WEBVTT - The midlife rage no one warns you about

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, I'm Louise Ari and I'm Francesca Brudkin, and this

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<v Speaker 1>is season five of our New Zealand Hell podcast, The

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<v Speaker 1>Little Things. It's good to have you with us.

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<v Speaker 2>In this podcast, we talk to experts and we find

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<v Speaker 2>out all the little things you need to know to

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<v Speaker 2>improve all the years of your life and cut through

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<v Speaker 2>the confusion and the overload of information out there.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got such good topic today, have looyd Owiz. We're

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<v Speaker 1>going to talk about midlife rage, midlife emotions. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think at this point my family would quite like to

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<v Speaker 1>take over and have their two cents we've maybe contribute

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<v Speaker 1>to this conversation. I'll keep them a million miles away

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<v Speaker 1>from this. As a child, I was quite explosive, not

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, but I could. I was quite unpredictable

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<v Speaker 1>and I could definitely let loosen and rage a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>And as an adult, and you've known me as an adult, Louise,

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<v Speaker 1>I've worked really really hard to I suppose, calm things

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<v Speaker 1>down and challenging moments and you know, I've you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as immature, you learn lots of ways of dealing with things.

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<v Speaker 1>If you know that your responsive, you know, i'd maybe

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<v Speaker 1>just say to people. That's great, I'll have a think

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<v Speaker 1>about it and come back to talk about things like.

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<v Speaker 1>I just learned all these little ways of remaining calm,

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<v Speaker 1>and actually to the point that when I got really angry,

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<v Speaker 1>I got quite quiet, and then i'd slow down my

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<v Speaker 1>talking to a patronizing kind of spit on the ski

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<v Speaker 1>fields and I'd talk very slowly like this, And when

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<v Speaker 1>that happens, my kids got, oh shit, she's really angry.

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<v Speaker 1>Like like, I learned that. That was when I was

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<v Speaker 1>really really angry. But then I hit my forties, probably

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<v Speaker 1>my mid forties, and this explosiveness just came back, all

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<v Speaker 1>this complete lack of patience for what was going on

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<v Speaker 1>around me, and you'd never know what would set me off.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, still not the big stuff. I can still

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<v Speaker 1>when all the big stuff happens, I'm still very calm

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<v Speaker 1>and but but there'd be just little things that would

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<v Speaker 1>happen and I finally could no longer cope, and I

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<v Speaker 1>would just verbalize everything going through my head while at

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<v Speaker 1>the same time going, you should really just be saying

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<v Speaker 1>this in your head. You should not be letting this out.

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<v Speaker 1>But I couldn't. I couldn't stop it. I'd be like

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<v Speaker 1>I just been like, who is this person? Then discovered

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<v Speaker 1>hit and thankfully we've kind of got a middle ground now.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm still I'm still slightly I'm actually slightly embarrassed

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<v Speaker 1>about that behavior, and I'm also still slightly shocked at

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<v Speaker 1>how it kind of crept up on me over again.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you should not be too hard on yourself

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<v Speaker 2>because because certainly not alone for starters. I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>impressed that you worked on your explosiveness throughout your life,

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<v Speaker 2>and I do think as I got to know you more,

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<v Speaker 2>I did put into practice some of your measured sort

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<v Speaker 2>of responses to things. Not all the time, but sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think I did it nearly so much, and

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<v Speaker 2>I think I could be.

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<v Speaker 3>I was quite a ragy mum.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the kids would say, I mean, there's some stories,

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<v Speaker 2>but I mean I even hurt them, But there were

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<v Speaker 2>some same we're just thrown into baths. I guess they

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<v Speaker 2>don't need them. I believe they got flashed out of

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<v Speaker 2>the toilet. But but look, weirdly, my health, Cristi has changed.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel deduced with the kids in the mouth of

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<v Speaker 2>the time, and you were through the sandwichesn't meet them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes see, I would have stopped and going, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>going to clean that up. That'd be really annoying.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I said they had to eat them, but they

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<v Speaker 2>didn't obviously eat them. They got out of the fun the.

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<v Speaker 3>Toilet and dully they ate them. So there you go.

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<v Speaker 3>So that was that was I.

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<v Speaker 1>Feel like my kids have missed out. Maybe maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't let loose a little bit more.

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<v Speaker 2>It's probably the worst one, to be fair, And I

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<v Speaker 2>mean we do laugh about it now anyway, but my

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<v Speaker 2>health christis changed that that ragey little bit, because I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, maybe it was the universe talking to me,

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<v Speaker 2>but I felt less irritated by every little thing because

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<v Speaker 2>something big had happened. But they said, I can get

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<v Speaker 2>set off. And and I want to know. I guess

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<v Speaker 2>if it's whether you know that thing about getting to

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<v Speaker 2>a certain age and not giving two shits anymore? Is

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<v Speaker 2>it that or is it realizing life is too short?

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<v Speaker 2>Or is it hormonal or is it a big old

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<v Speaker 2>mixture of all of them.

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<v Speaker 1>If you didn't give two shits anymore, or if you're

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<v Speaker 1>realizing life's too short, then you probably wouldn't react at all,

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<v Speaker 1>would you.

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<v Speaker 3>Hmm? Good point.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you'd probably go, why am I going to

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<v Speaker 1>antagonize you one? Why am I going to put this

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<v Speaker 1>out there? If you just roll your eyes and move on.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's why I can't the keep all worry stuff

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<v Speaker 2>gets to me because I can't understand why if you're

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<v Speaker 2>that full of vitriol and hate.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Judgment and opinion and yeah all the rest of it,

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<v Speaker 1>keep it to yourself. Well maybe it's good we let

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<v Speaker 1>it out somewhere, but somehow more something more productive.

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<v Speaker 2>Healthy, that's our healthy way. But maybe they're just all

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<v Speaker 2>struggling with midlife rage.

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<v Speaker 3>Who knows? They can't just think No.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there's a lot of rage about everything, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, isn't there at the moment in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>But look, we hear about women struggle with their mood

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<v Speaker 1>and women dealing with mental health issues such as anxiety

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<v Speaker 1>and depression, sometimes for the first time in their life

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<v Speaker 1>as perimenopause sets, and if they even know about peri

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<v Speaker 1>mortive menopause, it can be so destabilizing for your relationships,

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<v Speaker 1>your marriage, your job. Does menopause make pre existing anxiety

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<v Speaker 1>and depression relapse or intensify? And what can we do

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<v Speaker 1>to help ourselves. Joining us today is doctor Caroline Gervich.

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<v Speaker 1>Caroline is a clinical neuropsychologist. She is the Deputy director

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<v Speaker 1>of her Center Australia, head of the Cognition and Hormones Group,

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<v Speaker 1>and an associate professor at Monash University. She has a

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<v Speaker 1>research interest in the neuropsychology of women's health and the

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<v Speaker 1>role hormones play on cognition. Welcome Caroline, thanks so much

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<v Speaker 1>for being with us.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi Francesca, thank you for inviting me to talk to

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<v Speaker 4>you today.

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<v Speaker 1>Should we start, maybe at the beginning and talk about

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<v Speaker 1>what hormones are the ones that are impacting our mood

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<v Speaker 1>and our mental health.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, So during these life phases where our hormones change,

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<v Speaker 5>like menopause, the key hormones we're talking about are estrogen

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<v Speaker 5>and progesterone.

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<v Speaker 4>So these are sex hormones and they're the hormones.

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<v Speaker 5>That regulate our reproductive function, and that's often what we

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<v Speaker 5>think about when we talk about estrogen and progesterone, but

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<v Speaker 5>they actually do a whole lot more than just regulating

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<v Speaker 5>our reproductive functions. So they can cross over our blood

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<v Speaker 5>brain barrier and enter our brains and have quite potent

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<v Speaker 5>effects on different brain areas and particularly brain areas that

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<v Speaker 5>regulate our mood and regulate our thinking skills. So that's

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<v Speaker 5>why these times of life where our hormones change, we

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<v Speaker 5>can also experience changes in mood and thinking skills.

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<v Speaker 1>As well, because we often think of them as the

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<v Speaker 1>six hormones, but there's so much more to them than that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, yes, so much more so. That's right.

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<v Speaker 5>They are the sex hormones and as I said, regulate

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<v Speaker 5>reproductive function. But these hormones, so we know probably a

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<v Speaker 5>bit more about estrogen and how that works in the brain,

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<v Speaker 5>and we've learned a lot about how estrogen works in

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<v Speaker 5>the brain from animal research, and these studies show that

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<v Speaker 5>these hormones actually are quite potent sex steroids in the brain,

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<v Speaker 5>so that means that they have an impact.

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<v Speaker 4>They actually change the thickness or density of.

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<v Speaker 5>Our connections between our different neurons and the way different

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<v Speaker 5>parts of our brains communicate.

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<v Speaker 4>They also have an influence on neurotransmitter systems.

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<v Speaker 5>So these are chemicals in the brain, and you will

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<v Speaker 5>have probably heard of things like dopamine and serotonin, So

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<v Speaker 5>these are chemicals in the brain or neurotransmitter systems in

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<v Speaker 5>the brain that are really important for regulating our mood

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<v Speaker 5>and regulating our thinking skills. So at times when our

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<v Speaker 5>hormones either fluctuate or gradually decline, our brains react to this.

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<v Speaker 5>And some people are sensitive to these hormone changes in

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<v Speaker 5>terms of their mood and thinking skills, and.

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<v Speaker 4>Some people aren't.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's not a uniform conclusion that we draw that

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<v Speaker 5>when your hormones change, your mood will change, because that's

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<v Speaker 5>absolutely not the case. But for some people, they're just

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<v Speaker 5>sensitive to hormone changes. But all this animal work that's

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<v Speaker 5>been done has really laid that scientific basis for us

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<v Speaker 5>to have a really good guess at why some people

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<v Speaker 5>might be more sensitive to times of hormonal change.

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<v Speaker 2>So throughout our reproductive lives, we go from puberty through

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<v Speaker 2>pregnancy up to perimenopause. Is that the impact we're seeing

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<v Speaker 2>is it? Are some of us more sensitive all the

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<v Speaker 2>way through or can it vary?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, it's such a good question. I think there's both scenarios.

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<v Speaker 5>So there's certainly some people who are sensitive to hormones always.

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<v Speaker 4>So there's some people who during.

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<v Speaker 5>Their reproductive years when they're experiencing a menstrual cycle for women,

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<v Speaker 5>or people assigned female at birth, when they're experiencing a

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<v Speaker 5>menstrual cycle. Each menstrual cycle has little fluctuations in estrogen

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<v Speaker 5>and progesterone, and the time of the menstrual cycle that

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<v Speaker 5>most people who are sensitive to hormone changes experience mood

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<v Speaker 5>symptoms is in that pre menstrual so in the few

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<v Speaker 5>days before someone gets their period, and at that time,

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<v Speaker 5>in terms of our hormones, our progesterone levels are increasing

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<v Speaker 5>and our estrogen levels are a bit lower than our

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<v Speaker 5>progesterone levels at that point. So the thought is that

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<v Speaker 5>it's the progesterone that is some people are sensitive to,

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<v Speaker 5>and not even the progesterone itself, but the progesterone has metabolites,

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<v Speaker 5>which is kind of when it breaks down and flow

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<v Speaker 5>on effects from the progesterone, and so one of them

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<v Speaker 5>is called alopregnant alone. But that is what the theory is,

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<v Speaker 5>that some people are sensitive to an increase in this

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<v Speaker 5>alopregnant alone, and when that increases, some people experience these

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<v Speaker 5>mood symptoms. So some people experience that. Then there's some

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<v Speaker 5>people who experience quite significant mood changes in the postnatal period,

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<v Speaker 5>and there's lots of significant hormone changes that happen both

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<v Speaker 5>during pregnancy and in the post natal period. I should

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<v Speaker 5>also say that having a baby is a huge life

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<v Speaker 5>change as well, so we can't just say, well, it's

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<v Speaker 5>all hormones, because there's lots that happens when someone has

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<v Speaker 5>a baby, but there's also quite significant hormone changes, and

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<v Speaker 5>so it's thought that some people again are sensitive to

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<v Speaker 5>those hormone changes.

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<v Speaker 4>And then the next life.

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<v Speaker 5>Phase for females that a lot of people are sensitive

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<v Speaker 5>again to hormone changes is in that perimenopause, so the

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<v Speaker 5>menopause transitioneers and early postmenopause. So sometimes we see someone

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<v Speaker 5>in perimenopause and it's the same person who's been sensitive

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<v Speaker 5>at different life phases to hormone changes.

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<v Speaker 4>But then sometimes someone's had none of that. They've not

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<v Speaker 4>had any kind.

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<v Speaker 5>Of pre menstrual mood symptoms, they haven't had any postnatal

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<v Speaker 5>depression or post natal anxiety, but during menopause they experience

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<v Speaker 5>for the very first time a big change in their mood.

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<v Speaker 4>So I think there's both types of people. Some people

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<v Speaker 4>are just.

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<v Speaker 5>Sensitive to hormone changes, and some people experience mood changes

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<v Speaker 5>for the first time during menopause, and whether that's a

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<v Speaker 5>hormone sensitivity or a number of other factors contributing to it.

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<v Speaker 5>We're still kind of learning and understanding why those mood

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<v Speaker 5>changes come about, but it seems to be related for

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<v Speaker 5>a lot of people the hormone changes.

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<v Speaker 1>And have we been able to work out why someone

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<v Speaker 1>might be sensitive.

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<v Speaker 5>No, that's a really good question. So there's probably a

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<v Speaker 5>number of factors. So there's probably some genetic factors our

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<v Speaker 5>genetic makeup. Some people might carry certain combination of genes

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<v Speaker 5>that makes them a bit more sensitive to changes in hormones.

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<v Speaker 5>There's also a theory that some people who have experienced

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<v Speaker 5>trauma throughout their lives and have got a sensitive or

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<v Speaker 5>a more sensitive endocrine access that governs our stress response,

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<v Speaker 5>that person might also be more sensitive to changes.

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<v Speaker 4>In our reproductive hormones.

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<v Speaker 5>So there's a bit of a crossover between these different

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<v Speaker 5>endocrine axes that govern different That are hormones that govern

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<v Speaker 5>different responses, so stress response, reproductive hormones, or sex hormones.

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<v Speaker 5>So there's also a theory that those who have experienced

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<v Speaker 5>trauma of some sort, and trauma can be lots of

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<v Speaker 5>different things. It's a really personal I mean, somethings are

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<v Speaker 5>obviously trauma, and some things are not necessarily considered trauma,

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<v Speaker 5>but for an individual that you know, poor attachment when

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<v Speaker 5>they were younger, or peer bullying or things like that

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<v Speaker 5>can constitute trauma for an individual. And so all sorts

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<v Speaker 5>of things might make someone more sensitive to hormones. And

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<v Speaker 5>then sometimes we're I mean, it could be a combination

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<v Speaker 5>of genetics of trauma for some people, or yeah, I

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<v Speaker 5>guess we just don't really know exactly why some people

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<v Speaker 5>are more sensitive.

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<v Speaker 2>It makes me very grateful I suppose that we're in

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<v Speaker 2>a slightly more enlightened age where we're talking about these

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<v Speaker 2>things before they happen. Because freendiscin I both confessed to

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<v Speaker 2>not really having any clue about perimidopause for a long time,

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<v Speaker 2>and it has sort of come into the social consciousness

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit more, particularly for women obviously, and I

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<v Speaker 2>just sometimes think about, you know, the jokes around what's

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<v Speaker 2>the one before you get your period, premist tension, Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>foggy brain and in middle life rage and all of

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<v Speaker 2>that sort of thing, and you know, we do, we

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<v Speaker 2>do laugh things off because we don't understand them.

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<v Speaker 1>M m.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, And sometimes that's fine, Like for some people the

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<v Speaker 5>mood changes the brain fog.

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<v Speaker 4>It's kind of mild and you can laugh it off.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a coping mechanism, and it's absolutely fine to do that,

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<v Speaker 5>and it can be.

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<v Speaker 4>Pretty subtle and it's not a big deal.

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<v Speaker 5>But then there are other people where it's it's not

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<v Speaker 5>so subtle and it is more of a big deal

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<v Speaker 5>and it's a bit more.

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<v Speaker 4>They can't just laugh it off, you know, they're really struggling.

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<v Speaker 5>So I think there's a whole spectrum of experiences that

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<v Speaker 5>people have, and yeah, the different sort of coping mechanisms

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<v Speaker 5>or help that people need can also be really varied.

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<v Speaker 1>So, Caroline, during perimenopause, in menopause, how are our hormones

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<v Speaker 1>impacting our brains and our mental health?

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<v Speaker 5>So as we transition from our reproductive years into menopause,

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<v Speaker 5>there's this timeframe, this transition timeframe called perimenopause, and that

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<v Speaker 5>can span four to eight ten years for different people.

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<v Speaker 5>And during that transition time, we move from having the

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<v Speaker 5>reproductive regular menstrual cycle for people who aren't taking any

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<v Speaker 5>kind of hormone or contraceptive, and then our sex hormones

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<v Speaker 5>estrogen progesterone, instead of fluctuating in a regular cyclical pattern

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<v Speaker 5>start to be a bit more erratic, and they can

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<v Speaker 5>fluctuate quite rapidly, and at the same time, the estrogen

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<v Speaker 5>and progesterone are also gradually declining, So that happens, as

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<v Speaker 5>I said, over four to ten years. The things that

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<v Speaker 5>we can notice during that time in terms of our

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<v Speaker 5>menstrual cycle, that can become irregular, and that's often what

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<v Speaker 5>the basis of diagnosis of perimenopause is that your mental

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<v Speaker 5>cycle can be come irregular.

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<v Speaker 4>But often just before that happens, people can start to

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<v Speaker 4>notice changes to their mood and their thinking skills. So

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<v Speaker 4>that's the brain fog of menopause or perimenopause that people

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<v Speaker 4>talk about. And the mood changes, the rage, the irritability,

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<v Speaker 4>paranoid thinking, anxiety, depression, a whole spectrum of different symptoms

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<v Speaker 4>that fall under that umbrella of kind of a perimenopausal

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<v Speaker 4>depression that can happen early on in that perimenopausal transition.

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<v Speaker 4>They can be some of the first signs that happen,

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<v Speaker 4>and it might be that our brains start to become

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<v Speaker 4>a bit sensitive to the fluctuations in our estrogen levels

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<v Speaker 4>and that gradual decline and progesterone. But if it's happening

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<v Speaker 4>early in the perimenopause.

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<v Speaker 5>It's probably our bodies and brains reacting to the fluctuations

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<v Speaker 5>in estrogen and progesterone levels that happen during the early

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<v Speaker 5>stages of that perimenopause and that transition phase.

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<v Speaker 3>That's fascinating.

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<v Speaker 2>Gosh, that's really making me think back to my late

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<v Speaker 2>that is an early forties, to be honest, And so

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<v Speaker 2>would you call it a common phenomenon for women and perimenopause.

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<v Speaker 5>So in terms of the mood symptoms, it really varied

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<v Speaker 5>depending what literature you look at. It's probably about a

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<v Speaker 5>third of women will experience some depression and about two

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<v Speaker 5>thirds of women will experience some degree of brain fog.

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<v Speaker 4>But I think there can be kind of secondary depression

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<v Speaker 4>secondary brain fog.

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<v Speaker 5>So if people start to experience things like poor sleep,

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<v Speaker 5>like anyone knows that if you're not sleeping well, it

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<v Speaker 5>can impact your mood, it can impact.

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<v Speaker 4>Your ability to think clearly, So that can happen as well.

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<v Speaker 5>But people can also experience just the mood changes or

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<v Speaker 5>just the brain fog on its own. And there's also

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<v Speaker 5>a link potentially between the vasomotor symptoms of the hot

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<v Speaker 5>flushes there's a theory that if you're experiencing hot flashes

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<v Speaker 5>during the night, then that disrupts your sleep, then you

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<v Speaker 5>have poor sleep.

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<v Speaker 4>Then you have a flow and effect mood changes and

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<v Speaker 4>to brain fog.

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<v Speaker 5>But also, as I said, there's the people who don't

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<v Speaker 5>experience any of that but just have the mood changes.

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<v Speaker 5>It might be more directly related to the hormone changes

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<v Speaker 5>in the brain.

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<v Speaker 3>Can I just ask you a quick question.

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<v Speaker 2>You're talking about contraception, and this is a thing that's

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<v Speaker 2>been on my mind, but I haven't known who to

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<v Speaker 2>ask and you may not be able to answer. So

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<v Speaker 2>does contraception have any impact on perimenopausal symptoms?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so it can, absolutely so, because it flattens out

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<v Speaker 5>the natural fluctuations in our hormones across menstrual cycles, but

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<v Speaker 5>then adds in synthetic hormones that kind of replicate that.

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<v Speaker 5>But if you don't take the sugar pills, so if

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<v Speaker 5>you're just taking the active hormonal contraception, then it's kind

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<v Speaker 5>of flattened out, and so you lose some of the

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<v Speaker 5>effects of a menstrual cycle and you have less fluctuals.

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<v Speaker 5>So I think the Australian menopause or Australasian Menopause Society,

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<v Speaker 5>which extends to New Zealand, suggests that you can keep

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<v Speaker 5>taking hormonal contraceptives in consultation with your doctor until about

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<v Speaker 5>the age of fifty And yeah, so that can have

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<v Speaker 5>a beneficial impact on mood for some people, but some

0:18:20.320 --> 0:18:23.760
<v Speaker 5>people might also need to consider and talk to their

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<v Speaker 5>healthcare professional about different options if it's if it's not enough.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and there are there are different options. But I

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<v Speaker 1>found it really helpful just for when those when the

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<v Speaker 1>metal cycle became really erratic and have to started having

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit an impact on life. You know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was one way to be able to It was just

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<v Speaker 1>another tool to use to try and kind of stabilize

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<v Speaker 1>things control. Yea, So how many women who have never

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we talked about the sensitivity and things towards

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<v Speaker 1>hormone fluctuations and things. I'm sure it must be quite

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<v Speaker 1>a surprise for a lot of women to get to

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<v Speaker 1>sort of middle age and all of a sudden be

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<v Speaker 1>dealing maybe for the first time with anxiety or a

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<v Speaker 1>panic attack or this irritability in things.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh.

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<v Speaker 5>Absolutely, And I think you say middle aged, but I

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<v Speaker 5>think for some women it's sort of forty, like it's

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<v Speaker 5>quite early that some women experience some of the mood

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<v Speaker 5>changes because they can be some of.

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<v Speaker 4>The earliest changes.

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<v Speaker 5>So the median age of menopause is fifty one, but

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<v Speaker 5>if perimenopause, that transition can go up to ten years,

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<v Speaker 5>it can be sort of forty early forties. So some

0:19:35.320 --> 0:19:37.960
<v Speaker 5>people don't even have menopause on their radar, so they

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<v Speaker 5>don't necessarily know why they're starting to feel a bit anxious,

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<v Speaker 5>a bit paranoid, irritable.

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<v Speaker 4>So the connection might not be there.

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<v Speaker 5>And it might come a bit out of the blue,

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<v Speaker 5>and it can be really hard to deal with.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think the timing of menopause is now with

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<v Speaker 4>our lifestyles, is often at a time of life that

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<v Speaker 4>people are really quite particularly women, are quite stretched and

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<v Speaker 4>quite busy. So in the middle of your life, you're

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<v Speaker 4>often at the prime of your career. You might have

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<v Speaker 4>teenage children, perhaps elderly parents who might be managing house,

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<v Speaker 4>the household, like you might be doing a whole lot

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<v Speaker 4>of things, and so you're just really busy and stretched,

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<v Speaker 4>and with that often comes stress, and so I think

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<v Speaker 4>that's a huge factor that sometimes we forget to take

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<v Speaker 4>into the into consideration. When we think about the impact

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<v Speaker 4>of these hormonal changes, it can sometimes be like the

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<v Speaker 4>tipping point. You can kind of cope and then you

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<v Speaker 4>get to this point where you just can't cope with

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<v Speaker 4>all of that pressure and stress anymore.

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<v Speaker 5>And so it might be the hormones that are triggering things.

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<v Speaker 5>But then if we look at the whole story and

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<v Speaker 5>take a holistic approach, is often a lot going on

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<v Speaker 5>for that person at the same time.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, that's that's right.

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<v Speaker 2>So that leads nicely into the you know, that rage

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<v Speaker 2>and that irritability, that sort of almost breaking point. Then

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<v Speaker 2>you kind of have little all out and then regroup.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yes, and I think within that presentation of depression,

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<v Speaker 5>we've done a bit of work at her Center, which

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<v Speaker 5>is at Monish University where I work, led by Professor j. Shukulcanni,

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<v Speaker 5>where we've looked at characterizing that perimenopausal depression, which is

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<v Speaker 5>a bit different to a clinical depression at other life

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<v Speaker 5>phases because.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a bit more on. It can be for some

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<v Speaker 4>women quite on off.

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<v Speaker 5>So suddenly there's that rage or that paranoid thinking, that

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<v Speaker 5>irritability kind of out of nowhere, and then you do

0:21:33.520 --> 0:21:35.400
<v Speaker 5>bring yourself back together and feel like okay, So it's

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<v Speaker 5>kind of got this on off flavor to it that's

0:21:39.119 --> 0:21:42.320
<v Speaker 5>a little bit different to that potential, you know, ongoing

0:21:42.359 --> 0:21:45.320
<v Speaker 5>sadness or helplessness that might be part of a clinical

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<v Speaker 5>depression at other life phases, if.

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<v Speaker 1>I hit an explosive moment at home, Caroline, half the time,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd just be going off, saying whatever was going through

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<v Speaker 1>my head, and at the same time I'd actually would

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<v Speaker 1>have it was like I was looking at myself outside

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<v Speaker 1>my body, going who are you? What are you doing what?

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<v Speaker 1>It was really strange that two things could be happening

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<v Speaker 1>at once. That I could be putting so much effort

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<v Speaker 1>into yelling and you know, at my family about something

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<v Speaker 1>ridiculous like the fact that no one can put dishes

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<v Speaker 1>in the dishwasher, and at the same time I was

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<v Speaker 1>sort of going, goodness me, Francesca, what on earth is

0:22:18.400 --> 0:22:20.199
<v Speaker 1>going on with you? Who are you? You know?

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<v Speaker 4>It was bizarre, Yeah, And that's not uncommon.

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<v Speaker 5>That's that's a very common description of the feelings and

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<v Speaker 5>the emotions and how they play out for a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of people.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think it is good to make that distinction that,

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<v Speaker 2>like you say about the on off and you're not

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<v Speaker 2>saying this is a rule. You're saying this is in general.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you are feeling like, gosh, am I clinically

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, obviously your first portocoll is your health professional,

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<v Speaker 2>But am I clinically depressed?

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<v Speaker 3>Or is can I?

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<v Speaker 2>And this is why they often tell you to do

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<v Speaker 2>a diary, don't they to kind of work out when

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<v Speaker 2>how often that's happening, what time of the month it's happening,

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<v Speaker 2>what time of the even the day it's happening.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>And for that reason, we also developed this scale it's

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<v Speaker 5>called the MENO D that people can access and it

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<v Speaker 5>provides people are capacity to rate their perimenopausal depression to

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<v Speaker 5>kind of get an objective score.

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<v Speaker 4>To say where am I at? Is this really I

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<v Speaker 4>need to.

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<v Speaker 5>Follow up with a doctor or is this okay? So

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<v Speaker 5>there's in the MENOD there's cutoff scores. But I think

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<v Speaker 5>if anyone's concerned, intuitively within yourself, just go and speak.

0:23:25.800 --> 0:23:29.040
<v Speaker 5>Don't hesitate. Always go and speak to a health care provider.

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<v Speaker 5>Because there's so many different options out.

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<v Speaker 4>There to support people.

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<v Speaker 5>People shouldn't just have to bear, you know, put up

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<v Speaker 5>with it and bear it and get through. I think

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<v Speaker 5>that that thinking is something that's definitely changed that we

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<v Speaker 5>now appreciate that it's quite common to experience changes to

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<v Speaker 5>mood and to experience brain fog. But you shouldn't just

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<v Speaker 5>have to suffer, because you know, four to ten years

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<v Speaker 5>is quite a long.

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<v Speaker 3>Quite a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've pulled up the questionnaire. It's quite extensive. It's good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's about four pages, but it's going to cover everything,

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<v Speaker 1>which is fantastic. Oh, thanks for pointing us in that direction, Caroline,

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<v Speaker 1>that's awesome. Another thing that's almost the opposite of everything

0:24:09.480 --> 0:24:12.199
<v Speaker 1>going on in your brain at once and exploding is nothing.

0:24:12.480 --> 0:24:17.040
<v Speaker 1>Having moments of blankness and struggling to kind of get

0:24:17.080 --> 0:24:18.840
<v Speaker 1>through the brain fog is something that a lot of

0:24:18.880 --> 0:24:20.119
<v Speaker 1>people talk about as well.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's something that's I think gained a lot of

0:24:23.520 --> 0:24:26.640
<v Speaker 5>traction and discussion, particularly in the social media space over

0:24:26.680 --> 0:24:30.400
<v Speaker 5>the past maybe decade. And it's weird because brain fog

0:24:30.440 --> 0:24:32.359
<v Speaker 5>isn't a term like depression. It's not a term that

0:24:32.400 --> 0:24:37.320
<v Speaker 5>has a clinical description. It's not a diagnostic or medical

0:24:37.359 --> 0:24:40.040
<v Speaker 5>term or psychological term. It's just a term that's emerged

0:24:40.560 --> 0:24:45.600
<v Speaker 5>from the community to describe their experiences. And we've asked

0:24:45.600 --> 0:24:47.439
<v Speaker 5>them in about what it is for them. You know

0:24:47.680 --> 0:24:52.320
<v Speaker 5>what is brain fog, And people talk about memory lapses,

0:24:52.359 --> 0:24:57.159
<v Speaker 5>attention lapses, difficulty in making decisions, that word finding difficulty,

0:24:57.200 --> 0:24:58.720
<v Speaker 5>you know that when you've got a word on the

0:24:58.760 --> 0:25:00.480
<v Speaker 5>tip of your tongue and you just can't find the

0:25:00.560 --> 0:25:06.119
<v Speaker 5>right word. So they're the main kind of symptoms that

0:25:06.200 --> 0:25:10.199
<v Speaker 5>fall under that umbrella of brain fog for women, and

0:25:10.320 --> 0:25:13.120
<v Speaker 5>our understanding of it is a bit similar to the depression,

0:25:13.200 --> 0:25:16.440
<v Speaker 5>like we think that some women again when they're sensitive

0:25:16.480 --> 0:25:20.760
<v Speaker 5>to the hormone fluctuations. There's estygen receptors in our brain

0:25:20.800 --> 0:25:22.800
<v Speaker 5>in the front part of our brain, which is really

0:25:22.880 --> 0:25:27.560
<v Speaker 5>important for our higher order executive functions like organizing our thoughts,

0:25:28.040 --> 0:25:30.040
<v Speaker 5>as well as in a part of our brain called

0:25:30.040 --> 0:25:33.200
<v Speaker 5>the hippocampus, which is really important for our memory. So,

0:25:33.640 --> 0:25:36.320
<v Speaker 5>again going back to the science, it makes sense that

0:25:36.359 --> 0:25:40.679
<v Speaker 5>when these hormones are fluctuating and declining and they're in

0:25:40.920 --> 0:25:43.439
<v Speaker 5>brain areas that are really relevant for our thinking skills,

0:25:43.440 --> 0:25:46.160
<v Speaker 5>that there might be a flow on impact to our

0:25:46.200 --> 0:25:49.800
<v Speaker 5>thinking skills. And again there's all the other stuff that

0:25:49.840 --> 0:25:54.080
<v Speaker 5>can impact life, stress, poor sleep, mood changes, So all

0:25:54.119 --> 0:25:58.439
<v Speaker 5>of those things independently can impact your thinking skills. But

0:25:58.640 --> 0:26:01.399
<v Speaker 5>then the hormones might have a direct impact for some

0:26:01.440 --> 0:26:05.080
<v Speaker 5>people as well on their brains and on their thinking skills.

0:26:05.200 --> 0:26:07.679
<v Speaker 5>But one thing I do like to always add is

0:26:07.720 --> 0:26:12.080
<v Speaker 5>that while women experience this brain fog in daytay life,

0:26:12.080 --> 0:26:13.000
<v Speaker 5>it's very real.

0:26:13.040 --> 0:26:14.680
<v Speaker 4>It happens in about two thirds of women.

0:26:15.560 --> 0:26:18.199
<v Speaker 5>For some people's subtle some people can have quite a

0:26:18.200 --> 0:26:22.120
<v Speaker 5>big impact. But when we do a neuropsychological assessment, which

0:26:22.160 --> 0:26:26.200
<v Speaker 5>is when we assess someone's cognitive capacity, their actual ability

0:26:26.240 --> 0:26:29.600
<v Speaker 5>to reason and to make judgments and to use their

0:26:29.640 --> 0:26:33.520
<v Speaker 5>attention and their working memory and to learn, it's normally.

0:26:33.160 --> 0:26:36.480
<v Speaker 4>In the normal range. So people during.

0:26:36.200 --> 0:26:40.600
<v Speaker 5>Menopause, even those women who are experiencing brain fog, their

0:26:41.119 --> 0:26:45.320
<v Speaker 5>actual core cognitive skills don't change, so they're still able cognitively.

0:26:45.520 --> 0:26:48.520
<v Speaker 1>That's a really important It's almost more like imposter syndrome

0:26:48.560 --> 0:26:51.040
<v Speaker 1>that you've ended up with. You think you can't do it,

0:26:51.080 --> 0:26:53.680
<v Speaker 1>but you are still functioning well.

0:26:54.400 --> 0:26:56.360
<v Speaker 4>Yes, but some people just need some support.

0:26:56.440 --> 0:26:58.919
<v Speaker 5>So they might just need a bit more structure or

0:27:00.040 --> 0:27:02.679
<v Speaker 5>a little bit more you know, time to do things,

0:27:02.800 --> 0:27:06.280
<v Speaker 5>or a little bit less distraction while they're doing tasks.

0:27:06.280 --> 0:27:09.040
<v Speaker 5>So it's just the support the scaffolding that people might

0:27:09.160 --> 0:27:13.880
<v Speaker 5>need so their brains can continue performing at their best.

0:27:14.200 --> 0:27:16.960
<v Speaker 2>I know, when I can't reach for a word or

0:27:16.960 --> 0:27:20.560
<v Speaker 2>a name or so forth, all I really do need

0:27:20.640 --> 0:27:23.640
<v Speaker 2>is a little bit of understanding and time, not idea

0:27:23.680 --> 0:27:25.480
<v Speaker 2>when you're trying to record a podcast and it happens,

0:27:25.520 --> 0:27:28.280
<v Speaker 2>but you know, all I need because I know it's there.

0:27:28.440 --> 0:27:31.160
<v Speaker 2>And what I would prefer rather than someone maybe finishing

0:27:31.160 --> 0:27:33.520
<v Speaker 2>my sentence or giving up on it, is just that

0:27:33.640 --> 0:27:35.360
<v Speaker 2>time is it. Just give me a minute, it will

0:27:35.400 --> 0:27:38.680
<v Speaker 2>come to me, you know, because I get more frustrated

0:27:38.720 --> 0:27:40.360
<v Speaker 2>when I have to leave it and then go oh,

0:27:40.400 --> 0:27:41.520
<v Speaker 2>and then it'll come to me in the middle of

0:27:41.520 --> 0:27:44.200
<v Speaker 2>the night when we're awake, because we're awake.

0:27:44.080 --> 0:27:48.119
<v Speaker 4>Through yes exactly. And it's not that helpful then. But

0:27:48.160 --> 0:27:49.119
<v Speaker 4>that's the other thing that is.

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<v Speaker 5>I think some people with they get anxious to try

0:27:52.000 --> 0:27:54.720
<v Speaker 5>and find the right word or to try and think,

0:27:54.760 --> 0:27:57.960
<v Speaker 5>and I think that anxiety can make the brain fog worse.

0:27:58.480 --> 0:28:00.640
<v Speaker 5>So I think you said like a bit of time,

0:28:00.760 --> 0:28:03.479
<v Speaker 5>I think that's like perfect just to try and you know,

0:28:03.720 --> 0:28:06.719
<v Speaker 5>relax and not stress too much about it and just

0:28:06.760 --> 0:28:09.480
<v Speaker 5>to back yourself and note like the word is still

0:28:09.480 --> 0:28:11.879
<v Speaker 5>somewhere in my mind or I am still able to

0:28:11.920 --> 0:28:14.560
<v Speaker 5>make decisions, but I just need a bit more space

0:28:14.600 --> 0:28:15.439
<v Speaker 5>in my head to do that.

0:28:15.680 --> 0:28:17.919
<v Speaker 3>And that what was thirty seconds? Maybe I don't know.

0:28:18.000 --> 0:28:20.679
<v Speaker 2>I'd probably give up myself after about thirty seconds.

0:28:20.960 --> 0:28:23.119
<v Speaker 1>I first, yeah, I sort of first mentioned it to

0:28:23.160 --> 0:28:26.159
<v Speaker 1>my GP, probably before I even knew there was a

0:28:26.200 --> 0:28:29.399
<v Speaker 1>thing called perimenopause. And she would say, she'd sort of

0:28:29.400 --> 0:28:30.800
<v Speaker 1>say to me, Okay, tell me what it is that

0:28:30.840 --> 0:28:32.800
<v Speaker 1>you can't remember. I go, oh, a name, or does it?

0:28:32.840 --> 0:28:33.359
<v Speaker 3>Then she goes.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I got to one scenario, Caroline, I said

0:28:37.240 --> 0:28:39.080
<v Speaker 1>to it, I can't I couldn't remember where the mayonnaise

0:28:39.160 --> 0:28:41.160
<v Speaker 1>was in the super market. And she went on, that's

0:28:41.240 --> 0:28:43.400
<v Speaker 1>one that we might we might just make a note of.

0:28:43.440 --> 0:28:46.120
<v Speaker 1>And she said, but it's never happened again. But I

0:28:46.160 --> 0:28:48.320
<v Speaker 1>think that that was the first thing. The first thing

0:28:48.360 --> 0:28:50.800
<v Speaker 1>a lot of women probably go to is, oh, my gosh,

0:28:50.840 --> 0:28:54.600
<v Speaker 1>am I heading towards dementia, have id early on set dementia,

0:28:54.640 --> 0:28:57.520
<v Speaker 1>And it could be very you know, it's easy to

0:28:57.600 --> 0:28:59.240
<v Speaker 1>make that assumption.

0:28:59.440 --> 0:29:03.160
<v Speaker 5>Oh, absolutely, because if you think about very superficially the

0:29:03.280 --> 0:29:06.440
<v Speaker 5>kinds of experiences you have, like you know, forgetting where

0:29:06.480 --> 0:29:09.920
<v Speaker 5>things are, forgetting names, losing your train of thought in

0:29:09.960 --> 0:29:13.840
<v Speaker 5>a conversation like those things might sound very superficially like

0:29:13.920 --> 0:29:17.520
<v Speaker 5>the early stages of dementia, but I think it's a

0:29:17.560 --> 0:29:22.600
<v Speaker 5>few really key differences between menopausal brain fog and dementia are.

0:29:22.880 --> 0:29:27.080
<v Speaker 5>One is age, So people aren't diagnosed with dementia generally

0:29:27.280 --> 0:29:30.200
<v Speaker 5>of the Alzheimer's type, at least until the age of

0:29:30.240 --> 0:29:32.800
<v Speaker 5>sixty five, and even early on. Said, it's sort of

0:29:32.880 --> 0:29:37.760
<v Speaker 5>more fifty plus, So just because of someone's age alone,

0:29:37.840 --> 0:29:41.640
<v Speaker 5>it's very unlikely that people are experiencing the early stages

0:29:41.680 --> 0:29:45.280
<v Speaker 5>of dementia. And if it is early on set or

0:29:45.320 --> 0:29:48.120
<v Speaker 5>young ones at dementia, that's quite rare, but it exists.

0:29:48.560 --> 0:29:52.840
<v Speaker 5>But the presentation then often has more mood symptoms, more

0:29:52.880 --> 0:29:57.120
<v Speaker 5>behavioral changes. It's not the same as that kind of

0:29:57.120 --> 0:30:02.400
<v Speaker 5>forgetfulness or not finding the right word or so.

0:30:03.200 --> 0:30:05.760
<v Speaker 4>I think they're some of the key differences.

0:30:05.840 --> 0:30:09.440
<v Speaker 5>And often also with dementia, it's other people around you

0:30:09.720 --> 0:30:14.000
<v Speaker 5>who become quite concerned rather than the person the individual themselves.

0:30:13.560 --> 0:30:16.720
<v Speaker 4>Whereas in menopause it's very much the individual.

0:30:16.240 --> 0:30:18.000
<v Speaker 1>Who's ghost So true.

0:30:18.160 --> 0:30:20.680
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, So I think there's a few factors that are

0:30:21.280 --> 0:30:26.360
<v Speaker 5>quite different, and certainly clinically and neuropsychologically, the presentations are

0:30:26.400 --> 0:30:28.520
<v Speaker 5>really quite different when you drill down.

0:30:29.040 --> 0:30:31.120
<v Speaker 2>So what other issues are you seeing when it comes

0:30:31.120 --> 0:30:32.960
<v Speaker 2>to cognitive and mental health issues with women?

0:30:33.480 --> 0:30:36.560
<v Speaker 5>So the other clinical question I have been receiving a

0:30:36.640 --> 0:30:40.680
<v Speaker 5>lot in recent years is women who present and they've

0:30:40.720 --> 0:30:44.200
<v Speaker 5>got these cognitive changes and their menopausal and they're questioning

0:30:44.200 --> 0:30:45.280
<v Speaker 5>where they've got ADHD.

0:30:45.360 --> 0:30:47.959
<v Speaker 4>So this is a new thing that's popped up.

0:30:47.960 --> 0:30:50.120
<v Speaker 5>It wasn't a question that came up, I don't know,

0:30:50.560 --> 0:30:52.640
<v Speaker 5>five years ago or so, but.

0:30:52.680 --> 0:30:54.600
<v Speaker 4>It's more and more frequently people are.

0:30:54.600 --> 0:31:00.320
<v Speaker 5>Questioning this, and there's sometimes it's because the peri apause.

0:31:00.320 --> 0:31:03.120
<v Speaker 5>A woman has children and they've been diagnosed with ADHD,

0:31:03.160 --> 0:31:07.000
<v Speaker 5>and through taking a children through that journey, they've you know,

0:31:07.120 --> 0:31:10.760
<v Speaker 5>obviously been made aware of what ADHD is and what

0:31:10.800 --> 0:31:13.680
<v Speaker 5>the symptoms look like, and they've identified so many of

0:31:13.720 --> 0:31:19.280
<v Speaker 5>the characteristics in themselves, and then they've felt like they're

0:31:19.280 --> 0:31:23.320
<v Speaker 5>really experiencing this and they've always been experiencing the symptoms

0:31:23.320 --> 0:31:26.040
<v Speaker 5>of ADHD or the characteristics of ADHD, but they've kind

0:31:26.040 --> 0:31:28.360
<v Speaker 5>of managed, but they've got to a point where they

0:31:28.400 --> 0:31:32.560
<v Speaker 5>can't manage anymore. So that's often the presentation of people.

0:31:33.160 --> 0:31:37.760
<v Speaker 5>And in that case, like clinically to tease apart, is

0:31:37.800 --> 0:31:40.440
<v Speaker 5>this like a new onset of brain fog.

0:31:40.240 --> 0:31:41.640
<v Speaker 4>That looks a bit like ADHD?

0:31:42.280 --> 0:31:46.040
<v Speaker 5>Or is this a genuine ADHD, like a brain type,

0:31:46.080 --> 0:31:49.920
<v Speaker 5>a neurodevelopmental condition that someone's always had. We spend a

0:31:49.920 --> 0:31:52.400
<v Speaker 5>lot of time talking to someone and really understanding their

0:31:52.440 --> 0:31:56.520
<v Speaker 5>history and understanding what their presentation is. So just for

0:31:56.520 --> 0:32:00.880
<v Speaker 5>people who are unaware, so ADHD attention deficit high practicivity disorder.

0:32:01.520 --> 0:32:04.520
<v Speaker 5>It can present quite commonly for females as just the

0:32:04.640 --> 0:32:11.200
<v Speaker 5>inattentive component, So that's things like forgetting things, losing things,

0:32:11.280 --> 0:32:14.080
<v Speaker 5>losing your train of thought, sitting in a conversation and

0:32:14.080 --> 0:32:17.200
<v Speaker 5>then realizing you've just missed most of the conversation, haven't

0:32:17.240 --> 0:32:22.200
<v Speaker 5>been listening. So that's one presentation of ADHD inattentive. The

0:32:22.280 --> 0:32:26.680
<v Speaker 5>other presentation is that hyperactive impulsive where people feel like

0:32:26.760 --> 0:32:29.160
<v Speaker 5>they're on the go, they've got a motor inside them,

0:32:29.200 --> 0:32:32.360
<v Speaker 5>they sort of talk excessively or butt into conversations.

0:32:32.920 --> 0:32:36.480
<v Speaker 4>And people can also have a combined presentation, but the.

0:32:36.600 --> 0:32:40.840
<v Speaker 5>Undiagnosed woman is often the one who has that inattentive ADHD,

0:32:41.560 --> 0:32:44.640
<v Speaker 5>and I think a lot of people look at inattentive

0:32:44.600 --> 0:32:47.200
<v Speaker 5>ADAH and it's very easy to tick those bloxes. Like

0:32:47.240 --> 0:32:49.280
<v Speaker 5>we all forget things from time to time. We all

0:32:49.640 --> 0:32:51.880
<v Speaker 5>sit in a conversation and our brains drift off and

0:32:51.920 --> 0:32:55.080
<v Speaker 5>we're not present and we miss things. So a lot

0:32:55.120 --> 0:33:01.000
<v Speaker 5>of the characteristics of inattentive ADHD are really common. Sometimes

0:33:01.160 --> 0:33:03.720
<v Speaker 5>it means that they can be missed, but I think

0:33:03.760 --> 0:33:06.680
<v Speaker 5>in terms of a clinical diagnosis, it has to be

0:33:06.760 --> 0:33:09.760
<v Speaker 5>that they're kind of pervasive and that they really are

0:33:09.760 --> 0:33:13.080
<v Speaker 5>present in more than one setting, and that they impair functioning.

0:33:14.200 --> 0:33:18.200
<v Speaker 5>So it's really separating out, you know, what is normal

0:33:18.520 --> 0:33:21.040
<v Speaker 5>degrees of inattention that we all experience from time to

0:33:21.080 --> 0:33:26.680
<v Speaker 5>time from something that is someone's neurodevelopmental brain conditional brain

0:33:26.800 --> 0:33:32.600
<v Speaker 5>type where it's really causes challenges. And often people have

0:33:32.680 --> 0:33:35.640
<v Speaker 5>a history where they've managed or they've been misdiagnosed with

0:33:35.720 --> 0:33:39.120
<v Speaker 5>depression and anxiety and all sorts of things, and then

0:33:39.160 --> 0:33:41.520
<v Speaker 5>they get to this point and it's quite clear that

0:33:41.520 --> 0:33:45.240
<v Speaker 5>they've always had this, but it just hasn't been diagnosed,

0:33:45.360 --> 0:33:48.080
<v Speaker 5>and so sometimes that's quite a big journey for people

0:33:48.200 --> 0:33:51.400
<v Speaker 5>to go on to get a late diagnosis and to

0:33:51.680 --> 0:33:54.160
<v Speaker 5>you know, all the what ifs iphony are known and

0:33:54.400 --> 0:33:58.680
<v Speaker 5>so yeah, it can be quite confronting for people, but

0:33:58.760 --> 0:34:00.959
<v Speaker 5>also there can be an element of relief for some

0:34:01.000 --> 0:34:04.240
<v Speaker 5>people as well when they do have a diagnosis later

0:34:04.280 --> 0:34:07.520
<v Speaker 5>in life and a new understanding, a new lens to

0:34:08.120 --> 0:34:09.080
<v Speaker 5>understand their world.

0:34:09.440 --> 0:34:11.680
<v Speaker 1>That's a lifetime of what in our family we call

0:34:11.719 --> 0:34:15.360
<v Speaker 1>the aha moments. My daughter was diagnosed at thirteen and

0:34:15.760 --> 0:34:18.840
<v Speaker 1>we spent a year going oh ah, you know, like

0:34:18.840 --> 0:34:21.440
<v Speaker 1>because everything kind of fell into place and things like that,

0:34:21.800 --> 0:34:25.440
<v Speaker 1>so that came back. Imagine how that's overwhelming. If that's

0:34:25.560 --> 0:34:29.879
<v Speaker 1>a lifetime of those. Yeah, absolutely, yes, I think it's

0:34:29.880 --> 0:34:33.839
<v Speaker 1>probably like everything, Caroline. When we have a symptom, it's

0:34:33.880 --> 0:34:37.240
<v Speaker 1>really important to, you know, make sure you're talking thoroughly

0:34:37.280 --> 0:34:39.279
<v Speaker 1>to your gp about it and not presuming it's just

0:34:39.320 --> 0:34:41.160
<v Speaker 1>one thing or the other. It's like, there's such a

0:34:41.200 --> 0:34:45.680
<v Speaker 1>massive list, isn't there of menopausal symptoms, And yes, a

0:34:45.719 --> 0:34:47.399
<v Speaker 1>lot of the time they do. That's what they are.

0:34:47.560 --> 0:34:49.120
<v Speaker 1>It is to do with the hormones. But you've always

0:34:49.120 --> 0:34:51.000
<v Speaker 1>got to make sure that you're just double checking that

0:34:51.000 --> 0:34:53.200
<v Speaker 1>there's not something else at play and something else going on.

0:34:53.840 --> 0:34:58.080
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, absolutely, yes, definitely always worth having if you're concerned

0:34:58.239 --> 0:35:00.759
<v Speaker 5>and it's you know, occupying your mind and in thinking

0:35:00.800 --> 0:35:04.560
<v Speaker 5>about it, always worth having a chat to your healthcare provider.

0:35:05.719 --> 0:35:07.600
<v Speaker 1>You're listening to the little things and our guest on

0:35:07.640 --> 0:35:12.359
<v Speaker 1>the podcast today is clinical neuropsychologist doctor Caroline Gerbert, talking

0:35:12.400 --> 0:35:15.000
<v Speaker 1>about how our hormones impact our brains and our mental health.

0:35:15.000 --> 0:35:29.920
<v Speaker 1>Will be back shortly after the break. Welcome back, Carolin.

0:35:29.960 --> 0:35:32.439
<v Speaker 1>Maybe we could talk about some tips to help us

0:35:32.840 --> 0:35:36.839
<v Speaker 1>through all this, how we can manage it If our

0:35:36.880 --> 0:35:41.000
<v Speaker 1>mental health is suffering, is medication the best option? Or

0:35:41.040 --> 0:35:44.000
<v Speaker 1>can lifestyle and dietary changes and things help?

0:35:45.400 --> 0:35:49.279
<v Speaker 5>So I think a combination of everything can be most helpful.

0:35:49.440 --> 0:35:51.319
<v Speaker 5>So I think you can always start with kind of

0:35:51.360 --> 0:35:56.279
<v Speaker 5>behavior change lifestyle change, but if that's not helping, I

0:35:56.280 --> 0:35:59.759
<v Speaker 5>think it's definitely recommended that people go and have a

0:35:59.800 --> 0:36:02.279
<v Speaker 5>chat to your GP and make sure you've got a

0:36:02.320 --> 0:36:05.399
<v Speaker 5>GP who has a really good understanding of menopause because

0:36:05.400 --> 0:36:09.680
<v Speaker 5>it's not everyone's area of specialty, and so if someone's

0:36:09.719 --> 0:36:14.120
<v Speaker 5>experiencing sort of a new onset depression around menopause, they

0:36:14.200 --> 0:36:16.840
<v Speaker 5>might want to be speaking to their GP about different

0:36:16.920 --> 0:36:21.200
<v Speaker 5>types of hormone therapies or antidepressants if hormone therapies aren't

0:36:21.200 --> 0:36:25.200
<v Speaker 5>appropriate for them, and for the sort of brain foggy

0:36:25.280 --> 0:36:28.880
<v Speaker 5>cognitive symptoms as well. Might want to be thinking about

0:36:29.360 --> 0:36:32.680
<v Speaker 5>really practical things that people can do just to support

0:36:32.719 --> 0:36:37.240
<v Speaker 5>their cognitive health during the menopause transition.

0:36:37.400 --> 0:36:39.640
<v Speaker 4>So that's things like, you know, using.

0:36:39.440 --> 0:36:42.560
<v Speaker 5>Your diary, like feeling comfortable to put everything in your

0:36:42.560 --> 0:36:44.560
<v Speaker 5>diary so you don't have to hold it in your head,

0:36:44.600 --> 0:36:47.920
<v Speaker 5>and using lists to remember what to do, kind of

0:36:48.000 --> 0:36:50.880
<v Speaker 5>doing the brain dumps to get all those thoughts that

0:36:50.920 --> 0:36:52.759
<v Speaker 5>are floating around in your head onto a piece of

0:36:52.800 --> 0:36:55.200
<v Speaker 5>paper to clear some space so you.

0:36:55.160 --> 0:36:57.120
<v Speaker 4>Can think clearly.

0:36:57.840 --> 0:37:01.759
<v Speaker 5>And you know, in workplaces, making sure people put things

0:37:01.760 --> 0:37:03.440
<v Speaker 5>in an email so they don't shout them out in

0:37:03.440 --> 0:37:05.600
<v Speaker 5>the corridor. And then you're trying to hold more bits

0:37:05.640 --> 0:37:08.759
<v Speaker 5>of information in your head, so put the onus on

0:37:08.840 --> 0:37:12.000
<v Speaker 5>other people to structure things for you and email them

0:37:12.040 --> 0:37:16.239
<v Speaker 5>through and help with prioritization if need be. So I

0:37:16.280 --> 0:37:20.840
<v Speaker 5>think there's kind of practical things. There's medication options, but

0:37:20.920 --> 0:37:24.960
<v Speaker 5>I also think midlife and menopause is a really good

0:37:25.000 --> 0:37:28.040
<v Speaker 5>opportunity to sit back and reflect on your lifestyle. And

0:37:28.080 --> 0:37:32.439
<v Speaker 5>think about healthy lifestyle and what's good for our kind

0:37:32.440 --> 0:37:34.400
<v Speaker 5>of brain health. So it's the same things that we

0:37:34.440 --> 0:37:36.919
<v Speaker 5>say for heart health, it's exactly the same for brain health.

0:37:36.920 --> 0:37:41.120
<v Speaker 5>So it's things like exercise is super important, and exercise

0:37:41.160 --> 0:37:44.960
<v Speaker 5>on its own can also help mood. So making sure

0:37:45.000 --> 0:37:48.919
<v Speaker 5>people exercise and get moving is very important. Making sure

0:37:49.480 --> 0:37:51.560
<v Speaker 5>as much as possible that you get good sleep, and

0:37:51.600 --> 0:37:54.080
<v Speaker 5>there's help out there if you're not sleeping well, again,

0:37:54.200 --> 0:37:57.280
<v Speaker 5>speak to your doctor about it. It's really sleep is crucial,

0:37:58.120 --> 0:38:00.920
<v Speaker 5>you know, Making sure do you have time out so

0:38:00.960 --> 0:38:04.000
<v Speaker 5>you're not on the go all the time, making.

0:38:03.840 --> 0:38:06.600
<v Speaker 6>Sure your brain is stimulated, making sure you've got a

0:38:06.600 --> 0:38:10.359
<v Speaker 6>good balanced diet like Mediterranean diet, and making sure you're

0:38:10.360 --> 0:38:12.920
<v Speaker 6>not using alcohol as a coping strategy because that's not

0:38:13.000 --> 0:38:16.279
<v Speaker 6>going to help your brain that I think, you know,

0:38:16.320 --> 0:38:18.759
<v Speaker 6>some people kind of turn to alcohol as as a

0:38:18.840 --> 0:38:21.759
<v Speaker 6>quick fists and makes them feel better temporarily, but.

0:38:21.760 --> 0:38:23.200
<v Speaker 4>It's not going to help in the long run.

0:38:23.960 --> 0:38:26.319
<v Speaker 5>So there's lots of kind of healthy lifestyle things that

0:38:26.360 --> 0:38:28.680
<v Speaker 5>people can do. And I think you know, midlife is

0:38:28.880 --> 0:38:31.440
<v Speaker 5>a great time to reflect on your own lifestyle.

0:38:32.120 --> 0:38:34.840
<v Speaker 2>Yes, and we've covered a lot of those points it

0:38:34.960 --> 0:38:36.320
<v Speaker 2>was one of the reasons for doing this in the

0:38:36.360 --> 0:38:39.040
<v Speaker 2>first place, was how how to help ourselves and sit

0:38:40.040 --> 0:38:42.960
<v Speaker 2>I know, for me, exercises a big one and I

0:38:43.000 --> 0:38:47.000
<v Speaker 2>really know when I can't the impact it has on me. Yes,

0:38:47.880 --> 0:38:51.200
<v Speaker 2>with same with diet and getting that time out can

0:38:51.239 --> 0:38:53.080
<v Speaker 2>sometimes be one of the hardest parts.

0:38:53.800 --> 0:38:55.480
<v Speaker 4>Absolutely, but it might not even be.

0:38:55.560 --> 0:38:57.080
<v Speaker 5>It's not like you have to go and spend a

0:38:57.160 --> 0:38:59.360
<v Speaker 5>day a week in a spa, although that might be nice,

0:38:59.400 --> 0:39:02.080
<v Speaker 5>but it might just but you know, having making sure

0:39:02.120 --> 0:39:04.000
<v Speaker 5>that you have, you know, five minutes just to go

0:39:04.040 --> 0:39:07.120
<v Speaker 5>for a walk by yourself with no phones, no stimulation,

0:39:07.400 --> 0:39:10.640
<v Speaker 5>just some actual switch off or just a breather in

0:39:10.680 --> 0:39:12.200
<v Speaker 5>the middle of the day, have a cup of tea

0:39:12.280 --> 0:39:13.360
<v Speaker 5>or whatever it is.

0:39:13.600 --> 0:39:17.480
<v Speaker 4>But just little bits of switch off where you're not

0:39:18.000 --> 0:39:20.080
<v Speaker 4>your brain isn't bombarded with stimulation.

0:39:20.520 --> 0:39:21.080
<v Speaker 3>Any breaks.

0:39:21.120 --> 0:39:26.080
<v Speaker 1>I like that, Yeah, many breaks, Everything's many these days, Caroline.

0:39:26.600 --> 0:39:31.680
<v Speaker 1>Conversation ahead with women quite often when they have symptoms

0:39:31.680 --> 0:39:33.799
<v Speaker 1>to do with their mood, maybe low mood and things

0:39:33.840 --> 0:39:35.840
<v Speaker 1>like that, maybe they're not sleeping as well on things.

0:39:35.840 --> 0:39:38.320
<v Speaker 1>Often we're all having the same conversation with our GPS.

0:39:39.120 --> 0:39:42.279
<v Speaker 1>Do we need HI or do we need any depressants.

0:39:43.200 --> 0:39:45.000
<v Speaker 1>How do we make that decision.

0:39:46.040 --> 0:39:49.840
<v Speaker 5>It's such a good question and we actually don't know

0:39:49.920 --> 0:39:52.200
<v Speaker 5>the answer. So we're trying to run a clinical trial

0:39:52.239 --> 0:39:54.000
<v Speaker 5>at the moment where we're trying to do this head

0:39:54.040 --> 0:39:57.799
<v Speaker 5>on head comparison and antidepressants and hormone therapy because that

0:39:57.840 --> 0:40:01.279
<v Speaker 5>hasn't been done, so we don't know that answer at

0:40:01.320 --> 0:40:05.960
<v Speaker 5>the moment. Our clinical guidelines say to go with the

0:40:06.239 --> 0:40:09.200
<v Speaker 5>antidepressants because they've got a stronger evidence base, but there

0:40:09.280 --> 0:40:12.000
<v Speaker 5>just hasn't been as much research with hormone therapy for

0:40:12.200 --> 0:40:15.399
<v Speaker 5>mood so I think that's why there's not as much

0:40:15.440 --> 0:40:20.000
<v Speaker 5>evidence there. Although the guidelines do say that you can

0:40:20.600 --> 0:40:23.680
<v Speaker 5>try hormone therapy for moods as well, it's just not

0:40:23.960 --> 0:40:28.120
<v Speaker 5>the first line treatment that's recommended. So I just think

0:40:28.160 --> 0:40:31.200
<v Speaker 5>it's really important to go and have a really good

0:40:31.239 --> 0:40:34.640
<v Speaker 5>discussion with your GP, and you can look at the

0:40:34.640 --> 0:40:38.319
<v Speaker 5>Australasian Menopause Society is a really good place to read

0:40:38.400 --> 0:40:41.759
<v Speaker 5>up and they've got literature for anyone who wants to

0:40:41.840 --> 0:40:45.200
<v Speaker 5>have a look at what the recommendations are for that

0:40:45.600 --> 0:40:47.360
<v Speaker 5>to go to your GP with that see a.

0:40:47.400 --> 0:40:50.000
<v Speaker 4>Bit more equipped to have the conversations.

0:40:49.400 --> 0:40:51.759
<v Speaker 1>And be honest about it. I think if you've never

0:40:51.800 --> 0:40:54.560
<v Speaker 1>really suffered from mental health, then it's quite hard to

0:40:54.560 --> 0:40:56.960
<v Speaker 1>go in and have that conversation and sort of put

0:40:57.000 --> 0:40:59.719
<v Speaker 1>it on the tables. But it's important that we do

0:41:00.080 --> 0:41:02.279
<v Speaker 1>how far along is that research. Can we just rush

0:41:02.360 --> 0:41:04.160
<v Speaker 1>that along a bit love to.

0:41:06.560 --> 0:41:06.880
<v Speaker 4>Russia.

0:41:07.719 --> 0:41:12.080
<v Speaker 5>We're working through as quick as we can, and.

0:41:11.719 --> 0:41:12.839
<v Speaker 3>How slow research can be.

0:41:13.640 --> 0:41:16.040
<v Speaker 4>It can be really slow. Funding can be really hard

0:41:16.080 --> 0:41:17.880
<v Speaker 4>for every research as well.

0:41:17.960 --> 0:41:20.839
<v Speaker 5>So we're doing the best that we can to try

0:41:20.880 --> 0:41:23.680
<v Speaker 5>and learn more and get those answers.

0:41:23.960 --> 0:41:26.920
<v Speaker 4>But I think also you know, if you're not.

0:41:27.120 --> 0:41:29.840
<v Speaker 5>Someone who's experienced depression in your life and your hormones

0:41:29.920 --> 0:41:33.040
<v Speaker 5>change and your experienced depression for the first time, maybe

0:41:33.080 --> 0:41:37.400
<v Speaker 5>trying to replenish those hormones might be a good place

0:41:37.440 --> 0:41:39.799
<v Speaker 5>to start. But have that conversation with your GP.

0:41:40.239 --> 0:41:41.919
<v Speaker 2>And I think the good news there is that there

0:41:41.960 --> 0:41:44.920
<v Speaker 2>are resources like the Australian Minipause or society. There are

0:41:44.960 --> 0:41:48.879
<v Speaker 2>more resources with even in space research that we do

0:41:48.960 --> 0:41:52.760
<v Speaker 2>have that women can themselves with or do that research

0:41:52.800 --> 0:41:56.520
<v Speaker 2>before they go to see someone. And if you don't

0:41:56.520 --> 0:41:58.799
<v Speaker 2>get the answers that you think you need, or if

0:41:58.800 --> 0:42:01.919
<v Speaker 2>you feel like you're getting brea off, try try again

0:42:02.239 --> 0:42:03.680
<v Speaker 2>with somebody else prehaps.

0:42:03.840 --> 0:42:06.160
<v Speaker 5>Yes, exactly, And I think that's hard, Like often when

0:42:06.200 --> 0:42:09.719
<v Speaker 5>you're feeling vulnerable and you build up the courage to

0:42:09.719 --> 0:42:12.000
<v Speaker 5>go and speak to a GP. If you do get dismissed,

0:42:12.040 --> 0:42:14.920
<v Speaker 5>which can sometimes happen if it's not someone's area of specialty,

0:42:15.400 --> 0:42:17.759
<v Speaker 5>it can be hard to try again. But I think

0:42:18.200 --> 0:42:20.200
<v Speaker 5>you know, always try and find that new self to

0:42:20.600 --> 0:42:22.520
<v Speaker 5>keep trying until you get to a point where you

0:42:22.520 --> 0:42:23.040
<v Speaker 5>feel better.

0:42:23.800 --> 0:42:26.239
<v Speaker 1>You mentioned before, you know, will we hit this sort

0:42:26.280 --> 0:42:28.000
<v Speaker 1>of period of our lives, it is a good time

0:42:28.080 --> 0:42:30.000
<v Speaker 1>to sort of have a little bit of a reset

0:42:30.080 --> 0:42:33.720
<v Speaker 1>and think about our cognitive health. But should we always

0:42:33.760 --> 0:42:36.319
<v Speaker 1>be looking after it like shou should we be saying

0:42:36.360 --> 0:42:37.960
<v Speaker 1>to it? Should we be sort of more aware of

0:42:38.040 --> 0:42:41.239
<v Speaker 1>out even our older teenagers and things like that near

0:42:41.280 --> 0:42:44.399
<v Speaker 1>cognitive health and putting in good practices.

0:42:43.880 --> 0:42:47.959
<v Speaker 5>Now Absolutely, I think all through our lives we should

0:42:48.040 --> 0:42:51.400
<v Speaker 5>do what we can to do the best for ourselves

0:42:51.400 --> 0:42:56.040
<v Speaker 5>to optimize our brains and our physical health always, but

0:42:56.600 --> 0:43:00.680
<v Speaker 5>I think people probably have other priorities, as you know, teenagers,

0:43:00.760 --> 0:43:03.960
<v Speaker 5>and so I think midlife is a great time if

0:43:03.960 --> 0:43:07.600
<v Speaker 5>you haven't already implemented some of those things like you know,

0:43:07.640 --> 0:43:12.080
<v Speaker 5>a regular exercise routine and a healthy diet. It's not

0:43:12.120 --> 0:43:14.080
<v Speaker 5>too late to start to still, you know, there are

0:43:14.080 --> 0:43:17.880
<v Speaker 5>things that these they modify our risk of later life

0:43:18.040 --> 0:43:20.440
<v Speaker 5>dementia and things like that. We do have some degree

0:43:20.480 --> 0:43:24.240
<v Speaker 5>of control and we can try and do our best

0:43:24.280 --> 0:43:28.839
<v Speaker 5>to have some of those healthy lifestyle approaches and they

0:43:28.880 --> 0:43:31.720
<v Speaker 5>have short term benefits and longer term benefits as well.

0:43:32.040 --> 0:43:34.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to ask a really dumb question, and I'm

0:43:34.520 --> 0:43:39.360
<v Speaker 2>blaming it on minopause. Okay, our brain is a muscle, right, our.

0:43:39.200 --> 0:43:40.440
<v Speaker 4>Brain, It adapts.

0:43:40.520 --> 0:43:43.959
<v Speaker 5>So our brain they often use the words of being,

0:43:44.000 --> 0:43:46.000
<v Speaker 5>you know, plastic, it's malleable.

0:43:46.160 --> 0:43:49.319
<v Speaker 4>So it keeps changing always.

0:43:49.760 --> 0:43:52.680
<v Speaker 5>And so you know, the more we do good things

0:43:52.760 --> 0:43:55.600
<v Speaker 5>for our brain, our brain will respond and will adapt.

0:43:55.600 --> 0:43:58.560
<v Speaker 5>And that's why people recommend things like you know, learning

0:43:58.600 --> 0:44:01.239
<v Speaker 5>a new skill or taking up new hobby or you know,

0:44:01.320 --> 0:44:04.960
<v Speaker 5>challenging yourself because that builds new connections in the brain

0:44:05.080 --> 0:44:09.399
<v Speaker 5>and strengths and connections in the brain. So, yes, our

0:44:09.440 --> 0:44:13.480
<v Speaker 5>brain keeps changing as we as we grow.

0:44:13.520 --> 0:44:15.640
<v Speaker 1>That's what's so cool about it. As we can improve it,

0:44:15.640 --> 0:44:18.560
<v Speaker 1>it can grow and get better. That's what's so neat

0:44:18.600 --> 0:44:19.040
<v Speaker 1>about it.

0:44:19.160 --> 0:44:22.080
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yes, yes, always, yes, you know.

0:44:22.000 --> 0:44:24.920
<v Speaker 1>It's interesting. I was gonna ask you, you know, we

0:44:25.080 --> 0:44:27.000
<v Speaker 1>really need to support each other a lot more going

0:44:27.040 --> 0:44:28.759
<v Speaker 1>through this period of time and how we can do that.

0:44:28.840 --> 0:44:30.640
<v Speaker 1>But I wonder whether the best thing that we could

0:44:30.640 --> 0:44:34.480
<v Speaker 1>do is get our partners to listen to this podcast. Yeah,

0:44:35.400 --> 0:44:38.319
<v Speaker 1>because I think most women, we were all we are

0:44:38.400 --> 0:44:41.200
<v Speaker 1>quite understanding of what other women are going through. Yes,

0:44:41.360 --> 0:44:43.480
<v Speaker 1>and as Lu said before, we're having a lot more

0:44:43.480 --> 0:44:46.200
<v Speaker 1>conversations about it. But I think probably where we struggles

0:44:46.239 --> 0:44:49.560
<v Speaker 1>and other environments, like in the workplace.

0:44:49.560 --> 0:44:54.080
<v Speaker 5>Yes, yes, exactly, and I think some workplaces are more

0:44:54.120 --> 0:44:59.080
<v Speaker 5>progressive and there's more conversations about menopause and menopause in

0:44:59.120 --> 0:45:04.040
<v Speaker 5>the workplace and supporting women through menopause and yeah, but

0:45:04.080 --> 0:45:07.400
<v Speaker 5>I think the more conversations that happen, it just becomes,

0:45:07.440 --> 0:45:09.439
<v Speaker 5>you know, part of our dialogue and it's not such

0:45:09.440 --> 0:45:11.680
<v Speaker 5>a big deal and it's not so taboo and there's

0:45:11.920 --> 0:45:17.000
<v Speaker 5>less stigma if there's more conversations. And I think, you know,

0:45:17.040 --> 0:45:19.080
<v Speaker 5>at the heart of it, in terms of the workplace,

0:45:19.200 --> 0:45:21.520
<v Speaker 5>we want to be able to keep women and all

0:45:21.560 --> 0:45:26.520
<v Speaker 5>their talents and that diversity in the workplace, and there's Sadly,

0:45:26.560 --> 0:45:28.799
<v Speaker 5>far too many women who get to a point and

0:45:29.160 --> 0:45:32.000
<v Speaker 5>for whatever reason, whatever's going on for them, they leave

0:45:32.080 --> 0:45:36.440
<v Speaker 5>work during those menopause transition years, and you know that's terrible,

0:45:36.920 --> 0:45:40.280
<v Speaker 5>rather than seeking the right supports and then being able

0:45:40.360 --> 0:45:42.920
<v Speaker 5>to do their best to thrive during this time. So

0:45:43.000 --> 0:45:45.960
<v Speaker 5>I think it's really important that there's support coming from

0:45:46.000 --> 0:45:49.800
<v Speaker 5>all different places so everyone can be at their best.

0:45:50.080 --> 0:45:51.840
<v Speaker 2>It's not as if we're using it as an excuse

0:45:51.880 --> 0:45:55.400
<v Speaker 2>for any kind of poor behavior or poor work outcomes

0:45:55.480 --> 0:45:58.279
<v Speaker 2>or anything like that. So it's a knit win, right

0:45:59.320 --> 0:46:03.440
<v Speaker 2>if it's not, and like you say, just giving us

0:46:03.440 --> 0:46:06.359
<v Speaker 2>that moment if we need it or I know there's

0:46:06.360 --> 0:46:08.279
<v Speaker 2>a lot of talk about uniforms, people who work in

0:46:08.719 --> 0:46:11.640
<v Speaker 2>places where they wear uniforms where they're not practical.

0:46:11.680 --> 0:46:16.040
<v Speaker 3>When you have when you have a hot flush.

0:46:15.600 --> 0:46:17.280
<v Speaker 4>Yes, exactly, exactly.

0:46:17.360 --> 0:46:19.800
<v Speaker 3>Sometimes, Yeah, we're not just talking about the corporate workplace.

0:46:19.840 --> 0:46:21.160
<v Speaker 3>We're talking about across the board.

0:46:21.760 --> 0:46:25.319
<v Speaker 5>Yes, sometimes people need layers so they can adapt to

0:46:25.760 --> 0:46:28.399
<v Speaker 5>however whatever their body temperature is feeling for them.

0:46:29.000 --> 0:46:31.640
<v Speaker 2>I mean, we have arguments all the time about the

0:46:31.680 --> 0:46:33.280
<v Speaker 2>airct and in our building.

0:46:34.040 --> 0:46:38.160
<v Speaker 5>Yes, yes, so golden here, yes, yeah, exactly, Yes, it

0:46:38.200 --> 0:46:40.480
<v Speaker 5>depends who has the controller.

0:46:42.160 --> 0:46:44.759
<v Speaker 1>When it comes to our cognitive health and the other

0:46:44.800 --> 0:46:47.080
<v Speaker 1>things that we've been talking about. Caroline, I suppose if

0:46:47.120 --> 0:46:49.439
<v Speaker 1>you do want to reach out and get some help,

0:46:49.680 --> 0:46:51.160
<v Speaker 1>the first place you go to is your GP.

0:46:52.040 --> 0:46:55.200
<v Speaker 4>Yes, definitely always yeah, go and have a chat to

0:46:55.239 --> 0:46:55.680
<v Speaker 4>your GP.

0:46:56.520 --> 0:46:59.320
<v Speaker 5>And also the other place is good websites like the

0:46:59.480 --> 0:47:04.680
<v Speaker 5>Australasia Menopause Society, where there's good resources, evidence based resources.

0:47:04.719 --> 0:47:06.560
<v Speaker 5>So I think, you know, looking at those kinds of

0:47:06.640 --> 0:47:08.560
<v Speaker 5>websites as well as having a chat to your GP.

0:47:09.920 --> 0:47:12.400
<v Speaker 1>Doctor Caroline Goovich, thank you so much for talking to

0:47:12.440 --> 0:47:15.680
<v Speaker 1>us day and normalizing our irritability and our rage and

0:47:15.719 --> 0:47:19.400
<v Speaker 1>our you know, our low mood and everything else and

0:47:19.440 --> 0:47:21.319
<v Speaker 1>our brain fog, everything else that comes with that.

0:47:21.360 --> 0:47:22.320
<v Speaker 3>We really appreciate it.

0:47:22.760 --> 0:47:27.400
<v Speaker 1>Fantastic tips, yeah yeah, and the men O D questionnaire

0:47:27.760 --> 0:47:29.320
<v Speaker 1>that's going to be that's going to be a brilliant

0:47:29.360 --> 0:47:31.040
<v Speaker 1>tool for people. So thank you so much.

0:47:31.680 --> 0:47:33.920
<v Speaker 4>Thank you, Francisca and Louise, thank you for having me.

0:47:46.640 --> 0:47:49.080
<v Speaker 1>How good is doctor Caroline Goovitch. I just love the

0:47:49.120 --> 0:47:51.920
<v Speaker 1>fact that it's all evidence based, science based. There is

0:47:52.040 --> 0:47:55.360
<v Speaker 1>a reason that you have this irritability and this rage

0:47:55.440 --> 0:47:58.279
<v Speaker 1>and that everything that the world is. You know, it

0:47:58.320 --> 0:47:59.480
<v Speaker 1>seems to be changing around you.

0:48:00.160 --> 0:48:02.560
<v Speaker 2>I hang on every word, and I only wish that

0:48:02.600 --> 0:48:05.080
<v Speaker 2>perhaps I did have more of an understanding of that.

0:48:05.120 --> 0:48:08.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm not even kidding. In my late thirties and early forties,

0:48:08.040 --> 0:48:10.480
<v Speaker 2>which is when I would say, I was at my

0:48:10.600 --> 0:48:14.200
<v Speaker 2>lowest EBB mental health wives and it wasn't related to

0:48:14.400 --> 0:48:17.399
<v Speaker 2>the birth of a baby or anything else. Like, there's

0:48:17.440 --> 0:48:19.920
<v Speaker 2>nothing else to put my finger on except for a

0:48:19.960 --> 0:48:21.520
<v Speaker 2>lot of probably a lot of.

0:48:22.160 --> 0:48:23.560
<v Speaker 1>But there was also a lot going on in your

0:48:23.560 --> 0:48:24.320
<v Speaker 1>life at that point.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, well, as she explained it as often, it offers

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<v Speaker 2>that horrible kind of convergence of everything of everything.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I think you're right.

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<v Speaker 2>I think this one is for the boys too, and

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<v Speaker 2>actually was just reflecting and maybe for my kids just

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<v Speaker 2>I'll just take some snippets out and send it to them,

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<v Speaker 2>because that might.

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<v Speaker 3>Just explain those Raigie drives to school. Did you ever

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<v Speaker 3>have those? You just screamed at the children all the

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<v Speaker 3>way to school?

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<v Speaker 1>No, once I put the horn on. Oh yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like that was that was I just we were

0:48:56.920 --> 0:48:58.520
<v Speaker 1>driving through the lights and I were arguing, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just put the horn on. But we were quite close

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<v Speaker 1>to school, so of course they were mortified because everyone

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<v Speaker 1>was staring at us and until when they stopped off

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<v Speaker 1>the wall. So we had it, had a good day.

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<v Speaker 2>There was the mother of five that winteresso and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not gonna I got it. And literally I remember walking

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<v Speaker 2>the kids to school and you're driving past what she

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<v Speaker 2>got the horn on.

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<v Speaker 3>The minivan for? And then she explained it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, I think I think I got it off her.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember using what's going That was actually pretty effective.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey really quickly though, Caroline mentioned a questionnaire you can

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<v Speaker 1>do if you're just trying to work out sort of

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<v Speaker 1>what level your symptoms are at your perimenopausal symptoms. It's

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<v Speaker 1>called meno dno slash D. If you google that, you'll

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<v Speaker 1>take you through to the questionnaire and it's from the

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<v Speaker 1>mon Nash University and it's great for you to maybe

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<v Speaker 1>use as a tool. But if you're struggling to maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you know, explained and listened to by your GP, you

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<v Speaker 1>could always sort of maybe print out and take it

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<v Speaker 1>in and go, look, here we go. I've done a

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<v Speaker 1>bit of a this is where I'm at, this is

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<v Speaker 1>what we need to do something with, So that could

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<v Speaker 1>be potentially a really great tool. Just just want to

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<v Speaker 1>touch on one other thing. I found that really interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>the sensitivity and how they've worked out how some people

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<v Speaker 1>are more sensitive to hormone fluctuations in it, but we

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<v Speaker 1>can't quite work out why.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, a little bit probably to do on that. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>sure they'll get to it.

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<v Speaker 2>The Australasian and menopause Al Society is also really good,

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<v Speaker 2>a really good point of reference for and more information

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm pretty sure that's their name of their website

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<v Speaker 2>as well, so and that will keep you up to

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<v Speaker 2>date with research as well. It's it's a full time,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a frull time. And I think we've touched on

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<v Speaker 2>lots of elements of menopause, but not done a specific

0:50:44.400 --> 0:50:45.239
<v Speaker 2>one about.

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<v Speaker 1>This, about that age, mood and the things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think we often talk about other things

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more than we open up about that

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<v Speaker 1>hemnopause maybe, or we try and we do. We do

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<v Speaker 1>try and laugh it off because what else gotta do?

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<v Speaker 1>Cry and ray and put your horn on and just

0:51:06.160 --> 0:51:08.120
<v Speaker 1>leave your hand on that horn for as long as

0:51:08.160 --> 0:51:10.600
<v Speaker 1>you're lining. Maybe that's my joy of the week, just

0:51:11.400 --> 0:51:15.040
<v Speaker 1>exprussing yourself, just you know, put your hand on the

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<v Speaker 1>horn and just let it blair and let everyone look

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<v Speaker 1>at you and just let it out.

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<v Speaker 3>Then just give them the evidence.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well that's a good joy.

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<v Speaker 6>I like that.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you have one.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm full of a cold, so I my joy is coming.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm feeling very grateful for good health when you have it.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, it's just a cold, but my god, it's

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<v Speaker 2>really it's kind of doing a number on me.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we know what happens to Louise, which you can't exercise.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I get a bit range, you get a

0:51:44.920 --> 0:51:47.880
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