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Speaker 1: The ZM podcast Network Fleeswold and Hailey's little bit of

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Speaker 1: Pod Treat yourself to mcathay coffee with my macas rewards.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to a little bit of pod. Okay, so you

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Speaker 1: may have you may notice that I went out last

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Speaker 1: night and I was out with my best friend, who

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Speaker 1: I will say is recently separated, okay from a long

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Speaker 1: term relationship. Wait, how long? Thirteen years? Oh wow, okay,

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Speaker 1: a long time divorce. Something must have happened. No, no,

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying this isn't like I'm shocked, but something

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Speaker 1: has changed in her aura, or her essence or her spirit.

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Speaker 1: She was a bit of a magnet last night. Really. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And I've been out with her over the years when

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Speaker 1: she's been in a relationship and she's a very beautiful woman,

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Speaker 1: but you know, people don't like flirt with through so much.

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Speaker 1: She was a magnet last night. I was I was

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Speaker 1: shit on people's shoes that she was. Like, people were

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Speaker 1: flocking to this woman. It was one of the most

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Speaker 1: amazing things I've ever seen in my life. That's selling

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Speaker 1: good for the ego when you've just had a thirteen

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Speaker 1: weeks ago. For my ego, I got a bit jealous.

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Speaker 1: I thought we were talking about her, your friend. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm happy for her that hundreds of men were pouring

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Speaker 1: themselves over this woman last night. Yeah, but I got

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Speaker 1: a little bit jealous, so I sort of playing up

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Speaker 1: a little. I start of peacocking a lot.

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Speaker 2: Really, I love when this happens, I because you need

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Speaker 2: to know you still got it.

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Speaker 1: I need to know I still got it.

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Speaker 2: I've tried to explain this to Sharfore. It's like, sometimes

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Speaker 2: you just needn't know if you've still got it. And

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Speaker 2: then you had a thing and you're just like, that's

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Speaker 2: all I needed. I just need to know.

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Speaker 1: And I wondered if it was her energy and that

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Speaker 1: she's like, oh, I'm single now, and so her energy

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Speaker 1: changed and it opened her up to being I don't know,

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Speaker 1: receiving male admiration, the male games, the male gaze, and

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Speaker 1: maybe I'm more closed off to it, but I felt

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Speaker 1: I was like Jesus Christ, We've been approached by so

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Speaker 1: many people, and not in a leary way. I'm in

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Speaker 1: a couple of leras and we shook them off appropriately,

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Speaker 1: but but just people really really interested in talking to us,

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Speaker 1: and then very quickly not me, and just her and

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Speaker 1: they'd be like, oh, and I got really jealous because

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Speaker 1: it's been a long time since I've both been single,

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Speaker 1: and so I sort of started like flirting and maybe

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Speaker 1: dancing a little bit more for the male gays. Shall

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Speaker 1: we say she was hunting the male I was hunting

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Speaker 1: a little bit of the male gaze. And I did

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Speaker 1: not receive that, and I feel a little bit deflated.

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Speaker 2: But now we are with champion Lera Carl Fletcher.

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Speaker 1: I would have called you the lera of but.

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Speaker 2: I've never won the champion learing because I can't win.

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Speaker 2: The subtleties category is very sub When you.

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Speaker 1: Say vorn, don't look now, but behind you, Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: you actually one hundorn. You were so bad. Your litering

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Speaker 1: is so obig you're talking about guess who's behind us?

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Speaker 1: Like beg lear.

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Speaker 2: I'm a big lear.

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Speaker 1: You're a big lear lear. Could you give me a

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Speaker 1: little lear? Not right at them, but not just just

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Speaker 1: me in general? Straight to the nipple line. Why are

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Speaker 1: your teeth going like that? I'm giving you this when

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Speaker 1: the sudden we category, Oh my god, Mama, I don't umm,

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's gonna work. It's gonna work.

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Speaker 2: Oh Okay, that's.

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Speaker 1: So envious and I don't want to be lear there,

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Speaker 1: but I just felt a little bit like cast aside. Wow,

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Speaker 1: no one get me any attention when you were.

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Speaker 2: Younger because this is your best friend forever, right when

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Speaker 2: you were younger and actively seeking the male gays, who

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Speaker 2: got more of the male gaze?

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Speaker 1: I think we were pretty EQUI. I think we were

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Speaker 1: pretty close.

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Speaker 2: Right, so that's why you've always been the gaze and.

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Speaker 1: This isn't the gays. And then we sort of met

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Speaker 1: our partners around the same time. But now she's single.

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Speaker 1: I was like, interesting, she's gorgeous. But yeah, I felt jealous,

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Speaker 1: jealous because I didn't get leader at it last night.

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Speaker 2: The laying was not EQUI.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, am I ugly a little bit? Okay,