Speaker 21: with broken legs and then old ladies. It's going to 1173 00:56:00,973 --> 00:56:02,293 Speaker 21: be only two people. 1174 00:56:02,493 --> 00:56:07,533 Speaker 2: That's a good point. There's other people that could take 1175 00:56:07,653 --> 00:56:09,613 Speaker 2: up the take up the challenge. 1176 00:56:10,213 --> 00:56:12,893 Speaker 21: Here you're on in regards to people standing up for 1177 00:56:12,933 --> 00:56:14,773 Speaker 21: you that it once in a while. Last time I 1178 00:56:14,893 --> 00:56:16,813 Speaker 21: traveled for about five hours to the West Coast and 1179 00:56:16,813 --> 00:56:21,533 Speaker 21: an old coal miners general and my wife was pregnant. 1180 00:56:22,573 --> 00:56:24,013 Speaker 21: Especially the old fellows that would have been in the 1181 00:56:24,213 --> 00:56:27,533 Speaker 21: late seventies eighties, they got up so we my wife 1182 00:56:27,573 --> 00:56:31,573 Speaker 21: and I could have a seat, so based Yeah, bit 1183 00:56:31,613 --> 00:56:32,533 Speaker 21: of curtisy there. 1184 00:56:32,613 --> 00:56:35,253 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's good people the coasters. That's good to 1185 00:56:35,293 --> 00:56:37,252 Speaker 2: hear it. Still still a bit of courtesy on the coast, 1186 00:56:37,293 --> 00:56:40,253 Speaker 2: you don't hear it. Women want equal rights as the sector. 1187 00:56:40,293 --> 00:56:42,973 Speaker 2: They should stand for the man to be fair. There 1188 00:56:43,053 --> 00:56:45,133 Speaker 2: was a smiling face after that seat. 1189 00:56:45,293 --> 00:56:45,773 Speaker 3: Yep, thank you. 1190 00:56:46,093 --> 00:56:49,053 Speaker 2: This is the problem, gentlemen. You can't bloody win. I've 1191 00:56:49,093 --> 00:56:53,173 Speaker 2: been accused of being sexist when I have stood up 1192 00:56:53,253 --> 00:56:56,413 Speaker 2: for women and given them a seat. Really, so you 1193 00:56:56,493 --> 00:56:58,652 Speaker 2: give someone on a seat and she goes, I'll take 1194 00:56:58,693 --> 00:57:01,373 Speaker 2: that seat, you're dirty sexist? Or do they say no 1195 00:57:01,573 --> 00:57:05,292 Speaker 2: to the seat. That would be a powerful mood. Play 1196 00:57:05,413 --> 00:57:10,533 Speaker 2: you your sexist, but I will take the seat, Oh reluctantly. 1197 00:57:10,653 --> 00:57:13,732 Speaker 3: Also, oh, eight hundred eighty ten eighty is the number 1198 00:57:13,733 --> 00:57:15,253 Speaker 3: to call if you want to see the text. Nine 1199 00:57:15,333 --> 00:57:18,453 Speaker 3: two ninety two is the text number. Headlines with ray 1200 00:57:18,533 --> 00:57:19,373 Speaker 3: Lean coming. 1201 00:57:19,213 --> 00:57:26,093 Speaker 12: Up, You talk savy, headlines with blue bubble taxis, It's 1202 00:57:26,293 --> 00:57:29,733 Speaker 12: no trouble with a blue bubble. Police believe drugs or 1203 00:57:29,813 --> 00:57:32,333 Speaker 12: alcohol could be a factor in a car mounting a 1204 00:57:32,373 --> 00:57:38,613 Speaker 12: footpath outside Auckland University's Engineering schools on Simon Street, injuring pedestrians. 1205 00:57:39,053 --> 00:57:42,733 Speaker 12: One person is seriously injured and four others suffered moderate 1206 00:57:42,773 --> 00:57:46,733 Speaker 12: to minor injuries. Police them are maintaining a cordon in 1207 00:57:46,853 --> 00:57:50,413 Speaker 12: christ Church's Sydenham as they continue to respond to serious 1208 00:57:50,493 --> 00:57:54,933 Speaker 12: threats at a Perceval Street property. Auckland City Hospital says 1209 00:57:54,973 --> 00:57:58,933 Speaker 12: there's funding for another specialist and children's palliative care, but 1210 00:57:59,173 --> 00:58:01,813 Speaker 12: it's a hard role to fill and there's a gap 1211 00:58:01,853 --> 00:58:05,773 Speaker 12: while the sole current medic is on leave. Fire Fighters 1212 00:58:05,813 --> 00:58:09,373 Speaker 12: of Dowster House Fire and Auckland's New Windsor taking under 1213 00:58:09,373 --> 00:58:13,333 Speaker 12: an r to control the two story blaze. Police data 1214 00:58:13,413 --> 00:58:16,093 Speaker 12: shows a thirteen percent drop in car thefts in the 1215 00:58:16,173 --> 00:58:19,893 Speaker 12: Metro Canterbury area in the past year, but proceedings have 1216 00:58:20,013 --> 00:58:23,893 Speaker 12: almost quadrupled from sixteen in January of twenty twenty two 1217 00:58:24,413 --> 00:58:29,293 Speaker 12: to sixty three this January. Is Hoskinstituto doing enough for 1218 00:58:29,373 --> 00:58:32,693 Speaker 12: an all Blacks return? Read Phil Giffit's at full column 1219 00:58:32,853 --> 00:58:35,973 Speaker 12: It in sid Herald Premium. Back to matt Ethan Tyler Adams. 1220 00:58:36,013 --> 00:58:37,853 Speaker 3: Thank you very much, Rayleen. What are the rules for 1221 00:58:37,973 --> 00:58:40,413 Speaker 3: giving up your seats on the bus? It's on the 1222 00:58:40,493 --> 00:58:42,973 Speaker 3: back of a story in the Herald about a gentleman. 1223 00:58:43,133 --> 00:58:47,573 Speaker 3: His name is Chris Morams and he found himself been 1224 00:58:47,653 --> 00:58:49,333 Speaker 3: off at a seat at the age of sixty four. 1225 00:58:49,413 --> 00:58:50,893 Speaker 3: But love to hear your experiences. 1226 00:58:51,853 --> 00:58:54,213 Speaker 2: Just a thought. There was a text of four Skim's 1227 00:58:54,253 --> 00:58:56,613 Speaker 2: context for this text that said I pay for the seat, 1228 00:58:56,893 --> 00:58:58,773 Speaker 2: just the same as anyone else. Why can't I use it? 1229 00:58:59,333 --> 00:59:01,253 Speaker 2: This Texas says, just a thought. You do not pay 1230 00:59:01,333 --> 00:59:03,573 Speaker 2: for a seat on the bus. They are for comfort 1231 00:59:03,613 --> 00:59:05,653 Speaker 2: and safety. You pay to be transported from point A 1232 00:59:05,893 --> 00:59:06,333 Speaker 2: to point B. 1233 00:59:06,533 --> 00:59:08,093 Speaker 3: It's a very good point. It's a good point from 1234 00:59:08,133 --> 00:59:10,613 Speaker 3: rich Thank you very much for that. Yeah, and this 1235 00:59:10,733 --> 00:59:13,373 Speaker 3: one says hi guys regiving up your bus seat. Male 1236 00:59:13,453 --> 00:59:16,733 Speaker 3: should absolutely start giving up their seat for females, especially 1237 00:59:16,813 --> 00:59:19,453 Speaker 3: the older ones, as they should be teaching the younger 1238 00:59:19,533 --> 00:59:22,573 Speaker 3: generation to respect their elders. It starts here, maybe it 1239 00:59:22,613 --> 00:59:25,253 Speaker 3: will grow further and we can have more respectful children 1240 00:59:25,333 --> 00:59:26,813 Speaker 3: and society. From Gail on the. 1241 00:59:26,893 --> 00:59:28,933 Speaker 2: Contrary to that, as a woman says this text, but 1242 00:59:28,973 --> 00:59:30,933 Speaker 2: please do not stand for me purely because I am 1243 00:59:30,973 --> 00:59:34,373 Speaker 2: a woman. Stand for anyone that needs the seat more 1244 00:59:34,413 --> 00:59:34,853 Speaker 2: than you do. 1245 00:59:35,213 --> 00:59:38,973 Speaker 3: And therein lies the confusion sometimes is that you know 1246 00:59:39,293 --> 00:59:41,853 Speaker 3: is it okay? As so me as a thirty nine 1247 00:59:41,933 --> 00:59:46,373 Speaker 3: year old male on the bus and a woman in 1248 00:59:46,493 --> 00:59:48,653 Speaker 3: her Are you only thirty nine? Only thirty nine? 1249 00:59:48,733 --> 00:59:49,813 Speaker 2: Jeez, you look a lot older than that. 1250 00:59:50,133 --> 00:59:50,573 Speaker 3: Thanks mate. 1251 00:59:50,573 --> 00:59:51,333 Speaker 2: It's been a tough life. 1252 00:59:52,653 --> 00:59:54,613 Speaker 3: So I'm thirty nine. Then a woman who's clearly in 1253 00:59:54,693 --> 00:59:57,053 Speaker 3: her thirties jumps on the bus and I stand up 1254 00:59:57,133 --> 00:59:59,133 Speaker 3: and say, hey, you can have my seat if you like, 1255 00:59:59,213 --> 01:00:00,973 Speaker 3: and she looks at me and say, I don't need 1256 01:00:01,013 --> 01:00:03,053 Speaker 3: your seat. What do you How old do you think, ma'am? 1257 01:00:03,173 --> 01:00:05,653 Speaker 2: I think it would be weird. Look, I could be 1258 01:00:05,693 --> 01:00:07,733 Speaker 2: wrong here, and I'd love to people's opinions on it's 1259 01:00:07,773 --> 01:00:10,093 Speaker 2: nine two nine to over one hundred and eighty ten eighty. 1260 01:00:10,133 --> 01:00:13,493 Speaker 2: But if you are thirty nine, right, yeah, and you 1261 01:00:13,693 --> 01:00:17,213 Speaker 2: stood for a perfectly able bodied thirty year old woman. 1262 01:00:17,413 --> 01:00:20,133 Speaker 3: Yeah, that would that would that be weird? I think 1263 01:00:20,173 --> 01:00:22,173 Speaker 3: that would be weird. Yeah, that would It would be 1264 01:00:22,293 --> 01:00:24,453 Speaker 3: running through my kid. I'd probably still do it, But 1265 01:00:24,573 --> 01:00:26,133 Speaker 3: in the back of my mind it be like she 1266 01:00:26,253 --> 01:00:27,213 Speaker 3: thinks I'm a real weirdo. 1267 01:00:28,533 --> 01:00:30,413 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just think that she might think that you're 1268 01:00:30,653 --> 01:00:33,453 Speaker 2: you're you're making a move, you know. 1269 01:00:33,493 --> 01:00:35,693 Speaker 3: And that's why it's so complicated sometimes, is that it. 1270 01:00:35,653 --> 01:00:38,133 Speaker 2: Should be like she'd be like granddad, you say that. 1271 01:00:38,733 --> 01:00:41,133 Speaker 3: Yeah, why is this fifty year old man trying to 1272 01:00:41,173 --> 01:00:42,013 Speaker 3: give me a give up? 1273 01:00:42,053 --> 01:00:44,933 Speaker 2: And see there is an area on the bus site, 1274 01:00:46,213 --> 01:00:49,653 Speaker 2: a side for people with disabilities, for people, Why doesn't 1275 01:00:49,653 --> 01:00:52,573 Speaker 2: the bus driver tell people to move? That's a good point. Yeah, 1276 01:00:52,733 --> 01:00:55,333 Speaker 2: I mean, god, it's tough being a bus driver, and 1277 01:00:55,373 --> 01:00:57,493 Speaker 2: they don't get paid a lot, and they go through 1278 01:00:57,493 --> 01:01:00,493 Speaker 2: a lot of stress and driving around a giant bus 1279 01:01:00,933 --> 01:01:03,333 Speaker 2: and traffics a lot, and there's a lot of misbehaving people. 1280 01:01:04,693 --> 01:01:07,173 Speaker 2: But you know, and so maybe that's just one thing 1281 01:01:07,253 --> 01:01:12,373 Speaker 2: too many, just constantly turning around and going, you scumbag, yep, move, 1282 01:01:12,533 --> 01:01:15,213 Speaker 2: that's the disabled seats, that's the people in need seats. 1283 01:01:15,493 --> 01:01:17,373 Speaker 2: What if we give bus rovers tasers so they could 1284 01:01:17,413 --> 01:01:19,293 Speaker 2: just leave lean out with the left hand and just 1285 01:01:19,373 --> 01:01:20,733 Speaker 2: taser people in the seats. 1286 01:01:20,733 --> 01:01:23,093 Speaker 3: On all for that and it goes back to the taser. 1287 01:01:23,133 --> 01:01:24,333 Speaker 3: But I'd be right behind that. 1288 01:01:24,493 --> 01:01:28,453 Speaker 2: It's my compulsory daily mention of the taser. Good a 1289 01:01:28,453 --> 01:01:31,013 Speaker 2: lot of people tixing through. Why would you mentioned tasering 1290 01:01:31,173 --> 01:01:31,653 Speaker 2: people yet? 1291 01:01:31,893 --> 01:01:32,093 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1292 01:01:33,533 --> 01:01:36,533 Speaker 2: Eighties and nobody call Graham. You had an unfortunate experience 1293 01:01:36,533 --> 01:01:37,853 Speaker 2: on a bus recently, I understand. 1294 01:01:39,013 --> 01:01:43,693 Speaker 5: Yes, I did a couple of weeks ago. I'm going 1295 01:01:43,773 --> 01:01:50,253 Speaker 5: on seventy eight. I'm just able, got gammy leads. Anyway, 1296 01:01:50,413 --> 01:01:55,493 Speaker 5: I jumped on the silly Lincoln K Road and oh no, sorry, 1297 01:01:56,693 --> 01:02:00,653 Speaker 5: jumped on the bus opposite McDonald's Queen Street. That the 1298 01:02:00,773 --> 01:02:06,573 Speaker 5: stop there. The bus was pretty full, but there's a 1299 01:02:07,293 --> 01:02:10,813 Speaker 5: sign up for the disabled people on that and and 1300 01:02:11,613 --> 01:02:15,493 Speaker 5: wheelchair and that said, and anyway, there was a I'll 1301 01:02:15,533 --> 01:02:18,933 Speaker 5: call her a young woman at this stage, but because 1302 01:02:18,933 --> 01:02:22,733 Speaker 5: I'm on radio, otherwise I'd call her something else. She 1303 01:02:22,933 --> 01:02:26,693 Speaker 5: was sitting across two seats that were both close together. 1304 01:02:26,813 --> 01:02:30,413 Speaker 5: So I said to her, would you mind moving sideways please? 1305 01:02:30,453 --> 01:02:33,653 Speaker 5: So I consider on that other seat. So she moved 1306 01:02:33,693 --> 01:02:37,053 Speaker 5: a little bit and I sat down beside her. And 1307 01:02:37,293 --> 01:02:40,053 Speaker 5: as I sat down, I think I brushed her bit 1308 01:02:40,133 --> 01:02:44,133 Speaker 5: because she didn't really move all that much. And anyway, 1309 01:02:45,133 --> 01:02:50,933 Speaker 5: I said to her, thanks and that I said, but really, 1310 01:02:51,013 --> 01:02:53,933 Speaker 5: you shouldn't be sitting there. There's a sign there that 1311 01:02:55,053 --> 01:02:59,333 Speaker 5: these seats are for disabled people. With that, she swung 1312 01:02:59,413 --> 01:03:02,333 Speaker 5: around smacked me three times in the head with her 1313 01:03:02,893 --> 01:03:11,133 Speaker 5: closed first minute. Yeah, blood pouring everywhere and that and 1314 01:03:11,253 --> 01:03:14,573 Speaker 5: she she jumped up and scarped the you know, the 1315 01:03:14,613 --> 01:03:17,453 Speaker 5: bus driver rang the cops. The cops are right in there. 1316 01:03:17,773 --> 01:03:20,773 Speaker 5: Luckily there was a nurse on the bus and she 1317 01:03:20,973 --> 01:03:24,413 Speaker 5: had some stuff and she tended told my bleeding. 1318 01:03:24,573 --> 01:03:27,693 Speaker 2: Wow, did they find did they find the person? 1319 01:03:27,773 --> 01:03:30,933 Speaker 5: Graham? Well, the police haven't got back to me yet. 1320 01:03:30,973 --> 01:03:33,173 Speaker 5: They're gonna said, they're going to look for C C 1321 01:03:34,053 --> 01:03:35,293 Speaker 5: T footage and all that. 1322 01:03:35,693 --> 01:03:36,813 Speaker 2: How long ago was that, Graham? 1323 01:03:38,653 --> 01:03:41,253 Speaker 5: Last last Friday? 1324 01:03:41,533 --> 01:03:43,973 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm so sorry to hear that happened 1325 01:03:43,973 --> 01:03:46,053 Speaker 2: to you. Graham. That's that's horrender, that is that is 1326 01:03:47,533 --> 01:03:51,173 Speaker 2: that is so far from etiquette. That is absolutely horrible. 1327 01:03:51,333 --> 01:03:54,333 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, Graham, hopefully you get some justice in that 1328 01:03:54,453 --> 01:03:56,013 Speaker 3: situation because that is disgusting. 1329 01:03:56,893 --> 01:03:59,733 Speaker 2: A couple of teas coming through Dougie, Oh, douggie here 1330 01:03:59,853 --> 01:04:02,613 Speaker 2: he said, pregnant women are not disabled. They chose to 1331 01:04:02,693 --> 01:04:03,453 Speaker 2: be the way they are. 1332 01:04:03,973 --> 01:04:05,933 Speaker 3: Dug, dug dirty. 1333 01:04:06,053 --> 01:04:10,093 Speaker 2: Take Come on, this person says women want equal rights, 1334 01:04:10,133 --> 01:04:13,933 Speaker 2: they should stand for men. Had a few of those yep, yep. 1335 01:04:15,613 --> 01:04:17,293 Speaker 3: N two is the ticks number. 1336 01:04:17,613 --> 01:04:21,213 Speaker 2: Common curtis, concern for fellow man and courtesy will never 1337 01:04:21,293 --> 01:04:23,053 Speaker 2: fade like that one. Yeah, that's good. 1338 01:04:23,293 --> 01:04:26,093 Speaker 3: Yeah, one hundred and eighteen eighty is the number of call. 1339 01:04:26,813 --> 01:04:30,653 Speaker 3: Should we go, You'll get Marie in get it, Marie Hi. 1340 01:04:31,213 --> 01:04:31,333 Speaker 8: Hi. 1341 01:04:31,493 --> 01:04:36,173 Speaker 14: Guys, just like to throw a bouquet to the Asian community. 1342 01:04:37,173 --> 01:04:40,933 Speaker 14: With getting a bus from Waterbury to Blockhouse Bay, the 1343 01:04:41,093 --> 01:04:44,173 Speaker 14: sun was in my eyes, couldn't when there's couple of 1344 01:04:44,253 --> 01:04:47,773 Speaker 14: busses come that way. A young Chinese girl next to 1345 01:04:47,813 --> 01:04:49,933 Speaker 14: me said, which one are you getting? Oh? She said, 1346 01:04:50,053 --> 01:04:52,333 Speaker 14: I'm getting that one. I'll tell you when it comes, 1347 01:04:52,493 --> 01:04:53,213 Speaker 14: which she did. 1348 01:04:53,973 --> 01:04:54,653 Speaker 5: She was great. 1349 01:04:55,093 --> 01:04:57,773 Speaker 14: Got on the bus. It was full of school kids 1350 01:04:57,893 --> 01:05:01,973 Speaker 14: from town. First person to jump up with an Asian 1351 01:05:02,133 --> 01:05:05,533 Speaker 14: boy to give me his seat, got off the bus, 1352 01:05:05,773 --> 01:05:11,893 Speaker 14: wasn't sure which up I was. There were two streets together, 1353 01:05:11,933 --> 01:05:14,733 Speaker 14: I wasn't sure which one was mine. I a ten 1354 01:05:14,893 --> 01:05:18,093 Speaker 14: rod street. Young Asian girls standing at the bus stop, 1355 01:05:18,173 --> 01:05:21,373 Speaker 14: see where you're going across the road with me? And 1356 01:05:21,493 --> 01:05:23,533 Speaker 14: when I told her I was going, she said, oh, 1357 01:05:23,733 --> 01:05:25,253 Speaker 14: I love the next street. 1358 01:05:25,053 --> 01:05:25,853 Speaker 16: But I live further. 1359 01:05:26,293 --> 01:05:27,493 Speaker 20: I'll walk down with you. 1360 01:05:28,213 --> 01:05:30,773 Speaker 14: When we got got to the place I was going to, 1361 01:05:30,973 --> 01:05:33,893 Speaker 14: she said, can I give you a hug? And she 1362 01:05:33,933 --> 01:05:37,333 Speaker 14: said they just so lovely. A couple of weeks later, 1363 01:05:37,573 --> 01:05:39,933 Speaker 14: I was getting a bus from uh. 1364 01:05:42,413 --> 01:05:43,693 Speaker 16: God and. 1365 01:05:46,213 --> 01:05:50,573 Speaker 14: Full of avand college students. Got to my stop. All 1366 01:05:50,653 --> 01:05:54,973 Speaker 14: the students pushed their way out. One guy got out 1367 01:05:55,733 --> 01:05:58,493 Speaker 14: tender us and said to me, can I please help 1368 01:05:58,573 --> 01:06:02,933 Speaker 14: you off the bus, which was a lovely another Asian kid. 1369 01:06:03,453 --> 01:06:10,373 Speaker 2: There there is some shell and etiquette, and I mean 1370 01:06:10,373 --> 01:06:12,933 Speaker 2: it's not necessary chivalry, but etiquette out there in the community. 1371 01:06:13,053 --> 01:06:17,653 Speaker 3: There is hope, guys, whether it's the bus or whatever. 1372 01:06:17,933 --> 01:06:21,733 Speaker 3: Man is Cout was sitting waiting for a blood test 1373 01:06:21,813 --> 01:06:24,933 Speaker 3: today next to a tattooed young guy who looked like 1374 01:06:25,013 --> 01:06:26,893 Speaker 3: he had had a bad attitude. An old couple in 1375 01:06:26,973 --> 01:06:30,213 Speaker 3: their eighties at least are not very mobile mobile. Rather 1376 01:06:30,373 --> 01:06:33,733 Speaker 3: came in and while there were spear seats, they were 1377 01:06:33,853 --> 01:06:37,493 Speaker 3: only singles, not two together. For the couple immediately jumped 1378 01:06:37,573 --> 01:06:39,453 Speaker 3: up to make room. I'm a sixty year old woman 1379 01:06:39,773 --> 01:06:41,893 Speaker 3: and turned to glare at the young guy, only to 1380 01:06:41,933 --> 01:06:44,453 Speaker 3: find he'd beaten me to it and was already helping 1381 01:06:44,533 --> 01:06:45,933 Speaker 3: the elderly couple to the seats. 1382 01:06:46,213 --> 01:06:55,893 Speaker 2: The perceptions shattered, perceptions shattered. The word is vulnerable, not vulnerable. 1383 01:06:57,053 --> 01:06:57,293 Speaker 15: Person. 1384 01:06:58,133 --> 01:07:01,853 Speaker 2: You're sloppy speaking. Yeah, yeah, thanks very much, Mike. Not mine. 1385 01:07:02,213 --> 01:07:05,893 Speaker 3: If you once ever got my pronunciation, it is twenty 1386 01:07:06,133 --> 01:07:08,213 Speaker 3: to three. What are the rules when it comes to 1387 01:07:08,333 --> 01:07:10,493 Speaker 3: giving up your seats on public transport? Love to hear 1388 01:07:10,573 --> 01:07:10,773 Speaker 3: from you. 1389 01:07:11,013 --> 01:07:13,413 Speaker 2: Secondary question just come through on nine to two ninety two. 1390 01:07:13,613 --> 01:07:15,333 Speaker 2: How come you can be on a bus but not 1391 01:07:15,493 --> 01:07:15,933 Speaker 2: on a car? 1392 01:07:16,933 --> 01:07:19,213 Speaker 3: Oh, good question. These are the deep questions that. 1393 01:07:21,093 --> 01:07:23,653 Speaker 2: You get on a train, Yeah, you get on a bus, 1394 01:07:24,173 --> 01:07:26,333 Speaker 2: You get in the car, you get on a bike. 1395 01:07:27,493 --> 01:07:30,373 Speaker 2: What else you get on a plane? On a plane, 1396 01:07:30,573 --> 01:07:33,453 Speaker 2: you only yeah, you get You're not on a car. 1397 01:07:33,533 --> 01:07:34,013 Speaker 2: You're in a car. 1398 01:07:34,973 --> 01:07:35,693 Speaker 3: On a skateboard. 1399 01:07:35,893 --> 01:07:38,053 Speaker 2: You're on a skate on a scooter is the only thing. 1400 01:07:38,093 --> 01:07:40,253 Speaker 2: You get into a car. You only get into a car. 1401 01:07:41,253 --> 01:07:42,653 Speaker 2: You're in a house and this you're on it. 1402 01:07:42,853 --> 01:07:43,053 Speaker 17: Yeah. 1403 01:07:43,133 --> 01:07:44,893 Speaker 3: Yeah, so in a house, but that doesn't move. If 1404 01:07:44,893 --> 01:07:46,893 Speaker 3: you see you're on a house, you're in a caravan. 1405 01:07:47,253 --> 01:07:47,973 Speaker 2: You're in a caravan. 1406 01:07:48,053 --> 01:07:48,213 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1407 01:07:48,293 --> 01:07:50,973 Speaker 2: So that's something we'll get to the bottom of us. 1408 01:07:50,973 --> 01:07:52,693 Speaker 2: That's a key question on top of the other question. 1409 01:07:52,973 --> 01:07:57,693 Speaker 3: It is nineteen to three, the big stories, the big issues, 1410 01:07:57,933 --> 01:08:00,253 Speaker 3: the big trends, and everything in between. 1411 01:08:00,573 --> 01:08:02,493 Speaker 4: Matt and Taylor afternoons with the. 1412 01:08:02,573 --> 01:08:05,973 Speaker 1: Volvo XC ninety attention to detail and a commitment to 1413 01:08:06,053 --> 01:08:07,053 Speaker 1: comfort news talks. 1414 01:08:07,053 --> 01:08:10,493 Speaker 3: They'd be good after noon, and there's sixteen to three. 1415 01:08:11,093 --> 01:08:14,253 Speaker 2: This is really really messing with my mind here. Just 1416 01:08:14,333 --> 01:08:16,452 Speaker 2: someone sends a text. It's really to raph the conversation 1417 01:08:16,933 --> 01:08:18,213 Speaker 2: that you get on a bus and you get on 1418 01:08:18,253 --> 01:08:20,893 Speaker 2: a train, but you get in a car. This person says, 1419 01:08:20,933 --> 01:08:22,893 Speaker 2: you're on death row, but you're in prison. 1420 01:08:24,173 --> 01:08:24,372 Speaker 8: Man. 1421 01:08:24,692 --> 01:08:25,253 Speaker 3: This is deep. 1422 01:08:26,013 --> 01:08:29,173 Speaker 2: I think generally speaking that anything you walk into because 1423 01:08:29,213 --> 01:08:31,293 Speaker 2: you get on a plane, not in a plane, but 1424 01:08:31,372 --> 01:08:33,213 Speaker 2: if it's small plane, would you get in a plane, 1425 01:08:34,652 --> 01:08:37,732 Speaker 2: you will still be one. If you climb straight into 1426 01:08:37,772 --> 01:08:40,532 Speaker 2: a seat, it's in as you get into a carriage. 1427 01:08:40,572 --> 01:08:41,452 Speaker 3: I'm in the plane right now. 1428 01:08:41,492 --> 01:08:43,852 Speaker 2: But if there's something you can walk around on to 1429 01:08:43,933 --> 01:08:46,013 Speaker 2: find your seat, then it's you get on. Yeah, that 1430 01:08:46,133 --> 01:08:47,372 Speaker 2: makes sense. I think. 1431 01:08:47,492 --> 01:08:49,133 Speaker 3: I think that's as good as we've got so far. 1432 01:08:49,253 --> 01:08:50,452 Speaker 3: We're still going to do some digging on this. 1433 01:08:50,732 --> 01:08:53,093 Speaker 2: Yeah, but that doesn't quite work for your on death row. 1434 01:08:54,572 --> 01:08:57,173 Speaker 3: But you're in prison. Thank you very much. Give those 1435 01:08:57,213 --> 01:08:59,452 Speaker 3: seat you get. 1436 01:08:59,372 --> 01:09:01,612 Speaker 2: On a bus, train, boat, because you literally walk on, 1437 01:09:01,772 --> 01:09:04,012 Speaker 2: says this texting, you don't step into a car. That's 1438 01:09:04,133 --> 01:09:05,892 Speaker 2: that's that's a that's a good point. All right, we'll 1439 01:09:05,893 --> 01:09:06,173 Speaker 2: solve it. 1440 01:09:06,372 --> 01:09:08,013 Speaker 3: Yep, there we go, Thank you very much. 1441 01:09:08,333 --> 01:09:10,492 Speaker 2: A right, Jan, welcome to the shows. Sorry for the 1442 01:09:11,013 --> 01:09:11,492 Speaker 2: tour there. 1443 01:09:12,452 --> 01:09:21,132 Speaker 22: Yeah, no, never mind, roll with that. Okay, it's Monday. 1444 01:09:21,933 --> 01:09:24,133 Speaker 22: So I've got a good story. It's not about someone 1445 01:09:24,213 --> 01:09:26,732 Speaker 22: giving up a seat. But my partner was heading to 1446 01:09:27,452 --> 01:09:29,652 Speaker 22: we're on Wahiki Island, was heading to the racetrack on 1447 01:09:29,732 --> 01:09:34,372 Speaker 22: Saturday night and to catch a bus, a boat, then 1448 01:09:34,492 --> 01:09:39,932 Speaker 22: a bus. He was sitting on the bus and they 1449 01:09:40,372 --> 01:09:43,892 Speaker 22: stopped on the bus and I thank that twe I'm 1450 01:09:43,893 --> 01:09:49,372 Speaker 22: not sure and they ever said, oh, they want to 1451 01:09:49,412 --> 01:09:51,293 Speaker 22: pay cash, and he said, oh, no, you need hot cars. 1452 01:09:51,973 --> 01:09:53,532 Speaker 22: He said, oh, we're not from here. 1453 01:09:53,732 --> 01:09:54,532 Speaker 17: We don't know. 1454 01:09:54,853 --> 01:09:57,692 Speaker 22: I haven't got a hot cast. Oh well you can 1455 01:09:58,612 --> 01:10:02,053 Speaker 22: just once and they said oh. And they were only 1456 01:10:02,173 --> 01:10:07,852 Speaker 22: going from the mart to Skytower, so it wasn't very far. 1457 01:10:08,452 --> 01:10:13,133 Speaker 22: But they were older tourists and this young guy was 1458 01:10:13,173 --> 01:10:17,492 Speaker 22: on the bus and said, it's okay, you can crack 1459 01:10:17,572 --> 01:10:19,052 Speaker 22: my card and let them. 1460 01:10:18,933 --> 01:10:20,133 Speaker 15: On with my card. 1461 01:10:20,372 --> 01:10:24,052 Speaker 2: Oh that is beautiful water. That's nice. 1462 01:10:24,093 --> 01:10:27,093 Speaker 22: And I thought it was nice to see. And he 1463 01:10:27,253 --> 01:10:29,532 Speaker 22: was the young guy, and they were a bit stuck, 1464 01:10:29,732 --> 01:10:32,213 Speaker 22: they weren't going very far, and he just stepped up 1465 01:10:32,452 --> 01:10:32,932 Speaker 22: and did. 1466 01:10:32,853 --> 01:10:33,333 Speaker 15: The right thing. 1467 01:10:33,612 --> 01:10:35,932 Speaker 2: That's awesome. Jen, did you punch your partner and say 1468 01:10:35,973 --> 01:10:36,652 Speaker 2: why didn't you do that? 1469 01:10:39,293 --> 01:10:45,692 Speaker 21: That's it. 1470 01:10:45,933 --> 01:10:47,572 Speaker 2: I don't mean punch in the face, just a little 1471 01:10:47,572 --> 01:10:50,933 Speaker 2: punch on the shoulder. Glear the weird as well, just 1472 01:10:51,133 --> 01:10:53,933 Speaker 2: just just a friendly slap on the shoulder. What did 1473 01:10:54,053 --> 01:10:54,652 Speaker 2: what did you do? 1474 01:10:54,812 --> 01:10:54,852 Speaker 8: That? 1475 01:10:55,692 --> 01:11:01,092 Speaker 2: All right, I'll do it tonight, immediately, take the negative 1476 01:11:01,093 --> 01:11:01,892 Speaker 2: on it, immediately. 1477 01:11:04,253 --> 01:11:05,412 Speaker 22: I'll get him thinking anyway. 1478 01:11:05,933 --> 01:11:06,492 Speaker 2: Thanks you called. 1479 01:11:06,893 --> 01:11:10,932 Speaker 3: It's a great story. Ellison. How are you hello? 1480 01:11:11,973 --> 01:11:15,732 Speaker 17: Good things? Mine isn't exactly concerned with a bus, but 1481 01:11:15,853 --> 01:11:19,253 Speaker 17: it's a plug for good young people. In Palmerston North, 1482 01:11:19,612 --> 01:11:22,812 Speaker 17: when I was waiting for a hip operation, I had 1483 01:11:22,853 --> 01:11:25,293 Speaker 17: a stick and I was in a queue in the 1484 01:11:25,333 --> 01:11:28,692 Speaker 17: post office, big queue. Young Mary lad in front of 1485 01:11:28,772 --> 01:11:31,253 Speaker 17: me turns around and says, can I get you a chair? 1486 01:11:31,812 --> 01:11:34,333 Speaker 17: An Iffie went and got me a chair. In a 1487 01:11:34,412 --> 01:11:38,293 Speaker 17: big qu in aa waiting for something a bike with 1488 01:11:38,412 --> 01:11:40,652 Speaker 17: all this gear on turned around and said to me 1489 01:11:41,093 --> 01:11:45,333 Speaker 17: can I get you a chair? And then I'm approaching 1490 01:11:45,412 --> 01:11:48,492 Speaker 17: a big curve that foot and a half high, and 1491 01:11:48,572 --> 01:11:51,932 Speaker 17: a young woman sees me, runs across the pavement and says, 1492 01:11:52,053 --> 01:11:55,333 Speaker 17: let me help you up. That happened all the time 1493 01:11:55,692 --> 01:11:58,933 Speaker 17: in Palmerston North when I had a walking stick. And 1494 01:11:58,933 --> 01:12:01,572 Speaker 17: the other story I've got is me being a bit. 1495 01:12:02,133 --> 01:12:05,812 Speaker 17: I'm an ex primary school teacher and I got on 1496 01:12:05,973 --> 01:12:09,372 Speaker 17: the ferry I was eighty and want to do the stairs. 1497 01:12:09,492 --> 01:12:12,372 Speaker 17: So I think my French friend upstairs and said I'll 1498 01:12:12,452 --> 01:12:14,852 Speaker 17: see you in a minute. Went to get in the 1499 01:12:14,933 --> 01:12:17,293 Speaker 17: list with a young couple with a baby in a 1500 01:12:17,333 --> 01:12:22,492 Speaker 17: push chair, and there were four young people crowding around 1501 01:12:22,532 --> 01:12:25,133 Speaker 17: the door so we couldn't get in. So I said, 1502 01:12:25,853 --> 01:12:29,452 Speaker 17: excuse me, you are young and fit, Why are. 1503 01:12:29,372 --> 01:12:30,452 Speaker 5: You on this lift? 1504 01:12:30,853 --> 01:12:34,893 Speaker 17: They all look very embarrassed and jumped down. I got on, 1505 01:12:35,133 --> 01:12:37,772 Speaker 17: and the young couple and the baby got on all 1506 01:12:37,893 --> 01:12:42,572 Speaker 17: as well. So those are different stories, you know, about 1507 01:12:42,612 --> 01:12:44,492 Speaker 17: how you can be kind or not be kind. 1508 01:12:44,933 --> 01:12:48,093 Speaker 2: Brilliant. Thank you for sharing that, Allison. Yeah, hey, someone 1509 01:12:48,133 --> 01:12:50,492 Speaker 2: has texted through Matt. What you've got there is a 1510 01:12:50,532 --> 01:12:53,892 Speaker 2: green Eggs and ham popular problem. I would not could 1511 01:12:53,933 --> 01:12:55,973 Speaker 2: not in the rain, not in the dark, not on 1512 01:12:56,053 --> 01:12:58,093 Speaker 2: a train, not in a car, not in a tree. 1513 01:12:58,372 --> 01:13:00,973 Speaker 2: I do not like them, Sam, you see, not in 1514 01:13:01,053 --> 01:13:03,652 Speaker 2: the house, not in a box, not with a mouse, 1515 01:13:03,973 --> 01:13:05,932 Speaker 2: not with a fox. I will not eat them here 1516 01:13:06,053 --> 01:13:08,732 Speaker 2: or there. I do not like them anywhere. So yeah, 1517 01:13:08,732 --> 01:13:11,333 Speaker 2: we have we have sort of ended down a doctor 1518 01:13:11,372 --> 01:13:12,012 Speaker 2: Zeus whole print. 1519 01:13:12,372 --> 01:13:15,372 Speaker 3: WI doctor Zeus's are problem all along? Thank you very much. 1520 01:13:15,853 --> 01:13:18,333 Speaker 3: All right, we'll wrap this up very shortly, but love 1521 01:13:18,372 --> 01:13:20,452 Speaker 3: to hear from you on one hundred and eighty ten 1522 01:13:20,612 --> 01:13:25,812 Speaker 3: eighty your experiences on a bus and whether people give 1523 01:13:25,893 --> 01:13:29,093 Speaker 3: up their seat for you or what is the etiquette 1524 01:13:29,093 --> 01:13:30,772 Speaker 3: when it comes to giving up your seat, and if 1525 01:13:30,812 --> 01:13:32,452 Speaker 3: you want to see the teaching more than welcome. Nine 1526 01:13:32,572 --> 01:13:35,452 Speaker 3: two niney two is the text number. It is eleven to. 1527 01:13:35,492 --> 01:13:39,412 Speaker 4: Three, The Issues that affect you and a bit of 1528 01:13:39,532 --> 01:13:40,372 Speaker 4: fun along the way. 1529 01:13:40,612 --> 01:13:43,972 Speaker 1: Matt and Taylor Afternoons with the Volvo xc N eighty 1530 01:13:44,093 --> 01:13:47,652 Speaker 1: Innovation Style and to Save Have It All New Talks, b. 1531 01:13:48,933 --> 01:13:52,333 Speaker 3: News Talks It Be It is eight two three. When 1532 01:13:52,372 --> 01:13:55,732 Speaker 3: should you give up your seat on public transport? Barbara 1533 01:13:55,812 --> 01:13:56,533 Speaker 3: good afternoon. 1534 01:13:57,772 --> 01:14:02,253 Speaker 19: Hi, many years ago I loved John Wyck and we 1535 01:14:02,452 --> 01:14:05,412 Speaker 19: I just commute and one night I was going back 1536 01:14:05,532 --> 01:14:09,253 Speaker 19: very late on last very we always had the regular, 1537 01:14:09,333 --> 01:14:13,213 Speaker 19: said the irregular seats for the last fearing, and there 1538 01:14:13,293 --> 01:14:16,652 Speaker 19: was only one other guy on board, and I said, mine, 1539 01:14:16,692 --> 01:14:19,452 Speaker 19: who was the steward, watched this. I need to set 1540 01:14:19,492 --> 01:14:21,532 Speaker 19: the guy on the shoulder that was sitting there, and 1541 01:14:21,612 --> 01:14:23,652 Speaker 19: he looked around. I said, excuse me, you're sitting in 1542 01:14:23,732 --> 01:14:27,012 Speaker 19: my seat the other there was nobody else on board 1543 01:14:27,013 --> 01:14:31,812 Speaker 19: who believed me, and he should have around and then 1544 01:14:31,853 --> 01:14:33,372 Speaker 19: he realized I was kidding him. 1545 01:14:33,492 --> 01:14:34,772 Speaker 16: Father was just crack up. 1546 01:14:39,053 --> 01:14:42,173 Speaker 4: I want to humor absolutely, very. 1547 01:14:44,412 --> 01:14:44,812 Speaker 3: Very much. 1548 01:14:45,572 --> 01:14:49,293 Speaker 2: Afternoons, I always offer the seat male or female if 1549 01:14:49,293 --> 01:14:52,452 Speaker 2: they're carrying lots of goods or disabled, but they need 1550 01:14:52,532 --> 01:14:54,772 Speaker 2: to use a bus as a bus, not a taxi. 1551 01:14:55,333 --> 01:14:57,492 Speaker 2: Had a rude Nelson lady who pushed the buzz at 1552 01:14:57,532 --> 01:14:59,852 Speaker 2: every stop, so the driver had to yell out every 1553 01:14:59,933 --> 01:15:03,052 Speaker 2: stop to ask who wanted to get off. I hope 1554 01:15:03,053 --> 01:15:05,652 Speaker 2: that Pacific lady doesn't visit all Land again. Well that's 1555 01:15:05,652 --> 01:15:07,892 Speaker 2: from depak. That's just someone being a dick. 1556 01:15:07,973 --> 01:15:08,093 Speaker 5: Right. 1557 01:15:08,372 --> 01:15:10,652 Speaker 2: There's trolling, isn't it if you're if you're pulling it 1558 01:15:10,732 --> 01:15:14,372 Speaker 2: every I remember when what would happen on my school bus. 1559 01:15:14,732 --> 01:15:16,213 Speaker 2: You know, on the bus I got home from school, 1560 01:15:16,893 --> 01:15:21,293 Speaker 2: someone would pull the cord and then point at you 1561 01:15:21,412 --> 01:15:22,732 Speaker 2: and say that you pulled it, and the bus driver 1562 01:15:22,772 --> 01:15:24,732 Speaker 2: would send you off. The bus drivers to kick you 1563 01:15:24,812 --> 01:15:26,012 Speaker 2: off if you'd pulled the cord. 1564 01:15:26,253 --> 01:15:27,732 Speaker 3: Part of me loves that. I mean, I feel for 1565 01:15:27,772 --> 01:15:31,772 Speaker 3: the bus driver, but I didn't. Didn't it was Matt, 1566 01:15:31,933 --> 01:15:33,133 Speaker 3: get off, Get off, Matt. 1567 01:15:33,492 --> 01:15:35,812 Speaker 2: That was a long long trot home because I had 1568 01:15:35,853 --> 01:15:37,692 Speaker 2: to take two buses to and that was a long 1569 01:15:38,572 --> 01:15:39,732 Speaker 2: long punishment that one. 1570 01:15:40,053 --> 01:15:46,013 Speaker 3: Yeah, another couple of texts here, guys, why should young 1571 01:15:46,093 --> 01:15:49,572 Speaker 3: woman get my seat? I'm a male, and yes I 1572 01:15:49,612 --> 01:15:52,652 Speaker 3: would offer it to pregnant or elderly, but never just 1573 01:15:52,732 --> 01:15:55,532 Speaker 3: a female. That to me would be rude within itself. 1574 01:15:55,893 --> 01:16:00,692 Speaker 2: To just a female. Yeah, yeah, all right, what about 1575 01:16:00,692 --> 01:16:02,892 Speaker 2: an elderly female? Did he say elderly? 1576 01:16:03,612 --> 01:16:04,852 Speaker 3: Elderly, elderly and pregnant? 1577 01:16:04,893 --> 01:16:08,253 Speaker 2: Okay, I think I think offering it to an able 1578 01:16:08,372 --> 01:16:12,012 Speaker 2: body woman of your same age, that you know, that's 1579 01:16:12,053 --> 01:16:13,692 Speaker 2: a nice thing to do, I guess, but it's not 1580 01:16:13,772 --> 01:16:15,933 Speaker 2: a pre wreck. I don't think you have to do that. 1581 01:16:16,253 --> 01:16:20,652 Speaker 2: I think I think if if a person, a woman 1582 01:16:20,812 --> 01:16:24,093 Speaker 2: my age, offered me to see and vice versa as 1583 01:16:24,093 --> 01:16:27,213 Speaker 2: and they aren't they asking you an undate, potentially if 1584 01:16:27,253 --> 01:16:29,692 Speaker 2: that happened, you hand them your number. I thinks it 1585 01:16:29,772 --> 01:16:32,933 Speaker 2: works exactly. What about footpath, some group take up the 1586 01:16:32,973 --> 01:16:35,772 Speaker 2: whole footbube. I've always taught my children to move to 1587 01:16:35,853 --> 01:16:38,293 Speaker 2: the side. People need to know, thanks Kelly. People need 1588 01:16:38,372 --> 01:16:39,892 Speaker 2: to know that you have to walk on the left 1589 01:16:40,053 --> 01:16:43,052 Speaker 2: of the footpath as a as a as a runner. 1590 01:16:43,372 --> 01:16:47,013 Speaker 2: So I'm often running and hug the lift. You know 1591 01:16:47,093 --> 01:16:49,092 Speaker 2: where I'm going if I'm like running up a mountain 1592 01:16:49,173 --> 01:16:51,532 Speaker 2: or whatever. All the places I run, you know, not 1593 01:16:51,933 --> 01:16:54,412 Speaker 2: not a mount everest, but there's ones with roads and this. 1594 01:16:54,532 --> 01:16:57,452 Speaker 2: People always just rammed on the left, and I just 1595 01:16:57,492 --> 01:16:59,732 Speaker 2: stated the left, and I come in like a steam train. 1596 01:16:59,893 --> 01:17:01,852 Speaker 2: I thought that was a knowledge, because otherwise it's a 1597 01:17:01,893 --> 01:17:04,333 Speaker 2: disaster if everyone's going into the back and forth. But 1598 01:17:04,572 --> 01:17:08,012 Speaker 2: that needs to be put into people's heads that in countries, 1599 01:17:08,333 --> 01:17:10,852 Speaker 2: when you drive on the left, you walk on the left, yep, 1600 01:17:10,973 --> 01:17:14,013 Speaker 2: and vice versa. In this you're on and the escalators 1601 01:17:14,013 --> 01:17:16,133 Speaker 2: and the tubes in London then strangely you stand on 1602 01:17:16,213 --> 01:17:17,053 Speaker 2: them right. 1603 01:17:17,372 --> 01:17:19,612 Speaker 3: Yeah, anyway, yeah, but now we all know that, Yeah, 1604 01:17:19,652 --> 01:17:23,253 Speaker 3: please run on the lift. That one. 1605 01:17:23,492 --> 01:17:26,213 Speaker 2: You stand up for ladies and the elderly. Have some 1606 01:17:26,492 --> 01:17:29,333 Speaker 2: values you two? What's Right's right? That's from chair, Yeah, 1607 01:17:29,973 --> 01:17:32,412 Speaker 2: supporting it. So I say, standing for pregnant women, stand 1608 01:17:32,492 --> 01:17:35,253 Speaker 2: for the elderly person. If you're not yourself, don't hold 1609 01:17:35,293 --> 01:17:37,612 Speaker 2: the special seats up the front. Be a good person, 1610 01:17:38,133 --> 01:17:38,932 Speaker 2: don't be a deck. 1611 01:17:39,213 --> 01:17:41,173 Speaker 3: Yeap, that is that's a great way to in that, 1612 01:17:41,293 --> 01:17:43,452 Speaker 3: I think. Yeah, well, thank you very much for all 1613 01:17:43,492 --> 01:17:46,133 Speaker 3: your ticks and phone calls on that one. After three 1614 01:17:46,213 --> 01:17:48,973 Speaker 3: o'clock we're going to open up the phone lines with 1615 01:17:49,732 --> 01:17:52,412 Speaker 3: a life event that happened to you over the weekend. 1616 01:17:52,492 --> 01:17:54,932 Speaker 2: Man, I'm not sure if I want to do this topic. 1617 01:17:54,973 --> 01:17:56,893 Speaker 2: It might pull out, but because there could be some 1618 01:17:57,013 --> 01:18:02,492 Speaker 2: tears on air. But look, it's my son has left 1619 01:18:02,532 --> 01:18:04,972 Speaker 2: home and he's left a hole and Daddy's heart. 1620 01:18:05,372 --> 01:18:07,572 Speaker 3: It's a big moment, right. We may talk about that 1621 01:18:07,732 --> 01:18:10,692 Speaker 3: coming up very shortly. Oh eight hundred eighty ten eighty 1622 01:18:10,692 --> 01:18:12,093 Speaker 3: if you want to get in the Q nine two 1623 01:18:12,213 --> 01:18:14,652 Speaker 3: ninety two is the text number you're listening to. Matt 1624 01:18:14,692 --> 01:18:17,052 Speaker 3: and Tyler. Hope you're having a great afternoon. News, sport 1625 01:18:17,133 --> 01:18:18,372 Speaker 3: and weather on its. 1626 01:18:18,253 --> 01:18:53,093 Speaker 4: Way talking with you all afternoon. 1627 01:18:53,333 --> 01:18:57,013 Speaker 1: It's Matt Heathan Taylor Adams Afternoons with the Volvo X 1628 01:18:57,293 --> 01:18:58,492 Speaker 1: ninety Youth Talk ZB. 1629 01:18:59,612 --> 01:19:02,892 Speaker 3: Good afternoon to you, Welcome back into the show, seven 1630 01:19:03,013 --> 01:19:05,213 Speaker 3: past three, and it's been a great couple of hours 1631 01:19:05,412 --> 01:19:08,253 Speaker 3: and this will be a great topic as well. But 1632 01:19:08,532 --> 01:19:11,412 Speaker 3: it's something that happened to you over the weekend. 1633 01:19:11,452 --> 01:19:11,612 Speaker 7: Man. 1634 01:19:11,732 --> 01:19:11,932 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1635 01:19:11,933 --> 01:19:13,452 Speaker 2: Before I go into that, I just want to say 1636 01:19:13,692 --> 01:19:15,253 Speaker 2: another episode of White Loaders out tonight. 1637 01:19:15,772 --> 01:19:16,252 Speaker 3: Exciting. 1638 01:19:16,492 --> 01:19:17,652 Speaker 2: Do you see episode five. 1639 01:19:17,893 --> 01:19:19,892 Speaker 3: I'm not caught up yet, so I've got some watching 1640 01:19:19,973 --> 01:19:21,492 Speaker 3: to do tonight to get caught up. 1641 01:19:21,652 --> 01:19:25,652 Speaker 2: Okay, I just popped up in my reminders. Boy boy, 1642 01:19:25,732 --> 01:19:29,053 Speaker 2: it's heating up. That's Sam Rockwell speech that I'm still 1643 01:19:29,253 --> 01:19:31,892 Speaker 2: trying to process that For people that know, they'll know. 1644 01:19:32,452 --> 01:19:34,293 Speaker 3: So well written though, wasn't it. It is such a 1645 01:19:34,372 --> 01:19:37,532 Speaker 3: great series. So number six and it's how many in 1646 01:19:37,572 --> 01:19:37,972 Speaker 3: the series? 1647 01:19:38,053 --> 01:19:38,452 Speaker 16: Is it ten? 1648 01:19:38,652 --> 01:19:40,133 Speaker 2: I think no, it's much less than that. It might 1649 01:19:40,173 --> 01:19:42,253 Speaker 2: only be seven. That's a good point. Actually, let's look 1650 01:19:42,333 --> 01:19:44,812 Speaker 2: look that up. I think it's coming to endgame at 1651 01:19:44,853 --> 01:19:45,173 Speaker 2: the moment. 1652 01:19:45,452 --> 01:19:46,612 Speaker 3: LOADUS season three. 1653 01:19:50,213 --> 01:19:53,652 Speaker 2: How many episodes and data? Okay, there might be eight. 1654 01:19:53,933 --> 01:19:54,492 Speaker 2: I think there's eight. 1655 01:19:54,572 --> 01:19:55,732 Speaker 3: Okay, so we've got a couple left. 1656 01:19:55,973 --> 01:19:59,133 Speaker 2: Yeah, eight episodes. Anyway, A lot of people were saying 1657 01:19:59,133 --> 01:20:02,253 Speaker 2: it's boring and it's too slow. I find the interactions 1658 01:20:02,293 --> 01:20:06,532 Speaker 2: between people particularly tense, and I just feel this impending 1659 01:20:06,572 --> 01:20:10,892 Speaker 2: sense of doom watching it. But I'm thoroughly enjoying it. Yeah. 1660 01:20:10,973 --> 01:20:12,812 Speaker 2: I just wanted to talk about this as a bit 1661 01:20:12,853 --> 01:20:15,253 Speaker 2: of an issue, and maybe I'm looking for a group 1662 01:20:15,372 --> 01:20:18,173 Speaker 2: therapy situation, but it's something that a lot of people 1663 01:20:18,293 --> 01:20:22,812 Speaker 2: go through. So my son in the weekend, he moved 1664 01:20:22,853 --> 01:20:25,532 Speaker 2: out of home. So you had him for eighteen years 1665 01:20:26,013 --> 01:20:29,612 Speaker 2: and he's obviously been focus of my life. You know, 1666 01:20:30,213 --> 01:20:33,013 Speaker 2: him and his brother bringing them up, and you know 1667 01:20:33,133 --> 01:20:36,293 Speaker 2: from all the little ages that they are and then 1668 01:20:36,293 --> 01:20:37,893 Speaker 2: they're just little babies when you can hold them in 1669 01:20:37,933 --> 01:20:39,732 Speaker 2: their hand, to you know, the first day of school 1670 01:20:39,812 --> 01:20:43,732 Speaker 2: with the massive shorts and the uniform, to the ups 1671 01:20:43,772 --> 01:20:46,852 Speaker 2: and downs, sitting on the sidelines of sport, all the 1672 01:20:46,933 --> 01:20:50,412 Speaker 2: concerns you have for them, all the different stages, the 1673 01:20:50,492 --> 01:20:53,812 Speaker 2: holidays you've been on, the Christmases, and then eventually they 1674 01:20:54,372 --> 01:20:56,933 Speaker 2: move out. And I always knew this was coming, that 1675 01:20:57,053 --> 01:20:59,372 Speaker 2: my son was going to move out, obviously, I mean, 1676 01:20:59,572 --> 01:21:01,572 Speaker 2: it's a terrible situation. If they never do, you'd worry 1677 01:21:01,612 --> 01:21:04,492 Speaker 2: about it. He's gone into his university hostel. But later, 1678 01:21:04,572 --> 01:21:08,173 Speaker 2: for whatever reason, then some of the other kids have 1679 01:21:08,412 --> 01:21:13,532 Speaker 2: gone into hostels. And I was just absolutely blown away 1680 01:21:14,053 --> 01:21:17,013 Speaker 2: and surprised how hard it hit me when I was 1681 01:21:17,133 --> 01:21:20,572 Speaker 2: carrying his stuff up to his dorm room and then 1682 01:21:21,532 --> 01:21:24,973 Speaker 2: said goodbye and left him there. I was just it 1683 01:21:25,093 --> 01:21:27,933 Speaker 2: was like there was a hole in Daddy's heart. I 1684 01:21:28,013 --> 01:21:30,652 Speaker 2: haven't felt like that. I don't think i'd felt like 1685 01:21:30,732 --> 01:21:33,213 Speaker 2: that since my mom passed. In terms of just the 1686 01:21:34,013 --> 01:21:39,133 Speaker 2: intense sadness. It was so weird, and so why is that? 1687 01:21:40,013 --> 01:21:41,612 Speaker 2: Why is it? How do you deal with it? Is 1688 01:21:41,652 --> 01:21:44,692 Speaker 2: it just me being weak? And it got me thinking, 1689 01:21:44,732 --> 01:21:47,492 Speaker 2: you know, it feels like it almost like a grieving process. 1690 01:21:47,532 --> 01:21:49,812 Speaker 2: Even though your kid's there and they're fine and they're healthy, 1691 01:21:50,853 --> 01:21:55,093 Speaker 2: and you know, it feels like it's just such a 1692 01:21:55,213 --> 01:21:58,253 Speaker 2: range of emotions some loss. Is it just because that 1693 01:21:58,532 --> 01:22:01,053 Speaker 2: part of your life is over and you're moving on 1694 01:22:01,173 --> 01:22:02,772 Speaker 2: to Well, it's not over. I've still got another sun 1695 01:22:02,812 --> 01:22:04,812 Speaker 2: a couple of years with them, but that's coming and 1696 01:22:04,853 --> 01:22:07,412 Speaker 2: you're moving into a different stage of your life. It's 1697 01:22:07,612 --> 01:22:11,893 Speaker 2: very the sadness and even a sort of kind of 1698 01:22:12,013 --> 01:22:15,013 Speaker 2: anxiety about what it is that you are now. If 1699 01:22:15,053 --> 01:22:17,532 Speaker 2: your kids can look after themselves, then what are you? 1700 01:22:17,772 --> 01:22:20,532 Speaker 2: If you've defined yourself by being a parent. You know, 1701 01:22:20,652 --> 01:22:24,852 Speaker 2: everything you do, working your weekends, so much of your 1702 01:22:24,893 --> 01:22:27,772 Speaker 2: life is focused on your kids and your kids and 1703 01:22:27,812 --> 01:22:29,812 Speaker 2: their well being, and then that focus is going to 1704 01:22:29,893 --> 01:22:32,013 Speaker 2: be taken away. So how do you deal with it? 1705 01:22:32,532 --> 01:22:37,812 Speaker 2: Supplementary question? Are we just setting ourselves up for hurt 1706 01:22:37,893 --> 01:22:41,133 Speaker 2: by being so close to our kids. Is it better 1707 01:22:41,173 --> 01:22:42,852 Speaker 2: to be like parents of old with they had some 1708 01:22:42,973 --> 01:22:46,612 Speaker 2: distance from their kids, because we're just so focused on 1709 01:22:46,652 --> 01:22:50,572 Speaker 2: their lives and we become so involved in everything. Whereas 1710 01:22:50,652 --> 01:22:54,932 Speaker 2: you know, parents of you know, previous generations just sort 1711 01:22:54,933 --> 01:22:55,852 Speaker 2: of hardly knew their kids. 1712 01:22:55,893 --> 01:22:58,372 Speaker 3: There was an emotional shield there you'd like to think 1713 01:22:58,412 --> 01:22:59,932 Speaker 3: to try and protect them from that a little bit. 1714 01:23:00,293 --> 01:23:04,532 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, mate, I can't comprehend because I am not 1715 01:23:04,652 --> 01:23:07,572 Speaker 3: a parent, but as you've just explained that they're eighteen 1716 01:23:07,732 --> 01:23:11,092 Speaker 3: years of raising this little human being, and every moment 1717 01:23:11,652 --> 01:23:14,692 Speaker 3: of his life you were therefore and your experience with him, 1718 01:23:15,372 --> 01:23:18,253 Speaker 3: I can imagine that you know now he has flown 1719 01:23:18,293 --> 01:23:23,212 Speaker 3: the coop, as they say, would be an incredibly strange 1720 01:23:23,293 --> 01:23:25,812 Speaker 3: and hard thing for every parent to deal with at 1721 01:23:25,853 --> 01:23:28,692 Speaker 3: some stage. You know, they call it the empty nest syndrome. 1722 01:23:28,772 --> 01:23:32,932 Speaker 3: But I think that is scientifically a moment that does 1723 01:23:34,293 --> 01:23:35,692 Speaker 3: cause a lot of anxiety for parents. 1724 01:23:35,732 --> 01:23:37,893 Speaker 2: But it doesn't make sense because they're still healthy and 1725 01:23:37,933 --> 01:23:39,893 Speaker 2: they're living their life, and you wouldn't want them to 1726 01:23:40,013 --> 01:23:42,293 Speaker 2: just stay with you forever. As I was saying before, 1727 01:23:42,333 --> 01:23:43,932 Speaker 2: why is it such a punch in the heart? 1728 01:23:44,452 --> 01:23:44,652 Speaker 7: Yeah? 1729 01:23:44,732 --> 01:23:47,412 Speaker 2: Why is it such a smack in the in the 1730 01:23:49,973 --> 01:23:53,612 Speaker 2: in your perception of reality? Even Matt, it's happening to 1731 01:23:53,692 --> 01:23:56,333 Speaker 2: me three times, losing your son to university. It's the 1732 01:23:56,333 --> 01:23:58,333 Speaker 2: saddest day of your life, but at the same time 1733 01:23:58,452 --> 01:24:01,772 Speaker 2: the proudest. That's nice. Yeah, that's from uzz oh. 1734 01:24:01,732 --> 01:24:04,213 Speaker 3: Eight hundred eighty ten eighty if you can help out. 1735 01:24:04,293 --> 01:24:06,612 Speaker 3: Matt here love to hear from you and just your 1736 01:24:06,612 --> 01:24:09,333 Speaker 3: own experiences of kids leaving home? How did you feel? 1737 01:24:09,333 --> 01:24:11,972 Speaker 3: How did you deal with that? Nine two nine two 1738 01:24:12,013 --> 01:24:12,812 Speaker 3: is the text number. 1739 01:24:13,053 --> 01:24:18,772 Speaker 2: Am I just weak? Soft and empathetic And the problem 1740 01:24:18,853 --> 01:24:22,173 Speaker 2: with our society at the moment where we're just too 1741 01:24:22,412 --> 01:24:26,133 Speaker 2: focused on our kids and two riding the wave of 1742 01:24:26,173 --> 01:24:27,412 Speaker 2: their emotions. 1743 01:24:27,372 --> 01:24:27,532 Speaker 8: You know. 1744 01:24:27,893 --> 01:24:30,492 Speaker 2: Yeah. And also, no one tell my son that I'm 1745 01:24:30,532 --> 01:24:31,692 Speaker 2: saying this. He'll lose respects for me. 1746 01:24:31,732 --> 01:24:34,293 Speaker 3: I'm glad you said it, mate, right And eighty ten 1747 01:24:34,372 --> 01:24:37,133 Speaker 3: eighty is the number to coo. It is twelve past three, 1748 01:24:38,452 --> 01:24:40,652 Speaker 3: good afternoon. It is a quarter past three. 1749 01:24:40,893 --> 01:24:42,652 Speaker 2: This text on nineteen nine two. Glad to hear your 1750 01:24:42,652 --> 01:24:44,852 Speaker 2: comment about your son moving out. I'm a mom to 1751 01:24:45,013 --> 01:24:48,013 Speaker 2: five sons. My baby, my youngest son, has just moved out. 1752 01:24:48,053 --> 01:24:50,452 Speaker 2: I am just like you, shat it. It's horrific. I 1753 01:24:50,532 --> 01:24:53,532 Speaker 2: have done a lot of googling. It's actually it termed 1754 01:24:53,532 --> 01:24:56,812 Speaker 2: as grieving. Just driving home past the bakery, thought oh, 1755 01:24:56,893 --> 01:24:59,772 Speaker 2: I'll stop and get Fergus a pancake. Then it really 1756 01:24:59,853 --> 01:25:02,372 Speaker 2: hit no, I won't because he's gone, And I promptly 1757 01:25:02,412 --> 01:25:04,532 Speaker 2: burst into tears. I hate to tell you. It never 1758 01:25:04,572 --> 01:25:07,253 Speaker 2: gets easier. It's just a form of grief. 1759 01:25:08,572 --> 01:25:12,852 Speaker 3: Yeah, thanks Karen. This one's slightly more optimistic. Don't panic, Matt, 1760 01:25:12,973 --> 01:25:15,412 Speaker 3: kids never leave us. You will start to enjoy the 1761 01:25:15,492 --> 01:25:17,333 Speaker 3: time of part and when he comes back home nothing 1762 01:25:17,372 --> 01:25:19,492 Speaker 3: will have changed. Enjoy the moments. And this is a 1763 01:25:19,572 --> 01:25:20,572 Speaker 3: mum talking from Joe. 1764 01:25:20,692 --> 01:25:23,333 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, there you go. Don't worry, Matt. They'll be 1765 01:25:23,412 --> 01:25:26,692 Speaker 2: back to rage. Don't worry Matt, They'll be back to 1766 01:25:26,853 --> 01:25:29,333 Speaker 2: raid your fridge. Yeah, boy, oh boy. I used to 1767 01:25:29,412 --> 01:25:31,452 Speaker 2: go back and just basically with my bag and just 1768 01:25:31,652 --> 01:25:34,213 Speaker 2: unleash cans of food into my bag and leave again, 1769 01:25:34,293 --> 01:25:36,492 Speaker 2: and the bag of laundry with you. And you know 1770 01:25:36,612 --> 01:25:38,572 Speaker 2: what the funny thing is, I would I would be 1771 01:25:38,612 --> 01:25:41,412 Speaker 2: happy for that. I'll stop that. I'll stock the cupboards 1772 01:25:41,572 --> 01:25:43,173 Speaker 2: just to be for my kids to come home and 1773 01:25:43,452 --> 01:25:46,812 Speaker 2: empty them into their bags. Yeah that's nice, Pete. Welcome 1774 01:25:46,812 --> 01:25:47,173 Speaker 2: to the show. 1775 01:25:48,652 --> 01:25:49,412 Speaker 7: Oh hi, hi. 1776 01:25:49,652 --> 01:25:52,892 Speaker 16: I'm going to fill a situation as you just one 1777 01:25:52,973 --> 01:25:55,812 Speaker 16: year apart. My oldest boy went down to a tago 1778 01:25:55,973 --> 01:25:58,452 Speaker 16: last year, and I have one other boy who's in 1779 01:25:58,532 --> 01:26:00,572 Speaker 16: his last year at school, and he'll probably heap down 1780 01:26:00,612 --> 01:26:03,772 Speaker 16: there next year. So I had some of the feelings 1781 01:26:03,853 --> 01:26:06,772 Speaker 16: as you. And my oldest boy is CX, so he 1782 01:26:06,973 --> 01:26:08,812 Speaker 16: was going down to the walls and how are they 1783 01:26:08,893 --> 01:26:11,452 Speaker 16: going to cope with loose and free food in the 1784 01:26:11,532 --> 01:26:16,093 Speaker 16: halls and this and that. Anyway, I think I get 1785 01:26:16,133 --> 01:26:18,932 Speaker 16: where you're coming from. But I mean, domestic flights are 1786 01:26:19,093 --> 01:26:21,772 Speaker 16: pretty cheap once you get them organized. I guess in 1787 01:26:21,893 --> 01:26:24,772 Speaker 16: thirst year, you get them home reasonably regularly. I think 1788 01:26:24,812 --> 01:26:27,852 Speaker 16: he came from home at least three times last year, 1789 01:26:27,853 --> 01:26:32,293 Speaker 16: which I thought was a bit much. But I think 1790 01:26:32,333 --> 01:26:34,333 Speaker 16: if they've gone down there with a few mates, and 1791 01:26:34,452 --> 01:26:37,572 Speaker 16: especially a few mates from their school that they attended, 1792 01:26:37,612 --> 01:26:40,293 Speaker 16: that's always good. And if you can tell that your 1793 01:26:40,372 --> 01:26:44,412 Speaker 16: kids ready to go, then then I think that's that's 1794 01:26:44,452 --> 01:26:46,932 Speaker 16: something to feel good about. You know, when you feel 1795 01:26:46,973 --> 01:26:50,053 Speaker 16: that they're ready, then it's all going, and you know, 1796 01:26:50,173 --> 01:26:51,972 Speaker 16: and you take a little trip down there. And I'll 1797 01:26:52,013 --> 01:26:54,412 Speaker 16: tell you one little funny thing. I went down to 1798 01:26:54,492 --> 01:26:56,812 Speaker 16: see them, and I was waiting in reception of the 1799 01:26:56,893 --> 01:27:00,333 Speaker 16: halls there and the target, and I had a look 1800 01:27:00,372 --> 01:27:03,772 Speaker 16: on the bench on reception and on the left there 1801 01:27:03,893 --> 01:27:06,213 Speaker 16: was a box of condoms and that Dan Loup and 1802 01:27:06,293 --> 01:27:08,093 Speaker 16: it said help yourself. And on the right of that 1803 01:27:08,452 --> 01:27:11,173 Speaker 16: was a stack of the Holy Bible, and I just 1804 01:27:11,253 --> 01:27:14,053 Speaker 16: thought that, and I thought that was quite home on it. 1805 01:27:15,933 --> 01:27:16,772 Speaker 2: Which way are you going to go? 1806 01:27:18,133 --> 01:27:18,652 Speaker 5: But that's it? 1807 01:27:18,893 --> 01:27:20,812 Speaker 16: Or you take one of each and hopes and the 1808 01:27:20,893 --> 01:27:25,013 Speaker 16: best and that that's your little contession afterwards. 1809 01:27:25,053 --> 01:27:29,812 Speaker 2: But that's triggering for parents. You're arriving and you see them, yeah. 1810 01:27:32,772 --> 01:27:34,692 Speaker 16: Yeah, And I think, to be honest, in this sort 1811 01:27:34,692 --> 01:27:37,052 Speaker 16: of economy we've got, the people are losing their jobs, 1812 01:27:37,333 --> 01:27:39,572 Speaker 16: it's always a blessing, especially if you've been to union 1813 01:27:39,612 --> 01:27:41,973 Speaker 16: yourself in your younger days like I have. It's so 1814 01:27:42,093 --> 01:27:44,532 Speaker 16: important to have an education. So if you've if you've 1815 01:27:44,572 --> 01:27:47,013 Speaker 16: got your kids to this point of life where they're 1816 01:27:47,053 --> 01:27:49,772 Speaker 16: down there and getting educated, I think that you can 1817 01:27:49,853 --> 01:27:52,173 Speaker 16: sort of sit back and quietly smile at yourself. You 1818 01:27:52,253 --> 01:27:54,692 Speaker 16: know that you've done a good job. So I think 1819 01:27:55,013 --> 01:27:57,293 Speaker 16: you can turn around all those thoughts and you know, 1820 01:27:57,372 --> 01:27:59,412 Speaker 16: I'm just get your kid home a couple of times 1821 01:27:59,492 --> 01:28:01,973 Speaker 16: during the year and bring them and seeing a few 1822 01:28:02,053 --> 01:28:04,852 Speaker 16: cure of your bags, and you know, I think it's 1823 01:28:04,893 --> 01:28:05,253 Speaker 16: all good. 1824 01:28:06,053 --> 01:28:08,093 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, good on your pa. And it's and the thing, 1825 01:28:08,572 --> 01:28:13,412 Speaker 2: it's an incredible experience for kids to go to university 1826 01:28:13,452 --> 01:28:15,893 Speaker 2: and stay in halls. How are you Because you know 1827 01:28:15,973 --> 01:28:18,452 Speaker 2: you've been under the you know you've had to do 1828 01:28:18,572 --> 01:28:22,372 Speaker 2: what you're told for so long, and you know, not 1829 01:28:22,612 --> 01:28:25,253 Speaker 2: live with your friends, and then suddenly you're living with 1830 01:28:25,333 --> 01:28:27,612 Speaker 2: an entire building of people your age. That's something you 1831 01:28:27,652 --> 01:28:29,852 Speaker 2: would never if they have Your kids are lucky enough 1832 01:28:29,893 --> 01:28:32,293 Speaker 2: to have that opportunity to do that. That's something no 1833 01:28:32,372 --> 01:28:35,173 Speaker 2: matter how much it hurts you, that's something that you 1834 01:28:35,213 --> 01:28:37,213 Speaker 2: would not want to take off them. 1835 01:28:37,293 --> 01:28:37,412 Speaker 4: Right. 1836 01:28:37,652 --> 01:28:40,012 Speaker 3: You learn a lot about life in those twelve months. 1837 01:28:40,652 --> 01:28:44,333 Speaker 3: It's for sure some lovely texts coming through. 1838 01:28:44,772 --> 01:28:46,213 Speaker 2: Oh my god, this freaks me out so much. My 1839 01:28:46,293 --> 01:28:48,013 Speaker 2: daughter is eighteen and is still at home, but we 1840 01:28:48,213 --> 01:28:50,852 Speaker 2: do everything together. We travel together, even without my husband 1841 01:28:50,933 --> 01:28:53,013 Speaker 2: being with us, as he prefers to stay at home. 1842 01:28:53,093 --> 01:28:55,732 Speaker 2: Sometimes I'm dreading the day she leaves home. I have 1843 01:28:55,853 --> 01:28:58,812 Speaker 2: told her she can always live with us, and when 1844 01:28:58,893 --> 01:29:01,372 Speaker 2: she gets a boyfriend that they could come and live 1845 01:29:01,412 --> 01:29:04,213 Speaker 2: with us too. She is my daughter and best friend, 1846 01:29:04,532 --> 01:29:06,732 Speaker 2: So this really hits home. That's kind of further to 1847 01:29:06,893 --> 01:29:10,093 Speaker 2: my point, because your kids are now friends, and you know, 1848 01:29:10,213 --> 01:29:12,053 Speaker 2: and people say that with kids, they're not supposed to 1849 01:29:12,053 --> 01:29:13,572 Speaker 2: be friends. Theyre supposed to be the difference, and there 1850 01:29:13,692 --> 01:29:15,852 Speaker 2: is because you can't just out order your friends to 1851 01:29:17,093 --> 01:29:19,652 Speaker 2: do the dishes or so your friends aren't constantly asking 1852 01:29:19,692 --> 01:29:21,333 Speaker 2: you for money. Well some of them are, some of them, 1853 01:29:22,213 --> 01:29:25,173 Speaker 2: But because we get so close to them now that 1854 01:29:25,253 --> 01:29:28,772 Speaker 2: I think, I think it hits us a little bit harder. Greg, 1855 01:29:29,492 --> 01:29:32,772 Speaker 2: you've experienced this, how are you? 1856 01:29:32,893 --> 01:29:38,253 Speaker 20: Guys? Yere one hundred percent. It actually felt because my 1857 01:29:38,412 --> 01:29:41,972 Speaker 20: daughter went down to the deed and she went into 1858 01:29:42,053 --> 01:29:45,852 Speaker 20: the halls. But the first three weeks month it felt 1859 01:29:45,973 --> 01:29:51,372 Speaker 20: like someone had died, as someone had left and I 1860 01:29:51,452 --> 01:29:55,612 Speaker 20: couldn't get anywhere near her. She was really was really tough. 1861 01:29:56,213 --> 01:29:58,772 Speaker 20: It was really tough for me anyway, me and my wife, 1862 01:29:58,893 --> 01:30:02,213 Speaker 20: we were both struggling with it. She's now now, do 1863 01:30:02,412 --> 01:30:05,413 Speaker 20: you know she's she's now back from UNI, she's embroided, 1864 01:30:05,492 --> 01:30:09,293 Speaker 20: she's living close. So both for their is month maybe 1865 01:30:09,372 --> 01:30:13,013 Speaker 20: two months. Oh lord, Yeah, I thought it was just 1866 01:30:13,093 --> 01:30:13,892 Speaker 20: ripped my heart apart. 1867 01:30:14,412 --> 01:30:19,133 Speaker 2: Yeah, it is a stap on it and it surprises 1868 01:30:19,213 --> 01:30:21,892 Speaker 2: you how much it hits you. It As a couple 1869 01:30:21,973 --> 01:30:24,452 Speaker 2: of people have said, it's kind of like a grieving process. 1870 01:30:25,772 --> 01:30:28,452 Speaker 20: Oh exactly, that's how I thought. I felt that I 1871 01:30:28,732 --> 01:30:32,213 Speaker 20: had lost a very important part of my life and 1872 01:30:32,853 --> 01:30:35,333 Speaker 20: then someone that was very important to me. I couldn't 1873 01:30:35,412 --> 01:30:39,333 Speaker 20: handle it. I didn't know how to handle it. And 1874 01:30:39,412 --> 01:30:41,132 Speaker 20: it's kind of kind of struggle. 1875 01:30:41,213 --> 01:30:43,133 Speaker 2: It's kind of your whole purposes, and it's not your 1876 01:30:43,133 --> 01:30:45,093 Speaker 2: whole purpose, but it's a big part of your purpose. 1877 01:30:45,133 --> 01:30:46,893 Speaker 2: You've had this period of your life with this is 1878 01:30:46,933 --> 01:30:48,852 Speaker 2: what you do, and it's very clear, and it's very 1879 01:30:48,933 --> 01:30:51,213 Speaker 2: focused on your kids. And then you're looking at the 1880 01:30:51,293 --> 01:30:52,892 Speaker 2: other part of your life and you go, well, I'm 1881 01:30:52,893 --> 01:30:55,492 Speaker 2: going to have to reconstruct a whole new set of 1882 01:30:55,732 --> 01:30:59,732 Speaker 2: things and you know, goals now the kids. 1883 01:31:01,452 --> 01:31:05,532 Speaker 20: One hundred because you know, we were I wouldn't say 1884 01:31:05,572 --> 01:31:09,532 Speaker 20: that we're helicopter pearance, but I definitely you know, we're invested, 1885 01:31:09,973 --> 01:31:12,293 Speaker 20: and we invested a lot of time and energy to 1886 01:31:12,452 --> 01:31:16,293 Speaker 20: support her in her college and is sporting and with 1887 01:31:16,652 --> 01:31:21,932 Speaker 20: both our children, with given a lot at all the games, everything, 1888 01:31:22,093 --> 01:31:24,452 Speaker 20: just making them a part of our life. Well, they're 1889 01:31:24,452 --> 01:31:27,412 Speaker 20: a part, they are our life. We're trying to empower 1890 01:31:27,492 --> 01:31:30,013 Speaker 20: them to be the best that they can be. And 1891 01:31:30,213 --> 01:31:32,812 Speaker 20: then they go away and you think, what do I do? 1892 01:31:34,093 --> 01:31:37,492 Speaker 2: What do I do you know, And what you did 1893 01:31:37,652 --> 01:31:39,812 Speaker 2: was exactly what you need to do. You made someone 1894 01:31:39,893 --> 01:31:42,892 Speaker 2: that's competent to go out on their own, because if 1895 01:31:42,973 --> 01:31:44,933 Speaker 2: you did do that, and you would start if they 1896 01:31:45,333 --> 01:31:48,572 Speaker 2: stayed and they remained being really really dependent on you 1897 01:31:48,692 --> 01:31:52,093 Speaker 2: into their twenties and thirties, then you would start to think, 1898 01:31:52,293 --> 01:31:55,053 Speaker 2: I've got this wrong. So the fact that they are 1899 01:31:55,133 --> 01:31:57,492 Speaker 2: willing to go out on their own is kind of success, 1900 01:31:57,652 --> 01:32:00,253 Speaker 2: even though it's a massive as you say, ripping of 1901 01:32:00,293 --> 01:32:03,052 Speaker 2: your heart out and being stopped on on the floor. 1902 01:32:03,253 --> 01:32:05,893 Speaker 16: Painful, Yeah, painful, painful as what it was. 1903 01:32:06,133 --> 01:32:08,213 Speaker 2: Well, I hear you, brother, I hear it. 1904 01:32:10,293 --> 01:32:13,053 Speaker 20: So as yours. Your son gone down now is he 1905 01:32:13,093 --> 01:32:13,972 Speaker 20: had gone to the halls? 1906 01:32:14,253 --> 01:32:18,053 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's gone to the hall. So that's uh yeah. 1907 01:32:18,213 --> 01:32:20,492 Speaker 3: Anyway, does it get Does it get better? Greg? Tell 1908 01:32:20,572 --> 01:32:21,293 Speaker 3: man it gets better? 1909 01:32:21,532 --> 01:32:21,812 Speaker 7: Surry? 1910 01:32:21,973 --> 01:32:22,692 Speaker 3: Does it get better? 1911 01:32:23,532 --> 01:32:24,412 Speaker 17: It does? 1912 01:32:24,692 --> 01:32:27,812 Speaker 20: It does get better. But I think you know, it 1913 01:32:27,973 --> 01:32:30,732 Speaker 20: takes a little time, you know, and if they have 1914 01:32:31,013 --> 01:32:33,652 Speaker 20: can make contact with you, it's just like a little 1915 01:32:33,812 --> 01:32:37,133 Speaker 20: thread of hope that they do still care about you. 1916 01:32:37,812 --> 01:32:42,492 Speaker 20: But ours was just total well yeah, no contact as 1917 01:32:43,253 --> 01:32:43,612 Speaker 20: what we. 1918 01:32:43,692 --> 01:32:44,852 Speaker 4: Do, yeah we do. 1919 01:32:45,173 --> 01:32:48,053 Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you, thank you for call Greg and all 1920 01:32:48,093 --> 01:32:50,812 Speaker 2: the best with that this text, it takes the opposing view. 1921 01:32:51,213 --> 01:32:53,213 Speaker 2: Stop being a pussy Matt, where do you think he's 1922 01:32:53,253 --> 01:32:55,572 Speaker 2: going to go in eight weeks time for semester break, 1923 01:32:55,732 --> 01:32:57,093 Speaker 2: enjoy the lower grocery balls. 1924 01:32:57,133 --> 01:33:00,093 Speaker 3: Will you can go on, Charlie, Thank you appreciate that. 1925 01:33:01,133 --> 01:33:03,732 Speaker 3: One hundred eighty eighty is the number to call and 1926 01:33:03,973 --> 01:33:06,692 Speaker 3: nine to nine two is the text number. We'll get 1927 01:33:06,732 --> 01:33:08,972 Speaker 3: into more of your funkals very surely. It is twenty 1928 01:33:09,093 --> 01:33:10,092 Speaker 3: three pass three. 1929 01:33:14,333 --> 01:33:16,492 Speaker 4: Matt Heathen Tyler Adams afternoons. 1930 01:33:16,652 --> 01:33:19,053 Speaker 1: Call oh, eight hundred and eighty ten eighty on Youth 1931 01:33:19,133 --> 01:33:20,732 Speaker 1: Talk ZB afternoon. 1932 01:33:20,853 --> 01:33:24,692 Speaker 3: It is twenty six pass three and we're talking about 1933 01:33:24,812 --> 01:33:28,133 Speaker 3: empty nest syndrome, if you will, on the back of Matt, 1934 01:33:28,333 --> 01:33:30,012 Speaker 3: a situation you had over the weekends. 1935 01:33:30,253 --> 01:33:33,452 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, my son's moved out. It's normal to feel 1936 01:33:33,492 --> 01:33:35,532 Speaker 2: that way, but it will pass. It's always a great 1937 01:33:35,572 --> 01:33:38,093 Speaker 2: feeling to see your kids growing up and starting their 1938 01:33:38,093 --> 01:33:40,852 Speaker 2: adult lives. Believe me, as far from the end. All 1939 01:33:41,013 --> 01:33:43,692 Speaker 2: my adult kids still check in for all sorts of 1940 01:33:44,333 --> 01:33:47,253 Speaker 2: advice or a chat. I still worry about them, but 1941 01:33:47,532 --> 01:33:50,652 Speaker 2: I'm enjoying the empty nest too. You and your partner 1942 01:33:50,652 --> 01:33:52,893 Speaker 2: will find the new freedoms around the house and the 1943 01:33:53,053 --> 01:33:56,372 Speaker 2: quiet parts ones like a revival of your youth and marriage. 1944 01:33:56,893 --> 01:34:00,092 Speaker 2: They often come back home haha, just when you're getting 1945 01:34:00,173 --> 01:34:02,213 Speaker 2: used to good tear. 1946 01:34:02,333 --> 01:34:02,492 Speaker 8: Yeah. 1947 01:34:02,572 --> 01:34:04,572 Speaker 2: But I think it's more of an existential thing than 1948 01:34:04,612 --> 01:34:07,732 Speaker 2: even the logic. So people say, you know, you can 1949 01:34:07,772 --> 01:34:09,412 Speaker 2: see them, they'll come back and all that kind of stuff. 1950 01:34:09,532 --> 01:34:12,893 Speaker 2: But I think what it is is it's a realizing 1951 01:34:12,973 --> 01:34:16,893 Speaker 2: that you have to change your focus. It's sort of 1952 01:34:16,893 --> 01:34:20,652 Speaker 2: an existential you know, what's what's the point, what's the 1953 01:34:20,692 --> 01:34:23,293 Speaker 2: next thing, What's what's what's going to provide the meaning 1954 01:34:23,372 --> 01:34:25,253 Speaker 2: in your life? Yeah? Because that because you know, there's 1955 01:34:25,253 --> 01:34:26,972 Speaker 2: lots of ways to find meaning in life, and people 1956 01:34:27,013 --> 01:34:30,812 Speaker 2: that don't necessarily have the children might find a different meaning. 1957 01:34:30,893 --> 01:34:33,772 Speaker 2: But when you've got kids, they become your meaning in life. 1958 01:34:34,053 --> 01:34:36,652 Speaker 2: And so when they can look after themselves, then your 1959 01:34:36,732 --> 01:34:38,812 Speaker 2: meaning of looking after them. You know, are you searching 1960 01:34:38,812 --> 01:34:39,892 Speaker 2: around for a new thing? Now? 1961 01:34:40,013 --> 01:34:41,973 Speaker 3: I can understand that, Oh, one hundred and eighty ten 1962 01:34:42,053 --> 01:34:46,852 Speaker 3: eighty is the number to call critikes to here. Matt 1963 01:34:46,893 --> 01:34:48,972 Speaker 3: I had the same experience. Didn't cry when we dropped 1964 01:34:49,013 --> 01:34:51,213 Speaker 3: her off at Uni, but the minute she turned to 1965 01:34:51,293 --> 01:34:54,133 Speaker 3: go back inside. The floodgates opened up. Cried all the 1966 01:34:54,253 --> 01:34:56,572 Speaker 3: flight home. My other daughter thought I was a lunatic, 1967 01:34:56,933 --> 01:34:58,892 Speaker 3: then cried every time she came home and left again. 1968 01:34:58,973 --> 01:35:00,213 Speaker 3: Just shows how much we love them. 1969 01:35:00,293 --> 01:35:02,572 Speaker 2: The sex is said. The reason why you're concerned about it, Matt, 1970 01:35:02,652 --> 01:35:06,652 Speaker 2: is because you've been fired. That's true, you've been fired 1971 01:35:06,812 --> 01:35:11,333 Speaker 2: from your job. That yeah, don't worry about being sad 1972 01:35:11,372 --> 01:35:13,852 Speaker 2: with your son leaving home. I went through that. They 1973 01:35:13,933 --> 01:35:17,892 Speaker 2: come home and you'll appreciate, appreciate each other all the more. 1974 01:35:17,973 --> 01:35:21,532 Speaker 2: Thanks for that, nice mark, oh Marus, welcome to show. 1975 01:35:21,572 --> 01:35:23,532 Speaker 2: How are you very good? 1976 01:35:23,652 --> 01:35:35,013 Speaker 8: Board Crime River. It's just often wont seen nonsense. We 1977 01:35:35,213 --> 01:35:37,253 Speaker 8: a brewery rights go to the boarders full of the 1978 01:35:37,333 --> 01:35:40,652 Speaker 8: first WoT you're never coming home before hollidays. You know 1979 01:35:40,692 --> 01:35:42,412 Speaker 8: you've got the hand that the repirement thring. 1980 01:35:42,293 --> 01:35:42,652 Speaker 4: It up. 1981 01:35:45,253 --> 01:35:45,412 Speaker 15: Like this. 1982 01:35:45,933 --> 01:35:46,972 Speaker 2: This is what I need, Mars. 1983 01:35:47,053 --> 01:35:48,212 Speaker 3: I need to be a rackup. 1984 01:35:48,333 --> 01:35:50,333 Speaker 2: I need to be taken down and I need. 1985 01:35:50,253 --> 01:35:50,412 Speaker 4: To be. 1986 01:35:52,572 --> 01:35:54,213 Speaker 8: You gotta because he's going to lead to be a 1987 01:35:54,253 --> 01:35:55,812 Speaker 8: broke he's got to learn to be with his mate. 1988 01:35:55,812 --> 01:35:57,812 Speaker 8: Ting it can't have a beer, not worried about the 1989 01:35:57,853 --> 01:36:00,213 Speaker 8: old man being a woman. Oh, you can't do that. 1990 01:36:00,372 --> 01:36:02,572 Speaker 8: You can't do that plan to be responsible. He's going 1991 01:36:02,612 --> 01:36:04,692 Speaker 8: to have the year when he goes and being the 1992 01:36:04,732 --> 01:36:08,173 Speaker 8: broat and that's here we grow up. We ordered this 1993 01:36:09,333 --> 01:36:15,732 Speaker 8: and now you were saying a mob bro and you 1994 01:36:15,853 --> 01:36:18,732 Speaker 8: know what you only I'll tell you what you do. 1995 01:36:19,532 --> 01:36:21,333 Speaker 8: On a Sunday, you come out for who are by 1996 01:36:21,452 --> 01:36:23,412 Speaker 8: Kevin with me at three o'clock watch the man. 1997 01:36:23,492 --> 01:36:24,932 Speaker 3: The have a couple of beers and you won't want 1998 01:36:24,933 --> 01:36:28,492 Speaker 3: your morey back to shoreation. Go and drink with Morris. 1999 01:36:28,572 --> 01:36:30,293 Speaker 2: I'll take you out and I. 2000 01:36:30,293 --> 01:36:31,973 Speaker 8: Can then iss a hole on the bloat to being 2001 01:36:32,133 --> 01:36:33,932 Speaker 8: with to say without cheering on the kids to stay 2002 01:36:33,933 --> 01:36:36,412 Speaker 8: at university, taper thing you'll ever do. 2003 01:36:36,652 --> 01:36:38,892 Speaker 3: But Morris, just quickly, you've you've had a bit of practice, 2004 01:36:38,893 --> 01:36:41,052 Speaker 3: even't you. Don't you have about thirty two kids from memory? 2005 01:36:41,372 --> 01:36:43,333 Speaker 8: Oh we've got we've got thirty kids and just got 2006 01:36:43,372 --> 01:36:46,532 Speaker 8: a new one. So that's some immer fourteen. And all 2007 01:36:46,572 --> 01:36:48,532 Speaker 8: the kids go to boarding Shoul because we're a commonly 2008 01:36:48,572 --> 01:36:50,372 Speaker 8: farming brewery, so they all go to boarding Sohoul on 2009 01:36:50,412 --> 01:36:53,452 Speaker 8: the third fourth and anybody wants that good education and 2010 01:36:53,492 --> 01:36:55,732 Speaker 8: great life, they go to But you can still go 2011 01:36:55,853 --> 01:36:58,052 Speaker 8: watch and do the sports. You have them every weekend. 2012 01:36:58,253 --> 01:37:00,532 Speaker 8: You know, it's not the end of the world in 2013 01:37:00,893 --> 01:37:02,973 Speaker 8: in I think the biggest thing with children to be 2014 01:37:03,412 --> 01:37:05,173 Speaker 8: why all these two girls are thirty two now they 2015 01:37:05,253 --> 01:37:07,892 Speaker 8: oughtoped it thirty wants at GP and in Melbourne they've 2016 01:37:07,933 --> 01:37:10,572 Speaker 8: quite got for themselves. Yeah, And what we tend to 2017 01:37:10,612 --> 01:37:14,852 Speaker 8: do is getting to Molly Coddlement who fell over. So 2018 01:37:15,013 --> 01:37:16,012 Speaker 8: what he gets to the picture? 2019 01:37:17,412 --> 01:37:18,893 Speaker 2: Thank you for you call Morris And I think you 2020 01:37:18,973 --> 01:37:22,932 Speaker 2: know but that I think this is something about parents 2021 01:37:22,973 --> 01:37:24,932 Speaker 2: today as we also have less kids than Missie Morris, 2022 01:37:24,973 --> 01:37:27,293 Speaker 2: and you have over a thousand children and a new one, 2023 01:37:28,652 --> 01:37:32,093 Speaker 2: so maybe you get you know, if you've just got 2024 01:37:32,253 --> 01:37:34,173 Speaker 2: two and they go, well, it's a bit different than 2025 01:37:34,213 --> 01:37:36,133 Speaker 2: if you've got if you've got you know, back in 2026 01:37:36,173 --> 01:37:38,452 Speaker 2: the day when eveone had five, six seven, you'll be like, 2027 01:37:38,492 --> 01:37:40,812 Speaker 2: get out of the house. Yes, Cross, I don't even 2028 01:37:40,812 --> 01:37:42,732 Speaker 2: know what. I don't even know the six one's name. 2029 01:37:44,372 --> 01:37:46,772 Speaker 3: Oh, eight hundred eighty ten eighty is the number to call. 2030 01:37:46,893 --> 01:37:48,692 Speaker 3: Text number is nine to ninety two. 2031 01:37:48,933 --> 01:37:51,372 Speaker 2: They met Entyl the Great Show. Interesting subject which currently 2032 01:37:51,532 --> 01:37:53,532 Speaker 2: is very close to my heart. You're right, man, having 2033 01:37:53,853 --> 01:37:56,253 Speaker 2: great relations with your kids and giving them confidence to 2034 01:37:56,333 --> 01:37:58,412 Speaker 2: go out and explore the world ends up breaking your 2035 01:37:58,452 --> 01:38:01,532 Speaker 2: own heart. Our oldest son headed overseas to live this year. 2036 01:38:01,893 --> 01:38:04,532 Speaker 2: We were handling the co ka as we have our 2037 01:38:04,652 --> 01:38:08,052 Speaker 2: daughter and youngest sons still in town. But our youngest 2038 01:38:08,053 --> 01:38:10,492 Speaker 2: six ten year old and expentively received a scholarship to 2039 01:38:10,532 --> 01:38:15,213 Speaker 2: a tender and sorry a scholarship and has set it 2040 01:38:15,253 --> 01:38:15,692 Speaker 2: off as well. 2041 01:38:16,492 --> 01:38:19,412 Speaker 3: Yeah, great text nine two ninety two. Is that number 2042 01:38:19,452 --> 01:38:21,572 Speaker 3: four wants in the text if you want to give 2043 01:38:21,652 --> 01:38:23,532 Speaker 3: us a buzz or eight hundred and eighty ten eighty 2044 01:38:23,692 --> 01:38:26,492 Speaker 3: is the number to call? It is twenty nine to four. 2045 01:38:26,612 --> 01:38:28,133 Speaker 2: So I kind of agree with Morris and I think 2046 01:38:28,612 --> 01:38:30,412 Speaker 2: I'll be fine and I need a hard a nut. 2047 01:38:30,452 --> 01:38:32,532 Speaker 2: But if I hear the song Father and Son by 2048 01:38:32,612 --> 01:38:36,812 Speaker 2: Kat Stevens at any time in the next next five years, 2049 01:38:36,933 --> 01:38:38,213 Speaker 2: then there could be water works. 2050 01:38:38,372 --> 01:38:40,133 Speaker 3: Right, We're going to line that up. So there's twenty 2051 01:38:40,213 --> 01:38:40,652 Speaker 3: nine toy four. 2052 01:38:43,492 --> 01:38:47,173 Speaker 12: You talks, there'd be headlines with blue bubble taxing. It's 2053 01:38:47,293 --> 01:38:50,053 Speaker 12: no trouble with a blue bubble. A street has been 2054 01:38:50,093 --> 01:38:54,053 Speaker 12: evacuated in christ Church has Sydonam with police cordon's up 2055 01:38:54,093 --> 01:38:57,692 Speaker 12: as they manage serious threats reportedly made by a person 2056 01:38:57,853 --> 01:39:01,852 Speaker 12: at a house visiting Canadian under sixteen and under eighteen 2057 01:39:01,933 --> 01:39:05,093 Speaker 12: hockey teams are in shock after being involved in a 2058 01:39:05,133 --> 01:39:09,372 Speaker 12: crash yesterday near Topoor that injured twelve. A driver is 2059 01:39:09,492 --> 01:39:13,373 Speaker 12: due in court today Pelissa asking for footage or sightings 2060 01:39:13,412 --> 01:39:17,412 Speaker 12: of four people stealing cigarettes and tobacco from an Invercargol 2061 01:39:17,532 --> 01:39:20,572 Speaker 12: store early today on North Road. They were armed with 2062 01:39:20,692 --> 01:39:25,612 Speaker 12: knives and a tire iron. A natural phenomenons caused hundreds 2063 01:39:25,652 --> 01:39:28,412 Speaker 12: of small fish to wash up on ninety Mile Beach 2064 01:39:28,532 --> 01:39:31,492 Speaker 12: this month in the far North, with dock advising caution 2065 01:39:31,652 --> 01:39:35,892 Speaker 12: on eating them without knowing when they died. Auckland Council 2066 01:39:35,973 --> 01:39:39,452 Speaker 12: will today reveal its preferred option for a national stadium, 2067 01:39:39,772 --> 01:39:43,213 Speaker 12: either upgrading Eden Park or building near Spark Arena as 2068 01:39:43,253 --> 01:39:47,812 Speaker 12: part of a bigger hospitality complex, Elon Musker's position to 2069 01:39:47,933 --> 01:39:51,772 Speaker 12: profit off billions in new US government contracts. You can 2070 01:39:51,853 --> 01:39:54,532 Speaker 12: see more at ends at Herald Premium. Now back to 2071 01:39:54,612 --> 01:39:55,852 Speaker 12: matt Ethan Tyler Adams. 2072 01:39:56,452 --> 01:39:59,652 Speaker 3: Well, today we are talking to Duly from about Health 2073 01:39:59,772 --> 01:40:03,932 Speaker 3: about nutritional supplements that can help our health. Schuley, Good 2074 01:40:03,973 --> 01:40:04,532 Speaker 3: afternoon to. 2075 01:40:04,572 --> 01:40:06,492 Speaker 4: You, Hi Tyler. 2076 01:40:06,532 --> 01:40:07,053 Speaker 23: How are you doing. 2077 01:40:07,213 --> 01:40:09,293 Speaker 3: I am great. Nice to you. Chat is always So 2078 01:40:09,412 --> 01:40:10,812 Speaker 3: what have you got for the listeners today? 2079 01:40:11,933 --> 01:40:12,133 Speaker 22: Ah? 2080 01:40:12,933 --> 01:40:14,852 Speaker 23: Well, if you to someone and there's a few people 2081 01:40:14,933 --> 01:40:16,652 Speaker 23: that I talk to like this that you know, maybe 2082 01:40:16,692 --> 01:40:19,652 Speaker 23: you're suffering with a bit of lingering fatigue, your immune 2083 01:40:19,652 --> 01:40:23,173 Speaker 23: system is a bit sluggish, You've got this ongoing inflammation, 2084 01:40:23,412 --> 01:40:26,093 Speaker 23: a bit of fuzzy thinking in the mix, and even 2085 01:40:26,133 --> 01:40:29,372 Speaker 23: some joint and muscle discomfort. You know, essentially your bodies 2086 01:40:29,372 --> 01:40:31,892 Speaker 23: face some challenges and it's just not back to where 2087 01:40:31,933 --> 01:40:34,452 Speaker 23: you want it to be functioning. Then we have got 2088 01:40:34,492 --> 01:40:37,133 Speaker 23: some natural nutritional stufflements that might just help. 2089 01:40:37,372 --> 01:40:38,133 Speaker 2: That is great news. 2090 01:40:38,173 --> 01:40:40,533 Speaker 3: So what products and your range are the most effective 2091 01:40:40,612 --> 01:40:41,972 Speaker 3: for those types of things? 2092 01:40:42,093 --> 01:40:45,452 Speaker 23: Julie, Yeah, we've got a few that can be helpful. 2093 01:40:45,492 --> 01:40:47,932 Speaker 23: But there's two standout ones and that is the life 2094 01:40:48,053 --> 01:40:51,133 Speaker 23: max in ur and the less is Oil Advanced. So 2095 01:40:51,253 --> 01:40:53,133 Speaker 23: we've talked about these a couple of times Tyler and 2096 01:40:53,173 --> 01:40:56,652 Speaker 23: how they're good for healthy aging and the ingredients in 2097 01:40:56,772 --> 01:40:59,053 Speaker 23: these supplements. The way they help with our aging is 2098 01:40:59,133 --> 01:41:02,932 Speaker 23: basically keeping our oxidative, stress and inflammation levels in our 2099 01:41:02,973 --> 01:41:05,732 Speaker 23: body in check, and that means that ourselves don't suffer 2100 01:41:05,812 --> 01:41:08,293 Speaker 23: so much damage so it sounds simple, but you know, 2101 01:41:08,933 --> 01:41:12,732 Speaker 23: basically it's helping support the body's own pathways that deal 2102 01:41:12,812 --> 01:41:17,492 Speaker 23: with excess information, cell health, new health, and overall metabolock function. 2103 01:41:17,692 --> 01:41:19,532 Speaker 23: So you know, there's lots going on, and when you 2104 01:41:19,893 --> 01:41:22,852 Speaker 23: take care of all of that, then you can experience 2105 01:41:22,933 --> 01:41:26,692 Speaker 23: things like clear thinking, more easeable movement, good energy, and 2106 01:41:26,812 --> 01:41:27,372 Speaker 23: so much more. 2107 01:41:27,492 --> 01:41:30,093 Speaker 3: All right, so they're really working right down to the 2108 01:41:30,572 --> 01:41:33,572 Speaker 3: cellular level to deliver the benefits we can feel and measure. 2109 01:41:33,772 --> 01:41:36,652 Speaker 3: And I'm sure many people will be keen on that July. 2110 01:41:36,893 --> 01:41:38,892 Speaker 3: How do the listeners get these supplements? 2111 01:41:40,333 --> 01:41:42,732 Speaker 23: Yeah, you can get these two great supplements. They are 2112 01:41:42,853 --> 01:41:46,173 Speaker 23: found in the Ultimate Healthy Aging Pack. So you save 2113 01:41:46,213 --> 01:41:47,612 Speaker 23: a bit of money when you buy them together in 2114 01:41:47,652 --> 01:41:50,013 Speaker 23: the Ultimate Healthy Aging Pack. Don't just add them to 2115 01:41:50,053 --> 01:41:52,972 Speaker 23: the car individually. Look for the Ultimate Healthy Aging Pack. 2116 01:41:53,053 --> 01:41:55,892 Speaker 23: You can save yourself sixty dollars by doing that. When 2117 01:41:55,933 --> 01:41:58,052 Speaker 23: you order, make sure that you use the code ZB 2118 01:41:58,253 --> 01:42:00,972 Speaker 23: and you'll get a free bottle of Lester's Nightcap, which 2119 01:42:01,013 --> 01:42:03,333 Speaker 23: of course helps with your sleep, which we know is 2120 01:42:03,572 --> 01:42:06,852 Speaker 23: super important. The number to call to order eight hundred, 2121 01:42:07,053 --> 01:42:08,973 Speaker 23: triple nine, three or nine, or you can order it 2122 01:42:09,013 --> 01:42:11,892 Speaker 23: the website about health dot co dot NZB. Make sure 2123 01:42:11,933 --> 01:42:14,052 Speaker 23: that you read those labels and take only as directed 2124 01:42:14,333 --> 01:42:14,972 Speaker 23: about health. 2125 01:42:14,853 --> 01:42:16,253 Speaker 3: Aalklan, Thank you, Julie. 2126 01:42:16,772 --> 01:42:20,812 Speaker 4: It's Mattie th and Tyler Adams And back to. 2127 01:42:21,093 --> 01:42:23,173 Speaker 3: The conversation we're having at the moment about the kids 2128 01:42:23,253 --> 01:42:24,293 Speaker 3: flying the coop? 2129 01:42:24,692 --> 01:42:27,572 Speaker 2: Yeah, why is it when your kids move out at home? 2130 01:42:27,652 --> 01:42:30,452 Speaker 2: Does it hit you so hard? Why is it a 2131 01:42:30,612 --> 01:42:34,173 Speaker 2: grieving process? And are we getting too close to our kids? 2132 01:42:35,652 --> 01:42:37,973 Speaker 2: Do we need to protect ourselves by keeping our distances 2133 01:42:38,093 --> 01:42:40,812 Speaker 2: as they get older. I was actually thinking about it 2134 01:42:40,853 --> 01:42:42,812 Speaker 2: and I've put my finger on it. Because what happens 2135 01:42:42,893 --> 01:42:44,932 Speaker 2: is your kids move out, they go to university. As 2136 01:42:44,973 --> 01:42:47,772 Speaker 2: this Texas says, going to UNI is only half of it. 2137 01:42:48,053 --> 01:42:49,772 Speaker 2: Wait till they finish that and want to do an 2138 01:42:49,812 --> 01:42:52,812 Speaker 2: oe my guild did that finish university at twenty and 2139 01:42:52,893 --> 01:42:55,812 Speaker 2: got a nanny job in the UK. That's when your 2140 01:42:55,933 --> 01:42:58,452 Speaker 2: mind starts to worry all the time. That's from Shane. 2141 01:42:58,492 --> 01:43:01,652 Speaker 2: That's right, because what happens is your kids go away 2142 01:43:01,893 --> 01:43:03,333 Speaker 2: and they move out when they're eighteen, if they go 2143 01:43:03,412 --> 01:43:07,133 Speaker 2: to university or whatever they do, ye, then you think, oh, 2144 01:43:07,293 --> 01:43:11,932 Speaker 2: well soon they won't be back for you know, there'll 2145 01:43:11,933 --> 01:43:13,333 Speaker 2: be a holiday where they don't come back for, and 2146 01:43:13,372 --> 01:43:14,933 Speaker 2: then there'll be a Christmas that they don't come back for, 2147 01:43:15,372 --> 01:43:18,053 Speaker 2: and then they'll have their own family, and then there'll 2148 01:43:18,053 --> 01:43:19,932 Speaker 2: be a time when that family doesn't come and you're 2149 01:43:19,973 --> 01:43:21,892 Speaker 2: just you're looking down the barrel of seeing them less 2150 01:43:21,933 --> 01:43:24,133 Speaker 2: and less and less. That's you're not going to be 2151 01:43:24,173 --> 01:43:25,612 Speaker 2: seeing them more, you know what I'm saying. 2152 01:43:25,692 --> 01:43:27,372 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're going to have to brace yourself, Mat, I 2153 01:43:27,412 --> 01:43:28,572 Speaker 3: think over the next years. 2154 01:43:31,173 --> 01:43:35,452 Speaker 2: Welcome to the show. Hello, are you the a Tania? 2155 01:43:36,133 --> 01:43:36,293 Speaker 14: Oh? 2156 01:43:36,772 --> 01:43:38,932 Speaker 17: Sorry about that, that's. 2157 01:43:38,372 --> 01:43:38,892 Speaker 2: Quite all right. 2158 01:43:42,133 --> 01:43:46,253 Speaker 3: And Tanya, you're a single one with twins. And they 2159 01:43:46,372 --> 01:43:48,093 Speaker 3: left pretty close to each other, is that right? 2160 01:43:48,973 --> 01:43:51,452 Speaker 24: They did? Yeah, they left within two months of each other. 2161 01:43:51,812 --> 01:43:54,252 Speaker 24: So the last one left the day after my birthday. 2162 01:43:54,293 --> 01:43:56,372 Speaker 24: I said to her, please don't leave on my birthday. 2163 01:43:56,492 --> 01:44:01,253 Speaker 24: She didn't. But yeah, I totally emphathize with you, Matt. 2164 01:44:01,492 --> 01:44:02,572 Speaker 8: I know what it's like. 2165 01:44:02,692 --> 01:44:06,572 Speaker 24: There's a build up to it, you dread it, and 2166 01:44:06,652 --> 01:44:09,933 Speaker 24: then they go. I couldn't even to drive home, you know, 2167 01:44:10,013 --> 01:44:13,213 Speaker 24: I was so upset. But then you look at it 2168 01:44:13,293 --> 01:44:15,372 Speaker 24: the other way and you think if they were living 2169 01:44:15,412 --> 01:44:17,932 Speaker 24: in your basement, So they were about thirty or forte. 2170 01:44:21,452 --> 01:44:25,173 Speaker 2: Yeah, you would feel like you'd failed. That isn't there 2171 01:44:25,253 --> 01:44:27,173 Speaker 2: the saying that you know if you if you protect 2172 01:44:27,213 --> 01:44:29,092 Speaker 2: your kids too much and you hold them too close, 2173 01:44:29,213 --> 01:44:33,532 Speaker 2: then you eventually become the danger because you are they're 2174 01:44:33,572 --> 01:44:37,213 Speaker 2: not experiencing the world. Yeah, so you know you are 2175 01:44:37,293 --> 01:44:40,692 Speaker 2: kind of succeeding, aren't you, Tania? If they feel confident 2176 01:44:40,772 --> 01:44:42,452 Speaker 2: enough to go out into the world on their own. 2177 01:44:42,652 --> 01:44:45,732 Speaker 24: At a young age, Yeah, will you feel that you've 2178 01:44:46,013 --> 01:44:47,092 Speaker 24: sold as a parent. 2179 01:44:46,933 --> 01:44:47,772 Speaker 8: You've done your job. 2180 01:44:49,372 --> 01:44:51,772 Speaker 24: I think it's like, you know, a monic butterfly. If 2181 01:44:51,853 --> 01:44:55,173 Speaker 24: you were to hold them in your hand never let 2182 01:44:55,213 --> 01:44:56,692 Speaker 24: them go, they probably wouldn't come back. 2183 01:44:57,692 --> 01:45:00,973 Speaker 8: Yeah, if you just. 2184 01:45:01,013 --> 01:45:03,093 Speaker 24: Hold your hand out, they will come and land on it. 2185 01:45:03,253 --> 01:45:06,773 Speaker 24: And they do all the time. I have great relationship 2186 01:45:06,853 --> 01:45:10,572 Speaker 24: with my girls, and I know this is a hard 2187 01:45:10,692 --> 01:45:14,852 Speaker 24: time you're going through, but really, I yeah, I had 2188 01:45:14,893 --> 01:45:17,892 Speaker 24: an empty house, but now I love it. I actually 2189 01:45:17,973 --> 01:45:19,212 Speaker 24: love living by myself. 2190 01:45:19,933 --> 01:45:20,133 Speaker 4: Yeah. 2191 01:45:20,372 --> 01:45:22,972 Speaker 2: Well that's good to know. And also the other thing 2192 01:45:23,093 --> 01:45:25,532 Speaker 2: is how fun is it to be that age? I mean, 2193 01:45:25,612 --> 01:45:27,732 Speaker 2: that is just you've got to got to tell your 2194 01:45:27,812 --> 01:45:29,772 Speaker 2: kids that. You know, there's that famous saying, you know, 2195 01:45:29,893 --> 01:45:31,893 Speaker 2: the youth is wasted on the young. You got to 2196 01:45:31,893 --> 01:45:34,133 Speaker 2: have tell your kids this is this is a good 2197 01:45:34,173 --> 01:45:36,932 Speaker 2: time right now. Spending that much time with your friends 2198 01:45:36,973 --> 01:45:39,173 Speaker 2: and being out and suddenly not having someone telling you 2199 01:45:39,253 --> 01:45:41,293 Speaker 2: to the dishes all the time and clean your room 2200 01:45:41,412 --> 01:45:44,492 Speaker 2: and come home all those kinds of things. That that 2201 01:45:44,772 --> 01:45:48,772 Speaker 2: is a that is a fantastic time in your life. 2202 01:45:48,933 --> 01:45:50,052 Speaker 3: Enjoy those years. 2203 01:45:51,732 --> 01:45:52,172 Speaker 24: Exactly. 2204 01:45:52,492 --> 01:45:53,612 Speaker 3: Yeah, thanks very much. 2205 01:45:53,812 --> 01:45:58,452 Speaker 2: Unfortunately for kids, you know, late teens and early twenties 2206 01:45:58,652 --> 01:46:01,892 Speaker 2: just so riddled with emotion half the time, they don't 2207 01:46:01,973 --> 01:46:02,532 Speaker 2: enjoy it enough. 2208 01:46:03,133 --> 01:46:03,572 Speaker 3: Exactly. 2209 01:46:03,732 --> 01:46:06,893 Speaker 2: Life is that lady. I absolutely ripped it up and 2210 01:46:06,933 --> 01:46:07,173 Speaker 2: had a. 2211 01:46:07,133 --> 01:46:08,133 Speaker 3: Great time, had a great time. 2212 01:46:08,492 --> 01:46:08,692 Speaker 4: Nie. 2213 01:46:09,053 --> 01:46:11,452 Speaker 3: This is a nice text, Matt. When the last of 2214 01:46:11,652 --> 01:46:14,892 Speaker 3: our four kids left home, it allowed me to become 2215 01:46:14,973 --> 01:46:17,372 Speaker 3: the only kid in the house. Now I have great 2216 01:46:17,492 --> 01:46:20,173 Speaker 3: toys and my wife's full attention. Life is great. 2217 01:46:20,333 --> 01:46:24,452 Speaker 2: He can there you go, not to here we go. 2218 01:46:24,893 --> 01:46:26,692 Speaker 2: Don't worry about it, Matt. He'll be back. It's not 2219 01:46:26,772 --> 01:46:28,333 Speaker 2: all over yet. It will just be different. So I've 2220 01:46:28,333 --> 01:46:29,452 Speaker 2: already read that text nowt. 2221 01:46:29,412 --> 01:46:32,452 Speaker 3: But you know it stands yep, Oh, eight hundred eighty 2222 01:46:32,572 --> 01:46:34,932 Speaker 3: ten eighty is the number to call. We've got full lines. 2223 01:46:35,013 --> 01:46:38,012 Speaker 3: But keep trying if you can't get through, and we'll 2224 01:46:38,053 --> 01:46:39,893 Speaker 3: get to more of your phone calls very shortly. It 2225 01:46:40,053 --> 01:46:41,932 Speaker 3: is nineteen to four. 2226 01:46:45,213 --> 01:46:48,772 Speaker 1: Matt Heath, Taylor Adams taking your calls on eight hundred 2227 01:46:48,812 --> 01:46:51,412 Speaker 1: and eighty ten eighty Matt and Taylor afternoons with the 2228 01:46:51,532 --> 01:46:55,453 Speaker 1: Volvo XC ninety to get every box a seamless experience 2229 01:46:55,492 --> 01:46:57,012 Speaker 1: awaits news talks that'd. 2230 01:46:56,853 --> 01:47:00,932 Speaker 3: Be It is sixteen to four and some great texts 2231 01:47:01,013 --> 01:47:04,772 Speaker 3: coming through about kids leaving home for the first time and. 2232 01:47:04,772 --> 01:47:06,492 Speaker 2: The effect that has it on their parents. The stext 2233 01:47:06,492 --> 01:47:08,293 Speaker 2: is says, pathetic from you, Matt. I used to think 2234 01:47:08,452 --> 01:47:10,253 Speaker 2: you were tough. I've seen you on fire a dress 2235 01:47:10,293 --> 01:47:12,932 Speaker 2: as a monkey, and now you're crying because your son's 2236 01:47:13,013 --> 01:47:18,372 Speaker 2: left home. There's heaps of sympathy and a lot of 2237 01:47:18,772 --> 01:47:21,293 Speaker 2: abuse on me saying that my son leaving home s 2238 01:47:21,333 --> 01:47:23,612 Speaker 2: hit me in the heart, left a hole in daddy's heart. 2239 01:47:23,772 --> 01:47:25,293 Speaker 2: And you know what, both sides is helping me. 2240 01:47:25,452 --> 01:47:26,892 Speaker 3: Tough love. That's what you need right now. 2241 01:47:26,973 --> 01:47:30,212 Speaker 2: Yeah, both sides is helping out. Tell you both opinions. 2242 01:47:30,492 --> 01:47:32,253 Speaker 2: The stixter says, I must be a bad dad. My 2243 01:47:32,293 --> 01:47:34,692 Speaker 2: oldest moved out and when we had COVID came back 2244 01:47:34,732 --> 01:47:37,013 Speaker 2: and he never came back. I generally see him once 2245 01:47:37,013 --> 01:47:39,173 Speaker 2: a week. It's a pretty My other two haven't thought 2246 01:47:39,173 --> 01:47:41,372 Speaker 2: about it. They tell me they are never leaving. They're 2247 01:47:41,372 --> 01:47:44,253 Speaker 2: in the twenties, that they live next door in our rental. 2248 01:47:44,372 --> 01:47:48,172 Speaker 2: When are they going to get out? That's interesting, Lucy, 2249 01:47:48,732 --> 01:47:49,532 Speaker 2: are your thoughts on that? 2250 01:47:51,572 --> 01:47:51,692 Speaker 14: Hi? 2251 01:47:52,933 --> 01:47:56,133 Speaker 13: Yeah, I have four children that have all left home. 2252 01:47:56,412 --> 01:47:59,212 Speaker 13: In fact, they're all abroad. They're all in their twenties 2253 01:47:59,253 --> 01:48:00,492 Speaker 13: and one in the late teens. 2254 01:48:01,093 --> 01:48:03,452 Speaker 18: But it's really tough. 2255 01:48:03,692 --> 01:48:07,052 Speaker 13: It's really tough. I think sending them away to university 2256 01:48:07,213 --> 01:48:11,892 Speaker 13: definitely helps, and they come home and they appreciate home. 2257 01:48:13,013 --> 01:48:17,213 Speaker 13: I finally figured out the way to overcome empty nesting. Yes, 2258 01:48:17,853 --> 01:48:22,092 Speaker 13: it was to change my career and become a nanny. 2259 01:48:23,013 --> 01:48:25,852 Speaker 13: And for these three gorgeous boys who have filled my 2260 01:48:25,893 --> 01:48:27,652 Speaker 13: empty nest voys, Ah, you've. 2261 01:48:27,492 --> 01:48:30,933 Speaker 2: Got you've got new cuckoos in the nest I have. 2262 01:48:32,013 --> 01:48:35,092 Speaker 22: I am They're like, they're like my own children. 2263 01:48:35,173 --> 01:48:36,532 Speaker 24: I can I can treat them like. 2264 01:48:36,612 --> 01:48:40,852 Speaker 8: My own and you know, but what about help? 2265 01:48:41,053 --> 01:48:43,133 Speaker 2: But what about when they leave? Lucy? You can juste Oh, 2266 01:48:43,173 --> 01:48:45,053 Speaker 2: this is brilliant, because you're just getting new ones and 2267 01:48:45,133 --> 01:48:47,732 Speaker 2: new ones and new ones, and there's. 2268 01:48:47,612 --> 01:48:48,412 Speaker 9: Always new ones. 2269 01:48:49,173 --> 01:48:49,612 Speaker 2: Kick me out. 2270 01:48:49,692 --> 01:48:50,732 Speaker 13: I'll be kicking me out. 2271 01:48:50,973 --> 01:48:51,813 Speaker 3: Smart strategy. 2272 01:48:53,133 --> 01:48:56,133 Speaker 13: The other the other quite cunning plan that we do 2273 01:48:56,412 --> 01:48:59,293 Speaker 13: is our house that now has no children in it. 2274 01:49:00,612 --> 01:49:02,933 Speaker 13: We've rented it out upstairs and we live in the 2275 01:49:03,013 --> 01:49:05,492 Speaker 13: downstairs flat, so the children can't come home. 2276 01:49:05,812 --> 01:49:10,372 Speaker 2: It's I see right, So you've flocked them, but we can. 2277 01:49:10,652 --> 01:49:12,492 Speaker 13: We can go traveling to see them with the money 2278 01:49:12,572 --> 01:49:14,812 Speaker 13: we earned from the flat. Genius. 2279 01:49:15,013 --> 01:49:17,333 Speaker 2: You're well done, all right, thank you, Thank you for that. Lucy. 2280 01:49:17,412 --> 01:49:18,612 Speaker 2: Sounds like you're getting it sorted out. 2281 01:49:18,732 --> 01:49:22,492 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a good strategy. One or you one I 2282 01:49:22,572 --> 01:49:23,093 Speaker 3: think it is. 2283 01:49:24,973 --> 01:49:25,452 Speaker 16: Are you are right? 2284 01:49:25,572 --> 01:49:25,852 Speaker 21: Tyler? 2285 01:49:25,973 --> 01:49:26,452 Speaker 7: Well done? 2286 01:49:26,612 --> 01:49:26,812 Speaker 8: Yeah? 2287 01:49:26,933 --> 01:49:28,013 Speaker 3: Thank you? How are you? 2288 01:49:29,133 --> 01:49:33,972 Speaker 9: I'm really good mate? And get a gnat's mate, mate. 2289 01:49:35,973 --> 01:49:39,053 Speaker 9: One thing I would say is and a couple of 2290 01:49:39,133 --> 01:49:42,893 Speaker 9: texts are referred to it. It doesn't stop, right, it 2291 01:49:43,372 --> 01:49:47,492 Speaker 9: just changes. And and you know we've had We've got 2292 01:49:47,532 --> 01:49:49,812 Speaker 9: a couple of boys, both left home went off to 2293 01:49:49,933 --> 01:49:54,652 Speaker 9: university in the first year. Both times something cropped up 2294 01:49:55,013 --> 01:49:57,892 Speaker 9: you had to sort of run through with solvent, help them, 2295 01:49:58,013 --> 01:49:59,852 Speaker 9: help them solve it, and go through a problem solving 2296 01:49:59,893 --> 01:50:03,053 Speaker 9: sort of exercise. One of them went off to one 2297 01:50:03,093 --> 01:50:06,213 Speaker 9: of them went off to Rhythmandvice came back completely rinsed, 2298 01:50:06,893 --> 01:50:09,732 Speaker 9: and it was like this, he was like checking little 2299 01:50:09,772 --> 01:50:13,093 Speaker 9: so the thought the world had ended. And and you know, 2300 01:50:13,253 --> 01:50:15,293 Speaker 9: just talking them through that, having rented hmself a few 2301 01:50:15,333 --> 01:50:18,612 Speaker 9: times in the past, and and you know, just talking 2302 01:50:18,692 --> 01:50:20,412 Speaker 9: them through that and how to how to get over 2303 01:50:20,492 --> 01:50:22,093 Speaker 9: it and what to expect, and it's just a sort 2304 01:50:22,093 --> 01:50:24,572 Speaker 9: of normal. The other one had a sort of TikTok 2305 01:50:24,692 --> 01:50:28,532 Speaker 9: diagnosed medical condition that he had sort of sat on 2306 01:50:28,652 --> 01:50:30,333 Speaker 9: for a year or so, and we talked him through 2307 01:50:30,412 --> 01:50:34,293 Speaker 9: that and and and sort of gave him some tools 2308 01:50:34,333 --> 01:50:35,772 Speaker 9: to problem solve. And now it's a sort of a 2309 01:50:35,853 --> 01:50:39,013 Speaker 9: much more sort of adult relationship. We you know, get 2310 01:50:39,053 --> 01:50:42,452 Speaker 9: on in a totally different way now. So so you've 2311 01:50:42,492 --> 01:50:46,812 Speaker 9: got all that to deal with and and things will 2312 01:50:46,893 --> 01:50:48,652 Speaker 9: change and your relationship will be strong. 2313 01:50:48,973 --> 01:50:51,572 Speaker 2: There you go, all right, it's changed, and you need 2314 01:50:51,692 --> 01:50:54,293 Speaker 2: it just changes, doesn't it. Yeah, you become, you become, 2315 01:50:54,532 --> 01:50:58,133 Speaker 2: you become. You're still supporting, but you're more sort of buddies. 2316 01:50:58,412 --> 01:51:00,972 Speaker 9: Yeah yeah, more mate, more mates now we find Yeah. 2317 01:51:00,812 --> 01:51:03,412 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's cool. Thank you for that. One text A 2318 01:51:03,492 --> 01:51:05,732 Speaker 2: couple of texts have actually said the same thing. Golf. 2319 01:51:06,933 --> 01:51:09,133 Speaker 3: Golf brings dad and son. Together. 2320 01:51:09,253 --> 01:51:10,613 Speaker 2: Yeah, go absolutely. 2321 01:51:11,812 --> 01:51:14,492 Speaker 3: This text says, oh my god, our daughter left for 2322 01:51:14,532 --> 01:51:17,572 Speaker 3: Canterbury six weeks ago. She's home soon for a three 2323 01:51:17,692 --> 01:51:20,412 Speaker 3: week holiday. It gets better. We miss her, the dog 2324 01:51:20,492 --> 01:51:23,372 Speaker 3: misses her. The cats just get really angry, like it's 2325 01:51:23,452 --> 01:51:25,652 Speaker 3: my fault. My husband and I keep busy. It's your 2326 01:51:25,732 --> 01:51:28,372 Speaker 3: next chapter. Hang in there, Matt's as lovely. 2327 01:51:28,492 --> 01:51:30,892 Speaker 2: This Texas is the opposite. Gosh, Matt, you are such 2328 01:51:30,973 --> 01:51:35,093 Speaker 2: a worse. When my kids kids left home, they were 2329 01:51:35,133 --> 01:51:36,893 Speaker 2: on a venture to study and see the world, and 2330 01:51:36,973 --> 01:51:39,452 Speaker 2: my wife and I were very supportive. Now my daughter 2331 01:51:39,612 --> 01:51:43,452 Speaker 2: is as communications and promotions man manager for a huge 2332 01:51:43,532 --> 01:51:46,412 Speaker 2: firm in Australia. On she's working on a nine billion 2333 01:51:46,452 --> 01:51:49,253 Speaker 2: dollar project in both solar and wind and the Hunter Valley. 2334 01:51:49,333 --> 01:51:51,452 Speaker 2: Young son went to the Mediterranean when he was twenty 2335 01:51:51,532 --> 01:51:54,253 Speaker 2: and worked as an engineer on supernot yachts. He is 2336 01:51:54,293 --> 01:51:56,612 Speaker 2: now back in New Zealand working as a project manager 2337 01:51:56,692 --> 01:51:59,532 Speaker 2: for a large construction company. Oldest son heads up one 2338 01:51:59,572 --> 01:52:02,772 Speaker 2: of the largest processing companies in Australia. I was very 2339 01:52:02,812 --> 01:52:06,013 Speaker 2: pleased and happy to support them and not behave like 2340 01:52:06,093 --> 01:52:10,013 Speaker 2: a massive worst like you. Thanks. Yeah, mate, that's of 2341 01:52:10,053 --> 01:52:13,293 Speaker 2: a hearsh It's not like I've locked him in the basement. 2342 01:52:13,412 --> 01:52:15,452 Speaker 2: I've seen him off into the world. Yeah, and I 2343 01:52:15,532 --> 01:52:18,293 Speaker 2: hope he does become the manager of a nine billion 2344 01:52:18,333 --> 01:52:20,612 Speaker 2: dollar fun That would be great. I'll be very supportive 2345 01:52:20,612 --> 01:52:23,372 Speaker 2: it exactly. All I'm saying is it surprised me how 2346 01:52:23,452 --> 01:52:24,892 Speaker 2: much of a hole it lift in my heart when 2347 01:52:25,213 --> 01:52:26,213 Speaker 2: when my son moved out. 2348 01:52:26,572 --> 01:52:28,053 Speaker 3: I don't know if this one will help any more. 2349 01:52:28,093 --> 01:52:31,772 Speaker 3: Matt's interesting that if your child leaves home at twenty 2350 01:52:31,812 --> 01:52:33,452 Speaker 3: as a pearent for the rest of your life, you, 2351 01:52:33,732 --> 01:52:35,692 Speaker 3: on average, will see your child for only one more 2352 01:52:35,893 --> 01:52:38,013 Speaker 3: full year if you see them one week per year 2353 01:52:38,053 --> 01:52:38,412 Speaker 3: from Peter. 2354 01:52:38,532 --> 01:52:40,892 Speaker 2: See, that's what I'm talking about. That's the problem. It's 2355 01:52:40,933 --> 01:52:42,692 Speaker 2: the seeing them less and less and less, and then 2356 01:52:42,853 --> 01:52:46,612 Speaker 2: they you know, then they find a girl and settle 2357 01:52:46,692 --> 01:52:49,812 Speaker 2: down and marry and have kurds, and then they're off 2358 01:52:49,853 --> 01:52:51,612 Speaker 2: to see their in laws and you see them listen 2359 01:52:51,612 --> 01:52:53,532 Speaker 2: and less and less. Yeah, and I'm no longer the 2360 01:52:53,612 --> 01:52:56,213 Speaker 2: most important person in their lives. God damn it. 2361 01:52:56,492 --> 01:52:56,612 Speaker 5: Right. 2362 01:52:56,973 --> 01:52:59,412 Speaker 2: Nine ninety two is cockoos. 2363 01:52:59,412 --> 01:53:01,692 Speaker 3: I tell you, Tyler, that is the strategy you need 2364 01:53:01,772 --> 01:53:03,412 Speaker 3: in life. They don't ever leave you. 2365 01:53:03,532 --> 01:53:05,253 Speaker 2: They take and take and take, and then they leave. 2366 01:53:06,173 --> 01:53:07,773 Speaker 2: Right if you've broken hearted. 2367 01:53:07,732 --> 01:53:10,612 Speaker 3: We're going to rent this up very shortly. It is 2368 01:53:11,013 --> 01:53:13,492 Speaker 3: nine minutes to four. Back Beck very soon. 2369 01:53:15,093 --> 01:53:18,452 Speaker 1: The big stories, the big issues, the big trends, and 2370 01:53:18,812 --> 01:53:19,772 Speaker 1: everything in between. 2371 01:53:20,093 --> 01:53:21,973 Speaker 4: Matt and Taylor Afternoons with the. 2372 01:53:22,053 --> 01:53:25,892 Speaker 1: Volvo XC ninety attention to detail and a commitment to comfort. 2373 01:53:26,013 --> 01:53:29,133 Speaker 4: News Dogs, dead B, News Dogs, EDB. 2374 01:53:29,652 --> 01:53:32,532 Speaker 3: Good afternoon, it is seven to four. Just before we 2375 01:53:32,772 --> 01:53:34,893 Speaker 3: wrap this all up. Now, you mentioned before, mate that 2376 01:53:35,133 --> 01:53:38,053 Speaker 3: nobody should play cat Stephen's Father and Son as you 2377 01:53:38,133 --> 01:53:38,812 Speaker 3: just might lose it. 2378 01:53:39,013 --> 01:53:42,372 Speaker 2: Oh, that song is their most emotional song in the world. 2379 01:53:42,492 --> 01:53:44,133 Speaker 2: Absolutely as a father of the son. 2380 01:53:44,412 --> 01:53:47,052 Speaker 3: Well, I've been sent a little bit of audio from 2381 01:53:47,293 --> 01:53:50,372 Speaker 3: your old producer at Radio Hodaki and this is going 2382 01:53:50,452 --> 01:53:52,452 Speaker 3: to be a test mate to keep those eyes dry. 2383 01:53:53,053 --> 01:53:56,372 Speaker 2: Oh this is yeah, So I don't think you should 2384 01:53:56,372 --> 01:53:56,612 Speaker 2: play that. 2385 01:53:56,812 --> 01:53:59,253 Speaker 3: I understand we've got to play out. I understand this 2386 01:53:59,372 --> 01:54:01,253 Speaker 3: is your son who has just left home at the 2387 01:54:01,333 --> 01:54:02,973 Speaker 3: age of seven. 2388 01:54:08,452 --> 01:54:09,732 Speaker 22: Two three. 2389 01:54:10,652 --> 01:54:16,933 Speaker 25: It's not time to make a change. Just relax, Sigy, 2390 01:54:18,293 --> 01:54:23,652 Speaker 25: You're still young. That's your phone then, so much you 2391 01:54:24,213 --> 01:54:30,772 Speaker 25: have to know, find a girl, shattle down if you want, 2392 01:54:31,572 --> 01:54:34,493 Speaker 25: you can mad be, you'll get me. 2393 01:54:35,693 --> 01:54:38,493 Speaker 4: I am old, but I'm happy. 2394 01:54:41,693 --> 01:54:46,173 Speaker 25: I was once like you want to, and I know 2395 01:54:46,533 --> 01:54:53,293 Speaker 25: that it's money to be calm. When you find something 2396 01:54:53,613 --> 01:55:04,053 Speaker 25: your bank down a line that hiding your very you 2397 01:55:05,853 --> 01:55:08,413 Speaker 25: had to marble like you're. 2398 01:55:16,213 --> 01:55:16,533 Speaker 2: Stops. 2399 01:55:17,373 --> 01:55:20,013 Speaker 3: How that is gorgeous, mate, that is really beautiful. So 2400 01:55:20,093 --> 01:55:22,852 Speaker 3: that it's your son aged seventh singing father and son? 2401 01:55:22,933 --> 01:55:24,013 Speaker 2: Who did you say? Sent you there? 2402 01:55:24,733 --> 01:55:26,973 Speaker 3: One of your producers at Radio Huk. 2403 01:55:27,173 --> 01:55:28,653 Speaker 2: Find out who that is and he's going to have 2404 01:55:28,693 --> 01:55:29,493 Speaker 2: his job, folks. 2405 01:55:29,613 --> 01:55:31,852 Speaker 3: He's put on his sonny so I can't see whether 2406 01:55:31,973 --> 01:55:33,373 Speaker 3: his eyes are dry and not clearly or not. 2407 01:55:34,013 --> 01:55:37,253 Speaker 2: But there you go, mate. Yeah, life goes too fast anyway. 2408 01:55:37,333 --> 01:55:39,653 Speaker 2: I'm tough. I can handle it. Yeah, I'm strong. I'm 2409 01:55:39,653 --> 01:55:42,012 Speaker 2: not a worse all right. I'm not crying. You're crying. 2410 01:55:42,213 --> 01:55:42,932 Speaker 2: You're the one that's crying. 2411 01:55:42,973 --> 01:55:43,772 Speaker 3: Who's cutting onions? 2412 01:55:43,772 --> 01:55:44,053 Speaker 16: And I'm not. 2413 01:55:45,973 --> 01:55:47,253 Speaker 3: Your eyes are just a little sweaty. 2414 01:55:48,133 --> 01:55:51,973 Speaker 2: Oh god. Anyway, see you tomorrow for another edition of 2415 01:55:52,093 --> 01:55:57,252 Speaker 2: Matt and Tyler afternoons. Until then, you've got kids. Appreciate 2416 01:55:57,333 --> 01:56:00,253 Speaker 2: them because them buggers will leave you before you know it. 2417 01:56:01,933 --> 01:56:03,573 Speaker 4: Their little lists go. 2418 01:56:03,772 --> 01:56:05,373 Speaker 2: And then they grow up and they're bigger than you 2419 01:56:05,493 --> 01:56:10,533 Speaker 2: and they leave you behind. But it's good. It's the process. 2420 01:56:11,093 --> 01:56:11,493 Speaker 3: It's good. 2421 01:56:12,533 --> 01:56:14,932 Speaker 2: Get out there and kick ass son. 2422 01:56:26,453 --> 01:56:37,653 Speaker 4: People like Yeah, Madam Tyler. 2423 01:56:39,453 --> 01:56:42,013 Speaker 1: For more from News Talks at b Listen live on 2424 01:56:42,173 --> 01:56:45,092 Speaker 1: air or online, and keep our shows with you wherever 2425 01:56:45,173 --> 01:56:47,733 Speaker 1: you go with our podcasts on iHeartRadio